10/12/2012

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:00:10. > :00:15.Welcome to Inside Out. Coming up: We expose the internet dress

:00:15. > :00:21.company that is stitching up its online customers. It looks very

:00:21. > :00:29.tacky, cheaply made. They do not care about their customers. They

:00:29. > :00:35.care about money. Our two fathers better than one? A couple share

:00:35. > :00:41.their quest to become a parents. These babies mean family. It is

:00:41. > :00:47.something we have wanted for some time. I am on the trail of one of

:00:47. > :00:57.the South's most elusive birds. have looked everywhere. Hankies are

:00:57. > :01:10.

:01:10. > :01:15.supposed to draw them in. This is It is the festive season at so

:01:15. > :01:20.maybe you will treat yourself to a new dress. Perhaps he will do that

:01:20. > :01:24.online to save yourself some money. That is exactly what the people did

:01:24. > :01:29.in our first film. When they saw they were dealing with a Portsmouth

:01:29. > :01:34.company, they thought, what could go wrong? Buying a dress for his

:01:34. > :01:39.special day. A wedding or something that has taken off, the school prom.

:01:39. > :01:45.It is a huge business with lots of potential for profit but also for

:01:45. > :01:50.the unscrupulous to rip you off. Mandy Halstead wanted a dress for

:01:50. > :01:54.her son's wedding. She went online and chose a website owned by

:01:54. > :02:00.Edresses Global. They could do large sizes and it looked promising.

:02:00. > :02:05.She chose this dress, costing �90. A I thought it was a trustworthy

:02:05. > :02:10.company because they have offices in England. The dress that turned

:02:10. > :02:17.up was a poor imitation of the one she had ordered. He did not fit.

:02:17. > :02:24.tried it on, it was too small. It was too small across the back. It

:02:24. > :02:30.was very long. I would have to have been about 13 ft tall to wear it.

:02:30. > :02:36.Anj Page was also taken in by an Edresses website. We ordered a

:02:36. > :02:41.dress in February for my daughter's prom. We waited 60 days for it to

:02:41. > :02:51.be delivered. It never turned up. We were constantly being told they

:02:51. > :02:52.

:02:52. > :02:59.were busy and they needed more time. It looks very tacky. Cheaply made.

:02:59. > :03:02.It was heartbreaking. It is all about special occasions. These are

:03:02. > :03:07.not just dresses you would just five. They are wedding dresses and

:03:07. > :03:17.ball gowns. They are for a special event people have spent a lot of

:03:17. > :03:19.

:03:19. > :03:25.time planning. I was devastated because I had to buy another dress.

:03:25. > :03:33.Sorry. This shop in Southampton has got some beautiful dresses. One man

:03:33. > :03:37.wanted to buy a -- Wonder Woman wanted to buy a -- a woman wanted

:03:37. > :03:43.to buy something similar but unfortunately she chose Edresses.

:03:43. > :03:51.What she got was this. It is prom time, not played down. It is more

:03:51. > :03:55.like a child's dress. E Ian Conduit owns a family run dress business in

:03:55. > :04:00.Southampton. He says he often has people buying dresses at the last

:04:00. > :04:04.minute because of online disasters. They tend to fall into three

:04:04. > :04:09.categories. You have got a dress like that, that has turned up that

:04:09. > :04:14.is totally unsuitable. You have got a dress that is OK but does not fit

:04:14. > :04:18.properly or is the wrong colour or the zip is broken. Then you have a

:04:18. > :04:21.large proportion of dresses they just do not turn up at all.

:04:21. > :04:26.Page was so cross she voiced her frustrations on Facebook. She set

:04:26. > :04:32.up a support group when it became apparent it was a big problem.

:04:32. > :04:39.Initially, I thought it would be a small group. We have been running

:04:39. > :04:45.for under six months and we are under the 500 mark. That is not

:04:45. > :04:52.including people who have privately message me. Who are Edresses and

:04:52. > :05:00.where are they based? They have several address -- they have

:05:00. > :05:03.several addresses and all appear in the UK. They look like they are UK-

:05:04. > :05:08.based. You assume they have somewhere in the UK you can contact.

:05:09. > :05:13.But it does not take long to realise they are based in China.

:05:13. > :05:18.Buying from China, like from any country, is fine if you choose

:05:18. > :05:25.reputable factories. Like the ones that produce the stresses. Ian

:05:25. > :05:32.often visits China and has seen the dodgy side. -- that produced the

:05:32. > :05:36.dresses. They will take a picture from a website of any reputable

:05:36. > :05:40.manufacturer and they will put it on their website, they will

:05:40. > :05:44.advertise it as a product they can produce. They have no patterns, no

:05:45. > :05:51.knowledge of the dress itself. One place that was visited, it was

:05:52. > :05:57.attached to a chicken farm. When we were there, there was a lady who

:05:57. > :06:02.had placed an order and it has printed a picture of and tried to

:06:02. > :06:08.copy it. Dresses made from a picture probably will not be a

:06:08. > :06:12.great fit. Then it Mandy tried to get her money back. When she

:06:12. > :06:16.contacted Edresses by e-mail, all she got was months of delaying

:06:16. > :06:23.tactics. They kept coming back with these dancers, please rest assured

:06:23. > :06:29.we are dealing with your complaint -- these answers. Then it went on

:06:29. > :06:35.longer. There were more e-mails. They then said it would be in my it

:06:35. > :06:40.bank within 72 hours. No, no money arrived. My Andy had paid using

:06:40. > :06:45.PayPal. After 45 days, option for getting her money back from them

:06:45. > :06:50.had expired. Apart from the Mail, there was no other way of

:06:50. > :06:56.contacting Edresses. -- e-mail. Every number of customers were

:06:56. > :07:00.given was a false trail. Both addresses are bogus on the website.

:07:00. > :07:04.When they came to check out the returns address, they were led to

:07:04. > :07:09.this industrial estate. It is a distribution centre which deals in

:07:09. > :07:13.electrical goods and had nothing to do with Edresses. The actual

:07:13. > :07:18.company based here, which does have Chinese connections, was not happy

:07:18. > :07:23.parcels were being sent to their dress and contacted Trading

:07:23. > :07:27.Standards in Portsmouth. We went to see them, we had a look at the

:07:27. > :07:30.goods that had been returned and it was quite clear they were being

:07:31. > :07:36.sent back from dissatisfied consumers who were unhappy about

:07:36. > :07:40.the quality of the garments they had bought. I have been a Trading

:07:40. > :07:44.Standards officers for many years and this is the first time we have

:07:44. > :07:51.had a situation like this with an address of being hijacked for use

:07:51. > :07:58.in this way. A look at the quality. They are dreadful. We looked at

:07:58. > :08:08.some of the items that had been sent back. Look at that. That is

:08:08. > :08:08.

:08:08. > :08:13.Elvis in the vaguest years! -- the vaguest -- the Las Vegas years.

:08:13. > :08:18.Generally, shoddy goods. No labelling. We are not clear what

:08:18. > :08:24.this product is made of. We are not sure how to watch it. I have no

:08:24. > :08:29.idea how many they have sold. You are talking about �90 a dress. If

:08:29. > :08:35.it is 1,000 customers, that is 90 Grand. It is big money. What action

:08:35. > :08:39.can Trading Standards take for a company behaving like this? It the

:08:40. > :08:46.company is based inside the UK, there are very strong laws that

:08:46. > :08:51.will apply to, distance selling. The regulations say the goods must

:08:51. > :08:56.be dispatched to we to assume a within 30 days of the order. The

:08:56. > :09:00.consumer then has seven days to change their mind. You can send the

:09:00. > :09:05.goods back for your money to be returned. Of course, that will only

:09:05. > :09:09.applied to a UK-based company. That is the danger way you have

:09:09. > :09:14.unscrupulous traders who wide using the addresses as we have had in

:09:14. > :09:19.this case. With the regulatory bodies unable to do a lot, it is

:09:19. > :09:24.down to people like Anj Page to do what she can. We filmed her while

:09:24. > :09:29.she spoke to someone called Becky from Edresses. Anj Page said she

:09:29. > :09:36.wanted to return a faulty dress. Becky failed to offer a UK address

:09:36. > :09:41.but suggested she send it to China. To be exact, Wanda Plaza A, Suzhiou,

:09:41. > :09:45.Jiangsu Province. We checked out the address. It is the office of an

:09:45. > :09:51.environmental company, nothing to do with dresses. Do you know

:09:51. > :10:01.anything about Edresses? I tried some of the many phone numbers in

:10:01. > :10:04.

:10:05. > :10:09.China. All were dead ends. Finally, a breakthrough. An Edresses contact

:10:09. > :10:14.who came to Anj Page via Facebook. But hiding behind an identity. This

:10:14. > :10:23.is Yolanda your way up on Facebook. She has only got one friend. That

:10:23. > :10:29.is when that's group. -- Anj Page's group. She discovered Yolanda was

:10:29. > :10:35.connected to Edresses. She said, we are not a fraud company. We are

:10:35. > :10:40.trying to satisfy requests. Since then, more than 20 people have had

:10:40. > :10:46.their money back. Some of them have been waiting since generate. Nearly

:10:46. > :10:51.�2,000 worth has been refunded. -- since January. Both women have got

:10:51. > :10:55.their money back eventually. But Anj Page says she will not close

:10:55. > :11:00.the group while Edresses continues to operate. A I would love to find

:11:00. > :11:04.out where they are in deal with them face to face. I want them to

:11:04. > :11:12.know how they treat people. I will keep going until they disappear

:11:12. > :11:20.from the earth. While people are owed money, I will fight for them.

:11:20. > :11:27.Do not forget, if you think you have a story, go to our website.

:11:28. > :11:32.What his family? The idea of mum, dad, and 2.4 children is changing.

:11:32. > :11:42.Is it 18-accepted by everyone? Down to meet a couple preparing for new

:11:42. > :11:44.

:11:44. > :11:52.arrivals. -- is it a change. There is stuff in there. Start a list of

:11:52. > :11:56.the things you need. We are expecting twin boys. Meet soon to

:11:56. > :12:02.be parents Eric and Grant Anderson. They are from California but moved

:12:02. > :12:06.to Winchester seven years ago to start a new life and a new family.

:12:06. > :12:10.This has been made through friends of ours, a surrogate and an egg

:12:10. > :12:17.donor. We are using my sperm. We are excited about the fact they

:12:17. > :12:23.will be born within five weeks. It has been a long journey. I have

:12:23. > :12:28.always seen myself as a father. Part of it might be because I it

:12:28. > :12:35.have a per stall care nature. I coached high school runners for 20

:12:35. > :12:44.years. I took great joy in being at a membership figure. I have been

:12:44. > :12:49.given a lot of my life and I am ready to give back and braise a kid

:12:49. > :12:53.-- and raise a child. I want to enjoy their discoveries. It's has

:12:53. > :13:00.been two years in the planning for a journey that is taking them back

:13:00. > :13:04.to America. Eric and Grant are making their baby boys with the

:13:04. > :13:14.help of a surrogate in California where the laws are more sympathetic

:13:14. > :13:20.

:13:20. > :13:27.Hello! We interviewed six circuit mothers before we chose this one.

:13:27. > :13:37.And she has now become a friend, which is fantastic. How big a you

:13:37. > :13:38.

:13:38. > :13:47.now? You want to see? It is a truly modern family that we have. We have

:13:47. > :13:54.an Egyptian egg donor and an Asian circuit. And all agreeing to be

:13:54. > :14:00.involved in the lives of the children, as they desire. We leave

:14:00. > :14:06.here in 16 hours, something like that. We have nothing to do out

:14:06. > :14:16.there but tend to you and the babies. I hope everything goes your

:14:16. > :14:20.

:14:20. > :14:30.way. We have waited a long time. Six years. I will see you soon.

:14:30. > :14:31.

:14:31. > :14:34.That was sweet. She is so big. It is crazy.

:14:34. > :14:44.Four weeks later over in California, the boys get the news they have

:14:44. > :14:45.

:14:45. > :14:55.been waiting for. Her water has broken. We are on our

:14:55. > :14:57.

:14:57. > :15:05.way to the hospital now. I am already crying. We got the call in

:15:05. > :15:09.the morning. I jumped out Shotesham, the water has broken. -- shouting.

:15:10. > :15:19.Our house mate who is British jumped up saying, I will make a cup

:15:19. > :15:27.of tea! Then we rushed off to the hospital to meet her.

:15:27. > :15:37.So we're having twins? That is exciting.

:15:37. > :15:39.

:15:39. > :15:47.The babies were born about 8 o'clock in the morning. The first

:15:47. > :15:53.Bath. Look at all those bobbles. That was a special moment.

:15:53. > :16:01.It was a mixture of pure joy but they are finally here and here, are

:16:01. > :16:08.they OK? Against that is something we will live with for the rest of

:16:08. > :16:18.our lives, other babies OK? Instantly, is he breeding, is his

:16:18. > :16:28.

:16:28. > :16:33.Eight weeks later and Eric and Grant are back in the UK with their

:16:33. > :16:40.twins, Ryan and Garrett. Friends are on hand to meet them. It's been

:16:40. > :16:47.a long nine hour journey, especially for the little ones.

:16:47. > :16:52.We cannot wait to get them back and put their feet out in the yard, the

:16:52. > :17:00.first time they have touched British soil. It has been a very

:17:00. > :17:10.long process. Back home in Winchester, it's all

:17:10. > :17:17.

:17:17. > :17:27.hands to the deck. Does that feel good? Welcome to the

:17:27. > :17:29.

:17:29. > :17:34.UK. How does it feel? This is full of breast milk. I'm trying to find

:17:35. > :17:39.the proper place to put it. many times we sat and thought what

:17:39. > :17:48.life would be like. All the planning that went into it and here

:17:48. > :17:51.we are. We want to make sure they have had

:17:51. > :17:59.their feet first. Two months later and Eric, Grant,

:17:59. > :18:05.Ryan and Garrett are settling into family life. For us these babies

:18:05. > :18:11.mean family, they are our family now. It is something we had from --

:18:11. > :18:18.had wanted for quite some time. We are one big happy family now. There

:18:18. > :18:23.is an added bonus, the hope and joy that you see it brings to younger

:18:24. > :18:29.gay couples. The idea that they can have a family, they can have it all.

:18:29. > :18:31.That brings a certain amount of pride. Eric and Grant feel it's

:18:31. > :18:38.important that their children grow up in a society where their family

:18:38. > :18:44.unit has the same legal recognition than any others.

:18:44. > :18:50.Children who grow up in families of same-sex relationship sometimes

:18:50. > :18:55.have more difficulties relating to stigma, lack of legal recognition.

:18:55. > :19:05.And bringing equal marriage in would help make those families more

:19:05. > :19:05.

:19:05. > :19:09.stable. No teacher would ask their children in class, do your parents

:19:09. > :19:14.have a civil partnership? Is all about marriage. And for that full

:19:14. > :19:24.social inclusion we need to be married and have that same equality

:19:24. > :19:28.

:19:28. > :19:34.both legally and socially as everybody else.

:19:34. > :19:41.Finally, we love a challenge and filming a bird that only comes out

:19:41. > :19:50.at night ticks that box. And a bird shrouded in myth and old wives

:19:50. > :19:57.tales. The mysterious world of the Nightjar.

:19:57. > :20:02.What am I doing out at dusk with a bunch of other people wondering

:20:02. > :20:11.along the New Forest heath land? Well we're after a nightjar, of

:20:11. > :20:16.course! I am excited, I have never seen one before. We have to wait

:20:16. > :20:24.until it gets really dark. They told me to bring a torch but also

:20:24. > :20:26.my secret weapon, my handkerchief. I will explain more later.

:20:26. > :20:29.The nightjar is mysterious bird that visits us in spring all the

:20:30. > :20:37.way from Africa. They're not easy to spot, especially as they hunt at

:20:38. > :20:44.night. It is an intriguing bird that I have never seen. When I was

:20:44. > :20:52.a child's I remember collecting cards and the Nightjar was the one

:20:52. > :20:57.I could not get. I got the card but I have not seen the bird! What do

:20:57. > :21:06.you know about them go as much I think they have quite a big wing

:21:06. > :21:11.span for a small bird. You are going to enable us to see a

:21:11. > :21:16.Nightjar tonight. Guaranteed, I was told! Nothing is guaranteed in

:21:16. > :21:23.bird-watching! I was also told to bring the handkerchief. What is all

:21:24. > :21:28.that about? The males have a white patch on their wings. The theory is

:21:28. > :21:31.if they see another white patch in the distance they will think it is

:21:31. > :21:37.the opposition and will come close to have a look and see what is

:21:37. > :21:45.going on. I have leapt about waving my handkerchief and it had never

:21:45. > :21:53.worked! It is just after half past nine and we have not heard anything

:21:53. > :22:03.let alone seeing anything. Everyone is trying to find a bit of silence

:22:03. > :22:09.

:22:09. > :22:19.so that they can listen. It is meant to sound like a grasshopper.

:22:19. > :22:29.

:22:29. > :22:39.Either he is bringing the mint or frighten them off. Nobody will ever

:22:39. > :22:40.

:22:40. > :22:50.know! That is getting louder and louder.

:22:50. > :22:50.

:22:50. > :22:55.I think there might be more than one.

:22:55. > :23:00.You would just think it is like a tropical insect. Like you're in the

:23:00. > :23:03.jungle. It has stopped. So I've heard one. But not seen one.

:23:03. > :23:10.Now I'm trying somewhere different. This is Ampfield woods, just north

:23:10. > :23:15.of the Forest. And I've got an expert to help me. This is

:23:15. > :23:20.completely different to where I was looking before. They are birds from

:23:20. > :23:26.lowland heath but that is in decline because it has been taken

:23:26. > :23:32.for building purposes. This is the other habitat that they like. At

:23:32. > :23:42.least 50% of the British population is now in Forestry Commission

:23:42. > :23:49.

:23:49. > :23:53.fouled land like this. -- felled land. We will set up some nets.

:23:53. > :23:55.Nigel is a licensed ringer, so he can tag the birds he catches. And

:23:55. > :24:03.hopefully find them again when they return next year. And learn more

:24:03. > :24:08.about their movements. I have done this now for 40 years. I was

:24:08. > :24:14.trained when I started at school. From the age of 15. I have been

:24:14. > :24:18.doing it ever since. One of the reasons we do this, it is not well

:24:18. > :24:23.understood exactly where it migrates. We know that they winter

:24:23. > :24:29.in Africa but we are not sure which countries the birds go into. Each

:24:29. > :24:32.male has a territory of between 20- 50 acres. And Nigel thinks there

:24:32. > :24:42.are six territories in the whole wood. What we're going to do is set

:24:42. > :24:45.

:24:45. > :24:51.a tape lure. We will put that just on the other side of the net. That

:24:51. > :24:54.is the sound that the male bird makes. The idea of the recording is

:24:54. > :25:04.to lure a bird into checking out what it thinks is another male on

:25:04. > :25:08.

:25:08. > :25:14.its patch. And then hopefully we'll catch it.

:25:14. > :25:24.I have just seen my first Nightjar. It is so distinctive, the

:25:24. > :25:34.silhouette. They remind me of a glider. You can just see those

:25:34. > :25:43.flashes of white on the wings. Brilliant. It is just going round

:25:43. > :25:52.there. The birds keep coming, but sadly

:25:52. > :25:58.none land in the net. They are clever old things. They have come

:25:58. > :26:08.to investigate. But every time become near the net they just skim

:26:08. > :26:12.

:26:12. > :26:17.over at the surface by a few inches. That is my first ever Nightjar.

:26:17. > :26:22.They did not want to go into the net. There were definitely

:26:22. > :26:26.interested, there were coming to have a look. I think we started

:26:26. > :26:32.slightly early and they did get to see the net. And they decided they

:26:32. > :26:37.just did not want to go in. Well let us leave the light to them and

:26:37. > :26:42.go down the pub! Nigel's netting programme will

:26:42. > :26:48.continue without me. But he's determined to get me close to a

:26:48. > :26:51.nightjar. So we're back on the Forest heath land, this time during

:26:51. > :26:58.the day when the nightjars, masters of camouflage, lie low. I'm about

:26:58. > :27:06.see what happens when a male bird successfully attracts a female. A

:27:06. > :27:12.Nightjar chick. Can you see it just sitting there?

:27:12. > :27:22.That is incredible. Just sitting so still on its own. It blends in

:27:22. > :27:28.perfectly with the heather. You would just imagine the that was an

:27:28. > :27:36.old log. They have to keep still to stop predators finding them. This

:27:36. > :27:43.is just about a week off fledging. The mother will be close by. They

:27:43. > :27:48.keep still and they shut their eyes. When they showed they do not get

:27:48. > :27:55.noticed. Just sitting there waiting for at the mother to come back.

:27:55. > :28:01.When it is dark she will come and they will come running for food.

:28:01. > :28:06.She will regurgitate moths and beetles. The more I find out, the

:28:06. > :28:16.more in chanted I am by them. are very mysterious birds. Their

:28:16. > :28:25.

:28:25. > :28:30.nocturnal and difficult to study. What an amazing bird with

:28:30. > :28:38.incredible camouflage. Time for me to disappear. I will see you next

:28:38. > :28:44.time. Next week on the programme. I am blue van of woman. As Ford plans