I Want My Baby Back

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:00:08. > :00:14.These parents have all lost their children because they have been

:00:15. > :00:22.condemned as child abusers. But they say they are innocent. Did you ever

:00:23. > :00:29.harm your baby girl? No. No, I would never harm her. Their babies were

:00:30. > :00:33.taken after tiny fractures were spotted on X-rays. Doctors say they

:00:34. > :00:36.are evidence of abuse. It is a case of if you didn't do it your partner

:00:37. > :00:39.must have done, and you must have known your partner did because you

:00:40. > :00:44.were in the house at the time. The authorities are on high alert after

:00:45. > :00:51.missing shocking cases like baby P and Daniel Pelka, but are they now

:00:52. > :00:55.going too far. Is it possible that parents have lost their children for

:00:56. > :01:00.good by mistake? Of course it is possible. One campaigning MP even

:01:01. > :01:04.said parents should flee the country rather than face justice in our

:01:05. > :01:08.family courts. Because people don't face a fair trial here, my advice to

:01:09. > :01:12.people if they can afford it to go abroad. Some of done that and now

:01:13. > :01:16.they are numbers on the run. Sometimes I wish I didn't have to

:01:17. > :01:24.live like this I wouldn't give him up for the world. Others have stayed

:01:25. > :01:28.and seen their lives destroyed. He's got a family here that love and

:01:29. > :01:36.adore him that have never done a thing wrong to him but yet we are

:01:37. > :01:39.being torn apart. But the fractures could have other causes, including a

:01:40. > :01:45.disease we thought we had beaten long ago. Some parents have proved

:01:46. > :01:48.their innocence, and had their children returned. It was like a

:01:49. > :01:54.nightmare that you don't ever seem to be able to wake up from. So are

:01:55. > :01:57.medical mistakes and flawed child protection system shattering

:01:58. > :02:02.innocent lives? I couldn't believe that this actually still happened in

:02:03. > :02:13.England. I didn't think it could happen in England.

:02:14. > :02:25.In April 2012 Jules graves birth to a beautiful boy. It should have been

:02:26. > :02:33.a happy occasion, but there wasn't much to celebrate. Now he's here we

:02:34. > :02:37.don't know what's going to happen. I had to give my passport and

:02:38. > :02:40.everything over so they would let me leave the hospital, but everything

:02:41. > :02:46.seems all right so far. I haven't heard anything from social services

:02:47. > :02:57.yet. But just the waiting game really. Jill is a fugutive, her son

:02:58. > :03:01.Loac was born hundreds of miles from home in a remote part of Spain.

:03:02. > :03:10.British Association services have been searching for him from birth.

:03:11. > :03:14.You are so tired aren't you? Her husband John had to travel in secret

:03:15. > :03:35.from England to visit his new baby boy. Social workers tried

:03:36. > :03:40.everything, even contacting Interpol to try to track them down. I had a

:03:41. > :03:43.phone call from my aunt, apparently social services have been round her

:03:44. > :03:46.house searching for her. I also found they have been to my parents'

:03:47. > :03:51.house snooping around trying to find out where they are. We are basically

:03:52. > :03:58.waiting to see now what they are going to do next. Social services

:03:59. > :04:14.don't trust John and Jill as parents. They think they are child

:04:15. > :04:23.abusers. It is June 2012 and I'm on my way to meet Jill. I have been

:04:24. > :04:29.given directions to go to a town about two hours from here, once

:04:30. > :04:33.there sit tight and wait for further instructions. I don't know where

:04:34. > :04:41.Jill and Loac are living right now, that is a necessary precaution. Jill

:04:42. > :04:50.has called me with directions to a safe house, it is not where she

:04:51. > :04:55.lives. Her parents - bee and Gareth are here helping her. Jill is

:04:56. > :05:07.enjoying getting to know her son, but she never feels sure. I never

:05:08. > :05:10.imagined my life being like this at all, it is hard to leave the country

:05:11. > :05:15.you have grown up in. I didn't really want to leave. But I wasn't

:05:16. > :05:25.going to have my second baby taken by them. By social services. Jill's

:05:26. > :05:30.first child Aylssa was taken into care in May 2010, she was just ten

:05:31. > :05:35.weeks old. The family's problems started when they noticed a swelling

:05:36. > :05:39.on her arm and took her to the GP. The doctor checked her over, said

:05:40. > :05:49.that she didn't seem in any pain, but she referred me to the hospital.

:05:50. > :05:54.They sent us for X-rays, and said that Aylssa had a trackure to her

:05:55. > :06:01.arm and asked me how -- a fracture to her arm and asked me how it

:06:02. > :06:06.happened. Further X-rays found three more fractures, one on each leg and

:06:07. > :06:18.one on her ribs. Jill couldn't explain them, so doctors thought

:06:19. > :06:21.Aylssa had been abused X-rays found three more fractures, one on each

:06:22. > :06:23.leg and one on her ribs. Jill couldn't explain them, so doctors

:06:24. > :06:26.thought Aylssa had been abused. Did you ever harm your baby girl? No I

:06:27. > :06:29.would never harm her. Did you ever see John harm your baby girl? If I

:06:30. > :06:34.had seen John do anything to harm her in any way or distress her I

:06:35. > :06:38.wouldn't have wanted him to be around her, I wouldn't have let him

:06:39. > :06:43.be around her. Doctors called in social workers from Wokingham

:06:44. > :06:47.Borough Council and Aylssa was taken into care, even though Jill's mum

:06:48. > :06:54.offered to look after the baby. I wasn't given that option. I was

:06:55. > :06:59.told, no. It is because I would not say that my daughter had harmed her

:07:00. > :07:08.daughter. Because I knew she couldn't. So a parent is worried

:07:09. > :07:11.their child is hurt, they do the right thing, they bring the child to

:07:12. > :07:15.hospital, but if they can't explain fractures on an X-ray they are

:07:16. > :07:19.suspected of abuse and may have to leave without their child. They have

:07:20. > :07:34.now entered the world of child protection. Sarah and Paul Ashley's

:07:35. > :07:44.son was taken into care in 2009, when he was a few weeks old. He's a

:07:45. > :07:49.good-looking boy, is that you? Their problems started when they noticed

:07:50. > :07:52.their baby's right leg was swollen. We just thought there was something

:07:53. > :07:58.wrong with our little boy and we did what any normal parents would do,

:07:59. > :08:02.take them to the hospital. But X-rays showed multiple fractures to

:08:03. > :08:11.the baby's legs and ribs. When Sarah and Paul couldn't explain them,

:08:12. > :08:15.doctors assumed the worse. -- worst. Social workers took their baby away.

:08:16. > :08:20.Having to go from being a mum, and being there constantly for him and

:08:21. > :08:26.to then being told I can't hold him or be with him, it was just

:08:27. > :08:30.horrendous. We were told that he wasn't coming home with us, so we

:08:31. > :08:39.knew that whenever he left the hospital it wouldn't be with us, it

:08:40. > :08:48.would be with someone else. But... It was difficult... Yeah. Everyone

:08:49. > :08:54.agrees that protecting children from abuse is critically important. Local

:08:55. > :08:58.authorities have the duty to investigate suspected cases and put

:08:59. > :09:02.the welfare of the child first. They know that failing to take children

:09:03. > :09:07.into care can have devastating consequences. Social workers have

:09:08. > :09:12.come under massive pressure in the past when they have missed terrible

:09:13. > :09:17.cases of child abuse like Baby P. But it is fear of getting it wrong,

:09:18. > :09:25.is that leading to the opposite mistake? Some parents accused of

:09:26. > :09:30.child abuse may be innocent. Since Baby P, the number of care cases has

:09:31. > :09:36.risen dramatically, the last annual figures show more than 10 thousand

:09:37. > :09:45.care application, a record high. Authorities say more children are

:09:46. > :09:48.being protected. We can't play poker with children's safety, we have to

:09:49. > :09:52.have a system that plays safe to begin with, does the work properly

:09:53. > :09:56.to assess the level of risk, if we have got it wrong we have to show

:09:57. > :10:02.the evidence to do that and to return a child home safely, but too

:10:03. > :10:12.many children, historically, have suffered serious harm again back at

:10:13. > :10:15.home it wrong we have to show the evidence to do that and to return a

:10:16. > :10:17.child home safely, but too many children, historically, have

:10:18. > :10:19.suffered serious harm again back at home. Parents' rights are not the

:10:20. > :10:22.priority in these cases. The local authority has a duty to protect

:10:23. > :10:25.children in its area and it also has a great big establishment to help

:10:26. > :10:30.that to happen. Social workers, its zone lawyers, significant resources

:10:31. > :10:39.compared to parents. It can seem to parents as if there is this great

:10:40. > :10:43.juggernaut rolling over them. Sarah and Paul's son has been in poster

:10:44. > :10:49.care for four years, he has had three different foster families. So

:10:50. > :10:56.this is his room for when he comes home. They haven't given up on

:10:57. > :11:01.getting him back. His favourite Tigger, bless him, the battery is

:11:02. > :11:05.nearly dieing. But he loved pressing that. They have searched desperately

:11:06. > :11:09.for any innocent explanation for his injuries, but so far they haven't

:11:10. > :11:19.found one that convinces the experts or authorities. You say you didn't

:11:20. > :11:24.cause his injuries, is that true? We never caused his injuries. I didn't

:11:25. > :11:28.and Sarah didn't. We know each other much better than that. There has to

:11:29. > :11:34.be a medical explanation for this. You don't know, do you? No. We

:11:35. > :11:39.don't. We're not medical experts but it doesn't add up does it. It just

:11:40. > :11:43.doesn't add up at all. You don't go from being a good person one day to

:11:44. > :11:50.being a really bad person the other day. Paul and Sarah can't explain

:11:51. > :11:57.the cause of the fractures, so they can't be a mum and dad. Bone

:11:58. > :12:03.fractures sound simple and straight forward, but they are not. When you

:12:04. > :12:07.think of a fracture, you think of a clean break. But in these cases,

:12:08. > :12:14.many of the fractures are not like that at all. They are tiny cracks

:12:15. > :12:20.which are often very difficult to detect. On this X-ray they are here,

:12:21. > :12:25.unless parents can explain the cause, doctors almost always take

:12:26. > :12:31.fractures as evidence of abuse. The reason for that as far as I can see

:12:32. > :12:36.is that it is difficult to find other causes quit a lot of the time.

:12:37. > :12:42.Most fractures in children occur result of physical trauma, usually

:12:43. > :12:48.as a result of them falling over and hurting themselves when they are

:12:49. > :12:52.older. To get multiple fractures, as an infant, where's that physical

:12:53. > :13:01.trauma come from is a reasonable question. Lisa's another parent who

:13:02. > :13:06.was asked that question. She had heard a strange clicking noise from

:13:07. > :13:13.her baby's chest, but when X-rays showed fractures her days as a

:13:14. > :13:18.mother were numbered. I don't know what was going to happen. I was

:13:19. > :13:24.totally unprepared for it. And it is obviously turned my world

:13:25. > :13:29.upsidedown. Lisa brought me to the hospital where social workers took

:13:30. > :13:35.her baby. What was it like the moment you left? Heart-breaking. To

:13:36. > :13:41.leave my son on the bed and walk away while the foster carer and the

:13:42. > :13:56.social worker picked him up and left with him. Now Lisa sees her child

:13:57. > :14:02.just twice a year. Did you harm your baby? No. You would say that though

:14:03. > :14:08.wouldn't you? Definitely not, I wouldn't be going through this now

:14:09. > :14:13.just to save face, just to you know cover it up. Lisa says the strain of

:14:14. > :14:18.the investigation wrecked her relationship with her child's

:14:19. > :14:21.father. It was case if you didn't do it your partner must have done, and

:14:22. > :14:24.you must have known your partner did because you were in the house at the

:14:25. > :14:28.time. It felt like they were playing us off against each other. The tight

:14:29. > :14:34.restrictions around family court cases make it difficult for us to

:14:35. > :14:39.investigate all the evidence. But we know that once fractures are found

:14:40. > :14:44.parents feel under huge pressure to admit abuse. If you are denying

:14:45. > :14:49.having done something when there is, on the face of t medical and other

:14:50. > :14:53.evidence to suggest that you did do something, oddly enough you will

:14:54. > :14:55.often do better if you admit it, even if you haven't done it. Because

:14:56. > :15:02.then you are seen to be co-operative. John is not with his

:15:03. > :15:07.wife Jill in Spain, because he says, under that pressure he made a

:15:08. > :15:11.disastrous mistake. He says he lied to the authorities, making up ways

:15:12. > :15:15.he may have accidentally hurt Aylssa. He thought Jill would be

:15:16. > :15:21.able to keep the baby if he took the blame. I just had a gut feeling at

:15:22. > :15:24.that point that yeah we were going to lose him and I had to come up

:15:25. > :15:31.with something from that moment, I had to protect Jill and Aylssa. Why

:15:32. > :15:34.did you lie? I couldn't have Jill losing Aylssa. That is the thing

:15:35. > :15:43.that killed me the most and has hurt me the most over time. Working ham

:15:44. > :15:48.council -- Wokingham Council deny putting pressure on the couple and

:15:49. > :15:54.said John made the admission early in a police interview. Although John

:15:55. > :15:57.was never charged, he stayed behind after Jill fled, hoping that would

:15:58. > :16:05.keep her safe. He now says lying was a stupid thing to do but that he was

:16:06. > :16:08.desperate. The system, critics say, demands a confession, or else you

:16:09. > :16:15.lose the baby. But the moment you confess to abuse you lose the baby.

:16:16. > :16:21.But innocent parents find a lose, lose situation. One MP has been

:16:22. > :16:26.contacted by hundreds of parents going through the family courts.

:16:27. > :16:32.Hello John, hi. Welcome to parliament. He says the process is

:16:33. > :16:36.so unfair, rather than face justice here, parents should flee the

:16:37. > :16:39.country. Is the system loaded against parents? There is no

:16:40. > :16:43.question, all the cards are held by the local authority. The local

:16:44. > :16:46.authority has large resources to fight the cases, the local authority

:16:47. > :16:50.does all the assessments, so my advice to people if they can afford

:16:51. > :16:54.it is to go abroad. That is wrong though isn't it, you are encouraging

:16:55. > :16:58.people to leave the country because of social services, surely that's

:16:59. > :17:01.wrong? I need to be honest to people and say the system does a lot of

:17:02. > :17:05.damage to children in this country. You can't get a fair trial here,

:17:06. > :17:09.because you can't get a fair trial here, because you can't rely on the

:17:10. > :17:15.evidence being fair, it is best simply to go. If you can, at the

:17:16. > :17:19.time, lawfully. I do think we have a responsibility to make our family

:17:20. > :17:25.courts better, to make them more transparent, to build public

:17:26. > :17:29.confidence in them. And to advocate leaving them all together doesn't

:17:30. > :17:33.solve the problem for the vast majority of children and parents who

:17:34. > :17:39.need our courts to be as good as they possibly can be.

:17:40. > :17:44.All of these cases begin with a medical presumption that unexplained

:17:45. > :17:50.fractures equal abuse. But that presumption is now being challenged,

:17:51. > :17:55.the turning point was the death of this baby, Jayden Ray, his X-rays

:17:56. > :18:03.were examined by four doctors before he died. They identified multiple

:18:04. > :18:08.fractures and concluded that Jayden had been violently abused. But a

:18:09. > :18:11.post mortem proved them wrong. The pathologist noticed something

:18:12. > :18:17.strange about Jayden's bones straight away. Now in a

:18:18. > :18:22.four-and-a-half-month-old baby I shouldn't be able to break their rib

:18:23. > :18:27.with my hands, it should be much, much stronger, in this case it broke

:18:28. > :18:36.very easily. Also the bone at the back of the head was so thin, paper

:18:37. > :18:41.thin and brittle that it also broke. X-rays are just images, but the

:18:42. > :18:46.doctor was able to look at the real thing, Jayden's bones, under the

:18:47. > :18:56.microscope. She discovered he had a condition thought to be a thing of

:18:57. > :19:00.the past, rickets. His vitamin D levels were low, and other bone

:19:01. > :19:04.markers indicated he had rickets. When I tested the mother the mother

:19:05. > :19:11.also had low vitamin D. Which means this baby had low vitamin D since

:19:12. > :19:17.before birth. The doctor's findings showed there was an innocent

:19:18. > :19:23.explanation for the fractures. The parents were cleared of murder, but

:19:24. > :19:28.the verdict has wider implications. The case matters because it shows

:19:29. > :19:34.that doctors diagnosing child abuse from X-rays can get it horribly

:19:35. > :19:41.wrong. Rickets was once widespread in Britain. Found alongside poverty,

:19:42. > :19:47.and poor nutrition. It is caused by a severe deficiency of vitamin D. It

:19:48. > :19:50.is the failure of the bone that is being made within the bone to

:19:51. > :19:54.mineralise and become properly hard. So you have got lots of little

:19:55. > :20:00.patches of softness in there, and that allows the bones to bend. Weak

:20:01. > :20:07.bones? Bones that are soft and have bent as a result of being soft, yes.

:20:08. > :20:13.Rickets used to be treated by sun lamps, because the best source of

:20:14. > :20:18.vitamin D is sunshine. The ultraviolet, the suntan rays produce

:20:19. > :20:23.the help-giving vitamin D. The part played by the sun's rays is shown on

:20:24. > :20:29.this graph, you will notice as the hours of sunshine rise, the death

:20:30. > :20:35.rates sinks. The disease disappeared for decades but now vitamin D

:20:36. > :20:40.deficiency and rickets are back, and one cause is simple. We get most of

:20:41. > :20:45.our vitamin D from sunlight, but fear of skin cancer means people may

:20:46. > :20:51.have overcompensated, aid voiding the sun and using -- avoiding the

:20:52. > :20:58.one and using sun block. And now most of us don't get enough vitamin

:20:59. > :21:06.D, including children and pregnant mums. The deficiency in vitamin D is

:21:07. > :21:12.widespread it could affect Ninkovich. Could low vitamin D lead

:21:13. > :21:17.to weaker bones before it becomes an obvious case of rickets. On this

:21:18. > :21:24.controversial science the doctors don't agree. On the skeltal side of

:21:25. > :21:29.things, we don't have any evidence at the present time that a low

:21:30. > :21:33.vitamin D level of itself increases your risk of fracture. But the data

:21:34. > :21:38.hasn't been collected in a systematic way. There is, as with

:21:39. > :21:41.many things in medicine, an appreciation now that the complexity

:21:42. > :21:47.of what we are dealing with is greater than perhaps what we had

:21:48. > :21:51.anticipated in the past. Low vitamin D by itself may not lead to

:21:52. > :21:57.fractures, but some doctors believe it is a warning side that bones may

:21:58. > :22:01.be abnormal. The logical thing would be that before you get to the very

:22:02. > :22:05.fragile bones you havecmy fragile bones and normal bones, you don't go

:22:06. > :22:10.from this point to this without nothing in the middle. It is

:22:11. > :22:17.something that happens over time. We don't know at what point the changes

:22:18. > :22:23.are so significant that you are more prone to fractures. The problem is

:22:24. > :22:28.it is difficult for doctors to carry out research in studies of infant

:22:29. > :22:32.bones, for fear of hurting babies. But one recent study looked at the

:22:33. > :22:38.post mortems of babies with low vitamin D. When doctors just looked

:22:39. > :22:45.at X-rays they spotted bone abnormalities in 19% of the babies.

:22:46. > :22:53.Under the microscope doctors found bone abnormalities in 69%. We were

:22:54. > :23:03.looking at the bone at 600-times magnification, we were able to see

:23:04. > :23:11.the bone, the culls -- calcium. That is why the microscopic examination

:23:12. > :23:17.of the tissue is ahead of radiology. The sample was small but the study

:23:18. > :23:21.proves a crucial point, X-rays can't always detect abnormalities in a

:23:22. > :23:25.child's bones. It has been said and accepted by some radiologists in

:23:26. > :23:30.cross-examination that it is almost as much an art as a science. Because

:23:31. > :23:36.you are looking at very, very slight changes on pictures of X-rays and

:23:37. > :23:40.interpreting from your experience. So it is not like putting something

:23:41. > :23:45.in a test-tube and seeing if it turns pink or blue, it is a very

:23:46. > :23:50.different thing. Challenging traditional thinking on X-rays and

:23:51. > :23:55.fractures is not easy. I'm not saying that every child with a

:23:56. > :24:00.fracture has a vitamin D deficiency. I have had cases in the family court

:24:01. > :24:07.where I said so, that is certainly not all of cases of a baby with

:24:08. > :24:10.fractures will be child abuse. The grey cases in the middle are the

:24:11. > :24:15.really difficult ones. Jill, the mum on the run in Spain lost her

:24:16. > :24:19.daughter after doctors found fractures on X-rays. But they might

:24:20. > :24:25.not have been caused by abuse. A blood test showed that Aylssa had

:24:26. > :24:29.very low levels of vitamin D. It was a small blood sample and so the test

:24:30. > :24:34.should have been repeated, yet her vitamin D levels appeared so low

:24:35. > :24:40.that doctors began treating her with calcium-boosting medicine. But Jill

:24:41. > :24:45.and John were kept in the dark about their baby's condition for weeks,

:24:46. > :24:49.they were not told that baby Aylssa was being treated for vitamin D

:24:50. > :24:55.deficiency, and all of this time, because of the X-rays, they were

:24:56. > :25:01.being accused of child abuse. Has anybody explained to you that might

:25:02. > :25:06.be a reason why your baby has got fractures? No. It was swept under

:25:07. > :25:10.the carpet. That wasn't the reason at all. I had e-mailed loads of

:25:11. > :25:15.information that I had found on vitamin D deficiency, rickets, to my

:25:16. > :25:20.solicitor, I was told that we weren't allowed to use that, it was

:25:21. > :25:34.like we were making an excuse for how, for the injuries. Aylssa's case

:25:35. > :25:41.went to the family court, where strict rules keeps the families from

:25:42. > :25:46.out. Guilty beyond reasonable doubt doesn't apply, it is based on

:25:47. > :25:51.probabilities, the explanation that is most likely to be true. It was a

:25:52. > :25:54.total nightmare. You can't prove your innocence against them. They

:25:55. > :25:59.don't allow you to prove their innocence. I couldn't believe that

:26:00. > :26:04.this actually still happened in England. I didn't think it could

:26:05. > :26:08.happen in England. Ultimately the judge decided that John had

:26:09. > :26:14.deliberately hurt the baby and that Jill must have known. Jill and her

:26:15. > :26:19.family refused to accept the ruling. And that was held against them. All

:26:20. > :26:29.they kept on about that I was lying, and that I knew far more than what I

:26:30. > :26:34.had said. I wasn't fit to be around Aylssa. Because I didn't agree that

:26:35. > :26:39.I knew more, like they were saying, then that was why I wasn't allowed

:26:40. > :26:45.to have Aylssa home, because I wasn't safe to be around her.

:26:46. > :26:49.Wokingham council says the couple were told about Aylssa's medical

:26:50. > :26:53.results in good time. They say if Jill had separated from John then

:26:54. > :27:01.the ultimate welfare decision might have been different. Aylssa's case

:27:02. > :27:06.was heard at a time when it was hard to challenge medical evidence on

:27:07. > :27:13.fractures. But the Jayden Ray case changed things. In every case I have

:27:14. > :27:17.had since Jayden Ray, where there is a fracture, the first question asked

:27:18. > :27:21.is, what were the vitamin D levels and is there a problem. Is it

:27:22. > :27:26.possible that category of parents who had this set of problems before

:27:27. > :27:36.Jayden Ray have lost their children for good by mistake. Of course it is

:27:37. > :27:40.possible. Sarah has low vitamin D after the birth of her son. But at

:27:41. > :27:49.that critical time her baby was not tested. Lots of love with mummy. She

:27:50. > :27:54.believes there was a medical explanation for his fractures that

:27:55. > :28:00.wasn't found. But now four years on it is impossible to prove. Sarah and

:28:01. > :28:09.Paul are still allowed to see their son, because he hasn't been adopted.

:28:10. > :28:17.They get just four contact visits a year, today is one of them. Sarah's

:28:18. > :28:27.parents are going along to see their grandson too. The visit will last

:28:28. > :28:44.just one hour and every second will be supervised by social workers. The

:28:45. > :28:58.time after seeing their boy is the hardest.

:28:59. > :29:12.From my little boy. It is now another three months to wait and

:29:13. > :29:18.hope and pray, just that waiting game. It is. It is so hard after he

:29:19. > :29:22.has been so happy with us, for that hour, and it was so good, and then

:29:23. > :29:28.just as we told him he had to put his coat on to leave he came up and

:29:29. > :29:32.put his arms around me and said sorry mummy. What's going through

:29:33. > :29:36.his mind. Does he think that it's his fault that he's not with his

:29:37. > :29:48.mummy and daddy. It's so heart-breaking to leave him. If

:29:49. > :29:55.their son is adopted they lose the right to see him ever again. You

:29:56. > :29:58.dread the phone ringing thinking that you are going to get that phone

:29:59. > :30:09.call from social services to say that they have found somebody. And

:30:10. > :30:25.to think that we won't be part of his life and that he will grow up

:30:26. > :30:32.without us is heart-breaking. It is difficult, because you have two

:30:33. > :30:37.innocent parents fighting for their son and you never think it could

:30:38. > :30:45.ever get to this. It is difficult, it really is. But we keep fighting.

:30:46. > :31:05.We won't give up, will we? No. Many parents whose children have

:31:06. > :31:10.been taken have turned to Sophie Palmer, she's a campaigner who

:31:11. > :31:13.trained as a paralegal to help parents in the family courts. She

:31:14. > :31:20.has been supporting Jill, the mum on the run in Spain. When Sophie looked

:31:21. > :31:23.at evidence from Jill's original hearing, she was shocked. It

:31:24. > :31:28.appeared that the medical experts had not been adequately challenged

:31:29. > :31:34.and may even have got important things wrong. I just thought it

:31:35. > :31:39.doesn't add up. This is a two-month-old baby with a, with

:31:40. > :31:45.perfectly decent parents, why would they just turn on their childlike

:31:46. > :31:52.this. When she -- child, like this. When she told me the child's vitamin

:31:53. > :31:56.D level was so severe, how can they treat it as insignificant. Sophie

:31:57. > :31:58.asked for an appeal for Jill. Which meant some of the evidence from the

:31:59. > :32:05.first hearing was finally made public. Radiologist Dr John Summer's

:32:06. > :32:09.said Aylssa's evidence showed no evidence of rickets so that couldn't

:32:10. > :32:15.be a cause of her injuries. We now know that logic is wrong. Cases like

:32:16. > :32:20.Jayden Ray has shown that rickets is not always clear on X-rays.

:32:21. > :32:25.Paediatrician Dr Patricia Kenny said Aylssa's blood tests were normal and

:32:26. > :32:30.she did not have vitamin D deficiency, both wrong. Dr Kenny

:32:31. > :32:34.also claimed infants of white breast-feeding mothers are not at

:32:35. > :32:40.risk of vitamin D deficiency. Really? It is possible for a white,

:32:41. > :32:45.Caucasian baby to develop rickets. And I can give you a personal

:32:46. > :32:48.example, my son was on the way to developing rickets, my wife was

:32:49. > :32:53.breast-feeding him. And gradually we noticed the edge of his rib cage was

:32:54. > :32:57.beginning to look slightly odd and turning up slightly. That is one of

:32:58. > :33:01.the signs you can see when bone is soft like rickets. And when her

:33:02. > :33:06.vitamin D and his vitamin D was measured they were both very low. It

:33:07. > :33:11.can happen to Ninkovich. The contrary, for example, it can't

:33:12. > :33:23.happen to a white baby that's being breast fed, is that true? Clearly

:33:24. > :33:25.not. , it can't happen to a white baby that's being breast fed, is

:33:26. > :33:29.that true? Clearly not. The Dr Stands by his statement on X-ray,

:33:30. > :33:33.both he and Dr Kenny say they can't comment on the details of the case

:33:34. > :33:39.because of family court rules. Jill and John were refused permission to

:33:40. > :33:46.appeal. Aylssa was adopted and that can never be overturned. It felt

:33:47. > :33:54.like a huge injustice. I was sitting next to Jill and of course she just

:33:55. > :34:00.burst into tears, she had hope up until that point. It was hard

:34:01. > :34:13.handing her over to the, knowing that I wasn't going to be able to

:34:14. > :34:21.see her again. How often do you think about her? All the time. I

:34:22. > :34:35.just wonder what she's doing now, if she's all right, if she's safe, if

:34:36. > :34:39.she remembers me. It's not the only case where parents believe the

:34:40. > :34:46.medical issues were not adequately explored. I stopped mentioning

:34:47. > :34:50.anything medical at a certain point because they weren't listening. I

:34:51. > :34:57.was made to feel like it was just making me look stupid and more

:34:58. > :35:03.guilty, if you like. Taking the, obviously the blame off of myself

:35:04. > :35:09.and putting it on to something that didn't exist, apparently. Lisa was

:35:10. > :35:15.anaemic during pregnancy and her vitamin D levels were so low that

:35:16. > :35:23.she's still on calcium boosters. Experts say vitamin D tests are

:35:24. > :35:27.vital in these cases. The best we can hope for is every child under

:35:28. > :35:35.the age of 1 that comes in with a fracture has a bone profile measured

:35:36. > :35:38.by a chemical test, the calcium alkaline, phosphate, vitamin D. That

:35:39. > :35:46.is the thing we would want to do now. But Lisa's baby didn't get the

:35:47. > :35:52.crucial test. The child now calls someone else mummy. It is

:35:53. > :36:00.heart-breaking, the first time I heard that was during a contact

:36:01. > :36:05.visit. And my automatic reaction was to go to him thinking he was

:36:06. > :36:11.referring to me. To see him then look around me and I was told it was

:36:12. > :36:30.just a word. There was nothing to get upset about. That word is

:36:31. > :36:34."mummy". Yeah. Is it just a word? If S word that has a lot of meaning to

:36:35. > :36:50.it. It is a word I should have heard every day for the last four years.

:36:51. > :36:54.Amy got shocking news when her baby son was X-rayed, she had opened that

:36:55. > :37:00.would help doctors find out why he was so ill. Instead they showed

:37:01. > :37:05.multiple fractures. Blood tests showed baby Harrison had severe

:37:06. > :37:11.vitamin D deficiency, but doctors ruled out rickets because it wasn't

:37:12. > :37:15.visible on the X-rays. The doctor, a paediatrician came rushing into the

:37:16. > :37:21.room with three other staff members and the atmosphere had completely

:37:22. > :37:24.changed from there, she was vicious, really vicious, you have done

:37:25. > :37:30.something, you know, someone has abused this boy. You must have

:37:31. > :37:36.caused the fractures. I broke down in tears, I couldn't really say

:37:37. > :37:41.anything. Harrison and his sister were taken into care, but here Amy

:37:42. > :37:46.was unusually lucky, the judge placed them with Amy's mother. Once

:37:47. > :37:53.again the medical experts said that Harrison had been abused. Medical

:37:54. > :37:57.expert evidence is hugely important and can often be all be decisive.

:37:58. > :38:04.You have an expert saying this is a fracture, and I'm a top radiologist,

:38:05. > :38:10.it is difficult to get behind that without, again, very good lawyers,

:38:11. > :38:17.and if possible other expes in to challenge it. Family court experts

:38:18. > :38:24.are a small and select group, and some experts report on dozens of

:38:25. > :38:34.cases a year, it is lucrative work. The expert radiologist in Amy's case

:38:35. > :38:39.is a leading expert on X-rays. He has provided evidence in 2,000 cases

:38:40. > :38:44.of suspected child abuse. We can't name him because of secrecy around

:38:45. > :38:49.the family courts. In Amy's case he said Harrison's bones were radio

:38:50. > :38:52.logically normal, and ruled out the possibility that an illness could

:38:53. > :38:58.explain his injuries. The other expert agreed. That could have been

:38:59. > :39:03.the end of the line for Amy. She faced losing her children forever.

:39:04. > :39:10.Except for one crucial fact, Harrison continued to be ill. He

:39:11. > :39:15.would cry in agony, especially at nightime, he wouldn't be able to

:39:16. > :39:22.sleep properly, he would wake up 14-times a night. And you are not

:39:23. > :39:25.there. It is not you then it is sim. There is something wrong. -- it is

:39:26. > :39:30.him. There is something wrong. The court allowed Amy to appoint another

:39:31. > :39:34.expert, an expert in genetics who discovered the family had an unusual

:39:35. > :39:38.history of broken bones and fractures.

:39:39. > :39:42.He doesn't mess about, does he. Here he says "here I disagree completely

:39:43. > :39:47.that there is strong evidence that Harrison and certain other family

:39:48. > :39:54.members do have an inher rited defect of connective tissue with a

:39:55. > :39:58.susceptibility to fracture". How did you feel when you read that? Amazed

:39:59. > :40:03.that somebody was willing to actually stand up against these

:40:04. > :40:10.doctors. We're getting a diagnosis, we're getting the truth. The

:40:11. > :40:14.professor of genetics eventually convinced the court, Harrison was

:40:15. > :40:19.diagnosed and treated for rickets and a genetic bone disorder.

:40:20. > :40:23.Obviously things do happen, people do abuse their children, I'm not

:40:24. > :40:27.denying that. But at the same time they need to be being vigilent,

:40:28. > :40:31.because these conditions can go unnoticed. These conditions do exist

:40:32. > :40:38.and it is just as likely that these conditions are causing the fractures

:40:39. > :40:43.as it is the parents would be. The same radiologist was involved in

:40:44. > :40:50.another fracture case where the judge felt the experts stated their

:40:51. > :40:55.conclusions too forcefully. "It could be that what has been stated

:40:56. > :41:00.so confidently by paediatric radiologists, as near certainty is,

:41:01. > :41:05.in reality, much less certain" the judge said. The radiologist told us

:41:06. > :41:08.that doctors had to put "the well being of the child first", however

:41:09. > :41:13.distressing this may be to the parents. And that his role is to

:41:14. > :41:19.convey what his experience has been and what the published literature

:41:20. > :41:31.concludes. His name must remain a secret. Back in Spain Jill's been

:41:32. > :41:37.living in hiding for ten months now. But a Spanish police officer has

:41:38. > :41:40.turned up asking questions. Jill is terrified that the UK authorities

:41:41. > :41:47.have found her and are planning to seize her child. I head for a town

:41:48. > :41:50.on the coast to meet her and her parents Debbie and Gareth. This is a

:41:51. > :41:58.rare outing for them. They are frayed to leave the house and now

:41:59. > :42:04.don't go anywhere without Loac. The other day we came back home and

:42:05. > :42:09.there was a police officer coming down towards our house. He wanted

:42:10. > :42:15.mine and John's passport numbers. We have never had Ninkovich come before

:42:16. > :42:20.for passport numbers. What were you thinking at that moment? What would

:42:21. > :42:32.I do if Ninkovich came in and tried to take him from meumbers. What were

:42:33. > :42:35.you thinking at that moment? What would I do if anyone came in and

:42:36. > :42:38.tried to take him from me. What would you have done? Not let go of

:42:39. > :42:49.him. The Spanish police said it was routine, but Jill is worried they

:42:50. > :42:53.will be back? How scared scared am I, very scared. They are vigilent

:42:54. > :42:58.now about the authorities? We keep an eye on cars behind us. We take

:42:59. > :43:03.different routes. Wing mirrors, if we go somewhere a different route

:43:04. > :43:09.back. They are not getting their hand on this one. Sometimes I think

:43:10. > :43:16.I wish I didn't have to live life like this, but I wouldn't give up

:43:17. > :43:21.Loac for the world. The council admits using Interpol to try to find

:43:22. > :43:29.Jill, it said it would be irresponsible not to, as it has a

:43:30. > :43:33.duty to safeguard children. When Loac reaches his first birthday Jill

:43:34. > :43:41.can apply for him to become a Spanish citizen. Until then she

:43:42. > :43:47.remains a mum on the run. I have nightmares that I just, well

:43:48. > :43:55.mainly of Aylssa being taken from me, and people saying, ripping her

:43:56. > :44:05.away from me, saying that I can't see her. I have some... Just that

:44:06. > :44:08.something has happened to her and she's not still alive. I'm never

:44:09. > :44:41.going to see her again. In Bristol Amy now gets to enjoy the

:44:42. > :44:45.simple things in a child's life. After Harrison's genetic disease was

:44:46. > :44:55.diagnosed, social services dropped the case. Amy was finally able to

:44:56. > :45:01.bring her children home. How did that feel? Incredible. Absolutely

:45:02. > :45:06.amazing. We weren't even aware it was going to happen. It happened

:45:07. > :45:10.because I phoned social services and they dropped in, oh by the way I

:45:11. > :45:15.suppose we better tell you that we are actually going to drop the case

:45:16. > :45:22.against you. I sort of fell to the floor and I had to, I was

:45:23. > :45:26.speechless, everyone staired at me and -- stared at me and asked I was

:45:27. > :45:31.I OK, I sat crying with the phone in my hand. South Gloucestershire

:45:32. > :45:36.council said they had to carry out a thorough investigation to ensure

:45:37. > :45:50.children are safeguards and they act on professional medical advice.

:45:51. > :45:56.However they regret the distress the investigation caused.

:45:57. > :46:03.Lisa still hopes her case could have a happy ending, she is giving up her

:46:04. > :46:07.flat to have money for an appeal. We moved here to have a fresh start. We

:46:08. > :46:11.only were here six months when our situation happened. She's moving in

:46:12. > :46:16.with her sister and taking on extra work. How much is an appeal going to

:46:17. > :46:21.cost, with the Court of Appeal? From what I know it is tens and tens of

:46:22. > :46:27.thousands, it is ?20,000, it depends what experts are used and how long

:46:28. > :46:34.it takes. It is going to mean working as many hours as I can and

:46:35. > :46:42.saving as many pennies as I can. But it won't be easy. Do you ever think

:46:43. > :46:47.about giving up? All the time. How do you get through that? Knowing

:46:48. > :46:53.that I haven't done anything wrong. I want the wrongs put right. I

:46:54. > :47:09.refuse to give in to the way I have been treated the last couple of

:47:10. > :47:14.years. Loac has just had his first birthday. That means Jill can apply

:47:15. > :47:18.for him to become a Spanish citizen. It is a big step because British

:47:19. > :47:26.Association workers may now discover where they live. Jill has agreed to

:47:27. > :47:34.let us film at her home for the first time. Dad, John, is travelling

:47:35. > :47:42.over from England to sign the paperwork. It has been nearly a year

:47:43. > :47:46.since he has seen his little boy. They both felt that Loac was safer

:47:47. > :47:59.from social services if John stayed in Britain. Hello, how are you

:48:00. > :48:12.doing. Hello soldier. No! Can I have a cuddle. Come here. You are a heavy

:48:13. > :48:28.boy aren't you. Loac only knows his dad from Skype. He's really chilled.

:48:29. > :48:38.Let's see what we are doing. That is where we were going. There is only

:48:39. > :48:48.so much I can expect, doesn't even know I'm his dad. John stayed in the

:48:49. > :48:55.UK in the hope that the authorities couldn't find Jill by tracking him.

:48:56. > :49:03.I found out that Interpol were looking for me and they contacted my

:49:04. > :49:08.mum asking where I was and if the baby was safe. So I did e-mail them

:49:09. > :49:15.and told them that he's fine. I sent a picture of him. Seeing Loac only

:49:16. > :49:26.reminds John how much he misses his daughter. Remember, he was never

:49:27. > :49:30.charged with harming Aylssa. He has now retracted his statement to the

:49:31. > :49:36.police about how he might have accidentally caused her injuries. I

:49:37. > :49:39.can't understand why we didn't get Aylssa back, I fully understand why

:49:40. > :49:43.they investigated her, but why the investigation went so cruel and

:49:44. > :49:49.twisted and such a witch-hunt just to take our daughter. That is what I

:49:50. > :50:03.don't understand. I love Loac to pieces but my main thing is Aylssa,

:50:04. > :50:08.that's the one that kills me. Today John and Jill are making Loac's

:50:09. > :50:13.application for Spanish citizenship. Jill's brother is along to

:50:14. > :50:25.translate. But they haven't brought Loac they are worried social workers

:50:26. > :50:35.could be waiting to take him. But there is no sign of trouble, and the

:50:36. > :50:48.application is in. Loac will soon be a Spanish citizen and his parents

:50:49. > :50:55.hope that will keep him safe. We haven't forgotten anything have we.

:50:56. > :51:00.I'm hoping not now. Back in the UK, Sarah and Paul's worst fear has come

:51:01. > :51:09.true, their little boy is going to be adopted. They have been told this

:51:10. > :51:17.will be their final contact. Are you ready? As ready as I will ever be.

:51:18. > :51:28.Sarah's parents are coming too, to see their grandson for the last

:51:29. > :51:32.time. Social workers have agreed to let them extra time. Today they get

:51:33. > :51:48.two hours with their son. They film their final visit. Do you want to

:51:49. > :52:14.sit down. The visit is over and the family are

:52:15. > :52:20.back home. You know we are here, you know that. I want my baby. I know

:52:21. > :52:38.you do my duck. I wish I could get him for you. Have I a good cry love.

:52:39. > :52:45.Adoption in the UK is irreversible, whatever happens now their son

:52:46. > :52:49.cannot be returned to them. It doesn't matter what we say. Of

:52:50. > :52:54.course it doesn't. These people they are a law unto themselves. They do

:52:55. > :52:59.what they want. They do what they want, they say what they want. From

:53:00. > :53:03.now until he's 18, the only connection Sarah and Paul can have

:53:04. > :53:12.with their son is through exchange of letters once a year. It is the

:53:13. > :53:18.same rule for his grandparents. You and his granddad will get a letter,

:53:19. > :53:21.she said. I just turned to her and I said, yeah, but I'm never going to

:53:22. > :53:27.see him again, I won't be alive when he gets to 18. I will never stop

:53:28. > :53:31.loving him, Paul, and if I'm not here I want you to tell him that.

:53:32. > :53:37.That me and his granddad will always love him. We know that. You know

:53:38. > :53:41.that. We love you both. We know you do. I don't know how they expect you

:53:42. > :53:48.to say goodbye to your child. You know. He's not dead, is he honestly,

:53:49. > :54:09.I really don't know. I don't care, wherever, if he's

:54:10. > :54:37.going and he's gone, wherever he's going, that family could never love

:54:38. > :54:44.him... Gibe darling. It's hard to overstate the loss of a child. I

:54:45. > :54:50.don't know anyone or I haven't met a client who wouldn't go to go to

:54:51. > :54:52.prison than lose their child. It is very difficult that we have a

:54:53. > :55:03.standard of proof because of the need to protect children which puts

:55:04. > :55:07.parents at that sort of risk. Given what is at stake, it is important

:55:08. > :55:10.the family courts don't get it wrong. To what scale do you think

:55:11. > :55:13.there is injustice in the family court system? One case is not

:55:14. > :55:18.acceptable, in the sense that we should have a system that picks up.

:55:19. > :55:22.When it gets to this level it is a tsunami of injustice. We don't know

:55:23. > :55:27.how many problem cases there are, the Government says reform of family

:55:28. > :55:32.justice is a critical priority. They want new standards for expert

:55:33. > :55:37.witnesses and better outcomes for children and families.

:55:38. > :55:43.One wronged parent is one parent too many, just as one child left without

:55:44. > :55:47.protection is one child too many. And each professional mistake that

:55:48. > :55:51.comes to light should drive us to have "zero tolerance" in the future.

:55:52. > :55:56.Even the judge now in charge of the family courts says that only the

:55:57. > :56:06.death penalty is more drastic than removing a child from the parents

:56:07. > :56:09.forever. He's committed to opening up the family courts. But in

:56:10. > :56:15.fracture cases judges will still rely heavily on medical experts.

:56:16. > :56:21.Mums like Amy know how powerful their opinions can be. She has had

:56:22. > :56:30.another little boy. But her family was almost torn apart. It was like a

:56:31. > :56:35.nightmare you don't seem to ever be able to wake up from. It is

:56:36. > :56:39.something that stays with you and niggles away at you even when it is

:56:40. > :56:46.gone. Even when it is finished. And yeah, it never goes away. In

:56:47. > :56:51.Harrison's case, the medical evidence was exhaustively

:56:52. > :56:58.investigated, but Amy can't forget the other parents who have lost

:56:59. > :57:03.their children forever. It will be over when they stop doing this to

:57:04. > :57:07.other people. When I can say that now people have learned this is

:57:08. > :57:23.happening and they are not going to carry on accusing innocent parents.

:57:24. > :57:27.Back in Spain, it is time for John to go home. He has agreed with Jill

:57:28. > :57:34.that it is better if he stays in the UK for now. I love you lots, be a

:57:35. > :57:39.good boy for mummy. I just have to think and keep Loac safe, and one

:57:40. > :57:49.day we will be back living together and be as a family again, just not

:57:50. > :57:58.yet. To be honest I'm not happy that my son has to be made a Spanish

:57:59. > :58:02.citizen. I think I should be able to live my life with my wife and my

:58:03. > :58:05.child in my home land, I don't think it is right we have to go through

:58:06. > :58:20.this process just to keep my son safe. To keep her little boy Jill

:58:21. > :58:24.has been forced to live on the run, because of the secrecy surrounding

:58:25. > :58:29.the family courts we don't know how many other cases there could be like

:58:30. > :58:36.her's. But we do know that many families still face losing their

:58:37. > :58:48.children forever if they can't explain tiny fractures on an X-ray.