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Hello, it's 9am, I'm Joanna Gosling, welcome to the programme.

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Michael Gove - one of the most senior politicians

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campaigning to leave the EU - accuses Vote Remain of treating

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voters like children who can be "frightened into obedience".

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Are girls being sexually harassed at school?

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Concern about growing sexualised behaviour amongst pupils has

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We'll be discussing the scale of the problem.

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And the extraordinary story of how a woman with 41 brothers and sisters

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escaped her abusive life in a polygamous sect in Mexico.

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I am my mother's fourth child and my father's 39. He had 42 kids, just a

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few months apart. I grew up in a colony in a polygamist town in

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northern Mexico. Hello, welcome to the programme,

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we're live until 11am this morning. A powerful account of how

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one young woman coped with the shock of losing her hair

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because of alopecia. We'll hear from her a little later,

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but do get in touch if you have We'd also like to hear

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from you if your child missed out on your first choice

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of primary school. If you text, you will be charged

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at the standard network rate. And don't forget if you've

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got a story you think we should be covering,

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do send it to us. Some of our best stories come

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from you, our viewers. The Justice Secretary, Michael Gove,

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the Cabinet's leading campaigner for Britain to leave

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the European Union, is accusing the Vote Remain side of patronising

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voters with their arguments. Yesterday a report by the Treasury

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claimed that leaving the EU would cost every UK household

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?4300 a year by 2030. Mr Gove will say in a speech this

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morning that they are treating people like "children, capable

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of being frightened into obedience". With us now is our Political

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Guru, Norman Smith. Tell us more about what he is

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saying. It is all kicking off, yesterday we

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had George Osborne setting out his big case about why we should stay in

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the EU. Today it is his close friend, Michael Gove, setting out

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exactly the opposite case of why we should get out. Yesterday the

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Chancellor warning about the risks to our wallet, to the economy, if we

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left. Today Michael Gove saying, no, no, the real risk is staying in,

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because if we stay in, he says, EU countries will basically think, that

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is it, we can do what we want with Britain, take more power, more money

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from them. But what I find striking about Mr Gove's speech is some of

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the language he is using. Michael Gove is one of the more, shall we

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say, polite members of the cabinet, you doesn't really get involved in

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the argy-bargy rough-and-tumble. Today he accuses David Cameron and

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George Osborne of treating the electorate like children, trying to

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frighten them into a obedience by conjuring up bogeyman. He will say

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they want people to think Britain is beaten and broken, and he

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specifically attacks them over immigration, because he says in

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yesterday's Treasury report Mr Osborne, in effect, conceded the

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Government had failed and would continue to fail over immigration,

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that it would keep going up by hundreds and thousands every year

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despite the Government's promise to get it down to the tens of

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thousands. He was on the wireless this morning as well as the boot boy

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stuff, he was trying to put on a more positive image about what

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Brexit could mean. We would have a relationship of free

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trade and friendly cooperation, we would be able to demonstrate that

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democratic self-government, the model of Government we have that in

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the past, like countries like Australia and Canada used to their

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advantage, can be deployed by us to spend money on our authorities and

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in order to negotiate new trade deals with other countries.

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What we won't get today, which we got yesterday, is any sort of

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dossier or document spelling out the details of what Brexit would

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actually mean. Yesterday we had Mr Osborne's Magnum Opus, that 200 page

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what of analysis, equations. The League sides said they will not

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produce one because they do not have the people to do that sort of thing

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and they are not sure how worthwhile it is, but expect them to come under

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pressure today to spell out in a lot more detail what Brexit will

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actually mean. You talk about the argy-bargy

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rough-and-tumble of the campaign, is it starting to look like civil War

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in the Tory party? I think it is, yes. I'm here today,

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Cabinet going on behind me, I wonder what is going on in the Cabinet

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room, you can imagine them sitting around the table, maybe kicking each

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other under the table, flicking pellets at each other! What is the

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mood like in the Cabinet? Arrival charge and countercharge, it is

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spreading beyond Europe -- the rightful charge. Michael Gove was

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attacking immigration, yesterday pretty but tell at acting the

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Government over its education policy, the day before that the

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culture Secretary John Whittingdale attacking the Government over the

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national living wage, then remember Iain Duncan Smith. It is spreading

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and deepening the conflict within the Tory party, and you are left

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wondering how on earth do they put the party back together once this

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referendum is over? Thank you, Norman.

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Annita McVeigh is in the BBC Newsroom.

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Reports from Afghanistan suggest more than 20 people have been killed

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and more than 200 wounded in a suicide attack

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The bombing happened in a residential neighbourhood close

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to the Ministry of Defence and intelligence service offices

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The Taliban has claimed responsibility, a week after it said

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it was launching a 'spring offensive'.

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413 people are now known to have died in Ecuador's worst

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But, two days on, emergency workers are still attempting

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to locate survivors, with some success stories.

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This man was working in a hotel when it collapsed.

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Firefighters said they discovered the bodies of seven other

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people at the site before finding him alive.

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But despite some positive moments, people in the hardest hit

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towns are now beginning to bury their dead.

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Our correspondent Katy Watson has travelled to the disaster zone.

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While many families are still searching for loved ones,

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others are already having to bury theirs.

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Three members of the same family were killed in

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While the family grieved, the community of El Carmen

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Football fanatic Joselo was the fourth victim.

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His pallbearers wearing his football strip in honour of

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A few hundred metres down the road we find his house,

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He was trying to get his car out when the roof collapsed on him.

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It was a three-storey building, now it's just rubble.

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There are no survivors, just a clean-up operation.

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Neighbours have returned to sort through their belongings,

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TRANSLATION: Luckily we were not in the apartment,

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Down the road, we see several other collapsed buildings,

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Most of those who were killed lived near coastal towns.

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Among the dead, Sister Claire Theresa Crockett,

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She was killed with five others when a stairwell collapsed

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Rescue workers told me this town is more than 80% flattened,

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and the death toll will be far higher than what authorities

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Time is running out for those still trapped.

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Cancer researchers say a fifth of people diagnosed

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with advanced melanoma who were treated with a combination

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of two immunotherapy drugs in a trial survived

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British doctors leading the trial said the results were

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The scale of sexual violence and intimidation in schools is to be

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The Women and Equalities Committee commissioned research

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before the investigation, which suggested that many

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assaults went unreported, and sex education was failing

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to tackle a culture in which boys felt entitled to inappropriate

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The research that we have done would suggest that six-year-old

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harassment, even six-year-old assaults, are pretty commonplace,

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but we don't have a real insight into the scale of this problem. We

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want to encourage young people, teachers, anybody who has an

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interest in this, to come forward and give evidence as part of our

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inquiry -- sexual harassment and sexual assaults.

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And coming up on the programme, we'll be discussing this and talking

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to a woman who was sexually assaulted at school when she was 15.

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Survivors of a boat carrying migrants which capsized

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in the Mediterranean Sea have told the BBC that up to 500

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people drowned, although there is no official confirmation.

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The group said they were travelling from Libya to Italy,

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and joined a larger boat already packed with

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Numbers of migrants making the dangerous sea crossing

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New research suggests that dinosaur numbers may already

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have been in decline 50 million years before an asteroid

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That's the finding of a study by researchers at Reading

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The new analysis challenges the current view that dinosaurs had

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been flourishing right up until the asteroid hit the Earth

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Our science correspondent Pallab Ghosh has more.

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They dominated the earth for 165 million years.

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A giant asteroid sent up clouds of dust that blotted out the sun.

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The mighty creatures that had once reigned supreme were wiped out.

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The fantastic vertebral column shows you the sort of size

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Now a new study of their fossil remains shows that dinosaurs

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were dying out 50 million years before the asteroid struck.

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We found, in fact, unexpectedly, that many dinosaur groups

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were declining to a certain extent towards the end,

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so not that this decline caused the final extinction,

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that still was the asteroid impact, but a fair number of groups

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of dinosaurs had lost their evolutionary vim.

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Up until now, many scientists believed that dinosaurs

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were still going strong right up to the moment that the asteroid

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But the new research indicates that they were actually in decline,

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because they simply couldn't cope with the way that the

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There are lots of things going on in the world prior

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to the asteroid hitting, including changes in sea level,

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for example, changes in the amount of land area,

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changes in the plants that are living on the land,

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So lots of different environmental variables that might have been

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affecting the success of dinosaurs long before the catastrophe that

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Many wonder whether humans would exist at all were it not

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for the chance impact of an asteroid 66 million years ago.

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But the new study suggests that dinosaurs may have been on their way

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out and our very early evolutionary ancestors could well have

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established a foothold even if the asteroid had never hit.

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A replica of an ancient arch destroyed by the so-called

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Islamic State group in the Syrian city of Palmyra will be unveiled

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The copy of the 2000-year-old Arch of Triumph has been built using 3D

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printing techniques, and marble donated by the Egyptian government.

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He's normally a critics' favourite, but Hollywood actor Johnny Depp has

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been panned by Australia's deputy prime minister for his

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Depp made the video with his partner, Amber Heard,

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after she was convicted of bringing their two pet dogs

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Deputy Prime Minister Barnaby Joyce, who last year threatened

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to have the dogs put down if they were not taken back

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to America, described the apology as "atrocious" and said Depp

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was unlikely to win an Oscar for his performance.

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A duck which lost both feet to frostbite has been fitted

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with a new pair made on a 3D printer.

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Philip the duck was rescued in the US state of Wisconsin,

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He was going to be put down until a high school technology

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teacher agreed to try making a new pair with his class.

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Philip is now practising walking on his new limbs

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Doing a pretty good job of it, I think!

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That's a summary of the latest BBC News - more at 9.30.

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In a moment we'll be discussing sexual harassment

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We would love to hear your thoughts on this.

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We'd also love to hear from you if you've suffered from alopecia,

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Do get in touch with us throughout the morning -

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If you text, you will be charged at the standard network rate.

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Will Perry has the sport now and Tottenham keep the pressure

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on Leicester at the top of the Premier League.

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"Leicester City, we're coming for you" - that was the song

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from the Tottenham fans at the Britannia Stadium last night

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as Spurs came away 4-0 winners over Stoke to close the gap

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on Claudio Ranieri's side at the top of the Premier League to five points

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This curling finish from Harry Kane, his 23rd League goal of the season,

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Dele Alli doubled the lead before he hit a post

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Kane then rolled in the third before Alli's volley wrapped up Tottenham's

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ninth away league win of the season and three points which has them

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Leicester had a tough game yesterday, dropped a couple of

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points, we were ready to put the pressure on. I do think there is

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much point being involved if you are not ready to do it. Leicester are in

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the driving seat, still five points ahead, but four games left so we

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have closed the gap, that is all we could have done tonight.

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Leicester may be without their top scorer Jamie Vardy

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for potentially two of their four games in the title run-in.

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Vardy, who's scored 22 goals this season, could well see his initial

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one game ban for a red card extended after being charged

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Vardy remonstrated with referee Jon Moss after he was dismissed

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with two yellows in Sunday's draw with West Ham.

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The troubles continue to mount up for already-relegated Aston Villa.

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Just days after they went down to the Championship, two members

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of the board set up to turn the club around have walked out.

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Former FA Chairman David Bernstein and the ex-Governor of the Bank

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of England Lord King have reportedly clashed with owner Randy Lerner.

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Newcastle are doing their best to avoid joining Villa

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They won 3-0 at home to Swansea on Saturday,

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but they're still three points from safety and face an in-form

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We cannot control the other teams, we have to control what we can, our

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team, the mentality, the focus, the fans, the staff, everyone here, so

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we have to stick together, work hard, try to get three points in

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this game. All the build up and full

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commentary from St James' Park And finally, with the

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Formula E Championship - for electric cars coming

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to Paris this weekend, to publicise it, renowned stuntman,

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free-runner and gymnast, Damien Walters, became the first

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person to carry out a blind car-dodge over an approaching

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Formula E Car travelling at 60mph. Look at this, with his back

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to the car, he flips over it Walters has worked as a stunt double

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for the likes of Daniel Craig We have the car heading down to

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London for you to try it out. I cannot think why he thought that he

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would do that! It is astonishing. Ridiculous. Hats off to Damien!

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Yeah, it is impressive. Don't try it at home.

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The idea that girls are suffering from sexual harassment -

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and even sexual violence - at school will shock most parents.

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We assume schools provide a safe environment for all pupils,

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but concern that this is not always the case has prompted MPs to launch

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They are worried about increasing levels of sexualised behaviour

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and believe schools may not be taking the problem seriously enough.

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We can speak now to Shannon Rooney, who was sexually attacked at school

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when she was 15, that was four years ago.

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Let's also bring in the Children's Commissioner for England,

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Anne Longfield, as well as Vicky Jenkinson, who acts as an advocate

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for Girl Guiding, and Kiri Tunks, a secondary school

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Ann, is this something you have been concerned about, the sexualisation

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of schoolchildren? Young people have been telling me their concerns

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around sexual relationships, relationships more Jenny, and their

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ability to manage those. What sort of concerns? They're concerned about

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relationships that they feel are out of control. There is notes in the

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report about a laddism culture and that's something that comes through

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from some young people. When there are difficulties, children have been

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abused or exploited, often say that they don't feel they were prepared

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for understanding those relationships, consent a big issue

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for them and they don't feel that they have the guidance often to be

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able to make those decisions. Now, often that will have come from a

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whole range of children, different situations, but the thing they have

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in common, they get a lot of their information online and that's

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confusing and some downright dangerous as well. So lots to pick

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through there. When you say downright dangerous, what are you

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referring to? The children who are finding themselves falling over

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pornography without looking for it. Some of that will will be upsetting

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and dangerous as it can lead to... There is a lot of talk about how

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much kids are looking at porn. I have got research coming out soon,

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so I'll know more in a little while, but it seems to be, at the age of

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11, that actually, a good number, especially of boys, are seeing

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pornography. Boys and girls? Especially boys. How is that

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impacting on behaviour? You have a range of influences which are seen

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as the norm and what we hear young people talking about and indeed in

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this report from conversations with young people, are that the norms

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seem to be all over the place. You have especially boys, who feel they

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have an entitlement to girls bodies and relationships. You have a

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stereotype of girls which isn't in anyway the reality that most girls

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live in and an experience of relationships which is very fast and

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indeed the children call it random. What's that random? They are saying,

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it is not a relationship built out of knowing someone for sometime and

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getting to know them and having a relationship, it is random in that

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it is quick, it is easily available and it is easily disposable with

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that. Does this all sound familiar to you as a teacher? Is this on your

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radar? There is a culture which Ann describes and I don't think it is in

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schools, I think it is in society and certainly, there is a culture in

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which girls, I think, are under pressure, they will talk about being

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judged all the time and they have to always be behaving in a certain way,

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conforming to a certain stereotype and I think a lot of the abuse they

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suffer, they don't report, they just put up because they think it is part

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of what it means to be a girl or a woman which I think is really

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troubling. How would a school handle it, you

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know, if, is there an awareness in your school that kids are looking at

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porn and what should the school be doing? There is an awareness. A lot

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of this stuff does go under the radar because it happens in social

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groups and corridors and playgrounds, if the school becomes

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aware of it, in my experience, there is action taken and I have had

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experience of the school dealing with these things properly. I know

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that isn't necessarily the case all the time. In terms of what the

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school should be doing, I think it needs to be tackling that culture

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because those individual assaults, those stories you hear, they are

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worrying and they are really problematic, but we are ignoring the

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day-to-day general sexual harassment of young people in school. Do you

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see a difference in the demeanour of kids these days compared with

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previous generations? I mean, I think, we've lived for a long time

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within stereotypes about what it means to be a boy and a girl. I

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don't think that's changed, but I do think social media played an impact

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in terms of kind of making it all this stuff more available much

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quicker. I think boys are trapped as well by these stereotypes and I

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think that's something schools should be doing something to tackle

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just this whole notion of there is one way to be a girl, a boy and

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there is one normal relationship, I think we have to open the discussion

:22:59.:23:02.

out to all kinds of relationships, you know and I know a lot of young

:23:03.:23:08.

LGBT people feel unable to talk about their feelings and their

:23:09.:23:11.

experiences and that's worrying. Vicky, you work as an advocate for

:23:12.:23:16.

girl guiding. Is this something you're coming up against?

:23:17.:23:19.

Absolutely, it is a concern that's been raised by a lot of our young

:23:20.:23:26.

members. Recently, from a survey we have come up with a lot of

:23:27.:23:30.

statistics that are horrifying. Give me some examples. Well, girls are

:23:31.:23:35.

definitely embarrassed by situations they find themselves in at school.

:23:36.:23:41.

And... What sort of situations? There is situations such as well,

:23:42.:23:49.

defining sexual harassment is a really key issue and it is anything

:23:50.:23:58.

from jokes about body image of girls and boys from inappropriate, jokes

:23:59.:24:04.

to inap appropriate touching. There is a wide spectrum. It needs to be

:24:05.:24:08.

clearly denined so people know when to stop. Let's bring in Shannon.

:24:09.:24:12.

Shannon, you were sexually attacked at school when you were 15, that was

:24:13.:24:18.

four years ago. I mean, it is a particularly extreme thing that

:24:19.:24:23.

happened to you, but tell us what it was that happened and how you felt,

:24:24.:24:28.

not just about the fact that it had happened at all, but that it

:24:29.:24:31.

happened in school where, you know, kids should be safe and protected?

:24:32.:24:39.

Well, what happened when I was in school, I just a run down version

:24:40.:24:44.

was I got pulled into a cupboard and sexually assaulted. I don't want to

:24:45.:24:49.

go into too much detail about it. But it was an extremely bad

:24:50.:24:52.

experience. I didn't get the right support for it and the school didn't

:24:53.:24:58.

know how to deal with it. You don't expect to be violated like that in

:24:59.:25:02.

school so it was an extremely traumatic experience. Part of the

:25:03.:25:06.

conversation today arising from the fact that MPs are looking into the

:25:07.:25:12.

culture and sexualisation of children is this sense that boys

:25:13.:25:18.

feel an entitlement to inappropriate behaviour with girls. More broadly,

:25:19.:25:23.

is that something that you had seen and experienced? After I had talked

:25:24.:25:33.

about it, I had found out that it wasn't just myself that had it

:25:34.:25:37.

happened to in school. So I guess that is more of an issue with guys

:25:38.:25:41.

feeling like it is more of their, like it is all right to do that. So

:25:42.:25:48.

nobody really told them wrong. When you are a child, it is

:25:49.:25:52.

obviously very difficult to know how to handle a situation. I mean, how

:25:53.:25:58.

did you feel about dealing with things said or done that were

:25:59.:26:01.

inappropriate? I didn't deal with it well at all. I

:26:02.:26:06.

had to stop going to school because I was getting bullied a lot and I

:26:07.:26:16.

ended up getting a stomach issue because I was getting bullied and it

:26:17.:26:22.

was not something that I dealt with quite well, but it is coming through

:26:23.:26:25.

the other side that is most important. What would you say to

:26:26.:26:29.

kids who find themselves in difficult situations and don't know

:26:30.:26:36.

how to respond? Just, they didn't do anything wrong. That was a major

:26:37.:26:40.

issue that I had and that previous people that I know have had that

:26:41.:26:45.

just to be brave and not to be afraid. Vicky, when you talk to kids

:26:46.:26:56.

that are in situations that are making them uncomfortable, what do

:26:57.:27:01.

you say, how do you build resilience in a child when there are issues

:27:02.:27:04.

that we have been talking about, about what is the norm? What is

:27:05.:27:08.

acceptable. What is unacceptable? It is really important that this is an

:27:09.:27:14.

issue that's addressed with both boys and girls and when we speak to

:27:15.:27:21.

our young members it is definitely a concern and they don't know how to

:27:22.:27:26.

deal with it. It should be something that's addressed universally by

:27:27.:27:31.

schools. It should be something that people, young people in particular,

:27:32.:27:34.

are taught to deal with so it doesn't spiral out of control when

:27:35.:27:39.

people get older and it could be dealt with so easily at this primary

:27:40.:27:44.

level and it is not being at the moment and it is really important

:27:45.:27:51.

that not only do people know what it is, that also people know when to

:27:52.:27:54.

stop and two, how to deal with it as well so it is important for Victim

:27:55.:28:01.

Support and also for those who are committing these types of offences.

:28:02.:28:07.

Steph on twith irsays, "Harassment in school is common. I was groped

:28:08.:28:14.

multiple times. Teenage grirles are girls are not objects." Grace on

:28:15.:28:20.

e-mail, "Schools should look at stereotyping in textbooks. There is

:28:21.:28:24.

too much sexual content online." Ann what do you think is the best way to

:28:25.:28:28.

tackle it? Well, the schools I have seen tackle this best are the ones,

:28:29.:28:32.

I think that, that deal with it from the whole school. So it is not

:28:33.:28:39.

something, you have not got a lesson it happens 4pm, it is part of the

:28:40.:28:43.

school purpose and culture. It is about respecting each other and it

:28:44.:28:45.

is very clear to everyone, within the school, that if there are

:28:46.:28:49.

issues, they will be dealt with. That's partly around having good

:28:50.:28:53.

education and good opportunities for all the young people to learn, but

:28:54.:28:58.

also discuss together, partly about having people there, maybe school

:28:59.:29:02.

counsellors to turn to when there are worries and that's another thing

:29:03.:29:06.

that comes through, really strongly, but I think also there is something

:29:07.:29:10.

the school can do to help parents talk about this. A lot of the

:29:11.:29:13.

conversation at the moment is about what schools can do, but what about

:29:14.:29:17.

parents? Schools are in a great position and a really important

:29:18.:29:20.

position, with responsibility to be able to really get up to speed and

:29:21.:29:23.

help prevent some of this, but ultimately as well, parents need to

:29:24.:29:28.

be the ones who understand what's going on, who feel confident and

:29:29.:29:32.

able to talk with their own children and help and guide them through. And

:29:33.:29:37.

what's the best advice on that because obviously a lot of time

:29:38.:29:39.

children won't be letting their parents know what is going on? I

:29:40.:29:43.

think be determined as a parent about talking about some of these

:29:44.:29:51.

things 6789 as a -- as a parent myself, you would be rebuffed.

:29:52.:29:57.

Engage in it from an early age around respect and the like. The

:29:58.:30:01.

guidance is essential. In schools, we have been calling for statutory

:30:02.:30:05.

sex he had case for a long, long time. And we've got, you know, there

:30:06.:30:09.

is a lot of people that agree with us, parents, lots of organisations

:30:10.:30:13.

and so on and the Government doesn't seem to be very keen on doing this.

:30:14.:30:16.

They want to leave it to the schools and they say the schools know their

:30:17.:30:19.

communities. I understand that, but what that means is young people are

:30:20.:30:23.

getting a very hit and miss education on these absolutely

:30:24.:30:25.

essential things and the result is what we're talking about today,

:30:26.:30:29.

where you've got young people who don't have access to the right

:30:30.:30:32.

information, don't feel kft dent about talking about these things,

:30:33.:30:35.

don't feel can have didn't about asserting their rights and I think

:30:36.:30:38.

we're really letting our young people down. I think a lot of

:30:39.:30:42.

schools want to do this, it is finding the space on the curriculum,

:30:43.:30:45.

it is making sure the teachers are trained properly to deal with it and

:30:46.:30:48.

there is proper resources and funding. What about the parents as

:30:49.:30:53.

well? I think parents have certainly indicated, a lot of parents don't

:30:54.:30:55.

feel comfortable about this stuff. About talking to their own kids

:30:56.:30:59.

about it? We want to talk to parents about and I think we do need,

:31:00.:31:03.

especially as children go into teenage years, maybe a lot of

:31:04.:31:08.

conversations shutdown and parents stop asking their kids things and

:31:09.:31:11.

the kids hide away and you have to find ways to keep the channels of

:31:12.:31:16.

communication open, but equally, I think sometimes people want another

:31:17.:31:19.

adult who they can trust and who they can speak to, like a teacher or

:31:20.:31:21.

someone in school. But kids will often say to adults,

:31:22.:31:30.

you don't understand it. Things are so different now, social media. You

:31:31.:31:35.

are younger, talking to younger people, what is the best way to get

:31:36.:31:40.

through and say, actually, that is not normal, this is normal, this is

:31:41.:31:44.

what you should be aspiring to, whatever the message is, how would

:31:45.:31:47.

you say is the best way to get through? It can be approached from a

:31:48.:31:54.

wide variety of different ways. A key way that we can do it is through

:31:55.:32:00.

school. That is the key avenue that we need to use. It is just talking

:32:01.:32:05.

to them about it in a casual way so that people, when they do report

:32:06.:32:08.

things like this, don't feel embarrassed about it, and think,

:32:09.:32:14.

maybe I shouldn't say anything, I know it is not normal but maybe I

:32:15.:32:18.

shouldn't say anything because it is embarrassing and maybe people will

:32:19.:32:23.

judge me for having reported it. It needs to be taken seriously,

:32:24.:32:26.

absolutely, but I think it needs to be talked about in a more casual way

:32:27.:32:30.

where people think, I can talk to people about it. As we have said,

:32:31.:32:35.

your situation was an extreme one, but what are your thoughts on the

:32:36.:32:40.

best way to get through to kids what is and isn't acceptable behaviour?

:32:41.:32:46.

Just learning more in school about what the line is not to cross. I

:32:47.:32:53.

don't think it is very clear, sexual education at school it is not made

:32:54.:32:58.

completely clear what you should and shouldn't be doing. I think there is

:32:59.:33:02.

a bit of confusion between children in that sense. I think having more

:33:03.:33:06.

education sexually at school to learn what is right and wrong, what

:33:07.:33:11.

is seen as being taken too far and how things can have an effect on

:33:12.:33:17.

people, would be a great start. Who would you have listened to when you

:33:18.:33:24.

were younger? Who would I listen to? Yes, often children will say to

:33:25.:33:27.

their parents, you don't understand, things are different now. Who would

:33:28.:33:33.

be the people to get through to you? I would always talk to teachers at

:33:34.:33:39.

school, that was my best place, at school, to talk to people. If I

:33:40.:33:43.

needed ad buys I would talk to somebody at school, like a teacher

:33:44.:33:47.

that I got along with. It is more difficult to talk to your parents

:33:48.:33:51.

than it is somebody at school, out of the home. Widely you think that

:33:52.:33:58.

is? Just because of how embarrassing and awkward it can get talking to

:33:59.:34:03.

your parents about sexual, anything sexual, it can get awkward and

:34:04.:34:10.

embarrassing, and most kids just want to talk to their teacher or a

:34:11.:34:19.

fellow pupil about it. There is something, as well, about young

:34:20.:34:22.

people learning this as a group, with peers, so it becomes a shared

:34:23.:34:26.

knowledge learned at the same time, and what we find at the moment is

:34:27.:34:32.

where sexual education does come into school it is often quite

:34:33.:34:36.

mechanistic or a small part of a biology lesson, and actually this is

:34:37.:34:40.

what you are talking about, being much broader, more casual, in a way,

:34:41.:34:47.

I suppose. Where I see it best is where you have got people who engage

:34:48.:34:52.

with children first and foremost, young people understand them, and

:34:53.:34:55.

they are introducing some of the information and knowledge as part of

:34:56.:34:58.

that, rather than starting with a rigid set of information and

:34:59.:35:04.

checklists. With everything out there, all being so accessible

:35:05.:35:08.

online, is it easy to put the genie back into the bottle? The online

:35:09.:35:12.

part of it will remain, online is with us, it is part of life, there

:35:13.:35:15.

are fantastic opportunities that come from that but there are also

:35:16.:35:20.

clear downfalls. We have to be robust about how we talk about

:35:21.:35:28.

things in schools as well, we have not had that conversation, but there

:35:29.:35:31.

is the potential to look at how we limit screens in schools. But also

:35:32.:35:36.

as part of the understanding that online is now with us, it can have

:35:37.:35:43.

ways to empower children. I have a task force looking at how we can

:35:44.:35:46.

give children more rights, the right to take down images they don't like,

:35:47.:35:52.

the right to get better digital literacy, they need to be part of

:35:53.:35:56.

life going forward. Thank you all very much, let us know what you

:35:57.:35:59.

think about the conversation we have just been having.

:36:00.:36:01.

Ruth Wariner was brought up in a polygamous cult

:36:02.:36:05.

in northern Mexico - she had 41 brothers and sisters,

:36:06.:36:07.

a makeshift home with no electricity and an abusive stepfather.

:36:08.:36:10.

She tells us what living that life was like.

:36:11.:36:14.

"When I lost my hair, I felt like I lost my feminity."

:36:15.:36:21.

We hear from two young women who have alopecia - that's coming up

:36:22.:36:24.

Here's Annita in the BBC Newsroom with a summary of today's news.

:36:25.:36:38.

The Justice Secretary, Michael Gove - the Cabinet's leading

:36:39.:36:40.

campaigner for Britain to leave the European Union -

:36:41.:36:42.

is accusing the Vote Remain side of patronising voters

:36:43.:36:46.

Yesterday a report by the Treasury claimed that leaving the EU

:36:47.:36:51.

would cost every UK household ?4300 a year by 2030.

:36:52.:36:57.

Mr Gove will say in a speech this morning that they are treating

:36:58.:37:01.

people like "mere children, capable of being frightened

:37:02.:37:03.

We would have a relationship of free trade and friendly cooperation. We

:37:04.:37:15.

would be able to demonstrate that democratic self-government, the

:37:16.:37:18.

model of Government we have had in the past and other countries like

:37:19.:37:22.

Australia and Canada used the advantage, can be deployed by others

:37:23.:37:25.

in order to spend money on our priorities and in order to negotiate

:37:26.:37:29.

new trade deals with other countries.

:37:30.:37:37.

Officials in Afghanistan say there've been more than 300

:37:38.:37:39.

casualties in a suicide attack in the capital, Kabul.

:37:40.:37:41.

Reports from Kabul suggest at least seven are dead.

:37:42.:37:46.

Three armed men reportedly entered a government building

:37:47.:37:48.

used by the country's special protection unit,

:37:49.:37:50.

The Taliban has claimed responsibility.

:37:51.:37:52.

Harun Najafizada has been to the scene.

:37:53.:37:56.

This building is the target of the suicide bombers. Some of their early

:37:57.:38:07.

attack by a car bomb and then some did break into this building. This

:38:08.:38:11.

is the unit for protection of dignitaries of Afghan government.

:38:12.:38:19.

Right opposite to this strategy plays is the Defence Ministry and

:38:20.:38:22.

over there is the Afghan presidential palace. As we speak,

:38:23.:38:27.

there is no more fighting going on, there is no firing here, the

:38:28.:38:33.

security forces are here in full force in order to contain the

:38:34.:38:40.

attackers. The Afghan president has said that this attack shows the

:38:41.:38:43.

weaknesses of insurgents in the real battlefield.

:38:44.:38:45.

The scale of sexual violence and intimidation in schools is to be

:38:46.:38:48.

The Women and Equalities Committee commissioned research

:38:49.:38:51.

before the investigation, which suggested that many

:38:52.:38:53.

assaults went unreported, and sex education was failing

:38:54.:38:57.

to tackle a culture in which boys felt entitled to inappropriate

:38:58.:39:00.

The first funerals are taking place in Ecuador for the victims of

:39:01.:39:13.

Saturday's at quake, which is now known to have killed more than 400

:39:14.:39:14.

people. Two days on, emergency workers

:39:15.:39:18.

are still attempting to locate survivors,

:39:19.:39:20.

with some success stories. This man was working

:39:21.:39:22.

in a hotel when it collapsed. He managed to call a relative on his

:39:23.:39:28.

mobile phone, who alerted firefighters.

:39:29.:39:30.

That's a summary of the latest BBC News - more at 10am.

:39:31.:39:33.

Here's Will Perry now with this morning's sport headlines.

:39:34.:39:41.

Tottenham are right on Leicester City's tales in the title race after

:39:42.:39:47.

a 4-0 win at Stoke last night, Harry Kane and Dele Alli both scoring

:39:48.:39:56.

twice. They have closed the gap to five points with four to play.

:39:57.:39:58.

Leicester's top scorer Jamie Vardy could well see his his initial one

:39:59.:40:01.

game ban for a red card extended after being charged

:40:02.:40:04.

Vardy remonstrated with referee Jon Moss after he was dismissed

:40:05.:40:07.

with two yellows in Sunday's draw with West Ham.

:40:08.:40:09.

Vincent Kompany and Raheem Sterling are poised to return

:40:10.:40:12.

for Manchester City in tonight's game at Newcastle.

:40:13.:40:15.

Captain Kompany has had a month on the sidelines with a calf injury.

:40:16.:40:18.

Sterling has missed five games with a groin injury.

:40:19.:40:20.

Ronnie O'Sullivan faces disciplinary action from snooker's

:40:21.:40:25.

world governing body following his World

:40:26.:40:26.

The five-time champion beat Dave Gilbert to reach the second

:40:27.:40:30.

round but he refused to attend the oblig-atory post-match press

:40:31.:40:42.

-- round but he refused to attend the obligatory post-match press

:40:43.:40:44.

41 siblings, constant beatings and a house with no

:40:45.:40:48.

This was what life was like in the polygamous cult in Mexico

:40:49.:40:51.

But when she turned 15, she managed to escape with three

:40:52.:40:55.

of her younger siblings and, after rebuilding her life,

:40:56.:40:57.

has now written a book about her harrowing story.

:40:58.:41:00.

Describe the family you were born into?

:41:01.:41:01.

I am my mother's fourth child and my father's 39th.

:41:02.:41:04.

All my same age, just a few months apart.

:41:05.:41:17.

I grew up in a colony, a polygamous town

:41:18.:41:19.

The town was founded by my grandfather in the 1940s.

:41:20.:41:22.

And my memoir, The Sound Of Gravel, is the story of my life growing up

:41:23.:41:26.

there actually after my father was assassinated.

:41:27.:41:28.

I was three months old when he was killed by his brother,

:41:29.:41:30.

or his brother had him killed, actually, in order

:41:31.:41:33.

My mother remarried another polygamist man and had

:41:34.:41:41.

And that's what the beginning of my life was like.

:41:42.:41:47.

So the conditions in Mexico were a pioneer lifestyle -

:41:48.:41:52.

we didn't have electricity, and had an outhouse.

:41:53.:41:56.

And that was the beginning of my life.

:41:57.:42:06.

Tell us more about the cult, what the ideals were behind

:42:07.:42:09.

the founding of it, what the beliefs were and what you were brought up

:42:10.:42:13.

Well, I was brought up, I never knew my father,

:42:14.:42:19.

but I was brought up believing that he was the prophet

:42:20.:42:22.

of our community, and he definitely was the self-proclaimed prophet.

:42:23.:42:26.

He started our church, and he claimed to have authority,

:42:27.:42:30.

to have received his authority, and had visions about his priesthood

:42:31.:42:35.

stemming all the way back from Joseph Smith,

:42:36.:42:38.

who was the original founder of Mormonism in the 1830s.

:42:39.:42:42.

And the early Mormons practised polygamy.

:42:43.:42:44.

The way that Joseph Smith taught it was that men needed to have more

:42:45.:42:49.

than one wife in order to have enough children to populate

:42:50.:42:52.

So in his opinion, the way my dad taught it, was that a man wasn't

:42:53.:43:03.

really a man until he had at least two wives, and that it was a woman's

:43:04.:43:09.

responsibility to marry a man with several wives and have as many

:43:10.:43:12.

children as her body would allow her to.

:43:13.:43:15.

In the 1890s, polygamy became illegal in the United States.

:43:16.:43:21.

But there were several fundamentalists who still believed

:43:22.:43:24.

in the original early Mormon teachings, and my dad's family

:43:25.:43:26.

And my grandfather moved south of the border in the 1920s,

:43:27.:43:41.

How were those views indoctrinated in you growing up?

:43:42.:43:44.

Church on Sunday, and my mom talked about it all the time,

:43:45.:43:47.

how important it was for her to have kids.

:43:48.:43:49.

She struggled having so many children.

:43:50.:43:50.

She had ten, including two miscarriages and three

:43:51.:43:52.

So, in spite of how hard it was for her, in her belief system

:43:53.:44:04.

she felt like it was her obligation to serve God in the way

:44:05.:44:08.

It gave her a sense of purpose, and that's what all the women

:44:09.:44:12.

in the colony believed, and that's what the men believed, too.

:44:13.:44:15.

So what was it like being part of a family like that

:44:16.:44:18.

Well, in the beginning I didn't really know the difference.

:44:19.:44:21.

I started the first grade in a Mexican public school,

:44:22.:44:24.

and then I realised that, you know, my family was an American colony,

:44:25.:44:27.

so we grew up speaking English, so going to a Spanish-speaking

:44:28.:44:29.

But that started to introduce me, I was six years old,

:44:30.:44:34.

And when I was six years old, my stepfather at that time

:44:35.:44:38.

became pretty abusive, and so we moved to the United States

:44:39.:44:41.

And immediately when we started living with them in California

:44:42.:44:49.

in a small town there, I could see that life,

:44:50.:44:51.

my living conditions, were way worse.

:44:52.:44:55.

In a way it was a shock to me because I hadn't been used to living

:44:56.:44:59.

that kind of comfortable lifestyle, we didn't have central

:45:00.:45:01.

And I walked inside my grandparents' house, and it even smelled warm.

:45:02.:45:07.

It was just pretty amazing to have running water and warmth all around

:45:08.:45:10.

and showers and a bath, and an indoor toilet.

:45:11.:45:14.

And then my mother decided to go back to my stepfather

:45:15.:45:17.

You had had a taste of a very different life.

:45:18.:45:24.

What was it like going back then in that quite closed community,

:45:25.:45:27.

although, as you say, you did get schooling outside of it?

:45:28.:45:31.

Yeah, you know, it was really hard, when I was younger I didn't

:45:32.:45:36.

It was fun, I played with my little brothers and sisters,

:45:37.:45:42.

and I didn't realise how poor we were.

:45:43.:45:45.

But having to go back to a cold house, we had a barrel

:45:46.:45:48.

which heated the house, we put wood in it and it burned

:45:49.:45:53.

in the living room and that's the way we kept warm in one room.

:45:54.:45:56.

Going back to that lifestyle was really hard.

:45:57.:46:00.

It was really hard because I realised how poor we actually were.

:46:01.:46:03.

You talked more about the poverty than the abuse you suffered

:46:04.:46:06.

What was your perspective on that, and how that part

:46:07.:46:14.

When that started, my stepfather had been abusive physically

:46:15.:46:21.

towards my mother, but he started to sexually abuse me

:46:22.:46:27.

And at that point I always had conflict with my stepfather,

:46:28.:46:35.

because I knew he wasn't my father, and just because of the way

:46:36.:46:38.

And he had four wives of his own, so he wasn't around a lot.

:46:39.:46:43.

But when that started, it was obviously devastating.

:46:44.:46:46.

And I knew it was wrong, it was hard for me to tell my mom,

:46:47.:46:50.

but I told my mum about it right away.

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And he apologised and said it wouldn't happen again,

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Add my mom, because he kept apologising,

:46:56.:47:01.

she stayed for several years after that.

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You know, my mom was the kind of person who always made life fun

:47:03.:47:11.

for us, and she was a loving, caring person.

:47:12.:47:14.

And so for me, by the time she made that choice, it was...

:47:15.:47:17.

It created a tremendous amount of conflict in me,

:47:18.:47:23.

and frustration, because I had known the good side of her and I couldn't

:47:24.:47:27.

So, yeah, it created a tremendous amount of conflict in me.

:47:28.:47:33.

And as I grew into adolescence and became a teenager,

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I was incredibly angry with her for staying.

:47:38.:47:42.

And it got to a point where he finally stopped abusing me,

:47:43.:47:45.

but I found out that he had been abusing stepsisters as well.

:47:46.:47:49.

And actually several other children in the colony,

:47:50.:47:51.

and everybody turned a blind eye to it.

:47:52.:47:55.

There wasn't really anything I could do about it.

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And from that point, you took matters into your own hands

:48:02.:48:06.

- you effectively assumed the role of being a protective mother

:48:07.:48:11.

to the other siblings that you talked about

:48:12.:48:13.

What happened within you, and what did you decide to do?

:48:14.:48:18.

When she passed, my youngest sister was five months old.

:48:19.:48:22.

I had a two-year-old sister who we were still potty training,

:48:23.:48:25.

I had a five-year old brother, and a ten-year-old brother,

:48:26.:48:33.

and my special-needs brother, Luke, who was 18 months older than me,

:48:34.:48:37.

He came back from a trip he had taken with my stepfather,

:48:38.:48:43.

and I sat down and I could see that he was feeling uncomfortable

:48:44.:48:46.

and confused, and he had always had trouble communicating,

:48:47.:48:52.

and he sat down at the table one night, and I asked him

:48:53.:48:55.

what was wrong, and he started to describe the same kind

:48:56.:48:58.

of abuse that I had been going through in my early childhood.

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So at that point, we were living with one of my stepfather's other

:49:05.:49:08.

wives, his fourth wife, and because the colony

:49:09.:49:11.

and the people there hadn't done anything to protect me,

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I knew that they wouldn't do anything to protect my sisters

:49:15.:49:18.

I had an older brother in California, in San Diego,

:49:19.:49:25.

I called him and I said, look, this is what happened,

:49:26.:49:29.

this is what has been going on, and this is what is going to happen

:49:30.:49:32.

So I said, you need to come and get us, basically.

:49:33.:49:39.

When you walked away, could you easily walk

:49:40.:49:41.

So, it was hard to adjust. It was a lonely time for me.

:49:42.:49:50.

But, you know, I finished, I got my GED, which is

:49:51.:49:54.

the equivalent of getting a high school diploma here.

:49:55.:49:58.

I stayed at home and took care of my sisters.

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You speak without any trace of self-pity, or even

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it sounds like regret for a lost childhood,

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a sense that you were cheated, perhaps.

:50:10.:50:14.

How do you feel about that childhood you had, and how it has shaped

:50:15.:50:17.

you and the impact that it has had on the woman you have become?

:50:18.:50:23.

You know, there was a lot of good that came out

:50:24.:50:27.

I did learn, I learned my mom's work ethic, I learned, I think having,

:50:28.:50:35.

I took care of my brothers and sisters for almost 18 years.

:50:36.:50:38.

Having that purpose outside myself was incredibly healing.

:50:39.:50:43.

Also, just realising that I knew that my mom deserved better

:50:44.:50:47.

than what she had in the colony where we grew up, and I knew that

:50:48.:50:51.

So I made choices accordingly, for myself and my family,

:50:52.:50:55.

Ruth, thank you very much for talking to us.

:50:56.:51:02.

You can read more of Ruth Wariner's story in her memoir,

:51:03.:51:09.

Coming up, brutally stabbed to death on the streets of London.

:51:10.:51:18.

We speak to Myron Isaac Yarde's sister Chantelle who was her

:51:19.:51:21.

"I couldn't even cry, I was in that much shock."

:51:22.:51:27.

The words of one 24-year-old woman when she started to lose her hair.

:51:28.:51:31.

A growing number of young people are seeking treatment

:51:32.:51:35.

for the condition, known as alopecia.

:51:36.:51:36.

Stress, depression and anxiety are often the cause.

:51:37.:51:40.

Student Imogen Proctor first noticed her hair falling

:51:41.:51:41.

I was in the shower, and I noticed that the plug

:51:42.:51:51.

was getting a little bit too full of hair too fast, and there was hair

:51:52.:51:54.

down my back and things and there was head being left

:51:55.:51:57.

I thought maybe I was dreaming or it wasn't a reality.

:51:58.:52:02.

I tried to brush it under the carpet in my mind.

:52:03.:52:05.

And then one day a little bit more came out than normal in my towel

:52:06.:52:09.

when I was driving my hair, and I went and I sat down

:52:10.:52:12.

and I sifted through my hair because I knew it wasn't

:52:13.:52:14.

feeling great, it felt thin and something was wrong.

:52:15.:52:16.

There was no way it was going to be happening without it

:52:17.:52:19.

So I sifted through both sides of my head, and on the right side

:52:20.:52:26.

I found a patch about the size of my first.

:52:27.:52:30.

And I just sat there, I remember it now, I was sat

:52:31.:52:36.

there on the end of my bed in my dressing gown looking

:52:37.:52:38.

in the mirror thinking, this isn't real, this isn't happening.

:52:39.:52:41.

I couldn't even cried, I was in that much shock.

:52:42.:52:43.

And for while I felt I'd lost my femininity.

:52:44.:52:49.

I went to the shop one day, and I was just wearing a hat rather

:52:50.:52:52.

than wearing a wig, and like I said, I was full of cold and I had

:52:53.:52:56.

a really heavy shopping basket and I dumped the trolley down

:52:57.:52:59.

in front of me in the queue and I was just, I let out a big sigh

:53:00.:53:03.

because I was just feeling rubbish and very sorry for myself,

:53:04.:53:06.

and the chap in front of me, and he said to me,

:53:07.:53:09.

And in that moment I was shocked, surprised, and I said, no,

:53:10.:53:13.

I have got a hair loss condition called alopecia which means

:53:14.:53:19.

And then he said to me, oh, well why?

:53:20.:53:23.

You know, if you can tell me then great,

:53:24.:53:28.

In January 2014, I went to a kick boxing competition.

:53:29.:53:34.

And I said to myself, right, I've lost all my hair,

:53:35.:53:40.

I'm feeling really strong, I'm going to win this competition,

:53:41.:53:42.

and when I win this competition I'm going to stand

:53:43.:53:44.

And I sort of thought, oh, and I felt really

:53:45.:53:52.

rubbish and I thought, I'm not going to do it,

:53:53.:53:57.

I can't do it, I told myself I was only going to go on the podium

:53:58.:54:01.

And in kick-boxing we all know each other quite well,

:54:02.:54:09.

you know, we all fight a lot of the same people.

:54:10.:54:12.

And I went and I was speaking to the girl Stevie

:54:13.:54:15.

who had won the final, and I told her what was going on,

:54:16.:54:18.

I said, look, Stevie, I've lost my hair and I think I came

:54:19.:54:21.

And she was like, do you know what, who cares?

:54:22.:54:24.

You have come to a kick boxing competition,

:54:25.:54:26.

you are still doing kick boxing, and you have lost your

:54:27.:54:29.

You know, why aren't you proud of yourself?

:54:30.:54:32.

I've come here to be brave, and I did it anyway.

:54:33.:54:36.

So I had a photo on the podium without my wig on.

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At that point, I was completely bald.

:54:40.:54:41.

It was just me and Stevie on the podium, she had her arm

:54:42.:54:44.

around me and we had our trophies, I had a big smile on my face.

:54:45.:54:48.

And that was my platform for coming out with the alopecia.

:54:49.:54:51.

And I think from then I've had quite positive experiences,

:54:52.:54:53.

and it has really changed me for the better.

:54:54.:54:59.

Victoria Short was just 22 when she started to lose

:55:00.:55:02.

She joins us via webcam from Gloucester.

:55:03.:55:07.

Thank you so much for joining us Victoria. Tell us what happened?

:55:08.:55:12.

When did you first start to lose your hair? So I was about 22. I had

:55:13.:55:18.

just finished university. I was on top of the world. I was really

:55:19.:55:26.

enjoying life and I was at work one day and I ran my fingers through my

:55:27.:55:30.

hair and at the back, the left-back of high head I found a small patch

:55:31.:55:35.

of hair that had gone, about this size of a five pence piece and I

:55:36.:55:40.

showed it to my mum later and we agreed that we'd keep an eye on it

:55:41.:55:44.

and it wasn't too bad, it was tiny and I thought I might have caught it

:55:45.:55:48.

or whatever. And then slowly over the following months I started to

:55:49.:55:52.

get a few more patches and those patches started to join up and I

:55:53.:55:56.

started to lose more and more of my hair and I went and saw the doctor

:55:57.:56:01.

who diagnosed alpiecia and referred me to a dermatologist and basically

:56:02.:56:05.

they said there wasn't very much they could do, there wasn't a way

:56:06.:56:10.

they could help me. And so over the nine months, that was in the April

:56:11.:56:15.

of 2011, and over the course of about nine months I lost all the

:56:16.:56:19.

hair on my head. And then I thought oh, OK, I'm through this, you know,

:56:20.:56:24.

it is rubbish, but I'm OK, you know, fine and then for the four months

:56:25.:56:29.

after that, I started losing all the hair on my body as well, I lost my

:56:30.:56:34.

eyelashes, my eyebrows, my body hair from top to bottom. They weren't

:56:35.:56:39.

really sure why and they still aren't sure why and it hasn't come

:56:40.:56:43.

back since. How have you felt as you have gone through that? We were

:56:44.:56:53.

hearing Imogen sce he describing the -- describing the conflicts and the

:56:54.:56:57.

struggles? It was really hard and everyone handles it in a different

:56:58.:57:00.

way. For me, I went through everything. I grieved as if someone

:57:01.:57:04.

had died which sounds terrible, but I was losing a part of my identity

:57:05.:57:07.

and I had no control and that was the bit I found the most difficult

:57:08.:57:10.

was not having control. I couldn't, it wasn't that I was too stressed,

:57:11.:57:14.

it wasn't that I was eating the wrong things or anything and I could

:57:15.:57:17.

go right, I will change that and it will be fine. I was just stuck with

:57:18.:57:21.

something over which I had no control. And for me, I went through

:57:22.:57:27.

all of the emotions and the one I found was the most difficult was

:57:28.:57:34.

actually guilt. I just felt really incredibly guilty that I was upset

:57:35.:57:38.

about what was effectively just hair. You know, and people always

:57:39.:57:41.

say it is just hair and it isn't just hair, it is a huge part of your

:57:42.:57:45.

identity. It is a huge part of who you are and so I felt guilty being

:57:46.:57:49.

upset about something that was trivial when I wasn't dying of

:57:50.:57:53.

cancer, I didn't have leukaemia, I wasn't having a kidney out, it was

:57:54.:57:56.

none of those things, it was just my hair and that was what I found the

:57:57.:58:01.

most difficult was shifting the guilt actually. Victoria, we are

:58:02.:58:08.

going to talk to Glen. How common is this, dmRen? It is thought to be

:58:09.:58:16.

about 4% of the population, but there are different situations, you

:58:17.:58:20.

can just get a sij patch. It maybe people aren't actually attending a

:58:21.:58:29.

clinic. But it is about roughly about 4%. What are the causes? We

:58:30.:58:33.

were hearing Victoria saying she was in a really good place when it was

:58:34.:58:37.

happening. It doesn't sound like there was stress involved? Victoria

:58:38.:58:41.

is fairly unique, in my experience and I have been qualified since

:58:42.:58:46.

1968, 90% in my experience are stress related. So Victoria, it is

:58:47.:58:51.

unique she was in a happy place. But it's thought to be an auto immune

:58:52.:58:59.

condition, it is not related to ill-health. Victoria brought up good

:59:00.:59:04.

points about guilt and so on, of not having cancer. The hair is a very

:59:05.:59:09.

emotive appendage, it affects confidence and morale and Victoria

:59:10.:59:13.

mentioned her identity and people's personalities are identified by

:59:14.:59:17.

their hair. Fortunately, I mean, there is a lot more support now.

:59:18.:59:23.

Another situation is that, you know, people can think they are undergoing

:59:24.:59:27.

chemotherapy, so it is what they perceive other people maybe

:59:28.:59:31.

thinking. What about treatment and whether it can be reversed? Yeah, in

:59:32.:59:37.

Victoria's case it is the whole body. Now, even in those situations,

:59:38.:59:43.

it can grow back spontaneously. So you might wake up one day and it has

:59:44.:59:50.

changed? There is not really a panacea. There is not something

:59:51.:59:55.

that's a miracle treatment in this situation. From patches, we get

:59:56.:00:02.

fairly good results on the treatment we give at Philip Kingsley trying to

:00:03.:00:07.

centre ta advertise the scalp and waking up the immune system that's

:00:08.:00:15.

responsible and you have got dermatological approaches. I don't

:00:16.:00:19.

think a topical applied steroid has any use. But in a lot of cases,

:00:20.:00:28.

there is spontaneous growth. There is spontaneous growth in a lot of

:00:29.:00:32.

cases. Glen, thank you. Thank you very much Victoria for joining us.

:00:33.:00:33.

Thank you. Good morning, we have got a

:00:34.:00:46.

beautiful day ahead across much of the UK, a lot of sunshine, as you

:00:47.:00:51.

can see on the satellite picture. Some cloud in the south and west,

:00:52.:00:55.

courtesy of the weak weather front, but through the date further holes

:00:56.:00:59.

will develop in that and further sunshine developing as a result. On

:01:00.:01:04.

the east coast, some sea breeze is developing, taking the edge of the

:01:05.:01:07.

temperatures in the east, but generally temperatures today not too

:01:08.:01:12.

bad at all, between ten and 16, possibly 17 somewhere in the

:01:13.:01:17.

south-east. Through the evening and overnight, once again the cloud will

:01:18.:01:21.

continue to melt away, in all areas it will be a cold night,

:01:22.:01:24.

temperatures down to freezing or just below, so some frost around.

:01:25.:01:28.

Cloud across northern Scotland and parts of Northern Ireland which

:01:29.:01:31.

could produce the odd shower. Also some patchy fog forming as well.

:01:32.:01:36.

That will lift readily tomorrow morning and then tomorrow, for most

:01:37.:01:38.

of the UK, we are looking at blue skies, a bit more cloud in the

:01:39.:01:53.

North, with the odd shower, breezy here and in the south, with the wind

:01:54.:01:56.

strengthening later, but tomorrow temperatures could be a touch on

:01:57.:01:58.

today, mid-teens, possibly a little bit more.

:01:59.:02:09.

Hello, it's 10am, I'm Joanna Gosling, welcome to the programme

:02:10.:02:11.

Michael Gove - one of the most senior politicians

:02:12.:02:15.

campaigning to leave the EU - accuses Vote Remain of treating

:02:16.:02:18.

voters like children who can be "frightened into obedience"

:02:19.:02:20.

but remain campaigners accuse him of making "simplistic statements".

:02:21.:02:22.

Did you miss out on your first choice primary school

:02:23.:02:25.

If you live in Reading your chances are much lower

:02:26.:02:28.

Myron Yarde was a 17-year-old music student and grime artist

:02:29.:02:38.

who was killed on the streets of London just a few weeks ago.

:02:39.:02:42.

His sister tells us she warned him constantly about the

:02:43.:02:44.

Just trying to show him basic first aid and just to be dangers of it,

:02:45.:02:52.

and constantly checking up on him to make sure that he is not getting

:02:53.:02:57.

involved in any of those things. Here's Annita in the BBC Newsroom

:02:58.:03:05.

with a summary of today's news. The Justice Secretary,

:03:06.:03:10.

Michael Gove - the Cabinet's leading campaigner for Britain to leave

:03:11.:03:12.

the European Union - is accusing the Vote Remain side

:03:13.:03:14.

of patronising voters Yesterday a report by the Treasury

:03:15.:03:17.

claimed that leaving the EU would cost every UK household ?4300

:03:18.:03:24.

a year by 2030. Mr Gove will say in a speech shortly

:03:25.:03:30.

that remain campaigners are treating people like children,

:03:31.:03:33.

and that leaving the EU would instead be an act

:03:34.:03:35.

of liberation and The Remain camps said his statements

:03:36.:03:37.

do not bear proper scrutiny. And we're expecting Michael Gove

:03:38.:03:49.

to deliver that speech at 11.30am and we'll be taking that live

:03:50.:03:52.

on the News Channel. Some news just come again, a man in

:03:53.:04:00.

his 30s has been arrested over the murder of a schoolboy in

:04:01.:04:05.

Peterborough more than 20 years ago. Six-year-old Rikki Neave was found

:04:06.:04:08.

strangled near his home and his mother was accused of killing him.

:04:09.:04:12.

An investigation into his murder was reopened in June last year and fresh

:04:13.:04:14.

appeal launched. Officials in Afghanistan say

:04:15.:04:18.

there've been more than 300 casualties in a suicide attack

:04:19.:04:20.

in the capital, Kabul. Reports from Kabul suggest

:04:21.:04:22.

at least seven are dead. Three armed men reportedly entered

:04:23.:04:24.

a Government building used by the country's

:04:25.:04:26.

special protection unit, The Taliban has claimed

:04:27.:04:28.

responsibility. The first funerals are taking place

:04:29.:04:33.

in Ecuador for the victims of Saturday's earthquake,

:04:34.:04:36.

which is now known to have killed But, two days on, emergency workers

:04:37.:04:38.

are still searching for survivors. This man was trapped underneath the

:04:39.:04:55.

hotel where he worked and called for help on his mobile phone.

:04:56.:04:59.

Firefighters said they discovered the bodies of seven other people

:05:00.:05:01.

at the site before finding him alive.

:05:02.:05:03.

The scale of sexual violence and intimidation in schools is to be

:05:04.:05:06.

The Women and Equalities Committee commissioned research

:05:07.:05:09.

before the investigation, which suggested that many

:05:10.:05:11.

assaults went unreported, and sex education was failing

:05:12.:05:12.

to tackle a culture in which boys felt entitled to inappropriate

:05:13.:05:15.

Cancer researchers say a fifth of people with advanced melanoma had

:05:16.:05:24.

no sign of tumours in their body after treatment with a pair

:05:25.:05:27.

The study of more than 140 patients also found that two thirds

:05:28.:05:37.

of people treated with the drugs survived for at least two years.

:05:38.:05:40.

British doctors leading the trial said the results

:05:41.:05:42.

Survivors of a boat carrying migrants, which capsized

:05:43.:05:45.

in the Mediterranean Sea, have told the BBC that up to 500

:05:46.:05:48.

people drowned, although there is no official confirmation.

:05:49.:05:52.

The group said they were travelling from Libya to Italy,

:05:53.:05:54.

and joined a larger boat already packed with people, which then sank.

:05:55.:05:58.

Numbers of migrants making the dangerous sea crossing

:05:59.:06:02.

A replica of an ancient arch destroyed by the so-called

:06:03.:06:10.

Islamic State group in the Syrian city of Palmyra will be unveiled

:06:11.:06:12.

The copy of the 2000-year-old Arch of Triumph has been built using 3D

:06:13.:06:21.

printing techniques, and marble donated by the Egyptian government.

:06:22.:06:26.

A duck which lost both feet to frostbite has been fitted

:06:27.:06:28.

with a new pair made on a 3D printer.

:06:29.:06:32.

Philip the duck was rescued in the US state of Wisconsin,

:06:33.:06:34.

He was going to be put down until a high school technology

:06:35.:06:41.

teacher agreed to try making a new pair with his class.

:06:42.:06:44.

Philip is now practising walking again at an animal sanctuary.

:06:45.:06:51.

That's a summary of the latest BBC News - more at 10.30am.

:06:52.:06:56.

Thanks for all your comments on sexual harassment in schools.

:06:57.:07:01.

Lots of you getting in touch on this one.

:07:02.:07:04.

Tracy says, "Parents have to be telling both boys and girls

:07:05.:07:10.

what is and is not acceptable from a young age.

:07:11.:07:12.

Abdel says, "Girls should unite in a movement to stand up

:07:13.:07:17.

against sexual abuse and harassment and decent boys should

:07:18.:07:19.

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:07:20.:07:23.

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:07:24.:07:30.

Will Perry has the sport now and Tottenham keep the pressure

:07:31.:07:32.

on Leicester at the top of the Premier League.

:07:33.:07:35.

"Leicester City, we're coming for you!"

:07:36.:07:38.

That was the song from the Tottenham fans at the Britannia Stadium last

:07:39.:07:41.

night as Spurs came away 4-0 winners over Stoke to close the gap

:07:42.:07:44.

on Claudio Ranieri's side at the the top of the Premier League

:07:45.:07:47.

to five points with four games to play.

:07:48.:07:49.

Former Spurs forward Clive Allen joins me now.

:07:50.:07:55.

Such a confident display last night, a really strong message to

:07:56.:08:04.

Leicester? Yes, without a doubt. The last two victories, 3-0 Manchester

:08:05.:08:08.

United and 4-0 array last night, send out a strong message. The group

:08:09.:08:13.

is full of confidence and trying to chase Leicester down. There has been

:08:14.:08:18.

so much focus on Leicester, everyone talking about it being the fairy

:08:19.:08:22.

tale if they can pull it off, do you think it has helped Spurs to come

:08:23.:08:26.

without the magnifying glass, the spotlight on them? Maybe, think it

:08:27.:08:32.

has. They have had a sensational season themselves, probably the aim

:08:33.:08:35.

at the start of the season was to try to break into the top four, they

:08:36.:08:40.

have been in amongst it all season and it is a group that is growing,

:08:41.:08:45.

getting stronger, and certainly the confidence they showed last night

:08:46.:08:49.

was amazing. The attention on Leicester has probably helped this

:08:50.:08:53.

young team. When you look at Spurs' last ball games, West Brom, Chelsea,

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Southampton, Newcastle, they need Leicester to slip up twice, can you

:08:59.:09:03.

see that happening? I think it is unlikely, all of a sudden there is

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just that little bit of doubt, the Jamie Vardy situation, how they will

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cope without him, one, too, maybe three games, and all of a sudden

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that gives birds the impetus to keep going. All they can do is win those

:09:18.:09:21.

games, they have to win them all, I think, if they are going to have a

:09:22.:09:27.

chance. As a Tottenham man, Clive, we mentioned that their retail for

:09:28.:09:31.

Leicester City, it would be a first league title. None since 1961, just

:09:32.:09:39.

as much a fairy tale as Leicester? Absolutely, my father won the double

:09:40.:09:42.

with Spurs in 61 so I grew up listening to how fantastic that team

:09:43.:09:47.

was. Every Spurs team since has tried to live up to that magnificent

:09:48.:09:52.

team. It is an incredible situation they find themselves in. I think it

:09:53.:09:57.

would be the stepping stone for the club to move forward in a big way.

:09:58.:10:02.

We have seen pictures of Harry Kane and Dele Alli's goals last night,

:10:03.:10:06.

those two superb in particular but the team, average age of 24,

:10:07.:10:12.

Pochettino has built up a young, exciting team? He has, the team has

:10:13.:10:19.

the best defensive record, they are young, very athletic, and have

:10:20.:10:24.

scored a lot of goals, so they are getting it right throughout the

:10:25.:10:27.

team. Players are switching positions, Eric Dier is a great

:10:28.:10:33.

example of that and had a fantastic season. It is all coming together

:10:34.:10:37.

well with this group and I just hope, I would love to see them win

:10:38.:10:40.

the Premier League this season. Thanks for joining us, Clive. Clive

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Allen, former Spurs forward who scored 49 goals in one season back

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in 86, 87, before I was born! And increasing war of words amongst

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those who are staying -- who want to stay in the EU and those who want to

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leave. Today it is the turn of the Justice Secretary Michael Gove, one

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of the leading Cabinet campaigners for an exit from the European Union.

:11:16.:11:21.

Norman Smith can tell us more. It is all kicking off, happy

:11:22.:11:26.

families it is not! This campaign has been dominated by acrimony and

:11:27.:11:30.

argy-bargy in the Tory party. Yesterday, George Osborne and his

:11:31.:11:35.

200 page dossier, complete with algebraic equations, warning about

:11:36.:11:39.

the risks of leaving the EU, hitting us in the wallet. Today, we get

:11:40.:11:44.

Michael Gove saying, no, the risk is staying in the EU. He will talk

:11:45.:11:48.

about how, if we stay, it will be like being taken hostage in a car,

:11:49.:11:54.

his words, and driven off to ever closer union. Also he will pick up

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in particular on what he says is an admission in this document that

:11:59.:12:03.

immigration, if we stay in the EU, will keep going up by hundreds of

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thousands every year despite the Government's promised to get it down

:12:08.:12:11.

to the tens of thousands, in other words the Government, of which he is

:12:12.:12:16.

a member, has failed. He will also dismissed the deal that David

:12:17.:12:20.

Cameron managed to negotiate before this whole referendum kicked off,

:12:21.:12:24.

saying it has proved useless in terms of curbing the desire of the

:12:25.:12:29.

EU to take more of our money and more of our power, and then he will

:12:30.:12:36.

go on to say that if we stay we risk losing control over our security

:12:37.:12:38.

services, over prisons policy, asylum policy. This is a very, very

:12:39.:12:47.

broad and intense attack on the Prime Minister and the Chancellor,

:12:48.:12:53.

his colleagues. Michael Gove is friends with both of these men. This

:12:54.:12:57.

morning they had Cabinet, so you wonder what was going on around the

:12:58.:13:01.

Cabinet table as they were all sitting there trying to be polite

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towards each other. I suppose some of the Brexit Cabinet ministers, as

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they went in, we managed to get a few words with them. If Michael Gove

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right that the Remain campaign is treating voters like children? It is

:13:17.:13:21.

a lively debate this morning, the Cabinet meeting is about the rest of

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things in Government. There is a lot of scaremongering going on. Whatever

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Michael said is right, absolutely. Let me give you some of the language

:13:33.:13:36.

which Michael Gove is going to use in his speech today, because that, I

:13:37.:13:42.

think, tells its own story. The way that fellow Tories are talking about

:13:43.:13:47.

each other. Michael Gove will accuse the Prime Minister, in his words, of

:13:48.:13:55.

treating voters like children, to be frightened into obedience, he will

:13:56.:14:00.

say, I conjuring up a new bogeyman every day. And he will also say that

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Mr Cameron and Mr Osborne want voters to believe that Britain is

:14:09.:14:12.

broken and beaten. That is the sort of language he is using, which

:14:13.:14:16.

follows on from Boris Johnson comparing Mr Cameron to Gerald

:14:17.:14:22.

Ratner, we had people accusing Mr Osborne of being part of some sort

:14:23.:14:27.

of conspiracy, it is getting increasingly heated. What tells its

:14:28.:14:31.

own story in a way is even quite mild-mannered polite members of the

:14:32.:14:35.

Tory party are wading into each other. Have a listen to Dominic

:14:36.:14:39.

Grieve, former Attorney General. Normally very, very respectable old

:14:40.:14:46.

Etonian type. This is what he had to say about Michael Gove this morning.

:14:47.:14:51.

He has had a fairly consistent pattern since the start of this

:14:52.:14:54.

referendum campaign with coming out with statements which simply don't

:14:55.:14:57.

bear proper scrutiny. He alleged, for example, that the Prime

:14:58.:15:02.

Minister's Brussels agreement that he secured was not worth the paper

:15:03.:15:06.

it is written on, and no international lawyer has agreed with

:15:07.:15:08.

him. I don't think its own department would agree with him on

:15:09.:15:13.

that. I am always willing to look carefully at what he says, and of

:15:14.:15:16.

course it is absolutely right that in this debate we are having on our

:15:17.:15:20.

future within the EU we should try to look at all sides of the

:15:21.:15:23.

argument, but simplistic statements which are not backed by any credible

:15:24.:15:27.

evidence are not helpful to that discussion.

:15:28.:15:31.

I am left wondering how on earth Mr Cameron puts his party back together

:15:32.:15:37.

again after this referendum, and I guess when they all come out of

:15:38.:15:41.

Cabinet today we will have to be looking for any bruises and woes

:15:42.:15:45.

they might have suffered in the Cabinet room as they got stuck into

:15:46.:15:46.

each other. And the BBC's Reality Check team has

:15:47.:15:48.

been going through the claims made by the Chancellor in more detail

:15:49.:15:53.

on our Reality Check pages. Lots of you getting in touch on

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alopecia after we heard from Victoria and Imogen. A viewer says,

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"Only people who suffers from this complaint can understand the trauma.

:16:19.:16:21.

Doctors are not interested in the mental anguish. I am compelled to

:16:22.:16:26.

wear a hat, even though the disguise fails to take away the shame." Clare

:16:27.:16:32.

says, "I have suffered from alopecia for 14 years. It is a daily struggle

:16:33.:16:36.

to attempt to make my hair look nice. I get disheartened early time

:16:37.:16:42.

I wash my hair and find a new patch. Surely there must be ways of dealing

:16:43.:16:47.

with this." Poppy says, "I had alopecia when I was 32. One little

:16:48.:16:52.

patch. Ended up with no hair at all. I dreaded brushing, combing or

:16:53.:17:00.

washing my people. The stares of people when the wig moved was

:17:01.:17:05.

awful." ." Another viewer says "It is a change that is dramatic and

:17:06.:17:12.

happened quickly." Scott says, "I had alopecia when diagnosed with

:17:13.:17:21.

arthritis, it left a bald patch on my head. My GP told me to use

:17:22.:17:27.

ointment, not only did it clear tup, but it got rid of my grey hairs

:17:28.:17:28.

too." If you have got children you'll

:17:29.:17:32.

appreciate the sense of relief of finding out that your child has

:17:33.:17:35.

got into their first choice school, Well, yesterday, hundreds

:17:36.:17:38.

of thousands of parents across England found out

:17:39.:17:41.

what primary school their children But the likelihood of getting your

:17:42.:17:44.

child into their preferred school varies dramatically

:17:45.:17:48.

across the country. 90% are expected to get

:17:49.:17:55.

their first choice overall, in some areas one in six didn't get

:17:56.:17:59.

any of their choices. London was the worst

:18:00.:18:04.

affected region. In the Borough of Kensington

:18:05.:18:07.

and Chelsea just 69% of families got Just under 79% of children

:18:08.:18:10.

were offered their first Whereas in Redcar 98%

:18:11.:18:17.

got their first choice. A national average for England

:18:18.:18:20.

will not be available Joining me now is our education

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correspondent Sean Coughlan. Sean, we hear about this every year

:18:23.:18:32.

when the school places get allocated. Is it a changing picture?

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Is the situation getting worse? Well, I suppose the story behind the

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story is the rising population. And as there are more young people,

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there is more pressure on places. We often hear the long lists of

:18:45.:18:47.

percentages. In fact, every one of these is a family with a big story

:18:48.:18:51.

and there is a lot of anxiety in every family waiting for the

:18:52.:18:54.

results. In some parts of the country, it is a real, real problem.

:18:55.:18:58.

In some ways, it is a local story, but it is a national political

:18:59.:19:03.

argument. Should we spend more on just putting up more buildings and

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should we spend more on prioritising certain types of buildings, and

:19:08.:19:10.

certain types of school? The Labour Party criticised the Government for

:19:11.:19:14.

focussing on free schools, they say rather than just building schools

:19:15.:19:19.

where councils want them, they are building schools which are driven by

:19:20.:19:22.

political agenda. The Government rejects that and says we are

:19:23.:19:25.

building lots and lots of schools everywhere and we are keeping up

:19:26.:19:28.

with demand, but it is a race, there is lots more young people looking

:19:29.:19:36.

for places and there are a finite number of building spaces and

:19:37.:19:37.

schools can only expand so much. We can talk to some parents

:19:38.:19:40.

and teachers, and to Samantha Hale, who is a solicitor who helps

:19:41.:19:44.

parents appeal decisions. I want to go to Dawn Foster, Dawn,

:19:45.:19:57.

you did not get your son into the school that you wanted. Tell us what

:19:58.:20:01.

happened. We had three choices for my son this year and unfortunately,

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we were unsuccessful with each one of those choices so we have been

:20:07.:20:09.

awarded an alternative school for him. Where is the alternative

:20:10.:20:12.

school? Is it far away from where you are? It is about three miles

:20:13.:20:16.

from where we are at the minute, yes. But it is in the opposite

:20:17.:20:21.

direction to which we travel for my other son's nursery and school.

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So how do you feel about that? It's very, very it is appointing, I mean

:20:27.:20:30.

we went through it last year with my older son and it is upsetting, it is

:20:31.:20:35.

very, very stressful. And it is not a nice thing to go through. What

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will you do? Will you take what you have been offered or will you try to

:20:40.:20:43.

appeal it? We will try to appeal the decision, but we did go through the

:20:44.:20:47.

appeals process last year and it is harrowing and unfortunately last

:20:48.:20:51.

year, we were unsuccessful so we will go through the appeal process,

:20:52.:20:57.

but we are prepared if our appeals are unsuccessful again. Ed, I know

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you have been through it. Tell us what happened with you? Well,

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fortunately, I was successful in applying, but in my case, I was

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applying for my second son so he qualified under a sibling rule which

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will generally get priority over first-born children. What was it

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like the first time around? First time, it was much more stressful. We

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live in London and in many areas, in many, many schools, you need to live

:21:32.:21:34.

incredibly close to the school in order to stand a good chance of

:21:35.:21:42.

getting in. In fact, I mean, one of the issues is actually knowing in

:21:43.:21:48.

advance working out your chances of actually get a place at the school.

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It varies a lot from school to school and from local authority to

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local authority, different schools use different admission criteria to

:21:57.:22:01.

work out how places will be allocated. And partly as a result of

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going through the exercise of my own research into this, I ended

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upsetting up a website to try and help other parents better understand

:22:15.:22:20.

school admissions. So I have spent a lot of time looking into this. And

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trying to help other people. Let's talk to Caroline Williams, you are

:22:25.:22:27.

an ex-deputy head. You actually gave up last year. That job to look after

:22:28.:22:34.

your children. Your daughter has got into your first choice school. Was

:22:35.:22:38.

the fact that you knew the system helpful? In a way, it was helpful.

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We are very fortunate that we live in sort of quite a small village and

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my daughter has got into the local village school and of course, when

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the letter came through initially to give the allocated school, it was my

:22:53.:22:55.

local school, but of course, the letter does state that you are not

:22:56.:22:58.

guaranteed to get that place. I know in the past though with the school

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that my daughter has got into, because there is a sibling rule,

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that for a class of 30, there were 29 siblings. So in the village, some

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parents didn't get their children in, but fortunately, we have done

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this year. So in a year like that, when there are that many siblings

:23:16.:23:19.

and one place for non sibling, what hope is there for anybody who is

:23:20.:23:26.

obviously not going to qualify? Well, not a lot which is one of the

:23:27.:23:30.

reasons why parents need to know that they should look around and

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they should look at other schools and go into those schools because,

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you know, it is never ever guaranteed. We got the e-mail

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through at quarter past midnight and I hadn't realised how worried I was

:23:43.:23:46.

until I got the news and you know, I was very, very happy, but that's the

:23:47.:23:49.

importance of looking around other schools as well just in case you

:23:50.:23:53.

don't get that choice. Samantha, you are a solicitor that helps parents

:23:54.:24:00.

appeal against deses. That was a -- decisions. That was a stark example,

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where it was 99% siblings, if you don't get your child into a school

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and the fact is the other places are taken up, what hope can you give to

:24:09.:24:11.

a parent because the school can't magic up a place, can it? No, the

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difficulty is that there is a huge demand on school places as we've

:24:17.:24:19.

already heard and if a parent hasn't been successful in getting one of

:24:20.:24:22.

their preferences the only route that they can try is an appeal to

:24:23.:24:26.

the independent appeal panel. Now, that stacks show that there is a bit

:24:27.:24:33.

of a postcode Lottery depending on where peoplely and depending on what

:24:34.:24:37.

chances they might have with appeal. We would encourage parents to try

:24:38.:24:42.

the appeal route because if you have a particular preference to try and

:24:43.:24:46.

get a place. How does a school manage it, Lynn? You are a

:24:47.:24:51.

headteacher of a primary school in Oxford, rated outstanding by Ofsted.

:24:52.:24:55.

If a school has given out its places and someone comes through and

:24:56.:24:59.

appeals, and is successful, how can a school accommodate what happens?

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Largely because of the threshold of 30 in a class, most of the appeals

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don't go through, if they go through the local authority, all of our

:25:08.:25:10.

places because we are still a local authority school get allocated via

:25:11.:25:13.

the local authority. So we are not dealing directly with our own

:25:14.:25:17.

admissions. If parents choose to go to appeal then it is down to this

:25:18.:25:20.

independent authority and because we are legally not able to go over 30,

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actually there is very little that people can do. There was one

:25:25.:25:28.

instance where the local authority made an error and we got 31

:25:29.:25:33.

children, we take 90, so we are a big school, but in that instance,

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there is a loophole in the law which says that as long as you don't go

:25:37.:25:42.

over your 30 in a class for a year, then actually, you don't need to

:25:43.:25:47.

appoint a new teacher. So we were able to rely on somebody leaving and

:25:48.:25:55.

that place becoming safe. To go back too that statistical reality, what

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makes a successful appeal? Well, there is certain criteria that the

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panel would be considering. They would be considering whether infant

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class size is an inIrish you. Presumably the places have been

:26:07.:26:09.

allocated if kids are being turned away? They should have been. That's

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one thing they will be taking into consideration, there is two-ways

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which primary appeals can be dealt with. They can be dealt with infant

:26:17.:26:20.

class size appeals and that's where the published admissions number

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breaks down so it is 30 per class, but some schools will work that they

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won't have 30 per class and their published admissions number will be

:26:29.:26:31.

25. So they might not have to actually deal with the issues of the

:26:32.:26:35.

infant class size prejudice. So that's something they will take into

:26:36.:26:37.

consideration. They will also have to look at whether or not the

:26:38.:26:41.

schools admission arrangements are lawful. Whether or not they have

:26:42.:26:46.

been applied correctly in the individual's kasz and if they

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haven't, if it would have actually led to the place being offered. Then

:26:50.:26:53.

the other thing they can take into consideration is whether or not

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another admission authority would have reasonably refuse that had

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application as well. So as long as you are able to show that one of

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those is applicable then you have a potential chance of success at

:27:07.:27:09.

appeal. How much are parents spending on something like that? It

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depends on the individual cases and it depends how much assistance they

:27:14.:27:17.

want with it. It is not cheap? It depends. We can offer support to

:27:18.:27:22.

help parents with basic advice, if they just want to come in and have a

:27:23.:27:25.

little bit of advice with a solicitor or we can help them with a

:27:26.:27:29.

full appeals package, but we also have a full and comprehensive

:27:30.:27:33.

admissions pack on our website that gives lots of free advice so if

:27:34.:27:37.

parents want to go through this process by themselves, they can do

:27:38.:27:41.

and they don't have to have legal representation, but we would

:27:42.:27:46.

encourage it. Paul says, "It is important you don't perpetuate the

:27:47.:27:49.

myth that parents have a choice, they don't. As an admissions panel

:27:50.:27:58.

chair I see many people coming thinking the panel can help them.

:27:59.:28:03.

They can go away disappointed." Another viewer, "My daughter has

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been given a place a 30 minutes walk away." Sorry Nicky Morgan and

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Michael Gove, your plans are flawed. Caroline, you were talking about

:28:20.:28:22.

there about the importance of parents being aware of the choices,

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but parents do get very, look into it carefully and pick the school

:28:29.:28:33.

they want and then really put a lot by their hopes of actually getting

:28:34.:28:37.

into that school, particularly if they are looking at things like

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Ofsted ratings and league tables? Yeah. Obviously, Ofsted ratings and

:28:42.:28:48.

league tables are important. But I would strongly say for people to go

:28:49.:28:52.

in to look at a school. There has been a lot in the news about weaker

:28:53.:28:56.

schools in more deprived areas for want of a better expression. And I

:28:57.:29:01.

think, judging by league tables and Ofsted, you can't do that. You have

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to go into these schools to see what is happening in there because the

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talk of sending super teachers into weaker schools, it is ridiculous in

:29:11.:29:15.

my experience. Schools are full of super teachers. Every teacher is a

:29:16.:29:21.

super teacher. I could go on about this, but you know, talking about

:29:22.:29:28.

going into a school, that is Ofsted good or less, you might have

:29:29.:29:32.

children in there who don't speak English, you know, a teacher going

:29:33.:29:37.

into a class where 97% of the children don't speak English, it is

:29:38.:29:40.

difficult to get those children to reach the same levels as a school

:29:41.:29:45.

where the children enter a school with full understanding of English

:29:46.:29:49.

gral arand spoken English, if we look at league tables and Ofsted

:29:50.:29:52.

reports, they are based on the results. Whereas if you go into a

:29:53.:29:56.

school and see what goes on in the schools and see the care and the

:29:57.:30:00.

attention and the social education that children get, I think parents

:30:01.:30:04.

would actually get a very different view as to some of these schools.

:30:05.:30:09.

Ed, going back to that e-mail from Paul talking about a myth that

:30:10.:30:12.

parents have a choice. Do you think parents do really have a choice? It

:30:13.:30:17.

depends entirely on where you live. In some areas, it depends on whether

:30:18.:30:22.

the schools are at capacity in large chunks of London, you have little

:30:23.:30:25.

choice. There is lots of schools around you, but you can't get into

:30:26.:30:29.

them. Most, a high proportion of schools in primary schools in London

:30:30.:30:33.

are now over subscribed, much higher than the national average. And it

:30:34.:30:40.

means that you need to live either very close or meet particular faith

:30:41.:30:45.

criteria in order to get into a particular school, but in effect,

:30:46.:30:48.

what ends up happening is that you end up going back to the old regime

:30:49.:30:51.

which is you go to your local school, if you don't get into your

:30:52.:30:55.

local school then you are in trouble because you don't get into the next

:30:56.:31:00.

nearest school, you end up being shipped half-way across the borough

:31:01.:31:03.

to go to a different school. This isn't just London, it is happening

:31:04.:31:07.

in a lot of other places around the country. Thank you all. Thank you

:31:08.:31:10.

for your thoughts on that and thank you for getting in touch and letting

:31:11.:31:13.

us know what you think about it as well.

:31:14.:31:16.

Still to come: Myron Yarde was a 17-year-old music student

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and grime artist who was killed on the streets of London

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His sister tells us she worried about him constantly.

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Scientists say that a combination of two different drugs can help

:31:25.:31:27.

dramatically in the fight against skin cancer.

:31:28.:31:31.

We'll be speaking to the medical director

:31:32.:31:33.

of the Royal Marsden Hospital, where part of the trial was carried

:31:34.:31:39.

out, and to a skin cancer patient and an expert from

:31:40.:31:42.

The Justice Secretary, Michael Gove, will argue that leaving

:31:43.:32:01.

the EU would be an act of patriotic renewal, with long-term

:32:02.:32:04.

In a speech this morning, Mr Gove will attack claims

:32:05.:32:07.

made by the Remain side, accusing them of treating

:32:08.:32:09.

Yesterday a report by the Treasury said that leaving the EU would cost

:32:10.:32:14.

every UK household ?4300 a year by 2030.

:32:15.:32:18.

We would have a relationship of free trade and friendly cooperation.

:32:19.:32:22.

We would be able to demonstrate that democratic self-government,

:32:23.:32:27.

the model of government we have had in the past and other

:32:28.:32:35.

countries like Australia and Canada use to their advantage,

:32:36.:32:40.

can be deployed by us in order to spend money on our priorities

:32:41.:32:43.

and in order to negotiate new trade deals with other countries.

:32:44.:32:46.

And we're expecting Michael Gove to deliver that speech in an hour

:32:47.:32:49.

at 11.30am and we'll be taking that live on the BBC News channel.

:32:50.:32:52.

A man in his 30s has been arrested over the murder of a schoolboy

:32:53.:32:55.

in Peterborough more than 20 years ago.

:32:56.:32:57.

Six-year-old Rikki Neave was found strangled near his home, and his

:32:58.:33:00.

She was found not guilty by a jury and has campaigned for his murder

:33:01.:33:04.

Police in Afghanistan say that more than two dozen people,

:33:05.:33:08.

most of them civilians, have been killed in

:33:09.:33:10.

The suicide bomber and a gunman, who was shot dead by security forces

:33:11.:33:24.

targeted a building used by the country's special protection

:33:25.:33:27.

unit, which guards senior politicians.

:33:28.:33:28.

The Taliban has claimed responsibility.

:33:29.:33:29.

The scale of sexual violence and intimidation in schools is to be

:33:30.:33:32.

The Women and Equalities Committee commissioned research

:33:33.:33:35.

before the investigation, which suggested that many

:33:36.:33:37.

assaults went unreported, and sex education was failing

:33:38.:33:38.

to tackle a culture in which boys felt entitled to inappropriate

:33:39.:33:41.

The number of people known to have died in the earthquake which struck

:33:42.:33:58.

a good on Saturday has risen to 413. Rescue teams searching through the

:33:59.:34:00.

rubble of collapsed buildings have pulled out a number of survivors.

:34:01.:34:03.

This man was trapped under the rubble of a hotel where he worked

:34:04.:34:07.

and managed to call a relative on his mobile phone.

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That's a summary of the latest news, join me for BBC

:34:12.:34:14.

Here's Will Perry now with this morning's sport headlines.

:34:15.:34:20.

Tottenham are right on Leicester City's tails

:34:21.:34:26.

in the title race after a 4-0 win at Stoke in the Premier League

:34:27.:34:30.

Harry Kane and Dele Alli both scored twice

:34:31.:34:33.

at the Britannia Stadium as Spurs closed the gap on Leicester to five

:34:34.:34:36.

Leicester's top scorer Jamie Vardy could well see his his initial one

:34:37.:34:40.

game ban for a red card extended after being charged

:34:41.:34:42.

Vardy remonstrated with referee Jon Moss after he was dismissed

:34:43.:34:46.

with two yellows in Sunday's draw with West Ham.

:34:47.:34:54.

Captain Vincent Kompany and Raheem Sterling

:34:55.:34:56.

are poised to return for Manchester City in tonight's

:34:57.:34:58.

Kompany has had a month on the sidelines with a calf injury.

:34:59.:35:02.

Sterling has missed five games with a groin injury.

:35:03.:35:04.

Ronnie O'Sullivan faces disciplinary action from snooker's

:35:05.:35:06.

world governing body following his World

:35:07.:35:08.

The five-time champion beat Dave Gilbert to reach the second

:35:09.:35:11.

round, but he refused to attend the obligatory post-match press

:35:12.:35:14.

I will have more sport on the BBC News Channel throughout the day.

:35:15.:35:34.

You may have heard about the 17-year-old up-and-coming

:35:35.:35:37.

musician Myron Isaac Yarde, who a couple of weeks back

:35:38.:35:39.

was stabbed and killed after a fight broke out among a group of young

:35:40.:35:43.

Earlier today I spoke to his sister, Chantelle Gray.

:35:44.:35:46.

She was his legal guardian after their mum died from cancer

:35:47.:35:49.

This is her first public interview since her brother's passing.

:35:50.:35:53.

I just feel that all the positive talk about Myron as a person,

:35:54.:36:00.

especially the fact that my mum is not around, I was his Guardian, I

:36:01.:36:09.

just wanted to let people know what sort of person he was, from the

:36:10.:36:16.

response of the public and everything, friends, family, how

:36:17.:36:20.

they spoke of Myron was true to who he was. He was such a lovely

:36:21.:36:26.

brother, and, like said, he was like a son to me, it is a great loss to

:36:27.:36:32.

us as a family. Like a son to you because you were 19 when he was born

:36:33.:36:37.

and you chose his name, didn't you? It was almost like you were a mother

:36:38.:36:43.

to him from the moment he arrived? Yes, he used to come to my house

:36:44.:36:53.

when I was married, I used to take into church, on holidays. He was

:36:54.:37:05.

just... Part of me, we had a special bond, a very special bond. What was

:37:06.:37:11.

he like? He was quite sarcastic at times. He was very friendly, loved

:37:12.:37:21.

by the community. He was always smiling, never upset, even when our

:37:22.:37:27.

mum passed away, he went to school the next day. I told him he didn't

:37:28.:37:31.

have to go to school but he still wanted to go. He finished his exams,

:37:32.:37:37.

he was very popular at school, I used to go to his parents evenings

:37:38.:37:43.

and they would always say good things about him. He started to go

:37:44.:37:49.

to college to do music, I went with him to enrol and it was quite far so

:37:50.:37:55.

I wanted to see what his journey would be like, so I had a picture in

:37:56.:38:01.

my mind where he was going. He was doing really, really well. If he

:38:02.:38:10.

enjoyed something, he would stick at it. When he was younger he used to

:38:11.:38:17.

skateboard and then roller-skate, and once he had a passion for

:38:18.:38:20.

something he would just continuously do that, and that is what happened

:38:21.:38:27.

with the music as well. He volunteered in the youth centre

:38:28.:38:34.

three days a week. No one was allowed in the studio unless he was

:38:35.:38:40.

there. The youth club, all the youth workers there, they always had good

:38:41.:38:46.

things to say about him. A talented boy, a boy described by those who

:38:47.:38:50.

knew him, including his teachers, as someone who was positive, smiley,

:38:51.:38:59.

and had this talent. Growing up in quite a, is it better say, difficult

:39:00.:39:06.

environment? I grew up there as well, and parts of it is quite a

:39:07.:39:12.

close-knit community, everyone knows each other, but there are parts of

:39:13.:39:21.

it when people get into trouble, because of the local schools. How

:39:22.:39:31.

did he navigate that? Through doing activities like the skateboarding,

:39:32.:39:34.

roller-skating, being given the studio, it kept him away from that

:39:35.:39:46.

sort of way of life. That evening, when he went out, he was part of a

:39:47.:39:54.

group, and he was stabbed. Friends of his previously had been stabbed.

:39:55.:39:58.

Were knives something you were very aware of? I constantly worried, even

:39:59.:40:06.

when he used to go, as a mother you would worry about your child, when

:40:07.:40:11.

he used to go roller-skating and he would go to Stratford and I would

:40:12.:40:19.

sit there at night worrying, thinking, anything could happen

:40:20.:40:23.

anywhere, but I would talk to him about knives, what you should do if

:40:24.:40:28.

someone gets stabbed, if one of your friends got stabbed, to not pulled a

:40:29.:40:32.

knife out, you must leave it in, just trying to show basic first aid,

:40:33.:40:43.

and just to be aware of the dangers of it, and constantly checking up on

:40:44.:40:49.

him to make sure that he's not getting involved in any of those

:40:50.:40:53.

things. You are obviously very proud of the talent that he had but you

:40:54.:41:01.

feel a slight reticence, I suppose, about the music, is it fair to say,

:41:02.:41:05.

because of the sort of image that is portrayed in some of that music,

:41:06.:41:09.

that maybe isn't reflective of the person that you knew? A lot of the

:41:10.:41:16.

time it is like that with a lot of the teenagers, how they are

:41:17.:41:21.

reflected in the music is not personally how they are and it is

:41:22.:41:27.

just, to them, entertainment, just like in the music industry, the same

:41:28.:41:35.

thing, you know? Unless you know someone properly, know who they are

:41:36.:41:43.

as a person. He was somebody with a talent, as we have said. What were

:41:44.:41:47.

your hopes for him, what were his hopes? His hope was to become a

:41:48.:41:57.

star, make it big in music. My hope for him was to maybe go down a

:41:58.:42:03.

different path, they're all different types of music that you

:42:04.:42:09.

can get involved in, like film production, adverts, things like

:42:10.:42:16.

that. I just wanted him to do something a little bit different.

:42:17.:42:22.

And I know that you want to help other families who find themselves

:42:23.:42:27.

in a similar situation to the one that you are in, and also obviously

:42:28.:42:31.

want to try to help ensure that other families don't find themselves

:42:32.:42:35.

in this situation. What would you want his legacy to be? With the Go

:42:36.:42:46.

Fund Me, it was really overwhelming and hard for me to look at, because

:42:47.:42:49.

he set one up for his friend who passed away, and he sent me the

:42:50.:42:56.

link. What happened to his friend? His friend was stabbed as well. He

:42:57.:43:00.

moved away from the area and was stabbed in another area. He was very

:43:01.:43:10.

much like that, he was touched by and very taken by what had happened

:43:11.:43:14.

to his friend, so he wanted to do something to help their family. So

:43:15.:43:20.

he set up a Go Fund Me and sent out the link, and when this happened to

:43:21.:43:28.

my brother it was very hard for me to even look at the website, but

:43:29.:43:35.

then I'm seeing how much people responded, showing their sympathy,

:43:36.:43:39.

and it was just so amazing and overwhelming. But I couldn't believe

:43:40.:43:47.

that now my brother was on one of these things for the same reason, it

:43:48.:43:53.

is just totally heartbreaking. Chantal Gray talking to me about the

:43:54.:43:57.

death of her brother, Myron. Lots of you are getting in touch my

:43:58.:44:01.

conversation we had early-onset shawl harassment in schools, and

:44:02.:44:04.

sexual attitudes among young people in schools -- sexual harassment.

:44:05.:44:13.

How about talking about respect, reducing the focus on the sexual

:44:14.:44:19.

side and widening the topic to a broader topic of respect to

:44:20.:44:21.

everyone. Another says, it is not just boys

:44:22.:44:26.

that are rascals and it is not a the nominal. At primary school we were

:44:27.:44:30.

frequently sexually teased by older girls. Unless you recognise that

:44:31.:44:34.

sexual activity is a two-way arrangement and that both genders

:44:35.:44:38.

are immersed in a cultural environment that promote and

:44:39.:44:40.

celebrate sexual promiscuity, you will never stop the rot.

:44:41.:44:44.

A former teacher has texting to say, parents must take responsibility for

:44:45.:44:48.

children's digital harassment of other children and staff. Parents by

:44:49.:44:54.

these devices and pay the bills, they must supervise use of these

:44:55.:44:58.

items and confiscate them indefinitely if misused.

:44:59.:45:01.

Thank you for those comments, keep them coming in.

:45:02.:45:05.

An injunction banning the media in England and Wales from reporting

:45:06.:45:07.

the identity of a married celebrity who allegedly took part

:45:08.:45:10.

in a threesome has been lifted but Supreme Court judges

:45:11.:45:12.

are currently considering whether to allow an appeal.

:45:13.:45:14.

Our legal eagle Clive Coleman is here.

:45:15.:45:23.

Bring us up-to-date. What we had yesterday was the Court of Appeal

:45:24.:45:29.

lifting this injunction, the injunction was originally imposed in

:45:30.:45:33.

January. At that time relatively few people knew the detail and the

:45:34.:45:36.

identity of the celebrity concerned. Yesterday, the Court of Appeal said

:45:37.:45:40.

that the injunction had held for 11 weeks, but in the last two weeks,

:45:41.:45:45.

because of publication abroad and in an American newspaper and

:45:46.:45:49.

publication online, the information had been very widely brought to

:45:50.:45:51.

light and put into the public domain. So they lifted this

:45:52.:45:57.

injunction, but they kept it in place for a further two day to say

:45:58.:46:00.

give the celebrity the opportunity to go to the Supreme Court, they had

:46:01.:46:05.

to lodge papers, by 10am this morning, that we have been told has

:46:06.:46:11.

been done and we are told by the end of the day, three Supreme Court

:46:12.:46:15.

justices will decide whether to give leave to appeal or refuse that. If

:46:16.:46:21.

they give leave to appeal, the injunction remains in place. If they

:46:22.:46:25.

refuse leave to appeal, the injunction will be lifted at 1pm

:46:26.:46:30.

tomorrow. If they refuse then really the greyhounds will be in the blocks

:46:31.:46:33.

in terms of the mainstream media and they will be able to publish as from

:46:34.:46:38.

1pm tomorrow, without fearing contempt of court. They could

:46:39.:46:43.

however, still be sued for breach of privacy. That would be a money

:46:44.:46:48.

claim, but they wouldn't face the much more dangerous sanction of

:46:49.:46:51.

contempt of court. So that's where we are.

:46:52.:46:52.

Thank you very much, Clive. Up to 500 migrants are feared

:46:53.:46:57.

to have drowned after their boat Survivors told the BBC the accident

:46:58.:47:00.

happened when two hundred people were transferred onto an already

:47:01.:47:04.

crowded boat at sea. 41 people were rescued and are being

:47:05.:47:07.

held in Kalamata in Greece. Our correspondent Will Ross

:47:08.:47:10.

is there, and sent this report. This is the idyllic town of Kalamata

:47:11.:47:20.

and the port behind me, that's where the 41 survivors

:47:21.:47:23.

of this latest disaster to the boat which then carried

:47:24.:47:25.

on with its journey with the Libyan Led left Libya on a boat, 240 of

:47:26.:47:46.

them and then the Libyan trafficker forced them to move on a larger

:47:47.:47:51.

boat, that boat that had 300 people on board. This it capsized and 500

:47:52.:47:58.

people drowned. The survivors headed on further across the Mediterranean

:47:59.:48:02.

until the engine broke down. They were rescued on a cargo vessel and

:48:03.:48:06.

brought ashore here. Now, what's very clear, is that there are

:48:07.:48:10.

thousands more who are still in Libya, who are willing to make the

:48:11.:48:14.

extraordinary journeys and take these risks and put their faith into

:48:15.:48:18.

the trafficking gangs who are only interested in money, despite the

:48:19.:48:22.

extraordinary risks. But if confirmed, this could be one of the

:48:23.:48:26.

worst ever tragedies at sea since this entire migrant crisis began.

:48:27.:48:29.

Sarah Tyler is from Save the Children.

:48:30.:48:33.

Sarah, what's your experience on how many migrants are still trying to

:48:34.:48:42.

make these crossings? The latest reports are that about 24,000 have

:48:43.:48:47.

come over alone this year and of those numbers 4,000 are children

:48:48.:48:50.

actually travelling alone. So we are really concerned as the weather

:48:51.:48:54.

improves, we will see more men, women and children trying to make

:48:55.:48:58.

this journey across to Italy. This is one of the most treacherous

:48:59.:49:03.

journeys in the world and unfortunately, lives will be lost if

:49:04.:49:07.

we do not invest in search and rescue. Changes have been made in

:49:08.:49:12.

policy in the way migrants are handled in European countries to try

:49:13.:49:16.

to limit the numbers who are trying to come to Europe via those routes

:49:17.:49:24.

which are obviously very dangerous. Are the numbers reducing? The

:49:25.:49:28.

numbers are not reducing and what we're seeing is that children are

:49:29.:49:32.

telling us that despite the borders closing, they have no choice, but to

:49:33.:49:38.

tray and make the journey. So children will become more desperate

:49:39.:49:46.

and they will be taking more desperate measures. I was here last

:49:47.:49:53.

year during the shipwreck where 800 people died and only four children

:49:54.:49:58.

survived and that was absolutely heartbreaking for all our agencies

:49:59.:50:03.

that were on the ground and it is, we are very upset that this has

:50:04.:50:07.

happened again and that's why search and rescue missions have to

:50:08.:50:12.

continue. Sarah Tyler from Save The Children,

:50:13.:50:13.

thank you very much. Research suggests a new combination

:50:14.:50:17.

of drugs can destroy the deadliest form of skin cancer

:50:18.:50:21.

even when the disease In a ground-breaking trial people

:50:22.:50:23.

diagnosed with advanced melanoma were treated with a combination

:50:24.:50:28.

of two immunotherapy drugs and two thirds of them survived

:50:29.:50:30.

for at least two years. With me here in the studio

:50:31.:50:35.

are consultant oncologist Professor Martin Gore

:50:36.:50:37.

who ran part of the trial at the Royal Marsden Hospital

:50:38.:50:39.

in London and Dr Aine McCarthy from Cancer Research UK

:50:40.:50:43.

and Jodie Beech was diagnosed with skin cancer in August

:50:44.:50:46.

2014 at the age of 44. She's talking to use

:50:47.:50:48.

from home in Cambridgeshire. Thank you very much for joining us.

:50:49.:51:01.

Professor Martin Gore tell us about the research and how significant you

:51:02.:51:05.

think it could be? Well, had is part of a very exciting on going piece of

:51:06.:51:10.

research that involves two classes of drugs that alter the body's

:51:11.:51:15.

immunity to cancer and putting these two drugs together has made really

:51:16.:51:20.

quite a difference compared to giving the drugs separately. This is

:51:21.:51:28.

a step forward on the road to the therapies being developed. The

:51:29.:51:32.

results when you compare to where we were say ten years ago are really

:51:33.:51:37.

very exciting indeed. So say just ten years ago, 20% of patients with

:51:38.:51:43.

meld nom that spread to internal organs would be alive two years and

:51:44.:51:47.

in this trial, we've got over two-thirds of patients alive at two

:51:48.:51:52.

years. So this is really a very big step forward that we're taking. If

:51:53.:51:55.

this is a combination of two existing drugs and the research is

:51:56.:51:59.

indicating it is working, is it going to be quite easy to roll out?

:52:00.:52:04.

Well, it's already being rolled out as separate drugs. Both of which are

:52:05.:52:10.

very effective in melanoma and there have been trials of giving the drugs

:52:11.:52:15.

sequentially as well as together. The problem with giving the two

:52:16.:52:18.

drugs together is that it can be quite toxic and indeed, about a

:52:19.:52:23.

third of patients are unable to complete treatment because of

:52:24.:52:27.

toxicity even though they gain benefit. What would the impact be of

:52:28.:52:33.

that? I think the impact really is about learning how to handle the

:52:34.:52:39.

side-effects better. What would the side-effects be on patients who are

:52:40.:52:42.

not able to continue with the treatment? The problem is the

:52:43.:52:46.

side-effects relate to how the drug works and in the same way as the

:52:47.:52:52.

drug makes your immune system see the cancer cells as foreign, there

:52:53.:52:55.

is a danger that you also stimulate the immune system to see your organs

:52:56.:53:02.

as foreign so you can get inflammation of lungs, liver, colon,

:53:03.:53:05.

for instance, it can have effects on the hormone system. We have good

:53:06.:53:10.

ways of controlling this and indeed, there is some evidence that if you

:53:11.:53:13.

get those sorts of side-effects you do better than if you get no

:53:14.:53:18.

side-effects at all. So this is really a step on the journey. This

:53:19.:53:23.

is an extraordinarily fast journey in the last five years because these

:53:24.:53:27.

drugs have been developed really very, very quickly. The good news

:53:28.:53:31.

for patients is that these drugs are separately recognised for use in the

:53:32.:53:37.

NHS. And we now need to work on the data to show whether or not it is

:53:38.:53:44.

cost effective to give together. Aine, Martin talking about how fast

:53:45.:53:49.

the journey has been in changing the way skin cancer is being treated.

:53:50.:53:52.

Tell us about your prospective on that from the work you do with the

:53:53.:53:57.

charity? We know that survival rates from melanoma have more than double

:53:58.:54:00.

over the last 40 years and research has been at the heart of this

:54:01.:54:04.

progress. We now have more drugs, we've got targeted therapies that go

:54:05.:54:09.

after specific faults in the DNA and we have immune owe therapy drugs, so

:54:10.:54:13.

we have more weapons in the arsenal to fight this disease, but what

:54:14.:54:20.

Cancer Research UK is doing, we know melanoma can be easily treated if

:54:21.:54:24.

caught at the early stables, but once it spreads to other parts of

:54:25.:54:27.

the body, it becomes more difficult to treat. So we have researchers

:54:28.:54:30.

that are are trying to understand the spread and to see if we can stop

:54:31.:54:35.

it. Let's bring in Jodie. You had skin cancer. Tell us what happened

:54:36.:54:39.

with you. Were you able to spot it easily? Mine was on my left calf and

:54:40.:54:46.

it was a mole that had been with me all my life and I was, I didn't

:54:47.:54:53.

think it was anything to worry about. I went to the doctor's and

:54:54.:55:02.

was referred to someone else and then to the hospital where they

:55:03.:55:08.

diagnosed it. What had happened to it that made concern arise that led

:55:09.:55:13.

to getting it checked out? The shape TV had changed. It just looked like

:55:14.:55:17.

a freckle to begin with it and it just expanded and then the shape of

:55:18.:55:21.

it changed and some darker spots in it and just things like that. You

:55:22.:55:25.

know, you never think it would happen to you and I was like oh no,

:55:26.:55:30.

it is nothing to worry about, but obviously it was. Martin, what is it

:55:31.:55:36.

that leads to a change in an existing mole? On her calf, you

:55:37.:55:43.

wouldn't think in an area that's expose add the time to sunshine? The

:55:44.:55:49.

seeds of melanoma develop with behaviours quite early in life. In

:55:50.:55:56.

fact, the really dangerous period is in children and in childhood and in

:55:57.:56:03.

adolescence, getting sun burnt and for some reason, the exposure to

:56:04.:56:09.

sunlight as a child and as a teenager is particularly damaging

:56:10.:56:13.

later in life because melanoma is very rare in children and there is

:56:14.:56:19.

something about that process of DNA damage from sunlight early in

:56:20.:56:24.

childhood, that causes melanoma later on. Jodie, were you told why

:56:25.:56:32.

potentially that mole did become cancerous for you? No. No, not at

:56:33.:56:39.

all. It just changed quite soon really. It just started, but as you

:56:40.:56:45.

get older, your skin changes anyway, and I thought that was something to

:56:46.:56:48.

do with it, and I'm not particularly a moly person or anything like that.

:56:49.:56:53.

I was just surprised it was cancer really because I didn't, when I

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looked at it, I didn't think there was really a problem with it. It did

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surprise me. Because of your experiences, it is something you

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have become much more aware of. Do you tell friends and family about

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what you think about the best way for people to protect themselves?

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Yeah, I would never ever go on a sunbed. I have been on a few times

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previously, but I'd never go on one now. When we went on holiday last

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year, it was like factor 50 and sitting in the shade and all that,

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and people don't think you can enjoy yourself unless you are really brown

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and sitting in the sun, but you know, you can have just as much fun

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being covered up and being much more sensible because that's the safest

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option. So you know, I value my life more than a suntan. That's how I see

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it now. Jodie, Aine and Martin, thank you

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very much for joining us. I wanted to bring you some comments on the

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school choices system that we were talking about earlier. Primary

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school places announced yesterday and lots of parents not getting

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their first choice. Alan, "This school choice nonsense should be

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stopped. All children should go to the school nearest their home."

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Bernadette on e-mail, "My grandson didn't get into his first choice

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primary. He is in Year 6 and it is having a knock on effect on his

:58:17.:58:22.

secondary school." Thank you for getting in touch with. Today.

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