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their grasp. New Zealand beat them 20`18. I'll be back at ten. Now on

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BBC News, it's time for Our World. China, the middle kingdom. It's both

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the Asian superpower and the world's biggest economy. But this country is

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running low on a vital commodity. Women. Too many men here. Too few

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girls. Decades of sex selective abortions have led to a dramatic

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gender imbalance. If they can tell it is not a boy early enough, they

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will abort the foetus. And by the end of the the decade, China will

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have 24 million more males than females. This is a country where it

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is increasingly unlikely that millions of of bachelors will ever

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get married. The richest men are hiring professionals to hunt girls

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down. But how does the average Chinese man go about finding the

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right one? There is every chance she never even existed in the first

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place. Love is all around for this couple.

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And this one. And this one. It might look a bit like the nuptial conveyor

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belt, but for many young Chinese, a wedding like this is an unattainable

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dream. Blue Melody Manor Park is a little corner of the South of France

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in the suburbs of Beijing. After this ceremony, the bride will change

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out of the white wedding dress into a traditional Chinese one for the

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banquet. Increasingly, brides and their families expect nothing less

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than an expensive spectacle like this. China's economic rise has

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lifted millions out of poverty, but the the boom has also put marriage

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beyond some men's reach. In the old days, everybody expected to get

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hitched. China, where, in the interests of the economy, weddings

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take place en masse. The brides wear inexpensive gowns of a simple

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material. And later, in the early days of the People's Republic,

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weddings were also modest. As were the groom's presents. Brides require

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the three rounds, a watch, a sewing machine and a bicycle. Then it was a

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fridge, TV and and a washing machine. Now, a car, salary and real

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estate. What about love? Not a priority if you listen to the

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marriage expert at the state`sponsored China Women's

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Federation. And parents certainly do get involved. Pairing people off was

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once the work of traditional matchmakers, but now mums and dads

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are playing Cupid. This might look like a protest by families of young

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people disappeared in a political crackdown, but the problem here

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isn't that the children are missing. It is that they are still around.

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Every weekend, parks like this one fill with anxious parents hawking

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their children's nuptial CVs. Many look embarrassed and some are here

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without their children's knowledge. But not this lady. Why do you think

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your son is having trouble finding a wife? On top of that, they come from

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distant provinces and have no official right to live in the

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capital. This woman's son, a young engineer, is willing to talk. Why do

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you think it is difficult to find a woman to marry? You are good`looking

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and and have a good job. But no place to live is just one of

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many problems for would`be grooms. Another is quite simply a critical

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shortage of women. Author and journalist Mara Hvistendahl has been

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tracking this demographic time bomb for several years. Today we are

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looking at tens of millions of surplus men, men who do not have a

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female counterpart in the population. Sex selection is a

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problem that has been going on for decades, so at this point, many

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areas of China have been touched by it. In the late '70s, the Chinese

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government introduced the so`called one child policy, designed to curb

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population growth. But it backfired. If a family really want to have a

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boy, then they start to select. We call it prenatal sex selection. They

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try to get pregnant with a boy, make sure the newborn is a boy. If it's

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not a boy? If they can tell it's not a boy and it's early enough, they

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will abort the foetus. This is a very general practice. In Chinese

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culture, male children have always been more prized. In extreme cases,

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especially in the villages, female infanticide was also practised. Some

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people say by the end of this decade there will be 24 million. Up to 30

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million. What is clear is that there will be a serious problem with a lot

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of leftover men. Nowhere more so than in the countryside. This is a

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village near the border with Vietnam. It is a world away from

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China's crowded megacities. Most Chinese men face a double burden

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when they want to get married. The rising financial problems and the

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shortage of women. But they have it easy compared to farmers in the

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poorest part of the country. In this village, there are 60 bachelors.

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Some have given up all hope of getting married. These men are both

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unmarried. Across China, there are more and more villages like theirs.

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They They call these men bare branches, because because they can't

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continue the family tree. Today they are picking dragon fruit. Here, on

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top of poverty, and the nationwide problem of gender imbalance, men are

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confronted with a regional problem. Mass migration.

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problem of gender imbalance, men are confronted with

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Marriage is traditionally the symbol of maturity in China. Unmarried men

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are treated like boys who have yet to come of age, no matter how old

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they actually are. The pressure on his friend and

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fellow bachelor is even more intense. His family spent years of

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their hard earned savings on this huge new house in the modern part of

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the the village for him to move into with his wife. There is not much

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left over for furniture, but that hardly matters, because there is no

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wife and no children. This is a family home with no family.

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How badly would you like to have children? Is that important for you?

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He's going home to help with the harvest. But usually, these lads

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help construct in big skyscrapers in the cities.

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help construct in big skyscrapers It's hard, sweaty and dangerous on

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Chinese building sites and they are hardly likely to catch the eye of a

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girl and they are working 20 storeys in the air.

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In the past decade, 300 million people have poured into the cities

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to look for work. And for love. But that can prove elusive. How do you

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find yourself a soul mate in a city the size of this one? This is your

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headquarters? Yes. Gong Haiyan was a student from a remote village. She

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moved to Shangha and got into a university. But she had no love

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life. She joined a dating site. When she got replies, she asked for money

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back. `` got no replies. Her website is called Beautiful Destiny. It's

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proved a hit. She is now known as China's top matchmaker. These

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numbers keep increasing. Her site has almost 100 million users, and

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she is now personally worth $45 million. And she found herself a

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husband too, although she made him take an IQ test before their first

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date. Here are the three most important things we need to know

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about about you, height, education and salary. How tall are you? About

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170, I think. Matchmaking in China has an illustrious 2000`year`old

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history, and in the old days, it might be limited to a handful of

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families. Now that the old networks are breaking down, how on earth you

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even begin the search? One of the employees here is helping me upload

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my my profile. What does this box do? Self`description. I should say

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that I'm adventurous and get bored quite easily. I need a man who is

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organised. I quite like the idea of a romantic man, too. Next up,

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describing the shape of your face. There are options. Round,

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rectangular, long, or sunflower seed. Like a sunflower seed? Yes. Or

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egg`shaped. Egg`shaped. Triangle. Triangle`shaped? What do you think I

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am? Egg`shaped. Egg`shaped. OK, let's go with that. Sadly, the

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prospects for ladies like me with egg`shaped faces were not quite what

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I had hoped for. Time to go offline. This speed`dating event is in an

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industrial city in the Pearl River Delta, the workshop of the world,

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where money reigns supreme. A mass`produced mercantile approach

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seems to have infected the mating game, too.

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These are the rules. If the girl accepts the red rose, the man is

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allowed to sit down and talk to her. The first thing people do when they

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come to this match`making event is post their profile on the wall. You

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can see their candidate number, their age, their height, which is

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absolutely crucial in China, and their education. This guy has been

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to a university. He's a CEO. This man next to him is a high school

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leaver. They also have room for a personal statement. This guy, an

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engineer, says, "I want to hold your hand". This guy says, "I want to

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find the right umbrella. If I cannot find it, I'd rather stay in the rain

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forever". Unfortunately, in China these days, quite a few men may stay

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damp for some time to come. This man is a case in point. It's

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the third time he has been to this event.

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The women are not easily pleased and even this investment banker from

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Taiwan says he is finding it tough going. I find too many men here. Too

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many men? Too few girls. I have seen some very beautiful girls. That is

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probably your view, not mine. Are you quite fussy? I'm not fussy.

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Trust me, my last girlfriend was a dog. Oh, dear. And we were getting

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on so well. But it is all a bit humiliating and

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time`consuming. That is why China's wealthiest bachelors contract out

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the search for a spouse. They employ a love hunter. THEME FROM JAWS

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PLAYS. We are going shopping but not for clothes. For girls. Such is the

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working day for the employees of Shanghai's Diamond Bachelors Agency.

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Show me the sort of girl you're looking for. Maybe that yellow one

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is OK. That girl in the little shorts?

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If Peng Tai finds his richest clients a Miss Right, he could earn

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tens of thousands of dollars. But as his boss explains these billionaires

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are picky. One sent love hunters to nine separate cities to trawl

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through 10,000 girls. Let's say the love hunters have

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found a billionaire a promising candidate. She might look the part

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but can she really cut it as a member of China's new moneyed elite?

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How does Miss Good Enough become Mrs Right? One solution is to study

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here, the Happy College of the Good Wife.

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Today, these aspiring trophy wives are role`playing. How to spread your

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love diplomatically between your baby and your husband.

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Love hunters, speed`daters, good wives colleges. It might seem a bit

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wacky but this is no laughing matter. China is moving forwards at

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an astonishing rate but no amount of material development can compensate

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for the shortage of young women in this country.

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It's already causing trouble and there will be more to come.

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These days, it's really hard to find a girl in China. So that causes more

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social problems because with a lot of bachelors... A lot of single

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men... There are social problems like rape or sexual harassment

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everywhere. Really? And you think that's because of the number of men

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compared to women? I think so. I think so. The shortage is leading

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some to take desperate measures. I heard that some men in bachelor

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villagers went to other provinces or even to Vietnam to find a wife. Have

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you thought about that? Why not? And there are more problems around

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the corner. In China, state and private pensions are nonexistent for

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most people. Instead, children are expected to look after their parents

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when they get old. But who will care for China's tens

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of millions of leftover men in their dotage?

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There's discussions and there's research but, actually, I think that

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this is something we have never encountered before. We do not know

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what will happen. When they get old, I think that the society, the

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community, needs to think about how to take care of them because they

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don't have family to take care of them, they do not have children. Of

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course, for the moneyed classes, this is less of an issue.

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Back on the streets of Shanghai, love hunter Peng Tai is closing in

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for the kill. THEME FROM JAWS PLAYS.

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In a penthouse somewhere above the city, a millionaire or billionaire

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will get the chance to peruse the fruits of Peng's labours.

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At one extreme of this divided and increasingly unequal society, men

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can pick and choose their mates. At the other end, back in the bachelor

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villages, there is no choice at all. Modern China is a ruthlessly

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competitive place and many men are alone. But some are more alone than

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others. If marriage is a building block of social stability, will the

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shortage of brides undermine this country's future?

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