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'It's Clara's graduation. | 0:00:02 | 0:00:04 | |
'While most of her classmates have no idea what the future holds, | 0:00:04 | 0:00:09 | |
'she's made an extraordinary decision.' | 0:00:09 | 0:00:11 | |
What I'm doing is quite different. Very different. | 0:00:11 | 0:00:14 | |
My reaction first of all was, "Wow!" | 0:00:14 | 0:00:18 | |
I was really shocked when I heard. | 0:00:18 | 0:00:21 | |
I didn't realise it was done, really. | 0:00:21 | 0:00:24 | |
'Clara's joining a small but growing number of young women | 0:00:24 | 0:00:29 | |
'who choose to give up careers, boyfriends and everything they own | 0:00:29 | 0:00:34 | |
'to become a nun.' | 0:00:34 | 0:00:36 | |
This is what makes me happy - not money, | 0:00:36 | 0:00:39 | |
not sex, not power, not any of those things, | 0:00:39 | 0:00:42 | |
but to truly live for God. | 0:00:42 | 0:00:45 | |
'Catherine's also considering a life in the convent, | 0:00:45 | 0:00:49 | |
'but there's one thing holding her back.' | 0:00:49 | 0:00:52 | |
If you like the opposite sex and you would like to marry, | 0:00:52 | 0:00:56 | |
that is a genuine sacrifice. | 0:00:56 | 0:00:58 | |
'We follow Clara and Catherine over six months, | 0:00:59 | 0:01:02 | |
'as they prepare to take a radical leap of faith.' | 0:01:02 | 0:01:06 | |
I find that, like, the hardest thing, to give up my friends. | 0:01:06 | 0:01:11 | |
I am putting everything in God's hands! | 0:01:11 | 0:01:15 | |
I can't begin to imagine what it's going to be like to take that step. | 0:01:15 | 0:01:19 | |
I'm really bad at make-up. | 0:01:29 | 0:01:31 | |
I'm not one of those people who spends ages getting ready. | 0:01:31 | 0:01:35 | |
I just slap it on to cover up the worst bits. | 0:01:35 | 0:01:39 | |
'Clara's 23, and has just finished her degree at Aberdeen University. | 0:01:39 | 0:01:43 | |
'She knows exactly what she wants to do with her life.' | 0:01:44 | 0:01:47 | |
Gosh! | 0:01:47 | 0:01:49 | |
These are the last few months I'll be able to wear make-up. | 0:01:49 | 0:01:53 | |
When I'm having a bad day, | 0:01:53 | 0:01:55 | |
I appreciate a little mascara. | 0:01:55 | 0:01:57 | |
I won't be able to put anything on | 0:01:57 | 0:01:59 | |
when I have a bad day in the convent. | 0:01:59 | 0:02:02 | |
'In 12 weeks, Clara will join a community of nuns | 0:02:02 | 0:02:06 | |
'who shut themselves off from the world | 0:02:06 | 0:02:09 | |
'to devote their entire lives to God. | 0:02:09 | 0:02:11 | |
'If she chooses to stay, Clara will never again leave the convent.' | 0:02:11 | 0:02:16 | |
As soon as I visited for the first time | 0:02:16 | 0:02:20 | |
I knew that was all I wanted to do. | 0:02:20 | 0:02:22 | |
I've been ready for this chapter to end three years ago. | 0:02:22 | 0:02:26 | |
Now I'm finally at the end of university | 0:02:26 | 0:02:29 | |
it's just amazing, a really good feeling. | 0:02:29 | 0:02:32 | |
WOMEN LAUGH AND CHAT | 0:02:32 | 0:02:35 | |
'Clara and her friends | 0:02:41 | 0:02:43 | |
'are celebrating the end of five years studying together.' | 0:02:43 | 0:02:47 | |
-Will you be allowed to meet people? -No. You're not allowed out. | 0:02:47 | 0:02:51 | |
-There's a room with a barrier. -Can we come into your...? | 0:02:51 | 0:02:55 | |
There's a parlour with a barrier and you can come up to the barrier. | 0:02:55 | 0:03:00 | |
-But not across. -Are you restricted to specific times? -An hour a year. | 0:03:00 | 0:03:06 | |
-No! Clara! -Will you wear your hair up in a bun? | 0:03:06 | 0:03:09 | |
-I'll get it chopped off. -ALL GASP: No! | 0:03:09 | 0:03:13 | |
-Your lovely curls! -No, I do get it chopped off. | 0:03:13 | 0:03:17 | |
-All of it? -Pretty much. | 0:03:17 | 0:03:19 | |
-No! -I'm not looking forward to that bit. | 0:03:19 | 0:03:23 | |
I'll send you a lock! | 0:03:23 | 0:03:25 | |
-Yeah! You should! -Each person can have a lock of my hair! | 0:03:25 | 0:03:29 | |
Thank you for coming. | 0:03:32 | 0:03:34 | |
It's lovely to have everyone together for one last meal. | 0:03:34 | 0:03:38 | |
ALL GROAN | 0:03:38 | 0:03:39 | |
I want to wish everyone all the best with everything they're doing. | 0:03:39 | 0:03:44 | |
I'm sure you'll go on to do great things. | 0:03:44 | 0:03:47 | |
I really want to see her again. | 0:03:52 | 0:03:54 | |
She's hilarious, she's also one of the nicest people I know. | 0:03:54 | 0:03:59 | |
I really don't want to lose her. | 0:03:59 | 0:04:02 | |
We all think about different times we'll see each other. | 0:04:02 | 0:04:05 | |
It's weird thinking that Clara won't be there. | 0:04:05 | 0:04:08 | |
I don't want to get emotional. | 0:04:08 | 0:04:11 | |
Yeah, it'll be weird, definitely, without her. | 0:04:11 | 0:04:15 | |
LAUGHS | 0:04:15 | 0:04:17 | |
MUSIC: "Ooh La La" by Goldfrapp | 0:04:17 | 0:04:22 | |
# Dial up my number now | 0:04:30 | 0:04:37 | |
# Weaving it through the wire... # | 0:04:37 | 0:04:42 | |
I'm very much a girlie girl. Love being pampered. | 0:04:42 | 0:04:46 | |
Love girlie things. | 0:04:46 | 0:04:48 | |
Girls should be girlie. | 0:04:48 | 0:04:50 | |
I was in the OTC, the Officer Training Corps. | 0:04:50 | 0:04:53 | |
I was the worst officer cadet ever. | 0:04:53 | 0:04:56 | |
'Catherine's 25 and a languages student at King's College, London. | 0:05:00 | 0:05:04 | |
'Like most girls of her age, she spent the last few years | 0:05:04 | 0:05:08 | |
'travelling, partying and studying. | 0:05:08 | 0:05:11 | |
'She's modelling in a charity fashion show, | 0:05:11 | 0:05:14 | |
'but it isn't Catherine's first time on the catwalk.' | 0:05:14 | 0:05:18 | |
I sent photos to five agencies for a lark. | 0:05:18 | 0:05:21 | |
I got a call and they offered me the contract. | 0:05:21 | 0:05:24 | |
I went to castings. I always got the job. I never got turned down. | 0:05:24 | 0:05:29 | |
They always wanted me to do catwalk. | 0:05:29 | 0:05:32 | |
They never let me do editorial. It was always shows. | 0:05:32 | 0:05:36 | |
I remember after my first paying show going home and feeling empty. | 0:05:36 | 0:05:41 | |
Like, "Is that it? That's not that great." | 0:05:41 | 0:05:44 | |
I thought I was going to be really happy that I've made it. | 0:05:44 | 0:05:48 | |
"This isn't as fulfilling as I was expecting it to be." | 0:05:48 | 0:05:52 | |
'Since she was a child, Catherine's had dreams of becoming a nun. | 0:05:54 | 0:05:59 | |
'In her 20s, the decision is more complicated.' | 0:05:59 | 0:06:03 | |
I've always liked boys and sometimes boys like me as well. | 0:06:03 | 0:06:07 | |
So that would be a big sacrifice, giving up marriage | 0:06:07 | 0:06:12 | |
and your own family and children. | 0:06:12 | 0:06:15 | |
'With her time at university coming to an end, | 0:06:15 | 0:06:18 | |
'Catherine's ready to decide whether life as a nun is really for her.' | 0:06:18 | 0:06:22 | |
I love people and I love travelling and I love having a good time. | 0:06:22 | 0:06:27 | |
But that's not all there is. | 0:06:27 | 0:06:30 | |
I don't want to live my life and say at the end, "Well, I had fun." | 0:06:30 | 0:06:35 | |
That's not what I'm about. That's not what I think life is about. | 0:06:35 | 0:06:40 | |
It's a totally different world now. You do get a different kind of nun! | 0:06:40 | 0:06:46 | |
'It's less than three months before Clara enters the convent. | 0:06:51 | 0:06:55 | |
'She's going home to County Durham to spend summer with her family.' | 0:06:55 | 0:06:59 | |
Oh! It's good to be back! | 0:07:09 | 0:07:12 | |
-You're a lot later than I thought. -Dad took the wrong turn! Oh, dear! | 0:07:12 | 0:07:16 | |
I tend to put it to the back of my mind, the fact that she's leaving. | 0:07:20 | 0:07:24 | |
And so I just try and carry on as normal. | 0:07:24 | 0:07:29 | |
I don't think, "I've got to do this one last thing." | 0:07:29 | 0:07:32 | |
I can't deal in that way. | 0:07:32 | 0:07:34 | |
Just enjoy the moment and just...be ourselves, really. | 0:07:34 | 0:07:39 | |
-Benedict! -I thought you were... INAUDIBLE | 0:07:39 | 0:07:43 | |
No, I'm not a nun yet. | 0:07:43 | 0:07:45 | |
-Did you think I was a nun already? -No. | 0:07:45 | 0:07:48 | |
'I'm so lucky. I've got such a wonderful family. | 0:07:48 | 0:07:53 | |
'I've had a great uni experience, | 0:07:53 | 0:07:55 | |
'so it's funny that I would feel unfulfilled. | 0:07:55 | 0:07:59 | |
'I know there's something more to life that I can only achieve | 0:07:59 | 0:08:03 | |
'if I do this radical thing of giving myself to God and entering this community.' | 0:08:03 | 0:08:10 | |
'Clara first visited St Cecilia's Abbey three years ago.' | 0:08:10 | 0:08:13 | |
People think it's extreme because you spend all your life there. | 0:08:13 | 0:08:18 | |
You don't come out even during the day. | 0:08:18 | 0:08:21 | |
It's so you can live a life hidden with God | 0:08:21 | 0:08:24 | |
and free from the distractions of the world. | 0:08:24 | 0:08:27 | |
Here you can actually click on walks with the nuns on a virtual tour. | 0:08:27 | 0:08:33 | |
See them having their recreation. | 0:08:33 | 0:08:36 | |
They've got their great summer hats on. They're quite cute. | 0:08:36 | 0:08:41 | |
'Clara's chosen a life of silence and contemplation. | 0:08:41 | 0:08:45 | |
'When she enters the abbey, she'll spend up to seven hours a day in prayer.' | 0:08:45 | 0:08:51 | |
You're not really meant to talk, | 0:08:52 | 0:08:55 | |
just have a conversation about anything. | 0:08:55 | 0:08:57 | |
You're not meant to do that, apart from recreation. | 0:08:57 | 0:09:00 | |
I think that will be tough. After a while, it'll get to me. | 0:09:00 | 0:09:05 | |
I have to keep my mouth shut. | 0:09:05 | 0:09:07 | |
The meal times, I have to try not to talk. | 0:09:07 | 0:09:10 | |
Not to laugh. | 0:09:10 | 0:09:12 | |
'While many communities of nuns are struggling to survive, | 0:09:12 | 0:09:16 | |
'Clara's order is flourishing. | 0:09:16 | 0:09:18 | |
'In the last five years, they've welcomed eight new sisters, | 0:09:18 | 0:09:22 | |
'the youngest only 19.' | 0:09:22 | 0:09:24 | |
I don't know. I felt really happy there. | 0:09:24 | 0:09:27 | |
And...somehow I knew that that was where God wanted me to be. | 0:09:27 | 0:09:33 | |
I felt this amazing sense of peace that I hadn't felt before. | 0:09:33 | 0:09:38 | |
-Shall I hide you under my habit? -Yeah. -They wouldn't be able to tell. | 0:09:38 | 0:09:42 | |
You have to get up really early, at quarter to five in the morning. | 0:09:42 | 0:09:47 | |
I don't care! I hate sleeping! | 0:09:47 | 0:09:50 | |
You'd be a perfect nun, then! | 0:09:50 | 0:09:52 | |
'The eldest of five children, | 0:09:52 | 0:09:54 | |
'Clara's grown up in a devout Catholic family.' | 0:09:54 | 0:09:57 | |
She's doing this out of faith. | 0:09:57 | 0:10:00 | |
We all share that faith. | 0:10:00 | 0:10:02 | |
So we just have to trust in God that, if it's for her, | 0:10:02 | 0:10:06 | |
then we shall...we'll be blessed out of it, although it's difficult. | 0:10:06 | 0:10:12 | |
'Clara's family will only be able to visit her | 0:10:12 | 0:10:16 | |
'twice a year and talk through an iron grille. | 0:10:16 | 0:10:20 | |
'They can exchange letters but not phone calls.' | 0:10:20 | 0:10:24 | |
-That's a nice one. Maybe get a copy of that. -I'd quite like that. | 0:10:24 | 0:10:29 | |
We're all together, finally. | 0:10:29 | 0:10:32 | |
'My first reaction was that I don't want to lose her. She'll be gone. | 0:10:32 | 0:10:37 | |
'The second reaction was,' | 0:10:37 | 0:10:39 | |
will she be happy there? | 0:10:39 | 0:10:41 | |
Will she be able to cope? Will she get homesick? | 0:10:41 | 0:10:44 | |
Will she miss her brothers and sisters? | 0:10:44 | 0:10:47 | |
If it doesn't work out, will she feel she's failed? | 0:10:47 | 0:10:51 | |
Will that be bad for her? | 0:10:51 | 0:10:53 | |
You always look lovely, Mum. You've just had a baby! Amazing! | 0:10:53 | 0:10:58 | |
Part of me wants you really to succeed. | 0:10:58 | 0:11:00 | |
A little part of me thinks, "If it doesn't, you'll come home." | 0:11:00 | 0:11:05 | |
I can understand that. Yeah. | 0:11:05 | 0:11:07 | |
'Not all nuns live hidden from the outside world. | 0:11:08 | 0:11:12 | |
'The Franciscan Sisters of the Renewal are in Inner City Leeds. | 0:11:12 | 0:11:17 | |
'They're one of Britain's most youthful religious communities. | 0:11:17 | 0:11:21 | |
'The average age of the sisters here is just 30.' | 0:11:21 | 0:11:26 | |
When I would think, "I think I might be being called to be a nun," | 0:11:37 | 0:11:43 | |
it seemed something so radical, | 0:11:43 | 0:11:46 | |
something so different to what a lot of my peers were doing, | 0:11:46 | 0:11:51 | |
all those I'd gone to college with were doing. | 0:11:51 | 0:11:54 | |
I mean, out of the stratosphere kind of different! | 0:11:54 | 0:11:59 | |
'Sister Jacinta grew up in Northampton. | 0:12:02 | 0:12:05 | |
'Before entering the convent in her late 20s, she lived with friends | 0:12:05 | 0:12:09 | |
'and was working full time as an occupational therapist.' | 0:12:09 | 0:12:13 | |
I was really afraid, | 0:12:13 | 0:12:15 | |
afraid of what it meant, afraid of how it would change my life. | 0:12:15 | 0:12:19 | |
If I gave everything up that I thought was making me happy, | 0:12:19 | 0:12:24 | |
then I would be miserable. | 0:12:24 | 0:12:26 | |
Once I got past that, once I started to meet sisters, young nuns and say, | 0:12:26 | 0:12:31 | |
"They're not unhappy. They don't seem miserable. | 0:12:31 | 0:12:34 | |
"Maybe that's just a myth. Let's see what this is. | 0:12:34 | 0:12:39 | |
"Could it be the thing for me? Could it be what makes me really happy?" | 0:12:39 | 0:12:44 | |
-# Glory, glory -Glory, glory | 0:12:49 | 0:12:52 | |
-# Hallelujah -Hallelujah | 0:12:52 | 0:12:54 | |
-# Yes, I laid -My burden down | 0:12:54 | 0:12:57 | |
-# My burden down -My burden down... # | 0:12:57 | 0:13:00 | |
THEY GIGGLE | 0:13:00 | 0:13:03 | |
I think the most common reaction we've had in the car | 0:13:03 | 0:13:08 | |
is you'll get a beep, then all of a sudden, you'll turn around | 0:13:08 | 0:13:13 | |
and there'll be a mobile phone held up, taking a picture. | 0:13:13 | 0:13:18 | |
One person in the car sees and they're, like... | 0:13:18 | 0:13:22 | |
Telling their friends. Yeah. | 0:13:22 | 0:13:25 | |
'The sisters in Leeds are part of a larger community of nuns founded in the United States. | 0:13:27 | 0:13:33 | |
'They came to Britain as missionaries in 2009.' | 0:13:33 | 0:13:37 | |
Hey! | 0:13:37 | 0:13:38 | |
We try to live, and we choose to live, in poorer neighbourhoods. | 0:13:43 | 0:13:47 | |
As much as we can, we choose to not own anything of our own. | 0:13:47 | 0:13:53 | |
We choose to drive cars that are donated to us. | 0:13:53 | 0:13:56 | |
They don't always work very well! | 0:13:56 | 0:13:59 | |
We choose to live with the food that people offer us | 0:13:59 | 0:14:03 | |
because if we're serving the poor then it's a contradiction | 0:14:03 | 0:14:08 | |
if we're living a rich lifestyle. | 0:14:08 | 0:14:11 | |
We need to be like them to identify with them, so they can identify with us. | 0:14:11 | 0:14:17 | |
I love this place! | 0:14:17 | 0:14:19 | |
I come down twice a week. | 0:14:19 | 0:14:21 | |
Just for your warm glow and... | 0:14:21 | 0:14:24 | |
..just to hear you. I like talking to you cos you're warm and friendly. | 0:14:25 | 0:14:30 | |
You bring joy to our hearts, too. | 0:14:30 | 0:14:33 | |
# Hark the songs of holy Zion... # | 0:14:34 | 0:14:42 | |
'All nuns make a promise to God to live according to three vows - | 0:14:42 | 0:14:49 | |
'poverty, chastity and obedience.' | 0:14:49 | 0:14:52 | |
'Why on Earth would you do that? To be poor, chaste, obedient. | 0:14:52 | 0:14:56 | |
'That seems odd to the world. | 0:14:56 | 0:14:59 | |
'But I've found that this is what makes me happy. Not money.' | 0:14:59 | 0:15:05 | |
Not sex. Not power. Not any of those things. | 0:15:05 | 0:15:08 | |
But to truly live for God. | 0:15:08 | 0:15:12 | |
'Catherine's on her way to visit a convent in the New Forest. | 0:15:18 | 0:15:22 | |
'She's been spending time there for the past few months | 0:15:22 | 0:15:27 | |
'to help her decide if she's genuinely called to become a nun.' | 0:15:27 | 0:15:31 | |
I don't want to spend years wondering and not making a decision, | 0:15:31 | 0:15:35 | |
but it obviously has to be right. | 0:15:35 | 0:15:37 | |
So I wanted to go again and see how it goes, basically. | 0:15:37 | 0:15:41 | |
See if I can imagine myself there. | 0:15:41 | 0:15:44 | |
WOMEN CHANT | 0:15:49 | 0:15:52 | |
'The Dominican Sisters of St Joseph | 0:15:55 | 0:15:57 | |
'spend much of their daily life in prayer. | 0:15:57 | 0:16:00 | |
'But they also leave the convent to spread the word of God.' | 0:16:00 | 0:16:04 | |
'Sister Hyacinthe looks after the young women interested in joining.' | 0:16:13 | 0:16:18 | |
'There is no predefined person | 0:16:19 | 0:16:22 | |
'that's meant to be a nun and fits the bill. | 0:16:22 | 0:16:26 | |
'The Lord can call anybody at any point. | 0:16:26 | 0:16:29 | |
'The type of young women that come here | 0:16:29 | 0:16:32 | |
'are the types of women living out there in the world. | 0:16:32 | 0:16:36 | |
'Women who live a normal life of drinking, boyfriends,' | 0:16:36 | 0:16:40 | |
partying, all these things, part of human life, | 0:16:40 | 0:16:43 | |
they've usually done it or are doing it. | 0:16:43 | 0:16:47 | |
And yet there's something more, they want more. | 0:16:47 | 0:16:50 | |
BELL RINGS | 0:16:50 | 0:16:53 | |
'When somebody writes a letter to ask whether they can join us, | 0:16:55 | 0:17:00 | |
'we have to make the decision | 0:17:00 | 0:17:02 | |
'whether they can join us. | 0:17:02 | 0:17:04 | |
'It is a decision that is ours to make as well.' | 0:17:04 | 0:17:09 | |
Are we desperate enough to take anyone? | 0:17:09 | 0:17:12 | |
Not really! Because we then have to live with them. | 0:17:12 | 0:17:16 | |
LAUGHTER | 0:17:16 | 0:17:20 | |
'When I'm here, I love it here. | 0:17:20 | 0:17:22 | |
'Each time I come back, I like it more and I want to join more.' | 0:17:22 | 0:17:26 | |
And the desire is stronger, it's constant, it's very much there. | 0:17:26 | 0:17:32 | |
'They're such good beautiful people. I look at them and I admire them. | 0:17:34 | 0:17:38 | |
'And I want to be like them.' | 0:17:38 | 0:17:41 | |
LAUGHTER | 0:17:43 | 0:17:45 | |
'Catherine became my Facebook friend. | 0:17:49 | 0:17:52 | |
'Then she contacted me and said she was interested in a religious life. | 0:17:52 | 0:17:57 | |
'So we're just trying to get to know her better.' | 0:17:57 | 0:18:01 | |
In order to better find out the kind of life | 0:18:01 | 0:18:04 | |
that she would be happiest in. | 0:18:04 | 0:18:07 | |
'The community only admits new sisters once a year. | 0:18:07 | 0:18:11 | |
'If Catherine wants to enter the convent this September, | 0:18:11 | 0:18:15 | |
'she'll have to make her decision soon.' | 0:18:15 | 0:18:18 | |
'She's not, as yet, asked to enter.' | 0:18:18 | 0:18:21 | |
I don't know whether she'll do it at all. | 0:18:21 | 0:18:24 | |
We're still at the level of interest and enquiry at the moment, | 0:18:24 | 0:18:28 | |
more than commitment. | 0:18:28 | 0:18:31 | |
NUNS SING: # But deliver us from evil. # | 0:18:32 | 0:18:38 | |
NUNS SING: # ..Jesus name so sweet | 0:18:39 | 0:18:45 | |
# Jesus name so sweet Emmanuel name so sweet | 0:18:45 | 0:18:49 | |
# Jesus name so sweet... # | 0:18:49 | 0:18:52 | |
'The sisters in Leeds have been invited to a local Catholic school | 0:18:52 | 0:18:57 | |
'to give a talk to the pupils. | 0:18:57 | 0:18:59 | |
'They have a unique approach to teaching others about their lives.' | 0:18:59 | 0:19:04 | |
Does anybody know what this is called? | 0:19:04 | 0:19:07 | |
-A gown. -Well, it's kinda like a gown. Good guess. | 0:19:09 | 0:19:12 | |
-A garment. -Close. I'll tell you. It's called a habit. | 0:19:12 | 0:19:16 | |
Does anybody know what this is? | 0:19:16 | 0:19:18 | |
I'll give you a clue. # Here comes the bride # | 0:19:18 | 0:19:21 | |
-A veil. -Good job! So it's a veil. | 0:19:21 | 0:19:24 | |
Then who knows what this is called? | 0:19:24 | 0:19:26 | |
-Rope. -It's a rope. | 0:19:27 | 0:19:29 | |
It has another name. You've probably never heard this word. A sincture. | 0:19:29 | 0:19:34 | |
So we have a veil. We have a habit. We have a sincture. | 0:19:34 | 0:19:37 | |
-What are these on my feet? -Sandals. | 0:19:37 | 0:19:41 | |
That's right. I have sandals on my feet. Who knows what this is? | 0:19:41 | 0:19:45 | |
-Rosary. -It's a rosary, that's right. Good job. | 0:19:45 | 0:19:48 | |
To help you remember those things, we're going to do a little exercise. | 0:19:48 | 0:19:54 | |
I want you to all stand up. Push your chairs in. | 0:19:54 | 0:19:58 | |
You'll recognise the tune cos it's a song you learned when you were a kid. | 0:19:58 | 0:20:03 | |
I'll show it to you then you join in. | 0:20:03 | 0:20:06 | |
-Can you do it? -Yes. | 0:20:06 | 0:20:08 | |
# Veil, habit, sincture, sandals Sincture, sandals | 0:20:08 | 0:20:11 | |
# Veil, habit, sincture, sandals Sincture, sandals. # | 0:20:11 | 0:20:14 | |
Ready? We'll do it slowly. | 0:20:14 | 0:20:16 | |
# Veil, habit, sincture, sandals Sincture, sandals. # | 0:20:16 | 0:20:22 | |
OK. Fast. # Veil, habit, sincture, sandals Sincture, sandals | 0:20:22 | 0:20:25 | |
# Veil, habit, sincture, sandals Sincture, sandals | 0:20:25 | 0:20:28 | |
# And rosary and three knots for our vows | 0:20:28 | 0:20:31 | |
# Veil, habit, sincture, sandals Sincture, sandals. # | 0:20:31 | 0:20:34 | |
Good job, year seven! Woo-hoo! | 0:20:34 | 0:20:36 | |
OK, you can take a seat. | 0:20:36 | 0:20:39 | |
Does anyone have a question? Put your hands up. | 0:20:40 | 0:20:43 | |
Did you have to give up everything like all your mobiles and your computers and your house and stuff? | 0:20:45 | 0:20:51 | |
Yes, we do give it up. We don't have internet or TV. | 0:20:51 | 0:20:55 | |
Or lots of gadgets and iPhones and things like that, and iPods. | 0:20:55 | 0:21:01 | |
But I love it. I'm so happy that way. | 0:21:01 | 0:21:04 | |
LAUGHS You don't look happy! | 0:21:04 | 0:21:08 | |
You look horrified at the thought! | 0:21:08 | 0:21:10 | |
-Are you allowed make-up or piercings? -We choose not to wear make-up. | 0:21:10 | 0:21:15 | |
Just to have a simple life. | 0:21:15 | 0:21:17 | |
Probably, it would look funny if you saw a nun with a veil on | 0:21:17 | 0:21:21 | |
and lots of mascara and eye shadow and everything. | 0:21:21 | 0:21:25 | |
OK. | 0:21:25 | 0:21:27 | |
Oh, my God! Shocking! How can a girl live without make-up? | 0:21:28 | 0:21:32 | |
It's like the item of a girl! | 0:21:32 | 0:21:35 | |
Everybody needs it. It just makes you feel better. | 0:21:35 | 0:21:38 | |
I'm shocked that all they wear is those gowns. | 0:21:38 | 0:21:42 | |
Habit. Yeah, that's it. | 0:21:42 | 0:21:45 | |
They don't wear jeans and like your trackies and that, | 0:21:45 | 0:21:50 | |
where you can just sit on the sofa and just relax. | 0:21:50 | 0:21:54 | |
But they always look cheerful, so if God can make them cheerful, | 0:21:54 | 0:21:58 | |
then I don't think it's wrong, I just think it isn't for me. | 0:21:58 | 0:22:03 | |
'It's only a few weeks before Clara enters the convent. | 0:22:05 | 0:22:09 | |
'As a nun in training, | 0:22:09 | 0:22:11 | |
'she won't be able to take any of her own clothes with her. | 0:22:11 | 0:22:16 | |
'But she's been sent a short list of items she CAN bring.' | 0:22:16 | 0:22:20 | |
We don't know. This is a mystery. No-one knows where nuns go shopping! | 0:22:20 | 0:22:25 | |
-Nuns R Us! -Yes. | 0:22:25 | 0:22:28 | |
-Moving on. -Blue plain full-length long-sleeved night dresses. | 0:22:28 | 0:22:34 | |
-I don't know if they exist. -A pair of silent slippers! | 0:22:34 | 0:22:38 | |
-What's a silent slipper? -I suppose one without a tickety-tackety heel. | 0:22:38 | 0:22:43 | |
Ssh! | 0:22:43 | 0:22:45 | |
I'm going to make a right racket round the corridor with these(!) | 0:22:48 | 0:22:52 | |
-It's not long-sleeved. -It's long-ish. | 0:22:52 | 0:22:56 | |
It's elbow length. I don't think I'll get away with that. | 0:22:56 | 0:23:00 | |
"Can I help you?" "Yeah. I'm becoming a nun." | 0:23:00 | 0:23:03 | |
-"I need some nun sandals!" -"Do you have anything suitable?" | 0:23:03 | 0:23:07 | |
Oh, God! No! I can't put them on with socks. They look awful. | 0:23:18 | 0:23:22 | |
'When she enters the convent, | 0:23:22 | 0:23:24 | |
'Clara will embark on the first stage of training to become a nun, | 0:23:24 | 0:23:28 | |
'known as postulancy.' | 0:23:28 | 0:23:30 | |
I've got my makeshift veil. It consists of a pillowcase. | 0:23:30 | 0:23:35 | |
So, just to get the general idea... | 0:23:35 | 0:23:38 | |
'She won't yet have a habit, but there's still a uniform to wear.' | 0:23:38 | 0:23:43 | |
I think I need a sheet! | 0:23:43 | 0:23:45 | |
You kind of have it pinned like that | 0:23:45 | 0:23:47 | |
and you wouldn't see the rest of my hair. | 0:23:47 | 0:23:51 | |
Oh! | 0:23:52 | 0:23:54 | |
That's really scary. Reminds me of one of my primary school teachers. | 0:23:54 | 0:23:59 | |
-What? -The nuns, you know. | 0:23:59 | 0:24:01 | |
Oh, sorry. Yes. | 0:24:01 | 0:24:04 | |
-Can you help me do something? -Oh, gosh. That's scary. | 0:24:04 | 0:24:07 | |
You do it. Just so it's kind of pinned back. | 0:24:07 | 0:24:11 | |
She just looks really like a nun, like a young nun. | 0:24:11 | 0:24:15 | |
It makes me realise it's coming close. | 0:24:15 | 0:24:18 | |
But she looks very happy, so I suppose that's a good thing. | 0:24:18 | 0:24:21 | |
I'm quite excited, cos it means she's getting on with the journey. | 0:24:21 | 0:24:26 | |
-She's embarking on this new phase. -Doing what I really want. | 0:24:26 | 0:24:30 | |
But also it's a fear of not seeing her so much. | 0:24:30 | 0:24:33 | |
-Mixture of feelings, really. -Aw! | 0:24:33 | 0:24:36 | |
-Don't cry, Mummy. -Anyway, better get on without me. -Yes. -Yes. | 0:24:36 | 0:24:40 | |
-Mm. -Give me a hug. | 0:24:40 | 0:24:43 | |
I'll go and get Daddy. | 0:24:43 | 0:24:46 | |
-I'll go and get Daddy. OK? -Yeah. -All right. Well done. | 0:24:46 | 0:24:50 | |
How does a mother get through this? > | 0:24:50 | 0:24:52 | |
Does it make you question your faith? > | 0:24:52 | 0:24:55 | |
The thing is, to me, it's not like I have my life, I have my family | 0:24:55 | 0:25:00 | |
and then I go to church. | 0:25:00 | 0:25:02 | |
My faith is part of... It is who I am. | 0:25:02 | 0:25:06 | |
And so if God calls Clara to this, | 0:25:06 | 0:25:10 | |
then I must support her, and I want to support her. | 0:25:10 | 0:25:14 | |
I don't resent God for taking her away from me. | 0:25:14 | 0:25:18 | |
I think God has something beautiful for her. | 0:25:18 | 0:25:22 | |
And I would be... | 0:25:22 | 0:25:25 | |
I would be denying Clara so much | 0:25:26 | 0:25:28 | |
if I didn't let her pursue this vocation. | 0:25:28 | 0:25:32 | |
I feel joy in my heart that God's chosen her. | 0:25:32 | 0:25:36 | |
-Trying to get me drunk! -Slainte mhath. -Slainte mhath. | 0:25:38 | 0:25:42 | |
'Catherine's with her younger sisters for a night out in London. | 0:25:42 | 0:25:46 | |
'They're keen to know if her stay at the convent has helped her move closer | 0:25:46 | 0:25:51 | |
'to a decision about becoming a nun.' | 0:25:51 | 0:25:54 | |
There is still that chance that I could meet someone and marry. | 0:25:54 | 0:25:58 | |
You can never say never, and you can never know for 100%. | 0:25:58 | 0:26:03 | |
There's a big part of me that wants to give my life to God in this way. | 0:26:03 | 0:26:07 | |
I'm taking the steps and if it's right, I'm totally willing to do it. | 0:26:07 | 0:26:12 | |
Because there's been murmurings for so many years, | 0:26:12 | 0:26:16 | |
it wasn't a shock, but in a way, | 0:26:16 | 0:26:18 | |
it still is a bit surprising because | 0:26:18 | 0:26:21 | |
she'll be giving up a lot that she enjoys. | 0:26:21 | 0:26:24 | |
Sometimes, I do think... | 0:26:24 | 0:26:27 | |
-I won't say it. -Say it! -If you married someone, | 0:26:27 | 0:26:30 | |
your husband would have a lot to put up with! | 0:26:30 | 0:26:34 | |
MUSIC: "Rolling In The Deep" by Adele | 0:26:34 | 0:26:38 | |
'I do feel torn, pulled in two directions. | 0:26:46 | 0:26:49 | |
'I've been told I would make a good wife and mother.' | 0:26:49 | 0:26:53 | |
And I would love to, so, if that's what God wants | 0:26:53 | 0:26:58 | |
I would. | 0:26:58 | 0:27:00 | |
< What do you want? | 0:27:00 | 0:27:02 | |
'I really like the community. When I'm there, I want to join. | 0:27:02 | 0:27:06 | |
'When I come back in the world, it's so hard to... | 0:27:06 | 0:27:09 | |
'It's just hard, I guess.' | 0:27:09 | 0:27:11 | |
'Surely, you should know. | 0:27:11 | 0:27:13 | |
'You should WANT to be married or to be a sister. One desire should be stronger than the other.' | 0:27:13 | 0:27:19 | |
I've been praying, "Give me that desire for one, so I know where you're calling me." | 0:27:19 | 0:27:25 | |
'You do have to jump in the dark and take this leap of faith. | 0:27:25 | 0:27:29 | |
'I'd like to be more happy about this.' | 0:27:29 | 0:27:33 | |
BELL RINGS | 0:27:49 | 0:27:52 | |
Holy Mary, mother of God... | 0:27:54 | 0:27:56 | |
'Like all nuns, the sisters in Leeds have made a conscious choice | 0:27:56 | 0:28:00 | |
'to live without a physical relationship. | 0:28:00 | 0:28:03 | |
'But contrary to popular belief, | 0:28:03 | 0:28:06 | |
'the convent isn't a refuge for women who've been unlucky in love.' | 0:28:06 | 0:28:11 | |
It wouldn't be much of a compliment to God if he chose the remnants, | 0:28:11 | 0:28:15 | |
the ones that couldn't get a husband or weren't very attractive. | 0:28:15 | 0:28:21 | |
Or left on the shelf! It wouldn't be much of a compliment to him. | 0:28:21 | 0:28:25 | |
By becoming a sister, | 0:28:25 | 0:28:27 | |
we don't stop being human beings with natural feelings and emotions. | 0:28:27 | 0:28:32 | |
In the same way that a married woman would guard her heart against falling in love with another man, | 0:28:32 | 0:28:38 | |
we guard our hearts and we've given them to our spouse, Jesus Christ. | 0:28:38 | 0:28:43 | |
'It's a long engagement to Jesus. | 0:28:44 | 0:28:47 | |
'Sister Jacinta had been a nun for eight years | 0:28:47 | 0:28:51 | |
'before taking final vows. | 0:28:51 | 0:28:53 | |
'In a formal ceremony in 2009, | 0:28:55 | 0:28:57 | |
'she made a lifelong commitment to Christ.' | 0:28:57 | 0:29:00 | |
LAUGHING: 'I remember my heart was beating really fast!' | 0:29:00 | 0:29:05 | |
I remember I was just, um... | 0:29:05 | 0:29:09 | |
There was such an intense emotion at that moment, | 0:29:10 | 0:29:13 | |
of what I was about to do. | 0:29:13 | 0:29:16 | |
Living in your goodness without property, | 0:29:16 | 0:29:20 | |
in poverty and in chastity. | 0:29:20 | 0:29:24 | |
Receive this ring | 0:29:27 | 0:29:30 | |
for you are betrothed to the eternal King. | 0:29:30 | 0:29:34 | |
'There is a ring given. | 0:29:34 | 0:29:36 | |
'There is the signing of the vows. | 0:29:36 | 0:29:39 | |
'My mum and dad walked me up the aisle. | 0:29:39 | 0:29:42 | |
'So, yeah, it looks a lot like a wedding. | 0:29:42 | 0:29:46 | |
'For me, it FELT like a wedding. | 0:29:46 | 0:29:49 | |
'I really felt that I really knew Jesus was there, waiting.' | 0:29:49 | 0:29:55 | |
I've been captured. My heart's been captured by... | 0:29:55 | 0:29:59 | |
..the most perfect man! | 0:30:00 | 0:30:02 | |
'It's now days before Clara will begin her new life in the convent.' | 0:30:05 | 0:30:10 | |
-I remember getting that! You got it cos it looked like me. -I did. | 0:30:10 | 0:30:14 | |
You looked like that when Auntie Sis came to visit. | 0:30:14 | 0:30:18 | |
It's exactly how you looked when you were about eight months. | 0:30:18 | 0:30:22 | |
'The idea is that, when you join a convent, | 0:30:22 | 0:30:26 | |
'you are really meant to get rid of all your possessions | 0:30:26 | 0:30:30 | |
'from your previous life and start afresh. | 0:30:30 | 0:30:33 | |
'Although I want to,' | 0:30:33 | 0:30:35 | |
sometimes it's hard and you think, "What if I come out and need stuff?" | 0:30:35 | 0:30:40 | |
I feel like I'm getting rid of my friends as I throw away my letters! | 0:30:40 | 0:30:45 | |
I don't want people to think I don't care about them. | 0:30:45 | 0:30:49 | |
I just have to do it. | 0:30:49 | 0:30:51 | |
I really want them to write me lots of new letters. | 0:30:51 | 0:30:55 | |
I'll be so happy to hear from them. | 0:30:55 | 0:30:58 | |
One of the most important things to me | 0:30:58 | 0:31:02 | |
is friends and stuff... | 0:31:02 | 0:31:04 | |
I'm getting emotional now. | 0:31:04 | 0:31:06 | |
-VOICE BREAKING -I find that the hardest thing, | 0:31:06 | 0:31:10 | |
to give up my friends cos I really care about them. | 0:31:10 | 0:31:15 | |
It means a lot to me, so... | 0:31:15 | 0:31:17 | |
I don't like to... | 0:31:17 | 0:31:19 | |
lose touch with people, so... | 0:31:19 | 0:31:22 | |
I think that's why it's really hard to give away letters and stuff. | 0:31:22 | 0:31:27 | |
Oh! You've got me crying! | 0:31:27 | 0:31:29 | |
It's true, though, it really is. I don't care about stuff. | 0:31:31 | 0:31:36 | |
I really care about people. | 0:31:36 | 0:31:38 | |
I'm not looking forward to letting all the people go in my life. | 0:31:38 | 0:31:44 | |
Oh, God! | 0:31:45 | 0:31:46 | |
'Without God, it would be quite frightening.' | 0:31:53 | 0:31:56 | |
Without my faith, I'd think, "Gosh! I'm going to get really depressed. | 0:31:56 | 0:32:00 | |
"Everything's going to seem so empty." | 0:32:00 | 0:32:04 | |
So you just have to pray, don't you? Get back on your knees. | 0:32:04 | 0:32:08 | |
Pray and ask God to help you, just support you, | 0:32:08 | 0:32:12 | |
physically support you in your physical weakness. | 0:32:12 | 0:32:17 | |
Yeah. | 0:32:17 | 0:32:19 | |
Good night, Benedict. | 0:32:24 | 0:32:26 | |
You want a hug? | 0:32:28 | 0:32:30 | |
Did you get all of my hair in the way? | 0:32:32 | 0:32:35 | |
You ready for light off? | 0:32:35 | 0:32:37 | |
'It's Clara's last day at home. | 0:33:02 | 0:33:05 | |
'The whole family are preparing to drive to St Cecilia's Abbey on the Isle of Wight to say goodbye.' | 0:33:05 | 0:33:12 | |
Clara, will you please hurry up? | 0:33:14 | 0:33:16 | |
That's another five minutes! | 0:33:16 | 0:33:19 | |
Mum, just give me two seconds! | 0:33:19 | 0:33:22 | |
Just two seconds, please? | 0:33:25 | 0:33:28 | |
CLARA SOBS | 0:33:28 | 0:33:30 | |
Clara's suddenly just frozen. | 0:33:44 | 0:33:47 | |
She can barely move. I'm not being mean to her. | 0:33:47 | 0:33:51 | |
I just need to get her going. She'll be all right. | 0:33:51 | 0:33:55 | |
ANDREW AND BENEDICT CHATTER > | 0:33:55 | 0:33:58 | |
It's a big thing, leaving your home, isn't it? | 0:34:10 | 0:34:13 | |
If you'll be back or... | 0:34:13 | 0:34:15 | |
CHILDREN BICKER > | 0:34:24 | 0:34:27 | |
'"Dear Mummy, Daddy, Max, Francesca, Jerome and Benedict and Bella. | 0:35:45 | 0:35:49 | |
'"So, here it is, my first letter. | 0:35:49 | 0:35:52 | |
'"I am very pleased to be able to tell you | 0:35:52 | 0:35:55 | |
'"after two weeks, that I am still alive. | 0:35:55 | 0:35:59 | |
'"Nothing could have prepared me for the shock of actually leaving you all, and leaving the world. | 0:36:00 | 0:36:07 | |
'"Emotionally, it really hit me when the big oak doors closed behind me | 0:36:07 | 0:36:12 | |
'"and I left you all standing on the other side. | 0:36:12 | 0:36:16 | |
'"I felt in total shock, like I had been plunged into cold water. | 0:36:16 | 0:36:22 | |
'"Although I have been preparing myself for years for this moment, | 0:36:22 | 0:36:27 | |
'"I suddenly felt completely unprepared.' | 0:36:27 | 0:36:31 | |
"From what I have said so far, | 0:36:34 | 0:36:36 | |
"it probably sounds like it's rather miserable and I want to come home. | 0:36:36 | 0:36:41 | |
"But funnily enough, I'm actually very, very happy." | 0:36:41 | 0:36:48 | |
I can't read any more. SNIFFS | 0:36:50 | 0:36:54 | |
I couldn't open it for crying. | 0:36:54 | 0:36:57 | |
Um, but when I got it, it was... | 0:36:57 | 0:37:00 | |
it was really reassuring to know that she's all right. | 0:37:00 | 0:37:04 | |
In fact, she says she's very happy. | 0:37:04 | 0:37:07 | |
And um... | 0:37:07 | 0:37:09 | |
It was just lovely to hear her voice through the letter. | 0:37:09 | 0:37:13 | |
Just to have her thoughts | 0:37:13 | 0:37:16 | |
and have a bit of time with her, reading the letter. | 0:37:16 | 0:37:19 | |
I came in here. Andy was at work and the children at school. | 0:37:19 | 0:37:24 | |
It was nice because I could read it and think about it | 0:37:24 | 0:37:27 | |
and look back over it. | 0:37:27 | 0:37:29 | |
CHANTING | 0:37:31 | 0:37:33 | |
'After months working out if she should apply to enter the convent, | 0:37:43 | 0:37:47 | |
'Catherine's come back to St Dominic's Priory to talk to the sisters about her decision.' | 0:37:47 | 0:37:54 | |
'Sister Hyacinthe asked me, | 0:37:57 | 0:37:59 | |
'"What do you want deepest in your heart? What do you desire?" | 0:37:59 | 0:38:03 | |
'And I said, "To be a saint and to do the will of God. | 0:38:03 | 0:38:07 | |
'"To bring love and joy to people. That's what I want." | 0:38:07 | 0:38:13 | |
'So that's compatible with this way of life | 0:38:13 | 0:38:16 | |
'and I think I could do that best here.' | 0:38:16 | 0:38:20 | |
How DO you know it's right to take the next step? | 0:38:20 | 0:38:24 | |
Because you want to. | 0:38:24 | 0:38:26 | |
I think that's the key thing, wanting to. | 0:38:26 | 0:38:29 | |
It's simple, but it's key. | 0:38:29 | 0:38:32 | |
'Catherine's hoping to join the community in September, | 0:38:42 | 0:38:46 | |
'but the sisters have also been thinking about whether she's ready.' | 0:38:46 | 0:38:51 | |
It's not... Oh, I really don't want to disappoint you. | 0:38:51 | 0:38:56 | |
My main concern is for your happiness. | 0:38:56 | 0:38:59 | |
-There's no way it could be this September? -Well... | 0:38:59 | 0:39:03 | |
-Tiny, tiny, one percent chance? -I can report to the sisters. | 0:39:03 | 0:39:07 | |
-I want to do what your advice is. -You will profit from it. | 0:39:07 | 0:39:13 | |
-We just want you to deepen your life of faith. -Yes. | 0:39:13 | 0:39:16 | |
For you to make a better decision. | 0:39:16 | 0:39:19 | |
-Mm. -A more... | 0:39:19 | 0:39:22 | |
A decision which is absolutely sure. | 0:39:22 | 0:39:25 | |
And if you're absolutely sure now, | 0:39:25 | 0:39:28 | |
if it's genuine, it's not going to go away in a year. | 0:39:28 | 0:39:32 | |
-Mm. -You see what I mean? It needs to have this test of endurance. -Yes. | 0:39:32 | 0:39:38 | |
Otherwise it's, "Let's do this!" "Let's do that!" | 0:39:38 | 0:39:41 | |
-You see what I mean? -Yeah. | 0:39:41 | 0:39:44 | |
I do see. It's not that I've decided on a whim, yesterday. | 0:39:44 | 0:39:49 | |
I've been saying this since I was four years old. | 0:39:49 | 0:39:52 | |
-Oh! -I trust whatever you decide. | 0:39:52 | 0:39:56 | |
-You'd have to rush through everything. -I'd love it, but...! | 0:39:56 | 0:40:01 | |
-What you decide is what you decide. -Well, it's not my decision. | 0:40:01 | 0:40:05 | |
-It is. -It's not my decision at all. It's the community's decision. | 0:40:05 | 0:40:09 | |
'We hope and pray that she does come back. It's also a testing time.' | 0:40:09 | 0:40:15 | |
She really wants to join us now, yes, | 0:40:15 | 0:40:18 | |
but will she want it in six months' time? | 0:40:18 | 0:40:21 | |
If not, well, that will be a good sign for all of us | 0:40:21 | 0:40:25 | |
that this was not meant to be. | 0:40:25 | 0:40:27 | |
It has to be the decision that comes first and foremost | 0:40:27 | 0:40:31 | |
beyond everything else the world has to offer. | 0:40:31 | 0:40:34 | |
Whether it be success, money... | 0:40:34 | 0:40:37 | |
or even meeting the most perfect possible man. | 0:40:37 | 0:40:42 | |
Um... I would rather be here. | 0:40:43 | 0:40:45 | |
I would rather give myself to God than doing all of this. | 0:40:45 | 0:40:49 | |
"For ignorance belongs to the shepherds..." | 0:40:56 | 0:40:59 | |
'If Sister Hyacinthe had said, "Come this September," I'd have done it.' | 0:41:01 | 0:41:06 | |
So I was disappointed, but she gave me really good advice. | 0:41:06 | 0:41:11 | |
It's true, you can't enter if you're not 100% sure. | 0:41:11 | 0:41:15 | |
'I've never been a very patient person | 0:41:15 | 0:41:18 | |
'so God is teaching me to be patient. | 0:41:18 | 0:41:22 | |
'I'm really enjoying the journey.' | 0:41:22 | 0:41:25 | |
It can be frustrating, not always knowing where the future lies, | 0:41:25 | 0:41:30 | |
but it's exciting as well. | 0:41:30 | 0:41:32 | |
I'm very optimistic and hopeful about the future. | 0:41:32 | 0:41:35 | |
"It was, of course, very hard not being with you for Christmas. | 0:41:50 | 0:41:55 | |
"I kept thinking of you all at home, opening presents | 0:41:55 | 0:41:59 | |
"and tucking into Christmas dinner. | 0:41:59 | 0:42:01 | |
"When I got my presents from you in the morning, the first thing I saw | 0:42:01 | 0:42:07 | |
"was Benedict's picture which said, 'Come back, Clara. | 0:42:07 | 0:42:11 | |
"'I wrote you on my Christmas list.' | 0:42:11 | 0:42:14 | |
"And that was enough to start the waterworks." | 0:42:14 | 0:42:18 | |
'It's been five months since Clara entered St Cecilia's Abbey, | 0:42:24 | 0:42:29 | |
'and her family are adjusting to an unexpected development. | 0:42:29 | 0:42:34 | |
'Clara has come back home on an indefinite break. | 0:42:37 | 0:42:41 | |
'The door has been left open for her to return, | 0:42:41 | 0:42:45 | |
'but she's taking time out to decide whether she can cope with life in an enclosed order.' | 0:42:45 | 0:42:51 | |
'I really love the community, but can I practically do it?' | 0:42:51 | 0:42:57 | |
I love it, I know I do. | 0:42:57 | 0:42:59 | |
But can I live it? That's what I've got to think about. | 0:42:59 | 0:43:02 | |
Bless us, oh Lord, and these Thy gifts... | 0:43:02 | 0:43:06 | |
'The main thing I was finding difficult was adjusting to the limited contact with my family.' | 0:43:06 | 0:43:13 | |
It might just be that my personality is I can't deal with that aspect | 0:43:13 | 0:43:17 | |
as well as the other sisters have been able to. | 0:43:17 | 0:43:21 | |
That arm on there.. | 0:43:21 | 0:43:23 | |
'It was hard coming to terms with the fact | 0:43:23 | 0:43:26 | |
'that it wasn't going to pan out as simply as I thought it would.' | 0:43:26 | 0:43:30 | |
I was going to enter, and I was so sure that I wasn't coming out. | 0:43:30 | 0:43:34 | |
It took a heck of a lot of getting used to. | 0:43:34 | 0:43:38 | |
'But I don't think, at any point, I've failed in any way. | 0:43:38 | 0:43:43 | |
'I think I would have felt like I'd failed' | 0:43:43 | 0:43:46 | |
if I hadn't tried, but I know I have tried. | 0:43:46 | 0:43:50 | |
So, I think if you try something and you try your best, | 0:43:50 | 0:43:54 | |
then there's never any reason to feel like you failed. | 0:43:54 | 0:43:59 | |
COUNTRY ROCK GUITAR INTRO | 0:43:59 | 0:44:02 | |
-# Rise! -Rise! | 0:44:05 | 0:44:07 | |
-# Shine! -Shine! -Give God the glory... # | 0:44:07 | 0:44:10 | |
'It's never easy to figure out, "Where is God calling me to?"' | 0:44:10 | 0:44:16 | |
It's not like it comes out of Heaven on a fax! | 0:44:16 | 0:44:19 | |
'It takes a lot of patience. It takes a lot of courage.' | 0:44:21 | 0:44:25 | |
Hey, Charles! | 0:44:25 | 0:44:27 | |
'In myself, too, there are times of doubts and times of struggle. | 0:44:27 | 0:44:31 | |
'You know, the ups and the downs.' | 0:44:31 | 0:44:34 | |
But I can really honestly say, in my heart, | 0:44:34 | 0:44:38 | |
that I wouldn't want to be doing ANYTHING else. | 0:44:38 | 0:44:42 | |
-# Rise! -Rise! | 0:44:42 | 0:44:44 | |
-# Shine! -Shine! -Give God his glory | 0:44:44 | 0:44:47 | |
-# Soldiers! -Soldiers! | 0:44:47 | 0:44:49 | |
# Of the cross | 0:44:49 | 0:44:51 | |
# Soldiers of the cross. # | 0:44:51 | 0:44:56 |