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My name is Archie.

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I'm 10 years old, and I have got cerebral palsy.

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Charlie's my twin brother, he's got the same disability as me.

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We've got a lot of things in common, and we do lots of things together.

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It affects my legs because the signal from my brain

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can't properly get down to the legs so they're not as strong.

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So whenever I stand up, my legs feel like jelly.

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The doctors predicted I would never be able to speak,

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I would never know my parents, I would never be able to eat,

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and I would never be able to wheel myself.

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Wheelchair basketball is very good

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because it allows me to play with other people that feel the same way

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and have the same disability and we can just play together.

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Our team is called Lewisham Thunder.

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Kyle and Deon are two of my friends at basketball.

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My name is Deon, and I am 13 years old.

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And my name's Kyle and I'm 10.

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Archie is a good player.

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He likes to defend a lot, but he sometimes attacks.

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And he's got a brilliant right hand!

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Sometimes people think just because we're in wheelchairs

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we can't play sports, but that's not it.

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If we're in wheelchairs we can still play Olympic sports.

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My coach is called Steve, Steve inspires me

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because he is on the England team

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and he brings a message that you can still do what you want to do.

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I spend half the time out my chair,

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and I crawl when I'm not in my chair.

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My favourite bit of gardening is doing archaeology

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with Charlie and my dad.

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Charlie, let's have a competition, who can find the most pieces.

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I can't do things as quick as other people.

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Do you want to lie down and have a look?

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The frogs are probably hiding under those logs, there.

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I can't wheel as fast as other people,

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I can't, maybe, speak as fast as other people.

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Well, I'm sure I can.

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But I can still do exactly the same things, it just takes time.

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What's the treat? Oh.

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Er, I'm not sure.

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-Er, I don't know. The washing up?

-No!

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That's you!

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Oh!

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What a lovely run!

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I especially like playing FIFA 12 with my brother.

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2-0!

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I know it's a videogame,

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but I picture myself being the player.

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Oh!

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I picture myself scoring all the goals.

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-'He takes the shot and he's put it away!'

-Yes! Oh!

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Being in that West Ham shirt, because it helps.

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Oh, what a cracking shot! What a cracker!

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In real football, obviously there's going to be a disadvantage for me,

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but in FIFA there's no disadvantage.

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It helps me with something that I might not be able to do,

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but I can do it in a videogame.

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I do not need any help academically.

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It's only one half of my body that doesn't work.

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My brain works.

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I like school because it gives me a chance to see my friends,

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Kai and Hector are good friends.

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-The yellow thing.

-Well...

-I just ate your hotdog!

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They help me take my plate.

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They help me get my coat.

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They help me around school.

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They go down in the lift, they go up the lift.

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And we always play together, always.

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-I'm Hector.

-I'm Kai.

-And we're friends with Archie.

-Yup.

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-Stay back!

-Argh!

-Back!

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We really kind of play army games.

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ARCHIE MAKES GUN NOISES

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And games where we have to hide,

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and then Archie has to come and find us.

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And we kind of play stunt games, where we have to do some stunts.

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Like jumping over his wheelchair!

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We can include Archie in everything we play,

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most of them are quite simple but fun games.

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Another thing I play at break is tabletop cricket.

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Four!

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-A four!

-Four!

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Basically it's cricket played on a table and it's really fun.

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I don't really think it's my place to tell people what to do.

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But if I had to send a message,

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it would be - I'd like me to be treated with some respect.

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If you want to push me, you've got to ask if you want to push me.

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Ooh!

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If you want to hold the door, then please do, just ask.

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Or, just ask me if you want me to hold the door, because I can.

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Bang on!

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THEY GASP

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I don't think being a wheelchair user makes me different.

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Well, of course I might look different,

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but it doesn't make me feel different.

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I'm just the same but on wheels, that's all I am.

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My name's Rebecca, I am 10 years old, and I have an allergy to nuts.

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When I first found out I had the allergy,

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I was quite nervous and scared,

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but it does get easier and you generally get to do normal things.

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A typical Saturday, we go into the fish and chip shop.

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Can I have chips and gravy, and can Dad have some fish and chips?

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Chips and gravy and fish and chips?

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-Yes!

-OK.

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Thank you!

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We know it's a nut safe fish and chip shop

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and it's one of the only places I can get lunch in Huddersfield.

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-They're nice, aren't they?

-Gorgeous, yeah.

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Just as good as usual.

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We go down into the market, get some sweets from the sweetie stall.

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Hi!

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Hi, how are you? All right?

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We go to that particular store for sweets because it tells you

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if it's got nuts in it.

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I can't have eclairs.

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It does get quite boring sometimes,

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reading labels after label after label after label.

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I support Huddersfield Town.

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When we go to the match, instead of eating the things at the ground,

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we take our own snacks.

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Yeah!

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Hudders!

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We can't have Twixes any more.

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Mum can't eat her Snickers

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and dad can't have his peanuts in the cupboard.

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If I touch nuts or come in contact or eat nuts,

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my throat will start to swell up

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and I can't breathe so I'll have to have my EpiPen.

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Tip it in.

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-What are we making now?

-Raspberry and white chocolate cookies.

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It smells nice.

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From the top.

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-The last bit of chocolate.

-Can I have it?

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-Make sure it's all mixed together.

-It's getting harder!

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Make it flat.

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I bake my own cookies because, well, when we go to the shops

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they always put on the packages that they can't guarantee it's nut free,

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so we just make our own so then we know that they're nut free

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and they're safe and it's a lot more fun

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than just going to the shops and buying them.

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-What are we going to do with those now?

-Throw them in the oven!

-Good.

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We went to a craft fair at church and we brought a chocolate cake

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and I went to eat it but my throat swelled up

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because somebody had used a knife to cut an almond cake.

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They used the same knife to cut the chocolate cake.

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We have to be very careful, because if I've not got my medicine with me

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I definitely won't take the risk.

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If I have got my medicine with me,

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I'll take the risk of eating a chocolate cake or something.

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-It's hot.

-Do you want to try?

-Yup.

-Mmm!

-Don't eat too much of it.

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Huzzah!

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My school supports me by helping me with my school dinners.

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You're not allowed to bring in food with nuts in or chocolate bars

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or anything like that, just in case me or any other pupils

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come up with an allergic reaction.

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Right, who wants a Kit Kat?

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All of my friends know that I have a nut allergy, so it's quite good.

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-Fruit Winder competition!

-They are the same size.

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TOGETHER: Get set, eat!

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People can't really share with me

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because sometimes people will say I "...probably should be all right,

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"my brother has an allergy to nuts and he can eat these chocolate bars",

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but still it might be a different nut that he's allergic to.

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This is the bag I usually take around with me,

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here I've got a little sign that says I have an allergy to nuts.

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Inside we've my EpiPens, two of them are real

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and this one's a practice one.

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What I do is I take the lid off,

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then I just grab the EpiPen in a fist,

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jab it into my thigh, and hold it for 10 seconds.

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Then I would rub it for another very long 10 seconds,

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then if the ambulance still hasn't come, I use the other one,

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do the exact same thing but in the other thigh.

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Then, if the ambulance still hasn't come, I have to use my inhaler.

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If I didn't use the EpiPen then I would probably die

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because my throat would be swollen up and I couldn't breathe.

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If you saw someone having an allergic reaction the way to help them would

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be by sitting them up

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and making sure it's a bit easier for them to breathe.

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Calling the ambulance and just, basically, reassuring them.

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If someone has got an allergy, it doesn't mean they're any different,

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you've just got something difficult to cope with.

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Now I am kind of used to it and not really bothered.

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Kind of one of those things.

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My name is Phoebe, I'm seven years old, and I have type one diabetes.

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TOGETHER: Trick or Treat?!

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Type one diabetes is that I have a pancreas what doesn't work.

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It means that my blood sugar goes low and high,

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so I have to have injections to help it.

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Other people give me sweets and I say no,

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because I have to control it properly, the way I should.

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-Do you want these?

-I don't mind.

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I couldn't just sneakily eat one

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because I didn't bring the diabetes kit.

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I feel sorry for Phoebe

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because we can eat as much sweets as we like, rather than Phoebe,

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every time she picks up a sweet

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she has to ask her mum and then take a test and also has to take a jab.

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I test and I inject myself four times a day.

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I do the insulin before I eat my dinner.

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-6.8!

-6.8? Excellent. OK.

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I have to fill the insulin in my pancreas to make it work.

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Put in 55 grams of carbohydrate, that should do it.

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In the morning, when we're doing our breakfast,

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what we do is we have all of these little strips

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and then what we do is we get my finger prick ready

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and then we prick my finger, blood comes out,

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I tell my mum the reading

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and then after that she tells me how many carbs to put into the monitor.

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I put them in and then it tells me

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how many units I should give to inject myself.

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-Tested!

-Thank you!

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-Four units.

-Four units.

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When I had my injection the first ever time it did hurt.

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Now I have gotten used to having the injection

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it's actually getting better and better every time.

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-There you go.

-Thank you, Mummy.

-No worries.

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# Three, six, nine, and twelve!

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# Fifteen, eighteen, twenty-one... #

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At school I have to do it at break time

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and lunchtime I have to do it again.

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Phoebe, could you go and take yourself down to Mrs Ball, please.

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Good girl, thank you.

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If I don't do that, my blood sugar will go really, really high.

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The signs are when I have got a bad tummy, maybe the headache,

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and when I am really teary and I am really shaky as well.

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..sept, huit, neuf, dix, onze, douz, treze, quatorze, quinze.

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-Make sure you eat all your apple up. OK?

-Yup. Thank you.

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There we go.

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I do have to be kind of careful, because even though I've had the jab

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and I can run around, I can't run around too much, mad.

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You see the pancreas, it goes a bit "oooh"

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and that's when I start to feel a bit low.

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My friends at home, they always say, "Are you OK?"

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when they just notice that I'm running a bit weird or shaking,

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they just run and knock on the door, then my mum knows

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and they bring me in.

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Whenever you see a diabetic a bit shaky or anything wrong with them,

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just go and look after them and tell somebody straight away.

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My hobby is singing, acting and dancing.

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# Santa's got to make it to town

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# Santa make him hurry

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# Tell him he can take the freeway down

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# Yeah! #

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Whenever it's the snack time, I have to do my blood tests

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and my injection whenever I am eating.

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-No!

-Oh no!

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-Ohh!

-Oh no!

-I'm not going to eat my lunch.

-Yeah, you are. It's fine.

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Have that. Then we'll do it again. In a bit.

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When I have a low reading I have to have a sugary drink

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or anything what's got sugar in it.

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And then I have to wait for 10 minutes

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and then it'll bring back up the sugar levels.

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-Ahh...

-6.9?

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Two units!

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It makes me feel like I'm really left out on food

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because loads of people get to eat straight away

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and I have to have the blood test and the injections before I eat,

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it's not really that fair, if you know what I mean.

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But some of my friends what are really kind,

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they don't eat their sweets, they eat it when I eat it

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and they be really kind to me and I really enjoy that

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because it means they're being a really kind, thoughtful friend.

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# You don't know how I feel

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# I'm so sad inside... #

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I have my own little book where I write my own songs

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from singing as well.

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# I want to be a normal girl

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# That's all I want

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# If only I could have this... #

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Diabetics can still be normal children and normal people,

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but all is wrong with them is they just have to have blood tests,

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it doesn't mean that they're going to stop doing what they need to do.

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When I grow up I would like to be a nurse, a vet,

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or, mostly, I would love to be a singer.

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PHOEBE SINGS SCALES

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-Good!

-Another one!

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I do singing lessons with Polly,

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and we do harmonies together

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and then she brings me new songs what I should learn,

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then I sing the songs to her and she helps me.

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# Nevermind, I'll find someone like you

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# I wish nothing but the best for you too... #

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It doesn't matter that I've got diabetes,

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even though you are diabetic,

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whatever happens to you, you can still go anywhere.

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My name is Theo, I am 10 years old.

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There's no one else who's visually impaired who goes karate.

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But it don't really make a difference because they treat me the same

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as everybody else and that's what I like,

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I don't like being treated different.

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I think karate is something really, really good to learn,

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because if, like, one day someone comes up to me in the street

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and they know that I'm blind

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so then they know I won't be as strong as the others,

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but with karate, I learn how to defend myself and all that.

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Kiai!

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When I was born I had tumours in my eye,

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so then they had to take those tumours out

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but I cannot see out of this eye now.

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With my right eye, imagine an alien with one eye,

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and the eye is about this big. That's what I can see.

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Theo, don't forget to put your eye drops in, yeah?

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Every three hours I have these little drops that I put in my eye,

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I need them, because if my eyes dry out,

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the tumours might come back to life.

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-Your eyes all right?

-Yeah.

-Cool. OK.

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CHEERING

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On a Saturday I go cricket, for the VI team. VI means visually impaired.

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The only difference in normal cricket and this cricket is

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in this cricket it's much, much more communication,

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you have to shout your name when you catch the ball,

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you have to clap your hands, say yes or no, and the ball is a big ball.

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Right, ready?

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It's got little jingle bells in it,

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and then you hear the ball coming to you.

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I like it because we get to interact with lots of people

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who have the same problem,

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and I think that's really, really good that they've got this.

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-Dad?

-Yeah?

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-Do people do this for a job?

-For a living, they do, you know.

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Sometimes I help my dad, I help him do the easy jobs like carry a bucket,

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paint, scrape stuff off walls for him, clean.

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Some people will say to me,

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"Oh, you might not do this good because you've an eyesight problem,"

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But my dad, he is really good,

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he don't even remember that I have an eyesight problem.

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He treats me normal.

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Sometimes you just forget because I act so normal to everyone else,

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and I think it's really, really good that people give me a chance.

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"Put the work in to save the..."

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When I read, I have big books. 26 font, it's easier for me to read.

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"I've got to get out."

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If it's a small book, I have magnifiers to help me find it.

0:25:590:26:03

"..pedalled forward."

0:26:030:26:05

On a Tuesday and a Thursday I have a Braille lesson.

0:26:090:26:13

Braille is an alphabet,

0:26:130:26:15

but you feel it with your fingers, for blind people.

0:26:150:26:18

Next line.

0:26:270:26:29

I'm not blind,

0:26:300:26:31

but I still use it just in case I become blind later on in my life.

0:26:310:26:35

Five eights?

0:26:350:26:36

In class they treat me the same as everyone else there.

0:26:360:26:40

Good, well done, Theo. Well done, Jenny.

0:26:400:26:44

The only difference is I get blown up papers,

0:26:440:26:47

and they explain it more to me.

0:26:470:26:49

Like the one you just wrote and then you change it over here.

0:26:490:26:53

When people are too nice to me I hate it,

0:26:560:26:58

because the only difference between me and you is,

0:26:580:27:03

I've got eyesight problems and you lot can see perfectly well.

0:27:030:27:07

Some of you can, anyway.

0:27:070:27:10

But, with my eyesight problems,

0:27:100:27:12

yeah, I hate it when people treat me like a kid.

0:27:120:27:17

"Oh, Theo, do you want this?"

0:27:170:27:18

"Oh, Theo, here you go, let me take you to your desk." I hate it.

0:27:180:27:25

My name is Jake and I have been Theo's best friend since reception.

0:27:390:27:44

Theo is very, very clever in maths and sometimes he helps me

0:27:440:27:50

with my maths and sometimes games, like, on the computer.

0:27:500:27:54

So, yeah, he helps me quite a lot.

0:27:540:27:57

Having Jake as a friend,

0:27:570:27:59

it makes me feel like I've got someone to look after me.

0:27:590:28:02

One time in Year Four, a boy was teasing him about his disability.

0:28:020:28:07

And I had to tell him that he is just like you,

0:28:070:28:10

and you shouldn't be teasing him.

0:28:100:28:12

If that happened to you, how would you feel

0:28:120:28:15

if someone was teasing you about it.

0:28:150:28:16

So, yeah, there were some hard times for Theo.

0:28:160:28:20

I tell people that I've got bad eyesight, I'm half blind,

0:28:260:28:31

and I can't see that good.

0:28:310:28:34

I tell them, "I'm sorry if I bump into you, or stuff like that."

0:28:350:28:39

Beep, beep, Theo!

0:28:400:28:43

Because I can't see, I have to use my senses a bit more to live.

0:28:470:28:52

So if I am going to the shops and I have to cross a road,

0:28:550:28:59

I could hear from the cars.

0:28:590:29:03

If I can't see them, I could hear them.

0:29:030:29:06

With my cane, I do use it sometimes.

0:29:120:29:15

So, when I'm on the trains, I'm like,

0:29:150:29:18

"Move out the way, VIP coming through!"

0:29:180:29:22

At night time, when I go out, I take a torch with me.

0:29:270:29:33

Sometimes there's lights just not working,

0:29:330:29:35

So on that bit I just have to switch on my torch.

0:29:350:29:39

Thank you very much.

0:29:420:29:43

THEY CHEER

0:30:050:30:08

Most people with a visual impairment, they find fireworks quite scary.

0:30:270:30:32

But, me, I enjoy it.

0:30:320:30:36

Yay!

0:30:360:30:38

In this little space I could see the fireworks,

0:30:420:30:45

because they were far away and because they were big,

0:30:450:30:48

I could see them.

0:30:480:30:49

Ha-ha!

0:30:490:30:51

Just because someone can't see as far as someone else

0:30:530:30:56

that doesn't mean they are really different,

0:30:560:30:58

it just means that, well, he's blind. Yeah, so what?

0:30:580:31:02

It don't really make a difference that I am visually impaired,

0:31:020:31:06

I'm used to this and I was brought up this way, I don't feel any different.

0:31:060:31:10

My name is Elna.

0:31:460:31:49

I'm Felicia.

0:31:490:31:51

Alexandra.

0:31:510:31:52

My sisters Felicia and Alexandra are the same age as me.

0:31:520:31:57

We are in Year Three.

0:31:570:31:59

We are triplets.

0:31:590:32:01

I've got brown/black hair.

0:32:030:32:04

My colour hair is brown

0:32:040:32:06

and, Alexandra, my other sister's hair is...

0:32:060:32:10

..Yellow.

0:32:100:32:11

I'm different to my sisters

0:32:140:32:17

because Alexandra has Down's Syndrome

0:32:170:32:20

and Felicia likes fashion more than me.

0:32:200:32:24

Sometimes she needs help with everyday things,

0:32:260:32:29

sometimes she doesn't.

0:32:290:32:30

That's it!

0:32:310:32:33

She can brush her teeth by herself,

0:32:330:32:36

but she can't get dressed by herself.

0:32:360:32:39

-Mummy, I love you.

-I love you, too.

0:32:410:32:46

She likes to cuddle and hold people's hands.

0:32:470:32:51

Girls, can we get shoes on, please!

0:32:510:32:57

We get her ready for school.

0:32:570:33:00

There you go.

0:33:000:33:01

-Thank you.

-You're welcome.

0:33:030:33:05

We go to the same primary school and we're in the same class.

0:33:090:33:14

I sit next to Heidi.

0:33:190:33:22

Felicia sits next to Jack and Alexandra sits next to Logan.

0:33:220:33:29

Alexandra's assistant is Mrs Eddy.

0:33:290:33:33

What number shall I put down now.

0:33:330:33:36

One?

0:33:360:33:38

-Just one? I need a higher number than one.

-Two?

0:33:380:33:43

Mrs Eddy helps Alexandra to spell her words

0:33:430:33:47

and she helps with her maths.

0:33:470:33:49

-How many am I taking away?

-Two.

-Two.

0:33:490:33:52

My name's Logan, and I sit next to Alexandra.

0:33:520:33:56

26. Where's 26?

0:33:560:33:58

26.

0:34:010:34:03

I'm not very good at adding up, and Alexandra helps me.

0:34:050:34:08

Can you show Logan? Try and help Logan.

0:34:080:34:11

-26!

-26, Logan. A two and a six.

0:34:110:34:17

I like playing with Alexandra and working with Alexandra.

0:34:170:34:22

Together we do gymnastics, swimming and brownies.

0:34:230:34:30

That's it, good girl.

0:34:300:34:33

Jump, that's it, and jump. Jump. Jump. Jump.

0:34:330:34:40

-Fiona's coming.

-Ahh!

0:35:040:35:08

All the way down, good girl. Thank you. Feet on the end.

0:35:100:35:15

Then we do a big jump.

0:35:170:35:18

And we're done.

0:35:220:35:24

Alexandra likes CBeebies.

0:35:270:35:31

-COMPUTER:

-'Banana.'

0:35:310:35:33

Banana.

0:35:330:35:34

She doesn't like much noise, so she does the quietest things.

0:35:340:35:41

We've all been going swimming since we were one.

0:35:450:35:48

She has a teacher that helps her to learn how to swim.

0:36:030:36:11

I think she's starting to get the hang of it.

0:36:230:36:26

# Round and round... #

0:36:310:36:33

Because Alex has Down's syndrome, Alex might do

0:36:330:36:37

some groups in different days and we might not be doing

0:36:370:36:40

the same as each other.

0:36:400:36:42

One, two, three...

0:36:420:36:44

-Do you think you could do that? Can you do the same?

-Yes.

0:36:440:36:47

-One, two, three. Go on, then.

-One, two, three.

0:36:470:36:50

Alexandra's education group helps with her spelling, her reading

0:36:500:36:58

and her writing.

0:36:580:37:01

-Which one says Ellie?

-That one.

-Ellie. That's right.

0:37:010:37:06

So that's "Who?" Put it on the "Who?"

0:37:060:37:08

Good girl. Who. And what's she doing?

0:37:080:37:12

-Ellie is lying down.

-Ellie is lying down.

0:37:130:37:15

Right, which one says "lying down"?

0:37:150:37:19

Good girl. Shall we see if we can read the sentence?

0:37:190:37:23

Ellie is lying down.

0:37:230:37:27

-Good girl.

-Under the table.

-Well done!

0:37:270:37:32

Ellie is lying down under the table.

0:37:320:37:34

It's good being a triplet because when there's three it is more fun.

0:37:340:37:40

THEY GIGGLE

0:37:410:37:44

ALEX LAUGHS

0:37:510:37:54

You get to do activities together

0:37:550:37:57

and you've always got your sisters around whenever you need them.

0:37:570:38:02

You've got to treat her kind and you've got to treat her nicely

0:38:280:38:31

because she doesn't exactly know what things mean.

0:38:310:38:36

She has lots of friends and I just want them

0:38:470:38:49

to be kind to Alexandra and give her a nice life.

0:38:490:38:54

THEY SCREAM AND LAUGH

0:39:180:39:22

My name's Alisha. I'm nine years old and I have asthma.

0:39:230:39:27

Asthma's a condition that triggers difficult breathing and wheezing.

0:39:300:39:35

I can't play outside in cold weather

0:39:390:39:42

because the cold normally affects my asthma.

0:39:420:39:45

I have to take my blue inhaler whenever I get wheezy.

0:39:470:39:51

My normal medicine, which is my inhaler, stops my coughing

0:39:550:39:57

for a little while and opens up my chest so I can breathe more.

0:39:570:40:01

When I have asthma attack,

0:40:040:40:06

it feels like your chest has just closed up and you can't breathe.

0:40:060:40:13

If I have an asthma attack, most of the time I go to the hospital.

0:40:130:40:18

They treat me by putting oxygen and a nebuliser on me

0:40:180:40:23

so I get more breath.

0:40:230:40:25

It makes me feel really upset when I can't play outside

0:40:270:40:30

because it just reminds me that if I was OK

0:40:300:40:34

and I didn't have asthma, I could have played outside.

0:40:340:40:37

I would say that I could do PE most of the time

0:40:390:40:42

but every few weeks, I don't play it because of my asthma.

0:40:420:40:47

I play korfball in school, and go to tournaments sometimes.

0:40:490:40:54

Korfball sometimes makes me cough because I'm running about

0:40:560:41:00

and you have to try and run fast

0:41:000:41:02

to get to where the ball is going to be thrown.

0:41:020:41:05

It sometimes trigger my asthma but I try and fight it.

0:41:090:41:13

I'm different to the people who don't have asthma

0:41:230:41:26

because you have to watch what you play,

0:41:260:41:28

whereas other people don't have to.

0:41:280:41:32

I can't do running every single day.

0:41:320:41:35

I can only do it three plays in a week.

0:41:350:41:38

I like knitting because I'm with my friend

0:41:390:41:42

and it's not, like, running about and affecting my asthma.

0:41:420:41:50

Most of my friends like to play lying dog

0:42:000:42:02

and then I can't play with them.

0:42:020:42:04

My friends do sometimes play with me but it does also make me feel upset

0:42:040:42:10

because they give up their games

0:42:100:42:11

to play with me and I can't play with them.

0:42:110:42:15

Alisha can't run as fast

0:42:150:42:18

but it doesn't make a lot of difference to our friendship.

0:42:180:42:21

'On Friday playtimes, I do librarian.'

0:42:210:42:27

Librarian means that you tidy up the library

0:42:270:42:30

and make sure it looks nice for visitors to come and see.

0:42:300:42:33

Because it has got a barcode and it has got a sticker...

0:42:390:42:43

The good thing about librarian is that I'm not always outside

0:42:520:42:56

on the playground so I have to be reminded

0:42:560:42:59

that I'm taking people away from playing their games

0:42:590:43:04

that I can't play, and that I can't play them.

0:43:040:43:07

I do miss school a lot because of my asthma.

0:43:120:43:17

Sometimes I could have had an asthma attack

0:43:170:43:19

or I could be very unwell because of my asthma.

0:43:190:43:22

There have been some girls that have been mean to me about asthma because

0:43:240:43:32

sometimes I miss out on school and then they think that maybe

0:43:320:43:37

I've chickened out on something,

0:43:370:43:40

or they've excluded me because I missed out on their club,

0:43:400:43:44

and they thought that I was doing it on purpose.

0:43:440:43:47

That makes me feel really upset

0:43:470:43:50

because they don't understand that I'm not doing it on purpose.

0:43:500:43:54

It's asthma and it's not my fault.

0:43:540:43:57

People should take asthma seriously because it is a very bad thing

0:43:580:44:03

and first it might not seem like it because you can just start wheezing,

0:44:030:44:07

but then you can have an asthma attack and end up in hospital

0:44:070:44:10

and then the last thing, that is the worst thing, is that they could die.

0:44:100:44:15

So it is very serious.

0:44:150:44:17

'My advice to the people who have friends that are asthmatic

0:44:180:44:25

'or people in their class'

0:44:250:44:26

that have asthma is if you get angry with them because they missed

0:44:260:44:32

a day of school and then that's your partner or someone,

0:44:320:44:36

don't get angry with them, because it's asthma

0:44:360:44:39

'and you can't see it but it does affect them.'

0:44:390:44:42

My best friends help me by asking the teacher

0:44:440:44:47

if I can go with them in partners if I've missed out on that day,

0:44:470:44:52

and they will tell me everything that we've missed, and help me.

0:44:520:44:56

'My friends are very understanding because they know'

0:45:020:45:06

that my asthma is very bad.

0:45:060:45:09

'instead of running, they come and play with me'

0:45:090:45:13

like hand games or slow games that I don't have to run about much.

0:45:130:45:18

And that does really help me.

0:45:180:45:20

My name is Robbie. I'm 11 years old and I live in Edinburgh.

0:45:560:46:00

Some people might have really bad epilepsy

0:46:050:46:08

where they have big seizures,

0:46:080:46:11

but I just have absences, which is just like

0:46:110:46:16

my eyelids fluttering and I just stop what I'm doing for 10 seconds.

0:46:160:46:22

Of my friends, the people who have seen me have an absence,

0:46:320:46:35

would be Cameron, because I spend a lot of time with them.

0:46:350:46:38

It's almost like he goes to sleep

0:46:380:46:40

and he just, for a couple of seconds - maybe about ten seconds,

0:46:400:46:43

he'll just sort of go to sleep and just sort of sit there.

0:46:430:46:47

You're talking to him and he won't have a clue you're talking to him.

0:46:470:46:51

When he wakes up, he doesn't really know where he is, and he sometimes

0:46:510:46:54

feels a bit dizzy and doesn't feel too well.

0:46:540:46:57

He has a bit of a sore head for a wee while

0:46:570:46:59

and then he just gets better pretty quickly.

0:46:590:47:01

I've had an absence at skiing.

0:47:010:47:04

He was just going up the tow, just over there, and I think he just

0:47:040:47:08

went into it and he fell off the tow and didn't really know where he was,

0:47:080:47:11

and kind of just got a bit dizzy and stuff like that.

0:47:110:47:14

And then, in the British Championships training run,

0:47:140:47:17

I had an absence just when I was about to turn,

0:47:170:47:21

so I just carried on going straight,

0:47:210:47:23

and when I woke up from there I just stopped,

0:47:230:47:27

but I didn't know where I was, and people were shouting,

0:47:270:47:30

"Go on, go on!" I was just like, "What?"

0:47:300:47:33

It might not be as safe as if I didn't have epilepsy,

0:47:330:47:38

but I just think if I want to do skiing

0:47:380:47:40

then I should be allowed to do it.

0:47:400:47:43

I also like rugby, mountain biking and judo.

0:47:450:47:49

Doing rugby and judo, sometimes they can be quite dangerous sports

0:48:020:48:07

to have epilepsy with.

0:48:070:48:09

We practice strangles, hold-downs, hip throws and just normal throws.

0:48:150:48:21

There's something called an arm lock, where you get somebody's arm

0:48:250:48:29

in a certain position and if you carry on moving it,

0:48:290:48:33

you could break their arm.

0:48:330:48:35

So if I had an absence when that was happening,

0:48:350:48:37

I could break my arm, because I wouldn't be able to tap

0:48:370:48:40

and tell them to stop.

0:48:400:48:42

But it's sort of a risk which I will have to take.

0:48:430:48:47

I enjoy quite a lot at playtimes.

0:48:520:48:53

I get to just be with my friends and we just do what we want.

0:48:530:48:57

All of my friends know about my epilepsy

0:49:050:49:07

because I thought, "It's nothing to be embarrassed about."

0:49:070:49:09

I felt that my friends should know just in case I had an absence

0:49:090:49:14

and they thought maybe I was ignoring them or something.

0:49:140:49:17

I don't think epilepsy really does anything

0:49:170:49:19

to anyone's friendship with Robbie but it's just when he has an absence

0:49:190:49:23

everyone just gets a bit worried.

0:49:230:49:26

It is not really something to be scared of

0:49:260:49:28

when you see somebody having an absence,

0:49:280:49:30

because it's basically just them getting on with their normal life,

0:49:300:49:33

I guess.

0:49:330:49:34

We're just carry on what we're doing afterwards.

0:49:340:49:38

When he has an absence, you've just got to be a bit more supportive

0:49:380:49:42

because he doesn't really know where he is

0:49:420:49:44

and he's a little bit dizzy and sometimes gets headaches,

0:49:440:49:47

so you need to support him and say, "Come on, Robbie. It's OK."

0:49:470:49:50

What stops me having absences would be my medication.

0:49:500:49:55

What makes me have absences is being tired.

0:49:550:49:58

I have to take my medicine for two years

0:49:580:50:00

and then I'll slowly stop taking it

0:50:000:50:03

and then if I do grow out of it then it would be good

0:50:030:50:08

but if I don't I'll just have to carry on taking it.

0:50:080:50:11

Well, I just swallowed my tablets, and it hurts my throat.

0:50:110:50:16

I've got to take two in the morning and two in the evening.

0:50:160:50:21

It is not very nice, having to take them all the time.

0:50:210:50:24

I'm always the last at the table because I'm a slow eater,

0:50:240:50:28

and then I've got to take tablets.

0:50:280:50:30

'But then again, it does do its job.'

0:50:300:50:33

The bad thing would be having to take medication all the time.

0:50:330:50:39

And the good thing would be getting a free bus pass

0:50:390:50:42

and getting to meet other people with epilepsy

0:50:420:50:44

and sharing experiences and just having fun.

0:50:440:50:48

I go to Epilepsy Scotland, which is a group of a lot of people

0:50:550:51:01

who have epilepsy.

0:51:010:51:02

Even some of the helpers have epilepsy.

0:51:050:51:07

We do bowling, laser quest, go to the cinema,

0:51:070:51:12

just go out on general trips out.

0:51:120:51:15

The main point is to bring together other people with epilepsy,

0:51:150:51:19

so then we can sort of talk about it, and when I was away on a trip,

0:51:190:51:24

I saw everybody else taking their medication

0:51:240:51:27

and I just thought, "Oh, I'm just one of them.

0:51:270:51:30

"It's basically the same."

0:51:300:51:31

Having epilepsy doesn't really stop me doing anything,

0:51:310:51:34

because I just think I'm the same as anybody else.

0:51:340:51:37

I don't really see his epilepsy that much.

0:51:370:51:39

I only really see it when he has an absence.

0:51:390:51:42

-He's just like any other friend.

-We don't really care.

-Yeah.

0:51:420:51:46

Epilepsy doesn't make me that different,

0:51:460:51:48

because I'm just the same as everybody else.

0:51:480:51:50

I'm just a normal person.

0:51:500:51:53

I'm Sophie and I'm nine years old.

0:52:190:52:23

When I found out I had dyslexia, I felt sad

0:52:250:52:30

and a little bit disappointed,

0:52:300:52:33

because my mum said that I could get rid of it, but I couldn't.

0:52:330:52:37

I could only wear it off a little bit.

0:52:370:52:40

When I read, I sometimes miss out a line

0:52:420:52:47

or I read a line again and again.

0:52:470:52:49

It's hard when I can't read but I want to read.

0:52:560:53:01

"At midnight, Mr Flinch clambered on...

0:53:010:53:05

-"Clambered."

-"Climbed."

0:53:050:53:09

"Climbed on his... Onto his roof

0:53:090:53:13

"and gulp...

0:53:130:53:17

"Gu-l-ped. Gulped."

0:53:170:53:22

-"Gulped." Clever girl.

-"Gulped, and all the money was gone."

0:53:220:53:26

'I mix up my letters a lot.'

0:53:260:53:29

My Ps and my 9s are getting better

0:53:290:53:32

but my Bs and my Ds are not. They're still bad.

0:53:320:53:35

I'm good at ICT.

0:53:500:53:54

I like doing literacy but I can't do it well.

0:53:540:53:57

I have different spellings than everyone else because I'm dyslexic

0:53:570:54:01

'and I can't help it.'

0:54:010:54:03

"When lizard got close to the strange house..."

0:54:030:54:07

People look at my spellings and say, "Those are your spellings?

0:54:070:54:10

"They look really babyish."

0:54:100:54:12

'You're not thick.'

0:54:130:54:15

It's just something that you can't do. You do it in a different way.

0:54:150:54:19

I've got to see or feel the letter, and then I'll know it.

0:54:190:54:24

I've got B for beach and I've got sandpaper for "beach",

0:54:240:54:29

so it feels like beach.

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And then I've got D for "dots" and it's all got dots on it.

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And then my P is the colour pink. P for "pink."

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But if it's a plain letter,

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I won't know which one is which. I'll just guess.

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Sometimes I cry about my dyslexia,

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but I don't let other people know that I do that.

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They might think, "Oh, well, she's crying over dyslexia - big deal(!)"

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To me it's a big deal because I have it, and sometimes it affects me,

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but not all the time.

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'Dyslexia does not stop me from doing anything,'

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like ice-skating or athletics, because I push myself to do it

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so I learn new things.

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All of my friends have been nice about dyslexia

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and they think it doesn't change me anyway.

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They don't really notice that I've got it.

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If you've just met Sophie here, you wouldn't know she's dyslexic,

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because she was really good at the word game.

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She's really good at matching all the letters and words up.

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I don't think Sophie's dyslexia affects her

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in doing her sports and stuff like that.

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Help a child with dyslexia by supporting them,

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helping them with their writing, talking about things,

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like, "Are you all right?

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"Do you feel sad or anything?" About their feelings.

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Treat them the way they want to be treated.

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Don't be mean to them because if they can't spell a teeny-weeny word

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just help them on it, because they don't know how.

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They'll understand it and you'll be helping them.

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When I sew with my gran, it's really fun,

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because I do different things every week - cushions, clothes,

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presents for my mum and my dad for Christmas.

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My gran, when she was younger, she missed out a lot of her learning.

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She missed out, like me, on my phonics and stuff.

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When I'm sad sometimes,

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she says, "Don't worry - we're together in this."

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I feel different when I read, because I'm on lower stages,

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but I'm good at art and I like doing fashion design books.

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I like designing clothes.

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I want to be a fashion designer when I'm older. I like drawing patterns.

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I don't think dyslexia would affect my fashion at all.

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I feel confident about having dyslexia

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because my friends help me and they support me

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and they help me through my life sometimes.

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