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-We're between 18 and 34 years old.

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-There are 100 million of us

-in Europe. We're a new generation.

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-4 Stories About Love

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-It was love at first sight.

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-I could see

-we'd be together forever.

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-The stereotype of someone

-gay is like me, quite camp.

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-But I really think

-I'm on more of a spectrum.

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-I sleep with women.

-I find women attractive.

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-I definitely find men

-more attractive.

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-I sleep with them more often.

-But I just don't mind.

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-Every day is different.

-I want to sleep with everyone.

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-Am I happy?

-More "no" than "yes".

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-But I think it's going to change.

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-I want to go with other girls,

-but I don't open up...

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-..because I feel it will never

-be the same after Dimitra.

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-Francisco, 20-years-old,

-Ericeira, Portugal

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-Desire is like the waves.

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-There are many, they keep

-on coming, they never stop.

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-But we must choose the right one.

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-Francisco, 20-years-old,

-Ericeira, Portugal STUD

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-My name is Francisco and I'm 20.

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-I was born in 1994.

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-Here's my wave,

-my background picture.

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-When I unlock my phone,

-I enjoy seeing this perfect wave.

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-That's the sunset at Ericeira.

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-Sunset is one of my favourite times.

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-It is set in this

-small country, Portugal.

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-My town is Ericeira.

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-It's small but quite friendly.

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-It's a fishing village by the sea.

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-It's a popular beach for surfers...

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-..with many surf competitions.

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-This is my house.

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-SHOUTING

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-This is the street

-of the bar where I work.

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-The Ericeira Bar in midsummer.

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-CROWD SINGS ALONG TO MUSIC

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-Me having fun, always smiling.

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-This is me and Fabinni.

-The Tag Team.

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-The "Tag Team"?

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-This is how it works.

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-Two girls come to the bar.

-I fancy one, but she's with a mate.

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-Tag Team.

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-The back-up arrives

-to distract her friend...

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-..while the other speaks

-to the girl more privately.

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-There are girls from all around.

-Norway, Italy, Spain, France.

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-This is Madalena.

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-I met her when I was 17. She was 24.

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-At that time,

-I thought she was my first love.

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-But she wasn't.

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-I was with this girl a few times.

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-One week, an Austrian girl stayed.

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-And Saturday, I slept

-with this other girl.

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-And the week after that,

-I was with a German girl.

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-We then moved

-to the family apartment.

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-Someone gave it a nickname, not me.

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-"The House of Fuck."

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-Here, we are at...

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-"The House of Flirt."

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-"The House of Fuck."

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-BACKGROUND LAUGHTER

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-"The House of Love!"

-No, "The House of Europe!"

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-The apartment used to be rented.

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-But my mother gave me the keys

-so I could come over and chill out.

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-More privacy.

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-You get seven years of crap sex if

-you don't look someone in the eye!

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-We'd better look then!

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-What do you like the most in a girl?

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-Her bum.

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-Her bum, legs,

-belly... and her face.

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-What if you had to choose,

-big tits or a nice ass?

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-Nice ass. Always.

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-Only Dimitra has

-stayed here overnight.

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-We slept together.

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-Was it on your first date?

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-Pretty much. It was the second day.

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-You wore a condom?

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-No.

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-No.

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-Oh, Xico...

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-It's the love of your life.

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-It's the love of your life.

-

-I don't know.

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-This is Dimitra.

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-This girl changed me forever.

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-Angelina & Saher,

-18-years-old, Freiburg - Germany

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-I'm Angelina, I live in Kirchzarten.

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-I'm 18.

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-I started attending the Waldorf

-school from the first grade.

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-I'm in year 12 now.

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-These are my lips.

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-This is my favourite skirt.

-I had black hair there.

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-This was last summer's holiday.

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-I went with my parents

-to Italy, to Elba.

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-And this is me with Saher.

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-We've been together

-five months to yesterday.

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-I found it beautiful,

-so it's my cover photo.

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-Saher put a comment. "I love you

-endlessly as well, my darling.

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-"I will never let you go.

-Only you in this world."

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-I'm Saher.

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-I'm 18-years-old.

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-I'll finish school this year

-and then... we'll see.

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-I come from Iraq.

-I am a Kurd. I am a Yazidi.

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-That is my religion.

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-And it has become really dangerous.

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-Everybody tries

-to reach Germany, Turkey...

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-..as long as it's not Iraq.

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-That's because of the war.

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-I've been living here

-in Germany since 2013.

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-When I arrived,

-at first I stayed in a home.

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-My parents joined me in November

-when they arrived in Germany.

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-I'm really happy

-to have my parents back.

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-We met at the station,

-at McDonald's. It's a funny story.

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-I was meeting friends,

-that he knew too.

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-The moment I went up

-the stairs at McDonald's...

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-..I noticed him immediately.

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-There was a moment.

-It's very hard to describe.

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-It was like "Wow",

-but a lot better than that.

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-Then I said to her:

-"You have beautiful eyes.

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-"Your smile is really cute,

-you're really beautiful."

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-And then we kissed

-for the first time.

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-It was the very first kiss...

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-..which made my whole body tingle.

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-I even had goosebumps. I've

-never felt that with other guys.

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-When I kissed her,

-I had feelings, I felt love.

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-And that's when love started.

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-My heart... yes.

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-DOG BARKS

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-Hello, mum!

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-Hello, Angelina!

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-Hello love! Hello Saher!

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-We talk about everything.

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-He listens to me

-and he helps me too.

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-I think that is also part

-of what bonds us together...

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-..a really strong bond.

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-If I'm not with a German girl...

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-..or don't want a woman from

-Turkey, Iran, France, and so on?

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-I've never thought of it that way.

-What really matters is love.

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-We are simply different

-in some things.

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-There's always a back and forth.

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-I like to listen to Adele's music

-and rarely to German rap.

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-I listen mostly to English rap.

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-MUSIC PLAYS

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-We're not always the same.

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-Well, I did that.

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-And did you retaliate?

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-And did you retaliate?

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-Yes, I did!

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-Oh!

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-Don't turn away too much.

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-A little bit.

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-A little bit.

-

-What do you mean, "a little bit"?

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-You can't see it as much

-as yours, but it still hurts.

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-Richard, 26-years-old,

-Manchester, UK

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-I Love Everyone

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-My name is Richard.

-I'm 26-years-old.

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-I live in the city of Manchester,

-up north of England.

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-As you can see straight

-away from my page...

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-..I enjoy dressing up in costume.

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-So expect lots of fabulous

-outfits on my page.

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-My name on Facebook

-as you can see at the top...

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-..is Ricardo Glencasa.

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-There's two reasons.

-One, it's a Burner community name.

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-It's the player name

-that people call me.

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-But it also serves the purpose

-of keeping me hidden...

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-..from the prying eyes

-of family members and colleagues...

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-..people who I don't want

-to see me relaxing in a hot tub...

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-..or doing some other slightly more

-crazy things that I like doing.

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-Liberty Masquerade.

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-This is a very new part of my life.

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-It's a festival called Nowhere,

-which is in Spain.

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-It's based on

-the Burning Man principles.

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-So Nowhere is just a place

-where you can get away...

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-..from the strains and realities

-of the normal, boring life.

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-Odessa.

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-This here is my friend Romana.

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-I've known Romana since school time.

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-She's definitely one of my best

-friends in the whole world.

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-She's the person I turn to

-when I need to talk...

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-..about anything and everything.

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-We hadn't spoken for ages. You told

-me the first or second year of Uni.

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-Did I come up to you and say,

-"I'm gay, or bi, or whatever."

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-"You know, I really need to tell

-you this, but you know I'm gay."

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-I said, "I've known for years."

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-That's the thing.

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-What I think about this is,

-that I knew everyone knew.

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-That's fine. It's not about that.

-It's about my process.

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-People say, "We've known he was

-gay forever, blah blah blah."

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-It's about when I was ready

-to talk about things, my process.

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-At these festivals, it's the first

-time I sat on a guy's lap...

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-..and been affectionate in public,

-like I rarely do.

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-At these festivals,

-you found yourself.

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-You can be who you want to be.

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-I feel as if you've spent

-the last 15 years...

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-..trying to find your identity.

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-I do feel this year,

-I've become an adult.

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-I think out of all this Burner

-stuff, everything before...

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-..coming to hang out

-in London with me and so on...

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-..I think it's all been working

-towards telling your mum and dad.

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-That's the end goal.

-You're finding yourself now.

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-Everyone that loves you is happy

-and loves you for who you are.

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-But I feel the end point

-is telling your mum and dad.

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-I think I first realized that

-I liked men at a really young age.

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-I was really confused

-and I wasn't completely sure.

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-But especially because

-I had this family stuff...

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-"..It's not right to be gay"...

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-..in school as well, I hid it and

-didn't even confide in my friends.

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-And even when I started

-sleeping with men...

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-..I didn't tell friends

-for five years.

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-Nobody knew.

-It was like my illicit other life.

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-Thais, 24-years-old,

-Paris/Berlin A New Start

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-My name is Thais.

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-I have a nose piercing.

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-I'm a graphic designer. I'm 24.

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-This is my desktop.

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-Messy!

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-This is my Tumblr. They're not

-my pictures, but I like them.

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-Something fishy.

-It's my favourite expression.

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-I like to say it

-when there's a problem.

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-Berlin, My New Life

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-It feels long ago, but it was

-the most important story...

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-..between 2014 and 2015.

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-A very chaotic love story.

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-And in the end, I think

-it was very destructive.

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-For me it was, for him I don't know.

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-That's why you came to Berlin?

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-Partly, I think.

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-I think I really needed to get

-away from these bad influences.

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-What's his name?

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-David. He's Colombian.

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-He has lived in France

-for five, seven, years.

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-And...

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-..one thing about him

-is that he's homosexual.

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-No, I mean...

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-..it was clear that

-we could see other people.

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-But I wasn't seeing anyone else.

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-He did eventually.

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-It hurt a little bit.

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-But I kept it to myself...

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-..since we weren't really

-in a relationship.

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-We couldn't define what

-we were, so I couldn't complain.

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-It's David,

-and we're stalking his profile.

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-I stopped doing that

-when I decided to forget him.

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-He looks so gay there.

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-What is it?

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-I don't know,

-these guys are really cool.

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-He's an androgynous beauty.

-It fascinates me.

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-I mean, it blows me away

-to see that kind of man.

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-This is when we got the apartment.

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-We went there

-and took this ridiculous photograph.

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-We made a nice graphic design tag.

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-PHRASE IN GERMAN

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-THEY REPEAT PHRASE

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-I've never had my own apartment,

-where I feel at home.

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-I found a job, I made a lot

-of new friends. I speak English.

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-I'm more open than I was in Paris.

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-In everyday life,

-it's not that obvious.

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-But it changed my life.

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-HUMS

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-I feel more comfortable

-with my body.

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-I've got curves.

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-Before, I tried to hide my body.

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-But it didn't work.

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-It's fine.

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-I think I needed something new.

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-Here! We're not supposed to,

-but we'll cross the road.

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-It's forbidden here.

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-Here you go.

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-He was checking me out.

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-He was checking me out.

-

-Was he?

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-No, more like a little smile.

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-It feels good to look at people

-and be looked at, to feel fancied.

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-It's not awkward at all here.

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-They hold their look

-until you look away.

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-I wouldn't say I'm pretty.

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-Well, I wouldn't say I'm ugly.

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-I'd say... I'm cute.

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-I'm a pal, not a "femme fatale".

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-I'm the pal you cuddle, that's it.

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-Sometimes, I'd rather be

-a girl, a true girl.

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-Francisco, 20-years-old,

-Ericeira, Portugal, Stud

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-This is Joao Miguel Felix,

-or Felix, or "Flex Surfboards".

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-He has a summer job.

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-I'm his boss.

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-He looks after my girls.

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-He takes them to dinner...

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-..for a walk in Ericeira...

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-..so they don't feel alone.

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-They don't know anyone round here.

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-Then about 3.00am,

-when I'm closing the bar...

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-..he goes home...

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-..and I get the girls.

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-That's it!

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-At the end of the month, I pay him!

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-At the end of the month, I pay him!

-

-Come on, I never got a penny!

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-He's a great friend, as a bloke.

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-But if I were a woman,

-I would be afraid of him!

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-Which girl did you like the most?

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-In terms of sympathy, Maria Teresa.

-I don't know Dimitra well.

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-I met her before the summer,

-in April.

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-What captivated me the most

-at first was the look in her eyes.

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-That was the hardest thing.

-It didn't happen straightaway.

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-This was the second day.

-She came back to the bar.

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-Here she says,

-"I don't wanna leave this place."

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-She adds,

-"Come back with me in Greece."

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-And I answer, "You're pretty."

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-I can't explain.

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-All I know is she changed

-me a lot... forever.

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-Hello.

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-This is Ericeira.

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-We are in our...

-like we just got married.

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-So we are on honeymoon.

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-LAUGHTER

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-I don't know, are we stupid?

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-LAUGHTER

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-Angelina & Saher, 18

-Freiburg, Germany Eternal Love

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-I was adopted

-at the age of six months.

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-My birth mother gave me away...

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-..or I was taken from her,

-I don't know exactly.

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-It was because

-she took drugs when pregnant...

0:21:380:21:41

-..and continued taking them.

0:21:420:21:44

-It meant that I automatically

-had drugs in my body.

0:21:440:21:48

-I had to be treated

-for drug addiction.

0:21:490:21:53

-I was really weak.

0:21:540:21:56

-I had a very slim

-chance of survival.

0:21:580:22:01

-Initially,

-at the age of ten or eleven...

0:22:010:22:05

-..I found it very hard

-to talk about it.

0:22:050:22:09

-Sometimes, I had

-to hold back my tears.

0:22:100:22:13

-Today, I can talk about it easily.

0:22:130:22:16

-Why shouldn't people

-know that I was adopted?

0:22:160:22:20

-To me, my adoptive parents

-are my real parents.

0:22:240:22:28

-I really wanted

-to come to Germany...

0:22:330:22:37

-..with my parents.

0:22:390:22:41

-But I'd heard so many things...

0:22:410:22:44

-..about all the dangers.

0:22:450:22:47

-I would have never gone

-anywhere on my own.

0:22:480:22:51

-He had to cross

-such a vast sea by ship.

0:22:520:22:55

-It wasn't even a ship,

-but a small boat, that carried him.

0:22:560:23:00

-He had to swim alongside it,

-because the boat was so full.

0:23:000:23:05

-Straight to Turkey,

-from Turkey to Greece...

0:23:060:23:10

-..where I was put in prison.

0:23:100:23:13

-I kept repeating to myself...

0:23:130:23:16

-"..Yes, I can do this."

0:23:160:23:18

-I kept waiting to get to Germany.

0:23:190:23:22

-In the end, I managed.

0:23:240:23:26

-Then he started a new life

-in another country.

0:23:270:23:31

-I find that really awesome.

0:23:320:23:34

-We're always together,

-except when we're in school.

0:23:480:23:52

-My sister said...

0:23:530:23:54

-..it's a pity I don't

-spend time with other people...

0:23:540:23:58

-..and that I never

-spend time with her anymore.

0:23:590:24:02

-I can see why

-she thinks it's shitty...

0:24:020:24:06

-..and I find it sad.

0:24:060:24:09

-But I don't understand it myself...

0:24:100:24:14

-..how I've no time for friends.

0:24:150:24:17

-Did you see each other every day?

0:24:180:24:21

-Actually, yes.

0:24:210:24:23

-We tried not to neglect

-our circle of friends...

0:24:230:24:27

-..to ensure that some things

-carried on and stayed the same.

0:24:270:24:31

-Yes, that's important. I agree.

0:24:320:24:35

-We had our own space.

0:24:350:24:37

-It was a good idea...

0:24:370:24:39

-..not to give up everything

-for the relationship.

0:24:390:24:43

-We had our own space.

0:24:440:24:46

-Yes, of course.

0:24:460:24:48

-Because, for example...

0:24:480:24:50

-..if a relationship ends,

-or after a relationship...

0:24:500:24:55

-..when you are no longer involved...

0:24:550:24:57

-..if you abandoned

-hobbies for the relationship...

0:24:580:25:02

-..you don't know...

0:25:020:25:04

-..if you can start again right away.

0:25:040:25:08

-It's important to hold onto

-your hobbies.

0:25:100:25:13

-I could never imagine

-myself without him.

0:25:130:25:18

-Really?

0:25:180:25:19

-Seriously!

0:25:200:25:21

-Seriously!

-

-Interesting.

0:25:210:25:22

-Syphilis, the sex slave.

0:25:240:25:26

-It's really good to have

-a different blend of friends.

0:25:290:25:33

-Obviously some are gay.

0:25:340:25:35

-But my really good friends,

-Jo and Jerome...

0:25:360:25:39

-..are my staple couple

-in Manchester that I hang out with.

0:25:390:25:44

-By my terms,

-they have been going out forever.

0:25:440:25:47

-We've been together

-a couple of years.

0:25:500:25:53

-Moving up to Manchester is

-another step beyond living together.

0:25:530:25:58

-Jo had a list of 20 questions

-of how it would be...

0:25:590:26:02

-..like terms and conditions.

0:26:020:26:04

-..like terms and conditions.

-

-Did you? Terms and conditions?

0:26:040:26:07

-It was more like,

-will we cook together?

0:26:070:26:10

-Do we go to bed at the same time?

0:26:100:26:13

-Just the basics!

0:26:130:26:15

-That's so cute!

0:26:160:26:18

-I haven't had a traditional

-long-term relationship...

0:26:190:26:23

-..as in we're properly together

-and everybody knows...

0:26:240:26:27

-..and you've done the Facebook

-"I'm in a relationship with" thing.

0:26:280:26:32

-I have had a series

-of sexual partners.

0:26:320:26:35

-I have dated people

-over a few months before.

0:26:360:26:41

-Most of that has been

-in the past two years.

0:26:410:26:44

-It's been more dating regularly.

0:26:450:26:47

-Before that,

-it was much more sexual.

0:26:470:26:50

-I wasn't really comfortable being

-out and seen in a relationship.

0:26:500:26:55

-It's something

-I'm exploring more now.

0:26:550:26:58

-DANCE MUSIC

0:26:590:27:02

-Right here I have a friend

-from a different part of my life...

0:27:280:27:33

-..Luke, or The Luke Man,

-who I met in university.

0:27:330:27:36

-We have

-the strangest friendship ever.

0:27:360:27:40

-People would never guess

-that we are best friends.

0:27:400:27:43

-He is a huge, towering man.

0:27:440:27:46

-I am probably as far away

-from that as possible.

0:27:460:27:49

-But it seems to work.

0:27:490:27:51

-I haven't had a strong relationship

-or a serious relationship.

0:27:560:28:00

-I want to be able to get with,

-and kiss, other people.

0:28:000:28:04

-That isn't a gay thing.

-Polyamory can work.

0:28:040:28:07

-Part of that, maybe for yourself,

-and other people...

0:28:070:28:11

-..is that

-you're scared of relationships.

0:28:110:28:14

-You pretend you don't have feelings.

0:28:140:28:17

-You've all got to pretend you don't

-have feelings about relationships...

0:28:170:28:22

-..that

-"everyone can get with everyone"...

0:28:220:28:25

-..that you don't have

-feelings about it, and you do.

0:28:250:28:29

-To people who don't think like that,

-you say, "You're so old school!"

0:28:290:28:35

-I can be with someone and completely

-love them and be obsessed by them.

0:28:350:28:40

-But as a sexual person, there are

-so many people I find attractive...

0:28:400:28:45

-..and I want to sleep with them.

0:28:460:28:48

-..and I want to sleep with them.

-

-I find that to be selfishness.

0:28:480:28:50

-If I'm in a relationship,

-I've taken a choice.

0:28:500:28:53

-It's not, "we have to get married",

-but "my intentions are on you."

0:28:530:28:58

-Sleeping with someone else...

0:28:580:29:01

-..would degrade the value of

-our interaction with each other.

0:29:010:29:06

-I see it as

-I can still love someone 100%.

0:29:060:29:09

-You've never said to me

-that you've been in love.

0:29:090:29:13

-When you come to me, sit me down

-and say, "Luke, I love etcetera..."

0:29:130:29:18

-You are a possessive little nancy.

0:29:180:29:21

-I'm not scared

-of getting my heart broken.

0:29:420:29:45

-I'd welcome a relationship,

-I'd welcome love.

0:29:450:29:48

-I'm not like the person

-who's gonna sit there and say...

0:29:490:29:53

-.."I need to start going

-to dating things."

0:29:530:29:56

-I'm busy enough in life anyway.

-I want it to be organic.

0:29:560:30:00

-I have tried dating

-and properly try to commit to this.

0:30:000:30:05

-I find I like having

-the relationship-iness...

0:30:050:30:08

-..cuddling in bed, eating together.

0:30:080:30:11

-But when I go out,

-I want to be wild.

0:30:110:30:14

-I want to let everything out

-and snog everyone.

0:30:140:30:18

-It's not a sexual thing, really.

-Sometimes it is.

0:30:180:30:21

-It's more an expression thing.

0:30:220:30:24

-Kissing someone doesn't mean

-I want to have sex with them.

0:30:240:30:28

-It's me letting it all out.

0:30:280:30:30

-I want to be able to go home

-with someone at 6.00am...

0:30:300:30:34

-..and go to bed with that person.

0:30:340:30:36

-It's quite hard to find a person

-who is going to be OK with that.

0:30:370:30:42

-When I find someone

-who's comfortable...

0:30:420:30:45

-..with me going off and being wild,

-because that's the way I am...

0:30:460:30:50

-..then that'll probably be

-the person for me.

0:30:500:30:54

-.

0:30:590:30:59

-Subtitles

0:31:030:31:03

-Subtitles

-

-Subtitles

0:31:030:31:05

-A New Start

0:31:090:31:11

-You fell in love with him.

0:31:120:31:14

-I fell in love without expecting to.

0:31:160:31:21

-I cut myself off a lot of people.

0:31:210:31:24

-It felt so good with him,

-but also bad.

0:31:260:31:29

-I made concessions for him.

0:31:300:31:33

-My life stopped there and then.

0:31:330:31:39

-It was the first time he slept over.

0:31:400:31:43

-This was the only picture.

0:31:440:31:46

-David changed it in an artistic way.

0:31:460:31:51

-We can't see anything now.

0:31:520:31:54

-It's as blurry

-as our relationship was.

0:31:540:31:57

-Five months earlier

-in David's house, Paris

0:31:580:32:02

-I feel many things for Thais.

0:32:060:32:08

-She's the type of person...

0:32:080:32:13

-..I'd always want in my life.

0:32:140:32:16

-Through knowing Thais...

0:32:170:32:19

-..I've questioned

-my own sexuality...

0:32:200:32:23

-..to engage in this story.

0:32:250:32:28

-Nowadays, people are thinking

-about a new type of sexuality...

0:32:290:32:35

-..pansexuality.

0:32:350:32:38

-Pansexuality

-is interesting to talk about.

0:32:390:32:42

-I found someone with whom I can

-have this sort of relationship.

0:32:430:32:47

-And that was amazing between us.

0:32:470:32:51

-What?

0:32:540:32:56

-I don't know. You'd never have

-told me something like that before.

0:32:560:33:01

-Yes.

0:33:010:33:02

-Yes.

-

-No.

0:33:020:33:03

-Read it again.

0:33:050:33:06

-Pansexuality, or omnisexuality,

-is sexual attraction...

0:33:070:33:11

-..whereby

-an individual is sexually...

0:33:110:33:16

-..and/or sentimentally attracted...

0:33:170:33:19

-..to people of any sex

-or gender identity.

0:33:200:33:24

-That's what we are!

0:33:250:33:27

-And so, pansexuality...

0:33:270:33:29

-It's beautiful, no regrets.

0:33:320:33:35

-I had doubts about leaving.

-I wanted to stay for him.

0:33:360:33:40

-He told me not to go.

-He didn't want a relationship.

0:33:400:33:44

-But he didn't act like that.

0:33:450:33:47

-It shook me,

-there weren't clear signals.

0:33:480:33:51

-Perhaps it's like...

0:33:520:33:54

-..we're the generation

-that can't commit...

0:33:550:33:59

-..and settling "in a relationship".

0:34:000:34:02

-Things evolve, looks change.

-I'd call it modernity.

0:34:030:34:07

-It's liberating to be on my own...

0:34:130:34:16

-..to enjoy this life.

0:34:160:34:19

-Hey, Dimitra. What's up?

0:34:300:34:32

-You miss Ericeira?

0:34:330:34:35

-Yeah, very much. And the people

-there, everything was perfect.

0:34:360:34:41

-The waves, the people, the bars,

-the music, dancing, everything!

0:34:420:34:47

-Felix is surfing right now,

-here in the waves.

0:34:480:34:52

-He's there, surfing.

-Maybe I'll see you, someday.

0:34:520:34:57

-You come here.

0:34:580:35:00

-You what?

0:35:000:35:02

-Yeah, I would like that.

0:35:030:35:05

-That's good. Talk with you later

-about calling you again, and stuff.

0:35:050:35:10

-Yeah, OK.

0:35:120:35:14

-Bye, see you.

0:35:140:35:15

-Bye, see you.

-

-Bye.

0:35:150:35:17

-Did you talk to her?

0:35:210:35:23

-Yes, but it's different.

0:35:240:35:26

-How?

0:35:260:35:27

-It's not the same.

-It's been a while now.

0:35:290:35:32

-Will that change, mate?

0:35:320:35:34

-I think I have to go to Greece.

0:35:340:35:36

-I think I have to go to Greece.

-

-Can it work, despite everything?

0:35:360:35:40

-I think so, because I like her.

0:35:410:35:43

-I can't expect things to stay the

-same after being apart for 7 months.

0:35:430:35:48

-# Portuguese Fado #

0:36:060:36:10

-To me, being faithful

-is when you don't kiss anyone else.

0:37:050:37:10

-I give him space, he needs that,

-he's not my property.

0:37:110:37:16

-I don't want to own him, not really,

-although I get jealous, sometimes.

0:37:160:37:21

-But not all the time, either.

-I trust him, definitely.

0:37:220:37:26

-DANCE MUSIC

0:37:260:37:28

-# I've been here ten years,

-and still no paperwork

0:37:380:37:42

-# I'll do my apprenticeship,

-I don't want to be kicked out

0:37:430:37:47

-# And every day, every day

0:37:480:37:50

-# I receive letters

-from the social welfare office #

0:37:510:37:55

-DANCE MUSIC

0:37:550:37:58

-Sometimes I want to be

-with other girls.

0:38:440:38:47

-I can't open up to them, because I'm

-almost sure it won't feel the same.

0:38:470:38:52

-Of course,

-maybe I'll still sleep with them.

0:38:550:38:59

-But it's not the same.

-I can't explain it.

0:39:000:39:03

-I'll never be able to explain.

0:39:040:39:07

-We used to send pictures

-every day...

0:39:080:39:12

-..and we talked for hours on Skype.

0:39:120:39:15

-She was meant to come back in July.

0:39:160:39:20

-That's when the crisis started

-in Greece.

0:39:200:39:25

-She ended up not coming.

0:39:250:39:27

-When she said that...

0:39:270:39:29

-..something hit me, I went

-to the bar, and Xico was back!

0:39:300:39:34

-What if Dimitra asked you to stop

-clubbing because of the girls?

0:39:410:39:46

-She wouldn't ask. She's smart!

0:39:460:39:49

-She wouldn't like that.

0:39:500:39:53

-No girl likes that, not even if

-they really trust the other person.

0:39:530:39:58

-I can't answer that.

0:39:580:40:01

-In 20 years, will you

-still be working in Tubo?

0:40:010:40:04

-Are you joking?

-In 20 years, I'll be rich!

0:40:040:40:08

-In 20 years, will you

-still be working in a bar?

0:40:080:40:12

-No. I'll have my own bar.

0:40:130:40:14

-No. I'll have my own bar.

-

-A gin bar in Greece?

0:40:140:40:17

-No, I want to be happy...

0:40:170:40:20

-..with a woman next to me.

0:40:200:40:22

-But it won't just be one!

0:40:230:40:23

-But it won't just be one!

-

-No, with the one and only.

0:40:230:40:25

-Is she coming back?

0:40:260:40:28

-Is she coming back?

-

-I'm moving there in November.

0:40:280:40:30

-Yes, of course you are, yes.

0:40:310:40:34

-Don't you believe me?

0:40:340:40:35

-Don't you believe me?

-

-Yes.

0:40:350:40:36

-Me and Fabinni.

0:40:380:40:39

-Me and Fabinni.

-

-You're crazy.

0:40:390:40:42

-OK, for a holiday or to live there?

0:40:420:40:45

-To live, and try it out for a year.

0:40:450:40:47

-It's possible.

-Nothing is impossible!

0:40:480:40:50

-Is anything impossible?

0:40:510:40:54

-Long distance relationships

-are hard.

0:40:540:40:59

-No, it's not possible.

0:40:590:41:01

-Maybe in the films...

0:41:010:41:03

-Maybe she'll fall in love

-with someone else, and you...

0:41:050:41:10

-That's what I'm trying

-to work out...

0:41:130:41:16

-..whether to go in November or not.

0:41:160:41:19

-You'd change your whole life

-for her?

0:41:200:41:24

-Yes.

0:41:250:41:26

-Manchester, UK

0:41:350:41:37

-OK. Let's go for sexy stuff.

0:41:380:41:41

-Legs straight.

0:41:440:41:46

-Legs straight. Pull! Very nice!

0:41:510:41:54

-Good, nice!

0:41:590:42:00

-Pole dancing was definitely

-worth it.

0:42:010:42:04

-I'm glad I went.

0:42:040:42:06

-I've wanted to do something

-crazy like that for a while.

0:42:060:42:10

-I was quite nervous about going.

0:42:100:42:12

-People are going to think,

-"Oh, god. That's so gay.

0:42:130:42:16

-"That's what girls do. He shouldn't

-be doing that kind of shit.

0:42:160:42:21

-"It's embarrassing."

0:42:210:42:23

-This year,

-I just don't care anymore.

0:42:230:42:26

-I'm sick of caring

-and sick of being told what to do...

0:42:270:42:31

-..sick of the media telling us what

-to buy and what's good for us...

0:42:310:42:35

-..sick of governments chatting shit.

0:42:360:42:38

-We're sick of being told,

-"You should do this."

0:42:380:42:42

-Why should I have

-a traditional relationship?

0:42:420:42:46

-Why can't I sleep around?

-Why are these bad things?

0:42:460:42:49

-As long as I'm safe and not hurting

-anyone, fuck 'em! Fuck 'em all!

0:42:490:42:54

-Sex is crap, isn't it?

-What's the point?

0:42:550:42:58

-I don't need a boyfriend

-to exist and move on.

0:43:000:43:04

-I just need to know what I do want.

0:43:040:43:07

-I grew up a lot, and it was painful.

0:43:070:43:12

-A 20-year-old girl

-who doesn't know who she is...

0:43:130:43:18

-..wants to be appreciated

-by everyone...

0:43:180:43:22

-..family, friends, boys.

0:43:220:43:24

-I just want to find myself, not

-through a boy, but through myself.

0:43:240:43:29

-I didn't really understand...

0:43:300:43:32

-..that you have to get

-to know yourself first...

0:43:340:43:37

-..before starting to build

-something with someone else.

0:43:370:43:41

-Germany

0:43:570:44:00

-We discussed marriage once, and how

-things would work with his religion.

0:44:050:44:11

-If I married him now,

-would I have to wear a headscarf?

0:44:110:44:15

-His said if I wanted marry him,

-I wouldn't have to wear a headscarf.

0:44:150:44:21

-I was relieved, somehow.

0:44:210:44:23

-I couldn't imagine

-not showing my hair.

0:44:230:44:28

-Shall we put it here?

0:44:280:44:30

-Shall we put it here?

-

-We could.

0:44:300:44:31

-Or here?

0:44:310:44:33

-I want a nice flat...

0:44:330:44:37

-..with Angelina...

0:44:400:44:42

-..and a nice car, too...

0:44:420:44:44

-..two children...

0:44:450:44:47

-..and to spend

-more beautiful time together...

0:44:470:44:53

-..and for our future

-to be lovely forever.

0:44:540:44:57

-Write "A" there and "S" here.

0:44:580:45:01

-And then...

0:45:030:45:05

-Or put them together?

0:45:050:45:08

-Lock it.

0:45:080:45:10

-One!

0:45:100:45:11

-Two!

0:45:120:45:13

-Three!

0:45:140:45:15

-I can see us

-staying together forever...

0:45:240:45:28

-..and that I'll never let her go.

0:45:290:45:34

-And we'll always be as happy

-as when we first met.

0:45:350:45:40

-# Portuguese Fado #

0:45:430:45:47

-Fado music is about love

-and missing someone.

0:45:470:45:51

-The lyrics are always intense.

0:45:510:45:55

-It's about fate!

0:45:550:45:57

-It comes from deep inside.

0:45:580:46:01

-And that's electrifying.

0:46:030:46:06

-Have you ever been in love?

0:46:090:46:10

-Have you ever been in love?

-

-Of course!

0:46:100:46:12

-How does it feel?

0:46:120:46:13

-How does it feel?

-

-How does it feel?

0:46:130:46:15

-It's a very different feeling!

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-Being with a random girl...

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-..is not the same

-as being with the girl you love.

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-The little games, the looks...

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-..everything is different!

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-It feels so... right.

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-It feels so... right.

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-That's so true.

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-# My eyes are two candles

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-# Casting a sad light on my face

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-# My eyes

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-# Are two candles

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-# Casting a sad light on my face

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-# Why do you upset me

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-# When I love you so much? #

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