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I loved being pregnant, but if I'm honest, | 0:00:11 | 0:00:14 | |
those nine months were also an anxious time. | 0:00:14 | 0:00:16 | |
Like most mothers, I worried constantly | 0:00:16 | 0:00:19 | |
that my children would be born healthy and strong. | 0:00:19 | 0:00:22 | |
I am so thankful that they were born without any complications | 0:00:22 | 0:00:26 | |
and are growing up fit and well. | 0:00:26 | 0:00:28 | |
But some parents are forced to confront their worst fears | 0:00:28 | 0:00:32 | |
even before their babies are born. | 0:00:32 | 0:00:34 | |
This is Samuel. | 0:00:34 | 0:00:36 | |
His mother Rachel was already a mum of two, so felt well prepared | 0:00:36 | 0:00:40 | |
for her routine ultrasound 20 weeks into the pregnancy. | 0:00:40 | 0:00:45 | |
The scan took quite a long time and they were asking me | 0:00:45 | 0:00:49 | |
to change position so they could get a better view of the heart | 0:00:49 | 0:00:53 | |
and I had a feeling because of the length of time that the scan | 0:00:53 | 0:00:56 | |
was taking that there was something wrong. | 0:00:56 | 0:00:59 | |
The scan revealed that only half of Samuel's heart had | 0:00:59 | 0:01:02 | |
developed properly - an incurable condition. | 0:01:02 | 0:01:05 | |
To be told that the baby that you're expecting... | 0:01:05 | 0:01:08 | |
..has a condition that is incompatible with life | 0:01:10 | 0:01:13 | |
was just an absolute bombshell to us. | 0:01:13 | 0:01:17 | |
We just were utterly devastated. | 0:01:17 | 0:01:22 | |
There's no cure for the condition. | 0:01:22 | 0:01:24 | |
So we had some very, very hard days, very lonely. | 0:01:24 | 0:01:31 | |
Having to make these decisions for a baby. | 0:01:35 | 0:01:39 | |
Unsure of what lay ahead, | 0:01:39 | 0:01:41 | |
Samuel's parents decided to continue the pregnancy. | 0:01:41 | 0:01:44 | |
He needed open-heart surgery immediately after he was born, | 0:01:44 | 0:01:48 | |
and recovered, but like all babies with this condition, | 0:01:48 | 0:01:51 | |
he would face repeated heart surgery before the age of five. | 0:01:51 | 0:01:55 | |
When you've been through that once and you know what it's like | 0:01:55 | 0:01:59 | |
to have to take your small child for more surgery again | 0:01:59 | 0:02:04 | |
is just heart-breaking as a parent. | 0:02:04 | 0:02:06 | |
And you look at him and he was growing normally. | 0:02:06 | 0:02:10 | |
And all the time in my mind I'm thinking poor little chap, | 0:02:10 | 0:02:14 | |
you've got to go through all that again. | 0:02:14 | 0:02:16 | |
Discovering that a child has a complicated heart condition is | 0:02:19 | 0:02:22 | |
extremely distressing for children and parents, leaving them | 0:02:22 | 0:02:26 | |
feeling isolated and fearful for what the future holds. | 0:02:26 | 0:02:29 | |
That's why I'm appealing to you on behalf of Little Hearts Matter. | 0:02:29 | 0:02:33 | |
They are a charity dedicated to supporting children | 0:02:33 | 0:02:37 | |
who are diagnosed with only a half a working heart. | 0:02:37 | 0:02:40 | |
18-year-old Hannah is one of the oldest people | 0:02:40 | 0:02:44 | |
living with this condition. | 0:02:44 | 0:02:45 | |
Despite major surgery throughout her childhood to make her heart | 0:02:45 | 0:02:48 | |
function better, she lives a life within limits. | 0:02:48 | 0:02:52 | |
The main symptoms of my condition are breathlessness, | 0:02:52 | 0:02:56 | |
concentration is quite a hard thing. | 0:02:56 | 0:02:58 | |
And the third thing is physical tiredness, which obviously, | 0:02:58 | 0:03:03 | |
stops everything, because walking up stairs is hard, | 0:03:03 | 0:03:06 | |
walking on flats and I just get quite tired physically, quickly, | 0:03:06 | 0:03:11 | |
which means that I need more time to get better. | 0:03:11 | 0:03:15 | |
Hannah had a loving family to support her, | 0:03:15 | 0:03:18 | |
but her disorder made her feel isolated. | 0:03:18 | 0:03:21 | |
It's affected my self confidence, | 0:03:21 | 0:03:23 | |
because I want to, obviously I've wanted to fit in. | 0:03:23 | 0:03:26 | |
Explaining my condition to my friends and things was always difficult. | 0:03:26 | 0:03:30 | |
It was stressful not being able to talk to someone and | 0:03:30 | 0:03:33 | |
not having people understand me and why I couldn't do certain things | 0:03:33 | 0:03:38 | |
and why I was lagging behind and stuff. | 0:03:38 | 0:03:41 | |
And as a surgical pioneer, | 0:03:41 | 0:03:43 | |
Hannah is forced to live under a cloud of uncertainty. | 0:03:43 | 0:03:47 | |
I've been thinking about my mortality quite a lot recently. | 0:03:47 | 0:03:50 | |
I don't dwell on it, because I know I will be very upset all the time, | 0:03:50 | 0:03:55 | |
but I have to think about it for my own sake. | 0:03:55 | 0:03:59 | |
However there is a charity dedicated to helping | 0:04:01 | 0:04:04 | |
people like Hannah. | 0:04:04 | 0:04:06 | |
Little Hearts Matter works to alleviate the fear, isolation | 0:04:06 | 0:04:09 | |
and lack of understanding felt by both children and families when | 0:04:09 | 0:04:13 | |
they are coming to terms with living with only half a working heart. | 0:04:13 | 0:04:17 | |
They provide vital support together with the latest medical information | 0:04:17 | 0:04:21 | |
whenever it's needed, | 0:04:21 | 0:04:23 | |
from diagnosis throughout treatment and into future life. | 0:04:23 | 0:04:27 | |
The charity run workshops that bring fellow sufferers together, | 0:04:27 | 0:04:31 | |
like this one led by Susie Hutchinson, | 0:04:31 | 0:04:34 | |
head of the charity and a former specialist cardiac nurse, | 0:04:34 | 0:04:38 | |
which is aimed at helping teenagers move into adulthood. | 0:04:38 | 0:04:41 | |
They frequently don't know enough about their heart condition. | 0:04:41 | 0:04:45 | |
because someone else has always led their hand before. | 0:04:45 | 0:04:47 | |
And that's no-one's fault, it's perfectly understandable. | 0:04:47 | 0:04:50 | |
But we are there running events like our youth workshops | 0:04:50 | 0:04:54 | |
where young people can start to explore in a bit of depth | 0:04:54 | 0:04:58 | |
what's wrong with them and what it means for them. | 0:04:58 | 0:05:01 | |
As well as educating, one of the key things that the charity | 0:05:01 | 0:05:05 | |
aims to do, is enable people to support and learn from each other. | 0:05:05 | 0:05:09 | |
It is incredibly easy to feel very isolated | 0:05:09 | 0:05:12 | |
if you have this sort of heart problem. | 0:05:12 | 0:05:15 | |
So we have big events where we link people up and they've gone away | 0:05:15 | 0:05:18 | |
and they've made friendships. And that's wonderful. | 0:05:18 | 0:05:21 | |
Little Hearts Matter has built a range of specialist | 0:05:21 | 0:05:25 | |
information services and support networks for children, | 0:05:25 | 0:05:28 | |
young people and their families, empowering everyone to cope | 0:05:28 | 0:05:32 | |
with the challenges of living with half a heart. | 0:05:32 | 0:05:35 | |
For Samuel's mum Rachel, | 0:05:35 | 0:05:36 | |
a Little Hearts Matter adviser was on the end of the line | 0:05:36 | 0:05:39 | |
when she was forced to make the hardest decision of her life. | 0:05:39 | 0:05:43 | |
She said they offer the surgery to these children | 0:05:43 | 0:05:47 | |
for a reason and that's because they can lead very good lives. | 0:05:47 | 0:05:52 | |
For the first time since the diagnosis | 0:05:52 | 0:05:55 | |
we actually felt that some good could come from it | 0:05:55 | 0:05:59 | |
and that the surgery was a viable option to put him forward for. | 0:05:59 | 0:06:04 | |
And the support she's found from other families the charity | 0:06:04 | 0:06:08 | |
have introduced her to has proved invaluable. | 0:06:08 | 0:06:10 | |
When you've got an operation looming, it's nice to be able to | 0:06:10 | 0:06:14 | |
get back in touch with these families and just again, just go through, | 0:06:14 | 0:06:18 | |
get things straight in your head, and also we can offer each other advice. | 0:06:18 | 0:06:22 | |
It's really only another family in your circumstance that can | 0:06:22 | 0:06:26 | |
really understand what it's like when you're going back into hospital | 0:06:26 | 0:06:29 | |
with your children. | 0:06:29 | 0:06:31 | |
Having lived through three heart operations, | 0:06:31 | 0:06:33 | |
Samuel is now doing well. | 0:06:33 | 0:06:35 | |
He's very vibrant, he's very intelligent, he's very funny, | 0:06:35 | 0:06:39 | |
and he just wants to fit in with everybody else. | 0:06:39 | 0:06:43 | |
We're just so proud of him and we wouldn't have him any other way. | 0:06:43 | 0:06:47 | |
Hannah has grown up with the support of the charity, | 0:06:47 | 0:06:50 | |
and the friends she's made via it have got her through the hard times. | 0:06:50 | 0:06:55 | |
We, like, we talk online, we're always like, | 0:06:55 | 0:06:58 | |
"Oh, I had a doctor's appointment today. How did it go? | 0:06:58 | 0:07:00 | |
"Did they say this? Did they do that?" | 0:07:00 | 0:07:03 | |
I know that there are people like me that I can talk to, | 0:07:03 | 0:07:06 | |
and I know that Little Hearts will be there if I need anything. | 0:07:06 | 0:07:10 | |
And more than anything, they have given her hope. | 0:07:10 | 0:07:13 | |
I left home in September to go to university. | 0:07:13 | 0:07:16 | |
I think I'm very well prepared for future life. | 0:07:16 | 0:07:20 | |
They've helped me so much to get to where I am today. | 0:07:20 | 0:07:23 | |
I wouldn't be who I am today without them, I don't think. | 0:07:23 | 0:07:27 | |
Up to 600 children are diagnosed with half a working heart each year. | 0:07:27 | 0:07:31 | |
And Little Hearts Matter wants to reach out to as many children, | 0:07:31 | 0:07:35 | |
young people and families as possible at their time of need, | 0:07:35 | 0:07:38 | |
and provide life-long support. | 0:07:38 | 0:07:40 | |
This is where you can help make a real difference. | 0:07:40 | 0:07:43 | |
Please go to the website, where you can donate. | 0:07:43 | 0:07:49 | |
If you don't have access to the internet then please call: | 0:07:49 | 0:07:55 | |
And if you can't get through then please, please, please keep trying. | 0:07:55 | 0:08:00 | |
You can also donate £10 by texting SUPPORT to 70121. | 0:08:00 | 0:08:05 | |
Texts cost £10 plus your standard network message charge | 0:08:05 | 0:08:09 | |
and the whole £10 goes to Little Hearts Matter. | 0:08:09 | 0:08:13 | |
Full terms and conditions can be found at bbc.co.uk/lifeline. | 0:08:13 | 0:08:18 | |
Telephone calls are free from most landlines. | 0:08:18 | 0:08:22 | |
Some networks and mobile operators will charge for these calls. | 0:08:22 | 0:08:26 | |
Or if you'd like to post a donation please make your cheque payable | 0:08:26 | 0:08:30 | |
to Little Hearts Matter and send it to Freepost, BBC Lifeline Appeal, | 0:08:30 | 0:08:35 | |
writing Little Hearts Matter on the back of the envelope. | 0:08:35 | 0:08:38 | |
And if you want the charity to claim Gift Aid on your donation, | 0:08:38 | 0:08:42 | |
please include an email or postal address | 0:08:42 | 0:08:45 | |
so that they can send you a Gift Aid form. | 0:08:45 | 0:08:48 | |
Thank you. | 0:08:48 | 0:08:50 | |
Subtitles by Red Bee Media Ltd | 0:08:50 | 0:08:53 |