Episode 1 Five Star Babies: Inside the Portland Hospital


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Bring the baby to you. OK.

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Parenthood - the great leveller.

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But if there's a way to make one of life's most basic rituals

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a little bit easier,

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there will always be someone willing to pay for it.

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The Portland in Central London

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is Britain's only private maternity hospital.

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The Portland can provide speedy access to the best care possible.

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That comes at a price.

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To follow in the footsteps of mothers like the Duchess of York

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and Victoria Beckham starts at around £10,000.

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Whenever I've heard friends of mine say,

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"Our baby was born in The Portland," I've always been like, "Ooh!"

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With so many luxury services on offer, from 24-hour fine dining

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to silver handcrafted baby mementos, it's easy to spend much more.

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In my time at The Portland, I've seen somebody spend over £500,000.

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Looking after every need of the wealthy clientele

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is a small army of consultants,

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chefs, midwives and cleaners.

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They're very demanding, I must say.

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You know, sometimes you think, "My God, what planet do they come from?"

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But can they make one of life's most intimate and painful moments

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feel like a stay in a five-star hotel?

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What do you think it would be like having a baby

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if you didn't have money?

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Oh, my God. Are you kidding me?

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I would have died straight away.

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Four times a year, The Portland Hospital opens its doors to

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prospective parents, hoping to entice them

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into buying the ultimate luxury childbirth experience.

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If you come and take a seat in the waiting room,

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the midwife will be with you shortly. Thank you very much.

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Inside this building are 36 private rooms,

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where parents pay for cutting-edge medical care in lavish surroundings.

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So this is one of our suites.

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It's got a bedroom and a sitting room.

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On offer, everything a mother could desire - for a price.

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In this corridor we have our midwives

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and we have our lactation nurse.

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And then in this corridor along here we've got imaging, so we've got

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a sonographer, we have a dietician, and we've got a photography company.

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From your own personal newborn photographer

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to the ultimate baby souvenirs...

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What's the most popular? Is it silver?

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Silver is very popular, but some people prefer the classic bronze.

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..the hospital sells the dream of the perfect opulent birth.

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The Portland receives patients from all over the world

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and from all walks of life.

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You know, we have princesses from the Middle East

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who deliver here quite regularly.

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We have celebrities,

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individuals of very high net worth.

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So I'm just going to take you round to show you one of our...

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They are women that are used to getting what they want, but,

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you know, we're a hospital that's trying to deliver what they want.

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If they want to have 10 additional rooms, 20 additional rooms,

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we'll provide it.

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As long as that woman, or her husband, can pay

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for what they're requesting, then we'll do our best to deliver.

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I heard the food here is really good.

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Did they say anything about the midwives being absolutely fantastic?

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He said all of that was great,

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but he said everyone really comments on the food.

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I have to say, the food is very good.

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We have the luxury that we can pretty much get most things.

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We can get foie gras. We can get lobsters.

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We can get oysters, if people want them.

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We have a fantastic champagne selection here as well.

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Not every hospital stocks Dom Perignon and things like that.

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We're really focused on our food quality, the look,

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the presentation, modelling it on the top hotels,

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The Dorchester and others, because we want to deliver that five-star

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service for patients that are used to receiving a five-star service.

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But we've got to fundamentally remember that we're a hospital.

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So we are a hotel, but primarily we're a hospital.

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Essential to the Portland experience is pampering

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the mother at every stage of childbirth.

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At most hospitals, mothers have to look after their babies,

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even when recovering from labour.

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But here, newborns can be cared for by the staff.

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On the first floor is one of the

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biggest selling points of the hospital...

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the nursery.

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Good morning. Good morning, gentlemen.

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Not only is Janene the CEO, she's also a Portland mother.

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Hello, how are you?

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Two of her three children have been delivered here.

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What I can advocate about here is it is like having a holiday.

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You know, when you deliver at The Portland,

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you get to use the nursery.

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Your baby is only brought back for feeding time.

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So you absolutely, after two to three nights, leave here really fit

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and well and ready to face the challenges of being a new mum.

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That's how it should be.

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This is the privilege of being CEO, being able to come and see the

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little ones, and, you know, it can't help but make you smile for the day.

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It's a really nice feeling,

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although I'm not into crying babies any longer.

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-INTERVIEWER:

-No broodiness, though?

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No broodiness, no, not after three. I'm over.

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I'm over having kids.

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When I had my now seven-year-old,

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he was a complete screamer,

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and I remember him screaming his head off, and in walked Pat.

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Pat picked him up with her confident hands...

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I said, "You have to behave", and he just looked at me, "OK."

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-And he went quiet.

-"OK, then, that's what I'll do. I'll behave."

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There's only one fault with this hospital.

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We don't allow Pat to go home with the new mums.

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Thank you very much, ladies.

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Some people have said to me - and I'm sure they don't mean it -

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"Do you know who I am?"

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And I've always had to say no, because I don't.

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I don't recognise many people.

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I don't get star-struck.

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I'm baby-struck.

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Originally from a small town near Glasgow,

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Pat has looked after nearly 8,000 babies over the past 20 years.

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Each new mother gives instructions detailing

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how they wish their offspring to be cared for.

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This one here says, "One formula and then back to Mum."

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So we change the baby's nappy, wind the baby,

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try and settle the baby until the next feed.

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-INTERVIEWER:

-Did you have anything like that

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-when you had your children?

-No.

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I wanted my children with me all the time, but we're going back 40-odd

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years, you know, when I had my first child, and that's the way it was.

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I'll just go underneath to check her nappy before she goes back.

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All right, baby.

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No, she's fine.

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In the NHS, most new mothers leave within 24 hours of giving birth.

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Here, they can stay for much longer.

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The cheapest room still costs £1,200 per night.

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During their stay,

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babies are tagged to ensure they're returned to the right parent.

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Baby Skyler belongs to new mum Anna.

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She was born on Tuesday, so two days ago,

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and I was very, very, very nervous, but all the staff were amazing.

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They just reassured me, held my hand, and it was almost like being

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with family, people that I'd known, so it all went really, really well.

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Come on, sweetheart.

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There we go.

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She's my first, so it's even more special.

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I wanted a little girl, so I got everything.

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She's my dream come true.

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Anna lives with her husband, Julian,

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a millionaire property developer in the home counties.

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-INTERVIEWER:

-When did you guys meet?

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We met from Facebook through somebody

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who basically introduced us to each other,

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and we went out on a blind date and that was it.

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That was three years ago.

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This one here was when me and Anna went to Dubai.

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Very loved up.

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Basically, I'd been married before and I was desperate to meet

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somebody, and I met Anna and it was amazing.

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So it was love at first sight.

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I had three children and she was amazing with children.

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That's what I wanted.

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So this is my office.

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There's a picture of my three children.

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And this is the kitchen.

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The dogs, I think, are out at the moment at the groomers.

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This is Jamie's room.

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As you can see, she absolutely loves teddy bears.

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And then we've got mine and Anna's bedroom.

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These are pictures of my lovely wife.

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Ex having the baby, but she's no different now.

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-INTERVIEWER:

-How's recovery going?

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Yeah, recovery is going OK.

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I think, for every woman, they like to look their best,

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the majority of women.

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If you feel good, then you act out well.

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But then my first priority would be being a mother,

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so I wouldn't necessarily be like, "Oh, you know,

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"I have to look good over being a mother".

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Julian's first child was born on the NHS,

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but since then, only the Portland experience would do.

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He's paid for Anna to stay another two nights before going home

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to face the onslaught of motherhood.

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Hi, gorgeous.

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Hi, Daddy.

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Hi, gorgeous.

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Come on, you need to eat.

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-Was she good last night?

-Yeah.

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She was in the nursery from 10:00 or 11:00

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until I went to see her at 6:00 and give her a cuddle, and then

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I came back for an hour's lie-down and they brought her to me at 7:00.

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There we go.

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She's amazing. She had a baby two days ago.

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She's amazing. She looks like she hasn't had a baby.

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She's amazing.

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The fees at The Portland don't include a dedicated doctor.

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Patients who opt for the basic £8,000 consultant-led package

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choose their own doctor, which can double the cost.

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The consultant will guarantee to be available before,

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during and after the birth.

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Dr Penny's credentials have made her

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particularly popular amongst the clientele.

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-INTERVIEWER:

-Are you a countess?

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I am a countess. Oh, God.

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I don't often use that at work.

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Yes, I'm married to the Earl of Bradford.

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At the Royal College of Obstetricians,

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I have been described as too posh to pull.

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-INTERVIEWER LAUGHS

-Very funny.

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-Which is so not true, but anyway.

-INTERVIEWER:

-Too posh to pull!

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"You know her. She's too posh to pull."

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I hope that's not too cold.

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Lovely little head down here.

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Dr Penny carries out all of her patients' check-ups personally.

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Oh, she's moving now.

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The mother can spend as much time with her consultant as she wants.

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One of the reasons that I like working at The Portland is because

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it allows me to practise the medicine that I was trained to do.

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That's her little knee there.

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'I don't have time constraints,

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'I don't have financial constraints, and it allows me to see'

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the same patient for the whole journey,

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which I can't do in the NHS.

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She may still move,

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but I don't mind if she is bottom first until 36 weeks.

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That continuity of care is not only beneficial for the patient,

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but it's actually really satisfying for the doctor.

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To be honest, it's what we thought we would be doing

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when we trained as doctors.

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Nearly 1,600 women a year pay for the Portland experience.

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It's one of the top private maternity hospitals in Europe.

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Hui was a high-society it girl in China

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before she moved to London five years ago.

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She's a regular on the London fashion scene,

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and has just started her own clothing label.

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She's married to a business tycoon

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who runs his shipping empire out of Hong Kong.

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With her husband working abroad,

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Hui has taken up residence in West London.

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She's been left to decide where to have their first baby.

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-INTERVIEWER:

-Tell me, why did you want to have a baby at The Portland?

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-INTERVIEWER:

-Do you know of anyone else that's had babies there?

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Yes. Victoria Beckham.

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She's my icon.

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And is it expensive for you?

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But after I've done so many blood tests, the scan, everything,

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it's just like another 10K.

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So it's, like, in total it's 30.

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But if you have the...

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Should I say that? If you have some money...?

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No, no, no, I cannot say that.

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-INTERVIEWER:

-Which one is your favourite?

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That's why I choose here.

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One of the attractions of the hospital is that a mother

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doesn't have to deliver her baby naturally if she doesn't want to.

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Like Victoria Beckham, Hui is having her baby by Caesarean section.

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If you choose to come to the Portland,

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you really can choose your mode of delivery, and I think the nice

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thing about the Portland is that we don't question that judgment.

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We give the women the information that they need,

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and then we allow a woman to make that choice.

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And once she's made that choice, we support her all the way through.

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For the past two months, Hui has been having weekly appointments

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with Dr Shazia, the consultant she's hired to deliver her baby.

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Her Caesarean is taking place tomorrow.

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So I'm really excited, because, you know,

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tomorrow I'm going to meet your little one as well.

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-Yes.

-It's a very big day, isn't it?

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'Sometimes I will get people purely because the midwives told them,'

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"Miss Malik does a very nice scar."

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-TINY HEARTBEAT

-It's a nice normal rate.

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But I think the main reason is that they want to know that,

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if something goes wrong, they're going to be delivered

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by somebody actually who knows all about them.

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We just need to go through what the operation involves and the risks.

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-Yeah.

-That's important. OK?

-Yeah, yeah.

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It is classified as major abdominal surgery,

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which means there are risks associated with it.

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-OK? So the most important risks are infections.

-Yeah.

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The other risks are excessive bleeding, or haemorrhage.

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-Oh.

-OK?

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Damage to the womb, the bladder, the bowel, OK,

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and other pelvic organs.

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Luckily, they're not big risks, they're mostly less than 1%,

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but they are there, so you need be aware.

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-Last thing, I know you have the instructions.

-Yes.

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Nothing to eat from midnight.

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-But I would recommend that you try and get some sleep.

-Yes.

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-Because from tomorrow your life is going to be different.

-I'm sure.

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-My kids are five and seven and I still don't sleep.

-Yeah.

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-So get some rest tonight.

-Yeah.

-OK?

-Thank you.

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For Portland mums and dads, the fear of parenthood can be eased

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by free parenting tutorials from Pat.

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I like to get all the dads involved in changing nappies.

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We had a prince in and I said to him,

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you know, "You're a dad. You're changing the nappy,"

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and he said, "No, we don't do that."

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And I said, "No, you do, because you're in my domain now,"

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and he did, and he loved it.

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She delivers old-fashioned care.

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Health care has become very much about giving women choices,

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and sometimes as a mum we want to be told how to do things.

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So we're going to give Skyler a nice top and tail.

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That's face and bottom.

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This afternoon, Pat is helping Anna and Julian

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prepare to take baby Skyler home.

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So where did you get a name like Skyler? That is pretty!

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-He chose it.

-Did you see it in a book or just...?

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I think I just saw it on Breaking Bad. It was a programme.

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-Oh, Breaking Bad.

-Breaking Bad. It's a series.

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There's not a man I know that doesn't watch Breaking Bad.

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Yeah, exactly.

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Well, there's a good thing for a girl.

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She likes clothes on.

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Oh, she's sick a little bit.

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That's all right. She's trying to lose weight, aren't you?

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Not yet. Doesn't matter about your weight at the moment, Skyler.

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I tell you what she has got, which is wonderful -

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-lovely flat ears.

-Yeah.

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She can wear really good earrings when she's older.

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-I know.

-She's so tiny.

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Don't they make you emotional? They're so beautiful.

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Can you see how nice that is?

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-Now you can see, so you're not...

-Yeah, yeah.

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She's just so tiny. I just want her to gain weight.

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Listen, she wants to be little. Girls like being small.

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Look how thin you are.

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Is your milk coming in?

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Well, I took a pill this morning for it to stop.

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Oh.

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I just think because she's so tiny

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I just want her to be well, that's all.

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-You know, it's hormones.

-Yeah.

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-You feel fluey and cry...

-Yeah, I do.

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-You see how she goes to sleep?

-She's fast asleep.

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They just love this.

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-She's fast asleep.

-Yeah.

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I need to take you home with me, Pat.

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Well, I'll come with you with my husband and kids.

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We'd all have to come.

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-Thank you very much.

-Have you ordered your dinner?

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I'm going to do it now. Thank you so much.

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The Portland was started over 30 years ago

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by the Queen's gynaecologist.

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Today it's owned by the world's largest private health care company,

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HCA, which has an annual turnover of £25 billion.

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The staff is under constant pressure

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to deliver the ultimate luxury hotel experience.

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Roselyn, you've got delivery two to clean, four is a light clean,

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and you've got three up here, so just start in these two rooms,

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please, and obviously the on-call. Here you are.

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26 years ago, Roselyn moved to London from Barbados.

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She's one of 21 full-time cleaners.

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PHONE RINGS

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Hello. Good morning. Roselyn speaking.

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It's in progress.

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The babies aren't the only ones whose movements are monitored.

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Roselyn's boss tracks her progress while she cleans.

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They know everything what I'm doing, how long I'm staying here.

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-INTERVIEWER:

-What happens if you stay too long?

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-You get tell off.

-SHE LAUGHS

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It's 7:00am. This morning, Hui will become a Portland mother.

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Hi, good morning, ma'am. Welcome to The Portland.

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-OK. What's the name, please? Can I just confirm?

-Hui, H-U-I.

-OK.

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If you'd like to take a seat a second, I'll just confirm the room,

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and then we'll come and collect to you to take you upstairs shortly.

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OK.

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Even got a special way to do the toilet paper.

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So, we just fold it to make it look a bit decent.

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I was going to say it's special!

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Like this. You see that I won't put that there

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because it's dirty.

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The patient come and see that, they won't like it.

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It seems like there's not very much to complain about.

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I know.

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Very excited.

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Very, very.

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Oh.

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-Here we go.

-Oh.

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-This is standard room, right?

-It is, yeah.

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-And that is extra bed?

-Mm-hm.

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Hui's mother will also be staying in the room to help.

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Hui's husband has jetted in from China for the birth.

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Hey!

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-I'm Annabelle.

-Nice to see you.

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I'm your midwife looking after you today.

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-Oh, thank you so much.

-OK. Nice to meet you.

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Who is coming down with you to theatre?

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My mum and also my husband.

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It's only one person.

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OK, I have to think about.

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Only one person.

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Oh, my God. Which one? My mummy or my husband?

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I think maybe my husband...

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because he's my love.

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When I was younger, I wanted to be a singer...

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..cos I love singing.

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So, what are your dreams now?

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Hmm.

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I'd like to win the lottery.

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That would be a nice dream.

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I wouldn't, at the same time, because if I win the lottery,

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I just come off work, cos in that home, you're sitting down,

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you get bored, eh?

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If I do five days, I do two days to get out the house.

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That would be some exercise as well for the bones.

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Half of all births that take place at the hospital are Caesareans.

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Most are conducted in the three operating theatres in the basement.

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Hui's Caesarean will be carried out by her consultant Dr Shazia.

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-Good morning.

-How are you?

0:22:380:22:40

-Hi. This is my mummy.

-Oh, OK. Hello.

0:22:400:22:44

Nice to meet you, I'm Shazia.

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That's my...

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SHE SPEAKS OWN LANGUAGE

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Yes, I'm the doctor. Yes. Come and have a seat.

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Have a seat.

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It's a big day for the whole family.

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Yeah.

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She said you are very pretty.

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SHE LAUGHS

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Thank you. Yes, but I hope I'm a good surgeon.

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That's far more important than my looks.

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OK, all right. I will see you in the theatre.

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-Yeah.

-All right.

-Thank you so much.

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Take care, see you later. Bye-bye.

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-Love you!

-And you.

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DR SHAZIA LAUGHS

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Oh, I'm nervous.

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Hui has chosen her husband to join her for the birth.

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We're doing an elective Caesarean section. Any particular concerns?

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In terms of surgical considerations, I've got no major concerns, yeah.

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In that case, we'll prep and start.

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Dr Shazia has been a consultant at The Portland

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for the past three years, but half of her practice

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is still through the NHS.

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So, Hui, this noise that I'm making is nothing for you

0:23:420:23:46

to worry about, OK?

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'The difference is that in the NHS, you will always have somebody'

0:23:480:23:51

who is competent to do your procedure, but they may not

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be a consultant, or they may not be somebody that you know.

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Just to be clear, do you have any pain?

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I don't want to talk.

0:24:030:24:05

You don't want to talk? That's OK.

0:24:050:24:06

'But a Caesarean section is the same procedure,'

0:24:060:24:09

wherever you have it.

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So, what we'll do in a minute or two, when your baby gently comes

0:24:130:24:15

into the world, we'll just lower the screen so you can see the baby.

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'It's the same level of staffing, the same level of skill,

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'in terms of the surgeon,'

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so there's absolutely no difference at all.

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Screen down.

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Very, very gently coming into the world.

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BABY CRIES

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He's climbing out.

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Congratulations.

0:24:370:24:38

Congratulations. Very, very well done.

0:24:400:24:42

BABY CRIES

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Dr Shazia has delivered Hui a boy weighing nearly 8lbs.

0:24:460:24:50

Hui's requested for baby Lucas to be cleaned off

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and wearing a nappy before he's brought to her.

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TRANSLATION:

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Really good.

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'It's such a profound moment, isn't it, the start of a new life?'

0:25:160:25:21

And for someone to trust you, and to feel happy that

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you are part of that process, is really something very special.

0:25:250:25:30

All comfy, then?

0:25:320:25:33

Got Lucas? Well done.

0:25:330:25:35

-And Daddy is a natural!

-Yes.

0:25:350:25:37

Isn't he?

0:25:370:25:38

I love it when the daddies are cooing over the baby.

0:25:420:25:44

LAUGHTER

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It's wonderful, because as a mummy you're going to coo anyway,

0:25:470:25:50

aren't you? Yeah.

0:25:500:25:53

Hui and her mother have paid to stay in their private room

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for the next few nights.

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Her husband is soon to return to his business empire in Hong Kong.

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It's the morning after the birth.

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Hui is on the first floor, recovering,

0:26:090:26:13

as are 12 other mothers and their newborn offspring.

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Meeting their needs takes a team of 434 employees.

0:26:170:26:22

In the NHS, breakfast can cost as little as 90 pence,

0:26:220:26:26

but here there's a team of 13 preparing any dish

0:26:260:26:29

the mothers desire.

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Breakfast.

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One of the busiest times of the day.

0:26:330:26:35

Sonia was headhunted from The Dorchester Hotel to ensure

0:26:350:26:39

the guests' breakfast needs are met, promptly.

0:26:390:26:43

-There's no...

-PHONE RINGS

0:26:430:26:45

Sorry.

0:26:450:26:47

Good morning, dining, Sonia speaking, how may I assist you?

0:26:470:26:50

You certainly can.

0:26:510:26:52

What would you like to have this morning?

0:26:520:26:55

Grapefruit juice and a whole banana.

0:26:550:26:58

Fantastic. That should reach you in the next ten, 15 minutes.

0:26:580:27:01

Thank you. Bye-bye.

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We don't keep them waiting.

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I mean, if you think about it, you become impatient,

0:27:070:27:11

especially if you have a baby crying on the other side of the bed.

0:27:110:27:16

It's not a hospital, especially for the patients, for myself as well.

0:27:160:27:20

I treat it like it was a hotel.

0:27:200:27:22

Hello, good morning, madam. How are you feeling today?

0:27:240:27:27

Here's your breakfast.

0:27:280:27:30

Hotel services?

0:27:300:27:32

The expectations are higher from us,

0:27:320:27:34

because a patient doesn't really understand much what a doctor does.

0:27:340:27:39

They just follow the instructions.

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Whereas for us, they stay in the best hotels in the world.

0:27:410:27:45

Of course they have high expectations from us.

0:27:450:27:48

Originally from Uruguay, Geraldine is a banker married to

0:27:500:27:54

a partner in an accounting firm.

0:27:540:27:57

She gave birth to baby Sofia three days ago.

0:27:570:27:59

Friends of ours had babies here and had highly recommended it,

0:28:000:28:03

and so far very good. Very, very good.

0:28:030:28:07

Everything is low-fat, everything is low-fat.

0:28:070:28:10

Low-calorie everything.

0:28:100:28:12

I suppose you need to start losing the pounds right after.

0:28:120:28:15

Especially, you know, there's people coming to visit you,

0:28:150:28:18

and you want to showcase, you know, yourself as well.

0:28:180:28:21

There's lots of pictures taken.

0:28:210:28:23

You want to remember, you know, you came out of the labour ward

0:28:230:28:27

and you're looking like a film star.

0:28:270:28:29

But, yeah, I think I'd probably be the same myself.

0:28:300:28:34

I had all the cake already, so it's now time to go back

0:28:340:28:36

to normal, healthy food.

0:28:360:28:38

And as a first-time mother, how are you feeling?

0:28:390:28:42

Happy and nervous.

0:28:420:28:44

What makes you nervous?

0:28:440:28:46

Leaving the hospital, being on my own with her.

0:28:470:28:50

But I'm sure we'll manage.

0:28:500:28:52

After paying for four days' recovery,

0:28:550:28:59

Anna is preparing to go home with baby Skyler.

0:28:590:29:02

But no Portland mother leaves hospital without receiving

0:29:020:29:05

a goodie bag.

0:29:050:29:07

Sometimes a mum will give a gift in return.

0:29:070:29:10

-Thank you so much.

-Oh, that's so kind of you.

0:29:100:29:13

Thank you so much. Just a little something for you, don't be silly.

0:29:130:29:16

It was lovely seeing you both.

0:29:160:29:17

-Thank you so much.

-Thank you, Pat.

0:29:170:29:19

Thanks so much, and look after your grandchildren, and God bless.

0:29:190:29:22

-I will do. Bye.

-Thanks a lot.

0:29:220:29:24

I'm going to go and sort out the accounts.

0:29:270:29:29

-I'll meet you downstairs. Is that all right?

-Yes.

-Thanks.

0:29:290:29:33

It's like being in a hotel.

0:29:350:29:37

-Five-star hotel.

-Yeah.

0:29:370:29:38

Expensive, but amazing.

0:29:380:29:41

-Ours was about £13,000, wasn't it?

-Yeah.

-For the four days.

0:29:410:29:45

Thank you so much.

0:29:450:29:47

-Thank you very much.

-Take care.

-Thanks.

0:29:470:29:49

Right. Last bits.

0:29:490:29:51

It's like a club, really, isn't it?

0:29:510:29:53

Yeah, it is a club. And also, I think it sounds quite special.

0:29:530:29:56

Whenever I've heard friends of mine say,

0:29:560:29:58

"Our baby was born in The Portland",

0:29:580:30:00

I've always been like, "Ooh!"

0:30:000:30:02

So, it's nice now that I can say, when Skyler is older,

0:30:020:30:05

"Oh, where was she born?" "She was born in The Portland".

0:30:050:30:07

-It's like a club.

-Yeah.

0:30:070:30:09

-Call us if you need anything.

-We will.

0:30:090:30:11

Yeah? Bye-bye.

0:30:110:30:12

Gorgeous baby.

0:30:120:30:14

Would I pay again? Yeah, I would.

0:30:140:30:15

I wouldn't have another child, but I'd pay it again.

0:30:150:30:18

Thank you.

0:30:180:30:20

Yeah, no, I wouldn't say it was value,

0:30:200:30:22

-but it was a lovely way to have a child.

-Yeah.

0:30:220:30:25

Upstairs, another customer is hoping to become part of The Portland club.

0:30:290:30:33

Kimberly and her management consultant husband Ibrahim

0:30:340:30:38

have hired Dr Penny to deliver their first child.

0:30:380:30:41

Kimberly wants to give birth naturally.

0:30:410:30:44

For Dr Penny, this means dropping everything to treat her.

0:30:440:30:47

So, lunch plans and fireworks this evening,

0:30:470:30:51

but everybody knows it's always fluid with me.

0:30:510:30:53

In fact, nobody will come to my house in Shropshire

0:30:530:30:55

for Easter any more, because I've left them

0:30:550:30:58

to make their own lunch on two occasions, 12 of them.

0:30:580:31:01

So, nobody responds to that invitation from me any more.

0:31:030:31:09

It's fine, it's fine.

0:31:090:31:10

If you come here, you are paying for my time.

0:31:100:31:14

So, you're paying to have one person from the beginning

0:31:140:31:16

of your pregnancy until you've delivered the baby,

0:31:160:31:19

so that's what happens.

0:31:190:31:21

How are you doing?

0:31:230:31:24

The edge has gone.

0:31:240:31:26

We could maybe let you have a little snooze,

0:31:260:31:28

if you want to, before two-ish.

0:31:280:31:30

Because I expect you to be about 10cm by then,

0:31:300:31:34

and then, depending on how low her head is,

0:31:340:31:37

we can wait for another hour, or we can start pushing.

0:31:370:31:40

OK.

0:31:410:31:42

I'll just go with the flow.

0:31:430:31:46

Very good. That's why you've done so well, cos you've gone with the flow.

0:31:460:31:49

See you later.

0:31:490:31:50

She is a yoga teacher, so her husband said she's not

0:31:510:31:55

spoken for four hours, but she's been focusing on the contractions.

0:31:550:31:58

So, she's doing beautifully. Beautifully.

0:31:580:32:01

And actually, at the moment, very smoothly for a first baby.

0:32:010:32:05

While births can run smoothly, when complications do occur,

0:32:080:32:12

it's the promise of the hospital's cutting-edge medical care

0:32:120:32:15

that attracts some patients to come here.

0:32:150:32:18

A quarter of their clientele even travel from abroad.

0:32:180:32:22

Richard is the head of risk management

0:32:220:32:24

at an international firm in Saudi Arabia.

0:32:240:32:26

He met his Brazilian wife Leodiceia online.

0:32:270:32:31

After a whirlwind romance, they were married eight years ago.

0:32:320:32:36

Leodiceia had a complicated pregnancy with her first baby,

0:32:360:32:40

Lara, so they've temporarily uprooted their luxury lifestyle

0:32:400:32:44

to give birth at The Portland.

0:32:440:32:46

If you look at the overall cost,

0:32:460:32:47

I mean, you probably end up paying about £4,000 a month

0:32:470:32:50

for a temporary apartment, so that's for at least three months.

0:32:500:32:53

Paying for a school term, that's another £5,000.

0:32:530:32:55

And even if you look at The Portland Hospital, I mean,

0:32:550:32:59

the cost there is probably about £8,000 for a consultant delivery,

0:32:590:33:04

and that covers one night.

0:33:040:33:05

So, if you stay a couple of extra nights, that's over £10,000,

0:33:050:33:09

and then you've got the cost of the doctors as well.

0:33:090:33:11

So, frankly, it mounts up very quickly.

0:33:110:33:13

But equally, if you look at it, what's the cost of a child?

0:33:130:33:15

You're going to pay hundreds of thousands over the lifetime

0:33:150:33:18

of a child, so it just means you're starting spending at the start.

0:33:180:33:21

But that's fine. We need the right support for the family.

0:33:210:33:24

Five years ago, Leodiceia had Lara by Caesarean section,

0:33:250:33:29

but she's also had a miscarriage.

0:33:290:33:31

I lost the baby five months pregnant.

0:33:320:33:35

When I got to the hospital, I was in brutal pain,

0:33:350:33:40

and I thought I would die there,

0:33:400:33:43

and from what I've been researching, Caesarean has higher risk

0:33:430:33:47

than natural birth, but you have the myth that

0:33:470:33:51

it will have less pain.

0:33:510:33:53

That's also not true.

0:33:530:33:55

I had a Caesarean before and was very painful, the recovery.

0:33:550:33:59

I think there's more benefits in the natural birth,

0:33:590:34:04

and I'd like to have this chance of trying, you know?

0:34:040:34:09

Leodiceia has developed gestational diabetes,

0:34:110:34:14

making it dangerous for the baby to go full term.

0:34:140:34:17

The baby needs to be born tomorrow, so a Caesarean has been scheduled.

0:34:200:34:24

But Leodiceia desperately wants the midwives

0:34:240:34:27

to help her to give birth naturally.

0:34:270:34:29

You've got your plan.

0:34:290:34:31

If you go into labour, baby's going to come,

0:34:310:34:34

we're going to have a good old shot at having a vaginal birth,

0:34:340:34:37

-and if not we're going to have a C-section.

-Yeah.

-Yeah?

0:34:370:34:41

And do you know what?

0:34:410:34:42

Tomorrow, one way or the other,

0:34:430:34:46

you're going to have the baby in your arms.

0:34:460:34:49

Oh, darling.

0:34:490:34:50

OK.

0:34:500:34:51

-Sorry.

-Don't apologise.

0:34:530:34:55

You've having a baby tomorrow. That's a good thing.

0:34:550:34:58

Kimberly is also hoping to deliver her baby naturally.

0:35:000:35:04

She's still moving beautifully?

0:35:040:35:06

-I think so.

-OK, OK.

0:35:060:35:08

If everything is ready, then we'll get on

0:35:080:35:10

-with the second stage of pushing.

-OK.

0:35:100:35:12

Dr Penny has been trying to make it happen for over ten hours.

0:35:130:35:17

There is a small possibility that things could change

0:35:180:35:22

and we might be looking at delivering an alternative route,

0:35:220:35:25

but I don't think so at the moment.

0:35:250:35:27

We probably should crack on a bit, do you think?

0:35:290:35:32

-Mmm.

-Yeah, yeah.

-Yeah.

-OK.

0:35:320:35:34

OK, one more breath in, and push down to your bottom.

0:35:360:35:40

Brilliant. Harder, harder, harder, harder, harder, harder.

0:35:400:35:45

And stop.

0:35:450:35:48

Kim's been fully dilated and pushing for about an hour and ten minutes,

0:35:480:35:52

and whilst the baby's head is coming down slowly,

0:35:520:35:57

it is not as much progress as we would like.

0:35:570:36:00

So, what we're going to do is go round to the theatre and

0:36:000:36:04

see if, with the help of a ventouse suction cup,

0:36:040:36:07

we can deliver the baby.

0:36:070:36:08

If not, we may have to do a Caesarean,

0:36:080:36:11

but we're going to try our best.

0:36:110:36:12

Are you concerned?

0:36:120:36:13

No, not at the moment, no.

0:36:130:36:15

I think the myth of "too posh to push" is really overegged.

0:36:180:36:22

There are, in fact, very few women who are too posh to push.

0:36:220:36:25

Most women want to have a normal vaginal delivery and go home.

0:36:250:36:30

However, for some people, that's never going to be.

0:36:300:36:33

Thank you.

0:36:330:36:34

-Hello, there.

-Hello.

0:36:340:36:36

I think we probably are going to have to do a Caesarean,

0:36:360:36:39

but I'm just going to do a trial with the ventouse.

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A well mum comes into hospital expecting to have a well baby

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and a healthy baby.

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That's the perfect outcome.

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But, unfortunately, that's not always the outcome.

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Medical advances now mean it's four times less likely

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for a baby to die during childbirth than it was 40 years ago.

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A fact Pat knows only too well.

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Well, when I was growing up, I always wanted to be a mum.

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That's all I ever wanted to be.

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She was very much wanted.

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My husband and I really wanted her, but I was very ill.

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I started having fits, so I had an emergency Caesarean, and she was

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only two and a half pounds, and we're talking a long time ago,

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and she never survived.

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And then, I desperately, desperately wanted to have a baby

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and within a year, I'd had my first son.

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But my husband and I, we never forget her.

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We talk about her often.

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It's just sad because, today...

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..she could have survived it that way.

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After a final attempt at a natural delivery,

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Kimberly's baby isn't any closer to being born.

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Dr Penny is going to have to perform an emergency operation.

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When a baby is in danger during birth,

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there is little difference between the medical care

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in a private hospital and the NHS.

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You know, in the last couple of years, you know,

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we have had a death of a child.

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You know, I'm a mum, and a large number of my staff are parents,

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and, you know, we all feel it,

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and I can't even describe how devastating it is

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when you know that something's happened upstairs.

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But I guess, you know, you put yourself on a pedestal,

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like we do at The Portland, and, you know...

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..that means when something does go wrong,

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you've got a longer way to fall.

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Oh, my goodness, look at you.

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Isn't she gorgeous?

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Hello.

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We ended up doing a Caesarean section,

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and she had her little hand pointing up,

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her little hand like that.

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She's 3.6 kilos.

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I'm just going to write the notes and then we'll come and see her.

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She's coming out in a second.

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Kimberly had a healthy baby girl called Isla.

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She will be staying for the next few days

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until she recovers from the operation.

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I don't think you ever operate on somebody without taking

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a deep breath, and you never know exactly

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what you're going to find when you start operating on somebody.

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So, yes, we all think that childbirth is very straightforward,

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and of course, you'll go home with a beautiful baby,

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and that's what we're all trying to do,

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but we're really trying to keep Mum safe and baby safe.

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So, it's not always straightforward.

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Hui has now been recuperating in hospital for the past four days.

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While the consultants are hired in by the patients,

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the hospital has a team of 50 full-time midwives.

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They all used to work in the NHS.

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Doreen has been here for 15 years.

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When I was growing up I always wanted to be a nurse,

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because at home, where I come from, Zimbabwe,

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nurses were regarded in high esteem.

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I think every little girl wanted just to be a nurse.

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When I first came here, I knew it was a private hospital.

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I knew it was for the wealthy, but I wasn't quite sure what to expect.

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Midwives here must deal with patients

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used to being waited on hand and foot.

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The nursery are ready if you want to go down.

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OK. Yes, please.

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Do you want me to bring him down,

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or do you want to go down as well and watch?

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Er, yeah, you can bring him down. I couldn't get up.

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-OK.

-Yes.

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They are very demanding, I must say. They are very demanding,

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I think because of the kind of money they spend.

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So you're sure you don't want to try and walk down,

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or I'll just bring him?

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-Bring him, please.

-OK.

-Yeah.

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I think that's the way of life they have, getting what they can,

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having everything done for them.

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That's their lifestyle.

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I just couldn't sleep at all, like, during the nights,

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because my baby would wake up,

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but, you know, like, from the second day,

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I started, like, sending my baby to the nursery.

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They expect things to be done on the spot.

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If they want the baby changed, they want it there and then.

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I mean, I don't mind,

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because you don't have, like, 100 patients you have to look after.

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But sometimes you feel you are a servant,

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because they will ask you for things,

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which you know this lady can actually be able to do it herself.

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Like, a glass is next to her,

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and she'll ask you to come and pick it up and hand it to her.

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You know, things like that.

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But, you know, that's the lifestyle of the person, so we have to do it.

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We just have to do it.

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Come in.

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Here's Lucas back.

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My baby. Are you coming back?

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Baby!

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-We are going home.

-Yes.

-Thank you so much.

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Do you want me to hand him to you, or he's OK in the cot?

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Yeah, he's OK in the cot.

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Brilliant. OK.

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Well, this is the best experience ever.

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I start to realise, yeah, I'm a mum right now.

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Not a girl any more.

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I mean after...

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BABY CRIES

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Oh, honey, honey. Shh!

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You see? Oh.

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Oh, oh. Shhh!

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BABY WAILS

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Mummy, he needs a cuddle.

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Mama, you're so pretty. Oh!

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Yes, yes, yes, yes.

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With Hui's husband heading back to Hong Kong,

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she and her mother and her nanny are finally going home.

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After her four-night stay, and significant room service charges,

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Hui's final bill has risen to just under £40,000.

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What do you think it would be like having a baby

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if you didn't have any money?

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Oh, my God. Are you kidding me?

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I would have died straight away. No, I'm kidding. No.

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If you have no money,

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or, like, less money than I have right now, then...

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..I think you have, like, work really, really, really hard.

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Oh, yes, you're hungry!

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Oh, she loves her milk.

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Anna has been home for two weeks.

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Baby Skyler has settled into her new home.

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Are you hungry, baby?

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As has her maternity nurse.

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There we go. You're all done.

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Oh, that was delicious, Ma.

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This is my maternity nurse Amanda.

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Hi.

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And she's been with me since Skyler came home two weeks ago,

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and she has gotten Skyler into a routine,

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a feeding routine, a sleeping routine,

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and I've watched over everything that she's taught me.

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So it's been really, really, really good,

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and Amanda is with me for another two weeks.

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Another two weeks.

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So, have you looked after Portland mums before?

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I've looked after many, many Portland mummies

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and many Portland babies before,

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and obviously lots of celebs, which is lovely as well.

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But, to be honest, every mummy is just a mummy,

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and they come home from The Portland and I'll be at the door

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waiting for them when they come home, because that's what they want.

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BABY SNEEZES

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Oh, dear. Oh, dear. Oh, bless you!

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You're going to be smiling soon.

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I'm very lucky, because I actually get,

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99% of the time, I get baby's first smile, but I never ever tell mums.

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So if the baby smiles at me and Mum is in another room,

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the next day I'll say to Mum and Dad,

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"Baby is really on the cusp of smiling.

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"It won't be long until they smile",

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knowing that, you know, I've already had the first smile,

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but just so that they can have the first smile,

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because it's obviously a very special moment,

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and you wouldn't ever want to take that from a mummy and daddy.

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We wouldn't want to take that away, would we?

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No, we wouldn't.

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Leodiceia has moved her family halfway across the world

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to have her baby at The Portland.

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They've paid for the consultant-led package, and chosen Dr Karen,

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who's trying to give her the natural birth she desires.

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You OK?

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I'm a little nervous.

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Any questions or anything? You OK?

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When will be more painful, the beginning...?

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-We don't want you to have any pain.

-Oh?

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That's why you're having the epidural first. See you in a bit.

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Emotionally, it's obviously not been so easy for her,

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because it's been this dilemma

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about whether to go for a Caesarean section,

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or to try a normal delivery.

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And then, because she has gestational diabetes,

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it's not easy just to sit and wait, with the risk of stillbirth.

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Even if she ends up having a Caesarean section,

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if she's tried to have a normal delivery,

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she'll feel that her birth journey has been more satisfying.

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Every choice they make adds a cost to the bill.

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Having an epidural to relieve any pain will add another £995.

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-I'm Chris Evan, the consultant anaesthetist on today.

-OK.

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OK, so, the epidural.

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The idea is we site a needle between the bones of your back,

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and then we can inject some local anaesthetic

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and opiate mixture down there.

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Sometimes epidurals can be difficult to put in.

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Occasionally, we have to take them out and do them again,

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and that may be about one in 20 epidurals.

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Well, that wasn't the desired effect of the information that I gave you.

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Just remember, we have to tell you all the things that can happen.

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All of those numbers are very rare.

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Having the money doesn't make having a baby pain-free.

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I think you still have to go through some pain.

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Chin down on your chest.

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Somewhere, somehow, you have to feel some of that pain.

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Ah...

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You're doing well.

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-Oh!

-Well done.

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I think most of them really get shocked.

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That's just the local anaesthetic in the skin now, OK?

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-Finished?

-No, no.

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The local, the first bit, the stingy bit is done.

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And then they say, "But I wasn't expecting it to be like this".

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Oh, oh!

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Sometimes you wonder, you think,

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"My God, what planet did they come from?"

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You know, because it's painful, anyway, having a baby.

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Just relax against the pillow. All right?

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With Leodiceia wanting to try to give birth naturally,

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Dr Karen is going to break her waters to induce labour,

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so a Caesarean won't become necessary.

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You did really well.

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OK. Ready? You OK?

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I'm just going to push back.

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Sorry.

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OK, so that's gone there.

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Dr Karen is one of the hospital's newest consultants.

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She still spends most of her time in the NHS.

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In the NHS you have to oversee maybe 30 patients,

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and you normally will see the woman every three or four hours,

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if she's in labour, or maybe sooner if there's any sort of concerns.

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But it just means you're just quickly, you know,

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popping in and out from room to room.

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I'll give you an hour or so,

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then we'll think about gently starting a little bit of the drip.

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You're doing very well.

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But it's nice to be able to have one-to-one care.

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You can develop a relationship with the woman,

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so you can give her more emotional support.

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It's a luxury, in a sense, that I have,

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that I'm able just to concentrate on one.

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Pat is working the night shift.

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Come on, darling. You're OK.

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Pat, another little cherub for you.

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Tonight, she'll be looking after nine newborns,

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plus any more that might be born before her shift ends at 8:00am.

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She's here for the night. She's a bottle-feeder.

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Oh, God!

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You're a big chunk.

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Do you think it's strange that,

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you know, the mum gets one-on-one care,

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but quite often the babies have to share you amongst them?

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Oh, no, because as long as the baby is fed when it wants to be,

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and changed, and given a cuddle, the babies are fine.

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They don't care who looks after them, as long as someone does.

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While Pat takes care of feeding the newborns,

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for everyone else, the kitchen is always open

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for silver service dining.

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Did you want anything, Richard?

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Soup, a chicken biryani and a lemon cheesecake.

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Hello, sir.

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This is your dinner tonight.

0:50:050:50:07

Do you think that having money can make having a baby easier?

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Yes.

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Because having a baby, if you've no money,

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is extremely stressful, to make sure that you've got everything you want,

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the heating you want, the roof over your head.

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These people here don't have any of them concerns.

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Do you think that's fair?

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This world is not a fair place.

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You have to deal with what you're given.

0:50:330:50:35

Where I come from, in Scotland,

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babies slept in the bottom drawer of the dressing table.

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That was OK.

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It was clean and the bedding was clean and the baby was looked after

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and it was breast-fed and it was loved, and they turn out very well.

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Leodiceia has now been at the hospital for eight hours.

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How are you feeling? And how are we doing with the contractions?

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Now they're more regular than they were before.

0:51:010:51:04

It's nice to see you smiling.

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-The smiling is good. It's a good change.

-Yeah.

0:51:060:51:08

I've got three children, all delivered on the NHS.

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The first delivery I did was not a great experience.

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You're stretching beautifully, actually. Really good.

0:51:170:51:21

It felt very much like a conveyor belt experience.

0:51:210:51:23

I was supposed to go on the labour ward,

0:51:230:51:25

but as I got to the labour ward they said,

0:51:250:51:27

"Sorry, it's now shut," because they'd filled up the last bed,

0:51:270:51:31

so I then went to the ward, laboured by myself with no support.

0:51:310:51:34

It was quite a lonely, isolating experience, you know.

0:51:340:51:38

I will always make sure that women don't have that same experience,

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regardless of where I work, in the NHS or the private sector.

0:51:410:51:44

Leodiceia is now fully dilated,

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which basically means that now there's an opportunity

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for the baby to come naturally, which is what she wants.

0:51:520:51:55

So, in a very short period of time, we'll have a baby in our hands.

0:51:550:51:59

That's it. Quick breath when you need it.

0:51:590:52:01

And another good push. That's it. Come on.

0:52:010:52:03

Keep going, keep going. Don't stop.

0:52:030:52:05

Don't let go of it. Don't let go.

0:52:050:52:07

Keep going, keep going, keep going. Keep pushing.

0:52:070:52:10

It's coming round the curve.

0:52:100:52:11

And another cough.

0:52:140:52:15

That's it. Another one like that.

0:52:150:52:17

And that's it. Well done.

0:52:170:52:19

And here comes your baby's head. He's out.

0:52:190:52:22

-Really? He's out?

-Yes!

0:52:220:52:24

Give me a good push. Oh, lovely cord.

0:52:240:52:28

So this baby is a strong baby.

0:52:280:52:30

Considering it's had the cord around its neck,

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it's behaved so beautifully.

0:52:330:52:35

OK. Now, look at your baby.

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Look at that!

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Hello!

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There we go!

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Finally, a healthy girl is brought into the world, weighing 7.5 pounds.

0:52:460:52:51

There you go.

0:52:510:52:52

Oh, it's so special. I'm so happy for her.

0:52:570:52:59

It's been absolutely brilliant.

0:52:590:53:01

She's weeing on you, is she?

0:53:010:53:03

It's not been a straightforward birth journey for her.

0:53:040:53:07

She very much wanted a normal delivery,

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and she's managed to achieve that.

0:53:100:53:12

So, what are your plans?

0:53:150:53:16

Well, it's early.

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It's about 1:30am in the morning, so I'll assess her again now,

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and then I'll go home and have a rest.

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Leodiceia has decided that she wants to spend the first night

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with baby Lindsey by her bedside.

0:53:270:53:29

Nothing has happened to you.

0:53:310:53:32

You've peed yourself. All right?

0:53:320:53:35

Thank you. Honestly.

0:53:350:53:38

All that nonsense.

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Which means Pat has one less baby to look after.

0:53:400:53:43

I've got to go and see to him now,

0:53:430:53:45

so you're going to have to be a good chap.

0:53:450:53:47

OK?

0:53:470:53:48

Good boy.

0:53:480:53:49

SEVERAL BABIES CRY AT ONCE

0:53:510:53:54

Just a minute!

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Hui's husband is away, working in Hong Kong,

0:54:040:54:07

so her mum is staying on to help, along with the nanny.

0:54:070:54:11

It's very good to have a nanny in your home, like, living in,

0:54:140:54:17

because you don't need to worry about cleaning things.

0:54:170:54:20

You don't need to do the dishes.

0:54:200:54:22

You don't need to cook as well, which is a good thing,

0:54:220:54:26

and the nanny will take care of me and also my baby.

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BABY CRIES

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Hui may be facing the challenges of motherhood,

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but that's not what's on her mind.

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Women always think a lot,

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especially I think it's because I just had a baby.

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So when he went back to Hong Kong to do some business,

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I'm worried that someone going to, like, you know,

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take my husband from me, take away from me.

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I think it's because I had a C-section,

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and then, you know, my belly is still very big.

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I'm not very confident at the moment.

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I've asked lots of boy.

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They want their wife to be back in normal, I mean, like as normal,

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you know, the same size and the same style, things like that.

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Not like very big, right?

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Can you imagine if your wife, like, you know,

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has very big stretch marks, or, like a belly, or fat?

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No. So I don't want to be like that.

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That's why I have to go back to work, and then...

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Oh, my God. Honey, sorry.

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Despite the availability of the nursery,

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Leodiceia has kept her baby with her all night.

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I'm feeling very satisfied,

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because she came the way I wanted.

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Her sister will visit her soon.

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I'm looking forward to see her face.

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Are you excited?

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-Come on, Daddy!

-Come on. This way.

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Unfortunately, life...

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We all know we have five-star hotels and we have very basic hotels.

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There will always be people in society that can afford

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the type of care that we deliver,

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and they're very, very lucky to be able to afford

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the type of care we deliver.

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I see some really excessive money that's spent here.

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However, we've got to remember that that keeps the world going round.

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Where's our baby?

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SHE SQUEALS EXCITEDLY

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It's still a new baby, and, you know, that new baby,

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for that couple that's spent all of that money, will be the same...

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You know, they'll feel the same for that baby

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as another couple that don't spend that sort of money.

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-Here's your little sister.

-Ohhh!

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Four weeks after giving birth,

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Leodiceia and family return to their life in Saudi Arabia.

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Hui quickly went back to work on her fashion label.

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Baby Lucas is now on his second nanny.

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