Wesley's Story Growing up Poor


Wesley's Story

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In the midst of an economic recession,

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we're all in it together,

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but some are in it deeper than others.

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With one in five young people struggling to find work,

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and many dependent on benefits, Britain's youth is being hit hard.

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In Birmingham, 19-year-old Wes is having a hard time at home.

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'Me and my mum have good and bad days.

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'We can be all right for one minute

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'and the next minute can be completely different.

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'I just want to get my own place, innit?

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'Cos there's no space in my house any more, it's just overcrowding.

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'There's no income coming in.'

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See, I've shared my room with my brother for...19 years,

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in this cramped room.

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Wes has decided his only option

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is to try and get a place in a young person's hostel.

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I just want to do things for myself now.

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I have done college, school

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and I ain't got a job.

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So getting a hostel is the first step of me really doing anything.

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Wes has arranged a meeting about getting a hostel place.

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'It's one step off being a child, innit?

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'Going into the adulthood and getting my own place.'

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I'm just sick of being stuck in other people's houses

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and not having a place of my own.

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The meeting didn't go well and without a secure home or a job,

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Wes is often on the move.

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But one thing is making him think about his future.

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A year ago, Wes became a dad.

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And he's determined to be there for his son,

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but on £53 a week Jobseekers' Allowance, it's hard to contribute.

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Financially, um, yeah,

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it was hard, cos there's stuff that you just can't do all the time.

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I've been doing a bit of voluntary work, but...

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I don't know,

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I don't want to be doing voluntary work.

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Who wants to work for free?

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I've got to step up now, I've got to be a dad. I've got to grow up.

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I need to be there for him, you know what I'm saying?

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Wes may be a dad, but he and Rowen's mum are not in a relationship.

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When he's here with Rowen, he is good and I can't fault him on that.

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He does do the proper dad job.

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But he's still a little boy inside.

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So...

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I didn't expect it to be as hard as it is.

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-Go on.

-It's their child as well,

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they helped make it, so they should pay the way as well.

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Cos it's not easy. A tin of milk is near enough £12 now.

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That don't get you nowhere.

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So...

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If he got a job, it would be so much easier.

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Wes isn't the only teen dad on the estate.

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Almost all his mates are dads and out of work.

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His close mate Aaron has asked him to come round.

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With no money and a hungry baby, he's desperate.

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You know what you need to do, Aaron?

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Ask someone to lend you some money.

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Simple as.

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Simple.

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I went to my dad before yesterday to borrow money, innit?

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I can't do that now. Oh, you've been sick. Oh, bless.

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There's not many people out there that will borrow me things.

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They both know what the options

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for making money on an estate can involve.

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If I've got a bit of change in my pocket, I can go out there,

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grab a little set and I'll go flip it and make a little bit of money.

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You don't even want to be getting yourself

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-sucked into all this stupidness.

-I know.

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I could ask to borrow money,

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but it's not like I need to borrow a little bit, you know, I need stuff.

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-Can I use your phone?

-Yes.

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-MOCKING:

-'Hi, this is Jobcentre Plus.'

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-Please press one.

-I hate this...

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Wes has decided to try and lend Aaron the money himself,

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but his JSA payment hasn't come through

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and the Jobcentre isn't much help.

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OK, then.

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Thanks. Bye.

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She said get a crisis loan for now. She said it ain't been processed.

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The last time they offered me a crisis loan - £14. Take the piss.

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I'm not even going to get mad about it.

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Now I'll just have to see what else I can do.

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For now, he's as skint as Aaron.

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For Wes, one of the problems of being a teen dad

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is that his £53-a-week JSA makes no allowance for his son.

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As the mum, the extra benefits go to Laura.

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Today, she's going to the market with her mate, Sophie.

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Any four cheeses, £1!

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With my benefits, my money is every fortnight.

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On a good week, I do my proper shopping,

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so I go to Asda, get whatever there,

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and then, on the weekend, I go to the market.

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-Are these 60p?

-Those are 60p.

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When you're on benefits and you're a young parent,

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it's absolutely rubbish. You can't do or buy what you want.

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I spend my other shopping in Asda with my milk token,

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which I get... I get £3.10 on each milk token.

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And then down here, I get my fruit and veg.

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I just got three mixed bowls of veg for £2.

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Young girls think, "Yeah, I'm going to have a baby.

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"I'll get this money, I don't have to work," and whatever.

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It's not like that. It's way harder.

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I mean, I think the boys around us need to grow up,

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and they need to understand that becoming a father

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isn't just being the sperm donor

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or being the guy that comes around every weekend

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and spends a few hours with his child.

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I'm saying, if you're there for your son, you see him a lot,

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you ain't got to worry about financial stuff

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until you can afford it. That's how I see it.

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-As long as you're there.

-Mmm.

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'It doesn't take a baby to grow up, does it? We've learnt that.

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'But I think with boys, it takes longer to mature, doesn't it?'

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They've not had to go out and fend for themselves.

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I don't think they understand

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how good it feels to achieve something,

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and that's what they need to feel.

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That's the good thing about Wes.

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He does more than what the other lads do.

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And it turns out that one job application has been successful.

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We'll be doing the kick-up competition.

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Wes has landed his dream job of coaching football.

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It may be only for three weeks but it's paid work.

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'I signed off the Jobcentre so no more there.

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'Get paid,

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'then hopefully go out and find a permanent job.

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'Turn into a teacher.

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'That's how I feel. I feel like a teacher.'

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You tend to go one way and you drop and go that way.

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'When I was sitting at my house, ain't had a job, bored out my face,

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'I just felt like smoking a spliff,

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'but now that I'm actually doing something, I don't want to smoke.

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'I'm doing something that I enjoy.'

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And I'm getting paid for it.

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Six pounds something an hour,

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which is all right for kicking round a football,

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teaching kids, innit?

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I wouldn't mind getting into academies

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and coaching academies, cos I know I've got the level to do that.

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I know I can do that. So that's what I'm going to push for.

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INTERVIEWER: This a new start for you?

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Hopefully. I'd say so, actually.

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I can't say hopefully because there's no going back now.

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