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In the midst of an economic recession, | 0:35:05 | 0:35:08 | |
we're all in it together, | 0:35:08 | 0:35:10 | |
but some are in it deeper than others. | 0:35:10 | 0:35:13 | |
With one in five young people struggling to find work, | 0:35:15 | 0:35:18 | |
and many dependent on benefits, Britain's youth is being hit hard. | 0:35:18 | 0:35:22 | |
In Birmingham, 19-year-old Wes is having a hard time at home. | 0:35:42 | 0:35:45 | |
'Me and my mum have good and bad days. | 0:35:47 | 0:35:50 | |
'We can be all right for one minute | 0:35:50 | 0:35:52 | |
'and the next minute can be completely different. | 0:35:52 | 0:35:55 | |
'I just want to get my own place, innit? | 0:35:58 | 0:36:00 | |
'Cos there's no space in my house any more, it's just overcrowding. | 0:36:00 | 0:36:03 | |
'There's no income coming in.' | 0:36:03 | 0:36:06 | |
See, I've shared my room with my brother for...19 years, | 0:36:08 | 0:36:13 | |
in this cramped room. | 0:36:13 | 0:36:15 | |
Wes has decided his only option | 0:36:16 | 0:36:19 | |
is to try and get a place in a young person's hostel. | 0:36:19 | 0:36:22 | |
I just want to do things for myself now. | 0:36:22 | 0:36:24 | |
I have done college, school | 0:36:24 | 0:36:28 | |
and I ain't got a job. | 0:36:28 | 0:36:31 | |
So getting a hostel is the first step of me really doing anything. | 0:36:31 | 0:36:37 | |
Wes has arranged a meeting about getting a hostel place. | 0:36:39 | 0:36:43 | |
'It's one step off being a child, innit? | 0:36:44 | 0:36:47 | |
'Going into the adulthood and getting my own place.' | 0:36:47 | 0:36:50 | |
I'm just sick of being stuck in other people's houses | 0:36:50 | 0:36:53 | |
and not having a place of my own. | 0:36:53 | 0:36:55 | |
The meeting didn't go well and without a secure home or a job, | 0:36:56 | 0:37:00 | |
Wes is often on the move. | 0:37:00 | 0:37:02 | |
But one thing is making him think about his future. | 0:37:03 | 0:37:06 | |
A year ago, Wes became a dad. | 0:37:06 | 0:37:09 | |
And he's determined to be there for his son, | 0:37:09 | 0:37:12 | |
but on £53 a week Jobseekers' Allowance, it's hard to contribute. | 0:37:12 | 0:37:16 | |
Financially, um, yeah, | 0:37:16 | 0:37:20 | |
it was hard, cos there's stuff that you just can't do all the time. | 0:37:20 | 0:37:25 | |
I've been doing a bit of voluntary work, but... | 0:37:27 | 0:37:31 | |
I don't know, | 0:37:31 | 0:37:33 | |
I don't want to be doing voluntary work. | 0:37:33 | 0:37:36 | |
Who wants to work for free? | 0:37:36 | 0:37:38 | |
I've got to step up now, I've got to be a dad. I've got to grow up. | 0:37:38 | 0:37:42 | |
I need to be there for him, you know what I'm saying? | 0:37:43 | 0:37:47 | |
Wes may be a dad, but he and Rowen's mum are not in a relationship. | 0:37:47 | 0:37:52 | |
When he's here with Rowen, he is good and I can't fault him on that. | 0:37:52 | 0:37:55 | |
He does do the proper dad job. | 0:37:55 | 0:37:57 | |
But he's still a little boy inside. | 0:37:57 | 0:38:01 | |
So... | 0:38:01 | 0:38:04 | |
I didn't expect it to be as hard as it is. | 0:38:04 | 0:38:07 | |
-Go on. -It's their child as well, | 0:38:09 | 0:38:10 | |
they helped make it, so they should pay the way as well. | 0:38:10 | 0:38:14 | |
Cos it's not easy. A tin of milk is near enough £12 now. | 0:38:14 | 0:38:18 | |
That don't get you nowhere. | 0:38:18 | 0:38:20 | |
So... | 0:38:20 | 0:38:21 | |
If he got a job, it would be so much easier. | 0:38:21 | 0:38:24 | |
Wes isn't the only teen dad on the estate. | 0:38:27 | 0:38:30 | |
Almost all his mates are dads and out of work. | 0:38:30 | 0:38:34 | |
His close mate Aaron has asked him to come round. | 0:38:35 | 0:38:38 | |
With no money and a hungry baby, he's desperate. | 0:38:38 | 0:38:42 | |
You know what you need to do, Aaron? | 0:38:42 | 0:38:44 | |
Ask someone to lend you some money. | 0:38:44 | 0:38:47 | |
Simple as. | 0:38:47 | 0:38:48 | |
Simple. | 0:38:50 | 0:38:51 | |
I went to my dad before yesterday to borrow money, innit? | 0:38:51 | 0:38:54 | |
I can't do that now. Oh, you've been sick. Oh, bless. | 0:38:55 | 0:38:58 | |
There's not many people out there that will borrow me things. | 0:39:00 | 0:39:03 | |
They both know what the options | 0:39:06 | 0:39:08 | |
for making money on an estate can involve. | 0:39:08 | 0:39:10 | |
If I've got a bit of change in my pocket, I can go out there, | 0:39:11 | 0:39:14 | |
grab a little set and I'll go flip it and make a little bit of money. | 0:39:14 | 0:39:18 | |
You don't even want to be getting yourself | 0:39:18 | 0:39:20 | |
-sucked into all this stupidness. -I know. | 0:39:20 | 0:39:22 | |
I could ask to borrow money, | 0:39:22 | 0:39:24 | |
but it's not like I need to borrow a little bit, you know, I need stuff. | 0:39:24 | 0:39:28 | |
-Can I use your phone? -Yes. | 0:39:28 | 0:39:29 | |
-MOCKING: -'Hi, this is Jobcentre Plus.' | 0:39:32 | 0:39:35 | |
-Please press one. -I hate this... | 0:39:35 | 0:39:38 | |
Wes has decided to try and lend Aaron the money himself, | 0:39:38 | 0:39:42 | |
but his JSA payment hasn't come through | 0:39:42 | 0:39:44 | |
and the Jobcentre isn't much help. | 0:39:44 | 0:39:46 | |
OK, then. | 0:39:55 | 0:39:57 | |
Thanks. Bye. | 0:39:57 | 0:39:59 | |
She said get a crisis loan for now. She said it ain't been processed. | 0:40:01 | 0:40:04 | |
The last time they offered me a crisis loan - £14. Take the piss. | 0:40:04 | 0:40:07 | |
I'm not even going to get mad about it. | 0:40:07 | 0:40:09 | |
Now I'll just have to see what else I can do. | 0:40:11 | 0:40:14 | |
For now, he's as skint as Aaron. | 0:40:17 | 0:40:20 | |
For Wes, one of the problems of being a teen dad | 0:40:22 | 0:40:26 | |
is that his £53-a-week JSA makes no allowance for his son. | 0:40:26 | 0:40:31 | |
As the mum, the extra benefits go to Laura. | 0:40:31 | 0:40:34 | |
Today, she's going to the market with her mate, Sophie. | 0:40:34 | 0:40:38 | |
Any four cheeses, £1! | 0:40:42 | 0:40:44 | |
With my benefits, my money is every fortnight. | 0:40:44 | 0:40:47 | |
On a good week, I do my proper shopping, | 0:40:47 | 0:40:50 | |
so I go to Asda, get whatever there, | 0:40:50 | 0:40:53 | |
and then, on the weekend, I go to the market. | 0:40:53 | 0:40:56 | |
-Are these 60p? -Those are 60p. | 0:40:56 | 0:40:58 | |
When you're on benefits and you're a young parent, | 0:40:58 | 0:41:02 | |
it's absolutely rubbish. You can't do or buy what you want. | 0:41:02 | 0:41:05 | |
I spend my other shopping in Asda with my milk token, | 0:41:05 | 0:41:10 | |
which I get... I get £3.10 on each milk token. | 0:41:10 | 0:41:13 | |
And then down here, I get my fruit and veg. | 0:41:13 | 0:41:17 | |
I just got three mixed bowls of veg for £2. | 0:41:17 | 0:41:22 | |
Young girls think, "Yeah, I'm going to have a baby. | 0:41:22 | 0:41:25 | |
"I'll get this money, I don't have to work," and whatever. | 0:41:25 | 0:41:28 | |
It's not like that. It's way harder. | 0:41:28 | 0:41:30 | |
I mean, I think the boys around us need to grow up, | 0:41:32 | 0:41:36 | |
and they need to understand that becoming a father | 0:41:36 | 0:41:39 | |
isn't just being the sperm donor | 0:41:39 | 0:41:41 | |
or being the guy that comes around every weekend | 0:41:41 | 0:41:44 | |
and spends a few hours with his child. | 0:41:44 | 0:41:46 | |
I'm saying, if you're there for your son, you see him a lot, | 0:41:46 | 0:41:50 | |
you ain't got to worry about financial stuff | 0:41:50 | 0:41:53 | |
until you can afford it. That's how I see it. | 0:41:53 | 0:41:55 | |
-As long as you're there. -Mmm. | 0:41:55 | 0:41:58 | |
'It doesn't take a baby to grow up, does it? We've learnt that. | 0:42:01 | 0:42:05 | |
'But I think with boys, it takes longer to mature, doesn't it?' | 0:42:05 | 0:42:09 | |
They've not had to go out and fend for themselves. | 0:42:09 | 0:42:12 | |
I don't think they understand | 0:42:12 | 0:42:13 | |
how good it feels to achieve something, | 0:42:13 | 0:42:16 | |
and that's what they need to feel. | 0:42:16 | 0:42:18 | |
That's the good thing about Wes. | 0:42:18 | 0:42:20 | |
He does more than what the other lads do. | 0:42:20 | 0:42:22 | |
And it turns out that one job application has been successful. | 0:42:22 | 0:42:26 | |
We'll be doing the kick-up competition. | 0:42:26 | 0:42:29 | |
Wes has landed his dream job of coaching football. | 0:42:29 | 0:42:32 | |
It may be only for three weeks but it's paid work. | 0:42:32 | 0:42:36 | |
'I signed off the Jobcentre so no more there. | 0:42:40 | 0:42:43 | |
'Get paid, | 0:42:43 | 0:42:45 | |
'then hopefully go out and find a permanent job. | 0:42:45 | 0:42:49 | |
'Turn into a teacher. | 0:42:49 | 0:42:51 | |
'That's how I feel. I feel like a teacher.' | 0:42:51 | 0:42:54 | |
You tend to go one way and you drop and go that way. | 0:42:54 | 0:42:58 | |
'When I was sitting at my house, ain't had a job, bored out my face, | 0:42:58 | 0:43:01 | |
'I just felt like smoking a spliff, | 0:43:01 | 0:43:03 | |
'but now that I'm actually doing something, I don't want to smoke. | 0:43:03 | 0:43:07 | |
'I'm doing something that I enjoy.' | 0:43:07 | 0:43:10 | |
And I'm getting paid for it. | 0:43:12 | 0:43:14 | |
Six pounds something an hour, | 0:43:14 | 0:43:15 | |
which is all right for kicking round a football, | 0:43:15 | 0:43:18 | |
teaching kids, innit? | 0:43:18 | 0:43:19 | |
I wouldn't mind getting into academies | 0:43:23 | 0:43:25 | |
and coaching academies, cos I know I've got the level to do that. | 0:43:25 | 0:43:28 | |
I know I can do that. So that's what I'm going to push for. | 0:43:28 | 0:43:33 | |
INTERVIEWER: This a new start for you? | 0:43:33 | 0:43:35 | |
Hopefully. I'd say so, actually. | 0:43:35 | 0:43:37 | |
I can't say hopefully because there's no going back now. | 0:43:37 | 0:43:40 | |
Subtitles by Red Bee Media Ltd | 0:43:53 | 0:43:56 |