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We offer escape for people here. | 0:00:37 | 0:00:40 | |
We offer time away to get lost in their own thoughts, | 0:00:44 | 0:00:48 | |
to come in to unleash issues that they've got, | 0:00:48 | 0:00:52 | |
lose themselves for a period of time in the gym. | 0:00:52 | 0:00:55 | |
Practically every day I get a call about something, | 0:00:59 | 0:01:02 | |
somebody having trouble, financial trouble, | 0:01:02 | 0:01:05 | |
somebody having trouble with their marriage, | 0:01:05 | 0:01:08 | |
someone just needing... | 0:01:08 | 0:01:10 | |
..a shoulder to cry on, | 0:01:11 | 0:01:13 | |
somebody to listen to them. | 0:01:13 | 0:01:14 | |
It hasn't been easy | 0:01:18 | 0:01:21 | |
in kickboxing for me. | 0:01:21 | 0:01:23 | |
I went through a nasty divorce. | 0:01:25 | 0:01:29 | |
I've had businesses that has flopped | 0:01:29 | 0:01:32 | |
because of my one-track mind. | 0:01:32 | 0:01:36 | |
I've lost houses. | 0:01:38 | 0:01:40 | |
I've lost a lot. | 0:01:40 | 0:01:42 | |
It's a struggle to keep this tin hut going. | 0:01:43 | 0:01:46 | |
Go, go! | 0:02:00 | 0:02:02 | |
Push it. | 0:02:02 | 0:02:04 | |
Jab, jab, jab. Don't stop, don't stop. | 0:02:07 | 0:02:09 | |
Go for it, go for it. | 0:02:09 | 0:02:11 | |
Don't stop, don't stop. | 0:02:13 | 0:02:15 | |
Come again, keep going. | 0:02:15 | 0:02:16 | |
Keep it going. | 0:02:24 | 0:02:26 | |
Sharp, sharp, sharp. | 0:02:26 | 0:02:28 | |
Keep it going, keep it going. | 0:02:28 | 0:02:31 | |
Come on! | 0:02:31 | 0:02:33 | |
You hear the birds tweeting in the roof space | 0:02:33 | 0:02:36 | |
when you come in in the morning and the walls, | 0:02:36 | 0:02:39 | |
I don't know if you see the walls sometimes, | 0:02:39 | 0:02:41 | |
if you look at the walls, in a weird way they start to move and you start | 0:02:41 | 0:02:45 | |
to feel a wee bit disorientated. | 0:02:45 | 0:02:48 | |
I love that. It just adds to the character of the place. | 0:02:48 | 0:02:52 | |
Yeah, it's amazing. | 0:02:54 | 0:02:56 | |
I remember one day someone saying, "It's boiling in here, sir." | 0:02:56 | 0:03:00 | |
And two minutes later he pushed open these two doors and they creaked | 0:03:00 | 0:03:04 | |
as he opened them and I thought the building was going to come down. | 0:03:04 | 0:03:07 | |
And he opened the doors and he says, "There's your air conditioning!" | 0:03:07 | 0:03:10 | |
As the sun shone in, and it was even worse cos the sun was shining in then! | 0:03:10 | 0:03:13 | |
But, yeah, it's just an old, old gym where hard work happens. | 0:03:13 | 0:03:17 | |
It is a dump and, you know, Mr Murray knows it is a dump. | 0:03:17 | 0:03:21 | |
But it's what goes on inside that dump that actually changes the whole | 0:03:21 | 0:03:26 | |
thing about Prokick. That's what makes the huge support that Prokick has. | 0:03:26 | 0:03:30 | |
Like people just overlook the looks on the outside and it's what goes on | 0:03:30 | 0:03:34 | |
on the inside, you know, that really attracts people. | 0:03:34 | 0:03:37 | |
A lot of people probably wouldn't | 0:04:01 | 0:04:03 | |
get to know me that easily. | 0:04:03 | 0:04:04 | |
The reason why I got involved, I was very quiet, very timid as a child. | 0:04:07 | 0:04:10 | |
When I was eight, I was in the local school park and I got beat up. | 0:04:12 | 0:04:16 | |
I got beat up badly by five girls | 0:04:17 | 0:04:19 | |
and just was in the wrong uniform in the wrong park, wrong time. | 0:04:19 | 0:04:22 | |
My dad then was going through the local Belfast Telegraph, | 0:04:26 | 0:04:29 | |
seen classes, so he thought, | 0:04:29 | 0:04:31 | |
"Great, this will give her a bit of confidence." | 0:04:31 | 0:04:33 | |
Put me into it and then he realised that actually girls fight | 0:04:33 | 0:04:36 | |
and he asked me not to do it. | 0:04:36 | 0:04:38 | |
He says, "I don't want you doing that." | 0:04:38 | 0:04:41 | |
By this stage it was too late, I'd fallen in love with it. | 0:04:41 | 0:04:43 | |
I loved it. And then, from the age of nine, I stuck at it. | 0:04:43 | 0:04:47 | |
You've got a massive sacrifice on your social life and probably | 0:04:51 | 0:04:56 | |
relationships and so on. | 0:04:56 | 0:04:58 | |
If I had a family with kids, | 0:04:58 | 0:05:00 | |
I couldn't commit to the sport as much as I do now. | 0:05:00 | 0:05:04 | |
One sister has a family and kids and she tells me, you know, | 0:05:06 | 0:05:09 | |
you've got to think about this, you've got to think about family, | 0:05:09 | 0:05:12 | |
your time's ticking, you need to get out and meet people. | 0:05:12 | 0:05:15 | |
It's very hard. When are you going to meet someone? | 0:05:15 | 0:05:17 | |
When are you going to fit time in to have that relationship? | 0:05:17 | 0:05:19 | |
So I think I've just put it down to my head. | 0:05:19 | 0:05:22 | |
If I'm going to meet someone, and it's going to happen, | 0:05:22 | 0:05:24 | |
it's going to happen, there's no point going out looking for it. | 0:05:24 | 0:05:27 | |
People would say, "Ursula, God, you don't look like a kickboxer. | 0:05:42 | 0:05:44 | |
"You seem so gentle outside the ring. | 0:05:44 | 0:05:47 | |
"How can you turn into this fighter inside the ring?" | 0:05:47 | 0:05:50 | |
And I always say, "It's just within, | 0:05:50 | 0:05:51 | |
"it's just something that you feel, rather than a choice." | 0:05:51 | 0:05:54 | |
People think they want to fight, and they get a punch in the face and they don't come back. | 0:05:54 | 0:05:57 | |
Or they lose a fight and was never there, do you know what I mean? | 0:05:57 | 0:06:00 | |
When you have that strong desire to do it and you love it and you have that passion, like, | 0:06:00 | 0:06:03 | |
you just can't turn your back on it. | 0:06:03 | 0:06:06 | |
Picture what you're going to do. | 0:06:06 | 0:06:07 | |
She's going to want to power forward, | 0:06:07 | 0:06:09 | |
she's going to have to because you're so much taller. | 0:06:09 | 0:06:12 | |
Ursula has got the tenacity and the will to win. | 0:06:12 | 0:06:16 | |
You can keep her away. | 0:06:18 | 0:06:20 | |
'When Ursula first started to fight, she was very nervous and | 0:06:20 | 0:06:23 | |
'she was very insecure.' | 0:06:23 | 0:06:26 | |
If you want it bad enough, you keep going. | 0:06:29 | 0:06:31 | |
She's just got the desire, she wants to succeed. | 0:06:32 | 0:06:35 | |
CHEERING | 0:06:38 | 0:06:41 | |
I hurt everybody in my family, I wasn't a very nice person. | 0:06:50 | 0:06:53 | |
I put my mummy and daddy through hell. | 0:06:55 | 0:06:57 | |
I don't really know what triggered me, why I went so wrong, | 0:06:57 | 0:07:00 | |
but from a very early age I was off the rails. | 0:07:00 | 0:07:03 | |
CROWD CHANTS | 0:07:03 | 0:07:05 | |
Drinking every night of the week, partying, drugs, everything, | 0:07:06 | 0:07:09 | |
you name it. Just completely down the wrong road and the wrong crowd. | 0:07:09 | 0:07:13 | |
You've been here before a few times, Ursula. | 0:07:13 | 0:07:15 | |
My mummy was even saying to me, like, "Ursula, | 0:07:15 | 0:07:18 | |
"I didn't think you were going to make it." | 0:07:18 | 0:07:20 | |
She was always waiting on the rap at the door to say I was found dead or | 0:07:20 | 0:07:24 | |
something like that, you know, | 0:07:24 | 0:07:26 | |
because of the lifestyle I was living, it was just so rough. | 0:07:26 | 0:07:28 | |
BELL RINGS | 0:07:28 | 0:07:29 | |
Go, Ursula! | 0:07:29 | 0:07:31 | |
Good girl. Yes, Ursula. | 0:07:31 | 0:07:33 | |
For me, the turning point was getting into trouble in 2005. | 0:07:33 | 0:07:37 | |
Good, nice right arm. | 0:07:41 | 0:07:43 | |
I got arrested for GBH with intent. | 0:07:43 | 0:07:46 | |
I was just lying in the cell going like, "How did it come to this?" | 0:07:46 | 0:07:50 | |
I just thought, "I can't live like this no more, you know, | 0:07:52 | 0:07:55 | |
"I've got a son and I need to be there for him." | 0:07:55 | 0:07:58 | |
It's... It was terrible. | 0:07:58 | 0:08:00 | |
Somebody could have been dead. | 0:08:00 | 0:08:02 | |
You need to stay long and ram your jab right through her. | 0:08:02 | 0:08:06 | |
I actually turned to God at that point. | 0:08:09 | 0:08:10 | |
I said, "Get me out of here." | 0:08:10 | 0:08:12 | |
And I promised that, if He got me out of this trouble, | 0:08:13 | 0:08:15 | |
I would change my life. | 0:08:15 | 0:08:17 | |
Stay there! Stay there! | 0:08:17 | 0:08:19 | |
Stay there! Stay there! | 0:08:19 | 0:08:20 | |
Whey! | 0:08:22 | 0:08:24 | |
I love the fact that kickboxing has given me the discipline | 0:08:24 | 0:08:27 | |
to stay off the drink and give up the party life, you know. | 0:08:27 | 0:08:29 | |
It's a pity I learnt the hard way, but | 0:08:29 | 0:08:32 | |
to come through all that and to be sitting now as a world champion, | 0:08:32 | 0:08:35 | |
it's just unbelievable. It really is amazing. | 0:08:35 | 0:08:38 | |
Five years ago, I had lost my brother. | 0:09:01 | 0:09:04 | |
It was a sad time and a tough time for our family. | 0:09:06 | 0:09:09 | |
I started going to the gym just to make yourself feel | 0:09:09 | 0:09:12 | |
like you're coping better or something like that, | 0:09:12 | 0:09:14 | |
you know, take your mind off things. | 0:09:14 | 0:09:16 | |
So I started down in Prokick. | 0:09:16 | 0:09:18 | |
One of my friends trained at Prokick, | 0:09:26 | 0:09:27 | |
he had said to me the best thing that you could do, you know, | 0:09:27 | 0:09:30 | |
use kickboxing to clear your head and, you know, | 0:09:30 | 0:09:34 | |
take your mind off things. | 0:09:34 | 0:09:35 | |
And I did. | 0:09:35 | 0:09:37 | |
And it worked, it worked perfect. | 0:09:37 | 0:09:39 | |
Not that I was using kickboxing to like, direct anger or sadness | 0:09:54 | 0:09:58 | |
in any way, you know, on anybody else. | 0:09:58 | 0:10:00 | |
It wasn't anything like that. | 0:10:00 | 0:10:02 | |
If anything it was more, it was more just... | 0:10:02 | 0:10:05 | |
giving me a purpose. | 0:10:05 | 0:10:06 | |
It was actually just, um, | 0:10:11 | 0:10:13 | |
just around the time of my brother's passing | 0:10:13 | 0:10:16 | |
that I won my first European title. | 0:10:16 | 0:10:18 | |
I wish he could see me now, really, you know. | 0:10:22 | 0:10:24 | |
Especially the scale of the fights that I'm involved with, | 0:10:24 | 0:10:29 | |
you know, with Prokick. | 0:10:29 | 0:10:31 | |
I feel I do make him proud. | 0:10:34 | 0:10:36 | |
Rain, rain, fall in torrents. | 0:11:05 | 0:11:08 | |
Streams. | 0:11:08 | 0:11:09 | |
Fall fast and hard and wash me clean. | 0:11:09 | 0:11:12 | |
Swell the rivers, raise its flows, so it covers me and takes my woes. | 0:11:12 | 0:11:16 | |
Lightning, lightning, crackle and blind. | 0:11:17 | 0:11:19 | |
Strike the darkness from my mind. | 0:11:19 | 0:11:22 | |
Illuminate the path, so I can see the road to travel, so I'll be free. | 0:11:22 | 0:11:26 | |
As a human being, I need to know what I'm made of. | 0:11:35 | 0:11:39 | |
I need to know, you know, how I'm built. | 0:11:39 | 0:11:42 | |
I need to know how I react in the hardest of times | 0:11:42 | 0:11:46 | |
and in the best of times. | 0:11:46 | 0:11:49 | |
I have those extremes in me and I need to kind of work with them. | 0:11:54 | 0:11:58 | |
Even having to fight every six to eight weeks, | 0:12:03 | 0:12:07 | |
that's so good for me because it gives me, like, right, OK, | 0:12:07 | 0:12:10 | |
everything else around me I can't control and I can't, you know, | 0:12:10 | 0:12:15 | |
that's life. You can't control life. | 0:12:15 | 0:12:17 | |
It ebbs and it flows in its own terms, | 0:12:17 | 0:12:20 | |
and you just have to go with it so much | 0:12:20 | 0:12:22 | |
and that frustrates me, you know. | 0:12:22 | 0:12:25 | |
So this gives me that focus | 0:12:25 | 0:12:28 | |
and it gives me that kind of full stop that I need sometimes. | 0:12:28 | 0:12:32 | |
Samantha is a powerhouse... | 0:12:37 | 0:12:39 | |
..and she's just got fighting... | 0:12:40 | 0:12:42 | |
..desire inside. | 0:12:44 | 0:12:46 | |
It's burning. | 0:12:46 | 0:12:47 | |
She's got this quest where she just wants to fight. | 0:12:49 | 0:12:53 | |
and the thing about Samantha is - she loves to fight. | 0:12:53 | 0:12:57 | |
You come through that crowd and the cheering and the shouting | 0:13:00 | 0:13:04 | |
and the roaring and raaaah! | 0:13:04 | 0:13:07 | |
And you get into that ring and everything else fades away. | 0:13:07 | 0:13:11 | |
It's funny, you're never kind of more at peace. | 0:13:23 | 0:13:26 | |
You're never more perfectly, you know, beautifully in the moment. | 0:13:27 | 0:13:33 | |
Nothing else exists outside of those four corners. | 0:13:34 | 0:13:38 | |
One of the cranes of Belfast. | 0:13:59 | 0:14:01 | |
Inspiring, isn't it? | 0:14:01 | 0:14:03 | |
The strongest things in Belfast and we're training underneath it. | 0:14:03 | 0:14:07 | |
But it's a shame, sort of way, it's went now, you know? | 0:14:07 | 0:14:10 | |
It would be nice to see a bit of work back here. | 0:14:10 | 0:14:12 | |
Who knows? | 0:14:14 | 0:14:15 | |
Another Titanic could be built here. | 0:14:17 | 0:14:19 | |
Yeah, turn here, turn here. | 0:14:25 | 0:14:26 | |
Belfast is a tough city, really, isn't it? | 0:14:28 | 0:14:30 | |
You know, obviously we've been through hard times growing up here. | 0:14:30 | 0:14:35 | |
I always thought I had some, some boxing skills, you know, | 0:14:37 | 0:14:40 | |
when I was a kid growing up. | 0:14:40 | 0:14:42 | |
I grew up in a sort of working-class area, you almost needed to, | 0:14:42 | 0:14:45 | |
you know, where I came from or else you would be slapped to the bottom | 0:14:45 | 0:14:49 | |
of the pile very quickly, you know. | 0:14:49 | 0:14:51 | |
Oh, sorry! | 0:14:51 | 0:14:52 | |
Sorry. | 0:14:54 | 0:14:56 | |
We've known each other now for eight years or so, I think, | 0:14:56 | 0:14:59 | |
myself and Billy. | 0:14:59 | 0:15:00 | |
My partner's Billy's daughter, her name's Brooke, | 0:15:02 | 0:15:04 | |
and whenever myself and Brooke started to go out with each other | 0:15:04 | 0:15:08 | |
it was a wee bit strange. He's always been the coach, you know, | 0:15:08 | 0:15:10 | |
he's the coach first and foremost. | 0:15:10 | 0:15:12 | |
We call him Mr Murray or Sir, you know. | 0:15:12 | 0:15:14 | |
There's a strict sort of... | 0:15:14 | 0:15:16 | |
..there's a divide there, you know. | 0:15:17 | 0:15:19 | |
Familiarity breeds contempt - | 0:15:19 | 0:15:21 | |
I believe that - | 0:15:21 | 0:15:23 | |
and I think you have to keep... not a distance. | 0:15:23 | 0:15:26 | |
I mean, it's important to have the discipline in a gym | 0:15:26 | 0:15:30 | |
because, without discipline, you lose it. | 0:15:30 | 0:15:33 | |
People become familiar, they don't try as hard... | 0:15:33 | 0:15:36 | |
and they'll cross the line quicker. | 0:15:36 | 0:15:39 | |
Look, if he hurts you, don't cry. | 0:15:47 | 0:15:50 | |
-Don't show it. -No pain. -No pain. | 0:15:50 | 0:15:53 | |
Because he's my coach first and foremost and then it's Brooke's | 0:15:53 | 0:15:56 | |
dad at the same time, that was a strange one because he's, you know, | 0:15:56 | 0:16:01 | |
he's a tough guy, but he's a gentleman, you know. | 0:16:01 | 0:16:04 | |
He has this aura about him as a tough guy, but... | 0:16:04 | 0:16:07 | |
..once we got past the sort of first hurdle, he wasn't too bad, actually. | 0:16:09 | 0:16:13 | |
But, aye, it was scary for a while. | 0:16:13 | 0:16:15 | |
Keep going! | 0:16:23 | 0:16:24 | |
CHEERING | 0:16:37 | 0:16:39 | |
He's almost like a father figure to me now as well, you know. | 0:16:42 | 0:16:45 | |
I could speak to him about anything now, there's no, | 0:16:45 | 0:16:48 | |
there's no sort of barrier there as such. | 0:16:48 | 0:16:49 | |
He's always the coach first and foremost, he's always the coach, | 0:16:49 | 0:16:52 | |
but he's more than that to me now, you know. | 0:16:52 | 0:16:55 | |
To be successful in this sport you have to be selfish. | 0:17:05 | 0:17:09 | |
I have put kickboxing first to get as far as I've got, train hard, | 0:17:09 | 0:17:14 | |
get my head down and put the hours in that I need to do, | 0:17:14 | 0:17:17 | |
and that does mean you're not there for other family members | 0:17:17 | 0:17:20 | |
that need you to be there. And you do make a lot of sacrifices. | 0:17:20 | 0:17:23 | |
Like, I'm a single parent. Shane's 13 now and, you know, | 0:17:25 | 0:17:29 | |
like he has learning difficulties and it's such a struggle, | 0:17:29 | 0:17:31 | |
you know, sitting down getting his homework. | 0:17:31 | 0:17:33 | |
He needs my time and he doesn't always get it. | 0:17:33 | 0:17:36 | |
What's going to be first? | 0:17:36 | 0:17:37 | |
-Six. -So that's going to be next, then? | 0:17:37 | 0:17:40 | |
It's a struggle, like, trying to get him home from school, | 0:17:40 | 0:17:42 | |
get the homework done, get dinner on. | 0:17:42 | 0:17:44 | |
You're flying out to train, it's quite stressful. | 0:17:44 | 0:17:46 | |
It's stressful enough training for a fight, | 0:17:46 | 0:17:48 | |
never mind having to deal with everything else. | 0:17:48 | 0:17:50 | |
And I am riddled with guilt for the decisions I've made and the choices | 0:17:52 | 0:17:55 | |
I've made, you know. It's terrible but I want to make it up to him. | 0:17:55 | 0:18:01 | |
That's the reason I'm retiring because, you know, | 0:18:01 | 0:18:03 | |
my coach did say, "Ursula, look, you can go professional." | 0:18:03 | 0:18:05 | |
But I know it's going to take another three, | 0:18:05 | 0:18:07 | |
four years and I don't have that much time left. | 0:18:07 | 0:18:09 | |
I need to start focusing now on Shane. | 0:18:09 | 0:18:11 | |
You know, I've done what I came to do and I don't need | 0:18:11 | 0:18:14 | |
to take it any further, you know. | 0:18:14 | 0:18:16 | |
Shane's important now and now it's time to put him first. | 0:18:16 | 0:18:19 | |
-Does that feel all right? -Spot on. | 0:18:19 | 0:18:21 | |
Spread the fingers out again. | 0:18:21 | 0:18:24 | |
People always think it's a male dominated sport, it's for men only, | 0:18:24 | 0:18:28 | |
where there's quite a lot of females that do do it. | 0:18:28 | 0:18:31 | |
Mr Murray gives us total respect. | 0:18:33 | 0:18:35 | |
We do the same training as the men do and if someone's flipping a tyre | 0:18:35 | 0:18:38 | |
at 100kg, the woman's flipping a tyre at 100kg. | 0:18:38 | 0:18:41 | |
Or if you're sparring, you're sparring men, you're sparring women. | 0:18:41 | 0:18:43 | |
So you're treated exactly 100% fair. | 0:18:43 | 0:18:46 | |
And we don't expect to be treated any different, | 0:18:46 | 0:18:49 | |
any of the female fighters. We want to be treated equally. | 0:18:49 | 0:18:52 | |
The last fight of the night... | 0:18:52 | 0:18:54 | |
People used to look at you funny whenever you told them you did martial arts, | 0:19:06 | 0:19:09 | |
or you fought or whatever. It wasn't accepted that much. | 0:19:09 | 0:19:12 | |
I suppose my own father is a massive prime example, | 0:19:12 | 0:19:14 | |
he doesn't believe women should fight. | 0:19:14 | 0:19:16 | |
He's never seen me fight in his life. | 0:19:16 | 0:19:18 | |
He's never been to any competition or tournament. | 0:19:18 | 0:19:20 | |
Here we go, round one of five. | 0:19:20 | 0:19:23 | |
Sometimes I think, "Yeah, he's missing out massively. | 0:19:24 | 0:19:27 | |
"He's missed out on a massive part of my life." | 0:19:27 | 0:19:29 | |
And one of my coaches didn't believe that I'd actually told him I fought because he never came, | 0:19:29 | 0:19:33 | |
so he lifted the phone one day and asked him and his answer back was, | 0:19:33 | 0:19:36 | |
"There's enough people watching her!" | 0:19:36 | 0:19:37 | |
CHEERING AND APPLAUSE | 0:19:37 | 0:19:39 | |
Go on, Cathy! Go on, Cathy! | 0:19:56 | 0:19:59 | |
I don't like two women standing toe for toe | 0:20:02 | 0:20:08 | |
with blood coming out of their face. | 0:20:08 | 0:20:10 | |
Saying that, I'm in the corner with my fighters, | 0:20:11 | 0:20:14 | |
which I get emotionally charged | 0:20:14 | 0:20:18 | |
and I'm passionate about my fighters and | 0:20:18 | 0:20:20 | |
I'm passionate about my fighters' desire to win, | 0:20:20 | 0:20:25 | |
as much as mine as a coach to have success for them. | 0:20:25 | 0:20:29 | |
I've seen me standing in the corners shouting, "Hit her harder! | 0:20:34 | 0:20:39 | |
"Punch her in the face!" | 0:20:40 | 0:20:42 | |
Samantha's preparation was poor for the last fight. | 0:21:19 | 0:21:23 | |
She took it just a little bit lax and she didn't really feel | 0:21:23 | 0:21:27 | |
that the girl was a threat... | 0:21:27 | 0:21:29 | |
..and she was grossly overweight. | 0:21:30 | 0:21:33 | |
She lost the fight | 0:21:38 | 0:21:40 | |
and she took a pretty badly. | 0:21:40 | 0:21:43 | |
She took it badly because she knew fine rightly that she only lost it | 0:21:44 | 0:21:48 | |
because of herself. | 0:21:48 | 0:21:50 | |
She wasn't being honest with herself, | 0:21:50 | 0:21:52 | |
she wasn't being honest with me. | 0:21:52 | 0:21:53 | |
It really has actually been one of the most difficult years | 0:22:01 | 0:22:06 | |
for me in a long time. | 0:22:06 | 0:22:07 | |
I had so much going on personally, | 0:22:13 | 0:22:16 | |
I had a lot of old demons, | 0:22:16 | 0:22:18 | |
that I thought that I had really put to bed, | 0:22:18 | 0:22:21 | |
came surging back again | 0:22:21 | 0:22:23 | |
and I was sort of struggling personally and emotionally | 0:22:23 | 0:22:27 | |
with some of that stuff. | 0:22:27 | 0:22:29 | |
I shouldn't have been in the ring. | 0:22:29 | 0:22:31 | |
I believe that... | 0:22:40 | 0:22:41 | |
That I'm weak. | 0:22:43 | 0:22:45 | |
The training and the fighting and the struggling to understand | 0:22:45 | 0:22:49 | |
my own strength comes from that genuine | 0:22:49 | 0:22:52 | |
fear of my own weakness and belief in my own weakness, | 0:22:52 | 0:22:56 | |
and inadequacy and sense of myself as a failure. | 0:22:56 | 0:23:00 | |
And there are moments and you think, "I can't do this, I can't, | 0:23:02 | 0:23:05 | |
"I can't do this. | 0:23:05 | 0:23:07 | |
"I don't want to do this. I can't do it." | 0:23:07 | 0:23:10 | |
And then... | 0:23:10 | 0:23:12 | |
there's another voice and it's just like... | 0:23:12 | 0:23:15 | |
"Well, then, who are you if you don't?" | 0:23:16 | 0:23:19 | |
The first thing Samantha asked me, "Please can I defend my title?" | 0:23:31 | 0:23:34 | |
Well, she needed time. | 0:23:34 | 0:23:36 | |
She needed a good six months to get herself into the best shape | 0:23:36 | 0:23:39 | |
ever in her life. | 0:23:39 | 0:23:41 | |
She was maybe 11, 12 kilos overweight. | 0:23:44 | 0:23:48 | |
That's a lot. | 0:23:49 | 0:23:50 | |
Samantha Robb! | 0:23:52 | 0:23:55 | |
CHEERING AND APPLAUSE | 0:23:55 | 0:23:57 | |
I worked with her | 0:23:57 | 0:23:59 | |
solely for three times a day for a week | 0:23:59 | 0:24:02 | |
and in six days we took nearly four kilos off. | 0:24:02 | 0:24:05 | |
Within the last three weeks she's really, | 0:24:11 | 0:24:14 | |
she's really worked hard - | 0:24:14 | 0:24:16 | |
the way she should have worked six months ago. | 0:24:16 | 0:24:19 | |
She weighs in at 66.5. | 0:24:19 | 0:24:23 | |
APPLAUSE | 0:24:23 | 0:24:25 | |
I don't know which way this fight's going to go. | 0:24:28 | 0:24:31 | |
Is Samantha going to lose? | 0:24:31 | 0:24:32 | |
What's going to happen if she loses the fight? | 0:24:32 | 0:24:35 | |
If she loses the fight, it could really throw her over the edge. | 0:24:35 | 0:24:38 | |
BELL RINGS | 0:24:44 | 0:24:46 | |
30 seconds left! | 0:24:52 | 0:24:54 | |
Come on! Come on! | 0:24:54 | 0:24:57 | |
My brother, whenever I lost him, I lost him in Australia. | 0:25:44 | 0:25:48 | |
And it was an accident at work, | 0:25:48 | 0:25:51 | |
so it was just within the construction industry, | 0:25:51 | 0:25:54 | |
it was just an accident. | 0:25:54 | 0:25:55 | |
As I say, it was fatal. | 0:25:55 | 0:25:57 | |
I want to go out and go to the factory... | 0:26:01 | 0:26:04 | |
that's where he lost his life, you know, in the factory. | 0:26:04 | 0:26:06 | |
It was a mishap with one of the machines. | 0:26:06 | 0:26:09 | |
I don't want to believe someone's word, you know. | 0:26:10 | 0:26:13 | |
I've worked in construction a long time and I want to see for myself, | 0:26:13 | 0:26:17 | |
you know...how did it happen? Did it happen? | 0:26:17 | 0:26:20 | |
You know, and just sort of see it for myself rather than just always | 0:26:20 | 0:26:24 | |
sort of being told, "Your brother had an accident, | 0:26:24 | 0:26:28 | |
"he lost his life and here's his body, so bury him." | 0:26:28 | 0:26:31 | |
That photo was whenever he was back here for his holiday, | 0:26:34 | 0:26:37 | |
just before he went back to Australia for the sort of last three weeks of his life. | 0:26:37 | 0:26:42 | |
And there's another couple there, just of me and my brother | 0:26:42 | 0:26:44 | |
when we were in Sydney when I was over for a holiday, you know, | 0:26:44 | 0:26:47 | |
just together and hugging and stuff. | 0:26:47 | 0:26:49 | |
You know, that's the sort of memories that I like to have. | 0:26:49 | 0:26:52 | |
You know, just ones that make me smile. | 0:26:53 | 0:26:55 | |
Go, go, go! | 0:27:20 | 0:27:21 | |
The judges in their wisdom have decided that the winner... | 0:27:48 | 0:27:52 | |
..and still champion is in the red corner! | 0:27:54 | 0:27:57 | |
CHEERING AND APPLAUSE | 0:27:57 | 0:27:59 | |
Miss Samantha Robb! | 0:28:12 | 0:28:17 | |
CHEERING AND APPLAUSE | 0:28:17 | 0:28:18 | |
A fighter, when they fight, they see a tunnel vision | 0:28:28 | 0:28:32 | |
and all they see is the fighter in front... | 0:28:32 | 0:28:34 | |
..where I've got a bigger perspective from the outside | 0:28:35 | 0:28:38 | |
and I can see more, and a good fighter is one that listens. | 0:28:38 | 0:28:42 | |
And I try to get all of our fighters, including Ursula, | 0:28:44 | 0:28:48 | |
to try and think more. | 0:28:48 | 0:28:50 | |
Ursula, who's going to be amazing? | 0:28:50 | 0:28:53 | |
-Me. -Come on, get in the zone! | 0:28:53 | 0:28:55 | |
Tonight... | 0:28:55 | 0:28:56 | |
..in what appears to be her very last fight, | 0:28:58 | 0:29:02 | |
she's trying to make it World Title number three. | 0:29:02 | 0:29:06 | |
Ursula Agnew! | 0:29:06 | 0:29:10 | |
Come on, Ursula! | 0:29:14 | 0:29:15 | |
Come on! | 0:29:25 | 0:29:27 | |
Don't get back, you need to stay there. | 0:29:27 | 0:29:30 | |
'It's one thing being a fighter | 0:29:30 | 0:29:32 | |
'who goes forward and just throws punches, | 0:29:32 | 0:29:35 | |
'but a harder fighter to beat is an intelligent thinking, | 0:29:35 | 0:29:40 | |
'aggressive fighter.' | 0:29:40 | 0:29:41 | |
Ursula's got both. | 0:29:43 | 0:29:45 | |
She's aggressive and she's a good thinker | 0:29:45 | 0:29:48 | |
and a good listener in the ring, | 0:29:48 | 0:29:50 | |
and she reacts very fast. | 0:29:50 | 0:29:53 | |
That's an asset. | 0:29:53 | 0:29:54 | |
You have to angle off your chaser. | 0:29:54 | 0:29:57 | |
Control the centre of the ring. | 0:29:57 | 0:29:58 | |
Work from there. | 0:29:58 | 0:30:00 | |
If it doesn't work, then take a half step back, | 0:30:00 | 0:30:02 | |
move to the right or left, then re-engage. | 0:30:02 | 0:30:04 | |
You can do this. | 0:30:07 | 0:30:09 | |
Come on, get in the zone. You get in the zone. | 0:30:09 | 0:30:11 | |
Show her who's two-time World Champion. | 0:30:11 | 0:30:14 | |
BELL RINGS | 0:30:16 | 0:30:18 | |
Over. | 0:30:39 | 0:30:40 | |
-That's OK. -Doctor, come in. | 0:30:44 | 0:30:46 | |
-She kicked you in the head. -She never kicked me! -She did. | 0:30:46 | 0:30:49 | |
-Are you OK? -No way. -No, stop, stop, stop. | 0:30:50 | 0:30:52 | |
Just relax. Just relax. | 0:30:52 | 0:30:53 | |
Just relax. | 0:30:53 | 0:30:55 | |
Relax. She just caught you cold. | 0:30:55 | 0:30:58 | |
She just caught you cold, she caught you cold. | 0:30:58 | 0:31:01 | |
That's OK. You're going to get up now | 0:31:01 | 0:31:03 | |
and you're going to wish her well. | 0:31:03 | 0:31:05 | |
-Yeah, I know. -Come on, come on. | 0:31:05 | 0:31:07 | |
One doctor stay, please. | 0:31:07 | 0:31:09 | |
CHEERING AND APPLAUSE | 0:31:09 | 0:31:11 | |
Nobody likes to lose. | 0:31:21 | 0:31:23 | |
You have to come back harder. | 0:31:23 | 0:31:25 | |
There's no other way. | 0:31:25 | 0:31:27 | |
There is no other way. | 0:31:27 | 0:31:29 | |
If you want it, if you want it, you have to go and get it. | 0:31:29 | 0:31:32 | |
I have heard sayings, you know, "You're only as sick as your secrets." | 0:31:44 | 0:31:48 | |
And when you have these shadow aspects of yourself | 0:31:48 | 0:31:51 | |
that you don't want people to know about, | 0:31:51 | 0:31:54 | |
that you don't express, | 0:31:54 | 0:31:55 | |
then they can really begin to dominate | 0:31:55 | 0:31:59 | |
and I think that that's what they did for me. | 0:31:59 | 0:32:01 | |
I think before I found Prokick I'd really been on that process and that | 0:32:06 | 0:32:09 | |
journey of, what do you really want in life, you know? | 0:32:09 | 0:32:13 | |
And what is holding you back from getting what you really want? | 0:32:13 | 0:32:16 | |
If somebody had told me ten years ago, | 0:32:20 | 0:32:23 | |
find out what you love doing and do it all the time, | 0:32:23 | 0:32:26 | |
that that was kind of the answer to a happy life, | 0:32:26 | 0:32:30 | |
then, my God, I would've been doing this kind of thing a lot earlier, you know. | 0:32:30 | 0:32:33 | |
There will come a day that I've said, "Do you know what? | 0:32:35 | 0:32:38 | |
"I've done what I wanted to do in kickboxing." | 0:32:38 | 0:32:41 | |
But when that day comes, it'll be because of a positive thing, | 0:32:41 | 0:32:46 | |
it'll be because I feel like I've achieved what I wanted to achieve | 0:32:46 | 0:32:52 | |
and I'm ready to move on and achieve other things in other areas. | 0:32:52 | 0:32:56 | |
It won't be because I quit. | 0:32:56 | 0:32:58 | |
Winner... | 0:32:58 | 0:33:00 | |
Well, there isn't one. | 0:33:00 | 0:33:02 | |
It's a draw! The judges couldn't separate them. | 0:33:02 | 0:33:05 | |
CHEERING AND APPLAUSE | 0:33:05 | 0:33:07 | |
I just felt that it was time to move on from kickboxing, you know, | 0:33:20 | 0:33:23 | |
and I pushed myself for that last fight. | 0:33:23 | 0:33:25 | |
To be quite honest, I could have retired before that. | 0:33:25 | 0:33:28 | |
I spoke to Billy about a week after the fight, | 0:33:28 | 0:33:31 | |
I called in to see him and he said to me, "Ursula, I would never, | 0:33:31 | 0:33:34 | |
"ever hang up my boots like that." | 0:33:34 | 0:33:36 | |
He said, "It's about fighting her again." | 0:33:36 | 0:33:38 | |
I had a good bit of time to think about it and I went down and spoke | 0:33:38 | 0:33:41 | |
to Billy again and I just said to him, | 0:33:41 | 0:33:43 | |
"You know, I'm just going to retire." | 0:33:43 | 0:33:45 | |
And he just went, "OK." | 0:33:45 | 0:33:47 | |
And I was like, "Right." | 0:33:47 | 0:33:49 | |
You know. So that was it, really. | 0:33:49 | 0:33:52 | |
I haven't spoke to Billy since. | 0:33:53 | 0:33:55 | |
Er... | 0:33:57 | 0:33:59 | |
I really don't want to talk about Ursula. | 0:34:00 | 0:34:03 | |
I don't. | 0:34:03 | 0:34:05 | |
I really don't. | 0:34:05 | 0:34:06 | |
That's a sore subject for me. | 0:34:08 | 0:34:10 | |
She's not the only one that I've worked hard with, | 0:34:18 | 0:34:22 | |
got to a certain level and then she just didn't come back. | 0:34:22 | 0:34:25 | |
The door's always open. | 0:34:29 | 0:34:31 | |
If someone wants to come in, | 0:34:31 | 0:34:33 | |
I've never refused anyone to train in here. | 0:34:33 | 0:34:36 | |
I've never shunned anyone away. | 0:34:36 | 0:34:39 | |
I've got lots of regrets. | 0:34:51 | 0:34:53 | |
Regrets... | 0:34:56 | 0:34:59 | |
..about my family. | 0:35:01 | 0:35:04 | |
I was very selfish. | 0:35:06 | 0:35:08 | |
I was very selfish | 0:35:11 | 0:35:14 | |
when I was younger because I had a one-track mind. | 0:35:14 | 0:35:16 | |
All I was interested in was...was fighting. | 0:35:16 | 0:35:20 | |
And people suffer... | 0:35:22 | 0:35:24 | |
..along the way. | 0:35:25 | 0:35:26 | |
It's not easy when you're | 0:35:29 | 0:35:32 | |
striving because you want to become a champion, | 0:35:32 | 0:35:36 | |
you've got this one-track mind. | 0:35:36 | 0:35:38 | |
That you want to be the best. | 0:35:39 | 0:35:41 | |
It's very difficult. People... | 0:35:41 | 0:35:43 | |
people are hurt along the way. | 0:35:43 | 0:35:45 | |
It's hard. | 0:35:45 | 0:35:47 | |
I remember the first time I was backstage for my first world title. | 0:36:00 | 0:36:06 | |
I was the challenger | 0:36:06 | 0:36:08 | |
and I was current professional European champion at the time. | 0:36:08 | 0:36:12 | |
And I was backstage on my own, there was no-one with me. | 0:36:12 | 0:36:17 | |
You've time to think about everything. | 0:36:21 | 0:36:23 | |
Everything is going through your head. | 0:36:23 | 0:36:25 | |
Am I going to be able to do this? | 0:36:25 | 0:36:28 | |
All the doubts, all the negativity and the positives | 0:36:28 | 0:36:31 | |
start rushing through your head. | 0:36:31 | 0:36:34 | |
-CROWD: -Here we go, here we go, here we go! | 0:36:34 | 0:36:39 | |
One of the things that really came to me is how | 0:36:39 | 0:36:42 | |
I got to this place, fighting for the championship of the world. | 0:36:42 | 0:36:46 | |
I reflected back to my school days, where I was beaten up. | 0:36:49 | 0:36:52 | |
And if it wasn't for that initial shock, | 0:36:53 | 0:36:56 | |
I mightn't have been in that place at that particular time. | 0:36:56 | 0:36:59 | |
My quest from wanting knowledge of martial arts, | 0:36:59 | 0:37:03 | |
I ended up in an amazing fight venue | 0:37:03 | 0:37:09 | |
and it was time to go to war. | 0:37:09 | 0:37:11 | |
I beat him from pillar to post. | 0:37:22 | 0:37:25 | |
I won the fight on the judges' cards | 0:37:25 | 0:37:28 | |
but, by the time the penalty points was taken off, | 0:37:28 | 0:37:30 | |
I lost the fight by a half point. | 0:37:30 | 0:37:33 | |
I let just not myself down, | 0:37:43 | 0:37:45 | |
but I let everyone that helped me to get to that stage down | 0:37:45 | 0:37:49 | |
and that was a bitter pill to swallow. | 0:37:49 | 0:37:52 | |
And because I didn't have a coach and a mentor | 0:37:56 | 0:38:00 | |
that I would see every single day... | 0:38:00 | 0:38:04 | |
I done a lot of mistakes in the fight. | 0:38:04 | 0:38:06 | |
25 years later, | 0:38:08 | 0:38:11 | |
as a fighter then turning into a trainer, | 0:38:11 | 0:38:13 | |
I miss not getting into the ring. | 0:38:13 | 0:38:15 | |
But it's not about me. | 0:38:18 | 0:38:20 | |
It's not about me, it's about me pushing them. | 0:38:22 | 0:38:24 | |
You have to be selfish. | 0:38:26 | 0:38:28 | |
It's all about you. | 0:38:28 | 0:38:30 | |
It's all about you and that's what I try to push. | 0:38:30 | 0:38:33 | |
It's all about my fighters. | 0:38:38 | 0:38:40 |