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No! You're not going away! Sian! | 0:00:04 | 0:00:06 | |
Last year, the state spent an estimated £9 billion | 0:00:06 | 0:00:10 | |
on just 120,000 families. | 0:00:10 | 0:00:14 | |
It does smell in here though, doesn't it? | 0:00:14 | 0:00:16 | |
There's been a fight in my garden, a fight across the street. | 0:00:16 | 0:00:20 | |
'So let us get out there and heal the scars of a broken society.' | 0:00:23 | 0:00:27 | |
I can, if needed, be there at seven in the morning to make sure the children are up... | 0:00:27 | 0:00:32 | |
Sian. Buy into it. | 0:00:32 | 0:00:33 | |
..and be there at five o'clock to make sure there's food on the table. | 0:00:33 | 0:00:37 | |
It's really, really not looking good. | 0:00:37 | 0:00:39 | |
No, cos last time you did that, you didn't...! | 0:00:39 | 0:00:42 | |
There's unrealistic expectations to suddenly go from being | 0:00:42 | 0:00:45 | |
nightmare families, to the next minute being the Waltons. | 0:00:45 | 0:00:49 | |
Vicki McKeown is 24. | 0:01:02 | 0:01:05 | |
It's her first year working for the Family Intervention Project, | 0:01:05 | 0:01:09 | |
having left university with a degree in criminology. | 0:01:09 | 0:01:12 | |
As a FIP worker, it's her job to help Newcastle's most troubled families. | 0:01:15 | 0:01:20 | |
It's seven o'clock in the morning | 0:01:20 | 0:01:22 | |
and I'm going to visit the Thompson family. | 0:01:22 | 0:01:25 | |
At this point, Social Services are concerned that the home conditions | 0:01:25 | 0:01:29 | |
are not suitable for children to live in | 0:01:29 | 0:01:32 | |
and the boys are being neglected. | 0:01:32 | 0:01:34 | |
It's by going at this time, I'm not aiming to catch them out, | 0:01:34 | 0:01:37 | |
I'm just aiming to get a picture of what's really going on, | 0:01:37 | 0:01:40 | |
who does what, who's up. | 0:01:40 | 0:01:42 | |
It's a starting point to see where we need to go from here. | 0:01:42 | 0:01:45 | |
Social Services have brought in FIP to contribute towards | 0:01:45 | 0:01:48 | |
an assessment, and help the Thompson family. | 0:01:48 | 0:01:51 | |
-Morning! -Morning. | 0:01:52 | 0:01:54 | |
Are you feeling better today? | 0:01:54 | 0:01:56 | |
-No, cos he's got the skitters. -He's got what? | 0:01:56 | 0:01:58 | |
-He's got the skitters. -Oh, no. | 0:01:58 | 0:02:01 | |
Robbie, come on. Robbie! | 0:02:02 | 0:02:06 | |
Robbie's four years old and I was quite concerned that he'd been ill | 0:02:06 | 0:02:10 | |
and his parents were not up, seeing to his needs. | 0:02:10 | 0:02:13 | |
Robbie, come on. Robbie, please. Come on. Get washed. | 0:02:13 | 0:02:17 | |
No-one's up that's going to school. | 0:02:20 | 0:02:22 | |
Where's everybody else or is this your job this morning? | 0:02:22 | 0:02:25 | |
No, I haven't slept properly. | 0:02:25 | 0:02:27 | |
I just got up early and he'd come down, being a mess. | 0:02:27 | 0:02:32 | |
Robbie is being cleaned up by his grandma, Doreen. | 0:02:32 | 0:02:36 | |
Most children would wake up in the night and go and get Mum or Dad up | 0:02:36 | 0:02:39 | |
to tell them that they'd been ill, where Robbie obviously hadn't. | 0:02:39 | 0:02:42 | |
It does smell in here though, doesn't it? | 0:02:42 | 0:02:45 | |
But they've got five house cats. | 0:02:50 | 0:02:53 | |
There's a strong smell of cat urine. | 0:02:53 | 0:02:56 | |
Come here, Robbie. I'm not finished. You've got some on your butt. | 0:02:56 | 0:03:00 | |
Robbie's brother Brandon is seven years old. | 0:03:00 | 0:03:03 | |
Morning, Brandon. How are you this morning? | 0:03:03 | 0:03:06 | |
Fine. | 0:03:06 | 0:03:08 | |
'One thing I'm very aware of with Brandon is I've never seen him smile, | 0:03:08 | 0:03:12 | |
'which is very concerning for a child of that age.' | 0:03:12 | 0:03:15 | |
Brandon, get some underpants for Robbie, please, | 0:03:15 | 0:03:19 | |
and some pyjamas. | 0:03:19 | 0:03:21 | |
No, no! | 0:03:21 | 0:03:23 | |
I think Claire might be getting up, I think this might be Claire now. | 0:03:23 | 0:03:27 | |
Sssh. | 0:03:27 | 0:03:29 | |
I'm glad to see you up. | 0:03:29 | 0:03:30 | |
Claire moved back into her mum Doreen's house after splitting up | 0:03:31 | 0:03:35 | |
with Brandon and Robbie's father. | 0:03:35 | 0:03:37 | |
-Are you a morning person, Claire? -Not really. | 0:03:37 | 0:03:40 | |
-So I'm going to be stuck up, am I? -No. | 0:03:40 | 0:03:44 | |
You going to put Robbie to bed with you? | 0:03:44 | 0:03:47 | |
Claire works as a part-time cleaner in the evenings. | 0:03:47 | 0:03:51 | |
Brandon, instead of mucking around with that, please... | 0:03:51 | 0:03:55 | |
Step-dad Jon moved in three years ago, shortly after meeting Claire. | 0:03:55 | 0:04:00 | |
You thought you were having a lie-in, Jon. You were wrong. | 0:04:00 | 0:04:04 | |
-Jon, you'll need a... -Has he been sick? | 0:04:04 | 0:04:07 | |
No, the other end. | 0:04:07 | 0:04:10 | |
Is it just in the bed then? | 0:04:10 | 0:04:12 | |
Well, he had his underpants on so... | 0:04:12 | 0:04:15 | |
Ah, so it's just in the bed probably. | 0:04:15 | 0:04:17 | |
Yeah. | 0:04:17 | 0:04:18 | |
Keys. | 0:04:18 | 0:04:19 | |
You'll have to tidy your smelly room then, won't you, Robbie? | 0:04:19 | 0:04:23 | |
See you later, Brandon. | 0:04:23 | 0:04:25 | |
-See ya later. -See you tonight. | 0:04:25 | 0:04:27 | |
'In my opinion, it's more about neglect' | 0:04:28 | 0:04:31 | |
and just general unawareness of what they should be doing. | 0:04:31 | 0:04:33 | |
They get fed, bathed, fed, watered. | 0:04:33 | 0:04:37 | |
They're quite open about what they are doing, | 0:04:37 | 0:04:39 | |
which in my opinion shows that they don't think it is wrong | 0:04:39 | 0:04:43 | |
because they are so open about it. | 0:04:43 | 0:04:45 | |
I do go to see to their needs, I love them and all that. | 0:04:45 | 0:04:48 | |
They get hugs and I play with them and that. | 0:04:48 | 0:04:50 | |
As far as I'm concerned, that's what a parent does - | 0:04:50 | 0:04:52 | |
see to their needs and play with them and make them laugh. | 0:04:52 | 0:04:55 | |
It's been the way I've been brought up, | 0:04:55 | 0:04:57 | |
and the way I brought me own two kids up, | 0:04:57 | 0:05:01 | |
and it's done no harm to them. | 0:05:01 | 0:05:03 | |
On the advice of Vicki and other professionals, | 0:05:07 | 0:05:10 | |
Claire is called to a meeting at Social Services. | 0:05:10 | 0:05:13 | |
How did it go? | 0:05:16 | 0:05:18 | |
Really bad. It's like neglect. | 0:05:18 | 0:05:20 | |
They say if you don't do what they're asking, | 0:05:20 | 0:05:22 | |
they will push it for court and that. | 0:05:22 | 0:05:25 | |
And what does court mean? | 0:05:25 | 0:05:26 | |
They will take the boys, they'll push to take the boys. | 0:05:26 | 0:05:29 | |
If it has to go to court, they'll push to take the boys off of us. | 0:05:29 | 0:05:32 | |
Do you think you're going to lose Brandon and Robbie? | 0:05:32 | 0:05:34 | |
I have a scary feeling I might. | 0:05:34 | 0:05:36 | |
Cos I've been there like twice now, so I've a scary feeling I might. | 0:05:36 | 0:05:40 | |
Claire has been given three months to improve the home environment for her boys. | 0:05:40 | 0:05:45 | |
She knows working with Vicki is her best chance of achieving this. | 0:05:48 | 0:05:52 | |
It was opened in January... | 0:05:55 | 0:05:57 | |
Newcastle's FIP was set up seven years ago. | 0:05:57 | 0:06:01 | |
Each worker is responsible for four families. | 0:06:01 | 0:06:04 | |
..Cos she was smoking and staying out... | 0:06:04 | 0:06:09 | |
FIP can be called in by Social Services or Housing | 0:06:09 | 0:06:12 | |
as a last resort before court intervention. | 0:06:12 | 0:06:16 | |
He witnessed the attack on his mother when he was seven, | 0:06:16 | 0:06:19 | |
when a knife was used on his mother. | 0:06:19 | 0:06:22 | |
What makes FIP unique is the amount of time they are able to spend with every troubled family. | 0:06:22 | 0:06:27 | |
I think there's sometimes really unrealistic expectations | 0:06:27 | 0:06:32 | |
on families to suddenly go from being, you know, labelled as | 0:06:32 | 0:06:36 | |
problem nightmare families or whatever, to the next minute being the Waltons. | 0:06:36 | 0:06:41 | |
I mean, he's had 15 stop and searches since January, | 0:06:41 | 0:06:45 | |
usually to do with disorder. | 0:06:45 | 0:06:47 | |
We're a long-term intensive support service | 0:06:47 | 0:06:51 | |
and we can be involved with families for up to two years. | 0:06:51 | 0:06:54 | |
I'll be honest with you, there's families that have been with us for longer than that. | 0:06:54 | 0:06:58 | |
In a leafy suburb on the other side of Newcastle lives Sharon Gibson. | 0:07:08 | 0:07:13 | |
Sharon is a 43-year-old, unemployed single mum. | 0:07:13 | 0:07:18 | |
She's being blamed by neighbours for teenagers running riot on the estate. | 0:07:18 | 0:07:22 | |
Martin! | 0:07:22 | 0:07:24 | |
I had a huge gang. | 0:07:26 | 0:07:28 | |
First it was a just a lot of shouting and we heard this loud, | 0:07:28 | 0:07:32 | |
like a thud, smash sort of thing. | 0:07:32 | 0:07:36 | |
And it was my window smashed. | 0:07:36 | 0:07:39 | |
It was quite funny actually. Not cos Sharon was sitting there. | 0:07:40 | 0:07:44 | |
Sian is 14 years old and Sharon's only child. | 0:07:44 | 0:07:48 | |
She hasn't been to school for over a year. | 0:07:48 | 0:07:52 | |
I just didn't like it so I just stopped going. | 0:07:52 | 0:07:54 | |
I went in primary school more than I did in high school. | 0:07:54 | 0:07:58 | |
Sian. Sian! | 0:07:58 | 0:08:01 | |
LAUGHTER | 0:08:01 | 0:08:02 | |
Oh, my God! I used to look like that. | 0:08:02 | 0:08:04 | |
Sian hangs around the house with her friends | 0:08:07 | 0:08:10 | |
and 16-year-old boyfriend Martin. | 0:08:10 | 0:08:12 | |
-Martin! -Stop tormenting me, Ma! | 0:08:12 | 0:08:16 | |
They've been together for seven months, and Martin spends most nights there. | 0:08:16 | 0:08:21 | |
Does Martin bring a lot of the trouble here? | 0:08:23 | 0:08:25 | |
Oh, he does, aye. | 0:08:25 | 0:08:27 | |
People bring us bother. We don't we don't cause bother. | 0:08:27 | 0:08:29 | |
We go out and get accused of doing stuff. | 0:08:29 | 0:08:32 | |
Just everyone hates you, Sian. | 0:08:32 | 0:08:34 | |
I know. My neighbours proper despise us. | 0:08:34 | 0:08:36 | |
But when you look at it as an outsider, you don't go to school, | 0:08:38 | 0:08:42 | |
you've got the police coming around here. | 0:08:42 | 0:08:44 | |
It does look bad. | 0:08:44 | 0:08:45 | |
It's almost getting to the point that every time there's a knock | 0:08:50 | 0:08:53 | |
at the door, it's somebody to complain. | 0:08:53 | 0:08:56 | |
Hey! | 0:09:00 | 0:09:01 | |
Claire Stewart has a background in counselling | 0:09:06 | 0:09:09 | |
and has been working for the Family Intervention Project for five years. | 0:09:09 | 0:09:13 | |
The majority of them have been spent supporting Mum Sharon | 0:09:15 | 0:09:19 | |
with her mental health issues. | 0:09:19 | 0:09:21 | |
But now 14-year-old Sian is her priority. | 0:09:21 | 0:09:24 | |
The last couple of weeks, we've had Sian run away from home. | 0:09:27 | 0:09:31 | |
There's been complaints put into the council about bad behaviour, | 0:09:31 | 0:09:37 | |
and Sian still needs to go to school. | 0:09:37 | 0:09:40 | |
That's a big hurdle for us to get over. | 0:09:40 | 0:09:43 | |
And there are even more problems. | 0:09:46 | 0:09:48 | |
'Eggs have been thrown at this house' | 0:09:50 | 0:09:53 | |
and what's happened is the neighbours, I'm guessing, | 0:09:53 | 0:09:57 | |
think that it's Sian and Martin who have been doing it. | 0:09:57 | 0:10:00 | |
Hi, Sharon. Are you all right? | 0:10:00 | 0:10:03 | |
DOGS BARK | 0:10:03 | 0:10:05 | |
Sian, I need you to get these dogs! | 0:10:05 | 0:10:08 | |
Sian! SIAN! | 0:10:08 | 0:10:10 | |
Are you all right? | 0:10:10 | 0:10:12 | |
Having so many people shouting at you and screaming at you | 0:10:12 | 0:10:15 | |
and saying this has happened and that's happened, | 0:10:15 | 0:10:18 | |
and it's them to blame and this is to blame. | 0:10:18 | 0:10:21 | |
You've got Sian and her friends getting all upset and agitated, | 0:10:21 | 0:10:24 | |
and they're shouting things and you don't know what was being said | 0:10:24 | 0:10:29 | |
and whether, you know, who was telling who to eff off or whatever. | 0:10:29 | 0:10:35 | |
Sian had promised to go back to school but hasn't, | 0:10:35 | 0:10:38 | |
after receiving abusive messages and texts. | 0:10:38 | 0:10:41 | |
This started because Martin was a naughty boy | 0:10:43 | 0:10:46 | |
and went behind Sian's back with somebody | 0:10:46 | 0:10:48 | |
who was meant to be Sian's friend, | 0:10:48 | 0:10:51 | |
and the person decided to get very nasty | 0:10:51 | 0:10:56 | |
and send some very nasty messages to Sian. | 0:10:56 | 0:10:59 | |
Good girl! Good girl! | 0:10:59 | 0:11:02 | |
Hello? | 0:11:02 | 0:11:03 | |
Oh! Martin. | 0:11:03 | 0:11:04 | |
Sian has agreed to allow Claire into her room to talk about the messages. | 0:11:04 | 0:11:08 | |
Are you coming in? | 0:11:11 | 0:11:12 | |
-How are you? -Fine. -Are you sure? | 0:11:18 | 0:11:21 | |
What about all those texts and messages? | 0:11:21 | 0:11:23 | |
They've stopped now. | 0:11:23 | 0:11:25 | |
Cos I've been reading through them | 0:11:25 | 0:11:27 | |
and I'm wondering what that was like while it was happening. | 0:11:27 | 0:11:31 | |
Were you frightened? | 0:11:31 | 0:11:32 | |
Not really, cos I knew they were more like texts | 0:11:32 | 0:11:37 | |
and that, and they wouldn't actually do it, most of them. | 0:11:37 | 0:11:40 | |
But you didn't want to go to school in case it did happen? | 0:11:40 | 0:11:44 | |
Mmm. | 0:11:44 | 0:11:45 | |
Is there other reasons why you don't want to go? | 0:11:45 | 0:11:48 | |
-No. -Just because of that? | 0:11:48 | 0:11:50 | |
So you're going to get the room sorted? | 0:11:58 | 0:12:01 | |
So when I come back on Tuesday, will it be beautiful? | 0:12:01 | 0:12:04 | |
Yeah. | 0:12:04 | 0:12:06 | |
Are you worried about anything? | 0:12:07 | 0:12:09 | |
No. | 0:12:09 | 0:12:10 | |
Are you texting each other? | 0:12:10 | 0:12:12 | |
No! | 0:12:12 | 0:12:13 | |
CLAIRE LAUGHS | 0:12:13 | 0:12:15 | |
Right, cheerio. I'll see you later. | 0:12:16 | 0:12:19 | |
'That was the first time that Sian's let me in her bedroom' | 0:12:20 | 0:12:24 | |
for a very, very long time. | 0:12:24 | 0:12:27 | |
So that for me was a big step forward | 0:12:27 | 0:12:31 | |
and she's let me see the mess and how bad it's gotten. | 0:12:31 | 0:12:34 | |
There's a lot of work we can do from that, | 0:12:34 | 0:12:39 | |
and I don't just mean about cleaning it up. | 0:12:39 | 0:12:41 | |
I'm talking whole loads of stuff about self-image and self-esteem and valuing yourself. | 0:12:41 | 0:12:47 | |
Something's gone really wrong inside Sian. | 0:12:47 | 0:12:50 | |
Sian was only 11 years old when FIP were first brought in | 0:12:53 | 0:12:57 | |
to help her mum with her mental health issues. | 0:12:57 | 0:13:00 | |
I was so ill and I was so depressed because I was facing eviction, | 0:13:00 | 0:13:07 | |
my benefits were all in a mess, they were just...they kept... | 0:13:07 | 0:13:10 | |
they'd stopping paying us and then when they put it back in, | 0:13:10 | 0:13:14 | |
I was weeks in arrears with everything. | 0:13:14 | 0:13:19 | |
And I had said that I was going to burn the house down | 0:13:19 | 0:13:22 | |
and me and Sian were going to be in it | 0:13:22 | 0:13:25 | |
and I was so sick, so they ended up taking Sian away. | 0:13:25 | 0:13:29 | |
Which was a bit of a bad time, wasn't it? | 0:13:32 | 0:13:35 | |
-Hello? -Yeah. | 0:13:39 | 0:13:41 | |
Mum, is it all right if I go to Chapel House? | 0:13:43 | 0:13:45 | |
Not till after half four. | 0:13:45 | 0:13:46 | |
'Sian didn't want to leave her mother | 0:13:46 | 0:13:49 | |
'because she was frightened that something would happen to Sharon.' | 0:13:49 | 0:13:53 | |
For an 11-year-old girl, that was really scary. | 0:13:53 | 0:13:56 | |
Sian was placed into care for two months. | 0:13:56 | 0:13:59 | |
Claire helped Sharon get her back and has been supporting the family ever since. | 0:13:59 | 0:14:03 | |
Tell them you're going to the doctors. It'll be less than a five-minute appointment. | 0:14:03 | 0:14:07 | |
It won't be, Mam, it'll be ages. | 0:14:07 | 0:14:09 | |
How will it be ages? | 0:14:09 | 0:14:11 | |
Because it will! | 0:14:11 | 0:14:13 | |
She's going for some contraception. | 0:14:13 | 0:14:16 | |
The implant. | 0:14:16 | 0:14:18 | |
And then it means that we don't need to worry about anything | 0:14:21 | 0:14:25 | |
for three years, basically. | 0:14:25 | 0:14:27 | |
It's getting her there that's going to be the problem. | 0:14:28 | 0:14:32 | |
She'd rather go off with her friends. | 0:14:32 | 0:14:35 | |
You noticed that it's half past four, the appointment? | 0:14:35 | 0:14:38 | |
Three months ago, Sian became pregnant with Martin's baby, | 0:14:38 | 0:14:42 | |
but had a miscarriage. | 0:14:42 | 0:14:44 | |
If she gets pregnant again, at the moment, | 0:14:44 | 0:14:49 | |
it will go into court, I'm sure, to have that baby removed. | 0:14:49 | 0:14:52 | |
That's what the social worker expressly said. | 0:14:52 | 0:14:56 | |
Sharon made it quite clear that she is not able to cope | 0:14:56 | 0:15:00 | |
with a baby at the moment on Sian's behalf, | 0:15:00 | 0:15:04 | |
and she isn't, | 0:15:04 | 0:15:06 | |
and Sian couldn't manage a baby. | 0:15:06 | 0:15:10 | |
It will only be a two-minute appointment. | 0:15:10 | 0:15:13 | |
Sian! | 0:15:15 | 0:15:17 | |
Sian! | 0:15:18 | 0:15:19 | |
-CAMERAMAN: -I take it you're not going to the doctors then? | 0:15:27 | 0:15:31 | |
This is what she will do and this is what she's like | 0:15:39 | 0:15:43 | |
if I say, you know, she can't have her friends in or... | 0:15:43 | 0:15:47 | |
no, they can't stay overnight or whatever. | 0:15:47 | 0:15:50 | |
She does exactly the same thing. | 0:15:50 | 0:15:53 | |
So it's like a battle of wills at the minute. | 0:15:53 | 0:15:57 | |
My priorities are to get Sian into school | 0:15:57 | 0:16:00 | |
and to get some contraception. | 0:16:00 | 0:16:02 | |
But it is ultimately Sian's choice, | 0:16:02 | 0:16:05 | |
as long as you've made every effort | 0:16:05 | 0:16:07 | |
and made it as possible as you can. | 0:16:07 | 0:16:10 | |
At the end of the day, she makes that choice. | 0:16:10 | 0:16:13 | |
Thanks, Jon. | 0:16:19 | 0:16:21 | |
Bye. | 0:16:21 | 0:16:23 | |
Three weeks from first meeting the Thompsons, | 0:16:23 | 0:16:26 | |
family intervention worker Vicki McKeown | 0:16:26 | 0:16:28 | |
is working on a plan to help keep their boys | 0:16:28 | 0:16:31 | |
from being taken into care. | 0:16:31 | 0:16:33 | |
In comparison to the other FIP families that you... | 0:16:35 | 0:16:39 | |
-A million times worse. -OK, I'm getting you. | 0:16:39 | 0:16:43 | |
What's been spilt? What's that? | 0:16:43 | 0:16:45 | |
-What's that down there? -What? | 0:16:45 | 0:16:48 | |
Sam! | 0:16:48 | 0:16:50 | |
This is Robbie's room. He rips all the paper off. | 0:16:50 | 0:16:52 | |
It's not just been Robbie. It's been Brandon as well. | 0:16:52 | 0:16:57 | |
It needs decorating straightaway, but if you haven't got the money | 0:16:57 | 0:17:00 | |
to decorate straightaway, you can't. He has it the same way I had it. | 0:17:00 | 0:17:03 | |
If we could afford to do something, we did it. If we can't, | 0:17:03 | 0:17:07 | |
then we couldn't. That's the way it was | 0:17:07 | 0:17:08 | |
and that's the way it is for my boys. | 0:17:08 | 0:17:10 | |
Working with families, you see that behaviours are quite often learnt | 0:17:15 | 0:17:18 | |
from parents and it's a generational issue that's passed on. | 0:17:18 | 0:17:22 | |
Robbie! On the path, please. | 0:17:22 | 0:17:25 | |
And that can be quite hard cos you're asking them to change | 0:17:25 | 0:17:28 | |
behaviour they've been doing for such a long time. | 0:17:28 | 0:17:30 | |
It's not going to change overnight | 0:17:30 | 0:17:32 | |
and it's not going to be an easy change. | 0:17:32 | 0:17:35 | |
I got took off my parents at six months old | 0:17:35 | 0:17:39 | |
by Social Services. All I did was cry all the time, | 0:17:39 | 0:17:45 | |
so Social Services come in, took me and my brother off my parents. | 0:17:45 | 0:17:52 | |
My dad ended up in prison...again | 0:17:52 | 0:17:56 | |
-and my -mum... And your brother ended up in prison. -Sshhh! | 0:17:56 | 0:18:00 | |
And my mum, she just disappeared after they took us off. | 0:18:00 | 0:18:07 | |
I'm going to very much work on the areas such as parenting, | 0:18:08 | 0:18:11 | |
roles within the family and trying to get the family | 0:18:11 | 0:18:14 | |
to achieve what they need to in order to keep those children at home. | 0:18:14 | 0:18:18 | |
Vicki spends the morning with the Thompsons, | 0:18:18 | 0:18:21 | |
laying down some new house rules. | 0:18:21 | 0:18:22 | |
Right. Before we go through this, I just want to say | 0:18:22 | 0:18:26 | |
I want people to be honest. I don't want to go away | 0:18:26 | 0:18:29 | |
and find that people are upset. I'd rather we get it all out | 0:18:29 | 0:18:32 | |
in the open now because we can only move forward | 0:18:32 | 0:18:34 | |
when we know where we're at. In terms of in the morning, | 0:18:34 | 0:18:38 | |
you said you take it in turns to get physically up | 0:18:38 | 0:18:40 | |
and the other one's maybe in bed. What I would like to see | 0:18:40 | 0:18:42 | |
is that you're both physically up because usually, and I'm not meaning | 0:18:42 | 0:18:46 | |
this in a disrespectful way, people would be up and going to work | 0:18:46 | 0:18:48 | |
so we need the boys coming to you. | 0:18:48 | 0:18:50 | |
If you're both getting up, there's two people there for them. | 0:18:50 | 0:18:55 | |
Because one thing that often happens, especially people involved | 0:18:55 | 0:18:58 | |
with Social Services, they'll say, "I'm not hitting the children. | 0:18:58 | 0:19:01 | |
"I'm feeding them. They've got a bed." | 0:19:01 | 0:19:03 | |
Basic needs. But in terms of... It's that emotional thing | 0:19:03 | 0:19:07 | |
and having someone there when you're feeling really crap | 0:19:07 | 0:19:10 | |
and down and stuff. It's just responding to that | 0:19:10 | 0:19:12 | |
and not just ignoring it. That's what we want to see. | 0:19:12 | 0:19:14 | |
We can often get a lot of bravado from families saying, | 0:19:14 | 0:19:17 | |
"I don't need things to be different," | 0:19:17 | 0:19:19 | |
and, "What are you telling me? The way I bring up my kids is all right." | 0:19:19 | 0:19:23 | |
We need to show them a comparison so it's not always about sitting down | 0:19:23 | 0:19:26 | |
and having the chat. You've got to be creative. | 0:19:26 | 0:19:29 | |
You've got to make it real for them and bring it to life a bit. | 0:19:29 | 0:19:34 | |
-You've got what? -The boys are off on Friday. | 0:19:34 | 0:19:38 | |
Well, that could give you an opportunity to take them somewhere, | 0:19:38 | 0:19:41 | |
to the park or something. | 0:19:41 | 0:19:43 | |
Vicki's suggestion of a trip to the park | 0:19:46 | 0:19:48 | |
is the Thompsons' first outing together in weeks. | 0:19:48 | 0:19:51 | |
The champ is here. | 0:19:57 | 0:19:59 | |
You're snotty. | 0:19:59 | 0:20:01 | |
-CAMERAMAN: -How often do you say you get out with the boys? | 0:20:05 | 0:20:08 | |
Not a lot. We haven't got the money or the weather's bad. | 0:20:08 | 0:20:13 | |
-Do you enjoy coming to the park? -Yep. | 0:20:13 | 0:20:16 | |
-Do you get to come very often? -Not much. | 0:20:18 | 0:20:21 | |
What did you do this weekend? | 0:20:21 | 0:20:24 | |
Absolutely nowt. Just had a quiet day in. | 0:20:24 | 0:20:28 | |
This is the first time I've ever seen Claire at the park. | 0:20:37 | 0:20:41 | |
It's not the first time I've ever seen her do anything with the boys. | 0:20:41 | 0:20:44 | |
But I think she enjoys it, even if she's not saying it, | 0:20:44 | 0:20:47 | |
cos she's joining in and stuff. | 0:20:47 | 0:20:49 | |
-Up there. -And again. | 0:20:52 | 0:20:56 | |
-Shall we lift you? -Do you want to go on my shoulders? | 0:20:56 | 0:21:00 | |
It's important that Claire and Jon start to see that it does | 0:21:00 | 0:21:03 | |
have an effect, it does make the boys happier, gives them something | 0:21:03 | 0:21:06 | |
to talk about and I suppose it gives them that time to be children. | 0:21:06 | 0:21:10 | |
Inevitably, they will mess around and stuff, but because they don't | 0:21:10 | 0:21:13 | |
do that at home, I think it's important they can just be children. | 0:21:13 | 0:21:17 | |
Martin! | 0:21:19 | 0:21:21 | |
This is the beginning. Where is it? Martin! | 0:21:33 | 0:21:37 | |
At the Gibson house, Martin, Sian's 16-year-old boyfriend, | 0:21:37 | 0:21:41 | |
has been accused of stealing the neighbours' football. | 0:21:41 | 0:21:44 | |
Just have to wait till the police come then. | 0:21:47 | 0:21:49 | |
Are you worried about the police coming around? | 0:21:49 | 0:21:51 | |
Why do you let him still hang around? | 0:21:54 | 0:21:57 | |
People keep asking me that. | 0:21:59 | 0:22:01 | |
If I don't allow him to come, | 0:22:01 | 0:22:04 | |
at some point, my daughter's not going to be here. | 0:22:04 | 0:22:08 | |
We've been through this loads of times. | 0:22:11 | 0:22:13 | |
We've been where she's just done off because I haven't allowed him. | 0:22:13 | 0:22:19 | |
So, what do I do? | 0:22:19 | 0:22:20 | |
I don't know which ball it was, but they got a ball out of the garden. | 0:22:20 | 0:22:24 | |
-Did they? -Was I not supposed to tell you? | 0:22:24 | 0:22:27 | |
-They did, yeah. -How do you know? -Cos I was there when they got it. | 0:22:27 | 0:22:30 | |
Martin! Come here. You DID go next door and get a ball | 0:22:30 | 0:22:35 | |
because I've just been told you did. | 0:22:35 | 0:22:38 | |
No! You're not going away! | 0:22:39 | 0:22:42 | |
Sods. | 0:22:42 | 0:22:43 | |
Get in. I'm going for a walk. | 0:22:45 | 0:22:47 | |
-Where are you going? -To find the ball. | 0:22:47 | 0:22:49 | |
They've smashed eggs on my sitting-room window. | 0:22:54 | 0:22:58 | |
There's been a fight in my garden, | 0:22:58 | 0:23:00 | |
a fight across the street. | 0:23:00 | 0:23:01 | |
Just abuse, verbal abuse. | 0:23:01 | 0:23:05 | |
Get it out. | 0:23:05 | 0:23:07 | |
We never ever leave our house empty now. Never. | 0:23:07 | 0:23:12 | |
And yous wonder why I've got a rift with the bloody neighbours. | 0:23:14 | 0:23:18 | |
It's not funny, Martin. | 0:23:18 | 0:23:21 | |
Where are they, Sharon? | 0:23:21 | 0:23:24 | |
They went up that way. | 0:23:24 | 0:23:25 | |
Get in. | 0:23:31 | 0:23:32 | |
-Do you think people look at you as trouble? -Yes. | 0:23:48 | 0:23:51 | |
Why's that? | 0:23:57 | 0:23:58 | |
He's putting Sharon's tenancy at risk | 0:24:07 | 0:24:10 | |
because obviously you can't go around upsetting the community like this | 0:24:10 | 0:24:15 | |
and other things have been going on as well. | 0:24:15 | 0:24:18 | |
The police were called two nights ago for something else | 0:24:18 | 0:24:22 | |
associated with Martin's behaviour. | 0:24:22 | 0:24:24 | |
So we'll have to talk about all of this and what it means. | 0:24:24 | 0:24:27 | |
Sharon, Sian and Martin. First of all, | 0:24:29 | 0:24:33 | |
I'm going to let your mum read this. | 0:24:33 | 0:24:36 | |
All right, Martin. This is from the housing officer to me, OK? | 0:24:36 | 0:24:41 | |
They've received another complaint about your behaviour, | 0:24:41 | 0:24:45 | |
while you and your friends were visiting this house. | 0:24:45 | 0:24:49 | |
It doesn't really help at this point | 0:24:49 | 0:24:53 | |
to say who's right or wrong | 0:24:53 | 0:24:57 | |
or the accuracy of things. | 0:24:57 | 0:24:59 | |
The thing is, it has been said somehow. | 0:24:59 | 0:25:03 | |
Your behaviour, and as much as you say, "I didn't do it," | 0:25:03 | 0:25:07 | |
or, "It was just a little bit. | 0:25:07 | 0:25:09 | |
"No, I didn't really do that. I was just playing with a ball," | 0:25:09 | 0:25:12 | |
whatever's happening, Martin, you're putting this tenancy at risk. | 0:25:12 | 0:25:17 | |
You are doing it. You and your friends. | 0:25:17 | 0:25:20 | |
Nobody said to me that Sharon has kicked a ball | 0:25:20 | 0:25:24 | |
or stood on somebody's hedge. | 0:25:24 | 0:25:27 | |
It's really not looking good. | 0:25:27 | 0:25:30 | |
It's really, really not looking good. | 0:25:30 | 0:25:32 | |
Why don't you and Sian go upstairs then and give me and Sharon | 0:25:39 | 0:25:44 | |
a couple of minutes on our own? | 0:25:44 | 0:25:46 | |
I think the thing is, the community's got itself into such a state now | 0:25:51 | 0:25:54 | |
that they are watching you all the time. | 0:25:54 | 0:25:56 | |
That's the feeling that I'm getting so... | 0:25:56 | 0:25:59 | |
..let's get it calmed down. | 0:26:01 | 0:26:04 | |
Ten days later, Sharon is asked to go to the Housing Office | 0:26:08 | 0:26:11 | |
to discuss her tenancy. | 0:26:11 | 0:26:13 | |
She wasn't going to come. She just flatly refused. | 0:26:16 | 0:26:20 | |
When I say flatly refused, it wasn't aggressive, she was just scared. | 0:26:20 | 0:26:24 | |
Then yesterday, I said, "How about we go? You need to do this. | 0:26:24 | 0:26:29 | |
"It's part of the process." And she came around. | 0:26:29 | 0:26:32 | |
She just perked up and came around, so she's here. | 0:26:32 | 0:26:35 | |
Hello, Joanne. | 0:26:39 | 0:26:41 | |
-Hi, Sharon. -You OK? | 0:26:41 | 0:26:44 | |
-Yeah, fine. You OK, Sharon? -Yes, fine, thanks. | 0:26:44 | 0:26:47 | |
The reason, Sharon, that I've asked you to come along today with Claire | 0:26:51 | 0:26:54 | |
is just to go through some of the complaints made. | 0:26:54 | 0:26:57 | |
Mainly Sian's behaviour in the street and the visitors associated | 0:26:57 | 0:27:00 | |
with the property, the noise and just the general disturbance | 0:27:00 | 0:27:03 | |
in the area. You see, if Sian and her friends are causing nuisance | 0:27:03 | 0:27:07 | |
in the area, if they are friends, visitors to your property, | 0:27:07 | 0:27:10 | |
it falls back on you and your tenancy. | 0:27:10 | 0:27:12 | |
In all of the complaints, we will then come to you. | 0:27:12 | 0:27:15 | |
Inappropriate behaviour has to stop. It won't be tolerated | 0:27:15 | 0:27:19 | |
and we need to just keep an eye on the situation closely. | 0:27:19 | 0:27:23 | |
Do you understand what I'm saying, Sharon? | 0:27:26 | 0:27:29 | |
-Sharon, what's on your mind? -Nothing. | 0:27:29 | 0:27:32 | |
-Nothing? Do you need to say something? -No. | 0:27:32 | 0:27:35 | |
-No? Are you sure? -Uh-hm. | 0:27:35 | 0:27:37 | |
Sharon and Sian are quite quiet and soft touches with a lot of things. | 0:27:37 | 0:27:43 | |
A lot of kids who've got nowhere else to go | 0:27:43 | 0:27:46 | |
and who aren't being controlled | 0:27:46 | 0:27:49 | |
have ended up coming into the home | 0:27:49 | 0:27:52 | |
and Sharon's had great difficulty getting these kids out. | 0:27:52 | 0:27:56 | |
Trouble comes and finds a home there | 0:27:56 | 0:27:59 | |
and that jeopardises their tenancy. | 0:27:59 | 0:28:02 | |
Two months into working with FIP, | 0:28:08 | 0:28:10 | |
the Thompsons are trying to get to grips with their new daily routines | 0:28:10 | 0:28:14 | |
set up by Vicki. | 0:28:14 | 0:28:15 | |
We've actually downsized. We've now only got three cat litter trays. | 0:28:20 | 0:28:24 | |
I mean, we've had five cats and now we've only got the three cats | 0:28:24 | 0:28:28 | |
cos one of the cats that we got rid of was doing all the wet... | 0:28:28 | 0:28:31 | |
the urine all over the place. | 0:28:31 | 0:28:33 | |
How often were you changing the cat litter trays? | 0:28:33 | 0:28:35 | |
Once a week. Now it's every one or two days. | 0:28:35 | 0:28:40 | |
VICKI: For a long time, I didn't feel that Claire understood | 0:28:43 | 0:28:46 | |
the reason for the change. It's quite apparent she's more on board now | 0:28:46 | 0:28:49 | |
so I think she understands more what needs to happen | 0:28:49 | 0:28:51 | |
and she understands that if things didn't change, | 0:28:51 | 0:28:55 | |
then she was at risk of losing her boys. | 0:28:55 | 0:28:57 | |
So she's now doing things to make sure that doesn't happen. | 0:28:57 | 0:29:01 | |
Come in. Shut up. Stand back. | 0:29:01 | 0:29:04 | |
I've bought some more charts. | 0:29:08 | 0:29:10 | |
Vicki has introduced a system of charts which ensures | 0:29:10 | 0:29:13 | |
all the family stick to the new routines. | 0:29:13 | 0:29:16 | |
If I didn't have a bath on Monday, we'd just leave that blank | 0:29:16 | 0:29:22 | |
and if I did on Tuesday, just a tick. | 0:29:22 | 0:29:25 | |
Hopefully, the charts will disappear and these routines and habits | 0:29:25 | 0:29:29 | |
will become the norm. | 0:29:29 | 0:29:31 | |
Robbie, what does it say on the chart you've got to do? | 0:29:31 | 0:29:34 | |
-Don't bounce. -It doesn't say don't bounce, you've just got to walk... | 0:29:34 | 0:29:38 | |
..cos otherwise you might fall over. | 0:29:40 | 0:29:43 | |
That's it. That's it. You tidy it up. | 0:29:43 | 0:29:46 | |
-Jon and Mum have painted your bedroom, haven't they? -Yeah. | 0:29:47 | 0:29:50 | |
Do you like it? But who's done this? | 0:29:50 | 0:29:54 | |
-Not me. -Not you? | 0:29:54 | 0:29:56 | |
-You know on your chart, you've got no drawing on walls? -Yeah. | 0:29:56 | 0:30:00 | |
So next time I come, this will still be here, | 0:30:00 | 0:30:03 | |
but we don't want any new drawings. | 0:30:03 | 0:30:05 | |
-Then do you think you can keep the walls clean? -Yeah. -Very good. | 0:30:05 | 0:30:10 | |
Decoration and cleaning the house are just short-term solutions. | 0:30:10 | 0:30:15 | |
Uniforms off and get ready for bed, please. | 0:30:15 | 0:30:19 | |
Vicki is helping to arrange for Claire, Jon and the boys | 0:30:19 | 0:30:22 | |
to move into a council house on the other side of town. | 0:30:22 | 0:30:26 | |
It's been hard. But we've just got to get on with it. | 0:30:26 | 0:30:31 | |
I don't like what's happening, we're having to go our separate ways, | 0:30:31 | 0:30:36 | |
but just got to get on with it for the kids. | 0:30:36 | 0:30:40 | |
Obviously, the housing is the next big thing | 0:30:40 | 0:30:44 | |
because as long as she's living with her mum, she will be a child. | 0:30:44 | 0:30:48 | |
She will always look to her mum | 0:30:48 | 0:30:50 | |
and expect her mum to jump in and things. | 0:30:50 | 0:30:53 | |
We've always said, until they move and they're in separate tenancies, | 0:30:53 | 0:30:56 | |
we're kind of just treading water and keeping things as they are | 0:30:56 | 0:30:59 | |
and the true changes will happen when they move. | 0:30:59 | 0:31:01 | |
KNOCK ON DOOR Hello? | 0:31:07 | 0:31:10 | |
Wow. I tell you what, it's much better in here, isn't it? | 0:31:10 | 0:31:15 | |
For crying out loud. Grand. | 0:31:15 | 0:31:18 | |
You've done great in here, mind, Sian. | 0:31:18 | 0:31:20 | |
You know, you've stuff that's to go to the riding school, | 0:31:20 | 0:31:23 | |
that you were taking back to riding school? Have you taken it? | 0:31:23 | 0:31:27 | |
-No. -I wondered if you fancied taking it up with me in the car? | 0:31:27 | 0:31:33 | |
Sian used to go horse riding, I don't know, really, | 0:31:33 | 0:31:36 | |
two or three times a week. | 0:31:36 | 0:31:38 | |
So I want her to remember that she really enjoyed it. | 0:31:38 | 0:31:42 | |
I'm hoping to trigger some memories as well. | 0:31:42 | 0:31:46 | |
How are you doing, Sian? | 0:31:48 | 0:31:50 | |
-I've got some boots. -I'll take it. Fabulous. Thank you. | 0:31:52 | 0:31:56 | |
You're not going to ride at all? | 0:31:56 | 0:31:58 | |
I want to come back though. | 0:31:58 | 0:32:00 | |
Well, come up. | 0:32:02 | 0:32:04 | |
It's really fluffy. | 0:32:06 | 0:32:09 | |
It's just its fur. | 0:32:09 | 0:32:11 | |
Do you remember Dempsey or not? | 0:32:11 | 0:32:13 | |
Yeah? Dempsey and Daisy? | 0:32:15 | 0:32:17 | |
Probably Sian would be about 12 when she came. | 0:32:21 | 0:32:25 | |
She started off right from the beginning | 0:32:25 | 0:32:27 | |
to eventually starting to compete a little bit. | 0:32:27 | 0:32:30 | |
So she got quite far with her riding. | 0:32:30 | 0:32:32 | |
I think she certainly always enjoyed it. | 0:32:32 | 0:32:34 | |
Sometimes maybe just the crowd of kids she was in with at the time, | 0:32:34 | 0:32:39 | |
maybe their interests just wandered a little bit | 0:32:39 | 0:32:42 | |
and that just steered Sian to go down the other track | 0:32:42 | 0:32:46 | |
and do other things. | 0:32:46 | 0:32:47 | |
This is who Sian used to ride. | 0:32:47 | 0:32:49 | |
This is the little girl that I knew was there. | 0:32:53 | 0:32:58 | |
It's really nice seeing her relating with the horse... | 0:32:58 | 0:33:03 | |
..because she loved it. | 0:33:04 | 0:33:06 | |
It's a big change. It's about getting out of the house | 0:33:09 | 0:33:12 | |
and leaving the house and leaving that little, safe world. | 0:33:12 | 0:33:16 | |
She's not going to school and not going out. | 0:33:16 | 0:33:20 | |
So this is really the first step away | 0:33:20 | 0:33:24 | |
from that life that she's been living lately, this last year, | 0:33:24 | 0:33:27 | |
which is why, if she wants to, I'll make sure she can get here | 0:33:27 | 0:33:33 | |
at least in the early stages, until her motivation | 0:33:33 | 0:33:36 | |
and her confidence comes back. | 0:33:36 | 0:33:38 | |
I had a text message from Sharon at seven o'clock on Friday | 0:33:55 | 0:33:59 | |
to say that Sian was pregnant. | 0:33:59 | 0:34:03 | |
It does change everything. All the plans that we had | 0:34:04 | 0:34:07 | |
and everything Sian was signing up to have all changed. | 0:34:07 | 0:34:11 | |
What needs to happen is a pregnancy test needs to be taken | 0:34:13 | 0:34:18 | |
with somebody who can confirm to Social Services that you're pregnant. | 0:34:18 | 0:34:24 | |
If the test is positive, Sian will be assigned a social worker | 0:34:24 | 0:34:29 | |
who will assess whether she can keep her baby. | 0:34:29 | 0:34:32 | |
It's not that one, it's that one. | 0:34:35 | 0:34:39 | |
-I did that one wrong. I put it in the wrong place. -All right. | 0:34:39 | 0:34:42 | |
-Shall I put this one in the bin? -Yes. | 0:34:42 | 0:34:45 | |
So because it's got two pink bits, that's a positive, yeah? | 0:34:45 | 0:34:48 | |
-Is this correct? -Yes. | 0:34:48 | 0:34:50 | |
It's not something I really want her to go through, basically, | 0:34:51 | 0:34:55 | |
and to be honest, I don't think she's even physically able | 0:34:55 | 0:35:00 | |
to go through it. | 0:35:00 | 0:35:01 | |
-I don't think she is. -Do you mean carry a baby or deliver? | 0:35:01 | 0:35:05 | |
Both, basically. | 0:35:05 | 0:35:08 | |
-So, are you, like, frightened for her? -Uh-hm. | 0:35:08 | 0:35:12 | |
The only way for me to handle it is to just not even talk about it. | 0:35:12 | 0:35:19 | |
Yeah. How do YOU feel? | 0:35:19 | 0:35:22 | |
-Scared. -You're scared? What are you scared about? | 0:35:23 | 0:35:27 | |
Everything. | 0:35:29 | 0:35:30 | |
Do you want to? Do you want to have a baby? | 0:35:30 | 0:35:33 | |
You do? All right then. | 0:35:33 | 0:35:35 | |
Yeah, it is scary, I think because you don't now what's going to happen. | 0:35:35 | 0:35:39 | |
It's unknown. You don't really know how you're going to react | 0:35:39 | 0:35:42 | |
with your own baby until you've got your own baby, do you? | 0:35:42 | 0:35:45 | |
So it is quite scary. | 0:35:45 | 0:35:47 | |
-I just hope it doesn't turn out like me. -Really?! Why's that? | 0:35:47 | 0:35:51 | |
Don't know. Just cos. | 0:35:53 | 0:35:56 | |
I think you're nice, Martin. | 0:35:56 | 0:35:57 | |
Eight months after Vicki's first assessment, | 0:36:05 | 0:36:08 | |
the Thompsons have moved to a council house five miles away. | 0:36:08 | 0:36:12 | |
This is your new house, isn't it? | 0:36:12 | 0:36:15 | |
Grandma's house is over there. | 0:36:15 | 0:36:18 | |
Yeah, but Grandma's going to maybe, hopefully, move across here | 0:36:18 | 0:36:21 | |
-and then she'll live near you and be able to visit, won't she? -Yeah. | 0:36:21 | 0:36:25 | |
So, any of these bags here, they go up to Mummy's room, OK? | 0:36:25 | 0:36:29 | |
I'll take this one. | 0:36:29 | 0:36:30 | |
Are you sure? It looks a bit heavy, Brandon. | 0:36:30 | 0:36:33 | |
-CAMERAMAN: -So, what do you think of your new place then? -I like it. | 0:36:33 | 0:36:36 | |
It's the right size for me and the boys, I think. | 0:36:36 | 0:36:39 | |
Without my mam being here, anyway. | 0:36:39 | 0:36:41 | |
Less stressful I think it's going to be and all. | 0:36:41 | 0:36:43 | |
Vicki, FIP mentioned before, "This is the way we want it kept." | 0:36:43 | 0:36:46 | |
But it will be because it'll be up to me and Jon to keep it tidy. | 0:36:46 | 0:36:49 | |
VICKI: The thing with the cats is... Fine, have cats, | 0:36:55 | 0:36:58 | |
but we just don't want them in the bedrooms | 0:36:58 | 0:36:59 | |
because we don't want them weeing in the bedrooms. | 0:36:59 | 0:37:02 | |
-It doesn't bite, does it? -No, no. | 0:37:02 | 0:37:04 | |
I've just thrown you out. | 0:37:09 | 0:37:11 | |
Sometimes animals get that fusty smell, | 0:37:11 | 0:37:13 | |
especially when the heating's on, so you get that warm animal smell. | 0:37:13 | 0:37:16 | |
As long as they stay downstairs then we've not got any concerns with them. | 0:37:16 | 0:37:19 | |
We just don't want them weeing in the boys' bedrooms. | 0:37:19 | 0:37:22 | |
Hopefully, this will be a fresh start. | 0:37:26 | 0:37:28 | |
They'll get the stuff in the house that they need. | 0:37:28 | 0:37:31 | |
I'm hopeful that it will work out. | 0:37:31 | 0:37:35 | |
Sian's pregnancy has put even more pressure on Claire | 0:37:42 | 0:37:47 | |
to break the Gibsons' cycle of problems. | 0:37:47 | 0:37:49 | |
Does that get her out of schooling, being pregnant? | 0:37:51 | 0:37:54 | |
It doesn't get her out of schooling at all, no. | 0:37:54 | 0:37:57 | |
In fact, it's become almost more important that she's pregnant | 0:37:57 | 0:38:02 | |
because she's going to have to demonstrate to the people assessing her | 0:38:02 | 0:38:06 | |
as fit to be a parent, | 0:38:06 | 0:38:09 | |
so there's even more pressure on her to go to school. | 0:38:09 | 0:38:12 | |
Claire's helped Sian get a place in a school for pregnant teenagers. | 0:38:14 | 0:38:19 | |
-Sian? -Yeah. -Can I come in a minute? -Yeah. | 0:38:19 | 0:38:22 | |
Guys, this isn't good. It's really not good. | 0:38:26 | 0:38:31 | |
What happened? | 0:38:31 | 0:38:32 | |
-What happened in here? -I don't know. | 0:38:35 | 0:38:38 | |
Seriously, this is really bad. | 0:38:40 | 0:38:42 | |
It's not good enough. | 0:38:42 | 0:38:44 | |
So, if you want any chance at all to have your baby, Sian, | 0:38:45 | 0:38:50 | |
and bring your baby home, | 0:38:50 | 0:38:52 | |
you're going to have to start going to school and THIS has got to stop. | 0:38:52 | 0:38:57 | |
Martin, are you hearing me? | 0:38:57 | 0:39:00 | |
Is he hearing me? | 0:39:00 | 0:39:02 | |
And that means you stay here on Sunday night | 0:39:02 | 0:39:06 | |
and not at Martin's, yeah? And I can see you going, | 0:39:06 | 0:39:09 | |
"Yeah, I'll do it." I know what you're thinking. | 0:39:09 | 0:39:12 | |
"I'll do what the hell I like." So, Sian, buy into it. | 0:39:12 | 0:39:17 | |
You know, it's not on. | 0:39:17 | 0:39:20 | |
I thought, "You're joking. You have got to be joking. | 0:39:23 | 0:39:26 | |
"You know. We've been through this. You know the lengths we've been to. | 0:39:26 | 0:39:31 | |
"You know the risks you're running | 0:39:31 | 0:39:34 | |
"not looking after yourselves, cleaning up after yourselves. | 0:39:34 | 0:39:38 | |
"You're just showing no signs of any parenting capacity." | 0:39:39 | 0:39:46 | |
I think there's other people | 0:39:46 | 0:39:48 | |
who aren't taking responsibility for this. | 0:39:48 | 0:39:50 | |
Martin's parents need to take a better share of the responsibility. | 0:39:50 | 0:39:55 | |
-Hi, Tracy. You all right? -Come in. -Can I come in? Thank you. | 0:39:59 | 0:40:03 | |
FIP have no powers to force Martin's parents to help. | 0:40:03 | 0:40:06 | |
All Claire can do is speak to his mum, Tracy. | 0:40:06 | 0:40:11 | |
Your mum said you can't stay up at Sharon's through the week. | 0:40:11 | 0:40:15 | |
-Actually, she said you can't stay up there any time. -No. | 0:40:15 | 0:40:19 | |
-Sian can stay here, weekends. -But you can visit Sharon and Sian? -Yes. | 0:40:19 | 0:40:25 | |
Tracy appears to be really on board about Martin and Sian's relationship | 0:40:25 | 0:40:33 | |
and what that means in terms of them not going to school, | 0:40:33 | 0:40:36 | |
they get together and they're a little gang and they don't need anybody else. | 0:40:36 | 0:40:39 | |
So she's really getting involved in dealing with that | 0:40:39 | 0:40:43 | |
and making sure her own son's going to school. | 0:40:43 | 0:40:46 | |
I wouldn't change him for the world. | 0:40:46 | 0:40:49 | |
He's my only son, isn't he? | 0:40:49 | 0:40:51 | |
I love him. | 0:40:51 | 0:40:54 | |
He can be a little bastard. Oh, he definitely can. | 0:40:54 | 0:40:58 | |
But then also he can be a loving son that you want, innit? | 0:40:58 | 0:41:04 | |
Ten weeks into her pregnancy, Sian's made a decision about her future. | 0:41:06 | 0:41:10 | |
In two weeks' time, I'll go back to school. | 0:41:10 | 0:41:14 | |
And what's made you do that? | 0:41:14 | 0:41:16 | |
Well, it's going to make us look more responsible and everything. | 0:41:18 | 0:41:22 | |
Cos I need an education and everything as well so... | 0:41:22 | 0:41:26 | |
Are you still all a bit in denial about it? | 0:41:28 | 0:41:32 | |
Not really. It's sunk in, to be honest. | 0:41:34 | 0:41:39 | |
She's trying to do all of the things that we've asked her to do | 0:41:41 | 0:41:46 | |
to prove that she can parent | 0:41:46 | 0:41:49 | |
and she's going to need parental support. | 0:41:49 | 0:41:53 | |
But, yeah, Sian's engaging a lot better. | 0:41:53 | 0:41:56 | |
It's been four years since Claire first became involved | 0:41:58 | 0:42:02 | |
with the Gibsons. | 0:42:02 | 0:42:05 | |
With things calming down in and around the house... | 0:42:05 | 0:42:08 | |
Hi, Sharon. | 0:42:08 | 0:42:10 | |
..Claire can consider reducing her hours. | 0:42:10 | 0:42:12 | |
So I'm going to come down and see you | 0:42:12 | 0:42:14 | |
and we'll start putting together a closure plan | 0:42:14 | 0:42:17 | |
where I start to step back. | 0:42:17 | 0:42:19 | |
I would look at a period of about three months | 0:42:19 | 0:42:22 | |
of me stepping back, just in case... | 0:42:22 | 0:42:27 | |
You know, just in case there's something I need to come back for. | 0:42:27 | 0:42:31 | |
So, over those three months, you'll see me less and less. | 0:42:31 | 0:42:35 | |
Are you happy with that? Are you ready for that? | 0:42:35 | 0:42:39 | |
Well, yes. | 0:42:39 | 0:42:41 | |
Yes, that's good. Yes. | 0:42:41 | 0:42:43 | |
Will you be sad not to have to come up here any more? | 0:42:45 | 0:42:48 | |
In a little way, I will be, yeah, because, you know, | 0:42:51 | 0:42:55 | |
I've become a part of their life, so in a way, they've become | 0:42:55 | 0:42:58 | |
part of my life as well. | 0:42:58 | 0:43:00 | |
I've thought about them a lot. | 0:43:00 | 0:43:02 | |
So in a way, I'll be sad. In a way, I'll be glad as well. | 0:43:02 | 0:43:07 | |
It is like having a friend. It's like suddenly having | 0:43:07 | 0:43:11 | |
a best friend and then not having one at all so... | 0:43:11 | 0:43:14 | |
yeah, it's going to be very strange, very hard. | 0:43:14 | 0:43:20 | |
I think I'll cry. | 0:43:20 | 0:43:22 | |
Ten months on from starting work with the Thompson family, | 0:43:32 | 0:43:36 | |
Vicki McKeown is making another unannounced early morning visit. | 0:43:36 | 0:43:42 | |
Can I just comment on how tidy this is compared to the previous garden? | 0:43:42 | 0:43:47 | |
The family are all up and about. | 0:43:47 | 0:43:49 | |
Brandon is wide awake. | 0:43:49 | 0:43:51 | |
Well, this is mine and Robbie's room and... | 0:43:54 | 0:43:59 | |
it's just messy at the moment | 0:43:59 | 0:44:04 | |
cos we've just moved in. | 0:44:04 | 0:44:06 | |
Robbie's bed... | 0:44:06 | 0:44:08 | |
we don't know why it's always messy. | 0:44:08 | 0:44:11 | |
Well, there is one reason, cos he's only five. | 0:44:11 | 0:44:15 | |
And I'm at the top, as you can see, | 0:44:15 | 0:44:19 | |
and it's, like, all comfy up here. | 0:44:19 | 0:44:24 | |
Did you like living in the old house? | 0:44:24 | 0:44:26 | |
Nah. It was all scruffy. | 0:44:26 | 0:44:29 | |
Everything was boring, except... | 0:44:29 | 0:44:34 | |
the telly sometimes and my consoles. | 0:44:34 | 0:44:38 | |
As you can see, things are drastically different in the morning | 0:44:38 | 0:44:41 | |
to where we started. | 0:44:41 | 0:44:43 | |
They wouldn't have had breakfast at home and no-one would have been up. | 0:44:43 | 0:44:48 | |
Go get your jumper on. Jumpers on. Eat your bananas | 0:44:52 | 0:44:55 | |
and jumpers on. | 0:44:55 | 0:44:57 | |
Well, it's definitely less chaotic. | 0:44:57 | 0:44:59 | |
There's no shouting in the morning any more. | 0:44:59 | 0:45:02 | |
-Say bye to your -mum. Bye. | 0:45:02 | 0:45:06 | |
I'm very proud of this family. | 0:45:08 | 0:45:10 | |
It's amazed me how far they've come and stuff | 0:45:10 | 0:45:13 | |
and I get a lot of pleasure seeing how happy Brandon and Robbie are now. | 0:45:13 | 0:45:18 | |
Have a good day at school. | 0:45:18 | 0:45:20 | |
-Bye. -Bye. | 0:45:20 | 0:45:23 | |
How do you think things have improved? | 0:45:23 | 0:45:26 | |
There's a lot less stress cos we get more help | 0:45:26 | 0:45:29 | |
and the boys seem to be happy and all. | 0:45:29 | 0:45:31 | |
But now, if help was to sort of slowly stop, do you feel confident | 0:45:31 | 0:45:35 | |
-in doing everything else yourself? -Yeah. I was on the phone for something, | 0:45:35 | 0:45:41 | |
getting the dentist and doctors sorted out. | 0:45:41 | 0:45:43 | |
-Okey dokey. -Right. -See you later. -See you later. -Bye. | 0:45:43 | 0:45:47 | |
It's amazing to see where they've come. | 0:45:47 | 0:45:51 | |
That just shows to everybody that give these families a chance | 0:45:51 | 0:45:54 | |
and they can change. It's about giving them the chances | 0:45:54 | 0:45:58 | |
and helping them to get those chances because | 0:45:58 | 0:46:01 | |
some of these families are quite happy... Well, not happy, but are stuck in a rut. | 0:46:01 | 0:46:06 | |
I think things this morning, just how Claire and Jon were taking pride | 0:46:06 | 0:46:09 | |
in how smart the boys look for school, that was a huge thing. | 0:46:09 | 0:46:12 | |
Both boys seem happy and are more involved. | 0:46:12 | 0:46:16 | |
The boys seem to come to us more, always want to see us | 0:46:16 | 0:46:19 | |
and talk to us. | 0:46:19 | 0:46:20 | |
You, out. We do things at the weekend now. | 0:46:20 | 0:46:23 | |
We don't just sit around watching the telly all day. Just be a family. | 0:46:23 | 0:46:27 | |
So it makes us feel nice inside, warm inside. | 0:46:27 | 0:46:30 | |
So, is that it for the day? | 0:46:30 | 0:46:33 | |
No, it's only eight o'clock in the morning! | 0:46:34 | 0:46:37 | |
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