Britain's Broken Families


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No! You're not going away! Sian!

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Last year, the state spent an estimated £9 billion

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on just 120,000 families.

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It does smell in here though, doesn't it?

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There's been a fight in my garden, a fight across the street.

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'So let us get out there and heal the scars of a broken society.'

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I can, if needed, be there at seven in the morning to make sure the children are up...

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Sian. Buy into it.

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..and be there at five o'clock to make sure there's food on the table.

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It's really, really not looking good.

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No, cos last time you did that, you didn't...!

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There's unrealistic expectations to suddenly go from being

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nightmare families, to the next minute being the Waltons.

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Vicki McKeown is 24.

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It's her first year working for the Family Intervention Project,

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having left university with a degree in criminology.

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As a FIP worker, it's her job to help Newcastle's most troubled families.

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It's seven o'clock in the morning

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and I'm going to visit the Thompson family.

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At this point, Social Services are concerned that the home conditions

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are not suitable for children to live in

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and the boys are being neglected.

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It's by going at this time, I'm not aiming to catch them out,

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I'm just aiming to get a picture of what's really going on,

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who does what, who's up.

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It's a starting point to see where we need to go from here.

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Social Services have brought in FIP to contribute towards

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an assessment, and help the Thompson family.

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-Morning!

-Morning.

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Are you feeling better today?

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-No, cos he's got the skitters.

-He's got what?

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-He's got the skitters.

-Oh, no.

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Robbie, come on. Robbie!

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Robbie's four years old and I was quite concerned that he'd been ill

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and his parents were not up, seeing to his needs.

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Robbie, come on. Robbie, please. Come on. Get washed.

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No-one's up that's going to school.

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Where's everybody else or is this your job this morning?

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No, I haven't slept properly.

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I just got up early and he'd come down, being a mess.

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Robbie is being cleaned up by his grandma, Doreen.

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Most children would wake up in the night and go and get Mum or Dad up

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to tell them that they'd been ill, where Robbie obviously hadn't.

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It does smell in here though, doesn't it?

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But they've got five house cats.

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There's a strong smell of cat urine.

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Come here, Robbie. I'm not finished. You've got some on your butt.

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Robbie's brother Brandon is seven years old.

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Morning, Brandon. How are you this morning?

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Fine.

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'One thing I'm very aware of with Brandon is I've never seen him smile,

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'which is very concerning for a child of that age.'

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Brandon, get some underpants for Robbie, please,

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and some pyjamas.

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No, no!

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I think Claire might be getting up, I think this might be Claire now.

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Sssh.

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I'm glad to see you up.

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Claire moved back into her mum Doreen's house after splitting up

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with Brandon and Robbie's father.

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-Are you a morning person, Claire?

-Not really.

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-So I'm going to be stuck up, am I?

-No.

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You going to put Robbie to bed with you?

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Claire works as a part-time cleaner in the evenings.

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Brandon, instead of mucking around with that, please...

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Step-dad Jon moved in three years ago, shortly after meeting Claire.

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You thought you were having a lie-in, Jon. You were wrong.

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-Jon, you'll need a...

-Has he been sick?

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No, the other end.

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Is it just in the bed then?

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Well, he had his underpants on so...

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Ah, so it's just in the bed probably.

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Yeah.

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Keys.

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You'll have to tidy your smelly room then, won't you, Robbie?

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See you later, Brandon.

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-See ya later.

-See you tonight.

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'In my opinion, it's more about neglect'

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and just general unawareness of what they should be doing.

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They get fed, bathed, fed, watered.

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They're quite open about what they are doing,

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which in my opinion shows that they don't think it is wrong

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because they are so open about it.

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I do go to see to their needs, I love them and all that.

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They get hugs and I play with them and that.

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As far as I'm concerned, that's what a parent does -

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see to their needs and play with them and make them laugh.

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It's been the way I've been brought up,

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and the way I brought me own two kids up,

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and it's done no harm to them.

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On the advice of Vicki and other professionals,

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Claire is called to a meeting at Social Services.

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How did it go?

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Really bad. It's like neglect.

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They say if you don't do what they're asking,

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they will push it for court and that.

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And what does court mean?

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They will take the boys, they'll push to take the boys.

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If it has to go to court, they'll push to take the boys off of us.

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Do you think you're going to lose Brandon and Robbie?

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I have a scary feeling I might.

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Cos I've been there like twice now, so I've a scary feeling I might.

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Claire has been given three months to improve the home environment for her boys.

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She knows working with Vicki is her best chance of achieving this.

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It was opened in January...

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Newcastle's FIP was set up seven years ago.

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Each worker is responsible for four families.

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..Cos she was smoking and staying out...

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FIP can be called in by Social Services or Housing

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as a last resort before court intervention.

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He witnessed the attack on his mother when he was seven,

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when a knife was used on his mother.

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What makes FIP unique is the amount of time they are able to spend with every troubled family.

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I think there's sometimes really unrealistic expectations

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on families to suddenly go from being, you know, labelled as

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problem nightmare families or whatever, to the next minute being the Waltons.

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I mean, he's had 15 stop and searches since January,

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usually to do with disorder.

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We're a long-term intensive support service

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and we can be involved with families for up to two years.

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I'll be honest with you, there's families that have been with us for longer than that.

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In a leafy suburb on the other side of Newcastle lives Sharon Gibson.

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Sharon is a 43-year-old, unemployed single mum.

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She's being blamed by neighbours for teenagers running riot on the estate.

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Martin!

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I had a huge gang.

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First it was a just a lot of shouting and we heard this loud,

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like a thud, smash sort of thing.

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And it was my window smashed.

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It was quite funny actually. Not cos Sharon was sitting there.

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Sian is 14 years old and Sharon's only child.

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She hasn't been to school for over a year.

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I just didn't like it so I just stopped going.

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I went in primary school more than I did in high school.

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Sian. Sian!

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LAUGHTER

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Oh, my God! I used to look like that.

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Sian hangs around the house with her friends

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and 16-year-old boyfriend Martin.

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-Martin!

-Stop tormenting me, Ma!

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They've been together for seven months, and Martin spends most nights there.

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Does Martin bring a lot of the trouble here?

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Oh, he does, aye.

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People bring us bother. We don't we don't cause bother.

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We go out and get accused of doing stuff.

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Just everyone hates you, Sian.

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I know. My neighbours proper despise us.

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But when you look at it as an outsider, you don't go to school,

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you've got the police coming around here.

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It does look bad.

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It's almost getting to the point that every time there's a knock

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at the door, it's somebody to complain.

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Hey!

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Claire Stewart has a background in counselling

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and has been working for the Family Intervention Project for five years.

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The majority of them have been spent supporting Mum Sharon

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with her mental health issues.

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But now 14-year-old Sian is her priority.

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The last couple of weeks, we've had Sian run away from home.

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There's been complaints put into the council about bad behaviour,

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and Sian still needs to go to school.

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That's a big hurdle for us to get over.

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And there are even more problems.

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'Eggs have been thrown at this house'

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and what's happened is the neighbours, I'm guessing,

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think that it's Sian and Martin who have been doing it.

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Hi, Sharon. Are you all right?

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DOGS BARK

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Sian, I need you to get these dogs!

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Sian! SIAN!

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Are you all right?

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Having so many people shouting at you and screaming at you

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and saying this has happened and that's happened,

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and it's them to blame and this is to blame.

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You've got Sian and her friends getting all upset and agitated,

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and they're shouting things and you don't know what was being said

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and whether, you know, who was telling who to eff off or whatever.

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Sian had promised to go back to school but hasn't,

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after receiving abusive messages and texts.

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This started because Martin was a naughty boy

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and went behind Sian's back with somebody

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who was meant to be Sian's friend,

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and the person decided to get very nasty

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and send some very nasty messages to Sian.

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Good girl! Good girl!

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Hello?

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Oh! Martin.

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Sian has agreed to allow Claire into her room to talk about the messages.

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Are you coming in?

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-How are you?

-Fine.

-Are you sure?

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What about all those texts and messages?

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They've stopped now.

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Cos I've been reading through them

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and I'm wondering what that was like while it was happening.

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Were you frightened?

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Not really, cos I knew they were more like texts

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and that, and they wouldn't actually do it, most of them.

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But you didn't want to go to school in case it did happen?

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Mmm.

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Is there other reasons why you don't want to go?

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-No.

-Just because of that?

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So you're going to get the room sorted?

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So when I come back on Tuesday, will it be beautiful?

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Yeah.

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Are you worried about anything?

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No.

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Are you texting each other?

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No!

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CLAIRE LAUGHS

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Right, cheerio. I'll see you later.

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'That was the first time that Sian's let me in her bedroom'

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for a very, very long time.

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So that for me was a big step forward

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and she's let me see the mess and how bad it's gotten.

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There's a lot of work we can do from that,

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and I don't just mean about cleaning it up.

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I'm talking whole loads of stuff about self-image and self-esteem and valuing yourself.

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Something's gone really wrong inside Sian.

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Sian was only 11 years old when FIP were first brought in

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to help her mum with her mental health issues.

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I was so ill and I was so depressed because I was facing eviction,

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my benefits were all in a mess, they were just...they kept...

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they'd stopping paying us and then when they put it back in,

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I was weeks in arrears with everything.

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And I had said that I was going to burn the house down

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and me and Sian were going to be in it

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and I was so sick, so they ended up taking Sian away.

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Which was a bit of a bad time, wasn't it?

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-Hello?

-Yeah.

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Mum, is it all right if I go to Chapel House?

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Not till after half four.

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'Sian didn't want to leave her mother

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'because she was frightened that something would happen to Sharon.'

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For an 11-year-old girl, that was really scary.

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Sian was placed into care for two months.

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Claire helped Sharon get her back and has been supporting the family ever since.

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Tell them you're going to the doctors. It'll be less than a five-minute appointment.

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It won't be, Mam, it'll be ages.

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How will it be ages?

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Because it will!

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She's going for some contraception.

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The implant.

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And then it means that we don't need to worry about anything

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for three years, basically.

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It's getting her there that's going to be the problem.

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She'd rather go off with her friends.

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You noticed that it's half past four, the appointment?

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Three months ago, Sian became pregnant with Martin's baby,

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but had a miscarriage.

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If she gets pregnant again, at the moment,

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it will go into court, I'm sure, to have that baby removed.

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That's what the social worker expressly said.

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Sharon made it quite clear that she is not able to cope

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with a baby at the moment on Sian's behalf,

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and she isn't,

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and Sian couldn't manage a baby.

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It will only be a two-minute appointment.

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Sian!

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Sian!

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-CAMERAMAN:

-I take it you're not going to the doctors then?

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This is what she will do and this is what she's like

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if I say, you know, she can't have her friends in or...

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no, they can't stay overnight or whatever.

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She does exactly the same thing.

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So it's like a battle of wills at the minute.

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My priorities are to get Sian into school

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and to get some contraception.

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But it is ultimately Sian's choice,

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as long as you've made every effort

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and made it as possible as you can.

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At the end of the day, she makes that choice.

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Thanks, Jon.

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Bye.

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Three weeks from first meeting the Thompsons,

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family intervention worker Vicki McKeown

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is working on a plan to help keep their boys

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from being taken into care.

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In comparison to the other FIP families that you...

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-A million times worse.

-OK, I'm getting you.

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What's been spilt? What's that?

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-What's that down there?

-What?

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Sam!

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This is Robbie's room. He rips all the paper off.

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It's not just been Robbie. It's been Brandon as well.

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It needs decorating straightaway, but if you haven't got the money

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to decorate straightaway, you can't. He has it the same way I had it.

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If we could afford to do something, we did it. If we can't,

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then we couldn't. That's the way it was

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and that's the way it is for my boys.

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Working with families, you see that behaviours are quite often learnt

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from parents and it's a generational issue that's passed on.

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Robbie! On the path, please.

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And that can be quite hard cos you're asking them to change

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behaviour they've been doing for such a long time.

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It's not going to change overnight

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and it's not going to be an easy change.

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I got took off my parents at six months old

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by Social Services. All I did was cry all the time,

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so Social Services come in, took me and my brother off my parents.

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My dad ended up in prison...again

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-and my

-mum... And your brother ended up in prison.

-Sshhh!

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And my mum, she just disappeared after they took us off.

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I'm going to very much work on the areas such as parenting,

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roles within the family and trying to get the family

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to achieve what they need to in order to keep those children at home.

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Vicki spends the morning with the Thompsons,

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laying down some new house rules.

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Right. Before we go through this, I just want to say

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I want people to be honest. I don't want to go away

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and find that people are upset. I'd rather we get it all out

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in the open now because we can only move forward

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when we know where we're at. In terms of in the morning,

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you said you take it in turns to get physically up

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and the other one's maybe in bed. What I would like to see

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is that you're both physically up because usually, and I'm not meaning

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this in a disrespectful way, people would be up and going to work

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so we need the boys coming to you.

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If you're both getting up, there's two people there for them.

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Because one thing that often happens, especially people involved

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with Social Services, they'll say, "I'm not hitting the children.

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"I'm feeding them. They've got a bed."

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Basic needs. But in terms of... It's that emotional thing

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and having someone there when you're feeling really crap

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and down and stuff. It's just responding to that

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and not just ignoring it. That's what we want to see.

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We can often get a lot of bravado from families saying,

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"I don't need things to be different,"

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and, "What are you telling me? The way I bring up my kids is all right."

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We need to show them a comparison so it's not always about sitting down

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and having the chat. You've got to be creative.

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You've got to make it real for them and bring it to life a bit.

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-You've got what?

-The boys are off on Friday.

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Well, that could give you an opportunity to take them somewhere,

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to the park or something.

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Vicki's suggestion of a trip to the park

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is the Thompsons' first outing together in weeks.

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The champ is here.

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You're snotty.

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-CAMERAMAN:

-How often do you say you get out with the boys?

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Not a lot. We haven't got the money or the weather's bad.

0:20:080:20:13

-Do you enjoy coming to the park?

-Yep.

0:20:130:20:16

-Do you get to come very often?

-Not much.

0:20:180:20:21

What did you do this weekend?

0:20:210:20:24

Absolutely nowt. Just had a quiet day in.

0:20:240:20:28

This is the first time I've ever seen Claire at the park.

0:20:370:20:41

It's not the first time I've ever seen her do anything with the boys.

0:20:410:20:44

But I think she enjoys it, even if she's not saying it,

0:20:440:20:47

cos she's joining in and stuff.

0:20:470:20:49

-Up there.

-And again.

0:20:520:20:56

-Shall we lift you?

-Do you want to go on my shoulders?

0:20:560:21:00

It's important that Claire and Jon start to see that it does

0:21:000:21:03

have an effect, it does make the boys happier, gives them something

0:21:030:21:06

to talk about and I suppose it gives them that time to be children.

0:21:060:21:10

Inevitably, they will mess around and stuff, but because they don't

0:21:100:21:13

do that at home, I think it's important they can just be children.

0:21:130:21:17

Martin!

0:21:190:21:21

This is the beginning. Where is it? Martin!

0:21:330:21:37

At the Gibson house, Martin, Sian's 16-year-old boyfriend,

0:21:370:21:41

has been accused of stealing the neighbours' football.

0:21:410:21:44

Just have to wait till the police come then.

0:21:470:21:49

Are you worried about the police coming around?

0:21:490:21:51

Why do you let him still hang around?

0:21:540:21:57

People keep asking me that.

0:21:590:22:01

If I don't allow him to come,

0:22:010:22:04

at some point, my daughter's not going to be here.

0:22:040:22:08

We've been through this loads of times.

0:22:110:22:13

We've been where she's just done off because I haven't allowed him.

0:22:130:22:19

So, what do I do?

0:22:190:22:20

I don't know which ball it was, but they got a ball out of the garden.

0:22:200:22:24

-Did they?

-Was I not supposed to tell you?

0:22:240:22:27

-They did, yeah.

-How do you know?

-Cos I was there when they got it.

0:22:270:22:30

Martin! Come here. You DID go next door and get a ball

0:22:300:22:35

because I've just been told you did.

0:22:350:22:38

No! You're not going away!

0:22:390:22:42

Sods.

0:22:420:22:43

Get in. I'm going for a walk.

0:22:450:22:47

-Where are you going?

-To find the ball.

0:22:470:22:49

They've smashed eggs on my sitting-room window.

0:22:540:22:58

There's been a fight in my garden,

0:22:580:23:00

a fight across the street.

0:23:000:23:01

Just abuse, verbal abuse.

0:23:010:23:05

Get it out.

0:23:050:23:07

We never ever leave our house empty now. Never.

0:23:070:23:12

And yous wonder why I've got a rift with the bloody neighbours.

0:23:140:23:18

It's not funny, Martin.

0:23:180:23:21

Where are they, Sharon?

0:23:210:23:24

They went up that way.

0:23:240:23:25

Get in.

0:23:310:23:32

-Do you think people look at you as trouble?

-Yes.

0:23:480:23:51

Why's that?

0:23:570:23:58

He's putting Sharon's tenancy at risk

0:24:070:24:10

because obviously you can't go around upsetting the community like this

0:24:100:24:15

and other things have been going on as well.

0:24:150:24:18

The police were called two nights ago for something else

0:24:180:24:22

associated with Martin's behaviour.

0:24:220:24:24

So we'll have to talk about all of this and what it means.

0:24:240:24:27

Sharon, Sian and Martin. First of all,

0:24:290:24:33

I'm going to let your mum read this.

0:24:330:24:36

All right, Martin. This is from the housing officer to me, OK?

0:24:360:24:41

They've received another complaint about your behaviour,

0:24:410:24:45

while you and your friends were visiting this house.

0:24:450:24:49

It doesn't really help at this point

0:24:490:24:53

to say who's right or wrong

0:24:530:24:57

or the accuracy of things.

0:24:570:24:59

The thing is, it has been said somehow.

0:24:590:25:03

Your behaviour, and as much as you say, "I didn't do it,"

0:25:030:25:07

or, "It was just a little bit.

0:25:070:25:09

"No, I didn't really do that. I was just playing with a ball,"

0:25:090:25:12

whatever's happening, Martin, you're putting this tenancy at risk.

0:25:120:25:17

You are doing it. You and your friends.

0:25:170:25:20

Nobody said to me that Sharon has kicked a ball

0:25:200:25:24

or stood on somebody's hedge.

0:25:240:25:27

It's really not looking good.

0:25:270:25:30

It's really, really not looking good.

0:25:300:25:32

Why don't you and Sian go upstairs then and give me and Sharon

0:25:390:25:44

a couple of minutes on our own?

0:25:440:25:46

I think the thing is, the community's got itself into such a state now

0:25:510:25:54

that they are watching you all the time.

0:25:540:25:56

That's the feeling that I'm getting so...

0:25:560:25:59

..let's get it calmed down.

0:26:010:26:04

Ten days later, Sharon is asked to go to the Housing Office

0:26:080:26:11

to discuss her tenancy.

0:26:110:26:13

She wasn't going to come. She just flatly refused.

0:26:160:26:20

When I say flatly refused, it wasn't aggressive, she was just scared.

0:26:200:26:24

Then yesterday, I said, "How about we go? You need to do this.

0:26:240:26:29

"It's part of the process." And she came around.

0:26:290:26:32

She just perked up and came around, so she's here.

0:26:320:26:35

Hello, Joanne.

0:26:390:26:41

-Hi, Sharon.

-You OK?

0:26:410:26:44

-Yeah, fine. You OK, Sharon?

-Yes, fine, thanks.

0:26:440:26:47

The reason, Sharon, that I've asked you to come along today with Claire

0:26:510:26:54

is just to go through some of the complaints made.

0:26:540:26:57

Mainly Sian's behaviour in the street and the visitors associated

0:26:570:27:00

with the property, the noise and just the general disturbance

0:27:000:27:03

in the area. You see, if Sian and her friends are causing nuisance

0:27:030:27:07

in the area, if they are friends, visitors to your property,

0:27:070:27:10

it falls back on you and your tenancy.

0:27:100:27:12

In all of the complaints, we will then come to you.

0:27:120:27:15

Inappropriate behaviour has to stop. It won't be tolerated

0:27:150:27:19

and we need to just keep an eye on the situation closely.

0:27:190:27:23

Do you understand what I'm saying, Sharon?

0:27:260:27:29

-Sharon, what's on your mind?

-Nothing.

0:27:290:27:32

-Nothing? Do you need to say something?

-No.

0:27:320:27:35

-No? Are you sure?

-Uh-hm.

0:27:350:27:37

Sharon and Sian are quite quiet and soft touches with a lot of things.

0:27:370:27:43

A lot of kids who've got nowhere else to go

0:27:430:27:46

and who aren't being controlled

0:27:460:27:49

have ended up coming into the home

0:27:490:27:52

and Sharon's had great difficulty getting these kids out.

0:27:520:27:56

Trouble comes and finds a home there

0:27:560:27:59

and that jeopardises their tenancy.

0:27:590:28:02

Two months into working with FIP,

0:28:080:28:10

the Thompsons are trying to get to grips with their new daily routines

0:28:100:28:14

set up by Vicki.

0:28:140:28:15

We've actually downsized. We've now only got three cat litter trays.

0:28:200:28:24

I mean, we've had five cats and now we've only got the three cats

0:28:240:28:28

cos one of the cats that we got rid of was doing all the wet...

0:28:280:28:31

the urine all over the place.

0:28:310:28:33

How often were you changing the cat litter trays?

0:28:330:28:35

Once a week. Now it's every one or two days.

0:28:350:28:40

VICKI: For a long time, I didn't feel that Claire understood

0:28:430:28:46

the reason for the change. It's quite apparent she's more on board now

0:28:460:28:49

so I think she understands more what needs to happen

0:28:490:28:51

and she understands that if things didn't change,

0:28:510:28:55

then she was at risk of losing her boys.

0:28:550:28:57

So she's now doing things to make sure that doesn't happen.

0:28:570:29:01

Come in. Shut up. Stand back.

0:29:010:29:04

I've bought some more charts.

0:29:080:29:10

Vicki has introduced a system of charts which ensures

0:29:100:29:13

all the family stick to the new routines.

0:29:130:29:16

If I didn't have a bath on Monday, we'd just leave that blank

0:29:160:29:22

and if I did on Tuesday, just a tick.

0:29:220:29:25

Hopefully, the charts will disappear and these routines and habits

0:29:250:29:29

will become the norm.

0:29:290:29:31

Robbie, what does it say on the chart you've got to do?

0:29:310:29:34

-Don't bounce.

-It doesn't say don't bounce, you've just got to walk...

0:29:340:29:38

..cos otherwise you might fall over.

0:29:400:29:43

That's it. That's it. You tidy it up.

0:29:430:29:46

-Jon and Mum have painted your bedroom, haven't they?

-Yeah.

0:29:470:29:50

Do you like it? But who's done this?

0:29:500:29:54

-Not me.

-Not you?

0:29:540:29:56

-You know on your chart, you've got no drawing on walls?

-Yeah.

0:29:560:30:00

So next time I come, this will still be here,

0:30:000:30:03

but we don't want any new drawings.

0:30:030:30:05

-Then do you think you can keep the walls clean?

-Yeah.

-Very good.

0:30:050:30:10

Decoration and cleaning the house are just short-term solutions.

0:30:100:30:15

Uniforms off and get ready for bed, please.

0:30:150:30:19

Vicki is helping to arrange for Claire, Jon and the boys

0:30:190:30:22

to move into a council house on the other side of town.

0:30:220:30:26

It's been hard. But we've just got to get on with it.

0:30:260:30:31

I don't like what's happening, we're having to go our separate ways,

0:30:310:30:36

but just got to get on with it for the kids.

0:30:360:30:40

Obviously, the housing is the next big thing

0:30:400:30:44

because as long as she's living with her mum, she will be a child.

0:30:440:30:48

She will always look to her mum

0:30:480:30:50

and expect her mum to jump in and things.

0:30:500:30:53

We've always said, until they move and they're in separate tenancies,

0:30:530:30:56

we're kind of just treading water and keeping things as they are

0:30:560:30:59

and the true changes will happen when they move.

0:30:590:31:01

KNOCK ON DOOR Hello?

0:31:070:31:10

Wow. I tell you what, it's much better in here, isn't it?

0:31:100:31:15

For crying out loud. Grand.

0:31:150:31:18

You've done great in here, mind, Sian.

0:31:180:31:20

You know, you've stuff that's to go to the riding school,

0:31:200:31:23

that you were taking back to riding school? Have you taken it?

0:31:230:31:27

-No.

-I wondered if you fancied taking it up with me in the car?

0:31:270:31:33

Sian used to go horse riding, I don't know, really,

0:31:330:31:36

two or three times a week.

0:31:360:31:38

So I want her to remember that she really enjoyed it.

0:31:380:31:42

I'm hoping to trigger some memories as well.

0:31:420:31:46

How are you doing, Sian?

0:31:480:31:50

-I've got some boots.

-I'll take it. Fabulous. Thank you.

0:31:520:31:56

You're not going to ride at all?

0:31:560:31:58

I want to come back though.

0:31:580:32:00

Well, come up.

0:32:020:32:04

It's really fluffy.

0:32:060:32:09

It's just its fur.

0:32:090:32:11

Do you remember Dempsey or not?

0:32:110:32:13

Yeah? Dempsey and Daisy?

0:32:150:32:17

Probably Sian would be about 12 when she came.

0:32:210:32:25

She started off right from the beginning

0:32:250:32:27

to eventually starting to compete a little bit.

0:32:270:32:30

So she got quite far with her riding.

0:32:300:32:32

I think she certainly always enjoyed it.

0:32:320:32:34

Sometimes maybe just the crowd of kids she was in with at the time,

0:32:340:32:39

maybe their interests just wandered a little bit

0:32:390:32:42

and that just steered Sian to go down the other track

0:32:420:32:46

and do other things.

0:32:460:32:47

This is who Sian used to ride.

0:32:470:32:49

This is the little girl that I knew was there.

0:32:530:32:58

It's really nice seeing her relating with the horse...

0:32:580:33:03

..because she loved it.

0:33:040:33:06

It's a big change. It's about getting out of the house

0:33:090:33:12

and leaving the house and leaving that little, safe world.

0:33:120:33:16

She's not going to school and not going out.

0:33:160:33:20

So this is really the first step away

0:33:200:33:24

from that life that she's been living lately, this last year,

0:33:240:33:27

which is why, if she wants to, I'll make sure she can get here

0:33:270:33:33

at least in the early stages, until her motivation

0:33:330:33:36

and her confidence comes back.

0:33:360:33:38

I had a text message from Sharon at seven o'clock on Friday

0:33:550:33:59

to say that Sian was pregnant.

0:33:590:34:03

It does change everything. All the plans that we had

0:34:040:34:07

and everything Sian was signing up to have all changed.

0:34:070:34:11

What needs to happen is a pregnancy test needs to be taken

0:34:130:34:18

with somebody who can confirm to Social Services that you're pregnant.

0:34:180:34:24

If the test is positive, Sian will be assigned a social worker

0:34:240:34:29

who will assess whether she can keep her baby.

0:34:290:34:32

It's not that one, it's that one.

0:34:350:34:39

-I did that one wrong. I put it in the wrong place.

-All right.

0:34:390:34:42

-Shall I put this one in the bin?

-Yes.

0:34:420:34:45

So because it's got two pink bits, that's a positive, yeah?

0:34:450:34:48

-Is this correct?

-Yes.

0:34:480:34:50

It's not something I really want her to go through, basically,

0:34:510:34:55

and to be honest, I don't think she's even physically able

0:34:550:35:00

to go through it.

0:35:000:35:01

-I don't think she is.

-Do you mean carry a baby or deliver?

0:35:010:35:05

Both, basically.

0:35:050:35:08

-So, are you, like, frightened for her?

-Uh-hm.

0:35:080:35:12

The only way for me to handle it is to just not even talk about it.

0:35:120:35:19

Yeah. How do YOU feel?

0:35:190:35:22

-Scared.

-You're scared? What are you scared about?

0:35:230:35:27

Everything.

0:35:290:35:30

Do you want to? Do you want to have a baby?

0:35:300:35:33

You do? All right then.

0:35:330:35:35

Yeah, it is scary, I think because you don't now what's going to happen.

0:35:350:35:39

It's unknown. You don't really know how you're going to react

0:35:390:35:42

with your own baby until you've got your own baby, do you?

0:35:420:35:45

So it is quite scary.

0:35:450:35:47

-I just hope it doesn't turn out like me.

-Really?! Why's that?

0:35:470:35:51

Don't know. Just cos.

0:35:530:35:56

I think you're nice, Martin.

0:35:560:35:57

Eight months after Vicki's first assessment,

0:36:050:36:08

the Thompsons have moved to a council house five miles away.

0:36:080:36:12

This is your new house, isn't it?

0:36:120:36:15

Grandma's house is over there.

0:36:150:36:18

Yeah, but Grandma's going to maybe, hopefully, move across here

0:36:180:36:21

-and then she'll live near you and be able to visit, won't she?

-Yeah.

0:36:210:36:25

So, any of these bags here, they go up to Mummy's room, OK?

0:36:250:36:29

I'll take this one.

0:36:290:36:30

Are you sure? It looks a bit heavy, Brandon.

0:36:300:36:33

-CAMERAMAN:

-So, what do you think of your new place then?

-I like it.

0:36:330:36:36

It's the right size for me and the boys, I think.

0:36:360:36:39

Without my mam being here, anyway.

0:36:390:36:41

Less stressful I think it's going to be and all.

0:36:410:36:43

Vicki, FIP mentioned before, "This is the way we want it kept."

0:36:430:36:46

But it will be because it'll be up to me and Jon to keep it tidy.

0:36:460:36:49

VICKI: The thing with the cats is... Fine, have cats,

0:36:550:36:58

but we just don't want them in the bedrooms

0:36:580:36:59

because we don't want them weeing in the bedrooms.

0:36:590:37:02

-It doesn't bite, does it?

-No, no.

0:37:020:37:04

I've just thrown you out.

0:37:090:37:11

Sometimes animals get that fusty smell,

0:37:110:37:13

especially when the heating's on, so you get that warm animal smell.

0:37:130:37:16

As long as they stay downstairs then we've not got any concerns with them.

0:37:160:37:19

We just don't want them weeing in the boys' bedrooms.

0:37:190:37:22

Hopefully, this will be a fresh start.

0:37:260:37:28

They'll get the stuff in the house that they need.

0:37:280:37:31

I'm hopeful that it will work out.

0:37:310:37:35

Sian's pregnancy has put even more pressure on Claire

0:37:420:37:47

to break the Gibsons' cycle of problems.

0:37:470:37:49

Does that get her out of schooling, being pregnant?

0:37:510:37:54

It doesn't get her out of schooling at all, no.

0:37:540:37:57

In fact, it's become almost more important that she's pregnant

0:37:570:38:02

because she's going to have to demonstrate to the people assessing her

0:38:020:38:06

as fit to be a parent,

0:38:060:38:09

so there's even more pressure on her to go to school.

0:38:090:38:12

Claire's helped Sian get a place in a school for pregnant teenagers.

0:38:140:38:19

-Sian?

-Yeah.

-Can I come in a minute?

-Yeah.

0:38:190:38:22

Guys, this isn't good. It's really not good.

0:38:260:38:31

What happened?

0:38:310:38:32

-What happened in here?

-I don't know.

0:38:350:38:38

Seriously, this is really bad.

0:38:400:38:42

It's not good enough.

0:38:420:38:44

So, if you want any chance at all to have your baby, Sian,

0:38:450:38:50

and bring your baby home,

0:38:500:38:52

you're going to have to start going to school and THIS has got to stop.

0:38:520:38:57

Martin, are you hearing me?

0:38:570:39:00

Is he hearing me?

0:39:000:39:02

And that means you stay here on Sunday night

0:39:020:39:06

and not at Martin's, yeah? And I can see you going,

0:39:060:39:09

"Yeah, I'll do it." I know what you're thinking.

0:39:090:39:12

"I'll do what the hell I like." So, Sian, buy into it.

0:39:120:39:17

You know, it's not on.

0:39:170:39:20

I thought, "You're joking. You have got to be joking.

0:39:230:39:26

"You know. We've been through this. You know the lengths we've been to.

0:39:260:39:31

"You know the risks you're running

0:39:310:39:34

"not looking after yourselves, cleaning up after yourselves.

0:39:340:39:38

"You're just showing no signs of any parenting capacity."

0:39:390:39:46

I think there's other people

0:39:460:39:48

who aren't taking responsibility for this.

0:39:480:39:50

Martin's parents need to take a better share of the responsibility.

0:39:500:39:55

-Hi, Tracy. You all right?

-Come in.

-Can I come in? Thank you.

0:39:590:40:03

FIP have no powers to force Martin's parents to help.

0:40:030:40:06

All Claire can do is speak to his mum, Tracy.

0:40:060:40:11

Your mum said you can't stay up at Sharon's through the week.

0:40:110:40:15

-Actually, she said you can't stay up there any time.

-No.

0:40:150:40:19

-Sian can stay here, weekends.

-But you can visit Sharon and Sian?

-Yes.

0:40:190:40:25

Tracy appears to be really on board about Martin and Sian's relationship

0:40:250:40:33

and what that means in terms of them not going to school,

0:40:330:40:36

they get together and they're a little gang and they don't need anybody else.

0:40:360:40:39

So she's really getting involved in dealing with that

0:40:390:40:43

and making sure her own son's going to school.

0:40:430:40:46

I wouldn't change him for the world.

0:40:460:40:49

He's my only son, isn't he?

0:40:490:40:51

I love him.

0:40:510:40:54

He can be a little bastard. Oh, he definitely can.

0:40:540:40:58

But then also he can be a loving son that you want, innit?

0:40:580:41:04

Ten weeks into her pregnancy, Sian's made a decision about her future.

0:41:060:41:10

In two weeks' time, I'll go back to school.

0:41:100:41:14

And what's made you do that?

0:41:140:41:16

Well, it's going to make us look more responsible and everything.

0:41:180:41:22

Cos I need an education and everything as well so...

0:41:220:41:26

Are you still all a bit in denial about it?

0:41:280:41:32

Not really. It's sunk in, to be honest.

0:41:340:41:39

She's trying to do all of the things that we've asked her to do

0:41:410:41:46

to prove that she can parent

0:41:460:41:49

and she's going to need parental support.

0:41:490:41:53

But, yeah, Sian's engaging a lot better.

0:41:530:41:56

It's been four years since Claire first became involved

0:41:580:42:02

with the Gibsons.

0:42:020:42:05

With things calming down in and around the house...

0:42:050:42:08

Hi, Sharon.

0:42:080:42:10

..Claire can consider reducing her hours.

0:42:100:42:12

So I'm going to come down and see you

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and we'll start putting together a closure plan

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where I start to step back.

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I would look at a period of about three months

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of me stepping back, just in case...

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You know, just in case there's something I need to come back for.

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So, over those three months, you'll see me less and less.

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Are you happy with that? Are you ready for that?

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Well, yes.

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Yes, that's good. Yes.

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Will you be sad not to have to come up here any more?

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In a little way, I will be, yeah, because, you know,

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I've become a part of their life, so in a way, they've become

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part of my life as well.

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I've thought about them a lot.

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So in a way, I'll be sad. In a way, I'll be glad as well.

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It is like having a friend. It's like suddenly having

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a best friend and then not having one at all so...

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yeah, it's going to be very strange, very hard.

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I think I'll cry.

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Ten months on from starting work with the Thompson family,

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Vicki McKeown is making another unannounced early morning visit.

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Can I just comment on how tidy this is compared to the previous garden?

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The family are all up and about.

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Brandon is wide awake.

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Well, this is mine and Robbie's room and...

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it's just messy at the moment

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cos we've just moved in.

0:44:040:44:06

Robbie's bed...

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we don't know why it's always messy.

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Well, there is one reason, cos he's only five.

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And I'm at the top, as you can see,

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and it's, like, all comfy up here.

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Did you like living in the old house?

0:44:240:44:26

Nah. It was all scruffy.

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Everything was boring, except...

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the telly sometimes and my consoles.

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As you can see, things are drastically different in the morning

0:44:380:44:41

to where we started.

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They wouldn't have had breakfast at home and no-one would have been up.

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Go get your jumper on. Jumpers on. Eat your bananas

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and jumpers on.

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Well, it's definitely less chaotic.

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There's no shouting in the morning any more.

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-Say bye to your

-mum. Bye.

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I'm very proud of this family.

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It's amazed me how far they've come and stuff

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and I get a lot of pleasure seeing how happy Brandon and Robbie are now.

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Have a good day at school.

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-Bye.

-Bye.

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How do you think things have improved?

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There's a lot less stress cos we get more help

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and the boys seem to be happy and all.

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But now, if help was to sort of slowly stop, do you feel confident

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-in doing everything else yourself?

-Yeah. I was on the phone for something,

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getting the dentist and doctors sorted out.

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-Okey dokey.

-Right.

-See you later.

-See you later.

-Bye.

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It's amazing to see where they've come.

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That just shows to everybody that give these families a chance

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and they can change. It's about giving them the chances

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and helping them to get those chances because

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some of these families are quite happy... Well, not happy, but are stuck in a rut.

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I think things this morning, just how Claire and Jon were taking pride

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in how smart the boys look for school, that was a huge thing.

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Both boys seem happy and are more involved.

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The boys seem to come to us more, always want to see us

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and talk to us.

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You, out. We do things at the weekend now.

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We don't just sit around watching the telly all day. Just be a family.

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So it makes us feel nice inside, warm inside.

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So, is that it for the day?

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No, it's only eight o'clock in the morning!

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