House of Surrogates


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Down a dusty back street, in a rural Indian town,

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one house is home to 100 pregnant women.

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They are carrying babies they will soon hand over

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to couples from around the world.

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And it's all the work of Dr Nayna Patel.

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God is creating life,

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but God has appointed me to do that on this earth.

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She's the pioneer of a booming commercial surrogacy industry.

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For many couples worldwide,

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she offers their last hope of starting a family.

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But to her critics, she has commercialised childbirth

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-and exploited the poor.

-Am I doing something criminal?

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There were a lot of allegations that this is just a baby-making factory.

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With unprecedented access, we enter the world of Dr Nayna Patel,

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-her international clients...

-He's so cute.

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..and the women inside her house of surrogates.

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This programme contains some scenes which some viewers may find upsetting.

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The town of Anand, far from the tourist trail

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in the rural Indian state of Gujarat.

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It's previously only been known for its dairy production.

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But recently, an increasing number of visitors

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from all over the world have been arriving in the town.

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TRANSLATION:

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Dr Patel's fertility clinic in the centre of Anand is where

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over the last decade she has created

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and personally delivered hundreds of babies via IVF surrogacy.

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Australian Sam and his Serbian wife Jana have

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arrived in town for the delivery of their first child.

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My wife is very emotional.

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It's a bit like the old days in Australia

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where the parents were in the waiting room.

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45-year-old Jana has been unable to have a baby since severe illness,

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but commercial surrogacy is a criminal offence

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where they live in Australia.

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I was sick, and unfortunately...

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we couldn't achieve the normal way.

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This was really... In Australia, we don't have this chance,

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and India is the country that I would recommend everyone to go to.

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I still remember the culture shock

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when we arrived at the airport the first time we came.

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But the people are very friendly in India. Very nice.

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So you can't complain.

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WOMAN CRIES OUT

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Sam and Jana have paid a fee of around US28,000

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to Dr Patel's clinic for its services.

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BABY CRIES

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Their surrogate, Jyoti, is from a local village.

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For carrying and delivering the baby, she's been paid 8,000.

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It's a baby boy.

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It's finally happened.

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SHE SOBS, BABY CRIES

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We can hear it crying.

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Finally.

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-After how many years?

-11.

-It's been a long one. 11 years, yeah.

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Everything is fine, Jyoti is fine, the baby is fine.

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We'll just show you the baby.

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You can hold your baby.

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-Oh, my God. Oh, my God. You're so small!

-That's amazing.

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OK, let me show you. You can come with me.

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This is going to be a learning experience, doing all this.

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-Come, come with me.

-The expert's going to show us.

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OK, we have to come this way.

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When you started, and now, what's the reaction been?

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I have faced criticism.

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I am facing it, and I will be facing it,

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because this, according to many, is a controversial subject.

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There were a lot of allegations that this is just a business,

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this is just baby selling,

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a baby-making factory, and all these phrases used to hurt.

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These surrogates are doing the physical work, agreed,

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and they are being compensated for that.

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They know that there is no gain without pain.

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It's a journey of around two miles from the clinic

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to the surrogate house, situated on the outskirts of Anand.

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With so many pregnant women under one roof,

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the house has its own matron.

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The property is divided into dormitories,

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sleeping up to 10 expectant surrogate mothers in each room.

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LAUGHTER

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The women in the surrogate house have all their meals made for

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and delivered to them.

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They are on a strict regime of vitamins and rest.

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Women can be a surrogate through Dr Patel up to three times,

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and it's 28-year-old's Papiya's second time inside the house.

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28-year-old Vasanti has two children of her own,

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but is currently being employed to carry a Japanese couple's baby.

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The surrogate mothers have no genetic link to the babies

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they carry.

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They are created as embryos at Dr Patel's clinic before being

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implanted into their wombs.

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Under one roof, you have a Japanese baby, British baby,

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American baby, all of them growing up under one world,

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and when they will be delivered, they will all have as a birth certificate

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"born in Anand".

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Dr Patel works six days a week from her clinic.

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As well as the medical work,

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it is from here she liaises with her international clients

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and keeps a watchful eye over the surrogate mothers' movements.

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This is typically a demand book that the surrogates send to me

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from the Surrogate House.

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-So you have to go through that and say yes or no?

-Yes or no.

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If I signature, it is sanctioned.

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If I pass a comment that, "No, she should not go,"

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or "she should only give this much money," then it is.

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Every day, about five to six.

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Today, one has asked for 1,000 rupees advance

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to open a bank account.

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Another has asked that, "My son is in class five,

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"I need to go home for 10 days for his exams."

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Third one has asked for 2,000 rupees for her husband,

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he needs it for something.

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And what kind of things would you refuse?

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Oh, I mean...

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Going home for just some vague reason where

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I feel that she will not be able to take care of herself,

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like there is some celebration and dancing going on, then

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I would suggest, "Please, do not go, because it will not be good for you."

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Amy has just flown into India from Texas.

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She received an e-mail 24 hours earlier

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saying her son had been born via a surrogate.

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Go down here?

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She's here to see him for the first time.

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Holy moly.

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If we don't get run over first, we'll get there.

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This way?

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Having unsuccessfully tried to hold a pregnancy

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over the last 10 years, 49-year-old Amy and her husband

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opted to try surrogacy.

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I just want to see him.

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Because of course you want to make sure the baby is OK.

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She did tell us to go this way, right?

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The surrogate mother, chosen by Dr Patel, and whom Amy has never met,

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is now somewhere in a nearby neonatal hospital ward

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with her newborn baby.

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Did she say here?

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Hi. I'm Amy. Someone gave birth to my child.

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The baby is in...

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Where is that?

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Your baby was here at that time. But now he is with the nanny.

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-OK.

-Your baby is with the nanny on the second floor.

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Hi.

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Oh! Oh! Hey there. Oh!

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He's so cute. So cute.

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(Little fingers.)

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Oh, my God. I can't believe it.

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Oh, my gosh.

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Surrogate.

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Surrogate.

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Hi. Hi.

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It's beautiful. Thank you.

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I just...I can't believe I'm holding him. 10 years waiting for you. Huh?

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Definitely worth it.

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-She's telling, you are happy?

-Am I happy? Yes, more than happy.

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Ecstatic.

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-Does she speak English?

-No.

-No.

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Tell her she's giving me a huge gift and I cannot thank her enough.

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All right, I'll let you have him back.

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I'm going to go home and sleep

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and then I will see you tomorrow morning.

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-So you can take this, then you can come tomorrow.

-He's so cute.

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He's so small, he's so cute!

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SHE LAUGHS

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Commercial surrogacy has become a booming industry

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across the whole of India in the last decade.

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Now estimated to be worth £1 billion a year.

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Paying a surrogate here is legal and costs only a fifth what it would

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in the USA, one of the few other countries where it is permitted.

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India has one third of the world's poorest people.

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Labourers and farm workers earn under £10 a week.

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It means there is no shortage of applicants

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to become a surrogate at Dr Patel's clinic.

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Even if they aren't totally sure what it entails.

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62-year-old British doctor Michael and his 33-year-old Russian wife

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Veronica are at the first stage of the surrogacy process -

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having their embryos created by the clinic.

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Unfortunately, I do not have the possibility of conceiving

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as I'm missing one ovary and one tube due to the abnormality.

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I was born like that, as we say, so I didn't know until I was 22.

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That persuaded me that my last chance

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of trying to have my own child is to use a surrogate.

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As a physician, I find it somewhat ironic

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that some days as a family doctor in my office,

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I see poor individuals who are pregnant

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and wish to go the route of terminating that pregnancy,

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whilst other times during the day you may find individuals

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who deeply wish to be pregnant and are unable to.

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It's the fortunes of life.

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When I came to the clinic, the outside looks very ordinary.

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But that hides the interior,

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where the science is quite professional,

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their procedures are sterile

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and no different from what I'm used to in the Western world.

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Many women, they all suffer

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because they don't have this possibility to become mothers.

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And they would do anything, like I did, because we will be mothers,

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and we will have our children who will make their children.

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I still think that we will be blessed with twins.

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Potential life begins in the laboratory via IVF.

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Michael's sperm is injected into eggs collected from Veronica.

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Our mind was always in the laboratory with the little ones.

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For me, they are already live.

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They are waiting for that moment to be placed in a place where

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they can grow and then they can be taken out and say, "Hello, Mummy!"

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If the resulting embryos continue to grow,

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they become known as blastocysts.

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Today, Michael and Veronica have come to see theirs,

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in the hope they are good enough

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to be placed inside a surrogate and create a pregnancy.

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Oh, my God.

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It's like my whole future is decided today, right now.

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You have five blastocysts. One, two, three, four, five.

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Five, I can see!

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-Looks like Daddy.

-They're very good. So we will transfer one.

-Only one?

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No, two, please.

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-The others, we will freeze it.

-Two. Please.

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-OK, we transfer this, and this we freeze. OK?

-Yes, please.

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Thank you so much. They look so good.

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All five blastocysts were looking perfectly healthy,

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so they will implant two, and three they will freeze.

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It's amazing to see life developing at that early stage,

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and here in India, you know,

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we've had to come all this way to experience this,

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and we're just absolutely overwhelmed.

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These two, I have my names already. Alexander and Katarina.

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-I have the names since two years now, so it's kind of...

-Sentimental.

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..sentimental, but I had those names for two years.

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Always saying I will definitely one day have these little ones.

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From a scientific point of view, I mean, one is not a 100% guarantee,

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so, if you have two,

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-it just improves your chances of at least having one child.

-Yeah.

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Once the blastocysts have been chosen, Dr Patel places them

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inside a surrogate, in the hope they continue to grow inside her womb.

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We take the name of God, give a positive result with all prayers.

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We put the embryos inside the uterus. Yes. Great.

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Here, the embryo has gone inside.

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Two weeks from now, there will be a blood test, which will indicate

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whether they have taken the embryos and got pregnant or not.

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Whatever is the outcome, positive or negative,

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the couple will be informed either by e-mail or on the phone,

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and if the pregnancy is confirmed,

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then from time to time the antenatal progress of the surrogate and baby

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is informed to the couple.

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Tomorrow, we're flying back to our home, back to our daily life,

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to work.

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We are hopeful things will work out, but, again, nothing in life is 100%.

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-Thank you.

-See you tomorrow.

-Take care. Bye.

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Surrogacy in India may be relatively cheap and legal,

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but returning home with your newborn can be

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fraught with difficulties, depending on the rules in your own country.

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A baby born in India by a surrogacy can be classed by some legal systems

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as having no nationality or parents.

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A hotel room in the centre of town has been home to baby boy Ceron

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and his Canadian mum Barbara

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since he was born by surrogacy two months ago.

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They are waiting for official approval to return to Toronto,

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where her husband has had to carry on working.

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Mousy's one of your favourites. Look.

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Mousy's one of your favourites.

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But these few more months are nothing for Barbara.

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Aged 53, she's been trying for a child for decades.

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For me, this has been a 30-year journey.

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We wanted - we got married, and we wanted four children -

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we wanted a whole houseful because we came from big families.

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And it was like my whole identity, everything I even dreamed of,

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was put on hold.

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It's so hard on a couple, because my husband used to say that,

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when I was on all the drugs, etc, and then if it wouldn't work,

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or if I would have a miscarriage, he would say,

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"It feels like a funeral around here every month."

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And he was right,

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because I was in mourning each time that it didn't work.

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And... So, obviously, as I went through a lot of medical problems,

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eventually had to have a hysterectomy,

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and then of course I had to face the fact

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that the biological journey was over, and then it hit me,

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why am I saying that the biological journey is completely shut down?

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Because it doesn't have to be for my husband.

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Barbara was unable to produce eggs or carry a child.

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So Dr Patel was able to source an Indian woman to donate her eggs

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and a separate woman to be the surrogate mother.

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My son is half Indian,

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so he's going to be encouraged to explore that whole part of himself.

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BABY CRIES

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What's going on is he wants milk, and of course she's not here.

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Hang on, honey.

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-KNOCKING

-Oh, that may be Edan.

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This is Edan.

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Edan, the surrogate mother who carried Ceron,

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is now employed by Barbara to be a nanny,

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and to continue to feed him with her breast milk.

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He is hungry, he was just getting a little uncomfortable.

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Hey, little man. Oh, look who's here! One of your favourite people!

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Look! Oh, he really wants to sit up, doesn't he?

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Edan comes two times a day to actually nurse Ceron,

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and when she is here, just because she adores him so much,

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you know, she will play with him a little bit.

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Not all surrogates get attached to the babies like she has.

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Some surrogates give birth and then they go their separate ways.

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But we have done that because we wanted that relationship -

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we chose it,

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because what could be wrong with more than one woman loving my son?

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Smile, little man.

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Despite the close relationship developing,

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once the paperwork has been processed,

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Barbara and baby Ceron will be flying home to Canada,

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8,000 miles from surrogate mother Edan.

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In the Surrogate House, Sundays are family days,

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where the surrogate mothers have a chance to spend time

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with their own children and husbands.

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Vasanti is waiting for her husband to arrive.

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How did your involvement with surrogacy begin?

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Well, I was doing IVF since 1999,

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but I never thought about surrogacy.

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And when this first case where a female was born without a uterus

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and they asked me for a surrogate, we could not find a single surrogate,

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not only in Gujarat, but any part of India.

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A pair of twins who were carried in their grandmother's womb

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as she acted as surrogate...

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..miracle babies were born in India to their own grandmother

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because their natural mum was unable to carry them in her womb.

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There was a lot of attention given to this whole case,

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and that is how there were so many couples started approaching me.

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And that is how we got the idea

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of starting this whole programme of surrogacy.

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Why is it India that's leading the way?

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There are many factors contributing

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in making India the surrogacy hub of the world.

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First is the medical technology that the Western world trusts now.

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Second is the cost.

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The third is the guidelines that are favourable.

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The surrogate has no right over the baby

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or no duties towards the baby, so that makes it easier.

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Whereas, in the Western world, most of the places,

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the birth mother is considered as the mother

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and the birth certificate will have her name.

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All these put together makes India a very favourable destination

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for doing surrogacy.

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And the poverty?

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The poverty part,

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I would say that there are so many needy females in India.

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The food, shelter, clothing, and medicine - healthcare -

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is not free for all in India.

0:31:310:31:33

People have to fend for themselves.

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Like most surrogate babies born at Dr Patel's clinic,

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Sam and Jana's son has spent his first days

0:31:460:31:49

under watch on a neonatal ward.

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It's so busy. Everybody wants to see the babies.

0:31:530:31:58

There's about probably 10, 15 babies in there.

0:31:580:32:03

They don't allow more people in the room.

0:32:030:32:05

It seems to be a bit like an assembly line in here.

0:32:050:32:08

Ours was the last baby, now it's the second last,

0:32:080:32:11

now it's the third last in that row.

0:32:110:32:13

The baby will be here on Monday released from the hospital.

0:32:130:32:16

We are paying today the last bills.

0:32:160:32:18

So the baby on Monday,

0:32:180:32:22

-the baby will be all our baby.

-That's right.

0:32:220:32:24

Even after Sam and Jana have collected their child,

0:32:240:32:27

it will be some time

0:32:270:32:29

before they are able to return with him to Australia.

0:32:290:32:32

We are waiting now for birth certificate.

0:32:320:32:35

It will be done Tuesday.

0:32:350:32:37

We have to ask for ten birth certificates, believe it or not.

0:32:370:32:40

It's got to do the entire life.

0:32:400:32:41

-Everyone seems to be...

-A little bit surprised about it.

0:32:410:32:45

But, fair enough too, because you wouldn't want to have to try to get

0:32:450:32:49

another copy at some point in the future. Better to ask for more.

0:32:490:32:53

Shoes!

0:32:530:32:55

I went first yesterday.

0:32:550:32:57

You can go first today.

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This is the most happy I've seen her for a long time.

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Ah, she's saying she thinks he's going to have dimples,

0:33:130:33:16

which wouldn't surprise, yeah.

0:33:160:33:21

I don't know. She looks so natural,

0:33:250:33:27

I think she might make the nanny redundant very quickly.

0:33:270:33:30

It is said that any human being is born with two basic instincts.

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One to survive and one to reproduce.

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Here, when we do surrogacy, we have a couple who want to procreate,

0:34:030:34:07

so the surrogate comes into picture who wants to survive

0:34:070:34:12

and here, by doing surrogacy, she gets the financial help

0:34:120:34:16

and her instinct to survive is fulfilled.

0:34:160:34:20

By denying surrogacy,

0:34:200:34:21

we are basically depriving these people of their basic instincts

0:34:210:34:26

rather than helping them go ahead

0:34:260:34:28

with their dream of living a good life

0:34:280:34:31

and their dream of having a child.

0:34:310:34:33

Each fortnight, Dr Patel visits the surrogate house

0:34:350:34:38

to check on the women's progress and hear of any concerns.

0:34:380:34:42

The surrogate mothers are paid in a strict system of instalments.

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At six months pregnant, Vasanti has now received two payments of 600.

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The surrogate get on an average 8,000 US dollars.

0:36:260:36:31

If it is twins, 10,000 US dollars.

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If she aborts within three months, she gets the 600 US dollars.

0:36:350:36:39

If it's more than three months, then it's 1,200.

0:36:410:36:47

After six months, whatever happens,

0:36:470:36:49

whether the baby survives or whatever,

0:36:490:36:51

the surrogate gets the full payment of 8,000 US dollars.

0:36:510:36:55

What happens if there's abnormalities?

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Look, even if it's handicapped, the contract says that the couple

0:37:040:37:08

has to accept the baby. The surrogate has no duty towards the baby,

0:37:080:37:12

so the couple will have to accept the baby, even if it is handicapped.

0:37:120:37:16

But now, with the technology, most of the malformations can be picked up.

0:37:160:37:21

Though some can be a surprise.

0:37:210:37:23

Once we had a baby with multiple malformations

0:37:230:37:25

which was detected around 18 weeks, and the baby was terminated.

0:37:250:37:30

As well as being in charge of all things medical and financial

0:37:330:37:36

at the clinic, Dr Patel also likes to influence how the surrogates

0:37:360:37:41

spend their fees after they've been paid.

0:37:410:37:45

Mina. Mina does not have a bank account.

0:37:450:37:49

So she has come today.

0:37:490:37:51

I will be signing this paper

0:37:510:37:52

so that she can open an account across.

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So these are the typical pictures of the surrogates,

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how they are using their money, we've got files of them,

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whether they have done a fixed deposit

0:38:040:38:06

or whether they have bought a house of their own.

0:38:060:38:12

And why do you do that?

0:38:120:38:13

So that we want to see that they are being educated in the right way

0:38:130:38:16

and they utilise this hard-earned money in the right way.

0:38:160:38:20

Because they do not understand the value of the money.

0:38:200:38:24

This money should be put to the right use.

0:38:240:38:27

Some people might think they should be able to do what they want

0:38:270:38:31

with their money. So why are you doing that?

0:38:310:38:33

Yes. They are doing what they want with the money,

0:38:330:38:35

but once the money is there

0:38:350:38:37

and there will be someone who would ask for a loan

0:38:370:38:40

or they will use the money in the wrong way.

0:38:400:38:43

That is what we do not want.

0:38:430:38:44

Oh, pretty colours.

0:39:090:39:12

Barbara and her newborn son Ceron

0:39:120:39:14

have now spent three months living in their hotel.

0:39:140:39:18

Ooh, we love the colours in India!

0:39:180:39:21

They've started to become familiar faces around the town.

0:39:210:39:25

Oh! What could you show us today in some little boys' clothes?

0:39:260:39:31

We need light clothes for India.

0:39:310:39:34

Do you have any others that are really, really cute

0:39:360:39:40

like the elephant and the zipper one that I got last time?

0:39:400:39:44

I think couples that come here have longed for children for so long,

0:39:490:39:54

when we get these little ones in our arms,

0:39:540:39:57

we treasure every single moment.

0:39:570:40:02

We're going to be in the shade in just a second.

0:40:080:40:11

We're going to go look at the pretty flowers.

0:40:110:40:15

Want to smell the flowers?

0:40:150:40:17

Mm-mm-mm!

0:40:170:40:18

There's some little puppies...

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under the slide!

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Num-num-num-num-num.

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Other people might say, well, some people are

0:40:280:40:31

just destined not to have children.

0:40:310:40:35

You know, is it a God-given right to have a child?

0:40:350:40:38

That is...it's such a difficult question to really process.

0:40:410:40:45

When people say, you know,

0:40:460:40:47

if you have all these medical problems

0:40:470:40:50

then you just weren't meant to have a child. Um...

0:40:500:40:53

You know, people are born with problems with their eyes,

0:40:530:40:56

people are born as diabetics.

0:40:560:40:58

And are they not meant to have corrective eyeglasses?

0:40:580:41:02

Are they not meant to have insulin?

0:41:020:41:05

I mean, we all have certain things that we have to bear,

0:41:050:41:09

and ours is infertility.

0:41:090:41:10

So why, since it's a medical issue,

0:41:100:41:12

are we not able to have medically corrective procedures

0:41:120:41:17

that enable us to then lead

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as close to a normal life as possible?

0:41:190:41:21

So...why didn't you adopt?

0:41:230:41:26

After I had my hysterectomy, then we really thought that

0:41:260:41:30

that was the way. But we had so many hoops to jump through

0:41:300:41:33

for domestic and international adoption.

0:41:330:41:36

Home studies to be done by social workers,

0:41:360:41:39

psychiatric reports,

0:41:390:41:41

Interpol, you know, clearance.

0:41:410:41:44

And also you are going to usually get a child much older.

0:41:440:41:50

To be honest, most of those babies are parents of alcoholics,

0:41:500:41:54

drug addicted people

0:41:540:41:57

or any other number of problems.

0:41:570:41:59

So we both decided that we would even remain childless

0:41:590:42:05

before we would choose to have

0:42:050:42:07

a foetal alcohol or a drug addicted child.

0:42:070:42:10

You know, that was not our vision of our family

0:42:100:42:15

and of our child.

0:42:150:42:16

And really we're looking to fulfil the...

0:42:160:42:20

what our dream family was going to be.

0:42:200:42:22

Amy has come to collect her newborn baby son Christopher

0:42:350:42:38

and return home with him to Texas.

0:42:380:42:41

As commercial surrogacy is also legal in parts of the States,

0:42:430:42:47

American clients like Amy

0:42:470:42:48

can return much quicker than other nationalities.

0:42:480:42:52

-Are you ready?

-Yes, I am.

0:42:520:42:55

Have you learned everything? How to give milk, how to make milk.

0:42:550:42:58

-Everything?

-I have already-made milk with me!

0:42:580:43:02

-OK...

-So just a nipple and...

0:43:020:43:03

-OK, OK, OK.

-Yes.

0:43:030:43:06

So you can take home.

0:43:060:43:07

For surrogate mum Hanifa,

0:43:090:43:11

it's time to say goodbye to the baby she's carried.

0:43:110:43:14

Hello. It's OK?

0:44:000:44:02

Everything's OK.

0:44:050:44:07

He's so peaceful when he sleeps.

0:44:150:44:16

It's almost like you just want to leave him.

0:44:160:44:19

Only 26 hours on the plane and you'll be home.

0:44:200:44:22

Aw-w!

0:44:240:44:25

Five star French cuisine.

0:44:300:44:32

Yeah, he's sleeping.

0:44:390:44:42

He's got it in his mouth but he's not sucking on it.

0:44:420:44:45

All right, thank you.

0:45:000:45:02

Calm? He's calm? Yes, good.

0:45:110:45:13

OK, here we go.

0:45:140:45:15

-Thank you so much.

-Bye.

-Bye.

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Excuse me.

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Definitely, when you carry a child for nine months, there is a bonding.

0:45:590:46:04

As a mother, I would say that, yes, there is a bonding

0:46:040:46:07

with the baby that you are carrying.

0:46:070:46:08

And there's no denying...

0:46:080:46:10

it's painful.

0:46:100:46:12

I would say that it's not really painful

0:46:120:46:18

for 95% of the surrogates.

0:46:180:46:21

Only, I would say, 5%.

0:46:210:46:22

So far, I have delivered 500 surrogates.

0:46:220:46:24

I would say only two surrogates

0:46:240:46:26

had got a little bit of a psychological problem,

0:46:260:46:30

for 10 to 12 days only,

0:46:300:46:32

where they remembered the baby.

0:46:320:46:34

Home, for Vasanti,

0:47:580:48:00

is one room shared amongst seven.

0:48:000:48:03

With the money from surrogacy,

0:48:470:48:49

they're building themselves a larger home,

0:48:490:48:51

far from the villagers that know and disapprove

0:48:510:48:54

of what Vasanti's done.

0:48:540:48:56

Dr Patel's modern home sits a few miles from the clinic.

0:49:550:49:58

She's had to ensure her house is well protected,

0:50:000:50:03

having received death threats due to her work.

0:50:030:50:06

She lives here with her own family.

0:50:230:50:26

Husband Hitesh helps run the surrogacy business.

0:50:260:50:30

We were introduced in medical college.

0:50:300:50:33

There was a dance programme.

0:50:330:50:35

And she had more experience in dance than us,

0:50:350:50:37

we were all beginners.

0:50:370:50:38

So we were supposed to give a stage show

0:50:380:50:41

and a few of the people, friends, they introduced her to us

0:50:410:50:47

and she was managing this show.

0:50:470:50:50

So that's how I came to meet her.

0:50:500:50:53

MUSIC STARTS

0:50:530:50:56

SHE LAUGHS I danced for my daughter's wedding...

0:51:070:51:11

three years back!

0:51:110:51:12

My plan is to hand over the practice and the clinic

0:51:240:51:27

to my son who is...and his fiancee,

0:51:270:51:31

both of them are planning to do gynaecology

0:51:310:51:34

and they are waiting for their postgraduate admissions.

0:51:340:51:37

A lot of people would be expecting a lot of things out of me

0:51:370:51:41

and there'll definitely be some pressure.

0:51:410:51:43

Let's see if I can withstand that and come through.

0:51:430:51:48

My son, initially, when he was young,

0:51:480:51:50

and there is an article in the newspaper,

0:51:500:51:52

the first thing he will ask,

0:51:520:51:54

"Is it a positive article or a negative article?"

0:51:540:51:57

One of the very famous magazines in India, The Week -

0:51:570:52:00

in 2009, had "25 Most Controversial Indians"

0:52:000:52:06

and I was one of them.

0:52:060:52:07

I mean, the title was

0:52:070:52:09

You May Love Them, You Can Hate Them But You Cannot Ignore Them.

0:52:090:52:12

And that is when...when they read all this,

0:52:120:52:15

they would want to know why you are the controversial person

0:52:150:52:19

and why there is something wrong about it.

0:52:190:52:22

No, no. You have to take it with a pinch of salt.

0:52:220:52:24

You always are going to get some negativity.

0:52:240:52:27

Why is it controversial, in your opinion?

0:52:270:52:31

In my opinion, people may think

0:52:310:52:34

that a couple cannot go that far to have a baby -

0:52:340:52:39

asking somebody to keep the baby in her womb for nine months

0:52:390:52:43

rather than that they should accept childlessness.

0:52:430:52:46

But I initially really debated.

0:52:460:52:48

And I had sleepless nights, also.

0:52:480:52:50

I would get up in the middle of the night.

0:52:500:52:52

It was tough to get going.

0:52:540:52:57

First of all, initially when I started,

0:52:590:53:01

there was no awareness about what is surrogacy, what is IVF, also.

0:53:010:53:05

There was so much of criticism from the medical fraternity.

0:53:060:53:09

People used to shy away from me that, "Oh, she's doing surrogacy."

0:53:100:53:14

Doctors saying that this procedure of surrogacy

0:53:140:53:19

is unethical or immoral or it's exploitation.

0:53:190:53:22

And it bothers you.

0:53:220:53:25

To a certain extent, it hurts you, also.

0:53:250:53:28

And there are so many hypocrites all around

0:53:280:53:31

who would themselves be doing it

0:53:310:53:33

but openly criticising this procedure.

0:53:330:53:35

That hurts you even more.

0:53:350:53:37

'I still want to work for another ten years.

0:53:390:53:42

'And the success stories of each couple and each surrogate

0:53:420:53:46

'keeps me going.'

0:53:460:53:48

Having had blastocysts placed inside her two weeks earlier,

0:53:520:53:55

28-year-old Papiya is about to have a pregnancy test.

0:53:550:53:59

If it's positive,

0:54:000:54:02

it will be the second time she's been a surrogate mother.

0:54:020:54:05

INDISTINCT SPEECH

0:54:050:54:08

For hopeful parents,

0:54:230:54:25

the blood test can be the difference between starting a family or not.

0:54:250:54:29

For surrogates like Papiya,

0:54:320:54:34

it can mean her going home today with a small fee of 75

0:54:340:54:39

or in nine months' time with 8,000.

0:54:390:54:42

At Dr Patel's clinic, the surrogates receive regular check-ups,

0:55:240:55:28

the results of which are e-mailed to her clients.

0:55:280:55:31

Dr Patel has now received news on Michael and Veronica's attempt

0:55:330:55:37

at starting a family through surrogacy.

0:55:370:55:40

This is that lovely couple who has gone through a lot,

0:55:400:55:43

tried everything possible.

0:55:430:55:45

A very jolly couple.

0:55:450:55:48

Their attitude was very positive.

0:55:480:55:50

Veronica, when she had come over here,

0:55:500:55:53

she said that she had always dreamt

0:55:530:55:56

that she would be having twins one day.

0:55:560:55:58

For overseas clients,

0:55:580:56:00

the news of whether they're to become a family

0:56:000:56:02

is sent via e-mail.

0:56:020:56:04

The Beta HCG count was high so we were expecting twins.

0:56:040:56:10

And when we are doing her scan and seeing the twins,

0:56:100:56:15

We feel it's so really wonderful that her dream is being fulfilled.

0:56:150:56:22

How does it feel to be the person responsible for that?

0:56:220:56:26

I would say it's not one person, but it's a team which is responsible.

0:56:260:56:30

But it gives a feeling of great joy

0:56:300:56:34

and I would say, most importantly, job satisfaction.

0:56:340:56:38

It's Vasanti's last day in the surrogate house

0:56:430:56:46

before she's moved to the clinic.

0:56:460:56:49

Her children, who believed she was being treated for trapped wind,

0:56:490:56:53

have joined her.

0:56:530:56:54

The clinic is full of other expectant surrogate mothers

0:59:240:59:28

but a free bed is finally found for Vasanti.

0:59:280:59:32

INDISTINCT SPEECH

0:59:320:59:36

Have you ever regretted a case?

0:59:460:59:48

Once in a while, yes, when I feel that...

0:59:520:59:54

Mostly, I am being more...

0:59:540:59:57

..considering about the surrogate.

0:59:581:00:01

Once in a while, I have come across a case where the couple would say

1:00:011:00:04

"We don't even want to look at her."

1:00:041:00:06

Then you feel hurt, that "Why did I do for them?"

1:00:061:00:10

Had I known that they would do like this, I would have never done it.

1:00:101:00:13

Because money does not matter that much to the surrogate

1:00:131:00:16

as the love and the feeling that she gets.

1:00:161:00:18

It's just two sentences, that's all.

1:00:181:00:20

In a town centre hotel,

1:00:251:00:26

Barbara's surrogate, Edan, has been visiting baby Ceron

1:00:261:00:31

twice a day for the last few months.

1:00:311:00:33

It's the second time she's been a surrogate mother

1:00:331:00:36

but never before has she spent so long with the child.

1:00:361:00:39

With Barbara hoping to return home in the next few weeks,

1:01:551:01:58

Edan's time with baby Ceron is running out.

1:01:581:02:02

It's just now, when she starts to process losing him

1:02:031:02:06

that it's difficult.

1:02:061:02:08

And I think in these coming weeks,

1:02:081:02:10

because we're probably only here about another month, um,

1:02:101:02:14

it'll become a little more difficult for Edan. For us both, really.

1:02:141:02:19

And we've already talked a little bit about easing out of the nursing

1:02:211:02:27

and easing out of the time with her

1:02:271:02:29

so that it isn't just suddenly gone,

1:02:291:02:34

in fairness to both her but also obviously the baby.

1:02:341:02:37

At a nearby spa resort, Australian Sam and his wife Jana

1:02:481:02:53

now have the paperwork to return home with their son,

1:02:531:02:56

a process that took 37 days from his birth.

1:02:561:03:00

You live your whole life to have children.

1:03:021:03:05

You live your whole life to have children,

1:03:051:03:08

otherwise it's not complete.

1:03:081:03:09

Good times are going to be ahead and that's for sure.

1:03:091:03:12

Look forward to the baby growing up,

1:03:121:03:14

seeing the little changes every day.

1:03:141:03:17

You want to get back home, you want to start your life.

1:03:171:03:20

You pretty much aren't really starting your life in...

1:03:201:03:24

in blissful surroundings, as nice as it is, in this resort.

1:03:241:03:28

OK, with the squirrels and the nice mango trees,

1:03:281:03:31

the swimming pool behind you...

1:03:311:03:33

Just looking forward to going back

1:03:331:03:36

and just having all the creature comforts back home,

1:03:361:03:40

like the flatscreen TV.

1:03:401:03:43

And it'd be nice to have a thick-cut steak

1:03:431:03:47

which we have back home.

1:03:471:03:49

So, I mean, that's the goal

1:03:491:03:51

of anybody who has a baby born in surrogacy here,

1:03:511:03:53

is to get home.

1:03:531:03:55

We wouldn't come to India, probably, for any other reason.

1:03:551:03:58

Can you see why it's controversial?

1:04:021:04:04

I would feel that what controversial a couple may feel... or society may feel is,

1:04:061:04:11

that the surrogate is being used,

1:04:111:04:13

but I feel that each and every person in this society

1:04:131:04:17

is using one or the other person to go bigger.

1:04:171:04:20

Whether it's a corporate house, whether it's glamour world,

1:04:201:04:23

whether it's politics.

1:04:231:04:26

Nobody is spared.

1:04:261:04:28

It's a cruel world.

1:04:281:04:29

And here, there is nothing like that.

1:04:291:04:32

Yes, the surrogate is giving her uterus,

1:04:321:04:35

or being used by a couple to have a baby.

1:04:351:04:39

But that you do when you employ a maid.

1:04:391:04:41

That you do when you employ a labourer to do your task for building a house, etc.

1:04:411:04:46

In the surrogate house, Papiya is waiting for the result of her blood test

1:04:501:04:54

to see if she has successfully become pregnant.

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If she hasn't, she will have to leave the house today

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with only a 75 fee.

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OK, thank you, madam.

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After four months stuck in India,

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Barbara and baby Ceron's paperwork has been processed.

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Her husband Michel has joined them before they return to Canada.

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I think the first sight I got of him was the back of his head,

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so that wasn't the biggest thrill,

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it was when he turned around and I saw his eyes

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that things began to light up!

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Every time I saw his face on the computer screen,

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I just wanted to be here, of course.

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And be with them.

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We just want to get him home

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and continue along our happy family journey

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and hopefully be adding another brother or sister for Ceron

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if we're blessed again.

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Having used only two of their blastocysts trying for baby Ceron,

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Barbara and Michel have three more frozen in storage at the clinic.

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Before they leave for Canada, Barbara and Michel are meeting

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a prospective surrogate for their potential new baby,

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introduced to them by Dr Patel's husband, Hitesh.

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-OK, Barbara. We are meeting your new surrogate.

-Yes.

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-Her name is Duksha.

-Luksha.

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-Duksha. D, D.

-Nice.

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-Duksha.

-Luksha.

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-D for donkey.

-Blud.

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D for donkey.

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-Where's the D?

-In the beginning!

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-Oh, Duksha! OK.

-Yeah.

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And that's the husband, Sanjay.

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Hi. That's a common name, yeah.

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-And they have two children, as you can see.

-Ha-ha!

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-Two boys.

-Yes.

-One is seven and one is four.

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Ah, OK.

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-No, it's their first time.

-Uh-huh.

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-She has not been a surrogate before.

-OK.

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And how old is she, may we ask?

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-Yeah, I was just coming to that, she's 26 years old.

-Wow!

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-Did you say 20?

-Six.

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26? Wow, and these kids.

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She got married at a young age, very young.

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-But she's young and strong enough.

-Yes.

-I can't see her standing up,

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but I think she's a good enough size

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that if it was twins, she would be...

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There's no problem. She had no problem.

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She delivered the kids at full nine months.

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Do you know what their weights were? His family is big babies.

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So, er, he was seven and a quarter, one month early. So...

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So he would be bigger than these.

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We have medically and psychologically assessed her

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-and she's completely...

-The thing for us, we...

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We did say you're Christian, right?

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They are Christian.

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Edan behind you is my surrogate for this little guy,

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and she's Christian as well and we just felt better with that.

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Oh, you have to talk too, apparently.

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Do you have anything in that head?

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-He wants you to know he would like a sister this time.

-Yes, let's see.

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Right, so you are happy and satisfied with her, Barbara?

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Absolutely, yeah, no problems at all. Yeah, she's good and solid enough to handle.

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-That's good.

-You know, some surrogates are so tiny, so petite.

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And with our structures, we need to make sure...

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It's important that the first meeting vibes are positive.

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-Very good, yeah, they're very positive.

-It's the important thing.

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Nice to meet you.

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Hey, little guy, Good to meet you.

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We'll see you again. Take care. We pray for you, eh?

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We pray for you in the year, and for your wife. OK?

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No, I think they're lovely.

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I can see that.

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-Shall we go?

-Yes, I think so.

-You can follow, you can come with us.

-Come, little man.

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She wants to spend every moment possible with him

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-these last two days.

-I can understand.

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OK, little man. Happy, happy, little boy.

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OK, let's have it. Yeah.

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One more, the end of a 31-year journey.

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I definitely consider myself as a feminist.

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Right from my childhood days, I was brought up in such a way

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that just because you are a female, you cannot do this

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or you can do this, is not existing because my mother herself -

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I'm talking about 40 years back -

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was a very strong feminist.

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And that is what keeps me going

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and that is what I explain to my surrogates,

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that...just don't take any domestic violence,

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or any nonsense from your family.

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You are doing a very good job, and at the end of the day,

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when you come out, you should be the leader of your family.

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In what she feels is part of her feminist mission for the surrogates,

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Dr Patel has introduced various lessons for them inside the house.

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We want them to utilise their time in the best way.

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Learn all this, and once they leave the surrogate house,

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they can get some earning out of this as long as they get this embroidery work.

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They can still be at home, do this work and earn some money.

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So we are training them.

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Same thing with this... training them as a beautician.

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Because there is a good scope, they can work from home.

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Later on, we are planning to start a co-operative within a year,

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wherein we will find clients for them for beauty treatment, etc,

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so that they can get work through us and they get earning through us.

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That is the thing I want in them, to groom them overall.

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Not just give a baby, finish, take your money and go away.

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But change their outlook towards life.

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Make her a more confident female.

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And make her...self sufficient.

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That is what I want to see in a surrogate.

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Having been in labour for a prolonged period,

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Dr Patel has opted to give Vasanti a Caesarean in order to deliver

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the Japanese baby she's been carrying.

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Like most newborns at the clinic,

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the Japanese boy is immediately taken straight to the neonatal hospital,

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where it can be collected once the parents are in India.

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As Dr Patel approaches the tenth anniversary

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of her surrogacy work, she has new plans.

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Despite the criticism, death threats and media attention,

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she wants her project to be bigger than ever before.

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It's a vision that I'm seeing.

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An institute for surrogacy

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where total care of the gestational mother,

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genetic couple and the newborn baby is under one roof.

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The idea is to have a unique clinic

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which could be the first of its kind in the world.

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This is the main building, which is about 85,000 square feet.

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And the building behind that is about 15,000 square feet.

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And that is the utility area.

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These are the engineers.

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That's Mr Yogesh, Mr Prathik.

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All of them are engineers.

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This is quite ambitious. How much does a project like this cost?

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Six million? Six million dollars.

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Look, the whole idea is to create a nest,

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where we'll have the surrogates staying

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in the lower ground floor,

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with various activities which they can pursue.

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Upper ground will be the outpatient department,

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where all the consultancy and the diagnostic department...

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And the gift shop

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and the gallery of the skills of the surrogates,

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whatever we display, will be there.

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And the second floor will be a neonatal care unit.

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Then there will be serviced apartments

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for the couples who come to collect the babies.

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So the idea is, the couple is there, the baby is there

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and the surrogate is also there, everyone under one roof.

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And I am also visualising one step further.

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I want most of my ex-surrogates to be employed

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and have a work opportunity over there,

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because some day I am thinking of a hospital

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of the surrogates, run by the surrogates,

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And I feel that surrogacy is one woman helping another woman.

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And only a woman will understand the feeling of both these females

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who are unable to live a life of their dream.

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-BARBARA:

-Uh, uh, uh, uh.

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We'll need a warm protector when we get...

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It's the final day in India for Barbara, husband Michel

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and baby Ceron.

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Ah, very good.

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This is his actual diaper bag

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but I'm not taking it out en route, Michel.

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We're a little bit pressed for time.

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We've been giving all kinds of things away.

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Our surrogate has gone home with about five bags of things.

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She's got a new iron and a new kettle and...

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Anything that we're...

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you know, that's just too large for us to take back that she can use.

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He is officially...you know, has his own Canada passport here,

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right, as you can see.

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His exit visa reads like a deportation order.

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Yes, here it is.

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"If he does not leave by April 2nd,

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"it's punishable with imprisonment for a period of five years

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"and a fine."

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so I think they really want our son out of India now.

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-Four months is enough!

-THEY LAUGH

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SHE COOS

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Cow, cow, cow, knocking on your nose.

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-SHE LAUGHS

-Mummy being silly?

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It's also time for Edan to say goodbye

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to the baby she held for nine months

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and nursed for four more.

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Thank you for being so patient, little man.

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Mummy's good, good boy.

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I'll take the stroller down, honey.

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Now I just need to run around and do some tips to all the staff.

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Where's the cook?

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Cook is in...room. Staffroom.

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Cook's in the staffroom?

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So, if you can give him one of those for us.

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I gave him 700, so he already has some.

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Can you break up a couple of 500s for me?

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Give me some change.

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And...you did a lot more for me than a lot of the others,

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so you get two. OK?

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Anybody has five 100s? No?

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No?

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OK... Well, I'll have to leave it at seven...

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April 7, so 14, 21.

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Is that right?

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SHE LAUGHS

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Oh, my goodness! Is there any room in there for us?

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Those are the two Skypes, Michel and me.

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Two e-mails.

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Our full address.

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All right.

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All right. Here, let's put this...

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Are you OK? You want to say your final goodbyes, or are you OK?

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BABY CRIES

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Give her a hug. Give Edan a hug.

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Bye-bye.

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Thank you so much.

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It's going to be OK. We'll see you again.

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OK? Love you.

1:23:271:23:30

BABY CRIES Ssh, ssh!

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He's going to be upset. Let's just...

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It's going to be hard for him.

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OK?

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KNOCK AT DOOR

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Three days after Vasanti had a Caesarean,

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she's still in the clinic recovering,

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and, as yet, not seen the baby.

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Do you think it's a shame that they have to do surrogacy?

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-For the couple or for the surrogate?

-The surrogate, financially.

1:26:401:26:43

No, I don't think it's a shame.

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It's a very special woman who can become a surrogate.

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It's not for all.

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And it's not easy to become a surrogate.

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And I repeat, it takes a very, very special woman to become a surrogate.

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So she should never be ashamed of it.

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But instead, she should come out in the open and say proudly,

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"Yes, I have been a surrogate,

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"and I have changed the life of this couple."

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OK. Done.

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