Larry Lamb Who Do You Think You Are?


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Lawrence Larry Lamb was born in Edmonton, North London in 1947.

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After a very long varied career,

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he became known to millions at the age of 60

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for his roles in EastEnders and Gavin and Stacey.

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Hiya!

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God, not this again, you two.

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He is struggling, Nick, to come to terms with the loss of Gavin.

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Gavin's not dead, Pam.

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Three days running I've come home to this. Tears at the table.

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I had no inkling that I would become an actor.

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Me dad and mum had a fish and chip shop

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so it just wasn't, it wasn't part of the set up.

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There's a real wanderlust in me.

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It's like, what's on the other side of that next hill?

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My mum's got this real move-on gypsy sort of thing in her

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and I certainly have,

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I mean, I can set up camp and be there for a while

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and I can, over the years lived in,

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I don't know, dozens and dozens and dozens of places.

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Larry has a son, George, from his third marriage

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and two young daughters with his partner.

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Now Larry wants to solve a family mystery on his maternal line.

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I've always been intrigued about what my real background is

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due to the fact that my mother was adopted.

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And so there were people that I knew as my mother's parents,

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I realised later in life, were not.

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Knowing that a whole side of me is a bit of a mystery,

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it fascinates me, frankly.

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Larry now has the chance to shed light on this unknown family history,

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as his mother has finally accessed documents relating to her adoption.

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This is the perfect time.

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Seize the opportunity and really go for it. Find out what I am.

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Larry was well into adulthood when he discovered his mother was adopted.

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The people that raised my mum were Fred and Nell White,

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a childless couple who met just after the First World War and married

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and then my mum came along.

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I believe they fostered her and eventually,

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from what I know, that led to them becoming her adoptive parents.

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For everything that I gathered, she'd had a wonderful life with them as her parents.

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I certainly didn't realise they were anything but her real mum and dad when I was a kid

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and so they were, as far as I was concerned, my grandparents.

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They certainly fulfilled that role

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and so I feel no different about them at all,

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I'm just inquisitive to find out about who the real ones were.

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Larry's on his way to see his mother, Jessie.

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After a lifetime in London, she now lives in Eastbourne on the south coast.

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Hello!

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Larry's younger sister, Penny, is visiting too.

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-What are you doing here, eh?

-Oh!

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Hah, hah, hah!

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What you laughing at, eh? What are you laughing at?

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-How are you?

-All right, thank you.

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You're looking grand, Ma, eh?

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You look lovely.

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Jessie is now 84.

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Although she was adopted as a baby

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Jessie remembers a visit from her real mother when she was a very small child.

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-I remember her in a wrap-round overall she had on.

-Really?

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But I don't remember her at all, not her face.

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-Just an image?

-Yeah.

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But I've got this little silver bracelet from her.

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Look at that.

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I remember her saying that was their parting gift to you.

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-So you've had this all these years, yeah?

-Yes.

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Good Lord.

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Despite this contact, Jessie's adoption was never discussed.

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For decades she didn't even know her birth parents' names,

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and there was no official way to find out.

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Jessie was born in 1926,

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the year the first ever Adoption Act was introduced in the UK.

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The Act formulised the adoption process

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but it also ushered in unintended decades of secrecy.

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Adopted children like Jessie had no right to information about their birth parents

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and could not access their birth certificates or their adoption files.

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As a result of later changes in the law,

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Jessie recently discovered her parent's names.

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Albert Day and Catherine Walker Burns Rose.

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Now an adoption support agency has just helped Jessie access

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all the remaining documents

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connected to her legal adoption in 1930.

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"The child is the legitimate daughter of Albert and Catherine Walker Burns Day."

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So you were legitimate?

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Yes, I was.

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You were.

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I didn't even think they were married but they were.

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This is the marriage certificate, they married in 1925.

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On the 17th August 1925,

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-that was five months before you were born.

-Yeah.

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-And she was only 17.

-Yeah.

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Oh, dear oh, dear.

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"It appears the parents were living apart

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"shortly after the child's birth."

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So they made you legitimate by getting married and then split up.

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Hmm.

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"The address of the father was not known

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"and when the child was three months old,

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"she was living with the mother at 100 Camden Road."

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Is that it, Camden Road?

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Yeah.

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Catherine was originally from Scotland

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and so was away from her family when she found herself alone with baby Jessie.

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That must've been so hard. 17 and a baby.

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Yeah, it must've been.

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When Jessie was three months old,

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Catherine placed her with a foster mother.

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"To whom ten shillings a week was paid by the mother."

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It's not like today then where the State would pay for that.

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She was actually paying a lot of money to have Mum looked after.

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"After 11 months, she could no longer pay the ten shillings maintenance

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"and intended to have the child adopted."

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But I've got to show you this one piece, Larry.

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What's that?

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There's this little note. With Catherine's signature.

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Oh, God. "The Infant Welfare Centre, 5th of the 1st '27.

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"I hereby agree to give up all claim to Jessie Dorothy Day,

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"and to have her adopted by Mrs White."

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And it's signed Mrs Catherine Day.

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I just find it so sad that someone must've told her what to put there.

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Yeah.

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The mother's only made one visit to the applicant and child,

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on the 27th of the 1st 1928.

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So she came to visit you on your second birthday

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after giving you up, just short of your first birthday.

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So she did come back.

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And since then, nothing has been heard of her or the father.

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That was it. She just disappeared.

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Yes, we don't know where.

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Good lord.

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The documents in the file give very little information

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about Jessie's father, Albert Day.

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Do you have any memory at all of him?

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-Nothing.

-Nothing?

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Absolutely no picture of him or anything.

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So, Albert Day remains the phantom.

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Well, we know one thing, don't we?

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We know that he worked on a fairground.

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-Assistant to travelling showman, he was.

-Yeah.

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"Residence at the time of marriage, fairground,

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"corner of Tottenham Court Road and Oxford Street."

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Dear, oh, dear!

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But maybe that's why we're all so restless?

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Maybe we're travellers too?

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So do you ever think about Catherine and Albert?

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Oh, often.

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And wonder?

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And wonder where they are and where they went.

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Yeah, well...

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Let's see if we can find out, eh?

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Yes, that would be wonderful.

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It would, I'd really like to know.

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You'd like to know.

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I'd love to know. We'll do our best though.

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Thank you!

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I feel like I've really sort of got the bit between my teeth now.

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The first thing I want to find out is what on earth happened to Albert Day, God bless him.

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Well, I don't think there's a lot of point in starting looking for a fairground

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at the junction of Tottenham Court Road and Oxford Street!

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And he's a showman. What does that mean?

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Does that mean that he's a carny boy,

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you know, a traveller that works on the fairground?

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It's just the weirdest thing.

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Larry's hoping he can find out more about his grandfather,

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Albert Day, by investigating the world of travelling showmen.

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He's come to the Black Country Living Museum in the Midlands,

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home to a traditional fair, to meet fairground historian, Guy Belshaw.

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-Morning.

-Morning.

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-It's Guy, yeah?

-Larry.

-Nice to meet you.

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Pleased to meet you. Welcome to the fairground.

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Hey, thank you.

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What do you think of it?

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Yeah, yeah, look at it. It reminds me of fairgrounds when I was a boy.

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Absolutely! Hah!

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Now, Guy, I'm given to believe that you're the man

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who might be able to help me in my quest.

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This is a copy of a marriage between Albert Day,

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who is in actual fact my grandfather.

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And at the time of the marriage, Albert Day, my grandfather,

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was an assistant to a travelling showman

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and Albert Day was the son of another Albert Day, who was a showman...

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Now that's quite interesting there

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because the name Day was very well known in the fairground business

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from the late 19th century and early part of the 20th century.

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-Was it?

-Very well known.

-Ah.

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And this could link you to that well-known family.

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And what about the classification of showman, does that imply anything?

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It does, it means that Albert Day, your grandfather

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was in the higher echelons of the business

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because they owned own equipments and were showmen in their own right.

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-So he was at the top end of the business if you like.

-Right.

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The early decades of the 20th century were a golden age of the fairgrounds,

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and the Days were one of the best known fairground families.

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Mechanical rides were an exciting new invention,

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made possible by steam and electricity.

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And visitors would flock to fairs in their hundreds of thousands.

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Fairs would visit most towns and cities just once a year,

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so their arrival was a cause for celebration and a holiday atmosphere.

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Though reputable enough for families to visit together,

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the fairs were also a chance to let loose

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and find release from the daily grind.

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So Guy, my long lost granddad, Albert Day,

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as a assistant to a travelling showman, you know,

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what would that involve?

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-Pretty hard graft really, Larry.

-Really?

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They probably pulled down on a Sunday,

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-pack it up Monday, move Tuesday and Wednesday.

-Yeah.

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If you look at the thing behind us, imagine shifting the mounts on that

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and you've got a kid on each end lifting those.

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-So it would've been a very hard life.

-Ah-ha.

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While visitors came to fairs for respite from the everyday,

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for showmen, they were a way of life.

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Showmen like the Days were not gypsies or travellers

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but they did live on the road.

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Through spring and summer they worked long hours, in all weathers,

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moving their rides and stalls every few days,

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travelling the country from fair to fair.

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Families all travelled together.

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As they did not belong to settled communities

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traditional schooling was difficult.

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Their nomadic lifestyle created a world apart,

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where show families had their own culture and language.

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This was the close-knit community Albert Day would have grown up in.

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So, Albert Day married Catherine Rose in August 1925

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and then sort of pretty much disappears from my story

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and I understand you might be able to tell me something about what happened to him afterwards.

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Well, unfortunately we haven't had a lot of luck in tracing Albert after that,

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because working on a fairground it was difficult to trace people,

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they moved around, but I had more luck in going back in time.

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So I've got something to show you here. This is a birth certificate.

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Good Lord! "13th April 1897, the fairground at Ellison's Tenement, Accrington,

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"Albert, boy, father, Albert Day,

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"mother, Elizabeth Day formerly..."

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-What's that?

-Cubbins the name is.

-Cubbins?

-Yeah.

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"And occupation of father.

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"A Menagerie proprietor."

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-Animal, animal show?

-That's right, yes.

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-Good Lord!

-So there we are.

-Wow!

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-So, an unusual profession?

-Yeah, yeah.

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With no information about Albert after Jessie's birth,

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Guy is going to help Larry trace Albert's early years.

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The mention of menageries suggests his family were originally involved

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in the world of fairground shows.

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They're starting with the census from 1901.

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So, 1901 is the first one.

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He would have been about four by then, wouldn't he?

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He would have been around four, yeah.

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So we'll search for the person's name there.

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So this is it and we're looking for the Day family.

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Day, Day, there you go, there's an Albert Day.

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-Four-year-old.

-That's him.

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That's him, so that's, that's Albert your grandfather

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and his birth place is Accrington in Lancashire which we know

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-from the birth certificate.

-That's right.

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So we know this is definitely Albert

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and his father, also Albert, we're searching for.

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-Here you go.

-We can see him there.

-That's him.

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The address is given as Easter Fair, Back Fields and they're living in caravans here.

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-Right.

-So that would tell us that they're travelling people.

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And funnily enough, there's this Elizabeth who was the wife is not listed here.

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Elizabeth, the mother, isn't there.

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She would be normally, would she not?

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She would, but I've checked

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-and sadly Elizabeth died earlier in that year.

-What in 1901?

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In 1901 before the census was taken.

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The death certificate indicates she died of TB at the age of 27.

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So young Albert growing up, only four years old without a mother.

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Wow, I wonder what's happened by 1911, can we check on 1911 which will be the next one?

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-Yeah, so we'll see if we can trace them.

-Right.

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-So here we are, 1911 and here is Albert, your grandfather.

-Aged 15.

-Aged 15.

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-The head of the family now is James Day.

-And Rebecca, his wife.

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-Albert's the only one who's not...

-A son or a daughter.

-A son or a daughter and he's a nephew.

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-So he's now with his uncle's family?

-He's now travelling with his uncle

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and he's 15, so he's obviously a working man by this time.

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So he'd be employed, I guess, by James Day.

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James Day, we can see here this is 1911, he's down here as a showman stallholder.

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-In previous years he was a very famous menagerie proprietor...

-Hah.

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One of half a dozen travelling the country, but Day was very well known

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for that kind of entertainment.

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Jimmy Day, travelling showman. Hmm.

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I thought I was the first one.

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-No, there were entertainers in your family generations before.

-Yeah.

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And the whole thing and my mum and me being people,

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my sister, my brother can up sticks and move at the drop of a hat, huh.

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Just this whole thing of finding out that one is another in the line of travelling people,

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people that entertain, people that move around,

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transient, picking up people along the way,

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and, you know, from what I gather, going back several generations

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and, you know, that's part of me.

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I'm beginning to feel, this is where I stand in the line of things.

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I don't think I ever felt I would feel that way.

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The records show that by 1911, Larry's grandfather Albert,

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son of his great grandfather Albert,

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was living with his uncle, James Jimmy Day.

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Both Albert's father and Uncle Jimmy were menagerie proprietors.

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Larry wants to know more about the world his grandfather was born into,

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the old world of the exotic travelling shows.

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He's come to the National Fairground Archive at Sheffield University.

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Larry is meeting the head of the archive, Professor Vanessa Toulmin.

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-Good morning.

-Morning, welcome to National Fairground Archive.

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-Good morning, Professor.

-Professor, yes, Vanessa.

-Professor Vanessa, fantastic!

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-I've had many jokes about that.

-I was going to say, you should try being Larry Lamb.

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Do you want to know something about your family?

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I'd like to know as much as possible about the Day family.

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-A very famous show family, let me show you some material.

-Wonderful.

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So it's quite easy,

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we just do a search

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and let's see what comes up.

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And there it is, Day's Menagerie.

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-So this is the front of the show, yeah?

-Quite amazing, isn't it?

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-Good lord, so when would this have been?

-1890s, about 1895, this one.

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-Really?

-That's just what we call the top flash.

-Top flash, yeah?

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The showmen say, it's not the show that brings the dough, it's the flash that brings the cash.

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-I love it.

-This would have cost a fortune.

-Yeah.

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All hand carved, hand painted and these incredible tableaus telling you...

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-What you're going to see, yeah.

-It's slightly over dramatic but...

-Yeah.

-..that's the showman.

-Yeah.

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-Then you can see just over there, Day's Menagerie.

-Day's Menagerie.

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Would this have been enclosed in a tent behind where the show was, or was it open air?

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It was all inside. I can show you what the inside of a menagerie is.

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-Let's go round the table and have a look.

-Fantastic. Thank you.

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OK, Larry, you've seen the outside, that's what you'd see inside.

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A travelling menagerie were known on the fairground as the beast shows, the wild beast show.

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The show is made up of all the different cages with different animals,

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the hyenas or camels or monkeys.

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Amazing, so they'd walk around and see into the different cages?

0:20:190:20:23

Yeah, and then they'll be a performance in the middle in one of the cages.

0:20:230:20:27

Oh, there will, yeah?

0:20:270:20:28

This is great, of the menagerie on the road, but you look at the train,

0:20:280:20:32

-look how massive that is?

-Yeah.

0:20:320:20:34

They would have gone from town to town and done this fantastic parade

0:20:340:20:38

of all the animals, a bit like a circus parade.

0:20:380:20:40

-People must have been just absolutely mystified to see this lot turn up.

-Oh, yeah.

0:20:400:20:46

And the travelling shows were the first time that anybody

0:20:460:20:49

-in Buxton, Nottingham, Oxford would have seen a wild animal.

-Right.

0:20:490:20:53

The travelling menagerie was a 19th century phenomenon,

0:20:540:20:58

and the Days were one of half a dozen families travelling the country with their wild animals.

0:20:580:21:02

Menageries had existed for centuries, but had been the preserve of the very rich and royalty.

0:21:040:21:09

The expanding British Empire made it easier to access wild animals

0:21:090:21:13

and enterprising showmen, like the Days,

0:21:130:21:16

saw the possibility of cashing in on the public's love of the exotic.

0:21:160:21:20

Keeping these zoos on the road was an expensive and, at times, dangerous undertaking.

0:21:210:21:26

Elephants could cost several hundred pounds,

0:21:260:21:29

and lions well over £100 each.

0:21:290:21:33

And there was the constant pressure of buying enough horsemeat to feed the wild beasts.

0:21:330:21:37

But the effort and the investment were worth it.

0:21:370:21:41

At the height of the business, menagerie owners could make their fortunes.

0:21:410:21:46

-So, this is the Day family, very, very large family but these are the main ones.

-Yeah.

0:21:480:21:54

That's Albert Day, your great grandfather and those are his brothers and sisters.

0:21:540:21:58

-That's the father of my grandfather, as it were?

-Yeah, Albert's son.

0:21:580:22:03

-Albert was living with his uncle.

-Yeah.

0:22:030:22:05

-James Day, or Jimmy Wild Beast Day.

-Jimmy Wild Beast Day!

0:22:050:22:09

-Here we are.

-That's Jimmy Wild Beast?

-Yes, yeah.

-Cor!

0:22:090:22:13

-Fantastic costume, as you can see.

-Yeah, Mexican bandito.

-Yeah.

0:22:130:22:17

-Mixed up with a cowboy, mixed up with a pirate.

-Yeah.

0:22:170:22:20

-He knows how to strike a pose.

-And then what's really interesting...

-Yeah God.

0:22:200:22:25

..probably the most famous of all the Day brothers,

0:22:250:22:27

who was even more exotic, is this guy, Martini Bartlett,

0:22:270:22:30

and he was known as the Lion King, the King of the lion tamers.

0:22:300:22:35

Martini Bartlett, a lion tamer.

0:22:350:22:37

-It sounds more exotic than Tom Day.

-Of all the things in the world!

0:22:370:22:40

-And this is Martini.

-God, look at him.

-Very handsome.

0:22:400:22:45

So Martini Bartlett would have been my actual granddad's uncle?

0:22:450:22:49

-Yes.

-He's have been a great, great uncle of mine?

-Your great, great uncle.

0:22:490:22:53

-Martini Bartlett!

-And a really, really famous showman,

0:22:530:22:57

a really famous showman.

0:22:570:22:58

And we've got some material, some interviews with him,

0:22:580:23:02

reminiscences of him and his life...

0:23:020:23:05

-Are you OK?

-Yeah, completely overwhelmed.

0:23:050:23:10

-Lion tamer was a real exotic figure.

-Yeah.

0:23:110:23:13

To be related to those people, to be part of that same clan, huh.

0:23:150:23:19

Extraordinary...

0:23:210:23:22

Larry has discovered his ancestors were at the top of their profession.

0:23:270:23:31

This was the extraordinary world that his grandfather, Albert Day, grew up in.

0:23:310:23:37

But he still wants to know what became of Albert, after Jessie's birth.

0:23:370:23:41

With help from the Showmen's Guild,

0:23:420:23:44

he's discovered the Day family are still involved in the fairground business today.

0:23:440:23:48

He's got contact details for a branch of the family in Devizes in Wiltshire.

0:23:480:23:55

Looking for a sign of trailers, caravans.

0:23:570:24:03

It's like looking for a film location as one's done on countless occasions.

0:24:030:24:08

Trailers and caravans.

0:24:100:24:12

Oh, here we go, here's something, here's something.

0:24:130:24:17

A bit of fairground equipment in there.

0:24:170:24:20

-Morning, I'm looking for John Joseph Day.

-And you've found him.

0:24:390:24:43

-That's you is it?

-Yes, that's me.

0:24:430:24:46

-How you getting on?

-Eh, all right, all right, all right.

0:24:460:24:50

-This is John William Day.

-John William, yeah? how you doing?

0:24:500:24:53

-And this is Jason.

-Pleased to meet ya.

-Jason, yeah?

-One of me son's, yeah.

0:24:530:24:58

-So how old are you?

-I'm 73.

0:24:580:25:00

-73, are you?

-I'm one of the youngest of them, there's ten of us, but me grandfather, there was 13.

0:25:000:25:07

-So what was his name, your grandfather?

-Wild Beast Jimmy Day.

-Eh?

-Wild Beast Jimmy Day.

0:25:070:25:12

-He was your granddad, was he, Wild Beast Jimmy, was he?

-And your grandfather?

-Was Albert.

0:25:120:25:16

-Was Albert the younger one. Come in, out the cold, come in.

-Come in out the cold, eh.

0:25:160:25:21

Over a century on from the heyday of the menageries,

0:25:230:25:27

it's harder now for the Days to earn their living from the fairs, and preserve their way of life.

0:25:270:25:32

But like generations of ancestors before them, the family all still live in trailers.

0:25:320:25:38

Look at this lot, eh?

0:25:380:25:40

John Day has a collection of family photos.

0:25:450:25:49

Now, that's one of the famous lions, that was Wallace.

0:25:490:25:52

-That was Wallace, was it?

-One of my grandfather ones.

0:25:520:25:55

Man-eating lion, a man-killing lion.

0:25:550:25:57

-Really, really.

-Supposed to be.

-Yeah.

0:25:570:26:01

That's Joey. My grandfather worked his lions all his life and they'd ride the backs of 'em.

0:26:010:26:05

-Really?

-Yeah, to them they was like dogs to them.

-Yeah, yeah, yeah.

0:26:050:26:10

-That's one of the pets.

-And he's an amazing looking beast, isn't he?

0:26:100:26:14

So I've got something specific I want to ask you now,

0:26:140:26:18

the census of 1911 shows Albert Day,

0:26:180:26:23

who we've established is my grandfather aged 15 in the household of your granddad.

0:26:230:26:29

-Yeah, yeah.

-Jimmy Wild Beast.

0:26:290:26:31

Why was Albert, my granddad, registered down in the household?

0:26:310:26:37

-In the care of them.

-In the care of.

0:26:370:26:38

Well, Albert, your great grandfather ended up in Manchester.

0:26:380:26:42

I don't know what happened, if he went to drink, cos they did like...

0:26:420:26:46

-All of them liked their drink.

-Really?

-He ended up with no show.

0:26:460:26:49

So that's how young Albert come to live with my grandfather.

0:26:490:26:53

-Right, and which is your dad there?

-William Day here, look, see.

-Right.

0:26:530:26:58

-There's William Day, he's 12, look.

-He was 12. Well, two to three years younger than my granddad.

0:26:580:27:04

Him and dad got on well, that's something me oldest brother said.

0:27:040:27:07

There doesn't seem to be anything about him.

0:27:070:27:10

He went in the First World War.

0:27:100:27:12

-He did, did he?

-Yeah, and I'll show you now.

0:27:120:27:15

-He fought in the First World War.

-Here he is!

0:27:150:27:18

-They call that little Albert.

-Little Albert.

0:27:180:27:22

-So that is my granddad?

-Yeah.

0:27:220:27:24

-I suppose that's the first time you've seen him?

-Absolutely!

0:27:240:27:28

Huh, my granddad.

0:27:290:27:32

-I will tell you, there he is again, look and there's Uncle Jimmy Day.

-Yeah.

-There's my father, Billy Day.

0:27:320:27:39

-Yeah.

-That is Albert.

-Yeah.

0:27:390:27:42

This looks like they're gathered to have their photograph taken with him...

0:27:420:27:46

Yes, he was like a brother to 'em, not a cousin.

0:27:460:27:48

-Yeah, he's become a brother living with them.

-He was a brother.

0:27:480:27:52

You know my mum knows nothing more of him that just a name on a couple of bits of paper.

0:27:520:27:56

-That's all she's ever known.

-This thing is, father's sister, Aunt Lizzie...

-Yeah.

0:27:560:28:02

Said about 25 years ago before she died, she was telling me about him.

0:28:020:28:07

-Yeah.

-And he was restless.

-Ah-hah.

0:28:070:28:10

He'd been with 'em and disappeared.

0:28:100:28:12

One morning, they got up and he was gone, where he went they don't know.

0:28:120:28:15

-And was that sort of unusual...

-It was unusual.

-..in your community?

0:28:150:28:19

Oh, yes, because if he went with any fair right up and down the country...

0:28:190:28:23

-Yeah, you'd know.

-That would come back to us.

-Yeah, yeah.

0:28:230:28:26

-That would come back to us.

-He must have kept away from...

-From the fairground business side?

0:28:260:28:31

And they all died saying that they never know where he went to.

0:28:310:28:34

-But it was spoken of, his disappearance, yeah?

-Oh, yes.

0:28:340:28:38

That's the interesting thing, because to us he was a disappearing person who never really existed.

0:28:380:28:43

-No, he did have a family.

-To you he was a disappearing person who disappeared.

0:28:430:28:47

-I'm glad your mother's found him.

-Yeah.

0:28:470:28:51

-Did anybody ever tell her anything?

-She never ever knew anything about her father at all.

-Didn't she?

0:28:510:28:57

-By the time all the documentation was put together...

-Yeah.

0:28:570:29:01

-To, to adopt her.

-Yeah.

0:29:010:29:03

He'd been long gone and nobody knew where he was.

0:29:030:29:06

That's unusual with our people, because they'd have took the baby back to the family.

0:29:060:29:11

-They would have.

-When you see...

0:29:110:29:13

-When you see your mother, if they'd have known...

-Yeah.

-She'd have been took in.

0:29:130:29:17

-Yeah, but it seems to me he wouldn't have known at all.

-No.

0:29:170:29:20

-He just disappeared and nobody known what happened with him since.

-Yeah.

0:29:200:29:25

Seeing the picture of the long lost,

0:29:290:29:33

deeply mysterious, enigmatic Albert, Albert Day,

0:29:330:29:40

Little Albert as they called him, is just a little bit strange, you know.

0:29:400:29:44

So all of a sudden, there's a face to this name.

0:29:440:29:47

And strange to think that, er, had Catherine and Albert stayed together,

0:29:470:29:53

that this would have become my mum's life.

0:29:530:29:57

This life would certainly suit her, that's for sure,

0:29:580:30:01

constantly moving on.

0:30:010:30:04

She'll be tickled pink when I tell her about this, absolutely.

0:30:040:30:07

In a way, it's a rounding off of the story.

0:30:100:30:13

And then meeting all these extraordinary people,

0:30:130:30:15

finding out about this element of my life that I had no idea of.

0:30:150:30:20

This travelling instinct, for sure, this element of the showman,

0:30:210:30:25

that's the answer to a lot of questions for me.

0:30:250:30:28

I just love it,

0:30:280:30:30

it's wonderful.

0:30:300:30:32

Despite everything he's discovered,

0:30:350:30:37

Larry still doesn't know what became of his grandfather Albert Day.

0:30:370:30:42

It appears there are no further records relating to him after 1926,

0:30:420:30:47

when Albert was named on Jessie's birth certificate.

0:30:470:30:51

Back home in London,

0:30:550:30:56

Larry now wants to turn his attention to his mother's birth mother, Catherine Walker Burns Rose.

0:30:560:31:02

My mum has always had this

0:31:020:31:05

sort of image of this female character in her mind.

0:31:050:31:10

Now, whether that's just been generated over the years,

0:31:100:31:13

I don't know, but she seems pretty certain

0:31:130:31:17

that she remembers this person who was her mother.

0:31:170:31:21

And that sense, that feeling, is really important to her.

0:31:210:31:27

I mean, she's always nursed this, you know, increasingly impossible dream

0:31:270:31:32

of seeing her mum and she, you know, she's 84.

0:31:320:31:37

According to the file, Catherine visited and saw my mum

0:31:380:31:43

on her second birthday, but that's it, she's disappeared.

0:31:430:31:48

So, what happened to Catherine Day?

0:31:490:31:52

To start his search, Larry's checking the marriage index

0:31:550:31:58

to see if Catherine married again after separating from Albert Day.

0:31:580:32:02

Walker...

0:32:030:32:05

Burns...

0:32:060:32:08

Change the Day and put Rose in there.

0:32:080:32:12

Search.

0:32:140:32:16

Well, this could... This says there's a Catherine B Rose which may or may not be her,

0:32:170:32:22

but there doesn't seem to be anybody else with that name or similar,

0:32:220:32:27

marrying somebody called Rosen.

0:32:270:32:30

December 1932 in Hampstead.

0:32:300:32:34

She's dropped the Day but that's it, doesn't tell me any more.

0:32:340:32:38

To find out more about this marriage Larry needs the full certificate.

0:32:430:32:48

He's ordered a copy from Camden Town Hall in Central London.

0:32:480:32:52

Um, I've come to get a marriage certificate

0:32:520:32:54

and the surnames are Rose and Rosen.

0:32:540:32:57

-OK. There you are, sir.

-Thank you.

0:32:570:33:00

If you want go in there and just check it through,

0:33:000:33:03

-you're more than welcome to do that.

-Thank you, thank you.

0:33:030:33:06

Wow,

0:33:090:33:11

31st December 1932,

0:33:110:33:15

Catherine Burns Rose - 24 years,

0:33:150:33:19

and her father's name John Rose - deceased. That's her.

0:33:190:33:23

Louis Rosen, rank or profession - hairdresser.

0:33:230:33:27

Wow, and she's described as a spinster, interesting.

0:33:270:33:33

I think I'm going to ask the lady here, I think she'll be very helpful. Excuse me?

0:33:330:33:39

-Um, do you think you could just, um, have a look at this with me...

-Sure.

0:33:390:33:43

..and check something out.

0:33:430:33:44

I've got a...

0:33:450:33:47

I've got a copy of...

0:33:500:33:52

Catherine Burns Rose, my grandmother.

0:33:540:33:58

-That's a copy of her wedding certificate to the guy who was my grandfather.

-OK.

0:33:580:34:02

-And she's down as a spinster.

-Right.

0:34:020:34:04

-Married to Rosen.

-So this marriage was in 1925, that marriage was in 1932 so that's seven years.

-Yeah.

0:34:040:34:10

-After seven years, if she had no contact with this Mr Day...

-Yeah.

0:34:100:34:14

-..she could, um, she could have him presumed dead.

-Really?

0:34:140:34:17

If she'd have gone down the legal channel and said, "I married this man in 1925,

0:34:170:34:22

"I haven't seen him for seven years.

0:34:220:34:23

-"I haven't heard from him, nobody's seen him."

-Yeah.

-He then can be presumed dead.

-Right.

-OK.

-Right.

0:34:230:34:29

-She would have gone down as a widow.

-Right.

0:34:290:34:32

-Technically, she's committing perjury.

-Yeah, because she's...

0:34:320:34:36

-This is supposed to be sworn as true, right?

-That's correct, yes.

0:34:360:34:39

Maybe she thought after seven years, you know, "I haven't seen him, haven't heard from him, you know,

0:34:390:34:45

-"I'll just declare myself as a spinster."

-Yeah.

-And, you know.

-Take the risk?

-Yes.

0:34:450:34:50

Right, what's the next step if I want to find out about them?

0:34:500:34:54

-Going by his name, he could be Jewish.

-Rosen.

-Yeah.

0:34:540:34:57

His father's name's Isaac Rosen.

0:34:570:35:00

Yeah, so there are Jewish records that you could perhaps, um, research.

0:35:000:35:05

Hm, wow, thank you.

0:35:050:35:08

Here, in 1932..

0:35:090:35:12

..my mum would have been approaching her seventh birthday,

0:35:130:35:20

just short of her seventh birthday, six and eleven months.

0:35:200:35:25

And not too very far away,

0:35:250:35:30

her mum is beginning a new life.

0:35:300:35:33

A completely new life.

0:35:350:35:37

To discover if there are any Jewish records relating to Catherine,

0:35:410:35:45

Larry is on his way to meet genealogist, Lawrence Harris.

0:35:450:35:49

He's asked to meet me at the Walford Road Synagogue

0:35:500:35:56

in Stoke Newington.

0:35:560:35:58

Interesting.

0:35:580:35:59

Well, there we go.

0:36:030:36:05

Right on the corner.

0:36:050:36:07

Walford Road Synagogue, Shaare Mazal Tov.

0:36:080:36:13

-Larry, welcome.

-Lawrence.

-Welcome to Walford Road Synagogue.

-Thank you.

0:36:240:36:28

-Would you like to pop a skullcap on?

-I would, I'd love to.

-That's great.

-Thank you, thank you.

0:36:280:36:33

-You've never been here before, I guess?

-I've never been here, I've been to Walford before,

0:36:330:36:38

-but not Walford Road!

-This is an amazing building.

0:36:380:36:41

Wow.

0:36:440:36:46

I'm just wondering why you chose here to meet.

0:36:460:36:50

I have to tell you that your grandmother Catherine

0:36:500:36:52

was actually married here in 1938.

0:36:520:36:55

Oh, was she, in 1938?

0:36:570:36:59

1938. Now you know she was married in a registry office.

0:36:590:37:02

-Six years after the registry office wedding, yeah.

-Yeah.

0:37:020:37:08

1938, my grandmother was married here.

0:37:080:37:13

Would she have been allowed to marry in the synagogue as a, I assume, a gentile?

0:37:200:37:24

The simple answer is no, she would have actually had to have converted.

0:37:240:37:28

-To have married here, she would actually had to have converted to Orthodox Judaism.

-Right.

0:37:280:37:33

-In fact I've got some documents I'd like to show you that actually describe that process.

-Thank you.

0:37:330:37:38

This is the first one.

0:37:400:37:42

Certificates of proselytisation.

0:37:420:37:45

Right, CW Rose,

0:37:450:37:48

now Rosen.

0:37:480:37:50

Oh, date of application is October 1933

0:37:500:37:53

and the date of reception 1938, so it's five years.

0:37:530:37:57

-She took five years to convert.

-Right.

0:37:570:37:59

They didn't make it easy for somebody to convert.

0:37:590:38:02

-Yeah, she was obviously committed, wasn't she?

-Yeah.

0:38:020:38:05

And this is the declaration she made.

0:38:050:38:08

"I, the undersigned, Catherine Walker Rosen, nee Rose,

0:38:080:38:14

"declare that I have accepted the Jewish Faith of my own free will,

0:38:140:38:18

"and solemnly undertake to lead the life of a true Jewess."

0:38:180:38:24

There we are.

0:38:240:38:25

So by this time May, May 26th 1938, she's 30 years of age.

0:38:250:38:32

-Yeah.

-That's when she's been accepted in, right.

0:38:320:38:35

-So I have a Jewish grandmother because she converted.

-Yeah.

0:38:350:38:39

Well, well, well, well, well.

0:38:460:38:48

On the day of the marriage, it's likely that this ark would have been open.

0:38:480:38:53

-These are the ark scrolls.

-Wow.

0:39:000:39:03

And there would have been a number of blessings,

0:39:030:39:06

they would have drunk wine from a glass.

0:39:060:39:09

It must have been a really big moment for her, very obviously at this point

0:39:090:39:13

joining the community and joining the family.

0:39:130:39:17

-Yeah, she's been accepted.

-She's been accepted.

0:39:170:39:19

Also, I've got to tell you there was another reason why it was important

0:39:190:39:23

for her to officially marry in 1938.

0:39:230:39:27

At the time of her marriage, she was actually four months pregnant.

0:39:270:39:32

And I've got a little document.

0:39:340:39:37

9th September 1938 at Willesden Maternity Hospital,

0:39:370:39:42

John Michael - a boy, name and surname of father - Louis Rosen,

0:39:440:39:51

and there she is Catherine Burns Rosen formerly Rose. Hah!

0:39:510:39:56

-So my mum at that moment in time had a half-brother.

-A half-brother.

0:39:560:40:01

A half-brother John.

0:40:010:40:04

And I, another uncle, hah!

0:40:040:40:10

Larry now knows that in 1938, when his mother Jessie was 12 years old,

0:40:110:40:17

her mother Catherine had another child, John Rosen.

0:40:170:40:20

At the time, Catherine and her new family were living and running a hairdressing business

0:40:220:40:27

just a few miles away from where Jessie was growing up.

0:40:270:40:30

Only a few hours after leaving the synagogue,

0:40:330:40:36

Larry receives some new information from Lawrence,

0:40:360:40:39

relating to Catherine's life after her conversion.

0:40:390:40:41

OK, and about what year would that be?

0:40:410:40:44

Early '50s, OK, early '50s. OK, and I'll just wait for your text.

0:40:460:40:51

Fantastic. All the best to you, Lawrence. Thank you, bye, bye.

0:40:510:40:58

Well, everything seems to come to a stop around the 1950s,

0:40:580:41:04

and as everything up to then all sort of adds up, the only thing

0:41:040:41:09

that he can think of, is that they maybe emigrated and left Britain.

0:41:090:41:15

He's going to text me a number of a good website to get onto

0:41:150:41:18

for tracking passenger records of people leaving the country

0:41:180:41:21

around the early '50s.

0:41:210:41:23

Supposedly, according to Lawrence, this is easy.

0:41:250:41:29

I'll put Catherine in.

0:41:300:41:31

Rosen.

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Now, year of birth - 1908, port of departure - all ports, I guess.

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Destination - all countries, ba-boom, search.

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Here they are. She went to America, ha!

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Date of departure - 9th February 1953.

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The ship name - United States, there we are.

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I just love it.

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And they've gone to 426 South Hill Street,

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Los Angeles, California.

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Cor, dear, oh dear, oh dear. Dear, oh dear, oh dear.

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I suppose the next thing is to start checking up records in America.

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To follow Catherine's story, Larry must travel to the United States.

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So, here we are, on our way to Heathrow to fly to LA

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to find the whereabouts or something about Catherine Rosen

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and John Michael Rosen.

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I'm excited, but I know just how excited my mum would be to find,

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after all these years, that she had, or has, hopefully, direct family,

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and at times when I've been there, conceivably,

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there were relatives of mine,

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you know, full blood relatives of mine maybe living there.

0:43:040:43:08

Interesting.

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Los Angeles has always attracted immigrants in pursuit of the good life

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and the 1950s was no different.

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When Catherine and her family arrived in the city, LA was a boom town.

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It offered a temperate climate, affordable housing

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and, as the home of the Hollywood film industry,

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a touch of glamour as well.

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The contrast of bomb-damaged post-war London would have been stark.

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At the time, the United States operated a quota system for immigrants,

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that favoured Western Europeans including the British.

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It also helped to have relatives in the country,

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and records show that Louis Rosen already had a nephew in LA.

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To find out how Catherine and her family fared in this new world,

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Larry's come to the Norwalk Library in Los Angeles to meet genealogist, Ted Gostin.

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So Ted,

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I am so hoping you can take me on to another step.

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All right, well, one of the first things I did, was to look to see

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whether Catherine became a citizen here in the United States.

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-And we found that she did become a citizen.

-She did.

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And this is a copy of her naturalisation petition which she filed in 1962...

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-1962, yeah.

-..after she'd been here for about nine years.

0:44:290:44:32

-Yeah.

-But it's got quite a bit of information about her.

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Yeah, Catherine Walker Burns Rosen, from Orange County.

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-Just south of us.

-My personal description is as follows,

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complexion - fair, eyes - brown, and a beauty operator.

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From what I understand of their occupations, probably would have been easy to get a job in LA

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with the entertainment industry going on and things of that sort.

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You know, what I never even thought about that.

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My husband is Louis and I have one child there, John Michael.

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And then there are a couple of witnesses who are attesting

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to the fact that she's been here for the required number of years, that they know her personally.

0:45:060:45:11

Yeah, Millie Levy and Maurice Levy,

0:45:110:45:14

-Well, they're Jewish people as well, by the look of it.

-Yeah.

0:45:140:45:18

I'm sure there was a big Jewish community at that time in Los Angeles, yeah, in the '50s and '60s?

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Absolutely, California was attractive to a lot of people,

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-we had a large Jewish community then, as now.

-And it has now.

-Yeah.

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Well, the next thing we want to do then is find out what happened to them after 1962.

0:45:290:45:34

-Yeah.

-They're here, they're citizens, they're planning to stay.

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In California we have a death index that's state wide,

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and we can take a look

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to see here on the computer whether we can find Catherine or Louis.

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-If they're dead, it will come up?

-It should.

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-Got ya, it should.

-So, we'll see what we can find.

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If there is no death record for Catherine,

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she would now be alive at the age of 102.

0:45:570:46:01

-I'm going to do a quick search for Catherine Rosen.

-Yeah.

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-And we only get one Catherine Rosen.

-Born in '53.

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-Yeah, so that's clearly not her.

-Yeah.

0:46:100:46:12

But let's look for Louis because if we find information about him,

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it might lead us to more information about her.

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-About her, yeah.

-So, we'll look for Louis..

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-..and as you can see, there are quite a few.

-That's him.

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-You can see it by the...

-That's him.

-..by the birth date we have.

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Yeah, 13th April 1907.

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So, it looks like Louis died in 1967, he died relatively young.

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-He did, didn't he?

-He was in his 60s.

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Well, he was 60, wasn't he? He just made 60.

0:46:410:46:43

Yeah, exactly, exactly.

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I ordered a copy of the death certificate which we have here.

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Name of deceased - Louis Gershen Rosen -

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name of present spouse - Kay Rosen.

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-OK, so that's...

-Kay - K-A-Y.

-Her nickname.

-Yeah.

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-So, we should probably check again on the deaths.

-Yeah.

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To see if we can find her as Kay Rosen.

0:47:050:47:07

We'll, er, we'll do the same kind of search

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but we'll look for the name Kay.

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-Kay Rosen.

-No results, no matches.

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So since Louis died in '67, this raises the possibility in my mind

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that maybe she got remarried.

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Now, this would be very late in life to remarry,

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so we'll go over here to the marriage index

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and we'll look for her under her legal name.

0:47:280:47:31

-Yeah.

-Catherine Rosen.

-Yeah.

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We have several Catherine Rosen's who got married in California.

0:47:340:47:37

-Well, that's about right, that's the closest.

-It is, Catherine W Rosen...

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-Yeah, Walker.

-Catherine Walker born about 1909.

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-None of the other dates fit at all.

-No, no.

-She married Sam Levitz.

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-And that marriage took place.

-1971.

0:47:510:47:55

-Right, so a few years after Louis died.

-Sam Levitz.

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So I ordered that certificate so that we could take a look at it

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and you can see right here where it describes the bride.

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Catherine Walker Burns Rosen.

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1908,

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that's it, that's her aged 62, number of this marriage, two, oooh.

0:48:100:48:16

Oooh, another little porky pie!

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-So then what we do is we put that in there.

-Absolutely.

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As Catherine Levitz now, yeah?

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There we go.

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And again we get no result.

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-But from her husband's death certificate, we know that she had a nickname.

-Kay, yeah.

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She had the nickname Kay, so let's try that.

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Look what shows up.

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-Can you read that?

-Kay... Oh, no.

-You can see what we got...

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Kay Rosen Levitz...

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..died on the 20th February 1991,

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Los Angeles.

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That's what will upset my mum, I know that.

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She was still hoping she might find her?

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Well, you know, I guess you do, don't you?

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If you've lived all your life wondering where she went,

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the one thing your doing is hoping you're going to see her.

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She died aged 83 in 1991.

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So I had been here in Los Angeles...

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A really, really interesting time in my life, 1988.

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Three years before my actual grandmother died here.

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-So you were here when she was.

-I was here, yeah.

-Yeah.

0:49:420:49:46

I was, didn't know, didn't know.

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She died on the 20th February 1991.

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Before Larry leaves Los Angeles, he wants to see if he can track down Catherine's son John.

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Using local records, he's found just one John Rosen,

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who could be his uncle, living on the outer reaches of the city.

0:50:260:50:29

He's agreed to meet Larry.

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I'm, er, I'm feeling rather excited, really.

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Here we are in a, unfortunately rather rainy, California,

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which everybody assures me is not the case normally,

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um, about to meet this...

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..long-lost remnant of a long-lost part of my family.

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So, er, yeah, great moment.

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-Hello.

-Larry?

-John.

-Good to meet you.

0:51:180:51:22

-Eh, nice to meet you, nice to meet you.

-Come in.

0:51:220:51:24

-Nice to meet you, hey, what a lovely place.

-Thank you.

0:51:240:51:28

Hey, what a lovely place,

0:51:280:51:29

Let's just give you that old hat down there, I'll take this off.

0:51:290:51:34

-Do you want to sit here?

-Yeah, just here.

0:51:340:51:37

OK, I'll sit down, I'll sit slowly.

0:51:370:51:41

So, um, I don't know how to do this,

0:51:410:51:44

I guess you must be sort of fascinated to know why I'm here.

0:51:440:51:51

-That is mild.

-Yeah.

-Yes.

-An understatement, right?

-Very much so.

0:51:510:51:56

Well, it would appear from everything we've discovered

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that you are my uncle.

0:52:010:52:04

-OK.

-So, so, er.

-Hello, nephew, how are you?

-There you go, there you go.

0:52:060:52:12

Your mum, was the mother of my mum, yeah.

0:52:120:52:17

Your mum had a life before your dad. She's had an extraordinary life,

0:52:170:52:21

I mean, you know the end of it, we know the beginning of it.

0:52:210:52:25

Actually, I know very little of it, she never ever told me anything

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about what happened prior to her marriage.

0:52:280:52:32

-You, you being born, yeah.

-Mm-hmm.

0:52:320:52:34

She married, very briefly, a man called Albert Day.

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It just didn't last but they had a child, the child was my mother.

0:52:400:52:46

-Wow.

-She tried to support the child because he disappeared off the map,

0:52:470:52:52

Albert Day. He's another... I'll tell you about that story, there's another enigma.

0:52:520:52:56

So she decided to have the child adopted

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and seven years later,

0:53:010:53:03

she marries your dad, Louis Rosen.

0:53:030:53:06

-All right.

-And then..

-So how old was she when she had your mum?

0:53:060:53:09

She had my mum when she was 17 years of age.

0:53:090:53:13

Right.

0:53:130:53:15

We'll, I've got something that I think maybe you'd like to see.

0:53:150:53:18

Oh, I'm sure you do.

0:53:180:53:19

Just one thing, if I can find it.

0:53:190:53:24

I think this is the woman that had your mum.

0:53:290:53:32

-That's Catherine as a young girl.

-Probably around 16 or 17 years old.

0:53:350:53:40

Good God.

0:53:410:53:43

Oh, wow, she was a beauty, wasn't she?

0:53:440:53:49

I think so.

0:53:490:53:51

That's where I get my looks from.

0:53:510:53:53

-There you go, you got it, you got it. She's a beauty.

-So...

-Hm.

0:53:530:53:59

-You're my nephew. God, that's funny.

-Yeah, I can imagine.

0:53:590:54:04

This is a picture of my mum and dad in the shop we had here in Glendale.

0:54:050:54:09

-Oh, wow.

-Back in the late '50s.

-Yeah, look at that.

0:54:090:54:12

-What was she like, your mum?

-Made a good home.

-Yeah.

0:54:150:54:19

-Er, I never wanted for anything.

-Yeah.

-Good cook.

-Yeah.

0:54:200:54:25

Very good cook, tenacious, once she started something,

0:54:250:54:29

once she put her mind to it...

0:54:290:54:31

-Yeah.

-..it was going to get done.

0:54:310:54:34

-A very giving person.

-Yeah.

-But, er...

0:54:340:54:38

Well, I'll tell you what, you've just described my mum to a T.

0:54:380:54:43

-Well, I guess she passed something along the way.

-Yeah.

0:54:430:54:48

That's my mum, Jessie, that's the name that your mum gave her.

0:54:480:54:52

-Cor, she's my sister?

-Yeah, there you go.

-That's so exciting.

0:54:520:55:00

-Tell me about it.

-It is SO exciting.

0:55:000:55:03

-I've always been an only child, at 72 I got a...

-So is she, so is she!

0:55:030:55:09

-Not any more.

-And, I'm, er, I'm going to call her.

0:55:090:55:15

-'Hello.'

-Hello.

-'Hello.'

0:55:170:55:19

I'm in California.

0:55:190:55:21

-'In California.'

-Yeah.

0:55:210:55:24

And do you know, I'm sitting next to somebody.

0:55:240:55:28

-'Who is it?'

-Well, you...

0:55:280:55:31

'Yeah.'

0:55:310:55:33

-..have got a brother.

-'I've got a brother?!'

-Yeah.

0:55:330:55:38

'How old is he?'

0:55:380:55:39

-He's a younger brother. Yeah. He's 72 and he...

-'22?'

-72, not 22, Mum, no!

0:55:390:55:47

-72 and his name's John.

-'John.'

0:55:490:55:53

And I'm going to put you on to him because he, like you,

0:55:530:55:57

has spent all his life as an only child...

0:55:570:56:00

'Oh, I say!'

0:56:000:56:02

..and he's the son of your mum.

0:56:020:56:05

And there you are, here he is, your long lost brother John.

0:56:050:56:10

'Oh, my goodness. So you felt just the same as I did?'

0:56:100:56:14

Yes, I did. Jessie, I'm John.

0:56:140:56:17

'Hello and I'm Jessie and I'm so glad to speak to you.'

0:56:170:56:21

This is so exciting.

0:56:210:56:24

'What a surprise.'

0:56:240:56:26

Oh, yeah, I had no idea and I gather you didn't either?

0:56:260:56:30

'No, no idea at all, I never knew where she went, is she still alive?'

0:56:300:56:36

No, we lost her almost 20 years ago.

0:56:360:56:39

'Oh, 20 years. Oh, I say.

0:56:390:56:42

-'So perhaps you've got a photograph you can send me.'

-I'll be happy to.

0:56:420:56:46

'It's so kind of you all to ring, it's really, really lovely.

0:56:460:56:50

'So I've got a brother! It was lovely to speak to you.'

0:56:510:56:56

-My pleasure.

-So there you go, Mum.

-'Oh, it's marvellous, isn't it?'

0:56:560:57:00

Eh, the end of the trail, all right.

0:57:000:57:02

'Yeah, and you can, you can bring me some pictures, can't you?'

0:57:020:57:05

I shall being you some pictures and we're just going to have to fix it up so you get to meet him.

0:57:050:57:10

-'Lovely.'

-All right, darling.

-'Thank you very much.'

0:57:100:57:13

-I'm going to love you and leave you.

-'All right then. Bye, bye.'

-Bye, bye, Jess.

0:57:130:57:17

-He's saying goodbye.

-Goodbye. Bye, bye.

0:57:170:57:20

God, dear, oh dear, oh dear, oh dear.

0:57:220:57:26

My mum's brother.

0:57:260:57:28

-My yiddisher uncle.

-Yeah!

0:57:280:57:31

Well, I said at the beginning

0:57:380:57:40

that half of myself was missing,

0:57:400:57:44

and I guess that really was the quest,

0:57:440:57:47

that's really what I wanted to find out about,

0:57:470:57:50

what the other part of... The other part of me.

0:57:500:57:55

So the gradual discovery of Albert Day and Catherine,

0:57:560:58:01

it's sort of not only fulfilling, but it's sort of strengthening for me.

0:58:010:58:07

Because...

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TEARFULLY: Because you're just a part of the journey yourself.

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Now that I have an understanding of those two other grandparents,

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I feel stronger.

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