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Midwives.

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-They have to be there when they're needed...

-Oh, my baby!

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-..being mother to the mothers...

-Your waters are not gone, are they?

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..support to the fathers...

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-Right, Sam?

-Yeah, fine.

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..and trusted colleagues to each other.

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All dressed, ready to go.

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But in this part of the world, their journey is never easy.

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Oh, 'eck!

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It's full of great ups and difficult downs...

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It's through gates, it's over fences.

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-..of twists and turns...

-The most bizarre place is up a treehouse.

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..of never quite knowing what's round the corner.

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A total bag of emotions.

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-Welcome to the world of safe hands...

-You've got a lovely belly!

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My office is my car, you know?

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-..all seeing eyes...

-Absolutely perfect.

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-..and big, big smiles.

-Very au naturale!

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I think a lot of the women are quite strong characters.

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Welcome to the real life drama of the Country Midwives.

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Carmarthenshire is one of Wales' largest counties.

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Here, expectant mums are looked after by a team of midwives,

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travelling and working in these rural communities.

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The county's northern team serve most of the Teifi Valley,

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including the small town of Llanybydder.

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Team leader Sian Maynard normally enjoys driving in this

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beautiful countryside, but the extra call of duty of the last few days

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means that today, she's struggling a bit.

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I was OK last night. The night before, I was on call.

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I ended up getting called in at about 2:30am to help on the ward

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and I finished about 2:00pm yesterday.

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I was a bit tired then and it's hard to get to sleep,

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to know how much to sleep, so you can still sleep in the night.

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So your body clock is round the right way.

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So, yeah, today will be hard going, probably,

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to keep awake.

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Her first call today is on Meinir Thomas

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and her two-week-old son Tomos.

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-Nice to be home?

-Yes, lovely.

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Some three-quarters of women in Wales start breastfeeding,

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but within six weeks, the number's down to less than half.

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Meinir has tried, before deciding that the bottle is best for her

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and Tomos bach.

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For the first few days, it was fine,

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but we had two nights that were quite sleepless, so I tried him on

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the bottle and he was more content, so you could get on and do

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something else then instead of feeding all the time, to be honest.

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-You just felt that you were tied.

-When did he have his last feed?

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-About half past nine.

-'I'd seen her on the postnatal ward,

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'I'd helped her with the breastfeeding,'

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so I already had a little bit of an idea when it came today as to

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whether she would be continuing to breastfeed or bottle feed.

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You felt a bit guilty then that you'd gone to the bottle,

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but as far as I'm concerned, the baby's got a better

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quality of life cos at the moment, he just feeds and sleeps.

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Now you're not feeding, hands off the boobs,

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hike them up with your bra now, under your chin!

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Don't keep doing that, you'll keep producing milk!

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You'll be feeding the whole of Llanybydder!

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'You can't make people feel guilty cos it's their choice'

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and at the end of the day,

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Tomos has had almost a week of breast milk,

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he's had all the colostrum, and that's fantastic,

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that's what she wanted to do and she's as happy as Larry there.

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Sian's particularly familiar with Meinir because of her history

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of high blood pressure, which meant she needed extra attention.

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They used to come and visit me at work and everything,

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to check the blood pressure, so it's quite nice to get close to them.

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You feel as if you're getting to know them

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as a friend type of thing, you know? No, it's nice.

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On top of that, a blood test taken around the 17th week of pregnancy

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showed that Meinir's baby carried a high risk of having a birth defect.

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-130/78.

-Oh, my God!

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'We've monitored her closely. She was referred then, she's had'

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an amnio and that amnio showed

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that the baby was fine, and as you can see, Tomos is absolutely lovely.

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Both Tomos' weight and vocal cords confirm his healthy progress.

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TOMOS CRIES

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Now, what could possibly quieten him?

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There we are.

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Instant!

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Duw!

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-I wish teenagers were like that!

-I know!

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Despite the risks they faced, Meinir and Tomos are a success story,

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thanks, in no small part, to the care

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and attention of our community midwives.

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-Take care now. Give us a ring, any problems.

-OK.

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-Ta-ra.

-Bye.

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'It's really nice to have a case like that cos it'

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restores your sort of faith in what the human body can do, really.

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Community midwives are at the front line of maternity care,

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but they're just part of a larger system of care within

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the local health board.

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Meinir's blood samples were analysed in the

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blood sciences department at Glangwili Hospital, Carmarthen.

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Here, a backroom staff of 40 check up to 1,500 blood samples a day.

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Dwynwen Davies' blood would also have been tested in Glangwili.

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She lives near Llanybydder with daughter Delyn Mair.

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Dwynwen is 30 weeks into her pregnancy. She's carrying twins.

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11 weeks pregnant when I found out. Jumping for joy.

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And then to find out that I was pregnant with twins was

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unbelievable and the joy, you know?

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I own a day nursery and work obviously very closely with children

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and I've picked up the parvovirus, which is linked to slapped-cheek.

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Children with slapped-cheek syndrome,

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that shows as a red rash on the face,

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usually recover from the cold-like symptoms in a few days,

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but what's quite harmless for children can be very serious

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indeed for unborn babies.

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At its worst, the virus can make the baby swell up with fluid,

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with the potential of death by drowning.

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At 17 weeks, on the weekly scan,

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they'd seen fluid in one of the babies' bellies.

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After three weeks, the fluid had gone

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and the unborn baby was well again.

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However, a month later, at 24 weeks, the virus struck again.

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They said it had come back with such a vengeance that they didn't

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think that the baby would survive.

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For that month, I felt it was the longest time in my life because

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I knew the baby was deteriorating but there was nothing I could do.

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The baby was in my belly

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and there was nothing I could do to help that baby,

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so in effect, it was waiting for the baby to fill up with fluid,

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drown if you like, and day in day out, there was nothing

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I could do and I was 28 weeks pregnant when her heart stopped.

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It's really hard.

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You feel quite like you've failed, in a way,

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because there was nothing you could do to stop it happening.

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After careful consideration,

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the medical team decided that removing the baby that had died

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was not possible without risking the wellbeing of its remaining twin.

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Dwynwen will have to carry both babies through to the

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pregnancy's full term.

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I'm going down every week to have scans,

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just to check that there's no fluid in the healthy baby.

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But they can't rule out that it won't come back,

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so it's quite an anxious time

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and you don't know at the end of it what will be the outcome.

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The team working in the west of the county serve from

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Carmarthen Town itself to Whitland and the border with Pembrokeshire.

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Caren Thomas has just joined the team in this area.

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For 13 years, she was a hospital midwife,

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but six weeks ago, Caren swapped the familiarity of the ward

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for the diversity and unpredictability of the community.

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It is very different to my hospital work, but it's fantastic,

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especially on a day like today when the sun is shining.

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Out in the community, you've got more time to be with women

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and to listen to their problems and people are pleased to see you

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and it just seems...less stressful, I suppose, in a way.

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Caren's been called to see an expectant mum who is suffering

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from hyperemesis, a morning sickness that doesn't know when to stop.

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She's been actually in hospital twice already to be rehydrated, then.

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Bless her. It's not nice. Not nice at all.

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They really suffer, these girls, with hyperemesis.

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It's horrible.

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Mary Pascal has the unfortunate experience of being amongst

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the 1% of women who suffer from hyperemesis.

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And how is the sickness now today?

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-You were very sick overnight, were you?

-Yeah. Last night, I had 16.

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And then today, six.

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'She vomited 16 times overnight,'

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six times already this morning,

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unable to tolerate any fluids or any food.

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So the oral tablets aren't working as well then.

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Probably cos you're vomiting, you see?

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You're sicking the tablets up then, you know?

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What I was wanting to do was to just test your wee today.

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-Are you able to do me a wee sample.

-Yeah, have you got a pot?

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'She's 13 weeks now,'

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we should be expecting the sickness to ease a bit, but unfortunately,

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some women do get it a lot longer and all the way through their pregnancy.

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Yeah, I can see straightaway that there's quite a lot of ketones

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in this, which is a sign the body's quite dehydrated now.

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I think probably our best bet would be to send you in again, Mary,

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and get some IV fluids into you and get you feeling a bit better again.

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What do you think?

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I think that's all right,

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but I'm more worried about the medication, if it's not working.

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If it's not working. That's something they'll be able to sort out.

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It's tough going for Mary

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-and husband Joseph is naturally concerned.

-It's quite worrying.

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They tell me the baby's going to be OK.

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It's just I'm worried for Mary as well.

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I mean, it's normal to be sick in pregnancy,

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but this is extreme sickness.

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I'm with a patient who is 13 weeks...

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Caren arranges a short hospital stay for Mary.

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Dehydration is not a matter to be treated lightly.

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OK, give me a ring if I can do anything else for you.

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'The best thing for Mary now is to get into hospital and get treated.'

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So no, it's not always rosy.

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But there we are. She'll be better soon.

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Glangwili Hospital in the county town of Carmarthen is

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-the midwives' operating base.

-Hello.

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Women who are diabetic carry a higher level of risk

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to their health when they become pregnant.

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Whilst modern advances have made such risks more manageable,

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modern living is presenting mothers, doctors

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and midwives with new challenges.

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Hannah Roberts, expecting her second child,

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is amongst the growing number being seen by Dr Lisa Forrest,

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who've been diagnosed with gestational diabetes.

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Gestational diabetes is a form of diabetes that tends to be

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diagnosed during pregnancy and often disappears at the end of pregnancy.

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-Still managing to check the blood sugars?

-Yeah.

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'I've never had diabetes or any problems like that, but I did'

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have gestational diabetes when I was pregnant with my daughter.

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There's a lot of hormonal changes during pregnancy

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and you screen women with certain risk factors,

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women who are overweight at the start of pregnancy,

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women who've got family history of diabetes, women who've had a

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previous large baby or have previously had diabetes

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in a pregnancy.

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I have to monitor my blood sugars four times a day.

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So many things contain sugar that you wouldn't even think of.

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I have to avoid white bread,

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I have to be careful what time I eat certain things.

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Gestational diabetes is becoming more common and that's partly

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because of the sort of increasing rise in overweight

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and obesity in sort of young women.

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And it's also because of the increasing maternal age,

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becoming pregnant in their sort of 40s.

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We estimate in Carmarthenshire around about sort of four in ever 100

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pregnancies are complicated by diabetes.

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We'll see you back here either clinic,

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Hannah, in about two weeks' time.

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Unchecked, the condition can cause abnormally big babies,

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leading to a more difficult birth for the mother,

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as well as long-term risks to her health.

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I'm seeing the doctor every two weeks in clinic,

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just to make sure all my blood sugars are OK,

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that I don't have any problems with my tablets.

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And that hopefully the baby's not too big.

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It's a 20 mile journey from Carmarthen to the town of Llanybydder.

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Dwynwen Davies lives nearby.

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She has five weeks to go before the time will be right for her to

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give birth to twins, one alive and one that has died.

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For the sake of the surviving baby, her pregnancy must run its course,

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which means she's having to travel regularly to Cardiff,

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where specialist equipment checks for any sign that the deadly

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parvovirus is back, threatening the healthy baby.

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Hi. How are you?

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From the start, Dwynwen has been under Anwen's care and guidance.

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Giving birth to twins means that two midwives will be there,

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so today, Sian is accompanying Anwen to start to get to know her.

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-This is Sian, our team leader.

-So how... Ooh!

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-LAUGHTER

-Yeah, nearly landed up on the floor!

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The number of stillbirths in Wales is now very low indeed,

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less than one in every 250.

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Part of Anwen and Sian's work here today is to prepare

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Dwynwen in any way they can for what lies ahead.

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Obviously, we can dress the baby, whatever you want us to do,

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or we can leave the baby just as it is for you to look at

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and have some time with.

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It's so nice to have the midwives that you've dealt with

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for the last seven months,

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that they're going to actually be there, that's really nice.

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'Today's been a lovely opportunity to come round to see her.'

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We're just trying to make a few plans as to who is going to

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be with her because it would be really nice for her to have

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a bit of continuity and a little bit of extra support from ourselves,

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seeing as we'll be looking after her afterwards.

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I need to start...

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I know where the baby will be buried and things,

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-but it's just not knowing what undertakers and bits.

-Yeah.

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-We can look into that for you.

-Yes.

-Don't worry about that.

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And little things like if you want something special to

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go in with the baby, a blanket or...

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-I've got them.

-You've got them already. Yeah.

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'Things do happen.

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'We don't always have the happy stories, as midwives, unfortunately.'

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And in a case like this, it's so difficult because it's twins

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and one is alive, one is dead,

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the emotions that she's going through are just horrific.

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You can't begin to imagine what she's going through.

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West of Carmarthen lies the village of Bancyfelin.

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-Midwife Caren is calling on Hannah Roberts.

-Are you all right?

-Yes.

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-Good, thank you. Come on in.

-Thank you. There's me coming in anyway!

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SHE LAUGHS

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As in a growing number of women,

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Hannah's pregnancy has brought on gestational diabetes.

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For the baby's sake and her own,

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she has to be very careful of what she eats.

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-Good. And are you good with your diet?

-I am now.

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Yeah. I wasn't at all.

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It's quite amazing, the difference, you know,

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that you have to go through and you realise actually how much rubbish

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you do put in your mouth when you're not actually thinking about it.

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When you've got to actually think about everything that goes in.

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I'm very good now.

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My carb intake is huge.

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Cake, biscuits, anything, you can grab on the go.

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Amongst other matters, it is the size of the baby and the

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resulting birthing problems that midwives are most concerned with.

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-Can you tell whereabouts...?

-Yeah, I can feel a head down there.

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A big fat bum there.

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'Diabetes is becoming more common now.'

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As midwives, we have to be a bit more on the ball about what it means

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and what it means for them and their pregnancy and that it's more at risk.

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The careful monitoring of Hannah's condition means that all is well.

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-BABY'S HEARTBEAT

-Aw!

-Perfect.

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That's lovely.

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Although she's obviously doing her best to keep to the strict

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dietary guidelines,

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there's something worrying her that she needs to get off her chest.

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Say, I may have had two mouthfuls of cheesecake at work...

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But say for example I did, is it really going to affect things badly?

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Has that happened? Have you had two mouthfuls of cheesecake?

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-Is this a confession? Did somebody bring it in to work?

-Yeah.

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-And do they know you're diabetic?

-They do now.

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LAUGHTER 'That was brilliant though.'

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I didn't know what she was going to come out with when she said,

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"I do have something to ask you." She seemed quite serious. Bless her.

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-You've confessed all now and all is well.

-I feel better.

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I feel cleansed!

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'Mums will tell us everything. You become close friends'

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with lots of your clients

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and they do tell you lost of things then.

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She feels better now that she's confessed to Caren

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the priest/midwife.

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Back at Glangwili Hospital, Carmarthen,

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fluid could be threatening Dwynwen's healthy baby.

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Her pregnancy isn't quite full term,

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but doctors have decided the day of birth and stillbirth has arrived.

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'It's hard because as a human being, my emotions are everywhere as well.'

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It would be easy for me to cry with Dwynwen,

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as to be expected with the situation.

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But I've just got to be strong with Dwynwen,

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try and help her to come through the tears.

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But, yeah...

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It's nice to have a familiar face, you know. That's a lot of help.

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The lost baby will have been dead for over seven weeks now.

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What affect that will have on its appearance no-one can tell.

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I've got the little crib to one side,

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all dressed ready to put the baby in for her.

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And I know Dwynwen has got some little clothes.

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So we will be able to put them on and dress the baby afterwards.

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Dwynwen's been so brave.

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Now it's actually the moment, that's when it really hits you

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and it's good that we're there to support one another as well.

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Dwynwen's Caesarean section is scheduled for 2:00pm.

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Can you get me the registrar...

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Babies, however, have little regard for ward timetables.

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Another mother, visiting the loo starts giving birth.

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-Which means but one thing...

-Fantastic.

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..all hands on deck.

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There we are. Argh!

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All of the hands on deck of course are experienced hands.

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Well used to the "anything can happen-ness" of the maternity ward.

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A lady had to be delivered quite quickly, but everything's fine

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that's just being on the labour ward...it's normal.

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Blinkin' heck, we were just going to have a cup of tea!

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Dwynwen's time has come.

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Her mother is by her side.

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Nevertheless, her walk down to the theatre cannot be anything but lonely.

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Dwynwen is going to be grieving and also...

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Joyful that the other baby is fine and relieved at the same time, so it's...

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It's just...a total bag of emotions, you just don't know what she's going through.

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Not all that far from the town of Carmarthen, Caren's next call takes

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her not to a street or a cul-de-sac, but to the top of a field.

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I'm not sure how er...

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how muddy it's going to be at Michelle's now, because we do have to walk across a field.

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I'll have to put my wellies on.

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It's less than two months since Caren swapped

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the life of a hospital midwife for that of the open road.

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I've seen more of West Wales in the last six weeks

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than I think I have done in my whole life time.

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This is why I haven't got a posh car, you see.

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Because this is what the community is all about, potholes, mud...

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Rough terrain.

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DOGS BARKING

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Eventually, Caren makes it to an alternative community that's

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a far cry from the enclosed maternity ward she worked in for 13 years.

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Hi, Michelle, how are you?

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Michelle gave birth to a little Aria just 15 days ago.

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How much does she weigh now?

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-She is 8.8 now.

-What was she born?

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She was 8.4, but she went down to 8.

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That's right and she's back up to 8.8.

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See, you've got double cream in those boobs. That's excellent feeding.

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So that's your sort of reassurance things are all going well with

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-the feeding. So in yourself, you're feeling OK?

-Yeah.

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It must be wearing you out a little bit? Tired.

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I think we're getting the hang of it now,

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it's just she's not really sleeping through the night very well.

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She looks lovely, she doesn't look unwell or anything, does she?

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So I'm not worried about her.

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A healthy blood pressure means this will be Caren's last call on Michelle.

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It's absolutely normal.

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Looking after her pregnancy has been a central part of Caren's work

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since she hit the community road.

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And as often happens, they've become good friends.

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Do you think it would be all right if I can quickly use your loo?

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Of course, you do have to venture outside.

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-Venture outside to go to the loo?

-Yeah.

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An outside toilet may be nothing new to some, but how about this?

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-Can you see the yellow bucket?

-That's fantastic.

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-Until recently, this was Michelle's shower.

-I was out here in the snow.

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Oh, my word you are far braver than I am.

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So yes, this one is like luxury now.

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-Oh!

-That's our shower now.

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That's like an normal bathroom, it's fantastic.

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And now it's here in a very snug bathroom.

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I'll just leave you to it.

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-Is it OK to wear my wellies in here?

-Yeah.

-OK.

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Outside the hospital theatre where Dwynwen's C-section

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is taking place, it's an anxious time for her mother.

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NEWBORN BABY CRIES

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But finally, she hears the sound that announces to the world that all has gone well.

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The healthy baby has been delivered safely.

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BABY CRIES

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But also delivered is the baby that died of the parvovirus seven weeks ago.

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It is Sian's responsibility to clean and clothe the lost child.

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It will be treated with the same respect as the healthy baby

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being looked after now by Anwen.

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It's fantastic the relationship that I and Sian have got.

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Because we've got a faith in your colleague knowing, OK,

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she's doing that, you don't have to think about that bit, then.

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By the time Dwynwen is returned to her room, her newborn little

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girl, Cadi Aur, is ready to be cradled and cwtshed for the first time.

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Aw...

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Dwynwen has always said that she'd want to take

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the stillborn baby also in her arms.

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The loss of Martha Aur may seem tempered by the joy of Cadi Aur.

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Actually it's no less a loss. Grieving is a necessary process.

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She's not going to look like her sister, OK?

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Now, you can't see her face, OK. But you can see her now.

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Can you see her little hands there?

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You can never prepare yourself for it and I think it's just...

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You just feel a bit...

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Pants, really. Yeah.

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If you look closely, you can see her little fingernails.

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It's just about supporting Dwynwen now through this

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and making sure that she's stable

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and that we've got facilities over on the ward for her now.

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OK?

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It's bittersweet.

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You can't help but think, well, it's not how things should have been.

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But, erm...

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You know, it's just one of those things, isn't it?

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Dwynwen will stay here now for as long as it takes for us to do the paperwork.

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It'll take us a good couple of hours.

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Probably three to four hours,

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so nice, strong coffee now and get through that paperwork.

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After such a day, everybody's quite drained.

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But Dwynwen has one important and uplifting moment to come.

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My daughter's going to be chuffed to bits. She wanted a girl

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So...she's going to be chuffed to bits.

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Hello!

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Aw, Delyn, Wow!

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Whilst Delyn Mair gets to know her little sister,

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Anwen and Sian work through the awaiting forest of paperwork.

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It's a part of the job,

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but you know it doesn't happen this late every day, it's just...

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And families understand as well you know,

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they get used to it don't they?

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I'll probably see Sean, but Stefan will be in bed.

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Lisa's in Italy, so won't get to see her.

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They started work over 12 hours ago. It's been a long day.

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We were both supposed to clock off at five.

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-So this is just a labour of love.

-Yeah.

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Next time on the Country Midwives...

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a midwife's home visit becomes a tepee visit.

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Do you know what, I think I've got a tickle coming here. I think I've got a tickle here.

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A pill that may be hard for some mothers to swallow.

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I don't think it's anything unnatural about it.

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And midwife, Caren, takes charge of her first homebirth.

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I waited weeks for that. It's exactly what I wanted.

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