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Midwives. | 0:00:00 | 0:00:04 | |
-They have to be there when they're needed... -Oh, my baby! | 0:00:04 | 0:00:08 | |
-..being mother to the mothers... -Your waters are not gone, are they? | 0:00:08 | 0:00:13 | |
..support to the fathers... | 0:00:13 | 0:00:15 | |
-Right, Sam? -Yeah, fine. | 0:00:15 | 0:00:17 | |
..and trusted colleagues to each other. | 0:00:17 | 0:00:19 | |
All dressed, ready to go. | 0:00:19 | 0:00:21 | |
But in this part of the world, their journey is never easy. | 0:00:21 | 0:00:24 | |
Oh, 'eck! | 0:00:24 | 0:00:26 | |
It's full of great ups and difficult downs... | 0:00:26 | 0:00:29 | |
It's through gates, it's over fences. | 0:00:29 | 0:00:31 | |
-..of twists and turns... -The most bizarre place is up a treehouse. | 0:00:31 | 0:00:35 | |
..of never quite knowing what's round the corner. | 0:00:35 | 0:00:38 | |
A total bag of emotions. | 0:00:38 | 0:00:40 | |
-Welcome to the world of safe hands... -You've got a lovely belly! | 0:00:40 | 0:00:44 | |
My office is my car, you know? | 0:00:44 | 0:00:47 | |
-..all seeing eyes... -Absolutely perfect. | 0:00:47 | 0:00:49 | |
-..and big, big smiles. -Very au naturale! | 0:00:49 | 0:00:53 | |
I think a lot of the women are quite strong characters. | 0:00:53 | 0:00:56 | |
Welcome to the real life drama of the Country Midwives. | 0:00:56 | 0:00:59 | |
Carmarthenshire is one of Wales' largest counties. | 0:01:03 | 0:01:07 | |
Here, expectant mums are looked after by a team of midwives, | 0:01:07 | 0:01:11 | |
travelling and working in these rural communities. | 0:01:11 | 0:01:15 | |
The county's northern team serve most of the Teifi Valley, | 0:01:16 | 0:01:19 | |
including the small town of Llanybydder. | 0:01:19 | 0:01:23 | |
Team leader Sian Maynard normally enjoys driving in this | 0:01:23 | 0:01:27 | |
beautiful countryside, but the extra call of duty of the last few days | 0:01:27 | 0:01:31 | |
means that today, she's struggling a bit. | 0:01:31 | 0:01:34 | |
I was OK last night. The night before, I was on call. | 0:01:34 | 0:01:37 | |
I ended up getting called in at about 2:30am to help on the ward | 0:01:37 | 0:01:41 | |
and I finished about 2:00pm yesterday. | 0:01:41 | 0:01:45 | |
I was a bit tired then and it's hard to get to sleep, | 0:01:45 | 0:01:48 | |
to know how much to sleep, so you can still sleep in the night. | 0:01:48 | 0:01:51 | |
So your body clock is round the right way. | 0:01:51 | 0:01:54 | |
So, yeah, today will be hard going, probably, | 0:01:54 | 0:01:58 | |
to keep awake. | 0:01:58 | 0:02:00 | |
Her first call today is on Meinir Thomas | 0:02:01 | 0:02:05 | |
and her two-week-old son Tomos. | 0:02:05 | 0:02:07 | |
-Nice to be home? -Yes, lovely. | 0:02:07 | 0:02:08 | |
Some three-quarters of women in Wales start breastfeeding, | 0:02:08 | 0:02:12 | |
but within six weeks, the number's down to less than half. | 0:02:12 | 0:02:15 | |
Meinir has tried, before deciding that the bottle is best for her | 0:02:15 | 0:02:19 | |
and Tomos bach. | 0:02:19 | 0:02:20 | |
For the first few days, it was fine, | 0:02:20 | 0:02:23 | |
but we had two nights that were quite sleepless, so I tried him on | 0:02:23 | 0:02:29 | |
the bottle and he was more content, so you could get on and do | 0:02:29 | 0:02:32 | |
something else then instead of feeding all the time, to be honest. | 0:02:32 | 0:02:36 | |
-You just felt that you were tied. -When did he have his last feed? | 0:02:36 | 0:02:39 | |
-About half past nine. -'I'd seen her on the postnatal ward, | 0:02:39 | 0:02:43 | |
'I'd helped her with the breastfeeding,' | 0:02:43 | 0:02:45 | |
so I already had a little bit of an idea when it came today as to | 0:02:45 | 0:02:49 | |
whether she would be continuing to breastfeed or bottle feed. | 0:02:49 | 0:02:52 | |
You felt a bit guilty then that you'd gone to the bottle, | 0:02:52 | 0:02:55 | |
but as far as I'm concerned, the baby's got a better | 0:02:55 | 0:02:59 | |
quality of life cos at the moment, he just feeds and sleeps. | 0:02:59 | 0:03:03 | |
Now you're not feeding, hands off the boobs, | 0:03:03 | 0:03:06 | |
hike them up with your bra now, under your chin! | 0:03:06 | 0:03:09 | |
Don't keep doing that, you'll keep producing milk! | 0:03:09 | 0:03:13 | |
You'll be feeding the whole of Llanybydder! | 0:03:13 | 0:03:15 | |
'You can't make people feel guilty cos it's their choice' | 0:03:15 | 0:03:19 | |
and at the end of the day, | 0:03:19 | 0:03:21 | |
Tomos has had almost a week of breast milk, | 0:03:21 | 0:03:24 | |
he's had all the colostrum, and that's fantastic, | 0:03:24 | 0:03:27 | |
that's what she wanted to do and she's as happy as Larry there. | 0:03:27 | 0:03:30 | |
Sian's particularly familiar with Meinir because of her history | 0:03:30 | 0:03:34 | |
of high blood pressure, which meant she needed extra attention. | 0:03:34 | 0:03:38 | |
They used to come and visit me at work and everything, | 0:03:38 | 0:03:41 | |
to check the blood pressure, so it's quite nice to get close to them. | 0:03:41 | 0:03:45 | |
You feel as if you're getting to know them | 0:03:45 | 0:03:48 | |
as a friend type of thing, you know? No, it's nice. | 0:03:48 | 0:03:51 | |
On top of that, a blood test taken around the 17th week of pregnancy | 0:03:54 | 0:03:58 | |
showed that Meinir's baby carried a high risk of having a birth defect. | 0:03:58 | 0:04:02 | |
-130/78. -Oh, my God! | 0:04:04 | 0:04:05 | |
'We've monitored her closely. She was referred then, she's had' | 0:04:05 | 0:04:09 | |
an amnio and that amnio showed | 0:04:09 | 0:04:11 | |
that the baby was fine, and as you can see, Tomos is absolutely lovely. | 0:04:11 | 0:04:15 | |
Both Tomos' weight and vocal cords confirm his healthy progress. | 0:04:15 | 0:04:20 | |
TOMOS CRIES | 0:04:20 | 0:04:23 | |
Now, what could possibly quieten him? | 0:04:23 | 0:04:25 | |
There we are. | 0:04:25 | 0:04:28 | |
Instant! | 0:04:28 | 0:04:29 | |
Duw! | 0:04:29 | 0:04:31 | |
-I wish teenagers were like that! -I know! | 0:04:31 | 0:04:33 | |
Despite the risks they faced, Meinir and Tomos are a success story, | 0:04:35 | 0:04:40 | |
thanks, in no small part, to the care | 0:04:40 | 0:04:43 | |
and attention of our community midwives. | 0:04:43 | 0:04:45 | |
-Take care now. Give us a ring, any problems. -OK. | 0:04:45 | 0:04:48 | |
-Ta-ra. -Bye. | 0:04:48 | 0:04:50 | |
'It's really nice to have a case like that cos it' | 0:04:50 | 0:04:53 | |
restores your sort of faith in what the human body can do, really. | 0:04:53 | 0:04:56 | |
Community midwives are at the front line of maternity care, | 0:05:00 | 0:05:04 | |
but they're just part of a larger system of care within | 0:05:04 | 0:05:07 | |
the local health board. | 0:05:07 | 0:05:09 | |
Meinir's blood samples were analysed in the | 0:05:09 | 0:05:12 | |
blood sciences department at Glangwili Hospital, Carmarthen. | 0:05:12 | 0:05:16 | |
Here, a backroom staff of 40 check up to 1,500 blood samples a day. | 0:05:16 | 0:05:20 | |
Dwynwen Davies' blood would also have been tested in Glangwili. | 0:05:28 | 0:05:32 | |
She lives near Llanybydder with daughter Delyn Mair. | 0:05:32 | 0:05:37 | |
Dwynwen is 30 weeks into her pregnancy. She's carrying twins. | 0:05:37 | 0:05:42 | |
11 weeks pregnant when I found out. Jumping for joy. | 0:05:42 | 0:05:46 | |
And then to find out that I was pregnant with twins was | 0:05:46 | 0:05:50 | |
unbelievable and the joy, you know? | 0:05:50 | 0:05:53 | |
I own a day nursery and work obviously very closely with children | 0:05:56 | 0:06:01 | |
and I've picked up the parvovirus, which is linked to slapped-cheek. | 0:06:01 | 0:06:07 | |
Children with slapped-cheek syndrome, | 0:06:07 | 0:06:10 | |
that shows as a red rash on the face, | 0:06:10 | 0:06:12 | |
usually recover from the cold-like symptoms in a few days, | 0:06:12 | 0:06:16 | |
but what's quite harmless for children can be very serious | 0:06:16 | 0:06:19 | |
indeed for unborn babies. | 0:06:19 | 0:06:21 | |
At its worst, the virus can make the baby swell up with fluid, | 0:06:25 | 0:06:28 | |
with the potential of death by drowning. | 0:06:28 | 0:06:31 | |
At 17 weeks, on the weekly scan, | 0:06:31 | 0:06:34 | |
they'd seen fluid in one of the babies' bellies. | 0:06:34 | 0:06:39 | |
After three weeks, the fluid had gone | 0:06:39 | 0:06:41 | |
and the unborn baby was well again. | 0:06:41 | 0:06:44 | |
However, a month later, at 24 weeks, the virus struck again. | 0:06:44 | 0:06:49 | |
They said it had come back with such a vengeance that they didn't | 0:06:51 | 0:06:56 | |
think that the baby would survive. | 0:06:56 | 0:06:59 | |
For that month, I felt it was the longest time in my life because | 0:06:59 | 0:07:04 | |
I knew the baby was deteriorating but there was nothing I could do. | 0:07:04 | 0:07:09 | |
The baby was in my belly | 0:07:09 | 0:07:10 | |
and there was nothing I could do to help that baby, | 0:07:10 | 0:07:13 | |
so in effect, it was waiting for the baby to fill up with fluid, | 0:07:13 | 0:07:18 | |
drown if you like, and day in day out, there was nothing | 0:07:18 | 0:07:21 | |
I could do and I was 28 weeks pregnant when her heart stopped. | 0:07:21 | 0:07:26 | |
It's really hard. | 0:07:31 | 0:07:33 | |
You feel quite like you've failed, in a way, | 0:07:33 | 0:07:37 | |
because there was nothing you could do to stop it happening. | 0:07:37 | 0:07:42 | |
After careful consideration, | 0:07:48 | 0:07:50 | |
the medical team decided that removing the baby that had died | 0:07:50 | 0:07:54 | |
was not possible without risking the wellbeing of its remaining twin. | 0:07:54 | 0:07:58 | |
Dwynwen will have to carry both babies through to the | 0:07:58 | 0:08:01 | |
pregnancy's full term. | 0:08:01 | 0:08:03 | |
I'm going down every week to have scans, | 0:08:03 | 0:08:06 | |
just to check that there's no fluid in the healthy baby. | 0:08:06 | 0:08:10 | |
But they can't rule out that it won't come back, | 0:08:10 | 0:08:13 | |
so it's quite an anxious time | 0:08:13 | 0:08:16 | |
and you don't know at the end of it what will be the outcome. | 0:08:16 | 0:08:19 | |
The team working in the west of the county serve from | 0:08:22 | 0:08:26 | |
Carmarthen Town itself to Whitland and the border with Pembrokeshire. | 0:08:26 | 0:08:31 | |
Caren Thomas has just joined the team in this area. | 0:08:31 | 0:08:34 | |
For 13 years, she was a hospital midwife, | 0:08:34 | 0:08:37 | |
but six weeks ago, Caren swapped the familiarity of the ward | 0:08:37 | 0:08:41 | |
for the diversity and unpredictability of the community. | 0:08:41 | 0:08:46 | |
It is very different to my hospital work, but it's fantastic, | 0:08:46 | 0:08:51 | |
especially on a day like today when the sun is shining. | 0:08:51 | 0:08:55 | |
Out in the community, you've got more time to be with women | 0:08:55 | 0:08:59 | |
and to listen to their problems and people are pleased to see you | 0:08:59 | 0:09:02 | |
and it just seems...less stressful, I suppose, in a way. | 0:09:02 | 0:09:07 | |
Caren's been called to see an expectant mum who is suffering | 0:09:07 | 0:09:10 | |
from hyperemesis, a morning sickness that doesn't know when to stop. | 0:09:10 | 0:09:15 | |
She's been actually in hospital twice already to be rehydrated, then. | 0:09:15 | 0:09:20 | |
Bless her. It's not nice. Not nice at all. | 0:09:20 | 0:09:24 | |
They really suffer, these girls, with hyperemesis. | 0:09:24 | 0:09:28 | |
It's horrible. | 0:09:28 | 0:09:29 | |
Mary Pascal has the unfortunate experience of being amongst | 0:09:31 | 0:09:34 | |
the 1% of women who suffer from hyperemesis. | 0:09:34 | 0:09:38 | |
And how is the sickness now today? | 0:09:38 | 0:09:40 | |
-You were very sick overnight, were you? -Yeah. Last night, I had 16. | 0:09:40 | 0:09:44 | |
And then today, six. | 0:09:44 | 0:09:46 | |
'She vomited 16 times overnight,' | 0:09:46 | 0:09:49 | |
six times already this morning, | 0:09:49 | 0:09:51 | |
unable to tolerate any fluids or any food. | 0:09:51 | 0:09:55 | |
So the oral tablets aren't working as well then. | 0:09:55 | 0:09:59 | |
Probably cos you're vomiting, you see? | 0:09:59 | 0:10:01 | |
You're sicking the tablets up then, you know? | 0:10:01 | 0:10:03 | |
What I was wanting to do was to just test your wee today. | 0:10:03 | 0:10:06 | |
-Are you able to do me a wee sample. -Yeah, have you got a pot? | 0:10:06 | 0:10:09 | |
'She's 13 weeks now,' | 0:10:09 | 0:10:11 | |
we should be expecting the sickness to ease a bit, but unfortunately, | 0:10:11 | 0:10:14 | |
some women do get it a lot longer and all the way through their pregnancy. | 0:10:14 | 0:10:18 | |
Yeah, I can see straightaway that there's quite a lot of ketones | 0:10:18 | 0:10:22 | |
in this, which is a sign the body's quite dehydrated now. | 0:10:22 | 0:10:26 | |
I think probably our best bet would be to send you in again, Mary, | 0:10:26 | 0:10:32 | |
and get some IV fluids into you and get you feeling a bit better again. | 0:10:32 | 0:10:38 | |
What do you think? | 0:10:38 | 0:10:40 | |
I think that's all right, | 0:10:40 | 0:10:41 | |
but I'm more worried about the medication, if it's not working. | 0:10:41 | 0:10:44 | |
If it's not working. That's something they'll be able to sort out. | 0:10:44 | 0:10:48 | |
It's tough going for Mary | 0:10:48 | 0:10:50 | |
-and husband Joseph is naturally concerned. -It's quite worrying. | 0:10:50 | 0:10:54 | |
They tell me the baby's going to be OK. | 0:10:54 | 0:10:57 | |
It's just I'm worried for Mary as well. | 0:10:57 | 0:11:00 | |
I mean, it's normal to be sick in pregnancy, | 0:11:00 | 0:11:02 | |
but this is extreme sickness. | 0:11:02 | 0:11:05 | |
I'm with a patient who is 13 weeks... | 0:11:05 | 0:11:07 | |
Caren arranges a short hospital stay for Mary. | 0:11:07 | 0:11:10 | |
Dehydration is not a matter to be treated lightly. | 0:11:10 | 0:11:13 | |
OK, give me a ring if I can do anything else for you. | 0:11:13 | 0:11:16 | |
'The best thing for Mary now is to get into hospital and get treated.' | 0:11:16 | 0:11:19 | |
So no, it's not always rosy. | 0:11:19 | 0:11:21 | |
But there we are. She'll be better soon. | 0:11:21 | 0:11:23 | |
Glangwili Hospital in the county town of Carmarthen is | 0:11:25 | 0:11:28 | |
-the midwives' operating base. -Hello. | 0:11:28 | 0:11:33 | |
Women who are diabetic carry a higher level of risk | 0:11:33 | 0:11:36 | |
to their health when they become pregnant. | 0:11:36 | 0:11:38 | |
Whilst modern advances have made such risks more manageable, | 0:11:38 | 0:11:42 | |
modern living is presenting mothers, doctors | 0:11:42 | 0:11:44 | |
and midwives with new challenges. | 0:11:44 | 0:11:47 | |
Hannah Roberts, expecting her second child, | 0:11:47 | 0:11:50 | |
is amongst the growing number being seen by Dr Lisa Forrest, | 0:11:50 | 0:11:53 | |
who've been diagnosed with gestational diabetes. | 0:11:53 | 0:11:57 | |
Gestational diabetes is a form of diabetes that tends to be | 0:11:57 | 0:12:01 | |
diagnosed during pregnancy and often disappears at the end of pregnancy. | 0:12:01 | 0:12:06 | |
-Still managing to check the blood sugars? -Yeah. | 0:12:06 | 0:12:10 | |
'I've never had diabetes or any problems like that, but I did' | 0:12:10 | 0:12:13 | |
have gestational diabetes when I was pregnant with my daughter. | 0:12:13 | 0:12:17 | |
There's a lot of hormonal changes during pregnancy | 0:12:17 | 0:12:21 | |
and you screen women with certain risk factors, | 0:12:21 | 0:12:25 | |
women who are overweight at the start of pregnancy, | 0:12:25 | 0:12:28 | |
women who've got family history of diabetes, women who've had a | 0:12:28 | 0:12:31 | |
previous large baby or have previously had diabetes | 0:12:31 | 0:12:35 | |
in a pregnancy. | 0:12:35 | 0:12:36 | |
I have to monitor my blood sugars four times a day. | 0:12:38 | 0:12:41 | |
So many things contain sugar that you wouldn't even think of. | 0:12:41 | 0:12:46 | |
I have to avoid white bread, | 0:12:46 | 0:12:48 | |
I have to be careful what time I eat certain things. | 0:12:48 | 0:12:51 | |
Gestational diabetes is becoming more common and that's partly | 0:12:51 | 0:12:56 | |
because of the sort of increasing rise in overweight | 0:12:56 | 0:13:00 | |
and obesity in sort of young women. | 0:13:00 | 0:13:03 | |
And it's also because of the increasing maternal age, | 0:13:03 | 0:13:06 | |
becoming pregnant in their sort of 40s. | 0:13:06 | 0:13:09 | |
We estimate in Carmarthenshire around about sort of four in ever 100 | 0:13:09 | 0:13:12 | |
pregnancies are complicated by diabetes. | 0:13:12 | 0:13:15 | |
We'll see you back here either clinic, | 0:13:15 | 0:13:18 | |
Hannah, in about two weeks' time. | 0:13:18 | 0:13:20 | |
Unchecked, the condition can cause abnormally big babies, | 0:13:20 | 0:13:24 | |
leading to a more difficult birth for the mother, | 0:13:24 | 0:13:26 | |
as well as long-term risks to her health. | 0:13:26 | 0:13:29 | |
I'm seeing the doctor every two weeks in clinic, | 0:13:29 | 0:13:33 | |
just to make sure all my blood sugars are OK, | 0:13:33 | 0:13:37 | |
that I don't have any problems with my tablets. | 0:13:37 | 0:13:39 | |
And that hopefully the baby's not too big. | 0:13:39 | 0:13:42 | |
It's a 20 mile journey from Carmarthen to the town of Llanybydder. | 0:13:46 | 0:13:51 | |
Dwynwen Davies lives nearby. | 0:13:51 | 0:13:54 | |
She has five weeks to go before the time will be right for her to | 0:13:54 | 0:13:58 | |
give birth to twins, one alive and one that has died. | 0:13:58 | 0:14:01 | |
For the sake of the surviving baby, her pregnancy must run its course, | 0:14:03 | 0:14:08 | |
which means she's having to travel regularly to Cardiff, | 0:14:08 | 0:14:11 | |
where specialist equipment checks for any sign that the deadly | 0:14:11 | 0:14:15 | |
parvovirus is back, threatening the healthy baby. | 0:14:15 | 0:14:19 | |
Hi. How are you? | 0:14:19 | 0:14:20 | |
From the start, Dwynwen has been under Anwen's care and guidance. | 0:14:20 | 0:14:25 | |
Giving birth to twins means that two midwives will be there, | 0:14:25 | 0:14:28 | |
so today, Sian is accompanying Anwen to start to get to know her. | 0:14:28 | 0:14:32 | |
-This is Sian, our team leader. -So how... Ooh! | 0:14:32 | 0:14:35 | |
-LAUGHTER -Yeah, nearly landed up on the floor! | 0:14:35 | 0:14:39 | |
The number of stillbirths in Wales is now very low indeed, | 0:14:42 | 0:14:45 | |
less than one in every 250. | 0:14:45 | 0:14:49 | |
Part of Anwen and Sian's work here today is to prepare | 0:14:49 | 0:14:52 | |
Dwynwen in any way they can for what lies ahead. | 0:14:52 | 0:14:56 | |
Obviously, we can dress the baby, whatever you want us to do, | 0:14:56 | 0:15:00 | |
or we can leave the baby just as it is for you to look at | 0:15:00 | 0:15:04 | |
and have some time with. | 0:15:04 | 0:15:06 | |
It's so nice to have the midwives that you've dealt with | 0:15:06 | 0:15:11 | |
for the last seven months, | 0:15:11 | 0:15:14 | |
that they're going to actually be there, that's really nice. | 0:15:14 | 0:15:18 | |
'Today's been a lovely opportunity to come round to see her.' | 0:15:18 | 0:15:22 | |
We're just trying to make a few plans as to who is going to | 0:15:22 | 0:15:25 | |
be with her because it would be really nice for her to have | 0:15:25 | 0:15:28 | |
a bit of continuity and a little bit of extra support from ourselves, | 0:15:28 | 0:15:32 | |
seeing as we'll be looking after her afterwards. | 0:15:32 | 0:15:35 | |
I need to start... | 0:15:35 | 0:15:37 | |
I know where the baby will be buried and things, | 0:15:37 | 0:15:40 | |
-but it's just not knowing what undertakers and bits. -Yeah. | 0:15:40 | 0:15:44 | |
-We can look into that for you. -Yes. -Don't worry about that. | 0:15:44 | 0:15:49 | |
And little things like if you want something special to | 0:15:49 | 0:15:53 | |
go in with the baby, a blanket or... | 0:15:53 | 0:15:56 | |
-I've got them. -You've got them already. Yeah. | 0:15:56 | 0:16:00 | |
'Things do happen. | 0:16:00 | 0:16:02 | |
'We don't always have the happy stories, as midwives, unfortunately.' | 0:16:02 | 0:16:06 | |
And in a case like this, it's so difficult because it's twins | 0:16:06 | 0:16:09 | |
and one is alive, one is dead, | 0:16:09 | 0:16:12 | |
the emotions that she's going through are just horrific. | 0:16:12 | 0:16:15 | |
You can't begin to imagine what she's going through. | 0:16:15 | 0:16:20 | |
West of Carmarthen lies the village of Bancyfelin. | 0:16:20 | 0:16:24 | |
-Midwife Caren is calling on Hannah Roberts. -Are you all right? -Yes. | 0:16:24 | 0:16:28 | |
-Good, thank you. Come on in. -Thank you. There's me coming in anyway! | 0:16:28 | 0:16:32 | |
SHE LAUGHS | 0:16:32 | 0:16:34 | |
As in a growing number of women, | 0:16:34 | 0:16:36 | |
Hannah's pregnancy has brought on gestational diabetes. | 0:16:36 | 0:16:39 | |
For the baby's sake and her own, | 0:16:39 | 0:16:42 | |
she has to be very careful of what she eats. | 0:16:42 | 0:16:45 | |
-Good. And are you good with your diet? -I am now. | 0:16:45 | 0:16:49 | |
Yeah. I wasn't at all. | 0:16:49 | 0:16:51 | |
It's quite amazing, the difference, you know, | 0:16:51 | 0:16:54 | |
that you have to go through and you realise actually how much rubbish | 0:16:54 | 0:16:58 | |
you do put in your mouth when you're not actually thinking about it. | 0:16:58 | 0:17:01 | |
When you've got to actually think about everything that goes in. | 0:17:01 | 0:17:04 | |
I'm very good now. | 0:17:04 | 0:17:07 | |
My carb intake is huge. | 0:17:07 | 0:17:09 | |
Cake, biscuits, anything, you can grab on the go. | 0:17:09 | 0:17:13 | |
Amongst other matters, it is the size of the baby and the | 0:17:13 | 0:17:17 | |
resulting birthing problems that midwives are most concerned with. | 0:17:17 | 0:17:21 | |
-Can you tell whereabouts...? -Yeah, I can feel a head down there. | 0:17:21 | 0:17:25 | |
A big fat bum there. | 0:17:25 | 0:17:27 | |
'Diabetes is becoming more common now.' | 0:17:27 | 0:17:31 | |
As midwives, we have to be a bit more on the ball about what it means | 0:17:31 | 0:17:35 | |
and what it means for them and their pregnancy and that it's more at risk. | 0:17:35 | 0:17:40 | |
The careful monitoring of Hannah's condition means that all is well. | 0:17:40 | 0:17:45 | |
-BABY'S HEARTBEAT -Aw! -Perfect. | 0:17:45 | 0:17:48 | |
That's lovely. | 0:17:50 | 0:17:52 | |
Although she's obviously doing her best to keep to the strict | 0:17:52 | 0:17:56 | |
dietary guidelines, | 0:17:56 | 0:17:57 | |
there's something worrying her that she needs to get off her chest. | 0:17:57 | 0:18:01 | |
Say, I may have had two mouthfuls of cheesecake at work... | 0:18:01 | 0:18:06 | |
But say for example I did, is it really going to affect things badly? | 0:18:06 | 0:18:10 | |
Has that happened? Have you had two mouthfuls of cheesecake? | 0:18:10 | 0:18:13 | |
-Is this a confession? Did somebody bring it in to work? -Yeah. | 0:18:13 | 0:18:17 | |
-And do they know you're diabetic? -They do now. | 0:18:17 | 0:18:20 | |
LAUGHTER 'That was brilliant though.' | 0:18:20 | 0:18:23 | |
I didn't know what she was going to come out with when she said, | 0:18:23 | 0:18:26 | |
"I do have something to ask you." She seemed quite serious. Bless her. | 0:18:26 | 0:18:29 | |
-You've confessed all now and all is well. -I feel better. | 0:18:29 | 0:18:33 | |
I feel cleansed! | 0:18:33 | 0:18:36 | |
'Mums will tell us everything. You become close friends' | 0:18:36 | 0:18:40 | |
with lots of your clients | 0:18:40 | 0:18:42 | |
and they do tell you lost of things then. | 0:18:42 | 0:18:44 | |
She feels better now that she's confessed to Caren | 0:18:44 | 0:18:47 | |
the priest/midwife. | 0:18:47 | 0:18:50 | |
Back at Glangwili Hospital, Carmarthen, | 0:18:50 | 0:18:53 | |
fluid could be threatening Dwynwen's healthy baby. | 0:18:53 | 0:18:57 | |
Her pregnancy isn't quite full term, | 0:18:57 | 0:18:59 | |
but doctors have decided the day of birth and stillbirth has arrived. | 0:18:59 | 0:19:04 | |
'It's hard because as a human being, my emotions are everywhere as well.' | 0:19:04 | 0:19:09 | |
It would be easy for me to cry with Dwynwen, | 0:19:09 | 0:19:12 | |
as to be expected with the situation. | 0:19:12 | 0:19:14 | |
But I've just got to be strong with Dwynwen, | 0:19:14 | 0:19:18 | |
try and help her to come through the tears. | 0:19:18 | 0:19:21 | |
But, yeah... | 0:19:24 | 0:19:26 | |
It's nice to have a familiar face, you know. That's a lot of help. | 0:19:26 | 0:19:30 | |
The lost baby will have been dead for over seven weeks now. | 0:19:32 | 0:19:37 | |
What affect that will have on its appearance no-one can tell. | 0:19:37 | 0:19:42 | |
I've got the little crib to one side, | 0:19:42 | 0:19:45 | |
all dressed ready to put the baby in for her. | 0:19:45 | 0:19:48 | |
And I know Dwynwen has got some little clothes. | 0:19:48 | 0:19:50 | |
So we will be able to put them on and dress the baby afterwards. | 0:19:50 | 0:19:54 | |
Dwynwen's been so brave. | 0:19:54 | 0:19:57 | |
Now it's actually the moment, that's when it really hits you | 0:19:57 | 0:20:02 | |
and it's good that we're there to support one another as well. | 0:20:02 | 0:20:05 | |
Dwynwen's Caesarean section is scheduled for 2:00pm. | 0:20:07 | 0:20:11 | |
Can you get me the registrar... | 0:20:11 | 0:20:14 | |
Babies, however, have little regard for ward timetables. | 0:20:14 | 0:20:17 | |
Another mother, visiting the loo starts giving birth. | 0:20:17 | 0:20:21 | |
-Which means but one thing... -Fantastic. | 0:20:21 | 0:20:23 | |
..all hands on deck. | 0:20:23 | 0:20:25 | |
There we are. Argh! | 0:20:26 | 0:20:29 | |
All of the hands on deck of course are experienced hands. | 0:20:30 | 0:20:33 | |
Well used to the "anything can happen-ness" of the maternity ward. | 0:20:33 | 0:20:37 | |
A lady had to be delivered quite quickly, but everything's fine | 0:20:37 | 0:20:40 | |
that's just being on the labour ward...it's normal. | 0:20:40 | 0:20:42 | |
Blinkin' heck, we were just going to have a cup of tea! | 0:20:44 | 0:20:47 | |
Dwynwen's time has come. | 0:20:50 | 0:20:52 | |
Her mother is by her side. | 0:20:56 | 0:20:58 | |
Nevertheless, her walk down to the theatre cannot be anything but lonely. | 0:21:02 | 0:21:08 | |
Dwynwen is going to be grieving and also... | 0:21:08 | 0:21:11 | |
Joyful that the other baby is fine and relieved at the same time, so it's... | 0:21:11 | 0:21:16 | |
It's just...a total bag of emotions, you just don't know what she's going through. | 0:21:17 | 0:21:22 | |
Not all that far from the town of Carmarthen, Caren's next call takes | 0:21:32 | 0:21:36 | |
her not to a street or a cul-de-sac, but to the top of a field. | 0:21:36 | 0:21:40 | |
I'm not sure how er... | 0:21:42 | 0:21:44 | |
how muddy it's going to be at Michelle's now, because we do have to walk across a field. | 0:21:44 | 0:21:49 | |
I'll have to put my wellies on. | 0:21:49 | 0:21:50 | |
It's less than two months since Caren swapped | 0:21:50 | 0:21:53 | |
the life of a hospital midwife for that of the open road. | 0:21:53 | 0:21:57 | |
I've seen more of West Wales in the last six weeks | 0:21:57 | 0:22:00 | |
than I think I have done in my whole life time. | 0:22:00 | 0:22:02 | |
This is why I haven't got a posh car, you see. | 0:22:04 | 0:22:06 | |
Because this is what the community is all about, potholes, mud... | 0:22:06 | 0:22:10 | |
Rough terrain. | 0:22:11 | 0:22:12 | |
DOGS BARKING | 0:22:15 | 0:22:17 | |
Eventually, Caren makes it to an alternative community that's | 0:22:18 | 0:22:22 | |
a far cry from the enclosed maternity ward she worked in for 13 years. | 0:22:22 | 0:22:26 | |
Hi, Michelle, how are you? | 0:22:26 | 0:22:28 | |
Michelle gave birth to a little Aria just 15 days ago. | 0:22:31 | 0:22:35 | |
How much does she weigh now? | 0:22:35 | 0:22:37 | |
-She is 8.8 now. -What was she born? | 0:22:37 | 0:22:39 | |
She was 8.4, but she went down to 8. | 0:22:39 | 0:22:41 | |
That's right and she's back up to 8.8. | 0:22:41 | 0:22:44 | |
See, you've got double cream in those boobs. That's excellent feeding. | 0:22:44 | 0:22:48 | |
So that's your sort of reassurance things are all going well with | 0:22:48 | 0:22:54 | |
-the feeding. So in yourself, you're feeling OK? -Yeah. | 0:22:54 | 0:22:57 | |
It must be wearing you out a little bit? Tired. | 0:22:57 | 0:23:00 | |
I think we're getting the hang of it now, | 0:23:00 | 0:23:02 | |
it's just she's not really sleeping through the night very well. | 0:23:02 | 0:23:05 | |
She looks lovely, she doesn't look unwell or anything, does she? | 0:23:05 | 0:23:08 | |
So I'm not worried about her. | 0:23:08 | 0:23:09 | |
A healthy blood pressure means this will be Caren's last call on Michelle. | 0:23:11 | 0:23:15 | |
It's absolutely normal. | 0:23:15 | 0:23:17 | |
Looking after her pregnancy has been a central part of Caren's work | 0:23:17 | 0:23:20 | |
since she hit the community road. | 0:23:20 | 0:23:23 | |
And as often happens, they've become good friends. | 0:23:23 | 0:23:26 | |
Do you think it would be all right if I can quickly use your loo? | 0:23:26 | 0:23:28 | |
Of course, you do have to venture outside. | 0:23:28 | 0:23:31 | |
-Venture outside to go to the loo? -Yeah. | 0:23:31 | 0:23:34 | |
An outside toilet may be nothing new to some, but how about this? | 0:23:34 | 0:23:37 | |
-Can you see the yellow bucket? -That's fantastic. | 0:23:37 | 0:23:40 | |
-Until recently, this was Michelle's shower. -I was out here in the snow. | 0:23:40 | 0:23:45 | |
Oh, my word you are far braver than I am. | 0:23:45 | 0:23:48 | |
So yes, this one is like luxury now. | 0:23:48 | 0:23:51 | |
-Oh! -That's our shower now. | 0:23:51 | 0:23:53 | |
That's like an normal bathroom, it's fantastic. | 0:23:53 | 0:23:56 | |
And now it's here in a very snug bathroom. | 0:23:56 | 0:24:00 | |
I'll just leave you to it. | 0:24:00 | 0:24:02 | |
-Is it OK to wear my wellies in here? -Yeah. -OK. | 0:24:04 | 0:24:06 | |
Outside the hospital theatre where Dwynwen's C-section | 0:24:17 | 0:24:20 | |
is taking place, it's an anxious time for her mother. | 0:24:20 | 0:24:23 | |
NEWBORN BABY CRIES | 0:24:27 | 0:24:29 | |
But finally, she hears the sound that announces to the world that all has gone well. | 0:24:29 | 0:24:34 | |
The healthy baby has been delivered safely. | 0:24:34 | 0:24:37 | |
BABY CRIES | 0:24:37 | 0:24:38 | |
But also delivered is the baby that died of the parvovirus seven weeks ago. | 0:24:43 | 0:24:48 | |
It is Sian's responsibility to clean and clothe the lost child. | 0:24:56 | 0:25:01 | |
It will be treated with the same respect as the healthy baby | 0:25:01 | 0:25:04 | |
being looked after now by Anwen. | 0:25:04 | 0:25:06 | |
It's fantastic the relationship that I and Sian have got. | 0:25:10 | 0:25:12 | |
Because we've got a faith in your colleague knowing, OK, | 0:25:12 | 0:25:15 | |
she's doing that, you don't have to think about that bit, then. | 0:25:15 | 0:25:20 | |
By the time Dwynwen is returned to her room, her newborn little | 0:25:21 | 0:25:25 | |
girl, Cadi Aur, is ready to be cradled and cwtshed for the first time. | 0:25:25 | 0:25:30 | |
Aw... | 0:00:00 | 0:00:00 | |
Dwynwen has always said that she'd want to take | 0:25:34 | 0:25:37 | |
the stillborn baby also in her arms. | 0:25:37 | 0:25:40 | |
The loss of Martha Aur may seem tempered by the joy of Cadi Aur. | 0:25:40 | 0:25:44 | |
Actually it's no less a loss. Grieving is a necessary process. | 0:25:45 | 0:25:50 | |
She's not going to look like her sister, OK? | 0:25:50 | 0:25:52 | |
Now, you can't see her face, OK. But you can see her now. | 0:25:54 | 0:25:59 | |
Can you see her little hands there? | 0:26:02 | 0:26:04 | |
You can never prepare yourself for it and I think it's just... | 0:26:04 | 0:26:07 | |
You just feel a bit... | 0:26:08 | 0:26:10 | |
Pants, really. Yeah. | 0:26:10 | 0:26:12 | |
If you look closely, you can see her little fingernails. | 0:26:13 | 0:26:17 | |
It's just about supporting Dwynwen now through this | 0:26:17 | 0:26:20 | |
and making sure that she's stable | 0:26:20 | 0:26:22 | |
and that we've got facilities over on the ward for her now. | 0:26:22 | 0:26:26 | |
OK? | 0:26:28 | 0:26:29 | |
It's bittersweet. | 0:26:29 | 0:26:31 | |
You can't help but think, well, it's not how things should have been. | 0:26:32 | 0:26:36 | |
But, erm... | 0:26:38 | 0:26:40 | |
You know, it's just one of those things, isn't it? | 0:26:40 | 0:26:42 | |
Dwynwen will stay here now for as long as it takes for us to do the paperwork. | 0:26:44 | 0:26:48 | |
It'll take us a good couple of hours. | 0:26:48 | 0:26:51 | |
Probably three to four hours, | 0:26:52 | 0:26:54 | |
so nice, strong coffee now and get through that paperwork. | 0:26:54 | 0:26:58 | |
After such a day, everybody's quite drained. | 0:26:59 | 0:27:03 | |
But Dwynwen has one important and uplifting moment to come. | 0:27:03 | 0:27:07 | |
My daughter's going to be chuffed to bits. She wanted a girl | 0:27:07 | 0:27:11 | |
So...she's going to be chuffed to bits. | 0:27:11 | 0:27:14 | |
Hello! | 0:27:16 | 0:27:17 | |
Aw, Delyn, Wow! | 0:27:19 | 0:27:23 | |
Whilst Delyn Mair gets to know her little sister, | 0:27:26 | 0:27:29 | |
Anwen and Sian work through the awaiting forest of paperwork. | 0:27:29 | 0:27:34 | |
It's a part of the job, | 0:27:35 | 0:27:37 | |
but you know it doesn't happen this late every day, it's just... | 0:27:37 | 0:27:40 | |
And families understand as well you know, | 0:27:41 | 0:27:44 | |
they get used to it don't they? | 0:27:44 | 0:27:46 | |
I'll probably see Sean, but Stefan will be in bed. | 0:27:46 | 0:27:49 | |
Lisa's in Italy, so won't get to see her. | 0:27:49 | 0:27:52 | |
They started work over 12 hours ago. It's been a long day. | 0:27:52 | 0:27:58 | |
We were both supposed to clock off at five. | 0:27:58 | 0:28:01 | |
-So this is just a labour of love. -Yeah. | 0:28:01 | 0:28:03 | |
Next time on the Country Midwives... | 0:28:11 | 0:28:14 | |
a midwife's home visit becomes a tepee visit. | 0:28:14 | 0:28:18 | |
Do you know what, I think I've got a tickle coming here. I think I've got a tickle here. | 0:28:18 | 0:28:21 | |
A pill that may be hard for some mothers to swallow. | 0:28:21 | 0:28:24 | |
I don't think it's anything unnatural about it. | 0:28:24 | 0:28:28 | |
And midwife, Caren, takes charge of her first homebirth. | 0:28:28 | 0:28:31 | |
I waited weeks for that. It's exactly what I wanted. | 0:28:34 | 0:28:38 |