Amish: A Secret Life


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# There is not another Sister, friend of brother

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# Loves the way Jesus can

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# He proved His love for me when He died on Calvary

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# He gave His life for fallen man

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# His love is a boundless love... #

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In many ways, they were a typical Old Order Amish family.

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# His love is an endless love... #

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They were maintaining traditions

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and a way of life that go back 300 years.

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# Jesus wants to love you There is none above you... #

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A quarter of a million Amish live in the middle of modern America today.

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He won't kill you.

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Oink! Oink! Oink!

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Just like their forefathers,

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they believe in holding on to the old ways

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and leading a plain and simple life.

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Moo!

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# There is Power...

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Power? # There is power...

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But what made this Amish family extraordinary

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was the fact they'd agreed to be filmed.

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FAMILY SINGS SOFTLY

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They were prepared to go against the strict rules of their church,

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which forbids photography.

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In allowing themselves to be filmed, they were taking an enormous risk.

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# There is power, power

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# Wonder-working power

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# In the precious blood of the lamb... #

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The film was to be about Amish family life and faith

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and a family had been found to take part.

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But by consenting to filming,

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they risked excommunication from the Amish church.

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For two weeks, they'd been praying,

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asking God whether or not they should participate.

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Good morning.

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Good morning!

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How are we?

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I'm good, I'm David Lapp.

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-Say hello to Steve.

-Hello, Steve.

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-Good morning, David.

-It's a lovely day.

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It is. How are you this morning?

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Very well! It's a beautiful morning.

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It is, praise the Lord!

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This is my youngest son, Benuel.

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Hello! Good morning.

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-Say hi, Ben.

-Hi.

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How you feeling about filming?

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We have peace with it or we wouldn't be doing it.

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You know, we sought direction from God

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and if we wouldn't have got...

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Um, if we wouldn't feel it would be OK with Him,

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we would not be doing it.

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Shall we go and meet the family?

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Ja. Yes. Please come in.

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We got visitors.

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OK!

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Good morning!

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Good morning.

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How are you?

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Fine, how about you?

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Good, it's a lovely day out there, isn't it?

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-Yes, it is.

-Yes. Hi, Steve.

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This is Katie. This is our oldest daughter.

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Katie, Lynn.

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Actually, it's a little bit dark in here.

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Could we possibly pull up a couple of the blinds?

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This is my son, Daniel. How old are you, Daniel?

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Six.

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This is Jacob. How old are you, Jacob?

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Nine!

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There you go.

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-You don't have electricity here, do you?

-No, we don't.

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Why is that? Why do Amish people not have electricity?

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Well, it's because of...

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..the distraction that comes with it.

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Like, er, rather than having television and video games

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and all kind of gadgets that run off electricity

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we believe that, um... That's the reason alone,

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is because it's to keep out the distractions

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so you can focus on principles of life, like family time together,

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reading the Bible...

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IN PENNSYLVANIA GERMAN:

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The Amish speak a German dialect as their first language.

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They came originally from Europe in the early 1700s,

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settling first here in Pennsylvania.

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What do you think people in Britain will make of you and your lives?

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What will they think?

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That's a good question. SHE LAUGHS

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I have no idea.

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Will they think it's real?

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I don't know, I don't know.

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If they look at our lifestyles, without electric,

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they probably think we're a little, um...

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..old-fashioned, maybe, or too simple, I don't know.

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SHE LAUGHS

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What do you know about people in Britain?

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The only thing I have heard about Britain is the Prime Minister,

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Tony Blair, I believe, and about the Queen and the King.

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But I have no idea how, um...

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How they'd compare with the United States, really.

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We've got a new prime minister now, actually. Tony Blair's gone!

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OK! Yeah, I don't keep up with the facts.

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Without radio and television and the internet,

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the Amish exist in a world quite separate - but alongside -

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the rest of America.

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A great deal of modern technology is rejected.

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They live by a set of rules designed to retain their identity.

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David and Miriam were breaking the rules by being filmed.

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Amish church forbids people from posing

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or actively giving their consent to photography or filming.

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Is lunch ready, Jacob?

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Who's gonna take a nap after lunch?

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-Not me!

-Not me!

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Heavenly Father...

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..we come before you

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in the name of Jesus Christ, our King.

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We thank you that you have allowed us to stand up today

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for the beautiful day, Father.

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Heavenly Father, I ask that you will bless Jacob and Daniel

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and Kate and Benuel James

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and my beautiful wife, Miriam.

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Father, I ask that you will bless me as well so I can do your will.

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Heavenly Father, we ask that you would,

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in the name of Jesus Christ, that you would allow the BBC

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to bring honour and glory to you, Jesus.

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We ask that it would soften somebody's heart

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and that that result will build your kingdom, Jesus Christ.

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We ask for a blessing and strength

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upon the work that people are doing for it,

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Father, and we just ask that we could be doing your will throughout.

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And that all honour and glory will come to you, Jesus. Amen.

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Go, Ben.

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CHILDREN CHATTER

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Yeah, like soldiers, because the rooster

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is not always nice to 'em.

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There is the rooster.

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-Woo! Kidoo kidoo!

-Kidoo! Kidoo!

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Kidoo! Kidoo!

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ROOSTER CROWS

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-Was it just five?

-Seven?

-Seven?

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What is your approach to the number of children you have?

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To me, I don't even have a goal. I don't...

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Are your children planned?

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Hmm.

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We just rejoice when God gives us another child.

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There is no planning on our part.

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I'm not sure what the definition of "plan" is,

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but I think I know what you're talking about.

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Well, contraception?

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-No.

-Like, control? Yeah.

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No, there is no planning.

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Um...

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For me, it's...

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I think Miriam thinks about children more than I do.

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For me, I'm so busy with the ones that He has given us

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when He gives us another one, I'm rejoicing,

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but I'm not really thinking we should have another one

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because how could I be one-on-one if we had ten,

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instead of five or four?

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But God would... He doesn't make mistakes.

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So I'm sure there is a way.

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"Happy is a man that has his quiver full of them."

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I think, a quiver of arrows is 12 arrows.

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-Is that... Am I right?

-I think so.

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And happy is the man that has 12 of them.

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Is that how many you would like? Would you like 12 children?

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Well, I can't quite see it possible any more. I'm 32!

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And I've had four.

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Er, I need a couple of sets of twins maybe to be able to make 12!

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But I've always, I thought a family of ten would be ideal.

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The family were happy to be filmed shopping.

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But it had to be discreet.

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Other Amish also shop at the store

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and could challenge them at any time.

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# Thank you, Lord, for your blessings on me

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# Thank you Lord for giving to me

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# All of my friends and family

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# Thank you lord for your blessings on me

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# All of the days, the rest of my life

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# No matter what life holds for me

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# I could be on my knees

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# Forever you know

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# But I never could thank you enough

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CHILDREN CHATTER EXCITEDLY

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IN PENNSYLVANIA GERMAN:

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Everything for your honour and glory, in Jesus' name, Amen.

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Let's get started.

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It's about 6:15.

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# ..Forever you know

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# But I never could thank you enough. #

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FAMILY SINGS: # And now I lay me down to sleep

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# I pray thee, Lord, my soul to keep

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# If I should die before I wake

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# I pray thee, Lord, my soul to take. #

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# O, they tell me of a home far beyond the skies

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# O, they tell me of a home far away

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# O, they tell me of a home where no storm clouds rise

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# O, they tell me of an unclouded day

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# O, the land of cloudless day

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# O, the land of an unclouded sky

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# O, they tell me of a home where no storm clouds rise

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# O, they tell me of an unclouded day

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# O, they tell me of a king in his beauty there

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# And they tell me that my eyes shall behold

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# Where he sits on his throne that is whiter than snow

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# In the city that is made of gold

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# O, the land of cloudless day

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# O, the land of an unclouded sky

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# O, they tell me of a home where no storm clouds rise

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# O, they tell me of an unclouded day. #

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Goodnight.

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Goodnight.

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I love you.

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(Goodnight.)

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-Sabbath today.

-Yeah.

-What a beautiful day.

-It is.

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You are welcome to come in and worship with us.

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"We have here..."

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The Amish attend church every other Sunday.

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In between, they worship at home.

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"..of all time.

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Thou shalt not kill

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"and whosoever shall kill shall be in danger of the judgement."

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(FAMILY SINGS) # O, let it shine

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# Let it shine, let it shine

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# Hide it under a bushel, no

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# I'm gonna let it shine

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# Hide it under a bushel, no

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# I'm gonna let it shine, let it shine, let it shine

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# Let it shine. #

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We don't work Sundays more than necessary.

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Um, I might go out to the garden if I need an onion

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that I didn't bring in Saturday,

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and I decided I'll make some soup and I need an onion.

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Things like that, except, but, er...

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We try to use the day totally for...

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..um...

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..spiritually renewing and, just to spend time with our children.

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Sunday before noon, the children don't play outdoors.

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And in the afternoon, it's a time with us to play games with them.

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Miriam and David have been married for nearly 11 years.

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How did you get together, then?

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Why, you know, in the traditional way,

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you just, er...muster up enough boldness and courage

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to ask a girl if you can court her.

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So that's what I did at the age of 18.

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So we had a year and a half of courtship then we were married.

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And that was a blessed year and a half.

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And I did not doubt that relationship.

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I clearly felt it was God leading us together.

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Miriam had a conviction for a hands-off courtship,

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so we had a hands-off courtship.

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I mean... No touching at all, or, what's the line?

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A hands-off...

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We didn't embrace each other.

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We didn't hug each other, we didn't kiss each other.

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But we would sit together.

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We sat beside each other and enjoyed each other's warmth.

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A squeeze of the hand sometimes.

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This is my wedding dress...

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..that I had with a white... We wear white cape aprons.

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I feel it's very important to make the dress in such a way

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that it adorns our inner spirit

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and not bring out our...

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our bodily figure.

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No, it-it should be, men are attracted to the heart,

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not to the figure.

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As a woman, we can do a lot to not bring a man to lust.

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I feel us women don't quite realise men's battle with, um...

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it's just, God made them with that nature.

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They have this lustful nature.

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The natural instinct is there

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but if we encourage it, it might make them stumble.

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I never knew about it before my husband told me.

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You know, the battle that, um...

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..he had with women that had a lot of leg exposed

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or even lower necklines

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and I had no idea that he had that battle!

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Good morning!

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Good morning! Good morning!

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Come on in!

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It's 4:30 in the morning.

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Every day, Miriam gets up to cook breakfast for Dave

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before he goes to work at 5:00.

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Good morning.

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Good morning.

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-Good morning.

-Good morning, Steve.

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Two eggs and a cornmeal mush.

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It's my favourite.

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Heavenly Father, I ask for a blessing

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upon the hands that prepared this food.

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I ask for your protection around my family today

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as I go to work and Jacob and Daniel go to school,

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as Miriam and Benuel and Kate are at home,

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Father, I ask for your protection around them all

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and that you will keep them safe

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and that it be your will that we could be together tonight

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at our supper table.

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-In Jesus' holy name we pray. Amen.

-Amen.

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Dave usually gets a lift to work

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from one of his staff who isn't Amish.

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The rules forbid car ownership, but there's nothing to stop people

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from accepting a lift or using a taxi.

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-Hey, good morning, Benuel.

-BENUEL CRIES

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Come.

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Danny, Jacob? Let's eat!

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-Jacob, do the blessing for us?

-Yeah.

-OK.

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Amen.

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Hey. Have a good day.

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God bless you.

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OK, see ya.

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See ya, Jacob!

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Goodbye!

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-You get up for Dave?

-Yes.

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Every morning?

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Yes.

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Unless I'm not feeling well. He'll get his own breakfast and lunch.

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But he COULD get his breakfast himself, couldn't he?

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Yes, he could. He's very... He's quite able.

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So how comes he doesn't, then?

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That's my job!

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SHE LAUGHS

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He has other things that are more important and are...

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I'm the... I'm the queen of this house,

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so I need to see that everybody is well fed and...

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What does the Bible say about your role, then?

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They call on us to be...

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keepers at home...

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submissive to our husbands...

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and look well to the ways of our household.

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Mm-hm.

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And how do you feel about that?

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I feel it's perfect.

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It's perfect, it's a perfect order.

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50 years ago, the majority of Amish were farmers,

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but, in Pennsylvania, high land prices

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mean most now work in Amish-owned small businesses.

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Dave has his own concrete construction firm,

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employing Amish and non-Amish staff.

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He makes a decent living

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but is trying to get back to the traditional model of Amish life.

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He wants to buy his own farm.

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Good morning!

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This is a bit different from being at home with the children.

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It is, it's a lot different.

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Something I always enjoyed.

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But as my children get older, my heart's not as much here any more.

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I think about my children waiting until I come home evenings.

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Er, eight years ago, I could have worked

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from five in the morning to six at night, not a problem.

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But now, when school is out, I'm like, "You know what?

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"My children are at home. I need to go home to my children."

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So does being submissive work, then?

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-Can that work for a woman?

-Yes. Yes.

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I do feel we need to share our views.

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We can't just quietly submit and not share how we feel about some things.

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He still can offend me, which I want to overcome that.

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I feel so privileged that he does mention my weaknesses

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and, er, I don't want to be offended.

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I just want to be thankful that he points those out.

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MANGLE GRINDS AND WHIRRS

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Obedient.

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I believe it's important that we're obedient to God's word.

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So that our family can function in the way he designed families to be.

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Dave's asked Miriam to pop to the bank today.

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It's a three-mile buggy ride,

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and most of Miriam's errands are within an eight-mile radius

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of her home in Lancaster County.

0:25:240:25:26

It takes at least five minutes to get my horse out and the children.

0:25:290:25:34

But I like it.

0:25:360:25:38

I always like to get out with my horse.

0:25:380:25:41

# His love is a boundless love

0:25:420:25:45

# And he reaches down and touches me

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# His love is an endless love

0:25:480:25:53

# That will love for all eternity

0:25:530:25:56

# Jesus wants to love you

0:25:570:25:59

# There is none above you, you are precious in his sight

0:25:590:26:04

# He will never fail you... #

0:26:040:26:06

Good afternoon!

0:26:060:26:08

# He'll be with you day and night

0:26:080:26:12

# His love is a boundless love... #

0:26:120:26:14

There you go. Thank you!

0:26:140:26:16

Thank you, Margaret.

0:26:160:26:17

# And it reaches down and touches me

0:26:170:26:19

# His love is an endless love

0:26:190:26:24

# That will last through all eternity

0:26:240:26:28

# His love, his love, his love is a boundless love

0:26:280:26:34

# His love, his love, his love is a boundless love #

0:26:370:26:44

BENUEL LAUGHS

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ALL SING: # Since the Lord saved me

0:26:550:26:59

# I'm as happy as can be

0:26:590:27:02

# My cup is full and running over... #

0:27:020:27:09

# 'Tis the old-time religion 'Tis the old-time religion

0:27:110:27:16

# 'Tis the old-time religion

0:27:160:27:19

# It's good enough for me. #

0:27:190:27:21

Hey!

0:27:240:27:26

Hi!

0:27:260:27:27

Hey, Dave!

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Miriam, the children always seem to play very well together.

0:27:390:27:42

MIRIAM CHUCKLES

0:27:440:27:45

Well, you're not here every day!

0:27:450:27:47

SHE LAUGHS

0:27:470:27:48

Some days they are like children.

0:27:480:27:50

They can play very nice, but they also can fight nice!

0:27:530:27:58

Yeah, there's selfishness in everybody

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that just needs to be...broken.

0:28:040:28:08

What's your attitude to discipline?

0:28:090:28:12

Well, in Proverbs it says

0:28:120:28:13

"Any foolish shall be driven away with the rod."

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And I have seen very good results...

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with using the rod.

0:28:230:28:24

Of course, you always need to have a relationship

0:28:240:28:28

before you handle a child with a rod.

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You need to have a relationship.

0:28:310:28:33

I have a small, little paddle.

0:28:330:28:35

It's just my baking tool

0:28:350:28:38

where I, depending on the transgression

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it'll be just a light tap.

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But, er, for instance, if they wouldn't tell me the truth,

0:28:440:28:47

-it might be a hard paddle.

-SHE LAUGHS

0:28:470:28:51

This is what I use.

0:28:550:28:56

I call it my smiley, and it often brings a smile in the end.

0:28:580:29:01

If I see they have a need of change in attitude,

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I'll bring out my smiley and often they'll respond with a smile

0:29:060:29:10

but there is times where there's a...

0:29:100:29:14

..there's an ongoing issue.

0:29:160:29:18

I like to watch for any signs of rebellion

0:29:200:29:23

and then I'll address it.

0:29:230:29:24

But how would you use that?

0:29:260:29:27

I feel the seat is the best place.

0:29:270:29:32

Depending... If they'd be at the table,

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and got something I'd said no to, then I might tap the hand.

0:29:370:29:40

Was ist es, Benuel?

0:29:440:29:46

-Paddle.

-Paddle?

-Ja.

-Smiley?

0:29:470:29:50

Das ist Smiley?

0:29:520:29:54

Niet tapper.

0:29:540:29:55

Niet tapper? Nee.

0:29:550:29:57

Benuel ist niet bad.

0:29:570:29:59

What's he saying?

0:29:590:30:00

"Niet tapper" means "Not paddle me"!

0:30:010:30:06

And I said "No, Benuel's not bad."

0:30:060:30:09

MIRIAM LAUGHS

0:30:110:30:12

BENUEL LAUGHS

0:30:120:30:13

Two months later,

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the risk of the family being challenged by the Amish church hadn't gone away.

0:30:170:30:23

Hey, welcome, Steve and Lynn! Come on in!

0:30:230:30:26

-Good morning.

-Morning!

-Morning.

0:30:260:30:29

We're just about ready to get out and set the benches.

0:30:310:30:34

-Good morning.

-Good morning, Miriam.

-Come on in!

0:30:340:30:38

What's happening this weekend?

0:30:380:30:40

Oh, we're getting ready for church.

0:30:400:30:42

Church services are going to be at our house.

0:30:420:30:45

Everybody takes turns.

0:30:450:30:47

Every two weeks, somebody opens their house up, or their home.

0:30:470:30:51

-And it's your turn this week?

-Yeah.

0:30:510:30:53

So we're preparing seating and food for, I don't know, 100 people.

0:30:530:30:59

20 families.

0:30:590:31:01

An average of five children per family.

0:31:010:31:05

Danny! Danny!

0:31:220:31:25

These are the benches for the church that the people can sit on.

0:31:280:31:32

You just sit.

0:31:320:31:33

It's a little bit over three hours mostly,

0:31:340:31:37

like eight o'clock to 11.30 or something.

0:31:370:31:40

What's your favourite bit of the church service?

0:31:400:31:43

Er...

0:31:430:31:44

The last song.

0:31:470:31:48

Then you know the church is out!

0:31:480:31:51

We as Old Order Amish, we don't have a church house,

0:31:510:31:54

so every able member that has room on their property

0:31:540:31:59

takes a turn to provide space and food for service.

0:31:590:32:04

We need to make sure we have a place

0:32:060:32:09

to tie up all the horses and feed them.

0:32:090:32:12

We need to make sure we have enough lunch for everyone,

0:32:120:32:15

which is a cold lunch, the traditional schnitz pie.

0:32:150:32:20

The word "church" in the Bible, in Greek it means "assembly."

0:32:200:32:24

So, our forefathers assembled in their homes 400 years ago,

0:32:260:32:32

and that's where the practice started.

0:32:320:32:35

HE SINGS TUNLESSLY

0:32:370:32:39

An Amish church service is led by a number of elders -

0:32:390:32:43

a bishop and ministers.

0:32:430:32:45

They sing from a songbook

0:32:450:32:47

containing hymns written by their forefathers.

0:32:470:32:50

The ministers will read from the scriptures

0:32:500:32:52

and the congregation says silent prayers.

0:32:520:32:55

The church people are very dear. They are close friends.

0:32:550:32:58

We get together every other week.

0:32:580:33:01

If there is a need,

0:33:010:33:03

if you have a hospital bill and you have a need for finances,

0:33:030:33:08

the church people are there to help you,

0:33:080:33:10

so it's really a close-knit community.

0:33:100:33:13

That was very interesting. It was the Jonah story.

0:33:470:33:50

There's no way we could film tomorrow?

0:33:520:33:54

You could attend, but you couldn't film.

0:33:540:33:57

There's no way you could film, the church would stop if you'd film.

0:33:570:34:02

There would be... I have no idea what would happen,

0:34:020:34:04

but it would not continue.

0:34:040:34:06

You could attend. You are invited to sit right here in our midst.

0:34:070:34:11

It doesn't happen a lot because people don't understand German

0:34:130:34:16

and don't like to sit for three hours on hard benches.

0:34:160:34:20

For David and Miriam, it was a balancing act.

0:34:230:34:26

They wanted outsiders to understand Amish life

0:34:260:34:29

but also to respect the private traditions

0:34:290:34:32

of the Old Order church service.

0:34:320:34:34

It was decided to film but from a distance.

0:34:360:34:39

# Salve

0:34:390:34:43

# Salve

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# Salve

0:34:510:34:58

# Salve

0:34:590:35:05

# Salve

0:35:060:35:13

# Salve

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# O clemens

0:35:360:35:39

# O pia

0:35:390:35:41

# O dulcis Maria

0:35:410:35:44

# O clemens

0:35:440:35:46

# O pia

0:35:460:35:48

# O dulcis Maria

0:35:480:35:52

# O clemens

0:35:520:35:54

# O pia

0:35:540:35:55

# O dulcis Maria

0:35:550:36:00

# O clemens

0:36:000:36:02

# O pia

0:36:020:36:03

# O dulcis Maria

0:36:030:36:07

# O clemens

0:36:070:36:09

# O pia

0:36:090:36:11

# O dulcis Maria

0:36:110:36:15

# O clemens

0:36:150:36:17

# O pia

0:36:170:36:19

# O dulcis Maria

0:36:190:36:25

# Salve Regina

0:36:250:36:28

# Mater misericordiae

0:36:280:36:32

# Salve Regina

0:36:320:36:35

# Mater misericordiae

0:36:350:36:39

# Salve Regina

0:36:390:36:43

# Salve Regina

0:36:440:36:47

# Salve Regina

0:36:480:36:56

# Salve

0:36:560:37:02

# Salve

0:37:040:37:10

# Salve

0:37:110:37:18

# Salve

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# Salve

0:37:270:37:33

# Salve

0:37:340:37:40

# Salve

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# Salve Regina. #

0:37:490:37:57

-Good morning.

-Good morning.

0:38:200:38:22

Until now, Dave and Miriam were the only Old Order Amish

0:38:220:38:25

who'd consented to filming.

0:38:250:38:27

But, today, Miriam's holding a tea party for some women friends.

0:38:270:38:31

For the first time, there were other Amish who were prepared

0:38:310:38:36

to take a risk and be filmed.

0:38:360:38:38

There appeared to be two different groups of women -

0:38:380:38:42

some were Old Order Amish, others were clearly not.

0:38:420:38:46

We've gathered for about three years.

0:38:490:38:51

I joined about three years

0:38:510:38:54

and then we were all members of the Old Order Amish.

0:38:540:38:59

But as time went on,

0:39:000:39:03

a few of them were excommunicated on spiritual beliefs

0:39:030:39:09

and so now, we are still continuing...

0:39:090:39:12

..and we've been friends for so long

0:39:130:39:15

and it just seems we meet each other so much.

0:39:150:39:18

Come on up!

0:39:180:39:21

As members of the Old Order Amish Church,

0:39:240:39:27

Miriam and Dave are obliged to shun anyone who is excommunicated.

0:39:270:39:30

It means they shouldn't eat together or gather together.

0:39:330:39:37

It has been too long!

0:39:440:39:45

It's about half and half.

0:39:450:39:47

About half have gone through the fire of being excommunicated.

0:39:470:39:54

But they really hold onto the values

0:39:540:39:57

and still want to be alike to their own people.

0:39:570:40:00

'They see a lot of righteousness in our culture

0:40:000:40:03

'and want to keep our values.

0:40:030:40:06

'And there's many things we hold dear and don't want to lose.'

0:40:060:40:10

# I may never fly over the enemy

0:40:100:40:15

# But I'm in the Lord's army

0:40:150:40:18

# Yes, sir

0:40:180:40:20

# I'm in the Lord's army

0:40:200:40:23

# Yes, sir

0:40:230:40:25

# I'm in the Lord's army. #

0:40:250:40:30

We're in a time... In a generation where...

0:40:300:40:34

..I feel the spirit is moving. I think...

0:40:360:40:39

..there's people rising...

0:40:410:40:44

..who have studied the Bible and see the need for us

0:40:450:40:52

to just break down some lies that...

0:40:520:40:58

I believed or that our people believe.

0:40:580:41:01

# I may never march in the infantry

0:41:010:41:06

# Ride in the cavalry

0:41:060:41:09

# Shoot the artillery

0:41:090:41:11

# I may never... #

0:41:110:41:13

Miriam was revealing that she and Dave

0:41:130:41:16

are part of a movement within the Amish community

0:41:160:41:19

which is more open than evangelical in its approach,

0:41:190:41:22

and whose mission is to spread the word of God.

0:41:220:41:25

# Yes, sir

0:41:250:41:27

# I'm in the Lord's army. #

0:41:270:41:30

Yes, sir!

0:41:300:41:31

'I think the rules can be overemphasised

0:41:310:41:35

'and we look to that as, you know, a way of...'

0:41:350:41:39

..salvation.

0:41:410:41:42

It can make it confusing.

0:41:430:41:45

Miriam was picking her words carefully,

0:41:470:41:49

because she didn't want to offend her Old Order family and friends.

0:41:490:41:54

It was clear they no longer believed

0:41:540:41:56

that keeping to every church rule was the route to heaven -

0:41:560:41:59

although they still valued the Amish lifestyle and traditions.

0:41:590:42:04

We'll lead you right down to it.

0:42:040:42:07

They explained they'd been re-baptised at night,

0:42:070:42:10

in their garden, a year ago.

0:42:100:42:12

They felt their original baptism as young adults was not valid.

0:42:130:42:17

This re-baptism was a whole new affirmation of their belief in God.

0:42:170:42:22

It was right about this time of evening.

0:42:220:42:24

Right in there, it's about three feet deep.

0:42:240:42:27

Two-and-a-half, three feet deep.

0:42:270:42:29

So, we all came down here and someone held the lantern like this.

0:42:300:42:34

About 50 people standing around here,

0:42:340:42:37

and four couples had decided to be baptised

0:42:370:42:39

in the name of Jesus Christ.

0:42:390:42:41

And that's what we did.

0:42:410:42:43

A year ago, on this day.

0:42:430:42:45

Two people went out in the water to help you,

0:42:480:42:50

so you went in the water and knelt down, and then you leaned back

0:42:500:42:54

till you were completely submerged in water, then you come forth

0:42:540:42:57

and you're... you're buried and you rise up...

0:42:570:43:00

-Rise as Christ.

-..as Christ, yeah.

0:43:000:43:02

And you go in the house and grab a towel, real quick.

0:43:040:43:07

'If our people were to find it out...#

0:43:120:43:15

..we couldn't be Amish.

0:43:160:43:18

Cos there was people being...

0:43:180:43:20

There have been people excommunicated because of re-baptism.

0:43:200:43:25

So that was...

0:43:270:43:29

That was very hard for me to just...

0:43:290:43:32

..er...

0:43:340:43:35

..put me in that situation where I'm re-baptised

0:43:360:43:39

and where I know our leaders wouldn't approve.

0:43:390:43:42

But they will learn about it now.

0:43:440:43:47

Um, you mean now that...?

0:43:480:43:51

Well, I guess, you know, if you put that on the film.

0:43:510:43:54

So, we have...

0:43:560:43:59

We have...

0:43:590:44:01

..told my parents.

0:44:020:44:05

And...I felt their blessing.

0:44:050:44:10

Especially Mom's.

0:44:100:44:12

There's been much conflict about practices on how to baptise

0:44:140:44:19

or re-baptism within our church.

0:44:190:44:22

It always brings strife and conflict.

0:44:220:44:25

And it's because of the spiritual war.

0:44:260:44:29

How do you think people will feel...

0:44:320:44:35

if it's known from the film that you've been re-baptised?

0:44:350:44:39

Well, it's the truth.

0:44:450:44:48

A guy can always use the truth. He can always...

0:44:480:44:51

..make good of it.

0:44:530:44:55

It...

0:44:570:44:58

If I just dwell on people finding it out, I'm fearful.

0:45:000:45:07

You could still be excommunicated for being re-baptised?

0:45:100:45:14

Oh, yeah. I have no idea what our people would really do in our church.

0:45:140:45:18

Or for taking part in this film?

0:45:200:45:23

Yes. Yes.

0:45:230:45:25

Less than a week later,

0:45:290:45:31

another group of people gathered at Miriam and Dave's house -

0:45:310:45:34

this time, to worship together.

0:45:340:45:37

Again, many of them were excommunicated,

0:45:370:45:40

and some of them were driving cars.

0:45:400:45:43

You're allowed to get together and talk with excommunicated people,

0:45:430:45:46

but you're not allowed to eat with them

0:45:460:45:49

and ride with them.

0:45:490:45:51

So there's some risks, yeah.

0:45:530:45:55

Some people come here in secret.

0:45:580:46:00

The Amish church doesn't know.

0:46:000:46:03

Mm.

0:46:030:46:05

Yeah.

0:46:050:46:07

You know, getting together with a big group regularly that's excommunicated,

0:46:080:46:16

they would start to wonder, you know,

0:46:160:46:18

"Why are we getting together?"

0:46:180:46:20

Because, you know, "Why don't you get together with people that are still Amish?

0:46:210:46:26

"Why do you hang out with the excommunicated?"

0:46:260:46:29

Yeah, that makes it uncomfortable.

0:46:290:46:31

'That makes the leaders and the elders uncomfortable.'

0:46:310:46:34

CHATTERING

0:46:340:46:37

If we're ready?

0:46:430:46:45

Let's all stand up and pray.

0:46:460:46:48

Heavenly Father, we come before you in the name of Jesus Christ,

0:46:570:47:03

because Jesus said He is the way, He is the life.

0:47:030:47:06

He is the only way to you, Father, so we come in His name

0:47:060:47:09

and we ask you that you would be with us.

0:47:090:47:11

We thank you for the food that we ate,

0:47:110:47:13

we thank you for the building that you have provided,

0:47:130:47:15

we praise you, we praise and glorify your holy name.

0:47:150:47:19

-In Jesus' name we pray, Father. Amen.

-ALL:

-Amen.

0:47:190:47:24

# ..we shall wear a crown

0:47:240:47:27

# In the new Jeru-sa-lem

0:47:270:47:33

-# Wear a cro-o-o-own

-Wear a crown

0:47:330:47:36

-# Wear a cro-o-own

-Wear a crown

0:47:360:47:39

# Wear a... #

0:47:390:47:40

If you were excommunicated, what would you lose?

0:47:400:47:46

I mean, would you be shunned by your family and your friends?

0:47:460:47:50

Some, I'm sure.

0:47:500:47:51

I assume some family would not, but others would.

0:47:520:47:58

-They would shun you?

-Yeah. Yeah.

0:47:590:48:02

What would they do, exactly?

0:48:030:48:06

Well, they wouldn't come any more, they wouldn't invite us...

0:48:060:48:10

..to gatherings, or...

0:48:120:48:15

..they might avoid us, you know, if they do see us.

0:48:170:48:21

They would be required to do that by the church?

0:48:240:48:26

By some people.

0:48:290:48:31

But that would represent a huge loss for you, would it?

0:48:340:48:39

A huge loss?

0:48:390:48:41

It might seem so, but...

0:48:440:48:46

..Jesus calls us to rejoice if we're put out because of his name.

0:48:480:48:55

For his cause.

0:48:550:48:57

I know it would be hard, because it would be...

0:48:570:49:00

..the reality of rejection.

0:49:010:49:04

And I know that's hurtful.

0:49:060:49:11

-These are people you love.

-Yes.

0:49:110:49:14

# I know this li-i-ife is precious

0:49:490:49:56

# The next breath you ta-a-ake

0:49:560:49:59

# Could be your last one

0:49:590:50:03

# Another day is come

0:50:030:50:06

# Another sunrise

0:50:060:50:09

# Another day God holds

0:50:090:50:12

# Every moment of it!

0:50:120:50:15

# This life we have

0:50:150:50:18

# Is the gift of our maker

0:50:180:50:22

# This sacred freedom

0:50:220:50:25

# Here in our land

0:50:250:50:28

# This divine hour

0:50:280:50:32

# I recognise

0:50:320:50:35

# We'll hold on tight

0:50:350:50:38

# To this precious life... #

0:50:380:50:41

Five months later, and the family were moving house.

0:50:410:50:45

Dave had managed to buy a farm,

0:50:450:50:47

75 acres, a mile away from their old house.

0:50:470:50:51

# ..below me at God's creation

0:50:510:50:55

# And I'm overwhelmed with all the beauty in me

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# He's filled my eyes and I realise. #

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# It's the glory now that fills and fills my soul

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# As I walk the night away. #

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What can you get, one last hill here?

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Come on.

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# A-A-A-Amen

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# A-A-A-Amen

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# A-Amen

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# Amen

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# Amen with the horns now

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# Amen

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# With the rhythm now, A...

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# A-Amen

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# A-A-A-Amen

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# A-Amen

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# Amen

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# Amen. #

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I think God has a special place for farmers.

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And it's on my heart, too.

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I'll be living by working the land.

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There's something special about putting seeds in the ground and watch it grow.

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# Amen

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# This little light of mine

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# I'm gonna let it shine... #

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Katie, hey!

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KATIE GIGGLES

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Katie!

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The family will have less income from farming

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than when Dave worked in construction.

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-Hey!

-Hey!

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-How was your day?

-Good.

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Hiya, James.

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Being together and having each others hearts

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is more important than finances.

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Love requires time.

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So...

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If you... If you want your cow to feel your love,

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you will need to spend time with it.

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By working together, I expect to be able to connect with them.

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Because, once I'm an old man, 80 years old,

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I'll need to ask Katie, my daughter,

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if she's going to be my nurse when I'm 80 years old.

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I am fully persuaded if I have time to meet her needs now,

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she will have time...

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to meet my needs

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Hello, Kevin?

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This is David Lapp, I'm looking for a brown Swiss cow.

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Do you know of anybody that has brown Swiss cows?

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Yeah, one or two family cows.

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Mm-hm.

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I'm looking for a cow.

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We want to get a cow or two

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because we want to make our own yogurt, butter, cheese

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and stuff like that, ice-cream.

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We will have all the fresh milk to drink.

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This is the phone shanty.

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The traditional Amish kind don't have phones in their houses.

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So they have a phone in a shanty outside somewhere.

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-We're quite a long way away from the house now?

-Yeah.

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Most people don't have it this far away.

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Er...

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People are starting to have it closer, like in the garage

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and that's quite acceptable in our area.

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Are you going to leave it here or are you going to move it?

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We'll probably get it closer to the house, yeah.

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It's just the way of the Elders' decision to keep life more simple.

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Personally, I see it as a waste of time.

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AMISH CHORAL SINGING

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The idea had been to make a film about Amish family life and faith.

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David and Miriam embraced the risks of taking part

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because of their beliefs.

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The threat of being forced out of the Amish Church has not gone away.

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The family see themselves as Amish Christians.

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They have put their new beliefs before the Amish rules.

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There is no way of life

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that will bring peace and joy to a person's heart.

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Some people think if they would only live a unique lifestyle like the Amish,

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that will help them to be happy.

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Some people think if they would have a bigger house, they would be happy.

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But my message is, all those things are good

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but if that's what your happiness is based on, it's not going to last.

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If you accept Jesus, that will be the true happiness.

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The reason we took part in the film

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is because one of the last Commandments

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that Jesus gave to his disciples before he left

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was, "go ye and tell the world.

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"Go ye to the outermost parts of the world,

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"teaching and preaching and baptising in the name of Jesus."

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There might be consequences,

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but we pray that we ask Jesus that we would not offend people.

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God bless you in Jesus's name.

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God bless you. Bye!

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# Are you going to be a saint on that shore

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# Or a sinner left far behind?

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# Don't you think of your soul and want to be saved

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# Don't you want to go to Heaven sometime?

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# Sometime, sometime

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# I'll be going to Heaven sometime

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# God is leading the way and I can't go astray

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# I'll be going to Heaven sometime. #

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