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# There is not another Sister, friend of brother | 0:00:02 | 0:00:04 | |
# Loves the way Jesus can | 0:00:04 | 0:00:07 | |
# He proved His love for me when He died on Calvary | 0:00:07 | 0:00:11 | |
# He gave His life for fallen man | 0:00:11 | 0:00:15 | |
# His love is a boundless love... # | 0:00:15 | 0:00:20 | |
In many ways, they were a typical Old Order Amish family. | 0:00:20 | 0:00:23 | |
# His love is an endless love... # | 0:00:23 | 0:00:26 | |
They were maintaining traditions | 0:00:26 | 0:00:28 | |
and a way of life that go back 300 years. | 0:00:28 | 0:00:31 | |
# Jesus wants to love you There is none above you... # | 0:00:31 | 0:00:35 | |
A quarter of a million Amish live in the middle of modern America today. | 0:00:35 | 0:00:40 | |
He won't kill you. | 0:00:40 | 0:00:41 | |
Oink! Oink! Oink! | 0:00:41 | 0:00:44 | |
Just like their forefathers, | 0:00:46 | 0:00:48 | |
they believe in holding on to the old ways | 0:00:48 | 0:00:52 | |
and leading a plain and simple life. | 0:00:52 | 0:00:54 | |
Moo! | 0:00:54 | 0:00:56 | |
# There is Power... | 0:00:56 | 0:00:58 | |
Power? # There is power... | 0:00:58 | 0:01:01 | |
But what made this Amish family extraordinary | 0:01:01 | 0:01:04 | |
was the fact they'd agreed to be filmed. | 0:01:04 | 0:01:08 | |
FAMILY SINGS SOFTLY | 0:01:08 | 0:01:09 | |
They were prepared to go against the strict rules of their church, | 0:01:09 | 0:01:13 | |
which forbids photography. | 0:01:13 | 0:01:15 | |
In allowing themselves to be filmed, they were taking an enormous risk. | 0:01:15 | 0:01:20 | |
# There is power, power | 0:01:20 | 0:01:22 | |
# Wonder-working power | 0:01:22 | 0:01:25 | |
# In the precious blood of the lamb... # | 0:01:25 | 0:01:30 | |
The film was to be about Amish family life and faith | 0:01:41 | 0:01:44 | |
and a family had been found to take part. | 0:01:44 | 0:01:47 | |
But by consenting to filming, | 0:01:50 | 0:01:52 | |
they risked excommunication from the Amish church. | 0:01:52 | 0:01:55 | |
For two weeks, they'd been praying, | 0:01:58 | 0:02:00 | |
asking God whether or not they should participate. | 0:02:00 | 0:02:03 | |
Good morning. | 0:02:06 | 0:02:08 | |
Good morning! | 0:02:08 | 0:02:09 | |
How are we? | 0:02:09 | 0:02:11 | |
I'm good, I'm David Lapp. | 0:02:11 | 0:02:13 | |
-Say hello to Steve. -Hello, Steve. | 0:02:13 | 0:02:15 | |
-Good morning, David. -It's a lovely day. | 0:02:15 | 0:02:18 | |
It is. How are you this morning? | 0:02:18 | 0:02:20 | |
Very well! It's a beautiful morning. | 0:02:20 | 0:02:22 | |
It is, praise the Lord! | 0:02:22 | 0:02:25 | |
This is my youngest son, Benuel. | 0:02:25 | 0:02:27 | |
Hello! Good morning. | 0:02:27 | 0:02:29 | |
-Say hi, Ben. -Hi. | 0:02:29 | 0:02:31 | |
How you feeling about filming? | 0:02:33 | 0:02:34 | |
We have peace with it or we wouldn't be doing it. | 0:02:34 | 0:02:38 | |
You know, we sought direction from God | 0:02:38 | 0:02:42 | |
and if we wouldn't have got... | 0:02:42 | 0:02:44 | |
Um, if we wouldn't feel it would be OK with Him, | 0:02:46 | 0:02:49 | |
we would not be doing it. | 0:02:49 | 0:02:50 | |
Shall we go and meet the family? | 0:02:52 | 0:02:54 | |
Ja. Yes. Please come in. | 0:02:54 | 0:02:56 | |
We got visitors. | 0:03:12 | 0:03:14 | |
OK! | 0:03:14 | 0:03:15 | |
Good morning! | 0:03:20 | 0:03:21 | |
Good morning. | 0:03:21 | 0:03:22 | |
How are you? | 0:03:22 | 0:03:24 | |
Fine, how about you? | 0:03:24 | 0:03:26 | |
Good, it's a lovely day out there, isn't it? | 0:03:26 | 0:03:28 | |
-Yes, it is. -Yes. Hi, Steve. | 0:03:28 | 0:03:30 | |
This is Katie. This is our oldest daughter. | 0:03:30 | 0:03:33 | |
Katie, Lynn. | 0:03:34 | 0:03:37 | |
Actually, it's a little bit dark in here. | 0:03:37 | 0:03:39 | |
Could we possibly pull up a couple of the blinds? | 0:03:39 | 0:03:42 | |
This is my son, Daniel. How old are you, Daniel? | 0:03:51 | 0:03:55 | |
Six. | 0:03:55 | 0:03:56 | |
This is Jacob. How old are you, Jacob? | 0:03:56 | 0:03:58 | |
Nine! | 0:03:58 | 0:03:59 | |
There you go. | 0:04:01 | 0:04:02 | |
-You don't have electricity here, do you? -No, we don't. | 0:04:05 | 0:04:09 | |
Why is that? Why do Amish people not have electricity? | 0:04:09 | 0:04:14 | |
Well, it's because of... | 0:04:14 | 0:04:17 | |
..the distraction that comes with it. | 0:04:18 | 0:04:21 | |
Like, er, rather than having television and video games | 0:04:21 | 0:04:25 | |
and all kind of gadgets that run off electricity | 0:04:25 | 0:04:28 | |
we believe that, um... That's the reason alone, | 0:04:28 | 0:04:34 | |
is because it's to keep out the distractions | 0:04:34 | 0:04:37 | |
so you can focus on principles of life, like family time together, | 0:04:37 | 0:04:41 | |
reading the Bible... | 0:04:41 | 0:04:43 | |
IN PENNSYLVANIA GERMAN: | 0:04:44 | 0:04:46 | |
The Amish speak a German dialect as their first language. | 0:04:48 | 0:04:52 | |
They came originally from Europe in the early 1700s, | 0:04:52 | 0:04:57 | |
settling first here in Pennsylvania. | 0:04:57 | 0:04:59 | |
What do you think people in Britain will make of you and your lives? | 0:05:01 | 0:05:07 | |
What will they think? | 0:05:07 | 0:05:09 | |
That's a good question. SHE LAUGHS | 0:05:11 | 0:05:13 | |
I have no idea. | 0:05:13 | 0:05:15 | |
Will they think it's real? | 0:05:15 | 0:05:17 | |
I don't know, I don't know. | 0:05:17 | 0:05:19 | |
If they look at our lifestyles, without electric, | 0:05:19 | 0:05:22 | |
they probably think we're a little, um... | 0:05:22 | 0:05:26 | |
..old-fashioned, maybe, or too simple, I don't know. | 0:05:29 | 0:05:33 | |
SHE LAUGHS | 0:05:33 | 0:05:35 | |
What do you know about people in Britain? | 0:05:36 | 0:05:39 | |
The only thing I have heard about Britain is the Prime Minister, | 0:05:39 | 0:05:43 | |
Tony Blair, I believe, and about the Queen and the King. | 0:05:43 | 0:05:49 | |
But I have no idea how, um... | 0:05:49 | 0:05:52 | |
How they'd compare with the United States, really. | 0:05:53 | 0:05:58 | |
We've got a new prime minister now, actually. Tony Blair's gone! | 0:05:58 | 0:06:02 | |
OK! Yeah, I don't keep up with the facts. | 0:06:02 | 0:06:04 | |
Without radio and television and the internet, | 0:06:08 | 0:06:11 | |
the Amish exist in a world quite separate - but alongside - | 0:06:11 | 0:06:14 | |
the rest of America. | 0:06:14 | 0:06:16 | |
A great deal of modern technology is rejected. | 0:06:16 | 0:06:19 | |
They live by a set of rules designed to retain their identity. | 0:06:21 | 0:06:24 | |
David and Miriam were breaking the rules by being filmed. | 0:06:27 | 0:06:31 | |
Amish church forbids people from posing | 0:06:31 | 0:06:34 | |
or actively giving their consent to photography or filming. | 0:06:34 | 0:06:38 | |
Is lunch ready, Jacob? | 0:06:38 | 0:06:40 | |
Who's gonna take a nap after lunch? | 0:06:53 | 0:06:55 | |
-Not me! -Not me! | 0:06:55 | 0:06:57 | |
Heavenly Father... | 0:07:08 | 0:07:09 | |
..we come before you | 0:07:11 | 0:07:13 | |
in the name of Jesus Christ, our King. | 0:07:13 | 0:07:16 | |
We thank you that you have allowed us to stand up today | 0:07:16 | 0:07:19 | |
for the beautiful day, Father. | 0:07:19 | 0:07:21 | |
Heavenly Father, I ask that you will bless Jacob and Daniel | 0:07:21 | 0:07:26 | |
and Kate and Benuel James | 0:07:26 | 0:07:28 | |
and my beautiful wife, Miriam. | 0:07:28 | 0:07:30 | |
Father, I ask that you will bless me as well so I can do your will. | 0:07:30 | 0:07:33 | |
Heavenly Father, we ask that you would, | 0:07:35 | 0:07:38 | |
in the name of Jesus Christ, that you would allow the BBC | 0:07:38 | 0:07:43 | |
to bring honour and glory to you, Jesus. | 0:07:43 | 0:07:45 | |
We ask that it would soften somebody's heart | 0:07:45 | 0:07:48 | |
and that that result will build your kingdom, Jesus Christ. | 0:07:48 | 0:07:52 | |
We ask for a blessing and strength | 0:07:52 | 0:07:54 | |
upon the work that people are doing for it, | 0:07:54 | 0:07:58 | |
Father, and we just ask that we could be doing your will throughout. | 0:07:58 | 0:08:02 | |
And that all honour and glory will come to you, Jesus. Amen. | 0:08:02 | 0:08:06 | |
Go, Ben. | 0:08:10 | 0:08:11 | |
CHILDREN CHATTER | 0:08:16 | 0:08:19 | |
Yeah, like soldiers, because the rooster | 0:08:22 | 0:08:26 | |
is not always nice to 'em. | 0:08:26 | 0:08:28 | |
There is the rooster. | 0:08:29 | 0:08:31 | |
-Woo! Kidoo kidoo! -Kidoo! Kidoo! | 0:08:31 | 0:08:33 | |
Kidoo! Kidoo! | 0:08:40 | 0:08:42 | |
ROOSTER CROWS | 0:08:42 | 0:08:45 | |
-Was it just five? -Seven? -Seven? | 0:08:47 | 0:08:51 | |
What is your approach to the number of children you have? | 0:08:51 | 0:08:55 | |
To me, I don't even have a goal. I don't... | 0:08:55 | 0:08:58 | |
Are your children planned? | 0:08:59 | 0:09:02 | |
Hmm. | 0:09:02 | 0:09:03 | |
We just rejoice when God gives us another child. | 0:09:05 | 0:09:08 | |
There is no planning on our part. | 0:09:08 | 0:09:10 | |
I'm not sure what the definition of "plan" is, | 0:09:13 | 0:09:15 | |
but I think I know what you're talking about. | 0:09:15 | 0:09:18 | |
Well, contraception? | 0:09:18 | 0:09:19 | |
-No. -Like, control? Yeah. | 0:09:19 | 0:09:22 | |
No, there is no planning. | 0:09:22 | 0:09:24 | |
Um... | 0:09:25 | 0:09:27 | |
For me, it's... | 0:09:28 | 0:09:29 | |
I think Miriam thinks about children more than I do. | 0:09:29 | 0:09:33 | |
For me, I'm so busy with the ones that He has given us | 0:09:33 | 0:09:36 | |
when He gives us another one, I'm rejoicing, | 0:09:36 | 0:09:40 | |
but I'm not really thinking we should have another one | 0:09:40 | 0:09:43 | |
because how could I be one-on-one if we had ten, | 0:09:43 | 0:09:45 | |
instead of five or four? | 0:09:45 | 0:09:47 | |
But God would... He doesn't make mistakes. | 0:09:47 | 0:09:51 | |
So I'm sure there is a way. | 0:09:51 | 0:09:52 | |
"Happy is a man that has his quiver full of them." | 0:09:57 | 0:10:00 | |
I think, a quiver of arrows is 12 arrows. | 0:10:00 | 0:10:05 | |
-Is that... Am I right? -I think so. | 0:10:05 | 0:10:08 | |
And happy is the man that has 12 of them. | 0:10:08 | 0:10:12 | |
Is that how many you would like? Would you like 12 children? | 0:10:12 | 0:10:16 | |
Well, I can't quite see it possible any more. I'm 32! | 0:10:16 | 0:10:21 | |
And I've had four. | 0:10:21 | 0:10:23 | |
Er, I need a couple of sets of twins maybe to be able to make 12! | 0:10:24 | 0:10:31 | |
But I've always, I thought a family of ten would be ideal. | 0:10:31 | 0:10:35 | |
The family were happy to be filmed shopping. | 0:10:41 | 0:10:44 | |
But it had to be discreet. | 0:10:44 | 0:10:46 | |
Other Amish also shop at the store | 0:10:46 | 0:10:48 | |
and could challenge them at any time. | 0:10:48 | 0:10:51 | |
# Thank you, Lord, for your blessings on me | 0:10:51 | 0:10:58 | |
# Thank you Lord for giving to me | 0:10:58 | 0:11:06 | |
# All of my friends and family | 0:11:06 | 0:11:14 | |
# Thank you lord for your blessings on me | 0:11:14 | 0:11:21 | |
# All of the days, the rest of my life | 0:11:22 | 0:11:30 | |
# No matter what life holds for me | 0:11:31 | 0:11:36 | |
# I could be on my knees | 0:11:36 | 0:11:40 | |
# Forever you know | 0:11:40 | 0:11:44 | |
# But I never could thank you enough | 0:11:44 | 0:11:50 | |
CHILDREN CHATTER EXCITEDLY | 0:11:59 | 0:12:01 | |
IN PENNSYLVANIA GERMAN: | 0:12:13 | 0:12:16 | |
Everything for your honour and glory, in Jesus' name, Amen. | 0:12:25 | 0:12:29 | |
Let's get started. | 0:12:29 | 0:12:30 | |
It's about 6:15. | 0:12:30 | 0:12:32 | |
# ..Forever you know | 0:12:32 | 0:12:36 | |
# But I never could thank you enough. # | 0:12:38 | 0:12:44 | |
FAMILY SINGS: # And now I lay me down to sleep | 0:12:51 | 0:12:56 | |
# I pray thee, Lord, my soul to keep | 0:12:56 | 0:13:01 | |
# If I should die before I wake | 0:13:01 | 0:13:07 | |
# I pray thee, Lord, my soul to take. # | 0:13:07 | 0:13:14 | |
# O, they tell me of a home far beyond the skies | 0:13:16 | 0:13:20 | |
# O, they tell me of a home far away | 0:13:20 | 0:13:24 | |
# O, they tell me of a home where no storm clouds rise | 0:13:24 | 0:13:28 | |
# O, they tell me of an unclouded day | 0:13:28 | 0:13:33 | |
# O, the land of cloudless day | 0:13:33 | 0:13:37 | |
# O, the land of an unclouded sky | 0:13:37 | 0:13:41 | |
# O, they tell me of a home where no storm clouds rise | 0:13:41 | 0:13:46 | |
# O, they tell me of an unclouded day | 0:13:46 | 0:13:52 | |
# O, they tell me of a king in his beauty there | 0:13:52 | 0:13:57 | |
# And they tell me that my eyes shall behold | 0:13:57 | 0:14:01 | |
# Where he sits on his throne that is whiter than snow | 0:14:01 | 0:14:06 | |
# In the city that is made of gold | 0:14:06 | 0:14:11 | |
# O, the land of cloudless day | 0:14:11 | 0:14:16 | |
# O, the land of an unclouded sky | 0:14:16 | 0:14:21 | |
# O, they tell me of a home where no storm clouds rise | 0:14:21 | 0:14:26 | |
# O, they tell me of an unclouded day. # | 0:14:26 | 0:14:31 | |
Goodnight. | 0:14:32 | 0:14:34 | |
Goodnight. | 0:14:34 | 0:14:36 | |
I love you. | 0:14:36 | 0:14:38 | |
(Goodnight.) | 0:14:41 | 0:14:43 | |
-Sabbath today. -Yeah. -What a beautiful day. -It is. | 0:14:50 | 0:14:54 | |
You are welcome to come in and worship with us. | 0:14:54 | 0:14:56 | |
"We have here..." | 0:14:56 | 0:14:58 | |
The Amish attend church every other Sunday. | 0:14:58 | 0:15:01 | |
In between, they worship at home. | 0:15:01 | 0:15:04 | |
"..of all time. | 0:15:04 | 0:15:06 | |
Thou shalt not kill | 0:15:06 | 0:15:08 | |
"and whosoever shall kill shall be in danger of the judgement." | 0:15:08 | 0:15:13 | |
(FAMILY SINGS) # O, let it shine | 0:15:13 | 0:15:16 | |
# Let it shine, let it shine | 0:15:16 | 0:15:20 | |
# Hide it under a bushel, no | 0:15:20 | 0:15:23 | |
# I'm gonna let it shine | 0:15:23 | 0:15:26 | |
# Hide it under a bushel, no | 0:15:26 | 0:15:30 | |
# I'm gonna let it shine, let it shine, let it shine | 0:15:30 | 0:15:36 | |
# Let it shine. # | 0:15:36 | 0:15:38 | |
We don't work Sundays more than necessary. | 0:15:38 | 0:15:42 | |
Um, I might go out to the garden if I need an onion | 0:15:42 | 0:15:48 | |
that I didn't bring in Saturday, | 0:15:48 | 0:15:49 | |
and I decided I'll make some soup and I need an onion. | 0:15:49 | 0:15:52 | |
Things like that, except, but, er... | 0:15:52 | 0:15:56 | |
We try to use the day totally for... | 0:15:56 | 0:16:01 | |
..um... | 0:16:02 | 0:16:04 | |
..spiritually renewing and, just to spend time with our children. | 0:16:04 | 0:16:10 | |
Sunday before noon, the children don't play outdoors. | 0:16:11 | 0:16:15 | |
And in the afternoon, it's a time with us to play games with them. | 0:16:18 | 0:16:21 | |
Miriam and David have been married for nearly 11 years. | 0:16:27 | 0:16:32 | |
How did you get together, then? | 0:16:32 | 0:16:34 | |
Why, you know, in the traditional way, | 0:16:36 | 0:16:39 | |
you just, er...muster up enough boldness and courage | 0:16:39 | 0:16:44 | |
to ask a girl if you can court her. | 0:16:44 | 0:16:49 | |
So that's what I did at the age of 18. | 0:16:50 | 0:16:53 | |
So we had a year and a half of courtship then we were married. | 0:16:53 | 0:16:56 | |
And that was a blessed year and a half. | 0:16:56 | 0:16:59 | |
And I did not doubt that relationship. | 0:16:59 | 0:17:02 | |
I clearly felt it was God leading us together. | 0:17:02 | 0:17:05 | |
Miriam had a conviction for a hands-off courtship, | 0:17:05 | 0:17:09 | |
so we had a hands-off courtship. | 0:17:09 | 0:17:12 | |
I mean... No touching at all, or, what's the line? | 0:17:12 | 0:17:17 | |
A hands-off... | 0:17:17 | 0:17:18 | |
We didn't embrace each other. | 0:17:18 | 0:17:21 | |
We didn't hug each other, we didn't kiss each other. | 0:17:21 | 0:17:24 | |
But we would sit together. | 0:17:24 | 0:17:25 | |
We sat beside each other and enjoyed each other's warmth. | 0:17:25 | 0:17:29 | |
A squeeze of the hand sometimes. | 0:17:29 | 0:17:32 | |
This is my wedding dress... | 0:17:38 | 0:17:41 | |
..that I had with a white... We wear white cape aprons. | 0:17:41 | 0:17:45 | |
I feel it's very important to make the dress in such a way | 0:17:47 | 0:17:51 | |
that it adorns our inner spirit | 0:17:51 | 0:17:54 | |
and not bring out our... | 0:17:54 | 0:17:57 | |
our bodily figure. | 0:17:57 | 0:17:59 | |
No, it-it should be, men are attracted to the heart, | 0:18:00 | 0:18:04 | |
not to the figure. | 0:18:04 | 0:18:07 | |
As a woman, we can do a lot to not bring a man to lust. | 0:18:07 | 0:18:13 | |
I feel us women don't quite realise men's battle with, um... | 0:18:13 | 0:18:20 | |
it's just, God made them with that nature. | 0:18:20 | 0:18:24 | |
They have this lustful nature. | 0:18:24 | 0:18:26 | |
The natural instinct is there | 0:18:26 | 0:18:29 | |
but if we encourage it, it might make them stumble. | 0:18:29 | 0:18:33 | |
I never knew about it before my husband told me. | 0:18:33 | 0:18:37 | |
You know, the battle that, um... | 0:18:37 | 0:18:39 | |
..he had with women that had a lot of leg exposed | 0:18:41 | 0:18:46 | |
or even lower necklines | 0:18:46 | 0:18:49 | |
and I had no idea that he had that battle! | 0:18:49 | 0:18:54 | |
Good morning! | 0:19:01 | 0:19:03 | |
Good morning! Good morning! | 0:19:03 | 0:19:04 | |
Come on in! | 0:19:04 | 0:19:06 | |
It's 4:30 in the morning. | 0:19:06 | 0:19:08 | |
Every day, Miriam gets up to cook breakfast for Dave | 0:19:08 | 0:19:11 | |
before he goes to work at 5:00. | 0:19:11 | 0:19:13 | |
Good morning. | 0:19:14 | 0:19:15 | |
Good morning. | 0:19:15 | 0:19:16 | |
-Good morning. -Good morning, Steve. | 0:19:18 | 0:19:20 | |
Two eggs and a cornmeal mush. | 0:19:20 | 0:19:23 | |
It's my favourite. | 0:19:23 | 0:19:25 | |
Heavenly Father, I ask for a blessing | 0:19:32 | 0:19:34 | |
upon the hands that prepared this food. | 0:19:34 | 0:19:36 | |
I ask for your protection around my family today | 0:19:36 | 0:19:39 | |
as I go to work and Jacob and Daniel go to school, | 0:19:39 | 0:19:42 | |
as Miriam and Benuel and Kate are at home, | 0:19:42 | 0:19:44 | |
Father, I ask for your protection around them all | 0:19:44 | 0:19:47 | |
and that you will keep them safe | 0:19:47 | 0:19:48 | |
and that it be your will that we could be together tonight | 0:19:48 | 0:19:52 | |
at our supper table. | 0:19:52 | 0:19:53 | |
-In Jesus' holy name we pray. Amen. -Amen. | 0:19:53 | 0:19:56 | |
Dave usually gets a lift to work | 0:20:03 | 0:20:05 | |
from one of his staff who isn't Amish. | 0:20:05 | 0:20:08 | |
The rules forbid car ownership, but there's nothing to stop people | 0:20:09 | 0:20:13 | |
from accepting a lift or using a taxi. | 0:20:13 | 0:20:15 | |
-Hey, good morning, Benuel. -BENUEL CRIES | 0:20:28 | 0:20:32 | |
Come. | 0:20:32 | 0:20:33 | |
Danny, Jacob? Let's eat! | 0:20:42 | 0:20:44 | |
-Jacob, do the blessing for us? -Yeah. -OK. | 0:20:48 | 0:20:51 | |
Amen. | 0:21:27 | 0:21:29 | |
Hey. Have a good day. | 0:21:42 | 0:21:45 | |
God bless you. | 0:21:45 | 0:21:46 | |
OK, see ya. | 0:21:48 | 0:21:49 | |
See ya, Jacob! | 0:21:49 | 0:21:51 | |
Goodbye! | 0:21:51 | 0:21:52 | |
-You get up for Dave? -Yes. | 0:21:57 | 0:21:59 | |
Every morning? | 0:22:01 | 0:22:02 | |
Yes. | 0:22:02 | 0:22:03 | |
Unless I'm not feeling well. He'll get his own breakfast and lunch. | 0:22:03 | 0:22:07 | |
But he COULD get his breakfast himself, couldn't he? | 0:22:07 | 0:22:10 | |
Yes, he could. He's very... He's quite able. | 0:22:10 | 0:22:14 | |
So how comes he doesn't, then? | 0:22:14 | 0:22:15 | |
That's my job! | 0:22:18 | 0:22:19 | |
SHE LAUGHS | 0:22:19 | 0:22:21 | |
He has other things that are more important and are... | 0:22:23 | 0:22:27 | |
I'm the... I'm the queen of this house, | 0:22:29 | 0:22:32 | |
so I need to see that everybody is well fed and... | 0:22:32 | 0:22:39 | |
What does the Bible say about your role, then? | 0:22:39 | 0:22:42 | |
They call on us to be... | 0:22:45 | 0:22:48 | |
keepers at home... | 0:22:48 | 0:22:51 | |
submissive to our husbands... | 0:22:51 | 0:22:53 | |
and look well to the ways of our household. | 0:22:53 | 0:22:57 | |
Mm-hm. | 0:23:00 | 0:23:02 | |
And how do you feel about that? | 0:23:02 | 0:23:03 | |
I feel it's perfect. | 0:23:05 | 0:23:07 | |
It's perfect, it's a perfect order. | 0:23:07 | 0:23:10 | |
50 years ago, the majority of Amish were farmers, | 0:23:12 | 0:23:16 | |
but, in Pennsylvania, high land prices | 0:23:16 | 0:23:19 | |
mean most now work in Amish-owned small businesses. | 0:23:19 | 0:23:22 | |
Dave has his own concrete construction firm, | 0:23:24 | 0:23:27 | |
employing Amish and non-Amish staff. | 0:23:27 | 0:23:29 | |
He makes a decent living | 0:23:31 | 0:23:32 | |
but is trying to get back to the traditional model of Amish life. | 0:23:32 | 0:23:36 | |
He wants to buy his own farm. | 0:23:36 | 0:23:38 | |
Good morning! | 0:23:42 | 0:23:43 | |
This is a bit different from being at home with the children. | 0:23:43 | 0:23:45 | |
It is, it's a lot different. | 0:23:45 | 0:23:47 | |
Something I always enjoyed. | 0:23:47 | 0:23:49 | |
But as my children get older, my heart's not as much here any more. | 0:23:49 | 0:23:53 | |
I think about my children waiting until I come home evenings. | 0:23:53 | 0:23:56 | |
Er, eight years ago, I could have worked | 0:23:57 | 0:24:00 | |
from five in the morning to six at night, not a problem. | 0:24:00 | 0:24:03 | |
But now, when school is out, I'm like, "You know what? | 0:24:03 | 0:24:06 | |
"My children are at home. I need to go home to my children." | 0:24:06 | 0:24:10 | |
So does being submissive work, then? | 0:24:17 | 0:24:20 | |
-Can that work for a woman? -Yes. Yes. | 0:24:20 | 0:24:23 | |
I do feel we need to share our views. | 0:24:23 | 0:24:26 | |
We can't just quietly submit and not share how we feel about some things. | 0:24:26 | 0:24:32 | |
He still can offend me, which I want to overcome that. | 0:24:33 | 0:24:38 | |
I feel so privileged that he does mention my weaknesses | 0:24:39 | 0:24:44 | |
and, er, I don't want to be offended. | 0:24:44 | 0:24:48 | |
I just want to be thankful that he points those out. | 0:24:48 | 0:24:52 | |
MANGLE GRINDS AND WHIRRS | 0:24:52 | 0:24:54 | |
Obedient. | 0:24:57 | 0:24:58 | |
I believe it's important that we're obedient to God's word. | 0:25:00 | 0:25:06 | |
So that our family can function in the way he designed families to be. | 0:25:06 | 0:25:14 | |
Dave's asked Miriam to pop to the bank today. | 0:25:16 | 0:25:19 | |
It's a three-mile buggy ride, | 0:25:19 | 0:25:20 | |
and most of Miriam's errands are within an eight-mile radius | 0:25:20 | 0:25:24 | |
of her home in Lancaster County. | 0:25:24 | 0:25:26 | |
It takes at least five minutes to get my horse out and the children. | 0:25:29 | 0:25:34 | |
But I like it. | 0:25:36 | 0:25:38 | |
I always like to get out with my horse. | 0:25:38 | 0:25:41 | |
# His love is a boundless love | 0:25:42 | 0:25:45 | |
# And he reaches down and touches me | 0:25:45 | 0:25:48 | |
# His love is an endless love | 0:25:48 | 0:25:53 | |
# That will love for all eternity | 0:25:53 | 0:25:56 | |
# Jesus wants to love you | 0:25:57 | 0:25:59 | |
# There is none above you, you are precious in his sight | 0:25:59 | 0:26:04 | |
# He will never fail you... # | 0:26:04 | 0:26:06 | |
Good afternoon! | 0:26:06 | 0:26:08 | |
# He'll be with you day and night | 0:26:08 | 0:26:12 | |
# His love is a boundless love... # | 0:26:12 | 0:26:14 | |
There you go. Thank you! | 0:26:14 | 0:26:16 | |
Thank you, Margaret. | 0:26:16 | 0:26:17 | |
# And it reaches down and touches me | 0:26:17 | 0:26:19 | |
# His love is an endless love | 0:26:19 | 0:26:24 | |
# That will last through all eternity | 0:26:24 | 0:26:28 | |
# His love, his love, his love is a boundless love | 0:26:28 | 0:26:34 | |
# His love, his love, his love is a boundless love # | 0:26:37 | 0:26:44 | |
BENUEL LAUGHS | 0:26:49 | 0:26:51 | |
ALL SING: # Since the Lord saved me | 0:26:55 | 0:26:59 | |
# I'm as happy as can be | 0:26:59 | 0:27:02 | |
# My cup is full and running over... # | 0:27:02 | 0:27:09 | |
# 'Tis the old-time religion 'Tis the old-time religion | 0:27:11 | 0:27:16 | |
# 'Tis the old-time religion | 0:27:16 | 0:27:19 | |
# It's good enough for me. # | 0:27:19 | 0:27:21 | |
Hey! | 0:27:24 | 0:27:26 | |
Hi! | 0:27:26 | 0:27:27 | |
Hey, Dave! | 0:27:27 | 0:27:29 | |
Miriam, the children always seem to play very well together. | 0:27:39 | 0:27:42 | |
MIRIAM CHUCKLES | 0:27:44 | 0:27:45 | |
Well, you're not here every day! | 0:27:45 | 0:27:47 | |
SHE LAUGHS | 0:27:47 | 0:27:48 | |
Some days they are like children. | 0:27:48 | 0:27:50 | |
They can play very nice, but they also can fight nice! | 0:27:53 | 0:27:58 | |
Yeah, there's selfishness in everybody | 0:28:02 | 0:28:04 | |
that just needs to be...broken. | 0:28:04 | 0:28:08 | |
What's your attitude to discipline? | 0:28:09 | 0:28:12 | |
Well, in Proverbs it says | 0:28:12 | 0:28:13 | |
"Any foolish shall be driven away with the rod." | 0:28:13 | 0:28:16 | |
And I have seen very good results... | 0:28:17 | 0:28:23 | |
with using the rod. | 0:28:23 | 0:28:24 | |
Of course, you always need to have a relationship | 0:28:24 | 0:28:28 | |
before you handle a child with a rod. | 0:28:28 | 0:28:31 | |
You need to have a relationship. | 0:28:31 | 0:28:33 | |
I have a small, little paddle. | 0:28:33 | 0:28:35 | |
It's just my baking tool | 0:28:35 | 0:28:38 | |
where I, depending on the transgression | 0:28:38 | 0:28:41 | |
it'll be just a light tap. | 0:28:41 | 0:28:42 | |
But, er, for instance, if they wouldn't tell me the truth, | 0:28:44 | 0:28:47 | |
-it might be a hard paddle. -SHE LAUGHS | 0:28:47 | 0:28:51 | |
This is what I use. | 0:28:55 | 0:28:56 | |
I call it my smiley, and it often brings a smile in the end. | 0:28:58 | 0:29:01 | |
If I see they have a need of change in attitude, | 0:29:02 | 0:29:06 | |
I'll bring out my smiley and often they'll respond with a smile | 0:29:06 | 0:29:10 | |
but there is times where there's a... | 0:29:10 | 0:29:14 | |
..there's an ongoing issue. | 0:29:16 | 0:29:18 | |
I like to watch for any signs of rebellion | 0:29:20 | 0:29:23 | |
and then I'll address it. | 0:29:23 | 0:29:24 | |
But how would you use that? | 0:29:26 | 0:29:27 | |
I feel the seat is the best place. | 0:29:27 | 0:29:32 | |
Depending... If they'd be at the table, | 0:29:33 | 0:29:37 | |
and got something I'd said no to, then I might tap the hand. | 0:29:37 | 0:29:40 | |
Was ist es, Benuel? | 0:29:44 | 0:29:46 | |
-Paddle. -Paddle? -Ja. -Smiley? | 0:29:47 | 0:29:50 | |
Das ist Smiley? | 0:29:52 | 0:29:54 | |
Niet tapper. | 0:29:54 | 0:29:55 | |
Niet tapper? Nee. | 0:29:55 | 0:29:57 | |
Benuel ist niet bad. | 0:29:57 | 0:29:59 | |
What's he saying? | 0:29:59 | 0:30:00 | |
"Niet tapper" means "Not paddle me"! | 0:30:01 | 0:30:06 | |
And I said "No, Benuel's not bad." | 0:30:06 | 0:30:09 | |
MIRIAM LAUGHS | 0:30:11 | 0:30:12 | |
BENUEL LAUGHS | 0:30:12 | 0:30:13 | |
Two months later, | 0:30:15 | 0:30:17 | |
the risk of the family being challenged by the Amish church hadn't gone away. | 0:30:17 | 0:30:23 | |
Hey, welcome, Steve and Lynn! Come on in! | 0:30:23 | 0:30:26 | |
-Good morning. -Morning! -Morning. | 0:30:26 | 0:30:29 | |
We're just about ready to get out and set the benches. | 0:30:31 | 0:30:34 | |
-Good morning. -Good morning, Miriam. -Come on in! | 0:30:34 | 0:30:38 | |
What's happening this weekend? | 0:30:38 | 0:30:40 | |
Oh, we're getting ready for church. | 0:30:40 | 0:30:42 | |
Church services are going to be at our house. | 0:30:42 | 0:30:45 | |
Everybody takes turns. | 0:30:45 | 0:30:47 | |
Every two weeks, somebody opens their house up, or their home. | 0:30:47 | 0:30:51 | |
-And it's your turn this week? -Yeah. | 0:30:51 | 0:30:53 | |
So we're preparing seating and food for, I don't know, 100 people. | 0:30:53 | 0:30:59 | |
20 families. | 0:30:59 | 0:31:01 | |
An average of five children per family. | 0:31:01 | 0:31:05 | |
Danny! Danny! | 0:31:22 | 0:31:25 | |
These are the benches for the church that the people can sit on. | 0:31:28 | 0:31:32 | |
You just sit. | 0:31:32 | 0:31:33 | |
It's a little bit over three hours mostly, | 0:31:34 | 0:31:37 | |
like eight o'clock to 11.30 or something. | 0:31:37 | 0:31:40 | |
What's your favourite bit of the church service? | 0:31:40 | 0:31:43 | |
Er... | 0:31:43 | 0:31:44 | |
The last song. | 0:31:47 | 0:31:48 | |
Then you know the church is out! | 0:31:48 | 0:31:51 | |
We as Old Order Amish, we don't have a church house, | 0:31:51 | 0:31:54 | |
so every able member that has room on their property | 0:31:54 | 0:31:59 | |
takes a turn to provide space and food for service. | 0:31:59 | 0:32:04 | |
We need to make sure we have a place | 0:32:06 | 0:32:09 | |
to tie up all the horses and feed them. | 0:32:09 | 0:32:12 | |
We need to make sure we have enough lunch for everyone, | 0:32:12 | 0:32:15 | |
which is a cold lunch, the traditional schnitz pie. | 0:32:15 | 0:32:20 | |
The word "church" in the Bible, in Greek it means "assembly." | 0:32:20 | 0:32:24 | |
So, our forefathers assembled in their homes 400 years ago, | 0:32:26 | 0:32:32 | |
and that's where the practice started. | 0:32:32 | 0:32:35 | |
HE SINGS TUNLESSLY | 0:32:37 | 0:32:39 | |
An Amish church service is led by a number of elders - | 0:32:39 | 0:32:43 | |
a bishop and ministers. | 0:32:43 | 0:32:45 | |
They sing from a songbook | 0:32:45 | 0:32:47 | |
containing hymns written by their forefathers. | 0:32:47 | 0:32:50 | |
The ministers will read from the scriptures | 0:32:50 | 0:32:52 | |
and the congregation says silent prayers. | 0:32:52 | 0:32:55 | |
The church people are very dear. They are close friends. | 0:32:55 | 0:32:58 | |
We get together every other week. | 0:32:58 | 0:33:01 | |
If there is a need, | 0:33:01 | 0:33:03 | |
if you have a hospital bill and you have a need for finances, | 0:33:03 | 0:33:08 | |
the church people are there to help you, | 0:33:08 | 0:33:10 | |
so it's really a close-knit community. | 0:33:10 | 0:33:13 | |
That was very interesting. It was the Jonah story. | 0:33:47 | 0:33:50 | |
There's no way we could film tomorrow? | 0:33:52 | 0:33:54 | |
You could attend, but you couldn't film. | 0:33:54 | 0:33:57 | |
There's no way you could film, the church would stop if you'd film. | 0:33:57 | 0:34:02 | |
There would be... I have no idea what would happen, | 0:34:02 | 0:34:04 | |
but it would not continue. | 0:34:04 | 0:34:06 | |
You could attend. You are invited to sit right here in our midst. | 0:34:07 | 0:34:11 | |
It doesn't happen a lot because people don't understand German | 0:34:13 | 0:34:16 | |
and don't like to sit for three hours on hard benches. | 0:34:16 | 0:34:20 | |
For David and Miriam, it was a balancing act. | 0:34:23 | 0:34:26 | |
They wanted outsiders to understand Amish life | 0:34:26 | 0:34:29 | |
but also to respect the private traditions | 0:34:29 | 0:34:32 | |
of the Old Order church service. | 0:34:32 | 0:34:34 | |
It was decided to film but from a distance. | 0:34:36 | 0:34:39 | |
# Salve | 0:34:39 | 0:34:43 | |
# Salve | 0:34:44 | 0:34:50 | |
# Salve | 0:34:51 | 0:34:58 | |
# Salve | 0:34:59 | 0:35:05 | |
# Salve | 0:35:06 | 0:35:13 | |
# Salve | 0:35:14 | 0:35:22 | |
# O clemens | 0:35:36 | 0:35:39 | |
# O pia | 0:35:39 | 0:35:41 | |
# O dulcis Maria | 0:35:41 | 0:35:44 | |
# O clemens | 0:35:44 | 0:35:46 | |
# O pia | 0:35:46 | 0:35:48 | |
# O dulcis Maria | 0:35:48 | 0:35:52 | |
# O clemens | 0:35:52 | 0:35:54 | |
# O pia | 0:35:54 | 0:35:55 | |
# O dulcis Maria | 0:35:55 | 0:36:00 | |
# O clemens | 0:36:00 | 0:36:02 | |
# O pia | 0:36:02 | 0:36:03 | |
# O dulcis Maria | 0:36:03 | 0:36:07 | |
# O clemens | 0:36:07 | 0:36:09 | |
# O pia | 0:36:09 | 0:36:11 | |
# O dulcis Maria | 0:36:11 | 0:36:15 | |
# O clemens | 0:36:15 | 0:36:17 | |
# O pia | 0:36:17 | 0:36:19 | |
# O dulcis Maria | 0:36:19 | 0:36:25 | |
# Salve Regina | 0:36:25 | 0:36:28 | |
# Mater misericordiae | 0:36:28 | 0:36:32 | |
# Salve Regina | 0:36:32 | 0:36:35 | |
# Mater misericordiae | 0:36:35 | 0:36:39 | |
# Salve Regina | 0:36:39 | 0:36:43 | |
# Salve Regina | 0:36:44 | 0:36:47 | |
# Salve Regina | 0:36:48 | 0:36:56 | |
# Salve | 0:36:56 | 0:37:02 | |
# Salve | 0:37:04 | 0:37:10 | |
# Salve | 0:37:11 | 0:37:18 | |
# Salve | 0:37:19 | 0:37:26 | |
# Salve | 0:37:27 | 0:37:33 | |
# Salve | 0:37:34 | 0:37:40 | |
# Salve | 0:37:42 | 0:37:49 | |
# Salve Regina. # | 0:37:49 | 0:37:57 | |
-Good morning. -Good morning. | 0:38:20 | 0:38:22 | |
Until now, Dave and Miriam were the only Old Order Amish | 0:38:22 | 0:38:25 | |
who'd consented to filming. | 0:38:25 | 0:38:27 | |
But, today, Miriam's holding a tea party for some women friends. | 0:38:27 | 0:38:31 | |
For the first time, there were other Amish who were prepared | 0:38:31 | 0:38:36 | |
to take a risk and be filmed. | 0:38:36 | 0:38:38 | |
There appeared to be two different groups of women - | 0:38:38 | 0:38:42 | |
some were Old Order Amish, others were clearly not. | 0:38:42 | 0:38:46 | |
We've gathered for about three years. | 0:38:49 | 0:38:51 | |
I joined about three years | 0:38:51 | 0:38:54 | |
and then we were all members of the Old Order Amish. | 0:38:54 | 0:38:59 | |
But as time went on, | 0:39:00 | 0:39:03 | |
a few of them were excommunicated on spiritual beliefs | 0:39:03 | 0:39:09 | |
and so now, we are still continuing... | 0:39:09 | 0:39:12 | |
..and we've been friends for so long | 0:39:13 | 0:39:15 | |
and it just seems we meet each other so much. | 0:39:15 | 0:39:18 | |
Come on up! | 0:39:18 | 0:39:21 | |
As members of the Old Order Amish Church, | 0:39:24 | 0:39:27 | |
Miriam and Dave are obliged to shun anyone who is excommunicated. | 0:39:27 | 0:39:30 | |
It means they shouldn't eat together or gather together. | 0:39:33 | 0:39:37 | |
It has been too long! | 0:39:44 | 0:39:45 | |
It's about half and half. | 0:39:45 | 0:39:47 | |
About half have gone through the fire of being excommunicated. | 0:39:47 | 0:39:54 | |
But they really hold onto the values | 0:39:54 | 0:39:57 | |
and still want to be alike to their own people. | 0:39:57 | 0:40:00 | |
'They see a lot of righteousness in our culture | 0:40:00 | 0:40:03 | |
'and want to keep our values. | 0:40:03 | 0:40:06 | |
'And there's many things we hold dear and don't want to lose.' | 0:40:06 | 0:40:10 | |
# I may never fly over the enemy | 0:40:10 | 0:40:15 | |
# But I'm in the Lord's army | 0:40:15 | 0:40:18 | |
# Yes, sir | 0:40:18 | 0:40:20 | |
# I'm in the Lord's army | 0:40:20 | 0:40:23 | |
# Yes, sir | 0:40:23 | 0:40:25 | |
# I'm in the Lord's army. # | 0:40:25 | 0:40:30 | |
We're in a time... In a generation where... | 0:40:30 | 0:40:34 | |
..I feel the spirit is moving. I think... | 0:40:36 | 0:40:39 | |
..there's people rising... | 0:40:41 | 0:40:44 | |
..who have studied the Bible and see the need for us | 0:40:45 | 0:40:52 | |
to just break down some lies that... | 0:40:52 | 0:40:58 | |
I believed or that our people believe. | 0:40:58 | 0:41:01 | |
# I may never march in the infantry | 0:41:01 | 0:41:06 | |
# Ride in the cavalry | 0:41:06 | 0:41:09 | |
# Shoot the artillery | 0:41:09 | 0:41:11 | |
# I may never... # | 0:41:11 | 0:41:13 | |
Miriam was revealing that she and Dave | 0:41:13 | 0:41:16 | |
are part of a movement within the Amish community | 0:41:16 | 0:41:19 | |
which is more open than evangelical in its approach, | 0:41:19 | 0:41:22 | |
and whose mission is to spread the word of God. | 0:41:22 | 0:41:25 | |
# Yes, sir | 0:41:25 | 0:41:27 | |
# I'm in the Lord's army. # | 0:41:27 | 0:41:30 | |
Yes, sir! | 0:41:30 | 0:41:31 | |
'I think the rules can be overemphasised | 0:41:31 | 0:41:35 | |
'and we look to that as, you know, a way of...' | 0:41:35 | 0:41:39 | |
..salvation. | 0:41:41 | 0:41:42 | |
It can make it confusing. | 0:41:43 | 0:41:45 | |
Miriam was picking her words carefully, | 0:41:47 | 0:41:49 | |
because she didn't want to offend her Old Order family and friends. | 0:41:49 | 0:41:54 | |
It was clear they no longer believed | 0:41:54 | 0:41:56 | |
that keeping to every church rule was the route to heaven - | 0:41:56 | 0:41:59 | |
although they still valued the Amish lifestyle and traditions. | 0:41:59 | 0:42:04 | |
We'll lead you right down to it. | 0:42:04 | 0:42:07 | |
They explained they'd been re-baptised at night, | 0:42:07 | 0:42:10 | |
in their garden, a year ago. | 0:42:10 | 0:42:12 | |
They felt their original baptism as young adults was not valid. | 0:42:13 | 0:42:17 | |
This re-baptism was a whole new affirmation of their belief in God. | 0:42:17 | 0:42:22 | |
It was right about this time of evening. | 0:42:22 | 0:42:24 | |
Right in there, it's about three feet deep. | 0:42:24 | 0:42:27 | |
Two-and-a-half, three feet deep. | 0:42:27 | 0:42:29 | |
So, we all came down here and someone held the lantern like this. | 0:42:30 | 0:42:34 | |
About 50 people standing around here, | 0:42:34 | 0:42:37 | |
and four couples had decided to be baptised | 0:42:37 | 0:42:39 | |
in the name of Jesus Christ. | 0:42:39 | 0:42:41 | |
And that's what we did. | 0:42:41 | 0:42:43 | |
A year ago, on this day. | 0:42:43 | 0:42:45 | |
Two people went out in the water to help you, | 0:42:48 | 0:42:50 | |
so you went in the water and knelt down, and then you leaned back | 0:42:50 | 0:42:54 | |
till you were completely submerged in water, then you come forth | 0:42:54 | 0:42:57 | |
and you're... you're buried and you rise up... | 0:42:57 | 0:43:00 | |
-Rise as Christ. -..as Christ, yeah. | 0:43:00 | 0:43:02 | |
And you go in the house and grab a towel, real quick. | 0:43:04 | 0:43:07 | |
'If our people were to find it out...# | 0:43:12 | 0:43:15 | |
..we couldn't be Amish. | 0:43:16 | 0:43:18 | |
Cos there was people being... | 0:43:18 | 0:43:20 | |
There have been people excommunicated because of re-baptism. | 0:43:20 | 0:43:25 | |
So that was... | 0:43:27 | 0:43:29 | |
That was very hard for me to just... | 0:43:29 | 0:43:32 | |
..er... | 0:43:34 | 0:43:35 | |
..put me in that situation where I'm re-baptised | 0:43:36 | 0:43:39 | |
and where I know our leaders wouldn't approve. | 0:43:39 | 0:43:42 | |
But they will learn about it now. | 0:43:44 | 0:43:47 | |
Um, you mean now that...? | 0:43:48 | 0:43:51 | |
Well, I guess, you know, if you put that on the film. | 0:43:51 | 0:43:54 | |
So, we have... | 0:43:56 | 0:43:59 | |
We have... | 0:43:59 | 0:44:01 | |
..told my parents. | 0:44:02 | 0:44:05 | |
And...I felt their blessing. | 0:44:05 | 0:44:10 | |
Especially Mom's. | 0:44:10 | 0:44:12 | |
There's been much conflict about practices on how to baptise | 0:44:14 | 0:44:19 | |
or re-baptism within our church. | 0:44:19 | 0:44:22 | |
It always brings strife and conflict. | 0:44:22 | 0:44:25 | |
And it's because of the spiritual war. | 0:44:26 | 0:44:29 | |
How do you think people will feel... | 0:44:32 | 0:44:35 | |
if it's known from the film that you've been re-baptised? | 0:44:35 | 0:44:39 | |
Well, it's the truth. | 0:44:45 | 0:44:48 | |
A guy can always use the truth. He can always... | 0:44:48 | 0:44:51 | |
..make good of it. | 0:44:53 | 0:44:55 | |
It... | 0:44:57 | 0:44:58 | |
If I just dwell on people finding it out, I'm fearful. | 0:45:00 | 0:45:07 | |
You could still be excommunicated for being re-baptised? | 0:45:10 | 0:45:14 | |
Oh, yeah. I have no idea what our people would really do in our church. | 0:45:14 | 0:45:18 | |
Or for taking part in this film? | 0:45:20 | 0:45:23 | |
Yes. Yes. | 0:45:23 | 0:45:25 | |
Less than a week later, | 0:45:29 | 0:45:31 | |
another group of people gathered at Miriam and Dave's house - | 0:45:31 | 0:45:34 | |
this time, to worship together. | 0:45:34 | 0:45:37 | |
Again, many of them were excommunicated, | 0:45:37 | 0:45:40 | |
and some of them were driving cars. | 0:45:40 | 0:45:43 | |
You're allowed to get together and talk with excommunicated people, | 0:45:43 | 0:45:46 | |
but you're not allowed to eat with them | 0:45:46 | 0:45:49 | |
and ride with them. | 0:45:49 | 0:45:51 | |
So there's some risks, yeah. | 0:45:53 | 0:45:55 | |
Some people come here in secret. | 0:45:58 | 0:46:00 | |
The Amish church doesn't know. | 0:46:00 | 0:46:03 | |
Mm. | 0:46:03 | 0:46:05 | |
Yeah. | 0:46:05 | 0:46:07 | |
You know, getting together with a big group regularly that's excommunicated, | 0:46:08 | 0:46:16 | |
they would start to wonder, you know, | 0:46:16 | 0:46:18 | |
"Why are we getting together?" | 0:46:18 | 0:46:20 | |
Because, you know, "Why don't you get together with people that are still Amish? | 0:46:21 | 0:46:26 | |
"Why do you hang out with the excommunicated?" | 0:46:26 | 0:46:29 | |
Yeah, that makes it uncomfortable. | 0:46:29 | 0:46:31 | |
'That makes the leaders and the elders uncomfortable.' | 0:46:31 | 0:46:34 | |
CHATTERING | 0:46:34 | 0:46:37 | |
If we're ready? | 0:46:43 | 0:46:45 | |
Let's all stand up and pray. | 0:46:46 | 0:46:48 | |
Heavenly Father, we come before you in the name of Jesus Christ, | 0:46:57 | 0:47:03 | |
because Jesus said He is the way, He is the life. | 0:47:03 | 0:47:06 | |
He is the only way to you, Father, so we come in His name | 0:47:06 | 0:47:09 | |
and we ask you that you would be with us. | 0:47:09 | 0:47:11 | |
We thank you for the food that we ate, | 0:47:11 | 0:47:13 | |
we thank you for the building that you have provided, | 0:47:13 | 0:47:15 | |
we praise you, we praise and glorify your holy name. | 0:47:15 | 0:47:19 | |
-In Jesus' name we pray, Father. Amen. -ALL: -Amen. | 0:47:19 | 0:47:24 | |
# ..we shall wear a crown | 0:47:24 | 0:47:27 | |
# In the new Jeru-sa-lem | 0:47:27 | 0:47:33 | |
-# Wear a cro-o-o-own -Wear a crown | 0:47:33 | 0:47:36 | |
-# Wear a cro-o-own -Wear a crown | 0:47:36 | 0:47:39 | |
# Wear a... # | 0:47:39 | 0:47:40 | |
If you were excommunicated, what would you lose? | 0:47:40 | 0:47:46 | |
I mean, would you be shunned by your family and your friends? | 0:47:46 | 0:47:50 | |
Some, I'm sure. | 0:47:50 | 0:47:51 | |
I assume some family would not, but others would. | 0:47:52 | 0:47:58 | |
-They would shun you? -Yeah. Yeah. | 0:47:59 | 0:48:02 | |
What would they do, exactly? | 0:48:03 | 0:48:06 | |
Well, they wouldn't come any more, they wouldn't invite us... | 0:48:06 | 0:48:10 | |
..to gatherings, or... | 0:48:12 | 0:48:15 | |
..they might avoid us, you know, if they do see us. | 0:48:17 | 0:48:21 | |
They would be required to do that by the church? | 0:48:24 | 0:48:26 | |
By some people. | 0:48:29 | 0:48:31 | |
But that would represent a huge loss for you, would it? | 0:48:34 | 0:48:39 | |
A huge loss? | 0:48:39 | 0:48:41 | |
It might seem so, but... | 0:48:44 | 0:48:46 | |
..Jesus calls us to rejoice if we're put out because of his name. | 0:48:48 | 0:48:55 | |
For his cause. | 0:48:55 | 0:48:57 | |
I know it would be hard, because it would be... | 0:48:57 | 0:49:00 | |
..the reality of rejection. | 0:49:01 | 0:49:04 | |
And I know that's hurtful. | 0:49:06 | 0:49:11 | |
-These are people you love. -Yes. | 0:49:11 | 0:49:14 | |
# I know this li-i-ife is precious | 0:49:49 | 0:49:56 | |
# The next breath you ta-a-ake | 0:49:56 | 0:49:59 | |
# Could be your last one | 0:49:59 | 0:50:03 | |
# Another day is come | 0:50:03 | 0:50:06 | |
# Another sunrise | 0:50:06 | 0:50:09 | |
# Another day God holds | 0:50:09 | 0:50:12 | |
# Every moment of it! | 0:50:12 | 0:50:15 | |
# This life we have | 0:50:15 | 0:50:18 | |
# Is the gift of our maker | 0:50:18 | 0:50:22 | |
# This sacred freedom | 0:50:22 | 0:50:25 | |
# Here in our land | 0:50:25 | 0:50:28 | |
# This divine hour | 0:50:28 | 0:50:32 | |
# I recognise | 0:50:32 | 0:50:35 | |
# We'll hold on tight | 0:50:35 | 0:50:38 | |
# To this precious life... # | 0:50:38 | 0:50:41 | |
Five months later, and the family were moving house. | 0:50:41 | 0:50:45 | |
Dave had managed to buy a farm, | 0:50:45 | 0:50:47 | |
75 acres, a mile away from their old house. | 0:50:47 | 0:50:51 | |
# ..below me at God's creation | 0:50:51 | 0:50:55 | |
# And I'm overwhelmed with all the beauty in me | 0:50:55 | 0:51:03 | |
# He's filled my eyes and I realise. # | 0:51:03 | 0:51:08 | |
# It's the glory now that fills and fills my soul | 0:51:08 | 0:51:12 | |
# As I walk the night away. # | 0:51:12 | 0:51:16 | |
What can you get, one last hill here? | 0:51:16 | 0:51:19 | |
Come on. | 0:51:25 | 0:51:27 | |
# A-A-A-Amen | 0:51:27 | 0:51:31 | |
# A-A-A-Amen | 0:51:31 | 0:51:34 | |
# A-Amen | 0:51:36 | 0:51:40 | |
# Amen | 0:51:40 | 0:51:42 | |
# Amen with the horns now | 0:51:42 | 0:51:45 | |
# Amen | 0:51:50 | 0:51:52 | |
# With the rhythm now, A... | 0:51:54 | 0:51:56 | |
# A-Amen | 0:51:56 | 0:51:58 | |
# A-A-A-Amen | 0:52:00 | 0:52:02 | |
# A-Amen | 0:52:04 | 0:52:08 | |
# Amen | 0:52:08 | 0:52:10 | |
# Amen. # | 0:52:10 | 0:52:11 | |
I think God has a special place for farmers. | 0:52:11 | 0:52:16 | |
And it's on my heart, too. | 0:52:17 | 0:52:19 | |
I'll be living by working the land. | 0:52:19 | 0:52:23 | |
There's something special about putting seeds in the ground and watch it grow. | 0:52:24 | 0:52:29 | |
# Amen | 0:52:29 | 0:52:30 | |
# This little light of mine | 0:52:32 | 0:52:36 | |
# I'm gonna let it shine... # | 0:52:36 | 0:52:39 | |
Katie, hey! | 0:52:39 | 0:52:40 | |
KATIE GIGGLES | 0:52:46 | 0:52:48 | |
Katie! | 0:52:49 | 0:52:51 | |
The family will have less income from farming | 0:52:54 | 0:52:56 | |
than when Dave worked in construction. | 0:52:56 | 0:52:58 | |
-Hey! -Hey! | 0:53:03 | 0:53:05 | |
-How was your day? -Good. | 0:53:05 | 0:53:07 | |
Hiya, James. | 0:53:07 | 0:53:10 | |
Being together and having each others hearts | 0:53:10 | 0:53:14 | |
is more important than finances. | 0:53:14 | 0:53:16 | |
Love requires time. | 0:53:17 | 0:53:20 | |
So... | 0:53:20 | 0:53:21 | |
If you... If you want your cow to feel your love, | 0:53:22 | 0:53:27 | |
you will need to spend time with it. | 0:53:27 | 0:53:29 | |
By working together, I expect to be able to connect with them. | 0:53:37 | 0:53:43 | |
Because, once I'm an old man, 80 years old, | 0:53:46 | 0:53:50 | |
I'll need to ask Katie, my daughter, | 0:53:50 | 0:53:52 | |
if she's going to be my nurse when I'm 80 years old. | 0:53:52 | 0:53:56 | |
I am fully persuaded if I have time to meet her needs now, | 0:53:57 | 0:54:02 | |
she will have time... | 0:54:02 | 0:54:05 | |
to meet my needs | 0:54:05 | 0:54:06 | |
Hello, Kevin? | 0:54:08 | 0:54:11 | |
This is David Lapp, I'm looking for a brown Swiss cow. | 0:54:11 | 0:54:16 | |
Do you know of anybody that has brown Swiss cows? | 0:54:16 | 0:54:19 | |
Yeah, one or two family cows. | 0:54:20 | 0:54:22 | |
Mm-hm. | 0:54:22 | 0:54:23 | |
I'm looking for a cow. | 0:54:25 | 0:54:27 | |
We want to get a cow or two | 0:54:27 | 0:54:31 | |
because we want to make our own yogurt, butter, cheese | 0:54:31 | 0:54:34 | |
and stuff like that, ice-cream. | 0:54:34 | 0:54:36 | |
We will have all the fresh milk to drink. | 0:54:36 | 0:54:39 | |
This is the phone shanty. | 0:54:41 | 0:54:43 | |
The traditional Amish kind don't have phones in their houses. | 0:54:45 | 0:54:50 | |
So they have a phone in a shanty outside somewhere. | 0:54:50 | 0:54:56 | |
-We're quite a long way away from the house now? -Yeah. | 0:54:58 | 0:55:00 | |
Most people don't have it this far away. | 0:55:00 | 0:55:03 | |
Er... | 0:55:03 | 0:55:04 | |
People are starting to have it closer, like in the garage | 0:55:04 | 0:55:07 | |
and that's quite acceptable in our area. | 0:55:07 | 0:55:09 | |
Are you going to leave it here or are you going to move it? | 0:55:09 | 0:55:12 | |
We'll probably get it closer to the house, yeah. | 0:55:12 | 0:55:14 | |
It's just the way of the Elders' decision to keep life more simple. | 0:55:14 | 0:55:19 | |
Personally, I see it as a waste of time. | 0:55:19 | 0:55:23 | |
AMISH CHORAL SINGING | 0:55:26 | 0:55:30 | |
The idea had been to make a film about Amish family life and faith. | 0:56:26 | 0:56:31 | |
David and Miriam embraced the risks of taking part | 0:56:31 | 0:56:35 | |
because of their beliefs. | 0:56:35 | 0:56:37 | |
The threat of being forced out of the Amish Church has not gone away. | 0:56:37 | 0:56:41 | |
The family see themselves as Amish Christians. | 0:56:44 | 0:56:48 | |
They have put their new beliefs before the Amish rules. | 0:56:48 | 0:56:52 | |
There is no way of life | 0:56:55 | 0:56:57 | |
that will bring peace and joy to a person's heart. | 0:56:57 | 0:57:00 | |
Some people think if they would only live a unique lifestyle like the Amish, | 0:57:01 | 0:57:07 | |
that will help them to be happy. | 0:57:07 | 0:57:09 | |
Some people think if they would have a bigger house, they would be happy. | 0:57:09 | 0:57:12 | |
But my message is, all those things are good | 0:57:12 | 0:57:16 | |
but if that's what your happiness is based on, it's not going to last. | 0:57:16 | 0:57:20 | |
If you accept Jesus, that will be the true happiness. | 0:57:22 | 0:57:27 | |
The reason we took part in the film | 0:57:32 | 0:57:34 | |
is because one of the last Commandments | 0:57:34 | 0:57:36 | |
that Jesus gave to his disciples before he left | 0:57:36 | 0:57:40 | |
was, "go ye and tell the world. | 0:57:40 | 0:57:44 | |
"Go ye to the outermost parts of the world, | 0:57:44 | 0:57:46 | |
"teaching and preaching and baptising in the name of Jesus." | 0:57:46 | 0:57:50 | |
There might be consequences, | 0:57:50 | 0:57:52 | |
but we pray that we ask Jesus that we would not offend people. | 0:57:52 | 0:57:58 | |
God bless you in Jesus's name. | 0:58:03 | 0:58:05 | |
God bless you. Bye! | 0:58:05 | 0:58:08 | |
# Are you going to be a saint on that shore | 0:58:17 | 0:58:22 | |
# Or a sinner left far behind? | 0:58:22 | 0:58:27 | |
# Don't you think of your soul and want to be saved | 0:58:27 | 0:58:32 | |
# Don't you want to go to Heaven sometime? | 0:58:32 | 0:58:35 | |
# Sometime, sometime | 0:58:36 | 0:58:41 | |
# I'll be going to Heaven sometime | 0:58:41 | 0:58:45 | |
# God is leading the way and I can't go astray | 0:58:45 | 0:58:52 | |
# I'll be going to Heaven sometime. # | 0:58:52 | 0:58:56 | |
Subtitles by Red Bee Media Ltd | 0:58:58 | 0:59:01 |