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Milford Haven on the Pembrokeshire coast, and this is The Mount Estate. | 0:00:03 | 0:00:07 | |
For the last year, we've been following the lives of some of the people who live here. | 0:00:07 | 0:00:12 | |
It's typical of the council estates which were built during the '60s and '70s. | 0:00:12 | 0:00:16 | |
They all followed an American design, which meant roads | 0:00:16 | 0:00:19 | |
were kept to perimeters, and homes were facing shared areas with no individual gardens. | 0:00:19 | 0:00:24 | |
DOG BARKS | 0:00:26 | 0:00:28 | |
This week - Simone Johnson is back on The Mount | 0:00:30 | 0:00:32 | |
as her hopes of a career in teaching are dashed. | 0:00:32 | 0:00:35 | |
I'm not as energetic as I used to be. | 0:00:35 | 0:00:37 | |
I'm not as full of life and outgoing as I used to be. | 0:00:37 | 0:00:41 | |
I've got very sluggish. | 0:00:41 | 0:00:43 | |
66-year-old Freda has her last wish granted. | 0:00:43 | 0:00:46 | |
One of her wishes before she died was to go out on bikes. | 0:00:46 | 0:00:50 | |
And Tasha is finding life on the estate increasingly difficult. | 0:00:50 | 0:00:55 | |
I asked them to fix my front door, and they haven't, yet again. | 0:00:55 | 0:00:59 | |
Millions of pounds of public money has been spent | 0:01:08 | 0:01:11 | |
regenerating this part of the world. | 0:01:11 | 0:01:13 | |
But a smart yachting marina and tourist retail complex | 0:01:13 | 0:01:17 | |
has brought few job opportunities to the people who live on The Mount. | 0:01:17 | 0:01:21 | |
DOG BARKS | 0:01:23 | 0:01:25 | |
After six years of living away from home, | 0:01:25 | 0:01:28 | |
Simone is back at her mother's. | 0:01:28 | 0:01:30 | |
Here you are, Mum, I'll just show you these. | 0:01:32 | 0:01:34 | |
-What? -Cards and stuff I got from the school. | 0:01:34 | 0:01:37 | |
You'll have to pass them, because she's sat on my foot. | 0:01:37 | 0:01:41 | |
She has a masters degree in English | 0:01:41 | 0:01:43 | |
and had hoped to become a secondary school teacher, | 0:01:43 | 0:01:46 | |
but she's failed her probationary teaching year. | 0:01:46 | 0:01:48 | |
'Dear Miss Johnson, thank you for teaching me English. | 0:01:48 | 0:01:51 | |
'You taught me so much, and I really enjoyed the lessons. | 0:01:51 | 0:01:54 | |
'Hope you have a lovely time in Wales and take care. | 0:01:54 | 0:01:57 | |
'You'll be sorely missed this side of the border!' | 0:01:57 | 0:02:00 | |
I want to do childcare and working with children, | 0:02:00 | 0:02:04 | |
but then children throwing Sellotape holders across the room... problems going on. | 0:02:04 | 0:02:09 | |
Can you try for junior school age or something? | 0:02:09 | 0:02:11 | |
That's what I'm thinking, I was looking at that. | 0:02:11 | 0:02:14 | |
But to try and do that transition from secondary to primary, | 0:02:14 | 0:02:17 | |
they were saying for every primary school job, there's 10 teachers. | 0:02:17 | 0:02:21 | |
-They're over-staffed, because no-one wants to go into secondary. -Yeah. | 0:02:21 | 0:02:25 | |
I'm disappointed, because I miss the kids. | 0:02:25 | 0:02:28 | |
Like, I miss them so, so much. | 0:02:28 | 0:02:31 | |
I do miss it and I miss more the independence | 0:02:32 | 0:02:35 | |
and the fact I had to move out of my house. | 0:02:35 | 0:02:37 | |
I had to leave my boyfriend who's now 11 hours away. | 0:02:37 | 0:02:40 | |
I'm going to get to see him twice a month. | 0:02:40 | 0:02:43 | |
Hey, now. Enough. | 0:02:43 | 0:02:44 | |
Now I'm back on the dole on £53 a week. | 0:02:44 | 0:02:47 | |
We've worked out that's...what was it? A fifth. | 0:02:47 | 0:02:52 | |
What I get in a month when you add up the dole, it's a fifth of what I was earning. | 0:02:52 | 0:02:56 | |
I've downsized everything. I've gone from my house to a room. | 0:02:57 | 0:03:02 | |
Simone misses her boyfriend, Pete, who lives more than 10 hours away in Cumbria. | 0:03:02 | 0:03:06 | |
That was the first time we spent together at the university ball. | 0:03:09 | 0:03:13 | |
His birthday when I took him to Manchester | 0:03:13 | 0:03:16 | |
to see Wigan win the finals of the rugby. | 0:03:16 | 0:03:19 | |
Even though we've only been together a year, | 0:03:19 | 0:03:21 | |
it's nice to see how much we have changed so much. | 0:03:21 | 0:03:25 | |
And I think it's one of the things that's going to hit me the most | 0:03:25 | 0:03:28 | |
is because he's not here, and he's just, like, my best friend. | 0:03:28 | 0:03:33 | |
And not having him here has been a massive impact on my life. | 0:03:33 | 0:03:37 | |
Even though it's only been two weeks and I'm sure I'll get used to it, | 0:03:37 | 0:03:41 | |
but, yeah, it's very hard. | 0:03:41 | 0:03:44 | |
It'll be nice to see him on Monday, and I think...he's going to get a big hug. | 0:03:44 | 0:03:48 | |
Simone has joined her mum and grandmother | 0:03:53 | 0:03:55 | |
at a coffee morning at Hilton House. | 0:03:55 | 0:03:59 | |
-..gone ten rounds. -That is gross! -I know. | 0:03:59 | 0:04:01 | |
Hilton House is a council-owned complex on the estate | 0:04:01 | 0:04:06 | |
which provides sheltered accommodation for older people. | 0:04:06 | 0:04:10 | |
The local MP here is Stephen Crabb, a Conservative. | 0:04:26 | 0:04:30 | |
He holds a surgery at the resource centre on The Mount twice a year. | 0:04:30 | 0:04:34 | |
Today, only one person from The Mount has come to see Stephen. | 0:04:38 | 0:04:42 | |
The family you see here are from Milford. | 0:04:42 | 0:04:44 | |
-Thank you very much. -Bye-bye. Bye, take care. -Bye. | 0:04:44 | 0:04:47 | |
The outside perception is that it might be an estate full | 0:04:47 | 0:04:51 | |
of single mums, or single young people with alcohol or drug abuse problems. | 0:04:51 | 0:04:56 | |
The truth is this is a mixed community. | 0:04:56 | 0:04:58 | |
We have people here who are working full-time. | 0:04:58 | 0:05:01 | |
You get the whole mixed bag of issues that you might expect | 0:05:01 | 0:05:04 | |
in any working-class community. | 0:05:04 | 0:05:08 | |
I grew up in council housing in the next town along in Haverfordwest. | 0:05:08 | 0:05:12 | |
I grew up in a single parent home, so when I see people from those kind of backgrounds at my surgery, | 0:05:12 | 0:05:17 | |
I have a little bit of understanding of where they're coming from. | 0:05:17 | 0:05:20 | |
After the surgery, centre manager Kathy Grey | 0:05:20 | 0:05:23 | |
talks to Stephen about the problems she sees a lot of here. | 0:05:23 | 0:05:27 | |
Yeah, no, community spirit here is still like it is. It's hard now. | 0:05:27 | 0:05:31 | |
The 16-year-olds to 18 are a major problem. They don't fix into a box. | 0:05:31 | 0:05:37 | |
They can't claim unemployment benefit until they're 18. | 0:05:37 | 0:05:41 | |
The expectation is they're in some sort of educational training, if not in work. | 0:05:41 | 0:05:45 | |
But nobody will pay for them. | 0:05:45 | 0:05:47 | |
They're not getting any money at all, and the family unit's not getting any money, | 0:05:47 | 0:05:51 | |
that's why you've got so many having to try and find a home. | 0:05:51 | 0:05:56 | |
The family says they can't afford to keep them for two years for nothing. | 0:05:56 | 0:06:00 | |
-There's no interim, is there? -No. -It's crazy. | 0:06:00 | 0:06:04 | |
There are two blocks of small flats on the estate, | 0:06:07 | 0:06:10 | |
which the council usually allocate to single tenants. | 0:06:10 | 0:06:13 | |
Sometimes these are people with unsettled and troubled lives. | 0:06:13 | 0:06:17 | |
They may not stay long. | 0:06:18 | 0:06:21 | |
No problem, I'll show you the flat, no problem. | 0:06:21 | 0:06:24 | |
Bradley has just moved into one of the flats. | 0:06:24 | 0:06:28 | |
This is what they expect an 18-year-old to live in. | 0:06:28 | 0:06:32 | |
This is the kitchen. | 0:06:39 | 0:06:41 | |
Then you have the bedrooms in The Mount Estate. | 0:06:41 | 0:06:45 | |
That's it. | 0:06:45 | 0:06:46 | |
My mum couldn't afford to keep me there, | 0:06:48 | 0:06:51 | |
because I got four other little brothers living with me. | 0:06:51 | 0:06:54 | |
So I had to move out somewhere. | 0:06:54 | 0:06:56 | |
I went in a hostel then and stayed there for two months. | 0:06:56 | 0:07:00 | |
I got this place on The Mount Estate, and it was the only place I could get. | 0:07:00 | 0:07:04 | |
I get benefits of about £110 every two weeks. | 0:07:04 | 0:07:08 | |
I'm in college at the moment studying carpentry. | 0:07:08 | 0:07:12 | |
I've just done my NVQ 1 and just qualifying now for my NVQ 2. | 0:07:12 | 0:07:17 | |
Hopefully, when I qualify for my NVQ 3, | 0:07:17 | 0:07:19 | |
I should be a qualified carpenter. I can see me doing really well in the future. | 0:07:19 | 0:07:25 | |
I don't see me living here for very long. | 0:07:25 | 0:07:27 | |
Not at all. I want to make something out of my life. | 0:07:27 | 0:07:30 | |
I don't want to be just, you know... | 0:07:30 | 0:07:32 | |
I want to get an apprenticeship and make my family proud. | 0:07:32 | 0:07:36 | |
I want to join the Army, hopefully. | 0:07:36 | 0:07:38 | |
Hopefully, I want to go in the Welsh Guards. | 0:07:38 | 0:07:41 | |
So, hopefully, I'll do that in the future. | 0:07:41 | 0:07:46 | |
My dad's in jail, yeah. For a long time. | 0:07:48 | 0:07:54 | |
I get woke up at three o'clock in the morning, | 0:07:54 | 0:07:58 | |
people drinking upstairs, downstairs. | 0:07:58 | 0:08:00 | |
It's not great. You've just got to put up with it, you know. | 0:08:00 | 0:08:03 | |
My mum's not happy with me living here. No. | 0:08:03 | 0:08:07 | |
She wants me to come back home. | 0:08:07 | 0:08:09 | |
Just the fact that it was Larch Road, Mount Estate. | 0:08:09 | 0:08:12 | |
I just said to her I'm not coming back home, | 0:08:12 | 0:08:14 | |
because I want to be independent, I want to do everything myself. | 0:08:14 | 0:08:18 | |
I don't want to rely on my mum for the rest of my life. | 0:08:18 | 0:08:22 | |
Bradley isn't the only one on The Mount trying to turn his life around. | 0:08:38 | 0:08:42 | |
22-year-old Tasha is also struggling | 0:08:42 | 0:08:44 | |
to cope with difficult circumstances. | 0:08:44 | 0:08:48 | |
This is the hallway. The front door. | 0:08:48 | 0:08:53 | |
We lock it. | 0:08:53 | 0:08:56 | |
This... Ah! ..is a window. Things falling over. | 0:09:02 | 0:09:06 | |
Boarded up. | 0:09:07 | 0:09:09 | |
I lived in the hostel for a year-and-a-half. | 0:09:10 | 0:09:14 | |
And then they offered me a flat in The Mount. | 0:09:14 | 0:09:17 | |
I looked at it, and it looked OK. | 0:09:17 | 0:09:19 | |
I thought, yeah, I'll decorate it, like, it'll be OK. | 0:09:19 | 0:09:23 | |
Got a nice patio for my son. | 0:09:23 | 0:09:25 | |
And I took it and tried to do it up. | 0:09:25 | 0:09:31 | |
That's the little boy's room, but it's a mess. | 0:09:31 | 0:09:35 | |
The first year-and-a-half was OK. | 0:09:39 | 0:09:41 | |
It was sorted, it was quite tidy in here. | 0:09:41 | 0:09:44 | |
But after people coming in, and they're meant to be your friends. | 0:09:44 | 0:09:49 | |
Meant to be your friends. And they don't care. | 0:09:49 | 0:09:52 | |
When you ask them to go, | 0:09:52 | 0:09:54 | |
they don't bother going, because they're all wrecked up | 0:09:54 | 0:09:57 | |
and they're all arguing with you. | 0:09:57 | 0:09:59 | |
Then you have to go mad and go crazy at them | 0:09:59 | 0:10:01 | |
and just hit them or something. | 0:10:01 | 0:10:03 | |
They smash windows, they litter everywhere. | 0:10:03 | 0:10:05 | |
My son's three. | 0:10:07 | 0:10:09 | |
I can't have him back now because of all the stuff that goes round here. | 0:10:09 | 0:10:13 | |
I'm on the sick now because of all the stuff that goes on | 0:10:13 | 0:10:17 | |
with my ex-partner and my son, I'm on the sick. | 0:10:17 | 0:10:20 | |
I'm depressed. | 0:10:20 | 0:10:21 | |
I'm really not well, like, and every time I phone the police, | 0:10:21 | 0:10:25 | |
they arrest me, because I get crazy, I want someone to move me off here. | 0:10:25 | 0:10:29 | |
I've been to the doctor several times. | 0:10:29 | 0:10:31 | |
I've got support workers and stuff, and I'm going to get off here, like. | 0:10:31 | 0:10:35 | |
I want to live in my own house with my son | 0:10:39 | 0:10:42 | |
and be happy, but no. | 0:10:42 | 0:10:44 | |
It's several weeks since Simone moved back, | 0:10:59 | 0:11:02 | |
and despite applying for all sorts of jobs, she's still unemployed. | 0:11:02 | 0:11:06 | |
I've got so much stuff to sort out. I got to do my CVs and everything. | 0:11:06 | 0:11:11 | |
I've got to meet this woman next week | 0:11:11 | 0:11:13 | |
to be able to sit down and create one. | 0:11:13 | 0:11:16 | |
I don't really know what I'm doing with it at all. | 0:11:16 | 0:11:18 | |
I do feel very alone when he's not around and I said the other day, | 0:11:23 | 0:11:26 | |
he's kind of like my best friend. | 0:11:26 | 0:11:28 | |
And I don't feel as though I know many people down here any more. | 0:11:28 | 0:11:32 | |
Even though, obviously, I've got my mum, things haven't been easy. | 0:11:32 | 0:11:36 | |
I'm like eating stuff that I wouldn't normally eat. | 0:11:36 | 0:11:40 | |
I'm not really full of fruit and veg like I normally would be. | 0:11:41 | 0:11:44 | |
I'm not as energetic as I used to be. | 0:11:44 | 0:11:47 | |
I'm not as full of life and outgoing as I used to be, | 0:11:47 | 0:11:51 | |
I've kind of got very sluggish. | 0:11:51 | 0:11:53 | |
And it's starting to take a toll on my weight, which obviously | 0:11:53 | 0:11:57 | |
sets me back into anxiety and worrying and panicking. | 0:11:57 | 0:12:01 | |
Yeah, I kind of expected it a little bit later on, | 0:12:01 | 0:12:05 | |
but I can feel The Mount starting to hit back on me. | 0:12:05 | 0:12:08 | |
It's starting to change my lifestyle in a way | 0:12:10 | 0:12:13 | |
I don't really want it to be, | 0:12:13 | 0:12:15 | |
and I'm not quite sure how to get out of that. | 0:12:15 | 0:12:18 | |
Trina moved onto the estate two years ago when she was pregnant. | 0:12:24 | 0:12:28 | |
Her mother also lives in Milford Haven. | 0:12:28 | 0:12:30 | |
..on the phone to you. | 0:12:30 | 0:12:32 | |
All right, then, Mummy. I'll talk to you soon. | 0:12:32 | 0:12:37 | |
I didn't realise I was pregnant for four months. | 0:12:37 | 0:12:41 | |
As soon as I found out, I moved straight into the hostel | 0:12:41 | 0:12:44 | |
and then got this place. | 0:12:44 | 0:12:46 | |
When I found out I was pregnant, | 0:12:48 | 0:12:49 | |
I told him, he tried getting back with me, | 0:12:49 | 0:12:52 | |
and I was like, no, I don't want to. | 0:12:52 | 0:12:54 | |
Basically, so... He's run away, he's run to London. | 0:12:54 | 0:13:00 | |
I won't let her call him Dad... because a part-time dad is a no dad. | 0:13:01 | 0:13:08 | |
She doesn't know who he is. She calls me Dad sometimes. | 0:13:09 | 0:13:13 | |
I did struggle at first, but I had my mum helping me. | 0:13:16 | 0:13:20 | |
But now it's just a walk in the park. | 0:13:20 | 0:13:22 | |
We have a routine, we get up, we have breakfast, she has a bath first, | 0:13:22 | 0:13:27 | |
I get her dressed, and that's basically all we do all day. | 0:13:27 | 0:13:32 | |
She's part of my routine now. | 0:13:32 | 0:13:34 | |
When I make my dinners, I make two, or one and a dot. | 0:13:34 | 0:13:38 | |
Always make sure she's got everything first. | 0:13:38 | 0:13:41 | |
But then, once I make sure she's got everything, I'm left with nothing! | 0:13:41 | 0:13:46 | |
That's the way. Got to suffer the consequences once you've made them! | 0:13:46 | 0:13:53 | |
Hi. | 0:13:53 | 0:13:54 | |
Hiya. | 0:13:54 | 0:13:55 | |
I started off with absolutely nothing in here, | 0:13:59 | 0:14:01 | |
just a bed by here and a TV. | 0:14:01 | 0:14:05 | |
And then, my mother knew people and knew what situation I was in | 0:14:05 | 0:14:11 | |
and helped me out. | 0:14:11 | 0:14:12 | |
Trina's mother, Tracy, | 0:14:15 | 0:14:16 | |
runs a charity called Patch at a local church. | 0:14:16 | 0:14:18 | |
Families referred here are given free vouchers which they can exchange | 0:14:18 | 0:14:22 | |
for food, clothes and household goods. | 0:14:22 | 0:14:26 | |
It was quite shocking, actually, to find out that we've had | 0:14:28 | 0:14:31 | |
well over 10% of our clients are from The Mount. | 0:14:31 | 0:14:34 | |
But we did start at Milford and we've expanded | 0:14:34 | 0:14:38 | |
to the whole of Pembrokeshire, so that may be one of the reasons why. | 0:14:38 | 0:14:41 | |
The charity is staffed by volunteers. | 0:14:41 | 0:14:44 | |
It offers five-day food parcels to people | 0:14:46 | 0:14:49 | |
who have no other means of feeding themselves. | 0:14:49 | 0:14:51 | |
I'll just settle for that, that's all right. | 0:14:55 | 0:14:58 | |
You can have more than that. | 0:14:58 | 0:15:00 | |
Just take whatever you need. | 0:15:00 | 0:15:01 | |
Tom lives on The Mount, and his life has hit a rough spot. | 0:15:01 | 0:15:05 | |
Honestly, we get given so much that it's no hassle at all. | 0:15:05 | 0:15:10 | |
There's three oil refineries right next to us. | 0:15:10 | 0:15:13 | |
I'm a pipe fitter, 20 years in the trade, and just can't get anything. | 0:15:13 | 0:15:16 | |
My last job was in Holland. | 0:15:16 | 0:15:17 | |
Had to leave the country just for three months for some work. | 0:15:17 | 0:15:21 | |
We just went to see if we could get our...well, my partner's working tax sorted out, | 0:15:23 | 0:15:27 | |
because it's all been stopped since she started this job. | 0:15:27 | 0:15:32 | |
Well, it's been stopped since I actually moved in with her | 0:15:32 | 0:15:35 | |
and we started claiming as a joint couple. | 0:15:35 | 0:15:38 | |
So we've had nothing to live on for the last five weeks. | 0:15:38 | 0:15:40 | |
I shouldn't be, but I'm fussy! | 0:15:40 | 0:15:43 | |
It's put us in a terrible position. | 0:15:45 | 0:15:47 | |
We've been digging up potatoes out of the garden that aren't ready. | 0:15:47 | 0:15:50 | |
You know, things like that, | 0:15:50 | 0:15:52 | |
just going round to friends, asking for this and that. | 0:15:52 | 0:15:55 | |
It's embarrassing, really. Coming here... | 0:15:55 | 0:15:57 | |
you don't want to be doing that when you're used to working. | 0:15:57 | 0:16:00 | |
-All right, thanks very much. -Bye! -Cheers, see you later. | 0:16:01 | 0:16:06 | |
I've had a blister on my toe, and half my skin's come off! | 0:16:28 | 0:16:32 | |
So, I'm just like... It's really sore! | 0:16:32 | 0:16:36 | |
Simone's boyfriend, Pete, has made the 10-hour trip from Cumbria | 0:16:41 | 0:16:44 | |
to spend a few days with her. | 0:16:44 | 0:16:47 | |
It's nothing to eat, it's just a plaster. | 0:16:49 | 0:16:53 | |
Please don't step on my toe. Well, apart from the toe, | 0:16:53 | 0:16:56 | |
things are going quite well! | 0:16:56 | 0:16:58 | |
It's hardly falling off, Simone! | 0:16:58 | 0:17:00 | |
This is what you get for doing sport and things together as a couple. | 0:17:02 | 0:17:06 | |
Someone gets injured! | 0:17:06 | 0:17:09 | |
We went for a game of squash and we'd already gone through | 0:17:09 | 0:17:12 | |
the whole rigmarole this morning that this one's all the sporty person | 0:17:12 | 0:17:15 | |
and I thought he'd get too competitive. | 0:17:15 | 0:17:18 | |
-All good. -Yes. | 0:17:20 | 0:17:22 | |
Still looking for jobs, but obviously starting to try and get up your way. | 0:17:22 | 0:17:26 | |
Obviously, trying to look anywhere where there's going to be | 0:17:26 | 0:17:31 | |
a big intake of jobs, so Cardiff, Manchester, Chester. | 0:17:31 | 0:17:35 | |
Hopefully, something will come up. Fingers crossed. | 0:17:35 | 0:17:39 | |
If not, we've got the weather down here, so it's fine! | 0:17:39 | 0:17:42 | |
-Make the most of the summer. -Wait till Christmas. -Yes! | 0:17:42 | 0:17:46 | |
Then it'll be Christmas and it'll be "I want to go now. I want to move." | 0:17:46 | 0:17:50 | |
-Get snowed in down here. -Yes. | 0:17:50 | 0:17:53 | |
All too soon, Pete's visit is over. | 0:18:05 | 0:18:08 | |
And Simone is left to carry on the thankless task of trying to find a job. | 0:18:10 | 0:18:15 | |
For Tasha, things are starting to improve. | 0:18:21 | 0:18:24 | |
But she's waiting for the council to finish the repairs to her flat. | 0:18:24 | 0:18:28 | |
They fixed the back door the other day. | 0:18:28 | 0:18:31 | |
They were meant to fix my front door but they haven't. Yet again. | 0:18:33 | 0:18:38 | |
Then, Tasha spots a council van parked nearby. | 0:18:39 | 0:18:43 | |
-Excuse me, what house are you doing? -Sorry? -What house are you doing? | 0:18:50 | 0:18:54 | |
-I've finished. -Are you doing my front door? | 0:18:54 | 0:18:57 | |
I'm a plumber, not a carpenter. | 0:18:57 | 0:19:01 | |
My sink in the bathroom is blocked. | 0:19:01 | 0:19:04 | |
-Can you unplug it? -I can do, if you want. -Thank you. | 0:19:04 | 0:19:09 | |
-There you go. -Thank you. | 0:19:19 | 0:19:21 | |
Ta-ra. | 0:19:25 | 0:19:27 | |
With the yard swept and the sink unblocked, | 0:19:34 | 0:19:37 | |
Tasha can now join her boyfriend, watching TV. | 0:19:37 | 0:19:40 | |
Some months later, she found a job and now works part-time. | 0:19:40 | 0:19:46 | |
66-year-old Freda is losing her fight with cancer. | 0:20:02 | 0:20:06 | |
One of her last wishes was to ride a motorbike. | 0:20:06 | 0:20:09 | |
I used to be a biker before I joined the Army. | 0:20:11 | 0:20:15 | |
And the wife's brother used to be a biker as well. | 0:20:15 | 0:20:18 | |
So we all like bikes. | 0:20:18 | 0:20:21 | |
And one of her wishes was, before she died, was to go out on bikes. | 0:20:21 | 0:20:24 | |
She couldn't get on the back of a motorbike, so we got a trike. | 0:20:24 | 0:20:28 | |
-Right, OK? -We'll go for a sleep now. | 0:20:28 | 0:20:32 | |
-She's tired now. -I'm not surprised. It's that vehicle. | 0:20:32 | 0:20:38 | |
Come on. OK? | 0:20:38 | 0:20:42 | |
Freda's family are there in force to support their mum. | 0:20:42 | 0:20:47 | |
She was give six to nine months to live, then she was given two weeks, | 0:20:47 | 0:20:51 | |
and now they've said this will be the last weekend. | 0:20:51 | 0:20:56 | |
Very sad, but it's nice to see a big smile on her face. | 0:21:00 | 0:21:04 | |
Do you want to come indoors before you collapse here? | 0:21:06 | 0:21:10 | |
-Let's get you in and have a nice cup of tea. -Lovely to have met you. | 0:21:10 | 0:21:15 | |
-I enjoyed it. -It was beautiful. -You're welcome. | 0:21:15 | 0:21:20 | |
I'm glad you enjoyed it. | 0:21:20 | 0:21:22 | |
It was the first thing she asked for, wasn't it? | 0:21:22 | 0:21:27 | |
-Cup of tea? -Thank you very much. | 0:21:27 | 0:21:32 | |
Freda and her husband, Ken, moved to The Mount five years ago. | 0:21:32 | 0:21:37 | |
When I first moved here, I was a bit apprehensive. | 0:21:37 | 0:21:40 | |
But the people are so nice round here. | 0:21:40 | 0:21:43 | |
There is parts where it's a bit rougher, | 0:21:43 | 0:21:46 | |
but this area, I've had no problem at all. | 0:21:46 | 0:21:49 | |
Everybody knows everybody. It's a nice little knit community. | 0:21:50 | 0:21:54 | |
I don't feel frightened at all, or threatened. | 0:21:57 | 0:22:00 | |
You get one or two drunks, but most of the time, they'll talk to you. | 0:22:00 | 0:22:05 | |
If you see somebody coming up with a hoodie, like, down in London, | 0:22:05 | 0:22:09 | |
you think, what are you going to do next? | 0:22:09 | 0:22:12 | |
But up here, you usually say, "Hello, how are you going?" | 0:22:12 | 0:22:16 | |
Jane's daughter, Simone, still has no job. | 0:22:24 | 0:22:27 | |
And Jane is wondering what the future might hold for her. | 0:22:27 | 0:22:31 | |
"Follow-up call from B for money news." That's Simone's. | 0:22:31 | 0:22:35 | |
I wonder who B is. | 0:22:35 | 0:22:39 | |
-Simone! -Yes. -The bottom of your star sign says, | 0:22:39 | 0:22:43 | |
"Follow-up call from B for money news." | 0:22:43 | 0:22:47 | |
-Do you know anyone with the letter B? -No. | 0:22:47 | 0:22:50 | |
Right. | 0:22:51 | 0:22:53 | |
Just reading my sister's. It's a bit of a laugh. | 0:22:55 | 0:22:58 | |
"Host a sparkling get-together." Yeah, right(!) | 0:22:58 | 0:23:01 | |
She couldn't organise one in a brewery! | 0:23:03 | 0:23:06 | |
Oh, dear Lord! | 0:23:10 | 0:23:12 | |
Simone, Sian's idea of a get-together | 0:23:12 | 0:23:15 | |
is throwing a couple of sausages on the barbie. | 0:23:15 | 0:23:19 | |
Smoking! | 0:23:21 | 0:23:24 | |
But Sian IS holding a party, as predicted by her horoscope. | 0:23:24 | 0:23:28 | |
They're ready to eat. | 0:23:30 | 0:23:32 | |
Should be a barmaid. Get a job up the Horse and Jockey, love. | 0:23:33 | 0:23:36 | |
Yeah, the diet's going really well(!) | 0:23:38 | 0:23:41 | |
No hotdogs(!) | 0:23:42 | 0:23:44 | |
Freda passed away a week after the bike ride. | 0:23:57 | 0:24:02 | |
-Good family. -Oh, yes. | 0:24:06 | 0:24:09 | |
Freda had a great sense of humour. | 0:24:36 | 0:24:38 | |
She liked a laugh. | 0:24:40 | 0:24:42 | |
The fact there was laughter at this funeral, and that's so important, | 0:24:55 | 0:25:02 | |
because this lady, I think, loved the sound of laughter. | 0:25:02 | 0:25:06 | |
And you've shared that laughter with everyone here today. | 0:25:06 | 0:25:10 | |
We've also shared our sadness. | 0:25:10 | 0:25:13 | |
Earth to earth, ashes to ashes, | 0:25:14 | 0:25:19 | |
dust to dust. | 0:25:19 | 0:25:20 | |
Trusting in the infinite mercy of God | 0:25:20 | 0:25:23 | |
and the victory of Christ, our Lord. | 0:25:23 | 0:25:27 | |
I miss her like mad. | 0:25:34 | 0:25:36 | |
Time... | 0:25:36 | 0:25:39 | |
I wouldn't say so much at night, it's during the day, it's so quiet. | 0:25:39 | 0:25:43 | |
It's why I leave the radio on. | 0:25:43 | 0:25:46 | |
And I'm thinking of getting a dog now. Again. | 0:25:46 | 0:25:49 | |
That's about it. | 0:25:49 | 0:25:50 | |
I definitely won't move anywhere. | 0:25:54 | 0:25:56 | |
I'm here till the day I die... cos she's already booked a grave for me! | 0:25:56 | 0:26:00 | |
But that's...that's life, isn't it? | 0:26:02 | 0:26:04 | |
Simone is still looking for work | 0:26:16 | 0:26:18 | |
and she's sent off dozens off application forms. | 0:26:18 | 0:26:22 | |
I had an interview come through, and it said... | 0:26:22 | 0:26:26 | |
It was with a really top company. And it would have been absolutely fantastic. | 0:26:26 | 0:26:31 | |
But... Yeah. | 0:26:31 | 0:26:33 | |
It turned out that it was unpaid. And for six months. | 0:26:33 | 0:26:38 | |
Unpaid, living in London. It just wasn't happening. | 0:26:38 | 0:26:41 | |
I couldn't ask my boyfriend to give up his job to support me | 0:26:41 | 0:26:44 | |
in something that I might not even get a job out of at the end, cos it was an internship. | 0:26:44 | 0:26:49 | |
It just seemed as though the fact that cos it's such a big company, | 0:26:49 | 0:26:54 | |
they can just take on people as volunteers, | 0:26:54 | 0:26:57 | |
and it's no loss of money to them. | 0:26:57 | 0:27:01 | |
So...yeah. Nothing great. A bit of a letdown. | 0:27:01 | 0:27:05 | |
It's nice being back with family, but there's nothing down here. | 0:27:09 | 0:27:14 | |
I've had one of the bosses down here who I know so well, | 0:27:14 | 0:27:17 | |
and he apologised to me, because he couldn't give me a job, | 0:27:17 | 0:27:20 | |
cos he had to take on the boss's granddaughter. | 0:27:20 | 0:27:23 | |
Even my friend, who owns a bar, she couldn't even take me on and she's having to hire her family, | 0:27:23 | 0:27:29 | |
and the only reason they're working there is they're unpaid. | 0:27:29 | 0:27:33 | |
So the sooner I get away from here and the sooner I move back... | 0:27:33 | 0:27:39 | |
and even if it's just into a house with Pete until I can get something, | 0:27:39 | 0:27:43 | |
it'd be better than anything this place is ever going to offer. | 0:27:43 | 0:27:46 | |
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