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investigate allegations that the country's child protection | :00:00. | :00:00. | |
Down the road to a tiny village came at power that tore a young family | :00:00. | :00:21. | |
apart. I saw two black cars and won't continue driving on the main | :00:22. | :00:27. | |
road and one came on our farm. They lost four of their children and then | :00:28. | :00:33. | |
the fifth. I told Marius said they were going to take the children and | :00:34. | :00:38. | |
there was nothing I could do. This is Norway, proud of its record in | :00:39. | :00:43. | |
protecting children, but now accused of campaigners abroad and at home of | :00:44. | :00:50. | |
a brutal campaign of taking babies into care without any reason. Not | :00:51. | :00:58. | |
one single bad case and it is a simple with bad cases all the time. | :00:59. | :01:04. | |
Norway's child protection services says it does all it can to keep | :01:05. | :01:08. | |
families together. We don't have any self interest in taking the children | :01:09. | :01:15. | |
with us. But parents battling the state believe all the odds are | :01:16. | :01:17. | |
stacked against them in a system that has gone mad. They will win | :01:18. | :01:23. | |
just to win and they hate to lose and be proven wrong because no one | :01:24. | :01:25. | |
can be wrong. It is | :01:26. | :01:56. | |
a house that had five children. Their father plays one of his | :01:57. | :01:59. | |
favourite songs - not to entertain For news if he and his wife will | :02:00. | :02:35. | |
ever get them back. Ruse has been at the police station again. Trying | :02:36. | :02:40. | |
desperately to convince the authorities that she and Marius are | :02:41. | :02:47. | |
good player -- parents. Blast out was three hours -- last night. I | :02:48. | :02:56. | |
knew what the kids had said to the child protection services and to the | :02:57. | :03:01. | |
police and I hope that they believe me. But it is hoped against hope. | :03:02. | :03:04. | |
Their two girls aged eight and ten, their two boys aged two | :03:05. | :03:07. | |
and five and their baby were taken away in November. | :03:08. | :03:11. | |
And Ruth and Marius's world fell apart. | :03:12. | :03:17. | |
I was waiting for the girls to come home from school. | :03:18. | :03:19. | |
And it passed ten or 15 minutes and they didn't come. | :03:20. | :03:27. | |
I saw it came, two black cars, one continued driving on the main | :03:28. | :03:37. | |
Inside the car was a child protection officer. | :03:38. | :03:44. | |
She said the two girls had been taken away in | :03:45. | :03:46. | |
the other black car and two older boys were being taken away too. | :03:47. | :03:53. | |
She said I had to come to the police station for interrogation. I was | :03:54. | :04:01. | |
shocked and I asked what was going on and she did not want to answer | :04:02. | :04:06. | |
that. And she said that she had my two girls and that she wanted to | :04:07. | :04:13. | |
take care of the boys while I was at the interrogation. I said it is not | :04:14. | :04:16. | |
necessary because they can stay with my mother and she can watch them. | :04:17. | :04:28. | |
And then I understood it was very serious. For children gone in one | :04:29. | :04:32. | |
day, they still have the baby. They still had the baby, | :04:33. | :04:42. | |
but not for much longer. It was the second day in the evening | :04:43. | :04:45. | |
we saw two cars driving here and two black cars again and I said, | :04:46. | :04:48. | |
they have brought the kids home. Were you excited, you got really | :04:49. | :04:52. | |
excited when you saw those cars? Then I saw four policemen | :04:53. | :04:55. | |
coming out of the car. I told Marius, I think they're | :04:56. | :04:58. | |
going to take the baby. So the baby just disappeared down | :04:59. | :05:06. | |
the road. Yes. And then we found they drove three and a half hours. | :05:07. | :05:12. | |
With the baby they drove that night to Bergen. They wrote that the baby | :05:13. | :05:17. | |
cried the 30 minutes and they watched the baby cry on the road. | :05:18. | :05:24. | |
Marius and Ruth thought this while Dali was an ideal place to bring up | :05:25. | :05:30. | |
the family. But even here there are rules and something one of the | :05:31. | :05:34. | |
children said first alerted the authorities that Marius and Ruth | :05:35. | :05:39. | |
might be breaking the law. In Norway it forbids any corporal punishment. | :05:40. | :05:49. | |
We were questioned about violence in the | :05:50. | :05:51. | |
We admitted spanking the kids, but not... | :05:52. | :05:54. | |
Not every time when they would do something bad. | :05:55. | :05:58. | |
They didn't find any physical marks or anything like that when they had | :05:59. | :06:01. | |
It's very clear until the smallest detail. | :06:02. | :06:13. | |
It is not allowed for any physical correction. | :06:14. | :06:18. | |
Their lawyers wouldn't let me ask any more questions, | :06:19. | :06:20. | |
because they're still under investigation and the authorities | :06:21. | :06:22. | |
aren't allowed to discuss this or any other individual case to protect | :06:23. | :06:25. | |
Beginning on November 16th when the Norwegian authority for | :06:26. | :06:32. | |
child protection, the Barnevernet, had taken away the five children... | :06:33. | :06:40. | |
Claims that Marius and Ruth's kids and hundreds of others have been | :06:41. | :06:43. | |
taken without reason have triggered demonstrations all over the world. | :06:44. | :06:48. | |
Even if the protestors can't know all the facts. | :06:49. | :06:51. | |
The campaign's strong abroad, because Marius is an immigrant | :06:52. | :06:55. | |
from Romania and the couple belonged to an evangelical Christian | :06:56. | :06:57. | |
But in Norway today, there are solid members of the establishment who | :06:58. | :07:10. | |
also think the country's child protection system is out of control. | :07:11. | :07:30. | |
Ingla is head of state archive in the city of Bergen. | :07:31. | :07:33. | |
I grew up believing that the Norwegian system was the best | :07:34. | :07:35. | |
Appointed personally by the king to guard thousands of documents. But | :07:36. | :07:45. | |
now his faith in the system is badly shaken. | :07:46. | :07:52. | |
I grew up believing that the Norwegian system was the best | :07:53. | :07:54. | |
The UN are stating that all the time. | :07:55. | :07:58. | |
Then suddenly I discovered that this cannot be the case, | :07:59. | :08:00. | |
and that was because of things that happened in my own family. | :08:01. | :08:03. | |
Because of what happened to this little girl, his grand daughter, who | :08:04. | :08:06. | |
The Norwegian child protection service known as Barnevernet said | :08:07. | :08:13. | |
But that is not how it looked to Ingla. | :08:14. | :08:22. | |
So this was the passive, non-sounding child. | :08:23. | :08:30. | |
How long is this before she was taken? | :08:31. | :08:32. | |
This is in the middle of November, so this is is basically two months | :08:33. | :08:36. | |
She was put into emergency fostering, because the child | :08:37. | :08:42. | |
protection service said she was suffering serious psychological | :08:43. | :08:48. | |
harm, because her parents count meet her emotional needs. | :08:49. | :08:52. | |
They said her mother, who is from China and has now gone back there, | :08:53. | :08:56. | |
was depressed and her father, Eric, was simple, though he has never been | :08:57. | :08:59. | |
diagnosed with any condition, other than a slight lack of short-term | :09:00. | :09:02. | |
I did everything, I changed nappies, I change nappies | :09:03. | :09:09. | |
So what did you do to play with her? Just the small toys and at first we | :09:10. | :09:29. | |
often played with hands so maybe a tickle on the tummy. | :09:30. | :09:37. | |
Just days before child protection started their urgent assessment | :09:38. | :09:39. | |
of the family, a doctor at the local health clinic found the little | :09:40. | :09:42. | |
girl was developing normally, but Barnevernet said later that even if | :09:43. | :09:45. | |
they had known that it wouldn't have affected their conclusions. | :09:46. | :09:50. | |
And his anger at the court held up the report and they agreed. | :09:51. | :09:56. | |
We put forward a huge report on my son's psychological strength | :09:57. | :09:59. | |
They haven't mentioned that by one word. | :10:00. | :10:04. | |
So they're closing their eyes and they say that we can only rely on | :10:05. | :10:08. | |
the assessments that these persons working for Barnevernet have made. | :10:09. | :10:23. | |
Him and his wife press the authorities to let them take care of | :10:24. | :10:27. | |
the little girl but the child protection services said that would | :10:28. | :10:31. | |
mean too much uncertainty as things have gone wrong with the child while | :10:32. | :10:34. | |
the grandparents were living in the same house. Many parents have lost | :10:35. | :10:39. | |
children I say that Norway is less keen on letting the children stay | :10:40. | :10:44. | |
with other members of the family. But they say they are kept within | :10:45. | :10:48. | |
the wider family. For the last five months Marius and | :10:49. | :11:07. | |
Ruth have lost their five children have spent much of their lives on | :11:08. | :11:12. | |
the road. It is been an eight hour round trip for them to get to | :11:13. | :11:15. | |
supervise meetings with the baby and their little boys. The children were | :11:16. | :11:19. | |
split up between three different sets of foster parents. The age of | :11:20. | :11:23. | |
has this impression that we are going to die and that is why she | :11:24. | :11:31. | |
cannot be with us. And the five-year-old was asking a lot for | :11:32. | :11:36. | |
his father and asking why he cannot meet us both and he told us that he | :11:37. | :11:41. | |
dreamt that we would be together. He had this dream that we would all be | :11:42. | :11:50. | |
together. For now all that Marius and Ruth can do is wait between | :11:51. | :11:54. | |
meetings in a friend 's flat. They say they have offered to fix what | :11:55. | :11:58. | |
ever needs fixing as the way they behaved as parents but the chart | :11:59. | :12:02. | |
protection did not even want to discuss reuniting the family. So | :12:03. | :12:09. | |
this is the baby in mother's tummy. Yeah she tried several times to draw | :12:10. | :12:16. | |
me in the tummy. He wanted it to be perfect. Said this is mum, dad and | :12:17. | :12:25. | |
me. They write down their own account with a meeting with the | :12:26. | :12:27. | |
children because they don't trust the social workers to report | :12:28. | :12:33. | |
fairly. We don't know when we are fighting to show our feelings | :12:34. | :12:36. | |
because for the bigger boys we're told to not show any sorrow because | :12:37. | :12:45. | |
we make the kids sad. So we try to keep every tear inside and we keep | :12:46. | :12:48. | |
them for ourselves until they are out of the door, at least. | :12:49. | :12:52. | |
Of course, parents whose children are taken into care | :12:53. | :12:54. | |
in any country are nearly always angry with the system, but I'm | :12:55. | :12:57. | |
It devotes more resources and attention to children and their | :12:58. | :13:04. | |
rights than almost any country on earth and child protection usually | :13:05. | :13:07. | |
just provides guidance to parents with problems, it is only in what | :13:08. | :13:10. | |
they regard as extreme cases they they seek care orders. | :13:11. | :13:17. | |
I would like to get the other side of the story from the tiny authority | :13:18. | :13:23. | |
that took their kids but they cannot talk about individual cases. We have | :13:24. | :13:32. | |
approximately 110. I had to go to another part of Norway to meet HR | :13:33. | :13:37. | |
protection officer. This man does not look like the kind of evil child | :13:38. | :13:40. | |
snatcher that aggrieved parent to portray. As he says, they usually | :13:41. | :13:47. | |
just provide guidance to Paris with problems and it is only with what | :13:48. | :13:50. | |
they regard as extreme cases that they seek care orders. Our | :13:51. | :13:56. | |
obligation is to keep the children out of danger. That is our main goal | :13:57. | :14:04. | |
and it is to make that possible through the parents and with the | :14:05. | :14:08. | |
parents and makes them able to give sufficient care for their children. | :14:09. | :14:12. | |
If there is conflict between those two we have to take sides with the | :14:13. | :14:15. | |
children. And you don't think you are too powerful? We often | :14:16. | :14:22. | |
criticised because we're not doing enough or we're not doing it early | :14:23. | :14:30. | |
enough and not enough children are giving sufficient time. | :14:31. | :14:37. | |
The number of children taken rose by 70% in the recent five-year period. | :14:38. | :14:44. | |
That was partly a reaction to the state's failure to protect and | :14:45. | :14:47. | |
eight-year-old boy who was beaten to death by his stepfather in 2005. But | :14:48. | :14:54. | |
if the authorities overreact? It is hard to work out whether Norway is | :14:55. | :15:00. | |
better in its child protection practices. In England it would be | :15:01. | :15:03. | |
very unusual for children to be taken away without parents being | :15:04. | :15:09. | |
contacted first and without serious attempts immediately afterwards to | :15:10. | :15:14. | |
engage with the family. Maybe the cases we're looking at our very | :15:15. | :15:20. | |
unusual in Norway two, but Norwegian experts don't think so and that | :15:21. | :15:22. | |
perhaps is the most significant point in the story. -- Norway too. | :15:23. | :15:30. | |
Almost 150 Norwegian professionals, psychologists, or -- lawyers, have | :15:31. | :15:37. | |
written a letter to say that the child protection services is a | :15:38. | :15:43. | |
dysfunctional organisation that makes the seriousness calculation | :15:44. | :15:48. | |
is, with serious consequences. This man is one of the authors of the | :15:49. | :15:55. | |
open letters to the government. There is a lack of a human factor in | :15:56. | :15:59. | |
the system. A lack of empathy and really providing an atmosphere so | :16:00. | :16:05. | |
people can learn and can have a good discussion about what's happening. | :16:06. | :16:10. | |
It is more like police interventions, more like we have to | :16:11. | :16:13. | |
find out what's wrong with you. The vast majority of cases, where | :16:14. | :16:29. | |
custody of the child is disputed, the state wins and parents lose, but | :16:30. | :16:34. | |
not always. In this hospital in the far south of Norway there is a | :16:35. | :16:37. | |
little girl who was taken away from her parents what they've now on back | :16:38. | :16:42. | |
custody. Hello, nice to see you. Very nice to see you. This is your | :16:43. | :16:48. | |
daughter? How long has she been in for, overnight? From 7pm until | :16:49. | :17:03. | |
10pm. 15 hours? Yes. She has had almost 100% kidney failure from just | :17:04. | :17:06. | |
after she was born. She could die at any time. Now she goes home for a | :17:07. | :17:11. | |
few hours a day between dialysis sessions. But when child protection | :17:12. | :17:18. | |
took over custody, she stayed in hospital round the clock. In the | :17:19. | :17:28. | |
beginning it was like because they said that the doctors from hospital | :17:29. | :17:32. | |
are scared to send her with us at home, that we would hurt her, we | :17:33. | :17:41. | |
were a risk for her. Later, the child protection also said that she | :17:42. | :17:45. | |
hadn't bonded with her mother or father, Robert. But the fact that | :17:46. | :17:50. | |
she spends much time in hospital helped them to prove that it wasn't | :17:51. | :17:56. | |
true. It meant that there were regular medical records confirming | :17:57. | :18:00. | |
their story, that the court could refuse to consider. The mother, who | :18:01. | :18:06. | |
is from the Czech Republic, and the father who is Norwegian save the | :18:07. | :18:08. | |
child protection even accused them of saying they wanted their daughter | :18:09. | :18:13. | |
to die, to spare her a lifetime of pain. But the records show that | :18:14. | :18:17. | |
actually intervened more than once with suggestions that saved their | :18:18. | :18:25. | |
daughter's life. We have a patient diary since every day she was born. | :18:26. | :18:33. | |
We have every day written things from doctors and nurses. You wrote | :18:34. | :18:38. | |
everything down? What did that show? It shows that the child protection | :18:39. | :18:50. | |
is writing the opposite. In the diary it was written that she was | :18:51. | :18:56. | |
smiling to see her parents. They never talk with anyone, have never | :18:57. | :19:00. | |
been in our house, they've never seen us with Nikita. They saw the | :19:01. | :19:11. | |
run on -- saw her on one occasion. This has fuelled the protest in the | :19:12. | :19:15. | |
Czech Republic, protests backed by the state. So how does the Norwegian | :19:16. | :19:19. | |
government feel about all this anger at home and abroad? We don't have | :19:20. | :19:26. | |
many children in care, compared to other Nordic countries. So why there | :19:27. | :19:29. | |
is so much attention to the Norwegian system? We don't have a | :19:30. | :19:36. | |
good answer to that, but I understand that these cases raise a | :19:37. | :19:38. | |
lot of feelings and emotions. There's lots of evidence that | :19:39. | :19:43. | |
parents say isn't accepted. That's a concern we are looking into and | :19:44. | :19:47. | |
that's why we want to look into a broad review of the child welfare | :19:48. | :19:50. | |
cases to see what goes wrong and also learn from best practice. Good | :19:51. | :19:57. | |
children be taken off parents -- could children be taken off parents | :19:58. | :20:03. | |
simply because the parents had exercised mild corporal punishment? | :20:04. | :20:07. | |
I can't comment. This could be several other aspects from one case, | :20:08. | :20:14. | |
but it is important we have programmes helping parents, avoiding | :20:15. | :20:17. | |
the use corporal punishment in their child's upbringing, and that's the | :20:18. | :20:22. | |
answer to your question. But parents have to know the law and live by the | :20:23. | :20:27. | |
law in Norway, regardless of background. | :20:28. | :20:40. | |
Ruth and marry us' background is religious. -- Marius's. Bowral | :20:41. | :20:51. | |
Pentecostals and he is Romanian. Their supporters think they are | :20:52. | :20:55. | |
victims of discrimination and in Norway children with an immigrant | :20:56. | :20:59. | |
parents are four times more likely to be removed by force from their | :21:00. | :21:05. | |
families. Thank you. But there's no of knowing if cultural factors were | :21:06. | :21:16. | |
present in this case. We can't be sure exactly what is going on in | :21:17. | :21:21. | |
this family, but now Ruth's routine of taking bags of frozen breastmilk | :21:22. | :21:24. | |
twice a week to the baby is finally over. Since we filmed with the | :21:25. | :21:30. | |
couple, their baby son has now unexpectedly been returned to them. | :21:31. | :21:36. | |
But they still fear that got a long fight ahead for the other four | :21:37. | :21:40. | |
children and many more longer journeys to those agonisingly short | :21:41. | :21:43. | |
meetings with them, laden with unspoken emotion. What do you think | :21:44. | :21:48. | |
about before these meetings? We would like to explain to them their | :21:49. | :21:54. | |
situation and convert them, but we cannot do that, since we cannot talk | :21:55. | :22:01. | |
about the case. They say they are crying in the evenings, crying | :22:02. | :22:05. | |
themselves to sleep. Of course I would like to... To convert them and | :22:06. | :22:17. | |
tell them how to not be afraid. -- comfort them. But of course it is | :22:18. | :22:20. | |
hard to do that when she is afraid herself. | :22:21. | :22:58. | |
For many of us on Saturday it is not really going | :22:59. | :23:01. | |
It will be quite chilly, with air coming all the way from the Arctic. | :23:02. | :23:07. | |
By the early hours of Saturday morning there's even a chance of | :23:08. | :23:11. |