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It's one minute to midnight on a Saturday night

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and I'm back in Northern Ireland for the first time in many, many years

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Below me, the bars and clubs of Belfast are doing a roaring trade.

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The city is jumping and the weekend is in full swing...

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..but Saturday night is about to become Sunday morning.

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And a Sunday has always been a very special day in Northern Ireland.

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My name's Peter Curran. I'm a writer and presenter,

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who left Northern Ireland for the glamour of London building sites

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back in the 1980s.

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It was the height of the Troubles, when, if you were lucky,

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Sundays were drab and dull,

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and, if not, they were violent and nightmarish.

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The Sabbath could be the worst day of the week.

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The teenage me spent many a Sunday

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mooching about the empty streets of north Belfast,

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dreaming of girls and rock and roll stardom.

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But it's 2012 now, there's peace and prosperity,

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and I'm here to refresh my idea of Northern Ireland in its Sunday Best.

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So, I want to find out

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what the changes to Sundays in Northern Ireland are...

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..and maybe show you the differences that have evolved slowly

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but are really startling when set against the good old bad old days.

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What do people feel about Sundays in a society

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that's certainly less religious and more peaceful

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than the one I left behind?

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Hi!

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So, what's Sunday mean to you?

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Sunday means a hangover all day and then party all night.

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Usually very hungover and you just want to eat all day.

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Tomorrow is a day of rest,

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and I will lie in as long as I can...

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I just want to go out and have a good time

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and don't really want to think about the repercussions

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of having an alcoholic beverage.

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Listen, hats off for being able to say the word repercussions

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at one o'clock in the morning on a Saturday night!

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Sundays used to be probably the most special day of the week for people.

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Do Sundays have any kind of religious significance for you?

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Mmm...no, no not really.

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You'd have to get dressed up in your best, go to Mass,

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and then have your Sunday dinner and all round with family,

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but it's not the same now.

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I'm going to work in Magaluf all summer,

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so being a Christian isn't really an option at the minute...

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And so begins another Ulster Sunday.

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It's 8am on a sunny Sunday morning in Belfast.

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# Sunday morning... #

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And the unique atmosphere is exactly as I remember it from my youth.

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As the poet Billy Wordsworth once said,

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"Dear God, the very houses seem asleep,

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"and all that mighty heart is lying still".

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Mind you, there are some people in Northern Ireland

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who've always found Sundays just a little bit boring.

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The day the North stood still!

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But is Sunday still a snoozefest

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in the regenerated peaceful and prosperous Ulster?

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And call me an even-handed fool,

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but I want to see how both of the big religious communities

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spend the sacred seventh day.

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The Bible says call the Sabbath a delight and we do call it a delight.

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Delight for many on the Sabbath

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can come from words that are less than holy.

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Any of the stories over the past few years which have been big sellers,

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probably would involve sex, politics, power and religion.

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And then there's the eye-popping Sunday Spectaculars

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that could NEVER have happened in my day...

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We always say at the top of the show, expect the unexpected.

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But let's begin by getting to the roots of our old sedate Sundays,

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and it all goes back to the Good Book.

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The seventh day is the Sabbath of the Lord thy God.

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In it thou shalt not do any work,

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thou, nor thy son, nor thy daughter,

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thy manservant, nor thy maidservant,

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nor thy cattle, nor thy stranger

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that is within thy gates.

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That'll get you out of that shift at Tescos.

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Infamously, the authorities here used to lock up

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the kids' swings on a Sunday.

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Such strictness is a thing of the past,

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but many still respect the Lord's day.

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So I went to Conor to meet the Reverend Richard Murray,

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for tea, buns and to touch on matters biblical.

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-Reverend Murray, I presume?

-Yes?

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-Peter Curran.

-Good to meet you.

-You too.

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-You're welcome to Conor.

-Thank you.

-It's good to have you here.

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-Thanks for seeing us on a Saturday.

-Not at all, you're very welcome.

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May we come in and see you prepare for the day tomorrow?

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-Come ahead.

-Lovely.

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The Reverend Murray is a member of The Lords Day Observance Society

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and believes in preserving Sunday as a God-ordained day of rest.

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And that means no film crews in the house,

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so we came to see him on a Saturday

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as he prepared for the Sabbath.

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So, what wouldn't you do on a Sunday?

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On a Sunday we wouldn't go the shops at all.

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We wouldn't watch television.

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We would try to avoid public transport.

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It's simply a way of trying not to let other people have to work

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and also a way of just keeping ourselves just for worshipping God.

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The Ballymena area was always seen as Ulster's Bible Belt -

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and braces - but these days, even here,

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Sunday is a shopping day for many people.

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The shops are just allowed to be open and there's sport happens

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and there has been an erosion...

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But yet there doesn't seem to be a very vocal protest.

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People just don't listen any more and no matter how much we protest

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they're just going to carry on with their agenda.

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But it never gets to the point where you think,

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"We might be wrong"?

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No. We take our stand upon the unchanging word of God,

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and the Commandments were written in stone after all,

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they weren't written on paper to be ripped up,

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they were written in stone, so we believe that they're there

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and they're fixed for eternity.

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There can be wind erosion, though,

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that can take the letters off stones sometimes!

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Do you feel that Sundays are always going to be significant

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for Protestant people in this part of the world

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or around Ballymena or are we on the road to nowhere?

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I think for Protestant people

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the Lord's day will always be significant.

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It is the fourth of the Ten Commandments...

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..there are ten, not nine, commandments and yes,

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things HAVE slipped, but we believe with a revival

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of genuine Christianity there will once again

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be the implementation of laws, like trading laws

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or whatever it is to protect the Lord's day.

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Is it an easy thing for you to do on Sunday

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to devote yourself to prayer and going for a walk

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rather than entertaining yourself or is it a struggle?

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No, it's not a struggle because, as a committed Christian

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you just want to spend time with the Lord and with the Lord's people...

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and it's not a struggle at all.

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-Really?

-No, not at all.

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The Bible says call the Sabbath a delight

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and we do call it a delight.

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But what about all the young dudes of Ballymena?

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In the age of an internet social life

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and manic texting, do they really delight in the Lord's day?

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Are Sundays a day that you might look forward to,

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in terms of your faith, but dread as teenagers?

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I do like it... I do, I think it's a really good day

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and I have a good time on a Sunday, to be honest.

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You've got to remember it's God's day,

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so you have to spend time with God.

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Have you noticed that people outside your church and school community

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are understanding of your faith or do they think it's strange?

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I suppose there's a number who see it as a wee bit weird...

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kind of like not living your life, so to speak,

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then there is other ones who respect we have a faith.

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They're going out, they're clubbing, and we're sitting in

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and they invite you and say, "Why're you not doing this?"

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and we say, "We're Christians. We don't believe it's the right thing to do."

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Yeah, there would be that element of everyone thinks you're strange.

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I'm really interested in how you think life is going to develop

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for your faith and for Sundays over the next 10 or 20 years,

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given that it's such a time of change at the moment.

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It's like our responsibility to try to change it back to how it was

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and try and make sure that they don't all open on a Sunday

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and Sunday becomes like every other day.

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The world is becoming more secular

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and religion is trying to be more accessible...

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I've actually seen with mine own eyes

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a vicar in a denim waist-coat...

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So, there's an attractive resolve to this corner of Country Antrim

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where they're still trying to keep Sunday special.

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But for the Keep Sunday Special squad, it's been a losing battle.

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In 1995, our leaders thought to ask people in Northern Ireland

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if they'd welcome the shops and businesses trading on a Sunday.

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And a majority of us replied, "What time do you open?!".

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What about working on a Sunday? Is that not a real drag?

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Would you not prefer to be lying in, playing footsie with each other, reading the papers?

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Need the mortgage paying.

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THEY LAUGH

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No, I enjoy working on a Sunday, it doesn't bother me.

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I work every day, my favourite days are Friday, Saturday, Sunday.

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On Friday afternoon through to Sunday

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we get a lot of people from the UK coming,

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from all over England and Scotland.

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We've moved on in our society, it's come a long way and why not?

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More tourists coming, so, we've got to accommodate them.

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It's a new era now, and we don't want to go back

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to nobody out on a Sunday, the swings all chained up

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and everything like that, no, it's better now.

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-Fantastic, thanks very much for talking to us.

-All right, then.

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Although, unlike the rest of the UK,

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where you could be buying a new pair of shoes

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or a chicken at ten o'clock in the morning on a Sunday,

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in Northern Ireland, the big shops don't tend to open

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until one in the afternoon,

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thus giving us all lots of time to go worshipping in the morning.

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Because, after all, that's what people want in Northern Ireland

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on a Sunday morning...isn't it?

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-Hello, Sunday World.

-The Sunday World and the Sunday Life

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battle it out for readers every week

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and their success depends on understanding exactly

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what fascinates Northern Irish readers on a Sunday morning.

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The headline screams at you, the introduction shouts at you

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and the picture is a window on the world!

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Two newspaper editors, I want a nice clean fight,

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no holding onto each other...

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but tell us, what are Northern Irish readers

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looking for on a Sunday morning, Jim?

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Romance! Same auld thing...

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tragedies and triumph, that's what newspapers are about.

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There's three things we aim to do on a Sunday -

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inform, entertain and expose.

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If you do those things on a Sunday for people

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you're doing your job right.

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If it takes your breath away, it's a good story.

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Could be a financial scandal, could be a sex scandal...

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It could be something which makes you want to pick up the paper.

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The Sunday papers here have to gel with the people who live here,

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'cos we expose criminals, we expose paedophiles,

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we expose drugs dealers, and that's what we do,

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and that's why Sunday papers sell.

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Do you get a sense that it's quite an edgy hot house here sometimes

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with some of the stories that you break?

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It is a busy newsground and I suppose one of the reasons

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there's so much crime here is because of the aftermath,

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the legacy of the Troubles and what the paramilitaries are up to now...

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but for a place the size of Northern Ireland,

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less than two million people, there have been a lot of scandals here...

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and there have been a lot of big stories...

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Any of the stories over the past few years which have been big sellers

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for either of us probably would involve sex,

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politics, power and religion.

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# God bless you, please, Mrs Robinson... #

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The Iris Robinson affair,

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there were weeks we were selling an extra 25,000 copies,

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literally selling every copy out.

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So, I wonder, when Sunday morning comes around

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and you two guys wake up in your bed,

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do you have a quiet smile at the havoc you're wreaking

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throughout Northern Ireland society?

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No, no, at four in the morning I'm like him,

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you're waking up, your backside's sweating,

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your oxters are sweating, there's bubbles of sweat on the baldy head

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and you're thinking, "What did I do with that paper yesterday?

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"What's going on the street? When's the lawyers coming looking for us?"

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So, today you can have Northern Ireland's randy politicians,

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vice girls, corrupt officials and drug barons

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over your Sunday toast and marmalade.

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Back in the 1980s though, if we wanted sex and sleaze,

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we'd have to climb up the Cavehill for a bit of light snogging,

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surrounded by the glory of nature.

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The odd thing is that compared to the headlines in today's Sunday papers,

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the height of the Troubles seems like it was a more innocent time.

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Back then I was being brought up as a Catholic,

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an alter boy no less,

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and in those days, Sunday's saw 95%

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of all Catholics attending Mass every week.

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But I've returned to find around a third of Northern Ireland Catholics

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go to Mass regularly. After centuries of solid numbers,

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that's a catastrophic fall in attendance.

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For Catholics in Northern Ireland these days

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is it more of a choice than an obligation, do you think?

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Peter, it would still be an obligation to go to Mass on Sunday,

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My own view is turn your back on Mass, you turn your back on Christ.

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In the name of the Father, and of the Son and the Holy Spirit. Amen.

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And maybe there's varying levels of faith

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and that's part of our Catholic tradition.

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We're not the Russian army where everybody has to go,

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do what their told and not march in step.

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So, how do you go about attracting people back into your church?

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Or do you just have to observe and look after the flock that you do have?

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An American sociologist looking at trends

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as to why people don't go to Mass...

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funny it's not the reasons like abuse scandals, contraception, divorce...

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it's bad sermons is the biggest thing for keeping people away.

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..to address the people of Jerusalem. An electrifying message...

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A Catholic priest's sermon, you have to be like a NATO pilot,

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you've got seven minutes to take off, select your target,

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drop your load, turn around, wheels down and land...

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if you don't, people are going to start pointing babies at you.

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Seven minutes, that's your lot.

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It's a warzone out there.

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It is!

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Although the Catholic Church must be worried about the number of locals

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who prefer a lie-in to the Lord on a Sunday morning,

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there are some new arrivals who can't wait to get church!

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There's a massive number of Polish people now in Northern Ireland

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who attend Mass in great numbers every Sunday,

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and they're served by a cadre of padres

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who fly in from Poland to serve their flock.

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Evalina is a university lecturer

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who does like to stop for a chat, outside Mass.

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What's it like for you being a Polish Catholic in Northern Ireland,

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how do the two camps compare?

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Peter, let's put it like this, when I came here in 2006

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and I went for my first Mass

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and I saw boys in football tops in front of me

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and girls in tracksuit bottoms!

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And how would you compare Northern Irish Catholics

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to Polish Catholics?

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Are we different in how seriously we take it?

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I think you adjust it a little bit to your lifestyle

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and you don't take it as serious as Polish people do,

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because some of the rules of the church are too strict for them.

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Poland is like Ireland 20 years ago.

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And have you talked about this to people of your age

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-who are Northern Irish about that difference?

-Yes.

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-What's their response?

-Their response is modern times are different,

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we can't live like that any more...

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Do you mean like people don't believe it in their hearts,

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-they're just saying the words?

-Some people, yes.

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-That's a terrible thing to say!

-I'm sorry.

-Unbelievable!

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We welcome you over here, then you just run down

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the poor old Northern Irish Catholics...

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I don't know if they believe it in their hearts,

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the way we live means we change the way we can commit ourselves to religion.

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I feel a Eurovision Catholic contest coming on...

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think of the songs!

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But Sunday for Catholics in Northern Ireland

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has never been just about nipping into the chapel in a nice scarf.

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Many of the men rush to play some blood and snotters Gaelic sports,

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and it must be said, that nowadays, the GAA

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opens its doors to both communities.

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The women and the girls on the other hand

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are engaged in a much more competitive activity

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All right, girls?

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You eat...

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you breathe...

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you live feis's...

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every Sunday, that's all you do...

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On Sundays we get up

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and we get all kitted out

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and we come from feis and we dance from it starts

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until it finishes, every Sunday.

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Do you still go to Mass in the mornings

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or is feis the main religion these days?

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I'm ashamed to say but I don't go to Mass.

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Skipping Mass is one thing,

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but few here would dream of skipping a feis.

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There's one almost every Sunday of the year.

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This one's in Cookstown and every week hundreds of girls -

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and some very brave wee boys, turn up for a jig and a joke.

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It's a competitive world,

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but one where just to be here, is to be a winner.

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They want to please you, first and foremost

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and it gives them confidence and builds their self-esteem,

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so, it's not always all about winning.

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How long have you been Irish dancing for?

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-Two years.

-Two years.

-Two years.

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And what about giggling, how long have you been giggling for?

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-Seven!

-Seven years.

-Seven!

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When I was growing up, the feis would have been almost exclusively Catholic,

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but these are happier days for cross community knees up and arms straight.

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In our school we have from both sides of the community dances...

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it means these children are mixing with children from other backgrounds...

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which is good for them...

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Tell us a little about Sundays

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where people might go into different churches

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but they come together here... talk a wee bit about that for us?

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Well, Joanne will you and I talk about that?

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-Will we talk about that?

-Joanne and I are from different sides of the community,

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so we are, and I mean without Irish dancing

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I would never have met Joanne even though she lives

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five miles down the road from me.

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I never knew she existed until I met her through Irish dancing.

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And the girls have become the best of friends.

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They go to each other's houses and they meet for classes three

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and four times a week, and only for that I would never have had the pleasure of meeting you, Joanne.

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I can see you're both actually quite moved by that.

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Has it made a big difference that you come together

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on a Sunday like this?

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It does, because you do see that it's a person, not just a religion,

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somebody on the other side, and they're exactly the same as you.

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Just because of the way that you were brought up

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and your religion doesn't mean that Irish dancing should be a barrier.

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-As a matter fact, it's broken down the barriers, so it has.

-Yes.

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This is an amazing place.

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It's not only sisters doing it for themselves,

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but it's grannies and grandchildren, aunties.

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It's a real sense of women of all ages coming together

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on a Sunday afternoon, and it's not particularly about the competition,

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or who will win the silverware, it's actually about communities,

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about sharing an event together across generations.

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PIPE MUSIC PLAYS

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Everywhere you look there's wee girls leaping like Day-Glo gazelles

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and, just occasionally, you spot a dazed-looking young male.

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Aye, that's you, son.

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And the Feis feels like Northern Irish women and girls

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reclaiming Sunday afternoons for themselves.

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It's a woman's day out, so it is.

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We still have to go home and make the dinner, though.

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It's better than peeling the spuds at home for dinner!

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Is it important for you to spend time with the beloved daughter?

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Och, it is, yeah. She's dancing three nights a week, at gymnastics,

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so at night time you don't really get to spend much time with her,

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but wee weekends away are good as well.

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I love the fact that you will devote hours to an expensive sport

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rather than peel spuds and watch Gaelic.

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It's a terrible indictment of male sporting pursuits in this country,

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and indeed of the lack of automatic spud peelers.

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Well, there's a few beautiful restaurants along the way

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so they can peel the spuds for us!

0:22:210:22:24

MUSIC: "Every Day Is Like Sunday" by Morrissey

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# Every day is like Sunday... #

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It strikes me that in these more enlightened times,

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we put a lot of work into our day of rest in Ulster.

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Be it religion observance, shopping with the family

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or even a bit of dancing.

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And for a prodigal son returning, it's both reassuringly familiar

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and takes some getting used to.

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Sundays have changed beyond recognition in Northern Ireland.

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I feel a little bit like a sleeping beauty who nodded off

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about three decades ago in a thicket of thorns, but have woken up,

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balder and fatter, in a garden of variety.

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Even though we're no longer forced to comply

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with others' religious beliefs,

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I think Northern Ireland should hold onto the idea

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of Keep Sunday Special.

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I don't mean in the religious sense.

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Even the Sabbatarians would hesitate to padlock the swings nowadays.

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But to make Sunday not like all the other days

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when you're a consumer or a worker,

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when you're encouraged to reflect, to recharge, to have fun,

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to experiment. But Northern Ireland has already figured that out.

0:23:390:23:43

And for the ultimate proof,

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let me take you the biggest Sunday night out in Ulster.

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Ladies, put on your best high heels.

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Gentlemen, put on HER best high heels, and join us

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for the Sabbath spectacular that is Drag Queen Bingo.

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CHEERING

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For the last seven years we've been performing, dancing,

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showing off, because this place just fills with the most excited people

0:24:100:24:15

you've ever seen in your entire life. And it still amazes me to this day.

0:24:150:24:19

We always say at the top of the show, expect the unexpected.

0:24:200:24:24

Because we are men in dresses and we are on stage,

0:24:260:24:28

dragging everything across that stage,

0:24:280:24:31

and if you walk in front of it, forget it.

0:24:310:24:34

-You're fair game?

-Mm-hmm.

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Unless you're wearing Dolce & Gabbana, we'll let you away with it

0:24:350:24:38

but if you're dressed top-to-toe like a complete mess in a dress

0:24:380:24:42

you may keep on walking out that door.

0:24:420:24:44

Everyone, in your really camp voices, say 'Hi, Peter!' One, two, three.

0:24:440:24:48

-CROWD:

-Hi, Peter!

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Hi!

0:24:500:24:51

CHEERING

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-Ooh!

-Hello, you must be Rusty.

0:24:550:24:58

-Yes, hello, how are you?

-Nice to meet you.

-Great.

-Great.

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So, listen, are you a bag of nerves on a big show night like this?

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Absolutely not. It's just like a normal, everyday thing,

0:25:040:25:06

it's like going to sign on the dole, just normal.

0:25:060:25:09

When did Rusty arrive on the planet? Was it a gradual process?

0:25:120:25:16

No, it was a dare, really.

0:25:160:25:17

Tina Leggs Tantrum hosts Opportunity Frocks and I won that

0:25:180:25:22

and ever since then I've been performing,

0:25:220:25:24

working all over Northern Ireland and the UK, so it's brilliant.

0:25:240:25:27

Do you notice a big difference between a young person like yourself

0:25:340:25:39

as a gay man compared to, say, the good old bad old days, as it were.

0:25:390:25:43

-I'm not gay.

-Oh, you're not?

-No.

-Beg your pardon...

-I am!

0:25:430:25:46

MUSIC: "Dancing Queen" by ABBA

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Not so long ago, being gay in Northern Ireland

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was no laughing matter.

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Well, I have three sons and I would die if it came to my home.

0:25:560:26:00

We don't talk about corruption and doubt like that.

0:26:000:26:02

That's all right for England, but not for Ireland.

0:26:020:26:04

We don't talk about corruption and doubt.

0:26:040:26:06

7 and 6, 76.

0:26:060:26:08

So even though Drag Queen Bingo doesn't take itself too seriously,

0:26:090:26:14

its existence in the centre of Belfast on a Sunday night of all nights

0:26:140:26:19

shows how much the old place has changed.

0:26:190:26:22

Tell us about the Gerry that was walking around the streets

0:26:220:26:25

of hard-faced Belfast trying to be a gay man, how easy was that?

0:26:250:26:29

Gerry being a gay man was easy cos everybody knew Gerry was a gay man

0:26:290:26:33

before our Gerry knew he was a gay man.

0:26:330:26:35

# Say you'll never let me go... #

0:26:350:26:37

Anywhere in Belfast, anywhere in Northern Ireland, anywhere I went,

0:26:370:26:40

I never found it difficult because I just love what I do.

0:26:400:26:43

-How you doing? I'm Peter.

-Nice to meet you. I'm Gordon/Trudy.

0:26:450:26:48

Lovely to see you.

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Forward slash the woman/man of your dreams!

0:26:490:26:53

We've done straight venues, the gay venues and, in a way,

0:26:530:26:56

I like to think that we're pushing boundaries in our own way.

0:26:560:26:58

We're kind of like wonder women/men, letting people know we exist.

0:26:580:27:02

I suppose us mere mortals just kind of stare at you and wonder

0:27:030:27:07

whether we've got even a tiny bit of what you've guys have got

0:27:070:27:10

inside, you know what I mean?

0:27:100:27:12

We know the answer but we'll let you figure it out for yourself!

0:27:120:27:15

Living abroad, I've spent years explaining the joys

0:27:190:27:22

of Northern Ireland politics and history.

0:27:220:27:25

So it's refreshing to be in a club with three striking trannies,

0:27:250:27:28

where, to be honest, I really haven't a clue what's going on.

0:27:280:27:31

But it feels like a brash celebration of freedom and tolerance.

0:27:310:27:35

Everybody's very welcoming, especially in Belfast.

0:27:350:27:38

I know it sounds very cliche, but it definitely is the best audience

0:27:380:27:41

and you take that with you no matter where you go.

0:27:410:27:44

You're always going to have that traditional Belfast bit of craic.

0:27:440:27:48

# Say you'll never let me go

0:27:480:27:50

# Say you'll never let me go. #

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CHEERING

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So, Sundays, a day when faith has been peeling away from religion

0:27:570:28:02

like the back of an old mirror in which we used to see ourselves.

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There's still many people on this day who commune with their God.

0:28:060:28:10

Sunday's also the day that Protestant and Catholics

0:28:100:28:13

go Irish dancing together.

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Sunday's the day when you come down town and play Transvestite Bingo.

0:28:150:28:19

Now, when I left Northern Ireland nearly three decades ago,

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it was a definitely the place to be from.

0:28:230:28:26

Today, rather movingly, it's a brilliant place to come back to.

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# Oh, home

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# Let me come home

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# Home is wherever I'm with you

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# Oh, home

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# Let me come home

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# Home is wherever I'm with you... #

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