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Needs to harness all the power. 2.5 twists, full twist, front, perfect! | 0:00:02 | 0:00:07 | |
-Wow! -Oh, fantastic! -Unbelievable. | 0:00:07 | 0:00:12 | |
Has she done enough? Well, I tell you what, | 0:00:12 | 0:00:16 | |
she gave it everything she could give it there. | 0:00:16 | 0:00:19 | |
She claps the crowd, | 0:00:19 | 0:00:21 | |
but goodness me, they are giving you a standing ovation. | 0:00:21 | 0:00:24 | |
Incredible, and that opener, Christine, just out of this world. | 0:00:25 | 0:00:29 | |
-Superb. -Whatever next? I mean it's just absolutely fantastic. | 0:00:29 | 0:00:32 | |
# I can tell that we are gonna be friends... # | 0:00:32 | 0:00:36 | |
Beth Tweddle is Britain's most successful gymnast and three-times world champion. | 0:00:39 | 0:00:45 | |
This year, she hopes to win her first Olympic medal. | 0:00:45 | 0:00:49 | |
Omar, who has Down's syndrome, is already a silver medallist, | 0:00:49 | 0:00:54 | |
thanks, in part, to Beth's help and inspiration. | 0:00:54 | 0:00:57 | |
Good, a lot better. | 0:00:57 | 0:00:59 | |
Because Beth has also coached for the Special Olympics. | 0:00:59 | 0:01:02 | |
He absolutely loves it. As soon as he got here, he's like, "What can I do? | 0:01:02 | 0:01:05 | |
"When can I start? How long are we training for?" | 0:01:05 | 0:01:09 | |
It's just that enthusiasm that inspires me. | 0:01:09 | 0:01:12 | |
The event that Omar competed in, the Special Olympics, | 0:01:12 | 0:01:16 | |
is almost unknown to the millions who will watch the 2012 Games. | 0:01:16 | 0:01:21 | |
When I got involved, I thought it was the Paralympics, | 0:01:23 | 0:01:26 | |
and I soon learned how big it is. | 0:01:26 | 0:01:28 | |
In America, it's bigger than the Paralympics. | 0:01:28 | 0:01:31 | |
For athletes who complete in the Special Olympics, | 0:01:34 | 0:01:36 | |
just taking part is an achievement in itself. | 0:01:36 | 0:01:39 | |
The Special Olympics. | 0:01:39 | 0:01:41 | |
Receiving the silver medal from Special Olympics Great Britain, | 0:01:41 | 0:01:44 | |
Hannah Dempsey! | 0:01:44 | 0:01:46 | |
The Special Olympics is for athletes with learning difficulties. | 0:01:46 | 0:01:51 | |
I'm going on a journey to discover just what it takes | 0:01:51 | 0:01:54 | |
to overcome those difficulties and compete on an international stage. | 0:01:54 | 0:01:57 | |
# I can tell that we are gonna be friends | 0:01:57 | 0:02:01 | |
# I can tell that we are gonna be friends. # | 0:02:01 | 0:02:06 | |
I've never met anyone with Down's syndrome | 0:02:11 | 0:02:14 | |
or talked to anyone with autism. | 0:02:14 | 0:02:16 | |
Over the next six months, I'm going to follow four competitors | 0:02:16 | 0:02:19 | |
as they prepare for the 2009 Special Olympics. | 0:02:19 | 0:02:22 | |
A world champion judo fighter who has autism | 0:02:24 | 0:02:27 | |
and is blind in the right eye. | 0:02:27 | 0:02:29 | |
# There is a house in New Orleans | 0:02:32 | 0:02:36 | |
# They call the Rising Sun... # | 0:02:38 | 0:02:43 | |
A 10-pin bowler who couldn't walk properly until he was nine. | 0:02:43 | 0:02:47 | |
Now he's hoping to strike gold in Leicester. | 0:02:47 | 0:02:51 | |
Why did the chicken cross the road? | 0:02:52 | 0:02:56 | |
To get to the other side of the road. | 0:02:57 | 0:03:00 | |
A basketball player who has Asperger's syndrome, | 0:03:00 | 0:03:03 | |
hates crowds, and finds it difficult to mix in a team. | 0:03:03 | 0:03:06 | |
When I'm sort of stressed and stuff, I normally lash out and hit walls | 0:03:08 | 0:03:13 | |
and I do different things. | 0:03:13 | 0:03:16 | |
Hannah Dempsey is a dancer who has Down's syndrome | 0:03:16 | 0:03:18 | |
and is performing in the opening ceremony of the Special Olympics in front of 30,000 people. | 0:03:18 | 0:03:23 | |
So do you love dancing? | 0:03:28 | 0:03:31 | |
I do. Absolutely fantastic. | 0:03:31 | 0:03:34 | |
Because...I love dancing because it feels like I'm floating like a ballerina, | 0:03:34 | 0:03:42 | |
as Billy Elliot. | 0:03:42 | 0:03:45 | |
What dance moves do you think that you need to be better at? | 0:03:45 | 0:03:48 | |
Or the most difficult to do and you'd like to be better? | 0:03:48 | 0:03:52 | |
Now, that is a top question. I can answer that. | 0:03:52 | 0:03:57 | |
Sorry, I'm off the plot. Can I start again please? | 0:03:57 | 0:04:01 | |
-I liked that answer! -Thank you! | 0:04:01 | 0:04:07 | |
With their health and the help of their family and friends, I'm going to tell their story. | 0:04:07 | 0:04:11 | |
I'd go absolutely nuts! | 0:04:11 | 0:04:14 | |
Hannah lives at home with her mum and dad. | 0:04:24 | 0:04:26 | |
For part of the week, | 0:04:26 | 0:04:27 | |
she lives and works with a touring dance company. | 0:04:27 | 0:04:31 | |
I spoke with Hannah's mum Lynne to find out about Hannah's extraordinary life. | 0:04:31 | 0:04:35 | |
She wasn't quite what we expected. When we had Hannah, | 0:04:35 | 0:04:38 | |
we had no idea we were having a child with Down's syndrome. | 0:04:38 | 0:04:42 | |
I'm blushing! I'm blushing! | 0:04:55 | 0:04:58 | |
I would say having a child with Down's syndrome was probably going to be my worst nightmare. | 0:04:58 | 0:05:04 | |
Well, the thing I'd like to change in my life | 0:05:04 | 0:05:08 | |
is that I'd like to be in a cinema | 0:05:08 | 0:05:12 | |
and on a newspaper a lot, every week, | 0:05:12 | 0:05:18 | |
and I want that to change | 0:05:18 | 0:05:23 | |
because I can change people's minds about me | 0:05:23 | 0:05:28 | |
because I want people to see me because I am famous. | 0:05:28 | 0:05:34 | |
Because they can't believe it, but they have to see it. | 0:05:34 | 0:05:40 | |
We accepted her and we loved her and she was great to be with, | 0:05:40 | 0:05:44 | |
but then we thought about what else, what there was out there for her? | 0:05:44 | 0:05:49 | |
And she was quite hard work. | 0:05:49 | 0:05:53 | |
We used to have police helicopters up there on a regular basis | 0:05:53 | 0:05:57 | |
because she used to get lost, or we thought she was lost - | 0:05:57 | 0:06:00 | |
she knew exactly where she was, but we thought she was lost. | 0:06:00 | 0:06:03 | |
Well, the best bit that I love my mum | 0:06:03 | 0:06:07 | |
is that she is the best main carer | 0:06:07 | 0:06:13 | |
and she's a brilliant star. | 0:06:13 | 0:06:18 | |
We didn't feel ashamed about her, | 0:06:18 | 0:06:23 | |
erm, but certainly I felt embarrassed when I used to take her... | 0:06:23 | 0:06:29 | |
I used to quite like having her in a hat when she was young, | 0:06:29 | 0:06:32 | |
and I had the hood of the pram up because of other people's embarrassment | 0:06:32 | 0:06:37 | |
and our own embarrassment, | 0:06:37 | 0:06:39 | |
so it was embarrassment rather than being ashamed of her. | 0:06:39 | 0:06:42 | |
And that's something that's definitely been a journey for me in particular, | 0:06:42 | 0:06:48 | |
going from being uncomfortable with having a child with Down's syndrome | 0:06:48 | 0:06:56 | |
to, you know, aren't we lucky, and look what she can do. | 0:06:56 | 0:07:03 | |
This is Jonathan. He's 42 and lives at home with his mother. | 0:07:09 | 0:07:14 | |
He and 17 of his friends are entering the Special Olympics national 10-pin bowling tournament. | 0:07:14 | 0:07:20 | |
But 42 years ago, things were very different. | 0:07:20 | 0:07:24 | |
I suppose when I first of all realised he'd got measles | 0:07:24 | 0:07:28 | |
I didn't think anything of it. | 0:07:28 | 0:07:30 | |
I'm a football fanatic, Man United supporter. | 0:07:30 | 0:07:35 | |
And it's not until you start to progress, | 0:07:37 | 0:07:41 | |
as they get a little bit older, and you realise, oh, my God, | 0:07:41 | 0:07:44 | |
he's a slow learner, he's not doing this, | 0:07:44 | 0:07:47 | |
he's not doing that and that's when it comes home to you. | 0:07:47 | 0:07:52 | |
Going to Leicester for a 10-pin bowling tournament. | 0:07:53 | 0:07:57 | |
Hopefully I will strike gold. | 0:07:57 | 0:07:59 | |
Went to the doctors, went to child psychiatrists, | 0:07:59 | 0:08:05 | |
and went to audio people for his hearing and everything else, | 0:08:05 | 0:08:09 | |
and it was everybody saying yes, your child... | 0:08:09 | 0:08:13 | |
He's poorly, he's disabled. | 0:08:13 | 0:08:17 | |
In those days they talked about people that were retarded. | 0:08:17 | 0:08:23 | |
That name to me is revulsion. | 0:08:23 | 0:08:26 | |
Well, I've got a problem though. | 0:08:26 | 0:08:28 | |
I can't spell properly. | 0:08:32 | 0:08:34 | |
I can read a bit, not much. | 0:08:37 | 0:08:39 | |
That's about it. | 0:08:46 | 0:08:47 | |
Well I think it's how you actually react to that. | 0:08:49 | 0:08:53 | |
My husband found it very, very, very difficult, believe me, | 0:08:53 | 0:08:57 | |
to convince Dad that he had disabled child. | 0:08:57 | 0:09:03 | |
What's the favourite thing that you love about your mum? | 0:09:03 | 0:09:08 | |
Good question, that. | 0:09:11 | 0:09:13 | |
Well, half and half really. | 0:09:13 | 0:09:17 | |
I do love her in certain ways. | 0:09:21 | 0:09:23 | |
When she starts to get a bit grumpy all the time, I don't. | 0:09:23 | 0:09:28 | |
She's a good mum, I respect that. | 0:09:31 | 0:09:35 | |
Jonathan was born a perfectly normal baby, | 0:09:35 | 0:09:39 | |
and I, unfortunately, forgot his pushchair when we went up to see Nanny Bates. | 0:09:39 | 0:09:45 | |
That's right, you gave me measles. | 0:09:45 | 0:09:47 | |
I didn't give you the measles | 0:09:47 | 0:09:49 | |
but I must admit I feel personally responsible for it | 0:09:49 | 0:09:52 | |
because I didn't take his pushchair | 0:09:52 | 0:09:54 | |
so I borrowed somebody's pushchair | 0:09:54 | 0:09:57 | |
and this lady never told me that her son was still in quarantine for measles. | 0:09:57 | 0:10:02 | |
And Jonathan got measles very badly, very badly. | 0:10:02 | 0:10:05 | |
It stopped him walking, seeing, speaking, the whole works. | 0:10:05 | 0:10:09 | |
And...which was devastating. | 0:10:09 | 0:10:13 | |
And he was saying Mama and Dada, | 0:10:13 | 0:10:15 | |
you know, and all of a sudden there was nothing coming through. | 0:10:15 | 0:10:18 | |
If I'd have taken Jonathan's pushchair up to my mother's, | 0:10:18 | 0:10:24 | |
Jonathan would have been a totally normal child | 0:10:24 | 0:10:28 | |
so I've had a big, big part to play... Excuse me. | 0:10:28 | 0:10:33 | |
I've had a very big part to play in his life, | 0:10:34 | 0:10:39 | |
and I suppose it's my repayment to him, really. | 0:10:39 | 0:10:43 | |
I was back off down the motorway to meet the next athlete. | 0:10:54 | 0:10:58 | |
He has autism, which affects the way he communicates | 0:10:58 | 0:11:01 | |
and relates to people around him. | 0:11:01 | 0:11:04 | |
Their conditions affect them in very different ways. | 0:11:11 | 0:11:15 | |
Some are able to live everyday lives, | 0:11:15 | 0:11:17 | |
whilst others require a lifetime of specialist support. | 0:11:17 | 0:11:21 | |
I met up with Ollie at his foster home | 0:11:21 | 0:11:23 | |
where he's lived for the past seven years. | 0:11:23 | 0:11:26 | |
Both Ollie and this foster brother James have excellent chances of getting medals at the Games. | 0:11:26 | 0:11:32 | |
I'm blind in my right eye, short-sighted in my left eye. | 0:11:32 | 0:11:35 | |
I've got learning difficulties, | 0:11:35 | 0:11:38 | |
erm, and I think that's it. I think so, yeah, that's it. | 0:11:38 | 0:11:43 | |
Oliver is on the low end of the autistic spectrum. | 0:11:44 | 0:11:47 | |
He was born very early and has been blind in his right eye since birth. | 0:11:47 | 0:11:53 | |
His learning difficulties, in lots of ways a lot of people wouldn't realise. | 0:11:54 | 0:12:00 | |
Oliver does have obsessions, yes. Some of them... | 0:12:00 | 0:12:04 | |
One obsession can be moving furniture about. | 0:12:04 | 0:12:06 | |
That is not his obsession but he will jump from one to another. | 0:12:06 | 0:12:10 | |
This last week it's been the Irish. God knows why. | 0:12:12 | 0:12:15 | |
I don't know, don't ask me, he might know, but it's been the Irish. | 0:12:15 | 0:12:18 | |
And then it's been Mount Everest, it's been Titanic, | 0:12:18 | 0:12:23 | |
and it's just something... He's just obsessed with them for a while | 0:12:23 | 0:12:27 | |
and then it will go away onto the next thing. | 0:12:27 | 0:12:30 | |
We've had more ups and downs with Oliver than we ever have with James. | 0:12:30 | 0:12:36 | |
James grew up with nothing. | 0:12:38 | 0:12:40 | |
Oliver, on the other hand, had everything money could buy | 0:12:40 | 0:12:43 | |
apart from the thing that he really wants and that's his mum. | 0:12:43 | 0:12:48 | |
And then one day when I was having home contact, | 0:12:48 | 0:12:51 | |
she came over and said, "Can I have a quick word, please?" | 0:12:51 | 0:12:53 | |
and I thought, "Oh, God, now what's going on?" | 0:12:53 | 0:12:55 | |
Have I been naughty or something? I hadn't, no! | 0:12:55 | 0:12:58 | |
It was breaking the news that they were going to Spain | 0:12:58 | 0:13:00 | |
and I thought of course mothers and fathers joke around, don't they, | 0:13:00 | 0:13:04 | |
having a laugh and I thought "You're joking, aren't you?" | 0:13:04 | 0:13:08 | |
And they said, "No, it's the truth, we're actually moving," | 0:13:08 | 0:13:11 | |
and I just burst into tears. | 0:13:11 | 0:13:13 | |
It was like my whole life collapsed because I thought, "Oh, my God, what are they doing?" | 0:13:13 | 0:13:18 | |
It's like the worst mistake they've made in their life. | 0:13:18 | 0:13:20 | |
They're moving, like, 5,000, 2,000 miles away from me | 0:13:20 | 0:13:25 | |
and it's like how am I going to cope? | 0:13:25 | 0:13:27 | |
Hannah works as a professional dancer. | 0:13:33 | 0:13:36 | |
I travelled up to Banbury with her and her carer to see her in action. | 0:13:36 | 0:13:40 | |
We gave her a camera so she could film her journey. | 0:13:40 | 0:13:43 | |
The dance company is called Anjali, | 0:13:54 | 0:13:56 | |
which in Sanskrit means joining of hands. | 0:13:56 | 0:14:01 | |
The unique thing about Anjali is that all the dancers have learning difficulties. | 0:14:01 | 0:14:05 | |
I didn't know what to expect, | 0:14:05 | 0:14:07 | |
as it was the first time I would have seen Hannah perform | 0:14:07 | 0:14:10 | |
and interact with other people with learning difficulties. | 0:14:10 | 0:14:13 | |
Anjali had been asked to perform in the Opening Ceremony at the Special Olympics. | 0:14:16 | 0:14:20 | |
The performance will focus on Hannah's solo dance called The Divine Splashette. | 0:14:22 | 0:14:27 | |
We are the first kind of people in Oxfordshire | 0:14:33 | 0:14:38 | |
of a dance company, | 0:14:38 | 0:14:41 | |
of learning with disability people. | 0:14:41 | 0:14:45 | |
With the... It's by, if I can say it, | 0:14:45 | 0:14:51 | |
synchronised swimming, | 0:14:51 | 0:14:54 | |
and all the swimming movements into it, into the solo. | 0:14:54 | 0:15:00 | |
It feels really cool, like a cool dude really. | 0:15:00 | 0:15:07 | |
Because I'm trying to look really big, like, really cool, | 0:15:07 | 0:15:13 | |
that's what I'm trying to do. | 0:15:13 | 0:15:16 | |
When Hannah completed as a swimmer in the last Special Olympics, | 0:15:16 | 0:15:20 | |
she won a gold medal. | 0:15:20 | 0:15:21 | |
She uses this for the inspiration for her dance. | 0:15:21 | 0:15:25 | |
It was clear that Hannah had the talent, | 0:15:26 | 0:15:28 | |
although I was wondering whether or not she would have the confidence | 0:15:28 | 0:15:32 | |
to perform in a stadium in front of 30,000 people. | 0:15:32 | 0:15:36 | |
How I feel about the performance, it sounds very exciting | 0:15:39 | 0:15:46 | |
because all the audience clapping away, laughing away. | 0:15:46 | 0:15:52 | |
How do think you're going to feel when the audience starts clapping? | 0:15:52 | 0:15:56 | |
I'd go absolutely nuts! | 0:15:56 | 0:15:59 | |
I just, like, focus on what I'm doing, concentrating. | 0:16:01 | 0:16:06 | |
All the audience thinks, "Oh, my Lord, what is that girl doing?" | 0:16:06 | 0:16:14 | |
I've never seen her dance before in that setting, | 0:16:17 | 0:16:22 | |
and certainly not on stage in front of so many people, | 0:16:22 | 0:16:27 | |
and she was fantastic. | 0:16:27 | 0:16:29 | |
And you suddenly see your daughter through different eyes | 0:16:29 | 0:16:33 | |
because I didn't realise she was capable of doing it so well. | 0:16:33 | 0:16:38 | |
I was invited to see Hannah perform, | 0:16:46 | 0:16:49 | |
but this time it was in front of an audience. | 0:16:49 | 0:16:51 | |
Hannah also dances with a company called Magpie | 0:16:51 | 0:16:54 | |
which reaches out to anyone who wants to dance | 0:16:54 | 0:16:57 | |
and focuses on ability rather than disability. | 0:16:57 | 0:17:00 | |
I was on the road again, | 0:18:18 | 0:18:20 | |
travelling to meet the final athlete in my story. | 0:18:20 | 0:18:23 | |
He has Asperger's syndrome, | 0:18:23 | 0:18:24 | |
which is a form of autism that affects how a person makes sense of the world, | 0:18:24 | 0:18:28 | |
processes information and relates to other people. | 0:18:28 | 0:18:31 | |
Asperger's syndrome is a mostly hidden disability, | 0:18:33 | 0:18:36 | |
which means you can't tell from their outward appearance that they have it. | 0:18:36 | 0:18:40 | |
This is Tom. He is 14 and lives at home with his mum and dad. | 0:18:40 | 0:18:44 | |
He was in training for the Special Olympics basketball tournament, | 0:18:44 | 0:18:48 | |
but only a short time ago this would have never seemed possible. | 0:18:48 | 0:18:52 | |
Tom developed as normal. | 0:18:53 | 0:18:56 | |
He spoke, he walked, all at the right milestones, | 0:18:56 | 0:19:00 | |
but when he went to school there were difficulties beginning to set in, | 0:19:00 | 0:19:04 | |
socially, and achieving, | 0:19:04 | 0:19:08 | |
and being part of groups and things like that, but it came to a head | 0:19:08 | 0:19:13 | |
when he was about seven. I think, his behaviour deteriorated, | 0:19:13 | 0:19:16 | |
and by the last year at primary school he was on the verge of being excluded with no support | 0:19:16 | 0:19:22 | |
because they wouldn't believe us that we thought there was something going on. | 0:19:22 | 0:19:27 | |
My dyslexia is all right because I'm not too bad on that. | 0:19:27 | 0:19:31 | |
My autism is like how I react with people, like, sort of winding me up. | 0:19:31 | 0:19:37 | |
I get annoyed with myself so I react to them instead of just walking off. | 0:19:37 | 0:19:43 | |
And then eventually we got that sorted out | 0:19:43 | 0:19:46 | |
and he's gone from hating school to loving school. | 0:19:46 | 0:19:49 | |
He now takes part in Special Olympics, and he goes to a youth club. | 0:19:49 | 0:19:55 | |
He's been out a few times with friends from school which he'd never dream of doing. | 0:19:55 | 0:20:01 | |
He has sleepovers now so normal teenager stuff is creeping in. | 0:20:01 | 0:20:05 | |
Yeah, is beginning to creep in, yeah. | 0:20:05 | 0:20:08 | |
How does playing basketball make you feel? | 0:20:09 | 0:20:12 | |
It makes me feel good and I'm proud of doing it. | 0:20:12 | 0:20:15 | |
It's something that I'm good at. People say I'm good at it. | 0:20:15 | 0:20:20 | |
It just makes me feel like er... helpful, really, like to the team and stuff. | 0:20:22 | 0:20:27 | |
He had no understanding, it was the ball, "I've got it, no one else is here. | 0:20:27 | 0:20:31 | |
"I'm playing on my own." | 0:20:31 | 0:20:32 | |
He used to go up and down the court all the time, | 0:20:32 | 0:20:34 | |
he had no perception of everyone else. | 0:20:34 | 0:20:37 | |
And also, if they didn't pass it to him, he would automatically lose interest and walk off | 0:20:37 | 0:20:42 | |
and not play any more because they weren't passing him the ball | 0:20:42 | 0:20:46 | |
so things have changed since then. | 0:20:46 | 0:20:48 | |
Oh, yeah, definitely, yeah. | 0:20:48 | 0:20:50 | |
Having autism, it's annoying | 0:20:50 | 0:20:52 | |
because I don't feel like I'm mixing with other people as well as other people can. | 0:20:52 | 0:20:57 | |
It's hard. | 0:20:57 | 0:20:59 | |
It's like I wish I could mix in with different people. | 0:20:59 | 0:21:02 | |
I fought to get him into a special school | 0:21:08 | 0:21:11 | |
because I took Jonathan out of school when he was six | 0:21:11 | 0:21:16 | |
because he was being bullied, and I kept him at home for nine months. | 0:21:16 | 0:21:21 | |
I was threatened with imprisonment by the education. | 0:21:21 | 0:21:27 | |
The Tonight programme of the BBC, Tony Salmon - | 0:21:27 | 0:21:32 | |
I shall never forget his name - | 0:21:32 | 0:21:33 | |
came onto the scene and I said to him - because I was in quite an influential position in London - | 0:21:33 | 0:21:39 | |
so I knew these sort of people, and I said, "I've got a story for you." | 0:21:39 | 0:21:43 | |
I told him the story, he said, "I like it, | 0:21:43 | 0:21:45 | |
I said, "Yes, you will do because it's my son." | 0:21:45 | 0:21:47 | |
Well, she does...she does... she does make me happy. | 0:21:47 | 0:21:53 | |
She puts me on the straight and narrow. | 0:21:53 | 0:21:55 | |
Then things really started to work for him. | 0:21:57 | 0:22:00 | |
He went to a special school, | 0:22:00 | 0:22:02 | |
because there he was with all like-minded other students. | 0:22:02 | 0:22:05 | |
And Jonathan stayed there till he was 19. | 0:22:05 | 0:22:09 | |
He left behind all his friends. | 0:22:09 | 0:22:13 | |
When he did come home, | 0:22:13 | 0:22:15 | |
he knew he had to have a job. | 0:22:15 | 0:22:18 | |
I knew there was a Tesco's | 0:22:18 | 0:22:20 | |
being built in New Malden, and I rang the personnel officer. | 0:22:20 | 0:22:23 | |
He walked in to this lady and said, "I want a job", | 0:22:23 | 0:22:27 | |
and he came out with a job. | 0:22:27 | 0:22:29 | |
And 21 years later, he's still there. | 0:22:29 | 0:22:32 | |
Then, what happened, he was working with 900 people. | 0:22:32 | 0:22:35 | |
And he became very lonely - he'd left all his mates behind. | 0:22:35 | 0:22:39 | |
And Jonathan took to the drink. | 0:22:39 | 0:22:42 | |
And he took to the drink big time. | 0:22:42 | 0:22:45 | |
My husband and I would stop going out. | 0:22:45 | 0:22:49 | |
We rather isolated ourselves, because of Jonathan. | 0:22:49 | 0:22:52 | |
We thought if we went out, | 0:22:52 | 0:22:54 | |
we'd come back, and Jonathan would be drunk. | 0:22:54 | 0:22:56 | |
So when did you go off the straight and narrow? | 0:22:56 | 0:22:59 | |
A long time ago. | 0:22:59 | 0:23:01 | |
Did she put you back on it? | 0:23:01 | 0:23:04 | |
No, she didn't. I did it for myself. | 0:23:04 | 0:23:06 | |
How did you get back on the straight and narrow? | 0:23:08 | 0:23:10 | |
Keep off the drink. | 0:23:10 | 0:23:12 | |
I had a drinking problem, | 0:23:12 | 0:23:15 | |
a couple of years back. | 0:23:15 | 0:23:17 | |
We decided we couldn't live our lives like that. | 0:23:17 | 0:23:21 | |
I'd done everything for Jonathan | 0:23:21 | 0:23:23 | |
to put him on a path that I thought was the right path - | 0:23:23 | 0:23:26 | |
and he was definitely walking the path really well. | 0:23:26 | 0:23:30 | |
And then we went out for one night, | 0:23:30 | 0:23:32 | |
and came back, and Jonathan was absolutely paralytic, | 0:23:32 | 0:23:35 | |
on the floor. | 0:23:35 | 0:23:37 | |
I got so annoyed, because all the work I'd done with Jonathan, | 0:23:37 | 0:23:43 | |
I thought, "This is one problem I cannot cope with", | 0:23:43 | 0:23:47 | |
cos I was much too close to it. | 0:23:47 | 0:23:49 | |
so I called in the learning disability team of the borough, | 0:23:49 | 0:23:52 | |
and they were fantastic - absolutely fantastic. | 0:23:52 | 0:23:57 | |
How could you have had a drinking problem? | 0:23:57 | 0:24:00 | |
Cos I had no friends, no girlfriend. | 0:24:00 | 0:24:04 | |
It got to me quite a lot. | 0:24:04 | 0:24:06 | |
So Christmas , 1993, we wrote Jonathan's story, didn't we? | 0:24:07 | 0:24:11 | |
Yeah, you did. | 0:24:11 | 0:24:13 | |
And we printed Jonathan's story in the local paper. | 0:24:13 | 0:24:15 | |
And the story was | 0:24:15 | 0:24:17 | |
that Jonathan was lonely, Jonathan wanted friends - | 0:24:17 | 0:24:20 | |
who wants to come along and be Jonathan's friend? | 0:24:20 | 0:24:23 | |
We had the first 11 people, didn't we? | 0:24:23 | 0:24:26 | |
Came knocking on the door, which was brilliant. | 0:24:26 | 0:24:29 | |
It was as though | 0:24:29 | 0:24:31 | |
a great big weight had been lifted off our shoulders. | 0:24:31 | 0:24:34 | |
It was off mine, because I was now realising | 0:24:34 | 0:24:36 | |
that Jonathan, all of a sudden, will have these friends. | 0:24:36 | 0:24:39 | |
And it helped him come through | 0:24:39 | 0:24:42 | |
the unfortunate parts of his life. | 0:24:42 | 0:24:44 | |
But now, at 42, | 0:24:44 | 0:24:47 | |
I'm a proud mother. | 0:24:47 | 0:24:49 | |
Really proud mother. Which is great, which is lovely. | 0:24:50 | 0:24:54 | |
-We've been through some rocky times, haven't we? -Yes. | 0:24:54 | 0:24:58 | |
When we lost Dad, seven years ago, | 0:24:58 | 0:25:02 | |
-it was a traumatic time for you, wasn't it? -Yeah, it was. | 0:25:02 | 0:25:04 | |
But we've walked through that, | 0:25:04 | 0:25:08 | |
and now he's walking towards independence, | 0:25:08 | 0:25:10 | |
which will be in three months' time. | 0:25:10 | 0:25:13 | |
Now, I'm fine as a fiddle. | 0:25:13 | 0:25:16 | |
If it didn't exist, we didn't have any friends. | 0:25:24 | 0:25:28 | |
We wouldn't have any dancing. | 0:25:28 | 0:25:30 | |
So we have just a normal | 0:25:30 | 0:25:33 | |
other thing in other life. | 0:25:33 | 0:25:37 | |
What do you think you'd be doing? | 0:25:37 | 0:25:40 | |
Well, I'd be still stuck in Sainsbury's! | 0:25:40 | 0:25:42 | |
HE LAUGHS | 0:25:42 | 0:25:44 | |
Well, the new things | 0:25:44 | 0:25:47 | |
in Anjali | 0:25:47 | 0:25:49 | |
are contemporary and rap. | 0:25:49 | 0:25:52 | |
So that's what you want to learn? | 0:25:53 | 0:25:55 | |
I do. That's what I want to learn big time, mate. | 0:25:55 | 0:25:59 | |
Oh, she's achieved my dreams. | 0:26:01 | 0:26:03 | |
Just seeing her dance. | 0:26:03 | 0:26:06 | |
I never would have dreamt, | 0:26:06 | 0:26:09 | |
21 years after her birth, that we would be where we are now with her. | 0:26:09 | 0:26:15 | |
She's achieved all my dreams, | 0:26:15 | 0:26:17 | |
and more, and more, and more, and more, and more. | 0:26:17 | 0:26:21 | |
The skills Anjali gave me | 0:26:21 | 0:26:24 | |
is being famous, and being glamorous, | 0:26:24 | 0:26:29 | |
and I'm not actually graceful, | 0:26:29 | 0:26:33 | |
cos I am very, very strong. | 0:26:33 | 0:26:38 | |
And I just get on with it, | 0:26:40 | 0:26:42 | |
focus on what I'm doing - | 0:26:42 | 0:26:46 | |
just do it. | 0:26:46 | 0:26:48 | |
I don't care - I just do it, perfect. | 0:26:48 | 0:26:51 | |
That's that sorted, | 0:26:52 | 0:26:55 | |
then back to my father. He's brilliant, | 0:26:55 | 0:26:59 | |
and he takes me to Millwall. | 0:26:59 | 0:27:02 | |
He takes me to the Chinese restaurant. | 0:27:02 | 0:27:06 | |
He takes me everywhere. | 0:27:06 | 0:27:09 | |
And he's a fantastic lad. | 0:27:09 | 0:27:13 | |
He's very gentle and calm with me. | 0:27:13 | 0:27:18 | |
But he doesn't argue with me, | 0:27:19 | 0:27:23 | |
but he does argue with Mum, | 0:27:23 | 0:27:26 | |
but not with me, | 0:27:26 | 0:27:28 | |
cos he doesn't seem to moan at me, | 0:27:28 | 0:27:31 | |
so that's the other thing that I really love, | 0:27:31 | 0:27:35 | |
cos he's a really nice lad. | 0:27:35 | 0:27:37 | |
I love him so much. | 0:27:37 | 0:27:40 | |
THEY LAUGH | 0:27:40 | 0:27:41 | |
My solo | 0:27:41 | 0:27:44 | |
is looking very well. | 0:27:44 | 0:27:47 | |
Sometimes Nicole can be a bit over the top, | 0:27:47 | 0:27:50 | |
because they'll want to change | 0:27:50 | 0:27:53 | |
a little bit around, which I'm not actually that keen on, | 0:27:53 | 0:27:57 | |
cos I'll get really confused. | 0:27:57 | 0:28:01 | |
I thought, "What the hell?" | 0:28:01 | 0:28:04 | |
I asked to know what I'm doing. | 0:28:04 | 0:28:07 | |
Apart from that, it's all fine, really. | 0:28:07 | 0:28:10 | |
We love to dance, and love to move. | 0:28:10 | 0:28:14 | |
That's what Anjali is. | 0:28:14 | 0:28:18 | |
This is Nick. He is one of Hannah's best friends, | 0:28:18 | 0:28:21 | |
and one of the most intriguing people in the group. | 0:28:21 | 0:28:24 | |
Their friendship will give me an insight | 0:28:24 | 0:28:26 | |
into how Hannah interacts with people. | 0:28:26 | 0:28:29 | |
Do you think that we should | 0:28:29 | 0:28:32 | |
go through it in Leicester? | 0:28:32 | 0:28:35 | |
Yes, we can go from the bottom | 0:28:35 | 0:28:39 | |
of our bottoms! | 0:28:39 | 0:28:41 | |
-SHE LAUGHS -Why's that? | 0:28:41 | 0:28:44 | |
Because we are very good dancers. | 0:28:44 | 0:28:47 | |
All dancers are brilliant. | 0:28:47 | 0:28:49 | |
We're going to make it happen. | 0:28:49 | 0:28:51 | |
What are we? | 0:28:51 | 0:28:54 | |
We're doing the Olympics! | 0:28:54 | 0:28:56 | |
MUSIC: "Happiness" by Twirl | 0:28:58 | 0:29:00 | |
# It's the sun pouring down And it's kisses full of rapture. # | 0:29:05 | 0:29:10 | |
How dancing makes you feel? | 0:29:10 | 0:29:14 | |
Being a dancer...? | 0:29:14 | 0:29:16 | |
I love moving around, stretching. | 0:29:16 | 0:29:20 | |
Mainly, I empathise a lot. | 0:29:20 | 0:29:23 | |
Because it helps with my dancing, | 0:29:23 | 0:29:26 | |
and of course when I dance, | 0:29:26 | 0:29:29 | |
I dance sexy, | 0:29:29 | 0:29:31 | |
because I want to. | 0:29:31 | 0:29:32 | |
# It's a beautiful day | 0:29:34 | 0:29:36 | |
# La-la-la - it's a beautiful day | 0:29:36 | 0:29:39 | |
# Happiness. # | 0:29:39 | 0:29:41 | |
She's got a filthy laugh that always gets other people laughing as well. | 0:29:41 | 0:29:45 | |
My mother used to say, "You can tell when Hannah is in the room, | 0:29:45 | 0:29:48 | |
"Because people are smiling". | 0:29:48 | 0:29:50 | |
And I think that's still the case with Hannah. | 0:29:50 | 0:29:54 | |
SHE LAUGHS | 0:29:54 | 0:29:57 | |
What is your earliest memory? | 0:30:08 | 0:30:10 | |
The only thing that pops in my head | 0:30:12 | 0:30:14 | |
is when I was seven, and my dad died. | 0:30:14 | 0:30:17 | |
That's the only thing that pops in my head. | 0:30:17 | 0:30:20 | |
I didn't really talk to him about it - he was an alcoholic, anyway. | 0:30:20 | 0:30:25 | |
He came back from... Like I say, he was an alcoholic anyway, | 0:30:25 | 0:30:30 | |
and he went out drinking - went on trips, and that. | 0:30:30 | 0:30:34 | |
He got out the coach - he obviously had too much to drink, | 0:30:34 | 0:30:37 | |
like an alcoholic would do. | 0:30:37 | 0:30:38 | |
He stumbled across the road, fell down, | 0:30:38 | 0:30:41 | |
like they would do anywhere, | 0:30:41 | 0:30:43 | |
and he smacked his head - I'm not quite sure where - | 0:30:43 | 0:30:46 | |
and had a brain haemorrhage. He went into hospital the next day and died. | 0:30:46 | 0:30:50 | |
It's not good, and I've learnt from that. | 0:30:50 | 0:30:53 | |
I'm perfectly fine about it now. | 0:30:53 | 0:30:56 | |
When I was a little kid, I was devastated. | 0:30:56 | 0:30:58 | |
It was like, "Oh, my God - I've lost my only one dad". | 0:30:58 | 0:31:00 | |
You don't get another day, here and then, when you get another chance | 0:31:00 | 0:31:04 | |
to have another dad. | 0:31:04 | 0:31:06 | |
And it was just horrible. | 0:31:06 | 0:31:08 | |
It left me stranded in some sort of field. | 0:31:08 | 0:31:13 | |
It wasn't good at all. The experience was horrible. | 0:31:15 | 0:31:18 | |
What do you mean, it left you stranded? | 0:31:18 | 0:31:20 | |
It was like I didn't know where I was. | 0:31:20 | 0:31:22 | |
I only had my mum there beside me. | 0:31:22 | 0:31:25 | |
She was having drugs at the same time, as well - | 0:31:25 | 0:31:28 | |
to try and control herself. | 0:31:28 | 0:31:30 | |
Of course, I was on a lot of medication, as well. | 0:31:30 | 0:31:34 | |
That, of course, made it worse. | 0:31:34 | 0:31:36 | |
And then she couldn't cope with me. | 0:31:36 | 0:31:38 | |
Then I went into a children's home in Kent | 0:31:38 | 0:31:43 | |
and they took me off the drugs straight away - | 0:31:43 | 0:31:46 | |
it was quite good. | 0:31:46 | 0:31:48 | |
I was there for around | 0:31:48 | 0:31:50 | |
two or three months, probably, | 0:31:50 | 0:31:52 | |
and went to-and-fro, back to home, there and everywhere. | 0:31:52 | 0:31:55 | |
and I've had more support | 0:31:55 | 0:31:58 | |
from when I was a little kid. | 0:31:58 | 0:32:00 | |
Ever since I was three, I've been in foster care. | 0:32:00 | 0:32:02 | |
It's been quite good from then on. | 0:32:02 | 0:32:05 | |
I don't have a bad relationship with him. | 0:32:05 | 0:32:08 | |
Perhaps that's the easy... | 0:32:08 | 0:32:11 | |
Because he hasn't got his own father, | 0:32:11 | 0:32:13 | |
it's easy for him to look on me as a father. | 0:32:13 | 0:32:16 | |
Easier than it is for Janet, cos he still has his own mother. | 0:32:16 | 0:32:22 | |
Yeah, at the moment, things are a little bit fraught. | 0:32:22 | 0:32:26 | |
I call Mick, "Dad", | 0:32:26 | 0:32:28 | |
and I've forgotten Mum lives over in Spain. | 0:32:28 | 0:32:30 | |
Perfectly fine, not caring about me all. | 0:32:30 | 0:32:32 | |
So I call Janet, "Janet". | 0:32:32 | 0:32:34 | |
I find it a little bit harsh sometimes, now and then, | 0:32:34 | 0:32:39 | |
that Janet does everything for me. | 0:32:39 | 0:32:41 | |
Everything that my mother doesn't call me, | 0:32:41 | 0:32:43 | |
that does for me. | 0:32:43 | 0:32:44 | |
I can call her, "Janet", | 0:32:44 | 0:32:47 | |
but I can call my mother, who does nothing for me at all, "Mother". | 0:32:47 | 0:32:50 | |
It just seems | 0:32:50 | 0:32:51 | |
quite horrible sometimes. | 0:32:51 | 0:32:53 | |
So how do you get on with Olly? | 0:32:53 | 0:32:56 | |
Sometimes OK. | 0:32:57 | 0:32:59 | |
What are the times you don't get on? Why would you not get on? | 0:33:01 | 0:33:05 | |
When he's... | 0:33:05 | 0:33:07 | |
..erm, | 0:33:09 | 0:33:11 | |
horrible to my mum and dad. | 0:33:11 | 0:33:13 | |
When he don't get his own way. | 0:33:13 | 0:33:15 | |
What does he do when he's horrible? | 0:33:15 | 0:33:18 | |
Slams doors, puts his fist through doors. | 0:33:18 | 0:33:22 | |
Breaks things. | 0:33:22 | 0:33:23 | |
How does that make you feel? | 0:33:23 | 0:33:26 | |
Upsetting to my mum and dad. | 0:33:26 | 0:33:28 | |
Do you think you could control your anger? | 0:33:30 | 0:33:33 | |
Erm... | 0:33:33 | 0:33:36 | |
..I suppose I can. | 0:33:38 | 0:33:40 | |
At home, it's a totally different story altogether. | 0:33:40 | 0:33:43 | |
When I'm on the mat, it's nice and controlled and calm. | 0:33:43 | 0:33:47 | |
I respect everybody out there who I'm fighting, | 0:33:47 | 0:33:50 | |
even the players I fight. | 0:33:50 | 0:33:51 | |
Coaches, and everyone else. | 0:33:51 | 0:33:53 | |
When I'm at home, it's a totally different story altogether. | 0:33:53 | 0:33:56 | |
I don't know why, but that's how it is. | 0:33:56 | 0:33:58 | |
I can sometimes control my temper, | 0:33:58 | 0:34:01 | |
but when people argue with me, I always have to have the last say. | 0:34:01 | 0:34:05 | |
And that's not good. | 0:34:05 | 0:34:06 | |
HE LAUGHS | 0:34:06 | 0:34:08 | |
It's not the easiest thing, and God knows how people | 0:34:08 | 0:34:10 | |
really deal with children on the higher end of the autistic scale. | 0:34:10 | 0:34:16 | |
It must be extremely difficult. | 0:34:16 | 0:34:18 | |
You must need the patience of I don't know what. | 0:34:18 | 0:34:21 | |
Really difficult. | 0:34:21 | 0:34:23 | |
A lot of the time, I don't think he quite realises what he's doing. | 0:34:23 | 0:34:26 | |
I mouth back Janet and Dad, | 0:34:26 | 0:34:29 | |
and that's not very good at all, | 0:34:29 | 0:34:30 | |
as they're taking me to the Games, | 0:34:30 | 0:34:33 | |
and they've spent a lot of money on the Games - travelling up there - | 0:34:33 | 0:34:36 | |
on hotels, and that. | 0:34:36 | 0:34:37 | |
I've done physical violence to Janet. | 0:34:39 | 0:34:41 | |
-It's not very good, I know. -HE LAUGHS | 0:34:41 | 0:34:44 | |
I've done all that lot, as well. | 0:34:44 | 0:34:45 | |
They look after me so much, | 0:34:45 | 0:34:48 | |
and they've looked after me for seven years, nearly. | 0:34:48 | 0:34:50 | |
And I treat them like that. | 0:34:50 | 0:34:52 | |
How can I do something like that? | 0:34:52 | 0:34:54 | |
I suppose because, like most people... | 0:34:54 | 0:34:56 | |
..you can hurt those that you love the most. | 0:35:00 | 0:35:04 | |
It's just a bad whole state to be in. | 0:35:04 | 0:35:07 | |
I'm perfectly fine at school. | 0:35:07 | 0:35:10 | |
People ask me to do something - "Yes, sir. Yes, sir. | 0:35:10 | 0:35:14 | |
"Yes, madam, I'll do that for you". | 0:35:14 | 0:35:15 | |
But when I'm at home, it's a totally different story altogether. | 0:35:15 | 0:35:18 | |
It's not good. So I need to try and sort it out. | 0:35:18 | 0:35:21 | |
Olly is a product of a broken home. | 0:35:21 | 0:35:25 | |
What makes this even sadder is that his mother will not consent | 0:35:25 | 0:35:28 | |
to him being adopted. | 0:35:28 | 0:35:30 | |
For someone with autism, who needs routine, structure, | 0:35:30 | 0:35:33 | |
and to know what is happening next, | 0:35:33 | 0:35:35 | |
this must be especially difficult for him. | 0:35:35 | 0:35:38 | |
He has experienced a lot for such a young man. | 0:35:38 | 0:35:41 | |
I bear this in mind when I listen to his story. | 0:35:41 | 0:35:44 | |
Sue left Jonathan for a week's trial separation, | 0:35:50 | 0:35:53 | |
to see how he's cope with living independently. | 0:35:53 | 0:35:56 | |
I decided to visit him halfway through the week. | 0:35:56 | 0:36:00 | |
After my visit, I immediately had to call Sue. | 0:36:00 | 0:36:04 | |
'Jonathan didn't answer the door to me - it was his new housemate, PJ. | 0:36:04 | 0:36:08 | |
'We set up in the back room, and started the interview. | 0:36:08 | 0:36:11 | |
'It was soon apparent that this wasn't | 0:36:11 | 0:36:13 | |
'the happy Jonathan I'd seen in the past, | 0:36:13 | 0:36:16 | |
'so I asked some warm-up questions to get him relaxed. | 0:36:16 | 0:36:19 | |
'But at this, I still seemed to be failing.' | 0:36:19 | 0:36:23 | |
OK, Jonathan, you've got to look at me now. | 0:36:23 | 0:36:26 | |
Yeah? Look at me. | 0:36:29 | 0:36:30 | |
Don't worry about the camera. | 0:36:30 | 0:36:32 | |
You're focused on that - forget all that stuff, OK? | 0:36:32 | 0:36:35 | |
Talk to me. | 0:36:35 | 0:36:36 | |
'I was finding it very hard to engage Jonathan. | 0:36:36 | 0:36:39 | |
'He didn't seem in a good place, | 0:36:39 | 0:36:41 | |
'and I was worried.' | 0:36:41 | 0:36:43 | |
What do you most love about life? | 0:36:43 | 0:36:47 | |
I don't. | 0:36:47 | 0:36:49 | |
Life is not easy. | 0:36:49 | 0:36:51 | |
So what don't you like about life? | 0:36:53 | 0:36:56 | |
I don't know. I don't like it. | 0:36:56 | 0:36:58 | |
Because all the things... | 0:36:58 | 0:37:01 | |
Bad things happen. | 0:37:01 | 0:37:03 | |
What bad things have happened, then? | 0:37:03 | 0:37:05 | |
People getting killed. | 0:37:05 | 0:37:06 | |
So there's nothing you love about life? | 0:37:12 | 0:37:15 | |
I do. When I'm... | 0:37:15 | 0:37:17 | |
happy. | 0:37:17 | 0:37:19 | |
That's about it. | 0:37:22 | 0:37:24 | |
Enough questions. | 0:37:24 | 0:37:27 | |
'And that was that. | 0:37:27 | 0:37:29 | |
'When we finished the interview and turned off the lights, | 0:37:29 | 0:37:32 | |
'Jonathan seemed to come back to life. | 0:37:32 | 0:37:34 | |
'He said that whilst the lights were on, | 0:37:34 | 0:37:37 | |
'he could hear people screaming and shouting in his head. | 0:37:37 | 0:37:40 | |
'And when we turned them off, they went. | 0:37:40 | 0:37:43 | |
'Mindful of Jonathan's mental health, | 0:37:43 | 0:37:45 | |
'I didn't want to put him through a process | 0:37:45 | 0:37:47 | |
'which would set him back in any way. | 0:37:47 | 0:37:50 | |
'I needed to speak with Sue, | 0:37:50 | 0:37:51 | |
'to find out if Jonathan could continue filming.' | 0:37:51 | 0:37:56 | |
# La, la, la... # | 0:37:58 | 0:38:01 | |
That's it, you're forming it. | 0:38:02 | 0:38:04 | |
'I met up with Sue and Jonathan at his weekly singing lesson, | 0:38:04 | 0:38:07 | |
'hoping to see the old Jonathan back. | 0:38:07 | 0:38:10 | |
'It was a make-or-break meeting.' | 0:38:10 | 0:38:12 | |
When I came home, | 0:38:12 | 0:38:14 | |
I felt as though something was slightly wrong, | 0:38:14 | 0:38:17 | |
because Jonathan wasn't himself. | 0:38:17 | 0:38:19 | |
I thought the whole thing of the whole week - | 0:38:19 | 0:38:23 | |
his pattern was totally out of synch. | 0:38:23 | 0:38:26 | |
And Jonathan does like a very structured week. | 0:38:26 | 0:38:31 | |
And if he's thrown off that structure, | 0:38:31 | 0:38:33 | |
he does get quite upset about it. | 0:38:33 | 0:38:36 | |
What was actually happening with the lights, cos it was affecting him? | 0:38:36 | 0:38:40 | |
How was that actually affecting...? | 0:38:40 | 0:38:42 | |
Yeah - you told me it was affecting you, | 0:38:42 | 0:38:44 | |
cos... People arguing? | 0:38:44 | 0:38:46 | |
-In my head, yeah. -In your head? | 0:38:46 | 0:38:47 | |
It was weird. | 0:38:47 | 0:38:48 | |
It was weird, wasn't it? | 0:38:48 | 0:38:50 | |
Was it like shouting and stuff like that? | 0:38:50 | 0:38:52 | |
Yeah, something like that. | 0:38:52 | 0:38:54 | |
Very weird - he told me as soon as I came back. | 0:38:54 | 0:38:56 | |
Because you don't like arguing, do you? | 0:38:56 | 0:38:58 | |
-You don't like arguing, do you? -That's true. | 0:38:58 | 0:39:00 | |
He doesn't like that at all. | 0:39:00 | 0:39:02 | |
That was the reaction he got from the lights. | 0:39:02 | 0:39:05 | |
Which was a very strange reaction. | 0:39:05 | 0:39:07 | |
-I'm a gentle person. -You're a gentle person. | 0:39:07 | 0:39:10 | |
Oh, What A Beautiful Morning? | 0:39:10 | 0:39:12 | |
'We got to the bottom of Jonathan's problem. | 0:39:12 | 0:39:15 | |
'While his mother was away, his routine was broken, | 0:39:15 | 0:39:17 | |
'and his Playstation stopped working. | 0:39:17 | 0:39:19 | |
'These seemingly small events pushed Jonathan into a dark place. | 0:39:19 | 0:39:23 | |
'Fixing his Playstation was the first step to his recovery. | 0:39:23 | 0:39:27 | |
'So Jonathan agreed to continue filming.' | 0:39:27 | 0:39:30 | |
# Everything's going my way. # | 0:39:30 | 0:39:33 | |
Well done. | 0:39:33 | 0:39:34 | |
'I was back in Banbury, | 0:39:38 | 0:39:40 | |
'and tonight I was going to see Hannah dance with Anjali | 0:39:40 | 0:39:42 | |
'in a gala performance. | 0:39:42 | 0:39:45 | |
'It would be her last opportunity to perform in front of an audience | 0:39:45 | 0:39:48 | |
'before the National Games. | 0:39:48 | 0:39:50 | |
'I arrived early and waited at the side of the stage. | 0:39:50 | 0:39:53 | |
'There seemed to be a nervous atmosphere, | 0:39:53 | 0:39:55 | |
'as a lot rode on this performance. | 0:39:55 | 0:39:58 | |
'Hannah was put outside to regain her composure. | 0:39:58 | 0:40:01 | |
'All I could do was take my seat. | 0:40:01 | 0:40:03 | |
COUNTRYSIDE SOUND EFFECTS | 0:40:10 | 0:40:13 | |
MUSIC: "Theme From A Summer Place" by the Percy Faith Orchestra | 0:40:21 | 0:40:25 | |
APPLAUSE | 0:41:30 | 0:41:32 | |
What I'm really pleased about now is I didn't have any test, | 0:41:36 | 0:41:40 | |
because what would I have done? | 0:41:40 | 0:41:42 | |
Whatever I'd have chosen would have been both right and wrong, | 0:41:42 | 0:41:47 | |
and what these tests can't do | 0:41:47 | 0:41:50 | |
is tell you the degree of problems the child is going to have. | 0:41:50 | 0:41:54 | |
So I'm pleased I didn't know that Hannah had Down's syndrome. | 0:41:54 | 0:41:58 | |
because I don't know what I would have done, | 0:41:58 | 0:42:00 | |
and wouldn't our lives have been different? | 0:42:00 | 0:42:03 | |
'I met up with Hannah at her weekly cookery class, | 0:42:07 | 0:42:09 | |
'which she takes so she can be more independent. | 0:42:09 | 0:42:13 | |
'This was the last time I would see Hannah before the Games, | 0:42:13 | 0:42:16 | |
'and it was one of the happiest times we spent together. | 0:42:16 | 0:42:20 | |
'Everyone in the class was really excited about seeing us film.' | 0:42:20 | 0:42:24 | |
Today, we're cooking. | 0:42:41 | 0:42:43 | |
Why is it important for you to learn to cook? | 0:42:43 | 0:42:46 | |
I'd like to be on telly, that's why. | 0:42:46 | 0:42:49 | |
I was doing this for my mum and dad, really. | 0:42:49 | 0:42:52 | |
It looks silly - girly. | 0:42:52 | 0:42:53 | |
MUSIC DROWNS SPEECH | 0:42:53 | 0:42:56 | |
HE LAUGHS | 0:43:01 | 0:43:03 | |
Hello! | 0:43:13 | 0:43:16 | |
I love you, darling! | 0:43:16 | 0:43:19 | |
It's all right - I like being filmed | 0:43:19 | 0:43:22 | |
from you two, cos you're a good mate of mine. | 0:43:22 | 0:43:25 | |
You're wonderful, | 0:43:26 | 0:43:27 | |
you're attractive blokes. | 0:43:27 | 0:43:29 | |
And then you are fantastic. | 0:43:30 | 0:43:32 | |
-Aw, thanks, mate! -That's all right. | 0:43:32 | 0:43:35 | |
THEY LAUGH | 0:43:35 | 0:43:36 | |
THEY LAUGH | 0:43:39 | 0:43:40 | |
MUSIC DROWNS SPEECH | 0:43:40 | 0:43:44 | |
I can't even think of any questions now. | 0:43:46 | 0:43:49 | |
The final, ultimate goal | 0:44:03 | 0:44:05 | |
is to always make your child | 0:44:05 | 0:44:06 | |
independent. | 0:44:06 | 0:44:08 | |
He has the right person moving in with him into the home, | 0:44:08 | 0:44:11 | |
into my home. | 0:44:11 | 0:44:13 | |
And I think it's going to work. | 0:44:13 | 0:44:15 | |
He can't wait for me to go, so he says. | 0:44:15 | 0:44:18 | |
But it'll be interesting to see. | 0:44:18 | 0:44:21 | |
The first two or three months will be very strange for both the boys. | 0:44:21 | 0:44:25 | |
Um...am I excited about moving in? | 0:44:25 | 0:44:29 | |
Erm...obviously, I'm a bit nervous | 0:44:29 | 0:44:31 | |
cos it's the first time I'd done it. | 0:44:31 | 0:44:33 | |
But then, it feels like it's the right time to move in in my... | 0:44:35 | 0:44:43 | |
..in my life. | 0:44:44 | 0:44:46 | |
I can show you 42-year-old men | 0:44:46 | 0:44:50 | |
that are still with their families, | 0:44:50 | 0:44:52 | |
where the parents are doing absolutely everything for them. | 0:44:52 | 0:44:58 | |
How do they expect these people to react when anything happens to them? | 0:44:58 | 0:45:02 | |
These people are in their senior years. | 0:45:02 | 0:45:04 | |
You could be talking 75, 80 years of age. | 0:45:04 | 0:45:07 | |
How are they going to cope? | 0:45:08 | 0:45:10 | |
Do they want their children to go into council residential care? | 0:45:10 | 0:45:15 | |
I bet you 100%, everybody would say no. | 0:45:15 | 0:45:18 | |
If the answer's no, they have to do something about it. | 0:45:18 | 0:45:21 | |
Things that Tom finds difficult - | 0:45:27 | 0:45:29 | |
being in a large group where he has to be stayed. | 0:45:29 | 0:45:34 | |
If he can wander off and come back when he feels uncomfortable, | 0:45:34 | 0:45:37 | |
he can deal with that. | 0:45:37 | 0:45:40 | |
How does it feel to be in a big group of people? | 0:45:40 | 0:45:43 | |
Scary and nervous. | 0:45:43 | 0:45:46 | |
It makes me feel uncomfortable, being in big groups, | 0:45:46 | 0:45:52 | |
and people. | 0:45:52 | 0:45:54 | |
Small groups, I can cope with. | 0:45:54 | 0:45:58 | |
So this is quite a big achievement for you, playing basketball, | 0:45:58 | 0:46:01 | |
and in Leicester, you will be surrounded by lots of people. | 0:46:01 | 0:46:06 | |
Hm. It's going to be difficult. | 0:46:06 | 0:46:09 | |
Is that going to be the most difficult part of it for you, | 0:46:09 | 0:46:12 | |
rather than playing? | 0:46:12 | 0:46:15 | |
Mm, yeah. | 0:46:15 | 0:46:16 | |
People watching, as well. | 0:46:16 | 0:46:18 | |
Yeah. | 0:46:18 | 0:46:19 | |
It was the morning of the opening ceremony, and I travelled up | 0:46:23 | 0:46:27 | |
with the bowling team from London to Leicester. | 0:46:27 | 0:46:29 | |
The mood was high, and it continued that way | 0:46:29 | 0:46:32 | |
for the rest of the journey. | 0:46:32 | 0:46:33 | |
CHEERING | 0:46:36 | 0:46:39 | |
What are you most looking forward to about Leicester? | 0:46:39 | 0:46:42 | |
Taking 17 athletes | 0:46:44 | 0:46:47 | |
up to have the time of their life. | 0:46:47 | 0:46:49 | |
Simple as that. | 0:46:49 | 0:46:50 | |
ALL: Leicester! Leicester! Leicester! Leicester! | 0:46:50 | 0:46:54 | |
The first to arrive was Hannah. | 0:46:54 | 0:46:56 | |
She walked me around the stadium, filming and directing as we went. | 0:46:56 | 0:46:59 | |
Wow - look at that view! | 0:47:01 | 0:47:03 | |
That's amazing! | 0:47:03 | 0:47:05 | |
Check it out! | 0:47:05 | 0:47:07 | |
Need to go to the dressing room, guys - this way. | 0:47:07 | 0:47:09 | |
Sweet! | 0:47:09 | 0:47:11 | |
As I walked down the tunnel, I started to feel nervous for Hannah, | 0:47:11 | 0:47:15 | |
nerves which were not shown in her. | 0:47:15 | 0:47:17 | |
The stadium felt overpowering when empty. | 0:47:17 | 0:47:20 | |
Imagine how it would feel when it was full. | 0:47:20 | 0:47:24 | |
MUFFLED CONVERSATION | 0:47:24 | 0:47:26 | |
APPLAUSE | 0:47:26 | 0:47:29 | |
And it is time to fulfil my destiny. | 0:47:32 | 0:47:35 | |
And my heart. | 0:47:35 | 0:47:38 | |
A dream's come true. | 0:47:38 | 0:47:41 | |
And all that remained was for Hannah to open the ceremony. | 0:47:41 | 0:47:43 | |
APPLAUSE | 0:47:43 | 0:47:45 | |
We saw you before you were going out, | 0:47:51 | 0:47:53 | |
and you were whispering stuff to yourself. | 0:47:53 | 0:47:55 | |
-I did. -What were you saying? | 0:47:55 | 0:47:57 | |
I was saying that I can do it. | 0:47:57 | 0:48:02 | |
I am a star, | 0:48:02 | 0:48:03 | |
and also, I'm a dancer and an athlete. | 0:48:03 | 0:48:07 | |
MUSIC: "Theme From A Summer Place" by the Percy Faith Orchestra | 0:48:07 | 0:48:11 | |
How did you think it went tonight, then? | 0:48:19 | 0:48:21 | |
Fantastic! | 0:48:21 | 0:48:23 | |
How did it feel to perform in front of 26,000 people? | 0:48:23 | 0:48:26 | |
I feel... | 0:48:26 | 0:48:30 | |
..I feel excellent. | 0:48:31 | 0:48:34 | |
I was really going for it, | 0:48:34 | 0:48:35 | |
and I have so many talents. | 0:48:35 | 0:48:39 | |
MUSIC: "Theme From A Summer Place" by the Percy Faith Orchestra | 0:48:39 | 0:48:43 | |
I can't believe it. | 0:48:47 | 0:48:49 | |
I was so, so sexy. | 0:48:49 | 0:48:52 | |
I was doing this, and that - huh! | 0:48:52 | 0:48:56 | |
APPLAUSE | 0:48:56 | 0:48:58 | |
WHOOPING AND CHEERING | 0:49:14 | 0:49:17 | |
Tom! Tom! Tom! I love you! I love you! | 0:49:19 | 0:49:23 | |
I love you, Tom! | 0:49:23 | 0:49:25 | |
-Hi! -We meet again! | 0:49:28 | 0:49:31 | |
Don't let it hold you back, really. | 0:49:56 | 0:49:58 | |
It's not all doom and gloom. | 0:49:58 | 0:50:00 | |
It doesn't have to be - it's what you make of it. | 0:50:00 | 0:50:03 | |
CHEERING | 0:50:10 | 0:50:13 | |
People are either scared or are very unsure | 0:50:16 | 0:50:18 | |
of people with learning disabilities, | 0:50:18 | 0:50:20 | |
purely through not understanding their needs, | 0:50:20 | 0:50:24 | |
and not treating people as normal people. | 0:50:24 | 0:50:26 | |
They are normal people, but they've just got a disability of some sort. | 0:50:26 | 0:50:31 | |
But it's coping with reactions and that that's very difficult. | 0:50:32 | 0:50:36 | |
And it's not a seen disability, | 0:50:36 | 0:50:38 | |
it's not like a physical disability that we can all see | 0:50:38 | 0:50:41 | |
and we understand that. | 0:50:41 | 0:50:43 | |
But when it's a learning disability and everyone looks the same, | 0:50:43 | 0:50:47 | |
it's difficult to know how to react to people. | 0:50:47 | 0:50:51 | |
You don't know whether they're playing up | 0:50:51 | 0:50:54 | |
or whether it's part of a disability that they have. | 0:50:54 | 0:50:57 | |
Tom nearly fulfilled his dream by winning a silver medal, | 0:50:59 | 0:51:02 | |
but he vows to return next time and win gold. | 0:51:02 | 0:51:06 | |
Out of all of the athletes in my film, | 0:51:25 | 0:51:27 | |
I wanted Jonathan to succeed the most. | 0:51:27 | 0:51:30 | |
Because I knew winning would lift his mood, | 0:51:30 | 0:51:33 | |
and I didn't want to see him in that dark place again. | 0:51:33 | 0:51:36 | |
That's the one. | 0:51:45 | 0:51:47 | |
The boys are on fire. | 0:51:47 | 0:51:49 | |
Jonathan is bowling out of his tiny mind. | 0:51:49 | 0:51:52 | |
It's strike, strike, spares. | 0:51:52 | 0:51:54 | |
You can see the emotion coming through from Jonathan today. | 0:51:54 | 0:51:59 | |
I've never seen him so happy, | 0:51:59 | 0:52:01 | |
but whatever it is, he's recaptured the Jonathan that his mum knows | 0:52:01 | 0:52:06 | |
here at the National Games, which is absolutely wonderful. | 0:52:06 | 0:52:10 | |
I just can't believe it. His dad would be over the moon if he saw him | 0:52:15 | 0:52:20 | |
because he just loved bowling. | 0:52:20 | 0:52:23 | |
You did good. Do you think you won it? | 0:52:25 | 0:52:27 | |
You're not sure, are you? | 0:52:27 | 0:52:29 | |
Cross my heart... | 0:52:29 | 0:52:31 | |
..hope on my... | 0:52:33 | 0:52:35 | |
You had a 200 game yesterday, didn't you? | 0:52:35 | 0:52:37 | |
Right, now, I've got a secret to tell you. Right? | 0:52:37 | 0:52:40 | |
I've found out from the organisers that you won | 0:52:40 | 0:52:43 | |
the singles yesterday. | 0:52:43 | 0:52:44 | |
-No! -I've just found out you've got a gold medal. | 0:52:44 | 0:52:46 | |
Yes! | 0:52:46 | 0:52:48 | |
Yeah, shall we go and tell Mum? Come on, then. | 0:52:49 | 0:52:52 | |
How do we feel? | 0:53:06 | 0:53:07 | |
-Oh. -Who'd be proud of this moment, up there? | 0:53:07 | 0:53:11 | |
My dad would be looking down and crying over me. | 0:53:11 | 0:53:14 | |
He would be crying over you, you're absolutely right. | 0:53:14 | 0:53:17 | |
APPLAUSE | 0:53:17 | 0:53:20 | |
Great. | 0:53:25 | 0:53:26 | |
I'm not even crying. That's a miracle. | 0:53:26 | 0:53:32 | |
History in the making, big time. | 0:53:32 | 0:53:35 | |
How did you feel when you were standing on the podium? | 0:53:35 | 0:53:38 | |
Oh, number one, definitely. | 0:53:38 | 0:53:40 | |
Is there anything you'd like to say? | 0:53:42 | 0:53:44 | |
Yeah. | 0:53:44 | 0:53:46 | |
A message to the world - I've got it, you ain't going to stop me. | 0:53:47 | 0:53:53 | |
Seeing Ollie on the judo mat was an awesome experience. | 0:54:05 | 0:54:09 | |
It was easy to see why he was world champion. | 0:54:09 | 0:54:13 | |
I just wished he could keep his aggression within his sport, | 0:54:13 | 0:54:16 | |
where he clearly has control. | 0:54:16 | 0:54:18 | |
As predicted, Ollie won gold, and James took silver. | 0:54:20 | 0:54:23 | |
There's a real sadness to Ollie's story that I hadn't anticipated. | 0:54:25 | 0:54:28 | |
Ollie has given me a special insight into how people can be affected | 0:54:29 | 0:54:33 | |
by learning difficulties. | 0:54:33 | 0:54:34 | |
He has autism but functions very well, | 0:54:34 | 0:54:38 | |
so it is easy to forget that he has a disability at all. | 0:54:38 | 0:54:41 | |
It is only when I spoke to Ollie for long periods of time | 0:54:42 | 0:54:45 | |
I learnt that not everything I said, he understood. | 0:54:45 | 0:54:48 | |
It doesn't take a PhD to work out | 0:54:51 | 0:54:54 | |
that Ollie's past is clearly affecting his present. | 0:54:54 | 0:54:57 | |
The mixed feelings of resentment he has for his biological mother, | 0:54:57 | 0:55:01 | |
he inflicts on his foster mother, Janet. | 0:55:01 | 0:55:03 | |
I hope the professional therapy he's receiving helps him fast. | 0:55:05 | 0:55:08 | |
Before it's too late, | 0:55:08 | 0:55:09 | |
and relationships become too damaged to mend. | 0:55:09 | 0:55:12 | |
I have witnessed a gentler side to Ollie, | 0:55:14 | 0:55:17 | |
a side which he can be proud of. | 0:55:17 | 0:55:19 | |
I just feel pretty stupid about the stuff I do | 0:55:24 | 0:55:27 | |
because underneath all of it, I know that I am a nice person. | 0:55:27 | 0:55:31 | |
I do treat people with respect, um, | 0:55:31 | 0:55:33 | |
I can talk nicely, stop mouthing back and that lot. | 0:55:33 | 0:55:37 | |
It's just one of those things I really need to try and sort out. | 0:55:37 | 0:55:41 | |
I like everything about my life. | 0:55:44 | 0:55:47 | |
I've been on the TV, on the news, | 0:55:48 | 0:55:53 | |
um, on the radio, everywhere. | 0:55:53 | 0:55:58 | |
What you've got to also know is that | 0:55:59 | 0:56:01 | |
Hannah thinks she's incredibly lucky having Down's syndrome. | 0:56:01 | 0:56:05 | |
And if you said to Hannah, would you not like to have Down's syndrome? | 0:56:05 | 0:56:08 | |
She would say no, she thinks she's very, very special. | 0:56:08 | 0:56:12 | |
And she's got short legs as well, she says, | 0:56:12 | 0:56:15 | |
so she's got to have Down's syndrome. | 0:56:15 | 0:56:17 | |
It feels great filming me, | 0:56:17 | 0:56:21 | |
because it feels like I am a super star, | 0:56:21 | 0:56:26 | |
and a Down's syndrome star. | 0:56:26 | 0:56:30 | |
So, you want to be a Down's syndrome superstar? | 0:56:31 | 0:56:33 | |
Yes, really, I do. | 0:56:33 | 0:56:35 | |
He or she would have been given a gift, | 0:56:35 | 0:56:39 | |
and that gift takes a little time to mature itself, | 0:56:39 | 0:56:43 | |
but never give up on a disabled kid, you can't, | 0:56:43 | 0:56:48 | |
because they are part of you, | 0:56:48 | 0:56:51 | |
and you're going to be holding their hands for a long, long time. | 0:56:51 | 0:56:56 | |
But every so often, just let go a little. | 0:56:56 | 0:56:59 | |
And then when you actually have to eventually let go, | 0:56:59 | 0:57:02 | |
you let go with confidence. | 0:57:02 | 0:57:04 | |
Because one day, you, me, all of us, are not going to be here, | 0:57:04 | 0:57:09 | |
so we have to make sure that our children are, in actual fact, | 0:57:09 | 0:57:13 | |
ready to walk the path on their own. | 0:57:13 | 0:57:17 | |
But never give up on them. | 0:57:17 | 0:57:19 | |
It's basic. | 0:57:19 | 0:57:20 | |
After filming, Jonathan's mother told me it was hard for people | 0:57:20 | 0:57:24 | |
with learning difficulties to allow strangers like me into their world. | 0:57:24 | 0:57:29 | |
In the last six months of getting to know these guys, | 0:57:30 | 0:57:33 | |
I now realise what a privileged journey I've been on. | 0:57:33 | 0:57:37 | |
8,000 people in the UK are currently part of the Special Olympics, | 0:57:37 | 0:57:41 | |
and for 48 weeks a year, they are trained by people like Beth | 0:57:41 | 0:57:45 | |
and professional coaches, | 0:57:45 | 0:57:47 | |
giving them feelings of happiness, belonging, control, and fame. | 0:57:47 | 0:57:52 | |
So, you know what? I do love the Special Olympics. | 0:57:55 | 0:57:59 | |
# Somewhere over the rainbow | 0:57:59 | 0:58:04 | |
# Way up high | 0:58:04 | 0:58:08 | |
# And the dreams | 0:58:10 | 0:58:13 | |
# That you dreamed of once in a lullaby | 0:58:13 | 0:58:21 | |
# Oh, somewhere over the rainbow | 0:58:23 | 0:58:29 | |
# Bluebirds fly | 0:58:31 | 0:58:34 | |
# And the dreams that you dream of | 0:58:36 | 0:58:40 | |
# Dreams really do come true | 0:58:40 | 0:58:46 | |
# Somewhere over the rainbow...# | 0:58:46 | 0:58:50 | |
Subtitles by Red Bee Media Ltd | 0:58:50 | 0:58:55 |