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Needs to harness all the power. 2.5 twists, full twist, front, perfect!

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-Wow!

-Oh, fantastic!

-Unbelievable.

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Has she done enough? Well, I tell you what,

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she gave it everything she could give it there.

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She claps the crowd,

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but goodness me, they are giving you a standing ovation.

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Incredible, and that opener, Christine, just out of this world.

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-Superb.

-Whatever next? I mean it's just absolutely fantastic.

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# I can tell that we are gonna be friends... #

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Beth Tweddle is Britain's most successful gymnast and three-times world champion.

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This year, she hopes to win her first Olympic medal.

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Omar, who has Down's syndrome, is already a silver medallist,

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thanks, in part, to Beth's help and inspiration.

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Good, a lot better.

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Because Beth has also coached for the Special Olympics.

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He absolutely loves it. As soon as he got here, he's like, "What can I do?

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"When can I start? How long are we training for?"

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It's just that enthusiasm that inspires me.

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The event that Omar competed in, the Special Olympics,

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is almost unknown to the millions who will watch the 2012 Games.

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When I got involved, I thought it was the Paralympics,

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and I soon learned how big it is.

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In America, it's bigger than the Paralympics.

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For athletes who complete in the Special Olympics,

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just taking part is an achievement in itself.

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The Special Olympics.

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Receiving the silver medal from Special Olympics Great Britain,

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Hannah Dempsey!

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The Special Olympics is for athletes with learning difficulties.

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I'm going on a journey to discover just what it takes

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to overcome those difficulties and compete on an international stage.

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# I can tell that we are gonna be friends

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# I can tell that we are gonna be friends. #

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I've never met anyone with Down's syndrome

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or talked to anyone with autism.

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Over the next six months, I'm going to follow four competitors

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as they prepare for the 2009 Special Olympics.

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A world champion judo fighter who has autism

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and is blind in the right eye.

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# There is a house in New Orleans

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# They call the Rising Sun... #

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A 10-pin bowler who couldn't walk properly until he was nine.

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Now he's hoping to strike gold in Leicester.

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Why did the chicken cross the road?

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To get to the other side of the road.

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A basketball player who has Asperger's syndrome,

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hates crowds, and finds it difficult to mix in a team.

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When I'm sort of stressed and stuff, I normally lash out and hit walls

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and I do different things.

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Hannah Dempsey is a dancer who has Down's syndrome

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and is performing in the opening ceremony of the Special Olympics in front of 30,000 people.

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So do you love dancing?

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I do. Absolutely fantastic.

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Because...I love dancing because it feels like I'm floating like a ballerina,

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as Billy Elliot.

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What dance moves do you think that you need to be better at?

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Or the most difficult to do and you'd like to be better?

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Now, that is a top question. I can answer that.

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Sorry, I'm off the plot. Can I start again please?

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-I liked that answer!

-Thank you!

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With their health and the help of their family and friends, I'm going to tell their story.

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I'd go absolutely nuts!

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Hannah lives at home with her mum and dad.

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For part of the week,

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she lives and works with a touring dance company.

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I spoke with Hannah's mum Lynne to find out about Hannah's extraordinary life.

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She wasn't quite what we expected. When we had Hannah,

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we had no idea we were having a child with Down's syndrome.

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I'm blushing! I'm blushing!

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I would say having a child with Down's syndrome was probably going to be my worst nightmare.

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Well, the thing I'd like to change in my life

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is that I'd like to be in a cinema

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and on a newspaper a lot, every week,

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and I want that to change

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because I can change people's minds about me

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because I want people to see me because I am famous.

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Because they can't believe it, but they have to see it.

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We accepted her and we loved her and she was great to be with,

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but then we thought about what else, what there was out there for her?

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And she was quite hard work.

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We used to have police helicopters up there on a regular basis

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because she used to get lost, or we thought she was lost -

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she knew exactly where she was, but we thought she was lost.

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Well, the best bit that I love my mum

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is that she is the best main carer

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and she's a brilliant star.

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We didn't feel ashamed about her,

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erm, but certainly I felt embarrassed when I used to take her...

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I used to quite like having her in a hat when she was young,

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and I had the hood of the pram up because of other people's embarrassment

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and our own embarrassment,

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so it was embarrassment rather than being ashamed of her.

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And that's something that's definitely been a journey for me in particular,

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going from being uncomfortable with having a child with Down's syndrome

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to, you know, aren't we lucky, and look what she can do.

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This is Jonathan. He's 42 and lives at home with his mother.

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He and 17 of his friends are entering the Special Olympics national 10-pin bowling tournament.

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But 42 years ago, things were very different.

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I suppose when I first of all realised he'd got measles

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I didn't think anything of it.

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I'm a football fanatic, Man United supporter.

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And it's not until you start to progress,

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as they get a little bit older, and you realise, oh, my God,

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he's a slow learner, he's not doing this,

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he's not doing that and that's when it comes home to you.

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Going to Leicester for a 10-pin bowling tournament.

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Hopefully I will strike gold.

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Went to the doctors, went to child psychiatrists,

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and went to audio people for his hearing and everything else,

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and it was everybody saying yes, your child...

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He's poorly, he's disabled.

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In those days they talked about people that were retarded.

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That name to me is revulsion.

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Well, I've got a problem though.

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I can't spell properly.

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I can read a bit, not much.

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That's about it.

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Well I think it's how you actually react to that.

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My husband found it very, very, very difficult, believe me,

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to convince Dad that he had disabled child.

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What's the favourite thing that you love about your mum?

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Good question, that.

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Well, half and half really.

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I do love her in certain ways.

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When she starts to get a bit grumpy all the time, I don't.

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She's a good mum, I respect that.

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Jonathan was born a perfectly normal baby,

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and I, unfortunately, forgot his pushchair when we went up to see Nanny Bates.

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That's right, you gave me measles.

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I didn't give you the measles

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but I must admit I feel personally responsible for it

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because I didn't take his pushchair

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so I borrowed somebody's pushchair

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and this lady never told me that her son was still in quarantine for measles.

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And Jonathan got measles very badly, very badly.

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It stopped him walking, seeing, speaking, the whole works.

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And...which was devastating.

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And he was saying Mama and Dada,

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you know, and all of a sudden there was nothing coming through.

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If I'd have taken Jonathan's pushchair up to my mother's,

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Jonathan would have been a totally normal child

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so I've had a big, big part to play... Excuse me.

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I've had a very big part to play in his life,

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and I suppose it's my repayment to him, really.

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I was back off down the motorway to meet the next athlete.

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He has autism, which affects the way he communicates

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and relates to people around him.

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Their conditions affect them in very different ways.

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Some are able to live everyday lives,

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whilst others require a lifetime of specialist support.

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I met up with Ollie at his foster home

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where he's lived for the past seven years.

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Both Ollie and this foster brother James have excellent chances of getting medals at the Games.

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I'm blind in my right eye, short-sighted in my left eye.

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I've got learning difficulties,

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erm, and I think that's it. I think so, yeah, that's it.

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Oliver is on the low end of the autistic spectrum.

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He was born very early and has been blind in his right eye since birth.

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His learning difficulties, in lots of ways a lot of people wouldn't realise.

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Oliver does have obsessions, yes. Some of them...

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One obsession can be moving furniture about.

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That is not his obsession but he will jump from one to another.

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This last week it's been the Irish. God knows why.

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I don't know, don't ask me, he might know, but it's been the Irish.

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And then it's been Mount Everest, it's been Titanic,

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and it's just something... He's just obsessed with them for a while

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and then it will go away onto the next thing.

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We've had more ups and downs with Oliver than we ever have with James.

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James grew up with nothing.

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Oliver, on the other hand, had everything money could buy

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apart from the thing that he really wants and that's his mum.

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And then one day when I was having home contact,

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she came over and said, "Can I have a quick word, please?"

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and I thought, "Oh, God, now what's going on?"

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Have I been naughty or something? I hadn't, no!

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It was breaking the news that they were going to Spain

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and I thought of course mothers and fathers joke around, don't they,

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having a laugh and I thought "You're joking, aren't you?"

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And they said, "No, it's the truth, we're actually moving,"

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and I just burst into tears.

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It was like my whole life collapsed because I thought, "Oh, my God, what are they doing?"

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It's like the worst mistake they've made in their life.

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They're moving, like, 5,000, 2,000 miles away from me

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and it's like how am I going to cope?

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Hannah works as a professional dancer.

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I travelled up to Banbury with her and her carer to see her in action.

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We gave her a camera so she could film her journey.

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The dance company is called Anjali,

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which in Sanskrit means joining of hands.

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The unique thing about Anjali is that all the dancers have learning difficulties.

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I didn't know what to expect,

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as it was the first time I would have seen Hannah perform

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and interact with other people with learning difficulties.

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Anjali had been asked to perform in the Opening Ceremony at the Special Olympics.

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The performance will focus on Hannah's solo dance called The Divine Splashette.

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We are the first kind of people in Oxfordshire

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of a dance company,

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of learning with disability people.

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With the... It's by, if I can say it,

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synchronised swimming,

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and all the swimming movements into it, into the solo.

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It feels really cool, like a cool dude really.

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Because I'm trying to look really big, like, really cool,

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that's what I'm trying to do.

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When Hannah completed as a swimmer in the last Special Olympics,

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she won a gold medal.

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She uses this for the inspiration for her dance.

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It was clear that Hannah had the talent,

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although I was wondering whether or not she would have the confidence

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to perform in a stadium in front of 30,000 people.

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How I feel about the performance, it sounds very exciting

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because all the audience clapping away, laughing away.

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How do think you're going to feel when the audience starts clapping?

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I'd go absolutely nuts!

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I just, like, focus on what I'm doing, concentrating.

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All the audience thinks, "Oh, my Lord, what is that girl doing?"

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I've never seen her dance before in that setting,

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and certainly not on stage in front of so many people,

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and she was fantastic.

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And you suddenly see your daughter through different eyes

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because I didn't realise she was capable of doing it so well.

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I was invited to see Hannah perform,

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but this time it was in front of an audience.

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Hannah also dances with a company called Magpie

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which reaches out to anyone who wants to dance

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and focuses on ability rather than disability.

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I was on the road again,

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travelling to meet the final athlete in my story.

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He has Asperger's syndrome,

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which is a form of autism that affects how a person makes sense of the world,

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processes information and relates to other people.

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Asperger's syndrome is a mostly hidden disability,

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which means you can't tell from their outward appearance that they have it.

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This is Tom. He is 14 and lives at home with his mum and dad.

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He was in training for the Special Olympics basketball tournament,

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but only a short time ago this would have never seemed possible.

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Tom developed as normal.

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He spoke, he walked, all at the right milestones,

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but when he went to school there were difficulties beginning to set in,

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socially, and achieving,

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and being part of groups and things like that, but it came to a head

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when he was about seven. I think, his behaviour deteriorated,

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and by the last year at primary school he was on the verge of being excluded with no support

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because they wouldn't believe us that we thought there was something going on.

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My dyslexia is all right because I'm not too bad on that.

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My autism is like how I react with people, like, sort of winding me up.

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I get annoyed with myself so I react to them instead of just walking off.

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And then eventually we got that sorted out

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and he's gone from hating school to loving school.

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He now takes part in Special Olympics, and he goes to a youth club.

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He's been out a few times with friends from school which he'd never dream of doing.

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He has sleepovers now so normal teenager stuff is creeping in.

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Yeah, is beginning to creep in, yeah.

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How does playing basketball make you feel?

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It makes me feel good and I'm proud of doing it.

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It's something that I'm good at. People say I'm good at it.

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It just makes me feel like er... helpful, really, like to the team and stuff.

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He had no understanding, it was the ball, "I've got it, no one else is here.

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"I'm playing on my own."

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He used to go up and down the court all the time,

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he had no perception of everyone else.

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And also, if they didn't pass it to him, he would automatically lose interest and walk off

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and not play any more because they weren't passing him the ball

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so things have changed since then.

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Oh, yeah, definitely, yeah.

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Having autism, it's annoying

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because I don't feel like I'm mixing with other people as well as other people can.

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It's hard.

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It's like I wish I could mix in with different people.

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I fought to get him into a special school

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because I took Jonathan out of school when he was six

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because he was being bullied, and I kept him at home for nine months.

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I was threatened with imprisonment by the education.

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The Tonight programme of the BBC, Tony Salmon -

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I shall never forget his name -

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came onto the scene and I said to him - because I was in quite an influential position in London -

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so I knew these sort of people, and I said, "I've got a story for you."

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I told him the story, he said, "I like it,

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I said, "Yes, you will do because it's my son."

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Well, she does...she does... she does make me happy.

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She puts me on the straight and narrow.

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Then things really started to work for him.

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He went to a special school,

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because there he was with all like-minded other students.

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And Jonathan stayed there till he was 19.

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He left behind all his friends.

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When he did come home,

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he knew he had to have a job.

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I knew there was a Tesco's

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being built in New Malden, and I rang the personnel officer.

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He walked in to this lady and said, "I want a job",

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and he came out with a job.

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And 21 years later, he's still there.

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Then, what happened, he was working with 900 people.

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And he became very lonely - he'd left all his mates behind.

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And Jonathan took to the drink.

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And he took to the drink big time.

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My husband and I would stop going out.

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We rather isolated ourselves, because of Jonathan.

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We thought if we went out,

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we'd come back, and Jonathan would be drunk.

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So when did you go off the straight and narrow?

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A long time ago.

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Did she put you back on it?

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No, she didn't. I did it for myself.

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How did you get back on the straight and narrow?

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Keep off the drink.

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I had a drinking problem,

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a couple of years back.

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We decided we couldn't live our lives like that.

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I'd done everything for Jonathan

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to put him on a path that I thought was the right path -

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and he was definitely walking the path really well.

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And then we went out for one night,

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and came back, and Jonathan was absolutely paralytic,

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on the floor.

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I got so annoyed, because all the work I'd done with Jonathan,

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I thought, "This is one problem I cannot cope with",

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cos I was much too close to it.

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so I called in the learning disability team of the borough,

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and they were fantastic - absolutely fantastic.

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How could you have had a drinking problem?

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Cos I had no friends, no girlfriend.

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It got to me quite a lot.

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So Christmas , 1993, we wrote Jonathan's story, didn't we?

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Yeah, you did.

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And we printed Jonathan's story in the local paper.

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And the story was

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that Jonathan was lonely, Jonathan wanted friends -

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who wants to come along and be Jonathan's friend?

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We had the first 11 people, didn't we?

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Came knocking on the door, which was brilliant.

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It was as though

0:24:290:24:31

a great big weight had been lifted off our shoulders.

0:24:310:24:34

It was off mine, because I was now realising

0:24:340:24:36

that Jonathan, all of a sudden, will have these friends.

0:24:360:24:39

And it helped him come through

0:24:390:24:42

the unfortunate parts of his life.

0:24:420:24:44

But now, at 42,

0:24:440:24:47

I'm a proud mother.

0:24:470:24:49

Really proud mother. Which is great, which is lovely.

0:24:500:24:54

-We've been through some rocky times, haven't we?

-Yes.

0:24:540:24:58

When we lost Dad, seven years ago,

0:24:580:25:02

-it was a traumatic time for you, wasn't it?

-Yeah, it was.

0:25:020:25:04

But we've walked through that,

0:25:040:25:08

and now he's walking towards independence,

0:25:080:25:10

which will be in three months' time.

0:25:100:25:13

Now, I'm fine as a fiddle.

0:25:130:25:16

If it didn't exist, we didn't have any friends.

0:25:240:25:28

We wouldn't have any dancing.

0:25:280:25:30

So we have just a normal

0:25:300:25:33

other thing in other life.

0:25:330:25:37

What do you think you'd be doing?

0:25:370:25:40

Well, I'd be still stuck in Sainsbury's!

0:25:400:25:42

HE LAUGHS

0:25:420:25:44

Well, the new things

0:25:440:25:47

in Anjali

0:25:470:25:49

are contemporary and rap.

0:25:490:25:52

So that's what you want to learn?

0:25:530:25:55

I do. That's what I want to learn big time, mate.

0:25:550:25:59

Oh, she's achieved my dreams.

0:26:010:26:03

Just seeing her dance.

0:26:030:26:06

I never would have dreamt,

0:26:060:26:09

21 years after her birth, that we would be where we are now with her.

0:26:090:26:15

She's achieved all my dreams,

0:26:150:26:17

and more, and more, and more, and more, and more.

0:26:170:26:21

The skills Anjali gave me

0:26:210:26:24

is being famous, and being glamorous,

0:26:240:26:29

and I'm not actually graceful,

0:26:290:26:33

cos I am very, very strong.

0:26:330:26:38

And I just get on with it,

0:26:400:26:42

focus on what I'm doing -

0:26:420:26:46

just do it.

0:26:460:26:48

I don't care - I just do it, perfect.

0:26:480:26:51

That's that sorted,

0:26:520:26:55

then back to my father. He's brilliant,

0:26:550:26:59

and he takes me to Millwall.

0:26:590:27:02

He takes me to the Chinese restaurant.

0:27:020:27:06

He takes me everywhere.

0:27:060:27:09

And he's a fantastic lad.

0:27:090:27:13

He's very gentle and calm with me.

0:27:130:27:18

But he doesn't argue with me,

0:27:190:27:23

but he does argue with Mum,

0:27:230:27:26

but not with me,

0:27:260:27:28

cos he doesn't seem to moan at me,

0:27:280:27:31

so that's the other thing that I really love,

0:27:310:27:35

cos he's a really nice lad.

0:27:350:27:37

I love him so much.

0:27:370:27:40

THEY LAUGH

0:27:400:27:41

My solo

0:27:410:27:44

is looking very well.

0:27:440:27:47

Sometimes Nicole can be a bit over the top,

0:27:470:27:50

because they'll want to change

0:27:500:27:53

a little bit around, which I'm not actually that keen on,

0:27:530:27:57

cos I'll get really confused.

0:27:570:28:01

I thought, "What the hell?"

0:28:010:28:04

I asked to know what I'm doing.

0:28:040:28:07

Apart from that, it's all fine, really.

0:28:070:28:10

We love to dance, and love to move.

0:28:100:28:14

That's what Anjali is.

0:28:140:28:18

This is Nick. He is one of Hannah's best friends,

0:28:180:28:21

and one of the most intriguing people in the group.

0:28:210:28:24

Their friendship will give me an insight

0:28:240:28:26

into how Hannah interacts with people.

0:28:260:28:29

Do you think that we should

0:28:290:28:32

go through it in Leicester?

0:28:320:28:35

Yes, we can go from the bottom

0:28:350:28:39

of our bottoms!

0:28:390:28:41

-SHE LAUGHS

-Why's that?

0:28:410:28:44

Because we are very good dancers.

0:28:440:28:47

All dancers are brilliant.

0:28:470:28:49

We're going to make it happen.

0:28:490:28:51

What are we?

0:28:510:28:54

We're doing the Olympics!

0:28:540:28:56

MUSIC: "Happiness" by Twirl

0:28:580:29:00

# It's the sun pouring down And it's kisses full of rapture. #

0:29:050:29:10

How dancing makes you feel?

0:29:100:29:14

Being a dancer...?

0:29:140:29:16

I love moving around, stretching.

0:29:160:29:20

Mainly, I empathise a lot.

0:29:200:29:23

Because it helps with my dancing,

0:29:230:29:26

and of course when I dance,

0:29:260:29:29

I dance sexy,

0:29:290:29:31

because I want to.

0:29:310:29:32

# It's a beautiful day

0:29:340:29:36

# La-la-la - it's a beautiful day

0:29:360:29:39

# Happiness. #

0:29:390:29:41

She's got a filthy laugh that always gets other people laughing as well.

0:29:410:29:45

My mother used to say, "You can tell when Hannah is in the room,

0:29:450:29:48

"Because people are smiling".

0:29:480:29:50

And I think that's still the case with Hannah.

0:29:500:29:54

SHE LAUGHS

0:29:540:29:57

What is your earliest memory?

0:30:080:30:10

The only thing that pops in my head

0:30:120:30:14

is when I was seven, and my dad died.

0:30:140:30:17

That's the only thing that pops in my head.

0:30:170:30:20

I didn't really talk to him about it - he was an alcoholic, anyway.

0:30:200:30:25

He came back from... Like I say, he was an alcoholic anyway,

0:30:250:30:30

and he went out drinking - went on trips, and that.

0:30:300:30:34

He got out the coach - he obviously had too much to drink,

0:30:340:30:37

like an alcoholic would do.

0:30:370:30:38

He stumbled across the road, fell down,

0:30:380:30:41

like they would do anywhere,

0:30:410:30:43

and he smacked his head - I'm not quite sure where -

0:30:430:30:46

and had a brain haemorrhage. He went into hospital the next day and died.

0:30:460:30:50

It's not good, and I've learnt from that.

0:30:500:30:53

I'm perfectly fine about it now.

0:30:530:30:56

When I was a little kid, I was devastated.

0:30:560:30:58

It was like, "Oh, my God - I've lost my only one dad".

0:30:580:31:00

You don't get another day, here and then, when you get another chance

0:31:000:31:04

to have another dad.

0:31:040:31:06

And it was just horrible.

0:31:060:31:08

It left me stranded in some sort of field.

0:31:080:31:13

It wasn't good at all. The experience was horrible.

0:31:150:31:18

What do you mean, it left you stranded?

0:31:180:31:20

It was like I didn't know where I was.

0:31:200:31:22

I only had my mum there beside me.

0:31:220:31:25

She was having drugs at the same time, as well -

0:31:250:31:28

to try and control herself.

0:31:280:31:30

Of course, I was on a lot of medication, as well.

0:31:300:31:34

That, of course, made it worse.

0:31:340:31:36

And then she couldn't cope with me.

0:31:360:31:38

Then I went into a children's home in Kent

0:31:380:31:43

and they took me off the drugs straight away -

0:31:430:31:46

it was quite good.

0:31:460:31:48

I was there for around

0:31:480:31:50

two or three months, probably,

0:31:500:31:52

and went to-and-fro, back to home, there and everywhere.

0:31:520:31:55

and I've had more support

0:31:550:31:58

from when I was a little kid.

0:31:580:32:00

Ever since I was three, I've been in foster care.

0:32:000:32:02

It's been quite good from then on.

0:32:020:32:05

I don't have a bad relationship with him.

0:32:050:32:08

Perhaps that's the easy...

0:32:080:32:11

Because he hasn't got his own father,

0:32:110:32:13

it's easy for him to look on me as a father.

0:32:130:32:16

Easier than it is for Janet, cos he still has his own mother.

0:32:160:32:22

Yeah, at the moment, things are a little bit fraught.

0:32:220:32:26

I call Mick, "Dad",

0:32:260:32:28

and I've forgotten Mum lives over in Spain.

0:32:280:32:30

Perfectly fine, not caring about me all.

0:32:300:32:32

So I call Janet, "Janet".

0:32:320:32:34

I find it a little bit harsh sometimes, now and then,

0:32:340:32:39

that Janet does everything for me.

0:32:390:32:41

Everything that my mother doesn't call me,

0:32:410:32:43

that does for me.

0:32:430:32:44

I can call her, "Janet",

0:32:440:32:47

but I can call my mother, who does nothing for me at all, "Mother".

0:32:470:32:50

It just seems

0:32:500:32:51

quite horrible sometimes.

0:32:510:32:53

So how do you get on with Olly?

0:32:530:32:56

Sometimes OK.

0:32:570:32:59

What are the times you don't get on? Why would you not get on?

0:33:010:33:05

When he's...

0:33:050:33:07

..erm,

0:33:090:33:11

horrible to my mum and dad.

0:33:110:33:13

When he don't get his own way.

0:33:130:33:15

What does he do when he's horrible?

0:33:150:33:18

Slams doors, puts his fist through doors.

0:33:180:33:22

Breaks things.

0:33:220:33:23

How does that make you feel?

0:33:230:33:26

Upsetting to my mum and dad.

0:33:260:33:28

Do you think you could control your anger?

0:33:300:33:33

Erm...

0:33:330:33:36

..I suppose I can.

0:33:380:33:40

At home, it's a totally different story altogether.

0:33:400:33:43

When I'm on the mat, it's nice and controlled and calm.

0:33:430:33:47

I respect everybody out there who I'm fighting,

0:33:470:33:50

even the players I fight.

0:33:500:33:51

Coaches, and everyone else.

0:33:510:33:53

When I'm at home, it's a totally different story altogether.

0:33:530:33:56

I don't know why, but that's how it is.

0:33:560:33:58

I can sometimes control my temper,

0:33:580:34:01

but when people argue with me, I always have to have the last say.

0:34:010:34:05

And that's not good.

0:34:050:34:06

HE LAUGHS

0:34:060:34:08

It's not the easiest thing, and God knows how people

0:34:080:34:10

really deal with children on the higher end of the autistic scale.

0:34:100:34:16

It must be extremely difficult.

0:34:160:34:18

You must need the patience of I don't know what.

0:34:180:34:21

Really difficult.

0:34:210:34:23

A lot of the time, I don't think he quite realises what he's doing.

0:34:230:34:26

I mouth back Janet and Dad,

0:34:260:34:29

and that's not very good at all,

0:34:290:34:30

as they're taking me to the Games,

0:34:300:34:33

and they've spent a lot of money on the Games - travelling up there -

0:34:330:34:36

on hotels, and that.

0:34:360:34:37

I've done physical violence to Janet.

0:34:390:34:41

-It's not very good, I know.

-HE LAUGHS

0:34:410:34:44

I've done all that lot, as well.

0:34:440:34:45

They look after me so much,

0:34:450:34:48

and they've looked after me for seven years, nearly.

0:34:480:34:50

And I treat them like that.

0:34:500:34:52

How can I do something like that?

0:34:520:34:54

I suppose because, like most people...

0:34:540:34:56

..you can hurt those that you love the most.

0:35:000:35:04

It's just a bad whole state to be in.

0:35:040:35:07

I'm perfectly fine at school.

0:35:070:35:10

People ask me to do something - "Yes, sir. Yes, sir.

0:35:100:35:14

"Yes, madam, I'll do that for you".

0:35:140:35:15

But when I'm at home, it's a totally different story altogether.

0:35:150:35:18

It's not good. So I need to try and sort it out.

0:35:180:35:21

Olly is a product of a broken home.

0:35:210:35:25

What makes this even sadder is that his mother will not consent

0:35:250:35:28

to him being adopted.

0:35:280:35:30

For someone with autism, who needs routine, structure,

0:35:300:35:33

and to know what is happening next,

0:35:330:35:35

this must be especially difficult for him.

0:35:350:35:38

He has experienced a lot for such a young man.

0:35:380:35:41

I bear this in mind when I listen to his story.

0:35:410:35:44

Sue left Jonathan for a week's trial separation,

0:35:500:35:53

to see how he's cope with living independently.

0:35:530:35:56

I decided to visit him halfway through the week.

0:35:560:36:00

After my visit, I immediately had to call Sue.

0:36:000:36:04

'Jonathan didn't answer the door to me - it was his new housemate, PJ.

0:36:040:36:08

'We set up in the back room, and started the interview.

0:36:080:36:11

'It was soon apparent that this wasn't

0:36:110:36:13

'the happy Jonathan I'd seen in the past,

0:36:130:36:16

'so I asked some warm-up questions to get him relaxed.

0:36:160:36:19

'But at this, I still seemed to be failing.'

0:36:190:36:23

OK, Jonathan, you've got to look at me now.

0:36:230:36:26

Yeah? Look at me.

0:36:290:36:30

Don't worry about the camera.

0:36:300:36:32

You're focused on that - forget all that stuff, OK?

0:36:320:36:35

Talk to me.

0:36:350:36:36

'I was finding it very hard to engage Jonathan.

0:36:360:36:39

'He didn't seem in a good place,

0:36:390:36:41

'and I was worried.'

0:36:410:36:43

What do you most love about life?

0:36:430:36:47

I don't.

0:36:470:36:49

Life is not easy.

0:36:490:36:51

So what don't you like about life?

0:36:530:36:56

I don't know. I don't like it.

0:36:560:36:58

Because all the things...

0:36:580:37:01

Bad things happen.

0:37:010:37:03

What bad things have happened, then?

0:37:030:37:05

People getting killed.

0:37:050:37:06

So there's nothing you love about life?

0:37:120:37:15

I do. When I'm...

0:37:150:37:17

happy.

0:37:170:37:19

That's about it.

0:37:220:37:24

Enough questions.

0:37:240:37:27

'And that was that.

0:37:270:37:29

'When we finished the interview and turned off the lights,

0:37:290:37:32

'Jonathan seemed to come back to life.

0:37:320:37:34

'He said that whilst the lights were on,

0:37:340:37:37

'he could hear people screaming and shouting in his head.

0:37:370:37:40

'And when we turned them off, they went.

0:37:400:37:43

'Mindful of Jonathan's mental health,

0:37:430:37:45

'I didn't want to put him through a process

0:37:450:37:47

'which would set him back in any way.

0:37:470:37:50

'I needed to speak with Sue,

0:37:500:37:51

'to find out if Jonathan could continue filming.'

0:37:510:37:56

# La, la, la... #

0:37:580:38:01

That's it, you're forming it.

0:38:020:38:04

'I met up with Sue and Jonathan at his weekly singing lesson,

0:38:040:38:07

'hoping to see the old Jonathan back.

0:38:070:38:10

'It was a make-or-break meeting.'

0:38:100:38:12

When I came home,

0:38:120:38:14

I felt as though something was slightly wrong,

0:38:140:38:17

because Jonathan wasn't himself.

0:38:170:38:19

I thought the whole thing of the whole week -

0:38:190:38:23

his pattern was totally out of synch.

0:38:230:38:26

And Jonathan does like a very structured week.

0:38:260:38:31

And if he's thrown off that structure,

0:38:310:38:33

he does get quite upset about it.

0:38:330:38:36

What was actually happening with the lights, cos it was affecting him?

0:38:360:38:40

How was that actually affecting...?

0:38:400:38:42

Yeah - you told me it was affecting you,

0:38:420:38:44

cos... People arguing?

0:38:440:38:46

-In my head, yeah.

-In your head?

0:38:460:38:47

It was weird.

0:38:470:38:48

It was weird, wasn't it?

0:38:480:38:50

Was it like shouting and stuff like that?

0:38:500:38:52

Yeah, something like that.

0:38:520:38:54

Very weird - he told me as soon as I came back.

0:38:540:38:56

Because you don't like arguing, do you?

0:38:560:38:58

-You don't like arguing, do you?

-That's true.

0:38:580:39:00

He doesn't like that at all.

0:39:000:39:02

That was the reaction he got from the lights.

0:39:020:39:05

Which was a very strange reaction.

0:39:050:39:07

-I'm a gentle person.

-You're a gentle person.

0:39:070:39:10

Oh, What A Beautiful Morning?

0:39:100:39:12

'We got to the bottom of Jonathan's problem.

0:39:120:39:15

'While his mother was away, his routine was broken,

0:39:150:39:17

'and his Playstation stopped working.

0:39:170:39:19

'These seemingly small events pushed Jonathan into a dark place.

0:39:190:39:23

'Fixing his Playstation was the first step to his recovery.

0:39:230:39:27

'So Jonathan agreed to continue filming.'

0:39:270:39:30

# Everything's going my way. #

0:39:300:39:33

Well done.

0:39:330:39:34

'I was back in Banbury,

0:39:380:39:40

'and tonight I was going to see Hannah dance with Anjali

0:39:400:39:42

'in a gala performance.

0:39:420:39:45

'It would be her last opportunity to perform in front of an audience

0:39:450:39:48

'before the National Games.

0:39:480:39:50

'I arrived early and waited at the side of the stage.

0:39:500:39:53

'There seemed to be a nervous atmosphere,

0:39:530:39:55

'as a lot rode on this performance.

0:39:550:39:58

'Hannah was put outside to regain her composure.

0:39:580:40:01

'All I could do was take my seat.

0:40:010:40:03

COUNTRYSIDE SOUND EFFECTS

0:40:100:40:13

MUSIC: "Theme From A Summer Place" by the Percy Faith Orchestra

0:40:210:40:25

APPLAUSE

0:41:300:41:32

What I'm really pleased about now is I didn't have any test,

0:41:360:41:40

because what would I have done?

0:41:400:41:42

Whatever I'd have chosen would have been both right and wrong,

0:41:420:41:47

and what these tests can't do

0:41:470:41:50

is tell you the degree of problems the child is going to have.

0:41:500:41:54

So I'm pleased I didn't know that Hannah had Down's syndrome.

0:41:540:41:58

because I don't know what I would have done,

0:41:580:42:00

and wouldn't our lives have been different?

0:42:000:42:03

'I met up with Hannah at her weekly cookery class,

0:42:070:42:09

'which she takes so she can be more independent.

0:42:090:42:13

'This was the last time I would see Hannah before the Games,

0:42:130:42:16

'and it was one of the happiest times we spent together.

0:42:160:42:20

'Everyone in the class was really excited about seeing us film.'

0:42:200:42:24

Today, we're cooking.

0:42:410:42:43

Why is it important for you to learn to cook?

0:42:430:42:46

I'd like to be on telly, that's why.

0:42:460:42:49

I was doing this for my mum and dad, really.

0:42:490:42:52

It looks silly - girly.

0:42:520:42:53

MUSIC DROWNS SPEECH

0:42:530:42:56

HE LAUGHS

0:43:010:43:03

Hello!

0:43:130:43:16

I love you, darling!

0:43:160:43:19

It's all right - I like being filmed

0:43:190:43:22

from you two, cos you're a good mate of mine.

0:43:220:43:25

You're wonderful,

0:43:260:43:27

you're attractive blokes.

0:43:270:43:29

And then you are fantastic.

0:43:300:43:32

-Aw, thanks, mate!

-That's all right.

0:43:320:43:35

THEY LAUGH

0:43:350:43:36

THEY LAUGH

0:43:390:43:40

MUSIC DROWNS SPEECH

0:43:400:43:44

I can't even think of any questions now.

0:43:460:43:49

The final, ultimate goal

0:44:030:44:05

is to always make your child

0:44:050:44:06

independent.

0:44:060:44:08

He has the right person moving in with him into the home,

0:44:080:44:11

into my home.

0:44:110:44:13

And I think it's going to work.

0:44:130:44:15

He can't wait for me to go, so he says.

0:44:150:44:18

But it'll be interesting to see.

0:44:180:44:21

The first two or three months will be very strange for both the boys.

0:44:210:44:25

Um...am I excited about moving in?

0:44:250:44:29

Erm...obviously, I'm a bit nervous

0:44:290:44:31

cos it's the first time I'd done it.

0:44:310:44:33

But then, it feels like it's the right time to move in in my...

0:44:350:44:43

..in my life.

0:44:440:44:46

I can show you 42-year-old men

0:44:460:44:50

that are still with their families,

0:44:500:44:52

where the parents are doing absolutely everything for them.

0:44:520:44:58

How do they expect these people to react when anything happens to them?

0:44:580:45:02

These people are in their senior years.

0:45:020:45:04

You could be talking 75, 80 years of age.

0:45:040:45:07

How are they going to cope?

0:45:080:45:10

Do they want their children to go into council residential care?

0:45:100:45:15

I bet you 100%, everybody would say no.

0:45:150:45:18

If the answer's no, they have to do something about it.

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Things that Tom finds difficult -

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being in a large group where he has to be stayed.

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If he can wander off and come back when he feels uncomfortable,

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he can deal with that.

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How does it feel to be in a big group of people?

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Scary and nervous.

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It makes me feel uncomfortable, being in big groups,

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and people.

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Small groups, I can cope with.

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So this is quite a big achievement for you, playing basketball,

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and in Leicester, you will be surrounded by lots of people.

0:46:010:46:06

Hm. It's going to be difficult.

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Is that going to be the most difficult part of it for you,

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rather than playing?

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Mm, yeah.

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People watching, as well.

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Yeah.

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It was the morning of the opening ceremony, and I travelled up

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with the bowling team from London to Leicester.

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The mood was high, and it continued that way

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for the rest of the journey.

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CHEERING

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What are you most looking forward to about Leicester?

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Taking 17 athletes

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up to have the time of their life.

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Simple as that.

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ALL: Leicester! Leicester! Leicester! Leicester!

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The first to arrive was Hannah.

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She walked me around the stadium, filming and directing as we went.

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Wow - look at that view!

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That's amazing!

0:47:030:47:05

Check it out!

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Need to go to the dressing room, guys - this way.

0:47:070:47:09

Sweet!

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As I walked down the tunnel, I started to feel nervous for Hannah,

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nerves which were not shown in her.

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The stadium felt overpowering when empty.

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Imagine how it would feel when it was full.

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MUFFLED CONVERSATION

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APPLAUSE

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And it is time to fulfil my destiny.

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And my heart.

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A dream's come true.

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And all that remained was for Hannah to open the ceremony.

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APPLAUSE

0:47:430:47:45

We saw you before you were going out,

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and you were whispering stuff to yourself.

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-I did.

-What were you saying?

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I was saying that I can do it.

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I am a star,

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and also, I'm a dancer and an athlete.

0:48:030:48:07

MUSIC: "Theme From A Summer Place" by the Percy Faith Orchestra

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How did you think it went tonight, then?

0:48:190:48:21

Fantastic!

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How did it feel to perform in front of 26,000 people?

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I feel...

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..I feel excellent.

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I was really going for it,

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and I have so many talents.

0:48:350:48:39

MUSIC: "Theme From A Summer Place" by the Percy Faith Orchestra

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I can't believe it.

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I was so, so sexy.

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I was doing this, and that - huh!

0:48:520:48:56

APPLAUSE

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WHOOPING AND CHEERING

0:49:140:49:17

Tom! Tom! Tom! I love you! I love you!

0:49:190:49:23

I love you, Tom!

0:49:230:49:25

-Hi!

-We meet again!

0:49:280:49:31

Don't let it hold you back, really.

0:49:560:49:58

It's not all doom and gloom.

0:49:580:50:00

It doesn't have to be - it's what you make of it.

0:50:000:50:03

CHEERING

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People are either scared or are very unsure

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of people with learning disabilities,

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purely through not understanding their needs,

0:50:200:50:24

and not treating people as normal people.

0:50:240:50:26

They are normal people, but they've just got a disability of some sort.

0:50:260:50:31

But it's coping with reactions and that that's very difficult.

0:50:320:50:36

And it's not a seen disability,

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it's not like a physical disability that we can all see

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and we understand that.

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But when it's a learning disability and everyone looks the same,

0:50:430:50:47

it's difficult to know how to react to people.

0:50:470:50:51

You don't know whether they're playing up

0:50:510:50:54

or whether it's part of a disability that they have.

0:50:540:50:57

Tom nearly fulfilled his dream by winning a silver medal,

0:50:590:51:02

but he vows to return next time and win gold.

0:51:020:51:06

Out of all of the athletes in my film,

0:51:250:51:27

I wanted Jonathan to succeed the most.

0:51:270:51:30

Because I knew winning would lift his mood,

0:51:300:51:33

and I didn't want to see him in that dark place again.

0:51:330:51:36

That's the one.

0:51:450:51:47

The boys are on fire.

0:51:470:51:49

Jonathan is bowling out of his tiny mind.

0:51:490:51:52

It's strike, strike, spares.

0:51:520:51:54

You can see the emotion coming through from Jonathan today.

0:51:540:51:59

I've never seen him so happy,

0:51:590:52:01

but whatever it is, he's recaptured the Jonathan that his mum knows

0:52:010:52:06

here at the National Games, which is absolutely wonderful.

0:52:060:52:10

I just can't believe it. His dad would be over the moon if he saw him

0:52:150:52:20

because he just loved bowling.

0:52:200:52:23

You did good. Do you think you won it?

0:52:250:52:27

You're not sure, are you?

0:52:270:52:29

Cross my heart...

0:52:290:52:31

..hope on my...

0:52:330:52:35

You had a 200 game yesterday, didn't you?

0:52:350:52:37

Right, now, I've got a secret to tell you. Right?

0:52:370:52:40

I've found out from the organisers that you won

0:52:400:52:43

the singles yesterday.

0:52:430:52:44

-No!

-I've just found out you've got a gold medal.

0:52:440:52:46

Yes!

0:52:460:52:48

Yeah, shall we go and tell Mum? Come on, then.

0:52:490:52:52

How do we feel?

0:53:060:53:07

-Oh.

-Who'd be proud of this moment, up there?

0:53:070:53:11

My dad would be looking down and crying over me.

0:53:110:53:14

He would be crying over you, you're absolutely right.

0:53:140:53:17

APPLAUSE

0:53:170:53:20

Great.

0:53:250:53:26

I'm not even crying. That's a miracle.

0:53:260:53:32

History in the making, big time.

0:53:320:53:35

How did you feel when you were standing on the podium?

0:53:350:53:38

Oh, number one, definitely.

0:53:380:53:40

Is there anything you'd like to say?

0:53:420:53:44

Yeah.

0:53:440:53:46

A message to the world - I've got it, you ain't going to stop me.

0:53:470:53:53

Seeing Ollie on the judo mat was an awesome experience.

0:54:050:54:09

It was easy to see why he was world champion.

0:54:090:54:13

I just wished he could keep his aggression within his sport,

0:54:130:54:16

where he clearly has control.

0:54:160:54:18

As predicted, Ollie won gold, and James took silver.

0:54:200:54:23

There's a real sadness to Ollie's story that I hadn't anticipated.

0:54:250:54:28

Ollie has given me a special insight into how people can be affected

0:54:290:54:33

by learning difficulties.

0:54:330:54:34

He has autism but functions very well,

0:54:340:54:38

so it is easy to forget that he has a disability at all.

0:54:380:54:41

It is only when I spoke to Ollie for long periods of time

0:54:420:54:45

I learnt that not everything I said, he understood.

0:54:450:54:48

It doesn't take a PhD to work out

0:54:510:54:54

that Ollie's past is clearly affecting his present.

0:54:540:54:57

The mixed feelings of resentment he has for his biological mother,

0:54:570:55:01

he inflicts on his foster mother, Janet.

0:55:010:55:03

I hope the professional therapy he's receiving helps him fast.

0:55:050:55:08

Before it's too late,

0:55:080:55:09

and relationships become too damaged to mend.

0:55:090:55:12

I have witnessed a gentler side to Ollie,

0:55:140:55:17

a side which he can be proud of.

0:55:170:55:19

I just feel pretty stupid about the stuff I do

0:55:240:55:27

because underneath all of it, I know that I am a nice person.

0:55:270:55:31

I do treat people with respect, um,

0:55:310:55:33

I can talk nicely, stop mouthing back and that lot.

0:55:330:55:37

It's just one of those things I really need to try and sort out.

0:55:370:55:41

I like everything about my life.

0:55:440:55:47

I've been on the TV, on the news,

0:55:480:55:53

um, on the radio, everywhere.

0:55:530:55:58

What you've got to also know is that

0:55:590:56:01

Hannah thinks she's incredibly lucky having Down's syndrome.

0:56:010:56:05

And if you said to Hannah, would you not like to have Down's syndrome?

0:56:050:56:08

She would say no, she thinks she's very, very special.

0:56:080:56:12

And she's got short legs as well, she says,

0:56:120:56:15

so she's got to have Down's syndrome.

0:56:150:56:17

It feels great filming me,

0:56:170:56:21

because it feels like I am a super star,

0:56:210:56:26

and a Down's syndrome star.

0:56:260:56:30

So, you want to be a Down's syndrome superstar?

0:56:310:56:33

Yes, really, I do.

0:56:330:56:35

He or she would have been given a gift,

0:56:350:56:39

and that gift takes a little time to mature itself,

0:56:390:56:43

but never give up on a disabled kid, you can't,

0:56:430:56:48

because they are part of you,

0:56:480:56:51

and you're going to be holding their hands for a long, long time.

0:56:510:56:56

But every so often, just let go a little.

0:56:560:56:59

And then when you actually have to eventually let go,

0:56:590:57:02

you let go with confidence.

0:57:020:57:04

Because one day, you, me, all of us, are not going to be here,

0:57:040:57:09

so we have to make sure that our children are, in actual fact,

0:57:090:57:13

ready to walk the path on their own.

0:57:130:57:17

But never give up on them.

0:57:170:57:19

It's basic.

0:57:190:57:20

After filming, Jonathan's mother told me it was hard for people

0:57:200:57:24

with learning difficulties to allow strangers like me into their world.

0:57:240:57:29

In the last six months of getting to know these guys,

0:57:300:57:33

I now realise what a privileged journey I've been on.

0:57:330:57:37

8,000 people in the UK are currently part of the Special Olympics,

0:57:370:57:41

and for 48 weeks a year, they are trained by people like Beth

0:57:410:57:45

and professional coaches,

0:57:450:57:47

giving them feelings of happiness, belonging, control, and fame.

0:57:470:57:52

So, you know what? I do love the Special Olympics.

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# Somewhere over the rainbow

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# Way up high

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# And the dreams

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# That you dreamed of once in a lullaby

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# Oh, somewhere over the rainbow

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# Bluebirds fly

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# And the dreams that you dream of

0:58:360:58:40

# Dreams really do come true

0:58:400:58:46

# Somewhere over the rainbow...#

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