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Thank you. Welcome to My Life In Books, | 0:00:16 | 0:00:19 | |
a chance for my guests to share their favourite reads. | 0:00:19 | 0:00:22 | |
With me tonight, actor Larry Lamb, | 0:00:22 | 0:00:24 | |
the famously put-upon Mick Shipman in Gavin And Stacey, | 0:00:24 | 0:00:28 | |
but probably best known as Archie Mitchell in EastEnders, | 0:00:28 | 0:00:31 | |
for which the Soap Awards named him Villain of the Year. | 0:00:31 | 0:00:34 | |
Alongside him, stand-up comedian Sarah Millican. | 0:00:34 | 0:00:37 | |
A couple of years ago, she won Best Newcomer Award | 0:00:37 | 0:00:41 | |
at the Edinburgh Fringe for her show Sarah Millican's Not Nice. | 0:00:41 | 0:00:46 | |
And we'll make it clear that you are nice, you're not a villain. | 0:00:46 | 0:00:50 | |
And even I'm nice when I'm not doing The Weakest Link. | 0:00:50 | 0:00:53 | |
Thank you, both, for joining me. | 0:00:53 | 0:00:55 | |
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Sarah, did you read a lot as a child? | 0:00:57 | 0:01:00 | |
Whenever my mam, if she went shopping and she couldn't find us, | 0:01:00 | 0:01:03 | |
I would always be in a corner reading a book in like Smith's or whatever, | 0:01:03 | 0:01:07 | |
just be cross-legged in a corner, just working my way into something. | 0:01:07 | 0:01:12 | |
I remember going to the library and I was only allowed four books and I had | 0:01:12 | 0:01:16 | |
to borrow my sister's library card because I used to want more books. | 0:01:16 | 0:01:20 | |
I remember getting reprimanded in the library because I was trying | 0:01:20 | 0:01:23 | |
to take something back that I'd got out earlier that day cos I'd read it through the day. | 0:01:23 | 0:01:27 | |
They said, "You're not allowed to do that." Banished... | 0:01:27 | 0:01:30 | |
-from the library! -For reading too fast. | 0:01:30 | 0:01:33 | |
-Were you reading from childhood? -Yeah. | 0:01:33 | 0:01:35 | |
-As a teenager were you reading? -Yeah, yeah. | 0:01:35 | 0:01:38 | |
My mum got me into reading very early, so I was a bright boy when | 0:01:38 | 0:01:42 | |
I was a youngster, so I was always ahead of the game with reading. | 0:01:42 | 0:01:46 | |
They used to give me extraordinary books. | 0:01:46 | 0:01:49 | |
My grandmother and grandfather on my mother's side were very sort | 0:01:49 | 0:01:54 | |
of proper working-class, educated socialists with an eye to the | 0:01:54 | 0:02:00 | |
future for the young, so they gave me books. Definitely. | 0:02:00 | 0:02:04 | |
Let's start with childhood reads. Larry, you were eight, I understand. | 0:02:04 | 0:02:10 | |
-Daniel Defoe's Robinson Crusoe. -Yup. | 0:02:10 | 0:02:13 | |
A lifesaver at that time for me. Everything was in meltdown at home. | 0:02:13 | 0:02:18 | |
Why? | 0:02:18 | 0:02:20 | |
Well, my parents were a mismatch and by that stage, | 0:02:20 | 0:02:24 | |
it was almost about to explode completely. | 0:02:24 | 0:02:26 | |
Would you escape to your bedroom and read | 0:02:26 | 0:02:29 | |
-while all war was breaking out below? -It's very interesting. | 0:02:29 | 0:02:32 | |
I know I used to spend a lot of time listening to see | 0:02:32 | 0:02:35 | |
if they were going to fight | 0:02:35 | 0:02:37 | |
and trying to rush down there and stop them. | 0:02:37 | 0:02:39 | |
-How did you do that? -Get in between them. -Yeah. | 0:02:39 | 0:02:42 | |
-You were only eight, nine? -I know. It's amazing what you can do. | 0:02:42 | 0:02:45 | |
Yeah. Tell me about Robinson Crusoe's story. | 0:02:45 | 0:02:48 | |
That story was something for me to... | 0:02:48 | 0:02:53 | |
It just pointed out the chance that there was sort of hope | 0:02:53 | 0:02:56 | |
on the horizon. | 0:02:56 | 0:02:58 | |
And his story, a young man who sets off on a business trip, | 0:02:58 | 0:03:02 | |
effectively, in the 17th century, he decides to be a merchant, much | 0:03:02 | 0:03:06 | |
against his father's advice, and was trying to make trades in the | 0:03:06 | 0:03:10 | |
islands and finished up shipwrecked on what we now know as Trinidad. | 0:03:10 | 0:03:14 | |
It's the story of him using everything that came ashore | 0:03:14 | 0:03:19 | |
when the ship was wrecked to build a life there. | 0:03:19 | 0:03:22 | |
He creates his own little world on that island, | 0:03:22 | 0:03:25 | |
but he never gives up hope. | 0:03:25 | 0:03:27 | |
And I think that was it, it was an inspiration for me. | 0:03:27 | 0:03:30 | |
-It was about survival and you were trying to survive. -Absolutely. | 0:03:30 | 0:03:33 | |
Trying to survive the tempers that I was living in, | 0:03:33 | 0:03:36 | |
the tempers that constantly reared up again. | 0:03:36 | 0:03:40 | |
-And your mother eventually left. -Yeah, she did. | 0:03:40 | 0:03:42 | |
She ran for the desert island! But, yeah... | 0:03:42 | 0:03:45 | |
-And you were left with your father. -Yeah, I got left with him. | 0:03:45 | 0:03:49 | |
Thanks a lot, Mum(!) | 0:03:49 | 0:03:51 | |
Did you think you were like Robinson Crusoe? | 0:03:51 | 0:03:54 | |
Did you build yourself into the character? | 0:03:54 | 0:03:56 | |
No, but the funny thing about my father is, | 0:03:56 | 0:03:59 | |
we used to make bows and arrows and catapults and camps in the woods, | 0:03:59 | 0:04:02 | |
so there was that element of adventure in our life anyway. | 0:04:02 | 0:04:07 | |
-Something that had come to him... God! -Quite a cheeky little chap. | 0:04:07 | 0:04:13 | |
Yeah, cheeky little chappy. | 0:04:13 | 0:04:15 | |
-Quite chubby. -By the time I was 12, I was a real porker. | 0:04:15 | 0:04:19 | |
A real porker, yeah. | 0:04:19 | 0:04:21 | |
-That was my one claim... -Reading and snacking at the same time? | 0:04:21 | 0:04:25 | |
Snacking like Billy-o, I tell you! | 0:04:25 | 0:04:26 | |
Did you see your mother after she left? | 0:04:26 | 0:04:29 | |
We used to see her, sort of, at the bus stop every weekend. | 0:04:29 | 0:04:33 | |
-That's a very sad story. -I know. It is, yeah. But that's the way it was. | 0:04:33 | 0:04:38 | |
There was no reconciliation possible between them. | 0:04:38 | 0:04:42 | |
And eventually when you'd grown up, did you make contact properly with your mother? | 0:04:42 | 0:04:46 | |
Yeah, absolutely. In the end, I lost it with my father | 0:04:46 | 0:04:49 | |
and have a wonderful relationship with my mum. | 0:04:49 | 0:04:52 | |
Sarah, your first choice, Daphne's Book by Mary Downing Hahn. | 0:04:52 | 0:04:56 | |
Tell us about this. | 0:04:56 | 0:04:58 | |
It's not anywhere near as dramatic as your story. I feel like I should've gone first! | 0:04:58 | 0:05:02 | |
LAUGHTER | 0:05:02 | 0:05:04 | |
It's about a little girl in glasses who has trouble making friends. | 0:05:04 | 0:05:08 | |
There's... Strange(!) | 0:05:08 | 0:05:09 | |
LAUGHTER | 0:05:09 | 0:05:12 | |
It's only when I was asked to pick my five books that | 0:05:12 | 0:05:15 | |
I realised how incredibly autobiographical it was. | 0:05:15 | 0:05:18 | |
Yeah, it's a little girl who struggles to make friends | 0:05:18 | 0:05:21 | |
cos she's quite bookish and she's forced to make friends with another girl | 0:05:21 | 0:05:25 | |
when they do a school project and the other girl's quite popular | 0:05:25 | 0:05:28 | |
and they both sort of learn things about each other. | 0:05:28 | 0:05:31 | |
-It wasn't quite like your own childhood. -It almost looks like me! | 0:05:31 | 0:05:34 | |
-That's terrifying! -But they were in America, you were in Newcastle. | 0:05:34 | 0:05:38 | |
Yeah, but nerds look like nerds across the world. | 0:05:38 | 0:05:41 | |
LAUGHTER | 0:05:41 | 0:05:43 | |
-We've got a picture of you at that time. -See? | 0:05:43 | 0:05:46 | |
You look much better than her. | 0:05:46 | 0:05:48 | |
There was a noise there that was "Oh..." in the audience. | 0:05:48 | 0:05:52 | |
You can pity me, but don't be physically sick! | 0:05:52 | 0:05:55 | |
You look quite a redhead there, or is that just the light? | 0:05:55 | 0:05:58 | |
No, it's just old-fashioned photography, I think. | 0:05:58 | 0:06:01 | |
It was a perm though, cos my mam was a hairdresser and she used to keep | 0:06:01 | 0:06:04 | |
us off PE cos she didn't think it was important and perm me hair! | 0:06:04 | 0:06:08 | |
-And was school difficult then, that you felt such a loner? -Well, yeah. | 0:06:08 | 0:06:12 | |
It's not dramatic, it's not... Nobody was punching us. | 0:06:12 | 0:06:15 | |
They were just ignoring us, which was quite hard. And I was quite quiet. To be honest, I probably didn't... | 0:06:15 | 0:06:20 | |
If I'd spoken up, maybe I would've had a few more friends. | 0:06:20 | 0:06:24 | |
Sounds terribly tragic! | 0:06:24 | 0:06:25 | |
But you're so much more upbeat about your horrific childhood. | 0:06:25 | 0:06:29 | |
-And I'm like, "Nobody was my friend! Boo-hoo!" -I've had a lot longer to get over it. | 0:06:29 | 0:06:33 | |
-Bless you! -Did your father read to you? -My father was a reader, very definitely. | 0:06:33 | 0:06:38 | |
And my father put me onto a lot of books. | 0:06:38 | 0:06:40 | |
-He was a psycho, but he was a very intelligent psycho. -LAUGHTER | 0:06:40 | 0:06:44 | |
It's a bit of an irony that you then played Archie Mitchell, | 0:06:44 | 0:06:48 | |
-who could've been a prototype for your father. -Yeah, he was the prototype for my father. | 0:06:48 | 0:06:52 | |
But I had an uncle as well that was similar | 0:06:52 | 0:06:54 | |
and I looked much more like my uncle, so between the two... | 0:06:54 | 0:06:57 | |
He was a very tough man and so the strange... | 0:06:57 | 0:07:02 | |
The weirdness of my father coupled with the strength of my uncle, | 0:07:02 | 0:07:06 | |
the two came together. It was like an amalgam, really. | 0:07:06 | 0:07:09 | |
Let's remind everybody of you. | 0:07:09 | 0:07:12 | |
The girl is dead! Dead and buried! Rotting in the ground! | 0:07:12 | 0:07:15 | |
And it's down to you! | 0:07:15 | 0:07:17 | |
Yeah... Ha-ha! | 0:07:17 | 0:07:19 | |
This is life paying you back... | 0:07:19 | 0:07:22 | |
for your neglect. Your vicious, selfish neglect. | 0:07:22 | 0:07:26 | |
Neglect of her, neglect of me, your father. | 0:07:26 | 0:07:30 | |
Is that the best you can do? | 0:07:32 | 0:07:34 | |
Horrible, isn't he? | 0:07:34 | 0:07:36 | |
Yeah, but with that sense of righteousness. | 0:07:36 | 0:07:40 | |
It's absolutely the rectitude.... "This is no lie." | 0:07:40 | 0:07:45 | |
Absolutely convinced of what he's doing. | 0:07:45 | 0:07:48 | |
I mean, a real... Ooh, a performance. | 0:07:48 | 0:07:52 | |
And I had that in my face all the time. | 0:07:52 | 0:07:55 | |
-All the time. -The next book you've chosen is La Terre, Emile Zola, | 0:07:55 | 0:08:00 | |
because it reminds you of living in France. | 0:08:00 | 0:08:03 | |
Yeah, I'd bought an old house with my then partner, back in 1988, | 0:08:03 | 0:08:07 | |
and found myself living in a rural community, | 0:08:07 | 0:08:10 | |
deep in the heart of Normandy. | 0:08:10 | 0:08:12 | |
I happened on one of Zola's books, it was about a commune in Paris, and | 0:08:12 | 0:08:17 | |
then that sort of got me on to this whole series of books that he wrote. | 0:08:17 | 0:08:22 | |
Give us a quick sketch. | 0:08:22 | 0:08:23 | |
It's about the nature of Norman peasant people. | 0:08:23 | 0:08:26 | |
That's what it's about. People who live on the land in Normandy. | 0:08:26 | 0:08:31 | |
And it's about the way they are with money, with land, | 0:08:31 | 0:08:34 | |
with possessions, with relationships, | 0:08:34 | 0:08:36 | |
with inter-familial relationships, in a small community. | 0:08:36 | 0:08:40 | |
Can you read us your favourite passage, or a passage from that? | 0:08:40 | 0:08:44 | |
Yeah, there's a little passage here that... | 0:08:44 | 0:08:47 | |
It's about the wine harvest, chapter four. | 0:08:47 | 0:08:49 | |
"It was early October and the wine harvest was about to begin. | 0:08:49 | 0:08:52 | |
"A splendid week of feasting when quarrelsome families usually | 0:08:52 | 0:08:56 | |
"become reconciled over jugs of new wine. | 0:08:56 | 0:08:58 | |
"For a whole week, Rognes would reek of grapes. | 0:08:58 | 0:09:01 | |
"People ate so many that women lifted their skirts | 0:09:01 | 0:09:04 | |
"and men dropped their trousers under every hedge, and lovers, | 0:09:04 | 0:09:08 | |
"stained with grape juice, greedily exchanged kisses among the vines. | 0:09:08 | 0:09:12 | |
"In the end, there were lots of drunken men and pregnant girls." | 0:09:12 | 0:09:15 | |
Is that what it's like in Normandy where you were? | 0:09:15 | 0:09:18 | |
Certainly not like where I was, I'm here to tell you! They didn't have a wine harvest there. | 0:09:18 | 0:09:22 | |
I'd have been in real trouble if they did! | 0:09:22 | 0:09:24 | |
Did you actually read it in French or did you read it as The Earth? | 0:09:24 | 0:09:29 | |
No, it's quite archaic classical French of the 19th century | 0:09:29 | 0:09:33 | |
and although it's beautifully written, at that time, | 0:09:33 | 0:09:37 | |
it would've been a hack to get through it. | 0:09:37 | 0:09:40 | |
Sarah, your next choice is The Vagina Monologues by Eve Ensler. | 0:09:40 | 0:09:45 | |
How did you find out about the book? | 0:09:45 | 0:09:48 | |
Well, I used to want to write for the theatre | 0:09:48 | 0:09:50 | |
and I used to absorb as many plays as I could and then try | 0:09:50 | 0:09:54 | |
and write plays and send them in to the local theatres and sometimes they'd put them on as readings. | 0:09:54 | 0:09:59 | |
It was recommended by somebody at the theatre. | 0:09:59 | 0:10:02 | |
I started reading it and it was only then... I was 19 or 20. It was only then that I realised | 0:10:02 | 0:10:06 | |
how formidable women can be and the complexities of being a woman | 0:10:06 | 0:10:11 | |
and accepting parts of yourself, so to speak. | 0:10:11 | 0:10:15 | |
It's women's stories about their vaginas. | 0:10:15 | 0:10:18 | |
And about what can happen to them. | 0:10:18 | 0:10:20 | |
I should say as well that the show that you mentioned, | 0:10:20 | 0:10:22 | |
Sarah Millican's Not Nice, was my first show and the reason it was called that was partly | 0:10:22 | 0:10:27 | |
because I was a bit of a cow, and also because that's what | 0:10:27 | 0:10:31 | |
we use to call our lady parts when we were kids, me and my sister. | 0:10:31 | 0:10:35 | |
We used to call it your "not nice". LAUGHTER | 0:10:35 | 0:10:39 | |
So there's a story behind that, clearly! | 0:10:39 | 0:10:42 | |
-So, yeah. That's what we used to call ours. -Read us a bit from it. -OK. | 0:10:42 | 0:10:46 | |
-A nice bit. -A nice bit! Oh! Are you going to blush? | 0:10:46 | 0:10:49 | |
Oh! You wouldn't believe! | 0:10:49 | 0:10:52 | |
This is a monologue by a woman who is very sort of introverted | 0:10:52 | 0:10:57 | |
and is wanting to have a one-night stand, but didn't want to... | 0:10:57 | 0:11:01 | |
Wasn't comfortable with her sort of nakedness, I suppose. | 0:11:01 | 0:11:04 | |
That's probably the best way of putting it. | 0:11:04 | 0:11:06 | |
"I didn't particularly like Bob. I would've missed him altogether | 0:11:06 | 0:11:10 | |
"if he hadn't picked up my change that I dropped on the deli floor. | 0:11:10 | 0:11:13 | |
"Then he handed me back my quarters and pennies | 0:11:13 | 0:11:16 | |
"and his hand accidentally touched mine. Something happened. | 0:11:16 | 0:11:19 | |
"I went to bed with him. That's when the miracle occurred." | 0:11:19 | 0:11:23 | |
And the miracle that occurred was the fact that he wanted to look at her | 0:11:23 | 0:11:26 | |
and she said, "But I'm here. "Look at me now." | 0:11:26 | 0:11:30 | |
And he said, "No, I want to look at all of you." | 0:11:30 | 0:11:32 | |
And she was mortified cos she wanted to sort of...in a bed, lying down, in the dark. | 0:11:32 | 0:11:36 | |
And he just wanted to look at her. And I think it's such a lovely moment that she's realised | 0:11:36 | 0:11:40 | |
that she is beautiful and she hadn't previously thought that | 0:11:40 | 0:11:44 | |
anybody would want to sort of drink her in with their eyes. | 0:11:44 | 0:11:48 | |
Did it move you to be a feminist? | 0:11:48 | 0:11:50 | |
I think I probably already was, but it certainly brought it out in me. | 0:11:50 | 0:11:54 | |
I've always wanted to be a strong woman and whenever I do anything, I always try and be a strong woman. | 0:11:54 | 0:11:59 | |
And this just really opened my eyes to different voices. | 0:11:59 | 0:12:03 | |
Larry, your next book was published in 2003. | 0:12:03 | 0:12:09 | |
It's A Million Little Pieces by James Frey. | 0:12:09 | 0:12:12 | |
Can you give us a brief outline? | 0:12:12 | 0:12:14 | |
It was given to me as a good book and it sort of took me | 0:12:14 | 0:12:20 | |
on a journey inside the mind of somebody who was absolutely | 0:12:20 | 0:12:24 | |
hooked on drugs and alcohol since childhood. | 0:12:24 | 0:12:27 | |
He managed to grab me right from the opening moment of that book. | 0:12:27 | 0:12:32 | |
-Shall I read a little bit? -Yeah, cos this is what caught you. -It's the opening sequence of this. | 0:12:32 | 0:12:36 | |
"I wake to the drone of an airplane engine and the feeling of something warm dripping down my chin. | 0:12:36 | 0:12:41 | |
"I lift my hand to feel my face. My front four teeth are gone. | 0:12:41 | 0:12:44 | |
"I have a hole in my cheek, my nose is broken and my eyes are swollen nearly shut. | 0:12:44 | 0:12:49 | |
"I open them and I look around and I'm in the back of a plane and there's no-one near me. | 0:12:49 | 0:12:53 | |
"I look at my clothes and my clothes are covered with a colourful | 0:12:53 | 0:12:56 | |
"mixture of spit, snot, urine, vomit and blood. | 0:12:56 | 0:13:00 | |
"I reach for the call button and I find it and I push it | 0:13:00 | 0:13:03 | |
"and I wait, and 30 seconds later an attendant arrives. | 0:13:03 | 0:13:06 | |
"'How can I help you?' 'Where am I going?' 'You don't know?' 'No.'" | 0:13:06 | 0:13:10 | |
-Cos he's been in a blackout. -Total blackout. -Has it happened to you? | 0:13:10 | 0:13:14 | |
No, no, no. I'm far too much of a control freak. | 0:13:14 | 0:13:17 | |
I drank like a fish as a teenager and then into my 20s and 30s. | 0:13:17 | 0:13:21 | |
But there's no way I could get completely taken up with that | 0:13:21 | 0:13:26 | |
-sort of situation at all. -It had mixed reviews | 0:13:26 | 0:13:29 | |
because reviewers would say that it was annoying, he was en egotist, | 0:13:29 | 0:13:34 | |
he was bombastic, but actually the writing shone through on this book. | 0:13:34 | 0:13:38 | |
Yeah, the writing is extraordinary. Even in the negative reviews, | 0:13:38 | 0:13:42 | |
the one thing they can't deny is the fact that the guy can write. | 0:13:42 | 0:13:45 | |
-It's brilliantly written. -Sarah, you've moved on to a self-help book. | 0:13:45 | 0:13:50 | |
Because your husband has quite unexpectedly left you. | 0:13:50 | 0:13:54 | |
Yeah, leaving is always how they describe it in newspapers and things. | 0:13:54 | 0:13:58 | |
Really, we just sold the flat and then walked out of the door | 0:13:58 | 0:14:01 | |
and literally went in different directions. It's very "soap". | 0:14:01 | 0:14:06 | |
Yes, and it was just unexpected. | 0:14:06 | 0:14:08 | |
I thought we were happy and it came as quite a shock. | 0:14:08 | 0:14:11 | |
And I moved back in with my parents and my sister for | 0:14:11 | 0:14:15 | |
two and a half years at the age of 29, went back in my old bedroom. | 0:14:15 | 0:14:19 | |
And my dad even said, bless him, "Do you still want your old posters? | 0:14:19 | 0:14:23 | |
"I can get your old posters out, if you like." My posters of Philip Schofield, bless him! | 0:14:23 | 0:14:27 | |
-LAUGHTER -The book's called It's Your Life, What Are You Going to Do with It? | 0:14:27 | 0:14:32 | |
It says, "Coach yourself, make real changes in your life." | 0:14:32 | 0:14:36 | |
Anthony Grant and Jane Greene. | 0:14:36 | 0:14:40 | |
Unashamedly self-help, heroically self-help. | 0:14:40 | 0:14:43 | |
Quite aggressive as well. I think that's why it caught my eye. | 0:14:43 | 0:14:47 | |
It wasn't namby-pamby. I think I was probably looking for inspiration, just wandering round in a bookshop. | 0:14:47 | 0:14:53 | |
Sometimes when you don't go in for anything specific, you just browse. | 0:14:53 | 0:14:57 | |
-Where are we at this point? -In Newcastle. -OK. | 0:14:57 | 0:15:01 | |
And it caught my eye and I think if you finish a self-help book, | 0:15:01 | 0:15:05 | |
then it hasn't done its job. I don't think you should, cos some people read them | 0:15:05 | 0:15:09 | |
almost as a hobby and almost as a lifeline and don't actually | 0:15:09 | 0:15:12 | |
do the next stage of changing your life and it was only | 0:15:12 | 0:15:16 | |
when I found it...brought it out of my bookshelf, | 0:15:16 | 0:15:19 | |
-and it's got a little post-it note from where I stopped reading it. -What page was that? -Page 18. | 0:15:19 | 0:15:25 | |
I'm quite inspired. I'm going to get you to read from page 87. | 0:15:25 | 0:15:29 | |
Thank you. I did flick through cos these are the bits I used to like. | 0:15:29 | 0:15:33 | |
Rather than the exercises, I like the inspirational stories. | 0:15:33 | 0:15:36 | |
What are the exercises? These sort of exercises? | 0:15:36 | 0:15:39 | |
-Yeah, that's exactly what they are(!) -Yeah. | 0:15:39 | 0:15:42 | |
Does it look like I do any of those ever? No! | 0:15:42 | 0:15:45 | |
LAUGHTER Don't laugh at that. | 0:15:45 | 0:15:48 | |
"Angela became a professional actress at the age of 50. | 0:15:48 | 0:15:51 | |
"She managed to break into an overcrowded, insecure, | 0:15:51 | 0:15:54 | |
"uncertain profession long after most people would have even thought of it. | 0:15:54 | 0:15:58 | |
"At 49, she auditioned for the Royal Academy of Dramatic Art | 0:15:58 | 0:16:01 | |
"and with a little help from friends and acquaintances, she had her first professional job at 50. | 0:16:01 | 0:16:05 | |
"She went on to have a successful career on stage and television, | 0:16:05 | 0:16:09 | |
"appearing in London's West End with Alan Alda." | 0:16:09 | 0:16:12 | |
Yes. I know you probably need a heart of stone like mine, | 0:16:12 | 0:16:15 | |
-but it is a bit impossible to believe, don't you think? -Ugh. | 0:16:15 | 0:16:19 | |
It means I can become a neurosurgeon any day now. | 0:16:19 | 0:16:22 | |
It depends on whether you see it as "inspirational" and whether you're | 0:16:22 | 0:16:25 | |
glass half-empty or glass half-full, which I suspect you're the former. | 0:16:25 | 0:16:29 | |
This is about fulfilling dreams. | 0:16:29 | 0:16:31 | |
Yeah, it's about realising that you can do anything. | 0:16:31 | 0:16:35 | |
I did have those days when I got divorced of days when I felt like I could do nothing | 0:16:35 | 0:16:38 | |
and then I had days when I felt like I could do anything and I used to call those my She-Ra moments. | 0:16:38 | 0:16:43 | |
When I felt like if somebody said, "Climb that mountain," | 0:16:43 | 0:16:45 | |
I'd think, "I need a bit of training and I need the right shoes, but I'm sure I can manage it." | 0:16:45 | 0:16:49 | |
And it was on one of those days that I decided to start doing stand-up. | 0:16:49 | 0:16:53 | |
Let's have a look at the star. | 0:16:53 | 0:16:55 | |
I bought a woman's magazine recently cos on the cover it said that some female celebrities had put weight on | 0:16:55 | 0:17:00 | |
and that they were now curvaceous. I thought, "Good. I'll have a look and see just how curvaceous they are." | 0:17:00 | 0:17:05 | |
And I flicked through and the fattest woman in there, it said that she had "ballooned"... | 0:17:05 | 0:17:10 | |
I repeat, she had... | 0:17:10 | 0:17:12 | |
.."ballooned" to a size 12. | 0:17:13 | 0:17:16 | |
LAUGHTER | 0:17:16 | 0:17:18 | |
I'd give my right arm to be a size 12. My right arm might be a size 12! | 0:17:18 | 0:17:23 | |
LAUGHTER AND APPLAUSE | 0:17:23 | 0:17:27 | |
-Were you always funny as a child? -I was quite "performy" as a child. | 0:17:27 | 0:17:32 | |
While I was quiet at school, I was always sort of... When I got new shoes, | 0:17:32 | 0:17:36 | |
I used to tap-dance around the boiler cos there were tiles around the boiler at home | 0:17:36 | 0:17:39 | |
and I used to have to have a little go with new shoes on. | 0:17:39 | 0:17:42 | |
And I used to read poetry to my mam that I'd written but I was | 0:17:42 | 0:17:45 | |
so nervous of performing that I used to read from behind a curtain. | 0:17:45 | 0:17:49 | |
-Yeah. -They say that comedians can often be sad clowns. | 0:17:49 | 0:17:53 | |
Do you think there is a kind of contradiction | 0:17:53 | 0:17:56 | |
between one side of them and the other? | 0:17:56 | 0:17:58 | |
I don't know. I think generally comedians are outsiders. | 0:17:58 | 0:18:02 | |
I think they've always been observing life going on, | 0:18:02 | 0:18:05 | |
as opposed to being part of it. | 0:18:05 | 0:18:07 | |
Somebody said to me, once I started having a nicer life and I'd found | 0:18:07 | 0:18:10 | |
a nice man and my life was sort of on more of an even keel, | 0:18:10 | 0:18:13 | |
that I wouldn't be funny because I was only funny when I was miserable. | 0:18:13 | 0:18:17 | |
Thanks(!) But I think that's rubbish. I think it just depends on the kind of comedy that you do, | 0:18:17 | 0:18:22 | |
but I think there is a little bit of a sadness in a lot comics, but I don't think it's obligatory. | 0:18:22 | 0:18:26 | |
Larry, your next book, by the President of the US, no less, Audacity Of Hope. | 0:18:26 | 0:18:32 | |
-When did you first notice him? -I noticed him quite early on. | 0:18:32 | 0:18:37 | |
I think it was 2004 or thereabouts. | 0:18:37 | 0:18:40 | |
-And he'd written this book by then. -That was the second book. | 0:18:40 | 0:18:45 | |
-I read them in order. I read the first book... -Dreams From My Father. | 0:18:45 | 0:18:49 | |
Yeah, I read them back-to-back. Dreams From My Father, which takes you back into his past, | 0:18:49 | 0:18:55 | |
his rather sort of interesting, chequered past in Indonesia and in Kenya. | 0:18:55 | 0:18:59 | |
And his family, tracking down his family, | 0:18:59 | 0:19:02 | |
and going back into his life, which I found fascinating. | 0:19:02 | 0:19:06 | |
But so truthful, so candid, so honest. | 0:19:06 | 0:19:09 | |
And then eventually, he takes you on into his political career | 0:19:09 | 0:19:12 | |
and how it progressed and working in the public sphere, | 0:19:12 | 0:19:15 | |
working for people as a sort of an organiser, organising people | 0:19:15 | 0:19:20 | |
to better their situation in poorer areas of Chicago. | 0:19:20 | 0:19:24 | |
And his gradual rise. | 0:19:24 | 0:19:27 | |
But the thing is, he doesn't pretend that he's a perfect soul | 0:19:27 | 0:19:31 | |
the way so many of these politicians do. | 0:19:31 | 0:19:33 | |
They paint themselves as being...close enough to the | 0:19:33 | 0:19:37 | |
Messiah, you know? Cos we all know they're not. And he doesn't. | 0:19:37 | 0:19:41 | |
He goes as close as he can, and you know, | 0:19:41 | 0:19:43 | |
to being totally truthful about himself. | 0:19:43 | 0:19:46 | |
And then he takes you inside his relationship with his wife, | 0:19:46 | 0:19:50 | |
who I just feel instinctively is the power behind the throne. | 0:19:50 | 0:19:54 | |
She is fantastic, and quite different from any other president's | 0:19:54 | 0:19:58 | |
wife, in that she's incredibly clever. | 0:19:58 | 0:20:01 | |
She looks a million dollars, but she's quite happy to do | 0:20:01 | 0:20:05 | |
traditional things as the president's wife. | 0:20:05 | 0:20:08 | |
Well... | 0:20:08 | 0:20:10 | |
She's a real blue collar American girl that's made it herself and | 0:20:10 | 0:20:15 | |
then she runs into a guy who's going to become the president of the US. | 0:20:15 | 0:20:20 | |
She's a real success story, that woman. | 0:20:20 | 0:20:23 | |
But the lovely thing is that what you love is | 0:20:23 | 0:20:26 | |
the romanticism of their marriage. | 0:20:26 | 0:20:29 | |
What I love is the truth. The fact that he admits to it | 0:20:29 | 0:20:33 | |
and he makes you party to it, while guarding the privacy, as it were. | 0:20:33 | 0:20:38 | |
He's a very... Whatever else, he's some politician, | 0:20:38 | 0:20:42 | |
but he is an extraordinary writer. | 0:20:42 | 0:20:45 | |
Have you listened to this book on CD? | 0:20:45 | 0:20:49 | |
-He reads them himself, the books. -No, but I certainly shall. | 0:20:49 | 0:20:53 | |
-Would you like to hear? -I'd love to, yeah. He has a wonderful voice. | 0:20:53 | 0:20:57 | |
OK, he's now trying to date Michelle. | 0:20:57 | 0:21:00 | |
"After a firm picnic, she drove me back to my apartment. | 0:21:00 | 0:21:04 | |
"I offered to buy her an ice cream cone at the Baskin Robbins across the street. | 0:21:04 | 0:21:08 | |
"We sat on the kerb and ate our cones in the sticky afternoon heat. | 0:21:08 | 0:21:12 | |
"And I told her about working at Baskin Robbins when I was a teenager. | 0:21:12 | 0:21:15 | |
"And how it was hard to look cool with a brown apron and cap. | 0:21:15 | 0:21:19 | |
"She told me that for a span of two or three years as a child, | 0:21:19 | 0:21:22 | |
"she'd refused to eat anything except peanut butter and jelly. | 0:21:22 | 0:21:25 | |
"I said that I'd like to meet her family. | 0:21:25 | 0:21:28 | |
"She said that she would like that. | 0:21:28 | 0:21:31 | |
"I asked her if I could kiss her. | 0:21:31 | 0:21:33 | |
"It tasted of chocolate." | 0:21:33 | 0:21:36 | |
-Oh, wow! -Lovely. -Oh, wow! | 0:21:36 | 0:21:39 | |
Sarah, you actually spent some time producing audio books like that. | 0:21:39 | 0:21:43 | |
Yes, I worked in the studio for a couple of years | 0:21:43 | 0:21:46 | |
and it was like being five years old cos you just got read to every day. It was wonderful. | 0:21:46 | 0:21:51 | |
And I read a lot of Mills and Boon, which wasn't always good. | 0:21:51 | 0:21:54 | |
LAUGHTER | 0:21:54 | 0:21:56 | |
-Yeah. -Does the trick. -Well, yeah, but they look really romantic. | 0:21:56 | 0:22:00 | |
My favourite title ever was Once Upon A Mattress. | 0:22:00 | 0:22:03 | |
It sounded like it was going to be really romantic and then just turned into pure filth. | 0:22:03 | 0:22:07 | |
But, yes, it was a great job. I really enjoyed the job. | 0:22:07 | 0:22:10 | |
And it's prompted your next choice, which is | 0:22:10 | 0:22:13 | |
The Weeping Tree by Audrey Reimann. | 0:22:13 | 0:22:15 | |
It's described as a heart-warming Scottish saga. Is this a deep book? | 0:22:15 | 0:22:21 | |
Er... | 0:22:21 | 0:22:23 | |
You're so judgemental, Anne. It's a lovely book. | 0:22:23 | 0:22:26 | |
We did a lot of pot-boilers in the studio. | 0:22:26 | 0:22:29 | |
It was your Catherine Cookson, that type of thing. And this was one of them. | 0:22:29 | 0:22:33 | |
This was the only book, I worked there for two years, and the only | 0:22:33 | 0:22:36 | |
book that I asked at the end of the recording if I could keep the book | 0:22:36 | 0:22:40 | |
-because I loved it so much. -The story was...? | 0:22:40 | 0:22:43 | |
It's just a very simple story of a couple who fall in love | 0:22:43 | 0:22:46 | |
and consummate their relationship underneath a weeping willow and he goes off to war. | 0:22:46 | 0:22:50 | |
And the whole story is what happens to her, what happens to him and whether he'll come back. | 0:22:50 | 0:22:54 | |
And the fact that she's actually given birth to his child while he's away. | 0:22:54 | 0:22:58 | |
-Are they married? -Er...no. -Oh. They had... -Ooh, judgey! | 0:22:58 | 0:23:03 | |
LAUGHTER There was a point in the recording | 0:23:03 | 0:23:06 | |
when the actress couldn't continue because her eyes just welled up. | 0:23:06 | 0:23:10 | |
We got really quite emotional, the two of us, and we had to stop recording for about half an hour. | 0:23:10 | 0:23:14 | |
We were both in such a state. I love being sucked in by a book like that. | 0:23:14 | 0:23:18 | |
Could you read a little without crying? Actually, you could cry if you wanted to. | 0:23:18 | 0:23:22 | |
-That'd be better for the telly programme for you. -Yeah, yeah. | 0:23:22 | 0:23:25 | |
Let's see if I can work up some tears for you, pet. | 0:23:25 | 0:23:29 | |
"The sky above him was cobalt blue now | 0:23:29 | 0:23:32 | |
"and he saw through his teary, misty eyes the clouds ablaze, copper | 0:23:32 | 0:23:36 | |
"and bronze and flaming red behind the distant dusky hills of Fife. | 0:23:36 | 0:23:40 | |
"And as a great lump came into his throat, | 0:23:40 | 0:23:43 | |
"his feelings turned from humility to desperation. | 0:23:43 | 0:23:45 | |
"He would not rest until he discovered the truth of what had | 0:23:45 | 0:23:48 | |
"gone on at Ingerlsey in 1940. He would not rest until he saw | 0:23:48 | 0:23:52 | |
"and touched his own child who was conceived under the weeping tree." | 0:23:52 | 0:23:57 | |
"He would not rest..." I'm fine! I'm fine! | 0:23:57 | 0:24:00 | |
I think it's lovely. It's the same as being made to laugh. | 0:24:00 | 0:24:03 | |
Anything that... Words that somebody's just put on a bit of paper | 0:24:03 | 0:24:07 | |
can bring out these emotions. I think it's wonderful. | 0:24:07 | 0:24:10 | |
OK, we've had childhood books, | 0:24:10 | 0:24:12 | |
we've had ones you've enjoyed as adults and ones that have | 0:24:12 | 0:24:15 | |
influenced your life. Let's end with a guilty pleasure. | 0:24:15 | 0:24:18 | |
This is the airport buy, the beach read. Sarah, what is it for you? | 0:24:18 | 0:24:22 | |
It's not so much a beach read, it's just something that I read as an adult that | 0:24:22 | 0:24:26 | |
-I should've read as a child. Judy Blume's Forever. -Yes, it's a teenage book. | 0:24:26 | 0:24:30 | |
It is a teenage book and it's known as "the rude one". | 0:24:30 | 0:24:33 | |
I read all of Judy Blume's other books and loved them, | 0:24:33 | 0:24:36 | |
and then I'd heard about Forever and hadn't read it but my mam had | 0:24:36 | 0:24:39 | |
heard that it was rude, so she banned me from having it - rightly so. | 0:24:39 | 0:24:42 | |
So I never got to read it. | 0:24:42 | 0:24:44 | |
And then I was having a chat with my friend when I was sort of late 20s | 0:24:44 | 0:24:49 | |
and she hadn't been allowed to read it either, so for our | 0:24:49 | 0:24:53 | |
30th birthdays, I bought us both a copy of Judy Blume's Forever. | 0:24:53 | 0:24:57 | |
-It's not really that bad. I was quite disappointed. -What's it about? | 0:24:57 | 0:25:00 | |
It's just about a young couple, teenagers falling in love. | 0:25:00 | 0:25:04 | |
-But there are, you know, some rude bits in it. -What kind of rude bits? | 0:25:04 | 0:25:08 | |
Ooh... | 0:25:08 | 0:25:10 | |
Er, he does refer to his member as Ralf, which seemed an odd name | 0:25:10 | 0:25:14 | |
to me, cos Ralf, it certainly doesn't make me all hot and bothered. | 0:25:14 | 0:25:17 | |
LAUGHTER | 0:25:17 | 0:25:19 | |
Apologies to any Ralfs in the audience. | 0:25:19 | 0:25:22 | |
She has the distinction of being a bestselling writer | 0:25:22 | 0:25:27 | |
and plus being one that's banned in parts of America as well. | 0:25:27 | 0:25:31 | |
It is a book about birth control as well. | 0:25:31 | 0:25:34 | |
Yes, I did pick up on those things. It wasn't just cos I didn't read the book. | 0:25:34 | 0:25:39 | |
It didn't mean I didn't know about any of those things until I was 30. | 0:25:39 | 0:25:43 | |
Whatever you say, Sarah. | 0:25:43 | 0:25:44 | |
SHE LAUGHS | 0:25:44 | 0:25:46 | |
Your guilty pleasure, Larry, is... | 0:25:46 | 0:25:49 | |
The Times Reference Atlas Of The World. | 0:25:49 | 0:25:54 | |
-Yeah. -You're such a boy! -That's almost travelable, that thing. | 0:25:54 | 0:25:58 | |
Mine's enormous! It's like this. | 0:25:58 | 0:26:00 | |
It weighs about, I don't know, probably 15 pounds. | 0:26:00 | 0:26:02 | |
Just show us, Larry... | 0:26:02 | 0:26:05 | |
-You read... -Read from it a bit! | 0:26:05 | 0:26:08 | |
You just open something, and here we are - we're in Thailand. | 0:26:08 | 0:26:13 | |
-Yes. -I've never been to Thailand. | 0:26:13 | 0:26:16 | |
I'm sussing out the shape of Thailand, where it runs | 0:26:16 | 0:26:19 | |
and how long it goes down towards... And there we are, it borders | 0:26:19 | 0:26:22 | |
with Malaysia and now we're running down the coast... | 0:26:22 | 0:26:25 | |
-ANNE LAUGHS -..of all these wonderful places. | 0:26:25 | 0:26:29 | |
And whole areas where there are no roads. | 0:26:29 | 0:26:32 | |
There's a whole section here, | 0:26:32 | 0:26:34 | |
the whole side of this peninsula that's actually Burma. | 0:26:34 | 0:26:39 | |
And I thought Burma was basically one big lump. | 0:26:39 | 0:26:42 | |
And there's a huge long strip of it runs down the side of Thailand. | 0:26:42 | 0:26:47 | |
-So you haven't got to that page yet? -I... | 0:26:47 | 0:26:50 | |
SARAH LAUGHS | 0:26:50 | 0:26:51 | |
This is what it is, it's like... | 0:26:51 | 0:26:54 | |
I've worked in almost every... | 0:26:54 | 0:26:57 | |
In every continent. I've worked in every country in Europe, | 0:26:57 | 0:27:00 | |
I've worked in Asia, America. | 0:27:00 | 0:27:02 | |
Do you share this guilty pleasure with anyone? | 0:27:02 | 0:27:05 | |
A lot of people are hooked on maps. | 0:27:05 | 0:27:07 | |
-Are they? -Yeah. Yeah, a lot of people are hooked on maps. | 0:27:07 | 0:27:11 | |
What would you say, Sarah, now that | 0:27:11 | 0:27:13 | |
we've seen your choice of books? What do they say about you? | 0:27:13 | 0:27:17 | |
I think I'm driven by emotion cos yours read sort of like... | 0:27:17 | 0:27:22 | |
Almost like a university reading list. | 0:27:22 | 0:27:25 | |
It's very impressive. Mine are... | 0:27:25 | 0:27:28 | |
There's self-help and children's books and books that I've cried at. | 0:27:28 | 0:27:31 | |
I think I am driven incredibly by emotion, so if anything has | 0:27:31 | 0:27:34 | |
made me cry or made me laugh, that's what's going to stick in my brain. | 0:27:34 | 0:27:38 | |
What do you think your choice of books says about you, Larry? | 0:27:38 | 0:27:41 | |
I think you've hit it right on the nail. It's an education. | 0:27:41 | 0:27:44 | |
What I've read is what's educated me. | 0:27:44 | 0:27:47 | |
And if you had to choose one book to recommend of the five | 0:27:47 | 0:27:51 | |
-you've chosen, Sarah, what would yours be? -Um... | 0:27:51 | 0:27:55 | |
I think it would probably be the self-help book, which | 0:27:55 | 0:27:58 | |
sounds really cheesy, but I think I really like being inspired. | 0:27:58 | 0:28:02 | |
And even though I changed my life and now I've got a really nice life, | 0:28:02 | 0:28:07 | |
I think you can always make it a little bit better. | 0:28:07 | 0:28:09 | |
Larry? What would you recommend of your choices? | 0:28:09 | 0:28:12 | |
-I think I would recommend Barack Obama's books... -Yeah. | 0:28:12 | 0:28:17 | |
..because they are just an indication that there's at least | 0:28:17 | 0:28:21 | |
one person out there that wants to get everything put right. | 0:28:21 | 0:28:24 | |
Whether he gets the chance to do it is another kettle of fish. | 0:28:24 | 0:28:28 | |
Larry Lamb, Sarah Millican, | 0:28:28 | 0:28:30 | |
thank you for joining me for My Life In Books. | 0:28:30 | 0:28:34 | |
And just to remind you, | 0:28:34 | 0:28:35 | |
there's more about the books programme on the website: | 0:28:35 | 0:28:40 | |
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