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Northern Ireland is one of the friendliest places in the UK. | 0:00:02 | 0:00:04 | |
And that is official. | 0:00:04 | 0:00:06 | |
But in this series, I'm going to be pushing that friendliness right | 0:00:06 | 0:00:08 | |
to the very limit, to see if Northern Ireland can be friends | 0:00:08 | 0:00:12 | |
with my old pal, Adrian Chiles. | 0:00:12 | 0:00:14 | |
Let's just say, so far it's been a bit of a titanic challenge. | 0:00:14 | 0:00:18 | |
Whether it has been in the city... | 0:00:20 | 0:00:22 | |
-This is Adrian Chiles, ladies. -Hi. How are you doing? | 0:00:22 | 0:00:25 | |
Oh, Adrian Chiles, the miserable one! | 0:00:25 | 0:00:27 | |
LAUGHTER | 0:00:27 | 0:00:29 | |
..or out in the countryside... | 0:00:29 | 0:00:30 | |
Oh, caught it! You did catch it. | 0:00:30 | 0:00:32 | |
Oh! | 0:00:34 | 0:00:35 | |
He even struggled on the coast. | 0:00:37 | 0:00:40 | |
-Am I sticking out here or blending in? -No, you're blending in. Yeah. | 0:00:40 | 0:00:43 | |
Sure we're all different. | 0:00:43 | 0:00:45 | |
LAUGHTER | 0:00:45 | 0:00:48 | |
In many ways up to now, this has been a bit of a journey looking at | 0:00:48 | 0:00:52 | |
contemporary and traditional friendships here | 0:00:52 | 0:00:54 | |
in Northern Ireland. | 0:00:54 | 0:00:56 | |
But today, we're going to go into the future. | 0:00:56 | 0:00:59 | |
I just hope Adrian is ready. | 0:00:59 | 0:01:02 | |
Oh, my goodness. | 0:01:02 | 0:01:04 | |
MUSIC: Back To The Future Theme | 0:01:04 | 0:01:09 | |
-Come on, Christine. -HE COUGHS | 0:01:09 | 0:01:11 | |
In you get. We're going for a drive. | 0:01:13 | 0:01:15 | |
So, I have to ask you, why are we sitting in a DeLorean? | 0:01:30 | 0:01:34 | |
I'll tell you why. Because you said it was about the future. | 0:01:34 | 0:01:37 | |
This goes Back To The Future, made in Northern Ireland. | 0:01:37 | 0:01:39 | |
-I thought it was a good idea. -There was a lot of thought went into that. | 0:01:39 | 0:01:42 | |
But you're wrong. That's not what I meant. I was talking about the future of friendship, | 0:01:42 | 0:01:45 | |
and how young people are now friends with people they've met online, | 0:01:45 | 0:01:49 | |
through social media, that's the sort of thing I was getting at. | 0:01:49 | 0:01:51 | |
OK, but I'm not sure I believe in all of that. | 0:01:51 | 0:01:54 | |
I don't do social media, but, I don't know, | 0:01:54 | 0:01:56 | |
I just think if you've got a friend who you know, you meet, | 0:01:56 | 0:01:59 | |
you spend time with, that's one thing. | 0:01:59 | 0:02:01 | |
A friend over social media that you don't meet strikes me as being a bit | 0:02:01 | 0:02:05 | |
-different. But what do I do? I don't know it. Christine, educate me. -OK. | 0:02:05 | 0:02:09 | |
Tell me something else. How do you get out of a car like this? | 0:02:09 | 0:02:12 | |
At my age, you just can't get out. | 0:02:12 | 0:02:13 | |
What do you do? | 0:02:13 | 0:02:15 | |
Let's try. | 0:02:16 | 0:02:17 | |
It was patently obvious the only kind of posts Chiles had made | 0:02:29 | 0:02:33 | |
involved a pen and paper. | 0:02:33 | 0:02:35 | |
It was time to get him logged onto the benefits of social media. | 0:02:35 | 0:02:39 | |
And as usual, Northern Ireland has a leading light in this very world. | 0:02:39 | 0:02:44 | |
Hey, guys. So today, I'm going to do a video for you guys, | 0:02:44 | 0:02:47 | |
basically showing you my everyday make-up routine. | 0:02:47 | 0:02:50 | |
16-year-old Sophie has amassed a substantial following on YouTube, | 0:02:50 | 0:02:54 | |
where people can watch her beauty videos and interact with her. | 0:02:54 | 0:02:58 | |
Remember to like, comment and subscribe. | 0:02:58 | 0:03:00 | |
Tell me what you guys want to see | 0:03:00 | 0:03:02 | |
and, yeah, I'll be back with more videos soon. Bye! | 0:03:02 | 0:03:05 | |
My friend Adrian, unfortunately, | 0:03:05 | 0:03:06 | |
just doesn't get the social media thing at all. | 0:03:06 | 0:03:08 | |
Doesn't get how people become friends, doesn't understand it, OK? | 0:03:08 | 0:03:12 | |
I've got some elementary knowledge. I know there are different things. | 0:03:12 | 0:03:15 | |
I got a vague understanding of what Instagram is. | 0:03:15 | 0:03:17 | |
How many Instagram thingies have you got? | 0:03:17 | 0:03:19 | |
I have 727,000 Instagram followers. | 0:03:19 | 0:03:23 | |
Right. That's nearly three-quarters of a million. That's a lot. | 0:03:23 | 0:03:26 | |
How many people watch your YouTube channel? | 0:03:28 | 0:03:31 | |
I've got over 300,000 actual subscribers on it, | 0:03:31 | 0:03:34 | |
but some of my videos have got up to a million views. So... | 0:03:34 | 0:03:39 | |
OK. | 0:03:39 | 0:03:40 | |
What percentage of them might you describe as friends? | 0:03:40 | 0:03:43 | |
Do they feel like friends? | 0:03:43 | 0:03:44 | |
I try and talk to them as much as possible, | 0:03:44 | 0:03:47 | |
like private message them on Instagram. | 0:03:47 | 0:03:49 | |
I try to take away that barrier so that the people who do follow me, | 0:03:49 | 0:03:54 | |
I am quite friendly and I try and make more of a friendship thing. | 0:03:54 | 0:03:58 | |
My best friend actually messaged me on Twitter saying, | 0:03:58 | 0:04:00 | |
"Hey, where's your dress from, it's really nice?" | 0:04:00 | 0:04:03 | |
And for something to kind of start off with just like a little message, | 0:04:03 | 0:04:07 | |
and she's been my best friend now for like three years. | 0:04:07 | 0:04:10 | |
-And where is she? -In Sydenham. It's not that far. | 0:04:10 | 0:04:12 | |
So it gains you friends, or you have online relationships with people. | 0:04:12 | 0:04:17 | |
-Does it lose you friends as well? -A lot of the people that I even like thought were friends, | 0:04:17 | 0:04:21 | |
as soon as I started doing this, it was like, | 0:04:21 | 0:04:24 | |
they didn't want nothing to do with me while I was kind of doing the | 0:04:24 | 0:04:28 | |
online thing. It was crazy in school. | 0:04:28 | 0:04:29 | |
Like, I got bullied in school for what I was doing. | 0:04:29 | 0:04:32 | |
People just didn't like the idea of someone doing something different. | 0:04:32 | 0:04:35 | |
So, I definitely lost what I thought were friends, | 0:04:35 | 0:04:38 | |
but then gained friends who really do support me in what I'm doing. | 0:04:38 | 0:04:41 | |
What about if somebody in San Diego says, "Your hair looks rubbish," | 0:04:41 | 0:04:44 | |
or something, does that upset you? | 0:04:44 | 0:04:46 | |
For me, not really. | 0:04:46 | 0:04:48 | |
Maybe in the beginning when it was | 0:04:48 | 0:04:51 | |
less people. Now it's kind of like... | 0:04:51 | 0:04:54 | |
-You know. -If that happens, just get me their address | 0:04:54 | 0:04:57 | |
and I'll Facetime them. | 0:04:57 | 0:05:01 | |
Isn't it interesting, when I think back to school days, | 0:05:01 | 0:05:03 | |
and I'm sure you are the same, where you had one, two, three, four, | 0:05:03 | 0:05:06 | |
five maybe close mates. | 0:05:06 | 0:05:08 | |
Young people are now looking at their followers on social media, | 0:05:08 | 0:05:12 | |
and that therefore allows people to see how popular you are. | 0:05:12 | 0:05:16 | |
You are used to having one or two friends. | 0:05:16 | 0:05:18 | |
It's now like friendship groups, you call them. | 0:05:18 | 0:05:21 | |
I'm in the popular friendship group. | 0:05:21 | 0:05:23 | |
But just about! I'm like the least important one from that group. | 0:05:23 | 0:05:28 | |
-That's kind of the way it works now. -We'd love to see what you do. | 0:05:28 | 0:05:32 | |
I have no idea how you put this all together. | 0:05:32 | 0:05:33 | |
So can I be a little bystander? | 0:05:33 | 0:05:36 | |
Yeah, I do most of my stuff in my room, | 0:05:36 | 0:05:38 | |
so if you want to come up to my room, we can see what I get up to. | 0:05:38 | 0:05:42 | |
OK. Very exciting. | 0:05:42 | 0:05:43 | |
Excellent. I suggest you sit here. | 0:05:43 | 0:05:45 | |
-I'm not invited? -I don't think you should be. | 0:05:45 | 0:05:47 | |
How am I going to know what's happening? | 0:05:47 | 0:05:49 | |
There's an iPad, you can watch it like the millions of others. | 0:05:49 | 0:05:52 | |
-Do you know how to work the iPad? -CHRISTINE LAUGHS | 0:05:52 | 0:05:55 | |
Yes, I do know to work an iPad! | 0:05:55 | 0:05:56 | |
Can I just say? See how much of a star she is. | 0:05:56 | 0:05:58 | |
-She's got an iPad to match her jumper. -Thank you. -That's class. | 0:05:58 | 0:06:02 | |
SHE LAUGHS Take it away. | 0:06:02 | 0:06:04 | |
I'll follow you, my dear. Very exciting, yes. | 0:06:04 | 0:06:06 | |
I'll sit here in a stranger's house with a yellow iPad. | 0:06:06 | 0:06:08 | |
This is 21st century. | 0:06:08 | 0:06:10 | |
It was showtime. | 0:06:10 | 0:06:12 | |
So Sophia, I and our crew relocated to Sophia's studio, or bedroom, | 0:06:12 | 0:06:18 | |
as it's commonly known. | 0:06:18 | 0:06:19 | |
Adrian, meanwhile, watched the show go out online | 0:06:19 | 0:06:22 | |
after a slight hiccup. | 0:06:22 | 0:06:24 | |
What do I do about that? | 0:06:24 | 0:06:26 | |
Yeah, so this is like Instagram live. | 0:06:26 | 0:06:29 | |
So, basically, you just go live and people can like ask you questions. | 0:06:29 | 0:06:32 | |
And I can see people logging on already there. | 0:06:32 | 0:06:36 | |
Already we have 954 people in here. | 0:06:36 | 0:06:39 | |
-Just already. -That's incredible. | 0:06:39 | 0:06:41 | |
Look at all these. Look. | 0:06:41 | 0:06:43 | |
I've been on about 30 seconds. | 0:06:43 | 0:06:45 | |
"You're gorg"? Oh, gorge. | 0:06:46 | 0:06:49 | |
It's such a great way of interacting straightaway to everyone that's | 0:06:49 | 0:06:52 | |
really intrigued by what you do, and your life. | 0:06:52 | 0:06:54 | |
"Love Latino women, like the one in the yellow top." | 0:06:54 | 0:06:57 | |
She's from flipping Newtownards! | 0:06:57 | 0:06:59 | |
I like to try to be as close as possible to the people | 0:06:59 | 0:07:01 | |
-that follow me. -I thought there'd be more questions on here. | 0:07:01 | 0:07:04 | |
It's just saying how much they love her and how beautiful she is. | 0:07:04 | 0:07:07 | |
I have got a few questions for you, my dear. | 0:07:07 | 0:07:10 | |
This is our quickfire round, everybody. | 0:07:10 | 0:07:12 | |
What quality do you most admire in a friend? | 0:07:12 | 0:07:15 | |
I feel as if there are a lot of qualities you're going to want in a friend... | 0:07:15 | 0:07:19 | |
Somebody called carollajnkisskiss - "Have you ever been to Poland?" | 0:07:19 | 0:07:24 | |
Well, I have. Can I join in? | 0:07:25 | 0:07:27 | |
I've been to Poland. "Hi, you don't know me..." | 0:07:27 | 0:07:30 | |
If one pop star could be your best friend, who would it be? | 0:07:30 | 0:07:34 | |
If I could have a best friend, dead or living, | 0:07:34 | 0:07:36 | |
my best friend would be Kurt Cobain. | 0:07:36 | 0:07:38 | |
-Really? -I would bring him back and he would be my best like boyfriend. | 0:07:38 | 0:07:42 | |
-Definitely. -That is very interesting. | 0:07:42 | 0:07:44 | |
Right, OK, finally, what advice | 0:07:44 | 0:07:48 | |
would you give to this man to make more friends? | 0:07:48 | 0:07:53 | |
And please check out the tie, everybody. | 0:07:53 | 0:07:56 | |
Oh, God! I can't watch this. I didn't know about this. | 0:07:56 | 0:07:59 | |
No. Switch it off. | 0:07:59 | 0:08:01 | |
Maybe just look a bit more friendly! | 0:08:02 | 0:08:06 | |
Oh, God, it's stressful. | 0:08:07 | 0:08:09 | |
Social media frightens me. | 0:08:13 | 0:08:15 | |
The sight of his younger, happier-looking self may | 0:08:20 | 0:08:22 | |
have scared him, but had my Luddite pal become even slightly switched | 0:08:22 | 0:08:26 | |
on to the benefits of social media? | 0:08:26 | 0:08:29 | |
So, Adrian, what did you think of Sophia? | 0:08:29 | 0:08:32 | |
I thought Sophia was just remarkably intelligent | 0:08:32 | 0:08:35 | |
and nice and seemed quite centred. | 0:08:35 | 0:08:38 | |
I suppose my worry would be, somebody that young, | 0:08:38 | 0:08:40 | |
a million followers, great. | 0:08:40 | 0:08:42 | |
But, you know, things can go the other way. | 0:08:42 | 0:08:44 | |
You can stop being flavour of the month. | 0:08:44 | 0:08:46 | |
I must say, I'm not quite sure | 0:08:46 | 0:08:48 | |
I understood the point of the Instagram broadcast, | 0:08:48 | 0:08:50 | |
in terms of the stuff coming in was sort of content... | 0:08:50 | 0:08:53 | |
It was either, "You're beautiful, I love you," | 0:08:53 | 0:08:56 | |
"Who's the other woman?" | 0:08:56 | 0:08:58 | |
And then some stuff in Spanish. | 0:08:58 | 0:08:59 | |
And then some obscenities. | 0:08:59 | 0:09:01 | |
I didn't see what it added to the sum of human knowledge. | 0:09:01 | 0:09:04 | |
It allows people at home to feel like they get to know her. | 0:09:04 | 0:09:07 | |
That she is their friend, actually, | 0:09:07 | 0:09:09 | |
because she's talking directly on their level, that's all. | 0:09:09 | 0:09:12 | |
-Right, OK. -Yeah. | 0:09:12 | 0:09:14 | |
I'm slightly bewildered. But generally impressed. | 0:09:14 | 0:09:17 | |
-Good. -Let's sum it up like that. Where is next? -OK. | 0:09:17 | 0:09:19 | |
-You know what, don't you worry about it! -OK. -Yeah. -I'll just follow you. | 0:09:19 | 0:09:22 | |
It's easier like that. | 0:09:22 | 0:09:23 | |
After his brief foray into the virtual world of social media, | 0:09:29 | 0:09:33 | |
I sensed Adrian needed some reassurance about friendships' future. | 0:09:33 | 0:09:37 | |
So I'd arranged to get the thoughts of the next generation on the matter | 0:09:37 | 0:09:40 | |
at a rather appropriately named location. | 0:09:40 | 0:09:44 | |
Friends' School in Lisburn, where a special class of mates, | 0:09:44 | 0:09:47 | |
chums and pals had been assembled to meet us. | 0:09:47 | 0:09:51 | |
Hello, everybody. How are we all? | 0:09:51 | 0:09:52 | |
All good? Yes. | 0:09:52 | 0:09:54 | |
Look at those big, happy, smiley faces. | 0:09:54 | 0:09:56 | |
Right now, boys and girls, | 0:09:56 | 0:09:58 | |
I am here today because I want to talk about friendship. | 0:09:58 | 0:10:02 | |
Who has got a best friend in here? | 0:10:02 | 0:10:04 | |
-MANY CHILDREN: -Me! -Ooh, that's lovely. | 0:10:04 | 0:10:06 | |
All the hands go up. Very, very nice. | 0:10:06 | 0:10:08 | |
Well, I've come along today with a very best mate... | 0:10:08 | 0:10:12 | |
Well, I wouldn't really say best mate. | 0:10:12 | 0:10:14 | |
-His name is Adrian. ALL: -Hello, Adrian. | 0:10:14 | 0:10:19 | |
Oh, that's such a lovely feeling. I want to be a teacher. | 0:10:19 | 0:10:23 | |
Now he can be a little bit grumpy. | 0:10:23 | 0:10:26 | |
LAUGHTER I'm not going to lie. | 0:10:26 | 0:10:29 | |
Can you do a little grumpy face for me? Oh, you must admit Adrian before. | 0:10:29 | 0:10:31 | |
That looked very, very like him. | 0:10:31 | 0:10:33 | |
That's brilliant down at the back there, look! | 0:10:33 | 0:10:36 | |
Well anyway, I want to prove to Adrian today, boys and girls, | 0:10:37 | 0:10:41 | |
just how friendly we all are, just how friendly you all are. | 0:10:41 | 0:10:44 | |
Is that OK? Can I get a big cheer for being friends? | 0:10:44 | 0:10:47 | |
-Yes? ALL: -Yeah! -Right, what I wanted to do, | 0:10:47 | 0:10:51 | |
when I go, "Go", go and find your best friend. | 0:10:51 | 0:10:54 | |
OK? One, two... | 0:10:54 | 0:10:56 | |
Hang on, hang on, hang on! | 0:10:56 | 0:10:58 | |
You two can't wait to hug each other. | 0:10:58 | 0:11:00 | |
Just wait a second. One, two, three, friends, go! | 0:11:00 | 0:11:04 | |
After partnering up with their pals, | 0:11:08 | 0:11:10 | |
it was time to get our classmates' views on friendship. | 0:11:10 | 0:11:14 | |
Why is she your friend? | 0:11:14 | 0:11:16 | |
Because we both laugh together. | 0:11:16 | 0:11:19 | |
What sort of things do you look for in a friend? | 0:11:19 | 0:11:21 | |
Friendly, kind and helpful. | 0:11:21 | 0:11:23 | |
And how long have you been friends? | 0:11:23 | 0:11:25 | |
-Four years. -Four?! You're only six! | 0:11:25 | 0:11:29 | |
Seven! | 0:11:29 | 0:11:30 | |
When you're really old ladies, like Christine, | 0:11:30 | 0:11:34 | |
-do you think you'll still be friends? -Yeah. | 0:11:34 | 0:11:37 | |
When you three are as old as me and your hair is my colour... | 0:11:37 | 0:11:40 | |
-Yeah... -We can dye it! | 0:11:41 | 0:11:43 | |
You'd dye it?! | 0:11:43 | 0:11:45 | |
It's so bad, is it, I should dye it? | 0:11:45 | 0:11:47 | |
-Will you three still be friends, do you think? -ALL: -Yeah. | 0:11:47 | 0:11:50 | |
-Friends forever. -Friends forever. | 0:11:50 | 0:11:52 | |
Everyone was keen to stay friends for life, | 0:11:52 | 0:11:54 | |
and in one case, beyond. | 0:11:54 | 0:11:55 | |
Are you going to be friends for all your life? | 0:11:55 | 0:11:57 | |
-BOTH: -Yeah. -Even when I die, I'm going to be buried with... | 0:11:57 | 0:12:00 | |
Oh, that's a dark note. | 0:12:00 | 0:12:02 | |
And that wasn't the only theme on which they were united. | 0:12:02 | 0:12:04 | |
Do you think boys can be friends with girls? | 0:12:04 | 0:12:07 | |
-No. -No. | 0:12:07 | 0:12:09 | |
You see, you say that now. | 0:12:09 | 0:12:11 | |
-BOTH: -No. -They fart all the time. | 0:12:11 | 0:12:13 | |
They fart all the time? | 0:12:13 | 0:12:16 | |
Well, Lily and Rory are friends. | 0:12:17 | 0:12:20 | |
No, she likes me, I do not like her. | 0:12:20 | 0:12:23 | |
-Controversial! -No. | 0:12:23 | 0:12:25 | |
-Why is that? KID SHOUTS: -Because they stink. | 0:12:26 | 0:12:30 | |
-They stink? -Yeah. Even you. | 0:12:30 | 0:12:32 | |
LAUGHTER | 0:12:32 | 0:12:35 | |
I thought we were friends. | 0:12:35 | 0:12:37 | |
My dog is my best friend, I have to say. | 0:12:37 | 0:12:41 | |
-What about your dog - is your dog one of your best friends? -Yeah. -Why? -Then them. | 0:12:41 | 0:12:44 | |
-Do you give it lots of cuddles? -Yeah. -Do you walk him? -Yeah. | 0:12:44 | 0:12:47 | |
It's a girl, is it? You see, you can be friends with girls. | 0:12:47 | 0:12:51 | |
-Only a dog! -LAUGHTER | 0:12:51 | 0:12:54 | |
It was all heart-warming stuff, | 0:12:54 | 0:12:56 | |
but Adrian couldn't help but bring up the subject of disagreements. | 0:12:56 | 0:13:00 | |
Evie, do you two ever have arguments? | 0:13:00 | 0:13:03 | |
-Sometimes. -Hang on, I wasn't talking to you. Wait a second. | 0:13:03 | 0:13:07 | |
Tilly, just pipe down a little bit. | 0:13:07 | 0:13:09 | |
-Evie? -Sometimes. -Do you? What do you have arguments about? | 0:13:09 | 0:13:13 | |
For who's being the mum in mums and dads. | 0:13:13 | 0:13:18 | |
Who wants to be a dad? | 0:13:18 | 0:13:20 | |
And he even felt it necessary to try and start one. | 0:13:20 | 0:13:23 | |
Even though you're best friends, I bet I can make you have an argument. | 0:13:23 | 0:13:27 | |
-No. -Are you ready? | 0:13:27 | 0:13:28 | |
OK, who's the best footballer of the three of you? | 0:13:28 | 0:13:30 | |
-We're all the same. -No, you can't... That's a copout. | 0:13:30 | 0:13:33 | |
Who's the best? | 0:13:33 | 0:13:34 | |
Oh, you think you're... He's saying he's the best. | 0:13:36 | 0:13:39 | |
-Me second, he's third. -No, I'm not! | 0:13:39 | 0:13:42 | |
You see, told you. Argument. I've got something important to ask you. | 0:13:42 | 0:13:44 | |
What? | 0:13:44 | 0:13:46 | |
I would like to be your friend. | 0:13:46 | 0:13:49 | |
OK. | 0:13:49 | 0:13:50 | |
What is your answer? I can't bear to listen to this. | 0:13:52 | 0:13:54 | |
-Yes. -Yeah! | 0:13:54 | 0:13:55 | |
And with that... BELL DINGS | 0:13:55 | 0:13:57 | |
..the bell for break time went. | 0:13:57 | 0:13:59 | |
The children headed out to play one of their favourite games and we | 0:13:59 | 0:14:02 | |
decided to join in. | 0:14:02 | 0:14:04 | |
You can cross the Red Sea if... | 0:14:05 | 0:14:08 | |
..you wear glasses. | 0:14:08 | 0:14:10 | |
You're mine, you're mine, you're mine! | 0:14:16 | 0:14:18 | |
Until it all got a bit much for Adrian and he tried to escape. | 0:14:23 | 0:14:27 | |
Sometimes you can have too many friends, I guess. | 0:14:27 | 0:14:30 | |
THEY SPEAK INAUDIBLY | 0:14:43 | 0:14:45 | |
It was time to blind the usually bewildered child, sorry, | 0:14:55 | 0:14:58 | |
Chiles with an disputable scientific proof of our friendliness. | 0:14:58 | 0:15:04 | |
I need you to pay attention now, you see, OK? | 0:15:04 | 0:15:06 | |
I brought you to the psychology department of Queens University. | 0:15:06 | 0:15:09 | |
-Right, looks good. -Very nice place, yes. | 0:15:09 | 0:15:11 | |
Apparently, there is a science behind friendship. | 0:15:11 | 0:15:14 | |
-Never! -Yeah. -And do they know what it is here? -Well, yeah, I think they do. | 0:15:14 | 0:15:17 | |
I'm going to prove it to you. But I need you to look the part. | 0:15:17 | 0:15:19 | |
-Thank you very much. -What are we channelling here, some 1970s university? | 0:15:19 | 0:15:23 | |
That's...that is the one. I know you can do this well. | 0:15:23 | 0:15:25 | |
You take charge of that. | 0:15:25 | 0:15:27 | |
-Very good. -We'll whip the tie on. | 0:15:27 | 0:15:28 | |
And I think you might be good to go. | 0:15:28 | 0:15:30 | |
Get walking, that's it. | 0:15:32 | 0:15:33 | |
Dr Gary McKeown's areas of expertise include how we communicate | 0:15:36 | 0:15:40 | |
and interact socially. | 0:15:40 | 0:15:42 | |
And he's developed an experiment that can tell how close two friends | 0:15:43 | 0:15:47 | |
really are by revealing the secret signals they give off. | 0:15:47 | 0:15:51 | |
In this experimental set-up, we essentially, | 0:15:51 | 0:15:54 | |
we get people in and get them to just have natural interactions | 0:15:54 | 0:15:57 | |
with one another so that we can measure what's going on. | 0:15:57 | 0:16:00 | |
And we use these machines at the bottom here to measure the facial | 0:16:00 | 0:16:04 | |
expressions and then that informs us about the relationship between the | 0:16:04 | 0:16:07 | |
-two people. -That's interesting. -Let's go and give it a try, | 0:16:07 | 0:16:09 | |
-let's have a sit through. -OK, right, yeah. | 0:16:09 | 0:16:12 | |
There we go. Can you see us? | 0:16:12 | 0:16:14 | |
I'm assuming that you need two aligned minds, friends for years, | 0:16:14 | 0:16:18 | |
that's what makes this experiment really interesting. | 0:16:18 | 0:16:20 | |
Friends of many years' standing. | 0:16:20 | 0:16:22 | |
The longer, the better. | 0:16:22 | 0:16:24 | |
I've got the very thing for you. | 0:16:25 | 0:16:29 | |
Adrian knew the perfect pair to call on. | 0:16:29 | 0:16:31 | |
Friends of more than 40 years who he had met way back in show one. | 0:16:31 | 0:16:35 | |
Let's hug it out. Fantastic. | 0:16:35 | 0:16:36 | |
I've found some friends. Proper friends, | 0:16:36 | 0:16:39 | |
Nan and Betty, they're the bee's knees. | 0:16:39 | 0:16:41 | |
OK, ladies, make your way into my laboratory. | 0:16:41 | 0:16:44 | |
Nan, I'd like you in the seat to the right. | 0:16:44 | 0:16:47 | |
Betty, to the left. | 0:16:47 | 0:16:48 | |
Don't be afraid, it's not an interrogation. | 0:16:50 | 0:16:53 | |
OK? All you've got to do is look at each other... | 0:16:53 | 0:16:56 | |
..and just chat. | 0:16:56 | 0:16:58 | |
# Ready or not, here comes science | 0:16:59 | 0:17:03 | |
# Ooh-wee. # | 0:17:03 | 0:17:06 | |
Remember the time travelling? | 0:17:06 | 0:17:08 | |
Lucille fell through the bed, you fell down the stairs | 0:17:08 | 0:17:12 | |
and I fell through the chair? | 0:17:12 | 0:17:15 | |
-That was a good holiday, wasn't it? -Lucy broke the bed. | 0:17:15 | 0:17:18 | |
Yeah, I remember jumping over and I took the blame of it. | 0:17:18 | 0:17:22 | |
So here, you're measuring... | 0:17:23 | 0:17:25 | |
Stuff around there, the size and intensity of the smile. | 0:17:25 | 0:17:28 | |
Along here, we're really interested in the relationship between | 0:17:28 | 0:17:32 | |
what's going on in this face and what's going on in this face over here. | 0:17:32 | 0:17:35 | |
I think he wanted to get rid of us, so he did. | 0:17:35 | 0:17:37 | |
-That's right. -Didn't blame him. | 0:17:37 | 0:17:39 | |
How significant | 0:17:39 | 0:17:41 | |
is the smile and just how much someone smiles at one another? | 0:17:41 | 0:17:46 | |
Smiling is hugely significant, | 0:17:46 | 0:17:48 | |
and the level of intensity that goes on within the smiles. | 0:17:48 | 0:17:52 | |
Actually, these two over here are the smile-ometer. | 0:17:52 | 0:17:55 | |
Have you seen this? Brow lowerer, upper lip raiser, dimp dimpler. | 0:17:55 | 0:18:00 | |
Man, look at his face doing the dimple. | 0:18:00 | 0:18:03 | |
You see, I truly believe we smile more in Northern Ireland than anywhere else. | 0:18:04 | 0:18:08 | |
Certainly anywhere else in the UK. | 0:18:08 | 0:18:10 | |
Yeah, and there are definitely cultural differences | 0:18:10 | 0:18:14 | |
whenever we do that, and it probably is the case. | 0:18:14 | 0:18:17 | |
We've done research... | 0:18:17 | 0:18:18 | |
..looking at differences between Serbia and Peru and Guatemala | 0:18:20 | 0:18:24 | |
and Northern Ireland, so I couldn't say for sure within the UK context, | 0:18:24 | 0:18:28 | |
but for sure in Northern Ireland, we smile a lot more. | 0:18:28 | 0:18:31 | |
-We're up there. -Yeah. -There's plenty of smiling going on. -Yes, yes, for sure. | 0:18:31 | 0:18:34 | |
-That was a good holiday, wasn't it? -Lucy broke her bed. | 0:18:34 | 0:18:37 | |
-Yeah, remember jumping over. -And I took the blame of it. | 0:18:37 | 0:18:39 | |
I honestly think | 0:18:41 | 0:18:44 | |
we could just all walk out quietly here and come back | 0:18:44 | 0:18:47 | |
tomorrow morning, in 18 hours' time, and they'd be still be... | 0:18:47 | 0:18:51 | |
Come on, let's go. Let's just leave. | 0:18:51 | 0:18:53 | |
-They'll be looked after. -No. | 0:18:53 | 0:18:55 | |
Used to come up every Tuesday and get soda bread. | 0:18:57 | 0:19:00 | |
-Out at Jordan's? -Jordan's. | 0:19:00 | 0:19:01 | |
And the apple tart... | 0:19:01 | 0:19:04 | |
Half for now and half for... | 0:19:04 | 0:19:06 | |
Oh, Nan, things we do. | 0:19:07 | 0:19:10 | |
-I think it's been great but hasn't it? -Yeah. -Great. | 0:19:10 | 0:19:14 | |
After letting Gary crunch and consider all the | 0:19:14 | 0:19:16 | |
data from Nan and Betty's conversation, | 0:19:16 | 0:19:19 | |
it was time for the results of our experiment. | 0:19:19 | 0:19:22 | |
Would they have proved the theory right and displayed the secret signals | 0:19:22 | 0:19:25 | |
only real friends show? | 0:19:25 | 0:19:28 | |
Nan and Betty are claiming they're friends, | 0:19:28 | 0:19:30 | |
but we need a scientific analysis. | 0:19:30 | 0:19:32 | |
Are they really scientifically friends? | 0:19:32 | 0:19:34 | |
Certainly they do everything that would show them to be very strong | 0:19:34 | 0:19:40 | |
-friends. -When you look at the film of them, | 0:19:40 | 0:19:43 | |
what does the body language tell you? | 0:19:43 | 0:19:45 | |
We have an example here when one of them leans back, | 0:19:45 | 0:19:48 | |
the other one leans back very shortly afterwards. | 0:19:48 | 0:19:51 | |
And that's a sort of classic kind of mirroring technique. | 0:19:51 | 0:19:57 | |
-Oh, yeah! -You've treated this, haven't you? | 0:19:57 | 0:19:58 | |
In this clip, they're talking about cooking together an awful lot and | 0:19:58 | 0:20:03 | |
there's just this huge amount of shared laughter between them and you | 0:20:03 | 0:20:07 | |
wouldn't find that in a situation | 0:20:07 | 0:20:09 | |
where you had a stranger talking with a friend. | 0:20:09 | 0:20:13 | |
You just wouldn't find that laughter. | 0:20:13 | 0:20:14 | |
They are acting out a play. | 0:20:14 | 0:20:16 | |
They've been there many, many times before and reassuring each other, | 0:20:16 | 0:20:21 | |
you're there, you're a rock in my life. | 0:20:21 | 0:20:24 | |
We needed some scientific bottom and you've given me some scientific | 0:20:24 | 0:20:28 | |
bottom to all this, hasn't he? | 0:20:28 | 0:20:29 | |
Yes, yes. Very friendly bottom. | 0:20:29 | 0:20:32 | |
Very friendly bottom. Yes. | 0:20:32 | 0:20:34 | |
Gary, you are undoubtedly my favourite psychologist anywhere | 0:20:34 | 0:20:37 | |
in the world now. You're the man. | 0:20:37 | 0:20:39 | |
Of course, he's from Northern Ireland! | 0:20:39 | 0:20:41 | |
-He's the friendliest. -He's the friendliest anywhere! | 0:20:41 | 0:20:44 | |
Our friendship journey was nearly at an end. | 0:20:54 | 0:20:57 | |
I'd shown Adrian the very best of Northern Ireland. | 0:20:57 | 0:21:00 | |
However, there was an elephant in the room. | 0:21:00 | 0:21:03 | |
A big one! | 0:21:03 | 0:21:04 | |
OK, I give in. | 0:21:04 | 0:21:06 | |
It is probably the friendliest place I have ever been. | 0:21:06 | 0:21:10 | |
However, there is one thing you can't deliver. | 0:21:10 | 0:21:13 | |
-What's that, then? -Politicians, | 0:21:13 | 0:21:15 | |
two politicians from either side of the divide, | 0:21:15 | 0:21:18 | |
not just civil to each other but actually friends. | 0:21:18 | 0:21:21 | |
Actually bosom buddies. If you can deliver that, well. | 0:21:21 | 0:21:25 | |
-No, it can be difficult, obviously. -You can't deliver that. | 0:21:25 | 0:21:27 | |
-It can be difficult. Obviously, there's been a bit of history. -No. You're never going to do it. | 0:21:27 | 0:21:31 | |
-However... -No. -..I think... -No. | 0:21:31 | 0:21:33 | |
..I think I can, I think I can. | 0:21:33 | 0:21:36 | |
If I do, does that confirm everything for you? | 0:21:36 | 0:21:38 | |
-No, no. Yes. -And OK, then. -Right, OK. | 0:21:38 | 0:21:41 | |
Adrian was clearly in disbelief at this point, | 0:21:45 | 0:21:48 | |
as you probably are at home, but I'd been given a tip-off that | 0:21:48 | 0:21:52 | |
two councillors in Downpatrick, | 0:21:52 | 0:21:54 | |
one from the DUP and the other from the SDLP, | 0:21:54 | 0:21:57 | |
weren't only chums but besties. | 0:21:57 | 0:22:00 | |
Of course, it could all have been just a rumour, | 0:22:00 | 0:22:03 | |
so we'd need to hunt high and low. | 0:22:03 | 0:22:06 | |
First, we checked in the council chamber, | 0:22:12 | 0:22:14 | |
but everyone was out to lunch. | 0:22:14 | 0:22:16 | |
We scoured the town centre with no success. | 0:22:17 | 0:22:21 | |
We even scoped out funky monkeys, | 0:22:21 | 0:22:24 | |
but things just started going downhill. | 0:22:24 | 0:22:26 | |
In fact, we were about to give up when suddenly, | 0:22:29 | 0:22:32 | |
we heard a friendly warning. | 0:22:32 | 0:22:33 | |
-SHOUTS: -Fore! | 0:22:33 | 0:22:35 | |
And that's when we spotted them, strolling down the fairway. | 0:22:42 | 0:22:46 | |
Meet Terry and Billy, | 0:22:46 | 0:22:48 | |
whose friendship is anything but par for the course. | 0:22:48 | 0:22:51 | |
-Oh, don't tell me we find them. Unbelievable. -There they are. | 0:22:53 | 0:22:57 | |
-Gentlemen, nice to see you. Hello, Terry. -Nice to see you. | 0:22:57 | 0:23:00 | |
-Nice to see you, yeah. -Elusive, elusive. | 0:23:00 | 0:23:01 | |
-Nice to meet you, yeah. -Hello, Billy. -You're very welcome. | 0:23:01 | 0:23:05 | |
-Thank you. Enjoying a round of golf, then? -Yes, on a good blustery day. | 0:23:05 | 0:23:08 | |
But you are hard-working local politicians. You don't just play golf and enjoy ourselves all day. | 0:23:08 | 0:23:13 | |
Well, as the old saying goes, we work hard and play hard! | 0:23:13 | 0:23:15 | |
How do you two know each other? Where does the friendship start from? | 0:23:15 | 0:23:19 | |
Well, it started about 20 years ago | 0:23:19 | 0:23:21 | |
when myself got into community work | 0:23:21 | 0:23:26 | |
within my local area of Killyleagh. | 0:23:26 | 0:23:29 | |
Terry was an activist in the Crossgar | 0:23:29 | 0:23:33 | |
and we'd worked closely on a lot of social issues. | 0:23:33 | 0:23:37 | |
Basically, that's when we first sort of met and struck up a friendship. | 0:23:37 | 0:23:42 | |
What, did it start with an argument? Look, I mean, SDLP, DUP. | 0:23:42 | 0:23:47 | |
I don't know if you've heard, but there's been the odd conflict and | 0:23:47 | 0:23:50 | |
exchange of words over the years. | 0:23:50 | 0:23:51 | |
Well, the way I look at it, it's democracy in action. | 0:23:51 | 0:23:55 | |
There's no point you at the debating table sitting mute and sitting quiet. | 0:23:55 | 0:23:58 | |
As they say over here, it's no harm having a good old barney now and again. | 0:23:58 | 0:24:01 | |
We do have a lot of arguments on issues that we don't agree on | 0:24:01 | 0:24:04 | |
and it can get hot and heavy at times but whenever we come out, | 0:24:04 | 0:24:08 | |
we sit over a cup of tea and a sandwich and talk through it. | 0:24:08 | 0:24:11 | |
What about the party high command? | 0:24:11 | 0:24:13 | |
They know we work very well and I think the winners here are our | 0:24:13 | 0:24:16 | |
constituents. We do it for the love of our constituency and our | 0:24:16 | 0:24:20 | |
constituents and it seems to be paying off, paying dividends. | 0:24:20 | 0:24:23 | |
And for the love of each other. | 0:24:23 | 0:24:25 | |
Well, I wouldn't say that! | 0:24:25 | 0:24:27 | |
Billy and Terry are such good mates, | 0:24:27 | 0:24:29 | |
they even go on holiday together and the pair's friendly sense of rivalry | 0:24:29 | 0:24:33 | |
has all also benefited local charities. | 0:24:33 | 0:24:36 | |
Almost three years ago, we were asked to get into the boxing ring | 0:24:36 | 0:24:43 | |
to raise money for suicide awareness. | 0:24:43 | 0:24:46 | |
-And who won? -I'm claiming I won, but... | 0:24:46 | 0:24:49 | |
The local community was teed up | 0:24:49 | 0:24:52 | |
and people were stopping us in the street and saying, hope you knock the daylights out of that boy. | 0:24:52 | 0:24:57 | |
And as I say, even on the night in question, we were dressed in our party colours - | 0:24:57 | 0:25:01 | |
I was dressed in black and red boxing shorts for Down GAA, and a black vest. | 0:25:01 | 0:25:05 | |
So any other challenges? I don't know, acrobatics and marathon running? | 0:25:05 | 0:25:10 | |
We had an eating competition. Eating a sub roll, | 0:25:10 | 0:25:13 | |
and I ate him under the table. | 0:25:13 | 0:25:14 | |
We also had a cycle run there just before Christmas. | 0:25:14 | 0:25:16 | |
-I won. -For the... He did. For the homeless. | 0:25:16 | 0:25:20 | |
We have raised near £15,000 between us in the last two and a half years | 0:25:20 | 0:25:26 | |
for a wee local charity. | 0:25:26 | 0:25:27 | |
I think you do need to go straight to Stormont on sort everything out. | 0:25:27 | 0:25:30 | |
Yeah. Right, today! | 0:25:30 | 0:25:31 | |
You know, a lot of hard work has to be done up there. | 0:25:31 | 0:25:35 | |
But there needs to be a few friendships made, don't there? | 0:25:35 | 0:25:38 | |
You two are obviously the absolute foundation. | 0:25:38 | 0:25:40 | |
I think friendships are very important. | 0:25:40 | 0:25:43 | |
It might have different points of view and difference of opinions on | 0:25:43 | 0:25:47 | |
things but at the heels of the hunt, you have to say, look, | 0:25:47 | 0:25:51 | |
I mightn't like this or they mightn't like that, | 0:25:51 | 0:25:54 | |
but you have to do what's right for the people that put you in. | 0:25:54 | 0:25:56 | |
-Yeah. -Striking up friendships - I believe it's a big, big help. | 0:25:56 | 0:26:00 | |
Reason being, I'm no less a unionist because I've got a working | 0:26:00 | 0:26:05 | |
relationship with Terry in local issues and that. | 0:26:05 | 0:26:09 | |
Terry is no less a nationalist | 0:26:09 | 0:26:12 | |
because he's working alongside me | 0:26:12 | 0:26:16 | |
and if we all get down and do that, | 0:26:16 | 0:26:18 | |
I think this wee country would be a better place for everyone. | 0:26:18 | 0:26:22 | |
Well, listen. Sorry to interrupt your round on such a beautiful day. | 0:26:22 | 0:26:26 | |
-Play through, gentlemen. -Absolutely. Thank you very much. | 0:26:26 | 0:26:30 | |
-Enjoy your day. -Good luck at your swings. -No problem! | 0:26:30 | 0:26:33 | |
Well, Adrian. What do you think of that? | 0:26:38 | 0:26:40 | |
I'm convinced. OK, you've worn me down. | 0:26:40 | 0:26:44 | |
They prove it. Friendship is everywhere. | 0:26:44 | 0:26:45 | |
Friendship is like gorse bushes in Northern Ireland. | 0:26:45 | 0:26:49 | |
They're just everywhere you can see. | 0:26:49 | 0:26:50 | |
-Fair enough, you win. -Well, Northern Ireland's made friends | 0:26:50 | 0:26:53 | |
with you, too. And we all know that's a miracle. | 0:26:53 | 0:26:56 | |
That absolutely is a miracle. And this only one way to round this off. | 0:26:56 | 0:27:00 | |
I want friends to reunite. Come on. | 0:27:00 | 0:27:03 | |
# You've got a friend in me | 0:27:03 | 0:27:06 | |
# Yeah, you've got a friend in me. # | 0:27:06 | 0:27:10 | |
And that's what we arranged at the place we started our journey, | 0:27:10 | 0:27:15 | |
the spirit of Belfast, | 0:27:15 | 0:27:16 | |
where some of the friends we'd made throughout the series came together | 0:27:16 | 0:27:20 | |
to hear Adrian spread the good news. | 0:27:20 | 0:27:23 | |
Friends, Belfast people, countryfolk, lend me your ears. | 0:27:25 | 0:27:30 | |
I've seen the light right here in Northern Ireland. | 0:27:30 | 0:27:34 | |
Yes, you've got a friend in me. | 0:27:34 | 0:27:39 | |
So yes, | 0:27:43 | 0:27:45 | |
I'll be there for you when the rain starts to fall. | 0:27:45 | 0:27:49 | |
I'll be there for you, | 0:27:49 | 0:27:52 | |
like I've been there before. | 0:27:52 | 0:27:54 | |
And finally, let me say, for the record, | 0:28:00 | 0:28:04 | |
if you threw a party and invited everyone you knew, | 0:28:04 | 0:28:09 | |
you would see the biggest gift would be from me and the card attached | 0:28:09 | 0:28:13 | |
would say, | 0:28:13 | 0:28:15 | |
thank you for being a friend. | 0:28:15 | 0:28:18 | |
# And when we both get older | 0:28:30 | 0:28:34 | |
# With walking canes and hair of grey | 0:28:34 | 0:28:37 | |
# Have no fear even though it's hard to hear | 0:28:38 | 0:28:42 | |
# I will stand real close and say | 0:28:42 | 0:28:45 | |
# Thank you for being a friend. # | 0:28:45 | 0:28:52 |