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-Living at home is a cushy number... -Have you got any washing? | 0:00:02 | 0:00:04 | |
-..leaving you with money to burn... -That's 500. | 0:00:04 | 0:00:06 | |
All we spend our money on is going out drinking. | 0:00:06 | 0:00:09 | |
That's a grand and a half. | 0:00:09 | 0:00:11 | |
My financial focus is having massive jugs. | 0:00:11 | 0:00:14 | |
No wonder so many young people are living with Mum and Dad. | 0:00:14 | 0:00:17 | |
Mum does all the chores and that in the house. | 0:00:17 | 0:00:19 | |
Just to sort the water, the gas, the food. | 0:00:19 | 0:00:21 | |
To give all that up and go and do it myself just seems a bit silly. | 0:00:21 | 0:00:23 | |
They're even moving their other half in. | 0:00:23 | 0:00:26 | |
All of a sudden there's a boy in her bedroom. | 0:00:26 | 0:00:28 | |
We've got his mum right next door. | 0:00:28 | 0:00:30 | |
So what happens when they have to move out and fend for themselves? | 0:00:30 | 0:00:34 | |
100 quid on a bikini? You've left us skint. | 0:00:34 | 0:00:37 | |
We're giving young couples the chance to find out. | 0:00:37 | 0:00:40 | |
I don't know what to do with this. How do I put it in the bin? | 0:00:40 | 0:00:43 | |
Will they relish their freedom? | 0:00:43 | 0:00:44 | |
Our sex life has been fantastic. | 0:00:44 | 0:00:47 | |
Or push each other to breaking point? | 0:00:47 | 0:00:49 | |
I just don't know if I'm in love with her. | 0:00:49 | 0:00:51 | |
What's wrong with you, Barry? | 0:00:51 | 0:00:53 | |
Will they move out for good? | 0:00:53 | 0:00:54 | |
I absolutely love having my own place. | 0:00:54 | 0:00:56 | |
Or run home to the Hotel of Mum and Dad? | 0:00:56 | 0:00:59 | |
Are you going to stay in the flat? | 0:00:59 | 0:01:01 | |
Meet childhood sweethearts Sam and Lara. | 0:01:08 | 0:01:11 | |
They're 21 and have been together for five years. | 0:01:11 | 0:01:14 | |
Lara literally jumped into my life. | 0:01:15 | 0:01:17 | |
I was talking to one of her friends at school and she literally - | 0:01:17 | 0:01:21 | |
boop - "Hi, my name's Lara." | 0:01:21 | 0:01:23 | |
Sam works as a model | 0:01:26 | 0:01:27 | |
so it's no surprise what first attracted Lara to him. | 0:01:27 | 0:01:31 | |
He was drop dead gorgeous, obviously, and he's funny | 0:01:31 | 0:01:36 | |
and very charming and he always makes me laugh, always. | 0:01:36 | 0:01:40 | |
DOG BARKS | 0:01:40 | 0:01:42 | |
Lara works part-time in a taxi firm... | 0:01:43 | 0:01:46 | |
And what time do you want that for? | 0:01:46 | 0:01:48 | |
..as well as volunteering at the Blue Cross. | 0:01:48 | 0:01:50 | |
Do you want to go for a walk? | 0:01:50 | 0:01:53 | |
My ambition is to become a veterinary nurse | 0:01:53 | 0:01:56 | |
and it's quite hard to get a nurse position, a student position, | 0:01:56 | 0:01:59 | |
without having any work experience or anything like that. | 0:01:59 | 0:02:02 | |
She laughed at my silly jokes, found me funny. | 0:02:02 | 0:02:05 | |
Obviously she was amazingly gorgeous. | 0:02:05 | 0:02:07 | |
In a way, I fell head over heels for her. | 0:02:07 | 0:02:10 | |
It's been like that ever since. | 0:02:10 | 0:02:12 | |
For the past year, | 0:02:15 | 0:02:16 | |
these lovebirds have been shacked up together in this gorgeous house, | 0:02:16 | 0:02:19 | |
right in the heart of London's swanky Islington. | 0:02:19 | 0:02:22 | |
Me and Sam just generally lay on here entwined, | 0:02:23 | 0:02:26 | |
trying to fit on the sofa. | 0:02:26 | 0:02:29 | |
No, they haven't won the lottery, | 0:02:30 | 0:02:32 | |
it's all down to the generosity of one person - Sam's lovely nan, Jean. | 0:02:32 | 0:02:36 | |
They live rent free, electric free, | 0:02:38 | 0:02:43 | |
internet free, everything free. | 0:02:43 | 0:02:45 | |
Sam's lived with his nan since the age of three | 0:02:47 | 0:02:49 | |
and it's fair to say, he's had it pretty easy. | 0:02:49 | 0:02:53 | |
She does my washing, most of the times she does the cleaning. | 0:02:54 | 0:02:58 | |
I clean the room, I change the bed, | 0:02:58 | 0:03:00 | |
do his washing and his ironing. | 0:03:00 | 0:03:03 | |
I think he does get mollycoddled a bit. | 0:03:03 | 0:03:05 | |
Nan even cooks for Sam, | 0:03:05 | 0:03:06 | |
who has got used to snacking on steak sandwiches. | 0:03:06 | 0:03:09 | |
Steak's for dinners, not for a snack. | 0:03:09 | 0:03:13 | |
I'd have steak three times a day if I could. | 0:03:13 | 0:03:15 | |
Well, we always say to him, it's a hotel for him. | 0:03:16 | 0:03:19 | |
The thing is, Sam isn't paying hotel rates. | 0:03:20 | 0:03:22 | |
In fact, he's not paying any rates at all. | 0:03:22 | 0:03:26 | |
-You never give me money. -Oh, Nan, of course I do. | 0:03:26 | 0:03:29 | |
You go out when I go to bed and you come in when I get up. | 0:03:29 | 0:03:34 | |
-What? -Does he? | 0:03:34 | 0:03:35 | |
It may be rent-free but there is one downside to living with Nan. | 0:03:37 | 0:03:42 | |
I don't think your Nan's knocked once, when she's come in. | 0:03:42 | 0:03:45 | |
She don't knock. She never knocks. | 0:03:45 | 0:03:47 | |
Definitely sex life is not good when you live with your nan. | 0:03:47 | 0:03:50 | |
Whenever something's about to go down... | 0:03:50 | 0:03:53 | |
..you can always hear the stairs, dung, dung, dung. | 0:03:54 | 0:03:57 | |
Normally hear her coming up the stairs and we're like, | 0:03:57 | 0:03:59 | |
-"Oh, my God!" -Yeah. Oh, here we go. You all right? | 0:03:59 | 0:04:03 | |
-All right. -Nice of you to knock. | 0:04:03 | 0:04:06 | |
-Yeah. -Like that, basically. | 0:04:11 | 0:04:15 | |
I've not got a lock on my door, I've got like a dodgy door. | 0:04:15 | 0:04:17 | |
So generally about seven o'clock in the morning, either me or Sam | 0:04:17 | 0:04:20 | |
will pick up this thing here | 0:04:20 | 0:04:23 | |
and just shove it against as much as we can - at least we've got | 0:04:23 | 0:04:27 | |
a bit of pre-warning so we know that she's trying to get in. | 0:04:27 | 0:04:29 | |
Now Lara is desperate for privacy. | 0:04:29 | 0:04:32 | |
We're just like, "Oh, my God, we need to get out of here." | 0:04:32 | 0:04:34 | |
We need to have our own space and stuff like that. | 0:04:34 | 0:04:36 | |
She's decided it's time they moved out and we're going to help them | 0:04:36 | 0:04:39 | |
try it for a week, but there's one big problem. | 0:04:39 | 0:04:42 | |
Charlie... | 0:04:44 | 0:04:45 | |
As well as his modelling, Sam also works in a shop, | 0:04:45 | 0:04:48 | |
but he's been known to blow a week's wages on one boys' night out. | 0:04:48 | 0:04:52 | |
If we're going out on a mad night out, | 0:04:54 | 0:04:56 | |
you could easily spend 200 quid. Easily. | 0:04:56 | 0:04:59 | |
As soon as he gets a bit of drink down him, he then spends more money. | 0:05:02 | 0:05:06 | |
Sometimes he ends up going out and spending 300 quid | 0:05:06 | 0:05:09 | |
and that really upsets me. | 0:05:09 | 0:05:11 | |
And what doesn't go on booze goes on his wardrobe. | 0:05:11 | 0:05:14 | |
He continuously comes back... | 0:05:14 | 0:05:16 | |
That's 500... | 0:05:16 | 0:05:17 | |
-..even with a little bag. -That's probably about 500. | 0:05:17 | 0:05:19 | |
And I think, "Oh, how much have you spent now?" | 0:05:19 | 0:05:21 | |
That's a grand and a half. | 0:05:21 | 0:05:23 | |
Not to mention his generous side. | 0:05:24 | 0:05:27 | |
Sam bought me these, Sam bought me them. | 0:05:27 | 0:05:29 | |
He bought me these cos I told him I loved them. | 0:05:29 | 0:05:32 | |
I spend way too much on treating Lara. | 0:05:32 | 0:05:34 | |
Well, this one was about 300. I'm a proper girly-girl at heart. | 0:05:34 | 0:05:37 | |
This one was like 250, this one was 250. | 0:05:37 | 0:05:40 | |
Everyone likes the pretty things, don't they? Everyone likes | 0:05:40 | 0:05:43 | |
the finer things in life. This was 220, | 0:05:43 | 0:05:45 | |
and then my Louis, which I've had since I was 16 - | 0:05:45 | 0:05:47 | |
that was about 500 quid, I think. | 0:05:47 | 0:05:49 | |
But now Lara's desperate for a home of their own, | 0:05:51 | 0:05:53 | |
is Sam ready to swap spending for saving? | 0:05:53 | 0:05:56 | |
For me and Lara to work, I think we definitely have to move out | 0:05:58 | 0:06:01 | |
because, you know, it just comes a point where you can only be | 0:06:01 | 0:06:04 | |
living here for so long. You need your own privacy | 0:06:04 | 0:06:06 | |
and we need to start a life together. | 0:06:06 | 0:06:08 | |
So that was big spender Sam and his shopaholic girlfriend, | 0:06:10 | 0:06:13 | |
and in Wales we've got a pair of pampered young parents. | 0:06:13 | 0:06:16 | |
Jack, 20, met Jaseleigh, 19, three years ago. | 0:06:18 | 0:06:21 | |
I thought she was, er, quite pretty, so I thought I'd go for it. | 0:06:23 | 0:06:28 | |
It was love at first sight after a week and we moved really fast. | 0:06:28 | 0:06:31 | |
He would sleep over at my house, like, all the time. | 0:06:31 | 0:06:35 | |
Like within like a month, weren't it, he moved in, practically. | 0:06:35 | 0:06:38 | |
It was a bit mad because, for me, | 0:06:38 | 0:06:40 | |
I've never really got that close to a girl in that such a fast time. | 0:06:40 | 0:06:45 | |
I don't think it was intentionally, was it? It was just like... | 0:06:45 | 0:06:48 | |
-He started moving his bits in... -I just moved more and more things in. | 0:06:48 | 0:06:51 | |
I had a tiny TV so he moved his TV in. | 0:06:51 | 0:06:54 | |
But it looks like the couple didn't waste too much time watching | 0:06:54 | 0:06:57 | |
Jack's massive TV. Before long, two became three. | 0:06:57 | 0:07:00 | |
Like, it was about a year, I think, into our relationship | 0:07:01 | 0:07:04 | |
and we just started talking about it and then, | 0:07:04 | 0:07:08 | |
because I was on the pill, I came off the pill and we tried | 0:07:08 | 0:07:10 | |
and it happened really quickly, didn't it? | 0:07:10 | 0:07:12 | |
And baby Kaydee couldn't have come at a better time for Jack, | 0:07:12 | 0:07:16 | |
who was on the verge of living a very different life. | 0:07:16 | 0:07:19 | |
In my past I wasn't exactly a good kid. I would... | 0:07:19 | 0:07:22 | |
I was in trouble with the police quite often. | 0:07:22 | 0:07:25 | |
Meeting Jaseleigh has completely changed my life - | 0:07:25 | 0:07:27 | |
we've had a baby, I've started working. | 0:07:27 | 0:07:29 | |
It's a massive responsibility now. | 0:07:29 | 0:07:31 | |
Everyone says if he hadn't met me he would have been in prison by now. | 0:07:31 | 0:07:35 | |
Instead, Jack is living, working and even holidaying | 0:07:35 | 0:07:37 | |
with Jaseleigh's family, and ruling the roost is Dad, John. | 0:07:37 | 0:07:41 | |
All of a sudden there's a boy in her bedroom. | 0:07:41 | 0:07:44 | |
I was so protective. I thought he was scrawny, but fed him up, | 0:07:44 | 0:07:49 | |
got him a job out with me and the rest is history, as they say. | 0:07:49 | 0:07:53 | |
That's right - Jack's boss is his future dad-in-law. | 0:07:53 | 0:07:57 | |
I leave at six o'clock in the morning for work and then I see him all day | 0:07:57 | 0:08:01 | |
in work. Basically I'm with him for twelve hours of the day | 0:08:01 | 0:08:03 | |
but when I come home then I obviously do see him in the house as well. | 0:08:03 | 0:08:07 | |
Daddy's girl Jaseleigh is spoiled rotten by both her parents | 0:08:07 | 0:08:11 | |
and the couple don't lift a finger at home. | 0:08:11 | 0:08:13 | |
We help Jaseleigh and Jack with everything, really. | 0:08:13 | 0:08:17 | |
-Jay. -Mum does everything - like, the weekly shopping, | 0:08:17 | 0:08:20 | |
-I wouldn't know how much anything cost. -Jack, dinner's ready. | 0:08:20 | 0:08:24 | |
Coming. | 0:08:24 | 0:08:25 | |
She'll just sort the water, the gas, the food, | 0:08:25 | 0:08:27 | |
she'll do it all herself. She likes doing it all, I'm sure she does. | 0:08:27 | 0:08:30 | |
Yeah. | 0:08:30 | 0:08:31 | |
Jaseleigh is ditsy at times. | 0:08:31 | 0:08:34 | |
You've got to put water in to boil an egg. | 0:08:34 | 0:08:37 | |
Mum, I know how to put water in to boil an egg, I'm not stupid. | 0:08:37 | 0:08:41 | |
Well, a lot of the times, actually. | 0:08:41 | 0:08:42 | |
She can clean but I wouldn't say she can cook. | 0:08:42 | 0:08:46 | |
-How would you cook spaghetti bolognese? -Lentils... | 0:08:46 | 0:08:50 | |
Once she phoned my mobile to tell me that everything was burnt | 0:08:51 | 0:08:55 | |
and that's the only time I've ever let her cook me food. | 0:08:55 | 0:08:58 | |
With Mum and Dad on call, it's a cosy arrangement, | 0:09:01 | 0:09:04 | |
but is it too cosy for Jack? | 0:09:04 | 0:09:06 | |
Even though I've been living with Jase and her family | 0:09:08 | 0:09:11 | |
for over two years now, it still doesn't feel like my home. | 0:09:11 | 0:09:15 | |
I guess it's about time that we just moved into our own house and just | 0:09:15 | 0:09:18 | |
have a family home where we can settle down, just the three of us. | 0:09:18 | 0:09:21 | |
And for Jack, that means not just being a man in the house | 0:09:21 | 0:09:24 | |
but THE man of THE house. | 0:09:24 | 0:09:27 | |
I'm proud of him in a way, you know? | 0:09:27 | 0:09:29 | |
-He looks after the baby. -He's a great father. -Looks after Jase. | 0:09:29 | 0:09:32 | |
Well, he's got two babies - Jase and Kaydee, like. | 0:09:32 | 0:09:36 | |
He looks after the pair of them. | 0:09:36 | 0:09:37 | |
I'm really panicking, like, I'm going to be upset when I move, | 0:09:37 | 0:09:41 | |
obviously, because I, you know, lived with my parents for ages. | 0:09:41 | 0:09:46 | |
Jaseleigh has agreed to try a week living in a place of their own | 0:09:46 | 0:09:50 | |
and we're going to help them do it. | 0:09:50 | 0:09:51 | |
Uh-oh. | 0:09:51 | 0:09:53 | |
But a week is the longest she and her parents have ever been apart. | 0:09:53 | 0:09:56 | |
Well, it will be tears Friday when they move, definitely. | 0:09:58 | 0:10:01 | |
And letting go could be just as hard for Julie and John. | 0:10:01 | 0:10:05 | |
-End of an era. -End of an era, I think, when they move out. | 0:10:05 | 0:10:08 | |
I'm looking forward to them moving out in one way because obviously | 0:10:08 | 0:10:12 | |
we get our freedom back that we haven't had for a while. | 0:10:12 | 0:10:15 | |
There'll definitely be tears shed, no doubt at all, | 0:10:15 | 0:10:18 | |
but I think it will be on both parts because we are quite close, | 0:10:18 | 0:10:22 | |
obviously, or we wouldn't be able to live together. | 0:10:22 | 0:10:24 | |
So, we've got a nanny's boy with a spending problem in London... | 0:10:28 | 0:10:32 | |
That's probably around 500. That's a grand and a half. | 0:10:32 | 0:10:35 | |
..and a pampered princess in Wales. | 0:10:35 | 0:10:37 | |
My mum does everything - like the weekly shopping, | 0:10:37 | 0:10:40 | |
I wouldn't know how much anything cost. | 0:10:40 | 0:10:42 | |
They're about to wave bye-bye to their cushy lives. | 0:10:42 | 0:10:45 | |
How on earth are they going to cope in the big bad world? | 0:10:45 | 0:10:48 | |
-I don't care. -You should care, Jase. | 0:10:48 | 0:10:50 | |
It's about money. | 0:10:50 | 0:10:51 | |
Oh, I don't care about this any more. | 0:10:51 | 0:10:53 | |
We're giving both couples the money they need to try renting | 0:10:55 | 0:10:58 | |
a place of their own for a week, but it's the same budget | 0:10:58 | 0:11:01 | |
they would have if they were going it alone for real. | 0:11:01 | 0:11:05 | |
I don't know about you, | 0:11:05 | 0:11:06 | |
but I'd prefer to live in a really nice place and be a bit skint. | 0:11:06 | 0:11:11 | |
In London, Sam and Lara are working out exactly how much that is. | 0:11:11 | 0:11:15 | |
Sam's desperate to stay near his nan in fancy and fashionable Islington, | 0:11:17 | 0:11:21 | |
but rent here doesn't come cheap. | 0:11:21 | 0:11:23 | |
It doesn't have to be local all the time. You can venture out | 0:11:23 | 0:11:26 | |
and look at a new place. | 0:11:26 | 0:11:28 | |
But you just can't be living in a... I just want to want to be there. | 0:11:28 | 0:11:32 | |
With Sam not known for his saving and Lara just working part-time, | 0:11:32 | 0:11:35 | |
Nan's worried about how they'll afford it. | 0:11:35 | 0:11:38 | |
Lara saves, I know she does. She's very good. | 0:11:38 | 0:11:41 | |
She would rein things in and she'd say, "No, Sam, you can't do this | 0:11:41 | 0:11:45 | |
"and we can't afford that so let's, you know, get our priorities right." | 0:11:45 | 0:11:50 | |
After five years together, they have no idea what each other earns, | 0:11:50 | 0:11:54 | |
until now. | 0:11:54 | 0:11:55 | |
How much are you getting? Like, if we was to work out, | 0:11:55 | 0:11:58 | |
what would you be giving? | 0:11:58 | 0:12:00 | |
Well, I earn about a grand a month. | 0:12:00 | 0:12:01 | |
So I'm on about the same. | 0:12:01 | 0:12:04 | |
But that's only what he earns part-time. | 0:12:04 | 0:12:06 | |
With that and his modelling, he should be loaded. | 0:12:06 | 0:12:10 | |
I don't know how much you earn and when you get it | 0:12:10 | 0:12:12 | |
cos a lot of times you don't tell me and you're like, | 0:12:12 | 0:12:14 | |
"I've just booked a holiday, I've just bought a jacket." | 0:12:14 | 0:12:16 | |
I'm thinking, "How the hell are you paying for that?" | 0:12:16 | 0:12:19 | |
Huh? It's your money. | 0:12:19 | 0:12:21 | |
-It is my money. -OK. I'd like to know how much you get from modelling. | 0:12:21 | 0:12:26 | |
Like 11 grand. | 0:12:26 | 0:12:28 | |
11 grand? That's like what I earned for the year from... | 0:12:28 | 0:12:30 | |
That's basically like double your own pay. | 0:12:30 | 0:12:32 | |
I don't know where it's gone. | 0:12:32 | 0:12:34 | |
But she's no super-saver herself. | 0:12:34 | 0:12:35 | |
You went to uni for two years and you got student loans. | 0:12:35 | 0:12:39 | |
Do you know how much I owe, then? | 0:12:39 | 0:12:40 | |
-Grand probably. -No. | 0:12:40 | 0:12:43 | |
How much? | 0:12:43 | 0:12:45 | |
Probably about 12 grand. | 0:12:45 | 0:12:47 | |
-12 grand? You went to uni... -Yeah. -To do a four-year course | 0:12:47 | 0:12:52 | |
in events management - ended up going there a year | 0:12:52 | 0:12:55 | |
and doing a bit of cheerleading and come out in 12-grand debt. | 0:12:55 | 0:12:59 | |
I just like having things. | 0:12:59 | 0:13:00 | |
With all their money tied up in booze, | 0:13:02 | 0:13:04 | |
shoes and student loans, Sam and Lara work out | 0:13:04 | 0:13:07 | |
they have just £700 a week to live on. | 0:13:07 | 0:13:09 | |
Jack and Jaseleigh are more nappy bags than Louis Vuitton bags | 0:13:12 | 0:13:15 | |
but are they any better with their purse strings? | 0:13:15 | 0:13:18 | |
-How much do we spend on Kaydee a week? -Roughly about £30, is it? | 0:13:18 | 0:13:21 | |
Yeah, £30 on Kaydee. | 0:13:21 | 0:13:23 | |
Bricky Jack works for future dad-in-law, John, | 0:13:23 | 0:13:26 | |
and is the sole bread winner. | 0:13:26 | 0:13:28 | |
-How much do we get paid a week? -360. | 0:13:28 | 0:13:31 | |
They also get child and working tax credits, | 0:13:31 | 0:13:34 | |
which are crucial to them being able to go it alone, | 0:13:34 | 0:13:37 | |
so altogether they have £500 a week. | 0:13:37 | 0:13:39 | |
With money, they're both quite useless. If they've got £20 over, | 0:13:41 | 0:13:45 | |
it won't be, "Right, we can get bread and milk | 0:13:45 | 0:13:46 | |
"for the rest of the week." It'll be, "We'll have a takeaway." | 0:13:46 | 0:13:49 | |
And then not thinking of the consequences of the next day. | 0:13:49 | 0:13:53 | |
I always have to have a tan. | 0:13:54 | 0:13:56 | |
I tried like buying the cheapest tanning products, | 0:13:56 | 0:13:58 | |
you can't guess, but my make-up, I do like to have like expensive | 0:13:58 | 0:14:01 | |
make-up, so that, that's where I spend my money, obviously. | 0:14:01 | 0:14:05 | |
Well, she'll have to be pale and interesting this week | 0:14:05 | 0:14:09 | |
because they're on a strict budget. | 0:14:09 | 0:14:11 | |
With just £125 for rent, | 0:14:11 | 0:14:14 | |
they go house hunting | 0:14:14 | 0:14:15 | |
and soon find a place in Jack's old stomping ground of Clydach Vale. | 0:14:15 | 0:14:18 | |
Well, this is where I grew up, this is where all my friends live. | 0:14:22 | 0:14:25 | |
Obviously, it's close to my family, so that's important to us. | 0:14:25 | 0:14:28 | |
But it's over budget, six miles from Jaseleigh's parents, | 0:14:28 | 0:14:32 | |
and neither of them drive. | 0:14:32 | 0:14:33 | |
Will Jaseleigh move this far from her folks? | 0:14:33 | 0:14:36 | |
Oh, my gosh. Oh, my God, it's lush. | 0:14:37 | 0:14:42 | |
I love this house but it is a bit out of our price range. | 0:14:42 | 0:14:45 | |
I would like... We'd only have £30 left over a week, | 0:14:45 | 0:14:49 | |
like, to ourselves. | 0:14:49 | 0:14:51 | |
Mum Julie is worried about how her little princess | 0:14:51 | 0:14:54 | |
will manage on her own. | 0:14:54 | 0:14:56 | |
I don't think Jase is ready to move out at the moment | 0:14:56 | 0:14:59 | |
because everything's got to be run past us, and I think without | 0:14:59 | 0:15:02 | |
that support, they... It may not go as well as she hopes it will. | 0:15:02 | 0:15:07 | |
I'm not worried about it, because I can act calm under pressure | 0:15:07 | 0:15:12 | |
but Jase, she... she tends to get... | 0:15:12 | 0:15:15 | |
really worked up under pressure and she doesn't handle it very well. | 0:15:15 | 0:15:19 | |
Despite the distance and the cost, | 0:15:19 | 0:15:21 | |
Jaseleigh has decided to take the risk. | 0:15:21 | 0:15:24 | |
I think it's either going to make us or break us. | 0:15:24 | 0:15:26 | |
I think we're either going to love it, having all our friends up there, | 0:15:26 | 0:15:29 | |
or it's just going to be too much for us and it's going to be too much | 0:15:29 | 0:15:32 | |
for me to have everybody around. | 0:15:32 | 0:15:34 | |
While mummy's girl Jase has a lot on her mind, | 0:15:34 | 0:15:38 | |
it's moving day for nanny's boy, Sam, | 0:15:38 | 0:15:40 | |
and he's thinking about just two things... | 0:15:40 | 0:15:44 | |
-All right. -..his stomach... | 0:15:44 | 0:15:46 | |
Can I pop back here for dinner and that? | 0:15:46 | 0:15:48 | |
-What you talking about? That's the whole point. -What do you mean, no? | 0:15:48 | 0:15:51 | |
You're meant to do your own washing | 0:15:51 | 0:15:53 | |
not bring it home to your nan to wash. | 0:15:53 | 0:15:55 | |
This is why I think he wanted somewhere nearby. | 0:15:55 | 0:15:57 | |
..and sex. | 0:15:57 | 0:15:59 | |
I think one of the best things about it is that we ain't going to | 0:15:59 | 0:16:02 | |
-have to be quiet anywhere. -No. | 0:16:02 | 0:16:05 | |
-Are you going to be all right without me? -Yes. | 0:16:05 | 0:16:08 | |
-Yeah? -Of course. | 0:16:08 | 0:16:10 | |
# Near, far, wherever you are. # | 0:16:10 | 0:16:16 | |
You ain't going to cry? | 0:16:16 | 0:16:18 | |
-No. -Show some emotion. She's happy. | 0:16:18 | 0:16:21 | |
She just can't wait. | 0:16:21 | 0:16:22 | |
Nan's not exactly fighting back the tears but she does have one concern. | 0:16:22 | 0:16:26 | |
I'm not so much worried about him not being capable | 0:16:26 | 0:16:30 | |
but it's the finances, because Sam thinks when he earns money | 0:16:30 | 0:16:36 | |
that that money's all for him and it just goes on him. | 0:16:36 | 0:16:41 | |
-Right, you off already? -We're off, Nan. | 0:16:41 | 0:16:44 | |
-Bye. -Take care, yeah? -Say, "Bye." | 0:16:44 | 0:16:47 | |
No-one forgets leaving home for the first time, but Sam | 0:16:53 | 0:16:56 | |
and Lara are about to find out their independence comes at a price - | 0:16:56 | 0:17:01 | |
a massive £367 a week... | 0:17:01 | 0:17:04 | |
-It's tiny. -It's way small. | 0:17:05 | 0:17:08 | |
..for a very snug, one-bedroom flat. | 0:17:08 | 0:17:11 | |
Like, you wouldn't have much to walk around in. | 0:17:12 | 0:17:14 | |
You think, once the door's closed, like, all you have is a bed here. | 0:17:14 | 0:17:17 | |
Not exactly what they've been used to. | 0:17:17 | 0:17:19 | |
But at least they can jump into bed uninterrupted. | 0:17:21 | 0:17:24 | |
That belongs to that corner there. | 0:17:26 | 0:17:29 | |
But only if they can work out how to make it. | 0:17:29 | 0:17:33 | |
Right, normally this ain't a problem. | 0:17:33 | 0:17:35 | |
-No, it's... -It's like a really odd... -It's not... -Humongous... | 0:17:35 | 0:17:38 | |
Just go and hold the duvet corners, just go and hold that. | 0:17:38 | 0:17:40 | |
That'll be your job, yeah? | 0:17:40 | 0:17:42 | |
-I think living with this bird is going to be a nightmare. -Oi! | 0:17:42 | 0:17:45 | |
Can we just take this off and see if the sheet is a proper sheet? | 0:17:45 | 0:17:47 | |
-It is a sheet. -Seems to have about ten corners. | 0:17:47 | 0:17:50 | |
Wait, wait. | 0:17:50 | 0:17:51 | |
Not quite the bedroom work-out the couple were imagining. | 0:17:51 | 0:17:54 | |
And now spend-aholic Sam has got an even bigger challenge to face. | 0:17:57 | 0:18:00 | |
He's got to plan their spending for the week. | 0:18:00 | 0:18:03 | |
All right, so after rent we've got...20, 40... | 0:18:03 | 0:18:08 | |
£333.25. OK? | 0:18:08 | 0:18:13 | |
But we've also got to think of bills as well. | 0:18:13 | 0:18:15 | |
Having to allow over £100 just for bills, | 0:18:15 | 0:18:18 | |
comes as a bit of a shock, | 0:18:18 | 0:18:19 | |
so they've got £233 between them. | 0:18:19 | 0:18:22 | |
Don't touch it. | 0:18:22 | 0:18:24 | |
Once we've done a food shop we can split it and then work out even, | 0:18:24 | 0:18:28 | |
cos I'm not having you walking around with that in your wallet. | 0:18:28 | 0:18:31 | |
You've got too many temptations. | 0:18:31 | 0:18:34 | |
While Lara keeps tight hold of those purse strings... | 0:18:34 | 0:18:37 | |
..it's time for Jaseleigh to cut some apron strings. | 0:18:39 | 0:18:42 | |
It's moving day, but once again Mum and Dad are on hand to help out. | 0:18:49 | 0:18:54 | |
It's nerve-racking now cos we're doing a... I'm really nervous. | 0:18:54 | 0:19:00 | |
Dad, John, is trying his hardest to put on a brave face. | 0:19:00 | 0:19:04 | |
Yeah, I'm happy for them now. | 0:19:04 | 0:19:06 | |
-Just had that push, the push. -To get them going, yeah. | 0:19:06 | 0:19:09 | |
Gone, like, gone and that's it, like so it was just... Yeah, | 0:19:09 | 0:19:13 | |
didn't think I'd feel like hitting a brick wall sort of thing, | 0:19:13 | 0:19:17 | |
that's how I felt like, you know? | 0:19:17 | 0:19:18 | |
I had it over in my head and I think that's why I'm better | 0:19:18 | 0:19:21 | |
at the moment that John is, because I've already done my crying. | 0:19:21 | 0:19:24 | |
I'm not saying I'm not going to cry later on. | 0:19:24 | 0:19:28 | |
SHE SOBS | 0:19:32 | 0:19:34 | |
With Jaseleigh struggling to keep it together, it's a very different | 0:19:39 | 0:19:43 | |
story for Jack, who can't wait to get into their new place. | 0:19:43 | 0:19:46 | |
Yeah, I'm really looking forward to this. | 0:19:46 | 0:19:48 | |
It's going to be a good experience. | 0:19:48 | 0:19:50 | |
It's something me or Jase have never done and it's great we get to do it | 0:19:50 | 0:19:53 | |
with each other for the first time. | 0:19:53 | 0:19:55 | |
It's a tense time for the close-knit family, especially Jase. | 0:20:00 | 0:20:05 | |
I'm feeling very nervous and apprehensive because, | 0:20:05 | 0:20:09 | |
I don't know, but like I'm just upset, obviously, that | 0:20:09 | 0:20:12 | |
it is really happening, like moving away from home, and it's upsetting. | 0:20:12 | 0:20:18 | |
It's only six miles down the road | 0:20:25 | 0:20:27 | |
but it seems like a million miles for Jase. | 0:20:27 | 0:20:29 | |
-Look after her, Jack. -Yeah. | 0:20:31 | 0:20:33 | |
Tears of sadness. | 0:20:33 | 0:20:35 | |
MUSIC: "Ho Hey" By The Lumineers | 0:20:35 | 0:20:41 | |
But the tears turn to excitement as their mates arrive to help. | 0:21:10 | 0:21:15 | |
I'm like the supervisor. | 0:21:15 | 0:21:16 | |
And the move wouldn't be complete | 0:21:19 | 0:21:21 | |
without the perfect house-warming gift. | 0:21:21 | 0:21:24 | |
There's bleach and polish. | 0:21:24 | 0:21:26 | |
Recycling is every week. If you don't recycle you'll get charged. | 0:21:26 | 0:21:30 | |
-You've got to recycle your nappies now. -Shut up. | 0:21:30 | 0:21:32 | |
Cheers for coming, lads. | 0:21:32 | 0:21:35 | |
-God, it's mad, ain't it? -I know. Are you happy, though? -Yeah. | 0:21:35 | 0:21:42 | |
-Ish? -Half and half. -Why? | 0:21:42 | 0:21:45 | |
I don't know, it's just nerve-racking, ain't it? | 0:21:45 | 0:21:47 | |
Back in Islington, Sam and Lara | 0:21:48 | 0:21:50 | |
are facing a nerve-racking experience of their own. | 0:21:50 | 0:21:53 | |
Will their relationship stand up to the ultimate test - | 0:21:53 | 0:21:57 | |
their very first supermarket trip. | 0:21:57 | 0:22:00 | |
-What about...? -What about steak? Oh, half price. | 0:22:02 | 0:22:08 | |
-Get that one as well, then. -I'm not getting loads of steak. | 0:22:08 | 0:22:11 | |
With Sam used to snacking on steak, how will he cope with a budget | 0:22:11 | 0:22:14 | |
of less than £10 a day for the both of them? | 0:22:14 | 0:22:18 | |
-No. -Why not? -Because that one is cheaper. That one is 95p. | 0:22:18 | 0:22:23 | |
-No Sam, they're £1.15. -All the others are. | 0:22:23 | 0:22:25 | |
-No, but you can only... -There's one thing you've got to let me have. | 0:22:25 | 0:22:28 | |
OK, just one packet, then. | 0:22:28 | 0:22:31 | |
It's clear reining in Sam's expensive tastes isn't going | 0:22:31 | 0:22:34 | |
to be easy. | 0:22:34 | 0:22:35 | |
You sure we don't want like those little things that go, "Shh"? | 0:22:35 | 0:22:38 | |
-What does it do? -Shh. | 0:22:38 | 0:22:41 | |
But has Lara managed to keep Sam on budget? | 0:22:41 | 0:22:44 | |
-It's £63 and a penny. -Lovely, that's fine. | 0:22:47 | 0:22:51 | |
-£3.01 over. -That's good, ain't it? -Yeah. -That's about what we said. | 0:22:51 | 0:22:54 | |
-We can frame that as our first shop together, yeah. -Thank you. | 0:22:54 | 0:22:58 | |
-Thank you for coming. -Thank you. -Cheers. | 0:22:58 | 0:23:00 | |
Now they're all set to whip up a gourmet budget meal. | 0:23:00 | 0:23:03 | |
That's if they can get over one small glitch. | 0:23:07 | 0:23:10 | |
-Oh, there you are. It's on, look. Just look down here. -That's the oven. | 0:23:10 | 0:23:14 | |
We haven't got a Scooby-Doo how to work this hob. | 0:23:14 | 0:23:19 | |
I've never, ever seen a cooker... Oh, I'm Googling it. | 0:23:19 | 0:23:23 | |
Here you are, here you are, here you are. | 0:23:24 | 0:23:26 | |
Hey! | 0:23:27 | 0:23:29 | |
Genius. | 0:23:29 | 0:23:31 | |
Sam's proved he's got brains as well as biceps. | 0:23:31 | 0:23:34 | |
But can he impress Lara with his cooking skills? | 0:23:34 | 0:23:38 | |
My nana's seen me cook before, a few times, | 0:23:38 | 0:23:41 | |
but it is a bit of a rare occasion. | 0:23:41 | 0:23:43 | |
I'm just kind of waiting for pasta to naturally cook in water | 0:23:43 | 0:23:46 | |
that's not boiling. | 0:23:46 | 0:23:48 | |
Let me know if you need a hand. | 0:23:48 | 0:23:50 | |
It feels weird me sitting down and you cooking dinner. | 0:23:50 | 0:23:53 | |
Sod all's happening and sod all's happening there, either. | 0:23:53 | 0:23:57 | |
So it's just flopping. | 0:23:57 | 0:23:58 | |
I'm sure it will be lovely, because it's made with love, isn't it? | 0:23:58 | 0:24:01 | |
There you are, darling. | 0:24:03 | 0:24:05 | |
It's really good, Sam. | 0:24:05 | 0:24:07 | |
Steak it's not, but for tonight veggie mince tastes just as good. | 0:24:07 | 0:24:10 | |
It's not bad for what we had, is it? | 0:24:11 | 0:24:14 | |
It's really nice. | 0:24:14 | 0:24:15 | |
Even if it is served a la paper plate and sauce pack. | 0:24:15 | 0:24:19 | |
Have I done you proud? | 0:24:19 | 0:24:20 | |
Mm, very. | 0:24:20 | 0:24:22 | |
Best of all, they've still got dessert to come | 0:24:22 | 0:24:25 | |
and it's guaranteed to be stomping footstep and interruption free. | 0:24:25 | 0:24:28 | |
But the next morning, with Lara at work, | 0:24:43 | 0:24:45 | |
it's not long before the harsh realities of domestic life kick in. | 0:24:45 | 0:24:49 | |
She hasn't done anything yet. She ain't washed up. | 0:24:53 | 0:24:56 | |
I cooked and cleaned yesterday. | 0:24:57 | 0:24:59 | |
I've got up in the morning, tidied up, did the bed, did the bathroom, | 0:24:59 | 0:25:04 | |
made breakfast, washed and cleaned mine and her stuff. | 0:25:04 | 0:25:07 | |
She ain't done nothing. | 0:25:09 | 0:25:10 | |
But if Sam thinks Lara's bad, he should see Jaseleigh and Jack. | 0:25:12 | 0:25:16 | |
It's day two and they are living in a war zone. | 0:25:16 | 0:25:19 | |
Oh, my God, look at the mess. | 0:25:19 | 0:25:22 | |
Oh, my knickers! I don't know where they are! | 0:25:22 | 0:25:25 | |
Oh, my God, this is a nightmare. | 0:25:25 | 0:25:27 | |
Where are my knickers? I don't know where they are. | 0:25:27 | 0:25:30 | |
The only thing they can find amongst the mess | 0:25:31 | 0:25:34 | |
is Jaseleigh's hair straighteners, so Jack's putting them to good use. | 0:25:34 | 0:25:37 | |
Get that sponge off my carpet now. | 0:25:39 | 0:25:43 | |
Jack. | 0:25:43 | 0:25:44 | |
With Jaseleigh's mum Julie haven taken care of all the food, | 0:25:44 | 0:25:47 | |
Jack and Jase have never had to write a shopping list until now. | 0:25:47 | 0:25:51 | |
How about food shopping? What's important? | 0:25:52 | 0:25:55 | |
Cheese. | 0:25:55 | 0:25:57 | |
-Cheese. -Ham. | 0:25:57 | 0:25:59 | |
-That's it. -That's it? | 0:26:01 | 0:26:03 | |
Well, it's a start. | 0:26:03 | 0:26:04 | |
-Cheese and ham - that's the week's shop? -Then we can pick up stuff along the way. | 0:26:04 | 0:26:08 | |
We've got butter, we've got milk. | 0:26:08 | 0:26:10 | |
-Rolls. -I'm up for that. | 0:26:11 | 0:26:13 | |
Always up for a roll. Like stuffed peppers. | 0:26:13 | 0:26:17 | |
I'll Google a recipe and see what we need to make... | 0:26:17 | 0:26:19 | |
-I've always wanted a stuffed pepper, never had one. -With what? | 0:26:19 | 0:26:22 | |
Chicken breast. | 0:26:22 | 0:26:23 | |
If you get some chicken breast, I can make some fajitas then. | 0:26:23 | 0:26:26 | |
Fajita kit, write that down. | 0:26:26 | 0:26:27 | |
Can we get Fray Bentos pies? | 0:26:29 | 0:26:32 | |
But a girl needs to get her priorities right. | 0:26:32 | 0:26:35 | |
-Ah, fake tan, I need to get that. -Are you serious? | 0:26:35 | 0:26:38 | |
Jack, it's just gone. | 0:26:38 | 0:26:40 | |
-Food's more important than fake tan. -No, it's not. | 0:26:40 | 0:26:42 | |
They've only been in the house a day | 0:26:44 | 0:26:46 | |
when the Pontypridd search party arrives. | 0:26:46 | 0:26:48 | |
-Have you missed us yet? -I haven't had a chance to miss you yet. | 0:26:51 | 0:26:55 | |
And the couple are quick to show off their new-found shopping skills. | 0:26:55 | 0:26:59 | |
Yeah, I bought chicken goujons. | 0:26:59 | 0:27:02 | |
No, we bought a big chicken thing, chicken platter thing, didn't we? | 0:27:02 | 0:27:06 | |
Monday's chicken, Tuesday's chicken, Wednesday's chicken. | 0:27:06 | 0:27:09 | |
-Right, we're going to make a move then, all right? -All right. | 0:27:09 | 0:27:12 | |
So if you need anything, give us a ring. | 0:27:12 | 0:27:15 | |
With the parents packed off, the couple make the most | 0:27:15 | 0:27:18 | |
of their freedom in a time-honoured tradition - a house party. | 0:27:18 | 0:27:23 | |
-We are enjoying it. -Yeah, just enjoying the night. | 0:27:23 | 0:27:25 | |
We've got all our friends here, so it should be a good night. | 0:27:25 | 0:27:28 | |
Living with Jase's parents had put the couple's social life on hold, | 0:27:36 | 0:27:39 | |
so being able to invite mates round whenever they want is a big bonus. | 0:27:39 | 0:27:44 | |
It's all going well so far. | 0:27:44 | 0:27:46 | |
We've got the rest of the week to go through yet, | 0:27:46 | 0:27:48 | |
so we'll see how we go. | 0:27:48 | 0:27:50 | |
And they're not the only ones making the most of life without any | 0:27:50 | 0:27:53 | |
watchful eyes. | 0:27:53 | 0:27:54 | |
DOOR BUZZES | 0:27:57 | 0:27:58 | |
Ah, there he is. What's happening, mate? | 0:27:58 | 0:28:01 | |
Sam and Lara have a big night with their friends planned, too, | 0:28:01 | 0:28:04 | |
but it's only their second day in the flat | 0:28:04 | 0:28:06 | |
and Sam is worried about money. | 0:28:06 | 0:28:09 | |
You want to see the money we've got left. | 0:28:09 | 0:28:11 | |
It ain't good, mate. | 0:28:11 | 0:28:13 | |
We were doing the budget and all that for the week, so we went | 0:28:13 | 0:28:15 | |
on a shop, put money on our Oyster cards, and one has gone already. | 0:28:15 | 0:28:20 | |
I think we've got £100 left now. | 0:28:20 | 0:28:23 | |
It's getting a bit tight because if you think about it, | 0:28:23 | 0:28:25 | |
there's two of us - that's £50 each - | 0:28:25 | 0:28:27 | |
and we've got six days left. Well, five days left now. | 0:28:27 | 0:28:30 | |
-Ta-dah. -Hey, you all right, babe? | 0:28:30 | 0:28:33 | |
-What are your plans? -He's on the booze, I'm on the orange juice. | 0:28:33 | 0:28:36 | |
You've been out before, though, and it's been a messy turnout, | 0:28:36 | 0:28:38 | |
-so what about the money, then? You're not taking it all with you. -Why? | 0:28:38 | 0:28:42 | |
Because this is what we've got to live off for the rest of the week. | 0:28:42 | 0:28:45 | |
Well, you can have 40, then, and I'll keep 60. | 0:28:45 | 0:28:47 | |
Why do you keep the 60? | 0:28:47 | 0:28:49 | |
I'm more responsible than you are. | 0:28:49 | 0:28:50 | |
Lara claims to be the responsible one. | 0:28:50 | 0:28:53 | |
But while she hits a pricey bar... | 0:28:55 | 0:28:57 | |
..Sam opts for pool for a pound. | 0:28:58 | 0:29:00 | |
We was going to go for a bit of a mad night out | 0:29:02 | 0:29:05 | |
but after having the realisation of getting a budget | 0:29:05 | 0:29:07 | |
and all that, it hit me like a ton of bricks. | 0:29:07 | 0:29:10 | |
And while Sam sticks to orange juice... | 0:29:10 | 0:29:12 | |
..Lara and her mates work their way through not one, | 0:29:15 | 0:29:17 | |
but two bottles of expensive wine. | 0:29:17 | 0:29:19 | |
This is £20 and that is £20. | 0:29:24 | 0:29:27 | |
And that's just for starters. | 0:29:27 | 0:29:29 | |
Lara's getting going on the dance floor... | 0:29:33 | 0:29:37 | |
as Sam heads home to save the pennies. | 0:29:37 | 0:29:39 | |
I feel good, knowing that I'm, you know, not going to wake up | 0:29:41 | 0:29:44 | |
with a hangover and I've got a few more quid in my back pocket, | 0:29:44 | 0:29:47 | |
do you know what I mean? | 0:29:47 | 0:29:49 | |
And when Lara rolls in tipsy two hours later, | 0:29:49 | 0:29:52 | |
she's in for a surprise. | 0:29:52 | 0:29:54 | |
I can't believe you've done that. | 0:29:54 | 0:29:56 | |
Sam has tidied up completely, cleaned everywhere, | 0:29:56 | 0:30:01 | |
and has left me tea and biscuits on the side. | 0:30:01 | 0:30:04 | |
You're so lovely. | 0:30:06 | 0:30:08 | |
You're so cute, honestly... I love you. | 0:30:08 | 0:30:13 | |
While Lara is still giddy on her pricey plonk... | 0:30:13 | 0:30:16 | |
..in Wales, the hangover blues have hit homesick Jaseleigh hard. | 0:30:18 | 0:30:21 | |
I missed my mum and dad loads this morning. | 0:30:24 | 0:30:28 | |
And tomorrow's the first day I'm going to be here without Jack | 0:30:28 | 0:30:31 | |
and I'm not looking forward to it at all, really. | 0:30:31 | 0:30:33 | |
Don't get upset. | 0:30:37 | 0:30:40 | |
You have...you have Kaydee. | 0:30:40 | 0:30:41 | |
Don't get upset. | 0:30:44 | 0:30:46 | |
With Jack working tomorrow, the prospect of being | 0:30:46 | 0:30:48 | |
a stay-at-home mum in a strange town is unsettling Jase. | 0:30:48 | 0:30:52 | |
It's the reality of Jack going back to work and me being here by myself | 0:30:54 | 0:30:59 | |
and I haven't walked anywhere yet. | 0:30:59 | 0:31:01 | |
I don't even know properly where we are. | 0:31:01 | 0:31:03 | |
To help Jase feel more settled, | 0:31:03 | 0:31:06 | |
Jack takes the family on a tour of his home town. | 0:31:06 | 0:31:09 | |
First up, meeting some of the locals in the park. | 0:31:09 | 0:31:12 | |
Rip it up and chuck it to them. | 0:31:13 | 0:31:15 | |
-Look! -What the hell is that big one, Jack? -I don't know. | 0:31:15 | 0:31:19 | |
It looks like a heron or something, ain't it? Very odd. | 0:31:19 | 0:31:22 | |
30 birds versus two of us. | 0:31:22 | 0:31:24 | |
It's the first time we've ever done something like this, isn't it? | 0:31:24 | 0:31:27 | |
-Yeah, it's great. -Come on. | 0:31:27 | 0:31:29 | |
No, I'll have a heart attack. Jack, Jack, the geese is coming up. | 0:31:29 | 0:31:33 | |
Jack, please, Jack. | 0:31:33 | 0:31:34 | |
Jack, please Jack. | 0:31:36 | 0:31:37 | |
-You're such a drama queen. -You're a drama queen. | 0:31:37 | 0:31:40 | |
Sharing this with Jase and baby, we've never done anything | 0:31:40 | 0:31:43 | |
like this before because we've never been able to where we lived, with | 0:31:43 | 0:31:46 | |
her parents, but being up here, now we can do a lot more things | 0:31:46 | 0:31:49 | |
together as a family, so it's good to be able to spend a lot more time | 0:31:49 | 0:31:52 | |
doing nice things like this and not just sat in the house all week, | 0:31:52 | 0:31:56 | |
waiting for a weekend where we can go and do something. | 0:31:56 | 0:31:58 | |
But tomorrow, Jase will be home alone without Jack | 0:31:58 | 0:32:01 | |
for the first time, so whilst one romantic day ends... | 0:32:01 | 0:32:04 | |
..date night begins. | 0:32:06 | 0:32:09 | |
Oh, no, don't burn me. | 0:32:09 | 0:32:12 | |
-Do you know what you're doing? -Course I know what I'm doing. | 0:32:12 | 0:32:14 | |
Hoping to strike it lucky? | 0:32:17 | 0:32:20 | |
Money might be tight, but romance comes first. | 0:32:20 | 0:32:23 | |
-How much money have you got left for this tonight? -£10. | 0:32:24 | 0:32:28 | |
Is that enough? | 0:32:28 | 0:32:29 | |
I've already paid for the bowling. | 0:32:29 | 0:32:32 | |
I've got £30. | 0:32:32 | 0:32:33 | |
They have just £40 to last them another four days. | 0:32:37 | 0:32:41 | |
Can they keep it in their pocket tonight? | 0:32:41 | 0:32:43 | |
-Give me five. -That was a shot. | 0:32:43 | 0:32:46 | |
-I'm starving. -What do you fancy? | 0:32:48 | 0:32:50 | |
Do you want a burger? I wonder how much it costs. | 0:32:50 | 0:32:53 | |
A lot - it's massive! | 0:32:53 | 0:32:55 | |
But the spending doesn't end there. | 0:32:56 | 0:32:57 | |
By the end of the night they're down to almost nothing. | 0:32:59 | 0:33:03 | |
We've spent, like, £38 but I love doing things. | 0:33:03 | 0:33:07 | |
It makes me smile, it makes me happy. | 0:33:07 | 0:33:10 | |
But with their entire budget almost blown, | 0:33:10 | 0:33:12 | |
how long can this happiness last? | 0:33:12 | 0:33:14 | |
The following morning, the fun is over | 0:33:21 | 0:33:24 | |
and they're both feeling the effects of their splurge. | 0:33:24 | 0:33:28 | |
The budget is nonexistent any more...I don't think. | 0:33:28 | 0:33:31 | |
Maybe we have, like, a tenner left. | 0:33:31 | 0:33:33 | |
We have got two quid left. | 0:33:33 | 0:33:35 | |
I think it's kind of difficult. | 0:33:36 | 0:33:38 | |
Me and Sam have never had to stick to a budget before. | 0:33:38 | 0:33:40 | |
I think it's just a learning curve and I'll soon get to grips with... | 0:33:40 | 0:33:44 | |
like sacrificing things, like going out with friends | 0:33:44 | 0:33:47 | |
or going to the cinema or things like that | 0:33:47 | 0:33:49 | |
and just having to sit at home. | 0:33:49 | 0:33:51 | |
I could live with the cooking and the cleaning and all that | 0:33:51 | 0:33:54 | |
kind of stuff, that's not a problem to me, but it's the money. | 0:33:54 | 0:33:56 | |
At the end of the day, I wouldn't be able to live being this skint. | 0:33:56 | 0:33:59 | |
In Wales, it's reality check time for Jaseleigh, too. | 0:34:06 | 0:34:10 | |
Jack has gone to work, leaving her alone for the very first time, | 0:34:10 | 0:34:14 | |
giving her the perfect opportunity to brush up on some domestic skills. | 0:34:14 | 0:34:18 | |
With no Jack, Jaseleigh is now chief cook, | 0:34:19 | 0:34:21 | |
cleaner and bottle-washer. | 0:34:21 | 0:34:23 | |
But she doesn't need to do that all day. | 0:34:25 | 0:34:29 | |
My friend's coming up and she's going to do my nails | 0:34:29 | 0:34:31 | |
and my eyebrows because I haven't had a chance to do them for ages. | 0:34:31 | 0:34:34 | |
She's doing it for free. | 0:34:34 | 0:34:36 | |
I'm looking forward to | 0:34:44 | 0:34:46 | |
Jase cooking my dinner in the nights, and going home to her. | 0:34:46 | 0:34:48 | |
It's different being in your own house and in your own environment | 0:34:52 | 0:34:55 | |
and she's cooked the dinner as well, | 0:34:55 | 0:34:57 | |
so that just makes it a little bit better. | 0:34:57 | 0:35:00 | |
With Jack finished for the day, Jase finally hits the kitchen. | 0:35:00 | 0:35:04 | |
"Remove lid with tin opener and put open can on baking tray." | 0:35:04 | 0:35:10 | |
Right, so I've just got to put the can in. | 0:35:10 | 0:35:12 | |
I won't blow myself up, will I? | 0:35:12 | 0:35:14 | |
I won't blow myself up. | 0:35:16 | 0:35:18 | |
Let's put it in like this. | 0:35:20 | 0:35:23 | |
JACK: Hello. | 0:35:31 | 0:35:32 | |
-Jack, do you know the pie? -Yeah. | 0:35:32 | 0:35:36 | |
Do you cook it in the tin? | 0:35:36 | 0:35:38 | |
Yeah, take the top off, for God's sake, or it will blow off. | 0:35:38 | 0:35:41 | |
Yeah, I have, I've took the top off. | 0:35:41 | 0:35:43 | |
How am I supposed to put peas in this to drain the peas? | 0:35:45 | 0:35:47 | |
The peas will just fall straight through it. | 0:35:47 | 0:35:49 | |
-How's it going? -Not too bad. | 0:36:01 | 0:36:04 | |
-It smells nice. -Thank you. | 0:36:05 | 0:36:09 | |
-You look nice. -Look at my hair and my eyebrows. My nails. | 0:36:09 | 0:36:13 | |
Ah, you've been busy today, haven't you? | 0:36:13 | 0:36:16 | |
How was your first day without me? | 0:36:16 | 0:36:17 | |
It was OK. I kept myself busy today. | 0:36:17 | 0:36:19 | |
I think tomorrow's going to be a bit worser. | 0:36:19 | 0:36:22 | |
-Worser? -Yeah. | 0:36:22 | 0:36:23 | |
Oh, looks good. | 0:36:25 | 0:36:26 | |
See if it passes the taste test. | 0:36:28 | 0:36:29 | |
Oh, that's good enough for me. | 0:36:32 | 0:36:34 | |
Back of the net, that was. | 0:36:34 | 0:36:36 | |
It's a goal for Jase, as her new-found domestic goddess skills | 0:36:36 | 0:36:40 | |
impress Jack. | 0:36:40 | 0:36:42 | |
It's really nice to know that Jase has made an effort | 0:36:42 | 0:36:44 | |
because she obviously put all the baby's clothes away, cleaned, | 0:36:44 | 0:36:47 | |
cooked dinner, and she's playing with the baby, so, yeah, | 0:36:47 | 0:36:50 | |
it's good to know that she's making an effort. I guess it's showing | 0:36:50 | 0:36:54 | |
that she's getting used to the fact that we're living on our own now. | 0:36:54 | 0:36:57 | |
Living by ourselves, I don't know if I could go back living | 0:36:59 | 0:37:02 | |
with my parents because, like, the freedom... It's hard, because | 0:37:02 | 0:37:06 | |
you have to do everything yourself, but it's nice to have that freedom. | 0:37:06 | 0:37:09 | |
What a difference a day makes. | 0:37:09 | 0:37:11 | |
Jase has transformed from the girl who couldn't be left home alone | 0:37:11 | 0:37:14 | |
to an independent woman in just 12 hours. | 0:37:14 | 0:37:19 | |
But back in the empty family home, are Mum and Dad enjoying | 0:37:19 | 0:37:22 | |
their freedom as much as their daughter? | 0:37:22 | 0:37:24 | |
-The house is cleaner. -I've got plenty of lagers left. | 0:37:24 | 0:37:28 | |
-Plenty of food left. -Plenty of food left. | 0:37:28 | 0:37:30 | |
It's almost like silence in the house, ain't it? | 0:37:30 | 0:37:33 | |
Yeah, but at the same time, you've got to decide if you like silence. | 0:37:33 | 0:37:36 | |
-That's right. Do we like silence? -We don't. | 0:37:36 | 0:37:39 | |
I feel like I've been robbed. | 0:37:39 | 0:37:40 | |
It does, exactly. That's what it feels like, | 0:37:40 | 0:37:43 | |
like we've been robbed, cos it's like something's missing. | 0:37:43 | 0:37:46 | |
-I didn't realise how much my life had been on hold. -Yeah. | 0:37:46 | 0:37:50 | |
Because of having a kid so young, | 0:37:50 | 0:37:52 | |
not really having time to ourselves first of all before we had | 0:37:52 | 0:37:56 | |
been married and everything else. And it's only now... | 0:37:56 | 0:37:59 | |
It's almost like a slap across the face. It's really, really strange. | 0:37:59 | 0:38:04 | |
I don't think they'll come back now. | 0:38:04 | 0:38:06 | |
I think they've had a taste of independence. | 0:38:06 | 0:38:09 | |
It's a bitter-sweet taste for Mum and Dad. | 0:38:11 | 0:38:14 | |
Enjoying quality time together, they have to accept the possibility | 0:38:14 | 0:38:17 | |
that their youngest daughter might not be coming home. | 0:38:17 | 0:38:20 | |
Back in Islington, after blowing their entire budget | 0:38:23 | 0:38:25 | |
in the first few days, Sam and Lara are left facing a diet | 0:38:25 | 0:38:29 | |
of Super Noodles and crisps. | 0:38:29 | 0:38:31 | |
But they've just been made an offer they can't refuse. | 0:38:33 | 0:38:36 | |
I rang my nan up just to see how she was | 0:38:38 | 0:38:41 | |
and she said she's doing a roast. | 0:38:41 | 0:38:44 | |
Chicken and gravy, carrots and broccoli. | 0:38:44 | 0:38:47 | |
You can't really turn down a roast, can you? | 0:38:47 | 0:38:49 | |
Yorkshire puddings and sweet potato. | 0:38:49 | 0:38:51 | |
I'm so used to it. I think that's one of my biggest luxuries | 0:38:51 | 0:38:54 | |
of living with my nan and that, where she always had a good shop. | 0:38:54 | 0:38:57 | |
-All right. How are you? You all right? -Uh-huh. | 0:38:59 | 0:39:02 | |
We'd never have been able to afford it, | 0:39:02 | 0:39:04 | |
if it wasn't for Jean cooking the Sunday roast. | 0:39:04 | 0:39:07 | |
I'm so excited, my stomach's rumbling. This is so yummy. | 0:39:07 | 0:39:11 | |
I could eat this ten times over. | 0:39:11 | 0:39:13 | |
Nan's roast chicken has never tasted so good. | 0:39:13 | 0:39:16 | |
It's delicious, very yummy. | 0:39:16 | 0:39:19 | |
But Nan and best friend Sheyna want to know | 0:39:19 | 0:39:21 | |
whether it's the food or lack of money that's brought them back. | 0:39:21 | 0:39:25 | |
-So how much have you got left? -Zilch. That's why I'm stocking up. | 0:39:25 | 0:39:28 | |
-I'll be fasting for the next three days. -Probably a couple of pounds. | 0:39:28 | 0:39:31 | |
-No pennies at all? -I think we've got a couple of pounds. -That's all right | 0:39:31 | 0:39:34 | |
because we're going to start dipping into the bill money now. | 0:39:34 | 0:39:37 | |
You can't do that, because that's where you'll get into trouble. | 0:39:37 | 0:39:40 | |
With just £2 to last them the rest of the week, | 0:39:40 | 0:39:42 | |
Sam's taken Nan's advice and realised that if they've | 0:39:42 | 0:39:45 | |
blown the budget we gave them, then there's only one thing for it. | 0:39:45 | 0:39:48 | |
-I'm here for the shoot. -He's going to have to make some more. | 0:39:49 | 0:39:52 | |
Wicked, thank you. | 0:39:52 | 0:39:54 | |
Well, because this week's budget was basically based on how many | 0:40:00 | 0:40:03 | |
modelling jobs and stuff that I got last year, it's kind of | 0:40:03 | 0:40:06 | |
put a bit of pressure on me to want to be busier, because I thought | 0:40:06 | 0:40:09 | |
if this is a real-life situation, you know, | 0:40:09 | 0:40:12 | |
if I didn't get any jobs for three months or something like that, | 0:40:12 | 0:40:15 | |
I could be out the flat straight away. So there's a lot more pressure | 0:40:15 | 0:40:18 | |
on making sure you're busy, making sure you're working all the time. | 0:40:18 | 0:40:22 | |
And it's a good job he went cos Lara's just been out | 0:40:22 | 0:40:24 | |
and blown their bill money. | 0:40:24 | 0:40:27 | |
I got a nice little red bikini. | 0:40:27 | 0:40:29 | |
And then I got a nice yellow and navy bikini, so the yellow | 0:40:30 | 0:40:34 | |
and navy one goes with the flip-flops. | 0:40:34 | 0:40:37 | |
-How much did you spend on them bikinis? -100. | 0:40:37 | 0:40:40 | |
-A 100 quid... -Three bags. -..on a bikini... -Two bikinis. | 0:40:40 | 0:40:42 | |
..at this time when we're trying to do something like this? | 0:40:42 | 0:40:45 | |
You've left us skint. | 0:40:45 | 0:40:46 | |
Luckily, Sam's been busy arranging to bring in more bacon. | 0:40:46 | 0:40:51 | |
I'm working tomorrow on a big shoot and then I've got a casting today, | 0:40:51 | 0:40:55 | |
so I think it's picking up again. | 0:40:55 | 0:40:57 | |
But Lara's not happy about how. | 0:40:57 | 0:41:00 | |
-You know I don't like you doing it, so... -It's about money. | 0:41:00 | 0:41:03 | |
Would you like it if it was the other way round | 0:41:03 | 0:41:05 | |
-and I was doing, like, bikini or lingerie shoots? -Well, it depends. | 0:41:05 | 0:41:09 | |
Can you imagine if you was like the face of Victoria's Secret - | 0:41:09 | 0:41:11 | |
I'd be well chuffed! La Senza! | 0:41:11 | 0:41:14 | |
Can you imagine going past La Senza and just seeing you there? | 0:41:14 | 0:41:17 | |
-It would be wicked! -If it was the other way round, you would hate it. | 0:41:17 | 0:41:21 | |
I don't like the fact that other people see you the way I see you. | 0:41:21 | 0:41:24 | |
Like, I hated it when you did stuff in your boxers because it's like | 0:41:24 | 0:41:27 | |
I don't want other people seeing you like that. | 0:41:27 | 0:41:29 | |
It should be how only I see you. Cos you're mine, | 0:41:29 | 0:41:33 | |
and that is the only bit I have left to myself that nobody else can have. | 0:41:33 | 0:41:36 | |
You have. You've got me to yourself. | 0:41:36 | 0:41:38 | |
-I know that. -Not pictures. -Well, that's how I feel. | 0:41:38 | 0:41:41 | |
Oh, I don't want to talk about this any more. | 0:41:41 | 0:41:43 | |
For the first time all week, the pressures of living like Mum and Dad | 0:41:43 | 0:41:47 | |
are starting to get to them both. | 0:41:47 | 0:41:49 | |
While Lara heads out to cool down, Sam goes to let off some steam. | 0:41:58 | 0:42:03 | |
My emotions are running high anyway, but I think that made it worse, | 0:42:06 | 0:42:10 | |
but this is the first time really | 0:42:10 | 0:42:12 | |
that we've been in each other's faces, like, 24/7 now. | 0:42:12 | 0:42:16 | |
Lara over-reacts to small things. | 0:42:16 | 0:42:19 | |
She's always been a drama queen, you know? But I suppose... | 0:42:19 | 0:42:23 | |
I don't know, maybe in a way it's one of the things I like about her. | 0:42:23 | 0:42:26 | |
I hate arguing with him. | 0:42:26 | 0:42:28 | |
It does my head in. It must do his head in, and it ended up being | 0:42:28 | 0:42:31 | |
more than what it should have been in the first place. | 0:42:31 | 0:42:34 | |
While living alone is rocking the love boat in London... | 0:42:36 | 0:42:39 | |
..back in South Wales, | 0:42:42 | 0:42:44 | |
it looks like Jase has taken to her new freedom like a duck to water. | 0:42:44 | 0:42:48 | |
Do you think it's harder than what you expected? | 0:42:48 | 0:42:50 | |
No, I think like it's easier, like, it's much more relaxed. | 0:42:50 | 0:42:53 | |
I thought I'd be so stressed out all the time, every evening, | 0:42:53 | 0:42:55 | |
because I stress over everything, but it's been all right so far. | 0:42:55 | 0:42:59 | |
-It's so much easier having your own space. -Yeah. | 0:42:59 | 0:43:02 | |
Jase is even thinking about getting a job | 0:43:02 | 0:43:04 | |
and is going for a day's work experience at a travel agent's, | 0:43:04 | 0:43:08 | |
leaving Jack at home with daughter Kaydee. | 0:43:08 | 0:43:11 | |
Yeah, looking forward to having her all day. | 0:43:11 | 0:43:14 | |
I don't think I've really had her by myself ever since she's been born. | 0:43:14 | 0:43:18 | |
But before she leaves for her big day, Jack receives some news. | 0:43:18 | 0:43:22 | |
Our working tax credit has gone down. It's gone down to 20 quid. | 0:43:22 | 0:43:25 | |
-Has it really? -I swear on my life. | 0:43:25 | 0:43:27 | |
-Jack? -Yes, Jase! | 0:43:30 | 0:43:32 | |
Jack's low income means the couple rely on working tax credits | 0:43:35 | 0:43:39 | |
to help pay the rent, | 0:43:39 | 0:43:40 | |
but after working a year full time, | 0:43:40 | 0:43:42 | |
they've now been cut. | 0:43:42 | 0:43:44 | |
It's a massive blow for the couple. | 0:43:44 | 0:43:46 | |
Should be another 50 quid on it. | 0:43:47 | 0:43:51 | |
You said 20's gone in. | 0:43:51 | 0:43:52 | |
Yes, Jase, so we get 70 for working tax credits. | 0:43:52 | 0:43:56 | |
I've got to sort this out, Jase. | 0:43:56 | 0:43:58 | |
Good luck today. | 0:44:00 | 0:44:02 | |
With Jase at work, it's down to Jack to sort out the problem. | 0:44:02 | 0:44:05 | |
Looks like I've had my money stopped, | 0:44:07 | 0:44:10 | |
so I'm not sure | 0:44:10 | 0:44:12 | |
whether we're going to be able to keep on this house now because, | 0:44:12 | 0:44:16 | |
obviously, we won't be able to afford it without that extra bit of money. | 0:44:16 | 0:44:19 | |
And he wasn't wrong when he said he was calm under pressure. | 0:44:19 | 0:44:22 | |
In a bid to keep their independence, he hits the phone to see | 0:44:22 | 0:44:25 | |
if he can find a cheaper house. | 0:44:25 | 0:44:27 | |
I've actually found three so far. | 0:44:28 | 0:44:29 | |
-Kaydee. -Ah, who's that? | 0:44:32 | 0:44:35 | |
-Did you miss me? -Mumma! | 0:44:35 | 0:44:37 | |
-Did you miss me? -How did it go? -I missed you. It was all right. | 0:44:39 | 0:44:43 | |
-It was all right? -Yeah. -Well? -I missed Kaydee as well as you. | 0:44:43 | 0:44:47 | |
-Ah, did it go all right, though? -Yeah. -Yeah? | 0:44:47 | 0:44:50 | |
Jack can't wait to tell Jase the good news. | 0:44:50 | 0:44:52 | |
I found three houses, two for £350 a month. | 0:44:52 | 0:44:58 | |
-Yeah. -And one for £360 a month. -Yeah. | 0:44:58 | 0:45:01 | |
-And I've worked it out with the budget. -Yeah. | 0:45:01 | 0:45:04 | |
-And it don't look too bad. -I don't want to talk about it. -Jase. | 0:45:04 | 0:45:07 | |
I don't want to speak about this - you're getting me down and depressed. | 0:45:07 | 0:45:10 | |
Jase, I've been waiting all day for you to come home | 0:45:10 | 0:45:12 | |
-so I can talk to you about this. -Well, do whatever, I don't care. | 0:45:12 | 0:45:16 | |
Well, you should care, Jase. | 0:45:16 | 0:45:17 | |
Having just got her head around her new home, | 0:45:19 | 0:45:21 | |
Jase isn't as keen to move as Jack had hoped. | 0:45:21 | 0:45:24 | |
Today's definitely been the most stressful day of the whole experience. | 0:45:24 | 0:45:28 | |
If it's a really nice house, we'll go and see it, but I have fell in love with this house. | 0:45:28 | 0:45:31 | |
I just feel so comfy now. I don't want to move Kaydee | 0:45:31 | 0:45:34 | |
around again. We'll have to move back with my parents. | 0:45:34 | 0:45:37 | |
Ah, don't get upset now. Jase. | 0:45:40 | 0:45:43 | |
While it's tough for Jack and Jase, back in London, Sam and Lara | 0:45:46 | 0:45:50 | |
have put their money bust-up behind them, | 0:45:50 | 0:45:52 | |
just in time for the end of their road test. | 0:45:52 | 0:45:55 | |
You learn so much more about each other when it's just you two | 0:45:55 | 0:45:58 | |
in the flat, so there's no-one else to turn to, there's nowhere else | 0:45:58 | 0:46:02 | |
to go to. You're in each other's face all of the time. | 0:46:02 | 0:46:05 | |
At least he's got a gorgeous face. | 0:46:05 | 0:46:07 | |
After this week, I've definitely realised how much I've | 0:46:07 | 0:46:10 | |
took advantage of my nan in the past, you know? In a way, it's kind | 0:46:10 | 0:46:13 | |
of childish to think I'm 21 years old and I've always had | 0:46:13 | 0:46:16 | |
her there for me, for, like, cooking, shopping, washing up, you know? | 0:46:16 | 0:46:21 | |
And even just having a place rent free. | 0:46:21 | 0:46:23 | |
I've definitely been taking | 0:46:23 | 0:46:25 | |
advantage of that, so I think it's going to change a bit after this. | 0:46:25 | 0:46:28 | |
And that's not all he's learnt from this week. | 0:46:28 | 0:46:31 | |
It's definitely made me think twice about how much I spend | 0:46:31 | 0:46:35 | |
and how easily I spend my money, you know? Like, I always think | 0:46:35 | 0:46:38 | |
it's coming in, but it's not going to be that. | 0:46:38 | 0:46:41 | |
When you're living by yourself, you've got other things to pay for | 0:46:41 | 0:46:43 | |
and it'll definitely make me prioritise a bit more, I think. | 0:46:43 | 0:46:46 | |
After blowing the budget, they ended the week totally skint, | 0:46:46 | 0:46:50 | |
but there have been some benefits. | 0:46:50 | 0:46:52 | |
I think our sex life has been fantastic, ain't it? | 0:46:52 | 0:46:56 | |
-It's been wicked, ain't it? -Yeah, definitely. | 0:46:56 | 0:46:58 | |
But even Sam has to admit that there's more to living together | 0:46:58 | 0:47:01 | |
than sex. | 0:47:01 | 0:47:03 | |
I've loved the week. I've loved having a little place with you. | 0:47:03 | 0:47:06 | |
I think it's definitely made me know, like, I could live with you. | 0:47:06 | 0:47:10 | |
-Ah. -I could put up with her. couldn't I? | 0:47:10 | 0:47:13 | |
-No. -No? -Maybe it's made me learn that I could put up with you. -Yeah. | 0:47:13 | 0:47:19 | |
So, while they make their big decision, | 0:47:19 | 0:47:21 | |
Nan is having a look at how their week has gone. | 0:47:21 | 0:47:24 | |
Yesterday, Lara comes in with a little treat for herself - | 0:47:24 | 0:47:28 | |
two bikinis. | 0:47:28 | 0:47:29 | |
Well, I'm surprised it's Lara that's spent the money and not Sam. | 0:47:29 | 0:47:34 | |
It seems that Sam's thinking now more about money | 0:47:34 | 0:47:38 | |
and Lara's just gone and frittered it. | 0:47:38 | 0:47:43 | |
So, after a week of revelations, will Sam and Lara move out for good | 0:47:43 | 0:47:47 | |
or go back home to Nan? | 0:47:47 | 0:47:49 | |
Hi. | 0:47:49 | 0:47:51 | |
-How are you? -All right? | 0:47:51 | 0:47:54 | |
-I've been watching you on the laptop. -Have you seen us? | 0:47:56 | 0:48:01 | |
Yeah, I've seen you and I was quite impressed because you was very good. | 0:48:01 | 0:48:05 | |
Yeah, you've impressed. I've watched him washing up and clearing up | 0:48:05 | 0:48:09 | |
and tidying and making you tea and biscuits when you came in | 0:48:09 | 0:48:13 | |
from your night out, and I'm quite impressed that you have managed | 0:48:13 | 0:48:18 | |
and you've managed as good as you have. | 0:48:18 | 0:48:20 | |
I think it has made me think twice about what I spend money on, though. | 0:48:20 | 0:48:23 | |
-I will try and budget my money now. -That's good, that's good. | 0:48:23 | 0:48:26 | |
-I've been budgeting well, you know? -You can budget well. | 0:48:26 | 0:48:28 | |
I've really budgeted well this whole week. Food and getting to work, | 0:48:28 | 0:48:31 | |
-that's all I've spent my money on, really. -We've loved this week. | 0:48:31 | 0:48:35 | |
-You've liked it, you've enjoyed it? -Yeah. More than anything, I think | 0:48:35 | 0:48:38 | |
-I've learnt that I could definitely live with Lara. -Ah. | 0:48:38 | 0:48:42 | |
-You could. -Me and Lara have got something to tell you. -What? | 0:48:43 | 0:48:47 | |
We would love to stay there. We just don't have the money. | 0:48:51 | 0:48:54 | |
If we had a full-time job, I think we definitely would be able | 0:48:54 | 0:48:57 | |
to afford it more because we don't earn enough at the moment. | 0:48:57 | 0:49:00 | |
It's not that, but once the rent and the bills have come out, | 0:49:00 | 0:49:02 | |
to live off something... | 0:49:02 | 0:49:03 | |
No-one in their right mind who's got a normal job at our age | 0:49:03 | 0:49:06 | |
-can afford to live... -No, I know. | 0:49:06 | 0:49:09 | |
..in London, period, unless you're living in a squat. | 0:49:09 | 0:49:12 | |
I can't live my life thinking, going to work, | 0:49:12 | 0:49:16 | |
doing a job I don't want to do, for money to live in a place I don't | 0:49:16 | 0:49:19 | |
want to be in, do you know what I mean? And getting old and teaching | 0:49:19 | 0:49:22 | |
your kids to do the same thing - it's no way to live your life at all. | 0:49:22 | 0:49:25 | |
If you want a place, the pair of you, you've just really | 0:49:25 | 0:49:29 | |
got to save, you've got to put money away, so you can learn. | 0:49:29 | 0:49:33 | |
-Of course. -Good. -I'm a changed man. -Definitely life experience. | 0:49:33 | 0:49:36 | |
You've changed? | 0:49:36 | 0:49:38 | |
-I'm finding it hard to believe, but it's true. -He's changed. | 0:49:38 | 0:49:41 | |
-Definitely a life experience, though. -Good. | 0:49:41 | 0:49:44 | |
I'm very glad for now that he's coming back. | 0:49:44 | 0:49:46 | |
You know, he seems to be happy | 0:49:46 | 0:49:49 | |
and he seems to agree with Lara that he's got to start being a bit | 0:49:49 | 0:49:55 | |
more responsible, and I think he will. Hopefully. Hopefully. | 0:49:55 | 0:50:01 | |
If you're coming back...there have got to be some ground rules. | 0:50:03 | 0:50:07 | |
Are you going to pick up your towels which you just leave on the floor? | 0:50:07 | 0:50:12 | |
Yeah, I'll pick my towels up. | 0:50:12 | 0:50:14 | |
And are you going to pick up your clothes a bit more? | 0:50:14 | 0:50:16 | |
-Yes. Can I ask one thing off you? -Yes, darling, yes. | 0:50:16 | 0:50:19 | |
When me and Lara are in my bedroom, | 0:50:19 | 0:50:22 | |
you're not allowed to burst in at any given time. | 0:50:22 | 0:50:26 | |
I don't think I do burst in. Sometimes I... | 0:50:26 | 0:50:28 | |
You knock, then come in. | 0:50:28 | 0:50:31 | |
We have got half a second of privacy to jump off each other | 0:50:31 | 0:50:35 | |
-before you come in. -Oh, for goodness' sake. | 0:50:35 | 0:50:37 | |
Too much information. Don't be rude. | 0:50:37 | 0:50:39 | |
We could be cuddling, watching a film. | 0:50:39 | 0:50:42 | |
I'd love to move in with Sam one day. Some time soon, hopefully. | 0:50:42 | 0:50:47 | |
I'd move in with you tomorrow if I could. | 0:50:47 | 0:50:49 | |
So, it's back to Nan's for Sam and Lara. | 0:50:49 | 0:50:52 | |
And what about Jack and Jaseleigh? | 0:51:10 | 0:51:13 | |
Tomorrow is the end of their road test, but after their tax credits | 0:51:13 | 0:51:16 | |
were cut, they can't afford the house they're in. | 0:51:16 | 0:51:19 | |
Will a cheaper place be the answer? | 0:51:19 | 0:51:21 | |
-It's not as nice as ours, is it? -It's not, no. | 0:51:21 | 0:51:24 | |
Not liking it at all. | 0:51:26 | 0:51:27 | |
No, the bathroom is not very nice. | 0:51:27 | 0:51:30 | |
Still attached to their expensive house, | 0:51:30 | 0:51:32 | |
Jase can't see past the interesting decor. | 0:51:32 | 0:51:35 | |
Plus, there's Chinese stuff on the wall. | 0:51:35 | 0:51:38 | |
Who knows what that says? It could be cursed, know what I mean? | 0:51:38 | 0:51:41 | |
I think we're going to go back now, have a look at our budget | 0:51:41 | 0:51:44 | |
and see what the best plan is. | 0:51:44 | 0:51:46 | |
So with their finances still up in the air | 0:51:46 | 0:51:48 | |
and decision time tomorrow, will they pay the high price | 0:51:48 | 0:51:51 | |
of freedom or go running back to the Hotel of Mum and Dad? | 0:51:51 | 0:51:56 | |
With the tax credits, I think it's made our decision a lot more | 0:51:56 | 0:51:59 | |
difficult because, obviously, we've had our money cut substantially | 0:51:59 | 0:52:02 | |
and it's going to be a lot harder | 0:52:02 | 0:52:04 | |
if we do decide to move out and live by ourselves. | 0:52:04 | 0:52:08 | |
I was scared, more than anything, about not knowing what to expect, | 0:52:08 | 0:52:11 | |
obviously leaving my parents, | 0:52:11 | 0:52:13 | |
because they've always been there to protect me, and moving up here. | 0:52:13 | 0:52:16 | |
I have to just protect myself and I'm going to have to protect | 0:52:16 | 0:52:19 | |
my family now, even though I'm only 19, but I'm not a kid. | 0:52:19 | 0:52:23 | |
I think we're just going to have to sit down, have a good talk | 0:52:23 | 0:52:26 | |
and see what our plan of attack is and see | 0:52:26 | 0:52:29 | |
whether we think it's right to move out or whether we don't think | 0:52:29 | 0:52:33 | |
we're ready, and we move back in with Jase's parents. | 0:52:33 | 0:52:35 | |
Before they hear the decision, | 0:52:38 | 0:52:39 | |
John and Julie get to see how the couple have coped for the week. | 0:52:39 | 0:52:43 | |
They're a couple starting out on life. | 0:52:46 | 0:52:48 | |
-It's hard going. Their tax credits have been cut. -£50. | 0:52:48 | 0:52:52 | |
-50 quid - that's a lot a week, that's a lot of money. -Yeah. | 0:52:52 | 0:52:57 | |
It's just more pressure on them moving out, you know, basically. | 0:52:57 | 0:53:01 | |
The odds are against them at their age. There's no two ways about it. | 0:53:01 | 0:53:04 | |
-Has it been a good experience? -Yeah, definitely. | 0:53:11 | 0:53:15 | |
It was better than I thought it would. I thought that I'd be a lot more stressed. | 0:53:15 | 0:53:19 | |
So what's been better than you thought it would be? | 0:53:19 | 0:53:22 | |
-Just being on your own? -Yeah, yeah. | 0:53:22 | 0:53:25 | |
Biggest problem we've had really is the working tax credits being cut, | 0:53:25 | 0:53:28 | |
but I went on housing benefit | 0:53:28 | 0:53:30 | |
and it says I'm entitled to £30 a week housing benefit. | 0:53:30 | 0:53:33 | |
Yeah, that's something. | 0:53:33 | 0:53:35 | |
£30 a week, it's not... Every little helps, doesn't it? | 0:53:35 | 0:53:38 | |
-All in all, it's been a really good week, hasn't it? -Yeah. | 0:53:41 | 0:53:44 | |
Probably the biggest question now... Biggest experience | 0:53:46 | 0:53:49 | |
of your lifetime, you've had a week apart from us. | 0:53:49 | 0:53:52 | |
Have you come to a decision what you're going to do, like? | 0:53:52 | 0:53:55 | |
Right, we thought about this long and hard and worked out all | 0:53:57 | 0:54:01 | |
the money and everything. We've decided we'll stay in this house. | 0:54:01 | 0:54:04 | |
Kaydee's settled in great, so we don't really want to | 0:54:04 | 0:54:08 | |
have to move her, but, no, we really liked the house. | 0:54:08 | 0:54:10 | |
I'm really proud of you guys, especially Jack. Good man. | 0:54:10 | 0:54:14 | |
Well done, guys. | 0:54:16 | 0:54:18 | |
From pampered princess to liberated lady, Jase has come a long way | 0:54:20 | 0:54:24 | |
in one week, and is finally moving out of home for good. | 0:54:24 | 0:54:28 | |
I know money's going to be a bit tight now for us | 0:54:30 | 0:54:33 | |
but I really think it's going to be worth it in the long run, | 0:54:33 | 0:54:37 | |
having a nice house for me, Jase and Kaydee. | 0:54:37 | 0:54:40 | |
The decision they made was the one I expected and I'm glad, as well. | 0:54:40 | 0:54:44 | |
Much as we miss them, I'm glad they feel that they can move on, | 0:54:44 | 0:54:47 | |
they're confident enough to. | 0:54:47 | 0:54:49 | |
So, just best of luck to them. | 0:54:49 | 0:54:51 | |
It's such a big decision to make. | 0:54:51 | 0:54:54 | |
I didn't realise how big it was till we had to make it. | 0:54:54 | 0:54:57 | |
They're just really proud of us that we've managed to get | 0:54:57 | 0:54:59 | |
our own house now and we're getting our lives started together. | 0:54:59 | 0:55:04 | |
Next time on the Hotel Of Mum And Dad, | 0:55:16 | 0:55:18 | |
we have a pampered princess and her boring boyfriend... | 0:55:18 | 0:55:21 | |
When we first got together, my family used to call him Boring Barry. | 0:55:21 | 0:55:26 | |
We met through a friend, | 0:55:26 | 0:55:27 | |
and then I kind of got a bit obsessed with Barry. | 0:55:27 | 0:55:30 | |
It was a bit weird at first. Stalking me all the time, | 0:55:30 | 0:55:34 | |
always coming to see me. "Oh, God, there she is again." | 0:55:34 | 0:55:36 | |
..and a pair of spend-aholic party animals. | 0:55:36 | 0:55:39 | |
All we spend our money on is going out drinking with our friends. | 0:55:39 | 0:55:42 | |
How will any of them cope out in the real world? | 0:55:42 | 0:55:44 | |
-We're both drunk. -What's wrong with you, Barry? | 0:55:44 | 0:55:47 | |
-That's skanky. -It's disgusting. | 0:55:47 | 0:55:49 | |
Oh, I've got no time for this. | 0:55:49 | 0:55:51 | |
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