Episode 1 Hotel of Mum and Dad


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-Living at home is a cushy number...

-Have you got any washing?

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-..leaving you with money to burn...

-That's 500.

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All we spend our money on is going out drinking.

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That's a grand and a half.

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My financial focus is having massive jugs.

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No wonder so many young people are living with Mum and Dad.

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Mum does all the chores and that in the house.

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Just to sort the water, the gas, the food.

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To give all that up and go and do it myself just seems a bit silly.

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They're even moving their other half in.

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All of a sudden there's a boy in her bedroom.

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We've got his mum right next door.

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So what happens when they have to move out and fend for themselves?

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100 quid on a bikini? You've left us skint.

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We're giving young couples the chance to find out.

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I don't know what to do with this. How do I put it in the bin?

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Will they relish their freedom?

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Our sex life has been fantastic.

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Or push each other to breaking point?

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I just don't know if I'm in love with her.

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What's wrong with you, Barry?

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Will they move out for good?

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I absolutely love having my own place.

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Or run home to the Hotel of Mum and Dad?

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Are you going to stay in the flat?

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Meet childhood sweethearts Sam and Lara.

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They're 21 and have been together for five years.

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Lara literally jumped into my life.

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I was talking to one of her friends at school and she literally -

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boop - "Hi, my name's Lara."

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Sam works as a model

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so it's no surprise what first attracted Lara to him.

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He was drop dead gorgeous, obviously, and he's funny

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and very charming and he always makes me laugh, always.

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DOG BARKS

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Lara works part-time in a taxi firm...

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And what time do you want that for?

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..as well as volunteering at the Blue Cross.

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Do you want to go for a walk?

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My ambition is to become a veterinary nurse

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and it's quite hard to get a nurse position, a student position,

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without having any work experience or anything like that.

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She laughed at my silly jokes, found me funny.

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Obviously she was amazingly gorgeous.

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In a way, I fell head over heels for her.

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It's been like that ever since.

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For the past year,

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these lovebirds have been shacked up together in this gorgeous house,

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right in the heart of London's swanky Islington.

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Me and Sam just generally lay on here entwined,

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trying to fit on the sofa.

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No, they haven't won the lottery,

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it's all down to the generosity of one person - Sam's lovely nan, Jean.

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They live rent free, electric free,

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internet free, everything free.

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Sam's lived with his nan since the age of three

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and it's fair to say, he's had it pretty easy.

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She does my washing, most of the times she does the cleaning.

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I clean the room, I change the bed,

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do his washing and his ironing.

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I think he does get mollycoddled a bit.

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Nan even cooks for Sam,

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who has got used to snacking on steak sandwiches.

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Steak's for dinners, not for a snack.

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I'd have steak three times a day if I could.

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Well, we always say to him, it's a hotel for him.

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The thing is, Sam isn't paying hotel rates.

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In fact, he's not paying any rates at all.

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-You never give me money.

-Oh, Nan, of course I do.

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You go out when I go to bed and you come in when I get up.

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-What?

-Does he?

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It may be rent-free but there is one downside to living with Nan.

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I don't think your Nan's knocked once, when she's come in.

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She don't knock. She never knocks.

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Definitely sex life is not good when you live with your nan.

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Whenever something's about to go down...

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..you can always hear the stairs, dung, dung, dung.

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Normally hear her coming up the stairs and we're like,

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-"Oh, my God!"

-Yeah. Oh, here we go. You all right?

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-All right.

-Nice of you to knock.

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-Yeah.

-Like that, basically.

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I've not got a lock on my door, I've got like a dodgy door.

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So generally about seven o'clock in the morning, either me or Sam

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will pick up this thing here

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and just shove it against as much as we can - at least we've got

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a bit of pre-warning so we know that she's trying to get in.

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Now Lara is desperate for privacy.

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We're just like, "Oh, my God, we need to get out of here."

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We need to have our own space and stuff like that.

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She's decided it's time they moved out and we're going to help them

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try it for a week, but there's one big problem.

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Charlie...

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As well as his modelling, Sam also works in a shop,

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but he's been known to blow a week's wages on one boys' night out.

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If we're going out on a mad night out,

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you could easily spend 200 quid. Easily.

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As soon as he gets a bit of drink down him, he then spends more money.

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Sometimes he ends up going out and spending 300 quid

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and that really upsets me.

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And what doesn't go on booze goes on his wardrobe.

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He continuously comes back...

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That's 500...

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-..even with a little bag.

-That's probably about 500.

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And I think, "Oh, how much have you spent now?"

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That's a grand and a half.

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Not to mention his generous side.

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Sam bought me these, Sam bought me them.

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He bought me these cos I told him I loved them.

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I spend way too much on treating Lara.

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Well, this one was about 300. I'm a proper girly-girl at heart.

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This one was like 250, this one was 250.

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Everyone likes the pretty things, don't they? Everyone likes

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the finer things in life. This was 220,

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and then my Louis, which I've had since I was 16 -

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that was about 500 quid, I think.

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But now Lara's desperate for a home of their own,

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is Sam ready to swap spending for saving?

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For me and Lara to work, I think we definitely have to move out

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because, you know, it just comes a point where you can only be

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living here for so long. You need your own privacy

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and we need to start a life together.

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So that was big spender Sam and his shopaholic girlfriend,

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and in Wales we've got a pair of pampered young parents.

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Jack, 20, met Jaseleigh, 19, three years ago.

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I thought she was, er, quite pretty, so I thought I'd go for it.

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It was love at first sight after a week and we moved really fast.

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He would sleep over at my house, like, all the time.

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Like within like a month, weren't it, he moved in, practically.

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It was a bit mad because, for me,

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I've never really got that close to a girl in that such a fast time.

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I don't think it was intentionally, was it? It was just like...

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-He started moving his bits in...

-I just moved more and more things in.

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I had a tiny TV so he moved his TV in.

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But it looks like the couple didn't waste too much time watching

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Jack's massive TV. Before long, two became three.

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Like, it was about a year, I think, into our relationship

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and we just started talking about it and then,

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because I was on the pill, I came off the pill and we tried

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and it happened really quickly, didn't it?

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And baby Kaydee couldn't have come at a better time for Jack,

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who was on the verge of living a very different life.

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In my past I wasn't exactly a good kid. I would...

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I was in trouble with the police quite often.

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Meeting Jaseleigh has completely changed my life -

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we've had a baby, I've started working.

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It's a massive responsibility now.

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Everyone says if he hadn't met me he would have been in prison by now.

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Instead, Jack is living, working and even holidaying

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with Jaseleigh's family, and ruling the roost is Dad, John.

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All of a sudden there's a boy in her bedroom.

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I was so protective. I thought he was scrawny, but fed him up,

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got him a job out with me and the rest is history, as they say.

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That's right - Jack's boss is his future dad-in-law.

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I leave at six o'clock in the morning for work and then I see him all day

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in work. Basically I'm with him for twelve hours of the day

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but when I come home then I obviously do see him in the house as well.

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Daddy's girl Jaseleigh is spoiled rotten by both her parents

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and the couple don't lift a finger at home.

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We help Jaseleigh and Jack with everything, really.

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-Jay.

-Mum does everything - like, the weekly shopping,

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-I wouldn't know how much anything cost.

-Jack, dinner's ready.

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Coming.

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She'll just sort the water, the gas, the food,

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she'll do it all herself. She likes doing it all, I'm sure she does.

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Yeah.

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Jaseleigh is ditsy at times.

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You've got to put water in to boil an egg.

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Mum, I know how to put water in to boil an egg, I'm not stupid.

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Well, a lot of the times, actually.

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She can clean but I wouldn't say she can cook.

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-How would you cook spaghetti bolognese?

-Lentils...

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Once she phoned my mobile to tell me that everything was burnt

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and that's the only time I've ever let her cook me food.

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With Mum and Dad on call, it's a cosy arrangement,

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but is it too cosy for Jack?

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Even though I've been living with Jase and her family

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for over two years now, it still doesn't feel like my home.

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I guess it's about time that we just moved into our own house and just

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have a family home where we can settle down, just the three of us.

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And for Jack, that means not just being a man in the house

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but THE man of THE house.

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I'm proud of him in a way, you know?

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-He looks after the baby.

-He's a great father.

-Looks after Jase.

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Well, he's got two babies - Jase and Kaydee, like.

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He looks after the pair of them.

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I'm really panicking, like, I'm going to be upset when I move,

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obviously, because I, you know, lived with my parents for ages.

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Jaseleigh has agreed to try a week living in a place of their own

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and we're going to help them do it.

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Uh-oh.

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But a week is the longest she and her parents have ever been apart.

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Well, it will be tears Friday when they move, definitely.

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And letting go could be just as hard for Julie and John.

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-End of an era.

-End of an era, I think, when they move out.

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I'm looking forward to them moving out in one way because obviously

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we get our freedom back that we haven't had for a while.

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There'll definitely be tears shed, no doubt at all,

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but I think it will be on both parts because we are quite close,

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obviously, or we wouldn't be able to live together.

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So, we've got a nanny's boy with a spending problem in London...

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That's probably around 500. That's a grand and a half.

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..and a pampered princess in Wales.

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My mum does everything - like the weekly shopping,

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I wouldn't know how much anything cost.

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They're about to wave bye-bye to their cushy lives.

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How on earth are they going to cope in the big bad world?

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-I don't care.

-You should care, Jase.

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It's about money.

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Oh, I don't care about this any more.

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We're giving both couples the money they need to try renting

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a place of their own for a week, but it's the same budget

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they would have if they were going it alone for real.

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I don't know about you,

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but I'd prefer to live in a really nice place and be a bit skint.

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In London, Sam and Lara are working out exactly how much that is.

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Sam's desperate to stay near his nan in fancy and fashionable Islington,

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but rent here doesn't come cheap.

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It doesn't have to be local all the time. You can venture out

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and look at a new place.

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But you just can't be living in a... I just want to want to be there.

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With Sam not known for his saving and Lara just working part-time,

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Nan's worried about how they'll afford it.

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Lara saves, I know she does. She's very good.

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She would rein things in and she'd say, "No, Sam, you can't do this

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"and we can't afford that so let's, you know, get our priorities right."

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After five years together, they have no idea what each other earns,

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until now.

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How much are you getting? Like, if we was to work out,

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what would you be giving?

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Well, I earn about a grand a month.

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So I'm on about the same.

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But that's only what he earns part-time.

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With that and his modelling, he should be loaded.

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I don't know how much you earn and when you get it

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cos a lot of times you don't tell me and you're like,

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"I've just booked a holiday, I've just bought a jacket."

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I'm thinking, "How the hell are you paying for that?"

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Huh? It's your money.

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-It is my money.

-OK. I'd like to know how much you get from modelling.

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Like 11 grand.

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11 grand? That's like what I earned for the year from...

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That's basically like double your own pay.

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I don't know where it's gone.

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But she's no super-saver herself.

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You went to uni for two years and you got student loans.

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Do you know how much I owe, then?

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-Grand probably.

-No.

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How much?

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Probably about 12 grand.

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-12 grand? You went to uni...

-Yeah.

-To do a four-year course

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in events management - ended up going there a year

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and doing a bit of cheerleading and come out in 12-grand debt.

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I just like having things.

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With all their money tied up in booze,

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shoes and student loans, Sam and Lara work out

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they have just £700 a week to live on.

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Jack and Jaseleigh are more nappy bags than Louis Vuitton bags

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but are they any better with their purse strings?

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-How much do we spend on Kaydee a week?

-Roughly about £30, is it?

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Yeah, £30 on Kaydee.

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Bricky Jack works for future dad-in-law, John,

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and is the sole bread winner.

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-How much do we get paid a week?

-360.

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They also get child and working tax credits,

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which are crucial to them being able to go it alone,

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so altogether they have £500 a week.

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With money, they're both quite useless. If they've got £20 over,

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it won't be, "Right, we can get bread and milk

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"for the rest of the week." It'll be, "We'll have a takeaway."

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And then not thinking of the consequences of the next day.

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I always have to have a tan.

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I tried like buying the cheapest tanning products,

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you can't guess, but my make-up, I do like to have like expensive

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make-up, so that, that's where I spend my money, obviously.

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Well, she'll have to be pale and interesting this week

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because they're on a strict budget.

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With just £125 for rent,

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they go house hunting

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and soon find a place in Jack's old stomping ground of Clydach Vale.

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Well, this is where I grew up, this is where all my friends live.

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Obviously, it's close to my family, so that's important to us.

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But it's over budget, six miles from Jaseleigh's parents,

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and neither of them drive.

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Will Jaseleigh move this far from her folks?

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Oh, my gosh. Oh, my God, it's lush.

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I love this house but it is a bit out of our price range.

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I would like... We'd only have £30 left over a week,

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like, to ourselves.

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Mum Julie is worried about how her little princess

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will manage on her own.

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I don't think Jase is ready to move out at the moment

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because everything's got to be run past us, and I think without

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that support, they... It may not go as well as she hopes it will.

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I'm not worried about it, because I can act calm under pressure

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but Jase, she... she tends to get...

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really worked up under pressure and she doesn't handle it very well.

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Despite the distance and the cost,

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Jaseleigh has decided to take the risk.

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I think it's either going to make us or break us.

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I think we're either going to love it, having all our friends up there,

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or it's just going to be too much for us and it's going to be too much

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for me to have everybody around.

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While mummy's girl Jase has a lot on her mind,

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it's moving day for nanny's boy, Sam,

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and he's thinking about just two things...

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-All right.

-..his stomach...

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Can I pop back here for dinner and that?

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-What you talking about? That's the whole point.

-What do you mean, no?

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You're meant to do your own washing

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not bring it home to your nan to wash.

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This is why I think he wanted somewhere nearby.

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..and sex.

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I think one of the best things about it is that we ain't going to

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-have to be quiet anywhere.

-No.

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-Are you going to be all right without me?

-Yes.

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-Yeah?

-Of course.

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# Near, far, wherever you are. #

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You ain't going to cry?

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-No.

-Show some emotion. She's happy.

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She just can't wait.

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Nan's not exactly fighting back the tears but she does have one concern.

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I'm not so much worried about him not being capable

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but it's the finances, because Sam thinks when he earns money

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that that money's all for him and it just goes on him.

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-Right, you off already?

-We're off, Nan.

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-Bye.

-Take care, yeah?

-Say, "Bye."

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No-one forgets leaving home for the first time, but Sam

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and Lara are about to find out their independence comes at a price -

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a massive £367 a week...

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-It's tiny.

-It's way small.

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..for a very snug, one-bedroom flat.

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Like, you wouldn't have much to walk around in.

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You think, once the door's closed, like, all you have is a bed here.

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Not exactly what they've been used to.

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But at least they can jump into bed uninterrupted.

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That belongs to that corner there.

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But only if they can work out how to make it.

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Right, normally this ain't a problem.

0:17:330:17:35

-No, it's...

-It's like a really odd...

-It's not...

-Humongous...

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Just go and hold the duvet corners, just go and hold that.

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That'll be your job, yeah?

0:17:400:17:42

-I think living with this bird is going to be a nightmare.

-Oi!

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Can we just take this off and see if the sheet is a proper sheet?

0:17:450:17:47

-It is a sheet.

-Seems to have about ten corners.

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Wait, wait.

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Not quite the bedroom work-out the couple were imagining.

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And now spend-aholic Sam has got an even bigger challenge to face.

0:17:570:18:00

He's got to plan their spending for the week.

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All right, so after rent we've got...20, 40...

0:18:030:18:08

£333.25. OK?

0:18:080:18:13

But we've also got to think of bills as well.

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Having to allow over £100 just for bills,

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comes as a bit of a shock,

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so they've got £233 between them.

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Don't touch it.

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Once we've done a food shop we can split it and then work out even,

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cos I'm not having you walking around with that in your wallet.

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You've got too many temptations.

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While Lara keeps tight hold of those purse strings...

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..it's time for Jaseleigh to cut some apron strings.

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It's moving day, but once again Mum and Dad are on hand to help out.

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It's nerve-racking now cos we're doing a... I'm really nervous.

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Dad, John, is trying his hardest to put on a brave face.

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Yeah, I'm happy for them now.

0:19:040:19:06

-Just had that push, the push.

-To get them going, yeah.

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Gone, like, gone and that's it, like so it was just... Yeah,

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didn't think I'd feel like hitting a brick wall sort of thing,

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that's how I felt like, you know?

0:19:170:19:18

I had it over in my head and I think that's why I'm better

0:19:180:19:21

at the moment that John is, because I've already done my crying.

0:19:210:19:24

I'm not saying I'm not going to cry later on.

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SHE SOBS

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With Jaseleigh struggling to keep it together, it's a very different

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story for Jack, who can't wait to get into their new place.

0:19:430:19:46

Yeah, I'm really looking forward to this.

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It's going to be a good experience.

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It's something me or Jase have never done and it's great we get to do it

0:19:500:19:53

with each other for the first time.

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It's a tense time for the close-knit family, especially Jase.

0:20:000:20:05

I'm feeling very nervous and apprehensive because,

0:20:050:20:09

I don't know, but like I'm just upset, obviously, that

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it is really happening, like moving away from home, and it's upsetting.

0:20:120:20:18

It's only six miles down the road

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but it seems like a million miles for Jase.

0:20:270:20:29

-Look after her, Jack.

-Yeah.

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Tears of sadness.

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MUSIC: "Ho Hey" By The Lumineers

0:20:350:20:41

But the tears turn to excitement as their mates arrive to help.

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I'm like the supervisor.

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And the move wouldn't be complete

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without the perfect house-warming gift.

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There's bleach and polish.

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Recycling is every week. If you don't recycle you'll get charged.

0:21:260:21:30

-You've got to recycle your nappies now.

-Shut up.

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Cheers for coming, lads.

0:21:320:21:35

-God, it's mad, ain't it?

-I know. Are you happy, though?

-Yeah.

0:21:350:21:42

-Ish?

-Half and half.

-Why?

0:21:420:21:45

I don't know, it's just nerve-racking, ain't it?

0:21:450:21:47

Back in Islington, Sam and Lara

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are facing a nerve-racking experience of their own.

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Will their relationship stand up to the ultimate test -

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their very first supermarket trip.

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-What about...?

-What about steak? Oh, half price.

0:22:020:22:08

-Get that one as well, then.

-I'm not getting loads of steak.

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With Sam used to snacking on steak, how will he cope with a budget

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of less than £10 a day for the both of them?

0:22:140:22:18

-No.

-Why not?

-Because that one is cheaper. That one is 95p.

0:22:180:22:23

-No Sam, they're £1.15.

-All the others are.

0:22:230:22:25

-No, but you can only...

-There's one thing you've got to let me have.

0:22:250:22:28

OK, just one packet, then.

0:22:280:22:31

It's clear reining in Sam's expensive tastes isn't going

0:22:310:22:34

to be easy.

0:22:340:22:35

You sure we don't want like those little things that go, "Shh"?

0:22:350:22:38

-What does it do?

-Shh.

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But has Lara managed to keep Sam on budget?

0:22:410:22:44

-It's £63 and a penny.

-Lovely, that's fine.

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-£3.01 over.

-That's good, ain't it?

-Yeah.

-That's about what we said.

0:22:510:22:54

-We can frame that as our first shop together, yeah.

-Thank you.

0:22:540:22:58

-Thank you for coming.

-Thank you.

-Cheers.

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Now they're all set to whip up a gourmet budget meal.

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That's if they can get over one small glitch.

0:23:070:23:10

-Oh, there you are. It's on, look. Just look down here.

-That's the oven.

0:23:100:23:14

We haven't got a Scooby-Doo how to work this hob.

0:23:140:23:19

I've never, ever seen a cooker... Oh, I'm Googling it.

0:23:190:23:23

Here you are, here you are, here you are.

0:23:240:23:26

Hey!

0:23:270:23:29

Genius.

0:23:290:23:31

Sam's proved he's got brains as well as biceps.

0:23:310:23:34

But can he impress Lara with his cooking skills?

0:23:340:23:38

My nana's seen me cook before, a few times,

0:23:380:23:41

but it is a bit of a rare occasion.

0:23:410:23:43

I'm just kind of waiting for pasta to naturally cook in water

0:23:430:23:46

that's not boiling.

0:23:460:23:48

Let me know if you need a hand.

0:23:480:23:50

It feels weird me sitting down and you cooking dinner.

0:23:500:23:53

Sod all's happening and sod all's happening there, either.

0:23:530:23:57

So it's just flopping.

0:23:570:23:58

I'm sure it will be lovely, because it's made with love, isn't it?

0:23:580:24:01

There you are, darling.

0:24:030:24:05

It's really good, Sam.

0:24:050:24:07

Steak it's not, but for tonight veggie mince tastes just as good.

0:24:070:24:10

It's not bad for what we had, is it?

0:24:110:24:14

It's really nice.

0:24:140:24:15

Even if it is served a la paper plate and sauce pack.

0:24:150:24:19

Have I done you proud?

0:24:190:24:20

Mm, very.

0:24:200:24:22

Best of all, they've still got dessert to come

0:24:220:24:25

and it's guaranteed to be stomping footstep and interruption free.

0:24:250:24:28

But the next morning, with Lara at work,

0:24:430:24:45

it's not long before the harsh realities of domestic life kick in.

0:24:450:24:49

She hasn't done anything yet. She ain't washed up.

0:24:530:24:56

I cooked and cleaned yesterday.

0:24:570:24:59

I've got up in the morning, tidied up, did the bed, did the bathroom,

0:24:590:25:04

made breakfast, washed and cleaned mine and her stuff.

0:25:040:25:07

She ain't done nothing.

0:25:090:25:10

But if Sam thinks Lara's bad, he should see Jaseleigh and Jack.

0:25:120:25:16

It's day two and they are living in a war zone.

0:25:160:25:19

Oh, my God, look at the mess.

0:25:190:25:22

Oh, my knickers! I don't know where they are!

0:25:220:25:25

Oh, my God, this is a nightmare.

0:25:250:25:27

Where are my knickers? I don't know where they are.

0:25:270:25:30

The only thing they can find amongst the mess

0:25:310:25:34

is Jaseleigh's hair straighteners, so Jack's putting them to good use.

0:25:340:25:37

Get that sponge off my carpet now.

0:25:390:25:43

Jack.

0:25:430:25:44

With Jaseleigh's mum Julie haven taken care of all the food,

0:25:440:25:47

Jack and Jase have never had to write a shopping list until now.

0:25:470:25:51

How about food shopping? What's important?

0:25:520:25:55

Cheese.

0:25:550:25:57

-Cheese.

-Ham.

0:25:570:25:59

-That's it.

-That's it?

0:26:010:26:03

Well, it's a start.

0:26:030:26:04

-Cheese and ham - that's the week's shop?

-Then we can pick up stuff along the way.

0:26:040:26:08

We've got butter, we've got milk.

0:26:080:26:10

-Rolls.

-I'm up for that.

0:26:110:26:13

Always up for a roll. Like stuffed peppers.

0:26:130:26:17

I'll Google a recipe and see what we need to make...

0:26:170:26:19

-I've always wanted a stuffed pepper, never had one.

-With what?

0:26:190:26:22

Chicken breast.

0:26:220:26:23

If you get some chicken breast, I can make some fajitas then.

0:26:230:26:26

Fajita kit, write that down.

0:26:260:26:27

Can we get Fray Bentos pies?

0:26:290:26:32

But a girl needs to get her priorities right.

0:26:320:26:35

-Ah, fake tan, I need to get that.

-Are you serious?

0:26:350:26:38

Jack, it's just gone.

0:26:380:26:40

-Food's more important than fake tan.

-No, it's not.

0:26:400:26:42

They've only been in the house a day

0:26:440:26:46

when the Pontypridd search party arrives.

0:26:460:26:48

-Have you missed us yet?

-I haven't had a chance to miss you yet.

0:26:510:26:55

And the couple are quick to show off their new-found shopping skills.

0:26:550:26:59

Yeah, I bought chicken goujons.

0:26:590:27:02

No, we bought a big chicken thing, chicken platter thing, didn't we?

0:27:020:27:06

Monday's chicken, Tuesday's chicken, Wednesday's chicken.

0:27:060:27:09

-Right, we're going to make a move then, all right?

-All right.

0:27:090:27:12

So if you need anything, give us a ring.

0:27:120:27:15

With the parents packed off, the couple make the most

0:27:150:27:18

of their freedom in a time-honoured tradition - a house party.

0:27:180:27:23

-We are enjoying it.

-Yeah, just enjoying the night.

0:27:230:27:25

We've got all our friends here, so it should be a good night.

0:27:250:27:28

Living with Jase's parents had put the couple's social life on hold,

0:27:360:27:39

so being able to invite mates round whenever they want is a big bonus.

0:27:390:27:44

It's all going well so far.

0:27:440:27:46

We've got the rest of the week to go through yet,

0:27:460:27:48

so we'll see how we go.

0:27:480:27:50

And they're not the only ones making the most of life without any

0:27:500:27:53

watchful eyes.

0:27:530:27:54

DOOR BUZZES

0:27:570:27:58

Ah, there he is. What's happening, mate?

0:27:580:28:01

Sam and Lara have a big night with their friends planned, too,

0:28:010:28:04

but it's only their second day in the flat

0:28:040:28:06

and Sam is worried about money.

0:28:060:28:09

You want to see the money we've got left.

0:28:090:28:11

It ain't good, mate.

0:28:110:28:13

We were doing the budget and all that for the week, so we went

0:28:130:28:15

on a shop, put money on our Oyster cards, and one has gone already.

0:28:150:28:20

I think we've got £100 left now.

0:28:200:28:23

It's getting a bit tight because if you think about it,

0:28:230:28:25

there's two of us - that's £50 each -

0:28:250:28:27

and we've got six days left. Well, five days left now.

0:28:270:28:30

-Ta-dah.

-Hey, you all right, babe?

0:28:300:28:33

-What are your plans?

-He's on the booze, I'm on the orange juice.

0:28:330:28:36

You've been out before, though, and it's been a messy turnout,

0:28:360:28:38

-so what about the money, then? You're not taking it all with you.

-Why?

0:28:380:28:42

Because this is what we've got to live off for the rest of the week.

0:28:420:28:45

Well, you can have 40, then, and I'll keep 60.

0:28:450:28:47

Why do you keep the 60?

0:28:470:28:49

I'm more responsible than you are.

0:28:490:28:50

Lara claims to be the responsible one.

0:28:500:28:53

But while she hits a pricey bar...

0:28:550:28:57

..Sam opts for pool for a pound.

0:28:580:29:00

We was going to go for a bit of a mad night out

0:29:020:29:05

but after having the realisation of getting a budget

0:29:050:29:07

and all that, it hit me like a ton of bricks.

0:29:070:29:10

And while Sam sticks to orange juice...

0:29:100:29:12

..Lara and her mates work their way through not one,

0:29:150:29:17

but two bottles of expensive wine.

0:29:170:29:19

This is £20 and that is £20.

0:29:240:29:27

And that's just for starters.

0:29:270:29:29

Lara's getting going on the dance floor...

0:29:330:29:37

as Sam heads home to save the pennies.

0:29:370:29:39

I feel good, knowing that I'm, you know, not going to wake up

0:29:410:29:44

with a hangover and I've got a few more quid in my back pocket,

0:29:440:29:47

do you know what I mean?

0:29:470:29:49

And when Lara rolls in tipsy two hours later,

0:29:490:29:52

she's in for a surprise.

0:29:520:29:54

I can't believe you've done that.

0:29:540:29:56

Sam has tidied up completely, cleaned everywhere,

0:29:560:30:01

and has left me tea and biscuits on the side.

0:30:010:30:04

You're so lovely.

0:30:060:30:08

You're so cute, honestly... I love you.

0:30:080:30:13

While Lara is still giddy on her pricey plonk...

0:30:130:30:16

..in Wales, the hangover blues have hit homesick Jaseleigh hard.

0:30:180:30:21

I missed my mum and dad loads this morning.

0:30:240:30:28

And tomorrow's the first day I'm going to be here without Jack

0:30:280:30:31

and I'm not looking forward to it at all, really.

0:30:310:30:33

Don't get upset.

0:30:370:30:40

You have...you have Kaydee.

0:30:400:30:41

Don't get upset.

0:30:440:30:46

With Jack working tomorrow, the prospect of being

0:30:460:30:48

a stay-at-home mum in a strange town is unsettling Jase.

0:30:480:30:52

It's the reality of Jack going back to work and me being here by myself

0:30:540:30:59

and I haven't walked anywhere yet.

0:30:590:31:01

I don't even know properly where we are.

0:31:010:31:03

To help Jase feel more settled,

0:31:030:31:06

Jack takes the family on a tour of his home town.

0:31:060:31:09

First up, meeting some of the locals in the park.

0:31:090:31:12

Rip it up and chuck it to them.

0:31:130:31:15

-Look!

-What the hell is that big one, Jack?

-I don't know.

0:31:150:31:19

It looks like a heron or something, ain't it? Very odd.

0:31:190:31:22

30 birds versus two of us.

0:31:220:31:24

It's the first time we've ever done something like this, isn't it?

0:31:240:31:27

-Yeah, it's great.

-Come on.

0:31:270:31:29

No, I'll have a heart attack. Jack, Jack, the geese is coming up.

0:31:290:31:33

Jack, please, Jack.

0:31:330:31:34

Jack, please Jack.

0:31:360:31:37

-You're such a drama queen.

-You're a drama queen.

0:31:370:31:40

Sharing this with Jase and baby, we've never done anything

0:31:400:31:43

like this before because we've never been able to where we lived, with

0:31:430:31:46

her parents, but being up here, now we can do a lot more things

0:31:460:31:49

together as a family, so it's good to be able to spend a lot more time

0:31:490:31:52

doing nice things like this and not just sat in the house all week,

0:31:520:31:56

waiting for a weekend where we can go and do something.

0:31:560:31:58

But tomorrow, Jase will be home alone without Jack

0:31:580:32:01

for the first time, so whilst one romantic day ends...

0:32:010:32:04

..date night begins.

0:32:060:32:09

Oh, no, don't burn me.

0:32:090:32:12

-Do you know what you're doing?

-Course I know what I'm doing.

0:32:120:32:14

Hoping to strike it lucky?

0:32:170:32:20

Money might be tight, but romance comes first.

0:32:200:32:23

-How much money have you got left for this tonight?

-£10.

0:32:240:32:28

Is that enough?

0:32:280:32:29

I've already paid for the bowling.

0:32:290:32:32

I've got £30.

0:32:320:32:33

They have just £40 to last them another four days.

0:32:370:32:41

Can they keep it in their pocket tonight?

0:32:410:32:43

-Give me five.

-That was a shot.

0:32:430:32:46

-I'm starving.

-What do you fancy?

0:32:480:32:50

Do you want a burger? I wonder how much it costs.

0:32:500:32:53

A lot - it's massive!

0:32:530:32:55

But the spending doesn't end there.

0:32:560:32:57

By the end of the night they're down to almost nothing.

0:32:590:33:03

We've spent, like, £38 but I love doing things.

0:33:030:33:07

It makes me smile, it makes me happy.

0:33:070:33:10

But with their entire budget almost blown,

0:33:100:33:12

how long can this happiness last?

0:33:120:33:14

The following morning, the fun is over

0:33:210:33:24

and they're both feeling the effects of their splurge.

0:33:240:33:28

The budget is nonexistent any more...I don't think.

0:33:280:33:31

Maybe we have, like, a tenner left.

0:33:310:33:33

We have got two quid left.

0:33:330:33:35

I think it's kind of difficult.

0:33:360:33:38

Me and Sam have never had to stick to a budget before.

0:33:380:33:40

I think it's just a learning curve and I'll soon get to grips with...

0:33:400:33:44

like sacrificing things, like going out with friends

0:33:440:33:47

or going to the cinema or things like that

0:33:470:33:49

and just having to sit at home.

0:33:490:33:51

I could live with the cooking and the cleaning and all that

0:33:510:33:54

kind of stuff, that's not a problem to me, but it's the money.

0:33:540:33:56

At the end of the day, I wouldn't be able to live being this skint.

0:33:560:33:59

In Wales, it's reality check time for Jaseleigh, too.

0:34:060:34:10

Jack has gone to work, leaving her alone for the very first time,

0:34:100:34:14

giving her the perfect opportunity to brush up on some domestic skills.

0:34:140:34:18

With no Jack, Jaseleigh is now chief cook,

0:34:190:34:21

cleaner and bottle-washer.

0:34:210:34:23

But she doesn't need to do that all day.

0:34:250:34:29

My friend's coming up and she's going to do my nails

0:34:290:34:31

and my eyebrows because I haven't had a chance to do them for ages.

0:34:310:34:34

She's doing it for free.

0:34:340:34:36

I'm looking forward to

0:34:440:34:46

Jase cooking my dinner in the nights, and going home to her.

0:34:460:34:48

It's different being in your own house and in your own environment

0:34:520:34:55

and she's cooked the dinner as well,

0:34:550:34:57

so that just makes it a little bit better.

0:34:570:35:00

With Jack finished for the day, Jase finally hits the kitchen.

0:35:000:35:04

"Remove lid with tin opener and put open can on baking tray."

0:35:040:35:10

Right, so I've just got to put the can in.

0:35:100:35:12

I won't blow myself up, will I?

0:35:120:35:14

I won't blow myself up.

0:35:160:35:18

Let's put it in like this.

0:35:200:35:23

JACK: Hello.

0:35:310:35:32

-Jack, do you know the pie?

-Yeah.

0:35:320:35:36

Do you cook it in the tin?

0:35:360:35:38

Yeah, take the top off, for God's sake, or it will blow off.

0:35:380:35:41

Yeah, I have, I've took the top off.

0:35:410:35:43

How am I supposed to put peas in this to drain the peas?

0:35:450:35:47

The peas will just fall straight through it.

0:35:470:35:49

-How's it going?

-Not too bad.

0:36:010:36:04

-It smells nice.

-Thank you.

0:36:050:36:09

-You look nice.

-Look at my hair and my eyebrows. My nails.

0:36:090:36:13

Ah, you've been busy today, haven't you?

0:36:130:36:16

How was your first day without me?

0:36:160:36:17

It was OK. I kept myself busy today.

0:36:170:36:19

I think tomorrow's going to be a bit worser.

0:36:190:36:22

-Worser?

-Yeah.

0:36:220:36:23

Oh, looks good.

0:36:250:36:26

See if it passes the taste test.

0:36:280:36:29

Oh, that's good enough for me.

0:36:320:36:34

Back of the net, that was.

0:36:340:36:36

It's a goal for Jase, as her new-found domestic goddess skills

0:36:360:36:40

impress Jack.

0:36:400:36:42

It's really nice to know that Jase has made an effort

0:36:420:36:44

because she obviously put all the baby's clothes away, cleaned,

0:36:440:36:47

cooked dinner, and she's playing with the baby, so, yeah,

0:36:470:36:50

it's good to know that she's making an effort. I guess it's showing

0:36:500:36:54

that she's getting used to the fact that we're living on our own now.

0:36:540:36:57

Living by ourselves, I don't know if I could go back living

0:36:590:37:02

with my parents because, like, the freedom... It's hard, because

0:37:020:37:06

you have to do everything yourself, but it's nice to have that freedom.

0:37:060:37:09

What a difference a day makes.

0:37:090:37:11

Jase has transformed from the girl who couldn't be left home alone

0:37:110:37:14

to an independent woman in just 12 hours.

0:37:140:37:19

But back in the empty family home, are Mum and Dad enjoying

0:37:190:37:22

their freedom as much as their daughter?

0:37:220:37:24

-The house is cleaner.

-I've got plenty of lagers left.

0:37:240:37:28

-Plenty of food left.

-Plenty of food left.

0:37:280:37:30

It's almost like silence in the house, ain't it?

0:37:300:37:33

Yeah, but at the same time, you've got to decide if you like silence.

0:37:330:37:36

-That's right. Do we like silence?

-We don't.

0:37:360:37:39

I feel like I've been robbed.

0:37:390:37:40

It does, exactly. That's what it feels like,

0:37:400:37:43

like we've been robbed, cos it's like something's missing.

0:37:430:37:46

-I didn't realise how much my life had been on hold.

-Yeah.

0:37:460:37:50

Because of having a kid so young,

0:37:500:37:52

not really having time to ourselves first of all before we had

0:37:520:37:56

been married and everything else. And it's only now...

0:37:560:37:59

It's almost like a slap across the face. It's really, really strange.

0:37:590:38:04

I don't think they'll come back now.

0:38:040:38:06

I think they've had a taste of independence.

0:38:060:38:09

It's a bitter-sweet taste for Mum and Dad.

0:38:110:38:14

Enjoying quality time together, they have to accept the possibility

0:38:140:38:17

that their youngest daughter might not be coming home.

0:38:170:38:20

Back in Islington, after blowing their entire budget

0:38:230:38:25

in the first few days, Sam and Lara are left facing a diet

0:38:250:38:29

of Super Noodles and crisps.

0:38:290:38:31

But they've just been made an offer they can't refuse.

0:38:330:38:36

I rang my nan up just to see how she was

0:38:380:38:41

and she said she's doing a roast.

0:38:410:38:44

Chicken and gravy, carrots and broccoli.

0:38:440:38:47

You can't really turn down a roast, can you?

0:38:470:38:49

Yorkshire puddings and sweet potato.

0:38:490:38:51

I'm so used to it. I think that's one of my biggest luxuries

0:38:510:38:54

of living with my nan and that, where she always had a good shop.

0:38:540:38:57

-All right. How are you? You all right?

-Uh-huh.

0:38:590:39:02

We'd never have been able to afford it,

0:39:020:39:04

if it wasn't for Jean cooking the Sunday roast.

0:39:040:39:07

I'm so excited, my stomach's rumbling. This is so yummy.

0:39:070:39:11

I could eat this ten times over.

0:39:110:39:13

Nan's roast chicken has never tasted so good.

0:39:130:39:16

It's delicious, very yummy.

0:39:160:39:19

But Nan and best friend Sheyna want to know

0:39:190:39:21

whether it's the food or lack of money that's brought them back.

0:39:210:39:25

-So how much have you got left?

-Zilch. That's why I'm stocking up.

0:39:250:39:28

-I'll be fasting for the next three days.

-Probably a couple of pounds.

0:39:280:39:31

-No pennies at all?

-I think we've got a couple of pounds.

-That's all right

0:39:310:39:34

because we're going to start dipping into the bill money now.

0:39:340:39:37

You can't do that, because that's where you'll get into trouble.

0:39:370:39:40

With just £2 to last them the rest of the week,

0:39:400:39:42

Sam's taken Nan's advice and realised that if they've

0:39:420:39:45

blown the budget we gave them, then there's only one thing for it.

0:39:450:39:48

-I'm here for the shoot.

-He's going to have to make some more.

0:39:490:39:52

Wicked, thank you.

0:39:520:39:54

Well, because this week's budget was basically based on how many

0:40:000:40:03

modelling jobs and stuff that I got last year, it's kind of

0:40:030:40:06

put a bit of pressure on me to want to be busier, because I thought

0:40:060:40:09

if this is a real-life situation, you know,

0:40:090:40:12

if I didn't get any jobs for three months or something like that,

0:40:120:40:15

I could be out the flat straight away. So there's a lot more pressure

0:40:150:40:18

on making sure you're busy, making sure you're working all the time.

0:40:180:40:22

And it's a good job he went cos Lara's just been out

0:40:220:40:24

and blown their bill money.

0:40:240:40:27

I got a nice little red bikini.

0:40:270:40:29

And then I got a nice yellow and navy bikini, so the yellow

0:40:300:40:34

and navy one goes with the flip-flops.

0:40:340:40:37

-How much did you spend on them bikinis?

-100.

0:40:370:40:40

-A 100 quid...

-Three bags.

-..on a bikini...

-Two bikinis.

0:40:400:40:42

..at this time when we're trying to do something like this?

0:40:420:40:45

You've left us skint.

0:40:450:40:46

Luckily, Sam's been busy arranging to bring in more bacon.

0:40:460:40:51

I'm working tomorrow on a big shoot and then I've got a casting today,

0:40:510:40:55

so I think it's picking up again.

0:40:550:40:57

But Lara's not happy about how.

0:40:570:41:00

-You know I don't like you doing it, so...

-It's about money.

0:41:000:41:03

Would you like it if it was the other way round

0:41:030:41:05

-and I was doing, like, bikini or lingerie shoots?

-Well, it depends.

0:41:050:41:09

Can you imagine if you was like the face of Victoria's Secret -

0:41:090:41:11

I'd be well chuffed! La Senza!

0:41:110:41:14

Can you imagine going past La Senza and just seeing you there?

0:41:140:41:17

-It would be wicked!

-If it was the other way round, you would hate it.

0:41:170:41:21

I don't like the fact that other people see you the way I see you.

0:41:210:41:24

Like, I hated it when you did stuff in your boxers because it's like

0:41:240:41:27

I don't want other people seeing you like that.

0:41:270:41:29

It should be how only I see you. Cos you're mine,

0:41:290:41:33

and that is the only bit I have left to myself that nobody else can have.

0:41:330:41:36

You have. You've got me to yourself.

0:41:360:41:38

-I know that.

-Not pictures.

-Well, that's how I feel.

0:41:380:41:41

Oh, I don't want to talk about this any more.

0:41:410:41:43

For the first time all week, the pressures of living like Mum and Dad

0:41:430:41:47

are starting to get to them both.

0:41:470:41:49

While Lara heads out to cool down, Sam goes to let off some steam.

0:41:580:42:03

My emotions are running high anyway, but I think that made it worse,

0:42:060:42:10

but this is the first time really

0:42:100:42:12

that we've been in each other's faces, like, 24/7 now.

0:42:120:42:16

Lara over-reacts to small things.

0:42:160:42:19

She's always been a drama queen, you know? But I suppose...

0:42:190:42:23

I don't know, maybe in a way it's one of the things I like about her.

0:42:230:42:26

I hate arguing with him.

0:42:260:42:28

It does my head in. It must do his head in, and it ended up being

0:42:280:42:31

more than what it should have been in the first place.

0:42:310:42:34

While living alone is rocking the love boat in London...

0:42:360:42:39

..back in South Wales,

0:42:420:42:44

it looks like Jase has taken to her new freedom like a duck to water.

0:42:440:42:48

Do you think it's harder than what you expected?

0:42:480:42:50

No, I think like it's easier, like, it's much more relaxed.

0:42:500:42:53

I thought I'd be so stressed out all the time, every evening,

0:42:530:42:55

because I stress over everything, but it's been all right so far.

0:42:550:42:59

-It's so much easier having your own space.

-Yeah.

0:42:590:43:02

Jase is even thinking about getting a job

0:43:020:43:04

and is going for a day's work experience at a travel agent's,

0:43:040:43:08

leaving Jack at home with daughter Kaydee.

0:43:080:43:11

Yeah, looking forward to having her all day.

0:43:110:43:14

I don't think I've really had her by myself ever since she's been born.

0:43:140:43:18

But before she leaves for her big day, Jack receives some news.

0:43:180:43:22

Our working tax credit has gone down. It's gone down to 20 quid.

0:43:220:43:25

-Has it really?

-I swear on my life.

0:43:250:43:27

-Jack?

-Yes, Jase!

0:43:300:43:32

Jack's low income means the couple rely on working tax credits

0:43:350:43:39

to help pay the rent,

0:43:390:43:40

but after working a year full time,

0:43:400:43:42

they've now been cut.

0:43:420:43:44

It's a massive blow for the couple.

0:43:440:43:46

Should be another 50 quid on it.

0:43:470:43:51

You said 20's gone in.

0:43:510:43:52

Yes, Jase, so we get 70 for working tax credits.

0:43:520:43:56

I've got to sort this out, Jase.

0:43:560:43:58

Good luck today.

0:44:000:44:02

With Jase at work, it's down to Jack to sort out the problem.

0:44:020:44:05

Looks like I've had my money stopped,

0:44:070:44:10

so I'm not sure

0:44:100:44:12

whether we're going to be able to keep on this house now because,

0:44:120:44:16

obviously, we won't be able to afford it without that extra bit of money.

0:44:160:44:19

And he wasn't wrong when he said he was calm under pressure.

0:44:190:44:22

In a bid to keep their independence, he hits the phone to see

0:44:220:44:25

if he can find a cheaper house.

0:44:250:44:27

I've actually found three so far.

0:44:280:44:29

-Kaydee.

-Ah, who's that?

0:44:320:44:35

-Did you miss me?

-Mumma!

0:44:350:44:37

-Did you miss me?

-How did it go?

-I missed you. It was all right.

0:44:390:44:43

-It was all right?

-Yeah.

-Well?

-I missed Kaydee as well as you.

0:44:430:44:47

-Ah, did it go all right, though?

-Yeah.

-Yeah?

0:44:470:44:50

Jack can't wait to tell Jase the good news.

0:44:500:44:52

I found three houses, two for £350 a month.

0:44:520:44:58

-Yeah.

-And one for £360 a month.

-Yeah.

0:44:580:45:01

-And I've worked it out with the budget.

-Yeah.

0:45:010:45:04

-And it don't look too bad.

-I don't want to talk about it.

-Jase.

0:45:040:45:07

I don't want to speak about this - you're getting me down and depressed.

0:45:070:45:10

Jase, I've been waiting all day for you to come home

0:45:100:45:12

-so I can talk to you about this.

-Well, do whatever, I don't care.

0:45:120:45:16

Well, you should care, Jase.

0:45:160:45:17

Having just got her head around her new home,

0:45:190:45:21

Jase isn't as keen to move as Jack had hoped.

0:45:210:45:24

Today's definitely been the most stressful day of the whole experience.

0:45:240:45:28

If it's a really nice house, we'll go and see it, but I have fell in love with this house.

0:45:280:45:31

I just feel so comfy now. I don't want to move Kaydee

0:45:310:45:34

around again. We'll have to move back with my parents.

0:45:340:45:37

Ah, don't get upset now. Jase.

0:45:400:45:43

While it's tough for Jack and Jase, back in London, Sam and Lara

0:45:460:45:50

have put their money bust-up behind them,

0:45:500:45:52

just in time for the end of their road test.

0:45:520:45:55

You learn so much more about each other when it's just you two

0:45:550:45:58

in the flat, so there's no-one else to turn to, there's nowhere else

0:45:580:46:02

to go to. You're in each other's face all of the time.

0:46:020:46:05

At least he's got a gorgeous face.

0:46:050:46:07

After this week, I've definitely realised how much I've

0:46:070:46:10

took advantage of my nan in the past, you know? In a way, it's kind

0:46:100:46:13

of childish to think I'm 21 years old and I've always had

0:46:130:46:16

her there for me, for, like, cooking, shopping, washing up, you know?

0:46:160:46:21

And even just having a place rent free.

0:46:210:46:23

I've definitely been taking

0:46:230:46:25

advantage of that, so I think it's going to change a bit after this.

0:46:250:46:28

And that's not all he's learnt from this week.

0:46:280:46:31

It's definitely made me think twice about how much I spend

0:46:310:46:35

and how easily I spend my money, you know? Like, I always think

0:46:350:46:38

it's coming in, but it's not going to be that.

0:46:380:46:41

When you're living by yourself, you've got other things to pay for

0:46:410:46:43

and it'll definitely make me prioritise a bit more, I think.

0:46:430:46:46

After blowing the budget, they ended the week totally skint,

0:46:460:46:50

but there have been some benefits.

0:46:500:46:52

I think our sex life has been fantastic, ain't it?

0:46:520:46:56

-It's been wicked, ain't it?

-Yeah, definitely.

0:46:560:46:58

But even Sam has to admit that there's more to living together

0:46:580:47:01

than sex.

0:47:010:47:03

I've loved the week. I've loved having a little place with you.

0:47:030:47:06

I think it's definitely made me know, like, I could live with you.

0:47:060:47:10

-Ah.

-I could put up with her. couldn't I?

0:47:100:47:13

-No.

-No?

-Maybe it's made me learn that I could put up with you.

-Yeah.

0:47:130:47:19

So, while they make their big decision,

0:47:190:47:21

Nan is having a look at how their week has gone.

0:47:210:47:24

Yesterday, Lara comes in with a little treat for herself -

0:47:240:47:28

two bikinis.

0:47:280:47:29

Well, I'm surprised it's Lara that's spent the money and not Sam.

0:47:290:47:34

It seems that Sam's thinking now more about money

0:47:340:47:38

and Lara's just gone and frittered it.

0:47:380:47:43

So, after a week of revelations, will Sam and Lara move out for good

0:47:430:47:47

or go back home to Nan?

0:47:470:47:49

Hi.

0:47:490:47:51

-How are you?

-All right?

0:47:510:47:54

-I've been watching you on the laptop.

-Have you seen us?

0:47:560:48:01

Yeah, I've seen you and I was quite impressed because you was very good.

0:48:010:48:05

Yeah, you've impressed. I've watched him washing up and clearing up

0:48:050:48:09

and tidying and making you tea and biscuits when you came in

0:48:090:48:13

from your night out, and I'm quite impressed that you have managed

0:48:130:48:18

and you've managed as good as you have.

0:48:180:48:20

I think it has made me think twice about what I spend money on, though.

0:48:200:48:23

-I will try and budget my money now.

-That's good, that's good.

0:48:230:48:26

-I've been budgeting well, you know?

-You can budget well.

0:48:260:48:28

I've really budgeted well this whole week. Food and getting to work,

0:48:280:48:31

-that's all I've spent my money on, really.

-We've loved this week.

0:48:310:48:35

-You've liked it, you've enjoyed it?

-Yeah. More than anything, I think

0:48:350:48:38

-I've learnt that I could definitely live with Lara.

-Ah.

0:48:380:48:42

-You could.

-Me and Lara have got something to tell you.

-What?

0:48:430:48:47

We would love to stay there. We just don't have the money.

0:48:510:48:54

If we had a full-time job, I think we definitely would be able

0:48:540:48:57

to afford it more because we don't earn enough at the moment.

0:48:570:49:00

It's not that, but once the rent and the bills have come out,

0:49:000:49:02

to live off something...

0:49:020:49:03

No-one in their right mind who's got a normal job at our age

0:49:030:49:06

-can afford to live...

-No, I know.

0:49:060:49:09

..in London, period, unless you're living in a squat.

0:49:090:49:12

I can't live my life thinking, going to work,

0:49:120:49:16

doing a job I don't want to do, for money to live in a place I don't

0:49:160:49:19

want to be in, do you know what I mean? And getting old and teaching

0:49:190:49:22

your kids to do the same thing - it's no way to live your life at all.

0:49:220:49:25

If you want a place, the pair of you, you've just really

0:49:250:49:29

got to save, you've got to put money away, so you can learn.

0:49:290:49:33

-Of course.

-Good.

-I'm a changed man.

-Definitely life experience.

0:49:330:49:36

You've changed?

0:49:360:49:38

-I'm finding it hard to believe, but it's true.

-He's changed.

0:49:380:49:41

-Definitely a life experience, though.

-Good.

0:49:410:49:44

I'm very glad for now that he's coming back.

0:49:440:49:46

You know, he seems to be happy

0:49:460:49:49

and he seems to agree with Lara that he's got to start being a bit

0:49:490:49:55

more responsible, and I think he will. Hopefully. Hopefully.

0:49:550:50:01

If you're coming back...there have got to be some ground rules.

0:50:030:50:07

Are you going to pick up your towels which you just leave on the floor?

0:50:070:50:12

Yeah, I'll pick my towels up.

0:50:120:50:14

And are you going to pick up your clothes a bit more?

0:50:140:50:16

-Yes. Can I ask one thing off you?

-Yes, darling, yes.

0:50:160:50:19

When me and Lara are in my bedroom,

0:50:190:50:22

you're not allowed to burst in at any given time.

0:50:220:50:26

I don't think I do burst in. Sometimes I...

0:50:260:50:28

You knock, then come in.

0:50:280:50:31

We have got half a second of privacy to jump off each other

0:50:310:50:35

-before you come in.

-Oh, for goodness' sake.

0:50:350:50:37

Too much information. Don't be rude.

0:50:370:50:39

We could be cuddling, watching a film.

0:50:390:50:42

I'd love to move in with Sam one day. Some time soon, hopefully.

0:50:420:50:47

I'd move in with you tomorrow if I could.

0:50:470:50:49

So, it's back to Nan's for Sam and Lara.

0:50:490:50:52

And what about Jack and Jaseleigh?

0:51:100:51:13

Tomorrow is the end of their road test, but after their tax credits

0:51:130:51:16

were cut, they can't afford the house they're in.

0:51:160:51:19

Will a cheaper place be the answer?

0:51:190:51:21

-It's not as nice as ours, is it?

-It's not, no.

0:51:210:51:24

Not liking it at all.

0:51:260:51:27

No, the bathroom is not very nice.

0:51:270:51:30

Still attached to their expensive house,

0:51:300:51:32

Jase can't see past the interesting decor.

0:51:320:51:35

Plus, there's Chinese stuff on the wall.

0:51:350:51:38

Who knows what that says? It could be cursed, know what I mean?

0:51:380:51:41

I think we're going to go back now, have a look at our budget

0:51:410:51:44

and see what the best plan is.

0:51:440:51:46

So with their finances still up in the air

0:51:460:51:48

and decision time tomorrow, will they pay the high price

0:51:480:51:51

of freedom or go running back to the Hotel of Mum and Dad?

0:51:510:51:56

With the tax credits, I think it's made our decision a lot more

0:51:560:51:59

difficult because, obviously, we've had our money cut substantially

0:51:590:52:02

and it's going to be a lot harder

0:52:020:52:04

if we do decide to move out and live by ourselves.

0:52:040:52:08

I was scared, more than anything, about not knowing what to expect,

0:52:080:52:11

obviously leaving my parents,

0:52:110:52:13

because they've always been there to protect me, and moving up here.

0:52:130:52:16

I have to just protect myself and I'm going to have to protect

0:52:160:52:19

my family now, even though I'm only 19, but I'm not a kid.

0:52:190:52:23

I think we're just going to have to sit down, have a good talk

0:52:230:52:26

and see what our plan of attack is and see

0:52:260:52:29

whether we think it's right to move out or whether we don't think

0:52:290:52:33

we're ready, and we move back in with Jase's parents.

0:52:330:52:35

Before they hear the decision,

0:52:380:52:39

John and Julie get to see how the couple have coped for the week.

0:52:390:52:43

They're a couple starting out on life.

0:52:460:52:48

-It's hard going. Their tax credits have been cut.

-£50.

0:52:480:52:52

-50 quid - that's a lot a week, that's a lot of money.

-Yeah.

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It's just more pressure on them moving out, you know, basically.

0:52:570:53:01

The odds are against them at their age. There's no two ways about it.

0:53:010:53:04

-Has it been a good experience?

-Yeah, definitely.

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It was better than I thought it would. I thought that I'd be a lot more stressed.

0:53:150:53:19

So what's been better than you thought it would be?

0:53:190:53:22

-Just being on your own?

-Yeah, yeah.

0:53:220:53:25

Biggest problem we've had really is the working tax credits being cut,

0:53:250:53:28

but I went on housing benefit

0:53:280:53:30

and it says I'm entitled to £30 a week housing benefit.

0:53:300:53:33

Yeah, that's something.

0:53:330:53:35

£30 a week, it's not... Every little helps, doesn't it?

0:53:350:53:38

-All in all, it's been a really good week, hasn't it?

-Yeah.

0:53:410:53:44

Probably the biggest question now... Biggest experience

0:53:460:53:49

of your lifetime, you've had a week apart from us.

0:53:490:53:52

Have you come to a decision what you're going to do, like?

0:53:520:53:55

Right, we thought about this long and hard and worked out all

0:53:570:54:01

the money and everything. We've decided we'll stay in this house.

0:54:010:54:04

Kaydee's settled in great, so we don't really want to

0:54:040:54:08

have to move her, but, no, we really liked the house.

0:54:080:54:10

I'm really proud of you guys, especially Jack. Good man.

0:54:100:54:14

Well done, guys.

0:54:160:54:18

From pampered princess to liberated lady, Jase has come a long way

0:54:200:54:24

in one week, and is finally moving out of home for good.

0:54:240:54:28

I know money's going to be a bit tight now for us

0:54:300:54:33

but I really think it's going to be worth it in the long run,

0:54:330:54:37

having a nice house for me, Jase and Kaydee.

0:54:370:54:40

The decision they made was the one I expected and I'm glad, as well.

0:54:400:54:44

Much as we miss them, I'm glad they feel that they can move on,

0:54:440:54:47

they're confident enough to.

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So, just best of luck to them.

0:54:490:54:51

It's such a big decision to make.

0:54:510:54:54

I didn't realise how big it was till we had to make it.

0:54:540:54:57

They're just really proud of us that we've managed to get

0:54:570:54:59

our own house now and we're getting our lives started together.

0:54:590:55:04

Next time on the Hotel Of Mum And Dad,

0:55:160:55:18

we have a pampered princess and her boring boyfriend...

0:55:180:55:21

When we first got together, my family used to call him Boring Barry.

0:55:210:55:26

We met through a friend,

0:55:260:55:27

and then I kind of got a bit obsessed with Barry.

0:55:270:55:30

It was a bit weird at first. Stalking me all the time,

0:55:300:55:34

always coming to see me. "Oh, God, there she is again."

0:55:340:55:36

..and a pair of spend-aholic party animals.

0:55:360:55:39

All we spend our money on is going out drinking with our friends.

0:55:390:55:42

How will any of them cope out in the real world?

0:55:420:55:44

-We're both drunk.

-What's wrong with you, Barry?

0:55:440:55:47

-That's skanky.

-It's disgusting.

0:55:470:55:49

Oh, I've got no time for this.

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