Episode 1 The Year of Making Love


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In January 2012, hundreds of single people joined an ambitious experiment

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designed to find out if science can help you find love.

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Are you ready to meet your match?

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CHEERING

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It began with Britain's biggest ever blind date.

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-How you doing? You all right?

-Yeah.

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-Hey!

-How you doing, you all right?

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How you doing?

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But these were no random introductions.

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Each couple was matched by experts,

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who believe you'll be luckier in love if you take a scientific approach.

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I'm in shock, like, how it's worked.

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I hoped there'd be a bit of chemistry but there's nothing, I'm sorry!

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I'm happy. Please let him be happy too, or this is going to be brutal!

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I don't want to be nasty - she's really nice. I'm not wowed.

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Yeah, I'm the cat that got the cream. So far, so good.

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Well done, science!

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So, can love be created in a lab?

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The brains behind the experiment are Tomas Chamorro-Premuzic

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and Emma Kenny.

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Tomas is a personality profiling expert.

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Millions of people are single because they're hooked to this crazy idea

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that there's just one perfect person out there waiting for them.

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The reality is that we have several potential good matches

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and compatibility tests will help them find them.

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Emma is a behavioural psychologist.

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We've designed this experiment to prove that science can help you

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find love and that, by carefully measuring compatibility,

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you're a lot more likely to find somebody who's just right for you.

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Couples put together in the lab meet at the launch event...

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You all right?

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..with more joining in the weeks that follow...

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-I'm impressed, so...

-Yeah?

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I don't know, what kind of girls do you go for?

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-To us.

-Definitely.

-Cheers.

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Each week, we'll follow a new set of couples

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who decide to see each other again.

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He has suggested date two, which is really exciting.

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I don't know if he's getting a kiss or not.

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Depends if he goes in for one.

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Thomas and Emma will monitor their progress for up to a year.

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I really fancy Rogan, I'm not going to lie.

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-Well, let's say on a physical level it's 100% working.

-Absolutely.

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It's going to be exciting to see how our couples get along

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and no doubt there are going to be some surprises.

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It'll be fascinating to see what happens next.

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All my research and science suggests it should work

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but, in practice, we have no idea.

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Whatever happens, we'll be there every step of the way.

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But will any of the couples even like each other?

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First kiss, oh, my God!

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If I was a guy, I wouldn't do that as a date again.

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Will any of them last the whole year?

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I guess I was maybe expecting to hear from him a bit more.

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She seems to think I'm only after one thing.

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I can't stop smiling, look!

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And will the experts be proved right? Will anyone find love?

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-Kirsty, will you be my girlfriend?

-Yeah.

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This programme contains some strong language.

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What happens when you take hundreds of singletons

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and turn them into perfectly matched couples in a single day?

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Can science really help us find our perfect match?

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Welcome to The Year Of Making Love.

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It's the start of our unique experiment.

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Single guys and girls from across the UK

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are descending on the launch centre.

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Each one of them has been selected by science

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as one half of a compatible pair.

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Right now, they have no idea who they've been matched with,

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so everyone's checking out the possibilities.

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The brunette over there is amazing. If I get paired with her, I'll be a happy lad.

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-The good thing is, they're all, like, really different.

-As long as they are hot!

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The one in the purple dress, she is smokin'!

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There is a lot of dishy men in here!

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So, the launch centre is really starting to fill up

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and the singles do look a little bit nervous.

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So, down here is where everybody gets their unique number

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and then the boys go over here and the girls...

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..are in here. Looking amazing.

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# We got that sweet hot loving... #

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Everyone here is out of luck when it comes to finding love.

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I've been single for three years.

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About three or four years now.

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Two and a half years.

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Seven months.

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About two years.

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I've been single since the last 26 years.

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With no hope on the horizon,

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can science help them find their soul mate?

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I'm not sure that that poor girl that has her name written next to mine

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already somewhere on a piece of paper is necessarily, like, the one.

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I think it can, cos if you've got something in common with somebody,

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then that's the basis,

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that' a really strong basis to make a relationship work.

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So, the moment has finally come.

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Everyone's heading into the big event room to be matched up.

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So, the couples are all here. They're sitting down, they are ready, they're chomping at the bit.

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The air is thick with anticipation

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and I cannot wait to see who is matched with who.

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But first, I'm just going to have a little chat to the crowd.

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CHEERING

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Hello, everyone. It's incredibly exciting that, for each of you,

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somewhere in here is your chosen match.

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CHEERING

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OK, well, I think we should get the matchmaking machine up and running.

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Woo!

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CHEERING

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Are you ready to meet your match?

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CHEERING

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'Everyone's revved up and ready to go.

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'Tomas and Emma will monitor each new pairing

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'for signs of attraction.'

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What about this?

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The first guy to take to the stage is Will, a student from Surrey.

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My perfect woman, I believe, would be probably blonde,

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quite glamorous, quite good-looking, friendly, fun. All of that, really.

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It could be quite awkward if she was completely the opposite of what

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I'm expecting but I have to wait and see. I've no idea what to expect.

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Like everyone today, Will won't know who he's been paired with

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until he meets her onstage.

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More nervous now than excited. I've no idea what to expect.

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I just hope she likes the rose, I hope she appreciates it.

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-ANNOUNCER:

-Couple one!

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CHEERING

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Science says Will's perfect match is Kay from Essex.

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-Nice to meet you, how are you doing?

-Nice to meet you.

-What's your name?

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-I'm Kay.

-I brought you a rose.

-Thank you, that's really sweet.

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That's a really charming little match there, isn't it?

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I'm from Surrey.

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'I can't really remember a great deal. It went past so fast.'

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I think she liked my rose, which was good, it went down well.

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He seems like a good-looking boy.

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Got me a rose, which is really sweet.

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-Ah, this is terrible!

-Are you nervous?

-Yeah, can you tell?

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Do I fancy him? Maybe.

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-I can't believe we went first!

-I know! Honestly, my heart was racing.

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'She's not the normal type of girl I'd go for'

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but then, I'm going to have an open mind and see how it goes.

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I don't know his personality yet, so that's a big thing,

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so I'm looking forward to finding out what he's like.

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Will and Kay now have time to chat before they decide

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if they want to see each other again.

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Back in the matchmaking room,

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new couples are being created thick and fast.

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-How you doing, you all right?

-I'm good!

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It's the first step in this year-long experiment

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and while some couples look less than happy with their match...

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-This is terrible.

-That's not going to work.

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I don't know what to say. Not quite what I was expecting, no.

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..others seem to hit it off immediately.

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CHEERING

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Wow, so they saw each other and immediately hugged

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then they got a standing ovation.

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There's a really good atmosphere here today.

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Everyone's kind of rooting for the couples.

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-Hi.

-How you doing, you all right? What's your name?

-Josie. What's your name?

-Faisal.

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She's lovely, a nice girl. Initially, everything's cool.

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I'm definitely looking forward to getting to know him better

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then yeah, maybe we'll take it further.

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-Milk it! Milk it!

-OK!

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SHE GIGGLES

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Meanwhile, our first couple, Will and Kay,

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have been discovering they have a lot in common.

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-Really? Wow! Oh, my God.

-How close do you live to each other?

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Very close. We're literally about, I'd say less than half a mile. Oh, my God.

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'Kay is a nice girl. We have quite similar interests,'

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so obviously the whole science behind of it does make sense.

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'Really friendly, chatty guy, which is good.'

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We've got, creepily, quite a lot in common.

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I have no idea if he fancies me or not.

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We'll have to wait and see, I guess.

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I wouldn't say I fancied her yet.

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One thing that's clouding my judgement at the moment is that

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I've seen another girl sitting quite close to our table

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that I do find attractive and probably is more my normal type.

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But then, she's matched with someone else

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so I can't, obviously, go and talk to her.

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And Will's not the only one getting distracted by the ladies...

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Stranger! Yeah.

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Are you checking out another girl?! Thanks for that(!)

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If the boys don't focus on the girl they've been paired with

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they'll never find out why they've been matched.

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Let's hope the next guy looking for love gives science a chance.

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A bit nervous, but expected. Optimistic.

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As I said, not going to lie,

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if she's not very good looking I'd be pretty disappointed as well.

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22-year-old Rogan is a model and a club promoter.

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He's young, but keen to settle down.

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I have been single for...

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..two years now.

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I have gone looking for love.

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I kind of got fed up with just seeing girls

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and just kind of one-night stands and things like that,

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so decided I want to look for something a bit more serious.

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When Rogan's not pumping iron, he's out on the town.

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He's a bit of a party boy, so I think what he needs is a girl

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that can match him and can keep up with him on the social side of it.

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That might slow him down a bit.

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I think there may be a perfect person out there for me.

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I haven't found them yet, but, yeah,

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I'm willing to keep looking and trying.

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Both scoring high on sociability,

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Rogan's been paired with 29-year-old Natalie,

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a shop manager from Guildford.

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-'These two look happy with the fact that they've been matched.

-Yeah.'

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And the fact that Natalie's seven years older doesn't seem to matter.

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-He is a hottie.

-That's true, yeah!

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And I'm kind of hoping that he finds me a little bit attractive.

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-Just a little bit would be fine.

-Little bit, yeah, looks good.

-Yeah.

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Hello! Help me out here!

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-Worth the wait, definitely.

-We'll see.

-We're good.

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As the day continues, new couples are created by the minute...

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-What's your name, sorry?

-Ruth. What's your name?

-Sam.

-Sam.

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..and many of the guys are out to impress.

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From the smoothest of operators...

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-Hello!

-Hello...gorgeous!

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Shut up!

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He's really good looking. Good body!

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..to some real live Romeos.

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He seems really friendly, really charming.

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He brought me some flowers, I mean, what more can a girl ask for?

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I got you a package.

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Let's hope our next girl searching for a soul mate

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is happy with her match.

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My name is Dannie. I'm 21 and I live in North London.

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I definitely believe in love, 100%.

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I just haven't been successful in picking the right person.

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It's quite depressing, actually.

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I wouldn't say that she's necessarily unlucky in love.

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She'll always sort of find something and be like,

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"Oh, no, maybe it isn't right, because of this,"

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as she doesn't want to get let down.

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I don't think I've found my perfect match

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because I don't think many guys can keep up with me. I'm quite wild.

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I go out looking quite classy

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and I don't go out with these little skirts on or anything like that.

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Do I look like a camel?

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THEY LAUGH

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My perfect guy would have a cheeky tan. I love a bit of tan going on.

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Like, there's nothing worse than someone being quite pale.

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He's got a cheeky tan. He told me he's just had a sunbed!

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I think that science can find me the perfect partner

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because, if the science is right, they can find out anything.

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This could be the turning point in my love life.

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I hope so, like, I'm right excited about it.

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# I'm sexy and I know it... #

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Dannie's match is club promoter, Ellis, from Kent.

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-Hiya, you are right, honey?

-I'm good.

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'What do you think?'

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I like it. They may just work.

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-Bit a fake tan on the go?

-No, no, sunbed, that's it.

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He is everything I fancy. As soon as I see him I said, "Fake tan?"

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-How old are you, babe?

-I'm 19.

-Are you? You look older than that.

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Yeah, she's a good laugh really and she's good-looking,

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so, yeah, big package, so it's all good.

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That science is bang on. That boy, I'm loving him.

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He's up to scratch big-time.

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# I'm sexy and I know it. #

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I've got this thing about hygiene, like, guys with dirty fingernails or anything...

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Let me see yours. No, yours are sweet as.

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He's definitely tickling my fancy all day long.

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Dannie's like the female version of me - same likes, same dislikes.

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You better take my number.

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-I'm going call you Dannie Truelove.

-Yea, that'd be nice.

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It looks like Dannie's found the man she's been looking for

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but will our next guy enjoy as much success?

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I'm Andrew Cove, I'm from Coventry.

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Just looking for a bit of love, really.

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22-year-old Andy is a personal trainer and fitness fanatic.

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He might look the hard man, but inside, he's a real softy.

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I consider myself a bit of a romantic.

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I believe you can just fall for someone

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and you can be with people for ever.

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My grandma and grandad met, they seen each other at a dance, fell in love.

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My grandad asked my grandma to dance with him,

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they fell in love and stayed together for the rest of their lives.

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I haven't found my perfect partner yet because I think I've got...

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I need time to mature and stuff

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and I've not met the right girl that's made me want to mature.

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If science does work then

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I don't know where it leads, I would just let love blossom.

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CHEERING

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Both scoring high on loyalty,

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Andy has been paired with Kirsty, a student from Birmingham.

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-Hiya.

-You OK?

-Yeah, lovely. Twirl!

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-This is a good one.

-That's a good match.

-This is a good one. Very strong.

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-He's happy, she's happy.

-Yeah.

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Totally staying together!

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Absolutely stunning girl.

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When I first saw her, I gave her a bit of a twirl on the stage

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and got a few laughs.

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When I saw him, I was quite pleasantly surprised, actually.

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He seems like a really nice guy, he's really funny.

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Oh, my God!

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She's really funny, bubbly, everything I'm looking for really,

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so looks like it's been a pretty good match.

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After a day of solid matchmaking,

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our epic launch event is coming to an end.

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Hundreds of single people put their faith in a scientific formula

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and, as the day draws to a close,

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a final few promising pairings are made.

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Hello, beautiful!

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Hiya!

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You look incredible.

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-Do you want a piggyback?

-Yeah, I'd love a piggyback!

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Oh, my God! There's our marriage! There's our marriage!

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Hundreds of introductions have been made

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and this extraordinary year-long experiment

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is well and truly up and running.

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-So, it's up to the couples now.

-Absolutely.

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Our job is virtually done and now it's up to them,

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but I mean, we work hard to make their life easier

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and their journey more enjoyable and successful,

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so hopefully, you know, it will work.

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And there is something now fantastic for us,

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which is we're going to sit back, we're going to watch

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the experiment take place, and we're going to observe these people,

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hopefully in some cases, going through the motions

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of falling in love. And indeed, falling out of love.

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When I seen you, I thought, oh, my God, actual science is real,

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like, you're nearly as pretty as me.

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-Yeah, I'd say we are going to see each other again.

-Would you?

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No, probably not!

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First date went pretty well. Quite compatible!

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No, it went well, first date went well. It was good.

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-I think we're going to see each other again.

-Yes.

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We've swapped numbers and Faisal's asked me out for dinner.

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Just one dinner and then, after that, nothing else.

0:17:550:17:59

Joke!

0:17:590:18:00

Yeah, I want to take her home now, but she's not that kind of girl.

0:18:000:18:04

He actually has suggested this. "No" is the answer to that one.

0:18:040:18:07

We're going to do this properly. There we go, that's it.

0:18:070:18:11

I've got lipstick on him now. Yeah. There it is.

0:18:110:18:14

It's been two weeks since the launch of the experiment.

0:18:250:18:28

Tonight, Natalie is getting ready for a date with Rogan.

0:18:280:18:32

I'm less nervous now.

0:18:330:18:36

I'm actually getting quite excited again, which is a nice feeling,

0:18:360:18:40

cos I hate being nervous.

0:18:400:18:42

I don't know whether to give him a kiss on the cheek

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or just hug him or...

0:18:440:18:47

29-year-old shop manager Natalie has been single for the last four years.

0:18:480:18:53

'I believe that there is the perfect match out there for me.'

0:18:530:18:57

It's just taking me a very long time to find that person

0:18:570:18:59

or for that person to come and find me.

0:18:590:19:01

She's not short of admirers, but Natalie hasn't found the one.

0:19:020:19:07

I'm not sure what it is, you know.

0:19:070:19:09

Her relationships have been very short lately.

0:19:090:19:12

When she lets her hair down, she goes a bit wild, maybe a bit too wild.

0:19:120:19:15

But, you know, maybe that makes people go, "Ooof".

0:19:150:19:18

'My last proper boyfriend, he was younger than me.'

0:19:180:19:20

That didn't work out because he thought I wanted to obviously do

0:19:200:19:23

the whole let's-get-married thing and he wasn't ready for that.

0:19:230:19:26

I didn't want that, but he just thought that because I was older.

0:19:260:19:29

'I've also seen guys who are ten years older than me.

0:19:290:19:32

'It was weird because they didn't know what they wanted.'

0:19:320:19:35

I want to live life and enjoy it

0:19:350:19:36

and hopefully someone can share that with me

0:19:360:19:39

and we can just go on the journey together. Simple. That's all I want.

0:19:390:19:42

Natalie's been invited to Rogan's place.

0:19:420:19:45

A two-hour drive away, she's been offered a bed for the night.

0:19:450:19:49

-But Natalie's determined to take things slow.

-My pyjamas and...

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..a proper top.

0:19:560:19:57

Rogan may think that something's going to come out of staying

0:19:570:20:00

at his house, but I know that that is not going to happen.

0:20:000:20:02

There's no skin going to be shown. No.

0:20:020:20:06

If it's all about sex for him, wrong person, I'm afraid.

0:20:060:20:10

He needs to find somebody else because I'm not that person.

0:20:100:20:13

Having suffered heartbreak in the past, Natalie's hoping

0:20:180:20:21

-Rogan will be different.

-We are in Rogan-land.

0:20:210:20:27

We are near his home

0:20:270:20:30

and I've suddenly started to feel really, really, really nervous.

0:20:300:20:36

Right. That's it.

0:20:390:20:42

KNOCKING ON DOOR

0:20:450:20:47

-Hello. You all right?

-Hello. How are you?

0:20:490:20:52

-Are you good?

-Yeah, I'm good. You all right?

-Nice to see you.

0:20:520:20:55

-You too. Do you want me to take that?

-Thanks.

-You're welcome.

0:20:550:21:00

Rogan's got some people he'd like Natalie to meet...

0:21:000:21:04

-Hi.

-..his mum and dad.

0:21:040:21:06

I'm Natalie. Nice to meet you both. How are you? Are you all right?

0:21:060:21:10

-Yes.

-And you?

-Not too bad, thank you. Not too bad.

0:21:100:21:14

-Have you had a long journey?

-A couple of hours but it was fine.

0:21:140:21:17

Not too bad.

0:21:170:21:18

Meeting the parents... They obviously, they seem really, really, really lovely.

0:21:180:21:23

But it was just really weird. I felt a bit awkward. I just wanted to...

0:21:230:21:28

I don't know. I just hope they don't think I'm odd.

0:21:280:21:31

Rogan's taking the sofa tonight so Natalie can have his room.

0:21:320:21:35

I did a little bit of tidying for the first time in a long time...

0:21:350:21:38

-Oh, really?

-..especially.

-No naked photos of girls? No porn anywhere?

0:21:380:21:44

-Well...

-Am I likely to come across it?

-I hid it all so you're all right.

-Right!

0:21:440:21:48

-But, yeah, I'll just be sleeping downstairs...

-OK.

-Probably.

0:21:480:21:52

Definitely.

0:21:520:21:54

Natalie and Rogan escape the watchful eye of Mum and Dad.

0:21:560:22:00

Cheers.

0:22:000:22:01

-To our first date.

-First date.

0:22:010:22:03

It's their first chance to really get to know each other.

0:22:040:22:08

-Right. I'm going in with the fingers.

-I want to tuck into the ribs but...

0:22:080:22:11

-Do it!

-Stuff's going to get messy.

-Just take it.

0:22:110:22:15

'First date so far is actually going really well.'

0:22:170:22:19

Well, I think it is anyway.

0:22:190:22:22

We're just starting to get a bit more comfortable with each other now.

0:22:220:22:25

You just looked at me and licked your lips.

0:22:250:22:28

I was licking some sweet chilli off my lip.

0:22:280:22:30

I didn't know you were going to look up at the same time.

0:22:300:22:33

'Yeah, it's going good.'

0:22:330:22:35

Getting on really well. Had some nice drinks, nice food.

0:22:350:22:38

Getting a bit of banter going with Natalie which is always good.

0:22:380:22:42

The attraction's there,

0:22:420:22:44

but Natalie wants to know if the age gap is an issue.

0:22:440:22:47

So, the fact that I'm pushing on...

0:22:470:22:50

HE LAUGHS

0:22:500:22:52

-..30...

-Yeah?

0:22:520:22:54

..that doesn't bother you at all in the slightest?

0:22:540:22:57

Well, it doesn't bother me.

0:22:570:22:59

That's totally the opposite of what I thought.

0:23:000:23:03

I convinced myself that you weren't looking for a relationship...

0:23:030:23:06

-Why are you here, then?

-..that you were some player.

-Why are you here, then?

0:23:060:23:09

-Cos I wanted to find out for myself.

-OK. Good.

0:23:090:23:12

-It could have gone either way.

-Hopefully, you've found out now because...

0:23:120:23:15

..I'm not some sort of player. I'm just looking for a nice girl.

0:23:170:23:21

-Genuinely?

-Genuinely.

0:23:210:23:23

'Serious questions. Got, like, a bit deep for me for a first date.'

0:23:280:23:32

She seems to think I'm only after one thing, apparently,

0:23:320:23:35

which isn't the case at all. I really like her so we'll just see.

0:23:350:23:40

Got to try and convince her otherwise.

0:23:400:23:41

'I did get a bit deep in the conversation, but, to be fair,'

0:23:410:23:44

I did have a few concerns and obviously he was able to answer them.

0:23:440:23:49

-Thank you. Bye bye.

-Thank you.

0:23:490:23:51

'Yeah, possibly exciting times to come'

0:23:510:23:53

for Natalie and Rogan perhaps. Maybe. Hopefully.

0:23:530:23:59

With Mum and Dad asleep upstairs,

0:24:010:24:03

Natalie and Rogan take the opportunity

0:24:030:24:05

to have one last nightcap.

0:24:050:24:08

OK. Natalie...

0:24:080:24:11

-We're back to my house after we went for a nice date.

-Ssh. Yes?

0:24:110:24:15

How are you feeling?

0:24:150:24:18

Mmm. Well...

0:24:180:24:19

I really fancy Rogan. I'm not going to lie.

0:24:210:24:24

-I'm not going to lie.

-That's a given.

-I've had more rose.

0:24:240:24:28

-He's had more vodka.

-Yeah.

0:24:280:24:33

I'm starting to feel the effects of it.

0:24:330:24:36

But remember what I said,

0:24:360:24:38

I am not sleeping with Rogan on the first date.

0:24:380:24:42

ROMANTIC MUSIC PLAYS

0:24:440:24:46

ALARM BEEPS

0:24:530:24:55

It's the morning after the night before...

0:24:550:24:59

and Rogan's not on the sofa.

0:24:590:25:02

(Fucking hell.)

0:25:050:25:06

Getting in the shower.

0:25:120:25:14

I'm not going to lie. I don't know really the extent of what happened.

0:25:160:25:21

We came back here...

0:25:220:25:24

..had some more drink, had a bit of a chat...

0:25:260:25:31

Hmmm. Perhaps something more happened.

0:25:330:25:37

I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know.

0:25:370:25:41

-There's some wine left if you want it.

-No.

0:25:500:25:53

The bedroom plans might have gone out of the window. Um...

0:25:530:25:58

Yeah, we ended up sharing a bed. I think.

0:25:590:26:03

Worried about what Rogan's thinking, Natalie wants to clear the air.

0:26:050:26:09

In all honesty, obviously, I didn't want that...

0:26:090:26:14

I didn't want that to happen.

0:26:140:26:16

But I think...whatever was going on,

0:26:160:26:20

-we were quite comfortable with each other.

-Yeah.

0:26:200:26:22

So, you know, you sleeping in the same bed as me... Whatever.

0:26:220:26:26

-Maybe it felt quite natural, so it's not a problem.

-Yeah.

0:26:260:26:29

But I just hope that...

0:26:290:26:31

your perception of me hasn't changed, like I'm that girl,

0:26:310:26:34

cos I'd like to think that...

0:26:340:26:36

..that's not the be all and end all kind of thing.

0:26:380:26:42

-So as long as you don't think I'm some kind of floozy...

-I don't. I know you're not like that.

0:26:420:26:47

-There you go. So it's cool.

-Uh-hm.

-That's fine.

0:26:470:26:50

-And nothing's changed. So that's awesome.

-Yeah.

-Wicked.

0:26:500:26:53

Good.

0:26:550:26:56

SHE GIGGLES

0:26:560:26:58

Before saying their goodbyes, Rogan's treating Natalie

0:27:000:27:03

-to a slap-up breakfast...

-To the sandwich van!

0:27:030:27:07

..served up at his mum and dad's food van.

0:27:070:27:10

'It's going to be quite peculiar. Especially cos'

0:27:100:27:13

they're going to obviously ask us how it went last night.

0:27:130:27:17

'But I'm obviously... I'm not going to divulge details'

0:27:170:27:20

that they really don't need to know

0:27:200:27:22

'cos I don't want them to think that I corrupted their son.'

0:27:220:27:25

-How are you? Are you all right?

-Very well, yes. How are you?

0:27:280:27:31

-Yeah, good, thanks.

-Fine, thank you.

0:27:310:27:33

-Good time last night?

-It was lovely, thank you.

-It was great, thanks.

0:27:330:27:36

-Brown sandwich?

-That's yours.

-Yeah, that's me. Thank you.

0:27:360:27:39

Thank you very much. Thank you.

0:27:390:27:41

-ROGAN'S DAD:

-She seems a really sweet girl.

0:27:430:27:46

-ROGAN'S MUM:

-It's very difficult when you've only just met her,

0:27:460:27:49

but she seems lovely. Very natural and good sense of humour.

0:27:490:27:52

She'd have to have a good sense of humour to be going out with Rogan.

0:27:520:27:56

That's not very nice, is it?

0:27:560:27:59

So, when you come... You're obviously going to come down to me next time.

0:27:590:28:04

Yeah. I'm working every night next week.

0:28:040:28:06

First date with Natalie over all went really well.

0:28:060:28:08

'We had a laugh. Good banter. Felt really comfortable.'

0:28:080:28:12

It felt like we've been seeing each other for a long time, so, it was cool.

0:28:120:28:15

'So, my first date with Rogan'

0:28:150:28:18

has gone really, really, really well.

0:28:180:28:20

'Yeah, I really like him and his mum and dad seem really nice as well.

0:28:200:28:25

'Hopefully, I've made a good impression on them.

0:28:250:28:27

'We're going to meet up, I think, in a couple of weeks' time.'

0:28:270:28:31

I kind of wish it was a bit sooner, but that's fine. I can wait.

0:28:310:28:35

At the launch of the experiment,

0:28:410:28:43

Andy from Nuneaton was matched with Kirsty from Stourport...

0:28:430:28:47

CHEERING

0:28:470:28:49

..and it looked like the experts had paired them well.

0:28:490:28:53

-Yeah, that is a good match.

-That's a good one.

0:28:530:28:55

'When I saw him, I was quite pleasantly surprised, actually.'

0:28:550:28:58

Seems like a really nice guy. He's really funny.

0:28:580:29:01

Looked into her eyes and thought, beautiful.

0:29:010:29:04

-Yeah, I'd say we're going to see each other again.

-Would you?

0:29:040:29:07

Oh, thanks. We're probably not.

0:29:070:29:09

A few weeks later and Kirsty and Andy's relationship

0:29:120:29:16

has been moving forward at lightning speed.

0:29:160:29:20

They've seen each other non-stop

0:29:200:29:21

and have racked up a whopping £120 of phone bill each.

0:29:210:29:27

Since we've been matched, it's actually been moving quite fast.

0:29:270:29:30

We've been speaking loads. I think we spoke every day.

0:29:300:29:33

22-year-old student Kirsty has been out of luck

0:29:360:29:39

-when it comes to finding love.

-'I do believe in love.'

0:29:390:29:42

I like the idea of it.

0:29:420:29:44

'But I haven't found it yet.'

0:29:440:29:46

So maybe it'll just hit me.

0:29:460:29:49

The boys on campus have failed to make the grade.

0:29:490:29:52

In previous relationships, I sort of feel like

0:29:520:29:55

I wasn't treated the way I should be treated.

0:29:550:29:57

Student nights out have been non-stop fun for Kirsty,

0:30:000:30:03

but they're not helping her find a man.

0:30:030:30:05

After a drink, I think I'm really annoying

0:30:050:30:09

and, if a guy meets me when I've had a drink,

0:30:090:30:11

'I think he'd be put off straight away.'

0:30:110:30:14

Love. I want to find love. I want to find someone that I love.

0:30:140:30:19

Today, Kirsty's booked a session at an outdoor activity centre.

0:30:220:30:26

And despite it being early days, she's invited her parents along

0:30:260:30:29

to meet Andy, hoping for their seal of approval.

0:30:290:30:33

What's the situation you've told your mum and dad?

0:30:340:30:37

-Have you just said we're acquaintances or...?

-No, I said that, erm...

0:30:370:30:41

-I'm seeing a guy.

-Some guy?

-Yeah.

0:30:430:30:47

-"He's all right. He's average."

-No, I said that I like you

0:30:470:30:50

but I haven't said we're going out or anything.

0:30:500:30:53

I'm really nervous about him meeting my parents. I think I like him a lot.

0:30:540:30:59

I'm scared if they'll judge him or not.

0:30:590:31:01

I've heard her parents are really nice people, so I'm not worried

0:31:010:31:04

about that sort of thing cos I get on with most people anyway.

0:31:040:31:08

Turns out Andy's not just meeting Mum and Dad...

0:31:090:31:13

We've just got here. Where are you?

0:31:130:31:16

-Are they?! Gran and Grandad are here as well.

-Oh, my God!

0:31:170:31:21

Wow. No pressure on Andy.

0:31:210:31:23

KIRSTY GIGGLES

0:31:230:31:26

Are you all right? How's it going?

0:31:260:31:27

-What's so funny, Kirsty? What's so funny?

-Are you all right?

0:31:270:31:31

-It's Andy! That's my dad.

-I'm Roy. Pleased to meet you.

-You all right?

0:31:310:31:35

-That's my nan.

-Hello.

-Granny B.

-Nice to meet you.

-Nice to meet you.

0:31:350:31:39

-That's my mum.

-Hello.

-Are you all right?

-That's my grandad.

0:31:390:31:43

-I'll come round.

-This is the dog!

-Yes!

-Nice to meet you.

0:31:430:31:47

I just met the parents. They're really nice.

0:31:470:31:50

Didn't need to be nervous, really. Said hello and stuff.

0:31:500:31:54

Yeah, it was fine.

0:31:540:31:55

This is Chucky!

0:31:550:31:56

'I was a bit nervous, Andy meeting my parents.'

0:31:580:32:00

But I feel fine now that they've spoken.

0:32:000:32:03

He's really, like, natural with them and fine.

0:32:030:32:06

-Are either of you scared of heights at all?

-Yeah.

-Yeah.

0:32:080:32:11

This is the worst bit, I think.

0:32:140:32:16

You're running! So cocky.

0:32:170:32:20

I'm trembling. My parents are following us the whole thing.

0:32:220:32:26

Taking photos and videos.

0:32:260:32:29

It looks really easy, but it's not!

0:32:290:32:32

-It is hard.

-Especially when you can't look down.

0:32:320:32:35

-KIRSTY'S MUM:

-I think he seems a really nice guy. Natural.

0:32:380:32:41

Caring. Catches her when she's jumping off the platforms.

0:32:410:32:45

THEY LAUGH

0:32:450:32:47

KIRSTY SCREAMS

0:32:470:32:49

Seems to be all right, yeah. He seems fine.

0:32:490:32:53

It's early days, but Kirsty and Andy do seem to have something.

0:32:580:33:03

She's an amazing girl. I've never met anyone like her.

0:33:030:33:06

I hope she says the same about me.

0:33:060:33:09

He could be a keeper. He's got potential.

0:33:090:33:12

Yeah, he has got potential to... be a keeper.

0:33:130:33:16

Something special there.

0:33:170:33:19

Definitely.

0:33:190:33:20

It's been a month since Kirsty and Andy met at the launch of the experiment

0:33:240:33:29

and their relationship continues to move at pace.

0:33:290:33:32

Andy's just moved into his own flat,

0:33:320:33:35

partly to be closer to Kirsty.

0:33:350:33:37

This is me. My new flat.

0:33:370:33:40

So, yeah, let's see how I get on.

0:33:410:33:45

Some opportunities came up, so I thought I'd take them.

0:33:450:33:49

Kirsty was a little part of that.

0:33:490:33:51

Although she likes him a lot, Kirsty's wondering

0:33:520:33:55

whether they should slow things down.

0:33:550:33:58

I sometimes feel that Andy's a bit not keen but...

0:33:580:34:02

He's the one always talking about where it's going

0:34:020:34:06

'and where are we and stuff.

0:34:060:34:08

'Which I like cos I wouldn't say anything like that.

0:34:080:34:11

'But it just scares me a little bit.

0:34:110:34:13

I haven't been in a relationship for, like, a year and a half.

0:34:130:34:16

But, ever the romantic,

0:34:180:34:20

Andy's planned a three-course meal at his new flat.

0:34:200:34:23

I do feel like I'm a bit of a romantic.

0:34:250:34:28

I think it's a bit dead and buried nowadays.

0:34:280:34:31

I think, if you show a bit of romance to someone,

0:34:310:34:35

it goes a long way.

0:34:350:34:36

It's just a little effort that makes a girl go, "Awww."

0:34:360:34:40

He's even penned her a poem.

0:34:400:34:43

Bit of a funny story How I first met you

0:34:430:34:45

Walked across the stage Eyes beautifully blue

0:34:450:34:47

But what I've learnt and what I appreciate late at night

0:34:470:34:50

Is how you show me the way Of what perfect looks like.

0:34:500:34:53

But will Andy's efforts actually scare Kirsty off?

0:34:540:34:58

I'm a bit nervous about going in.

0:34:580:35:00

I don't know why.

0:35:010:35:03

KNOCKS ON DOOR

0:35:030:35:05

-Hello.

-Didn't know you were coming.

-Surprise!

0:35:060:35:09

I've got all the starter out already.

0:35:110:35:14

Aw!

0:35:140:35:16

SHE GIGGLES

0:35:160:35:18

Aw. I love candles.

0:35:200:35:23

-Is this naan bread?

-Yeah.

-Do you have naan bread with hummus? Aren't you meant to have pitta bread?

0:35:230:35:28

Are you dissing me or what? We're on the starter.

0:35:280:35:30

-Is that curry?

-We've got two courses left yet.

0:35:300:35:34

Presentation was really nice. Got all the cutlery out. All, like, posh.

0:35:340:35:40

Aw! Thank you.

0:35:400:35:45

Three pounds!

0:35:450:35:47

'He puts loads of effort into things.'

0:35:470:35:49

It's really sweet. That sort of thing my exes, they didn't...

0:35:490:35:54

do special random things.

0:35:540:35:57

-Here's the main.

-It's like a restaurant!

-Of course it is.

0:35:570:36:02

-But they don't microwave rice in restaurants.

-Am I doing good?

-Yeah.

0:36:020:36:06

'I'm a bit scared to, like...'

0:36:080:36:11

make it really committed,

0:36:110:36:13

be girlfriend and boyfriend and...

0:36:130:36:16

It's really scary for me.

0:36:160:36:18

So, what will Kirsty make of Andy's poem?

0:36:190:36:23

Aw.

0:36:250:36:27

Aw. You're so cute.

0:36:300:36:33

The poem makes me feel like I do really like him.

0:36:330:36:36

'I've got to stop myself from'

0:36:360:36:38

liking him too much too soon so...

0:36:380:36:41

I'm being a bit breezy about it.

0:36:410:36:43

-Bye.

-See you later.

0:36:450:36:46

At the launch of this ambitious relationship experiment,

0:36:520:36:55

hundreds of people met their scientific match on stage...

0:36:550:36:59

Woo!

0:36:590:37:01

-Hiya.

-How are you doing? Are you all right?

-Yeah. You?

-Lovely to meet you.

0:37:010:37:05

..but in the following days, many decided they were better off single.

0:37:050:37:08

-Will and Kay were the first match to be made...

-Nice to meet you.

0:37:080:37:14

He seems like a good looking boy. Got me a rose which is really sweet.

0:37:140:37:17

..and the first couple to drop out of the experiment.

0:37:170:37:20

I've seen another girl sitting quite close to our table

0:37:200:37:24

I do find attractive.

0:37:240:37:26

We both took each other's numbers, but I don't think either of us

0:37:260:37:29

had the intention of really talking to each other afterwards.

0:37:290:37:33

Dannie and Ellis were delighted with each other on the day...

0:37:330:37:36

-Hiya.

-Dannie's like the female version of me.

0:37:360:37:39

He's definitely tickling my fancy all day long.

0:37:390:37:42

..which makes it all the more surprising Ellis never called her.

0:37:420:37:45

-When Faisal met Josie...

-How are you doing? All right?

0:37:470:37:50

..they agreed to go on a date.

0:37:500:37:51

-I think we're going to see each other again.

-Yeah.

0:37:510:37:54

'My first thoughts when I saw Josie'

0:37:560:37:58

were hips and legs and bum.

0:37:580:38:01

They arranged to meet for dinner, but Josie started having doubts.

0:38:010:38:04

I'm just dreading the conversation tonight,

0:38:040:38:06

because I don't think we'll have anything to talk about.

0:38:060:38:09

And at the very last moment, she ditched the date altogether.

0:38:090:38:13

I don't think I'm going to go.

0:38:130:38:15

I just don't think I can put myself through it.

0:38:150:38:19

Yeah, I got stood up. I'm not hurt - pissed.

0:38:190:38:22

# One night of sin... #

0:38:320:38:36

In Guildford, it's been weeks since Natalie shared a bed with Rogan,

0:38:360:38:40

and she hasn't heard from him since.

0:38:400:38:43

I'm feeling a bit crappy.

0:38:430:38:47

Cos...I guess I was kind of expecting, erm...

0:38:470:38:51

..to, kind of, you know... to hear from him.

0:38:540:38:57

I guess...erm...

0:38:590:39:02

it kind of feels like he's not actually that interested.

0:39:020:39:06

She's hoping her older brother Robert can offer some sound advice.

0:39:070:39:11

-Want anything else, Nats?

-No, thanks.

0:39:120:39:15

-So what's this guy's name?

-Uh, he's called Rogan.

0:39:180:39:21

-Uh-huh.

-And...

0:39:210:39:23

-He's 22.

-22? OK.

-Hmm...

-Right. All right.

0:39:230:39:28

But...he's cool.

0:39:280:39:30

-OK, so when you have met up...

-The once.

0:39:300:39:33

..what was it like? How was it? Was it uncomfortable?

0:39:330:39:36

-It was good. I thought we got on. Really well.

-Uh-huh.

0:39:360:39:40

And so after the next day - who contacted who? He contacted you?

0:39:400:39:44

-No, I contacted him.

-Right, OK. And how did that conversation go?

0:39:440:39:48

-It was a text message. I didn't hear from him for a while.

-Right, OK.

0:39:480:39:51

'I'm not getting good vibes about it, to be honest.'

0:39:510:39:53

I think any brother would say the same thing.

0:39:530:39:56

If you weren't you, and you were having this conversation

0:39:560:39:59

with someone else, what advice would you give them?

0:39:590:40:02

He's probably not interested. Let it go.

0:40:020:40:06

-That's probably what I would say.

-That would be your initial response?

0:40:060:40:10

Yeah. But for some reason, I'm holding out.

0:40:100:40:15

OK. As long as you're happy. You've got to do what you're happy with.

0:40:150:40:19

Natalie decides to keep waiting for Rogan to get in touch.

0:40:190:40:23

Over in the Midlands, Kirsty and Andy's relationship

0:40:320:40:36

is going from strength to strength.

0:40:360:40:38

-Nice to see you, pal.

-How you goin'?

-You all right, mate? Missed you!

0:40:400:40:44

Andy's back at his mum and dad's house,

0:40:440:40:46

where he lived before he moved to be closer to Kirsty.

0:40:460:40:50

I miss him all the time. He was always my best friend.

0:40:500:40:54

It's like my right arm has gone.

0:40:540:40:56

That's from Kirsty's house.

0:40:560:40:58

Andy let's his parents know how the relationship is going.

0:40:580:41:02

She looks absolutely stunning. The sort of girl he would go for.

0:41:020:41:05

Cos he's a good-looking lad, my son!

0:41:050:41:07

-Are you really into her?

-Yeah, I am.

-Aw...!

-I like her quite a lot.

0:41:070:41:12

-Is it love?

-ANDY CHUCKLES

0:41:120:41:15

Tomorrow, Andy's taking Kirsty to Amsterdam,

0:41:160:41:19

where he plans to take their relationship to the next level.

0:41:190:41:23

-I'm going to ask her out when we get here.

-Are you?

0:41:230:41:26

-Find a nice little spot and... make it all nice.

-That's great.

0:41:260:41:32

I think Andrew is a bit of a romantic.

0:41:320:41:34

I'm not sure where he's got that from.

0:41:340:41:36

You only have to look as far as me. I've taught him all he knows.

0:41:360:41:39

He told me he'd put flowers on Kirsty's bed.

0:41:390:41:42

You've never ever bought me a bunch of flowers. Ever. In 25 years.

0:41:420:41:47

I did. Our anniversary, I sent them to your work.

0:41:470:41:49

-One!

-Ah!

0:41:490:41:51

# Holiday, oh, holiday

0:41:570:42:00

# And the best one of the year... #

0:42:000:42:03

Schiphol!

0:42:040:42:05

Two months into their relationship,

0:42:050:42:08

this is their first trip away together

0:42:080:42:11

and Kirsty has no idea what Andy's got up his sleeve.

0:42:110:42:14

Look how beautiful she is! You are beautiful, though, babe.

0:42:140:42:17

SHE LAUGHS

0:42:170:42:19

We're in Amsterdam, the place to be!

0:42:250:42:28

And what's makes it better cos I'm with Kirsty!

0:42:280:42:31

Finally, Andy finds the perfect moment to say his piece.

0:42:340:42:40

Kirsty?

0:42:400:42:41

I've got something to tell you.

0:42:430:42:46

I've been really happy this past month. I want you so much.

0:42:460:42:51

I've never felt this way before about anyone.

0:42:510:42:54

How do you feel about making it official and being my girlfriend?

0:42:540:42:58

-I'd love to, babe.

-You'd love to?

0:42:580:43:01

We made it official in Amsterdam!

0:43:040:43:08

-How are you feeling?

-Happy.

-Happy?

-Yeah, I am.

0:43:080:43:13

You just made me a really happy guy.

0:43:130:43:16

It's like you're married or something!

0:43:160:43:18

ANDY LAUGHS

0:43:180:43:20

Back with Natalie and Rogan, after weeks of hearing nothing,

0:43:210:43:24

and just when Natalie was about to give up all hope,

0:43:240:43:27

Rogan's got back in touch.

0:43:270:43:29

Recently, I've been really, really busy.

0:43:290:43:32

I've been away working - hosting in some clubs in Portugal,

0:43:320:43:36

for the past weeks, so I've just got back.

0:43:360:43:39

Now I'm back in the gym, back to doing a bit of work,

0:43:390:43:43

but more importantly, back to talking to Natalie again.

0:43:430:43:46

But after all that happened on their first date,

0:43:460:43:50

it's been a difficult time for Natalie.

0:43:500:43:53

For me, not hearing from him,

0:43:530:43:56

and feeling like he was being quite cold, it was horrible.

0:43:560:44:01

Not only was I questioning if he liked me,

0:44:010:44:04

if he was interested, I was just generally questioning myself.

0:44:040:44:07

Way too much happened for a first date.

0:44:070:44:11

Why did I go against everything that I had said I wasn't going to do?

0:44:110:44:15

Why did I go and do that?

0:44:150:44:17

It didn't make me think differently,

0:44:180:44:21

or any less of her, or anything, that we hit it off so well.

0:44:210:44:24

I just thought that, um, it just happens, and...um...

0:44:240:44:29

Yeah. Felt all right, so it was...fine.

0:44:290:44:33

Do I think he's a pretty-boy player? D'you know what?

0:44:330:44:36

No.

0:44:380:44:40

I think I'm going to give him the benefit of the doubt.

0:44:400:44:43

Four months after their first meeting,

0:44:450:44:47

Natalie's decided to meet Rogan on neutral ground.

0:44:470:44:50

She's hoping to find out, once and for all,

0:44:500:44:53

if he's the right man for her.

0:44:530:44:56

'I think deep, deep, deep, deep down, as much as my guard is up,'

0:44:560:45:00

I guess I'm hoping that he will give me a chance.

0:45:000:45:02

-Hello.

-SHE GIGGLES

0:45:050:45:07

-Hello!

-How you doing?

-You all right?

-Good.

-Good to see you.

-You, too.

0:45:070:45:12

-Are you good?

-Yeah. You?

-Yeah, not too bad.

-You look very nice.

0:45:120:45:15

-Long time, no see.

-Not half!

0:45:150:45:18

Do you want to get under? It's a bit wet.

0:45:180:45:20

-I haven't been to a theme park before.

-You've never been here?!

-No.

0:45:200:45:23

Dude. It's like fun times! This is going to be fun.

0:45:230:45:26

SCREAMING

0:45:260:45:30

That is the best bit. That bit right there.

0:45:320:45:35

I was wondering, when I saw her, if we'd have the same attraction,

0:45:540:45:57

the same chemistry as we did when we first met, and yeah,

0:45:570:46:01

the attraction's definitely still there.

0:46:010:46:03

ROGAN LAUGHS LOUDLY That is classic!

0:46:030:46:05

Look at your face!

0:46:050:46:08

We're just having a giggle. Like I wanted to have.

0:46:090:46:12

Which is awesome. So I'm happy. It's cool. It's good.

0:46:120:46:15

So, have you, like, enjoyed today?

0:46:190:46:21

-Yeah. I have.

-Here, and...

-It has been nice to see you.

0:46:210:46:25

Well, it's been good to catch up with you, sort of, you know,

0:46:250:46:31

see each other in...this kind of environment, you know.

0:46:310:46:34

-Reignite the flame.

-Reignite... Yeah, there you go.

0:46:340:46:39

-Yes...

-OK, cool.

-One way of putting it.

0:46:390:46:42

Today has been really good.

0:46:420:46:44

It's been really nice to see Natalie and spend some time with her.

0:46:440:46:47

'Yeah, the attraction's definitely still there.

0:46:470:46:49

'I said to her, when we spoke at first,'

0:46:490:46:52

she worried it might be a bit awkward or whatever.

0:46:520:46:54

But I wasn't really. I just thought, cos we got on well the first time,

0:46:540:46:57

we will this time and, we have, so, yeah. Been good to catch up.

0:46:570:47:00

Today has been really, really fun.

0:47:020:47:06

As much as I do fancy him - be cool.

0:47:060:47:09

If he's interested obviously he'll need to show me,

0:47:090:47:12

in some way, shape or form.

0:47:120:47:14

And if anything develops, it will develop naturally.

0:47:140:47:18

Perhaps things will take off second time around.

0:47:190:47:22

Meanwhile, Kirsty and Andy are making

0:47:260:47:29

the most of their first summer as an official item.

0:47:290:47:32

What are we doing now, beautiful?

0:47:320:47:34

From updating their relationship status...

0:47:340:47:37

Just changing it to "in a relationship with, er..."

0:47:370:47:44

..to rooftop barbecues.

0:47:440:47:46

-Steak as tender as can be!

-SHE LAUGHS

0:47:460:47:49

Throwing a party for all their friends -

0:47:490:47:52

it's obvious to everyone how close they have become.

0:47:520:47:55

-I don't talk about Kirsty much, do I?

-You talk about her all the time.

0:47:550:47:59

-No, I don't!

-Definitely do!

0:47:590:48:01

I think that Kirsty and Andy are just definitely meant to be.

0:48:010:48:05

Just together, they just work.

0:48:050:48:07

Andrew's got more romantic - I'd even say pathetic,

0:48:070:48:09

because he's writing poems and telling me about them every day!

0:48:090:48:13

I've never loved someone so much, I wrote him a poem!

0:48:130:48:16

LAUGHTER

0:48:160:48:18

You can tell there's only one guy for her now, and that is Andy.

0:48:180:48:21

As well as their mates,

0:48:210:48:23

Kirsty and Andy are also spending more time with each other's families.

0:48:230:48:27

Today, Andy has been invited

0:48:290:48:31

to the Stourport mayor's annual charity ball.

0:48:310:48:35

It's a chance for some quality time with Kirsty's dad.

0:48:350:48:38

I've never done this sort of thing before,

0:48:380:48:41

so I'm quite worried about it. A bit nervous.

0:48:410:48:44

He's looking good, looking good. Looking smart.

0:48:450:48:48

I do feel good. Sitting here.

0:48:480:48:50

Looking smart for my girl.

0:48:500:48:53

He needs to look smart for her, though.

0:48:530:48:55

-Welcome.

-Hello. How's it going?

-Welcome.

-Hello!

0:49:020:49:05

Kirsty is Stourport's Carnival Queen,

0:49:050:49:07

and the mayor's guest of honour at the bash.

0:49:070:49:10

-Hi!

-He's a lucky guy, in'he?!

-I am.

-You wanna get to Specsavers, you do!

0:49:100:49:15

Aw...!

0:49:150:49:17

'This ain't the sort of thing I'm used to, but....

0:49:170:49:21

'Trying to handle it as best as I can.'

0:49:210:49:24

It's not the sort of thing I normally do, but...

0:49:240:49:26

If that's what, erm, Kirsty does, I'll follow her.

0:49:260:49:30

Andy's in unfamiliar territory, and he's forgotten to bring any cash.

0:49:300:49:35

He's paying.

0:49:370:49:38

Yeah, I am. I've got a card?

0:49:400:49:43

I'm baling you out again already.

0:49:470:49:49

-How are you enjoying tonight?

-Yeah, it's good.

-You look a bit awkward.

0:49:490:49:53

Your dad's given me loads of banter. I find it hard to deal with.

0:49:530:49:56

-Why?

-Dunno. Keeps on bringing money up.

-He always will!

-Oh, no!

0:49:560:50:01

If he teases you, it means he likes you.

0:50:010:50:04

-You said that.

-I know!

-Yeah. He's all right, yeah.

0:50:040:50:07

Determined to pay his own way,

0:50:070:50:10

Andy borrows some cash and wipes the slate clean.

0:50:100:50:13

-There's 40, and just call it that.

-No, give me 30.

-No, it's all right.

0:50:130:50:18

I've not got anything here anyway. Just get yourself a drink with the...

0:50:180:50:23

Finally, Andy can relax.

0:50:230:50:26

BAND PLAYS: # That's when our love comes tumblin' down... #

0:50:260:50:30

-I like doing this sort of thing. It's good, isn't it?

-Yeah.

0:50:300:50:33

We should "ball it" more often!

0:50:330:50:35

-Just crash loads of balls across the country!

-Yeah, that'd be amazin'!

0:50:350:50:39

"So, how are you with?" The mayor! There must be a mayor somewhere.

0:50:390:50:42

Just go to every mayor, "You got any balls coming up?"

0:50:420:50:45

-I don't know. Oh.

-Keep saying "balls" a bit too much.

-Yeah.

0:50:450:50:49

CHATTER AND LAUGHTER

0:50:510:50:53

Natalie and Rogan seemed to be back on course

0:51:000:51:03

after their date at the theme park.

0:51:030:51:06

LAUGHTER That is classic!

0:51:060:51:08

But history has repeated itself.

0:51:090:51:12

OK, at this stage, I guess,

0:51:130:51:16

I've got a bit of a confession to make, as well.

0:51:160:51:19

He said he wanted to see me.

0:51:210:51:23

So I went.

0:51:260:51:28

You can probably guess what happened.

0:51:300:51:32

Natalie shared a bed with Rogan for a second time,

0:51:330:51:37

and, once again, she's not heard from him since.

0:51:370:51:40

That gives me all the answers that I need, really.

0:51:410:51:47

I think...

0:51:510:51:52

..for the sake of my sanity...

0:51:540:51:56

..um...

0:52:000:52:02

I can't... I don't think it's a good idea for me to...

0:52:020:52:07

..um...continue being involved in this.

0:52:120:52:15

SHE SNIFFS

0:52:170:52:20

Things couldn't be more different in Birmingham,

0:52:310:52:34

where Andy's been planning a surprise weekend away with Kirsty.

0:52:340:52:39

He's hoping that a trip to Newquay

0:52:390:52:41

will be the perfect place to reveal that he's fallen in love.

0:52:410:52:45

'It's going to be a really romantic weekend.'

0:52:450:52:47

I'm hoping for, like, a really special moment

0:52:470:52:50

where I can just proper, like, go for it.

0:52:500:52:53

Look into each other's eyes and say I love you and stuff.

0:52:530:52:56

And I just want this to be one of them moments,

0:52:560:52:58

where you're just completely in awe of each other.

0:52:580:53:02

To kick-start the weekend in style,

0:53:070:53:09

Andy's booked a top-notch hotel room.

0:53:090:53:12

-Oh...!

-Wow.

0:53:120:53:15

Oh, you can see the sea!

0:53:150:53:18

See all the surfers.

0:53:180:53:20

-You like it, then?

-So nice, isn't it?

0:53:220:53:26

Our room's got a sea view, it's got big bay windows. It's beautiful.

0:53:260:53:32

The thought that he's done everything, and... It's so nice.

0:53:320:53:36

# I caught the sun... #

0:53:380:53:40

Andy's surprise trip seems to be having the desired effect.

0:53:420:53:47

Could this be the perfect moment for him to tell Kirsty how he feels?

0:53:520:53:56

SHE LAUGHS

0:53:570:53:59

-See the sunset?

-Beautiful.

0:53:590:54:02

How nice is that?

0:54:030:54:05

Right, am I racing you down?

0:54:130:54:16

Really? Really? Really?

0:54:160:54:18

No, don't. I can't get my shoes off!

0:54:180:54:21

THEY LAUGH

0:54:230:54:25

Wait, I've got to roll 'em! SHE LAUGHS

0:54:250:54:27

Oh, I'm going to fall over! It's so pretty!

0:54:290:54:32

LAUGHTER

0:54:340:54:35

Oh, Kirsty.

0:54:390:54:40

-All this just made me realise how much I love you.

-Aw!

0:54:410:54:45

I've been in love with you - I fell for you - straight away.

0:54:460:54:50

KIRSTY LAUGHS You're an absolutely amazing girl.

0:54:500:54:53

I proper love you.

0:54:540:54:56

He told me he loved me.

0:55:030:55:05

He's amazing. He's done all these things - thought of all this today.

0:55:070:55:11

He's well special.

0:55:120:55:14

I wanted to make sure that, when I tell her I love her,

0:55:140:55:19

it's in the moment and it's...it's right.

0:55:190:55:22

# I belong with you You belong with me

0:55:220:55:25

# Be my sweetheart... #

0:55:250:55:28

Complete strangers at the start of the year,

0:55:280:55:30

it's a life-changing moment for Kirsty and Andy.

0:55:300:55:34

I literally fell for her the day I met her. It was crazy.

0:55:340:55:37

And totally in love with her now.

0:55:370:55:40

It's so strange thinking that science brought us together.

0:55:400:55:43

I wasn't expecting it at all.

0:55:430:55:45

To be matched with someone that I'd really like!

0:55:450:55:48

And as if I... This happening now is unreal.

0:55:480:55:52

It's crazy.

0:55:520:55:53

It's amazing that it's all happened. That I fell in love.

0:55:530:55:58

BEHIND CAMERA: Are you in love?

0:56:010:56:03

SHE GIGGLES

0:56:030:56:04

-You...

-SHE LAUGHS

0:56:040:56:06

Yeah!

0:56:060:56:08

It's an incredible moment for two people put together by science.

0:56:090:56:15

Next time, we follow more couples in The Year of Making Love experiment.

0:56:150:56:20

I think I might, yeah, make a move tonight.

0:56:200:56:23

He's ridiculously what I go for!

0:56:230:56:25

I'm the cat who got the cream.

0:56:250:56:26

Disgusting!

0:56:260:56:27

I am shitting myself a little bit.

0:56:270:56:30

-Are you being serious?!

-Givin' it all that.

0:56:300:56:32

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