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Hedydd Jamieson was desperate to make Australia her home... | 0:00:02 | 0:00:05 | |
I'd live in a shed if it was here. | 0:00:05 | 0:00:07 | |
..but husband Steven wasn't so keen. | 0:00:07 | 0:00:09 | |
I don't want to make a wrong move and then think, | 0:00:09 | 0:00:12 | |
"Oh, what have we done?" | 0:00:12 | 0:00:13 | |
A trial week revealed what their life could be like... | 0:00:13 | 0:00:16 | |
It's been a lot nicer having time | 0:00:16 | 0:00:20 | |
to be with Mum and Dad. | 0:00:20 | 0:00:22 | |
..but was it enough to make Hedydd's dream come true? | 0:00:22 | 0:00:25 | |
I have got a battle on my hands. I've got a big battle. | 0:00:25 | 0:00:29 | |
So, the big question is, | 0:00:29 | 0:00:31 | |
where are the Jamiesons living now? | 0:00:31 | 0:00:33 | |
UK or down under? | 0:00:33 | 0:00:36 | |
Straddling the Pacific, Indian and Southern oceans, | 0:00:58 | 0:01:01 | |
Australia's known the world over for its spectacular coastline. | 0:01:01 | 0:01:05 | |
Boasting more than 10,000 beaches, | 0:01:06 | 0:01:09 | |
over 85% of the population live within 30 miles of the sea. | 0:01:09 | 0:01:13 | |
So, it's no surprise the country remains the number one destination | 0:01:14 | 0:01:18 | |
for British families seeking a new life in the sunshine. | 0:01:18 | 0:01:21 | |
Hedydd Jamieson had harboured dreams of living in Australia | 0:01:24 | 0:01:28 | |
for well over a decade. | 0:01:28 | 0:01:30 | |
She and her husband, Steven, were desperate | 0:01:30 | 0:01:33 | |
to cast off the shackles of running a restaurant | 0:01:33 | 0:01:35 | |
and to carve out more family time with their children. | 0:01:35 | 0:01:39 | |
She believed that a life in Australia | 0:01:39 | 0:01:41 | |
would restore equilibrium to their work-life balance. | 0:01:41 | 0:01:45 | |
But she had just one week to convince Steven | 0:01:45 | 0:01:49 | |
and eldest son Leon that a better life could await them down under. | 0:01:49 | 0:01:54 | |
To reach Brisbane, the Wales-based family spend over 22 hours | 0:01:55 | 0:02:00 | |
in the sky, flying from Birmingham to Australia, | 0:02:00 | 0:02:03 | |
with stopovers in Dubai and Sydney. | 0:02:03 | 0:02:05 | |
After that long flight, | 0:02:05 | 0:02:07 | |
it was little wonder husband Steven had yet to come on board | 0:02:07 | 0:02:10 | |
with Hedydd's plan. | 0:02:10 | 0:02:11 | |
It's going to take quite a bit to persuade me | 0:02:11 | 0:02:13 | |
to come out to Australia. I've got to be able to get a good job, | 0:02:13 | 0:02:16 | |
that's my main worry. | 0:02:16 | 0:02:18 | |
As they headed out into Brisbane, | 0:02:18 | 0:02:20 | |
Hedydd knew the next seven days would be her best chance | 0:02:20 | 0:02:23 | |
at getting the life she wants. | 0:02:23 | 0:02:25 | |
Back in 2016, the Jamiesons lived in Cardigan in Wales. | 0:02:27 | 0:02:32 | |
They were mum Hedydd, dad Steven, | 0:02:32 | 0:02:34 | |
nine-year-old Leon, Eli, aged six, and three-year-old Seth. | 0:02:34 | 0:02:38 | |
Good evening, Jamieson Steak House. | 0:02:40 | 0:02:42 | |
Hedydd and Steven were joint owners of a busy restaurant, | 0:02:42 | 0:02:45 | |
meaning they spent more time together than most couples. | 0:02:45 | 0:02:48 | |
It's less of a marriage and it's more of a business partnership... | 0:02:48 | 0:02:51 | |
All booked in for you. | 0:02:51 | 0:02:53 | |
..and you are way too bossy as well. | 0:02:53 | 0:02:54 | |
Bye! | 0:02:54 | 0:02:56 | |
I know. | 0:02:56 | 0:02:57 | |
The couple first met when Hedydd began waitressing | 0:02:57 | 0:03:00 | |
in a restaurant where Steven was a chef 16 years ago. | 0:03:00 | 0:03:04 | |
But everything changed when, aged 21, | 0:03:04 | 0:03:06 | |
she decided to swap her apron for an adventure in Australia. | 0:03:06 | 0:03:10 | |
Pretty much two weeks before going, that's it, | 0:03:11 | 0:03:14 | |
declared his undying love for me, | 0:03:14 | 0:03:16 | |
said he couldn't live without me, "Please don't go." | 0:03:16 | 0:03:19 | |
The idea of going to Australia | 0:03:20 | 0:03:22 | |
was kind of put on hold for a while then. | 0:03:22 | 0:03:24 | |
They opened the Steak House seven years ago, | 0:03:24 | 0:03:27 | |
but juggling 70-hour weeks with looking after the three children | 0:03:27 | 0:03:30 | |
was proving a recipe for disaster. | 0:03:30 | 0:03:33 | |
We'd miss sort of Christmas and birthdays, | 0:03:33 | 0:03:36 | |
and if there's any occasion on summer holidays, | 0:03:36 | 0:03:39 | |
we work right through. It's quite hard going. | 0:03:39 | 0:03:42 | |
Hedydd was concerned about the effect their workload | 0:03:42 | 0:03:44 | |
was having on her relationship with the boys. | 0:03:44 | 0:03:47 | |
Even if the kids have been really ill, | 0:03:48 | 0:03:50 | |
I am not at home to look after them. | 0:03:50 | 0:03:52 | |
It's happened before. | 0:03:52 | 0:03:54 | |
Eli's had asthma attacks, I've been in work. | 0:03:54 | 0:03:57 | |
Ambulances have had to be called and, you know, I'm not there. | 0:03:57 | 0:04:01 | |
Steven shared her anxiety, too. | 0:04:03 | 0:04:06 | |
They've got a great baby-sitter who looks after them, | 0:04:06 | 0:04:09 | |
but it's not the same as Mum and Dad | 0:04:09 | 0:04:12 | |
looking after them every night. | 0:04:12 | 0:04:14 | |
-Am I a person? -Yes. | 0:04:14 | 0:04:16 | |
Oldest son Leon agreed. | 0:04:16 | 0:04:19 | |
I'd love to spend more time with my parents. | 0:04:19 | 0:04:22 | |
Desperate for change, Hedydd had whipped up a solution, | 0:04:22 | 0:04:25 | |
moving the family to the country she'd dreamt of over a decade ago. | 0:04:25 | 0:04:29 | |
It's got to be Australia, that's it. | 0:04:29 | 0:04:31 | |
I've decided. It's just gone like that now. | 0:04:31 | 0:04:34 | |
I can't see anything else. | 0:04:34 | 0:04:36 | |
For me, it's changing the lifestyle | 0:04:36 | 0:04:39 | |
and being a little bit more relaxed. | 0:04:39 | 0:04:41 | |
Hedydd had set her sights on the Gold Coast, | 0:04:41 | 0:04:44 | |
but first she needed to get Steven on board. | 0:04:44 | 0:04:48 | |
Hedydd has planned it and she's literally written it | 0:04:48 | 0:04:51 | |
on one little bit of paper. It's like, "Pack, plane, Australia," | 0:04:51 | 0:04:55 | |
whereas I'm thinking, how are we going to afford this? | 0:04:55 | 0:04:57 | |
How are we going to find a house, how are we going to find a job? | 0:04:57 | 0:05:01 | |
I've thought about all of the important stuff, | 0:05:01 | 0:05:03 | |
but I'm trying to put a positive spin on everything. | 0:05:03 | 0:05:06 | |
And Mum's enthusiasm had affected both of the younger boys. | 0:05:06 | 0:05:10 | |
I am really excited to go to Australia. | 0:05:10 | 0:05:12 | |
There's 'enguins there. | 0:05:12 | 0:05:15 | |
'Enguins. | 0:05:15 | 0:05:17 | |
There's penguins there. | 0:05:17 | 0:05:19 | |
But despite craving more time with his parents, | 0:05:20 | 0:05:23 | |
Leon was firmly on his dad's side. | 0:05:23 | 0:05:25 | |
I'd miss my grandparents. Like, 100%. | 0:05:27 | 0:05:31 | |
Knowing the boys were her parents' only grandchildren | 0:05:34 | 0:05:37 | |
was the only thing making Hedydd question the move. | 0:05:37 | 0:05:40 | |
I'm very torn. I can't decide whether I'm being really selfish | 0:05:40 | 0:05:45 | |
by making this move to Australia | 0:05:45 | 0:05:47 | |
or whether I am actually putting us as a family first. | 0:05:47 | 0:05:50 | |
-COW MOOS -Bye-bye, cows. | 0:05:52 | 0:05:54 | |
However, she was determined to address their situation, | 0:05:54 | 0:05:57 | |
and hoped the opportunity to show them what life in Australia was like | 0:05:57 | 0:06:00 | |
would help her seal the deal. | 0:06:00 | 0:06:02 | |
Leon needs to see what he can get if we go there. | 0:06:04 | 0:06:08 | |
And so does Steven. | 0:06:09 | 0:06:11 | |
We've all got to be wanting to go, | 0:06:11 | 0:06:13 | |
so, it's going to take a little bit more convincing. | 0:06:13 | 0:06:16 | |
The Jamiesons stayed in Australia's Gold Coast | 0:06:22 | 0:06:25 | |
in the state of Queensland. | 0:06:25 | 0:06:27 | |
Their base for the week was in Mermaid Beach, | 0:06:27 | 0:06:29 | |
a coastal area just one hour south of Brisbane. | 0:06:29 | 0:06:32 | |
But did this five-bedroom house live up to Hedydd's high expectations? | 0:06:33 | 0:06:38 | |
-Ah! -This looks nice, doesn't it? | 0:06:38 | 0:06:40 | |
-It's really cute. This is my style, isn't it? -Yeah. | 0:06:40 | 0:06:44 | |
Off to a promising start | 0:06:44 | 0:06:46 | |
and then the boys had spotted something they like. | 0:06:46 | 0:06:49 | |
What's that? | 0:06:49 | 0:06:50 | |
-What have you seen? -The beach. | 0:06:50 | 0:06:52 | |
-The beach?! -Yeah. -Oh, my God! | 0:06:52 | 0:06:55 | |
This is the dream. | 0:06:57 | 0:06:58 | |
Yeah. | 0:07:00 | 0:07:01 | |
Couldn't get closer if you tried. | 0:07:01 | 0:07:04 | |
Watching the children play | 0:07:05 | 0:07:07 | |
gave Hedydd hope that Leon could be persuaded to move. | 0:07:07 | 0:07:10 | |
When we'd talked about it before, he was like, "No, I don't want | 0:07:10 | 0:07:13 | |
"to leave my friends and I don't want to leave my school." | 0:07:13 | 0:07:15 | |
All the stuff I've been talking about, | 0:07:15 | 0:07:18 | |
he needs to be able to see it for himself. | 0:07:18 | 0:07:20 | |
But despite a positive start, Steven was still on the fence. | 0:07:20 | 0:07:24 | |
She's got to be able to afford a lifestyle like this. | 0:07:24 | 0:07:27 | |
Steven, I'd live in a shed if it was here. | 0:07:27 | 0:07:29 | |
-On this side. -Go! -On this side. | 0:07:29 | 0:07:32 | |
What if we don't agree at the end of the week? | 0:07:32 | 0:07:35 | |
One of us has got to change our minds about what we're going to do. | 0:07:37 | 0:07:40 | |
This is nice. | 0:07:40 | 0:07:41 | |
This is nice, isn't it? | 0:07:41 | 0:07:44 | |
Back in the UK, the Jamiesons lived in a converted schoolhouse | 0:07:49 | 0:07:53 | |
in the west Wales coastal town of Cardigan. | 0:07:53 | 0:07:55 | |
What we're sitting in now is one of the old classrooms | 0:07:55 | 0:07:59 | |
but then this bit on the side is the headmaster's house. | 0:07:59 | 0:08:03 | |
So, there's only two bedrooms upstairs | 0:08:03 | 0:08:05 | |
and then we've converted one room downstairs into our bedroom. | 0:08:05 | 0:08:08 | |
They'd worked hard to make it a home | 0:08:08 | 0:08:10 | |
but Hedydd knew exactly what she was looking for down under. | 0:08:10 | 0:08:13 | |
I just would like a small, cutie beach house. | 0:08:13 | 0:08:16 | |
I've got it all in my head. | 0:08:16 | 0:08:18 | |
On the other hand, Steven was harder to please. | 0:08:18 | 0:08:21 | |
Four bedrooms, large living room, lots of outside space | 0:08:21 | 0:08:25 | |
and, hopefully, a swimming pool. | 0:08:25 | 0:08:28 | |
The family's property budget was £350,000. | 0:08:31 | 0:08:35 | |
To see what their money could buy in Australia, | 0:08:35 | 0:08:38 | |
we showed the Jamiesons three properties, | 0:08:38 | 0:08:40 | |
two based on budget, and a third which could be their dream home. | 0:08:40 | 0:08:45 | |
Only after they've viewed each one did they find out its value. | 0:08:45 | 0:08:48 | |
House-hunting began in Currumbin Waters, | 0:08:48 | 0:08:51 | |
a southern suburb close to some of the best beaches on the Gold Coast. | 0:08:51 | 0:08:54 | |
With schools and amenities nearby, | 0:08:55 | 0:08:57 | |
this family-friendly area offered the Jamiesons | 0:08:57 | 0:09:00 | |
the beach lifestyle Hedydd craved. | 0:09:00 | 0:09:03 | |
But was this four-bedroom home to their liking? | 0:09:03 | 0:09:06 | |
-It's quite cute. -Looks nice. -Check out all of that over there. | 0:09:06 | 0:09:10 | |
All the trees. What do you reckon, Seth? | 0:09:10 | 0:09:12 | |
-Yeah. -It looks nice, does it? | 0:09:12 | 0:09:14 | |
STEVEN CHUCKLES | 0:09:14 | 0:09:16 | |
Let's go and check it out and see what it looks like. | 0:09:16 | 0:09:18 | |
The location was a winner but what about the inside? | 0:09:19 | 0:09:22 | |
I didn't really know what to expect, really. | 0:09:22 | 0:09:24 | |
Yeah, I quite like it. | 0:09:24 | 0:09:25 | |
And Steven? | 0:09:25 | 0:09:27 | |
It's nice. It's done out nice and it looks nice. | 0:09:27 | 0:09:29 | |
It's not that big, though, is it? | 0:09:29 | 0:09:31 | |
But I don't like big houses, not too big. | 0:09:31 | 0:09:34 | |
Think of all the cleaning. | 0:09:34 | 0:09:36 | |
No comment. | 0:09:36 | 0:09:37 | |
Perhaps the spacious kitchen helped. | 0:09:37 | 0:09:40 | |
Not so small now. | 0:09:40 | 0:09:41 | |
No. I didn't realise it was going to open out. | 0:09:41 | 0:09:44 | |
I think I could manage with this sized kitchen. | 0:09:44 | 0:09:46 | |
It's not massive but it's enough. | 0:09:46 | 0:09:49 | |
Where do you want to go, Seth? | 0:09:49 | 0:09:50 | |
With her husband sorted, Hedydd turned her attention to Leon. | 0:09:52 | 0:09:55 | |
Definitely a boy's room. | 0:09:55 | 0:09:58 | |
Yours, is it? | 0:09:58 | 0:09:59 | |
-Your room. That's good. -OK. | 0:09:59 | 0:10:01 | |
Are we starting to convince you, or what? | 0:10:01 | 0:10:04 | |
It was an easier sell for little Seth. | 0:10:08 | 0:10:10 | |
Oh, look. | 0:10:10 | 0:10:11 | |
That's my toy. | 0:10:11 | 0:10:13 | |
They're your toys? I don't think they're yours! | 0:10:13 | 0:10:15 | |
This is my bedroom. | 0:10:15 | 0:10:16 | |
-This is your bedroom? -Yeah. | 0:10:16 | 0:10:18 | |
-The toys might have swung it for Seth. -Yeah. | 0:10:18 | 0:10:20 | |
The main bedroom got a big thumbs up. | 0:10:20 | 0:10:22 | |
This would be mum and dad's room. | 0:10:23 | 0:10:26 | |
Walk-in wardrobe. | 0:10:26 | 0:10:27 | |
Do you reckon I'd get all my clothes in there, Steven? | 0:10:27 | 0:10:30 | |
I don't know where you'd put yours. | 0:10:30 | 0:10:32 | |
And it was a room with a view. | 0:10:32 | 0:10:34 | |
-What's that in the garden? -There's a view of the swimming pool, | 0:10:34 | 0:10:37 | |
that's really nice. | 0:10:37 | 0:10:38 | |
Wow! | 0:10:40 | 0:10:41 | |
Look! | 0:10:41 | 0:10:43 | |
Outside, they got a better look. | 0:10:43 | 0:10:44 | |
That is quite a nice pool. It's huge. | 0:10:44 | 0:10:46 | |
Steven was beginning to see real potential. | 0:10:46 | 0:10:49 | |
It would be a nice area, cooking out here, having friends over, barbecue. | 0:10:49 | 0:10:53 | |
You would be cooking me my dinner whilst I'm relaxing in the pool. | 0:10:53 | 0:10:56 | |
It sounded perfect, and an outhouse gave Hedydd even more ideas. | 0:10:56 | 0:11:01 | |
Oh, my God! What's this? | 0:11:01 | 0:11:02 | |
This could be like our little bar area by the pool. | 0:11:02 | 0:11:07 | |
And added fuel to her fight for life down under. | 0:11:07 | 0:11:10 | |
Is it big enough for three boys now? | 0:11:10 | 0:11:13 | |
-It's quite big inside. -I know. | 0:11:13 | 0:11:15 | |
Hedydd might have had Steven on board for now, | 0:11:15 | 0:11:17 | |
but the couple needed to find out if their £350,000 budget | 0:11:17 | 0:11:21 | |
could buy a place like this. | 0:11:21 | 0:11:24 | |
Eli... Do you want to turn it over? | 0:11:24 | 0:11:27 | |
Ooh, it's under my guess! | 0:11:30 | 0:11:31 | |
That was £24,000 under budget. | 0:11:32 | 0:11:35 | |
-Well, I was hoping... -The cheaper the better, isn't it? | 0:11:35 | 0:11:38 | |
I was hoping it was going to be less. | 0:11:38 | 0:11:39 | |
It might have been affordable, | 0:11:39 | 0:11:41 | |
but Steven clearly wanted to see more for his money. | 0:11:41 | 0:11:44 | |
Hopefully property two could deliver what he was after. | 0:11:44 | 0:11:47 | |
Staying in Currumbin Waters, | 0:11:47 | 0:11:49 | |
the family didn't have to go far to find out. | 0:11:49 | 0:11:52 | |
Did this four-bedroom home, with its own secluded grounds, | 0:11:52 | 0:11:55 | |
get Steven excited about emigrating? | 0:11:55 | 0:11:58 | |
This is different, isn't it? | 0:11:58 | 0:12:00 | |
This is really different. | 0:12:00 | 0:12:02 | |
It's like being in the jungle, isn't it? | 0:12:02 | 0:12:05 | |
Hedydd sounded unsure, | 0:12:05 | 0:12:06 | |
but it didn't stop them going in for a closer inspection. | 0:12:06 | 0:12:09 | |
Oh, my! | 0:12:09 | 0:12:11 | |
It's amazing. It's more like it. | 0:12:11 | 0:12:14 | |
The boys liked what they saw. | 0:12:14 | 0:12:16 | |
-Can I go on that? -Oh! There's a slide there, yeah. | 0:12:16 | 0:12:19 | |
While the younger boys played, Hedydd tested the water with Leon. | 0:12:22 | 0:12:26 | |
Check out this pool. | 0:12:26 | 0:12:28 | |
I don't know who'd have more fun on that, you or me. | 0:12:30 | 0:12:33 | |
That looks cool. | 0:12:33 | 0:12:34 | |
Feels a bit more like a family home, doesn't it? | 0:12:34 | 0:12:38 | |
From the outside, geared up for kids. | 0:12:38 | 0:12:41 | |
-They'd be happy. They'd be out here all the time, wouldn't they? -Yeah. | 0:12:41 | 0:12:44 | |
Heading inside, Mum and Dad explored what else the house had to offer. | 0:12:44 | 0:12:49 | |
It's got big windows, big doors going outside. | 0:12:49 | 0:12:52 | |
Nice and open. | 0:12:52 | 0:12:54 | |
And the kitchen... | 0:12:54 | 0:12:56 | |
I think it needs a bit of updating maybe. | 0:12:56 | 0:12:58 | |
We'd change it around a little bit. | 0:12:58 | 0:13:00 | |
A lick of paint and a clean up, because you know what I'm like. | 0:13:00 | 0:13:03 | |
Upstairs, Steven was unimpressed with the family bathroom. | 0:13:04 | 0:13:08 | |
A bit of modernisation in there, I think. | 0:13:08 | 0:13:11 | |
Mind you, we can't really comment. | 0:13:11 | 0:13:12 | |
-Our bathroom at home needs a new bathroom, doesn't it? -Yeah. | 0:13:12 | 0:13:15 | |
Hedydd sidesteps Steven's negativity | 0:13:15 | 0:13:18 | |
until she spotted an issue with the main bedroom. | 0:13:18 | 0:13:21 | |
-Hm... -Master bedroom. | 0:13:22 | 0:13:25 | |
-Look at the dust! -I know. | 0:13:25 | 0:13:27 | |
Oh, my God! | 0:13:27 | 0:13:29 | |
Maybe, maybe these people are too busy to be loving life | 0:13:29 | 0:13:32 | |
-to be worrying about their house. -Yeah. | 0:13:32 | 0:13:35 | |
Things looked better from the balcony. | 0:13:35 | 0:13:38 | |
It's definitely like a proper family home, isn't it? | 0:13:38 | 0:13:40 | |
The outside area's great. | 0:13:40 | 0:13:43 | |
-The kids are really happy, aren't they? -Yeah. | 0:13:43 | 0:13:46 | |
The house had evoked mixed reactions | 0:13:46 | 0:13:48 | |
but the couple were still keen to find out how much it cost. | 0:13:48 | 0:13:51 | |
-Shall I turn it over? -OK, then. -Who's going to be the winner? | 0:13:51 | 0:13:54 | |
-Oh. -Oh! | 0:13:57 | 0:13:59 | |
That was almost £20,000 over budget. | 0:13:59 | 0:14:02 | |
That's a lot. That's not going to sway me to move to Australia. | 0:14:02 | 0:14:06 | |
Maybe the next house will be more our taste. | 0:14:06 | 0:14:09 | |
With Hedydd staying upbeat, | 0:14:11 | 0:14:13 | |
the family swapped coastal living for the rural suburb of Maudsland. | 0:14:13 | 0:14:17 | |
With nearby schools, parks and access to major road links, | 0:14:18 | 0:14:21 | |
it was a popular location | 0:14:21 | 0:14:23 | |
for families seeking more bang for their buck. | 0:14:23 | 0:14:26 | |
Oh, this is the house, here! | 0:14:26 | 0:14:28 | |
-This is all right, isn't it? -Yeah. It's a nice street. | 0:14:28 | 0:14:31 | |
But did this three-bedroom property have enough scope | 0:14:31 | 0:14:34 | |
to be the Jamiesons' dream home? | 0:14:34 | 0:14:36 | |
Ah! | 0:14:37 | 0:14:39 | |
Yeah. Nice, big entrance. | 0:14:40 | 0:14:41 | |
Open and airy. Feels really nice. | 0:14:41 | 0:14:44 | |
Yeah. | 0:14:44 | 0:14:45 | |
It was off to a good start. | 0:14:45 | 0:14:47 | |
Bedroom here. This is nice. | 0:14:47 | 0:14:50 | |
Oh, check that out. | 0:14:50 | 0:14:52 | |
-That's nice, isn't it? -What's behind this door? | 0:14:53 | 0:14:55 | |
The best walk-in wardrobe we've seen. | 0:14:57 | 0:15:00 | |
There's enough room in this walk-in wardrobe for you to play toys. | 0:15:00 | 0:15:04 | |
I don't want to be stuck in this wardrobe. | 0:15:04 | 0:15:08 | |
Quite right, Seth. | 0:15:08 | 0:15:09 | |
-Do you want to go outside and have a look? -See what's out there. | 0:15:09 | 0:15:12 | |
Go on, then. You boys go outside. | 0:15:12 | 0:15:14 | |
-Mum and Dad are going to carry on looking at the house. -OK. | 0:15:14 | 0:15:17 | |
Do you like this living area? | 0:15:17 | 0:15:19 | |
Yeah. It all kind of just flows into one and it's got nice... | 0:15:19 | 0:15:23 | |
From here, all you can see is like a little water fountain | 0:15:23 | 0:15:27 | |
running into the pool. It's quite relaxing. | 0:15:27 | 0:15:30 | |
This house had the chilled-out vibe Hedydd was looking for. | 0:15:30 | 0:15:34 | |
-I love it. -Yeah. | 0:15:34 | 0:15:36 | |
-Check out this kitchen a bit more. -The kitchen's nice. | 0:15:36 | 0:15:40 | |
And outside... | 0:15:40 | 0:15:41 | |
-Mmm. -That's really nice, isn't it? Look at all that! | 0:15:42 | 0:15:45 | |
Nice?! Better than nice. | 0:15:45 | 0:15:47 | |
This house had ticked a lot of boxes but could they afford it | 0:15:48 | 0:15:51 | |
with their £350,000 budget? | 0:15:51 | 0:15:54 | |
Shall we have a look and see what it is? | 0:15:56 | 0:15:59 | |
Seth, are you going to turn it over. | 0:15:59 | 0:16:02 | |
-Brilliant! -Wow! | 0:16:03 | 0:16:05 | |
-Beauty! -Wow, that's a shock. | 0:16:07 | 0:16:09 | |
-High five. -That is a shock. -Happy days. | 0:16:09 | 0:16:12 | |
It was well within budget. | 0:16:13 | 0:16:15 | |
I was thinking it was going to be a lot more than that. | 0:16:16 | 0:16:18 | |
It's because we're away from the coast, it's got to be, hasn't it? | 0:16:18 | 0:16:21 | |
-How do you feel now? -Well, if we can get a house... | 0:16:21 | 0:16:23 | |
You're the one who needs convincing, not me. | 0:16:23 | 0:16:25 | |
If we can get a house like that for that kind of price, | 0:16:25 | 0:16:28 | |
then that's going to make a difference. | 0:16:28 | 0:16:30 | |
All in all, house-hunting had given the family | 0:16:30 | 0:16:33 | |
plenty of food for thought. | 0:16:33 | 0:16:35 | |
Property one was below budget, but even with a pool, | 0:16:35 | 0:16:38 | |
Steven wasn't convinced it offered value for money. | 0:16:38 | 0:16:41 | |
Coming in over budget, | 0:16:43 | 0:16:44 | |
the grounds of property two wowed, but it bit the dust for Hedydd | 0:16:44 | 0:16:49 | |
when the interior failed to impress. | 0:16:49 | 0:16:51 | |
Although more inland, | 0:16:51 | 0:16:53 | |
the final house of the day was a hit with both Steven and Hedydd. | 0:16:53 | 0:16:56 | |
And discovering it was affordable was a real bonus. | 0:16:56 | 0:17:00 | |
So, how did the family vote when it came to choosing between property | 0:17:00 | 0:17:04 | |
in Australia and the UK? | 0:17:04 | 0:17:06 | |
We've had a fab day looking at houses today, | 0:17:06 | 0:17:08 | |
all three different properties. | 0:17:08 | 0:17:10 | |
Based on that, we are going to vote for... | 0:17:10 | 0:17:13 | |
ALL: Australia. | 0:17:19 | 0:17:21 | |
Yeah. | 0:17:21 | 0:17:23 | |
Australia. | 0:17:23 | 0:17:25 | |
Australia. Australia. | 0:17:25 | 0:17:27 | |
You turned to Australia. | 0:17:27 | 0:17:29 | |
Well, the houses are a lot bigger out here and, well, | 0:17:29 | 0:17:32 | |
-there's swimming pools. -How come you chose Australia? | 0:17:32 | 0:17:35 | |
I've been here a couple of days now. | 0:17:35 | 0:17:38 | |
Seen a few of the houses - all seem really nice. | 0:17:38 | 0:17:41 | |
I could have lived in any of those houses. | 0:17:41 | 0:17:43 | |
OK, maybe not the middle one. | 0:17:43 | 0:17:45 | |
A clean sweep of votes for Australia meant Hedydd's dream | 0:17:50 | 0:17:53 | |
of a new life on the other side of the world | 0:17:53 | 0:17:55 | |
hadn't been washed out to sea, but that could have all changed | 0:17:55 | 0:17:59 | |
if Steven couldn't be convinced he could find work down under. | 0:17:59 | 0:18:02 | |
Back in the UK, the couple ran a steakhouse in their hometown. | 0:18:02 | 0:18:06 | |
Our restaurant does take over our life. | 0:18:06 | 0:18:08 | |
It's unavoidable. | 0:18:08 | 0:18:10 | |
Everything's got to fit around work, and that's how it goes. | 0:18:10 | 0:18:13 | |
Hedydd was the restaurant manager, | 0:18:13 | 0:18:16 | |
while chef Steven headed up a busy kitchen, putting in long hours. | 0:18:16 | 0:18:20 | |
Anything from nine, ten o'clock in the morning, | 0:18:20 | 0:18:23 | |
and work till midnight most nights. | 0:18:23 | 0:18:26 | |
In the busy times, that's seven days a week. | 0:18:26 | 0:18:27 | |
Hedydd knew that securing the future she wanted was dependent on | 0:18:27 | 0:18:32 | |
convincing her husband he'd be able to find work down under. | 0:18:32 | 0:18:36 | |
We've got to find Steven the right job. | 0:18:36 | 0:18:38 | |
If we can't find him the right job, | 0:18:38 | 0:18:39 | |
I don't think he's going to be willing to go. | 0:18:39 | 0:18:41 | |
While the boys were looked after by a childminder, | 0:18:44 | 0:18:47 | |
the couple set about exploring work options on the Gold Coast. | 0:18:47 | 0:18:50 | |
Steven was fearful about the day ahead. | 0:18:50 | 0:18:52 | |
I'm a bit worried about my age. | 0:18:52 | 0:18:54 | |
They might be looking for younger candidates for jobs. | 0:18:54 | 0:18:57 | |
We arranged for Steven to meet up with expat and manager, | 0:18:57 | 0:19:01 | |
Nick Owens, at a surf club in Burleigh Heads, | 0:19:01 | 0:19:04 | |
around nine miles from the Gold Coast central business area. | 0:19:04 | 0:19:07 | |
-Hi, Steve. -Hiya. -Nice to meet you, mate. I'm Nick. | 0:19:07 | 0:19:09 | |
-Welcome to the Burleigh Surf Club. -Thank you. | 0:19:09 | 0:19:12 | |
Steven cut straight to the chase. | 0:19:12 | 0:19:14 | |
What do you think, then? Obviously, my age now, because I'm 47 now. | 0:19:14 | 0:19:17 | |
Seriously, I'd probably favour that myself. | 0:19:17 | 0:19:20 | |
Probably got a family, you know. | 0:19:20 | 0:19:21 | |
You get a bit of a commitment for it. | 0:19:21 | 0:19:23 | |
Mate, I reckon, you're in the prime of your life, mate. | 0:19:23 | 0:19:27 | |
Reassured, Steven asked about shift patterns. | 0:19:27 | 0:19:31 | |
It is a lot of nights and the weekends are mainly where, | 0:19:31 | 0:19:34 | |
you know, the place is busy. | 0:19:34 | 0:19:36 | |
Doing evenings and weekends is what Steven hoped to avoid | 0:19:36 | 0:19:39 | |
but he was still keen to find out | 0:19:39 | 0:19:41 | |
how many hours he'd work in a typical week. | 0:19:41 | 0:19:44 | |
40 hours - you get your four weeks annual leave and holiday pay | 0:19:44 | 0:19:48 | |
and sick pay and all that, so it's not too bad. | 0:19:48 | 0:19:51 | |
A busy night here, you're still done and dusted by, the chefs, 9.30pm. | 0:19:51 | 0:19:56 | |
Even working evenings, Steven's hours would drop substantially. | 0:19:56 | 0:20:01 | |
Meanwhile, further on the coast, | 0:20:01 | 0:20:03 | |
Hedydd was meeting chef and business owner Luke Turner, | 0:20:03 | 0:20:06 | |
at his deli and restaurant in Southport. | 0:20:06 | 0:20:09 | |
-Hi, Hedydd, how are you? -I'm Hedydd. -Pleased to meet you. | 0:20:09 | 0:20:11 | |
-Are you OK? -Yeah. Good to see you. Good. | 0:20:11 | 0:20:13 | |
Used to being her own boss, | 0:20:13 | 0:20:15 | |
Hedydd wanted to know what a role there would entail. | 0:20:15 | 0:20:18 | |
We're looking for leaders, and we're looking for people | 0:20:18 | 0:20:21 | |
that can organise a group and be organised themselves. | 0:20:21 | 0:20:24 | |
It sounded good, but the deal breaker for Hedydd was her hours. | 0:20:24 | 0:20:28 | |
It's normally 6-4, or you might do nine till close. | 0:20:28 | 0:20:32 | |
What time do you close? | 0:20:32 | 0:20:33 | |
We're open six till six. | 0:20:33 | 0:20:35 | |
It was the kind of work-life balance Hedydd dreamed of. | 0:20:35 | 0:20:38 | |
All she needed to know was how much she could earn. | 0:20:38 | 0:20:42 | |
We'd look at an average salary for a restaurant manager around 65 to 70. | 0:20:42 | 0:20:46 | |
OK. Yeah. Sounds pretty good. | 0:20:46 | 0:20:49 | |
That was up to £37,000 annually and, even better news, | 0:20:49 | 0:20:53 | |
there was plenty of work available. | 0:20:53 | 0:20:55 | |
At the moment, it's very much a skills shortage area. | 0:20:55 | 0:20:59 | |
The way that we overcome that is by looking for sponsorship. | 0:20:59 | 0:21:02 | |
We have about... | 0:21:02 | 0:21:03 | |
I think we have nine sponsored staff on the books | 0:21:03 | 0:21:06 | |
between chefs and restaurant managers. | 0:21:06 | 0:21:08 | |
People with your sort of experience don't come along every day. | 0:21:08 | 0:21:11 | |
Happy days. | 0:21:11 | 0:21:12 | |
Hedydd was delighted, but it wasn't cause for celebration just yet. | 0:21:12 | 0:21:16 | |
I'm just nervous of how Steven gets on now, really. | 0:21:16 | 0:21:20 | |
It doesn't matter how good a day I've had. | 0:21:20 | 0:21:22 | |
If he isn't happy later on, that's it. | 0:21:22 | 0:21:25 | |
Back at the surf club, Steven asked the all-important question. | 0:21:26 | 0:21:30 | |
What kind of salary do you think I could get? | 0:21:30 | 0:21:33 | |
Around 65, 70 grand. | 0:21:33 | 0:21:35 | |
That's the kind of figure I think I'd be expecting to pay. | 0:21:35 | 0:21:38 | |
That's good. That sounds good. Yeah. That's sounds really good. | 0:21:38 | 0:21:41 | |
Steven would be guaranteed £37,000 per year and wouldn't face | 0:21:41 | 0:21:45 | |
seasonal changes to his income as a restaurant owner. | 0:21:45 | 0:21:48 | |
If you were thinking of making a move, being a chef, | 0:21:48 | 0:21:50 | |
I think, you know, you're coming to the right place, you really are. | 0:21:50 | 0:21:55 | |
-You won't look back, mate. -Looks good, doesn't it? | 0:21:55 | 0:21:58 | |
It had been a great day work-wise for the couple. | 0:21:59 | 0:22:02 | |
And when they were reunited on the beach, | 0:22:02 | 0:22:04 | |
they were delighted at each other's news. | 0:22:04 | 0:22:06 | |
My old job was like part time. | 0:22:06 | 0:22:08 | |
They were like 38, 40 hours. | 0:22:08 | 0:22:11 | |
Again, 65,000 to 70,000. | 0:22:11 | 0:22:13 | |
-See, I told you. -Yeah. | 0:22:15 | 0:22:16 | |
So, when it came to choosing between jobs at home or away, | 0:22:18 | 0:22:20 | |
which way did the couple go? | 0:22:20 | 0:22:22 | |
We've had our work day now, which we both enjoyed | 0:22:24 | 0:22:26 | |
and we've both learned a lot of things. | 0:22:26 | 0:22:28 | |
With that in mind, we're now going to vote. | 0:22:28 | 0:22:30 | |
Australia. | 0:22:37 | 0:22:39 | |
Joke. Australia. | 0:22:39 | 0:22:40 | |
Oo-ooh! | 0:22:44 | 0:22:46 | |
The family decided to make the most of a rare day out | 0:22:56 | 0:22:59 | |
and spent some quality time at one of the Gold Coast's landmark spots, | 0:22:59 | 0:23:03 | |
Burleigh National Park, just four miles from their base | 0:23:03 | 0:23:06 | |
in Mermaid Beach, where they explored the park | 0:23:06 | 0:23:09 | |
and the beautiful Tallebudgera Creek. | 0:23:09 | 0:23:12 | |
That looks cool, doesn't it? | 0:23:12 | 0:23:13 | |
Ah, nice. | 0:23:13 | 0:23:15 | |
It had been a welcome opportunity | 0:23:15 | 0:23:17 | |
to spend some time together as a family, | 0:23:17 | 0:23:19 | |
but Steven also used the day to reflect on the potentially | 0:23:19 | 0:23:22 | |
life-changing decision he would be faced with at the end of the week. | 0:23:22 | 0:23:26 | |
Hedydd seems to think, yes, | 0:23:26 | 0:23:28 | |
we can move and it will just all fall into place. | 0:23:28 | 0:23:31 | |
I think what can go wrong. | 0:23:31 | 0:23:33 | |
We are going slightly different directions with that. | 0:23:33 | 0:23:36 | |
Despite his earlier votes for Australia, | 0:23:36 | 0:23:39 | |
Hedydd knew he was wavering. | 0:23:39 | 0:23:41 | |
Every time I think I've got somewhere with him, | 0:23:41 | 0:23:43 | |
he'll turn around and he's got something else to say | 0:23:43 | 0:23:45 | |
and suddenly he doesn't seem so keen. | 0:23:45 | 0:23:47 | |
I have got a battle on my hands. | 0:23:49 | 0:23:51 | |
I've got a big battle. | 0:23:51 | 0:23:52 | |
Ready? | 0:23:52 | 0:23:54 | |
Fortunately, for her, the chance to hang out as a family | 0:23:54 | 0:23:57 | |
seems like it had won over Leon. | 0:23:57 | 0:24:00 | |
It's been a lot nicer having time | 0:24:00 | 0:24:03 | |
to be with Mum and Dad | 0:24:03 | 0:24:06 | |
than them just working all the time. | 0:24:06 | 0:24:08 | |
I don't really get to see them much. | 0:24:08 | 0:24:10 | |
It makes me feel a bit sad. But... | 0:24:10 | 0:24:14 | |
So, had the day done enough to convince everyone | 0:24:14 | 0:24:16 | |
of the benefits the lifestyle Australia could offer? | 0:24:16 | 0:24:19 | |
We've had a lovely day today on the beach and in the National Park. | 0:24:19 | 0:24:23 | |
Based on that, we've decided to vote for... | 0:24:23 | 0:24:26 | |
-ALL: Australia. -Australia. | 0:24:28 | 0:24:30 | |
Australia. | 0:24:30 | 0:24:32 | |
The week so far had gone Hedydd's way, but the couple needed | 0:24:35 | 0:24:39 | |
to consider the costs involved in making a move | 0:24:39 | 0:24:41 | |
and whether it would be financially viable. | 0:24:41 | 0:24:43 | |
Let's do it then, shall we? | 0:24:43 | 0:24:45 | |
I really hope this is going to work in my favour. | 0:24:45 | 0:24:48 | |
To help, we had provided a breakdown of living expenses, | 0:24:48 | 0:24:51 | |
starting with the weekly grocery shop. | 0:24:51 | 0:24:54 | |
Totting up the sums revealed | 0:24:54 | 0:24:56 | |
their groceries would be just over £3 more down under. | 0:24:56 | 0:24:59 | |
-It's literally the same. -Yeah. | 0:24:59 | 0:25:01 | |
Next, they looked at the bigger bills, | 0:25:01 | 0:25:04 | |
starting with mortgage repayments | 0:25:04 | 0:25:06 | |
and basing figures on the third property they viewed. | 0:25:06 | 0:25:09 | |
A quick calculation of the figures revealed what they'd pay | 0:25:09 | 0:25:12 | |
on monthly bills. | 0:25:12 | 0:25:14 | |
It costs us to live in Australia | 0:25:14 | 0:25:17 | |
£509.59 more a month. | 0:25:17 | 0:25:21 | |
More a month. | 0:25:21 | 0:25:22 | |
The biggest one there's the mortgage. | 0:25:22 | 0:25:25 | |
You're getting something out of that, so that's fine. | 0:25:25 | 0:25:28 | |
Next, they looked at income and discovered they'd bring home | 0:25:28 | 0:25:32 | |
almost £1,700 more each month. | 0:25:32 | 0:25:35 | |
-Less hours and you're making more money. -Making more money. | 0:25:35 | 0:25:37 | |
So, it's a win-win really. | 0:25:37 | 0:25:41 | |
-That's good. -If we know we're secure financially, | 0:25:41 | 0:25:45 | |
that's something we never have to worry about any more. | 0:25:45 | 0:25:48 | |
Well, it's a big thing to actually come out to Australia, | 0:25:48 | 0:25:50 | |
so I'm still worried about that a little bit. | 0:25:50 | 0:25:52 | |
First priority, keep your wife happy, | 0:25:52 | 0:25:55 | |
and everything else will fall into place. | 0:25:55 | 0:25:57 | |
Yeah, can we start something a bit easier, then? | 0:25:57 | 0:26:00 | |
It had been a great result for Hedydd, | 0:26:00 | 0:26:02 | |
but when it came to the vote, | 0:26:02 | 0:26:03 | |
had it been enough to keep her and Steven on the same page? | 0:26:03 | 0:26:07 | |
We've looked at all the costs and figures of moving out to Australia | 0:26:07 | 0:26:10 | |
and, with that in mind, we've now decided to vote for... | 0:26:10 | 0:26:14 | |
-Australia. -Australia. | 0:26:17 | 0:26:19 | |
Whoo! A clean run so far. | 0:26:20 | 0:26:22 | |
Yeah. It was a bit of a shock for me to see some of those figures. | 0:26:22 | 0:26:25 | |
-Were you that shocked, were you? -I was really shocked. | 0:26:25 | 0:26:28 | |
-Oh. -Yeah. | 0:26:28 | 0:26:29 | |
Confident that they'd thrive financially in Australia, | 0:26:32 | 0:26:35 | |
Hedydd was now one step closer | 0:26:35 | 0:26:37 | |
to the life she'd dreamt of for her family. | 0:26:37 | 0:26:40 | |
But, for husband Steven to go the distance, | 0:26:40 | 0:26:42 | |
the emotional cost of a move had to be considered. | 0:26:42 | 0:26:46 | |
The whole family sat down to watch messages from loved ones. | 0:26:46 | 0:26:49 | |
-OK? -Boys, are you going to watch the friends and family videos now? | 0:26:49 | 0:26:53 | |
-Shall we watch it? -Yeah. | 0:26:53 | 0:26:55 | |
-Hi. -Hi, Hedydd. | 0:26:55 | 0:26:57 | |
Hi, Steven. Hi, boys. | 0:26:57 | 0:26:59 | |
Hi, guys. | 0:26:59 | 0:27:01 | |
Hedydd and Steven and the boys. | 0:27:01 | 0:27:03 | |
We're hoping you're enjoying... Sorry. | 0:27:03 | 0:27:05 | |
Oh, she's started already. | 0:27:07 | 0:27:09 | |
Hedydd's always up to something. | 0:27:09 | 0:27:11 | |
Always has to be, sort of, shall we say, centre of attention? | 0:27:13 | 0:27:16 | |
The boys are just lovely. | 0:27:17 | 0:27:19 | |
Leon in particular is very caring and looks after Eli and Seth. | 0:27:19 | 0:27:24 | |
I think, because he thinks he's responsible when Mum's not there. | 0:27:25 | 0:27:29 | |
So, he's very good. | 0:27:29 | 0:27:32 | |
I don't think Mum and Dad would cope if they moved away. | 0:27:32 | 0:27:35 | |
Initially, I'd probably have to be here cos I think she'd be, | 0:27:35 | 0:27:38 | |
particularly Mam, would be inconsolable. | 0:27:38 | 0:27:41 | |
Because we do see them every weekend, | 0:27:41 | 0:27:44 | |
whilst you can Skype and FaceTime and all this, | 0:27:44 | 0:27:47 | |
it's not the same as having a cuddle, | 0:27:47 | 0:27:50 | |
and a kiss, and having them sit in your lap and read to them. | 0:27:50 | 0:27:52 | |
Um... | 0:27:52 | 0:27:54 | |
And seeing them just grow up. | 0:27:54 | 0:27:56 | |
I think it would be difficult if they went. | 0:27:56 | 0:27:59 | |
-I can't even think about saying goodbye to them. -No. | 0:27:59 | 0:28:02 | |
Don't... | 0:28:08 | 0:28:09 | |
Yeah. No, it would be too hard. | 0:28:10 | 0:28:13 | |
They'll have an amazing life out there. | 0:28:13 | 0:28:15 | |
Well, if I've learned one thing, it's you've got one life, | 0:28:15 | 0:28:21 | |
so just grasp it whilst you can. | 0:28:21 | 0:28:24 | |
Just go for it. Go for it. | 0:28:25 | 0:28:27 | |
We'll miss you loads, but it will be great. | 0:28:27 | 0:28:30 | |
It's an amazing opportunity. | 0:28:30 | 0:28:32 | |
We know you'll come up with the right decision and, um, | 0:28:32 | 0:28:36 | |
we'll see you when you come back. | 0:28:36 | 0:28:38 | |
You know, my mum and dad there, obviously don't want us to go. | 0:28:40 | 0:28:44 | |
It wouldn't change my mind though. | 0:28:44 | 0:28:46 | |
I can't really just stay home just for them. | 0:28:46 | 0:28:50 | |
You know, I feel selfish in a way, but at the same time, | 0:28:51 | 0:28:54 | |
I'm thinking about what's best for us. | 0:28:54 | 0:28:56 | |
-Like you say, we just have to work out what's more important in the end, isn't it? -Yeah. | 0:28:58 | 0:29:02 | |
The trial week with her family in Australia had surpassed | 0:29:11 | 0:29:14 | |
Hedydd's expectations. | 0:29:14 | 0:29:16 | |
Australia's been everything I dreamed of and hoped of | 0:29:16 | 0:29:19 | |
and a little bit more. | 0:29:19 | 0:29:21 | |
And she wasn't the only one who had enjoyed it. | 0:29:21 | 0:29:25 | |
Even Leon, who's been dead set against it, has loved all of it. | 0:29:26 | 0:29:30 | |
Spending time with Mum and Dad was really nice. | 0:29:32 | 0:29:35 | |
Having nice work there for once. | 0:29:35 | 0:29:36 | |
The more every day goes on, | 0:29:38 | 0:29:41 | |
there's more and more pluses for coming out here. | 0:29:41 | 0:29:44 | |
Just seeing the kids happy and being able to do things outside. | 0:29:44 | 0:29:48 | |
But, for all his positivity, Steven found it hard to come to a decision. | 0:29:48 | 0:29:52 | |
I don't want to make a wrong move and then think, | 0:29:52 | 0:29:56 | |
"Oh, what have we done?" | 0:29:56 | 0:29:58 | |
And the distance from home was on everyone's mind. | 0:29:58 | 0:30:01 | |
I suppose I have to decide what's more important to our children, | 0:30:01 | 0:30:05 | |
whether it's... | 0:30:05 | 0:30:06 | |
..me and Steven having a better work-life balance, | 0:30:07 | 0:30:11 | |
or my family are nearby. | 0:30:11 | 0:30:12 | |
It's the only thing holding me back. | 0:30:12 | 0:30:15 | |
This is the biggest thing we've ever had to decide as a family. | 0:30:15 | 0:30:18 | |
One question loomed large. | 0:30:20 | 0:30:22 | |
Would the family decide their destiny lay at home or away? | 0:30:22 | 0:30:27 | |
We had a lovely week in Australia and we are going to vote for... | 0:30:27 | 0:30:30 | |
-Australia. -Australia. -UK. | 0:30:37 | 0:30:40 | |
You're such a copycat, Eli. | 0:30:41 | 0:30:43 | |
I thought you loved it. | 0:30:43 | 0:30:45 | |
I chose UK because I'll miss friends and family. | 0:30:45 | 0:30:47 | |
-I changed my mind. -You changed your mind. | 0:30:49 | 0:30:52 | |
Yeah. | 0:30:52 | 0:30:53 | |
You've chosen Australia now. | 0:30:53 | 0:30:55 | |
Yeah. | 0:30:55 | 0:30:57 | |
-Good boy. -Yeah. Australia then it is. | 0:30:57 | 0:31:00 | |
Well, I had to choose it. | 0:31:00 | 0:31:01 | |
Now we've actually been here and seen what there is here... | 0:31:01 | 0:31:05 | |
Good job. | 0:31:05 | 0:31:07 | |
By the end of the week, | 0:31:10 | 0:31:11 | |
nearly the entire family seemed to be won over | 0:31:11 | 0:31:15 | |
by the possibility of a life down under. | 0:31:15 | 0:31:18 | |
So, 12 months later, | 0:31:18 | 0:31:20 | |
it's time to find out if the Jamiesons are living | 0:31:20 | 0:31:23 | |
at home or abroad. | 0:31:23 | 0:31:27 | |
It's April 2017, and the Jamiesons are living... | 0:31:28 | 0:31:32 | |
in Wollongong, New South Wales. | 0:31:32 | 0:31:34 | |
Our trial week in the Gold Coast was amazing. | 0:31:34 | 0:31:38 | |
I loved it. | 0:31:38 | 0:31:39 | |
I was almost crying at the airport when we had to go home. | 0:31:39 | 0:31:43 | |
So, when we went back to Wales, | 0:31:43 | 0:31:45 | |
all I remember is driving back in the car. | 0:31:45 | 0:31:47 | |
It was hammering it down with rain, it was grey, it was gloomy, | 0:31:47 | 0:31:52 | |
it was freezing cold, and I thought, urgh! | 0:31:52 | 0:31:54 | |
Although the family had been won over to the idea of life in Australia, | 0:31:54 | 0:31:58 | |
the difficulties of running their own restaurant | 0:31:58 | 0:32:01 | |
immediately took the Jamiesons' focus and attention. | 0:32:01 | 0:32:04 | |
It was literally a case of reopening our restaurant straightaway. | 0:32:04 | 0:32:08 | |
It was like that took over | 0:32:08 | 0:32:10 | |
and we kind of got snowed under with work very quickly. | 0:32:10 | 0:32:14 | |
And almost... | 0:32:14 | 0:32:15 | |
it was temporarily forgotten about. | 0:32:15 | 0:32:18 | |
What it is, is like if you go on any normal holiday, | 0:32:18 | 0:32:21 | |
you go and have your two-week break and you think, wow, this is amazing, | 0:32:21 | 0:32:25 | |
sunshine, and, um... | 0:32:25 | 0:32:28 | |
I think we kind of did that. | 0:32:28 | 0:32:30 | |
Once we got back to the UK, we kind of thought, yeah, | 0:32:30 | 0:32:32 | |
we had a nice holiday, we had a nice trip, | 0:32:32 | 0:32:34 | |
and let's just get back on with our normal life now. | 0:32:34 | 0:32:38 | |
Probably two months later, | 0:32:38 | 0:32:40 | |
after we'd been back working and everything, | 0:32:40 | 0:32:43 | |
Steven sort of turns around and goes, | 0:32:43 | 0:32:45 | |
"What's happening with this Australia thing then? I thought you were sorting it out." | 0:32:45 | 0:32:49 | |
I was like, "Well, we hadn't even discussed it. We've been working. | 0:32:49 | 0:32:52 | |
"I didn't think you wanted to go." | 0:32:52 | 0:32:54 | |
And he was like, "Yeah, I want to go." | 0:32:54 | 0:32:56 | |
I think, once we'd done our trial over here, | 0:32:56 | 0:32:59 | |
it sort of made us think, | 0:32:59 | 0:33:01 | |
when we got back to the UK that we really need to get the ball rolling | 0:33:01 | 0:33:06 | |
and...and do it. | 0:33:06 | 0:33:09 | |
-So... -Yeah, but you forgot to tell me. | 0:33:09 | 0:33:11 | |
Hedydd didn't need to be told twice though and quickly threw herself | 0:33:13 | 0:33:17 | |
headfirst into the visa application process. | 0:33:17 | 0:33:20 | |
So I had a look into it and realised that probably the best way forward | 0:33:20 | 0:33:25 | |
was to get a sponsorship visa. | 0:33:25 | 0:33:27 | |
And then I made friends with a lady online | 0:33:27 | 0:33:30 | |
who was already living out in Melbourne. | 0:33:30 | 0:33:32 | |
And her and her husband were in hospitality and she said, | 0:33:32 | 0:33:35 | |
"You need to use this recruitment agency. | 0:33:35 | 0:33:37 | |
"This is what they specialise in." | 0:33:37 | 0:33:40 | |
Gave me their number, rang them up, and literally, | 0:33:40 | 0:33:43 | |
probably within a month of being in touch with this recruitment agency, | 0:33:43 | 0:33:46 | |
we were getting interviews. | 0:33:46 | 0:33:48 | |
Job-hunting itself nearly became a 24-hour-a-day occupation. | 0:33:48 | 0:33:52 | |
We were trying to... | 0:33:52 | 0:33:54 | |
We had interviews at one o'clock in the morning | 0:33:54 | 0:33:56 | |
and we'd be in the restaurant and we were saying to customers, | 0:33:56 | 0:33:59 | |
"Come on, guys, you've got to go. | 0:33:59 | 0:34:01 | |
"We've got to go home. We've got interviews to do." | 0:34:01 | 0:34:03 | |
Do you remember like trying to pack everyone out of the restaurant | 0:34:03 | 0:34:06 | |
-so we could get home in time for interviews? -Yeah. | 0:34:06 | 0:34:09 | |
We were just walking through the door as the Skype was ringing. | 0:34:09 | 0:34:11 | |
There was months of, like, being up till 4am, wasn't there? | 0:34:11 | 0:34:15 | |
Thankfully, we got offered jobs pretty quickly, | 0:34:15 | 0:34:18 | |
which meant that our visa would be accepted a lot quicker. | 0:34:18 | 0:34:25 | |
So, when it did start to happen, it started to happen quite quickly | 0:34:25 | 0:34:29 | |
but at the same time, felt like it was dragging out at the same time | 0:34:29 | 0:34:33 | |
because we were slow making our decision on jobs | 0:34:33 | 0:34:36 | |
and then, obviously, yeah, a lot of people wanted to come then. | 0:34:36 | 0:34:40 | |
Saying goodbye to Wales meant not just saying goodbye | 0:34:40 | 0:34:43 | |
to friends and family, it meant closing a business | 0:34:43 | 0:34:46 | |
the two had spent years building up. | 0:34:46 | 0:34:48 | |
Closing down our restaurant after, sort of, over 20 years | 0:34:48 | 0:34:54 | |
of running that kind of business was...I found it quite hard. | 0:34:54 | 0:34:58 | |
It was sad for me. | 0:34:58 | 0:35:00 | |
Erm... | 0:35:00 | 0:35:02 | |
Hedydd, on the other hand, just sort of walked out, you know, | 0:35:02 | 0:35:05 | |
smiling, and jumping for joy, saying, "That's the end of that." | 0:35:05 | 0:35:09 | |
From the time we actually got back from Australia till the time | 0:35:09 | 0:35:13 | |
we left and moved permanently, that time was seven months. | 0:35:13 | 0:35:17 | |
Probably the first five months felt like ages. | 0:35:17 | 0:35:22 | |
Everything felt like it was taking for ever. | 0:35:22 | 0:35:25 | |
Honestly felt like we might not even get there at all. | 0:35:25 | 0:35:28 | |
But, the last two months, | 0:35:28 | 0:35:30 | |
we just felt like we were running out of time because we were actually | 0:35:30 | 0:35:33 | |
getting ready to go then. Once the approval came through, | 0:35:33 | 0:35:36 | |
it was like, we have got to get ready to go. | 0:35:36 | 0:35:38 | |
With their business sold and an offer accepted on their house, | 0:35:39 | 0:35:42 | |
the family set off on New Year's Eve | 0:35:42 | 0:35:44 | |
for the epic journey to start their new life. | 0:35:44 | 0:35:47 | |
But things got off to a rocky start. | 0:35:47 | 0:35:49 | |
Before we pull into the airport, | 0:35:49 | 0:35:52 | |
I had a little notification on my phone to say that the plane | 0:35:52 | 0:35:56 | |
was delayed by sort of four hours. | 0:35:56 | 0:35:59 | |
I was so annoyed. | 0:35:59 | 0:36:01 | |
I thought, "Oh, we could have slept for a bit longer." | 0:36:01 | 0:36:04 | |
We get there to discover that actually what we've got ahead of us | 0:36:04 | 0:36:08 | |
is an 11-hour delay and we'd be stuck in Gatwick for that long, | 0:36:08 | 0:36:12 | |
and then we're told we're going to get a 17-hour delay | 0:36:12 | 0:36:15 | |
once we get to Dubai. | 0:36:15 | 0:36:16 | |
And I thought, "That's it. This is an omen." | 0:36:16 | 0:36:19 | |
Something, somewhere telling us we're not supposed to leave. | 0:36:19 | 0:36:23 | |
And I was like, "What are we going to do?" | 0:36:23 | 0:36:25 | |
Arriving in Australia two days behind schedule, | 0:36:25 | 0:36:28 | |
the exhausted family took their first steps in their new life | 0:36:28 | 0:36:31 | |
on the other side of the world. | 0:36:31 | 0:36:33 | |
The first two weeks in Australia were a bit of a whirlwind really. | 0:36:33 | 0:36:37 | |
I was sort of jumping up and down once we got to Sydney Airport, | 0:36:37 | 0:36:41 | |
going, "Yeah, we're here!" so excited. | 0:36:41 | 0:36:43 | |
But then, actually, from there on, we had a lot of stuff to organise. | 0:36:43 | 0:36:47 | |
Sort of trying to kit out our house, trying to buy cars. | 0:36:47 | 0:36:50 | |
There was a lot of stuff but I'd prepared myself for that. | 0:36:50 | 0:36:53 | |
I knew there was going to be a lot of stuff to organise. | 0:36:53 | 0:36:56 | |
But there was one crucial detail that had been overlooked. | 0:36:56 | 0:36:59 | |
Getting the kids into school, how was it, Steven? | 0:36:59 | 0:37:02 | |
-It was quite tricky. -It was a nightmare. | 0:37:02 | 0:37:05 | |
On our 457 visa, which is like the temporary work visa, | 0:37:05 | 0:37:09 | |
when you come to New South Wales, | 0:37:09 | 0:37:11 | |
you actually get charged for the schooling fees. | 0:37:11 | 0:37:14 | |
So, originally, if we'd have gone to Queensland, it would have been free, | 0:37:14 | 0:37:18 | |
but most states charge for schooling, | 0:37:18 | 0:37:21 | |
and New South Wales is one of the most expensive. | 0:37:21 | 0:37:23 | |
School fees were a massive bill that had not been factored in. | 0:37:23 | 0:37:27 | |
I would have paid 10,000 for this year | 0:37:27 | 0:37:31 | |
and 15,000 for next year. | 0:37:31 | 0:37:33 | |
I quickly realised I couldn't send them to a government school. | 0:37:33 | 0:37:36 | |
I was getting to the point where I thought, | 0:37:36 | 0:37:38 | |
"I am not going to get these kids into a school." | 0:37:38 | 0:37:40 | |
Then it was like, we need to try and get them into private school | 0:37:40 | 0:37:43 | |
and actually that wasn't that easy either. | 0:37:43 | 0:37:45 | |
And then, when you get into another one, we had several interviews. | 0:37:45 | 0:37:48 | |
They'd have school reports. | 0:37:48 | 0:37:50 | |
I had to translate all the school reports | 0:37:50 | 0:37:53 | |
from Welsh to English for them, so that they could see, you know, | 0:37:53 | 0:37:56 | |
what kind of kids they were. | 0:37:56 | 0:37:57 | |
So, they're now in a Catholic private school. | 0:37:57 | 0:38:00 | |
With the school now sorted, | 0:38:01 | 0:38:02 | |
Mum and Dad were concerned about eldest boy Leon, | 0:38:02 | 0:38:05 | |
who had always harboured doubts about the move. | 0:38:05 | 0:38:08 | |
I think the first few weeks we were trying to make sure that the boys | 0:38:08 | 0:38:12 | |
would settle in as quickly as possible. | 0:38:12 | 0:38:15 | |
Obviously, Leon was the one we were worried about | 0:38:16 | 0:38:19 | |
because he wasn't 100% sure about coming to Australia. | 0:38:19 | 0:38:23 | |
But I think he kind of settled in really quick and, | 0:38:23 | 0:38:27 | |
once he saw where we were going to be living, and the area, | 0:38:27 | 0:38:31 | |
and once he sort of, erm, | 0:38:31 | 0:38:33 | |
went around and went to the beaches | 0:38:33 | 0:38:36 | |
and did some swimming and everything, | 0:38:36 | 0:38:38 | |
I think he kind of switched straightaway. | 0:38:38 | 0:38:41 | |
He has probably been the one out of all the boys | 0:38:41 | 0:38:43 | |
that has settled in the quickest. | 0:38:43 | 0:38:45 | |
Before I started my new school here in Australia, | 0:38:45 | 0:38:48 | |
I was quite scared and worried. | 0:38:48 | 0:38:51 | |
But then, once we started going in the car, then I was OK. | 0:38:51 | 0:38:55 | |
Then, when we arrived, I was scared again | 0:38:55 | 0:38:57 | |
because there were so many kids. | 0:38:57 | 0:38:59 | |
Then I started to talk to them and then I was fine. | 0:38:59 | 0:39:02 | |
Having only been in the country a few short months, | 0:39:02 | 0:39:04 | |
the Jamiesons are still renting. | 0:39:04 | 0:39:07 | |
We got real lucky with the house. | 0:39:07 | 0:39:09 | |
Our relocation agent did a really good job. | 0:39:09 | 0:39:11 | |
It is in a lovely area, it's safe. | 0:39:11 | 0:39:13 | |
It's a big house. | 0:39:13 | 0:39:14 | |
It's got a better layout than the house we had before. | 0:39:14 | 0:39:17 | |
It's not my dream house. | 0:39:18 | 0:39:20 | |
We can't have it all straightaway, can we? | 0:39:20 | 0:39:22 | |
My dream house would have a bigger garden and maybe a pool, | 0:39:22 | 0:39:26 | |
maybe air conditioning for, like, the summer. | 0:39:26 | 0:39:29 | |
The main thing I like about this house is my lovely, big, large, | 0:39:29 | 0:39:33 | |
walk-in wardrobe and my fabulous en suite | 0:39:33 | 0:39:36 | |
that I felt like I've been deserving of for quite a while, | 0:39:36 | 0:39:39 | |
having to share a bathroom with three boys, or four boys. | 0:39:39 | 0:39:43 | |
With the house and boys settled, | 0:39:43 | 0:39:45 | |
it turns out Steven is finding it a bit tricky adjusting to life | 0:39:45 | 0:39:49 | |
where he is no longer his own boss. | 0:39:49 | 0:39:51 | |
Steven, I think, is taking longer to settle into his job. | 0:39:51 | 0:39:56 | |
It's just taking him time because he really is used to being the boss | 0:39:56 | 0:40:01 | |
and has been his own boss for so many years. | 0:40:01 | 0:40:04 | |
It's just taking him a little bit longer. | 0:40:04 | 0:40:06 | |
I was still a bit anxious about it because, obviously, | 0:40:06 | 0:40:09 | |
I haven't worked for anybody else for donkeys' years, so it's like, | 0:40:09 | 0:40:14 | |
you know, knowing that I was going to have to turn up and, you know, | 0:40:14 | 0:40:18 | |
work for somebody else was a bit nerve-racking. | 0:40:18 | 0:40:22 | |
We actually get days off from work. | 0:40:22 | 0:40:23 | |
We get, sort of... | 0:40:23 | 0:40:25 | |
Last week we had three days off in a row. | 0:40:25 | 0:40:28 | |
It's like you can plan things, you can do things. | 0:40:28 | 0:40:30 | |
And there's no stresses or worry about running your own business | 0:40:30 | 0:40:36 | |
that you've got to worry about anything. | 0:40:36 | 0:40:38 | |
It's sort of, finish work, jump in the car, go home, and switch off, | 0:40:38 | 0:40:42 | |
and have your days off and enjoy yourself. | 0:40:42 | 0:40:45 | |
So, when we were back in Wales, we were sort of working | 0:40:45 | 0:40:49 | |
70, 80 hours a week, just constant. | 0:40:49 | 0:40:51 | |
There was never any end to it. It was just constant. | 0:40:51 | 0:40:54 | |
Now we've got normal jobs. | 0:40:55 | 0:40:58 | |
I work 38 hours a week. | 0:40:59 | 0:41:01 | |
It's almost like a part-time job for me now. | 0:41:01 | 0:41:04 | |
So, one year on, are the couple happy with their decision? | 0:41:04 | 0:41:08 | |
I don't THINK I've made the right decision to move, | 0:41:08 | 0:41:11 | |
I KNOW I've made the right decision to move. | 0:41:11 | 0:41:14 | |
The difference is huge. | 0:41:14 | 0:41:15 | |
The difference... | 0:41:15 | 0:41:17 | |
..in the feeling within the family, is so completely different. | 0:41:17 | 0:41:22 | |
I mean, Steven and I aren't stressing any more about work | 0:41:22 | 0:41:25 | |
or discussing work every single moment that we have that's spare. | 0:41:25 | 0:41:29 | |
Everything feels completely different. | 0:41:29 | 0:41:32 | |
It's like we can switch off, we can go out for the day. | 0:41:32 | 0:41:34 | |
We haven't got to worry about anything. | 0:41:34 | 0:41:37 | |
Everything just feels so much better. | 0:41:37 | 0:41:39 | |
Hedydd has settled in straightaway. | 0:41:39 | 0:41:41 | |
I think day one, she was like, "I'm here, I'm home, that's it." | 0:41:41 | 0:41:45 | |
The boys, you know, | 0:41:45 | 0:41:47 | |
they settled in really quick but I'm trying to sort of | 0:41:47 | 0:41:51 | |
unwind still really. | 0:41:51 | 0:41:53 | |
It's just taken me such a long time, to sort of, | 0:41:53 | 0:41:56 | |
from going from such a stressful life to being able to sit down | 0:41:56 | 0:42:00 | |
and relax and switch off has just taken me a bit longer | 0:42:00 | 0:42:03 | |
but I'm getting there, I'm getting there. | 0:42:03 | 0:42:05 | |
I still actually can't believe that we're here. | 0:42:07 | 0:42:11 | |
I still actually can't believe that we left that little, | 0:42:11 | 0:42:14 | |
tiny town in west Wales and had the courage to actually make the move | 0:42:14 | 0:42:19 | |
and just do it. | 0:42:19 | 0:42:21 | |
I'm, like, proud of ourselves for actually having the courage | 0:42:21 | 0:42:25 | |
to just go for it and follow our dream. | 0:42:25 | 0:42:27 | |
Actually I'm quite proud of Steven, actually, for going along with it | 0:42:27 | 0:42:31 | |
and not being too scared to back down | 0:42:31 | 0:42:33 | |
because, I mean, where we are now, it is absolutely gorgeous. | 0:42:33 | 0:42:37 | |
I think we have made the right move to do this. | 0:42:37 | 0:42:41 | |
There was a lot of hard work in getting us all to agree | 0:42:43 | 0:42:46 | |
on coming to Australia and it's taken a lot of money | 0:42:46 | 0:42:50 | |
to get over here, but I think it's settling down | 0:42:50 | 0:42:53 | |
and everything is all working out OK now. | 0:42:53 | 0:42:56 | |
We're both enjoying it. | 0:42:56 | 0:42:58 | |
The kids are loving it. | 0:42:58 | 0:43:00 | |
So I think we have made the right choice. | 0:43:00 | 0:43:03 | |
Hedydd Jamieson had always felt | 0:43:03 | 0:43:06 | |
like her family's destiny lay in Australia. | 0:43:06 | 0:43:09 | |
Having been there a few short months, | 0:43:09 | 0:43:12 | |
their biggest challenge appears to be | 0:43:12 | 0:43:15 | |
adjusting to the more balanced work-life priorities down under. | 0:43:15 | 0:43:19 | |
Having too much free time on their hands, | 0:43:19 | 0:43:22 | |
surrounded by beautiful beaches and gorgeous rainforests | 0:43:22 | 0:43:25 | |
sounds like a problem most of us can only dream of. | 0:43:25 | 0:43:29 |