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Moving your family to the other side of the world can throw up | 0:00:02 | 0:00:06 | |
massive challenges - | 0:00:06 | 0:00:07 | |
finding the right house, juggling finances and | 0:00:07 | 0:00:10 | |
getting a job is daunting enough, but if your partner can't bear | 0:00:10 | 0:00:14 | |
to leave friends and family behind, it becomes a huge dilemma. | 0:00:14 | 0:00:18 | |
In 2011, the Andrews family faced just that decision. | 0:00:18 | 0:00:23 | |
Two years on, we'll find out how and where they are now. | 0:00:23 | 0:00:27 | |
Melanie Andrews was desperate to convince her husband Rob | 0:00:28 | 0:00:31 | |
that a life down under would be better for their future | 0:00:31 | 0:00:35 | |
and worth giving up close family ties in the UK. | 0:00:35 | 0:00:38 | |
Me auntie and uncle, they mean everything to me. | 0:00:38 | 0:00:41 | |
Leaving them behind is just going to be very hard. | 0:00:41 | 0:00:44 | |
But, after a week of shocks... | 0:00:44 | 0:00:46 | |
I'm not liking this at the moment. | 0:00:46 | 0:00:48 | |
..and surprises... | 0:00:48 | 0:00:49 | |
-Wow. -Oh, my God! | 0:00:49 | 0:00:50 | |
Oh, I'm crying. | 0:00:50 | 0:00:52 | |
..have the Andrews managed to achieve the life Mel dreamt of? | 0:00:52 | 0:00:55 | |
The main thing is, as long as we're all happy and healthy and... | 0:00:55 | 0:00:59 | |
my kids are coming home smiling. | 0:00:59 | 0:01:02 | |
It's just great. | 0:01:02 | 0:01:04 | |
Australia's warm climate and golden beaches have long been | 0:01:28 | 0:01:32 | |
a magnet for Brits seeking a new life abroad. | 0:01:32 | 0:01:35 | |
On average, nearly 100 of us emigrate to Australia every day, | 0:01:35 | 0:01:39 | |
but the dream doesn't always match up to reality | 0:01:39 | 0:01:42 | |
and as many as a third of new arrivals end up heading back home. | 0:01:42 | 0:01:46 | |
Two years ago, the Andrews spent one week experiencing | 0:01:50 | 0:01:54 | |
the reality of life in Australia before having to decide | 0:01:54 | 0:01:58 | |
whether to make the move a permanent one. | 0:01:58 | 0:02:01 | |
Melanie was hoping she could persuade husband Rob that | 0:02:01 | 0:02:03 | |
Australia would give the family a better life. | 0:02:03 | 0:02:07 | |
Today, we'll find out what happened next. | 0:02:07 | 0:02:09 | |
In 2011, the Andrews embarked on their trial week. | 0:02:11 | 0:02:15 | |
Two flights, 9,000 miles and 22 hours gave them | 0:02:15 | 0:02:19 | |
plenty of time to think about the adventure ahead. | 0:02:19 | 0:02:21 | |
I'm really looking forward to it. | 0:02:23 | 0:02:25 | |
I just want to get in there and... | 0:02:25 | 0:02:27 | |
convince Rob that it's going to be good. | 0:02:27 | 0:02:30 | |
It's going to be more of a reality check. | 0:02:30 | 0:02:33 | |
This is sort of like the make or break. | 0:02:33 | 0:02:35 | |
It was a week that had the potential to change their lives forever, | 0:02:35 | 0:02:39 | |
and it was a long way from Folkestone in Kent. | 0:02:39 | 0:02:42 | |
Mel and husband Rob share their happy home with their children - | 0:02:43 | 0:02:47 | |
Coby, who was seven, and little Lexie, who was then just three. | 0:02:47 | 0:02:52 | |
But, for Mel, it was Australia that offered the life | 0:02:52 | 0:02:54 | |
she had dreamt of since she was a teenager. | 0:02:54 | 0:02:57 | |
I'd originally planned to go travelling for six weeks | 0:02:57 | 0:02:59 | |
and it fell through, so I couldn't go. | 0:02:59 | 0:03:01 | |
Um, and there was a second time that I was going to go and that | 0:03:01 | 0:03:04 | |
fell through and I was so upset and so gutted that I couldn't go. | 0:03:04 | 0:03:08 | |
-No-one wanted to take her, to be honest. -No, third time lucky. | 0:03:08 | 0:03:11 | |
A few years previously, a family holiday down under had | 0:03:11 | 0:03:15 | |
convinced Melanie Australia should be their home. | 0:03:15 | 0:03:18 | |
I absolutely loved it and Coby and Lexie did as well. | 0:03:18 | 0:03:22 | |
But, if they were going to make the dream a reality, | 0:03:22 | 0:03:25 | |
they had to move fast as their visa was close to running out. | 0:03:25 | 0:03:29 | |
Once that expires, if we haven't gone to Australia permanently, | 0:03:29 | 0:03:33 | |
then we just wouldn't be able to get that visa again. | 0:03:33 | 0:03:36 | |
I just want to get out there now. You know, I've just got to try and convince Rob. | 0:03:36 | 0:03:41 | |
For the move to work, Rob had to decide | 0:03:41 | 0:03:43 | |
if he could walk away from the family cleaning business | 0:03:43 | 0:03:45 | |
he ran with his brother and start again in Australia. | 0:03:45 | 0:03:49 | |
'Moving to Australia and starting fresh | 0:03:49 | 0:03:53 | |
'and not having the network support that we've got here,' | 0:03:53 | 0:03:56 | |
you know, it will be hard, so, yeah, that does worry me as well. | 0:03:56 | 0:04:00 | |
But there was something even more important than work than Rob | 0:04:00 | 0:04:04 | |
would have to leave behind - his close family and friends. | 0:04:04 | 0:04:08 | |
'Me auntie and uncle, I'm very close to.' | 0:04:08 | 0:04:11 | |
You know, and they mean everything to me. | 0:04:13 | 0:04:15 | |
'Leaving them behind is just going to be very hard.' | 0:04:15 | 0:04:18 | |
Cos I'm just going to miss them... | 0:04:19 | 0:04:21 | |
so much. | 0:04:21 | 0:04:23 | |
HE CRIES | 0:04:28 | 0:04:29 | |
'I wouldn't want Rob to do anything that' | 0:04:31 | 0:04:33 | |
he didn't want to do. And I certainly don't want him to think that | 0:04:33 | 0:04:37 | |
I'm trying to emotionally blackmail him into going | 0:04:37 | 0:04:40 | |
and forcing him because, you know, I wouldn't. | 0:04:40 | 0:04:42 | |
I love him to bits so, you know, at the end of the day, | 0:04:42 | 0:04:45 | |
he's my husband and if he doesn't want to go, then we won't go, but... | 0:04:45 | 0:04:49 | |
you know, I just don't know how...how much I'd resent him | 0:04:49 | 0:04:53 | |
later on for not going. | 0:04:53 | 0:04:54 | |
'I've always said, "I'll never say goodbye." | 0:04:58 | 0:05:00 | |
'I say, "I'll see you soon,"' | 0:05:00 | 0:05:01 | |
because I think goodbye means... | 0:05:01 | 0:05:04 | |
you know, maybe forever and, you know, | 0:05:04 | 0:05:06 | |
I don't want it to be like that. | 0:05:06 | 0:05:08 | |
With so much at stake, everyone's emotions were running high. | 0:05:08 | 0:05:13 | |
Ahead of them was a huge decision, | 0:05:13 | 0:05:15 | |
perhaps the toughest they would ever have to make. | 0:05:15 | 0:05:17 | |
The family visited Perth in Western Australia. | 0:05:20 | 0:05:23 | |
Home for their trial week was the popular beachside suburb of | 0:05:23 | 0:05:27 | |
Watermans Bay, just a short drive from the airport. | 0:05:27 | 0:05:31 | |
The three-bedroom property was only a couple of minutes' walk to | 0:05:31 | 0:05:33 | |
the beach and had plenty of space for all the family. | 0:05:33 | 0:05:37 | |
Ooh! Look! | 0:05:39 | 0:05:43 | |
Oh, look! | 0:05:43 | 0:05:44 | |
-I think the kids have got over their jetlag now. -I know. | 0:05:44 | 0:05:47 | |
-They're not going to sleep tonight. -No, it'll be a nightmare tonight. | 0:05:47 | 0:05:50 | |
Coby and Lexie settled in well, | 0:05:50 | 0:05:53 | |
but Mel and Rob's thoughts were already on the week ahead. | 0:05:53 | 0:05:57 | |
What I'd really like to get out of this week would be for Rob to | 0:05:57 | 0:06:00 | |
really like it and to think, "Yeah, I could see myself living here." | 0:06:00 | 0:06:04 | |
I think it's going to open our eyes a lot more to what | 0:06:04 | 0:06:06 | |
we thought it was going to be like. | 0:06:06 | 0:06:08 | |
Back in the UK, the Andrews | 0:06:15 | 0:06:17 | |
lived in this three-bedroom ex-council house in Folkestone. | 0:06:17 | 0:06:20 | |
Based on its estimated value, | 0:06:20 | 0:06:22 | |
they had a budget of around £180,000 to spend on an Australian property | 0:06:22 | 0:06:28 | |
and they were expecting a lot for their money. | 0:06:28 | 0:06:31 | |
It would be at least a four-bedroom detached. | 0:06:31 | 0:06:34 | |
'Whether it's got a pool or not, it's got to have a home cinema.' | 0:06:34 | 0:06:37 | |
That's always been something I've always wanted. | 0:06:37 | 0:06:40 | |
'Mel does want a nice house, but, as long as it's big enough to,' | 0:06:40 | 0:06:43 | |
hopefully, accommodate loads of visits from friends and family, | 0:06:43 | 0:06:49 | |
then that'll do me fine. | 0:06:49 | 0:06:51 | |
To give the Andrews a taste of Perth's housing market, | 0:06:51 | 0:06:54 | |
we showed them three options based on what they wanted, | 0:06:54 | 0:06:58 | |
and what they could afford. | 0:06:58 | 0:06:59 | |
Once they'd seen each house, we'd reveal how much it cost. | 0:06:59 | 0:07:03 | |
Their property tour started in the suburb of Butler | 0:07:05 | 0:07:07 | |
on the outskirts of the city. | 0:07:07 | 0:07:09 | |
This three-bedroom property was a typical modern Aussie style home | 0:07:11 | 0:07:15 | |
that should appeal to both Mel and Rob. | 0:07:15 | 0:07:17 | |
That's a nice front room. | 0:07:19 | 0:07:20 | |
You could have a dining room table here, couldn't you? | 0:07:20 | 0:07:24 | |
I don't know. I'm not liking this at the moment. | 0:07:24 | 0:07:27 | |
-Not a bad sized kitchen though. -No. | 0:07:27 | 0:07:29 | |
This three-bedroom house wasn't impressing Rob, | 0:07:29 | 0:07:32 | |
who looked like he might be a tough customer. | 0:07:32 | 0:07:34 | |
It's got a walk-in wardrobe and an en suite. | 0:07:34 | 0:07:38 | |
-No, this isn't bad... -Yeah... | 0:07:38 | 0:07:40 | |
-..but you don't live in your bedroom, so... -I know. | 0:07:40 | 0:07:42 | |
There was only the outside space left to try and tempt him. | 0:07:42 | 0:07:46 | |
-This is quite nice cos it's... -Yeah. -..like a blank canvas. | 0:07:46 | 0:07:50 | |
-But we'd have to spend a lot to get it how we would want it. -Yeah. | 0:07:50 | 0:07:53 | |
And I don't think it would be worth it. | 0:07:53 | 0:07:55 | |
The house had left Rob cold, but what about the price? | 0:07:55 | 0:07:58 | |
Would they even be able to afford something like this | 0:07:58 | 0:08:01 | |
on their £180,000 budget? | 0:08:01 | 0:08:04 | |
Go on, then. | 0:08:05 | 0:08:07 | |
Whoa! | 0:08:15 | 0:08:16 | |
-£230,000! -£230,000! | 0:08:16 | 0:08:19 | |
If I had a choice to buy this... | 0:08:21 | 0:08:23 | |
-I wouldn't. -No. -I just don't like it. | 0:08:23 | 0:08:26 | |
At £50,000 over budget, it was a big set back for Mel. | 0:08:26 | 0:08:31 | |
It's a no-no, this one. | 0:08:31 | 0:08:33 | |
Well, let's just hope you like the next one then. | 0:08:33 | 0:08:36 | |
ROB LAUGHS | 0:08:36 | 0:08:37 | |
In Perth, affordable housing is often found out in the suburbs, | 0:08:37 | 0:08:41 | |
which sometimes means up to a two-hour daily commute. | 0:08:41 | 0:08:46 | |
With their budget in mind, the Andrews headed to Yanchep. | 0:08:46 | 0:08:49 | |
The average house price in this area was still high, | 0:08:49 | 0:08:52 | |
but a cheaper new build was a realistic option. | 0:08:52 | 0:08:56 | |
As the development was still being built, | 0:08:56 | 0:08:58 | |
they viewed a three-bedroom show home to give them an idea | 0:08:58 | 0:09:01 | |
of what a typical finished house would look like. | 0:09:01 | 0:09:03 | |
This is nice. | 0:09:05 | 0:09:06 | |
Nice big walk-in wardrobe. | 0:09:08 | 0:09:10 | |
Look at the size of that. | 0:09:11 | 0:09:13 | |
Cor, this is lovely. | 0:09:13 | 0:09:15 | |
As soon as you walk in the door, it's got that bit of a wow factor. | 0:09:16 | 0:09:19 | |
The cinema room... | 0:09:22 | 0:09:24 | |
-It ticks all the boxes so far. -Oh, definitely. | 0:09:24 | 0:09:26 | |
Nice double bedroom. Ideal for Coby. I like the big windows as well. | 0:09:29 | 0:09:33 | |
-That's a nice sized bedroom. -Oh, Lexie would love this room. | 0:09:35 | 0:09:38 | |
-It's lovely, innit? -They're all nice sized rooms, aren't they? -Yeah. | 0:09:38 | 0:09:41 | |
With its stylish interiors and open spaces, this house felt ideal | 0:09:41 | 0:09:45 | |
and a large garden, complete with built-in barbecue, | 0:09:45 | 0:09:49 | |
seemed tailor-made for Mel's dream of an outdoor lifestyle, | 0:09:49 | 0:09:53 | |
assuming the sun came out. | 0:09:53 | 0:09:55 | |
But was the house within their £180,000 budget? | 0:09:55 | 0:09:58 | |
Go on, then. | 0:09:58 | 0:10:00 | |
-Wow. -Oh, my God! | 0:10:05 | 0:10:07 | |
£200,000. 300,000. | 0:10:07 | 0:10:10 | |
-Nice. That's all right. -When can we move in? | 0:10:10 | 0:10:14 | |
It was £20,000 over budget, but Mel could see the possibilities | 0:10:14 | 0:10:18 | |
and even Rob looked as if he might be ready to settle in. | 0:10:18 | 0:10:22 | |
But, before they made a final decision on property, | 0:10:22 | 0:10:25 | |
there was one more to see. | 0:10:25 | 0:10:27 | |
The final house was in the coastal suburb of Banksia Grove, | 0:10:27 | 0:10:30 | |
and a 30-minute drive to Perth made it the closest of | 0:10:30 | 0:10:34 | |
all three properties to the city. | 0:10:34 | 0:10:35 | |
Like so much of what was on offer in Perth, | 0:10:35 | 0:10:37 | |
it was another new build house. Mel and Rob viewed a show home. | 0:10:37 | 0:10:42 | |
With four bedrooms, a cinema room and open-plan design, | 0:10:42 | 0:10:45 | |
on paper, this looked like a house that could definitely convince Rob. | 0:10:45 | 0:10:49 | |
-Nice. -It is. -Yeah. | 0:10:51 | 0:10:52 | |
Nice, big hallway. | 0:10:53 | 0:10:55 | |
Wow. | 0:10:57 | 0:10:58 | |
Walk-in wardrobe. Nice. The en suite. | 0:10:58 | 0:11:02 | |
Nice shower. | 0:11:02 | 0:11:04 | |
It was a good start and there was another room to come. | 0:11:04 | 0:11:07 | |
Oh, this is nice. Yeah! | 0:11:09 | 0:11:12 | |
-Oh, I could see myself sitting in here. -Coby would love it. -Yeah. | 0:11:12 | 0:11:16 | |
It looked as if property three could offer the space the Andrews wanted. | 0:11:16 | 0:11:19 | |
-It's an ideal size for us four. -Oh, yeah, definitely. I love it so far. | 0:11:19 | 0:11:23 | |
Yeah, I do. Move in tomorrow! | 0:11:23 | 0:11:25 | |
Rob looked won over and there was still the outside space to see. | 0:11:26 | 0:11:30 | |
With a stunning garden complete with beer pumps, | 0:11:30 | 0:11:33 | |
this was a house that seemed to have everything they were looking for. | 0:11:33 | 0:11:37 | |
-It's lovely. -Yeah. Very nice. -Perfect. | 0:11:37 | 0:11:40 | |
But, with a budget of £180,000, could they afford it? | 0:11:40 | 0:11:44 | |
-Hmm. -Oh, we're far off, then! -£270,000. | 0:11:49 | 0:11:51 | |
-So, we wouldn't really be able to afford it. -No. | 0:11:51 | 0:11:55 | |
I was expecting maybe a little bit cheaper... | 0:11:55 | 0:11:58 | |
-than 405,000. -If we were both working... | 0:11:58 | 0:12:02 | |
..full-time in Australia, then I don't see why | 0:12:03 | 0:12:05 | |
we wouldn't be able to afford... | 0:12:05 | 0:12:07 | |
-Something like this. -..something like this. | 0:12:07 | 0:12:09 | |
-Now I've seen it, I want it. -Oh, I know that, I know that! | 0:12:09 | 0:12:12 | |
They'd potentially found the dream house that could persuade Rob | 0:12:12 | 0:12:15 | |
to move to Oz, but it was £90,000 over budget. | 0:12:15 | 0:12:19 | |
It had been an eye-opening day for the Andrews. | 0:12:20 | 0:12:23 | |
The first house offered Mel the space and location she wanted, | 0:12:23 | 0:12:27 | |
but Rob's reaction, and a big price tag | 0:12:27 | 0:12:29 | |
left the Andrews feeling cold. | 0:12:29 | 0:12:32 | |
The second house spiced things up with its stunning interiors | 0:12:32 | 0:12:35 | |
and cinema room, and costing less than they expected, | 0:12:35 | 0:12:38 | |
it showed Rob an upside to property down under. | 0:12:38 | 0:12:42 | |
Finally, the third house's open-plan living and decor to die for | 0:12:43 | 0:12:47 | |
offered both Rob and Mel a genuine dream house, | 0:12:47 | 0:12:50 | |
even if the cost was a big ask. | 0:12:50 | 0:12:53 | |
While Mel could be happy in any of them, | 0:12:54 | 0:12:56 | |
had these properties done enough to convince Rob that the move | 0:12:56 | 0:12:59 | |
would be worth all the pain of leaving home behind. | 0:12:59 | 0:13:03 | |
Based on the properties that we've seen today... | 0:13:05 | 0:13:08 | |
..um, the houses in Australia versus England... | 0:13:09 | 0:13:13 | |
..we have decided to vote for. | 0:13:14 | 0:13:16 | |
BOTH: Australia! | 0:13:23 | 0:13:24 | |
-For the money you spend, you get a lot more for your money. -Yeah. | 0:13:28 | 0:13:33 | |
And, like, the three properties we saw, two of them... | 0:13:33 | 0:13:37 | |
were just really nice and just what we was looking for. | 0:13:37 | 0:13:41 | |
Round one, Australia. | 0:13:41 | 0:13:43 | |
-Get ready for round two. -Yeah. | 0:13:43 | 0:13:46 | |
It had been a promising start for Mel, | 0:13:52 | 0:13:54 | |
but with their budget potentially stretched by property, | 0:13:54 | 0:13:57 | |
it was time to explore their work opportunities. | 0:13:57 | 0:14:00 | |
Back in the UK, Rob worked at the cleaning firm | 0:14:00 | 0:14:03 | |
started by his parents. | 0:14:03 | 0:14:05 | |
Moving the company down under would have been impossible, | 0:14:05 | 0:14:08 | |
so Rob was considering returning to a trade he'd learned previously. | 0:14:08 | 0:14:13 | |
I did used to do painting and decorating many years ago. | 0:14:13 | 0:14:16 | |
It's something I enjoy, so, whether there was a way... | 0:14:16 | 0:14:20 | |
of getting into that field of work... | 0:14:20 | 0:14:23 | |
yeah, I would like to definitely find out more about that as well. | 0:14:23 | 0:14:27 | |
But while Rob's work would be vital to their finances, | 0:14:27 | 0:14:30 | |
it was Mel who held the key to the move thanks to her | 0:14:30 | 0:14:33 | |
hairdressing qualifications, which had earned their Australian visa. | 0:14:33 | 0:14:37 | |
Giving up work to have a family, however, had left her with | 0:14:38 | 0:14:41 | |
a huge confidence issue about returning to employment full-time. | 0:14:41 | 0:14:45 | |
My main reservations about going back into hairdressing is, | 0:14:45 | 0:14:48 | |
I suppose, is am I still as good as I... | 0:14:48 | 0:14:52 | |
think I am, or that I was? | 0:14:52 | 0:14:54 | |
Because I haven't worked in a salon for so long and obviously, | 0:14:54 | 0:14:57 | |
you know, techniques have changed. | 0:14:57 | 0:14:59 | |
So, we arranged for her to see if she could still cut it | 0:14:59 | 0:15:02 | |
at a modern salon in Subiaco, a trendy inner city suburb. | 0:15:02 | 0:15:06 | |
-Mel's Australian dream rested on her ability to impress. -Hiya. -Hi, Mel! | 0:15:06 | 0:15:11 | |
-How are you? -Well, thank you. -And welcome to my salon. | 0:15:11 | 0:15:15 | |
After a quick hello, manager Charlene put Mel straight to work. | 0:15:15 | 0:15:19 | |
So, if you can, um, shampoo, blow-dry and style it, | 0:15:19 | 0:15:24 | |
-so I can just have a look at your blow-drying skill. -Yeah, OK. | 0:15:24 | 0:15:27 | |
-So, let's get started with that. -Lovely. -OK, Laura? | 0:15:27 | 0:15:30 | |
-How's that water for you, Laura? -Perfect, thank you. | 0:15:30 | 0:15:33 | |
Although it was vital for Mel to find work, | 0:15:33 | 0:15:35 | |
a lot would also rest on how Rob got on. | 0:15:35 | 0:15:39 | |
If he could find a job that paid a decent wage, | 0:15:39 | 0:15:41 | |
then Mel would be another step closer to her dream. | 0:15:41 | 0:15:44 | |
The work is the most important thing in this move. | 0:15:44 | 0:15:47 | |
You know, if we can both get a job that we both enjoy | 0:15:47 | 0:15:51 | |
and the money's there, | 0:15:51 | 0:15:53 | |
then we can start to set our target in, you know, | 0:15:53 | 0:15:58 | |
achieving the house that we want and the area that we want to live in. | 0:15:58 | 0:16:02 | |
Rob spent the day working with expat Bernie who | 0:16:03 | 0:16:06 | |
ran his own painting and decorating business. | 0:16:06 | 0:16:09 | |
-All right, mate. -All right. How are you? Rob, Bernie. -How are you going? | 0:16:09 | 0:16:12 | |
Yeah, good, mate. | 0:16:12 | 0:16:14 | |
Keen to see what he could do, Bernie set Rob to work. | 0:16:14 | 0:16:17 | |
But was Rob really prepared to swap everything he had in the UK, | 0:16:22 | 0:16:25 | |
for a chance to work in the sunshine? | 0:16:25 | 0:16:28 | |
I've still got, you know, concerns about leaving | 0:16:28 | 0:16:32 | |
me family behind, | 0:16:32 | 0:16:33 | |
'but, I think if they saw what I could actually achieve here, | 0:16:33 | 0:16:37 | |
'hopefully they can come round to the way that we're | 0:16:37 | 0:16:41 | |
'thinking and they'd be pleased with' | 0:16:41 | 0:16:43 | |
the decision that we may make. | 0:16:43 | 0:16:45 | |
Back at the salon, | 0:16:47 | 0:16:48 | |
Mel's time away from hairdressing was beginning to show. | 0:16:48 | 0:16:52 | |
It just getting used to... | 0:16:52 | 0:16:55 | |
-to doing it all again. -Yeah. | 0:16:55 | 0:16:56 | |
-If you're thinking about coming out here in another six months... -Yeah. | 0:16:56 | 0:17:01 | |
..you could do a few courses in London or, you know, | 0:17:01 | 0:17:04 | |
-go to a few salons and maybe get some part-time work. -Yeah. | 0:17:04 | 0:17:07 | |
Just so you're not so rusty when you come to Australia. | 0:17:07 | 0:17:11 | |
It was bad news. | 0:17:11 | 0:17:13 | |
If Mel wanted to make the grade in this kind of salon, | 0:17:13 | 0:17:16 | |
she would need to retrain, and with courses costing around 500, that | 0:17:16 | 0:17:21 | |
meant at least a couple of thousand dollars just to get her back up to speed. | 0:17:21 | 0:17:25 | |
Would the salary compensate for that? | 0:17:25 | 0:17:27 | |
If I was employed as a junior stylist, | 0:17:27 | 0:17:29 | |
what are the wages sort of...? | 0:17:29 | 0:17:30 | |
-It would be around about between 19 to 21. -OK. | 0:17:30 | 0:17:35 | |
'That hourly rate meant a potential annual salary of around £28,000.' | 0:17:36 | 0:17:42 | |
£10,000 more than she would have earned in the UK, | 0:17:42 | 0:17:45 | |
but it would have come at a cost. | 0:17:45 | 0:17:47 | |
I think the fact that I'd have to retrain...it hasn't put me off | 0:17:47 | 0:17:50 | |
hairdressing, because, I think, in a way, you know, | 0:17:50 | 0:17:53 | |
it's something that I would like to do to | 0:17:53 | 0:17:55 | |
refresh my memory as well for, like, colouring and cutting | 0:17:55 | 0:17:58 | |
and to be able to do more up-to-date techniques and things like that. | 0:17:58 | 0:18:03 | |
It was a mixed result for Mel, so everything now hinged on Rob. | 0:18:03 | 0:18:08 | |
That's it. | 0:18:08 | 0:18:09 | |
But before he could make a decision, | 0:18:09 | 0:18:11 | |
he needed to get some answers from Bernie. | 0:18:11 | 0:18:13 | |
What's the, um, wage that, you know, | 0:18:13 | 0:18:16 | |
a decent painter could earn? | 0:18:16 | 0:18:18 | |
The average? 30 an hour. | 0:18:18 | 0:18:21 | |
-That's good. -Yeah. | 0:18:21 | 0:18:23 | |
So, if you were to work a Saturday, you're on about 75,000 a year. | 0:18:23 | 0:18:27 | |
-Wow, that's good. -Yeah, nice. It's a good life. -Yeah. -Yep. | 0:18:27 | 0:18:32 | |
So, work wise in Perth, is there quite a bit of work here? | 0:18:32 | 0:18:35 | |
Yeah, there's plenty of work in Australia. | 0:18:35 | 0:18:37 | |
I've never been out of work myself. | 0:18:37 | 0:18:39 | |
And how long have you been here for? | 0:18:39 | 0:18:40 | |
-13 years. -13 years. -Yeah. | 0:18:40 | 0:18:43 | |
You can't go wrong. | 0:18:43 | 0:18:44 | |
-Just look me up when you get here. -Yeah. Oh, yeah, definitely. | 0:18:44 | 0:18:47 | |
-Maybe sooner rather than later then. -Yeah, I'll give you a try. | 0:18:47 | 0:18:51 | |
It was a great result for Rob. | 0:18:51 | 0:18:52 | |
'He could earn more than £50,000 a year in Oz, | 0:18:52 | 0:18:56 | |
'doubling his current UK salary. But was the potential of work' | 0:18:56 | 0:19:00 | |
really worth giving up the family business for? | 0:19:00 | 0:19:03 | |
It was a big decision, | 0:19:03 | 0:19:04 | |
and the future of the move lay in Rob's hands. | 0:19:04 | 0:19:07 | |
Based on our work experience today and... | 0:19:07 | 0:19:12 | |
the working hours and the wages we can earn, we are voting for... | 0:19:12 | 0:19:16 | |
Australia. | 0:19:20 | 0:19:22 | |
..Australia. | 0:19:24 | 0:19:25 | |
Ooh! SHE GIGGLES | 0:19:26 | 0:19:28 | |
-Shocked? -I am, actually. Oh, I'm crying. | 0:19:28 | 0:19:31 | |
Hey! | 0:19:32 | 0:19:34 | |
I think I was just so worried that... | 0:19:34 | 0:19:36 | |
you know, you wouldn't... | 0:19:36 | 0:19:38 | |
They'd say, "Oh, you need to be qualified," | 0:19:38 | 0:19:40 | |
or you wouldn't be able to earn the money. I was thinking, | 0:19:40 | 0:19:42 | |
"Oh, God, he's going to choose England," | 0:19:42 | 0:19:44 | |
and that'd be it, that'd be our dream over. | 0:19:44 | 0:19:47 | |
So, I'm pleased. | 0:19:47 | 0:19:48 | |
It looked as if Rob was coming round, | 0:19:57 | 0:19:59 | |
but the question remained - could they afford to live down under? | 0:19:59 | 0:20:02 | |
Now, the shopping list... | 0:20:04 | 0:20:06 | |
£9.81! Oh, my God! | 0:20:06 | 0:20:09 | |
Is that right?! | 0:20:09 | 0:20:11 | |
To help them find out, | 0:20:11 | 0:20:12 | |
we prepared a breakdown of their weekly living expenses. | 0:20:12 | 0:20:15 | |
Any differences in the cost of living could be | 0:20:15 | 0:20:18 | |
offset by their potential earnings. | 0:20:18 | 0:20:20 | |
So, in the UK, our total income... | 0:20:20 | 0:20:24 | |
..per year is £28,120. | 0:20:24 | 0:20:27 | |
So, you full-time in Australia, | 0:20:27 | 0:20:29 | |
me full-time... | 0:20:29 | 0:20:31 | |
We would be £3,950 a month better off. | 0:20:31 | 0:20:36 | |
But that's just me as a junior stylist, so that would go up. | 0:20:36 | 0:20:39 | |
So, obviously, we've got to take into consideration the mortgage, | 0:20:39 | 0:20:44 | |
so, even with that taken off... | 0:20:44 | 0:20:46 | |
-you're still looking roughly about £2,000 better off. -A month. | 0:20:46 | 0:20:51 | |
-You know, it's sort of there for the taking. -Yeah. | 0:20:51 | 0:20:54 | |
On paper, it looked like the Andrews could be as much as £2,000 | 0:20:56 | 0:21:00 | |
a month better off in Australia. | 0:21:00 | 0:21:02 | |
'With all the facts and figures sorted, it was time to vote.' | 0:21:03 | 0:21:07 | |
Based on the figures that we've seen today for the reality check, and | 0:21:07 | 0:21:11 | |
the wages that we could potentially earn in Australia | 0:21:11 | 0:21:15 | |
and how they compare to the UK... | 0:21:15 | 0:21:18 | |
we have decided to vote for... | 0:21:18 | 0:21:19 | |
BOTH: Australia! | 0:21:25 | 0:21:27 | |
It was a no-brainer - Australia. | 0:21:32 | 0:21:34 | |
-Definitely. -So, um...we could actually... | 0:21:34 | 0:21:37 | |
have a really nice lifestyle as a family. | 0:21:37 | 0:21:41 | |
-Good. -Pleased? | 0:21:43 | 0:21:45 | |
The sums had added up in Mel's favour. | 0:21:52 | 0:21:55 | |
If Perth could also offer the Andrews a good lifestyle, | 0:21:55 | 0:21:58 | |
she could be even closer to convincing Rob to follow her dream. | 0:21:58 | 0:22:02 | |
The Andrews visited John Forrest Park about 16 miles from Perth. | 0:22:03 | 0:22:07 | |
It was the ideal spot for a family day out. | 0:22:07 | 0:22:10 | |
This area is lovely, isn't it? | 0:22:10 | 0:22:12 | |
The park we've come to is...the views are just stunning. | 0:22:12 | 0:22:16 | |
This is just how I imagined life in Australia to be, you know, | 0:22:16 | 0:22:20 | |
being able to be outdoors, taking the kids places all together as a family. | 0:22:20 | 0:22:25 | |
You know, the kids are going to benefit from it big time. | 0:22:25 | 0:22:28 | |
To round the day off, Rob had a chance to | 0:22:28 | 0:22:31 | |
indulge in an activity he enjoyed with his brother back home. | 0:22:31 | 0:22:34 | |
-Don't fall off. -I won't. | 0:22:34 | 0:22:36 | |
-G'day, Rob. -Hello, mate. How you doing? -I'm Greg. | 0:22:36 | 0:22:38 | |
Rob hit the trail with Greg from the Perth Mountain Bike Club | 0:22:38 | 0:22:42 | |
and it was going well... | 0:22:42 | 0:22:44 | |
..to start with! | 0:22:47 | 0:22:48 | |
I took a bit of a tumble, but, that's part and parcel | 0:22:56 | 0:22:59 | |
of mountain biking, but now I'm fine, just... | 0:22:59 | 0:23:03 | |
my pride hurts more than anything! | 0:23:03 | 0:23:05 | |
If I'm here, it's just a shame that me brother | 0:23:07 | 0:23:10 | |
won't be here to do it, which is | 0:23:10 | 0:23:12 | |
just the sad bit, cos he...you know, it's me and him | 0:23:12 | 0:23:14 | |
that always go out and do stuff like that, but... | 0:23:14 | 0:23:17 | |
but, no, something like this is just brilliant. | 0:23:17 | 0:23:20 | |
The reality of what he would be leaving behind was becoming | 0:23:20 | 0:23:22 | |
clear to Rob, but, for Mel, it was just as clear that Australia | 0:23:22 | 0:23:27 | |
offered everything she had ever wanted. | 0:23:27 | 0:23:29 | |
I don't know why, but I've never really felt settled anywhere. | 0:23:29 | 0:23:33 | |
I don't know, it's really hard to explain, | 0:23:33 | 0:23:35 | |
but here, I could honestly say I could call this my home. | 0:23:35 | 0:23:39 | |
It had been a day to remember, but had a taste of | 0:23:39 | 0:23:42 | |
the Australian lifestyle been enough to win everyone's vote? | 0:23:42 | 0:23:45 | |
On today's outing... | 0:23:45 | 0:23:48 | |
..and, based on the day we had... | 0:23:49 | 0:23:53 | |
we are going to vote for... | 0:23:53 | 0:23:55 | |
Australia! | 0:24:02 | 0:24:03 | |
Australia. | 0:24:04 | 0:24:06 | |
Undecided. | 0:24:06 | 0:24:08 | |
-Really? -When I done... | 0:24:08 | 0:24:10 | |
..the mountain biking, which I really enjoyed... | 0:24:11 | 0:24:15 | |
um, it just brought home with, like, you know, me brother... | 0:24:15 | 0:24:20 | |
I knew it would. | 0:24:20 | 0:24:22 | |
-I just felt a bit lonely, that was all. -Yeah. | 0:24:22 | 0:24:25 | |
So, I've still got a bit of convincing then, to get you out here. | 0:24:25 | 0:24:29 | |
It should have been the most enjoyable day of the trip, | 0:24:29 | 0:24:31 | |
but Mel's mission to win over Rob had suffered a serious set back. | 0:24:31 | 0:24:35 | |
This is it, you know, I haven't got any other chances, | 0:24:35 | 0:24:38 | |
so I'm just hoping that... | 0:24:38 | 0:24:40 | |
you know, I can convince Rob that this would be the best place | 0:24:40 | 0:24:43 | |
to bring up the kids and... | 0:24:43 | 0:24:45 | |
you know, for all of us as a family, be able to settle down and | 0:24:45 | 0:24:49 | |
just enjoy our lifestyle. | 0:24:49 | 0:24:50 | |
Time was running out for Mel to convince Rob to make the move. | 0:24:52 | 0:24:56 | |
With Rob's resolve wavering, the Andrews were about to get | 0:25:01 | 0:25:04 | |
another reminder of the friends and family they'd be leaving behind. | 0:25:04 | 0:25:08 | |
Rob and Mel felt it was important for the children to watch | 0:25:09 | 0:25:12 | |
messages from loved ones too. | 0:25:12 | 0:25:14 | |
-Hello, Mel and Robert. -I hope you're | 0:25:16 | 0:25:17 | |
having a good time out there. I hope the sun's shining. | 0:25:17 | 0:25:20 | |
What are they like as a family? | 0:25:20 | 0:25:21 | |
They're...loving. Very loving. | 0:25:23 | 0:25:26 | |
-Very close. -Very close. Very caring. | 0:25:26 | 0:25:30 | |
They're really, really good fun. Their children are lovely. | 0:25:30 | 0:25:33 | |
A really, really nice family. | 0:25:33 | 0:25:35 | |
I mean, nine times out of ten, Rob is always the funniest person | 0:25:35 | 0:25:38 | |
in the room, without a shadow of a doubt. | 0:25:38 | 0:25:40 | |
-He is definitely one of a kind. -Coby, he's quite a bright lad. | 0:25:40 | 0:25:44 | |
-Very bright. -You only have to show him something once and | 0:25:44 | 0:25:47 | |
-he picks it up. He's quite good like that. -Yes. -He's very caring. | 0:25:47 | 0:25:51 | |
When I first heard that they was going to be moving to Australia | 0:25:51 | 0:25:54 | |
and applying to go to Australia... | 0:25:54 | 0:25:56 | |
um, I thought it was going to be a good thing. | 0:25:56 | 0:25:58 | |
I know they both wanted to do something like that anyway. | 0:25:58 | 0:26:01 | |
He's like a brother. | 0:26:02 | 0:26:04 | |
SHE CRIES | 0:26:06 | 0:26:07 | |
I don't really know how we're going to, sort of, | 0:26:10 | 0:26:13 | |
fill the gap that they're going to leave, | 0:26:13 | 0:26:16 | |
until they've actually done it, really, you know, | 0:26:16 | 0:26:19 | |
but the decision's up to you and I'm sure you'll make the right one. | 0:26:19 | 0:26:24 | |
Good luck. | 0:26:24 | 0:26:25 | |
We love you dearly... | 0:26:25 | 0:26:27 | |
very, very much. | 0:26:27 | 0:26:28 | |
We all do and we hope you make the right decision and... | 0:26:28 | 0:26:32 | |
-Yeah, good luck. -Good luck and love you. -Yeah. | 0:26:32 | 0:26:35 | |
And I hope that you've done all that you wanted to do. | 0:26:37 | 0:26:41 | |
Yeah, and whatever decision you make, make sure it's for you, make sure | 0:26:41 | 0:26:44 | |
it's the one that you're happy with and the one that will make you happy. | 0:26:44 | 0:26:48 | |
As your mum... | 0:26:48 | 0:26:50 | |
I just want you to be happy. | 0:26:50 | 0:26:52 | |
Yeah, and we'll see you when you get back. Take care. | 0:26:55 | 0:26:58 | |
-Bye. -Bye! -Bye. | 0:26:58 | 0:27:00 | |
-How'd you feel? -Hmm... | 0:27:06 | 0:27:08 | |
-..sad. -You feel sad? | 0:27:09 | 0:27:11 | |
You know, there's been some real big positives... | 0:27:14 | 0:27:17 | |
but then you watch that... | 0:27:17 | 0:27:19 | |
And it makes you feel... | 0:27:19 | 0:27:21 | |
And it like, it can just take everything away and... | 0:27:21 | 0:27:25 | |
whatever decision we make, we've got to make for | 0:27:25 | 0:27:28 | |
the best for our family, don't we? | 0:27:28 | 0:27:30 | |
You know, me auntie and uncle, I know it's hard for them, | 0:27:30 | 0:27:32 | |
it's hard for me as well. | 0:27:32 | 0:27:34 | |
The thing is, we don't know if it's the right decision or not, | 0:27:34 | 0:27:36 | |
but I guess we'll never know unless we try it. | 0:27:36 | 0:27:38 | |
Watching the messages had made the whole family think carefully | 0:27:41 | 0:27:44 | |
about the momentous decision they were about to make. | 0:27:44 | 0:27:47 | |
'I've really enjoyed this week. | 0:27:47 | 0:27:49 | |
'Obviously, on the downside, there's, you know, | 0:27:49 | 0:27:51 | |
'you watch your family and friends at home,' | 0:27:51 | 0:27:53 | |
and it doesn't make it any easier and you know that it's | 0:27:53 | 0:27:57 | |
going to be really hard having to leave them behind, | 0:27:57 | 0:27:59 | |
but I've got to try | 0:27:59 | 0:28:01 | |
and focus and think what's best for our family and our future, so... | 0:28:01 | 0:28:05 | |
My emotions have been up and down all week. | 0:28:05 | 0:28:09 | |
'If I decided against the move to Australia, Mel... | 0:28:09 | 0:28:13 | |
'..yeah, I think she would be upset, so, yeah, | 0:28:14 | 0:28:16 | |
'that does play on my mind a little bit,' | 0:28:16 | 0:28:18 | |
because she's me wife at the end of the day, | 0:28:18 | 0:28:20 | |
and I want to try to make her happy. | 0:28:20 | 0:28:23 | |
It was the end of a difficult week | 0:28:23 | 0:28:25 | |
and time for the Andrews to make their final decision. | 0:28:25 | 0:28:28 | |
We've had our ups, we've had our downs... | 0:28:30 | 0:28:32 | |
..and it's now time for the family to vote | 0:28:34 | 0:28:38 | |
whether it's UK or Australia. | 0:28:38 | 0:28:40 | |
As a family, we have decided that we want to live in... | 0:28:42 | 0:28:45 | |
-..Australia. -Australia. | 0:28:58 | 0:29:01 | |
Really? | 0:29:01 | 0:29:02 | |
I think if we don't... | 0:29:05 | 0:29:07 | |
..give it a go... | 0:29:08 | 0:29:10 | |
we're going to regret it for the rest of our lives. | 0:29:10 | 0:29:13 | |
It's going to be the hardest... | 0:29:13 | 0:29:15 | |
the hardest thing we'll ever do, but... | 0:29:15 | 0:29:19 | |
life's too short to have regrets and I don't want that. | 0:29:19 | 0:29:22 | |
Cool. | 0:29:25 | 0:29:27 | |
-What about you, Cobes? -What did you say to Daddy? | 0:29:27 | 0:29:30 | |
You want to live in Australia and you want to live in the UK, | 0:29:30 | 0:29:34 | |
-don't you? -Yeah. | 0:29:34 | 0:29:35 | |
And Lexie chose Australia! | 0:29:35 | 0:29:37 | |
It is a big step and we don't know | 0:29:40 | 0:29:41 | |
-if the grass is greener on the other side. -But, um... | 0:29:41 | 0:29:44 | |
..yeah. | 0:29:47 | 0:29:48 | |
I think, for the family's point of view, yeah, you've got to do it. | 0:29:48 | 0:29:52 | |
Definitely. Go for it? | 0:29:53 | 0:29:56 | |
-Hmm. -You want to go for it? | 0:29:56 | 0:29:57 | |
Yeah. | 0:29:57 | 0:29:59 | |
MEL LAUGHS | 0:29:59 | 0:30:00 | |
Love you. | 0:30:05 | 0:30:07 | |
Love you, Mummy. | 0:30:07 | 0:30:09 | |
It had been an incredibly emotional week for the Andrews, | 0:30:12 | 0:30:16 | |
but when their time in Australia was up, | 0:30:16 | 0:30:18 | |
Rob agreed with Melanie that a life down under was worth trying. | 0:30:18 | 0:30:23 | |
So, two years on, are the Andrews living the life Mel had dreamed of? | 0:30:23 | 0:30:27 | |
It's 2013 and the Andrews family are in... | 0:30:29 | 0:30:33 | |
the UK. | 0:30:33 | 0:30:35 | |
But they're only here temporarily to catch up with family and friends. | 0:30:37 | 0:30:41 | |
-Who is it? -THEY CHEER | 0:30:41 | 0:30:44 | |
Today, they're reuniting with Mel's mum and dad. | 0:30:47 | 0:30:51 | |
Hello! | 0:30:51 | 0:30:52 | |
As well as her sister and family. | 0:30:52 | 0:30:55 | |
Hello, mate. | 0:30:55 | 0:30:56 | |
-Hello, mate. -How are you doing? | 0:30:57 | 0:31:00 | |
A year after their trial week, the Andrews took the plunge | 0:31:00 | 0:31:03 | |
and moved to Australia. | 0:31:03 | 0:31:05 | |
And, this time when they fly back down under, it'll be for good. | 0:31:07 | 0:31:11 | |
When we go back to Australia, we've got a one-way. | 0:31:11 | 0:31:14 | |
So, uh... | 0:31:14 | 0:31:16 | |
I think going back this time, I'm not looking forward to it. | 0:31:16 | 0:31:20 | |
I think it's going to be a lot worse than what it was the first time, | 0:31:20 | 0:31:22 | |
cos we knew we were coming back to see everyone. | 0:31:22 | 0:31:26 | |
Mel's family are dreading the day they depart. | 0:31:26 | 0:31:29 | |
Knowing that they're going back to Australia on a one-way ticket... | 0:31:29 | 0:31:34 | |
um, is quite emotional. | 0:31:34 | 0:31:37 | |
'It's going to be sad saying goodbye this time.' | 0:31:37 | 0:31:39 | |
It was sad enough last time, | 0:31:39 | 0:31:40 | |
but it's going to be really sad this time. | 0:31:40 | 0:31:43 | |
'I've missed them all loads, so' | 0:31:43 | 0:31:44 | |
it's really good seeing them again, | 0:31:44 | 0:31:46 | |
'spending some time with them.' | 0:31:46 | 0:31:48 | |
'It'll be horrible saying goodbye again,' | 0:31:48 | 0:31:51 | |
cos we said it last time as well, when they actually went, | 0:31:51 | 0:31:53 | |
but knowing they won't come back this time... | 0:31:53 | 0:31:56 | |
'it'll be horrible.' | 0:31:56 | 0:31:58 | |
A couple of days later, the time has come | 0:32:00 | 0:32:02 | |
for the Andrews to get on a plane and return to their new life. | 0:32:02 | 0:32:06 | |
I'm looking forward to it, | 0:32:08 | 0:32:09 | |
but, I think it has been harder saying goodbye. | 0:32:09 | 0:32:12 | |
'It's not that we're never coming back, but we know | 0:32:14 | 0:32:17 | |
'we're not coming back next year like we was the first time.' | 0:32:17 | 0:32:20 | |
'But, I think once we arrive back in Australia, we know we've got | 0:32:23 | 0:32:26 | |
'a lot to focus on that might help us get through it.' | 0:32:26 | 0:32:31 | |
'But it'll definitely be harder.' | 0:32:32 | 0:32:34 | |
The Andrews have swapped their lives in Kent for | 0:32:41 | 0:32:43 | |
the up-and-coming suburb of Canning Vale near Perth. | 0:32:43 | 0:32:47 | |
The enormity of their journey only really hit home | 0:32:47 | 0:32:50 | |
when they arrived back in Australia, this time for good. | 0:32:50 | 0:32:54 | |
When we first landed at the airport, it was like, | 0:32:54 | 0:32:58 | |
"Wow, we're actually here now." | 0:32:58 | 0:33:01 | |
And the feeling was this isn't for a holiday. | 0:33:01 | 0:33:05 | |
It was quite a scary feeling, wasn't it? When we landed at the airport. | 0:33:05 | 0:33:08 | |
It was like there's no going back now. | 0:33:08 | 0:33:11 | |
The kids start school soon, you know, we've left our life behind. | 0:33:11 | 0:33:16 | |
I suddenly...it sort of just hit me and I thought, "Oh, my God, | 0:33:16 | 0:33:18 | |
"have we done the right thing?" | 0:33:18 | 0:33:20 | |
The Andrews are living in a four-bedroom detached house | 0:33:20 | 0:33:23 | |
just 20 minutes from the beach and 20km from the centre of Perth. | 0:33:23 | 0:33:28 | |
And Rob's delighted with his new surroundings. | 0:33:28 | 0:33:31 | |
When I drive to work and I'm heading towards the city, | 0:33:31 | 0:33:34 | |
you know, you're driving over the Swan River | 0:33:34 | 0:33:37 | |
and the sun's shining, you feel happy straight away. | 0:33:37 | 0:33:41 | |
And Dad's not the only one loving the Aussie climate. | 0:33:41 | 0:33:44 | |
With a park right across the street from their new home, | 0:33:44 | 0:33:47 | |
the whole family are enjoying more time outdoors. | 0:33:47 | 0:33:50 | |
It's all a long way from Folkestone and the life they've left behind. | 0:33:54 | 0:33:59 | |
Back in the UK, where our house was situated, | 0:33:59 | 0:34:02 | |
it was in like a little cul-de-sac, but it wasn't really... | 0:34:02 | 0:34:05 | |
There was a lot of cars going back and forth, | 0:34:05 | 0:34:07 | |
so, especially with Coby and Lexie being the age they are, | 0:34:07 | 0:34:10 | |
you know, they didn't really go outside on their own a lot, | 0:34:10 | 0:34:12 | |
whereas here, | 0:34:12 | 0:34:14 | |
they can come across to the park as long as we can see them. | 0:34:14 | 0:34:17 | |
Um... | 0:34:17 | 0:34:19 | |
You know, they love coming out and just being outside, kicking | 0:34:19 | 0:34:21 | |
a ball about, catching a Frisbee, playing in the park. | 0:34:21 | 0:34:26 | |
'So, I think it's definitely benefitted them.' | 0:34:26 | 0:34:30 | |
For now, the Andrews are renting, but plans for the four-bedroom | 0:34:30 | 0:34:34 | |
dream house with a home cinema room have not been forgotten. | 0:34:34 | 0:34:37 | |
In the end, you know, our main goal is to buy land | 0:34:38 | 0:34:42 | |
and have our own place built, | 0:34:42 | 0:34:44 | |
but that's sort of the start of the Australian dream to do that, | 0:34:44 | 0:34:47 | |
but as for where we're living and for the school where | 0:34:47 | 0:34:52 | |
our kids go to, you know, it is a real good place. | 0:34:52 | 0:34:57 | |
Lexie, who's now five, | 0:34:57 | 0:34:59 | |
and Coby, who's nine, are both settling in well, but it did | 0:34:59 | 0:35:03 | |
take some adjusting to get used to life on the other side of the world. | 0:35:03 | 0:35:07 | |
Coby, he misses his cousins back home a lot and, obviously, | 0:35:07 | 0:35:11 | |
his friends, but...you know, I think overall he does enjoy it here, | 0:35:11 | 0:35:17 | |
he really does. | 0:35:17 | 0:35:18 | |
It took me quite a while to, um, kind of make new friends, | 0:35:18 | 0:35:22 | |
but, when I first started here it was kind of OK, but I didn't | 0:35:22 | 0:35:28 | |
know a lot of people, but I've made loads of friends here now. | 0:35:28 | 0:35:32 | |
Mel believes the move has really helped Coby grow. | 0:35:32 | 0:35:36 | |
'He seems happier in himself, you know.' | 0:35:36 | 0:35:39 | |
He just seems more relaxed and more chilled, | 0:35:39 | 0:35:41 | |
and Lexie, well, Lexie's just Lexie. | 0:35:41 | 0:35:43 | |
She's just... | 0:35:43 | 0:35:44 | |
I don't think it would matter where Lexie is, | 0:35:44 | 0:35:47 | |
as long as she's got her family around her, she's happy. | 0:35:47 | 0:35:50 | |
I love my school. | 0:35:51 | 0:35:53 | |
Yeah, school's very fun. | 0:35:55 | 0:35:57 | |
They're in one of the best schools in Canning Vale, primary schools, | 0:35:57 | 0:36:00 | |
um, and they're thriving. | 0:36:00 | 0:36:02 | |
'I would say Coby does better in school now than | 0:36:02 | 0:36:05 | |
'what he did in the UK.' | 0:36:05 | 0:36:06 | |
'One year after the move, it looks like Mel's dream | 0:36:06 | 0:36:09 | |
'of the Australian life could be coming true.' | 0:36:09 | 0:36:12 | |
But it hasn't all been plain sailing. | 0:36:12 | 0:36:14 | |
As soon as they arrived, Rob hit a problem finding work. | 0:36:15 | 0:36:19 | |
Yeah, well, when I, um... | 0:36:20 | 0:36:22 | |
when we made the move over here, obviously, I was, uh... | 0:36:22 | 0:36:25 | |
wanting to get into me painting and decorating, | 0:36:25 | 0:36:28 | |
but that's sort of been put on hold for the time being. | 0:36:28 | 0:36:31 | |
Rob had been hoping to secure employment through a contact he met | 0:36:31 | 0:36:35 | |
on the family's initial trip, but the promise of work fell through. | 0:36:35 | 0:36:39 | |
I was just so geared up and looking forward to, | 0:36:40 | 0:36:43 | |
when I arrived, to meeting up and working with him. | 0:36:43 | 0:36:47 | |
And, um, you know, when we first spoke | 0:36:47 | 0:36:50 | |
when I arrived it was all positive, but within a couple of weeks, | 0:36:50 | 0:36:53 | |
he, you know, unlucky for him, | 0:36:53 | 0:36:54 | |
he did lose a bit of work and it stopped me from actually working | 0:36:54 | 0:36:59 | |
with him and, to be honest, I was, you know, really, really gutted. | 0:36:59 | 0:37:05 | |
So I felt like, "Right, now, I've got to start again." | 0:37:05 | 0:37:09 | |
With his painting job falling through, | 0:37:09 | 0:37:11 | |
Rob fell back on a trade he knew well. | 0:37:11 | 0:37:14 | |
I've started up doing me carpet cleaning, | 0:37:14 | 0:37:16 | |
which I used to do back home as well. | 0:37:16 | 0:37:19 | |
Um, and, yeah, it's going really well. | 0:37:19 | 0:37:23 | |
Um, you know, I had to invest in some machinery and a vehicle, | 0:37:23 | 0:37:28 | |
so, yeah, it's going really well. | 0:37:28 | 0:37:30 | |
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The carpet cleaning work has taken off, but Rob's dream | 0:37:34 | 0:37:37 | |
of running his own decorating business is still very much alive. | 0:37:37 | 0:37:42 | |
'Here, to go off on your own, you need a painter's registration.' | 0:37:42 | 0:37:47 | |
So, um, I'm going back to college doing night school | 0:37:47 | 0:37:51 | |
just to get the ticket. | 0:37:51 | 0:37:52 | |
Are you happy with that? | 0:37:54 | 0:37:56 | |
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Mel also struggled to land her dream job. | 0:37:58 | 0:38:01 | |
The plan to work full-time in a hairdressing salon proved | 0:38:01 | 0:38:04 | |
just too difficult to juggle with childcare. | 0:38:04 | 0:38:07 | |
The hours in a salon just wouldn't be practical for me, especially with the | 0:38:07 | 0:38:10 | |
children at school. I need something around them, | 0:38:10 | 0:38:13 | |
so I'm working as a secretary for a cleaning company, | 0:38:13 | 0:38:17 | |
so it's very similar to what I was doing back in the UK | 0:38:17 | 0:38:20 | |
so it's something I'm familiar with. | 0:38:20 | 0:38:22 | |
'So, I basically run the office, which, you know, I really enjoy | 0:38:22 | 0:38:25 | |
'and it's nice because I can work it around the children's schooling.' | 0:38:25 | 0:38:30 | |
Finding work hasn't been the only issue | 0:38:31 | 0:38:33 | |
the Andrews have faced in moving. | 0:38:33 | 0:38:36 | |
Sometimes loved ones in the UK feel very far away. | 0:38:36 | 0:38:39 | |
I've had my bad days, you know, and I've cried | 0:38:42 | 0:38:44 | |
and I've found it hard and I've missed my friends and my family, | 0:38:44 | 0:38:49 | |
'like my sister, you know? I love my sister to bits.' | 0:38:49 | 0:38:52 | |
And, um... | 0:38:53 | 0:38:54 | |
..just not knowing when I'm going to see her. | 0:38:57 | 0:38:59 | |
That's what I find hard. | 0:39:02 | 0:39:03 | |
But, on the whole, I think I've coped quite well. | 0:39:07 | 0:39:11 | |
For Rob, leaving his aunt and uncle was always one | 0:39:15 | 0:39:18 | |
of the main stumbling blocks to making the move. | 0:39:18 | 0:39:21 | |
Breaking the news to them that the family were leaving | 0:39:21 | 0:39:23 | |
was even harder than he imagined. | 0:39:23 | 0:39:26 | |
'So, yeah, when the time come to tell them, it was, um... | 0:39:26 | 0:39:30 | |
'you know, it was, uh, I suppose like a lightning strike,' | 0:39:30 | 0:39:33 | |
I suppose, to them knowing that we was actually going to leave and... | 0:39:33 | 0:39:37 | |
but I never...I never thought I would get that reaction what we did. | 0:39:37 | 0:39:43 | |
Rob's aunt and uncle were devastated by the family's decision and, | 0:39:43 | 0:39:47 | |
one year on, the family still have little contact. | 0:39:47 | 0:39:50 | |
It hurt, didn't it? It hurt you big time. | 0:39:50 | 0:39:53 | |
Oh, you know, it still does, but... | 0:39:53 | 0:39:56 | |
you know, it's nothing you can do | 0:39:56 | 0:39:58 | |
and we've just got to, you know, carry on, haven't we? | 0:39:58 | 0:40:01 | |
Despite a shaky start down under, | 0:40:02 | 0:40:05 | |
Mel still believes following her dream was the right thing to do. | 0:40:05 | 0:40:09 | |
You know, the first year's been a learning curve and, you know, | 0:40:09 | 0:40:11 | |
it's got us in here and we're starting to make friends. | 0:40:11 | 0:40:16 | |
I think that next year, our second year, I think we've just got | 0:40:16 | 0:40:20 | |
so much to look forward to. | 0:40:20 | 0:40:21 | |
By the third year, I think, you know, we will class it as being settled | 0:40:21 | 0:40:25 | |
and feeling like we're at home. | 0:40:25 | 0:40:27 | |
The family's new life in Australia has also come with | 0:40:27 | 0:40:30 | |
plenty of upsides, which go a long way to helping Rob come to terms | 0:40:30 | 0:40:34 | |
with what he's had to leave behind. | 0:40:34 | 0:40:37 | |
I've spent a lot more time with my children | 0:40:37 | 0:40:40 | |
and I'm doing more with them... | 0:40:40 | 0:40:42 | |
because we've got that chance to. | 0:40:42 | 0:40:44 | |
I mean, I can start work early, you know, finish sort of afternoon, | 0:40:44 | 0:40:48 | |
when they come out from school | 0:40:48 | 0:40:50 | |
'and that gives us a chance to do stuff, so, | 0:40:50 | 0:40:54 | |
'moving to Australia, I'm benefitting by | 0:40:54 | 0:40:56 | |
'seeing my kids grow up.' | 0:40:56 | 0:40:57 | |
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I think it's brought us closer together as a couple as well, | 0:40:58 | 0:41:01 | |
because, especially when we first got out here, we didn't know anyone! | 0:41:01 | 0:41:04 | |
So, it was a case of, "Right, you're stuck with me, | 0:41:04 | 0:41:07 | |
"we've got to do something together." | 0:41:07 | 0:41:09 | |
Whereas, back in the UK, you know, you'd be out shopping for hours or... | 0:41:09 | 0:41:12 | |
-Shopping! -..going out for a coffee and, you know, doing stuff, | 0:41:12 | 0:41:16 | |
but, I think, it's worked in our favour as a couple. | 0:41:16 | 0:41:20 | |
'I think it has brought us closer together.' | 0:41:20 | 0:41:23 | |
Coby and Lexie believe Mum and Dad are in Australia for good. | 0:41:23 | 0:41:27 | |
Um, I definitely think they want to stay here and... | 0:41:27 | 0:41:32 | |
um... | 0:41:32 | 0:41:33 | |
LEXIE WHISPERS | 0:41:33 | 0:41:35 | |
..they don't want to go back to the UK. | 0:41:35 | 0:41:38 | |
Moving to the other side of the world hasn't just brought | 0:41:39 | 0:41:42 | |
the family closer - it's made it bigger too. | 0:41:42 | 0:41:46 | |
For the family we've, um... | 0:41:46 | 0:41:48 | |
we've got another one on the way. Um... | 0:41:48 | 0:41:51 | |
So, it's going to be five of us now. | 0:41:53 | 0:41:56 | |
Um, so that's going to be exciting times. | 0:41:56 | 0:41:58 | |
With the new addition to the family due to arrive in a few months, | 0:41:58 | 0:42:01 | |
the children are looking forward to the future. | 0:42:01 | 0:42:05 | |
-Me and Lexie want to... -LEXIE WHISPERS | 0:42:05 | 0:42:07 | |
We want a...we want a little brother and... | 0:42:07 | 0:42:13 | |
cos...I don't know why Lexie does, | 0:42:13 | 0:42:16 | |
but I just want another brother because... | 0:42:16 | 0:42:19 | |
So he can teach him wrestling and beat me up. | 0:42:19 | 0:42:23 | |
That's not true. | 0:42:23 | 0:42:24 | |
All five of the Andrews are set to live their | 0:42:28 | 0:42:31 | |
Australian lives to the full. | 0:42:31 | 0:42:34 | |
I think our future is in Australia. | 0:42:35 | 0:42:37 | |
Um...and I think, you know, by having a baby in Australia, it's | 0:42:37 | 0:42:41 | |
probably going to give you a bit more of a bond to the country as well. | 0:42:41 | 0:42:44 | |
The main thing is, as long as we're all happy and healthy and... | 0:42:46 | 0:42:50 | |
my kids are coming home smiling... | 0:42:50 | 0:42:53 | |
and we're down that beach at the weekends in the summer, then... | 0:42:53 | 0:42:57 | |
then, yeah, it's just great. | 0:42:57 | 0:42:59 | |
It may not have been completely plain sailing for the Andrews, | 0:43:02 | 0:43:05 | |
but they've no regrets when it comes to having decided to make | 0:43:05 | 0:43:09 | |
a new start for their family in Australia. | 0:43:09 | 0:43:12 | |
We wish Rob, Melanie, Coby, and Lexie the best of luck. | 0:43:12 | 0:43:15 |