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Moving your family to the other side of the world can throw up

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massive challenges -

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finding the right house, juggling finances and

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getting a job is daunting enough, but if your partner can't bear

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to leave friends and family behind, it becomes a huge dilemma.

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In 2011, the Andrews family faced just that decision.

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Two years on, we'll find out how and where they are now.

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Melanie Andrews was desperate to convince her husband Rob

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that a life down under would be better for their future

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and worth giving up close family ties in the UK.

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Me auntie and uncle, they mean everything to me.

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Leaving them behind is just going to be very hard.

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But, after a week of shocks...

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I'm not liking this at the moment.

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..and surprises...

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-Wow.

-Oh, my God!

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Oh, I'm crying.

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..have the Andrews managed to achieve the life Mel dreamt of?

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The main thing is, as long as we're all happy and healthy and...

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my kids are coming home smiling.

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It's just great.

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Australia's warm climate and golden beaches have long been

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a magnet for Brits seeking a new life abroad.

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On average, nearly 100 of us emigrate to Australia every day,

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but the dream doesn't always match up to reality

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and as many as a third of new arrivals end up heading back home.

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Two years ago, the Andrews spent one week experiencing

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the reality of life in Australia before having to decide

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whether to make the move a permanent one.

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Melanie was hoping she could persuade husband Rob that

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Australia would give the family a better life.

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Today, we'll find out what happened next.

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In 2011, the Andrews embarked on their trial week.

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Two flights, 9,000 miles and 22 hours gave them

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plenty of time to think about the adventure ahead.

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I'm really looking forward to it.

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I just want to get in there and...

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convince Rob that it's going to be good.

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It's going to be more of a reality check.

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This is sort of like the make or break.

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It was a week that had the potential to change their lives forever,

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and it was a long way from Folkestone in Kent.

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Mel and husband Rob share their happy home with their children -

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Coby, who was seven, and little Lexie, who was then just three.

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But, for Mel, it was Australia that offered the life

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she had dreamt of since she was a teenager.

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I'd originally planned to go travelling for six weeks

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and it fell through, so I couldn't go.

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Um, and there was a second time that I was going to go and that

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fell through and I was so upset and so gutted that I couldn't go.

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-No-one wanted to take her, to be honest.

-No, third time lucky.

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A few years previously, a family holiday down under had

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convinced Melanie Australia should be their home.

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I absolutely loved it and Coby and Lexie did as well.

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But, if they were going to make the dream a reality,

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they had to move fast as their visa was close to running out.

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Once that expires, if we haven't gone to Australia permanently,

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then we just wouldn't be able to get that visa again.

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I just want to get out there now. You know, I've just got to try and convince Rob.

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For the move to work, Rob had to decide

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if he could walk away from the family cleaning business

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he ran with his brother and start again in Australia.

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'Moving to Australia and starting fresh

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'and not having the network support that we've got here,'

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you know, it will be hard, so, yeah, that does worry me as well.

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But there was something even more important than work than Rob

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would have to leave behind - his close family and friends.

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'Me auntie and uncle, I'm very close to.'

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You know, and they mean everything to me.

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'Leaving them behind is just going to be very hard.'

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Cos I'm just going to miss them...

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so much.

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HE CRIES

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'I wouldn't want Rob to do anything that'

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he didn't want to do. And I certainly don't want him to think that

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I'm trying to emotionally blackmail him into going

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and forcing him because, you know, I wouldn't.

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I love him to bits so, you know, at the end of the day,

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he's my husband and if he doesn't want to go, then we won't go, but...

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you know, I just don't know how...how much I'd resent him

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later on for not going.

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'I've always said, "I'll never say goodbye."

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'I say, "I'll see you soon,"'

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because I think goodbye means...

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you know, maybe forever and, you know,

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I don't want it to be like that.

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With so much at stake, everyone's emotions were running high.

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Ahead of them was a huge decision,

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perhaps the toughest they would ever have to make.

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The family visited Perth in Western Australia.

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Home for their trial week was the popular beachside suburb of

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Watermans Bay, just a short drive from the airport.

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The three-bedroom property was only a couple of minutes' walk to

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the beach and had plenty of space for all the family.

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Ooh! Look!

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Oh, look!

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-I think the kids have got over their jetlag now.

-I know.

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-They're not going to sleep tonight.

-No, it'll be a nightmare tonight.

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Coby and Lexie settled in well,

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but Mel and Rob's thoughts were already on the week ahead.

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What I'd really like to get out of this week would be for Rob to

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really like it and to think, "Yeah, I could see myself living here."

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I think it's going to open our eyes a lot more to what

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we thought it was going to be like.

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Back in the UK, the Andrews

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lived in this three-bedroom ex-council house in Folkestone.

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Based on its estimated value,

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they had a budget of around £180,000 to spend on an Australian property

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and they were expecting a lot for their money.

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It would be at least a four-bedroom detached.

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'Whether it's got a pool or not, it's got to have a home cinema.'

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That's always been something I've always wanted.

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'Mel does want a nice house, but, as long as it's big enough to,'

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hopefully, accommodate loads of visits from friends and family,

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then that'll do me fine.

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To give the Andrews a taste of Perth's housing market,

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we showed them three options based on what they wanted,

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and what they could afford.

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Once they'd seen each house, we'd reveal how much it cost.

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Their property tour started in the suburb of Butler

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on the outskirts of the city.

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This three-bedroom property was a typical modern Aussie style home

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that should appeal to both Mel and Rob.

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That's a nice front room.

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You could have a dining room table here, couldn't you?

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I don't know. I'm not liking this at the moment.

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-Not a bad sized kitchen though.

-No.

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This three-bedroom house wasn't impressing Rob,

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who looked like he might be a tough customer.

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It's got a walk-in wardrobe and an en suite.

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-No, this isn't bad...

-Yeah...

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-..but you don't live in your bedroom, so...

-I know.

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There was only the outside space left to try and tempt him.

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-This is quite nice cos it's...

-Yeah.

-..like a blank canvas.

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-But we'd have to spend a lot to get it how we would want it.

-Yeah.

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And I don't think it would be worth it.

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The house had left Rob cold, but what about the price?

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Would they even be able to afford something like this

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on their £180,000 budget?

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Go on, then.

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Whoa!

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-£230,000!

-£230,000!

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If I had a choice to buy this...

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-I wouldn't.

-No.

-I just don't like it.

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At £50,000 over budget, it was a big set back for Mel.

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It's a no-no, this one.

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Well, let's just hope you like the next one then.

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ROB LAUGHS

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In Perth, affordable housing is often found out in the suburbs,

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which sometimes means up to a two-hour daily commute.

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With their budget in mind, the Andrews headed to Yanchep.

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The average house price in this area was still high,

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but a cheaper new build was a realistic option.

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As the development was still being built,

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they viewed a three-bedroom show home to give them an idea

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of what a typical finished house would look like.

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This is nice.

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Nice big walk-in wardrobe.

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Look at the size of that.

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Cor, this is lovely.

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As soon as you walk in the door, it's got that bit of a wow factor.

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The cinema room...

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-It ticks all the boxes so far.

-Oh, definitely.

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Nice double bedroom. Ideal for Coby. I like the big windows as well.

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-That's a nice sized bedroom.

-Oh, Lexie would love this room.

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-It's lovely, innit?

-They're all nice sized rooms, aren't they?

-Yeah.

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With its stylish interiors and open spaces, this house felt ideal

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and a large garden, complete with built-in barbecue,

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seemed tailor-made for Mel's dream of an outdoor lifestyle,

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assuming the sun came out.

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But was the house within their £180,000 budget?

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Go on, then.

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-Wow.

-Oh, my God!

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£200,000. 300,000.

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-Nice. That's all right.

-When can we move in?

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It was £20,000 over budget, but Mel could see the possibilities

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and even Rob looked as if he might be ready to settle in.

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But, before they made a final decision on property,

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there was one more to see.

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The final house was in the coastal suburb of Banksia Grove,

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and a 30-minute drive to Perth made it the closest of

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all three properties to the city.

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Like so much of what was on offer in Perth,

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it was another new build house. Mel and Rob viewed a show home.

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With four bedrooms, a cinema room and open-plan design,

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on paper, this looked like a house that could definitely convince Rob.

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-Nice.

-It is.

-Yeah.

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Nice, big hallway.

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Wow.

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Walk-in wardrobe. Nice. The en suite.

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Nice shower.

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It was a good start and there was another room to come.

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Oh, this is nice. Yeah!

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-Oh, I could see myself sitting in here.

-Coby would love it.

-Yeah.

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It looked as if property three could offer the space the Andrews wanted.

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-It's an ideal size for us four.

-Oh, yeah, definitely. I love it so far.

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Yeah, I do. Move in tomorrow!

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Rob looked won over and there was still the outside space to see.

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With a stunning garden complete with beer pumps,

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this was a house that seemed to have everything they were looking for.

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-It's lovely.

-Yeah. Very nice.

-Perfect.

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But, with a budget of £180,000, could they afford it?

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-Hmm.

-Oh, we're far off, then!

-£270,000.

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-So, we wouldn't really be able to afford it.

-No.

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I was expecting maybe a little bit cheaper...

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-than 405,000.

-If we were both working...

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..full-time in Australia, then I don't see why

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we wouldn't be able to afford...

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-Something like this.

-..something like this.

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-Now I've seen it, I want it.

-Oh, I know that, I know that!

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They'd potentially found the dream house that could persuade Rob

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to move to Oz, but it was £90,000 over budget.

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It had been an eye-opening day for the Andrews.

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The first house offered Mel the space and location she wanted,

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but Rob's reaction, and a big price tag

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left the Andrews feeling cold.

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The second house spiced things up with its stunning interiors

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and cinema room, and costing less than they expected,

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it showed Rob an upside to property down under.

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Finally, the third house's open-plan living and decor to die for

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offered both Rob and Mel a genuine dream house,

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even if the cost was a big ask.

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While Mel could be happy in any of them,

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had these properties done enough to convince Rob that the move

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would be worth all the pain of leaving home behind.

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Based on the properties that we've seen today...

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..um, the houses in Australia versus England...

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..we have decided to vote for.

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BOTH: Australia!

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-For the money you spend, you get a lot more for your money.

-Yeah.

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And, like, the three properties we saw, two of them...

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were just really nice and just what we was looking for.

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Round one, Australia.

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-Get ready for round two.

-Yeah.

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It had been a promising start for Mel,

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but with their budget potentially stretched by property,

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it was time to explore their work opportunities.

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Back in the UK, Rob worked at the cleaning firm

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started by his parents.

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Moving the company down under would have been impossible,

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so Rob was considering returning to a trade he'd learned previously.

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I did used to do painting and decorating many years ago.

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It's something I enjoy, so, whether there was a way...

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of getting into that field of work...

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yeah, I would like to definitely find out more about that as well.

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But while Rob's work would be vital to their finances,

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it was Mel who held the key to the move thanks to her

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hairdressing qualifications, which had earned their Australian visa.

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Giving up work to have a family, however, had left her with

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a huge confidence issue about returning to employment full-time.

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My main reservations about going back into hairdressing is,

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I suppose, is am I still as good as I...

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think I am, or that I was?

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Because I haven't worked in a salon for so long and obviously,

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you know, techniques have changed.

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So, we arranged for her to see if she could still cut it

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at a modern salon in Subiaco, a trendy inner city suburb.

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-Mel's Australian dream rested on her ability to impress.

-Hiya.

-Hi, Mel!

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-How are you?

-Well, thank you.

-And welcome to my salon.

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After a quick hello, manager Charlene put Mel straight to work.

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So, if you can, um, shampoo, blow-dry and style it,

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-so I can just have a look at your blow-drying skill.

-Yeah, OK.

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-So, let's get started with that.

-Lovely.

-OK, Laura?

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-How's that water for you, Laura?

-Perfect, thank you.

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Although it was vital for Mel to find work,

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a lot would also rest on how Rob got on.

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If he could find a job that paid a decent wage,

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then Mel would be another step closer to her dream.

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The work is the most important thing in this move.

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You know, if we can both get a job that we both enjoy

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and the money's there,

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then we can start to set our target in, you know,

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achieving the house that we want and the area that we want to live in.

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Rob spent the day working with expat Bernie who

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ran his own painting and decorating business.

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-All right, mate.

-All right. How are you? Rob, Bernie.

-How are you going?

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Yeah, good, mate.

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Keen to see what he could do, Bernie set Rob to work.

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But was Rob really prepared to swap everything he had in the UK,

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for a chance to work in the sunshine?

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I've still got, you know, concerns about leaving

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me family behind,

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'but, I think if they saw what I could actually achieve here,

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'hopefully they can come round to the way that we're

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'thinking and they'd be pleased with'

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the decision that we may make.

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Back at the salon,

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Mel's time away from hairdressing was beginning to show.

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It just getting used to...

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-to doing it all again.

-Yeah.

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-If you're thinking about coming out here in another six months...

-Yeah.

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..you could do a few courses in London or, you know,

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-go to a few salons and maybe get some part-time work.

-Yeah.

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Just so you're not so rusty when you come to Australia.

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It was bad news.

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If Mel wanted to make the grade in this kind of salon,

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she would need to retrain, and with courses costing around 500, that

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meant at least a couple of thousand dollars just to get her back up to speed.

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Would the salary compensate for that?

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If I was employed as a junior stylist,

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what are the wages sort of...?

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-It would be around about between 19 to 21.

-OK.

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'That hourly rate meant a potential annual salary of around £28,000.'

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£10,000 more than she would have earned in the UK,

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but it would have come at a cost.

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I think the fact that I'd have to retrain...it hasn't put me off

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hairdressing, because, I think, in a way, you know,

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it's something that I would like to do to

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refresh my memory as well for, like, colouring and cutting

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and to be able to do more up-to-date techniques and things like that.

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It was a mixed result for Mel, so everything now hinged on Rob.

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That's it.

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But before he could make a decision,

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he needed to get some answers from Bernie.

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What's the, um, wage that, you know,

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a decent painter could earn?

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The average? 30 an hour.

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-That's good.

-Yeah.

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So, if you were to work a Saturday, you're on about 75,000 a year.

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-Wow, that's good.

-Yeah, nice. It's a good life.

-Yeah.

-Yep.

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So, work wise in Perth, is there quite a bit of work here?

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Yeah, there's plenty of work in Australia.

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I've never been out of work myself.

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And how long have you been here for?

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-13 years.

-13 years.

-Yeah.

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You can't go wrong.

0:18:430:18:44

-Just look me up when you get here.

-Yeah. Oh, yeah, definitely.

0:18:440:18:47

-Maybe sooner rather than later then.

-Yeah, I'll give you a try.

0:18:470:18:51

It was a great result for Rob.

0:18:510:18:52

'He could earn more than £50,000 a year in Oz,

0:18:520:18:56

'doubling his current UK salary. But was the potential of work'

0:18:560:19:00

really worth giving up the family business for?

0:19:000:19:03

It was a big decision,

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and the future of the move lay in Rob's hands.

0:19:040:19:07

Based on our work experience today and...

0:19:070:19:12

the working hours and the wages we can earn, we are voting for...

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Australia.

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..Australia.

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Ooh! SHE GIGGLES

0:19:260:19:28

-Shocked?

-I am, actually. Oh, I'm crying.

0:19:280:19:31

Hey!

0:19:320:19:34

I think I was just so worried that...

0:19:340:19:36

you know, you wouldn't...

0:19:360:19:38

They'd say, "Oh, you need to be qualified,"

0:19:380:19:40

or you wouldn't be able to earn the money. I was thinking,

0:19:400:19:42

"Oh, God, he's going to choose England,"

0:19:420:19:44

and that'd be it, that'd be our dream over.

0:19:440:19:47

So, I'm pleased.

0:19:470:19:48

It looked as if Rob was coming round,

0:19:570:19:59

but the question remained - could they afford to live down under?

0:19:590:20:02

Now, the shopping list...

0:20:040:20:06

£9.81! Oh, my God!

0:20:060:20:09

Is that right?!

0:20:090:20:11

To help them find out,

0:20:110:20:12

we prepared a breakdown of their weekly living expenses.

0:20:120:20:15

Any differences in the cost of living could be

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offset by their potential earnings.

0:20:180:20:20

So, in the UK, our total income...

0:20:200:20:24

..per year is £28,120.

0:20:240:20:27

So, you full-time in Australia,

0:20:270:20:29

me full-time...

0:20:290:20:31

We would be £3,950 a month better off.

0:20:310:20:36

But that's just me as a junior stylist, so that would go up.

0:20:360:20:39

So, obviously, we've got to take into consideration the mortgage,

0:20:390:20:44

so, even with that taken off...

0:20:440:20:46

-you're still looking roughly about £2,000 better off.

-A month.

0:20:460:20:51

-You know, it's sort of there for the taking.

-Yeah.

0:20:510:20:54

On paper, it looked like the Andrews could be as much as £2,000

0:20:560:21:00

a month better off in Australia.

0:21:000:21:02

'With all the facts and figures sorted, it was time to vote.'

0:21:030:21:07

Based on the figures that we've seen today for the reality check, and

0:21:070:21:11

the wages that we could potentially earn in Australia

0:21:110:21:15

and how they compare to the UK...

0:21:150:21:18

we have decided to vote for...

0:21:180:21:19

BOTH: Australia!

0:21:250:21:27

It was a no-brainer - Australia.

0:21:320:21:34

-Definitely.

-So, um...we could actually...

0:21:340:21:37

have a really nice lifestyle as a family.

0:21:370:21:41

-Good.

-Pleased?

0:21:430:21:45

The sums had added up in Mel's favour.

0:21:520:21:55

If Perth could also offer the Andrews a good lifestyle,

0:21:550:21:58

she could be even closer to convincing Rob to follow her dream.

0:21:580:22:02

The Andrews visited John Forrest Park about 16 miles from Perth.

0:22:030:22:07

It was the ideal spot for a family day out.

0:22:070:22:10

This area is lovely, isn't it?

0:22:100:22:12

The park we've come to is...the views are just stunning.

0:22:120:22:16

This is just how I imagined life in Australia to be, you know,

0:22:160:22:20

being able to be outdoors, taking the kids places all together as a family.

0:22:200:22:25

You know, the kids are going to benefit from it big time.

0:22:250:22:28

To round the day off, Rob had a chance to

0:22:280:22:31

indulge in an activity he enjoyed with his brother back home.

0:22:310:22:34

-Don't fall off.

-I won't.

0:22:340:22:36

-G'day, Rob.

-Hello, mate. How you doing?

-I'm Greg.

0:22:360:22:38

Rob hit the trail with Greg from the Perth Mountain Bike Club

0:22:380:22:42

and it was going well...

0:22:420:22:44

..to start with!

0:22:470:22:48

I took a bit of a tumble, but, that's part and parcel

0:22:560:22:59

of mountain biking, but now I'm fine, just...

0:22:590:23:03

my pride hurts more than anything!

0:23:030:23:05

If I'm here, it's just a shame that me brother

0:23:070:23:10

won't be here to do it, which is

0:23:100:23:12

just the sad bit, cos he...you know, it's me and him

0:23:120:23:14

that always go out and do stuff like that, but...

0:23:140:23:17

but, no, something like this is just brilliant.

0:23:170:23:20

The reality of what he would be leaving behind was becoming

0:23:200:23:22

clear to Rob, but, for Mel, it was just as clear that Australia

0:23:220:23:27

offered everything she had ever wanted.

0:23:270:23:29

I don't know why, but I've never really felt settled anywhere.

0:23:290:23:33

I don't know, it's really hard to explain,

0:23:330:23:35

but here, I could honestly say I could call this my home.

0:23:350:23:39

It had been a day to remember, but had a taste of

0:23:390:23:42

the Australian lifestyle been enough to win everyone's vote?

0:23:420:23:45

On today's outing...

0:23:450:23:48

..and, based on the day we had...

0:23:490:23:53

we are going to vote for...

0:23:530:23:55

Australia!

0:24:020:24:03

Australia.

0:24:040:24:06

Undecided.

0:24:060:24:08

-Really?

-When I done...

0:24:080:24:10

..the mountain biking, which I really enjoyed...

0:24:110:24:15

um, it just brought home with, like, you know, me brother...

0:24:150:24:20

I knew it would.

0:24:200:24:22

-I just felt a bit lonely, that was all.

-Yeah.

0:24:220:24:25

So, I've still got a bit of convincing then, to get you out here.

0:24:250:24:29

It should have been the most enjoyable day of the trip,

0:24:290:24:31

but Mel's mission to win over Rob had suffered a serious set back.

0:24:310:24:35

This is it, you know, I haven't got any other chances,

0:24:350:24:38

so I'm just hoping that...

0:24:380:24:40

you know, I can convince Rob that this would be the best place

0:24:400:24:43

to bring up the kids and...

0:24:430:24:45

you know, for all of us as a family, be able to settle down and

0:24:450:24:49

just enjoy our lifestyle.

0:24:490:24:50

Time was running out for Mel to convince Rob to make the move.

0:24:520:24:56

With Rob's resolve wavering, the Andrews were about to get

0:25:010:25:04

another reminder of the friends and family they'd be leaving behind.

0:25:040:25:08

Rob and Mel felt it was important for the children to watch

0:25:090:25:12

messages from loved ones too.

0:25:120:25:14

-Hello, Mel and Robert.

-I hope you're

0:25:160:25:17

having a good time out there. I hope the sun's shining.

0:25:170:25:20

What are they like as a family?

0:25:200:25:21

They're...loving. Very loving.

0:25:230:25:26

-Very close.

-Very close. Very caring.

0:25:260:25:30

They're really, really good fun. Their children are lovely.

0:25:300:25:33

A really, really nice family.

0:25:330:25:35

I mean, nine times out of ten, Rob is always the funniest person

0:25:350:25:38

in the room, without a shadow of a doubt.

0:25:380:25:40

-He is definitely one of a kind.

-Coby, he's quite a bright lad.

0:25:400:25:44

-Very bright.

-You only have to show him something once and

0:25:440:25:47

-he picks it up. He's quite good like that.

-Yes.

-He's very caring.

0:25:470:25:51

When I first heard that they was going to be moving to Australia

0:25:510:25:54

and applying to go to Australia...

0:25:540:25:56

um, I thought it was going to be a good thing.

0:25:560:25:58

I know they both wanted to do something like that anyway.

0:25:580:26:01

He's like a brother.

0:26:020:26:04

SHE CRIES

0:26:060:26:07

I don't really know how we're going to, sort of,

0:26:100:26:13

fill the gap that they're going to leave,

0:26:130:26:16

until they've actually done it, really, you know,

0:26:160:26:19

but the decision's up to you and I'm sure you'll make the right one.

0:26:190:26:24

Good luck.

0:26:240:26:25

We love you dearly...

0:26:250:26:27

very, very much.

0:26:270:26:28

We all do and we hope you make the right decision and...

0:26:280:26:32

-Yeah, good luck.

-Good luck and love you.

-Yeah.

0:26:320:26:35

And I hope that you've done all that you wanted to do.

0:26:370:26:41

Yeah, and whatever decision you make, make sure it's for you, make sure

0:26:410:26:44

it's the one that you're happy with and the one that will make you happy.

0:26:440:26:48

As your mum...

0:26:480:26:50

I just want you to be happy.

0:26:500:26:52

Yeah, and we'll see you when you get back. Take care.

0:26:550:26:58

-Bye.

-Bye!

-Bye.

0:26:580:27:00

-How'd you feel?

-Hmm...

0:27:060:27:08

-..sad.

-You feel sad?

0:27:090:27:11

You know, there's been some real big positives...

0:27:140:27:17

but then you watch that...

0:27:170:27:19

And it makes you feel...

0:27:190:27:21

And it like, it can just take everything away and...

0:27:210:27:25

whatever decision we make, we've got to make for

0:27:250:27:28

the best for our family, don't we?

0:27:280:27:30

You know, me auntie and uncle, I know it's hard for them,

0:27:300:27:32

it's hard for me as well.

0:27:320:27:34

The thing is, we don't know if it's the right decision or not,

0:27:340:27:36

but I guess we'll never know unless we try it.

0:27:360:27:38

Watching the messages had made the whole family think carefully

0:27:410:27:44

about the momentous decision they were about to make.

0:27:440:27:47

'I've really enjoyed this week.

0:27:470:27:49

'Obviously, on the downside, there's, you know,

0:27:490:27:51

'you watch your family and friends at home,'

0:27:510:27:53

and it doesn't make it any easier and you know that it's

0:27:530:27:57

going to be really hard having to leave them behind,

0:27:570:27:59

but I've got to try

0:27:590:28:01

and focus and think what's best for our family and our future, so...

0:28:010:28:05

My emotions have been up and down all week.

0:28:050:28:09

'If I decided against the move to Australia, Mel...

0:28:090:28:13

'..yeah, I think she would be upset, so, yeah,

0:28:140:28:16

'that does play on my mind a little bit,'

0:28:160:28:18

because she's me wife at the end of the day,

0:28:180:28:20

and I want to try to make her happy.

0:28:200:28:23

It was the end of a difficult week

0:28:230:28:25

and time for the Andrews to make their final decision.

0:28:250:28:28

We've had our ups, we've had our downs...

0:28:300:28:32

..and it's now time for the family to vote

0:28:340:28:38

whether it's UK or Australia.

0:28:380:28:40

As a family, we have decided that we want to live in...

0:28:420:28:45

-..Australia.

-Australia.

0:28:580:29:01

Really?

0:29:010:29:02

I think if we don't...

0:29:050:29:07

..give it a go...

0:29:080:29:10

we're going to regret it for the rest of our lives.

0:29:100:29:13

It's going to be the hardest...

0:29:130:29:15

the hardest thing we'll ever do, but...

0:29:150:29:19

life's too short to have regrets and I don't want that.

0:29:190:29:22

Cool.

0:29:250:29:27

-What about you, Cobes?

-What did you say to Daddy?

0:29:270:29:30

You want to live in Australia and you want to live in the UK,

0:29:300:29:34

-don't you?

-Yeah.

0:29:340:29:35

And Lexie chose Australia!

0:29:350:29:37

It is a big step and we don't know

0:29:400:29:41

-if the grass is greener on the other side.

-But, um...

0:29:410:29:44

..yeah.

0:29:470:29:48

I think, for the family's point of view, yeah, you've got to do it.

0:29:480:29:52

Definitely. Go for it?

0:29:530:29:56

-Hmm.

-You want to go for it?

0:29:560:29:57

Yeah.

0:29:570:29:59

MEL LAUGHS

0:29:590:30:00

Love you.

0:30:050:30:07

Love you, Mummy.

0:30:070:30:09

It had been an incredibly emotional week for the Andrews,

0:30:120:30:16

but when their time in Australia was up,

0:30:160:30:18

Rob agreed with Melanie that a life down under was worth trying.

0:30:180:30:23

So, two years on, are the Andrews living the life Mel had dreamed of?

0:30:230:30:27

It's 2013 and the Andrews family are in...

0:30:290:30:33

the UK.

0:30:330:30:35

But they're only here temporarily to catch up with family and friends.

0:30:370:30:41

-Who is it?

-THEY CHEER

0:30:410:30:44

Today, they're reuniting with Mel's mum and dad.

0:30:470:30:51

Hello!

0:30:510:30:52

As well as her sister and family.

0:30:520:30:55

Hello, mate.

0:30:550:30:56

-Hello, mate.

-How are you doing?

0:30:570:31:00

A year after their trial week, the Andrews took the plunge

0:31:000:31:03

and moved to Australia.

0:31:030:31:05

And, this time when they fly back down under, it'll be for good.

0:31:070:31:11

When we go back to Australia, we've got a one-way.

0:31:110:31:14

So, uh...

0:31:140:31:16

I think going back this time, I'm not looking forward to it.

0:31:160:31:20

I think it's going to be a lot worse than what it was the first time,

0:31:200:31:22

cos we knew we were coming back to see everyone.

0:31:220:31:26

Mel's family are dreading the day they depart.

0:31:260:31:29

Knowing that they're going back to Australia on a one-way ticket...

0:31:290:31:34

um, is quite emotional.

0:31:340:31:37

'It's going to be sad saying goodbye this time.'

0:31:370:31:39

It was sad enough last time,

0:31:390:31:40

but it's going to be really sad this time.

0:31:400:31:43

'I've missed them all loads, so'

0:31:430:31:44

it's really good seeing them again,

0:31:440:31:46

'spending some time with them.'

0:31:460:31:48

'It'll be horrible saying goodbye again,'

0:31:480:31:51

cos we said it last time as well, when they actually went,

0:31:510:31:53

but knowing they won't come back this time...

0:31:530:31:56

'it'll be horrible.'

0:31:560:31:58

A couple of days later, the time has come

0:32:000:32:02

for the Andrews to get on a plane and return to their new life.

0:32:020:32:06

I'm looking forward to it,

0:32:080:32:09

but, I think it has been harder saying goodbye.

0:32:090:32:12

'It's not that we're never coming back, but we know

0:32:140:32:17

'we're not coming back next year like we was the first time.'

0:32:170:32:20

'But, I think once we arrive back in Australia, we know we've got

0:32:230:32:26

'a lot to focus on that might help us get through it.'

0:32:260:32:31

'But it'll definitely be harder.'

0:32:320:32:34

The Andrews have swapped their lives in Kent for

0:32:410:32:43

the up-and-coming suburb of Canning Vale near Perth.

0:32:430:32:47

The enormity of their journey only really hit home

0:32:470:32:50

when they arrived back in Australia, this time for good.

0:32:500:32:54

When we first landed at the airport, it was like,

0:32:540:32:58

"Wow, we're actually here now."

0:32:580:33:01

And the feeling was this isn't for a holiday.

0:33:010:33:05

It was quite a scary feeling, wasn't it? When we landed at the airport.

0:33:050:33:08

It was like there's no going back now.

0:33:080:33:11

The kids start school soon, you know, we've left our life behind.

0:33:110:33:16

I suddenly...it sort of just hit me and I thought, "Oh, my God,

0:33:160:33:18

"have we done the right thing?"

0:33:180:33:20

The Andrews are living in a four-bedroom detached house

0:33:200:33:23

just 20 minutes from the beach and 20km from the centre of Perth.

0:33:230:33:28

And Rob's delighted with his new surroundings.

0:33:280:33:31

When I drive to work and I'm heading towards the city,

0:33:310:33:34

you know, you're driving over the Swan River

0:33:340:33:37

and the sun's shining, you feel happy straight away.

0:33:370:33:41

And Dad's not the only one loving the Aussie climate.

0:33:410:33:44

With a park right across the street from their new home,

0:33:440:33:47

the whole family are enjoying more time outdoors.

0:33:470:33:50

It's all a long way from Folkestone and the life they've left behind.

0:33:540:33:59

Back in the UK, where our house was situated,

0:33:590:34:02

it was in like a little cul-de-sac, but it wasn't really...

0:34:020:34:05

There was a lot of cars going back and forth,

0:34:050:34:07

so, especially with Coby and Lexie being the age they are,

0:34:070:34:10

you know, they didn't really go outside on their own a lot,

0:34:100:34:12

whereas here,

0:34:120:34:14

they can come across to the park as long as we can see them.

0:34:140:34:17

Um...

0:34:170:34:19

You know, they love coming out and just being outside, kicking

0:34:190:34:21

a ball about, catching a Frisbee, playing in the park.

0:34:210:34:26

'So, I think it's definitely benefitted them.'

0:34:260:34:30

For now, the Andrews are renting, but plans for the four-bedroom

0:34:300:34:34

dream house with a home cinema room have not been forgotten.

0:34:340:34:37

In the end, you know, our main goal is to buy land

0:34:380:34:42

and have our own place built,

0:34:420:34:44

but that's sort of the start of the Australian dream to do that,

0:34:440:34:47

but as for where we're living and for the school where

0:34:470:34:52

our kids go to, you know, it is a real good place.

0:34:520:34:57

Lexie, who's now five,

0:34:570:34:59

and Coby, who's nine, are both settling in well, but it did

0:34:590:35:03

take some adjusting to get used to life on the other side of the world.

0:35:030:35:07

Coby, he misses his cousins back home a lot and, obviously,

0:35:070:35:11

his friends, but...you know, I think overall he does enjoy it here,

0:35:110:35:17

he really does.

0:35:170:35:18

It took me quite a while to, um, kind of make new friends,

0:35:180:35:22

but, when I first started here it was kind of OK, but I didn't

0:35:220:35:28

know a lot of people, but I've made loads of friends here now.

0:35:280:35:32

Mel believes the move has really helped Coby grow.

0:35:320:35:36

'He seems happier in himself, you know.'

0:35:360:35:39

He just seems more relaxed and more chilled,

0:35:390:35:41

and Lexie, well, Lexie's just Lexie.

0:35:410:35:43

She's just...

0:35:430:35:44

I don't think it would matter where Lexie is,

0:35:440:35:47

as long as she's got her family around her, she's happy.

0:35:470:35:50

I love my school.

0:35:510:35:53

Yeah, school's very fun.

0:35:550:35:57

They're in one of the best schools in Canning Vale, primary schools,

0:35:570:36:00

um, and they're thriving.

0:36:000:36:02

'I would say Coby does better in school now than

0:36:020:36:05

'what he did in the UK.'

0:36:050:36:06

'One year after the move, it looks like Mel's dream

0:36:060:36:09

'of the Australian life could be coming true.'

0:36:090:36:12

But it hasn't all been plain sailing.

0:36:120:36:14

As soon as they arrived, Rob hit a problem finding work.

0:36:150:36:19

Yeah, well, when I, um...

0:36:200:36:22

when we made the move over here, obviously, I was, uh...

0:36:220:36:25

wanting to get into me painting and decorating,

0:36:250:36:28

but that's sort of been put on hold for the time being.

0:36:280:36:31

Rob had been hoping to secure employment through a contact he met

0:36:310:36:35

on the family's initial trip, but the promise of work fell through.

0:36:350:36:39

I was just so geared up and looking forward to,

0:36:400:36:43

when I arrived, to meeting up and working with him.

0:36:430:36:47

And, um, you know, when we first spoke

0:36:470:36:50

when I arrived it was all positive, but within a couple of weeks,

0:36:500:36:53

he, you know, unlucky for him,

0:36:530:36:54

he did lose a bit of work and it stopped me from actually working

0:36:540:36:59

with him and, to be honest, I was, you know, really, really gutted.

0:36:590:37:05

So I felt like, "Right, now, I've got to start again."

0:37:050:37:09

With his painting job falling through,

0:37:090:37:11

Rob fell back on a trade he knew well.

0:37:110:37:14

I've started up doing me carpet cleaning,

0:37:140:37:16

which I used to do back home as well.

0:37:160:37:19

Um, and, yeah, it's going really well.

0:37:190:37:23

Um, you know, I had to invest in some machinery and a vehicle,

0:37:230:37:28

so, yeah, it's going really well.

0:37:280:37:30

SOUND DIPPED

0:37:320:37:34

The carpet cleaning work has taken off, but Rob's dream

0:37:340:37:37

of running his own decorating business is still very much alive.

0:37:370:37:42

'Here, to go off on your own, you need a painter's registration.'

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So, um, I'm going back to college doing night school

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just to get the ticket.

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Are you happy with that?

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Mel also struggled to land her dream job.

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The plan to work full-time in a hairdressing salon proved

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just too difficult to juggle with childcare.

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The hours in a salon just wouldn't be practical for me, especially with the

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children at school. I need something around them,

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so I'm working as a secretary for a cleaning company,

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so it's very similar to what I was doing back in the UK

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so it's something I'm familiar with.

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'So, I basically run the office, which, you know, I really enjoy

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'and it's nice because I can work it around the children's schooling.'

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Finding work hasn't been the only issue

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the Andrews have faced in moving.

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Sometimes loved ones in the UK feel very far away.

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I've had my bad days, you know, and I've cried

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and I've found it hard and I've missed my friends and my family,

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'like my sister, you know? I love my sister to bits.'

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And, um...

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..just not knowing when I'm going to see her.

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That's what I find hard.

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But, on the whole, I think I've coped quite well.

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For Rob, leaving his aunt and uncle was always one

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of the main stumbling blocks to making the move.

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Breaking the news to them that the family were leaving

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was even harder than he imagined.

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'So, yeah, when the time come to tell them, it was, um...

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'you know, it was, uh, I suppose like a lightning strike,'

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I suppose, to them knowing that we was actually going to leave and...

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but I never...I never thought I would get that reaction what we did.

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Rob's aunt and uncle were devastated by the family's decision and,

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one year on, the family still have little contact.

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It hurt, didn't it? It hurt you big time.

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Oh, you know, it still does, but...

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you know, it's nothing you can do

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and we've just got to, you know, carry on, haven't we?

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Despite a shaky start down under,

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Mel still believes following her dream was the right thing to do.

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You know, the first year's been a learning curve and, you know,

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it's got us in here and we're starting to make friends.

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I think that next year, our second year, I think we've just got

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so much to look forward to.

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By the third year, I think, you know, we will class it as being settled

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and feeling like we're at home.

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The family's new life in Australia has also come with

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plenty of upsides, which go a long way to helping Rob come to terms

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with what he's had to leave behind.

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I've spent a lot more time with my children

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and I'm doing more with them...

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because we've got that chance to.

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I mean, I can start work early, you know, finish sort of afternoon,

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when they come out from school

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'and that gives us a chance to do stuff, so,

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'moving to Australia, I'm benefitting by

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'seeing my kids grow up.'

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I think it's brought us closer together as a couple as well,

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because, especially when we first got out here, we didn't know anyone!

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So, it was a case of, "Right, you're stuck with me,

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"we've got to do something together."

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Whereas, back in the UK, you know, you'd be out shopping for hours or...

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-Shopping!

-..going out for a coffee and, you know, doing stuff,

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but, I think, it's worked in our favour as a couple.

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'I think it has brought us closer together.'

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Coby and Lexie believe Mum and Dad are in Australia for good.

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Um, I definitely think they want to stay here and...

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um...

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LEXIE WHISPERS

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..they don't want to go back to the UK.

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Moving to the other side of the world hasn't just brought

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the family closer - it's made it bigger too.

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For the family we've, um...

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we've got another one on the way. Um...

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So, it's going to be five of us now.

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Um, so that's going to be exciting times.

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With the new addition to the family due to arrive in a few months,

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the children are looking forward to the future.

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-Me and Lexie want to...

-LEXIE WHISPERS

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We want a...we want a little brother and...

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cos...I don't know why Lexie does,

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but I just want another brother because...

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So he can teach him wrestling and beat me up.

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That's not true.

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All five of the Andrews are set to live their

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Australian lives to the full.

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I think our future is in Australia.

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Um...and I think, you know, by having a baby in Australia, it's

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probably going to give you a bit more of a bond to the country as well.

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The main thing is, as long as we're all happy and healthy and...

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my kids are coming home smiling...

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and we're down that beach at the weekends in the summer, then...

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then, yeah, it's just great.

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It may not have been completely plain sailing for the Andrews,

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but they've no regrets when it comes to having decided to make

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a new start for their family in Australia.

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We wish Rob, Melanie, Coby, and Lexie the best of luck.

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