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How far would you go to give | 0:00:02 | 0:00:03 | |
your family a fresh start | 0:00:03 | 0:00:05 | |
after devastating times? | 0:00:05 | 0:00:08 | |
In 2014, the Simpson family were considering leaving the UK behind | 0:00:08 | 0:00:13 | |
to start again on the other side of the world. | 0:00:13 | 0:00:16 | |
Today, we'll discover if it's | 0:00:16 | 0:00:18 | |
the UK or Australia the family now call home. | 0:00:18 | 0:00:21 | |
Three years ago, the Simpson family were about to finally | 0:00:23 | 0:00:25 | |
realise their dream of a new life down under... | 0:00:25 | 0:00:28 | |
We had a great big party and said, "This is it. | 0:00:28 | 0:00:30 | |
"Next year we'll be out in Australia." | 0:00:30 | 0:00:32 | |
..when tragedy struck. | 0:00:32 | 0:00:34 | |
I was frightened to go to sleep every single night in case | 0:00:34 | 0:00:37 | |
she would be dead by the time I woke up. | 0:00:37 | 0:00:39 | |
In 2014, they spent a week in Australia to see | 0:00:39 | 0:00:42 | |
if it could offer a new beginning. | 0:00:42 | 0:00:44 | |
I want this to be a fresh start for my family. | 0:00:44 | 0:00:47 | |
One year on, find out | 0:00:47 | 0:00:48 | |
if the Simpsons have made the life-changing move. | 0:00:48 | 0:00:51 | |
It was like, do we go? Do we not go? What do we do? | 0:00:51 | 0:00:53 | |
Often referred to as "the lucky country" | 0:01:17 | 0:01:19 | |
because of its economy and opportunities, Australia's been | 0:01:19 | 0:01:22 | |
the top destination for Brits seeking to emigrate | 0:01:22 | 0:01:25 | |
for over 25 years. | 0:01:25 | 0:01:27 | |
With its sunny climate and outdoors lifestyle, | 0:01:27 | 0:01:30 | |
it's easy to understand why. | 0:01:30 | 0:01:32 | |
But it takes more than luck to build a new life down under, | 0:01:32 | 0:01:36 | |
and every year 18,000 expats return to the UK | 0:01:36 | 0:01:39 | |
with their ambitions shattered. | 0:01:39 | 0:01:41 | |
In 2014, after the most challenging year of their lives, | 0:01:44 | 0:01:49 | |
the Simpsons were determined to put the past behind them | 0:01:49 | 0:01:52 | |
and move to the other side of the world. | 0:01:52 | 0:01:55 | |
After a week to discover | 0:01:55 | 0:01:57 | |
if Australia could offer the lifestyle they were | 0:01:57 | 0:01:59 | |
longing for, the family would face the biggest decision of their lives. | 0:01:59 | 0:02:04 | |
One year on, today, we'll discover what happened next. | 0:02:04 | 0:02:08 | |
The family's original journey to Melbourne began with more | 0:02:11 | 0:02:14 | |
than 10,000 miles in the air. | 0:02:14 | 0:02:16 | |
As they touched down in Australia | 0:02:16 | 0:02:17 | |
for the very first time, | 0:02:17 | 0:02:19 | |
Michelle's spirits were high. | 0:02:19 | 0:02:21 | |
We are very excited to be here today. | 0:02:21 | 0:02:23 | |
I'm hoping this week is going to be a big changer for us, | 0:02:23 | 0:02:27 | |
that big decision that makes us actually say yes, | 0:02:27 | 0:02:29 | |
and that we want to start a new life and build it here. | 0:02:29 | 0:02:32 | |
But Garry was playing the cautious card. | 0:02:32 | 0:02:35 | |
Yeah, we want to experience as much as we can | 0:02:35 | 0:02:37 | |
just to make sure that the move's right. | 0:02:37 | 0:02:38 | |
So we've got to make sure we tick all of those boxes off. | 0:02:38 | 0:02:42 | |
Having finally reached Australia, | 0:02:42 | 0:02:44 | |
the next week would be key in deciding whether the Simpsons | 0:02:44 | 0:02:47 | |
could get the fresh start they so desperately needed. | 0:02:47 | 0:02:50 | |
In 2014, the Simpsons - Dad, Garry, Mum, Michelle, | 0:02:54 | 0:02:58 | |
Fraja, then aged five, Erinn, who was 14, and Howie, who was 16, | 0:02:58 | 0:03:03 | |
were living on an RAF base in North Yorkshire. | 0:03:03 | 0:03:06 | |
Garry and Michelle had been dreaming of a life down under | 0:03:06 | 0:03:09 | |
for nearly two decades. | 0:03:09 | 0:03:11 | |
Moving to Australia was something that we actually wanted to do | 0:03:11 | 0:03:14 | |
a long time ago, | 0:03:14 | 0:03:15 | |
before we even had the children. | 0:03:15 | 0:03:17 | |
-This has been our dream for so long. -Yeah, yeah, it has. | 0:03:17 | 0:03:21 | |
But life and Garry's military career had got in the way. | 0:03:21 | 0:03:24 | |
We ended up staying longer and longer and longer, | 0:03:24 | 0:03:26 | |
and it got to the point there, the dream kind of | 0:03:26 | 0:03:28 | |
went out the window for a little while. | 0:03:28 | 0:03:31 | |
Two years previously, Garry had become eligible for his RAF pension. | 0:03:31 | 0:03:35 | |
With the extra financial security that brought, at long last, | 0:03:35 | 0:03:39 | |
a move to Australia was back on. | 0:03:39 | 0:03:42 | |
Plans were made and the family started to say their goodbyes. | 0:03:42 | 0:03:45 | |
We sat here on the New Year's Eve, had a great big party and said, | 0:03:45 | 0:03:49 | |
"This is it. Next year we'll be out in Australia." | 0:03:49 | 0:03:51 | |
But the joy was short-lived. | 0:03:56 | 0:03:59 | |
Devastating news brought Garry and Michelle's plans to | 0:03:59 | 0:04:01 | |
an abrupt halt, when four-year-old Fraja was diagnosed with cancer. | 0:04:01 | 0:04:05 | |
Garry and Michelle spent months by Fraja's bedside, | 0:04:10 | 0:04:13 | |
as their daughter fought for her life. | 0:04:13 | 0:04:15 | |
As a family you go through everything, you know. The why us? | 0:04:17 | 0:04:20 | |
Why Fraja? And, yeah, it's really devastating. | 0:04:20 | 0:04:25 | |
It's been so horrific, so many ups and downs. | 0:04:26 | 0:04:30 | |
Many times we weren't even sure she was going to make it through. | 0:04:30 | 0:04:34 | |
Fraja's neuroblastoma cancer saw her undergo intensive surgery | 0:04:34 | 0:04:38 | |
and chemotherapy, but her body began to fight back on its own. | 0:04:38 | 0:04:43 | |
And after just 12 months... | 0:04:44 | 0:04:46 | |
Fraja's on the mend. She's doing exceptionally well. | 0:04:50 | 0:04:53 | |
Erm, she's rewritten some of the books. | 0:04:53 | 0:04:56 | |
Fraja's cancer had gone into remission. | 0:04:56 | 0:04:59 | |
But that didn't mean it would never return. | 0:04:59 | 0:05:01 | |
The cancer that she has is one that reoccurs. | 0:05:01 | 0:05:04 | |
And if it does reoccur, then we know that these children don't | 0:05:04 | 0:05:07 | |
actually have much opportunity or chance to actually survive. | 0:05:07 | 0:05:11 | |
Only two places in the world offered pioneering treatment | 0:05:11 | 0:05:14 | |
should Fraja's cancer come back - America and Australia, | 0:05:14 | 0:05:18 | |
but it would come at a cost. | 0:05:18 | 0:05:21 | |
With the help of friends and family, | 0:05:21 | 0:05:23 | |
the Simpsons had raised almost £200,000 | 0:05:23 | 0:05:25 | |
towards possible health care costs. | 0:05:25 | 0:05:28 | |
They were determined to put | 0:05:29 | 0:05:30 | |
the harrowing last 12 months behind them, | 0:05:30 | 0:05:32 | |
and give all three children the fresh start they needed. | 0:05:32 | 0:05:36 | |
The laughter in our house, it's not there any more | 0:05:36 | 0:05:39 | |
and I want to get that laughter back. | 0:05:39 | 0:05:41 | |
I want to hear my kids giggle, I long for that. | 0:05:41 | 0:05:44 | |
I really long for that. | 0:05:44 | 0:05:46 | |
Australia could have offered the care | 0:05:48 | 0:05:50 | |
and new beginning the family needed. | 0:05:50 | 0:05:52 | |
But Garry knew the move would be a risky one. | 0:05:52 | 0:05:55 | |
He'd spent all his working life with the RAF. | 0:05:55 | 0:05:58 | |
I can't come back and get my job back. | 0:05:58 | 0:06:00 | |
It's not like I'm a carpenter or a builder that | 0:06:00 | 0:06:02 | |
I could just come back and slot back into. No, that's it. | 0:06:02 | 0:06:05 | |
When I've left, the door is 100% shut. | 0:06:05 | 0:06:09 | |
And the job wasn't the only thing Garry would be saying goodbye to. | 0:06:09 | 0:06:12 | |
Both his parents were waging their own battles with cancer, | 0:06:12 | 0:06:16 | |
and Michelle and Garry worried about leaving them behind. | 0:06:16 | 0:06:19 | |
Knowing what we've potentially got ahead, you can't get that time back. | 0:06:19 | 0:06:23 | |
So that's really, really the hardest thing. | 0:06:23 | 0:06:26 | |
Can we do that? Does this make us heartless if we go now? | 0:06:28 | 0:06:31 | |
If we don't go now, will we ever get this opportunity again? | 0:06:31 | 0:06:35 | |
It's a huge question, | 0:06:35 | 0:06:36 | |
and I'm not sure at this stage if we actually know the answer to that. | 0:06:36 | 0:06:39 | |
The Simpsons spent their trial week in Melbourne. | 0:06:47 | 0:06:50 | |
Their temporary home was a modern four-bedroom townhouse, | 0:06:50 | 0:06:53 | |
and first impressions were good. | 0:06:53 | 0:06:55 | |
-It's nice. Absolutely perfect. -Oh, wow, this is nice. | 0:06:55 | 0:06:59 | |
Fraja was already feeling at home. | 0:07:00 | 0:07:03 | |
I think Australia is a wonderful place cos it's getting warmer. | 0:07:03 | 0:07:08 | |
After years of longing, | 0:07:09 | 0:07:10 | |
it had been exactly the start Michelle had hoped for. | 0:07:10 | 0:07:14 | |
Do you know, I actually can see myself | 0:07:14 | 0:07:15 | |
living in Australia in a property like this. | 0:07:15 | 0:07:18 | |
It's beautiful. | 0:07:18 | 0:07:20 | |
But both she and Garry were well aware of what was | 0:07:20 | 0:07:22 | |
riding on the week ahead. | 0:07:22 | 0:07:24 | |
I am nervous, because I think I have set myself high targets | 0:07:24 | 0:07:28 | |
on what I'm expecting to see and what I want to see. | 0:07:28 | 0:07:31 | |
This week in Australia is absolutely massive for all of us, | 0:07:31 | 0:07:34 | |
assuming and hoping that Fraja, you know, | 0:07:34 | 0:07:37 | |
remains well and nothing ever changes on that. | 0:07:37 | 0:07:39 | |
We do, at some point, need to draw the line and try and move on. | 0:07:39 | 0:07:42 | |
I want this to be a fresh start for my family. | 0:07:42 | 0:07:45 | |
We need to draw a line at some point in our lives | 0:07:45 | 0:07:48 | |
and tell cancer it's not going to rule us. | 0:07:48 | 0:07:50 | |
Back in the UK the Simpsons were living in army accommodation. | 0:07:59 | 0:08:02 | |
A house down under would be their first property purchase. | 0:08:02 | 0:08:06 | |
They'd set themselves a budget of £300,000 and knew just what | 0:08:06 | 0:08:10 | |
they wanted from an Australian home. | 0:08:10 | 0:08:13 | |
I love space, I love windows, I love glass, | 0:08:13 | 0:08:17 | |
so very modern for me, I'd say. | 0:08:17 | 0:08:19 | |
I love large, family living areas. | 0:08:19 | 0:08:23 | |
You have an idea in your head what you want. You always do have. | 0:08:23 | 0:08:26 | |
In fact, if you're willing to adapt and change it a little bit, | 0:08:26 | 0:08:29 | |
that's OK. If I have to adapt and change it completely, | 0:08:29 | 0:08:32 | |
I may not be so sure. | 0:08:32 | 0:08:33 | |
We showed the Simpsons three houses in Melbourne, two | 0:08:40 | 0:08:43 | |
based on what they could afford, and one which could be their dream home. | 0:08:43 | 0:08:47 | |
The search began in the suburb of Epping, | 0:08:47 | 0:08:49 | |
40 miles north-east of Melbourne city centre. | 0:08:49 | 0:08:52 | |
With a good range of schools, shops and parks, | 0:08:53 | 0:08:56 | |
it should have been perfect for family living. | 0:08:56 | 0:08:59 | |
Did this spacious four-bedroom home get the day off to | 0:08:59 | 0:09:02 | |
a good start? | 0:09:02 | 0:09:03 | |
-Wow. Yeah. -This is nice. -This is absolutely beautiful, yeah. | 0:09:06 | 0:09:09 | |
-It's very spacious, very, very light. -And very posh. | 0:09:09 | 0:09:13 | |
Another thumbs up from Fraja. | 0:09:13 | 0:09:15 | |
This is lovely, isn't it? It's nice and big. | 0:09:15 | 0:09:17 | |
Walk-in wardrobe. | 0:09:17 | 0:09:19 | |
This is a really big bathroom. | 0:09:21 | 0:09:23 | |
This is exactly what I think | 0:09:23 | 0:09:24 | |
we envisioned when we were back at home. | 0:09:24 | 0:09:26 | |
There was plenty of room in the kitchen too. | 0:09:26 | 0:09:29 | |
Garry, look at the size of this. This is huge. | 0:09:29 | 0:09:33 | |
-Oh, this is. -Wow. | 0:09:33 | 0:09:35 | |
And the outside area lived up to all expectations. | 0:09:35 | 0:09:38 | |
I'm actually lost for words, the fact that | 0:09:38 | 0:09:40 | |
it has managed to tick everything that we've asked for. | 0:09:40 | 0:09:43 | |
-It has. Absolutely fantastic. -And on the very first property. -Yeah. | 0:09:43 | 0:09:46 | |
Look at the view. You can see Melbourne city. | 0:09:46 | 0:09:50 | |
Isn't that beautiful? | 0:09:50 | 0:09:52 | |
This house had wowed the Simpsons. | 0:09:52 | 0:09:55 | |
But was it on the right side of their £300,000 budget? | 0:09:55 | 0:09:58 | |
Are you ready? | 0:10:00 | 0:10:02 | |
That was £3,000 under budget. | 0:10:05 | 0:10:07 | |
-Wow. -I didn't expect that. | 0:10:07 | 0:10:10 | |
-No. -That's well within our budget. | 0:10:10 | 0:10:12 | |
Ticked all the boxes. About hit the nail on the head with the price. | 0:10:13 | 0:10:18 | |
Erm, fantastic. | 0:10:18 | 0:10:20 | |
Their day was off to a great start. | 0:10:23 | 0:10:26 | |
Next stop was Eltham, | 0:10:26 | 0:10:27 | |
a suburb with a country feel just 12 miles from the city centre. | 0:10:27 | 0:10:31 | |
This four-bedroom house had a large garden | 0:10:32 | 0:10:35 | |
perfect for a spot of socialising, but did the inside impress? | 0:10:35 | 0:10:39 | |
Oh, this is a nice-sized bedroom, Garry. Big windows. I like this. | 0:10:40 | 0:10:45 | |
First impressions were positive, | 0:10:45 | 0:10:47 | |
but it wasn't long before things took a turn for the worse. | 0:10:47 | 0:10:51 | |
I have to say, for me, | 0:10:51 | 0:10:52 | |
I'm not feeling that family feeling in this house for me. | 0:10:52 | 0:10:57 | |
Luckily, the kitchen fared better. | 0:10:57 | 0:11:00 | |
-This is... -This is nice. -..a change, isn't it? | 0:11:00 | 0:11:02 | |
Oh, I... That's pretty, isn't it? | 0:11:02 | 0:11:04 | |
Definitely see potential in here, without a doubt. | 0:11:04 | 0:11:07 | |
But it wasn't enough to convince Michelle. | 0:11:07 | 0:11:09 | |
There's something missing. | 0:11:09 | 0:11:11 | |
I'm not feeling that I could, | 0:11:11 | 0:11:13 | |
this could be somewhere of my choice that I would live. | 0:11:13 | 0:11:15 | |
Outdoors, however, lifted everyone's spirits. | 0:11:16 | 0:11:19 | |
This is pretty, this is nice. | 0:11:21 | 0:11:23 | |
-This is lovely. -I do like this. | 0:11:23 | 0:11:25 | |
You can hear a lot more birds | 0:11:26 | 0:11:28 | |
than what you could in the other house. | 0:11:28 | 0:11:30 | |
But it wasn't just birdsong Erinn was hearing. | 0:11:30 | 0:11:33 | |
The only thing that I'm not too sure is probably | 0:11:33 | 0:11:37 | |
the sound of the roads, the cars. | 0:11:37 | 0:11:39 | |
Michelle and Erinn couldn't imagine this house as a home. | 0:11:39 | 0:11:43 | |
But with the family's £300,000 budget, | 0:11:43 | 0:11:46 | |
could they have afforded it, anyway? | 0:11:46 | 0:11:48 | |
Three, two, one. | 0:11:48 | 0:11:51 | |
That was £22,000 over budget. | 0:11:51 | 0:11:54 | |
Wow. | 0:11:54 | 0:11:56 | |
That's a lot. I'm genuinely quite surprised with that. | 0:11:56 | 0:11:59 | |
-I'm, I'm very surprised... -Yeah. -..purely because of the location... | 0:11:59 | 0:12:04 | |
-I think the noise. -..the noise. | 0:12:04 | 0:12:06 | |
Yeah, not for us. | 0:12:06 | 0:12:08 | |
Next up was what we thought could have been the family's dream home. | 0:12:09 | 0:12:13 | |
It was situated in Diamond Creek, | 0:12:13 | 0:12:16 | |
an up-and-coming affordable suburb, popular with families. | 0:12:16 | 0:12:20 | |
Would this spacious, modern five-bedroom house | 0:12:21 | 0:12:24 | |
be the perfect fit for the Simpsons? | 0:12:24 | 0:12:27 | |
Oh, wow. | 0:12:27 | 0:12:29 | |
-This has the wow factor. -This is gorgeous, isn't it? | 0:12:29 | 0:12:31 | |
-I could live here. -It's a dream house, definitely. | 0:12:31 | 0:12:35 | |
The kitchen had a perfect panorama. | 0:12:35 | 0:12:38 | |
Look at the view! Look at that. | 0:12:38 | 0:12:40 | |
This is absolutely stunning. | 0:12:40 | 0:12:42 | |
This is absolutely stunning. | 0:12:42 | 0:12:44 | |
The house was everything Michelle had dreamed of. | 0:12:44 | 0:12:47 | |
If this house belonged to me, I would be smiling all day. | 0:12:47 | 0:12:51 | |
-Yeah. -It's just, it's beautiful. | 0:12:51 | 0:12:54 | |
It had an impressive spot for entertaining friends. | 0:12:54 | 0:12:58 | |
-Wow, it's absolutely gorgeous. -You feel like you're in the countryside. | 0:12:58 | 0:13:01 | |
-Yeah. -Completely in the countryside | 0:13:01 | 0:13:03 | |
with just...open air and space. | 0:13:03 | 0:13:06 | |
-Downstairs wasn't short on space either. -A-ha! -Oh, wow. | 0:13:09 | 0:13:12 | |
-This could be a huge games room. -Yeah. | 0:13:12 | 0:13:16 | |
Oh, wow. | 0:13:16 | 0:13:18 | |
And it even had a home from home for Garry's mum and dad. | 0:13:18 | 0:13:22 | |
-This would be ideal for them. -Definitely. -Absolutely. | 0:13:22 | 0:13:25 | |
While outside was the icing on the cake. | 0:13:26 | 0:13:29 | |
Absolutely awesome. | 0:13:29 | 0:13:32 | |
This is a beautiful family home. | 0:13:34 | 0:13:36 | |
And I could hear | 0:13:36 | 0:13:38 | |
laughter already in this house. | 0:13:38 | 0:13:40 | |
But was it somewhere the family could afford to call home? | 0:13:40 | 0:13:44 | |
The last house. Are you ready to see what the price is? | 0:13:44 | 0:13:47 | |
-Wow. -Wow. -That's really good, that is. | 0:13:50 | 0:13:53 | |
It was £91,000 over budget, | 0:13:53 | 0:13:55 | |
but not necessarily out of reach. | 0:13:55 | 0:13:58 | |
The budget didn't include an annexe for my parents. | 0:13:58 | 0:14:03 | |
This includes that. | 0:14:03 | 0:14:04 | |
This is what would make me happy. | 0:14:04 | 0:14:07 | |
-Yes, I know. -Yeah. It would be perfect. | 0:14:07 | 0:14:10 | |
It had been a day of mixed reactions on the property front. | 0:14:10 | 0:14:14 | |
House number one got | 0:14:14 | 0:14:15 | |
the day off to a great start, | 0:14:15 | 0:14:17 | |
at a price well within budget. | 0:14:17 | 0:14:19 | |
Property number two was | 0:14:19 | 0:14:20 | |
slightly on the small side, | 0:14:20 | 0:14:22 | |
and the noisy traffic didn't help. | 0:14:22 | 0:14:25 | |
But the final house was | 0:14:25 | 0:14:26 | |
the Simpson's dream home. | 0:14:26 | 0:14:27 | |
And although it had a | 0:14:27 | 0:14:28 | |
price to match, | 0:14:28 | 0:14:29 | |
it could have been worth | 0:14:29 | 0:14:31 | |
stretching the budget for. | 0:14:31 | 0:14:32 | |
So, did the family choose properties at home or away? | 0:14:32 | 0:14:36 | |
Based on the three houses that we've seen today, | 0:14:36 | 0:14:38 | |
we've decided to vote for... | 0:14:38 | 0:14:40 | |
-Australia! -Australia! -UK! | 0:14:49 | 0:14:52 | |
Why did you vote UK? | 0:14:52 | 0:14:54 | |
Just on the price of the houses. | 0:14:54 | 0:14:56 | |
You know, | 0:14:56 | 0:14:57 | |
is that a dream house we want or do | 0:14:57 | 0:14:59 | |
we want a better work/life balance? | 0:14:59 | 0:15:01 | |
With Garry's vote for the UK, | 0:15:06 | 0:15:08 | |
the family's future down under was looking uncertain. | 0:15:08 | 0:15:11 | |
But, if the couple could get the right jobs, the home | 0:15:11 | 0:15:14 | |
and lifestyle they'd been dreaming of could still have been achievable. | 0:15:14 | 0:15:18 | |
Michelle was the main visa applicant. | 0:15:20 | 0:15:22 | |
Back in the UK, she was a pharmacy technician, | 0:15:22 | 0:15:25 | |
a job she was passionate about. | 0:15:25 | 0:15:27 | |
I really would need to have a very similar role in Australia, | 0:15:27 | 0:15:32 | |
because for me, it's all about patients, and I love it. | 0:15:32 | 0:15:35 | |
If the job does not fit for me, | 0:15:35 | 0:15:37 | |
I think it possibly could be a make-or-break decision. | 0:15:37 | 0:15:41 | |
To find out if she could get a similar job in Melbourne, | 0:15:41 | 0:15:44 | |
we arranged for Michelle to spend time at a local hospital. | 0:15:44 | 0:15:48 | |
Fellow pharmacy technician Sarah Gallier showed her around. | 0:15:48 | 0:15:51 | |
Michelle was keen to know | 0:15:51 | 0:15:53 | |
if she could still have close contact with people in her care. | 0:15:53 | 0:15:57 | |
Sarah, do you find that you get quite attached to your patients, | 0:15:57 | 0:16:00 | |
in regularly, the ones that you see regularly, | 0:16:00 | 0:16:03 | |
or do you not really get to know your patients very well? | 0:16:03 | 0:16:05 | |
I really don't get to know my patients very well at all. | 0:16:05 | 0:16:07 | |
No, definitely not. | 0:16:07 | 0:16:09 | |
That wasn't what Michelle had been hoping to hear. | 0:16:09 | 0:16:13 | |
Meanwhile, across town, Garry was off | 0:16:13 | 0:16:16 | |
to find out about his job prospects. | 0:16:16 | 0:16:18 | |
Back in the UK, he was a communications expert in the RAF, | 0:16:21 | 0:16:25 | |
a career he worried about leaving. | 0:16:25 | 0:16:27 | |
When you serve in the military, you know, you have your house, | 0:16:27 | 0:16:30 | |
your education, the education for the kids, | 0:16:30 | 0:16:33 | |
and of course I'd be giving all of that up. | 0:16:33 | 0:16:36 | |
To find out if his military skills would transfer to a civilian | 0:16:36 | 0:16:39 | |
marketplace down under, Garry met with Robert Fortescue, | 0:16:39 | 0:16:42 | |
general manager of a specialist IT company. | 0:16:42 | 0:16:45 | |
You've been working in the military for 25 years, | 0:16:45 | 0:16:48 | |
you're committed, so it's not like you've job-hopped. | 0:16:48 | 0:16:51 | |
Erm, and now, again, you know, that's a major concern for a lot of | 0:16:51 | 0:16:55 | |
organisations nowadays. | 0:16:55 | 0:16:56 | |
-And I would see that as an advantage. -Excellent. | 0:16:56 | 0:16:59 | |
It was sounding positive for Garry. | 0:16:59 | 0:17:02 | |
Back at Alfred Hospital, Michelle met with | 0:17:02 | 0:17:05 | |
Diane Walters, Deputy Director of Pharmacy, to find out | 0:17:05 | 0:17:08 | |
if work existed for her, and how much she could earn. | 0:17:08 | 0:17:11 | |
We would certainly be considering you for, easily, | 0:17:13 | 0:17:16 | |
for a grade two position. | 0:17:16 | 0:17:17 | |
What sort of salary are we looking at for myself? | 0:17:17 | 0:17:21 | |
Around 48,000 a year. | 0:17:21 | 0:17:23 | |
Once you move into a grade three technician, you're then | 0:17:23 | 0:17:27 | |
looking at somewhere between 50,000 and 54,000. | 0:17:27 | 0:17:30 | |
That is a lot higher than what I expected. | 0:17:30 | 0:17:33 | |
In fact, it was over a third more than Michelle earned at home. | 0:17:33 | 0:17:37 | |
She also took the opportunity to ask about the care Fraja could | 0:17:37 | 0:17:40 | |
receive in Australia, if she needed it. | 0:17:40 | 0:17:43 | |
The health care system here is world-class, | 0:17:43 | 0:17:45 | |
and certainly the specialist centres would offer the very new | 0:17:45 | 0:17:50 | |
and the very pioneering treatments relatively easily. | 0:17:50 | 0:17:53 | |
Thank you very much for today. | 0:17:53 | 0:17:55 | |
You've given me so much to think about. Thank you. | 0:17:55 | 0:17:58 | |
Knowing Fraja would get the care she needed | 0:17:59 | 0:18:01 | |
if they made the move down under was a huge relief for Michelle. | 0:18:01 | 0:18:05 | |
But having to forego close contact with patients was disappointing. | 0:18:05 | 0:18:09 | |
Were Garry's work prospects more encouraging? | 0:18:11 | 0:18:14 | |
Do you see any potential opportunities | 0:18:14 | 0:18:17 | |
for myself in Australia? | 0:18:17 | 0:18:18 | |
Where the market's going, you know, it's on a good trajectory so, | 0:18:18 | 0:18:23 | |
so by the time you've actually made the commitment, | 0:18:23 | 0:18:26 | |
and you're moving to Australia, | 0:18:26 | 0:18:28 | |
then there should be, should be opportunities available for you. | 0:18:28 | 0:18:31 | |
And what about the all-important question of money? | 0:18:31 | 0:18:35 | |
Salary-wise, somebody of your skills, say, | 0:18:35 | 0:18:38 | |
you're probably looking around about 100, 120K a month. | 0:18:38 | 0:18:41 | |
That was £66,000 a year way beyond what Garry had been expecting. | 0:18:41 | 0:18:47 | |
That's fantastic, Rob. Thank you. | 0:18:47 | 0:18:48 | |
No, I appreciate you coming in. | 0:18:48 | 0:18:50 | |
-Thank you. -Thanks, Garry. | 0:18:50 | 0:18:51 | |
The couple had discovered they could be much | 0:18:52 | 0:18:55 | |
better off working in Australia. | 0:18:55 | 0:18:57 | |
But the day had been about much more than just money. | 0:18:57 | 0:19:01 | |
Knowing that Fraja is, can be looked after, in safe hands, | 0:19:01 | 0:19:07 | |
I mean, that just, for us, that is the biggest thing of all. | 0:19:07 | 0:19:10 | |
It is. It's above everything. | 0:19:10 | 0:19:12 | |
The dreams that we want have got more chance of being reality now, | 0:19:12 | 0:19:15 | |
more than ever, isn't it? | 0:19:15 | 0:19:17 | |
-Yeah. -Which is great. | 0:19:17 | 0:19:19 | |
-Now you can kiss me. -All right, thank you. | 0:19:20 | 0:19:23 | |
SHE CHUCKLES | 0:19:23 | 0:19:24 | |
-Excellent. Really pleased. -Yeah. | 0:19:25 | 0:19:27 | |
It had been an encouraging day for the couple. | 0:19:27 | 0:19:31 | |
So did they choose work in Australia or the UK? | 0:19:31 | 0:19:34 | |
-Australia. -UK. | 0:19:38 | 0:19:40 | |
Never. | 0:19:43 | 0:19:44 | |
Wow. | 0:19:46 | 0:19:47 | |
-Honest? -Yeah. | 0:19:48 | 0:19:50 | |
I'm shocked with that. | 0:19:50 | 0:19:52 | |
Even with the increased wages? | 0:19:52 | 0:19:54 | |
I like what I do. I like what I've achieved so far. | 0:19:54 | 0:19:57 | |
I enjoy my job well as I do and I think that | 0:19:57 | 0:20:00 | |
I'm not going to get that opportunity straightaway here. | 0:20:00 | 0:20:03 | |
It's going to take me some time to build that back up. | 0:20:03 | 0:20:06 | |
Yeah, fair enough. | 0:20:06 | 0:20:07 | |
-See what tomorrow brings. -OK. | 0:20:08 | 0:20:10 | |
With Michelle's vote for the UK, | 0:20:15 | 0:20:17 | |
where the Simpsons' future lay was still far from certain. | 0:20:17 | 0:20:21 | |
A move for the family was all about a new start after traumatic times, | 0:20:21 | 0:20:25 | |
so would a day experiencing Australia's lifestyle | 0:20:25 | 0:20:28 | |
prove the perfect tonic? | 0:20:28 | 0:20:30 | |
What's funny? | 0:20:30 | 0:20:31 | |
The way you look! | 0:20:31 | 0:20:33 | |
The family spent the day horse riding - | 0:20:33 | 0:20:35 | |
an activity they all enjoyed in the UK. | 0:20:35 | 0:20:38 | |
It was one of Fraja's favourite hobbies. | 0:20:44 | 0:20:47 | |
It's been lovely seeing Fraja on a horse today | 0:20:47 | 0:20:50 | |
because she's well, I'm seeing her actually enjoy herself | 0:20:50 | 0:20:52 | |
and she's healthy. | 0:20:52 | 0:20:53 | |
The last time she was in the saddle, | 0:20:56 | 0:20:58 | |
Fraja had been undergoing treatment and Michelle was amazed | 0:20:58 | 0:21:01 | |
at just how far her daughter had come | 0:21:01 | 0:21:03 | |
in the space of just one year. | 0:21:03 | 0:21:04 | |
She wasn't speaking then | 0:21:06 | 0:21:07 | |
and she obviously still had the nose tube and everything in. | 0:21:07 | 0:21:09 | |
And she had no hair then as well. | 0:21:09 | 0:21:11 | |
But the smile on her face, | 0:21:11 | 0:21:12 | |
she just sat there the whole time with a huge grin, a smile... | 0:21:12 | 0:21:17 | |
so I knew this activity today was going to be the one for her. | 0:21:17 | 0:21:21 | |
I really did, you know. | 0:21:21 | 0:21:22 | |
So, yeah, this beats the beach, this beats anything, any day. | 0:21:22 | 0:21:25 | |
This is just absolutely amazing. | 0:21:25 | 0:21:28 | |
And it wasn't just Fraja who'd seen benefits from the day. | 0:21:28 | 0:21:32 | |
It's been a really long time since I've been on a horse, and... | 0:21:32 | 0:21:35 | |
if we did move to Australia, | 0:21:35 | 0:21:37 | |
I would want to do this on a regular basis. | 0:21:37 | 0:21:39 | |
All right, guys. Do you want to come and get something to eat? | 0:21:40 | 0:21:43 | |
The day had brought home for everyone how much a move | 0:21:43 | 0:21:45 | |
could transform family life. | 0:21:45 | 0:21:47 | |
When you've been through an experience | 0:21:47 | 0:21:49 | |
like Fraja has or we all have as a family, | 0:21:49 | 0:21:51 | |
you tend to look at things completely different. | 0:21:51 | 0:21:54 | |
You know, all of us have come here with our own apprehensions, | 0:21:54 | 0:21:56 | |
our own worries. | 0:21:56 | 0:21:58 | |
It's definitely a massive risk | 0:21:58 | 0:21:59 | |
and it's definitely a massive gamble. | 0:21:59 | 0:22:01 | |
We are going to sacrifice an awful lot to come out here. | 0:22:01 | 0:22:05 | |
I'm hoping it's going to be worth it. | 0:22:05 | 0:22:08 | |
It's one way of closing a door on the past | 0:22:08 | 0:22:12 | |
and stepping forward into the future. | 0:22:12 | 0:22:14 | |
I feel very positive towards Australia, | 0:22:14 | 0:22:17 | |
but I still have a lot to think about. | 0:22:17 | 0:22:20 | |
Michelle and Garry still had concerns | 0:22:20 | 0:22:22 | |
about whether they could make the move down under a reality. | 0:22:22 | 0:22:25 | |
But based on lifestyle, which country did the family choose? | 0:22:25 | 0:22:29 | |
-ALL EXCEPT HOWIE: -Australia! | 0:22:32 | 0:22:34 | |
It was almost a clean sweep. | 0:22:34 | 0:22:37 | |
I liked when we rided the horses and when we had a picnic | 0:22:37 | 0:22:43 | |
and when we feeded the horses. | 0:22:43 | 0:22:47 | |
-So, you like Australia, do you? -Yeah. | 0:22:47 | 0:22:49 | |
The Simpsons' day out had shown them | 0:22:59 | 0:23:01 | |
what a new life down under could offer, | 0:23:01 | 0:23:04 | |
but the finances would have to be right | 0:23:04 | 0:23:06 | |
if they were to afford it. | 0:23:06 | 0:23:08 | |
-OK, are you ready? -Yeah. | 0:23:08 | 0:23:10 | |
To help Garry and Michelle do the sums, | 0:23:10 | 0:23:12 | |
we prepared a comparison of costs between the UK and Australia. | 0:23:12 | 0:23:16 | |
They started with the weekly shopping bill. | 0:23:16 | 0:23:19 | |
-Wow. What's that for? -Dishwasher tablets. | 0:23:19 | 0:23:21 | |
-What's the difference? -24.26. | 0:23:23 | 0:23:25 | |
£24.26. That's on a weekly shop. | 0:23:25 | 0:23:28 | |
Yeah. That is a huge difference. | 0:23:28 | 0:23:31 | |
£100 more on food each month meant the figures | 0:23:31 | 0:23:34 | |
weren't off to the best of starts. | 0:23:34 | 0:23:36 | |
How did the bigger outgoings shape up? | 0:23:36 | 0:23:39 | |
Based on property number one, | 0:23:39 | 0:23:41 | |
our mortgage would be £1,006.31 per month. | 0:23:41 | 0:23:45 | |
Wow. | 0:23:45 | 0:23:46 | |
Despite having no mortgage in the UK, | 0:23:46 | 0:23:49 | |
the family had found it hard to balance the books. | 0:23:49 | 0:23:52 | |
UK income, based on our outgoings, | 0:23:52 | 0:23:55 | |
actually leaves us with an average deficit of £248.67 a month. | 0:23:55 | 0:24:02 | |
We're spending over what we have coming in. | 0:24:03 | 0:24:06 | |
Mm. | 0:24:06 | 0:24:08 | |
That's quite a bit. | 0:24:08 | 0:24:10 | |
In Australia, the family's outgoings would be even higher | 0:24:10 | 0:24:13 | |
as they'd be paying a mortgage for the first time. | 0:24:13 | 0:24:16 | |
But the couple's potential earnings down under | 0:24:16 | 0:24:19 | |
combined with Garry's military pension | 0:24:19 | 0:24:21 | |
could add up to £160,000 a year, which was a considerable sum. | 0:24:21 | 0:24:27 | |
So, where did that leave them overall? | 0:24:27 | 0:24:29 | |
So, we'd be better off by £2,782.49. | 0:24:29 | 0:24:35 | |
-A month. -A month. | 0:24:35 | 0:24:37 | |
That's £33,390. | 0:24:37 | 0:24:40 | |
-Better off. -Better off in one year. | 0:24:40 | 0:24:44 | |
-Wow. -I am so stunned. | 0:24:44 | 0:24:46 | |
-That's a huge amount. -Pack your suitcases. | 0:24:46 | 0:24:49 | |
I'm so happy. | 0:24:49 | 0:24:51 | |
I'm so happy and I'm very excited. | 0:24:51 | 0:24:53 | |
It was time to put the figures to the vote. | 0:24:55 | 0:24:57 | |
-BOTH: -Australia. | 0:25:00 | 0:25:01 | |
I have been absolutely surprised and shocked at those figures. | 0:25:02 | 0:25:06 | |
I think we've got some exciting times ahead. | 0:25:06 | 0:25:08 | |
It looked like Garry and Michelle's dream of a fresh start in Australia | 0:25:15 | 0:25:18 | |
was finally within grasp, | 0:25:18 | 0:25:20 | |
but starting again on the other side of the world | 0:25:20 | 0:25:22 | |
would mean breaking close bonds in the UK. | 0:25:22 | 0:25:25 | |
The family decided to watch messages from home together. | 0:25:26 | 0:25:30 | |
Would the thought of leaving those close to them in the UK | 0:25:30 | 0:25:33 | |
prove too much to bear? | 0:25:33 | 0:25:34 | |
Best family you could ever have. | 0:25:36 | 0:25:37 | |
I'm not just saying it, but they really, really are. | 0:25:37 | 0:25:42 | |
Michelle is fun-loving. She's very bubbly. | 0:25:42 | 0:25:44 | |
She's the life and soul of the party with a naughty streak to her. | 0:25:44 | 0:25:47 | |
-Definitely. -THEY LAUGH | 0:25:47 | 0:25:49 | |
Howie is the loving one. He's the one that does the worrying. | 0:25:49 | 0:25:53 | |
-He's very sensitive. -Yeah. | 0:25:53 | 0:25:55 | |
But Erinn is the same. She really is. | 0:25:55 | 0:25:58 | |
She's very thoughtful. | 0:25:58 | 0:25:59 | |
-Giggly. -Giggly. Oh, she is. | 0:25:59 | 0:26:01 | |
-She's a little troublemaker. -I think Erinn causes her trouble. | 0:26:01 | 0:26:04 | |
My best friend is Fraja. | 0:26:04 | 0:26:06 | |
We play hide-and-seek. | 0:26:06 | 0:26:09 | |
Sometimes Fraja always finds me. | 0:26:09 | 0:26:12 | |
She's just a marvellous, marvellous child. | 0:26:13 | 0:26:17 | |
Really, really brave. Yeah. We're so proud of her. | 0:26:18 | 0:26:21 | |
We really are. | 0:26:21 | 0:26:23 | |
I think it will be very hard to leave Ann and Terry, | 0:26:23 | 0:26:25 | |
especially with what Ann and Terry are going through with their cancer. | 0:26:25 | 0:26:30 | |
We want them to go knowing that it's what we want for them. | 0:26:30 | 0:26:35 | |
Just remember, we love yous and we'll miss yous no matter what. | 0:26:36 | 0:26:40 | |
We know you'll do the right thing. | 0:26:40 | 0:26:41 | |
We'll always be here for you. You know that. | 0:26:41 | 0:26:44 | |
And just we'll see you when you get home. | 0:26:47 | 0:26:50 | |
It's horrible watching them, like, isn't it? | 0:27:00 | 0:27:03 | |
It is, because fact is right now your mum and dad, they need us. | 0:27:03 | 0:27:06 | |
Can we leave your mum and dad at such a time in their lives | 0:27:06 | 0:27:10 | |
when they actually need us? | 0:27:10 | 0:27:11 | |
As much as they've helped us, | 0:27:11 | 0:27:13 | |
they need, yeah, looking after themselves, don't they? | 0:27:13 | 0:27:18 | |
What you thinking, Fraja? | 0:27:18 | 0:27:19 | |
How do you feel? | 0:27:19 | 0:27:20 | |
How do you feel after seeing your friends on TV? | 0:27:23 | 0:27:26 | |
A little bit sad. | 0:27:26 | 0:27:27 | |
Why do you feel sad? | 0:27:27 | 0:27:29 | |
Cos I might not see them again. | 0:27:29 | 0:27:32 | |
I think we've got lots to think about, haven't we? | 0:27:36 | 0:27:39 | |
Whether this is going to be the right decision for us. | 0:27:40 | 0:27:42 | |
Heartfelt messages from the UK had hit hard. | 0:27:49 | 0:27:52 | |
Now the family faced their final decision. | 0:27:52 | 0:27:55 | |
Their week in Australia had reassured Michelle | 0:27:55 | 0:27:58 | |
the country could help put the past behind them. | 0:27:58 | 0:28:01 | |
This 12 months has been so hard on the family, | 0:28:01 | 0:28:02 | |
so the emotions the whole family were having to feel | 0:28:02 | 0:28:05 | |
while Fraja was going through treatment, | 0:28:05 | 0:28:08 | |
you could never describe it. | 0:28:08 | 0:28:10 | |
I was frightened to go to sleep every single night... | 0:28:10 | 0:28:13 | |
..not knowing if she was going to be there the next morning. | 0:28:15 | 0:28:17 | |
We needed this. | 0:28:19 | 0:28:20 | |
We needed to know that, "You know what? | 0:28:20 | 0:28:22 | |
"We can rebuild ourselves." | 0:28:22 | 0:28:25 | |
This week has meant so much to us to finally see Fraja so healthy, | 0:28:25 | 0:28:30 | |
enjoy life and feel that we can turn the corner, | 0:28:30 | 0:28:32 | |
move forward and get on with our lives. | 0:28:32 | 0:28:35 | |
But the week had also been a reminder | 0:28:35 | 0:28:37 | |
of what they stood to lose. | 0:28:37 | 0:28:39 | |
Friends. I don't want to leave them behind. | 0:28:39 | 0:28:44 | |
And Garry was still struggling with the thought of leaving his parents. | 0:28:44 | 0:28:49 | |
You know, you feel an element of guilt to be honest with you | 0:28:49 | 0:28:51 | |
because they have been there, you know, | 0:28:51 | 0:28:53 | |
through a really difficult time. | 0:28:53 | 0:28:54 | |
It's certainly going to be hard no matter what. | 0:28:54 | 0:28:56 | |
So, with their final turn of the cards, | 0:28:58 | 0:29:00 | |
where did the Simpsons decide their future lay? | 0:29:00 | 0:29:03 | |
Based on our week this week, we've decided to vote for... | 0:29:04 | 0:29:07 | |
-FRAJA: -UK! -HOWIE: -Both! -OTHERS: -Australia! | 0:29:16 | 0:29:18 | |
Fraja, why did you choose the UK? | 0:29:19 | 0:29:21 | |
Because of my friends. | 0:29:21 | 0:29:22 | |
Cos of your friends. Aw! | 0:29:22 | 0:29:25 | |
That's fair enough. | 0:29:25 | 0:29:26 | |
I probably want to move to Australia. | 0:29:26 | 0:29:29 | |
The only thing that's holding me back is family. | 0:29:29 | 0:29:31 | |
Pleased we both voted the same way. Makes the decision a lot easier. | 0:29:31 | 0:29:34 | |
I think we can actually start living our life | 0:29:34 | 0:29:38 | |
rather than living a dream. | 0:29:38 | 0:29:39 | |
-Yeah. -Let's go for it. | 0:29:39 | 0:29:41 | |
HE LAUGHS | 0:29:43 | 0:29:45 | |
It had been an emotional week for the Simpsons, | 0:29:49 | 0:29:52 | |
but it appeared Garry and Michelle were convinced | 0:29:52 | 0:29:55 | |
Australia could give their family the fresh start they needed. | 0:29:55 | 0:29:59 | |
Five months since we last saw them, the Simpsons are living in... | 0:30:01 | 0:30:04 | |
Durham in the UK, but not for long. | 0:30:07 | 0:30:10 | |
-We are going in four days. -Yeah. | 0:30:12 | 0:30:15 | |
We'll be flying over to Melbourne | 0:30:15 | 0:30:16 | |
and it's going to be a whole new adventure. | 0:30:16 | 0:30:19 | |
Their week down under convinced Garry and Michelle | 0:30:20 | 0:30:23 | |
they should go ahead with the move. | 0:30:23 | 0:30:26 | |
It gave us the confidence to go, | 0:30:26 | 0:30:28 | |
"Yeah, it's 100% right for us," and that was it. | 0:30:28 | 0:30:30 | |
-We went for it. -Yeah. | 0:30:30 | 0:30:31 | |
Decision made, | 0:30:31 | 0:30:33 | |
the family haven't wasted any time preparing to emigrate. | 0:30:33 | 0:30:37 | |
The hard bit was waiting for the visa to be approved. | 0:30:37 | 0:30:40 | |
Once we heard back that they had been granted and approved, | 0:30:40 | 0:30:43 | |
that was it. | 0:30:43 | 0:30:44 | |
We could start planning from there. | 0:30:44 | 0:30:46 | |
But battling through the bureaucracy of a move | 0:30:46 | 0:30:48 | |
hasn't been easy. | 0:30:48 | 0:30:50 | |
Doing all the documentation, all the paperwork, you know, | 0:30:50 | 0:30:53 | |
removals, insurance - | 0:30:53 | 0:30:55 | |
yeah, it is a huge amount to organise. | 0:30:55 | 0:30:58 | |
And just two weeks ago, | 0:31:00 | 0:31:02 | |
it looked like history was about to repeat itself | 0:31:02 | 0:31:04 | |
when Fraja attended hospital for her final scan. | 0:31:04 | 0:31:07 | |
They thought they'd found something, didn't they? | 0:31:09 | 0:31:11 | |
So, literally everything was potentially thrown into jeopardy, | 0:31:11 | 0:31:14 | |
so that week was just an absolute nightmare. | 0:31:14 | 0:31:17 | |
It completely threw our lives upside down again, | 0:31:17 | 0:31:21 | |
and it was like, "Do we go? Do we not go? What do we do?" | 0:31:21 | 0:31:25 | |
Thankfully, it was a false alarm and Fraja was given the all-clear. | 0:31:27 | 0:31:31 | |
It left Garry and Michelle in no doubt | 0:31:34 | 0:31:36 | |
Australia was the place for the family to be. | 0:31:36 | 0:31:39 | |
Over there we know that there is treatment available. | 0:31:39 | 0:31:42 | |
In the UK, there is no more real treatment. | 0:31:42 | 0:31:44 | |
There's nothing more she can have, | 0:31:44 | 0:31:46 | |
so, yes, it's made us more determined, | 0:31:46 | 0:31:49 | |
if anything, to go. | 0:31:49 | 0:31:51 | |
Garry's already landed a job down under. | 0:31:52 | 0:31:55 | |
Put the feelers out to see what was available | 0:31:55 | 0:31:57 | |
and one opportunity came back very quickly. | 0:31:57 | 0:31:59 | |
And it offered us a great three-year contract, | 0:32:01 | 0:32:04 | |
so literally jumped at the opportunity. | 0:32:04 | 0:32:08 | |
Michelle, meanwhile, is planning to take some time off | 0:32:08 | 0:32:10 | |
to settle the family when they arrive, | 0:32:10 | 0:32:13 | |
but leaving her job in the UK was a wrench. | 0:32:13 | 0:32:15 | |
The hospital itself was amazing. It really was. | 0:32:15 | 0:32:18 | |
It's going to be hard pushed to find somewhere | 0:32:18 | 0:32:21 | |
that's going to match what I've just left. | 0:32:21 | 0:32:23 | |
All that remains is to say their goodbyes, | 0:32:23 | 0:32:26 | |
and for Garry, leaving his parents will be tough. | 0:32:26 | 0:32:29 | |
I think deep down they would love to come with us, | 0:32:29 | 0:32:31 | |
and maybe, you never know, one day might. | 0:32:31 | 0:32:33 | |
-It could happen, maybe happen. -I hope so. | 0:32:33 | 0:32:35 | |
But certainly the want is there from them as well, I think. | 0:32:35 | 0:32:38 | |
-Yeah. -I think once they come across to visit, then who knows? | 0:32:38 | 0:32:42 | |
But the family are itching to jet off for their new life. | 0:32:43 | 0:32:46 | |
We're ready for the move now. Definitely. | 0:32:46 | 0:32:49 | |
Enjoy life as a family. | 0:32:49 | 0:32:50 | |
I'm like a nervous schoolgirl. I can't wait to go. | 0:32:50 | 0:32:54 | |
Fast-forward eight months, it's May, 2015, | 0:32:59 | 0:33:02 | |
and the Simpsons are living in... | 0:33:02 | 0:33:05 | |
Melbourne, Australia. | 0:33:05 | 0:33:07 | |
The family's dream has at last become reality. | 0:33:08 | 0:33:12 | |
It's the most amazing experience. I'm loving it. | 0:33:12 | 0:33:15 | |
I'm embracing this new life. | 0:33:15 | 0:33:17 | |
Starting again on the other side of the world | 0:33:17 | 0:33:20 | |
hasn't been without its challenges. | 0:33:20 | 0:33:22 | |
It was relentless when we arrived and it hasn't stopped. | 0:33:22 | 0:33:26 | |
We've been here several months now and we are still photocopying, | 0:33:26 | 0:33:30 | |
scanning, sending things off. | 0:33:30 | 0:33:32 | |
It really does take a lot of time. | 0:33:32 | 0:33:35 | |
And money. | 0:33:35 | 0:33:36 | |
Getting your driver's license, that was 500. | 0:33:36 | 0:33:39 | |
Everything seems to add up. Started the kids in school. Books. | 0:33:39 | 0:33:43 | |
You've got to buy books for the kids, so, I mean, | 0:33:43 | 0:33:45 | |
that's another 1,000 just for their school books each. | 0:33:45 | 0:33:48 | |
It is a massive outlay to start with. | 0:33:48 | 0:33:50 | |
But a stiff upper lip has seen them through the testing times. | 0:33:50 | 0:33:54 | |
You have to hit each change with a positive outlook | 0:33:54 | 0:33:58 | |
and just accept it for what it is. | 0:33:58 | 0:34:01 | |
Australia and the UK are two very different countries. | 0:34:01 | 0:34:04 | |
They're very similar but they're very, very different, | 0:34:04 | 0:34:07 | |
and you have to embrace the difference. | 0:34:07 | 0:34:09 | |
The family settled into a rental property in the suburb of Yallambie | 0:34:09 | 0:34:13 | |
when they first arrived with no immediate plans | 0:34:13 | 0:34:15 | |
to buy a property until fate intervened. | 0:34:15 | 0:34:18 | |
We just thought we'd start doing some initial looking. | 0:34:18 | 0:34:20 | |
-No intentions to buy. -Yeah, with not a great deal of intention. | 0:34:20 | 0:34:23 | |
-We just wanted to understand... -Yeah. | 0:34:23 | 0:34:25 | |
..how Australia sell and buy homes. | 0:34:25 | 0:34:28 | |
And then this property came along quite by chance, and yeah, | 0:34:28 | 0:34:31 | |
it ticked, I think, nine out of the ten boxes, pretty much, | 0:34:31 | 0:34:34 | |
so we thought, "Yeah, let's go for it," | 0:34:34 | 0:34:37 | |
and luckily, it paid off. | 0:34:37 | 0:34:38 | |
Home for the Simpsons is now a detached four-bedroom house | 0:34:39 | 0:34:42 | |
in a location the family were already familiar with. | 0:34:42 | 0:34:46 | |
We loved Diamond Creek when we first walked around here. | 0:34:46 | 0:34:49 | |
The area was where the Simpsons viewed their potential dream house | 0:34:49 | 0:34:52 | |
during their trial week. | 0:34:52 | 0:34:54 | |
It came out of the blue to find that after buying this property that | 0:34:54 | 0:34:57 | |
that house that we fell in love with is just behind this one, | 0:34:57 | 0:35:00 | |
so we know it's definitely the area we want to be in. | 0:35:00 | 0:35:03 | |
Relocating to Diamond Creek from Yallambie | 0:35:03 | 0:35:06 | |
meant another upheaval for the children. | 0:35:06 | 0:35:08 | |
Having to change schools twice in a matter of six months | 0:35:08 | 0:35:11 | |
has definitely put a lot of pressure on them, | 0:35:11 | 0:35:14 | |
and they really, on the whole, have coped remarkably well. | 0:35:14 | 0:35:18 | |
A place to call their own has helped everyone | 0:35:18 | 0:35:20 | |
settle into their new life down under. | 0:35:20 | 0:35:23 | |
Having a house gives us the feeling of permanence. | 0:35:23 | 0:35:27 | |
It makes us feel like we're creating a family home, | 0:35:27 | 0:35:31 | |
somewhere to live for a long, long time. | 0:35:31 | 0:35:33 | |
Having spent their entire married life | 0:35:37 | 0:35:39 | |
in army accommodation, | 0:35:39 | 0:35:40 | |
Garry and Michelle are delighted with their first ever venture | 0:35:40 | 0:35:43 | |
into the property market. | 0:35:43 | 0:35:45 | |
When I walked through the door, | 0:35:45 | 0:35:47 | |
it gave me a real warm feeling in my tummy, and yeah, | 0:35:47 | 0:35:51 | |
absolutely fell in love with it. | 0:35:51 | 0:35:52 | |
Spacious family living was top of the wish list | 0:35:52 | 0:35:55 | |
for a home down under, and this house has buckets of it. | 0:35:55 | 0:35:58 | |
I love the houses in Australia. | 0:35:58 | 0:36:00 | |
The open living, the way that it flows room from each room. | 0:36:00 | 0:36:05 | |
Going from one living area to three is quite a significant increase, | 0:36:05 | 0:36:10 | |
but it's great. | 0:36:10 | 0:36:11 | |
This is the lounge-dining-kitchen area. | 0:36:13 | 0:36:16 | |
It's a great big family space and we spend lots of time in here. | 0:36:16 | 0:36:19 | |
We're going to change the windows and the doors here at the back | 0:36:19 | 0:36:22 | |
cos we want it to be so that you can open it up | 0:36:22 | 0:36:24 | |
completely onto the decking. | 0:36:24 | 0:36:25 | |
It's one of the real big things that we wanted in Australia, | 0:36:25 | 0:36:28 | |
that outdoor living brought inside as well. | 0:36:28 | 0:36:32 | |
The couple love their new garden | 0:36:32 | 0:36:34 | |
and have already been entertaining some of the neighbours. | 0:36:34 | 0:36:37 | |
We had a kangaroo here the other evening | 0:36:37 | 0:36:39 | |
just sitting there staring at us. | 0:36:39 | 0:36:41 | |
This is what we come to Australia for. | 0:36:41 | 0:36:43 | |
The wildlife is absolutely beautiful. | 0:36:43 | 0:36:45 | |
The kids absolutely love it. | 0:36:45 | 0:36:46 | |
Usually on an evening, | 0:36:46 | 0:36:47 | |
we'll have 20 parrots in the garden all feeding, | 0:36:47 | 0:36:49 | |
and it's absolutely fantastic, isn't it? | 0:36:49 | 0:36:52 | |
The whole family agree it's the perfect setting | 0:36:52 | 0:36:55 | |
for their new life. | 0:36:55 | 0:36:56 | |
Got a great view of the garden. A fantastic view outside. | 0:36:57 | 0:37:02 | |
This is my room. I've got a nice view as well. | 0:37:02 | 0:37:04 | |
I love the view from our windows, | 0:37:04 | 0:37:07 | |
and I sit with the dog looking out the windows quite often, don't I? | 0:37:07 | 0:37:10 | |
You can sit in the bath | 0:37:10 | 0:37:12 | |
and you've got a great view out of the window. | 0:37:12 | 0:37:14 | |
It's fantastic, that. | 0:37:14 | 0:37:15 | |
Yeah. This is my room. I like it. | 0:37:15 | 0:37:18 | |
You can see outside that window, actually. | 0:37:18 | 0:37:20 | |
Out of my window, you normally see some kangaroos. | 0:37:20 | 0:37:24 | |
And also, if you're very, very cool, | 0:37:24 | 0:37:27 | |
you might see parrots. | 0:37:27 | 0:37:29 | |
Like, there's a parrot on my parrot thingy in the garden. | 0:37:29 | 0:37:34 | |
After an initial adjustment period, the children have settled well. | 0:37:39 | 0:37:43 | |
Aussie schooling has got the seal of approval | 0:37:43 | 0:37:45 | |
from Howie and Erinn. | 0:37:45 | 0:37:47 | |
I think the main difference between Australia and England in schools | 0:37:47 | 0:37:50 | |
is how relaxed they are. | 0:37:50 | 0:37:52 | |
You call the teachers by their first names | 0:37:52 | 0:37:55 | |
and they feel a lot more approachable. | 0:37:55 | 0:37:58 | |
My new school is awesome. | 0:37:58 | 0:37:59 | |
I've got loads of friends there. | 0:37:59 | 0:38:00 | |
I enjoy hanging around with them all and stuff. | 0:38:00 | 0:38:03 | |
And taking up Aussie rules football means Howie has found his feet | 0:38:03 | 0:38:06 | |
outside the classroom too. | 0:38:06 | 0:38:08 | |
He's the one I thought would struggle, but he hasn't. | 0:38:08 | 0:38:10 | |
He's made some great friends, and yeah, | 0:38:10 | 0:38:12 | |
he's really embracing Australia. | 0:38:12 | 0:38:14 | |
I think he's enjoying it. | 0:38:14 | 0:38:16 | |
Although she wasn't fully behind the move, | 0:38:16 | 0:38:18 | |
Fraja has been very grown-up about it all. | 0:38:18 | 0:38:21 | |
I didn't really want to go to Australia, | 0:38:21 | 0:38:24 | |
but then I found out life moves on. | 0:38:24 | 0:38:29 | |
I think Fraja has coped very well with the move, considering. | 0:38:29 | 0:38:33 | |
She has had her moments of ups and downs. | 0:38:33 | 0:38:36 | |
What I don't like about Australia is that there's snakes, | 0:38:36 | 0:38:40 | |
and I've heard in Sydney that a few people | 0:38:40 | 0:38:44 | |
have been getting killed by them. | 0:38:44 | 0:38:47 | |
But snakes aside, | 0:38:48 | 0:38:50 | |
even she's been bitten by the Aussie bug. | 0:38:50 | 0:38:53 | |
I like Australia because it's really nice and hot. | 0:38:53 | 0:38:56 | |
My new friends are, like, pretty good, | 0:38:56 | 0:39:00 | |
but I don't have as many as in England. | 0:39:00 | 0:39:05 | |
While everyone's missing loved ones at home, | 0:39:07 | 0:39:09 | |
the blow has already been softened by a visit from Garry's mum and dad. | 0:39:09 | 0:39:13 | |
They came for seven weeks, which was absolutely fantastic. | 0:39:14 | 0:39:18 | |
They really enjoyed Australia. | 0:39:18 | 0:39:20 | |
If the opportunity ever came up, maybe they'd move themselves. | 0:39:20 | 0:39:23 | |
And his parents gave the move their seal of approval. | 0:39:25 | 0:39:28 | |
I don't think there were two or three days that would go by | 0:39:28 | 0:39:31 | |
without a comment, "You've definitely made the right move." | 0:39:31 | 0:39:34 | |
If Fraja has her way, | 0:39:34 | 0:39:35 | |
Grandma and Grandpa will be back sooner than they expect. | 0:39:35 | 0:39:39 | |
-Grandma. -Yeah, that's the one. -When are you coming back? | 0:39:39 | 0:39:42 | |
-OVER LAPTOP: -We'll just have to wait and see. | 0:39:42 | 0:39:44 | |
Why do you have to wait and see? | 0:39:44 | 0:39:45 | |
It takes a long time to get there, doesn't it? | 0:39:45 | 0:39:48 | |
It only takes about three days. | 0:39:48 | 0:39:50 | |
-How long do you want Grandma to come for next time? -A year. | 0:39:50 | 0:39:52 | |
-A year. -That's a lovely thought, isn't it, sweetheart? | 0:39:52 | 0:39:57 | |
You never know, Fraja. | 0:39:57 | 0:39:58 | |
Garry started work shortly after the family landed down under, | 0:40:00 | 0:40:03 | |
and he's had no problems settling. | 0:40:03 | 0:40:05 | |
I'm currently teaching students information systems. | 0:40:05 | 0:40:09 | |
I thought the transition from leaving the air force | 0:40:09 | 0:40:11 | |
was going to be quite difficult, but thoroughly enjoying it. | 0:40:11 | 0:40:15 | |
I'm really enjoying working with a younger lot. It's great. | 0:40:15 | 0:40:20 | |
Though there has been an element of adjusting to his new workmates. | 0:40:20 | 0:40:24 | |
Completely different sense of humour to myself, but you know, | 0:40:24 | 0:40:29 | |
I fit in well with them. | 0:40:29 | 0:40:31 | |
Garry's new work schedule means he has more time with the family. | 0:40:31 | 0:40:34 | |
I'm usually in the house just after four o'clock, | 0:40:34 | 0:40:37 | |
and that really makes a massive difference. | 0:40:37 | 0:40:39 | |
I'm usually arriving not long after the kids | 0:40:39 | 0:40:41 | |
get in from school, | 0:40:41 | 0:40:42 | |
so that extra hour, | 0:40:42 | 0:40:43 | |
we're actually spending that really good quality time. | 0:40:43 | 0:40:46 | |
It just feels like work fits around our lifestyle. | 0:40:46 | 0:40:49 | |
We're having that family time that we never had. | 0:40:49 | 0:40:52 | |
And the Simpsons are making the most of the great Aussie outdoors. | 0:40:52 | 0:40:55 | |
We pretty much have everything in the car. | 0:40:57 | 0:40:58 | |
The chairs are in the car, there's a spare change of clothes, | 0:40:58 | 0:41:02 | |
the towels are in there and we just go off for a drive | 0:41:02 | 0:41:05 | |
and see where we end up. | 0:41:05 | 0:41:06 | |
Extra money in Garry's pay packet | 0:41:06 | 0:41:08 | |
has taken the pressure off Michelle finding a job. | 0:41:08 | 0:41:11 | |
At the moment, there's no urgent need for me to be working. | 0:41:11 | 0:41:14 | |
We're managing very well on Garry's wage alone. | 0:41:14 | 0:41:16 | |
While she's waiting for her UK qualifications to transfer, | 0:41:16 | 0:41:20 | |
Michelle's been pondering becoming a student. | 0:41:20 | 0:41:22 | |
There is some courses coming up at one of the universities | 0:41:23 | 0:41:27 | |
for a pharmacist, so I'm thinking of applying. | 0:41:27 | 0:41:30 | |
You never know. In four years' time, | 0:41:30 | 0:41:32 | |
I could be a fully-qualified pharmacist here in Australia. | 0:41:32 | 0:41:35 | |
The health care support Fraja has been receiving | 0:41:36 | 0:41:39 | |
has been reassuring for the couple. | 0:41:39 | 0:41:41 | |
Since we moved here, Fraja's health has been really good. | 0:41:41 | 0:41:44 | |
She's under a fantastic specialist here. | 0:41:44 | 0:41:46 | |
I couldn't have asked for a better one. | 0:41:46 | 0:41:48 | |
We feel absolutely comfortable with anything he suggests or says. | 0:41:48 | 0:41:53 | |
Yeah, that definitely reinforced that we made the right move... | 0:41:53 | 0:41:55 | |
-Absolutely. -..from Fraja's case perspective. | 0:41:55 | 0:41:57 | |
You know, we're not out the woods yet, | 0:41:57 | 0:42:00 | |
but certainly with the team down there, | 0:42:00 | 0:42:03 | |
it gives you the confidence that we can be quite positive | 0:42:03 | 0:42:05 | |
for the future. | 0:42:05 | 0:42:06 | |
Life down under has brought the Simpsons closer together, | 0:42:06 | 0:42:10 | |
and Michelle's finally got the missing ingredient | 0:42:10 | 0:42:12 | |
back in her life. | 0:42:12 | 0:42:14 | |
Seeing my kids laughing. | 0:42:14 | 0:42:16 | |
Because back in the UK, I didn't get to see it as often as I wanted to. | 0:42:16 | 0:42:20 | |
Here I'm seeing it so much. I'm seeing it every day. | 0:42:20 | 0:42:23 | |
There's little bits I'm recognising in my children a bit more, | 0:42:23 | 0:42:26 | |
and I love watching them grow. | 0:42:26 | 0:42:28 | |
It's so beautiful to see. | 0:42:28 | 0:42:30 | |
They're less than a year into their new life, | 0:42:30 | 0:42:33 | |
but Garry and Michelle are convinced they've made the right move. | 0:42:33 | 0:42:36 | |
I believe the future of my family definitely lies here in Australia. | 0:42:37 | 0:42:42 | |
It's given us everything that we've wanted so far, | 0:42:42 | 0:42:44 | |
and it's been great. | 0:42:44 | 0:42:45 | |
-It's been for the good. -Yeah. | 0:42:45 | 0:42:46 | |
We're not trying to be Brits in Australia. | 0:42:46 | 0:42:48 | |
We're trying to be Australian, aren't we? | 0:42:48 | 0:42:50 | |
My future definitely lies in Australia, without a doubt. | 0:42:50 | 0:42:53 | |
I absolutely love the way of life across here, | 0:42:53 | 0:42:56 | |
so, yeah, 100% Australia all away. | 0:42:56 | 0:42:59 | |
It's taken persistence and months of upheaval, | 0:43:02 | 0:43:06 | |
but the Simpsons are now reaping the rewards of all their hard work. | 0:43:06 | 0:43:11 | |
We wish them every success | 0:43:11 | 0:43:13 | |
as they continue their new lives down under. | 0:43:13 | 0:43:15 |