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If you and your partner needed a fresh start in life, | 0:00:02 | 0:00:04 | |
how far would you go to achieve it? | 0:00:04 | 0:00:07 | |
Could you give up everything you had at home to move | 0:00:07 | 0:00:10 | |
to the other side of the world? | 0:00:10 | 0:00:13 | |
Two years ago, Andrea and Stan Baum faced just that decision. | 0:00:13 | 0:00:17 | |
Today, we'll find out what happened next. | 0:00:17 | 0:00:20 | |
Andrea and Stan had always dreamt of moving to Australia | 0:00:21 | 0:00:24 | |
but in 2011, everything changed. | 0:00:24 | 0:00:28 | |
Stan had an accident | 0:00:28 | 0:00:29 | |
and that basically blew our whole world into pieces. | 0:00:29 | 0:00:33 | |
Desperate for a new beginning, in 2013, | 0:00:34 | 0:00:37 | |
the couple spent an emotional trial week in Brisbane. | 0:00:37 | 0:00:40 | |
You know, to have this opportunity would be amazing. | 0:00:40 | 0:00:44 | |
So, two years later, is it the UK or Australia Stan and Andrea call home? | 0:00:44 | 0:00:50 | |
This is where we need to be at this stage right now in our life. | 0:00:50 | 0:00:53 | |
Over 30 times the size of the UK and with breathtaking beaches, | 0:01:17 | 0:01:21 | |
amazing architecture and a rich and diverse culture, | 0:01:21 | 0:01:24 | |
Australia has been referred to as the biggest playground in the world. | 0:01:24 | 0:01:28 | |
And with a population of just 23 million people, | 0:01:28 | 0:01:31 | |
there's plenty of space for new arrivals. | 0:01:31 | 0:01:34 | |
But for many, the move is far from straightforward. | 0:01:34 | 0:01:37 | |
In 2013, after an incredibly challenging few years, | 0:01:39 | 0:01:44 | |
Andrea and Stan Baum spent a week in Brisbane discovering | 0:01:44 | 0:01:48 | |
if Australia really could offer them a second chance at life. | 0:01:48 | 0:01:52 | |
Today, two years on, we'll discover where in the world | 0:01:52 | 0:01:56 | |
Andrea and Stan now call home. | 0:01:56 | 0:01:58 | |
The Baums original journey to Brisbane in eastern Australia | 0:02:01 | 0:02:04 | |
began with a gruelling 22.5 hours on a plane. | 0:02:04 | 0:02:07 | |
And when they touched down on Aussie soil, | 0:02:11 | 0:02:14 | |
the distance from the UK had really hit home. | 0:02:14 | 0:02:17 | |
I'm like, "Oh, yeah, it's just Australia, just Australia." | 0:02:17 | 0:02:19 | |
But actually...it's really far! | 0:02:19 | 0:02:21 | |
Having arrived down under for the first time, | 0:02:23 | 0:02:25 | |
the couple were excited about what lay ahead. | 0:02:25 | 0:02:28 | |
Just the anticipation to see if it's viable. | 0:02:28 | 0:02:31 | |
You know, if it's possible to be able to live over here comfortably. | 0:02:31 | 0:02:35 | |
I need to make an informed choice of whether or not | 0:02:35 | 0:02:39 | |
we can financially live the dream that we want to live. | 0:02:39 | 0:02:42 | |
In the UK, Stan, a former motor mechanic | 0:02:48 | 0:02:50 | |
and Andrea, a nurse, were living in Loughborough in Leicestershire. | 0:02:50 | 0:02:54 | |
But Andrea was hoping they wouldn't be there much longer. | 0:02:54 | 0:02:57 | |
The Oz dream is kind of my little baby. | 0:02:57 | 0:03:01 | |
I've wanted to go since I can remember. | 0:03:01 | 0:03:05 | |
She's always said, right from the start, she wants to go to Australia. | 0:03:05 | 0:03:09 | |
We've had our five-year plan and we were working towards it. | 0:03:09 | 0:03:13 | |
But tragedy had struck in 2011 | 0:03:15 | 0:03:18 | |
when Stan was involved in a horrific motorbike accident. | 0:03:18 | 0:03:21 | |
Six months after we got married, Stan had an accident. | 0:03:24 | 0:03:29 | |
Um, and that basically blew our whole world into pieces. | 0:03:29 | 0:03:34 | |
The last thing I kind of remember was the start of September 2010, | 0:03:34 | 0:03:40 | |
which was when we got married. | 0:03:40 | 0:03:42 | |
And I barely remember even getting married. | 0:03:42 | 0:03:45 | |
Stan had quite a significant brain injury | 0:03:45 | 0:03:50 | |
and broke pretty much every bone in his body. | 0:03:50 | 0:03:55 | |
Literally from his head down to his toes. | 0:03:55 | 0:03:59 | |
Stan spent six months in a coma. | 0:03:59 | 0:04:02 | |
His loved ones were told to expect the worst but Andrea | 0:04:02 | 0:04:05 | |
and Stan's sister Mel had refused to give up on him. | 0:04:05 | 0:04:08 | |
I don't know what gave me the hope. | 0:04:08 | 0:04:10 | |
Don't know what gave me the strength. | 0:04:10 | 0:04:12 | |
I can't believe that I put my family through this. | 0:04:14 | 0:04:17 | |
I said, "He will come back, I know he will." | 0:04:17 | 0:04:19 | |
And I said, "I don't believe it and I won't believe it." And...he did. | 0:04:19 | 0:04:24 | |
You know, and he came back to us and we've pushed him and motivated him. | 0:04:24 | 0:04:29 | |
Against all odds and with his family's support, | 0:04:34 | 0:04:37 | |
Stan had begun to recover. | 0:04:37 | 0:04:39 | |
The early part of my recovery was quite... | 0:04:44 | 0:04:48 | |
Well, it was painful trying to do the physio. | 0:04:48 | 0:04:51 | |
Even trying to learn to walk again. | 0:04:51 | 0:04:53 | |
Stan can now get himself up, washed, dressed, | 0:04:53 | 0:04:58 | |
tie his own shoelaces, making me cups of tea. | 0:04:58 | 0:05:02 | |
You know, it's having to learn to do everything again. | 0:05:02 | 0:05:05 | |
Stan's rehabilitation was taking time | 0:05:07 | 0:05:09 | |
but the couple were determined to look towards a happier future. | 0:05:09 | 0:05:13 | |
Moving, however, would mean sacrificing relationships | 0:05:13 | 0:05:16 | |
with the family and friends who'd supported them through their ordeal. | 0:05:16 | 0:05:21 | |
The thought of moving without them | 0:05:21 | 0:05:23 | |
is really upsetting and heartbreaking. | 0:05:23 | 0:05:25 | |
I needed their support more than actually I realised | 0:05:25 | 0:05:28 | |
I needed at the time. | 0:05:28 | 0:05:29 | |
So, it meant the world and I'm indebted to them for life. | 0:05:30 | 0:05:33 | |
Despite strong emotional ties, Andrea and Stan were desperate | 0:05:33 | 0:05:37 | |
to put the past behind them and start afresh in Australia. | 0:05:37 | 0:05:41 | |
It's where Andrea definitely wants to be and... | 0:05:41 | 0:05:45 | |
Well, I'm just hoping that it's going to be good for us. | 0:05:46 | 0:05:51 | |
We're literally going to be leaving everything behind | 0:05:51 | 0:05:54 | |
to try and start a new life again and start a new chapter, a new book. | 0:05:54 | 0:05:59 | |
So, it's literally everything. Everything is on the line. | 0:05:59 | 0:06:04 | |
Stan and Andrea had been through incredibly tough times | 0:06:12 | 0:06:16 | |
but were determined to see if Australia could offer them | 0:06:16 | 0:06:18 | |
the opportunities and lifestyle they were dreaming of. | 0:06:18 | 0:06:22 | |
For their trial week, | 0:06:22 | 0:06:23 | |
they stayed in a two-bedroom apartment in Brisbane city centre. | 0:06:23 | 0:06:27 | |
It was their first taste of Aussie-style living | 0:06:27 | 0:06:30 | |
and first impressions were good. | 0:06:30 | 0:06:31 | |
-Look at the view! -Wow. | 0:06:33 | 0:06:35 | |
Oh, my God! | 0:06:36 | 0:06:37 | |
Height is not one of my specialities but you know what? | 0:06:37 | 0:06:41 | |
-I'll learn to love it. -Amazing. -Amazing, absolutely amazing. | 0:06:41 | 0:06:44 | |
Amazing, yeah. | 0:06:44 | 0:06:46 | |
If this was what we could afford, I'd suffer in silence. | 0:06:46 | 0:06:49 | |
Ha-ha! | 0:06:49 | 0:06:51 | |
Which would make a change. | 0:06:51 | 0:06:52 | |
-SHE LAUGHS -Yeah, big change. | 0:06:52 | 0:06:54 | |
Back in the UK, home for Stan and Andrea | 0:07:04 | 0:07:07 | |
was a three-bedroom detached house in Loughborough. | 0:07:07 | 0:07:09 | |
So what kind of Australian home were they looking for? | 0:07:09 | 0:07:13 | |
Just something relatively modern, very simplistic. | 0:07:13 | 0:07:17 | |
-You don't want people overlooking it. -Two toilets, pretty please. | 0:07:17 | 0:07:22 | |
Whether that's two bathrooms or just two toilets, I am not fussy. | 0:07:22 | 0:07:26 | |
We showed the couple three houses, | 0:07:29 | 0:07:31 | |
based on what they thought they could afford, | 0:07:31 | 0:07:33 | |
what they ideally wanted, and one in between. | 0:07:33 | 0:07:35 | |
First up was a four-bedroom bungalow in the suburb of Springfield Lakes, | 0:07:37 | 0:07:41 | |
an up-and-coming area just 35 minutes drive | 0:07:41 | 0:07:44 | |
from Brisbane city centre, | 0:07:44 | 0:07:45 | |
which could offer good value for money. | 0:07:45 | 0:07:49 | |
-There's the garage. -That looks amazing. -Yeah. | 0:07:49 | 0:07:52 | |
-SHE GASPS -Oh, sorry. | 0:07:53 | 0:07:55 | |
It's all right. | 0:07:55 | 0:07:56 | |
-Look how scary you are. -I'm just testing. | 0:07:58 | 0:08:01 | |
Ex-mechanic Stan had caught sight of the garage from the road. | 0:08:02 | 0:08:06 | |
-But what did he make of it inside? -Beautiful. -This is... | 0:08:06 | 0:08:10 | |
-I've found my room. -Yeah! | 0:08:10 | 0:08:13 | |
Next up, the kitchen. How did that compare? | 0:08:13 | 0:08:17 | |
Our kitchen back home is...a little bit bigger. | 0:08:17 | 0:08:21 | |
But it's all kind of closed in. So, this feels bigger. | 0:08:21 | 0:08:26 | |
With four bedrooms and two bathrooms, | 0:08:26 | 0:08:28 | |
the house should have ticked all the boxes. | 0:08:28 | 0:08:30 | |
But not everything was quite to their taste. | 0:08:30 | 0:08:33 | |
Some of the tiles and some of the decor is a little bit... | 0:08:33 | 0:08:36 | |
-Just the colours. -Yeah, a little bit dated. | 0:08:36 | 0:08:39 | |
-Luckily, the garden fared better. -Love the garden. | 0:08:39 | 0:08:43 | |
-Love, love, love the garden. -Lovely size. -Yeah. | 0:08:43 | 0:08:47 | |
It was a good note to end on | 0:08:47 | 0:08:49 | |
but was the house within the couple's budget of around £250,000? | 0:08:49 | 0:08:53 | |
I don't want to know. | 0:08:53 | 0:08:54 | |
-Do you want me to turn? -Yeah. | 0:09:02 | 0:09:03 | |
-Really? -Yeah. | 0:09:04 | 0:09:07 | |
-That's actually quite surprising. -Yeah. | 0:09:07 | 0:09:09 | |
-Yeah, that is. I thought it'd be actually over. -Yeah, I did. | 0:09:10 | 0:09:13 | |
It was an encouraging start for Stan and Andrea. | 0:09:13 | 0:09:16 | |
But with two more properties to view, | 0:09:16 | 0:09:18 | |
they weren't committing to anything. | 0:09:18 | 0:09:21 | |
Staying in Springfield Lakes, | 0:09:21 | 0:09:23 | |
property two was one of the area's most populous streets. | 0:09:23 | 0:09:27 | |
With lakes, parks and sporting facilities on the doorstep, | 0:09:27 | 0:09:30 | |
it could have been a great base for Stan's rehabilitation. | 0:09:30 | 0:09:33 | |
But did it offer the space they wanted? | 0:09:33 | 0:09:35 | |
It...looks a bit... | 0:09:37 | 0:09:40 | |
squished. | 0:09:41 | 0:09:42 | |
-It's got this flat driveway. -I know. -So, you won't fall. | 0:09:42 | 0:09:48 | |
First impressions? Not bad. | 0:09:48 | 0:09:50 | |
-And inside... -Yeah. | 0:09:50 | 0:09:51 | |
-Doesn't look so much size at all from the front. -Yeah. | 0:09:51 | 0:09:56 | |
But it's actually quite spacious in there. | 0:09:56 | 0:09:58 | |
The house had the two bathrooms Andrea wanted. | 0:10:00 | 0:10:03 | |
-Very nice. Good size. -Look at the shower. -New, user-friendly. | 0:10:06 | 0:10:11 | |
-I really like this. -Wow, yeah! | 0:10:11 | 0:10:13 | |
-Look at the design. -Yeah. -Beautiful. -It flows. | 0:10:13 | 0:10:17 | |
And I think that's the beauty of this house. It just...flows. | 0:10:17 | 0:10:21 | |
Every room flows from one to the other. | 0:10:21 | 0:10:23 | |
-It's brilliant for Stan's mobility. -The property scored well. | 0:10:23 | 0:10:26 | |
And with four bedrooms, it also had plenty of room for visitors. | 0:10:26 | 0:10:30 | |
Really nice. Ooh, got a walk-in wardrobe! | 0:10:30 | 0:10:33 | |
I reckon it's going to be way over our budget. But, you know... | 0:10:33 | 0:10:37 | |
..the dream. It's something to work towards. | 0:10:39 | 0:10:41 | |
Andrea was already thinking of ways to make it work | 0:10:41 | 0:10:44 | |
but the garden proved a disappointment. | 0:10:44 | 0:10:48 | |
It's quite overlooked, actually. | 0:10:48 | 0:10:49 | |
-Yeah. -I must admit I'm not a fan of the garden. | 0:10:50 | 0:10:54 | |
The property had promised so much | 0:10:54 | 0:10:56 | |
but the lack of outside space was a big letdown. | 0:10:56 | 0:10:59 | |
Was the price enough to make the couple reconsider? | 0:10:59 | 0:11:02 | |
OK. Ready? | 0:11:02 | 0:11:03 | |
£260,000. | 0:11:05 | 0:11:07 | |
-Yeah. -You used to be able to get a lot more for your money. | 0:11:08 | 0:11:12 | |
And with the current exchange rate and everything else, | 0:11:12 | 0:11:16 | |
it makes things a lot tighter. | 0:11:16 | 0:11:18 | |
At £10,000 over budget, | 0:11:19 | 0:11:21 | |
the house didn't appear to be worth the stretch. | 0:11:21 | 0:11:23 | |
Last property of the day was a four-bedroom house in Redland Bay, | 0:11:31 | 0:11:34 | |
a laid-back suburb just over 30 miles south-east of Brisbane. | 0:11:34 | 0:11:39 | |
The property promised modern interiors | 0:11:39 | 0:11:41 | |
but would it offer better value for money? | 0:11:41 | 0:11:43 | |
-We can't afford this. -No! | 0:11:45 | 0:11:47 | |
-I think... -This is going to be the carrot and the stick. | 0:11:47 | 0:11:49 | |
-Way out of our budget. -Yeah. | 0:11:49 | 0:11:51 | |
They've been shocked by the cost of the properties so far, | 0:11:51 | 0:11:53 | |
but this house had an immediate impact. | 0:11:53 | 0:11:56 | |
-I'm speechless. -Without words. -Yes. -Without words. | 0:11:56 | 0:11:58 | |
For the first time, I'm actually... | 0:11:58 | 0:12:00 | |
-Yeah. -..speechless. | 0:12:01 | 0:12:03 | |
And the best was yet to come. | 0:12:04 | 0:12:06 | |
The property had access to facilities | 0:12:06 | 0:12:08 | |
that could help Stan's recovery. | 0:12:08 | 0:12:10 | |
Oh, my God! Stan, it's a gym! | 0:12:12 | 0:12:16 | |
And a fitness centre! It's got a tennis court down there. | 0:12:18 | 0:12:21 | |
Oh, my God! Oh, my God. | 0:12:21 | 0:12:24 | |
Oh, my... I don't know what to say. | 0:12:27 | 0:12:29 | |
-OK? -Yeah! I'm OK. | 0:12:32 | 0:12:35 | |
It was an emotional moment as the couple realised | 0:12:41 | 0:12:44 | |
just what this could mean for Stan. | 0:12:44 | 0:12:47 | |
Just having that access. | 0:12:47 | 0:12:49 | |
It would make his life easier. | 0:12:50 | 0:12:53 | |
As well. | 0:12:54 | 0:12:57 | |
It has been like... | 0:12:57 | 0:12:58 | |
It has been two years since...while I've been like this. | 0:12:58 | 0:13:01 | |
And...what I've had to put through with the family and everybody. | 0:13:02 | 0:13:07 | |
But they've all been so supportive. | 0:13:07 | 0:13:09 | |
I won't need to convert the house. | 0:13:10 | 0:13:12 | |
We won't have to pay for gym equipment, we could just... | 0:13:12 | 0:13:15 | |
Yeah. It would just help him out. | 0:13:18 | 0:13:21 | |
He worked really hard. | 0:13:23 | 0:13:25 | |
-TEARFULLY: -He did work really hard to get better and it would just... | 0:13:25 | 0:13:29 | |
I feel like an idiot, sorry. Could you hold on? | 0:13:29 | 0:13:32 | |
SHE SOBS | 0:13:33 | 0:13:35 | |
Yeah, it does. | 0:13:35 | 0:13:36 | |
When you've heard the doctors and they didn't even think | 0:13:43 | 0:13:46 | |
I'd wake up, let alone be able to walk, you know, and use this arm. | 0:13:46 | 0:13:51 | |
You know, so... Everything has been a challenge but it's been worth it. | 0:13:51 | 0:13:56 | |
You know, and... You know, to have this opportunity would be amazing. | 0:13:57 | 0:14:03 | |
Andrea knew if they could afford a property like this, | 0:14:03 | 0:14:06 | |
any move would be life-changing. | 0:14:06 | 0:14:09 | |
If I could, I would work... | 0:14:09 | 0:14:10 | |
..till my bones ache to provide it. | 0:14:13 | 0:14:15 | |
With so much resting on it, the pair were reluctant to see | 0:14:20 | 0:14:23 | |
how close the property was to their £250,000 budget. | 0:14:23 | 0:14:27 | |
Part of me doesn't actually want to know what that says. | 0:14:27 | 0:14:30 | |
-You ready? -No. | 0:14:33 | 0:14:35 | |
SHE LAUGHS | 0:14:41 | 0:14:43 | |
Well... | 0:14:48 | 0:14:49 | |
It was over budget but by just £17,000. | 0:14:52 | 0:14:56 | |
So depending on job prospects, it could still have been within reach. | 0:14:56 | 0:15:00 | |
Where do we sign on? | 0:15:00 | 0:15:02 | |
-SHE LAUGHS -Yeah! Yeah! | 0:15:02 | 0:15:04 | |
It had been an emotional day of house-hunting for the Baums. | 0:15:06 | 0:15:09 | |
The first property was smaller than they wanted | 0:15:14 | 0:15:16 | |
but they had loved the garden. | 0:15:16 | 0:15:18 | |
Property two had more space but the overlooked garden left them cold. | 0:15:18 | 0:15:23 | |
Property three wasn't just a dream house, it offered Stan access | 0:15:23 | 0:15:27 | |
to potentially life-changing facilities. | 0:15:27 | 0:15:30 | |
So, based on what they'd seen of Australian homes... | 0:15:32 | 0:15:35 | |
It is time for us to vote. | 0:15:35 | 0:15:38 | |
Did the couple choose property in the UK or Australia? | 0:15:38 | 0:15:41 | |
-Australia. -Australia. | 0:15:49 | 0:15:51 | |
Finding a house with a gym, that is, you know, | 0:15:52 | 0:15:57 | |
an unbelievable, you know, option for us to try. | 0:15:57 | 0:16:01 | |
It was literally like we'd won the lottery when we saw the gym. | 0:16:01 | 0:16:05 | |
Because I just thought of all the things that Stan could do | 0:16:05 | 0:16:09 | |
to progress and that was really...really special. | 0:16:09 | 0:16:13 | |
As the sole earner and with her heart set on a house | 0:16:16 | 0:16:19 | |
that could change Stan's life, | 0:16:19 | 0:16:21 | |
Andrea was now feeling the pressure to find a job with a decent salary. | 0:16:21 | 0:16:25 | |
Back home, she was a deputy sister in the A & E department | 0:16:26 | 0:16:29 | |
at Leicester Royal Infirmary. | 0:16:29 | 0:16:32 | |
Finding something similar in Australia was pivotal. | 0:16:32 | 0:16:35 | |
The job's got to be right. Not just from the financial point of view. | 0:16:35 | 0:16:38 | |
I mean, that has definitely got to be right. | 0:16:38 | 0:16:40 | |
Former mechanic Stan wanted to return to work | 0:16:40 | 0:16:43 | |
and had been taking steps to make that happen. | 0:16:43 | 0:16:46 | |
I've been told that I can't be a mechanic. | 0:16:46 | 0:16:49 | |
So, I've thought about pushing myself to be a teacher of mechanics. | 0:16:49 | 0:16:54 | |
To get an idea of her work prospects and shift patterns, | 0:16:56 | 0:16:59 | |
Andrea got a tour of a private hospital | 0:16:59 | 0:17:02 | |
by fellow emergency room nurse and expat Dana Brown. | 0:17:02 | 0:17:05 | |
-What hours do you work? -Do a 38-hour week. We have 12-hour shifts here. | 0:17:07 | 0:17:12 | |
You can do eight-hour shifts. | 0:17:12 | 0:17:14 | |
Stan meanwhile met a teacher at a further education college | 0:17:14 | 0:17:18 | |
to find out if teaching mechanics was a realistic option. | 0:17:18 | 0:17:21 | |
It's been nice being back here because it kind of reminds me | 0:17:22 | 0:17:25 | |
of, like, when I was a mechanic. | 0:17:25 | 0:17:27 | |
As he got reacquainted with the smell of diesel, | 0:17:27 | 0:17:31 | |
Andrea met with the hospital's | 0:17:31 | 0:17:32 | |
director of learning and development, Donna Bonney, | 0:17:32 | 0:17:35 | |
to find out if work existed in Brisbane | 0:17:35 | 0:17:37 | |
and how much she could earn. | 0:17:37 | 0:17:39 | |
At the moment, probably wouldn't be | 0:17:39 | 0:17:41 | |
as many employer-sponsored visas in the big cities. | 0:17:41 | 0:17:46 | |
Maybe a better option is to go with a recruitment agency. | 0:17:46 | 0:17:49 | |
Given your years of experience, | 0:17:49 | 0:17:51 | |
you'd be bringing home an average of 85,000. | 0:17:51 | 0:17:55 | |
-This is about double my wage. -Yes. | 0:17:55 | 0:17:57 | |
Wow! I'm absolutely gobsmacked. | 0:17:57 | 0:18:00 | |
It was a brilliant result for Andrea. | 0:18:01 | 0:18:03 | |
But were Stan's qualifications transferable? | 0:18:03 | 0:18:06 | |
To start, you're at least going to need your Certificate IV | 0:18:06 | 0:18:08 | |
in training and assessment. | 0:18:08 | 0:18:10 | |
-At the moment, I'm classed as disabled. -Mm-hm. | 0:18:10 | 0:18:14 | |
-Would that affect me being able to work? -Definitely not. | 0:18:14 | 0:18:18 | |
There's teachers here already with disabilities | 0:18:18 | 0:18:21 | |
and loving it, it's great. | 0:18:21 | 0:18:22 | |
How much would you think I'll be able to earn as a teacher? | 0:18:22 | 0:18:25 | |
As a fully qualified teacher, | 0:18:25 | 0:18:27 | |
you should be looking at around 85,000 a year. | 0:18:27 | 0:18:31 | |
Yeah, that is really good. | 0:18:31 | 0:18:33 | |
-Excellent, sounds like something up your alley then. -Definitely. -Yeah. | 0:18:33 | 0:18:36 | |
That was a real incentive for Stan to get back into employment. | 0:18:36 | 0:18:40 | |
It had been an encouraging day for the couple | 0:18:40 | 0:18:43 | |
but was that enough to choose work in Australia? | 0:18:43 | 0:18:46 | |
-Australia. -Australia. | 0:18:51 | 0:18:54 | |
-You want to stay here? -Yes, I do. | 0:18:56 | 0:18:58 | |
It's exciting. Nerve-racking. | 0:18:58 | 0:19:00 | |
I didn't think I would like it as much as I did. | 0:19:00 | 0:19:03 | |
The facilities for training was beyond what I expected, | 0:19:03 | 0:19:06 | |
beyond what I had when I was at school. | 0:19:06 | 0:19:09 | |
And the wages as well, amazing. | 0:19:09 | 0:19:13 | |
And it would make a big difference to us, me working as well. | 0:19:13 | 0:19:17 | |
It seemed like Stan and Andrea | 0:19:29 | 0:19:30 | |
could earn enough to afford their dream house. | 0:19:30 | 0:19:33 | |
But with Stan's rehabilitation a priority, it was important | 0:19:33 | 0:19:37 | |
to discover if the Aussie lifestyle would meet their needs. | 0:19:37 | 0:19:40 | |
It's absolutely fab. | 0:19:40 | 0:19:41 | |
After exploring the city, the couple met Joe, | 0:19:47 | 0:19:50 | |
a local physiotherapist, | 0:19:50 | 0:19:51 | |
to see if Brisbane could offer Stan | 0:19:51 | 0:19:53 | |
the same level of support he had at home. | 0:19:53 | 0:19:56 | |
Our life is wrapped pretty much around Stan, his physio | 0:19:57 | 0:20:01 | |
-and getting him back to as good as he's ever going to get. -Yeah, good. | 0:20:01 | 0:20:05 | |
-There's a charity called Headway. -Headway. | 0:20:05 | 0:20:07 | |
-We have the same in Australia as well. -Oh, do you? -Yeah. | 0:20:07 | 0:20:10 | |
-Oh, that's useful. -They're based at the Gold Coast. | 0:20:10 | 0:20:12 | |
We've got excellent, excellent neuro rehab service in Australia. | 0:20:12 | 0:20:15 | |
It had been an enlightening day. | 0:20:18 | 0:20:20 | |
So did the couple believe Australia could give Stan | 0:20:20 | 0:20:23 | |
the lifestyle he needed? | 0:20:23 | 0:20:24 | |
-Australia. -Australia. | 0:20:28 | 0:20:30 | |
So the whole point about us moving | 0:20:32 | 0:20:34 | |
this far away from friends and family is for Stan | 0:20:34 | 0:20:38 | |
and what rehabilitation we've got an offer. | 0:20:38 | 0:20:40 | |
And just a general lifestyle that Australia could offer both of us. | 0:20:40 | 0:20:44 | |
Before Stan's accident, biking had been a real passion for the couple. | 0:20:55 | 0:20:59 | |
-And it was a hobby they were raring to get back to. -Hi, Stan. | 0:20:59 | 0:21:03 | |
-I'm Jason, how are you going? -Hello, Jason. -Hi, I'm Anneka. -Cool. | 0:21:03 | 0:21:07 | |
They met up with a group that rode three-wheeled motorbikes | 0:21:07 | 0:21:10 | |
built for speed and stability, popular with disabled users. | 0:21:10 | 0:21:14 | |
-Looking to getting back on a bike? -Definitely. -Good to hear. | 0:21:16 | 0:21:20 | |
It was a big day for Stan. | 0:21:27 | 0:21:28 | |
The first time he had got back on a motorbike since his accident. | 0:21:28 | 0:21:32 | |
Seeing Stan on the bike is fantastic. | 0:21:34 | 0:21:37 | |
-Amazing experience, to be on the bike again. -It made our day. | 0:21:37 | 0:21:41 | |
-We put a smile on both your faces. What more could we want? -Yeah! | 0:21:41 | 0:21:46 | |
For Stan and Andrea, | 0:21:46 | 0:21:47 | |
it had been yet another glimpse of the life they could lead down under. | 0:21:47 | 0:21:50 | |
The couple had discovered Australia could potentially give them | 0:21:55 | 0:21:58 | |
everything they'd ever wanted and more. | 0:21:58 | 0:22:01 | |
But they needed to know if they could actually afford to live there. | 0:22:01 | 0:22:05 | |
With Andrea the sole earner, | 0:22:05 | 0:22:07 | |
any increase in bills could have spelled disaster for the move. | 0:22:07 | 0:22:11 | |
Comparing their cost of living in Australia with the UK, | 0:22:11 | 0:22:14 | |
they based their calculations on the dream house. | 0:22:14 | 0:22:17 | |
This is when it comes down to it because... | 0:22:17 | 0:22:20 | |
..on our mortgage per month, we'd be £520 worse. | 0:22:23 | 0:22:26 | |
Because it's... | 0:22:27 | 0:22:28 | |
The Australian property is more expensive than ours. | 0:22:28 | 0:22:31 | |
The electricity here is a lot higher, it's £133 extra per month. | 0:22:31 | 0:22:37 | |
Our total monthly outgoings, we're £1,000 worse off. | 0:22:37 | 0:22:42 | |
But if Andrea found the job she wanted, | 0:22:43 | 0:22:45 | |
she could potentially earn almost £30,000 more than at home. | 0:22:45 | 0:22:49 | |
So, was that enough to deflect the hit? | 0:22:49 | 0:22:52 | |
At the end of the month, we are £496 better off. | 0:22:57 | 0:23:02 | |
-This is just on your wage? -That's just on my wage. | 0:23:04 | 0:23:08 | |
-That is unbelievable. -Yeah. | 0:23:08 | 0:23:09 | |
So, had the figures been good enough to swing another vote for Australia? | 0:23:12 | 0:23:16 | |
-I think it's time for a vote. Are you ready? -I think so. -OK, go. | 0:23:16 | 0:23:19 | |
-England! -RECORD SCRATCHES | 0:23:29 | 0:23:30 | |
I'm only joking. Australia! | 0:23:30 | 0:23:32 | |
-You got me by surprise there. -SHE LAUGHS | 0:23:35 | 0:23:37 | |
-I didn't want to be too predictable. -We want to start a family together. | 0:23:37 | 0:23:42 | |
You know, I want to progress. I want to get back to work. | 0:23:42 | 0:23:47 | |
And it makes it all so very possible. | 0:23:47 | 0:23:50 | |
It looked like Australia could deliver the fresh start | 0:23:55 | 0:23:57 | |
Andrea and Stan so desperately wanted. | 0:23:57 | 0:24:00 | |
But there was one major obstacle still to overcome | 0:24:00 | 0:24:03 | |
as they faced leaving the friends and family | 0:24:03 | 0:24:05 | |
that had supported them through their darkest times. | 0:24:05 | 0:24:08 | |
-Are you ready for this? -No, but let's do it. | 0:24:09 | 0:24:12 | |
Hi, guys! How are you doing? | 0:24:14 | 0:24:16 | |
-Hello! -Hello, Auntie Andrea. | 0:24:16 | 0:24:18 | |
Andrea, she's a... I'd say a very hard-working career girl. | 0:24:18 | 0:24:24 | |
Heart of gold. | 0:24:24 | 0:24:25 | |
Is Auntie Andrea nice? Do you like to play with Auntie Andrea? Yes. | 0:24:26 | 0:24:31 | |
Well, the accident was horrendous. And... | 0:24:31 | 0:24:36 | |
I know, you know, we didn't think Stan was going to pull through. | 0:24:36 | 0:24:39 | |
One day, when they were moving him to the brain injury unit | 0:24:39 | 0:24:42 | |
and I was holding his hand, he had his eyes open. | 0:24:42 | 0:24:45 | |
I said to him, I just went, "Don't be scared." I said, "I know... | 0:24:45 | 0:24:50 | |
"I know where you are, it's dark and you're scared. But don't be scared." | 0:24:50 | 0:24:54 | |
I said, "Just come back to us," | 0:24:54 | 0:24:55 | |
because I said, "They're giving up on you." | 0:24:55 | 0:24:57 | |
And I said, "I won't give up on you as long as you come back." | 0:24:57 | 0:25:01 | |
Andrea, she just found the inner strength | 0:25:01 | 0:25:04 | |
and carried on and carried on and she was determined | 0:25:04 | 0:25:06 | |
she wasn't going to lose Stan. | 0:25:06 | 0:25:08 | |
To see him progress from not being able to move them arms, | 0:25:08 | 0:25:11 | |
told he would use that arm again. | 0:25:11 | 0:25:13 | |
And to be able to use that arm again, move the arm. | 0:25:13 | 0:25:15 | |
Now he's walking again, he's talking good. It's just amazing. | 0:25:15 | 0:25:20 | |
Touched my heart, he is a legend. | 0:25:20 | 0:25:21 | |
I always say he's a legend but he is a legend. | 0:25:21 | 0:25:24 | |
-MAN: -I think if they go, it will have an impact on | 0:25:24 | 0:25:27 | |
quite a lot of their family and friends because I think... | 0:25:27 | 0:25:30 | |
they...they're loved by everybody, to be honest. | 0:25:30 | 0:25:34 | |
It's just very difficult. | 0:25:36 | 0:25:37 | |
You know, she's not just going to be just up the road. | 0:25:40 | 0:25:42 | |
She's going to be miles away. | 0:25:42 | 0:25:44 | |
SHE SOBS | 0:25:47 | 0:25:49 | |
I just want her to be happy and Stan to be happy. But... | 0:25:49 | 0:25:53 | |
You know, I don't want them to go that far away. | 0:25:56 | 0:25:58 | |
That was worse than I thought. Just seeing how much they're hurting. | 0:26:07 | 0:26:14 | |
All because I want to move to the other side of the world | 0:26:14 | 0:26:18 | |
and I feel quite selfish for that. | 0:26:18 | 0:26:20 | |
-Most difficult part was seeing my sister. -Hmm. | 0:26:20 | 0:26:23 | |
She is so strong, isn't she? | 0:26:26 | 0:26:28 | |
It's just really bad for her, the accident. | 0:26:29 | 0:26:33 | |
Like how all the family and my friends | 0:26:33 | 0:26:35 | |
all pulled together regardless. | 0:26:35 | 0:26:38 | |
You know, it's hard to see that they were upset again. | 0:26:38 | 0:26:43 | |
Hmm. I don't think you fully comprehend | 0:26:43 | 0:26:46 | |
the impact that you'll have. | 0:26:46 | 0:26:48 | |
I don't think you can't... | 0:26:48 | 0:26:49 | |
You can, because if you did, nobody would ever move. | 0:26:49 | 0:26:52 | |
Watching messages from loved ones was a heartbreaking experience | 0:26:55 | 0:26:59 | |
for Andrea and Stan. | 0:26:59 | 0:27:00 | |
But their week in Australia had given the couple a glimpse | 0:27:00 | 0:27:03 | |
of what they could possibly gain. | 0:27:03 | 0:27:05 | |
So, did the final turn of the cards | 0:27:06 | 0:27:08 | |
see them choose life in the UK or Australia? | 0:27:08 | 0:27:11 | |
-Are you ready? -Ah, yes, I'm ready. -OK. | 0:27:13 | 0:27:15 | |
-Australia. -Australia! | 0:27:26 | 0:27:28 | |
This week, I've found... Wow! It's just blown my mind, actually. | 0:27:29 | 0:27:33 | |
Definitely surpassed my expectations. | 0:27:33 | 0:27:35 | |
-The future's bright and sunny. -Future's looking good, yeah. -Yeah? | 0:27:35 | 0:27:38 | |
With their trial week in Brisbane convincing Stan and Andrea | 0:27:47 | 0:27:51 | |
they could make the fresh start they'd been hoping for, | 0:27:51 | 0:27:53 | |
it looked like a move to the other side of the world was imminent. | 0:27:53 | 0:27:57 | |
When we caught up with them a year ago, | 0:27:57 | 0:27:59 | |
plans of their new life were being put into place. | 0:27:59 | 0:28:02 | |
Andrea had managed to secure a job in Australia | 0:28:02 | 0:28:05 | |
but unfortunately not in the city she'd fallen in love with. | 0:28:05 | 0:28:08 | |
Finding a job in Brisbane was non-existent. There isn't any. | 0:28:09 | 0:28:14 | |
We've had to look at different areas and have now got a job in Melbourne. | 0:28:14 | 0:28:17 | |
So not quite where we wanted to be originally | 0:28:17 | 0:28:21 | |
but, you know, it's a new place, a new challenge. | 0:28:21 | 0:28:23 | |
It's meant to be the most liveable city in the world. | 0:28:23 | 0:28:26 | |
With the job secured, | 0:28:26 | 0:28:27 | |
all the couple needed was to gain that all-important visa. | 0:28:27 | 0:28:31 | |
And after a three-month wait, | 0:28:31 | 0:28:32 | |
they'd finally been put out of their misery. | 0:28:32 | 0:28:36 | |
All of a sudden, she squealed. | 0:28:36 | 0:28:38 | |
And I went, "Whoa, what's wrong? What's up?" And I just... | 0:28:38 | 0:28:41 | |
I just thought something really bad happened to her, | 0:28:41 | 0:28:43 | |
she'd hurt herself or something. | 0:28:43 | 0:28:45 | |
And she says, "We got the visas!" She was so chuffed! | 0:28:45 | 0:28:48 | |
It was like everything was falling into place. | 0:28:48 | 0:28:50 | |
With their house on the market and flights booked, | 0:28:50 | 0:28:54 | |
all that remained was to get packing. | 0:28:54 | 0:28:56 | |
But for Stan, getting his tools ready was quite a task. | 0:28:56 | 0:28:59 | |
If you think I've been collecting since I was 18 years old. | 0:29:03 | 0:29:06 | |
It's a lot of years, that is. | 0:29:06 | 0:29:08 | |
Get up at 8.00 in the morning | 0:29:08 | 0:29:09 | |
and then I'm in the garage cleaning tools until about... | 0:29:09 | 0:29:13 | |
Well, I get told about 10.00 at night. | 0:29:13 | 0:29:15 | |
It's got to be pretty immaculate, you know. | 0:29:15 | 0:29:17 | |
It's got to look like brand-new before | 0:29:17 | 0:29:19 | |
they'll accept it in Australia. | 0:29:19 | 0:29:21 | |
Stan and Andrea couldn't wait to start their new life down under. | 0:29:26 | 0:29:29 | |
But leaving the friends and family who had supported them | 0:29:29 | 0:29:32 | |
through incredibly tough times was still a daunting prospect. | 0:29:32 | 0:29:36 | |
It's your safety net, if you like. | 0:29:36 | 0:29:38 | |
And then all of a sudden, you're leaving that. | 0:29:38 | 0:29:41 | |
They've been so supportive, you know. | 0:29:41 | 0:29:43 | |
They do everything they can for me. | 0:29:43 | 0:29:45 | |
Part of me feels guilty in the fact that I am pushing this. | 0:29:45 | 0:29:48 | |
We're ripping both of us away from everything | 0:29:48 | 0:29:50 | |
that we've ever known and loved and had. | 0:29:50 | 0:29:52 | |
Maybe I shouldn't be so selfish but it's something that I have to do. | 0:29:52 | 0:29:55 | |
I know this is her dream. And it's become my dream as well. | 0:29:56 | 0:30:02 | |
I'm going to grab it with both horns and go for it. | 0:30:02 | 0:30:05 | |
After the upset and trauma of the past few years, | 0:30:06 | 0:30:09 | |
the couple were finally in a position to look | 0:30:09 | 0:30:11 | |
to their future with hope and anticipation. | 0:30:11 | 0:30:14 | |
Oh, I can't wait! Oh! Can't wait! | 0:30:14 | 0:30:18 | |
I don't care where it is. | 0:30:18 | 0:30:20 | |
As long as we're together, that is all I care about. | 0:30:20 | 0:30:23 | |
It had been a year full of upheaval for Stan and Andrea, | 0:30:26 | 0:30:30 | |
with potential heartache ahead as they prepared to make the move. | 0:30:30 | 0:30:34 | |
So, 12 months later, have the couple finally achieved | 0:30:34 | 0:30:39 | |
a fresh start on the other side of the world? | 0:30:39 | 0:30:42 | |
It's 2015 and the Baums are living in... | 0:30:43 | 0:30:48 | |
Australia! | 0:30:48 | 0:30:49 | |
But the dream life down under got off to a very shaky start. | 0:30:50 | 0:30:54 | |
First couple of weeks were hard. It was really hard. | 0:30:56 | 0:30:59 | |
Um, harder than I thought. | 0:30:59 | 0:31:02 | |
Saying goodbye to family and friends | 0:31:03 | 0:31:05 | |
proved tougher than the couple could ever have imagined. | 0:31:05 | 0:31:08 | |
We've gone through a couple of challenging times. | 0:31:08 | 0:31:11 | |
Um, but that was... | 0:31:11 | 0:31:13 | |
For me, that was the hardest thing I've ever done. | 0:31:13 | 0:31:16 | |
The Baums touched down in Melbourne in May 2014 | 0:31:16 | 0:31:19 | |
but Andrea was soon struggling in the city that had never been | 0:31:19 | 0:31:22 | |
her first choice for a move. | 0:31:22 | 0:31:24 | |
Melbourne is meant to be the most liveable city in the world | 0:31:24 | 0:31:27 | |
and it's a very pretty city and there's lots of things for it. | 0:31:27 | 0:31:31 | |
But it just wasn't for me. | 0:31:31 | 0:31:32 | |
The couple's new life on the other side of the world | 0:31:32 | 0:31:35 | |
wasn't off to the best of starts. | 0:31:35 | 0:31:37 | |
Did not feel settled at all. | 0:31:37 | 0:31:39 | |
I'd kind of already got it in my head, you know, we need to... | 0:31:39 | 0:31:43 | |
..eventually move up to Queensland. | 0:31:43 | 0:31:45 | |
Stan was a little bit more, "No, let's stick it out, see how we go. | 0:31:45 | 0:31:48 | |
"You might really love it down here." | 0:31:48 | 0:31:50 | |
But I know in my heart of hearts, I wouldn't. | 0:31:50 | 0:31:52 | |
It just didn't feel like home. | 0:31:52 | 0:31:54 | |
I didn't feel the same as Andrea. I was optimistic. | 0:31:54 | 0:31:58 | |
I have to look at things, you know, in a more positive attitude. | 0:31:58 | 0:32:01 | |
And I always look at the better side of life than the worst. | 0:32:01 | 0:32:05 | |
Because we've had the worst already, you know. | 0:32:05 | 0:32:08 | |
So, that's how I can move forward, really. | 0:32:08 | 0:32:11 | |
Despite Stan's optimism, | 0:32:11 | 0:32:13 | |
Andrea felt so low just after two weeks, she was on the phone | 0:32:13 | 0:32:17 | |
begging her dad to book them a flight back to the UK. | 0:32:17 | 0:32:20 | |
I said to my dad, "I need you to book me a flight, | 0:32:22 | 0:32:25 | |
"I need you to get me home. I need you to get me home now. | 0:32:25 | 0:32:28 | |
"I'm unhappy, I don't like it, it doesn't feel right. | 0:32:28 | 0:32:31 | |
"I need to be home now." | 0:32:31 | 0:32:32 | |
Andrea and myself both knew it wasn't right. | 0:32:32 | 0:32:36 | |
But it was an opportunity, it was the first step into Australia. | 0:32:36 | 0:32:41 | |
Andrea's dad talked her into sticking it out. | 0:32:43 | 0:32:45 | |
But when the couple took a trip north to visit a friend, | 0:32:45 | 0:32:48 | |
Andrea was more convinced than ever Queensland was where her heart lay. | 0:32:48 | 0:32:52 | |
I don't know, as soon as I stepped off the plane, | 0:32:53 | 0:32:56 | |
it was a bizarre feeling. | 0:32:56 | 0:32:57 | |
I don't know, I can't explain it. | 0:32:57 | 0:32:59 | |
But it just felt like I was home, this is where I belong, | 0:32:59 | 0:33:02 | |
this is where I need to be. | 0:33:02 | 0:33:04 | |
Determined to make the move work, in his own search for employment, | 0:33:04 | 0:33:07 | |
Stan had also been applying for Brisbane-based jobs | 0:33:07 | 0:33:11 | |
on Andrea's behalf. | 0:33:11 | 0:33:12 | |
She asked me one day just to apply for a few jobs, which I did. | 0:33:12 | 0:33:16 | |
And lo and behold, she got offered a job. | 0:33:16 | 0:33:19 | |
For the second time in a matter of months, | 0:33:20 | 0:33:22 | |
the couple were uprooting once again. | 0:33:22 | 0:33:25 | |
It was the easiest flight I've ever done, ever. | 0:33:26 | 0:33:29 | |
I was literally packed...two days before we flew up. | 0:33:29 | 0:33:34 | |
Everything we packed, everything we loaded in the car the night before | 0:33:34 | 0:33:37 | |
and we were gone. | 0:33:37 | 0:33:38 | |
Now living 20 minutes north of Brisbane, | 0:33:39 | 0:33:42 | |
the couple's home is a rented property in a gated community. | 0:33:42 | 0:33:45 | |
With an on-site gym and communal pool, it's perfect for Stan's needs. | 0:33:45 | 0:33:50 | |
It was a bit of a godsend, to be honest, having the gym. | 0:33:50 | 0:33:53 | |
Because that's the one thing that I was looking at. | 0:33:53 | 0:33:56 | |
We knew that we couldn't afford to buy the equipment. | 0:33:56 | 0:34:00 | |
We actually paid just a fraction extra just to have the facilities. | 0:34:00 | 0:34:04 | |
But they are so worth it. | 0:34:04 | 0:34:06 | |
The house may not be everything Andrea dreamed of... | 0:34:06 | 0:34:09 | |
I don't like the fact that we live in what I would call Legoland, | 0:34:09 | 0:34:13 | |
everything is exactly the same. | 0:34:13 | 0:34:15 | |
I don't like how thin the walls and the glass is | 0:34:15 | 0:34:19 | |
because you can hear everything. | 0:34:19 | 0:34:21 | |
But it does have one important feature. | 0:34:21 | 0:34:24 | |
Having more bathrooms is better. | 0:34:24 | 0:34:27 | |
We have a laundry room. | 0:34:27 | 0:34:29 | |
That's my job. | 0:34:31 | 0:34:32 | |
And then we see a downstairs toilet, which is convenient for... | 0:34:33 | 0:34:38 | |
-Especially with Andrea. -Hey! | 0:34:38 | 0:34:40 | |
While downstairs is slightly smaller than they'd like, | 0:34:40 | 0:34:43 | |
upstairs has plenty of room and... | 0:34:43 | 0:34:46 | |
We have our communal bathroom. | 0:34:46 | 0:34:48 | |
We've got a shower unit, bath and a sink. Then we've got a toilet. | 0:34:48 | 0:34:53 | |
This is our second toilet. | 0:34:53 | 0:34:55 | |
And yeah. Andrea loves the toilet. | 0:34:56 | 0:34:59 | |
There's also space for visiting friends and family. | 0:35:02 | 0:35:05 | |
This is our spare room. It's got a balcony. Beautiful view out there. | 0:35:05 | 0:35:10 | |
This is our second spare bedroom. | 0:35:11 | 0:35:15 | |
Basically, this is where I do all the ironing. | 0:35:15 | 0:35:18 | |
And finally, we have our room. | 0:35:20 | 0:35:23 | |
We have got our own en-suite as well. | 0:35:23 | 0:35:26 | |
And yes, you guessed it. | 0:35:26 | 0:35:28 | |
Third toilet. | 0:35:28 | 0:35:29 | |
Andrea is going to view that one really well. | 0:35:31 | 0:35:33 | |
What more could a girl want? | 0:35:33 | 0:35:34 | |
Stan's delighted with the new home for his beloveds tools. | 0:35:36 | 0:35:41 | |
We've got our garage which we can keep the car in. | 0:35:41 | 0:35:45 | |
And also all my tools, which really is amazing | 0:35:45 | 0:35:49 | |
considering in the UK, you struggle to even fit your car in. | 0:35:49 | 0:35:54 | |
Although the house is a good fit for the couple, it is remote. | 0:35:55 | 0:35:59 | |
Meaning a trip to the shops can be a challenge for Stan. | 0:35:59 | 0:36:02 | |
I think the first time I tried to do it, it took me two hours. | 0:36:04 | 0:36:07 | |
And the second time, just after a bit of training, | 0:36:07 | 0:36:11 | |
it took me an hour and 40 minutes, wasn't it? | 0:36:11 | 0:36:14 | |
To walk there, literally try and get what we wanted, | 0:36:14 | 0:36:17 | |
which wasn't there, and then walk straight back. | 0:36:17 | 0:36:20 | |
But walking in the Aussie sunshine has worked wonders | 0:36:20 | 0:36:24 | |
for Stan's rehabilitation. | 0:36:24 | 0:36:26 | |
Since we've been over here, my mood, my emotions improve no end. | 0:36:26 | 0:36:31 | |
I'm training quite well. | 0:36:31 | 0:36:33 | |
You know, I think even though | 0:36:33 | 0:36:34 | |
my weight's dropped down to about 10st, | 0:36:34 | 0:36:37 | |
I'm feeling a lot fitter, a lot better. | 0:36:37 | 0:36:39 | |
Making a massive difference. | 0:36:39 | 0:36:41 | |
Andrea has settled in well to her new job. | 0:36:42 | 0:36:45 | |
I'm currently working in a private emergency department in Brisbane. | 0:36:45 | 0:36:50 | |
She's been impressed with the hospital's working practices. | 0:36:50 | 0:36:54 | |
It's the time factor. | 0:36:54 | 0:36:55 | |
You actually have time to care for your patient, which is nice. | 0:36:55 | 0:36:59 | |
And that's not the only plus. | 0:36:59 | 0:37:02 | |
The money is a massive bonus. | 0:37:02 | 0:37:03 | |
I earn double my wage compared to what I did in the UK. | 0:37:03 | 0:37:07 | |
While Andrea is at work, Stan's keeping busy too. | 0:37:07 | 0:37:10 | |
I clean the house, top to bottom, | 0:37:10 | 0:37:13 | |
make sure it's as clean and tidy as possible. | 0:37:13 | 0:37:15 | |
Then I will go to the gym, I'll do my training at the gym. | 0:37:15 | 0:37:20 | |
I come back to the house, probably do a little bit more trailing. | 0:37:20 | 0:37:23 | |
So, that takes up a couple of hours in itself. And then I prepare food. | 0:37:23 | 0:37:29 | |
You know, make sure dinner is ready if we're eating that night. | 0:37:29 | 0:37:33 | |
And then finally, apply for jobs. | 0:37:33 | 0:37:37 | |
That is my day. | 0:37:37 | 0:37:38 | |
Though Stan's job hunt for Andrea was a success, | 0:37:40 | 0:37:42 | |
his own search for work has been more frustrating. | 0:37:42 | 0:37:46 | |
I've been applying for so many jobs | 0:37:46 | 0:37:49 | |
and I've been looking mainly at using my skills, you know, | 0:37:49 | 0:37:54 | |
as a mechanic to help me with getting employment elsewhere. | 0:37:54 | 0:37:59 | |
Like a service advisor, parts, something like that. | 0:37:59 | 0:38:04 | |
Something where I can use the skills that I've got. | 0:38:04 | 0:38:07 | |
He's constantly on the phone chasing potential work opportunities. | 0:38:07 | 0:38:12 | |
I'm rehabilitating myself all the time. | 0:38:12 | 0:38:14 | |
No problem at all, thank you very much. | 0:38:15 | 0:38:18 | |
Definitely, will do. Thank you. | 0:38:18 | 0:38:19 | |
Bye. | 0:38:21 | 0:38:22 | |
Yeah, I've even looked into teaching as well. | 0:38:22 | 0:38:24 | |
But at the minute, the problem is | 0:38:24 | 0:38:27 | |
employers only see me as a liability. | 0:38:27 | 0:38:31 | |
You know, a risk for them. | 0:38:31 | 0:38:33 | |
-Shall we have a wander? -Yes. Where are we going? | 0:38:33 | 0:38:35 | |
You can tell me about it. Come on, then. | 0:38:35 | 0:38:38 | |
It's been eight months of a struggle, yes. | 0:38:38 | 0:38:42 | |
I just feel bad for Stan | 0:38:42 | 0:38:43 | |
because this whole move was about opportunities and things. | 0:38:43 | 0:38:47 | |
And there are lots of opportunities, it's just getting the right one. | 0:38:47 | 0:38:50 | |
But he'll find it. I've got no doubt, he'll find it. | 0:38:50 | 0:38:53 | |
He's having a bit of time off. He's adjusting to Australian lifestyle. | 0:38:53 | 0:38:57 | |
I just feel, you know, it's a challenge. | 0:38:57 | 0:39:00 | |
All of it, everything that I've had to do, it's all a challenge. | 0:39:00 | 0:39:05 | |
Just got to find that right person. | 0:39:05 | 0:39:07 | |
While there's only one wage coming in, | 0:39:09 | 0:39:11 | |
more money in Andrea's pay packet means the couple can afford to | 0:39:11 | 0:39:15 | |
make the most of their new-found free time. | 0:39:15 | 0:39:17 | |
When we were in the UK, we just didn't do anything. | 0:39:17 | 0:39:21 | |
Andrea worked a lot of the time and then because she worked so hard, | 0:39:21 | 0:39:26 | |
when she was home, she just wanted to chill. | 0:39:26 | 0:39:29 | |
So, it is a big change being out here. | 0:39:29 | 0:39:31 | |
I've been trying to save up just to kind of have a bit of a backup. | 0:39:34 | 0:39:38 | |
Because we didn't have hardly any money at all in England | 0:39:38 | 0:39:41 | |
and I've got... | 0:39:41 | 0:39:42 | |
We have a little bit more disposable cash here. | 0:39:42 | 0:39:45 | |
Not a lot but it's enough to put into savings | 0:39:45 | 0:39:48 | |
and pay for a nice holiday. | 0:39:48 | 0:39:50 | |
Really want to go to Fiji. | 0:39:50 | 0:39:51 | |
And it's not just holidays on the to-do list. | 0:39:54 | 0:39:57 | |
Stan and Andrea have kept in touch with the biker group | 0:39:57 | 0:39:59 | |
from their trial week. | 0:39:59 | 0:40:01 | |
They're great, absolutely great. | 0:40:02 | 0:40:04 | |
Stan was such an inspiration to us when we first met him. | 0:40:04 | 0:40:08 | |
Now it's just been awesome to see the way he's handled himself | 0:40:08 | 0:40:12 | |
and got himself up and going. | 0:40:12 | 0:40:13 | |
One of our aims is to try and get him riding a Can-Am Spyder soon. | 0:40:14 | 0:40:18 | |
Once I get working again, | 0:40:20 | 0:40:22 | |
I wanted to look at buying an automatic one | 0:40:22 | 0:40:24 | |
so I can get back to driving again. | 0:40:24 | 0:40:26 | |
-No. -No, no! -The couple have found it easy making new friends. | 0:40:27 | 0:40:31 | |
My new work colleagues, they're really friendly as well | 0:40:31 | 0:40:34 | |
and we've gone out a couple of times. | 0:40:34 | 0:40:37 | |
There are groups that you can go, so if you're a movie buff, | 0:40:37 | 0:40:40 | |
there's a movie group. | 0:40:40 | 0:40:42 | |
There's walking groups, there's expat groups, there's... | 0:40:43 | 0:40:48 | |
There's all sorts. | 0:40:48 | 0:40:50 | |
So is there anything Andrea and Stan miss about the UK? | 0:40:50 | 0:40:54 | |
I definitely don't miss the weather. | 0:40:55 | 0:40:57 | |
You know. Um, I don't... | 0:40:57 | 0:41:00 | |
I miss the cars, I suppose. | 0:41:00 | 0:41:02 | |
Miss the rain, don't you? | 0:41:02 | 0:41:04 | |
-That's what you miss about the UK. -Yeah, the wind and the rain! | 0:41:04 | 0:41:08 | |
The snow, the cold... No. I actually miss my old work. | 0:41:08 | 0:41:12 | |
I don't miss the bitching and moaning | 0:41:12 | 0:41:14 | |
on the way back from your work. | 0:41:14 | 0:41:15 | |
-It's just because I was busy. -Stress relief. -Yeah, I moan at you anyway. | 0:41:15 | 0:41:20 | |
Deal with it. You married me. | 0:41:20 | 0:41:21 | |
The move down under may have had its teething problems... | 0:41:23 | 0:41:26 | |
Looking back, the move was stressful, intense. | 0:41:26 | 0:41:31 | |
Took more out of me than I thought it would. | 0:41:31 | 0:41:35 | |
It was tough. I didn't expect it to be an easy move at all. | 0:41:37 | 0:41:42 | |
I expected it to be tough. | 0:41:42 | 0:41:44 | |
And it's been everything that I have expected. | 0:41:44 | 0:41:46 | |
But Andrea and Stan are adamant it was the right thing to do. | 0:41:47 | 0:41:51 | |
I don't regret moving. I did at the time. | 0:41:52 | 0:41:55 | |
I was like, "I'm going home, I just want to be back with my family, | 0:41:55 | 0:41:58 | |
"I want to be back where my comfort zone is." | 0:41:58 | 0:42:01 | |
But now we've been here coming up to a year, | 0:42:01 | 0:42:05 | |
I've got no regrets in moving. I've got no... | 0:42:05 | 0:42:08 | |
This is where we need to be at this stage right now in our life. | 0:42:08 | 0:42:12 | |
I think moving has been the best thing I've done so far. | 0:42:12 | 0:42:17 | |
I mean, it's quite hard missing out on family life. | 0:42:17 | 0:42:22 | |
But in myself, I feel it has been the best move. | 0:42:22 | 0:42:25 | |
So, are the couple living the dream life they've chased for so long? | 0:42:26 | 0:42:30 | |
This is my dream. | 0:42:30 | 0:42:31 | |
A few little tweaks that I need to make but that's just comes in time. | 0:42:31 | 0:42:35 | |
I'm living A dream. | 0:42:35 | 0:42:38 | |
Not my ideal dream because... | 0:42:38 | 0:42:42 | |
I need to be working. | 0:42:42 | 0:42:44 | |
I need to be working back on cars, I need to be riding bikes. | 0:42:44 | 0:42:48 | |
Doing the stuff I loved before. | 0:42:48 | 0:42:51 | |
I've just got to keep getting stronger, getting better | 0:42:51 | 0:42:54 | |
and I will, you know, end up living my dream. | 0:42:54 | 0:42:58 | |
Having overcome many obstacles and hurdles in pursuit of their dream, | 0:43:01 | 0:43:06 | |
Andrea and Stan now look poised to enjoy a very rosy new life | 0:43:06 | 0:43:10 | |
on the other side of the world. | 0:43:10 | 0:43:12 | |
We wish them a happy and well-deserved future together. | 0:43:12 | 0:43:16 |