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All of us appreciate having loved ones nearby.

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So what would you do if your partner held a burning desire to move abroad,

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one that would see half a world put between you

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and those you held dearest?

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For the last eight years,

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Gavin Butterworth has been chasing a new life in Australia.

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The amount of people I've spoken to who have had regrets about

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doing something similar, I don't want to be one of those people.

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But wife Tracy can't bear to leave family behind.

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My mum and dad are devastated.

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Absolutely do not want us to go.

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A week down under sees Gavin trying to sell the dream...

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Would you move to Australia for this house?

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I'm not answering that question yet.

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..before Tracy faces the biggest decision of her life.

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I really don't.

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Somebody's going to be disappointed. Either Gavin or my family.

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Famed for its stunning landscape,

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pristine beaches and laid-back lifestyle,

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Australia has been the number one choice

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for Brits seeking a new start abroad for the last 20 years.

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They are drawn by the prospect of a warmer climate

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and more outdoors way of life.

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But not everyone makes it work.

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Around half of those making the move return home

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with their dreams in tatters.

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Tracy Butterworth has already moved once for her loving husband Gavin,

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when sad circumstances saw her pack up

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a successful career in London to move to Northern Ireland.

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With life far from plain sailing ever since, Gavin feels the time

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is now right to consider another move, this time to Australia.

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But in one week, can he persuade Tracy to sign up to a new life

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on the other side of the world?

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Flying via Malaysian,

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it takes the family 24 hours to get from the UK to Australia.

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And when they finally touch down in Adelaide,

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there's a slight disagreement on how the trip went.

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-I thought it was great.

-Yeah, it was good.

-I feel good.

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Jonah has slept OK, so it wasn't as bad as I thought it was going to be.

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I thought the flights went well, they went better than expected,

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but I don't agree with Gavin - Jonas didn't sleep.

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I liked the plane rides.

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Gavin can't wait to get the family's week down under started.

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Coming into land into Adelaide in Australia felt really good,

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definitely very excited about the job opportunities,

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what might lie in store.

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But Tracy is already questioning

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if the journey she's just made is one everyone could make.

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I would be concerned about the length of flight for my parents.

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You know, it's long, it is long.

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Gavin could have a tough job on his hands

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if he's to persuade Tracy to sign up for a new life in the sun.

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There's the sun coming through now, a nice cool breeze.

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Meet the Butterworths.

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Dad Gavin, mum Tracy and three-year-old Jonas live in Belfast.

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But the city is not always where they've called home.

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In their 20s, the couple were living the good life in London.

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Loads of our friends moved with us and we just had a ball.

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We had a great time, yeah.

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We were very well established and we were both in great jobs.

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Really loved London, you know, really loved it.

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And then Gavin wanted to come home.

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-Yes.

-I didn't.

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Set, go!

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Tracy felt, after seven years in the capital,

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everything they'd worked hard to achieve was a lot to give up.

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But with his dad having fallen ill, Gavin felt the timing was right

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and Tracy stood by his side.

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I felt the need to move back home.

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You know, Tracy supported me on that, and I really appreciated that.

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The move went smoothly and Gavin soon proposed.

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I was horrified!

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Still paying off the ring.

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But we got married and we had a ball, so that was good.

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But life for the couple has been far from plain sailing ever since.

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We got burgled twice.

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-Gavin's daddy died.

-My dad passed away.

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Not long after that, I suffered a burst duodenal ulcer

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and lost two-thirds of my blood.

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Even growing their family proved a challenge.

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JONAS COUGHS

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Having Jonas was a bit like a miracle baby.

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-We really didn't think it was going to happen.

-No.

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We had a lot of problems conceiving.

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It was six very long years.

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-It's hard thinking back to it, it was a nightmare.

-Mm.

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It's been a very, very hard ten years, there's no doubt about that.

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Gavin has struggled to find work in his area of expertise -

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the wine industry - meaning he's been forced to take on

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a series of temporary contracts working in film and TV.

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There's been times you've been in and out of work,

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so we've just been down onto one wage,

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we've got a hefty mortgage, it's just felt tougher.

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We had to move out of this house for a year.

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We had to rent it out, and that was financially orientated as well.

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Times have been tough, and for the last eight years,

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Gavin has been dreaming of another move,

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this time to the other side of the world.

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I think the key reasons behind us wanting to move to Australia...

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Behind Gavin wanting to move to Australia.

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For me, first and foremost, it would be Jonas, um..

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cos I want the best for him.

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A trip the couple took down under 16 years ago made a lasting impression.

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Australia was just... It just blew us away, it blew both of us away.

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I fell in love with the country.

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Shall we do a beach, like a sandy beach? Let's do a new one.

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The country could also be the perfect place

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to get Gavin's career back on track.

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One of the other key reasons why we want to do the move to Australia

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is from a career perspective, it's to get back into the wine industry.

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There's just one problem.

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Having already moved once for him,

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Tracy isn't keen on doing it all over again.

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In simple terms,

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it is Gavin Butterworth's dream to move to Australia.

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And no, we don't both share that dream.

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He is definitely obsessed about it because he never...

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stops...talking about it.

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Most of Tracy's family live just a 40-minute drive away.

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Putting half a world between them would be tough.

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It's halfway around the world.

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It's so far away.

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And her parents are already distraught at the thought

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of being separated from their grandchild.

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My mum and dad are devastated.

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Really devastated.

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And absolutely do not want us to go.

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Leaving her torn over which side of the world

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would really be best for her son.

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I don't know how you make the decision between Jonas growing up

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with his cousins and aunts and uncles and grandparents...

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..and a sunshine life somewhere else.

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Gavin understands he's asking a lot of his wife,

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but genuinely believes the benefits of a move

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will be worth it in the long run.

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I know it's going to affect a lot of people,

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but I have our best interests at heart.

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The couple are under no illusions

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about the size of the decision they face in the coming week.

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It is...probably the most important week of our lives.

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Are we going to be in Northern Ireland with our family,

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or are we going to be halfway around the world?

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How big is that decision?

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To find out if Gavin can persuade Tracy Australia holds the key

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to their future, the family are visiting Adelaide,

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where even in the depths of winter

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temperatures can hit an average high of 16 degrees.

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The Butterworths' base for the week is a two-bedroom cottage

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in the historic inner-city suburb of Unley.

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And even from the car, they like what they see.

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That's our Australia house.

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-Wow!

-Wow!

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-I think that's gorgeous.

-Yes, very pretty.

-I love the colour.

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Inside, Jonas is impressed.

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-Do you like it, Jonas?

-Yes!

-Yay!

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-Wow!

-Ooh, bedroom.

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There's much more space than Tracy imagined.

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I am just a bit shocked because it looks small from the outside,

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but it's massive, the ceilings are massive.

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And Gavin is quick to capitalise on Tracy's reaction.

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I think the size is perfect.

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-I do, actually.

-Would you move to Australia for this house?

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I'm not answering that question yet.

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Tracy may be happy with her home for the next seven days,

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but she's already fearing the decision

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she'll have to face at the end of the week.

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I suppose my concern is that I really love it.

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And, you know, I have to think about

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how do I...deal with the situation at home.

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Because the situation at home hasn't changed, you know,

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nobody wants us to leave.

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Gavin is taking a casual view on the distance from home...

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It is a day on a plane.

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But you could argue it's ONLY a day on a plane.

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..and thinks their temporary home has helped his case.

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She definitely loves it and it's good from my point of view.

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But Tracy's clear she'll need to make up her own mind.

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I think, if Gavin goes on a kind of propaganda exercise for the week,

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I'll throttle him.

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Careful, careful.

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He may be confident now, but Gavin knows the real test is yet to come.

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I want this to be as real as possible

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because it is the biggest decision we'll ever make.

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Back in the UK, Gavin and Tracy own

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a three-bedroom home in Belfast's leafy suburbs.

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Homebird Tracy loves the location.

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Close to family, er... we really, you know,

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we've really settled in this community.

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We know a lot of people here.

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If they did move, Gavin and Tracy would rent a property

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and have a budget of £1,200 a month.

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Gavin knows exactly where he'd like a home to be.

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Something that's close enough to the beach,

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doesn't have to be on the doorstep.

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Tracy, however, is thinking more practically

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about how to make the most of Australia's warmer climate.

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We would love something that's very sort of indoor/outdoor.

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You'd live as much outside as you would in. That really appeals to us.

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But you'd want a swimming pool, you would.

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Yeah, and big doors that would kind of open out onto a place

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where you would eat outside and sit outside.

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To find out what kind of house

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the Butterworths could rent in Australia,

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today we'll show Tracy and Gavin three properties -

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two on budget and one which could be their dream home.

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Only once they've viewed each one

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will they discover how much they'd cost to rent.

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For their first viewing,

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the Butterworths are only a hop, skip and jump away

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from their base in the suburb of Unley.

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The property is a brand-new townhouse

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which boasts great access to transport, shopping and cafes.

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Will this shiny new home be the one to convince Tracy to make the move?

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From outside, first impressions aren't great.

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-Um...I don't know if it's...

-Industrial.

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-Yeah, industrial.

-Industrial.

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-Industrial.

-A bit small.

-Yeah.

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Doesn't look like a lot of outdoor space.

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Inside, the house's layout causes confusion.

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-That's the garage, isn't it?

-Yeah. Obviously.

-OK, that's bizarre.

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Gee-whiz!

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-It's a big old space.

-It's huge.

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Tracy just can't get her head around the integral parking.

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Living in the house with your car.

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"Who's downstairs?" "The car."

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It's bizarre.

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Across the hallway, there's another surprise.

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-Oh, so it's a bedroom.

-OK.

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I didn't expect that.

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And Tracy is worried its location could be an issue.

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I just wonder how noisy it would be as well if you're down here

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and this is a main walkway.

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I don't think it would be that noisy.

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Upstairs, the small size of the property becomes a problem.

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-Gee-whiz!

-OK.

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-So it is just this floor.

-Yeah.

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So it's like an apartment then.

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But Gavin is quick to point out a positive.

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You see, this is a good-sized balcony, isn't it?

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Um...

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Yes, it's a great-sized balcony.

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You know, I think if we were in our 20s, yes.

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Back inside, Tracy warms to the kitchen.

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-It's a nice, bright kitchen.

-It's lovely, yeah.

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Yeah, there's loads of storage.

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But bedroom two is far from what she was hoping for.

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-What is in here?

-It's a bedroom.

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Yeah, it's a bedroom, once again it's small.

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With no windows.

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Well, you've got a bit of light coming from up there.

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A bedroom with no windows, I can't compute.

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And the family bathroom has Tracy putting her foot down.

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-It's too small.

-OK.

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It's clear this isn't the property that's going to wow Tracy.

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But even so, could they afford it with their £1,200 a month budget?

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Just this space upstairs, it's just tight.

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-And the kitchen and living, it's just too tight.

-Yeah.

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Honestly, if it's not on budget,

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I think it's going to be slightly more,

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-cos of the area.

-Yeah, I agree.

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-Yeah?

-Let's see.

-Right.

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OK...

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-Yeah.

-Exactly, exactly on budget.

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That doesn't surprise me.

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Is this how you would want to live?

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No, it wouldn't be, if we were a bit younger, didn't have Jonas,

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it probably would work really well. But it's not for now.

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And there's no way I'm moving halfway across the world

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to be in something like this.

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-One, two, three...

-Go!

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-Whoa!

-Whoa!

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Gavin's mission to move Tracy isn't off to a great start.

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Will property two do the job?

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It's located in Glengowrie.

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Just 10 minutes from Adelaide's best-known beach, Glenelg,

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the location could suit Gavin.

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The suburb boasts good schools and transport links.

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But will the house be more family friendly than property one?

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-It looks nice, doesn't it?

-Yes.

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Instantly, Tracy's reaction is more positive.

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-I like it, what do you think?

-I like it too.

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I really like it from the outside, it's lovely.

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And inside, Gavin is hopeful.

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-Looks like an improvement on the last already, doesn't it?

-Yeah.

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The bedrooms get the viewing off to a good start.

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-Looks nice.

-Yeah.

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-Much bigger size than the last one.

-Yeah.

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Than house number one. Wow, this looks good.

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And walk-in wardrobes and an ensuite are a bonus.

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It's a brilliant size, isn't it?

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-Hello, my boy, is this going to be your room?

-Do you like this room?

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Bedroom two gets Jonas's seal of approval.

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Let me see you sleeping on the bed.

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-Oh, bye-byes.

-He's sleeping.

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Oh, he's having a good sleep.

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And in this house, all the bedrooms have windows.

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It's lovely and bright. I love that.

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I really love the light.

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Definitely picture ourselves living in this property

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-compared to the last one.

-Yeah, I feel a bit excited.

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You could be onto a good thing here, Gavin.

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No, I really like this.

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Yeah, it's big, isn't it?

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The large, open-plan living space is another winner.

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It feels a lot more like what we would have been thinking about

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as a transition home.

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And while the garden is not enormous, one exotic feature proves popular.

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This is great.

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A palm tree in our own back garden.

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I was going to say, I like the tree.

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Just one big tree on its own.

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Every photograph we send home could be us in front of that tree.

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Yeah, definitely.

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It's nice, it is nice, it's very basic.

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But it's in the right direction, much more what we were thinking of.

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Compared to the last one, there's no comparison really.

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-The question is, how much is it?

-Yeah.

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That's a very good point, Tracy.

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It could be a house they could call home,

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but would their £1,200 a month rental budget

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be enough to let them move in?

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-OK, price time.

-Yeah, I know. What do you think?

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I really like it, seems like a good area,

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-seems like a good area for young families.

-Yeah.

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My worry is that it's above our price.

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Cos I would...

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-If it is, I don't think it's a lot over budget.

-Yeah, I hope not.

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-I think it's round about 1,300, something like that.

-Yeah?

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Shall we have a look?

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-Ooh, right. Now, that's interesting.

-Yeah, that's good.

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-That is good.

-Yeah.

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It's bang on the couple's £1,200 a month budget.

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And Tracy is beginning to imagine herself in an Aussie home.

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-That's reassuring, actually.

-Yeah. Yeah.

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I like this house. I could really see us in this.

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Moving further out of the city into the Adelaide Hills,

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the couple head for what we think could be their dream home

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in the suburb of Belair.

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While the area has a rural feel,

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the city is still within a half-hour drive.

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This home promises breathtaking views across the treetops.

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But will Gavin and Tracy agree it's the place for them?

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I actually quite like it. I like how it looks.

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So far, so good.

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-This is going quite high up, isn't it?

-Yeah.

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Gee-whiz!

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Part of this home's appeal is its height and views.

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But that could be a problem too.

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I don't know how child friendly those stairs are.

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It would make me pretty nervous, up and down every day.

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The light, welcoming interior, however, wins Tracy's approval.

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-Now...

-Wow!

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-It's nice.

-Yeah.

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-All the glass is beautiful.

-Yeah.

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I love that you've got both sides, you know, the double aspect.

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It's a theme that continues through to the kitchen.

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-I love all the glass, it's so bright.

-Yeah.

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You know, that's really pretty.

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And there's a feature tailor-made for wine buff Gavin.

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Here, look, Gavin.

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Oh, yeah, there you go.

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That would be... that would be you happy.

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I might need a bit more space than that, Tracy.

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This property boasts four bedrooms,

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so plenty of space for when family and friends visit.

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Oh, right, another room.

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And the guest room impresses with an en suite bathroom

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and panoramic views of neighbouring bushland.

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-Yeah, it's very different to Belfast.

-Yeah, it is.

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It's very different to any kind of landscape in Northern Ireland.

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But the best is saved for last.

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-Oh, my goodness!

-Oh, Jonas!

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It's a feature Gavin had been hoping for, and it's heated.

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I was not expecting that. It's the whole length of the house.

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You could swim in your own house, could you imagine that?

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-Can we swim now?

-We can't swim today.

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It's got the space and the pool the couple want,

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but Tracy is worried it may not be a practical home for her family.

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-Everything here is a hazard for a three-year-old.

-Yeah.

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Those stairs, that balcony, out the back.

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This property may not be right for the Butterworths now,

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but could it be within reach of their £1,200 a month rental budget?

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OK?

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What do you think?

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I like the house.

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It's just not a dream house for me and I don't think it is for you.

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No, I agree. I think the house is beautiful

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and I think it's a house for people who have maybe older children.

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I think about 15...plus.

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I don't know, I don't think it's going to be £100 more,

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or £100 less, I don't know,

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-1,400 to 1,600, something like that.

-Yeah.

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-So, will we turn it over?

-Go ahead.

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-Do you want to do it?

-No, you do it.

-OK.

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So, we were kind of right there.

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-It's less than what I thought.

-Yeah.

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That's just over budget, and Gavin and Tracy think it's a fair price,

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even if the house isn't for them.

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It's kind of incredible when you think of the size of this place.

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-I know.

-Really.

-It's a bit of a bargain, really, isn't it?

-Yeah.

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It's been a day of mixed results on the property-hunt front.

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Property one's unusual layout and lack of light failed to impress.

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Property two was definitely somewhere the couple could imagine living.

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And while property three certainly had the wow factor

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with the pool and panoramic views,

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it wasn't suitable for a family with a toddler in tow.

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So, when it comes to the vote,

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will the family feel the day's positives outshine the negatives?

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Will they choose properties at home or away?

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-Australia.

-UK.

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Australia.

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THEY LAUGH

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So, why did you vote for Australia? Based on what we've seen today.

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I was going to vote undecided until we went to the last property.

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I just thought it was a lot of property for what you were paying.

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And it was in a nice location.

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For me, nothing caught my heart really today,

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or my imagination or...

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you know, anything that I thought was worth me leaving my home.

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-Well done, Jonas.

-Yes, that was a good one, sweetheart.

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-You picked the right country, my boy.

-There you go.

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Tracy, what's this UK thing all about?

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Honestly!

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Tracy's vote for the UK means

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Gavin's vision of a new life down under could be in trouble.

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Already on the back foot, discovering if good jobs and good salaries

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could be found in South Australia is more important than ever.

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Have a seat.

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Back in the UK, Tracy has carved out a successful career for herself

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as a consultant psychologist.

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'I love my job. I've been able to be a part'

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of people recovering or getting better.

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Gavin's work life has been more erratic.

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He currently works in film and TV, but hopes a move to Australia

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could see him gain a permanent job in the industry he loves.

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I think I was happiest career-wise

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when I was working with anything to do with wine,

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and it's something I'm really keen to get back into.

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For Tracy, finding a job on a par with what she has now will be key.

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There is no way I would go to Australia if I didn't have

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a career opportunity that matched my career here.

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Gavin heads out to McLaren Vale, an hour from Adelaide.

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It's home to more than 125 wineries

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and he knows today is critical if he's is to sell Tracy the dream.

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Yesterday she voted for the UK, house-wise,

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so, off on the back foot really, and just a bit nervous about that

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and how things are going to be for her today, as well as myself.

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Tracy visits a health centre in Noarlunga, 15 minutes from the city.

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As the main breadwinner and potential visa applicant,

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she's also feeling the pressure.

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Both in terms of actual opportunities

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and in terms of the finances, it all feels like it's resting on me.

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-Hi, Tracy, welcome.

-Thank you very much.

-I'm Shirley.

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She's shown around by the clinical health nurse Shirley Hunter

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and wastes no time asking about how relevant her qualifications would be.

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The skills and training that I would have would be recognised

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-and easily transferable, would they?

-Absolutely.

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They'd be recognised here.

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And certainly, with that addition to your psychology background,

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very employable.

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OK. OK, well, that's good news for me

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because I've been so worried about that.

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Meanwhile, in McLaren Vale, Gavin is getting a vineyard tour

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from local winemaker Andrew Wood.

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So, Andrew, what grape varieties are you growing at the minute?

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Personally, for myself,

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I concentrate on the new alternative Mediterranean varietals.

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So Tempranillo, Montepulciano, Sangiovese.

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And he also gets to work

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tasting some of the fruits of Andrew's labour.

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This is just very smooth, easy drinking,

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I imagine it would go well with a lot of food.

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Gavin is in his element.

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Back at the health centre, Tracy is keen to know

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if vacancies exist for psychologists at the moment.

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-Positions come up, I suppose, as people move into other areas.

-OK.

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We recently have just had two positions come up.

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So, Shirley, if I was to start working in SA Health,

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do you have an idea of what the salary might be?

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A full-time rate would start, base rate, would start at 74,000.

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That's approximately £37,000.

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Well under the £60,000 Tracy currently earns.

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That would probably be less than my NHS wages.

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Possibly your level of experience might correspond to

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a different pay range, up to the range of 94,000.

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That sounds a bit better.

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A disappointing salary could be a problem for Tracy.

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To find out about HIS career prospects down under,

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Gavin's met up with Marc Allgrove

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of McLaren Vale's Grape, Wine and Tourism Association.

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He starts off asking if his experience in the area

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of international wine sales could be in demand.

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The understanding of international markets,

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and in particular the understanding of the demands in those markets,

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would be of real interest to people.

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Is there job opportunities, is their buoyancy in the market?

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Well, we're just about to fill a role which we advertised

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for a senior marketing professional.

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And I think it demonstrates that there are opportunities

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for people with your skill set.

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It's just the news Gavin had been hoping for.

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But what kind of money could he expect to earn?

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If you were offering your experience and your international knowledge,

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anywhere between 85,000 to 120,000 as a base salary

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should be within your expectation.

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That's brilliant, that's excellent, that's just what I wanted to hear.

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That's between about £42,000 and £60,000,

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which could be double what he currently earns in the UK.

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It's been a day of mixed fortunes.

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Meeting up, Tracy is keen to hear how Gavin has fared.

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All right, sweetheart?

0:28:110:28:12

-Good to see you.

-And you.

-How was your day?

-Yeah, interesting.

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Yeah. You start.

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Both individuals I spoke to said that I would expect

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I could get work over here and the money would be a very good too.

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She was very positive about my employability,

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she was very positive about the skills I would be bringing.

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But then Tracy drops the bombshell about her potential salary shortfall.

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What probably wasn't so positive was wages.

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It goes from 74 to 94.

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Which is, you know, just about...

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I mean, if I went in at 94, that's just about comparable with home,

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you know, so I suppose I was a bit disappointed with that, you know.

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So, when it comes to work opportunities,

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which way will the couple vote?

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-Australia.

-Undecided.

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Why?

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I think it's obvious, really, for me.

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Does it really look that good for you?

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It really was positive. And I could stand out over here.

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For...for me, I just need more research,

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both in terms of what work's there and financially what that means.

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Although she received positive news on the work front, it looks like

0:29:370:29:41

Tracy is still far from convinced her ideal life awaits down under.

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With her yet to vote for Australia, Gavin's dream could be on the rocks

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unless the country's legendary lifestyle can bring her round.

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The family head out of Adelaide to visit a petting farm in Hahndorf,

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an old German settlement.

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And they waste no time in getting up close and personal

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with some of the farm inhabitants.

0:30:030:30:05

-Aww!

-Aww, he's giving you a cuddle.

0:30:050:30:08

What a lovely fella.

0:30:090:30:10

While Jonas plays nearby,

0:30:100:30:12

Tracy confines in Gavin her doubts about a move aren't disappearing.

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-It's such a big decision to make.

-And the pressure.

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Yeah, so I've been thinking about it a lot, you know.

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I didn't really sleep much last night thinking about it.

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At this point, nothing feels clear to me, particularly.

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My concerns are that, you know, your boxes aren't being ticked

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and I'm really keen for that to happen because, you know,

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for me it's a total family decision.

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I can't see myself living here yet.

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Their day in the country, though, has impressed everyone.

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-BOTH:

-One...two...three.

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Whoah!

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And another one!

0:30:520:30:54

This will be something that I would want to do on a regular basis.

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Obviously the weather is great, that helps.

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Plus you've got the beaches, the wine lands,

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that, to me, is how I would like to live.

0:31:030:31:05

Today has been a great day.

0:31:050:31:07

Relaxed time in the sun, walking around,

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not feeling kind of burdened.

0:31:100:31:11

-Oh!

-You did it.

0:31:130:31:15

I really did kiss a camel.

0:31:150:31:17

It was really good fun at the farm.

0:31:170:31:20

It was really good to see Jonas excited,

0:31:200:31:23

and I was really chuffed with just how bold he was with the animals.

0:31:230:31:27

You know, he wasn't scared, he got into it.

0:31:270:31:30

Now, more than halfway through the week,

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Gavin knows he's got his work cut out to win Tracy over.

0:31:330:31:36

I don't think Australia is living up to her expectations as yet.

0:31:360:31:40

But there's still time to work on her and hopefully it will improve.

0:31:400:31:44

Tracy can see both the positives and negatives

0:31:440:31:47

of bringing Jonas down under.

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The outdoor living and him being happy is a great thing,

0:31:490:31:53

and then on the other hand, I know he loves his cousins.

0:31:530:31:57

You know, he really loves Liam and his best mate Nikolai,

0:31:570:32:01

and all his aunts and uncles.

0:32:010:32:03

And I wonder about how much he would miss them.

0:32:030:32:06

It's on my mind a lot.

0:32:060:32:08

I really feel exhausted.

0:32:080:32:10

She's torn.

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Following her husband's dream will mean devastating her family at home.

0:32:110:32:16

Somebody's going to be disappointed.

0:32:160:32:18

You know, either Gavin or my family.

0:32:180:32:21

And that's just... that's how it is.

0:32:260:32:28

Nobody wants us to go,

0:32:280:32:29

and that's lovely too, you know, everybody said don't go.

0:32:290:32:33

It's going to be rough.

0:32:330:32:34

Tracy faces a heartbreaking decision, come the end of the week.

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But based purely on lifestyle, how will she and Gavin vote?

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Based on our activities today, we vote for...

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-Australia.

-Australia.

0:32:590:33:00

Australia.

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I got it the wrong way!

0:33:030:33:05

THEY LAUGH

0:33:050:33:08

So, Tracy, why did you vote for Australia?

0:33:080:33:10

Well, I think it's a no-brainer,

0:33:120:33:14

in terms of being able to live like this at the weekends

0:33:140:33:20

because you can, because it's sunny.

0:33:200:33:23

-I'm pleased with your result. Hopefully it continues.

-Mm-hm.

0:33:230:33:27

-Time will tell.

-If we get through tomorrow.

0:33:270:33:30

-So that was...

-Yeah.

-A good one.

0:33:320:33:35

Well, that's only because you got a vote for your cause.

0:33:350:33:40

A first vote for Australia from Tracy

0:33:470:33:49

means Gavin's dream could be back on track.

0:33:490:33:52

But he knows the finances will need to stack up

0:33:520:33:55

if it's to become reality.

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If they did make the move, the couple would rent their home in the UK,

0:33:580:34:02

and are hoping to achieve a monthly income of £1,300.

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To see if their valuation is accurate,

0:34:060:34:09

we sent round two estate agents.

0:34:090:34:11

-Where's that?

-Where's that?

0:34:130:34:15

-It's from Belfast.

-It is Belfast, sweetheart.

0:34:150:34:19

Just as well we got those gates fixed.

0:34:190:34:21

Very lovely first impressions of the property.

0:34:210:34:25

Lovely, lovely kitchen.

0:34:250:34:27

Breakfast area, absolutely gorgeous.

0:34:270:34:30

GAVIN LAUGHS

0:34:300:34:33

The master bedroom, good-sized double room.

0:34:340:34:37

Oh, I say, I really love this,

0:34:370:34:39

this simply adds to the whole character of the building.

0:34:390:34:42

Everything that you would want from a bathroom.

0:34:420:34:45

They did well to do that bathroom in two weeks

0:34:450:34:47

and turn it around with all the tiles.

0:34:470:34:49

If the owners wanted to rent the property,

0:34:490:34:51

I would suggest a figure of £850 per calendar month.

0:34:510:34:55

Around £875-£900 per month.

0:34:550:34:58

We need a bit more than that on the rental.

0:34:580:35:01

Estimates came in more than £400 less than they had hoped.

0:35:030:35:07

But how would the couple fare financially in Australia?

0:35:070:35:10

They sit down to compare the costs of living in Australia with the UK,

0:35:140:35:18

starting with a weekly grocery shop.

0:35:180:35:20

Tracy, bacon is cheaper.

0:35:200:35:22

Now, come on. That is a good thing for you, you are a bacon fiend.

0:35:220:35:27

One thing I'm noticing in the ones that are less here,

0:35:270:35:30

they're not much less,

0:35:300:35:32

it's not like there's anything really standing out.

0:35:320:35:35

5.72.

0:35:350:35:36

A difference of £24.26p.

0:35:380:35:42

£100 more on food per month won't break the bank.

0:35:420:35:45

But what about the bigger bills?

0:35:450:35:47

Gavin and Tracy base their sums on the first two properties they saw.

0:35:480:35:53

-Just electricity is almost double. I'm surprised that.

-Yeah, yeah.

0:35:540:35:59

Um...the wine is more expensive, which is surprising.

0:35:590:36:02

It's not much more expensive,

0:36:020:36:04

but we live in a wine-producing country, it's a bit disappointing.

0:36:040:36:07

Very little difference. If you think about that...

0:36:070:36:10

So we're talking just £75. I'm quite surprised by that.

0:36:100:36:12

I thought it was going to be a lot more.

0:36:120:36:14

Yes, I thought it would be a lot more.

0:36:140:36:17

Spending just £75 a month more down under is a good result.

0:36:170:36:21

And when they take their potential earnings into account,

0:36:210:36:24

the overall figure is staggering.

0:36:240:36:26

-We'd be...

-£1,745 per month better off.

0:36:260:36:32

-Pounds.

-Pounds.

0:36:320:36:33

Tracy is in disbelief.

0:36:330:36:36

It's so high, I can't get my head around it, like I can't belief that.

0:36:360:36:40

With life in Australia seeing them better off by over £20,000 a year,

0:36:400:36:45

Tracy is overcome, as she realises what that could mean for her family.

0:36:450:36:49

SHE SOBS

0:36:490:36:51

Not necessarily.

0:36:510:36:53

This is so hard.

0:36:590:37:00

And we'd be leaving home.

0:37:020:37:03

I really don't.

0:37:050:37:07

So, will it be a clean sweep

0:37:100:37:12

as the couple choose between finances in the UK and Australia?

0:37:120:37:17

-Australia.

-Australia.

0:37:230:37:25

It's just a lot of money, isn't it?

0:37:250:37:26

It's a lot more money than we're used to,

0:37:260:37:28

so I think that's the right vote, Tracy.

0:37:280:37:30

-I couldn't vote in any other direction on that.

-No.

0:37:300:37:33

-Fair enough.

-Yeah.

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A massive uplift in finances was just impossible to argue with

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and has helped Gavin's cause.

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But the week is far from over,

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and Gavin is about to face potentially his biggest obstacle.

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While Jonas is looked after by a childminder,

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the couple sit down to watch messages

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from friends and family back in the UK.

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Hi, Gavin, Tracy and Jonas. Hope you guys are well.

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Hello, Tracy, Gavin...

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..I hope it's snowing.

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I'm hope you're having a fabulous time.

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I'm sure there's been some wine tasting.

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Gavin is gregarious and outgoing,

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he loves life.

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Tracy is very adventurous, great fun, great craic.

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And just a really, really good friend.

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Little Jonas gets on very well with our kids.

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And, you know, I think they'd be

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saddened if they went to Australia.

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The main trouble is

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how many visits that we will be able to have

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with them or to see them again.

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Cos we're a very close family.

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If you choose to move, obviously we'll support you all

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and obviously we'll fly out and see you.

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And we love you.

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To make a move like this...

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..at their age...

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I'm not 100 percent on it.

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Best of luck to yous, but...

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You know, we still want you here.

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You have to follow your heart.

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But I think you have a good life here.

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But you'll go with my blessing if you choose...

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..to go.

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SHE SOBS

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-It's tough.

-Mm-hm.

0:39:430:39:44

-Yeah.

-Yeah.

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It's the family that's the hard stuff.

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You know, they are literally thinking

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they will have another couple of times in their lives seeing us.

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You know, if we have to arrive back and say we're actually going to go,

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nobody is going to want us to go.

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Hm. I thought you did well, sweetheart. Well done.

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Leaving loved ones at home has always been

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Tracy's biggest concern about a move.

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And tearful messages have been a painful reminder

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of who she'd be leaving behind.

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Now, the family are about to decide, once and for all,

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where they'll spend the rest of their lives.

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Will Gavin get the go-ahead for the life he wants for his family,

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or will Tracy decide home is where her heart is?

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Tracy is well aware how much a move means to her husband.

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I think Gavin really, really wants this.

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I think he's very committed to this move.

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The amount of people I've spoken to who have had regrets about

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doing something similar, I don't want to be one of those people.

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But over the years, his dream has put Tracy under pressure.

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I have wondered, on and off, is Gavin just asking too much?

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Sometimes, when I'm feeling very emotional,

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I've thought, yeah, he is.

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You know, this is really selfish.

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And her main fear hasn't diminished across the week.

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If we make the move to Australia, what we face is probably a year

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of, you know, very uncomfortable kind of emotions and stress.

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And kind of misery, trying to leave family.

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Gavin is more than ready for a resolution to their dilemma.

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It's really important for us to have a clear decision.

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We've spent the last eight years kind of in limbo,

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so it's of paramount importance today.

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And Tracy does feel she's finally reached a verdict.

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I've made a decision and it feels like

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it's something that's kind of settled.

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So, where will the family's future lie?

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We've had a fantastic time here in Australia thus far

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and our final vote goes to...

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-Australia.

-Australia.

-Australia.

0:42:240:42:27

Are you sure?

0:42:290:42:30

-Er...no.

-Right.

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But I've done a lot of thinking about it

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-and I been really trying to think about what do I want.

-Mm-hm.

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And...

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You know, I want to give it a go, yeah.

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Nice decision.

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Whoo-hoo!

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Don't you dare put me in the water, Gavin Butterworth!

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After an emotional week, the improved life Tracy feels

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Australia can offer her, Gavin and Jonas

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has been enough to sway her decision.

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Ahead of them lies tough farewells and plenty of packing.

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But also, hopefully, a prosperous new beginning under the Australian sun.

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