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Raising your first child can be tough at the best of times, | 0:00:02 | 0:00:06 | |
but it's even harder when you and your partner are like passing ships | 0:00:06 | 0:00:10 | |
in the night. So how far would you go to get the time together you dream of? | 0:00:10 | 0:00:15 | |
For one family it could mean moving to the other side of the world. | 0:00:15 | 0:00:19 | |
Working hours are playing havoc with the Guests' family life. | 0:00:21 | 0:00:24 | |
I thought I'd get married and have a child and we'd spend time together, | 0:00:24 | 0:00:27 | |
but we don't do that. | 0:00:27 | 0:00:28 | |
She's thinking, "Where's Mummy? | 0:00:28 | 0:00:30 | |
"Where was she this weekend?" | 0:00:30 | 0:00:32 | |
Melissa believes the solution lies in Australia. | 0:00:32 | 0:00:35 | |
I think it would be a much better quality of life. | 0:00:35 | 0:00:38 | |
But Chris isn't convinced. | 0:00:38 | 0:00:39 | |
I've never lived outside of Sutton Coldfield. | 0:00:39 | 0:00:41 | |
I've never wanted to. | 0:00:41 | 0:00:42 | |
So when a trial week down under revealed some ups... | 0:00:42 | 0:00:46 | |
Wow. This is amazing. | 0:00:46 | 0:00:48 | |
..and downs... | 0:00:48 | 0:00:49 | |
You start to think, "Is it all worth it?" | 0:00:49 | 0:00:51 | |
..will the family sign up for a life in the sun? | 0:00:51 | 0:00:54 | |
This is the hardest decision you can ever make. | 0:00:54 | 0:00:57 | |
Straddling the Pacific and Indian oceans, | 0:01:19 | 0:01:21 | |
Australia is the smallest continent on earth and home to just over 24 million people. | 0:01:21 | 0:01:27 | |
With more than 10,000 beaches, | 0:01:29 | 0:01:31 | |
a sunny climate and a great outdoor lifestyle, | 0:01:31 | 0:01:34 | |
it's no surprise that every year around 30,000 Brits hope to make it their home. | 0:01:34 | 0:01:40 | |
Melissa Guest is desperate for more time with husband Chris and young | 0:01:41 | 0:01:45 | |
daughter Quinn. And although she's never been, | 0:01:45 | 0:01:49 | |
she believes moving to Australia could be the answer. | 0:01:49 | 0:01:53 | |
But will the country live up to Melissa's high expectations, | 0:01:53 | 0:01:57 | |
and can she persuade Chris to leave his comfortable life in the UK? | 0:01:57 | 0:02:02 | |
Ahead is a week that will enable them to decide where to call home once | 0:02:02 | 0:02:07 | |
and for all. | 0:02:07 | 0:02:08 | |
The journey has taken the Guest family 9,000 miles from home, | 0:02:10 | 0:02:14 | |
and after 18 hours in the air, | 0:02:14 | 0:02:16 | |
emotions are mixed when they finally touch down in Perth. | 0:02:16 | 0:02:19 | |
We're lucky with Quinn. | 0:02:22 | 0:02:23 | |
She didn't play up or anything, and she slept for a bit of it. | 0:02:23 | 0:02:26 | |
It just seemed like a really long time we were on the plane for. | 0:02:26 | 0:02:29 | |
Feeling really excited. | 0:02:29 | 0:02:31 | |
It was quite an exhausting journey, | 0:02:31 | 0:02:33 | |
but it was worth it and I'm really excited just to see Australia now. | 0:02:33 | 0:02:37 | |
Despite the distance, Chris's thoughts are still close to home. | 0:02:37 | 0:02:40 | |
Just the time that it's taken to actually get here, | 0:02:41 | 0:02:44 | |
it does really sort of instil how far it is, | 0:02:44 | 0:02:47 | |
how far away the rest of the family are. | 0:02:47 | 0:02:49 | |
And now she's finally here, | 0:02:49 | 0:02:51 | |
Melissa's feeling the pressure to deliver the dream. | 0:02:51 | 0:02:54 | |
This is definitely my one and only chance to prove to Chris that this | 0:02:54 | 0:02:58 | |
is the right move. You know, if you can't prove it when you're here showing him, | 0:02:58 | 0:03:01 | |
then I don't think I'd ever prove it. | 0:03:01 | 0:03:03 | |
This could change our lives from this week onwards, | 0:03:03 | 0:03:06 | |
so Mel has got to convince me that it is as good as she thinks it's going to be. | 0:03:06 | 0:03:10 | |
It looks like Melissa will have her work cut out in the week ahead | 0:03:10 | 0:03:14 | |
if she is to persuade Chris their family's future lies down under. | 0:03:14 | 0:03:17 | |
The Guest family is from Sutton Coldfield in the West Midlands. | 0:03:21 | 0:03:25 | |
They're dad Chris, mum Melissa and one-year-old Quinn. | 0:03:25 | 0:03:28 | |
Since meeting five years ago, | 0:03:30 | 0:03:31 | |
the couple have perfected the secret to a good marriage. | 0:03:31 | 0:03:34 | |
I like to keep Mel happy. | 0:03:36 | 0:03:37 | |
I do try my best to keep her happy all the time. | 0:03:37 | 0:03:40 | |
Chris is always lovely to me and he always goes along with whatever I | 0:03:40 | 0:03:44 | |
want just to make me happy. | 0:03:44 | 0:03:45 | |
You know, Chris always says yes to me. | 0:03:45 | 0:03:48 | |
But since becoming parents to Quinn, | 0:03:48 | 0:03:50 | |
keeping the family home joyful is proving more difficult. | 0:03:50 | 0:03:53 | |
A nurse, Melissa often works 12-hour shifts at night and weekends, | 0:03:55 | 0:03:59 | |
while Chris works long days as a car salesman, | 0:03:59 | 0:04:02 | |
leaving little room for quality time together. | 0:04:02 | 0:04:05 | |
We end up just being ships that pass in the night, taking turns to take care of Quinn. | 0:04:05 | 0:04:12 | |
It's not how I pictured family life would be, you know. | 0:04:12 | 0:04:14 | |
I thought I would get married, we'd have a nice house, | 0:04:14 | 0:04:17 | |
we'd have a child and we'd spend time together. | 0:04:17 | 0:04:19 | |
We don't do that currently. | 0:04:19 | 0:04:20 | |
Time apart from Quinn is particularly upsetting for Melissa. | 0:04:21 | 0:04:25 | |
If I'm doing long days or something at the weekend, you know, | 0:04:25 | 0:04:28 | |
I do miss her all weekend. | 0:04:28 | 0:04:31 | |
And I think she's thinking, you know, "Where's Mummy? | 0:04:31 | 0:04:35 | |
"Where was she this weekend?" | 0:04:35 | 0:04:36 | |
Desperate for more family time with her husband and daughter, | 0:04:38 | 0:04:41 | |
Melissa's now on a mission to resurrect a long-held dream of moving to the | 0:04:41 | 0:04:46 | |
other side of the world. | 0:04:46 | 0:04:48 | |
Ever since my friend moved to Australia when we were 16, | 0:04:48 | 0:04:51 | |
it has been a dream of mine, of something that I'd love to do. | 0:04:51 | 0:04:54 | |
'However it was always on the back burner, really, | 0:04:54 | 0:04:56 | |
'but since having Quinn it's definitely something that, you know, | 0:04:56 | 0:05:00 | |
'I feel like I need to explore more,' | 0:05:00 | 0:05:01 | |
because I think it'd be a much better quality of life for her than she can | 0:05:01 | 0:05:06 | |
have here in the UK. | 0:05:06 | 0:05:08 | |
But while Chris agrees with Melissa's reasons for going, | 0:05:08 | 0:05:11 | |
moving 9,000 miles from home has never been on his wish list. | 0:05:11 | 0:05:15 | |
I've never really lived outside of Sutton Coldfield. | 0:05:15 | 0:05:18 | |
I've never wanted to. | 0:05:18 | 0:05:20 | |
I did once ask him, "If you could be born again and live anywhere in the world, where would you live?" | 0:05:20 | 0:05:26 | |
And he still said Sutton Coldfield. | 0:05:26 | 0:05:29 | |
Needless to say, the prospect of moving to the other side of the world is | 0:05:29 | 0:05:33 | |
giving cause for concern. | 0:05:33 | 0:05:35 | |
Mel assures me life in Australia is better. | 0:05:35 | 0:05:38 | |
And Mel hasn't been, and I haven't been, | 0:05:38 | 0:05:41 | |
so I'm not exactly sure where Mel's getting that information from. | 0:05:41 | 0:05:45 | |
Melissa spent hours researching Australia online, though, | 0:05:47 | 0:05:51 | |
and her findings have left her convinced the country holds the key to a | 0:05:51 | 0:05:54 | |
happier future. | 0:05:54 | 0:05:55 | |
I just expect it to be more of a laid-back lifestyle. Hopefully my shift patterns will be different. | 0:05:56 | 0:06:03 | |
'I do believe that nurses can earn a bit more money, | 0:06:04 | 0:06:07 | |
'so hopefully I may not have to work as much as I do now over there.' | 0:06:07 | 0:06:12 | |
And she never misses a chance to share her vision with Chris. | 0:06:12 | 0:06:16 | |
I've come home slightly late from work, | 0:06:16 | 0:06:17 | |
and Mel's literally going out the door the moment I get home. | 0:06:17 | 0:06:20 | |
You know, she might say, "It wouldn't be like this in Australia. | 0:06:20 | 0:06:24 | |
"We'd have more time together, | 0:06:24 | 0:06:26 | |
"We'd be going outside to the pool or something now." | 0:06:26 | 0:06:28 | |
My dream of Australia will be, you know, | 0:06:28 | 0:06:32 | |
in a lovely open-plan house. | 0:06:32 | 0:06:35 | |
'Just enjoy time together, even just in the garden with Quinn playing, | 0:06:35 | 0:06:41 | |
'just because the weather will allow it.' | 0:06:41 | 0:06:43 | |
And hopefully having more time to be able to do that. | 0:06:43 | 0:06:46 | |
What's this, then? | 0:06:46 | 0:06:48 | |
But Chris won't contemplate taking the plunge if he can't put his | 0:06:48 | 0:06:52 | |
practical concerns to bed. | 0:06:52 | 0:06:54 | |
It's got to work financially. There's no point moving all that way to be worse off. | 0:06:54 | 0:06:59 | |
And it's not just money worries holding him back. | 0:06:59 | 0:07:02 | |
'I've got a big family and they're all around me, | 0:07:02 | 0:07:05 | |
'they all live in Sutton Coldfield. | 0:07:05 | 0:07:07 | |
'We all get on well, we have lots of banter between us, | 0:07:07 | 0:07:09 | |
'and we do get together whenever we can.' | 0:07:09 | 0:07:12 | |
So it would have to be a really good reason to choose to leave that. | 0:07:12 | 0:07:16 | |
Melissa understands it's a huge ask and, | 0:07:16 | 0:07:19 | |
much as she wants to pursue the dream, | 0:07:19 | 0:07:21 | |
admits leaving loved ones in the UK would be heartbreaking for everyone. | 0:07:21 | 0:07:26 | |
I'm so close to my mum and to my nan, but also, | 0:07:26 | 0:07:30 | |
from another point of view, you know, it's taking Quinn away from them, | 0:07:30 | 0:07:34 | |
'because they love seeing her.' | 0:07:34 | 0:07:36 | |
She's their granddaughter. | 0:07:36 | 0:07:38 | |
Ultimately, though, | 0:07:38 | 0:07:39 | |
she's prepared to pay the price and confident the country will live up | 0:07:39 | 0:07:43 | |
to her expectations. | 0:07:43 | 0:07:45 | |
She's hoping a trial week down under will be enough to convince Chris to | 0:07:45 | 0:07:49 | |
say yes to a move. | 0:07:49 | 0:07:51 | |
If after this week, you know, | 0:07:51 | 0:07:54 | |
I can't persuade Chris, and it hasn't convinced him that Australia is a | 0:07:54 | 0:07:58 | |
good risk to take for our family, then the dream will be over for me. | 0:07:58 | 0:08:03 | |
We need to make a decision this week, | 0:08:03 | 0:08:06 | |
based on what we see and experience, | 0:08:06 | 0:08:10 | |
as to whether this is the right choice for us. | 0:08:10 | 0:08:12 | |
-This week really determines where our future's going to be. -Yeah. | 0:08:13 | 0:08:17 | |
The Guests are spending their trial week in Perth, | 0:08:25 | 0:08:28 | |
capital of Western Australia. | 0:08:28 | 0:08:30 | |
With picture perfect beaches and expansive parklands, | 0:08:30 | 0:08:34 | |
the city enjoys an average of eight hours of sunshine every day. | 0:08:34 | 0:08:37 | |
Their base is the coastal suburb of Jindalee, | 0:08:39 | 0:08:42 | |
25 miles north of Perth city centre and just a few minutes' walk from the beachfront. | 0:08:42 | 0:08:48 | |
Will their first taste of Australian living meet Melissa's expectations? | 0:08:48 | 0:08:52 | |
I think the house looks brilliant. | 0:08:52 | 0:08:54 | |
It's exactly what we want. | 0:08:54 | 0:08:55 | |
It's perfect. Yeah, can't wait to look inside. | 0:08:55 | 0:08:58 | |
Happily, indoors looks good too. | 0:09:00 | 0:09:02 | |
-Wow. -That is nice, isn't it? | 0:09:03 | 0:09:06 | |
Yeah. Nice big living area. | 0:09:06 | 0:09:08 | |
-Yeah, it's big, isn't it? -Yeah. | 0:09:08 | 0:09:10 | |
This is the perfect house, really. | 0:09:10 | 0:09:13 | |
So far. | 0:09:13 | 0:09:14 | |
THEY LAUGH | 0:09:14 | 0:09:16 | |
Chris isn't getting carried away, | 0:09:16 | 0:09:18 | |
but the garden's just what Melissa dreams of. | 0:09:18 | 0:09:21 | |
-Wow, this is brilliant, isn't it? -This is nice. | 0:09:21 | 0:09:24 | |
This is perfect, isn't it? | 0:09:24 | 0:09:26 | |
This is the exact sort of thing I was hoping for. | 0:09:26 | 0:09:29 | |
It's a great start, but as the couple relax over a cuppa, | 0:09:29 | 0:09:33 | |
Chris isn't making any promises just yet. | 0:09:33 | 0:09:36 | |
Since the moment we've got here, it is exactly how I imagined it. | 0:09:36 | 0:09:39 | |
You've done a bit of convincing today, so... | 0:09:39 | 0:09:41 | |
-Good. -We'll see, we'll see. | 0:09:41 | 0:09:43 | |
Still a week to go. | 0:09:43 | 0:09:44 | |
Back in the UK, | 0:09:51 | 0:09:53 | |
the Guest family live in a three-bedroom semidetached house in Sutton Coldfield near Birmingham. | 0:09:53 | 0:09:58 | |
Our house here in the UK is sort of an old sort of cottage style house | 0:09:58 | 0:10:04 | |
-which we love. -We've spent a lot of money on it and a lot of work doing it up, | 0:10:04 | 0:10:09 | |
haven't we? I've tiled the bathroom, I fitted the floors. | 0:10:09 | 0:10:13 | |
If they decide to move, their budget for a home down under is £250,000. | 0:10:13 | 0:10:19 | |
So what kind of house are they after? | 0:10:19 | 0:10:20 | |
My kitchen here in the UK, | 0:10:22 | 0:10:23 | |
I absolutely love. | 0:10:23 | 0:10:25 | |
However in Australia, I'd like it sort of open-plan, onto the living room, | 0:10:25 | 0:10:29 | |
so, you know, Quinn can play and I can see her playing when I'm working | 0:10:29 | 0:10:32 | |
in the kitchen. | 0:10:32 | 0:10:33 | |
I'd love one of them huge fridges that we can fill with all | 0:10:33 | 0:10:36 | |
the barbecue food and, you know, it has the ice thing on for the lovely | 0:10:36 | 0:10:40 | |
weather outside. | 0:10:40 | 0:10:41 | |
Anything else to add to the wish list? | 0:10:41 | 0:10:43 | |
Hopefully I can look out onto my pool, and the sun would be nice. | 0:10:43 | 0:10:47 | |
Basically the opposite to our house in the UK. | 0:10:48 | 0:10:51 | |
We want open-plan, modern, | 0:10:51 | 0:10:54 | |
as new as possible. | 0:10:54 | 0:10:56 | |
With a pool. | 0:10:56 | 0:10:57 | |
Melissa really does want that pool. | 0:10:57 | 0:10:59 | |
And Chris won't settle on anything less than a show stopper. | 0:10:59 | 0:11:03 | |
We've got to have that...almost that wow factor. | 0:11:03 | 0:11:06 | |
You know, when people come to visit, we want them to see our house | 0:11:06 | 0:11:09 | |
and think, "Wow, this is why they've done it." | 0:11:09 | 0:11:12 | |
To find out what kind of house they could have in Australia, | 0:11:16 | 0:11:19 | |
we'll show the family three properties. | 0:11:19 | 0:11:21 | |
Two on budget, | 0:11:21 | 0:11:22 | |
and a third which could be their dream home. | 0:11:22 | 0:11:25 | |
Only after they've seen each one will they discover its value. | 0:11:25 | 0:11:28 | |
The search begins in the suburb of Butler, | 0:11:30 | 0:11:32 | |
half an hour outside central Perth, and popular with young families. | 0:11:32 | 0:11:36 | |
But will this four-bedroom home hit the spot? | 0:11:40 | 0:11:43 | |
It looks really promising from the outside, doesn't it? | 0:11:43 | 0:11:46 | |
-You know. -I'm quite excited to get inside, now. | 0:11:46 | 0:11:48 | |
I like the look of it. | 0:11:48 | 0:11:49 | |
While Quinn stays with a childminder, | 0:11:50 | 0:11:52 | |
the couple head in for a better look. | 0:11:52 | 0:11:55 | |
-OK, this seems small. -It's smaller than what we've got at home. | 0:11:55 | 0:11:58 | |
-Yeah, I think I was expecting it to be bigger, and... -Yeah. | 0:11:58 | 0:12:01 | |
..for a front living room, compared to what we're used to at home. | 0:12:01 | 0:12:04 | |
Oh, dear. It's not the best start. | 0:12:04 | 0:12:07 | |
Hopefully the master bedroom will impress. | 0:12:07 | 0:12:09 | |
I feel like we're on the front lawn. | 0:12:09 | 0:12:11 | |
Yeah, we are very close to the road, really, aren't we? | 0:12:12 | 0:12:15 | |
-Being on the front here. -Oh, there's your wardrobe. | 0:12:15 | 0:12:17 | |
But there's one important feature missing for Melissa. | 0:12:19 | 0:12:23 | |
I don't like the way it hasn't got a door on it, though. | 0:12:23 | 0:12:25 | |
-I like to be able to shut off the mess. -Yeah. | 0:12:25 | 0:12:28 | |
Things don't improve elsewhere. | 0:12:28 | 0:12:30 | |
Kitchen is small. | 0:12:30 | 0:12:31 | |
Compact, yeah, definitely. | 0:12:31 | 0:12:33 | |
Feels like a caravan. | 0:12:33 | 0:12:35 | |
-I think this definitely doesn't have the wow factor, Mel. -No. | 0:12:36 | 0:12:39 | |
I don't think anybody walking in here would think... | 0:12:39 | 0:12:42 | |
-..it's worth moving across to the other side of the world for. -No. | 0:12:43 | 0:12:46 | |
I really love our kitchen at home, | 0:12:46 | 0:12:48 | |
-and this just doesn't compare to it at all, does it? -No. | 0:12:48 | 0:12:50 | |
It's not the house of Melissa's dreams, | 0:12:50 | 0:12:52 | |
and it looks like the garden could be another let-down. | 0:12:52 | 0:12:56 | |
There is no pool, which is obviously, | 0:12:56 | 0:12:58 | |
like, a major thing for us. | 0:12:58 | 0:12:59 | |
-But there is... -Yeah, I think I felt a bit disappointed | 0:12:59 | 0:13:01 | |
when I sort of walked out. Like, it's big, but... | 0:13:01 | 0:13:04 | |
Melissa's trying to stay positive, though. | 0:13:04 | 0:13:07 | |
There is room for a pool, | 0:13:07 | 0:13:08 | |
depending on the price of the house, obviously. | 0:13:08 | 0:13:10 | |
Despite having the required four bedrooms, | 0:13:10 | 0:13:13 | |
this house is falling short of the couple's expectations. | 0:13:13 | 0:13:17 | |
Overall, I think the house isn't for us at all. | 0:13:17 | 0:13:19 | |
No, it's not for us. | 0:13:19 | 0:13:20 | |
But will it be within their £250,000 budget? | 0:13:20 | 0:13:25 | |
Yeah, we do need it to be, but I don't know if it's going to be. | 0:13:25 | 0:13:28 | |
I want to say it's 200 grand, | 0:13:28 | 0:13:30 | |
but I think it's going to be more than that. | 0:13:30 | 0:13:32 | |
Yeah, I think it's going to be more...more up to the 250 mark. | 0:13:32 | 0:13:35 | |
Time to find out. | 0:13:35 | 0:13:37 | |
-OK, shall we have a look? -Yep. | 0:13:40 | 0:13:41 | |
That's £7,000 under budget, | 0:13:44 | 0:13:47 | |
but more than they were hoping. | 0:13:47 | 0:13:48 | |
It's disappointing, | 0:13:48 | 0:13:49 | |
cos it means we might not be able to afford what we actually want. | 0:13:49 | 0:13:53 | |
If everything we saw was that price and we got this for it, | 0:13:53 | 0:13:56 | |
I wouldn't want to move. | 0:13:56 | 0:13:57 | |
Even I wouldn't move for it. | 0:13:57 | 0:13:59 | |
With both Chris and Melissa disappointed by the first house, | 0:14:00 | 0:14:03 | |
it's important that property two impresses | 0:14:03 | 0:14:06 | |
if Melissa's dream is to get back on track. | 0:14:06 | 0:14:08 | |
The next property lies in Quinns Rocks, | 0:14:09 | 0:14:12 | |
the closest coastal suburb to Perth. | 0:14:12 | 0:14:14 | |
Just a few minutes' drive to the beach, | 0:14:14 | 0:14:16 | |
and with a children's park opposite for Quinn, | 0:14:16 | 0:14:19 | |
will this home rebuild Melissa's vision? | 0:14:19 | 0:14:22 | |
Not sure if I like it. | 0:14:22 | 0:14:23 | |
-Are you not? -No. | 0:14:23 | 0:14:25 | |
Oh. Not a great start for Chris. | 0:14:25 | 0:14:27 | |
But Melissa's feeling more positive. | 0:14:27 | 0:14:29 | |
I quite like it. I like the view that it looks onto, the park. | 0:14:29 | 0:14:34 | |
Yeah, I like the view, I agree with you on that. | 0:14:34 | 0:14:36 | |
But it's not long before Chris' doubts make Melissa reconsider. | 0:14:36 | 0:14:40 | |
I'm not sure if I like the light brick. | 0:14:40 | 0:14:42 | |
Yeah, maybe, I'm not sure about the brick either, | 0:14:42 | 0:14:45 | |
-now you've mentioned it. -Doesn't look modern to me. | 0:14:45 | 0:14:48 | |
And once inside, Chris' opinion cools even further. | 0:14:48 | 0:14:52 | |
OK, this is a bit weird, isn't it? | 0:14:52 | 0:14:53 | |
Coming into a room? | 0:14:53 | 0:14:54 | |
I don't feel like it's a warm entrance. | 0:14:55 | 0:14:58 | |
It feels like you walk in, and you walked into an office. | 0:14:58 | 0:15:01 | |
In the master bedroom, Melissa tries to find a positive. | 0:15:01 | 0:15:04 | |
Feels small, but I think they've got quite a big bed. | 0:15:04 | 0:15:07 | |
It's not wowing me. | 0:15:07 | 0:15:09 | |
But her enthusiasm quickly wanes. | 0:15:09 | 0:15:12 | |
You know, you couldn't, like, have a dressing table in here, or... | 0:15:12 | 0:15:15 | |
-No. -I mean, you literally have your bed and your bedside table, | 0:15:15 | 0:15:19 | |
and that's it. | 0:15:19 | 0:15:20 | |
So I think I'd like a bit more room, really. | 0:15:20 | 0:15:22 | |
It might all hang on the spacious walk-in wardrobe. | 0:15:22 | 0:15:25 | |
-There's plenty of space in there. -Loads of room in there, isn't there? | 0:15:25 | 0:15:28 | |
Again, though, it's what's missing that swings it for Melissa. | 0:15:28 | 0:15:32 | |
I would like a walk-in wardrobe, | 0:15:32 | 0:15:33 | |
but I'd just rather it had a door on. | 0:15:33 | 0:15:36 | |
And even the en suite falls short of the space they're after. | 0:15:36 | 0:15:39 | |
This is really small. | 0:15:39 | 0:15:41 | |
It's just like...a cupboard. | 0:15:41 | 0:15:43 | |
-Yeah. -At this point, | 0:15:43 | 0:15:45 | |
I don't feel like I need to see the rest of the house. | 0:15:45 | 0:15:47 | |
-Really? -Yeah, I'm just not... | 0:15:47 | 0:15:49 | |
Well, I'm intrigued just to, you know, see a bit further. | 0:15:49 | 0:15:52 | |
With Chris ready to give up on the house, | 0:15:52 | 0:15:54 | |
the kitchen desperately needs to deliver the space they crave. | 0:15:54 | 0:15:57 | |
So I think the kitchen area is, you know, it's big enough. | 0:15:57 | 0:16:00 | |
Yeah. | 0:16:00 | 0:16:01 | |
Mmm, Chris doesn't sound too convinced. | 0:16:01 | 0:16:04 | |
And even Melissa can't find a positive in the sitting room. | 0:16:04 | 0:16:07 | |
It's just way too small. | 0:16:07 | 0:16:09 | |
We wouldn't even consider it, would we? | 0:16:09 | 0:16:11 | |
-No. -That's the thing, | 0:16:11 | 0:16:13 | |
we want a place where we're excited to get people to come over. | 0:16:13 | 0:16:16 | |
-Yeah. -And we don't even like this place. -No. | 0:16:16 | 0:16:19 | |
When I bought my first flat when I was 20, | 0:16:20 | 0:16:23 | |
-that's what it feels like. -Yeah. | 0:16:23 | 0:16:25 | |
-Just doesn't feel like a forward step at all. -No. | 0:16:25 | 0:16:28 | |
Will the outdoor space provide the wow factor they're after? | 0:16:28 | 0:16:33 | |
I think it would have to be an amazing house | 0:16:33 | 0:16:35 | |
to justify not having a pool, and right now, we've not seen that. | 0:16:35 | 0:16:38 | |
No. I think if you're moving to Australia you, you know... | 0:16:38 | 0:16:42 | |
-you want a pool, don't you? -The whole point is to be outside. | 0:16:42 | 0:16:45 | |
There's no hiding his true feelings on this house for Chris. | 0:16:45 | 0:16:49 | |
I feel like even my body language is saying, "I don't like it!" | 0:16:49 | 0:16:51 | |
While the house didn't deliver the dream for the couple, | 0:16:53 | 0:16:56 | |
with £250,000 to spend, will it be in line with their budget? | 0:16:56 | 0:17:00 | |
No part of it made me think, | 0:17:02 | 0:17:03 | |
"Oh, yeah, this is worth moving for." | 0:17:03 | 0:17:05 | |
Every room really is too small. | 0:17:05 | 0:17:07 | |
Yeah, the whole house is too small, the garden was too small, | 0:17:07 | 0:17:10 | |
there's no pool. I think this has got to be... | 0:17:10 | 0:17:13 | |
220. | 0:17:14 | 0:17:16 | |
I'd like it to be, but I think it's going to be more like 240. | 0:17:18 | 0:17:21 | |
-Shall we have a look then? -Yep. | 0:17:23 | 0:17:24 | |
That's £9,000 under budget. | 0:17:30 | 0:17:32 | |
What worries me is, if this is all we can afford, | 0:17:32 | 0:17:36 | |
then it's not the dream that, you know, I've had, | 0:17:36 | 0:17:39 | |
and it's not the lifestyle that I would want here, | 0:17:39 | 0:17:41 | |
to live in a house like this. | 0:17:41 | 0:17:43 | |
Yeah, I just feel deflated now. | 0:17:43 | 0:17:45 | |
So it kind of makes me think that | 0:17:46 | 0:17:48 | |
we might not be able to do it at all. | 0:17:48 | 0:17:50 | |
With both properties underwhelming them so far, | 0:17:51 | 0:17:54 | |
hopefully it'll be third time lucky | 0:17:54 | 0:17:57 | |
if Melissa is to persuade Chris making the move would be worth it. | 0:17:57 | 0:18:00 | |
For the final viewing, | 0:18:00 | 0:18:02 | |
we found the family what could be their dream home. | 0:18:02 | 0:18:05 | |
Just over 30 miles from central Perth, | 0:18:05 | 0:18:07 | |
it's in the coastal suburb of Yanchep, close to the beach | 0:18:07 | 0:18:11 | |
and on the doorstep of the Yanchep National Park. | 0:18:11 | 0:18:14 | |
This spacious beach-style home | 0:18:14 | 0:18:16 | |
should have all the space the family need. | 0:18:16 | 0:18:19 | |
Will it be worth the wait? | 0:18:19 | 0:18:20 | |
-This is more like it, isn't it? -Yeah, this is it, | 0:18:20 | 0:18:23 | |
-this is what we imagined. -Much more like it. | 0:18:23 | 0:18:25 | |
It's the happiest Chris has been all day. | 0:18:25 | 0:18:27 | |
Let's hope the inside's as nice as the outside. | 0:18:27 | 0:18:29 | |
Ah, yeah, and I hope it's affordable. | 0:18:29 | 0:18:31 | |
Fingers crossed. | 0:18:31 | 0:18:33 | |
This is very nice. | 0:18:35 | 0:18:37 | |
Yeah. | 0:18:37 | 0:18:38 | |
-Nice, welcoming entrance hall. -Yeah. | 0:18:38 | 0:18:41 | |
And even the floor is impressing. | 0:18:41 | 0:18:43 | |
I like the floor, it makes it, just gives it, like... | 0:18:43 | 0:18:45 | |
-Yeah, I do love the floor. -It is a posh feel, isn't it, you know? -Yeah. | 0:18:45 | 0:18:48 | |
And the smiles continue into the master bedroom. | 0:18:48 | 0:18:51 | |
This is much more like it. | 0:18:52 | 0:18:54 | |
Yeah. | 0:18:54 | 0:18:56 | |
This is lovely. | 0:18:56 | 0:18:58 | |
Enough space, Chris? | 0:18:58 | 0:18:59 | |
-It's big as well, isn't it? -Yeah, massive room. -Big, bright and airy. | 0:18:59 | 0:19:02 | |
You can put chairs there, so you can sit in the window. | 0:19:02 | 0:19:04 | |
And the en suite? | 0:19:04 | 0:19:06 | |
-This is more like it, isn't it? -Much more like it. | 0:19:06 | 0:19:08 | |
-This is a wow en suite. -Yeah. | 0:19:08 | 0:19:10 | |
Finally, the wow factor. | 0:19:10 | 0:19:12 | |
And it continues into the walk-in wardrobe. | 0:19:12 | 0:19:15 | |
Wow. | 0:19:15 | 0:19:16 | |
This is a walk-in wardrobe, yeah. | 0:19:18 | 0:19:19 | |
Celebrity wardrobe, isn't it? | 0:19:19 | 0:19:21 | |
At last, the all-important door. | 0:19:21 | 0:19:24 | |
And it's closed behind a door, as well, which is perfect. | 0:19:24 | 0:19:26 | |
Yeah, it's what we wanted. Yeah, absolutely. | 0:19:26 | 0:19:28 | |
So you can just put all your mess in here. | 0:19:28 | 0:19:30 | |
Only problem is... | 0:19:31 | 0:19:33 | |
I don't know if I've really got enough clothes to fill this, though. | 0:19:33 | 0:19:36 | |
It's pretty big, isn't it? | 0:19:36 | 0:19:38 | |
The bedrooms are much more to the couple's taste, | 0:19:38 | 0:19:41 | |
and Chris can imagine feeling right at home here. | 0:19:41 | 0:19:44 | |
This would suit anybody, wouldn't it? | 0:19:44 | 0:19:45 | |
-Whether you've got guests coming, or if it was Quinn's room. -Yeah. | 0:19:45 | 0:19:49 | |
You know what I mean? It's just a nice room, isn't it? | 0:19:49 | 0:19:51 | |
I think anybody would be happy to stay in here. | 0:19:51 | 0:19:53 | |
And just when they thought things couldn't get any better... | 0:19:53 | 0:19:56 | |
Wow. This is amazing. | 0:19:56 | 0:19:58 | |
I think we've seen enough, haven't we? | 0:19:58 | 0:20:00 | |
This will do. | 0:20:00 | 0:20:01 | |
This is what we're thinking of. | 0:20:01 | 0:20:03 | |
-This is what we have in our head, isn't it? -Yeah. | 0:20:03 | 0:20:05 | |
I think it's better than anything I had in my head. | 0:20:05 | 0:20:08 | |
It definitely has that wow factor we talked about, doesn't it? | 0:20:08 | 0:20:11 | |
Yeah, bags full. | 0:20:11 | 0:20:13 | |
And the kitchen is giving Chris food for thought. | 0:20:13 | 0:20:16 | |
Do you think you could cook a dinner in here? | 0:20:16 | 0:20:18 | |
Yeah, without a doubt. | 0:20:18 | 0:20:20 | |
This house is everything Melissa dreamed of, and more. | 0:20:20 | 0:20:23 | |
When I've been imagining, you know, | 0:20:24 | 0:20:26 | |
open-plan, me cooking in the kitchen, | 0:20:26 | 0:20:28 | |
you playing with Quinn, this is the exact thing... | 0:20:28 | 0:20:31 | |
This is the dream kitchen. | 0:20:31 | 0:20:33 | |
And the dining room leaves them almost speechless. | 0:20:33 | 0:20:36 | |
-I don't know what to say. -What an amazing dining room. | 0:20:38 | 0:20:41 | |
I don't think I've ever seen one like it. | 0:20:41 | 0:20:44 | |
And the view. Just... | 0:20:44 | 0:20:46 | |
It's a good view. | 0:20:46 | 0:20:48 | |
But will the outdoor space continue the dream? | 0:20:48 | 0:20:51 | |
I can really see us out here. | 0:20:51 | 0:20:52 | |
-Yeah, this is... -Yeah, it's really nice. | 0:20:52 | 0:20:54 | |
..perfect. | 0:20:54 | 0:20:56 | |
It's just got everything, hasn't it? | 0:20:56 | 0:20:58 | |
-Yeah. -Jacuzzi, pool. | 0:20:58 | 0:20:59 | |
-A little grass area up there, as well. -For Quinn to play. | 0:21:01 | 0:21:04 | |
And Chris is finally starting to sound | 0:21:04 | 0:21:06 | |
like a move could be on the cards. | 0:21:06 | 0:21:09 | |
I think there's no doubting this would be the right move, | 0:21:09 | 0:21:12 | |
-if we could afford it. -Yeah. -It's not missing anything, is it? | 0:21:12 | 0:21:14 | |
No, nothing. | 0:21:14 | 0:21:16 | |
There's nothing else I can think of that it needs. | 0:21:16 | 0:21:19 | |
-It needs us living in it. -Apart from that. | 0:21:19 | 0:21:21 | |
Before they pack their bags, | 0:21:22 | 0:21:24 | |
they'll need to see how much the dream property costs. | 0:21:24 | 0:21:28 | |
I'd say it's about £450,000. | 0:21:28 | 0:21:31 | |
I mean, I hope the fact that it's perhaps a bit further out, | 0:21:31 | 0:21:33 | |
that maybe that would help the price a little bit, | 0:21:33 | 0:21:36 | |
-but I still think it's going to be way over budget. -Yeah. | 0:21:36 | 0:21:38 | |
Time to find out. | 0:21:38 | 0:21:40 | |
That's £98,000 over their budget, but... | 0:21:44 | 0:21:48 | |
OK. I'm quite shocked by that. | 0:21:50 | 0:21:51 | |
-Less than I thought. -A lot less than I thought. | 0:21:51 | 0:21:54 | |
-Yeah. -Obviously, it's still way out of our budget, | 0:21:54 | 0:21:57 | |
but maybe we can find something in the middle. | 0:21:57 | 0:22:00 | |
House-hunting has given the guests plenty to ponder. | 0:22:00 | 0:22:04 | |
Although property one was under budget, | 0:22:04 | 0:22:06 | |
the layout and room sizes left both Chris and Melissa disappointed. | 0:22:06 | 0:22:10 | |
The second property also came in under budget, | 0:22:11 | 0:22:14 | |
but didn't have the modern feel or pool they longed for. | 0:22:14 | 0:22:18 | |
The final house was a dream come true, | 0:22:18 | 0:22:20 | |
it's just the price tag that proved a potential nightmare. | 0:22:20 | 0:22:24 | |
So when it comes to Australian property, | 0:22:25 | 0:22:28 | |
how will the couple cast their vote? | 0:22:28 | 0:22:30 | |
-Australia. -UK. | 0:22:43 | 0:22:44 | |
I'm really surprised you voted UK. | 0:22:47 | 0:22:49 | |
I think I was just trying to be realistic, really. | 0:22:49 | 0:22:51 | |
I think based on the first two, I'd have gone UK, | 0:22:51 | 0:22:55 | |
but I think because the third one just gave me a bit of hope | 0:22:55 | 0:22:57 | |
-that there would be something in between... -Yeah. | 0:22:57 | 0:23:00 | |
..it was enough just to swing it. | 0:23:00 | 0:23:02 | |
It has been a bit confusing today. | 0:23:02 | 0:23:04 | |
What I've dreamed of and what I've imagined | 0:23:04 | 0:23:06 | |
might not be actually real if we did live here, | 0:23:06 | 0:23:08 | |
if we can't afford it. | 0:23:08 | 0:23:10 | |
While Chris looks like he's now warming to the idea of living down under, | 0:23:21 | 0:23:25 | |
the price of Perth properties is cooling Melissa's hopes. | 0:23:25 | 0:23:29 | |
Finding the right jobs in Australia will be essential | 0:23:29 | 0:23:32 | |
if her dream is to get back on track. | 0:23:32 | 0:23:34 | |
Back in the UK, Melissa is a nurse | 0:23:37 | 0:23:39 | |
in an accident and emergency department. | 0:23:39 | 0:23:42 | |
I really do enjoy all the work that I do here. | 0:23:42 | 0:23:45 | |
You know, I love meeting all the different patients and helping them. | 0:23:45 | 0:23:49 | |
But with Chris working days and Melissa working nights, | 0:23:49 | 0:23:53 | |
it's tough on their family life. | 0:23:53 | 0:23:55 | |
Most weeks, I work 12-and-a-half-hour night shifts, | 0:23:55 | 0:23:58 | |
and it's a juggling act for me and Chris to be able to cope, | 0:23:58 | 0:24:02 | |
looking after Quinn and actually getting enough sleep ourselves. | 0:24:02 | 0:24:06 | |
In the UK, Chris has worked as a car salesman since he was 20 years old, | 0:24:06 | 0:24:10 | |
and he has some major concerns about starting over down under. | 0:24:10 | 0:24:15 | |
When I'm selling cars, I rely heavily on my personality, | 0:24:15 | 0:24:19 | |
and I do worry whether that is transferable to Australia. | 0:24:19 | 0:24:22 | |
And having done some research, | 0:24:23 | 0:24:25 | |
Melissa has clear ideas about what she wants from a career in Oz. | 0:24:25 | 0:24:29 | |
I would hope to take home the same amount of money... | 0:24:29 | 0:24:31 | |
..but for less shifts, or maybe not such unsociable hours, | 0:24:32 | 0:24:36 | |
and I definitely wouldn't want to change the type of nursing that I do, | 0:24:36 | 0:24:39 | |
cos I enjoy being in sort of emergency care departments. | 0:24:39 | 0:24:43 | |
While Quinn stays with a childminder, | 0:24:46 | 0:24:48 | |
the couple explore job opportunities in Perth. | 0:24:48 | 0:24:51 | |
First up, we've arrange for Melissa to visit Joondalup Health Campus. | 0:24:51 | 0:24:55 | |
It's crucial that things go well today | 0:24:55 | 0:24:58 | |
if Melissa's dream of living down under is to be kept alive. | 0:24:58 | 0:25:02 | |
If they haven't got the jobs here, | 0:25:02 | 0:25:04 | |
and for the hours and money that I want, | 0:25:04 | 0:25:07 | |
then we will not be able to do it, and, you know, | 0:25:07 | 0:25:09 | |
the dream will be over. | 0:25:09 | 0:25:10 | |
After a quick tour with nurse Donna McGrouther, | 0:25:11 | 0:25:14 | |
Melissa meets Director Of Clinical Services Ben Irish, | 0:25:14 | 0:25:18 | |
and she has some important questions for him. | 0:25:18 | 0:25:20 | |
So, are my skills as a nurse in the UK definitely transferable to Australia? | 0:25:20 | 0:25:25 | |
Absolutely, they are. | 0:25:25 | 0:25:26 | |
The nurse training from the UK is recognised in Australia. | 0:25:26 | 0:25:29 | |
You would just have to register yourself | 0:25:29 | 0:25:31 | |
with the appropriate authorities. | 0:25:31 | 0:25:33 | |
Great news, but are there any jobs in Perth? | 0:25:33 | 0:25:36 | |
There are lots of hospitals within the city who are on the lookout | 0:25:36 | 0:25:39 | |
for good, experienced, | 0:25:39 | 0:25:40 | |
well-qualified nurses such as yourself. | 0:25:40 | 0:25:43 | |
It all sounds positive for Melissa. | 0:25:43 | 0:25:45 | |
Meanwhile, across town, we've arranged for Chris to meet up | 0:25:45 | 0:25:48 | |
with sales manager Ryan Haggerty at a car dealership in Perth. | 0:25:48 | 0:25:52 | |
-How are you doing? -All right, thanks. Nice to meet you. | 0:25:52 | 0:25:55 | |
First up, would Chris's skills be transferable to Australia? | 0:25:55 | 0:25:59 | |
Absolutely. I believe your experience certainly would transfer over to Australia. | 0:25:59 | 0:26:02 | |
There's a couple of things required. | 0:26:02 | 0:26:04 | |
You do need to do a salesperson's license. | 0:26:04 | 0:26:06 | |
Sounds good so far, | 0:26:06 | 0:26:08 | |
but Chris still has concerns about securing a job in the local market. | 0:26:08 | 0:26:12 | |
I don't believe you'd have too much trouble finding work. | 0:26:13 | 0:26:16 | |
I must admit, I wish I got CVs like that more often. | 0:26:16 | 0:26:19 | |
I'd be happy to take a call from you, if you needed. | 0:26:19 | 0:26:23 | |
OK, cool. Thank you. | 0:26:23 | 0:26:24 | |
Well, that's put Chris's mind at ease. | 0:26:25 | 0:26:28 | |
Back at the hospital, | 0:26:28 | 0:26:30 | |
Melissa's mind is on the working hours she'd need to do here. | 0:26:30 | 0:26:32 | |
We're very flexible with our shifts, | 0:26:33 | 0:26:35 | |
particularly in the emergency department. | 0:26:35 | 0:26:37 | |
Certainly for working families, | 0:26:37 | 0:26:39 | |
there's a number of flexible shifts that we offer. | 0:26:39 | 0:26:41 | |
-That's great. -We've also got an on-site childcare centre. | 0:26:41 | 0:26:44 | |
Yeah, that sounds brilliant. | 0:26:44 | 0:26:46 | |
So Melissa can finally achieve the family time she's been craving. | 0:26:46 | 0:26:50 | |
The big question is now how much would she earn? | 0:26:50 | 0:26:53 | |
The basic rate salary is £42,000 a year. | 0:26:53 | 0:26:57 | |
Wow, that's sort of double what I earn in the UK, | 0:26:57 | 0:27:00 | |
so that's brilliant. | 0:27:00 | 0:27:01 | |
That's a whopping £19,000 more than Melissa brings home in the UK, | 0:27:01 | 0:27:06 | |
and for less hours. | 0:27:06 | 0:27:08 | |
Back at the car dealership, | 0:27:08 | 0:27:10 | |
Chris is enquiring about his potential working week. | 0:27:10 | 0:27:13 | |
The hours aren't necessarily easy. | 0:27:13 | 0:27:15 | |
You do have the Sundays as a rest day, | 0:27:15 | 0:27:17 | |
and Saturday afternoon we finish early as well, | 0:27:17 | 0:27:20 | |
so it's about 65 hours per week. | 0:27:20 | 0:27:21 | |
Right. Right. | 0:27:21 | 0:27:23 | |
So, not a huge difference to his hours. | 0:27:23 | 0:27:25 | |
Chris really needs his earnings to increase | 0:27:25 | 0:27:28 | |
if he's to be tempted to make the move. | 0:27:28 | 0:27:30 | |
It's very much commission geared over here, | 0:27:30 | 0:27:33 | |
but I believe you'd be looking at | 0:27:33 | 0:27:35 | |
probably a minimum of £40,000 annually. | 0:27:35 | 0:27:38 | |
That's an increase of almost £20,000 a year, | 0:27:38 | 0:27:41 | |
and with more time to spend with the family at weekends, | 0:27:41 | 0:27:45 | |
it looks like Chris might be sold on a life down under. | 0:27:45 | 0:27:48 | |
When they meet up to compare notes, | 0:27:49 | 0:27:51 | |
Melissa can't wait to tell Chris what she's discovered. | 0:27:51 | 0:27:54 | |
The good news is that I'd start at £42,000. | 0:27:54 | 0:27:58 | |
42! That's good, isn't it? | 0:27:58 | 0:27:59 | |
-Yeah. -That's a lot better than what you are on in the UK, isn't it? | 0:27:59 | 0:28:02 | |
-Yeah. -You seem a lot happier. | 0:28:02 | 0:28:04 | |
-I could tell by your face. -Yeah, I really liked the hospital, | 0:28:04 | 0:28:07 | |
and I could really imagine myself working there. | 0:28:07 | 0:28:09 | |
-Yeah. -How did your day go? | 0:28:09 | 0:28:11 | |
It was good. Really positive. | 0:28:11 | 0:28:13 | |
He seemed to think I'd probably earn at least £40,000. | 0:28:13 | 0:28:17 | |
It sounds like I could be at home for most of the weekend. | 0:28:17 | 0:28:19 | |
That's brilliant. | 0:28:19 | 0:28:21 | |
But have they been impressed enough to leave their UK jobs behind? | 0:28:21 | 0:28:25 | |
BOTH: Australia! | 0:28:37 | 0:28:39 | |
So, why did you vote for Australia? | 0:28:39 | 0:28:41 | |
Well, obviously, you know, | 0:28:41 | 0:28:43 | |
with the salary being so much more, and with the hours, hopefully, | 0:28:43 | 0:28:46 | |
giving us more time as a family, that's exactly what we wanted. | 0:28:46 | 0:28:49 | |
Yeah, it sounds like we could have a better family life out here. | 0:28:49 | 0:28:53 | |
It seems like your dream is back on track. | 0:28:53 | 0:28:55 | |
The week's providing Chris and Melissa with plenty of food for thought. | 0:29:01 | 0:29:06 | |
The move has always been about spending time together, | 0:29:06 | 0:29:09 | |
so will a family day out sampling the Australian lifestyle | 0:29:09 | 0:29:13 | |
increase Melissa's chances of making her dreams their reality? | 0:29:13 | 0:29:18 | |
The family are spending their day at Perth Zoo, | 0:29:20 | 0:29:22 | |
home to over 1,000 animals, | 0:29:22 | 0:29:24 | |
and just ten minutes' drive from Perth city centre. | 0:29:24 | 0:29:27 | |
It's the ideal spot for families to enjoy a fun day out. | 0:29:27 | 0:29:31 | |
The family meet with zookeeper Simone Thompson, | 0:29:33 | 0:29:36 | |
and after a quick tour, it's time to get hands-on, | 0:29:36 | 0:29:39 | |
as it's feeding time for the kangaroos. | 0:29:39 | 0:29:42 | |
Well, we're here with our resident western grey kangaroo, here. | 0:29:42 | 0:29:46 | |
This is Nolga. | 0:29:46 | 0:29:47 | |
You're more than welcome to feed her. | 0:29:47 | 0:29:50 | |
She's very hungry, cos this is her breakfast. | 0:29:50 | 0:29:52 | |
There we go. | 0:29:52 | 0:29:54 | |
Quinn is certainly having fun, | 0:29:54 | 0:29:57 | |
and the kangaroos look like they're enjoying all of the attention. | 0:29:57 | 0:30:00 | |
The day out has given Melissa | 0:30:02 | 0:30:04 | |
a reminder of what's at stake this week, | 0:30:04 | 0:30:06 | |
and a chance to contemplate how much her move could mean. | 0:30:06 | 0:30:09 | |
Today's just been a lovely family day, | 0:30:12 | 0:30:15 | |
spending time with Chris and Quinn. | 0:30:15 | 0:30:16 | |
The whole point of coming to Australia | 0:30:18 | 0:30:21 | |
is so we can spend more time together as a family. | 0:30:21 | 0:30:24 | |
At home, we don't get to do that. | 0:30:24 | 0:30:26 | |
It's been really good just to spend time together, you know. | 0:30:26 | 0:30:28 | |
It just shows that there is a better life here. | 0:30:28 | 0:30:31 | |
Seeing Quinn's little face seeing a kangaroo for the first time, | 0:30:31 | 0:30:34 | |
you know, you can't really put a price on that. | 0:30:34 | 0:30:36 | |
Melissa's confident the day has opened Chris's eyes | 0:30:36 | 0:30:39 | |
to the potential of her dream. | 0:30:39 | 0:30:42 | |
Chris has been really positive, | 0:30:42 | 0:30:44 | |
and I think he has really come round to the idea of moving here. | 0:30:44 | 0:30:47 | |
But with family on his mind, Chris still has mixed emotions. | 0:30:47 | 0:30:51 | |
It's really easy to enjoy the life out here, | 0:30:52 | 0:30:54 | |
it's really easy to enjoy the weather. | 0:30:54 | 0:30:56 | |
You don't think about the family and the people you're leaving behind, | 0:30:56 | 0:30:59 | |
because as soon as you start thinking about them, | 0:30:59 | 0:31:01 | |
then you start doubting the whole thing. | 0:31:01 | 0:31:03 | |
I never really thought I'd leave Sutton Coldfield, myself. | 0:31:03 | 0:31:06 | |
This is Mel's dream. | 0:31:06 | 0:31:07 | |
It's kind of an impossible decision, really, | 0:31:07 | 0:31:09 | |
but it's one that has got to be made. | 0:31:09 | 0:31:12 | |
The day has given Chris much to think about, | 0:31:12 | 0:31:15 | |
so when it comes to lifestyle, will he choose home or away? | 0:31:15 | 0:31:18 | |
BOTH: Australia! | 0:31:31 | 0:31:32 | |
Why did you vote for Australia? | 0:31:33 | 0:31:35 | |
Just a bit of a no-brainer, | 0:31:35 | 0:31:37 | |
that you just can't do this sort of stuff back home in England. | 0:31:37 | 0:31:40 | |
Seeing how happy Quinn has been today, and how much fun she's had. | 0:31:40 | 0:31:44 | |
For me, it just clarified the lifestyle | 0:31:44 | 0:31:47 | |
I thought we could have here, spending days off together. | 0:31:47 | 0:31:50 | |
So I think moving over here | 0:31:50 | 0:31:51 | |
would definitely make our family life better. | 0:31:51 | 0:31:54 | |
I'm really happy that again, you voted for Australia. | 0:31:54 | 0:31:57 | |
I think you're really coming round to the idea, | 0:31:57 | 0:32:00 | |
and it's definitely worked in my favour, you coming over here. | 0:32:00 | 0:32:03 | |
-It's all part of your plan. -Yeah. | 0:32:04 | 0:32:06 | |
With the Aussie lifestyle winning Chris over, | 0:32:12 | 0:32:14 | |
Melissa's dream could finally be within reach. | 0:32:14 | 0:32:17 | |
But for a new life down under to become a reality, | 0:32:17 | 0:32:20 | |
the finances will have to add up, | 0:32:20 | 0:32:22 | |
and a major factor is getting the right price for their UK home. | 0:32:22 | 0:32:26 | |
The couple believe it's worth around £230,000. | 0:32:27 | 0:32:31 | |
We sent two local estate agents round | 0:32:31 | 0:32:33 | |
to give their professional valuations. | 0:32:33 | 0:32:35 | |
Nice hallway with wood laminate flooring. | 0:32:38 | 0:32:41 | |
It's been decorated to a modern and neutral standard. | 0:32:41 | 0:32:44 | |
OK, beautiful single bedroom, obviously. | 0:32:46 | 0:32:49 | |
Decorated as a little girl's room at the moment. | 0:32:49 | 0:32:51 | |
It looks really nice, doesn't it? | 0:32:51 | 0:32:53 | |
-I'm happy with it. -I'm pleased with that. | 0:32:53 | 0:32:55 | |
A good-size, rustic-style kitchen. | 0:32:55 | 0:32:57 | |
It's got a feature oven and range hob. | 0:32:57 | 0:33:01 | |
-ESTATE AGENT: -That's the living room. A little fireplace. | 0:33:04 | 0:33:08 | |
Lovely, cosy family room. | 0:33:08 | 0:33:10 | |
Nice. | 0:33:10 | 0:33:12 | |
In today's market, I would value this property at £210,000, | 0:33:12 | 0:33:15 | |
and for a quick sale, I would value it at £190,000. | 0:33:15 | 0:33:18 | |
I would put the property on the market for £180,000. | 0:33:20 | 0:33:23 | |
For a quick sale, I would put it on the market for £172,000. | 0:33:23 | 0:33:27 | |
Yeah, that's quite disappointing, watching that, really, isn't it? | 0:33:27 | 0:33:30 | |
It's disappointing to hear valuations like that. | 0:33:30 | 0:33:32 | |
You know, I really hoped that they would agree with what we thought. | 0:33:32 | 0:33:35 | |
If they were to be correct then, you know, | 0:33:35 | 0:33:37 | |
-it wouldn't give us the money that we needed here. -No. | 0:33:37 | 0:33:40 | |
With the estimations lower than hoped for, | 0:33:41 | 0:33:43 | |
the couple now need to calculate | 0:33:43 | 0:33:46 | |
if they really could afford to live in Australia. | 0:33:46 | 0:33:48 | |
While Quinn is looked after, | 0:33:50 | 0:33:52 | |
we've provided Chris and Melissa with a cost-of-living comparison, | 0:33:52 | 0:33:55 | |
starting with the weekly food bill. | 0:33:55 | 0:33:57 | |
So, milk is £4.45 in the UK and £5.78 here, | 0:33:57 | 0:34:03 | |
so that's £1.33 difference. | 0:34:03 | 0:34:06 | |
It's quite a bit more, isn't it, for milk, isn't it? | 0:34:06 | 0:34:08 | |
Yeah, and we do get through quite a bit of milk, don't we? | 0:34:08 | 0:34:10 | |
Nappies, that sort of stands out. | 0:34:12 | 0:34:14 | |
£3.39 in the UK. | 0:34:15 | 0:34:19 | |
And £6.36 here. | 0:34:19 | 0:34:21 | |
-Almost double, isn't it? -£2.97, yeah. | 0:34:21 | 0:34:24 | |
It generally seems that everything's a bit more expensive here. | 0:34:24 | 0:34:28 | |
Although, if you look at whole chicken for my roast chicken dinner, | 0:34:28 | 0:34:32 | |
£2.99 in the UK, £3 in Australia. | 0:34:32 | 0:34:36 | |
-There we go. -1p more. | 0:34:36 | 0:34:38 | |
-That's still more. -I'll pay that. | 0:34:38 | 0:34:41 | |
So that is Chris happy, anyway. | 0:34:41 | 0:34:43 | |
But when they do their sums, | 0:34:43 | 0:34:45 | |
they discover their food bill will be higher than the UK. | 0:34:45 | 0:34:48 | |
£50.62 worse off per week. | 0:34:48 | 0:34:54 | |
That is quite a big dent on your outgoings really, isn't it? | 0:34:54 | 0:34:58 | |
You know, talking £200 a month more. | 0:34:58 | 0:35:01 | |
For the same. And you always moan that I don't buy enough food anyway. | 0:35:01 | 0:35:05 | |
Next, a look at the bigger monthly bills, | 0:35:07 | 0:35:09 | |
basing their mortgage repayment on the second property they viewed. | 0:35:09 | 0:35:13 | |
Our mortgage at home is 764. | 0:35:13 | 0:35:17 | |
And here, it would be 956. | 0:35:17 | 0:35:20 | |
OK, so that would be £192 worse off. | 0:35:20 | 0:35:25 | |
Council tax, we pay £94 at home, and it would only be £63 here. | 0:35:25 | 0:35:31 | |
OK, that's good. | 0:35:31 | 0:35:33 | |
So we'd be £31 better off. | 0:35:33 | 0:35:36 | |
But it's not long before the figures start to turn again. | 0:35:36 | 0:35:39 | |
Gas, so, we pay £54 at home, | 0:35:39 | 0:35:43 | |
and we'd pay £258 here. | 0:35:43 | 0:35:46 | |
-That is a massive difference, isn't it? -Yeah. | 0:35:46 | 0:35:49 | |
So, that is £204 worse off. | 0:35:50 | 0:35:54 | |
That is a lot. | 0:35:54 | 0:35:55 | |
So, per month in Australia, we would be £793 worse off. | 0:35:57 | 0:36:03 | |
Can their earnings bring better news? | 0:36:05 | 0:36:07 | |
Their joint income would be £5,425 per month. | 0:36:07 | 0:36:12 | |
So that means in Australia, | 0:36:12 | 0:36:15 | |
we would take home an extra £2,075 per month. | 0:36:15 | 0:36:19 | |
That's a healthy potential increase in their monthly income. | 0:36:19 | 0:36:23 | |
So how much better off does that leave them overall? | 0:36:23 | 0:36:27 | |
We would be £1,282 better off in Australia... | 0:36:27 | 0:36:34 | |
-..per month. -That's a lot of money, isn't it? | 0:36:35 | 0:36:38 | |
And with the surplus cash, the possibilities are endless. | 0:36:38 | 0:36:42 | |
So, with that money, | 0:36:42 | 0:36:44 | |
we could seriously consider stretching the budget on the house. | 0:36:44 | 0:36:47 | |
£1,200 is, you know, it's almost another income, isn't it? | 0:36:47 | 0:36:53 | |
Yeah. It's not just a dream, is it, now? | 0:36:53 | 0:36:55 | |
It is actually a sensible, logical choice. | 0:36:55 | 0:36:58 | |
No prizes for guessing which way this vote will go. | 0:36:58 | 0:37:02 | |
Our vote goes to... | 0:37:02 | 0:37:04 | |
BOTH: Australia! | 0:37:14 | 0:37:17 | |
Today was definitely the easiest vote so far. | 0:37:17 | 0:37:19 | |
-Yeah. -We could buy that dream house, and still be loads better off. | 0:37:19 | 0:37:23 | |
-Yeah. -You know. | 0:37:23 | 0:37:24 | |
Everything we hoped we could have here, basically, we can. | 0:37:24 | 0:37:28 | |
So, yeah, it couldn't have gone any better. | 0:37:28 | 0:37:31 | |
Yay! | 0:37:31 | 0:37:32 | |
With the positive financial news, | 0:37:37 | 0:37:39 | |
it looks like Melissa's mission to move is firmly on track, | 0:37:39 | 0:37:42 | |
but there's one more obstacle to overcome. | 0:37:42 | 0:37:45 | |
Chris has made it clear he'd struggle | 0:37:47 | 0:37:49 | |
with putting so much distance between him and his family. | 0:37:49 | 0:37:52 | |
While Quinn takes a nap, | 0:37:52 | 0:37:54 | |
the couple sit down to watch messages from home. | 0:37:54 | 0:37:58 | |
-Hi, Mel. -Hi, Mel and Chris. -Hi, Chris. | 0:37:58 | 0:38:01 | |
-Hello! -Hi! -Hope you're having a good time. We're all missing you. | 0:38:01 | 0:38:05 | |
Hi, Chris. Hi, Mel. | 0:38:05 | 0:38:07 | |
Hope you're having a super-duper time. | 0:38:07 | 0:38:08 | |
Me and Chris are very close. | 0:38:08 | 0:38:11 | |
We were born 14 months apart. | 0:38:11 | 0:38:13 | |
The only difference these days is I've got slightly more hair. | 0:38:13 | 0:38:16 | |
He can be very annoying at times. | 0:38:17 | 0:38:19 | |
He likes everything has got to be perfect. | 0:38:19 | 0:38:21 | |
I think Melissa is just wonderful. | 0:38:21 | 0:38:24 | |
I couldn't ask for a better sister. | 0:38:24 | 0:38:25 | |
Chris and Mel are really the ideal, perfect couple. | 0:38:25 | 0:38:29 | |
They've got a perfect daughter, | 0:38:30 | 0:38:32 | |
and they've almost got a perfect life, | 0:38:32 | 0:38:34 | |
if they could just spend a bit more time together. | 0:38:34 | 0:38:36 | |
When Mel first spoke to me about wanting to move to Australia... | 0:38:36 | 0:38:40 | |
..my first reaction was, no. | 0:38:41 | 0:38:43 | |
You can't... You can't go. | 0:38:43 | 0:38:45 | |
I think it's something he needs to do. | 0:38:45 | 0:38:46 | |
He's always been in Birmingham. | 0:38:46 | 0:38:48 | |
He's never really left Sutton Coldfield, even. | 0:38:48 | 0:38:51 | |
I think you should go for it. | 0:38:51 | 0:38:52 | |
It'd be a fantastic opportunity, great experience, | 0:38:52 | 0:38:55 | |
and one you should grab with both hands. | 0:38:55 | 0:38:58 | |
I think I'd be heartbroken if they went, to be honest. | 0:38:58 | 0:39:00 | |
I'd just miss them so much. | 0:39:00 | 0:39:02 | |
I just can't imagine not seeing them, | 0:39:02 | 0:39:04 | |
and not seeing Quinn growing up. | 0:39:04 | 0:39:05 | |
I should miss them all terrible. | 0:39:05 | 0:39:07 | |
Especially Melissa. | 0:39:07 | 0:39:09 | |
Because she's my youngest. | 0:39:09 | 0:39:12 | |
I'd miss them immeasurably. I would never... | 0:39:13 | 0:39:16 | |
It'd never be the same. | 0:39:18 | 0:39:20 | |
I couldn't imagine you not being here all the time. | 0:39:22 | 0:39:25 | |
It would be very difficult... | 0:39:25 | 0:39:27 | |
..but, you know, you've got to do what makes you happy. | 0:39:28 | 0:39:31 | |
Hope you've had a lovely, lovely week. | 0:39:31 | 0:39:34 | |
Can't wait for you to come home. | 0:39:34 | 0:39:35 | |
I know you've got a very big decision to make, | 0:39:35 | 0:39:38 | |
but think carefully about it before you make your mind up. | 0:39:38 | 0:39:41 | |
I won't stand in your way at all. | 0:39:41 | 0:39:43 | |
Bye. | 0:39:45 | 0:39:46 | |
I think obviously, it's hard for them, because... | 0:39:50 | 0:39:53 | |
..something would just be sort of disappearing from their lives, | 0:39:55 | 0:39:58 | |
and everything else would stay the same, | 0:39:58 | 0:40:00 | |
whereas for us, it's a bit exciting. | 0:40:00 | 0:40:02 | |
It's just that we can't get our family balance, you know, right, | 0:40:04 | 0:40:08 | |
there, but we might be able to here. | 0:40:08 | 0:40:11 | |
Is it worth... | 0:40:11 | 0:40:13 | |
all that upset, just to make the three of us... | 0:40:13 | 0:40:15 | |
have a better life together? | 0:40:17 | 0:40:18 | |
-You know what I mean? -Nice to know what everyone thinks of you. | 0:40:18 | 0:40:21 | |
But hard to watch. | 0:40:23 | 0:40:24 | |
The decision to put nearly 9,000 miles | 0:40:36 | 0:40:39 | |
between you and your loved ones is never easy. | 0:40:39 | 0:40:42 | |
As Melissa and Chris prepare to choose | 0:40:42 | 0:40:45 | |
between a life in Australia and the UK, | 0:40:45 | 0:40:47 | |
the reality of being so far from home | 0:40:47 | 0:40:50 | |
is sure to be weighing on their minds. | 0:40:50 | 0:40:52 | |
When the family arrived in Perth a week ago, | 0:40:55 | 0:40:57 | |
Melissa had high hopes of making the country her home, | 0:40:57 | 0:41:00 | |
and she hasn't been disappointed. | 0:41:00 | 0:41:03 | |
I've had an amazing week this week. | 0:41:03 | 0:41:05 | |
Australia has lived up to my expectations. | 0:41:05 | 0:41:09 | |
For Chris, the week's been a real roller-coaster. | 0:41:09 | 0:41:12 | |
Definitely had some ups and some downs. | 0:41:12 | 0:41:14 | |
Your head goes from one end to the other, decision-wise. | 0:41:14 | 0:41:17 | |
While Melissa's convinced a move down under would be the right one, | 0:41:17 | 0:41:21 | |
if Chris falters at the final hurdle, | 0:41:21 | 0:41:23 | |
she knows her dream may come to nothing. | 0:41:23 | 0:41:26 | |
Over here, I've seen that we can have the life that we want to have. | 0:41:27 | 0:41:32 | |
I really, really want to just give it a go. | 0:41:32 | 0:41:35 | |
That's all I'm asking. | 0:41:35 | 0:41:37 | |
We've spent all week swinging towards Australia, | 0:41:37 | 0:41:40 | |
and everything seems to be in its favour. | 0:41:40 | 0:41:42 | |
You watch the messages from family and friends, | 0:41:42 | 0:41:44 | |
and then you start to think, "Well, actually, is it all worth it?" | 0:41:44 | 0:41:48 | |
I'm still not exactly sure which way I'm going to go. | 0:41:48 | 0:41:51 | |
This is the hardest decision you can ever make. | 0:41:51 | 0:41:54 | |
It's time to find out where the Guest family's future lies. | 0:41:56 | 0:42:00 | |
Based on our week in Australia, our final vote goes to... | 0:42:00 | 0:42:03 | |
BOTH: Australia! | 0:42:17 | 0:42:19 | |
-Yay! Did you really say Australia? -Yeah. | 0:42:20 | 0:42:23 | |
-And why? -Throughout the week, everything seemed to be better, | 0:42:24 | 0:42:27 | |
whether it be jobs, you know, the money we can earn, | 0:42:27 | 0:42:30 | |
the place we can live in, | 0:42:30 | 0:42:32 | |
the life that we could actually live, you know. | 0:42:32 | 0:42:35 | |
Obviously, the hardest thing is going to be leaving family behind, | 0:42:35 | 0:42:38 | |
but it's not forever. You know, we are going to see everybody again. | 0:42:38 | 0:42:41 | |
I think for us as a family, it's the perfect time, | 0:42:41 | 0:42:44 | |
with Quinn's age... | 0:42:44 | 0:42:46 | |
Yeah, if we want to start fresh over here, | 0:42:46 | 0:42:48 | |
I think a good time is to start it now, | 0:42:48 | 0:42:50 | |
so I'm really excited, and I'm really happy that you agree with me. | 0:42:50 | 0:42:52 | |
Shall we go inside? | 0:42:58 | 0:42:59 | |
-It's freezing! -Come on, let's go. | 0:42:59 | 0:43:00 | |
The Guests have certainly had a busy week down under, | 0:43:04 | 0:43:09 | |
and wherever they go on to set up home, | 0:43:09 | 0:43:11 | |
we wish Chris, Melissa and little Quinn a very happy future. | 0:43:11 | 0:43:15 |