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If your heart's desire was to spend quality time | 0:00:02 | 0:00:05 | |
with the people you love most, | 0:00:05 | 0:00:07 | |
how far would you go to get what you want? | 0:00:07 | 0:00:10 | |
For one family it could mean | 0:00:10 | 0:00:12 | |
giving up everything they've worked hard for | 0:00:12 | 0:00:15 | |
and moving to the other side of the world. | 0:00:15 | 0:00:19 | |
Laura Evans is struggling to balance work with being a wife and mum. | 0:00:19 | 0:00:23 | |
I think I've reached a point | 0:00:23 | 0:00:24 | |
where I'm just totally burnt out by it all. | 0:00:24 | 0:00:27 | |
She believes her family's future could be brighter in Australia. | 0:00:27 | 0:00:30 | |
Being with my two boys is what it's all about. | 0:00:30 | 0:00:32 | |
But when a trial week down under reveals the positive... | 0:00:32 | 0:00:35 | |
Oh, my gosh, this looks beautiful. | 0:00:35 | 0:00:38 | |
-This is very us. -Yeah, I like the look of this. | 0:00:38 | 0:00:41 | |
..and negative aspects about moving to the other side of the world... | 0:00:41 | 0:00:45 | |
It just affects everything, don't it? | 0:00:45 | 0:00:47 | |
Of course, it's going to have a massive impact on things. | 0:00:47 | 0:00:50 | |
..can Laura convince husband Andrew to buy into the life she longs for, | 0:00:50 | 0:00:54 | |
or will the reality crush her dreams? | 0:00:54 | 0:00:56 | |
I don't think I've ever been more confused about anything. | 0:00:56 | 0:01:00 | |
It's kind of blown everything out of the water. | 0:01:00 | 0:01:02 | |
Far away but familiar, | 0:01:25 | 0:01:27 | |
Australia has long been the top destination | 0:01:27 | 0:01:29 | |
for Brits seeking a better life abroad. | 0:01:29 | 0:01:32 | |
With an average temperature of 22 degrees Celsius | 0:01:32 | 0:01:35 | |
and over 30,000 miles of coastline to enjoy the sunshine, | 0:01:35 | 0:01:39 | |
it's easy to understand why. | 0:01:39 | 0:01:41 | |
But for many, it's not the one-way trip they intended, | 0:01:41 | 0:01:45 | |
and almost half return home to the UK. | 0:01:45 | 0:01:47 | |
Juggling a successful business with being a wife and mum, | 0:01:49 | 0:01:53 | |
Laura Evans is desperate for more time with her family | 0:01:53 | 0:01:57 | |
and thinks the solution may lie in Australia, | 0:01:57 | 0:02:00 | |
the country her husband once pushed for them to move to. | 0:02:00 | 0:02:04 | |
But with Andrew now settled in Wales, | 0:02:04 | 0:02:07 | |
before they give up everything they've worked so hard for, | 0:02:07 | 0:02:10 | |
the couple need to find out | 0:02:10 | 0:02:12 | |
if moving nearly 9,000 miles from home is a realistic option. | 0:02:12 | 0:02:17 | |
So will a trial week down under fuel the Australian dream for both | 0:02:17 | 0:02:22 | |
or put Laura and Andrew back where they started? | 0:02:22 | 0:02:26 | |
Flying from Heathrow via Singapore to Perth, | 0:02:26 | 0:02:29 | |
the Evans' trip down under begins with more than 18 hours in the air. | 0:02:29 | 0:02:34 | |
As the family touch down in Australia, spirits are high. | 0:02:37 | 0:02:41 | |
The flight was long, but we coped pretty well. | 0:02:41 | 0:02:44 | |
We had a bit of rest and we're feeling pretty good. | 0:02:44 | 0:02:47 | |
Laura's full of anticipation for the week ahead. | 0:02:49 | 0:02:52 | |
Finally being in Australia is an amazing feeling, | 0:02:52 | 0:02:54 | |
especially as I haven't been here before. | 0:02:54 | 0:02:56 | |
I can't wait to see what it has to offer us | 0:02:56 | 0:02:58 | |
as individuals and as a family. | 0:02:58 | 0:03:00 | |
But both Laura and Andrew know it'll be far from being a holiday. | 0:03:00 | 0:03:05 | |
This week is all about me finding out whether I can get the right job, | 0:03:05 | 0:03:10 | |
that we can afford the right house, | 0:03:10 | 0:03:12 | |
and most importantly, I guess, | 0:03:12 | 0:03:15 | |
is ensuring that we feel this is the best place we can bring Brody up. | 0:03:15 | 0:03:20 | |
We both need to love it. | 0:03:22 | 0:03:23 | |
So if one of us does and one of us doesn't, | 0:03:23 | 0:03:25 | |
then I think the dream will be over. | 0:03:25 | 0:03:27 | |
The next seven days will show the family | 0:03:27 | 0:03:30 | |
if a life down under really can offer the extra time together | 0:03:30 | 0:03:34 | |
they're desperate for. | 0:03:34 | 0:03:35 | |
The Evans are from Cwmbran in Wales. | 0:03:37 | 0:03:39 | |
They are mum Laura, | 0:03:39 | 0:03:41 | |
dad Andrew and Brody, who's almost two years old. | 0:03:41 | 0:03:45 | |
The trio love nothing more than spending time as a family. | 0:03:45 | 0:03:48 | |
Do you want some leaf? | 0:03:48 | 0:03:49 | |
But since opening her own bridal business last year, | 0:03:51 | 0:03:54 | |
Laura's ideal job leaves little time for play. | 0:03:54 | 0:03:57 | |
I absolutely love helping brides find their dream dress. | 0:03:57 | 0:04:01 | |
That part is every girl's dream job, | 0:04:01 | 0:04:04 | |
but the behind the scenes, | 0:04:04 | 0:04:07 | |
the long hours, paperwork, | 0:04:07 | 0:04:09 | |
it is tough. | 0:04:09 | 0:04:11 | |
As a result, time with Andrew and Brody | 0:04:11 | 0:04:14 | |
has become a thing of the past. | 0:04:14 | 0:04:16 | |
It's stressful. It's hard. It's... | 0:04:16 | 0:04:19 | |
I think it's straining Andrew and I. | 0:04:19 | 0:04:22 | |
Brody and I have only each other, | 0:04:22 | 0:04:25 | |
currently, over the course of the Saturday and Sunday. | 0:04:25 | 0:04:29 | |
We love spending the time with each other, | 0:04:30 | 0:04:33 | |
but, I guess, working, you know, a long Monday to Friday week myself, | 0:04:33 | 0:04:38 | |
it's taking its toll. | 0:04:38 | 0:04:40 | |
-What's this one? -Trac-ta. -Tractor, good boy. | 0:04:40 | 0:04:42 | |
Brody is happiest when he's with Mummy and Daddy together. | 0:04:42 | 0:04:46 | |
Not having that time with Brody that I want, it's very hard. | 0:04:46 | 0:04:51 | |
Mmm. | 0:04:51 | 0:04:52 | |
Sorry. | 0:04:52 | 0:04:53 | |
He's always asking for Mummy. | 0:04:55 | 0:04:57 | |
It's hard because, obviously, he's not at an age at the moment | 0:04:57 | 0:05:01 | |
where he understands how hard Laura is working for us | 0:05:01 | 0:05:04 | |
to make our lives better. | 0:05:04 | 0:05:06 | |
It's an unhappy situation for everyone and Laura's had enough. | 0:05:06 | 0:05:10 | |
'I think I've reached a point where I'm just totally burnt out by it all.' | 0:05:10 | 0:05:14 | |
Andrew wants to spend time with his wife and Brodie wants his mummy, | 0:05:14 | 0:05:17 | |
which I want to be with him, completely, | 0:05:17 | 0:05:19 | |
but it's just proving impossible to do both. | 0:05:19 | 0:05:23 | |
Desperate to turn things around, | 0:05:23 | 0:05:25 | |
she thinks their future could be better in Australia, | 0:05:25 | 0:05:28 | |
a country they first talked about emigrating to | 0:05:28 | 0:05:30 | |
when they met ten years ago. | 0:05:30 | 0:05:32 | |
Although Laura's never been, | 0:05:33 | 0:05:35 | |
Andrew's trip there as a student left a lasting impression. | 0:05:35 | 0:05:38 | |
'I fell in love with the country as soon as I arrived in Australia.' | 0:05:39 | 0:05:43 | |
I loved the laid-back culture, the outdoor living. | 0:05:43 | 0:05:47 | |
He told me a lot about it when we first met and I think, a little bit, | 0:05:47 | 0:05:51 | |
I fell in love with his dream. | 0:05:51 | 0:05:52 | |
While their vision of life in the sun never became a reality, now, | 0:05:53 | 0:05:57 | |
a decade later, it's Laura who's sold on what Australia could offer. | 0:05:57 | 0:06:01 | |
'More time with my family, warmer climate...' | 0:06:01 | 0:06:04 | |
..better salary for Andrew. | 0:06:05 | 0:06:07 | |
I could maybe just work part-time hours | 0:06:07 | 0:06:10 | |
and be a mummy again to Brodie. | 0:06:10 | 0:06:12 | |
While that also sounds good to Andrew, | 0:06:12 | 0:06:15 | |
he's cautious about giving up their life in the UK. | 0:06:15 | 0:06:19 | |
'We have a lot to lose by moving to the other side of the world.' | 0:06:19 | 0:06:23 | |
There are a lot of factors and variables that we need | 0:06:23 | 0:06:26 | |
reassurances on before we commit to any big decision to move. | 0:06:26 | 0:06:30 | |
In addition to practical concerns, | 0:06:33 | 0:06:35 | |
he worries about taking Brodie away from grandparents. | 0:06:35 | 0:06:39 | |
He has become such a huge part of their lives, | 0:06:39 | 0:06:41 | |
he's the first grandchild on both sides. | 0:06:41 | 0:06:44 | |
MANY: Hip hip hooray! Hip hip hooray! | 0:06:44 | 0:06:47 | |
We're doing it to try and better his outlook on life | 0:06:47 | 0:06:50 | |
and I hope, in a way, that they understand that. | 0:06:50 | 0:06:53 | |
They will respect any decision that we make, | 0:06:58 | 0:07:02 | |
but I know deep down they'd be absolutely devastated | 0:07:02 | 0:07:05 | |
if we decided to go to Australia. | 0:07:05 | 0:07:08 | |
As an only child, Laura admits leaving her mum would be a huge wrench. | 0:07:08 | 0:07:13 | |
She's my best friend and the thought of saying goodbye is...is awful. | 0:07:13 | 0:07:18 | |
Sorry. | 0:07:19 | 0:07:21 | |
I'm not quite sure whether Laura has really... | 0:07:24 | 0:07:27 | |
..come to terms with how difficult a task that might be. | 0:07:29 | 0:07:32 | |
A huge concern for me would be Laura potentially changing her mind | 0:07:34 | 0:07:39 | |
once we make that move. | 0:07:39 | 0:07:41 | |
'I think if there came a point where I found she was struggling and...' | 0:07:42 | 0:07:46 | |
..was heartbroken without us here, I think that would change everything. | 0:07:47 | 0:07:53 | |
Ultimately, though, Laura wants the chance to spend more quality time with her husband and son. | 0:07:53 | 0:07:59 | |
Whether that will be in Australia | 0:07:59 | 0:08:01 | |
should become clear during their seven days down under. | 0:08:01 | 0:08:04 | |
It's make or break time and I think whatever decision it is that we make | 0:08:05 | 0:08:10 | |
at the end of our week in Australia, | 0:08:10 | 0:08:12 | |
we need to be 100% committed to that decision and then... | 0:08:12 | 0:08:16 | |
..don't look back. | 0:08:18 | 0:08:20 | |
It's going to be a really difficult week for us and I think, | 0:08:20 | 0:08:23 | |
at the end of it, I'd be bitterly disappointed if it didn't turn out the way we hoped it would. | 0:08:23 | 0:08:30 | |
For their trial week, the Evanses are staying in Secret Harbour, | 0:08:39 | 0:08:43 | |
a coastal suburb less than an hour's drive south of central Perth. | 0:08:43 | 0:08:46 | |
Their temporary base is this four-bedroom house | 0:08:46 | 0:08:49 | |
just a stone's throw from the beach. | 0:08:49 | 0:08:51 | |
It's the first taste of the life they could have | 0:08:51 | 0:08:54 | |
and Laura's already impressed. | 0:08:54 | 0:08:56 | |
Brodie, do you like the house? | 0:08:56 | 0:08:58 | |
Wow. | 0:09:00 | 0:09:02 | |
Really excited. | 0:09:02 | 0:09:03 | |
-Yeah. -Are we going to go and see the house inside? | 0:09:03 | 0:09:07 | |
Yeah? Let's go. | 0:09:07 | 0:09:10 | |
"Well, come on then, Mummy." | 0:09:10 | 0:09:11 | |
-Look at this. -Wow! | 0:09:14 | 0:09:16 | |
Initial reactions are good. | 0:09:16 | 0:09:18 | |
-It's open plan, it's amazing. -I can't get over the size. | 0:09:18 | 0:09:21 | |
I know. It's huge, and the decor's lovely. | 0:09:21 | 0:09:24 | |
-This kitchen. -Massive. -It's perfect. | 0:09:24 | 0:09:28 | |
That's Laura sold. | 0:09:28 | 0:09:30 | |
And the outside area has got Andrew excited too. | 0:09:30 | 0:09:32 | |
This is amazing. | 0:09:32 | 0:09:34 | |
-This is Daddy's cooking area. -Look. -Wow, look at that. | 0:09:36 | 0:09:39 | |
Look at that pool. | 0:09:39 | 0:09:41 | |
This outdoor space is the reason why we want to move to Australia, isn't it? | 0:09:41 | 0:09:47 | |
This is absolutely beautiful. | 0:09:47 | 0:09:49 | |
As the family settle in, though, thoughts soon turn to home. | 0:09:50 | 0:09:54 | |
Being here, I think, makes you realise how far away it is | 0:09:54 | 0:09:57 | |
and all I've thought about since we got here is Mum. | 0:09:57 | 0:10:01 | |
What's worrying me still | 0:10:01 | 0:10:02 | |
is what the job opportunities are going to be like for me, | 0:10:02 | 0:10:06 | |
whether we could afford to buy a house like this. | 0:10:06 | 0:10:09 | |
Fingers crossed for the best. | 0:10:09 | 0:10:11 | |
Back in the UK, home for the Evanses is a four-bedroom detached house | 0:10:15 | 0:10:19 | |
in a quiet cul-de-sac in Cwmbran in South Wales. | 0:10:19 | 0:10:22 | |
We're both very happy here, we live in a lovely neighbourhood - | 0:10:22 | 0:10:26 | |
very, very quiet, very safe. | 0:10:26 | 0:10:27 | |
We've done a lot of work on the house since we've moved in. | 0:10:27 | 0:10:30 | |
If they decide to give up the home they love, | 0:10:30 | 0:10:33 | |
their budget for a house down under is £300,000 | 0:10:33 | 0:10:35 | |
and Laura knows just what she wants. | 0:10:35 | 0:10:38 | |
Ideally it would be a four-bed because, hopefully, | 0:10:38 | 0:10:41 | |
one day in the future we would like to expand our family. | 0:10:41 | 0:10:45 | |
Somewhere quite modern. I'm not a fan of... | 0:10:45 | 0:10:47 | |
..dated and properties you have to do a lot of work to. | 0:10:48 | 0:10:52 | |
We have a lovely garden, | 0:10:53 | 0:10:54 | |
nice and green with plenty of space for the baby to run. | 0:10:54 | 0:10:57 | |
But in Australia, I'd like a garden with a big pool, | 0:10:57 | 0:11:01 | |
outdoor living space where we can light the barbecue | 0:11:01 | 0:11:04 | |
and we'd like the sun. | 0:11:04 | 0:11:05 | |
To find out what their money could potentially buy them | 0:11:07 | 0:11:09 | |
on the Perth property market, we're showing them three houses - | 0:11:09 | 0:11:13 | |
two close to budget and one which could be the dream home. | 0:11:13 | 0:11:17 | |
While Brodie is looked after by a childminder, | 0:11:17 | 0:11:20 | |
Mum and Dad begin the search. | 0:11:20 | 0:11:21 | |
First stop is the suburb of Safety Bay, | 0:11:21 | 0:11:24 | |
30 miles south of Perth's centre. | 0:11:24 | 0:11:26 | |
This four-bedroom property could be perfectly situated for the Evanses, | 0:11:26 | 0:11:30 | |
but will they agree on it being the ideal Aussie home? | 0:11:30 | 0:11:34 | |
-Excited? -Nervous, I think. -Go and have a look? -Yep. | 0:11:35 | 0:11:39 | |
Wow. | 0:11:40 | 0:11:42 | |
-I quite like this. -No TV in here though. | 0:11:42 | 0:11:45 | |
-Maybe they just talk instead. -Yeah. | 0:11:45 | 0:11:48 | |
The master bedroom's just off the main hallway. | 0:11:50 | 0:11:52 | |
-Well, this is lovely. -Yeah, it's a good size. | 0:11:52 | 0:11:55 | |
It's just strange having your bedroom at the front of the house. | 0:11:57 | 0:12:01 | |
You might have to get used to that, Laura. | 0:12:01 | 0:12:04 | |
The en suite gets the thumbs up. | 0:12:04 | 0:12:06 | |
-Nice double shower. -Feels really spacious. | 0:12:06 | 0:12:10 | |
-Yeah, nice and light as well. -Yeah, it's very bright. | 0:12:10 | 0:12:12 | |
Sounds promising, but things look different in the kitchen. | 0:12:12 | 0:12:16 | |
OK. | 0:12:16 | 0:12:17 | |
It's a little bit dark, I think. | 0:12:18 | 0:12:20 | |
It's quite dated, isn't it? | 0:12:20 | 0:12:23 | |
-It is a bit dated. This isn't blowing me away. -No. | 0:12:23 | 0:12:27 | |
Mixed reactions so far but spotting a cosy family room | 0:12:27 | 0:12:31 | |
soon lifts their spirits. | 0:12:31 | 0:12:32 | |
-Oh, wow. -Oh, this is nice. -This is definitely your type of room. | 0:12:32 | 0:12:37 | |
-Yeah. -That log burner is incredible. | 0:12:37 | 0:12:40 | |
Andrew's taken by another feature. | 0:12:40 | 0:12:43 | |
-What about the bar? -Yeah. -Could see us making cocktails here. | 0:12:43 | 0:12:46 | |
-This is a room that we could entertain in. -Yeah. -I like this. | 0:12:46 | 0:12:49 | |
The upbeat note carries through to the garden. | 0:12:50 | 0:12:53 | |
-This is amazing. -Yeah, I'm impressed. | 0:12:53 | 0:12:56 | |
-Do you think this is worth moving for? -This is what I had pictured. | 0:12:56 | 0:13:00 | |
This is what I would want to move to the other side of the world. | 0:13:00 | 0:13:03 | |
-As long as we can afford it. -Yeah. | 0:13:03 | 0:13:07 | |
Despite some disappointing features indoors, | 0:13:07 | 0:13:10 | |
this property's outside living space has wowed the couple. | 0:13:10 | 0:13:14 | |
But will it be within reach of their £300,000 budget? | 0:13:14 | 0:13:18 | |
I think it could be a little bit over. | 0:13:18 | 0:13:20 | |
Yeah, four bedrooms plus the pool. | 0:13:20 | 0:13:22 | |
I think we're looking... | 0:13:22 | 0:13:25 | |
at £325,000. | 0:13:25 | 0:13:28 | |
-I think about £310,000. -OK. | 0:13:28 | 0:13:31 | |
-Shall we find out? -Go on. | 0:13:31 | 0:13:33 | |
-Ready? -Yep. | 0:13:39 | 0:13:41 | |
Wow. £284,000. | 0:13:43 | 0:13:47 | |
That's £16,000 below budget. | 0:13:48 | 0:13:52 | |
-I'm shocked. -That's a fantastic price for this house. | 0:13:52 | 0:13:56 | |
I think it's well worth it. | 0:13:56 | 0:13:58 | |
With house-hunting off to a hopeful start, | 0:13:58 | 0:14:00 | |
it's time to move on to the second property. | 0:14:00 | 0:14:03 | |
It's in Baldivis. | 0:14:03 | 0:14:05 | |
26 miles south of Perth, | 0:14:05 | 0:14:06 | |
it's an affordable suburb for growing families. | 0:14:06 | 0:14:09 | |
Will this contemporary four-bedroom home | 0:14:10 | 0:14:13 | |
keep things moving on the right track? | 0:14:13 | 0:14:15 | |
Oh, my gosh, this looks beautiful. This is very us. | 0:14:17 | 0:14:21 | |
Yeah, I like the look of this. | 0:14:21 | 0:14:23 | |
Sounds good so far. | 0:14:23 | 0:14:26 | |
Nice double doors. | 0:14:26 | 0:14:27 | |
Lovely entrance hall. | 0:14:29 | 0:14:30 | |
-This looks nice. -Oh, my goodness. | 0:14:30 | 0:14:34 | |
This is huge. | 0:14:34 | 0:14:36 | |
The modern interior design gets a big thumbs up. | 0:14:37 | 0:14:40 | |
This is a beautiful living space. | 0:14:42 | 0:14:45 | |
Yeah, I love it. Just worried about the cost. | 0:14:45 | 0:14:47 | |
-I know. -Let's go see the bedrooms. | 0:14:47 | 0:14:50 | |
Wow. | 0:14:52 | 0:14:54 | |
The master bedroom's a hit. | 0:14:54 | 0:14:56 | |
I like the decor, I like the bright lights. | 0:14:56 | 0:14:59 | |
And the spacious en suite impresses too. | 0:14:59 | 0:15:01 | |
-It's a lovely size. -It's so different being open plan. | 0:15:01 | 0:15:04 | |
-Yeah. -Quite quirky. -Yeah. -And they've got double sinks. | 0:15:04 | 0:15:07 | |
Double sinks, his and hers. | 0:15:07 | 0:15:09 | |
-Yeah. -Nice sized shower as well, double shower. | 0:15:09 | 0:15:12 | |
Four big bedrooms means plenty of room for everyone. | 0:15:14 | 0:15:17 | |
Great room for Brodie. He'd love it back here. | 0:15:17 | 0:15:20 | |
-Yeah. -Especially being able to look out into the garden. -Yeah. | 0:15:20 | 0:15:25 | |
A home cinema tickles Andrew's fancy. | 0:15:25 | 0:15:28 | |
-Wow. -This is lovely. -Yeah, this is really quirky. | 0:15:28 | 0:15:32 | |
Very chic. I like this a lot. | 0:15:32 | 0:15:35 | |
Outside, things just get better and better. | 0:15:35 | 0:15:38 | |
This is lovely. | 0:15:38 | 0:15:41 | |
This is what I was after with outdoor living space. | 0:15:41 | 0:15:44 | |
And the pool's the icing on the cake. | 0:15:44 | 0:15:46 | |
-It's beautiful. -This pool is amazing. | 0:15:46 | 0:15:49 | |
This is what it's about for us, isn't it? | 0:15:49 | 0:15:51 | |
-Yeah. I can see us spending hours out here every evening. -Yeah. | 0:15:51 | 0:15:54 | |
-It's our dream, isn't it? -Yeah. | 0:15:54 | 0:15:56 | |
This home's everything Laura and Andrew could have hoped for, | 0:15:56 | 0:16:00 | |
but will it be within reach of their £300,000 budget? | 0:16:00 | 0:16:03 | |
I think we'd be looking at... | 0:16:05 | 0:16:07 | |
..£325,000. | 0:16:08 | 0:16:10 | |
I think it's going to be around the £300,000 mark. | 0:16:10 | 0:16:15 | |
-Are you ready? -Yep. | 0:16:16 | 0:16:18 | |
-Wow. I was right, as always. -You are right, bang on. | 0:16:23 | 0:16:27 | |
It's bang on budget. | 0:16:27 | 0:16:29 | |
-I'm thrilled at that. -And me. -To think that a house like this is in our budget is... | 0:16:29 | 0:16:34 | |
-..I'm amazed. -Can we buy it now? -Let's do it. | 0:16:35 | 0:16:38 | |
Hold on, Laura, there's till one more house to go. | 0:16:38 | 0:16:42 | |
The final stop is Secret Harbour. | 0:16:43 | 0:16:46 | |
The couple may think they've already found their dream property, | 0:16:46 | 0:16:49 | |
but will this spacious four-bedroom family home make them reconsider? | 0:16:49 | 0:16:53 | |
-Gorgeous. -Looks posh. -Looks very grand. -It does, doesn't it? | 0:16:53 | 0:16:57 | |
The front door opens onto a huge entrance hall. | 0:16:57 | 0:17:00 | |
-This is lovely. -This is nice, isn't it? Spacious again. | 0:17:00 | 0:17:04 | |
Once again, the master bedroom's just off the hallway | 0:17:04 | 0:17:08 | |
but this time Laura doesn't seem bothered. | 0:17:08 | 0:17:11 | |
-Oh, look at this bedroom. -Wow. -Wow. | 0:17:11 | 0:17:14 | |
That is a big master bedroom. | 0:17:14 | 0:17:17 | |
-It's pretty special. -Wait till you see the en suite. | 0:17:18 | 0:17:23 | |
Wow. | 0:17:23 | 0:17:25 | |
It's five times bigger than our en suite bathroom at home. | 0:17:25 | 0:17:28 | |
-And the rest. -It's on another level to anything that we've seen before. | 0:17:28 | 0:17:32 | |
-This is just ridiculously big. -Massive. | 0:17:32 | 0:17:35 | |
The open plan living space also blows them away. | 0:17:35 | 0:17:38 | |
-Wow. -Wow. | 0:17:38 | 0:17:40 | |
-This is huge. -This is a big space. | 0:17:41 | 0:17:45 | |
Bit overwhelming really, isn't it? | 0:17:45 | 0:17:47 | |
It's... It's probably the size of our house in one room. | 0:17:47 | 0:17:52 | |
Space definitely isn't an issue. | 0:17:52 | 0:17:54 | |
This kitchen is the dream kitchen. It is incredible. | 0:17:54 | 0:17:57 | |
-I'm a bit speechless really because it's just so big. -Yeah, no... | 0:17:57 | 0:18:01 | |
The outdoors is equally impressive. | 0:18:01 | 0:18:03 | |
With a fantastic pool and large al fresco entertaining area, | 0:18:03 | 0:18:07 | |
it should be just what Andrew's hoping for. | 0:18:07 | 0:18:10 | |
-This is lovely. -But Laura's had a change of heart. | 0:18:10 | 0:18:14 | |
-I don't like it. -No? -No. -Why? | 0:18:14 | 0:18:17 | |
-I never thought I'd say that but I think it's just too big. -Too big. | 0:18:17 | 0:18:21 | |
I just feel that I think the move | 0:18:21 | 0:18:23 | |
is going to be a massive thing if we do decide, | 0:18:23 | 0:18:25 | |
it's going to be very lonely and I feel a house this big | 0:18:25 | 0:18:29 | |
-would maybe make us feel even more lonely. -I can understand that. | 0:18:29 | 0:18:33 | |
Although it has impressed, | 0:18:33 | 0:18:35 | |
Laura's put off by this property's huge proportions. | 0:18:35 | 0:18:39 | |
With £300,000 to spend, | 0:18:39 | 0:18:41 | |
could the price also be too big for their budget? | 0:18:41 | 0:18:45 | |
Given the size of the house and its location, | 0:18:45 | 0:18:47 | |
I think probably somewhere in the region of £400,000-£425,000. | 0:18:47 | 0:18:53 | |
Because of the size and the location | 0:18:53 | 0:18:55 | |
I think it's going to be right up there. | 0:18:55 | 0:18:57 | |
-Shall we take a look? -Let's do it. | 0:18:57 | 0:19:00 | |
-Wow. -OK. | 0:19:09 | 0:19:11 | |
£385,000. | 0:19:11 | 0:19:13 | |
It may be £85,000 over budget | 0:19:14 | 0:19:17 | |
but it's a lot less than they were expecting. | 0:19:17 | 0:19:20 | |
That is a shock. | 0:19:20 | 0:19:22 | |
Yeah. Yeah, I didn't think for a minute it would be under 400,000. | 0:19:22 | 0:19:27 | |
-No. -I mean, it's still... It's way over our budget. | 0:19:27 | 0:19:30 | |
Something this big, | 0:19:30 | 0:19:32 | |
-we would never be able to afford this at home. -I know. | 0:19:32 | 0:19:35 | |
Overall, it's been a positive day on the property hunt in Perth. | 0:19:35 | 0:19:40 | |
House number one's gloomy kitchen may have got things off to a shaky start | 0:19:40 | 0:19:45 | |
but the outside area was a winner and at £16,000 under budget, | 0:19:45 | 0:19:49 | |
there'll be plenty of dosh left for DIY. | 0:19:49 | 0:19:52 | |
With its modern interiors and perfect outdoor patch, | 0:19:52 | 0:19:56 | |
property two was the dream home | 0:19:56 | 0:19:58 | |
and could see Andrew swayed to life down under. | 0:19:58 | 0:20:01 | |
House number three was a real show stopper and although Laura felt | 0:20:01 | 0:20:06 | |
it might be too much for their needs just now, | 0:20:06 | 0:20:08 | |
the price meant it could be something to aspire to in the future. | 0:20:08 | 0:20:12 | |
So will the couple choose homes in Australia over those in the UK? | 0:20:13 | 0:20:17 | |
Based on the three properties we've seen today, our vote goes to... | 0:20:17 | 0:20:21 | |
Australia. | 0:20:33 | 0:20:35 | |
The properties that we've viewed tick all the boxes | 0:20:35 | 0:20:38 | |
and they're within our budget. | 0:20:38 | 0:20:40 | |
Meant that it was a no-brainer for me, really. | 0:20:40 | 0:20:42 | |
We want it to be a joint decision. | 0:20:42 | 0:20:44 | |
-I want you to fall in love with the idea of moving here as much as I have, so... -I know. | 0:20:44 | 0:20:49 | |
I'm so excited that you've chosen it and we're on the same... | 0:20:49 | 0:20:52 | |
-..path. -Yeah. | 0:20:53 | 0:20:55 | |
A joint vote for Australia is a first step in the direction | 0:20:59 | 0:21:02 | |
for Laura's dream of more family time down under. | 0:21:02 | 0:21:06 | |
But Andrew still needs to be convinced he'll find work | 0:21:06 | 0:21:09 | |
before committing to relocating to the other side of the world. | 0:21:09 | 0:21:14 | |
Back in the UK, he's a senior accountant | 0:21:14 | 0:21:16 | |
in the education department of the local council. | 0:21:16 | 0:21:19 | |
I've had to work extremely hard to get to the position I'm in now. | 0:21:19 | 0:21:23 | |
It's a big part of my life, so in order to make the move a reality, | 0:21:23 | 0:21:27 | |
I'd need to be 100% certain I could find a role | 0:21:27 | 0:21:30 | |
that I would be well suited to | 0:21:30 | 0:21:31 | |
and that would enable me to provide for the family. | 0:21:31 | 0:21:34 | |
Laura's pinning her hopes on working less hours | 0:21:36 | 0:21:38 | |
and spending more time with Brodie down under. | 0:21:38 | 0:21:41 | |
But selling up in the UK won't be easy. | 0:21:41 | 0:21:44 | |
The thought of giving up my business | 0:21:44 | 0:21:46 | |
to work for somebody else in Australia is heart-wrenching, | 0:21:46 | 0:21:49 | |
so it has to be a really good position which I could see a future | 0:21:49 | 0:21:53 | |
and be able to climb the career ladder within that. | 0:21:53 | 0:21:55 | |
As the couple set out to explore work prospects in Perth, | 0:21:55 | 0:21:59 | |
Laura's desire for a part-time role | 0:21:59 | 0:22:01 | |
puts even more pressure on Andrew to earn a decent salary. | 0:22:01 | 0:22:04 | |
It's really important that I get good news today | 0:22:04 | 0:22:07 | |
in order to keep the dream alive as without that, I guess, | 0:22:07 | 0:22:11 | |
we have no chance at all of making that move to Australia. | 0:22:11 | 0:22:15 | |
So it really is make or break. | 0:22:15 | 0:22:17 | |
We've arrange for Andrew to meet with Brett Roach, | 0:22:17 | 0:22:20 | |
acting chief financial officer at the Department for Education Accountancy in Western Australia. | 0:22:20 | 0:22:25 | |
-Hi, I'm Andrew. -Hi, I'm Brett. | 0:22:25 | 0:22:27 | |
After a quick tour of the building, | 0:22:27 | 0:22:29 | |
Brett's got some reassuring words for Andrew. | 0:22:29 | 0:22:31 | |
So the things we do here, Andrew, | 0:22:31 | 0:22:33 | |
are probably quite similar to the work that you do. | 0:22:33 | 0:22:36 | |
All the usual finance functions that you'd be used to back home. | 0:22:36 | 0:22:39 | |
-That's encouraging to hear. -It's a positive start. | 0:22:39 | 0:22:43 | |
Meanwhile, Laura's visiting one of Perth's top bridal shops, | 0:22:43 | 0:22:47 | |
where she's met by owner Wynne. | 0:22:47 | 0:22:50 | |
-Hi, I'm Sam. -Hi. I'm Laura. -Nice to meet you. | 0:22:50 | 0:22:51 | |
-I'm in a fitting. Come on in. -Thank you. | 0:22:51 | 0:22:53 | |
Laura gets stuck in straightaway. | 0:22:55 | 0:22:58 | |
Yes. | 0:22:58 | 0:22:59 | |
She's already at ease here. | 0:23:01 | 0:23:03 | |
Feels like I'm back at home in my comfort zone. | 0:23:07 | 0:23:09 | |
-Yes. -It's quite nice to see somebody else take the lead. | 0:23:09 | 0:23:12 | |
I think how you work is how we work | 0:23:12 | 0:23:14 | |
and I think it works really, really good. | 0:23:14 | 0:23:17 | |
Back across town, Brett's giving Andrew the lowdown | 0:23:17 | 0:23:20 | |
on the kind of jobs he could be eligible for within the department. | 0:23:20 | 0:23:25 | |
There are positions in schools, | 0:23:25 | 0:23:26 | |
-looking after school finances and budgets. -OK. | 0:23:26 | 0:23:28 | |
Or in central office, training school staff | 0:23:28 | 0:23:32 | |
or the overall coordination of the department's finances. | 0:23:32 | 0:23:35 | |
Is that something that I could potentially move into | 0:23:35 | 0:23:38 | |
if we decided to move to Perth? | 0:23:38 | 0:23:39 | |
Based on your skills and experience, | 0:23:39 | 0:23:41 | |
I think you'd be a perfect candidate for a role | 0:23:41 | 0:23:44 | |
-like a senior finance consultant or a senior budget analyst. -OK. | 0:23:44 | 0:23:48 | |
Very encouraging. | 0:23:48 | 0:23:49 | |
Back at the bridal shop, Laura's talking work-life balance. | 0:23:50 | 0:23:54 | |
I'm a mum as well. I've gone through that whole process | 0:23:54 | 0:23:57 | |
of trying to juggle work and family life. | 0:23:57 | 0:23:59 | |
So we tend to sit down with each employee | 0:23:59 | 0:24:00 | |
and just work out what best suits both parties, | 0:24:00 | 0:24:04 | |
so that you enjoy coming to work. | 0:24:04 | 0:24:06 | |
Just what Laura needed to hear. | 0:24:06 | 0:24:08 | |
So what are her chances of finding work locally? | 0:24:08 | 0:24:11 | |
It is a word-of-mouth scenario, so if you're good at what you do, | 0:24:11 | 0:24:15 | |
a boutique, with your experience too, | 0:24:15 | 0:24:18 | |
would be mad not to find a position available. | 0:24:18 | 0:24:21 | |
What salary could I expect | 0:24:21 | 0:24:22 | |
working in a boutique in the bridal industry such as yours? | 0:24:22 | 0:24:26 | |
You'd be looking at a minimum of £34,000 a year. | 0:24:26 | 0:24:29 | |
If you came in full-time, 40 hours a week, as a sales manager, | 0:24:29 | 0:24:34 | |
that would be a minimum of £45,000 | 0:24:34 | 0:24:37 | |
plus you would find, in a managerial position, | 0:24:37 | 0:24:39 | |
you would also receive commissions. | 0:24:39 | 0:24:41 | |
That's a lot more than Laura currently earns in the UK. | 0:24:41 | 0:24:44 | |
-Amazing. That's really good to know. Thank you, Sam. -You're very welcome. | 0:24:44 | 0:24:48 | |
And with the option of less hours, it looks like a win-win. | 0:24:48 | 0:24:51 | |
Today has definitely been overall good news. | 0:24:51 | 0:24:54 | |
Really, really could see myself working here. | 0:24:54 | 0:24:57 | |
Back at the office, Andrew's got just one more question for Brett. | 0:24:57 | 0:25:00 | |
The role that you described sounds really attractive to me, | 0:25:00 | 0:25:04 | |
so I guess the big question is | 0:25:04 | 0:25:06 | |
what sort of salary would that kind of role attract? | 0:25:06 | 0:25:09 | |
-A range of between £50,000 and £65,000 per annum. -OK. | 0:25:09 | 0:25:14 | |
So you would probably start at the bottom of that range, | 0:25:14 | 0:25:17 | |
then with several years of experience you could move towards the top of the range. | 0:25:17 | 0:25:21 | |
That's really encouraging. | 0:25:21 | 0:25:23 | |
That is substantially more than I earn currently in the UK, | 0:25:23 | 0:25:27 | |
so that's a big plus. | 0:25:27 | 0:25:28 | |
Thank you for all your help and advice today. Cheers, Brett. | 0:25:28 | 0:25:31 | |
-Thank you. -A pleasure, Andrew. | 0:25:31 | 0:25:32 | |
With encouraging news on the work front for both, | 0:25:32 | 0:25:35 | |
could Laura's vision of a better life down under | 0:25:35 | 0:25:39 | |
be one step closer to reality? | 0:25:39 | 0:25:41 | |
Based on our job interviews today, our vote goes to... | 0:25:41 | 0:25:44 | |
BOTH: Australia! | 0:25:53 | 0:25:55 | |
Yay! | 0:25:55 | 0:25:57 | |
The fact that for a comparable role | 0:25:59 | 0:26:01 | |
to what I'm already doing at home in the UK I could earn so much more, | 0:26:01 | 0:26:04 | |
it was a no-brainer for me. | 0:26:04 | 0:26:06 | |
You choosing Australia has meant more to me than how my day went | 0:26:06 | 0:26:10 | |
because I know how hard you've worked and trained | 0:26:10 | 0:26:12 | |
for the job you do now, so as long as you're happy, I'm happy. | 0:26:12 | 0:26:16 | |
Yeah. I'm really pleased. | 0:26:16 | 0:26:18 | |
The week is proving very insightful for Andrew and Laura. | 0:26:26 | 0:26:31 | |
Desperate for more time together as a family, | 0:26:31 | 0:26:34 | |
hopefully a day sampling the lifestyle Australia offers | 0:26:34 | 0:26:38 | |
will give them a further glimpse of what life could be like down under. | 0:26:38 | 0:26:42 | |
Making the most of rare time together, | 0:26:44 | 0:26:47 | |
the family are visiting one of Perth's aquariums | 0:26:47 | 0:26:50 | |
and it looks like Brodie just can't wait. | 0:26:50 | 0:26:53 | |
-Wow! -BOTH: Wow! | 0:26:55 | 0:26:57 | |
Yay! | 0:26:57 | 0:26:59 | |
Interesting hat, Andrew! | 0:26:59 | 0:27:01 | |
Look at the turtle. | 0:27:04 | 0:27:06 | |
Go give him a kiss. | 0:27:06 | 0:27:08 | |
Go give him a kiss, Brodie. | 0:27:08 | 0:27:11 | |
BOTH: Aw! | 0:27:11 | 0:27:13 | |
Next up, it's Dad's turn to have some fun. | 0:27:17 | 0:27:20 | |
As Andrew prepares to come face-to-fin with the sharks, | 0:27:20 | 0:27:23 | |
Laura and Brodie watch on in amazement. | 0:27:23 | 0:27:26 | |
-Daddy. -Daddy! | 0:27:27 | 0:27:29 | |
Wow. | 0:27:31 | 0:27:33 | |
Days out like this are few and far between back home | 0:27:36 | 0:27:39 | |
and it's gone down well with the whole family. | 0:27:39 | 0:27:41 | |
-What did you think? -HE BABBLES | 0:27:41 | 0:27:45 | |
I think that's Brodie-speak for, "Great day, Mum." | 0:27:45 | 0:27:49 | |
But for Laura, the day has also been a reminder | 0:27:52 | 0:27:54 | |
of how little time she has with Andrew and Brodie back home. | 0:27:54 | 0:27:58 | |
It's been so nice to be together as a family. | 0:27:58 | 0:28:02 | |
-Yeah. -I think it's made me realise how much I've missed you both. | 0:28:02 | 0:28:06 | |
-I know. -And I miss being a part of him. -Yeah. | 0:28:06 | 0:28:09 | |
Don't be silly. OK? | 0:28:10 | 0:28:13 | |
It's strengthened her resolve to move the family to Australia. | 0:28:13 | 0:28:17 | |
I think it's put into perspective how our lives need to change | 0:28:17 | 0:28:22 | |
and how I need to make a difference in my life and I need to do it now. | 0:28:22 | 0:28:26 | |
But the afternoon's also given the couple a painful reminder. | 0:28:28 | 0:28:31 | |
Days like this will mean leaving loved ones at home. | 0:28:31 | 0:28:34 | |
It makes me feel that maybe we're being selfish. | 0:28:35 | 0:28:38 | |
It's going to be really tough in order to make that decision | 0:28:43 | 0:28:47 | |
based on the fact that we are leaving so many close people behind in the UK. | 0:28:47 | 0:28:52 | |
I just hope they know how much we love them | 0:28:52 | 0:28:54 | |
and that we'll always be a part of each other's lives | 0:28:54 | 0:28:57 | |
no matter where we are, I suppose. | 0:28:57 | 0:28:59 | |
-Thank you. -Cheers. -Cheers. -Thank you. | 0:28:59 | 0:29:02 | |
The day's provided Laura and Andrew with plenty of food for thought. | 0:29:03 | 0:29:07 | |
But based on lifestyle alone, | 0:29:07 | 0:29:09 | |
has it paved the way for a unanimous vote for Australia? | 0:29:09 | 0:29:13 | |
Based on our day out today, our vote goes to... | 0:29:13 | 0:29:16 | |
BOTH: Australia. | 0:29:28 | 0:29:29 | |
That was an easy decision today, I think, really. | 0:29:31 | 0:29:33 | |
For me, there's nothing more important than having the three of us together as a family. | 0:29:33 | 0:29:37 | |
I just loved every minute of it. | 0:29:37 | 0:29:39 | |
Being with my two boys is what it's all about | 0:29:39 | 0:29:41 | |
and you voting Australia again is an amazing feeling. | 0:29:41 | 0:29:45 | |
A reminder of the lifestyle he first glimpsed over ten years ago | 0:29:54 | 0:29:58 | |
has secured another vote for Oz from Andrew. | 0:29:58 | 0:30:01 | |
And it looks like Laura's dream could be inching closer. | 0:30:01 | 0:30:05 | |
But for the move to be feasible, the family finances will have to add up. | 0:30:05 | 0:30:10 | |
A large part of that would be the value of their UK property, | 0:30:10 | 0:30:13 | |
which they think is worth around £260,000. | 0:30:13 | 0:30:17 | |
While Brodie's looked after by a childminder, | 0:30:17 | 0:30:20 | |
the couple find out if two local estate agents agree. | 0:30:20 | 0:30:23 | |
-OK. -Yeah. -Let's have a look at these valuations. -Yeah. | 0:30:23 | 0:30:27 | |
-Look at the weather. -Yeah. Raining. | 0:30:33 | 0:30:36 | |
Nice bright entrance hall. | 0:30:38 | 0:30:40 | |
Tile flooring that leads into the downstairs toilet. | 0:30:40 | 0:30:45 | |
Very nice. | 0:30:45 | 0:30:46 | |
Nice spacious lounge, feature fireplace with slate-effect hearth. | 0:30:49 | 0:30:53 | |
-Love the fireplace. -Double glazed window at the front and attractive wood-effect flooring. Very nice. | 0:30:53 | 0:30:58 | |
-It's weird to think that's our house. -I know. | 0:31:00 | 0:31:03 | |
This is a great kitchen. I really like what they've done with this space. | 0:31:05 | 0:31:08 | |
They've obviously opened up through to the dining room, | 0:31:08 | 0:31:11 | |
which really lends itself to being a great useful room for the family. | 0:31:11 | 0:31:14 | |
We're going to miss that kitchen if we decide to come here! | 0:31:14 | 0:31:17 | |
Oh, this is really lovely. | 0:31:22 | 0:31:24 | |
I can see this room belongs to a little boy called Brodie | 0:31:24 | 0:31:28 | |
and I think they've decorated it beautifully. It's really cute. | 0:31:28 | 0:31:32 | |
He loves that room as well, doesn't he? | 0:31:32 | 0:31:34 | |
Really nicely decorated master bedroom. Well furnished. | 0:31:38 | 0:31:41 | |
You can tell these guys are quite glamorous from the decor. | 0:31:41 | 0:31:45 | |
In today's market I would value the property at £245,000. | 0:31:46 | 0:31:50 | |
If the owners wanted a cheaper quick sale, | 0:31:50 | 0:31:52 | |
I'd market the property at £235,000. | 0:31:52 | 0:31:55 | |
In today's market, I would value this property at £240,000. | 0:31:55 | 0:32:00 | |
-No way. -For a quick sale, I would value this property at £230,000. | 0:32:00 | 0:32:05 | |
Laura's devastated to realise | 0:32:05 | 0:32:07 | |
the valuations are £15,000 lower than expected. | 0:32:07 | 0:32:11 | |
Just affects everything, don't it? | 0:32:11 | 0:32:14 | |
Of course, it's going to have a massive impact on things but... | 0:32:14 | 0:32:18 | |
So much relies and rides on... | 0:32:18 | 0:32:20 | |
-..our house being sold. -Yeah. | 0:32:21 | 0:32:23 | |
And it just feels like everything is stacking up against us now. | 0:32:23 | 0:32:27 | |
Yeah. | 0:32:27 | 0:32:29 | |
-It's one minor... -I know. -..setback. | 0:32:29 | 0:32:31 | |
Making the books balance is now key. | 0:32:33 | 0:32:36 | |
We've prepared a comparison of the family's cost of living in the UK and Australia. | 0:32:36 | 0:32:41 | |
First up is the weekly food shop. | 0:32:41 | 0:32:43 | |
Potato waffles, only 85p at home in the UK. £2.93. | 0:32:43 | 0:32:48 | |
Wow! £2.08 difference. | 0:32:48 | 0:32:51 | |
Again, something we go through quite a lot of at the moment, | 0:32:51 | 0:32:54 | |
a weekly amount of nappies cost in the UK is £4 per week. | 0:32:54 | 0:32:59 | |
£9.47 a week in Australia. | 0:32:59 | 0:33:01 | |
More than double. | 0:33:01 | 0:33:04 | |
So far, it's a lot cheaper at home. | 0:33:04 | 0:33:07 | |
Totting everything up, | 0:33:08 | 0:33:10 | |
the couple discover the weekly shop down under doesn't come cheap. | 0:33:10 | 0:33:13 | |
OK, so that would be more expensive here in Australia | 0:33:13 | 0:33:18 | |
by £55.66 per week. | 0:33:18 | 0:33:20 | |
-That's over £200 more a month. -That's a big difference. | 0:33:22 | 0:33:25 | |
It's a huge hike. | 0:33:26 | 0:33:29 | |
Basing their sums on the second property they saw and loved, | 0:33:29 | 0:33:32 | |
the couple would also face a mortgage increase of more than £400 a month in Australia. | 0:33:32 | 0:33:37 | |
While some outgoings would be cheaper, | 0:33:40 | 0:33:42 | |
when the couple compare their total spends down under with the UK, | 0:33:42 | 0:33:46 | |
it's not good news. | 0:33:46 | 0:33:48 | |
£572 per month... | 0:33:49 | 0:33:51 | |
..worse off here in Australia. | 0:33:53 | 0:33:55 | |
-That's massive. -Yeah. -It is another mortgage to us. -Yeah. | 0:33:55 | 0:34:01 | |
Overall, the couple would have to find an extra £7,000 per year to live in Australia. | 0:34:01 | 0:34:07 | |
Laura's dream could be fading fast. | 0:34:07 | 0:34:10 | |
But both Andrew and Laura could earn more in Australia. | 0:34:10 | 0:34:14 | |
Building in the option of Laura working a three-day week, | 0:34:14 | 0:34:17 | |
would they be better or worse off if they made the move down under? | 0:34:17 | 0:34:22 | |
We would be £675 better off per month here in Australia. | 0:34:22 | 0:34:26 | |
Well... | 0:34:28 | 0:34:29 | |
-It's amazing news, isn't it? -Laura can't believe it. | 0:34:30 | 0:34:33 | |
-I could be a mum again. -Yeah, of course you could. Yeah. | 0:34:33 | 0:34:37 | |
It just means I can be... | 0:34:38 | 0:34:40 | |
-..be with Brodie. -Yeah. | 0:34:41 | 0:34:43 | |
And we're still better off financially as well. | 0:34:43 | 0:34:46 | |
-And that is what it's all about. -Yeah. And time together as a family, so... | 0:34:46 | 0:34:49 | |
With such a positive result, are they both convinced? | 0:34:49 | 0:34:52 | |
Based on our reality check today, our vote goes to... | 0:34:52 | 0:34:55 | |
BOTH: Australia! | 0:35:05 | 0:35:07 | |
Straightforward one for me, really. | 0:35:09 | 0:35:11 | |
Yeah, it was the easiest decision I think I've made all week, | 0:35:11 | 0:35:14 | |
you choosing that as well... | 0:35:14 | 0:35:16 | |
I know it was a big moment for you. | 0:35:16 | 0:35:18 | |
-Yeah. -I'm pleased we've both chosen the same. -Yeah, me too. | 0:35:18 | 0:35:22 | |
With Andrew's fourth vote for Australia, | 0:35:30 | 0:35:32 | |
it looks like Laura's dream could be within grasp. | 0:35:32 | 0:35:36 | |
But moving across the world would mean breaking close bonds with loved ones and for Laura, | 0:35:36 | 0:35:41 | |
the prospect of saying goodbye to her mum could prove too much to bear. | 0:35:41 | 0:35:46 | |
We've prepared a DVD of messages from family and friends back in the UK. | 0:35:46 | 0:35:50 | |
While Brodie takes a nap, the couple sit down to watch them. | 0:35:50 | 0:35:54 | |
SIGHS | 0:35:54 | 0:35:55 | |
-Hi, Laura, Andrew. -Hi, guys. | 0:35:57 | 0:35:58 | |
-Hi, Andrew. Hi, Laura. -Hi. Andrew, Laura. | 0:36:00 | 0:36:03 | |
Laura is my daughter. She's not only my daughter, she's my best friend. | 0:36:03 | 0:36:06 | |
She's an amazing young woman and I'm immensely proud of her. | 0:36:06 | 0:36:11 | |
Andrew's my brother. And we're really, really close. | 0:36:11 | 0:36:14 | |
Laura is my best friend. We speak a lot on the phone. | 0:36:14 | 0:36:17 | |
A lot on the phone and every day. | 0:36:17 | 0:36:20 | |
I've known Andy for 20 years now. We are best mates. | 0:36:20 | 0:36:22 | |
If he was to go to Australia, | 0:36:22 | 0:36:24 | |
it would be a big loss for me in terms of a friend. | 0:36:24 | 0:36:26 | |
They really... They bounce off each other, | 0:36:26 | 0:36:29 | |
they love each other dearly and they definitely live for each other. | 0:36:29 | 0:36:33 | |
As a family, they are a wonderful unit. They support each other. | 0:36:34 | 0:36:38 | |
They have a great love for one another. | 0:36:38 | 0:36:41 | |
They try to do the best for Brodie. | 0:36:41 | 0:36:43 | |
They've got good friends. | 0:36:43 | 0:36:46 | |
Brodie is a gorgeous little boy. | 0:36:46 | 0:36:48 | |
He's a little whirlwind but a darling at the same time. | 0:36:48 | 0:36:51 | |
Our Brodie, our prince. | 0:36:51 | 0:36:53 | |
He's our world. | 0:36:55 | 0:36:57 | |
He's brought so much love to us and he's completed us as a family. | 0:36:57 | 0:37:00 | |
Sorry. | 0:37:02 | 0:37:04 | |
Ah, come on. | 0:37:05 | 0:37:07 | |
When we first heard that Andrew and Laura and Brodie might be moving | 0:37:07 | 0:37:10 | |
to the other side of the world, it was a big shock to us. | 0:37:10 | 0:37:13 | |
We are close friends with them, | 0:37:14 | 0:37:16 | |
we do see them on a regular basis and we just realised | 0:37:16 | 0:37:18 | |
that we wouldn't have that friendship any more. | 0:37:18 | 0:37:21 | |
It did upset me because we are so close to each other, | 0:37:23 | 0:37:27 | |
so I knew I'd not be able to see him, | 0:37:27 | 0:37:30 | |
probably only see him once a year, maybe once every two years. | 0:37:30 | 0:37:33 | |
So that's hard to try and sink in for me. | 0:37:33 | 0:37:35 | |
As she is my only one... | 0:37:35 | 0:37:37 | |
..it'd be a real wrench for me. | 0:37:38 | 0:37:42 | |
A real heartbreaker, and she knows that. | 0:37:43 | 0:37:47 | |
And especially now with Brodie as well. | 0:37:47 | 0:37:49 | |
My heartbreak must not spoil their future. | 0:37:51 | 0:37:54 | |
Because it is their future. | 0:37:55 | 0:37:58 | |
And they go with my love and my blessing. | 0:37:58 | 0:38:01 | |
Laura, she's been there for me since day one, so, you know, | 0:38:02 | 0:38:05 | |
it is going to be tough. I am going to really miss her. | 0:38:05 | 0:38:08 | |
My brother isn't just my brother, he's my best friend. | 0:38:08 | 0:38:11 | |
It would be very upsetting as well, missing out on Brodie getting older. | 0:38:11 | 0:38:15 | |
It will hurt not seeing them as often as we do, | 0:38:15 | 0:38:17 | |
because we do have such an influence on each other's lives. | 0:38:17 | 0:38:21 | |
It's quite upsetting to think that we might not see Brodie growing up, | 0:38:22 | 0:38:25 | |
because we're his godparents. | 0:38:25 | 0:38:27 | |
Look, you mustn't cry. She told you not to cry. | 0:38:29 | 0:38:32 | |
I love him. He's my little man. He's everything to me. | 0:38:32 | 0:38:37 | |
Since he come along, our family have become very close. | 0:38:37 | 0:38:40 | |
Going away, oh... | 0:38:43 | 0:38:45 | |
Whichever you decide, Laura, whether it's the UK or Australia, | 0:38:46 | 0:38:50 | |
I will 100% support you. Love you lots. Mwah! | 0:38:50 | 0:38:53 | |
I would be absolutely gutted if you were to decide to stay out there | 0:38:53 | 0:38:57 | |
but you've got to do what's best for you | 0:38:57 | 0:38:59 | |
and I'm fully behind your decision on what you think is the best. | 0:38:59 | 0:39:02 | |
Obviously, if you do decide to go, | 0:39:02 | 0:39:04 | |
we will miss you like crazy but will support you all the way. | 0:39:04 | 0:39:07 | |
I hope that you've enjoyed your time there | 0:39:07 | 0:39:10 | |
and I certainly hope it's everything that you've wished for. | 0:39:10 | 0:39:13 | |
And whatever you decide to do, you know that we will support you... | 0:39:13 | 0:39:18 | |
..and I just want your dreams to come true. | 0:39:19 | 0:39:21 | |
And I send you all my love. | 0:39:21 | 0:39:23 | |
Because you are always in my heart, all of you. | 0:39:23 | 0:39:27 | |
God bless. I love you. | 0:39:27 | 0:39:29 | |
Oh, God. | 0:39:32 | 0:39:34 | |
That was harder for me than I was expecting. | 0:39:37 | 0:39:39 | |
-SNIFFS -You all right? | 0:39:41 | 0:39:43 | |
-And poor Mum. -I know. Well, she's... | 0:39:45 | 0:39:47 | |
-I'm all she's got. -I know. | 0:39:49 | 0:39:51 | |
I just don't want them to hurt. | 0:39:54 | 0:39:56 | |
They are going to hurt. I'm saying it's all well and good... | 0:39:56 | 0:40:00 | |
..working through the numbers and the figures | 0:40:01 | 0:40:03 | |
-but you can't really put a price on... -No. | 0:40:03 | 0:40:06 | |
..on any of those guys. | 0:40:06 | 0:40:08 | |
I think it's absolutely changed things. | 0:40:08 | 0:40:10 | |
I don't think I've ever been more confused about anything. | 0:40:13 | 0:40:16 | |
The thought of leaving loved ones in the UK | 0:40:20 | 0:40:23 | |
is often the toughest hurdle to overcome | 0:40:23 | 0:40:26 | |
when contemplating emigrating to the other side of the world. | 0:40:26 | 0:40:30 | |
Andrew and Laura now face a massive decision. | 0:40:30 | 0:40:34 | |
Will they stick with their life in Wales | 0:40:34 | 0:40:37 | |
or pursue a new one in Australia? | 0:40:37 | 0:40:39 | |
Their trial week down under | 0:40:41 | 0:40:42 | |
has more than lived up to Laura's expectations. | 0:40:42 | 0:40:46 | |
It's been a dream come true. | 0:40:46 | 0:40:48 | |
I know we could make the most incredible life here | 0:40:48 | 0:40:50 | |
as a family of three. | 0:40:50 | 0:40:52 | |
But the impact of messages from home | 0:40:52 | 0:40:54 | |
has stopped the couple in their tracks. | 0:40:54 | 0:40:57 | |
It has hit home really hard today | 0:40:57 | 0:40:59 | |
that we're going to be so far away from our loved ones | 0:40:59 | 0:41:02 | |
and that's going to be very, | 0:41:02 | 0:41:04 | |
very difficult to cope with, I think. | 0:41:04 | 0:41:07 | |
To see Andrew cry today is something I really didn't expect. | 0:41:07 | 0:41:12 | |
Taking Brodie away from... especially his grandparents, | 0:41:12 | 0:41:16 | |
would be an awfully selfish thing for Laura and I to do. | 0:41:16 | 0:41:19 | |
That aspect, I guess, is... | 0:41:19 | 0:41:21 | |
..is probably the biggest thing that...is holding me back. | 0:41:22 | 0:41:26 | |
As the final vote approaches, | 0:41:26 | 0:41:28 | |
both Andrew and Laura are feeling the pressure. | 0:41:28 | 0:41:31 | |
In my mind, I was... | 0:41:31 | 0:41:33 | |
kind of felt I knew where I was at | 0:41:33 | 0:41:35 | |
and how I felt about a move to Australia | 0:41:35 | 0:41:38 | |
and it's kind of blown everything out of the water. | 0:41:38 | 0:41:41 | |
At this moment in time, | 0:41:41 | 0:41:43 | |
I'm really not too sure which way this vote is going to go. | 0:41:43 | 0:41:46 | |
It's going to be tough. | 0:41:48 | 0:41:51 | |
Having fallen hook, line and sinker for what Australia could offer them | 0:41:51 | 0:41:55 | |
as a family, will the pull of home be too much to bear | 0:41:55 | 0:41:59 | |
as the couple decide on which side of the world their future lies? | 0:41:59 | 0:42:03 | |
BOTH: Australia! | 0:42:11 | 0:42:13 | |
Aw! I didn't think you'd choose that. | 0:42:13 | 0:42:17 | |
No? It would have been an easy decision, | 0:42:17 | 0:42:19 | |
had we not seen the messages from home. | 0:42:19 | 0:42:22 | |
I know how much they love us and we love them all so much | 0:42:22 | 0:42:26 | |
and I hope one day, that they get to come and visit us here | 0:42:26 | 0:42:30 | |
and see how amazing Australia is and to realise why we chose Australia. | 0:42:30 | 0:42:35 | |
Seeing the two of you so happy this week, | 0:42:35 | 0:42:37 | |
you know, it means the world to me | 0:42:37 | 0:42:39 | |
and, you know, that's the most important thing. | 0:42:39 | 0:42:41 | |
I'd do anything, you know, to have that for the rest of our lives. | 0:42:42 | 0:42:45 | |
Yay! | 0:42:45 | 0:42:46 | |
Andrew's chance to show Laura and Brodie | 0:42:52 | 0:42:54 | |
the country he first experienced over ten years ago | 0:42:54 | 0:42:58 | |
has certainly been eventful. | 0:42:58 | 0:43:01 | |
We wish the whole family the very best of luck | 0:43:01 | 0:43:04 | |
as they contemplate the next chapter in their lives. | 0:43:04 | 0:43:08 |