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Teenage dreams are hard to beat. | 0:00:02 | 0:00:04 | |
But if yours involved | 0:00:04 | 0:00:06 | |
packing up and moving to Australia, | 0:00:06 | 0:00:08 | |
how hard would you try to make it come true? | 0:00:08 | 0:00:11 | |
Especially if your partner just isn't interested | 0:00:11 | 0:00:14 | |
in living on the other side of the world. | 0:00:14 | 0:00:17 | |
Jimmy Hedworth's desperate to return to the country | 0:00:18 | 0:00:21 | |
that's stolen his heart. | 0:00:21 | 0:00:22 | |
There's no negatives in my head about moving over there at all. | 0:00:22 | 0:00:26 | |
But homebird Sharday isn't quite so positive. | 0:00:26 | 0:00:29 | |
I'm ying, you're yang, that sort of thing. | 0:00:29 | 0:00:32 | |
When a trial week down under shows her the reality of Aussie living... | 0:00:32 | 0:00:36 | |
I couldn't see myself living here. | 0:00:36 | 0:00:38 | |
..will it take Jimmy closer to his dream | 0:00:38 | 0:00:40 | |
or push his relationship to breaking point? | 0:00:40 | 0:00:43 | |
It upsets me that the bond | 0:00:43 | 0:00:48 | |
between me and Jimmy is breaking down. | 0:00:48 | 0:00:50 | |
It might be 10,000 miles away, | 0:01:14 | 0:01:17 | |
but Australia remains the top destination of choice | 0:01:17 | 0:01:20 | |
for Brits looking for a one-way ticket | 0:01:20 | 0:01:22 | |
to a better life abroad. | 0:01:22 | 0:01:24 | |
A warm climate, strong economy, | 0:01:24 | 0:01:26 | |
and stunning natural scenery are just some of the draws. | 0:01:26 | 0:01:30 | |
Around 2,000 miles north to south | 0:01:31 | 0:01:34 | |
and almost 2,500 miles east to west, | 0:01:34 | 0:01:37 | |
it's the world's largest island, | 0:01:37 | 0:01:39 | |
and as big as the dreams it holds. | 0:01:39 | 0:01:41 | |
Since visiting Australia in | 0:01:43 | 0:01:45 | |
his teens, | 0:01:45 | 0:01:46 | |
Jimmy Hedworth could think of nothing else but moving there. | 0:01:46 | 0:01:49 | |
Now a dad, | 0:01:49 | 0:01:50 | |
he's more determined than ever to give his young family | 0:01:50 | 0:01:54 | |
the lifestyle he dreams of. | 0:01:54 | 0:01:56 | |
But it'll take more than the promise of some sunshine | 0:01:56 | 0:01:59 | |
to win over partner Sharday, | 0:01:59 | 0:02:01 | |
a self-confessed homebird, who's never ventured outside of the UK. | 0:02:01 | 0:02:06 | |
Now Jimmy has one week in which to persuade Sharday | 0:02:06 | 0:02:10 | |
the grass could be greener on the other side of the world. | 0:02:10 | 0:02:15 | |
The journey begins with over 20 hours in the air, | 0:02:15 | 0:02:18 | |
flying from London to Melbourne via Dubai and Sydney. | 0:02:18 | 0:02:21 | |
And first-time flyer Sharday's relieved | 0:02:24 | 0:02:26 | |
when they finally touch down. | 0:02:26 | 0:02:29 | |
I've been worrying that the flight's going to go wrong, | 0:02:29 | 0:02:31 | |
and we're all going to... | 0:02:31 | 0:02:33 | |
..die! | 0:02:34 | 0:02:35 | |
THEY LAUGH | 0:02:35 | 0:02:36 | |
Baby Maia was more laid-back. | 0:02:36 | 0:02:39 | |
Eight months old and she just sort of took everything in her stride. | 0:02:39 | 0:02:43 | |
Jimmy's already thinking about the task in front of him. | 0:02:43 | 0:02:46 | |
This week, I need to convince Sharday | 0:02:46 | 0:02:48 | |
it's the right move for all of us. | 0:02:48 | 0:02:49 | |
I need to convince her that my job will provide us | 0:02:49 | 0:02:52 | |
a dramatically different lifestyle to what we've got back in the UK. | 0:02:52 | 0:02:55 | |
And he knows there could be pitfalls ahead. | 0:02:55 | 0:02:58 | |
This week is going to be one of our biggest weeks as a couple. | 0:02:58 | 0:03:01 | |
To me, it's either we're together or we're flying back, not. | 0:03:01 | 0:03:05 | |
Back in the UK, Jimmy Hedworth, | 0:03:14 | 0:03:16 | |
partner Sharday Romain and baby daughter Maia | 0:03:16 | 0:03:19 | |
live in Nottinghamshire along with Jimmy's family. | 0:03:19 | 0:03:23 | |
The couple are proof opposites attract. | 0:03:23 | 0:03:25 | |
I'm outgoing, Shard's not too outgoing. | 0:03:25 | 0:03:28 | |
I love sport, Shard hasn't got any interest in sport whatsoever. | 0:03:28 | 0:03:30 | |
-I hate sport! -Here she is, tea's here, love. | 0:03:30 | 0:03:33 | |
Want some tea. | 0:03:33 | 0:03:34 | |
I like spending money on clothes. | 0:03:34 | 0:03:36 | |
-It works out. -Yeah. | 0:03:36 | 0:03:38 | |
But it works. We're good. | 0:03:38 | 0:03:40 | |
THEY CHATTER | 0:03:40 | 0:03:44 | |
One thing they definitely don't have in common | 0:03:46 | 0:03:49 | |
is Jimmy's passion for Australia. | 0:03:49 | 0:03:52 | |
It's one of those visions | 0:03:52 | 0:03:53 | |
where I just think the grass is definitely greener. | 0:03:53 | 0:03:56 | |
There's no negatives in my head about moving over there at all. | 0:03:56 | 0:04:00 | |
Jimmy talks about moving to Australia every day. | 0:04:00 | 0:04:03 | |
He's just nonstop talking about it. | 0:04:03 | 0:04:05 | |
It's driving me crazy. | 0:04:05 | 0:04:07 | |
Jimmy's been obsessed with moving down under | 0:04:07 | 0:04:09 | |
ever since visiting the country | 0:04:09 | 0:04:10 | |
with his dad and brother ten years ago. | 0:04:10 | 0:04:13 | |
Everything about it was just perfect. | 0:04:13 | 0:04:15 | |
I just thought, "This is where I want to be." | 0:04:15 | 0:04:18 | |
But Sharday, who's never even been on a plane before, is sceptical. | 0:04:18 | 0:04:22 | |
He went out there when he was a child. | 0:04:22 | 0:04:25 | |
A lot of things change. | 0:04:25 | 0:04:26 | |
And you don't know what it's going to be like. | 0:04:26 | 0:04:28 | |
I don't think anywhere's that great. | 0:04:28 | 0:04:31 | |
Sharday's reluctance is also fuelled by the knowledge she'd need consent | 0:04:31 | 0:04:35 | |
from her oldest daughter's dad | 0:04:35 | 0:04:37 | |
before she could up sticks and move her to the other side of the world. | 0:04:37 | 0:04:41 | |
But for Jimmy, the first challenge | 0:04:41 | 0:04:43 | |
is getting Sharday to see the country's potential. | 0:04:43 | 0:04:46 | |
And that could prove easier said than done. | 0:04:46 | 0:04:49 | |
I need to convince a person that's never been on a plane before | 0:04:49 | 0:04:53 | |
to move to the other side of the world | 0:04:53 | 0:04:56 | |
which I don't think is a small task. | 0:04:56 | 0:04:58 | |
Currently working round-the-clock as an electrician | 0:04:58 | 0:05:01 | |
while Sharday stays at home with the baby, | 0:05:01 | 0:05:03 | |
Jimmy believes moving could help bring | 0:05:03 | 0:05:05 | |
his young family closer together. | 0:05:05 | 0:05:07 | |
I'll be at work at like, I don't know, might be half nine at night, | 0:05:10 | 0:05:14 | |
ten o'clock at night, I've got Shard ringing me, like, in tears. | 0:05:14 | 0:05:18 | |
It's one of those things | 0:05:21 | 0:05:23 | |
where you want to be around more for your kids. | 0:05:23 | 0:05:26 | |
You want to be around more for Shard. | 0:05:26 | 0:05:28 | |
Because I'm here all day within these four walls with the kids | 0:05:31 | 0:05:35 | |
and it is draining emotionally and physically, like draining. | 0:05:35 | 0:05:39 | |
Can I have a chicken tikka masala, please, with pilau rice. | 0:05:39 | 0:05:43 | |
He hopes higher wages in Australia | 0:05:45 | 0:05:47 | |
will help them afford their own home. | 0:05:47 | 0:05:49 | |
And while she's grateful for Jimmy's family's support, | 0:05:49 | 0:05:53 | |
that's a move Sharday would welcome. | 0:05:53 | 0:05:55 | |
It gets quite tough, living here. | 0:05:56 | 0:05:59 | |
I'll probably cry once every couple of days. | 0:05:59 | 0:06:04 | |
-You're beautiful this evening, babe. -Thanks. | 0:06:04 | 0:06:06 | |
There's times when I get wound up. | 0:06:06 | 0:06:08 | |
And I just think, right. | 0:06:08 | 0:06:09 | |
I'll do a few more hours at work | 0:06:09 | 0:06:11 | |
to try and get us out of the situation a lot quicker. | 0:06:11 | 0:06:14 | |
And then again, that causes tension, you see, | 0:06:14 | 0:06:16 | |
because she needs me in the house doing stuff to help her. | 0:06:16 | 0:06:19 | |
The couple agree changes need to be made | 0:06:23 | 0:06:25 | |
if they're to secure a future together. | 0:06:25 | 0:06:27 | |
And for now, Jimmy's pinning all his hopes on Australia | 0:06:27 | 0:06:30 | |
being the country they should call home. | 0:06:30 | 0:06:33 | |
I've put it on the pedestal that this is the answer. | 0:06:36 | 0:06:40 | |
And if it's not the answer, | 0:06:40 | 0:06:42 | |
then I don't know what is the answer | 0:06:42 | 0:06:45 | |
to make our family unit a lot happier. | 0:06:45 | 0:06:47 | |
To find out if Australia can give them | 0:06:54 | 0:06:56 | |
the lifestyle Jimmy's been dreaming of | 0:06:56 | 0:06:58 | |
AND keep him and Sharday united, | 0:06:58 | 0:07:00 | |
the family is spending their trial week in Melbourne, | 0:07:00 | 0:07:03 | |
capital of the state of Victoria. | 0:07:03 | 0:07:05 | |
To reach their temporary base, | 0:07:06 | 0:07:08 | |
they head to the northern suburb of Gladstone Park, | 0:07:08 | 0:07:11 | |
around 12 miles from central Melbourne. | 0:07:11 | 0:07:13 | |
Home for the week is a spacious four-bedroom rental property. | 0:07:13 | 0:07:18 | |
But what will Sharday think of her introduction to Aussie living? | 0:07:18 | 0:07:22 | |
It's modern. I like it. | 0:07:22 | 0:07:23 | |
Actually, I really like it. | 0:07:25 | 0:07:27 | |
-It's nice. -BABY CRIES | 0:07:27 | 0:07:29 | |
Ah, do you not like it? | 0:07:29 | 0:07:31 | |
Don't cry! | 0:07:31 | 0:07:33 | |
But baby Maia is not so sure. | 0:07:33 | 0:07:35 | |
She's all right, really. | 0:07:37 | 0:07:38 | |
Hopefully, inside will be to everyone's taste. | 0:07:38 | 0:07:41 | |
This is all right, Shard, nice hallway. | 0:07:41 | 0:07:43 | |
I think the hallway's quite narrow. | 0:07:44 | 0:07:47 | |
Jimmy needs Sharday to be open-minded | 0:07:47 | 0:07:50 | |
if the next seven days are to go his way. | 0:07:50 | 0:07:52 | |
Meanwhile, baby Maia has got him wrapped around her finger. | 0:07:52 | 0:07:56 | |
I'm not sure if we can have this room now, Shard. | 0:07:56 | 0:07:58 | |
I think she's made herself quite at home, hasn't she? | 0:07:58 | 0:08:00 | |
-She's claimed it. -Saying, "No, Dad, you're not having this bed." | 0:08:00 | 0:08:05 | |
With Maia safely sleeping, | 0:08:05 | 0:08:07 | |
the couple check out the rest of the house. | 0:08:07 | 0:08:09 | |
And Jimmy wastes no time getting straight to the point. | 0:08:09 | 0:08:13 | |
Do you think somewhere like this would convince you to move? | 0:08:13 | 0:08:17 | |
Yes and no. | 0:08:17 | 0:08:18 | |
It is nice, but I couldn't see myself living here long-term. | 0:08:18 | 0:08:22 | |
The week ahead could see Jimmy's dream | 0:08:23 | 0:08:25 | |
AND his relationship with Sharday | 0:08:25 | 0:08:27 | |
pushed to the brink. | 0:08:27 | 0:08:28 | |
In the UK the family are living in Jimmy 's parents house | 0:08:35 | 0:08:38 | |
in the village of East Leake, | 0:08:38 | 0:08:40 | |
while they save to buy a home of their own. | 0:08:40 | 0:08:42 | |
It is cramped. | 0:08:42 | 0:08:44 | |
Communal living area between five adults and two kids isn't great. | 0:08:44 | 0:08:48 | |
We've got three bedrooms upstairs, | 0:08:48 | 0:08:50 | |
we've kicked my brother down onto the sofa. | 0:08:50 | 0:08:52 | |
-Things are... -It's very cramped. -Cramped at the minute. | 0:08:52 | 0:08:55 | |
But it's not just a lack of physical space. | 0:08:56 | 0:09:00 | |
I just tiptoe around everyone else | 0:09:00 | 0:09:02 | |
not being able to say what you want to say | 0:09:02 | 0:09:04 | |
because you don't want to cause a rift and everything. | 0:09:04 | 0:09:07 | |
So what would they like from a place in Australia? | 0:09:07 | 0:09:10 | |
It's got to be within a very close distance to a golf club. | 0:09:10 | 0:09:14 | |
Definitely four beds, | 0:09:14 | 0:09:15 | |
just in case someone wants to come over and stop. | 0:09:15 | 0:09:18 | |
Or if we want to have another. | 0:09:18 | 0:09:20 | |
No, we're not having another child. | 0:09:20 | 0:09:22 | |
No, OK, that's dealt with. | 0:09:22 | 0:09:23 | |
As long as we have a good living area downstairs, then I'll be happy. | 0:09:23 | 0:09:29 | |
Just somewhere for the kids to run around. | 0:09:29 | 0:09:32 | |
With a maximum budget of £270,000... | 0:09:32 | 0:09:36 | |
..Jimmy hopes to find a home Sharday will be happy with. | 0:09:37 | 0:09:40 | |
The house is essential, to have, you know... | 0:09:41 | 0:09:45 | |
-Right. -..right for Shard, more so than me. | 0:09:45 | 0:09:49 | |
To find out what kind of house they could have, | 0:09:50 | 0:09:52 | |
we'll show the family three properties, | 0:09:52 | 0:09:55 | |
two on budget | 0:09:55 | 0:09:56 | |
and a third which could be their dream home. | 0:09:56 | 0:09:59 | |
Only after they've seen each one will they find out its value. | 0:09:59 | 0:10:03 | |
That's a nice house. | 0:10:03 | 0:10:04 | |
I don't like it. | 0:10:04 | 0:10:06 | |
While baby Maia is looked after by a childminder, | 0:10:06 | 0:10:09 | |
the couple head for the town of Sunbury, | 0:10:09 | 0:10:11 | |
around 25 miles from central Melbourne. | 0:10:11 | 0:10:14 | |
It's a popular area for families looking for affordable housing. | 0:10:14 | 0:10:18 | |
I do like this neighbourhood. | 0:10:18 | 0:10:20 | |
-It's nice. -I think the best thing about it... | 0:10:20 | 0:10:23 | |
Everything's well kept. | 0:10:23 | 0:10:24 | |
Yeah. I was just about to say that. | 0:10:24 | 0:10:26 | |
Will this three-bedroom home get their search off to a good start? | 0:10:26 | 0:10:30 | |
-Nice. -It is nice, isn't it? | 0:10:32 | 0:10:34 | |
Bit steep! | 0:10:34 | 0:10:35 | |
Oh, I'm quite scared to get out of the car! | 0:10:36 | 0:10:39 | |
With high hopes, they head indoors. | 0:10:41 | 0:10:43 | |
A lot lighter than the one we're stopping in, isn't it? | 0:10:43 | 0:10:46 | |
-Yeah. -So I'm already impressed. | 0:10:46 | 0:10:49 | |
First impressions are good, | 0:10:49 | 0:10:51 | |
but will the positivity continue | 0:10:51 | 0:10:53 | |
in the open-plan kitchen-living area? | 0:10:53 | 0:10:55 | |
This is nice, Shard, I think. | 0:10:57 | 0:10:59 | |
The living room is quite small. | 0:11:01 | 0:11:02 | |
It's a lot more room than we've got | 0:11:04 | 0:11:06 | |
at the present time at Mum and Dad's! | 0:11:06 | 0:11:08 | |
So I mean, maybe we're just getting a bit greedy for space now | 0:11:08 | 0:11:11 | |
cos everywhere seems like it's got that... | 0:11:11 | 0:11:13 | |
Yeah, but you want it to be perfect if we're going to move. | 0:11:13 | 0:11:15 | |
Sharday could prove hard to please, but perhaps the garden area | 0:11:15 | 0:11:19 | |
will get her seal of approval. | 0:11:19 | 0:11:21 | |
This is a nice outdoor living space, Shard. | 0:11:21 | 0:11:23 | |
Lovely. I don't like this table being here. | 0:11:23 | 0:11:26 | |
Well, we can change the table, Shard, can't we? | 0:11:26 | 0:11:28 | |
That's not a massive thing. | 0:11:28 | 0:11:30 | |
Back inside it's Jimmy's turn to be picky | 0:11:33 | 0:11:36 | |
when they check out the main bedroom. | 0:11:36 | 0:11:38 | |
Master bedroom. | 0:11:38 | 0:11:39 | |
Front of the house. | 0:11:39 | 0:11:40 | |
Not sure how I feel about that. | 0:11:40 | 0:11:42 | |
What about the en-suite? | 0:11:42 | 0:11:44 | |
Oh, that's picked up a little bit. | 0:11:44 | 0:11:46 | |
-Quite big as well. -Yeah. | 0:11:46 | 0:11:47 | |
And I like the natural light that comes in from the big window there. | 0:11:47 | 0:11:51 | |
-Tiny little bedroom. -It is quite small. | 0:11:55 | 0:11:58 | |
Just a small room, isn't it? | 0:11:58 | 0:12:00 | |
This isn't big enough for what I think we need. | 0:12:01 | 0:12:04 | |
I don't know, maybe it's a bit of an anti-climax for me, | 0:12:05 | 0:12:08 | |
I thought there'd be a bit more. | 0:12:08 | 0:12:10 | |
After the start, this is not doing it for me. | 0:12:10 | 0:12:13 | |
No. | 0:12:13 | 0:12:14 | |
The bedrooms haven't measured up and the discovery of a small closet | 0:12:14 | 0:12:18 | |
leaves them both confused. | 0:12:18 | 0:12:19 | |
What's this? | 0:12:21 | 0:12:23 | |
Surely not another bedroom! | 0:12:23 | 0:12:24 | |
THEY LAUGH | 0:12:24 | 0:12:26 | |
Doesn't sound like this is the property | 0:12:28 | 0:12:30 | |
for either Jimmy or Sharday. | 0:12:30 | 0:12:32 | |
It's a nice house but it's not our house. | 0:12:32 | 0:12:35 | |
No. It's not our house. | 0:12:35 | 0:12:38 | |
But is it within their budget of up to £270,000? | 0:12:38 | 0:12:42 | |
I wouldn't be happy paying more than £215,000. | 0:12:44 | 0:12:47 | |
I think it's going to be more 230. | 0:12:47 | 0:12:50 | |
Do you want to have a look? | 0:12:50 | 0:12:52 | |
256. | 0:12:57 | 0:13:00 | |
I'm really not happy with that. | 0:13:02 | 0:13:04 | |
It might be within budget, but it's still not a hit. | 0:13:04 | 0:13:08 | |
For what this is, for that price... | 0:13:08 | 0:13:10 | |
-..it's not great. -Not great at all. | 0:13:11 | 0:13:14 | |
We need a pick-me-up after the last one. | 0:13:20 | 0:13:22 | |
Yeah. | 0:13:22 | 0:13:23 | |
Jimmy 's campaign to convince Sharday | 0:13:24 | 0:13:26 | |
to make the move is off to a shaky start. | 0:13:26 | 0:13:29 | |
Hopefully, the next property | 0:13:29 | 0:13:30 | |
will give them the space they're after | 0:13:30 | 0:13:32 | |
at a price they are willing to pay. | 0:13:32 | 0:13:35 | |
-Ah, look at that little park. -Yeah. | 0:13:35 | 0:13:37 | |
That's good. | 0:13:37 | 0:13:38 | |
It's on the Highlands Estate in the suburb of Craigieburn. | 0:13:38 | 0:13:41 | |
With nearby schools and playgrounds, it's a perfect area for families. | 0:13:41 | 0:13:46 | |
I think that's like a community area, isn't it? | 0:13:46 | 0:13:48 | |
-Yeah. -Your little cafe... -Everyone just goes there. -Yeah. | 0:13:48 | 0:13:50 | |
And with large parts of the estate still under construction, | 0:13:50 | 0:13:54 | |
it also promises more value for money. | 0:13:54 | 0:13:57 | |
But will the chance to check out a display house | 0:13:57 | 0:13:59 | |
help cement Jimmy and Sharday's opinions? | 0:13:59 | 0:14:02 | |
What do you think to that, Shard? | 0:14:04 | 0:14:06 | |
-Building site? -It would be in there. | 0:14:06 | 0:14:08 | |
If it was finished to the standard of the rest of the estate, | 0:14:08 | 0:14:11 | |
I'd be happy living by it. | 0:14:11 | 0:14:13 | |
Hopefully, inside can build on their optimism. | 0:14:13 | 0:14:16 | |
Oh, Shard, look at that. | 0:14:18 | 0:14:19 | |
The whole reason why I want to move here is for an entrance like that. | 0:14:20 | 0:14:23 | |
It's wide, it's nice, but... | 0:14:23 | 0:14:25 | |
..I'd like it bigger. | 0:14:27 | 0:14:28 | |
No harm in dreaming big, Sharday. | 0:14:30 | 0:14:32 | |
But there's still more to see. | 0:14:32 | 0:14:34 | |
Master bedroom. | 0:14:35 | 0:14:37 | |
This is what I'd be looking for. | 0:14:37 | 0:14:38 | |
This house could be a better fit for them. | 0:14:39 | 0:14:42 | |
His and hers sink. | 0:14:42 | 0:14:44 | |
-I like that. -Like that a lot. | 0:14:44 | 0:14:45 | |
Mine will be tidy, yours will be messy! | 0:14:45 | 0:14:48 | |
-Shower's massive. -Love that shower. | 0:14:48 | 0:14:49 | |
Absolutely love that shower. | 0:14:49 | 0:14:51 | |
It's big enough for both of us. | 0:14:51 | 0:14:53 | |
THEY LAUGH | 0:14:53 | 0:14:55 | |
Hopefully, the rest of the house is as good. | 0:14:55 | 0:14:57 | |
Fingers crossed, Jimmy. | 0:14:57 | 0:14:59 | |
Next up, the kitchen-living area. | 0:14:59 | 0:15:01 | |
The living area is fantastic. | 0:15:01 | 0:15:04 | |
I'd probably put the sofa back a little bit more. | 0:15:04 | 0:15:07 | |
But that is, that's brilliant. | 0:15:07 | 0:15:08 | |
That is nice. | 0:15:08 | 0:15:09 | |
An extra sitting room causes some debate. | 0:15:09 | 0:15:12 | |
I wouldn't use it for this purpose, I'd use it as a diner. | 0:15:12 | 0:15:16 | |
I like this for the fact that you could say, you two, | 0:15:16 | 0:15:18 | |
get yourselves in there. | 0:15:18 | 0:15:20 | |
Then that would make this room just another room for them to mess up. | 0:15:20 | 0:15:24 | |
I think we'll have to disagree on this one. | 0:15:24 | 0:15:26 | |
Well, I'll be the one tidying up, so for me, | 0:15:26 | 0:15:28 | |
I'd like to keep it one space at a time! | 0:15:28 | 0:15:31 | |
Sharday might have the trump card there, Jimmy. | 0:15:32 | 0:15:35 | |
What about the outdoor area? | 0:15:35 | 0:15:37 | |
I think with the finish on this house, I mean the astro grass, | 0:15:37 | 0:15:41 | |
it provides a bit more. | 0:15:41 | 0:15:42 | |
What about the kids are barefoot? It's quite hard to step on. | 0:15:42 | 0:15:45 | |
The garden isn't child-friendly enough for mum, Sharday. | 0:15:47 | 0:15:51 | |
But with up to £270,000 to spend, | 0:15:51 | 0:15:55 | |
the couple are still curious to find out how much the house costs. | 0:15:55 | 0:15:59 | |
I think 270. | 0:16:01 | 0:16:03 | |
I think, a bit beyond the higher end. | 0:16:03 | 0:16:05 | |
I'd be happy paying something like 265 for this. | 0:16:05 | 0:16:08 | |
OK, do you want to turn the card? | 0:16:08 | 0:16:09 | |
261! | 0:16:14 | 0:16:15 | |
I was close. | 0:16:16 | 0:16:17 | |
It's within budget... | 0:16:18 | 0:16:20 | |
..and less than Jimmy expected. | 0:16:21 | 0:16:24 | |
Can you see the grin on my face? | 0:16:24 | 0:16:25 | |
-Yeah, I can, I can. -We could live comfortably at that. | 0:16:25 | 0:16:28 | |
We couldn't get a three-bedroom semi in Nottingham... | 0:16:28 | 0:16:30 | |
-Oh, no. -..for something around that figure. | 0:16:30 | 0:16:33 | |
This is nice, isn't it? | 0:16:36 | 0:16:38 | |
This is a very nice estate. | 0:16:38 | 0:16:40 | |
Things are looking up for Jimmy. | 0:16:40 | 0:16:42 | |
To see the final property of the day, | 0:16:42 | 0:16:44 | |
the couple head for the suburb of Doreen, | 0:16:44 | 0:16:47 | |
just 20 miles from central Melbourne. | 0:16:47 | 0:16:49 | |
I wonder if it's this one, there? | 0:16:49 | 0:16:51 | |
-Do you think it is? -No. | 0:16:51 | 0:16:53 | |
-No. -It's too posh. | 0:16:53 | 0:16:55 | |
It's too big for us. | 0:16:55 | 0:16:57 | |
Sitting in the foothills of the Yarra Ranges, | 0:16:57 | 0:17:00 | |
and surrounded by pockets of farmland, | 0:17:00 | 0:17:02 | |
the area is more rural in feel, | 0:17:02 | 0:17:04 | |
so could be perfect for bringing up a young family. | 0:17:04 | 0:17:07 | |
-What if it's this one? -I hope so. | 0:17:07 | 0:17:10 | |
Satnav is saying it's here. | 0:17:10 | 0:17:12 | |
-I think we're here. -Let's have a look. | 0:17:12 | 0:17:14 | |
We think this spacious four-bedroom house could be their dream home. | 0:17:16 | 0:17:20 | |
But will Jimmy and Sharday agree? | 0:17:20 | 0:17:23 | |
-Ah, Shard. -This has got that same sort of, | 0:17:23 | 0:17:26 | |
wow factor to it, hasn't it? | 0:17:26 | 0:17:27 | |
Yeah. I like this more. | 0:17:27 | 0:17:29 | |
-Shall we go and have a look around? -Yeah. -OK. | 0:17:29 | 0:17:32 | |
So far, so good. | 0:17:33 | 0:17:35 | |
But will the location of the master bedroom be a hit or a miss? | 0:17:35 | 0:17:38 | |
Another bedroom in the front of the house. | 0:17:38 | 0:17:40 | |
You're not too keen, are you? | 0:17:40 | 0:17:42 | |
I'm not keen on it. Because it's not there in the UK, it's something odd. | 0:17:42 | 0:17:46 | |
I quite like it because it's different. | 0:17:46 | 0:17:48 | |
You like it, I don't. | 0:17:48 | 0:17:50 | |
I'm ying, you're yang, that sort of thing. | 0:17:50 | 0:17:53 | |
Glad he's cleared that up. | 0:17:53 | 0:17:54 | |
What about the en-suite? | 0:17:54 | 0:17:56 | |
Oh, wow. | 0:17:56 | 0:17:58 | |
-That's nice. -Like a two-person shower, two-person bath. | 0:17:58 | 0:18:02 | |
Surprised the toilet isn't a lot bigger, really! | 0:18:02 | 0:18:04 | |
-A two-person toilet! -A two-person toilet! | 0:18:04 | 0:18:06 | |
Moving on, the open-plan living area has plenty of room for feasting. | 0:18:08 | 0:18:13 | |
-Wow. -That is massive. | 0:18:13 | 0:18:15 | |
-It is. -That dining room table, | 0:18:15 | 0:18:18 | |
you would have to send a flare up at the other end | 0:18:18 | 0:18:21 | |
to know that someone was there, wouldn't you? | 0:18:21 | 0:18:24 | |
-I'd feel like Henry VIII. -It's lovely, though. | 0:18:24 | 0:18:26 | |
You look like him! | 0:18:26 | 0:18:27 | |
THEY LAUGH | 0:18:27 | 0:18:29 | |
But will the kitchen be fit for a king? | 0:18:29 | 0:18:32 | |
This is a nice kitchen area, Shard. | 0:18:32 | 0:18:33 | |
Compared to this bit, it's quite small, do you not think? | 0:18:33 | 0:18:36 | |
Yeah. I think I would have a smaller dining area. | 0:18:36 | 0:18:38 | |
However, it's not a small kitchen, is it? | 0:18:38 | 0:18:41 | |
-Oh, no. -You've got enough room there, | 0:18:41 | 0:18:43 | |
with that little island they've put in. | 0:18:43 | 0:18:45 | |
And they soon discover there's more elbow room in the living area | 0:18:45 | 0:18:49 | |
than they first thought. | 0:18:49 | 0:18:50 | |
-Ah, Shard. -Wow. | 0:18:54 | 0:18:56 | |
Look at this. | 0:18:56 | 0:18:57 | |
What a man space this is! | 0:18:57 | 0:18:58 | |
-I mean, you could... -I love how you've got it in your head | 0:18:59 | 0:19:02 | |
that it's going to be man space! | 0:19:02 | 0:19:03 | |
Can you imagine watching the Masters on this? | 0:19:03 | 0:19:05 | |
-It would be great. -It wouldn't be on. | 0:19:05 | 0:19:08 | |
I wouldn't allow it! | 0:19:08 | 0:19:09 | |
Now my dreams are crushed, | 0:19:09 | 0:19:10 | |
-we'll go and have a look at something else! -OK. -Thanks. | 0:19:10 | 0:19:13 | |
One dream at a time, Jimmy. | 0:19:13 | 0:19:15 | |
What a nice outside space this is. | 0:19:15 | 0:19:18 | |
The only thing I would say, there's no grass. | 0:19:18 | 0:19:20 | |
-No. -I'd want grass for the children. | 0:19:20 | 0:19:24 | |
Jimmy's hoping an outdoor oven might win Sharday over. | 0:19:24 | 0:19:27 | |
Look at this, Shard. That's a big selling point. | 0:19:27 | 0:19:30 | |
Yeah, but you wouldn't use it! | 0:19:30 | 0:19:32 | |
It's like the kids' channels on the TV, I don't use them either, but...! | 0:19:32 | 0:19:35 | |
You make me get them! | 0:19:35 | 0:19:37 | |
Joking aside, Jimmy agrees it might not be perfect. | 0:19:37 | 0:19:41 | |
Two adults sharing a glass of red wine | 0:19:41 | 0:19:43 | |
on that little patio bit, fantastic. | 0:19:43 | 0:19:46 | |
-But we're having two kids. -Nothing for the kids. | 0:19:46 | 0:19:48 | |
I love the rest of the house, but the garden's not ideal. | 0:19:48 | 0:19:50 | |
It's not quite their dream house, | 0:19:52 | 0:19:53 | |
but Sharday and Jimmy are still interested | 0:19:53 | 0:19:56 | |
to know how much it would cost | 0:19:56 | 0:19:58 | |
and, more importantly, whether their maximum budget of £270,000 | 0:19:58 | 0:20:03 | |
would be enough to buy it. | 0:20:03 | 0:20:04 | |
I think it is 350. | 0:20:04 | 0:20:07 | |
I think it's going to be about 373. | 0:20:07 | 0:20:09 | |
Do you want to flip it over? | 0:20:09 | 0:20:11 | |
-No, I'll let you do this one. -OK. | 0:20:11 | 0:20:13 | |
318. | 0:20:19 | 0:20:20 | |
-Well, that's a pleasant surprise, really, isn't it? -Mm. | 0:20:22 | 0:20:25 | |
That's almost £50,000 over budget. | 0:20:25 | 0:20:28 | |
-That's still expensive. -It's expensive... | 0:20:28 | 0:20:30 | |
-But not as much as what we thought. -No. | 0:20:30 | 0:20:33 | |
It may not be achievable right now, | 0:20:33 | 0:20:35 | |
but the couple don't seem to be put off. | 0:20:35 | 0:20:37 | |
With the right job and salary for Jimmy, | 0:20:37 | 0:20:39 | |
it could be something to aim for in the future. | 0:20:39 | 0:20:42 | |
All in all, the day has given them valuable insight into how far | 0:20:42 | 0:20:46 | |
their money might go in Australia. | 0:20:46 | 0:20:48 | |
Property one was within budget but the lack of space, | 0:20:49 | 0:20:53 | |
especially in the bedrooms, left the couple | 0:20:53 | 0:20:55 | |
feeling short-changed. | 0:20:55 | 0:20:56 | |
Still within budget, | 0:20:57 | 0:20:58 | |
property two offered more for their money | 0:20:58 | 0:21:01 | |
but the small back garden didn't cut it with Sharday. | 0:21:01 | 0:21:04 | |
And while property three had the wow factor inside, | 0:21:04 | 0:21:08 | |
outside was a let-down for Sharday and Jimmy | 0:21:08 | 0:21:12 | |
and its price tag put it out of reach for now. | 0:21:12 | 0:21:14 | |
So with all things considered, | 0:21:14 | 0:21:16 | |
how will the couple decide between homes in the UK and Australia? | 0:21:16 | 0:21:20 | |
After a day of viewing properties, it's now time to vote. | 0:21:20 | 0:21:23 | |
-Australia. -Undecided. | 0:21:25 | 0:21:27 | |
What? How come? | 0:21:29 | 0:21:30 | |
We've had such a good day. | 0:21:31 | 0:21:33 | |
-Are you going to cry? -I'm thinking about it. | 0:21:33 | 0:21:35 | |
We viewed some nice properties, | 0:21:35 | 0:21:38 | |
but I think they're more like show homes, | 0:21:38 | 0:21:40 | |
as in just for adults, it's not kids friendly. | 0:21:40 | 0:21:43 | |
You want that family feel to the house. | 0:21:43 | 0:21:45 | |
Everything has got its own little place. | 0:21:45 | 0:21:47 | |
There needs to be, like, toys everywhere... | 0:21:47 | 0:21:50 | |
OK. I understand what you're saying. | 0:21:50 | 0:21:52 | |
That means I've got the rest of the week | 0:21:52 | 0:21:54 | |
to convince you and do some work. | 0:21:54 | 0:21:56 | |
Yeah, you do. You've got your work cut out. | 0:21:56 | 0:21:58 | |
I'm disappointed, but, obviously, hopefully... | 0:21:58 | 0:22:01 | |
There's more, isn't there? | 0:22:01 | 0:22:02 | |
-..you'll be convinced by the rest of the week. -Yeah. | 0:22:02 | 0:22:05 | |
Australian property hasn't sold Jimmy's dream to Sharday, | 0:22:14 | 0:22:18 | |
so he knows he'll have to put in more effort in the week ahead if he's to | 0:22:18 | 0:22:22 | |
stand a chance of getting the life he wants. | 0:22:22 | 0:22:24 | |
Back in the UK, spark Jimmy works with electricity networks. | 0:22:26 | 0:22:30 | |
My job at the minute is a cable jointer, | 0:22:31 | 0:22:34 | |
and that deals with any electrics | 0:22:34 | 0:22:37 | |
from generation pump to your customer meter box. | 0:22:37 | 0:22:41 | |
I enjoy my job a lot. | 0:22:41 | 0:22:42 | |
Work for a good company. | 0:22:42 | 0:22:43 | |
Working 55 hours plus per week | 0:22:45 | 0:22:47 | |
allows Jimmy to double his basic salary of £28,000 | 0:22:47 | 0:22:51 | |
but his relationship with Sharday isn't benefiting as much as | 0:22:51 | 0:22:55 | |
his bank balance. | 0:22:55 | 0:22:56 | |
I can hear it in her voice when she is disheartened | 0:22:56 | 0:22:58 | |
and I've rang her up at five o'clock saying, | 0:22:58 | 0:23:01 | |
"This is going to be a late one, Shard." | 0:23:01 | 0:23:03 | |
How do you save for the house as first-time buyers and a young family | 0:23:03 | 0:23:07 | |
when you don't want to put the work in? | 0:23:07 | 0:23:09 | |
Desperate to do the right thing, | 0:23:09 | 0:23:11 | |
Jimmy hopes working down under can | 0:23:11 | 0:23:13 | |
afford him both the salary and family time he needs. | 0:23:13 | 0:23:16 | |
Over in Australia, it's essential to find the right work-life balance. | 0:23:18 | 0:23:22 | |
That's the whole driving force behind the move, for me. | 0:23:22 | 0:23:25 | |
Jimmy knows the opportunity to explore career options in Australia | 0:23:29 | 0:23:33 | |
could make or break his dream of moving. | 0:23:33 | 0:23:36 | |
We are pinning our hopes on me being able to find good work that pays | 0:23:36 | 0:23:39 | |
enough to support the family out here. | 0:23:39 | 0:23:42 | |
We've arranged for him to meet up | 0:23:44 | 0:23:46 | |
with expat and field operations manager Duncan Whitfield | 0:23:46 | 0:23:49 | |
at an electricity supply company in the city of Ballarat. | 0:23:49 | 0:23:53 | |
Hi, I'm Duncan Whitfield. | 0:23:55 | 0:23:57 | |
-How are you? Jimmy. -Jimmy, pleased to meet you. | 0:23:57 | 0:23:59 | |
Welcome to Powercor Citipower. | 0:23:59 | 0:24:01 | |
After a quick health and safety chat, | 0:24:01 | 0:24:03 | |
they head to the dispatch area where Jimmy's foremost concern is if his | 0:24:03 | 0:24:07 | |
skills will be recognised. | 0:24:07 | 0:24:10 | |
From what I've seen of your CV, you would need to requalify here. | 0:24:10 | 0:24:13 | |
It's not a great start. | 0:24:13 | 0:24:15 | |
But Duncan is quick to point out upskilling won't take long. | 0:24:15 | 0:24:18 | |
Typically, we employee a jointer, | 0:24:18 | 0:24:21 | |
he works under supervision while you do the training. | 0:24:21 | 0:24:24 | |
We do that in-house. | 0:24:24 | 0:24:26 | |
There is no cost to the employee. | 0:24:26 | 0:24:27 | |
Typically, when we do this with people, it takes six weeks to two months. | 0:24:27 | 0:24:31 | |
That is really positive. | 0:24:31 | 0:24:33 | |
Relieved, Jimmy asks about work hours, | 0:24:33 | 0:24:36 | |
hoping he'll be able to cut down on his UK working week. | 0:24:36 | 0:24:40 | |
The basic standard hours is 37.5 per week. | 0:24:40 | 0:24:42 | |
Yeah. | 0:24:42 | 0:24:44 | |
Most people do at least 46. | 0:24:44 | 0:24:46 | |
For special cases, if we are working on a big shutdown, | 0:24:46 | 0:24:49 | |
it could go up to 55 hours a week. | 0:24:49 | 0:24:51 | |
It is entirely up to the individual's choice, | 0:24:51 | 0:24:53 | |
whether they do the work or not. | 0:24:53 | 0:24:55 | |
That is a positive thing. | 0:24:55 | 0:24:57 | |
Jimmy is impressed. | 0:24:59 | 0:25:00 | |
Meanwhile, keen to find out about the Australian education system for | 0:25:00 | 0:25:05 | |
the children, Sharday is visiting a primary school in Craigieburn, | 0:25:05 | 0:25:08 | |
north of Melbourne. | 0:25:08 | 0:25:09 | |
-Hi, Sharday. -Euan Hughes, principal. | 0:25:11 | 0:25:12 | |
How'd you do? | 0:25:12 | 0:25:14 | |
This one's chirping a lot. | 0:25:14 | 0:25:16 | |
Principle Euan Hughes invites her to join a class of six-year-olds | 0:25:16 | 0:25:20 | |
and their teacher, Sarah Lancaster, as they learn about farm animals. | 0:25:20 | 0:25:24 | |
What are some names we could come up with? | 0:25:24 | 0:25:27 | |
-This is Sharday. -Hi, Sharday. Nice to meet you. -Nice to meet you. | 0:25:27 | 0:25:30 | |
We are off to the farm in a couple of weeks and the chicks are all about our life cycle. | 0:25:30 | 0:25:35 | |
I like how it's so hands-on. | 0:25:35 | 0:25:37 | |
-I love it. Cos we got to actually watch one hatch. -Oh, really? | 0:25:37 | 0:25:41 | |
That is part of their learning journey. | 0:25:41 | 0:25:43 | |
Things that they'll remember forever now. | 0:25:43 | 0:25:45 | |
And the proof is in the pudding. | 0:25:45 | 0:25:47 | |
A chat with little Archie and Evie confirms how much the children | 0:25:47 | 0:25:51 | |
are enjoying the lesson. | 0:25:51 | 0:25:52 | |
-Do you like going here? -Yes. | 0:25:52 | 0:25:54 | |
-Are the teachers nice? -Yes. -Really nice? | 0:25:54 | 0:25:56 | |
-Yes. -Good. What's your favourite thing at the school? | 0:25:56 | 0:26:00 | |
My favourite thing is learning about the farm. | 0:26:00 | 0:26:04 | |
Where are we starting over here? | 0:26:04 | 0:26:06 | |
At the ones? All right. | 0:26:06 | 0:26:07 | |
Let's go. Nine and two. | 0:26:07 | 0:26:09 | |
Next, Sharday speaks with teacher Michelle Tedeschi about the school curriculum. | 0:26:09 | 0:26:14 | |
Our school, in particular, does have a high expectation. | 0:26:14 | 0:26:17 | |
We like to think that all of the strategies and things | 0:26:17 | 0:26:21 | |
that we are teaching, | 0:26:21 | 0:26:22 | |
they are coming from those lower years and then just being | 0:26:22 | 0:26:25 | |
built upon. | 0:26:25 | 0:26:26 | |
Back at the electricity supply company, | 0:26:28 | 0:26:31 | |
Jimmy asks the burning question. | 0:26:31 | 0:26:33 | |
Figure wise, on a basic salary, what would that be? | 0:26:33 | 0:26:37 | |
37.5 hour week, around £40,000, you would earn for that. | 0:26:37 | 0:26:41 | |
That's a... | 0:26:41 | 0:26:42 | |
Well, £12,000 more than what I'm on back at home. | 0:26:42 | 0:26:46 | |
Most people do the second option, which is roughly 46 hours a week. | 0:26:46 | 0:26:52 | |
That would equate to around £52,000. | 0:26:52 | 0:26:56 | |
And then for the top option, 55-hour week or thereabouts, | 0:26:56 | 0:26:59 | |
probably close to 70,000. | 0:26:59 | 0:27:02 | |
That is, literally, unbelievable. | 0:27:02 | 0:27:04 | |
It's a brilliant result for Jimmy, | 0:27:04 | 0:27:06 | |
providing he can actually find a job. | 0:27:06 | 0:27:08 | |
I think you have a good chance of finding work in Victoria. | 0:27:08 | 0:27:11 | |
I would encourage you to apply. | 0:27:11 | 0:27:13 | |
Duncan, I can't say how happy this day has made me. | 0:27:13 | 0:27:15 | |
It's not hard to guess how the card will fall when it comes to Jimmy's | 0:27:15 | 0:27:18 | |
choice between work in the UK or Australia. | 0:27:18 | 0:27:22 | |
After an interesting work day, it's now time to vote. | 0:27:22 | 0:27:24 | |
Australia! | 0:27:26 | 0:27:27 | |
After the workday check today, I feel over the moon. | 0:27:29 | 0:27:33 | |
This sort of news is only going to | 0:27:33 | 0:27:34 | |
be positive for the rest of the family. | 0:27:34 | 0:27:36 | |
Ecstatic how his day has gone, Jimmy can't wait to meet up with Sharday. | 0:27:39 | 0:27:44 | |
-Tell me about your day. -It's been good. | 0:27:44 | 0:27:46 | |
The school is good... | 0:27:46 | 0:27:47 | |
-Yeah? -The kids love it. | 0:27:47 | 0:27:49 | |
They love the teachers, they love the food, they love the playground, | 0:27:49 | 0:27:53 | |
they love life. | 0:27:53 | 0:27:55 | |
-How was your workday? -Fantastic. | 0:27:55 | 0:27:56 | |
It only takes six weeks to... | 0:27:56 | 0:27:59 | |
-To train? -..to get my gaps filled in and here is the best part... | 0:27:59 | 0:28:02 | |
What's the wage? | 0:28:02 | 0:28:03 | |
The wage is a £12,000 increase on a basic week. | 0:28:03 | 0:28:08 | |
I voted Australia again today. | 0:28:08 | 0:28:09 | |
-Yeah. -Career day for me has been so good. | 0:28:09 | 0:28:13 | |
But we are only halfway through. | 0:28:13 | 0:28:14 | |
So we've still got loads more to find out. | 0:28:14 | 0:28:17 | |
I agree. I agree, but... | 0:28:17 | 0:28:19 | |
..you would do well to knock me off | 0:28:20 | 0:28:22 | |
where I'm at at the minute. I just need you to... | 0:28:22 | 0:28:24 | |
-come to that level. -To climb up. -Yeah. | 0:28:24 | 0:28:26 | |
Jimmy's feeling fully charged after learning he can earn more | 0:28:35 | 0:28:39 | |
and work less in Australia. | 0:28:39 | 0:28:41 | |
Giving him back the family time he's been missing out on. | 0:28:41 | 0:28:45 | |
But for it all to work out, | 0:28:45 | 0:28:47 | |
he still needs to get Sharday as excited about the country as he is. | 0:28:47 | 0:28:53 | |
Hopefully, a taste of the Australian lifestyle he's been enthusing about | 0:28:53 | 0:28:57 | |
will be enough to fuse their thinking. | 0:28:57 | 0:28:59 | |
Making the most of their time together and the Aussie sunshine, | 0:29:02 | 0:29:06 | |
the family head out to Brimbank Park in North Melbourne. | 0:29:06 | 0:29:10 | |
Why are you getting on it? | 0:29:10 | 0:29:11 | |
After a leisurely stroll, | 0:29:11 | 0:29:13 | |
dad Jimmy can't resist trying out the seesaw with baby Maia. | 0:29:13 | 0:29:16 | |
-Look at her little legs. -I can see her face. | 0:29:16 | 0:29:19 | |
Hee-hee-hee! | 0:29:20 | 0:29:22 | |
-She's a bit worried. -She doesn't know what to do. | 0:29:23 | 0:29:25 | |
She's, like, "Shall I cry? Shall I smile?" | 0:29:25 | 0:29:28 | |
-Or both. -Or both. -THEY LAUGH | 0:29:28 | 0:29:30 | |
It's been a week of ups and downs | 0:29:30 | 0:29:32 | |
with Sharday yet to cast her first vote | 0:29:32 | 0:29:34 | |
for Australia. | 0:29:34 | 0:29:36 | |
So are you starting to come round? | 0:29:36 | 0:29:38 | |
A little bit, but not too much. | 0:29:39 | 0:29:41 | |
You don't have to kill my hopes, you know. You can say, "Yeah." | 0:29:41 | 0:29:44 | |
OK. Yeah, definitely moving, yeah. | 0:29:44 | 0:29:47 | |
-That was sarcasm. -Oh, right, yeah. | 0:29:48 | 0:29:50 | |
But Jimmy has high hopes more quality family time will be enough to sway | 0:29:53 | 0:29:57 | |
Sharday and, over lunch, reminds her what the move is all about. | 0:29:57 | 0:30:01 | |
It's the ability to be able to do this in the weather... | 0:30:03 | 0:30:05 | |
-Oh, yeah. -And the climate, isn't it? | 0:30:05 | 0:30:07 | |
-I don't think we've ever had a picnic, ever. -We haven't. | 0:30:07 | 0:30:10 | |
Maia? Ah! | 0:30:15 | 0:30:17 | |
And it wouldn't be a family day out without ice cream. | 0:30:17 | 0:30:21 | |
Have I got any on my face? | 0:30:21 | 0:30:23 | |
It's soon clear how much they're all enjoying a taste of Aussie living. | 0:30:23 | 0:30:27 | |
You've got that... | 0:30:27 | 0:30:28 | |
My nose smells great. | 0:30:30 | 0:30:31 | |
Of mint and cheesecake. | 0:30:31 | 0:30:33 | |
The chance to chill out together also reinforces how little time | 0:30:33 | 0:30:37 | |
they get to spend as a family back home... | 0:30:37 | 0:30:40 | |
Three more of them and you'll get there. | 0:30:40 | 0:30:42 | |
..and allows Sharday to contemplate the reality of emigrating. | 0:30:42 | 0:30:46 | |
If we are coming to Australia, then it is starting off from square one, | 0:30:46 | 0:30:52 | |
having to uproot everyone over here would be a big deal. | 0:30:52 | 0:30:57 | |
With Jimmy's work hours back home putting strain on their relationship, | 0:30:57 | 0:31:00 | |
the couple agree they need change. | 0:31:00 | 0:31:03 | |
It upsets me that the bond between me and Jimmy is breaking down. | 0:31:03 | 0:31:08 | |
We are trying to find what we can do to bring that spark back again. | 0:31:08 | 0:31:11 | |
For me, if we can make the move, the stress will be lifted. | 0:31:11 | 0:31:14 | |
The fact she's voting undecided | 0:31:14 | 0:31:16 | |
means to me that she is trying to consider | 0:31:16 | 0:31:17 | |
the things that are being presented to her. | 0:31:17 | 0:31:20 | |
But Sharday will need to see more before she can commit. | 0:31:20 | 0:31:24 | |
I need to see that the kids are going to be happy, | 0:31:24 | 0:31:27 | |
that's my main concern. | 0:31:27 | 0:31:29 | |
I just need to see that over here is going to be ten times better | 0:31:29 | 0:31:33 | |
than what we can get in the UK. | 0:31:33 | 0:31:35 | |
The couple will soon have to decide where their family's future really | 0:31:35 | 0:31:38 | |
does lie but, for now, | 0:31:38 | 0:31:40 | |
will the day have done enough to see both Jimmy and Sharday choosing | 0:31:40 | 0:31:44 | |
lifestyle in Australia over the UK? | 0:31:44 | 0:31:47 | |
After lifestyle day, it's now time to vote. | 0:31:47 | 0:31:49 | |
-Australia. -Undecided. | 0:31:53 | 0:31:55 | |
There is no surprise with that whatsoever for me. | 0:31:55 | 0:31:58 | |
What are you after? What is going to say, "Right...?" | 0:31:58 | 0:32:00 | |
I don't know. I don't know. | 0:32:00 | 0:32:02 | |
But when you see it, you'll know? | 0:32:02 | 0:32:04 | |
But, yeah, when I get that feeling of, "this is great," | 0:32:04 | 0:32:08 | |
then I'll pick here. I can't put a finger on why. | 0:32:08 | 0:32:11 | |
I just keep on thinking there's nothing that's going to be good enough | 0:32:11 | 0:32:14 | |
to show you to say, "Yeah, this is going to be for us." | 0:32:14 | 0:32:17 | |
A second undecided vote from Sharday has not gone down well with Jimmy. | 0:32:24 | 0:32:28 | |
With only days left to convince her to buy into his dream, | 0:32:29 | 0:32:32 | |
he is now hoping a look at their potential finances in Australia will | 0:32:32 | 0:32:37 | |
be enough to increase her enthusiasm for a move. | 0:32:37 | 0:32:39 | |
Right, here we go, Shard... | 0:32:41 | 0:32:43 | |
..the truth. | 0:32:44 | 0:32:45 | |
While baby Maia is sleeping, the couple sit down to crunch figures. | 0:32:46 | 0:32:50 | |
To help, we've provided a breakdown of living expenses, | 0:32:50 | 0:32:53 | |
starting with their weekly food shop. | 0:32:53 | 0:32:55 | |
Peppers are £2.13 more expensive. | 0:32:56 | 0:33:00 | |
-Just be getting one pepper then. -Yeah, they're going to have to come out of the shopping, aren't they? | 0:33:00 | 0:33:04 | |
Ready meals, £2.40 more expensive. | 0:33:04 | 0:33:07 | |
Mind you, I think with me being home earlier... | 0:33:07 | 0:33:10 | |
-Yeah. -..we wouldn't have to do so many ready meals anyway, would we? | 0:33:10 | 0:33:13 | |
A tot up of the sums reveals they'd spend just £6 more on food every week. | 0:33:13 | 0:33:19 | |
-I thought it would be more. Way more. -I'm happy you're being so positive. | 0:33:19 | 0:33:22 | |
It's a step in the right direction. | 0:33:22 | 0:33:24 | |
Next, the couple look at mortgage costs, | 0:33:24 | 0:33:26 | |
basing repayment figures on the second house they viewed. | 0:33:26 | 0:33:30 | |
£583 worse off, plus your shopping, to start off. | 0:33:30 | 0:33:34 | |
Adding up. | 0:33:34 | 0:33:35 | |
Jimmy is hoping the other monthly bills might help him rebalance the books. | 0:33:36 | 0:33:40 | |
Fuel costs, this is more my work than anything, is 400 in the UK. | 0:33:41 | 0:33:46 | |
And, then, that's minus £74 in Australia. | 0:33:46 | 0:33:50 | |
I can buy a gas guzzling monster. | 0:33:50 | 0:33:52 | |
-A truck. -Yeah, like a truck. | 0:33:52 | 0:33:54 | |
Despite the higher mortgage, | 0:33:55 | 0:33:57 | |
the sums reveal they'd only be paying around £170 more every month | 0:33:57 | 0:34:02 | |
and when they take into account Jimmy's potential to earn over £600 more, | 0:34:02 | 0:34:07 | |
things don't look bad at all. | 0:34:07 | 0:34:09 | |
-That's a lot of money. -Are you smiling? | 0:34:10 | 0:34:13 | |
My face is going to crack. | 0:34:13 | 0:34:15 | |
Good to see you smile. | 0:34:15 | 0:34:17 | |
That's, like, based on a 60-hour week back in the UK. | 0:34:17 | 0:34:20 | |
This is a 46-hour week that he told me. | 0:34:20 | 0:34:22 | |
-So less. -I'd be earning this money on. | 0:34:22 | 0:34:24 | |
-Yeah. -That is incredible. | 0:34:24 | 0:34:26 | |
-Yeah. -I'd be spending more time at home with the kids. | 0:34:26 | 0:34:29 | |
And considering I'd be working less, and earning more, I think... | 0:34:29 | 0:34:34 | |
..I'm on the next plane. | 0:34:35 | 0:34:37 | |
When they subtract their outgoings, | 0:34:37 | 0:34:39 | |
the figures show they'd be around | 0:34:39 | 0:34:41 | |
£200 better off in Australia every month. | 0:34:41 | 0:34:44 | |
But, surprisingly, Jimmy doesn't look impressed. | 0:34:44 | 0:34:48 | |
-Are you not happy? -No, not really, no. -Why not? | 0:34:48 | 0:34:52 | |
I just thought it would be more. | 0:34:52 | 0:34:53 | |
I thought with the wage increase going up massively, | 0:34:53 | 0:34:55 | |
the petrol bill coming down... | 0:34:55 | 0:34:57 | |
I thought I would have seen a bit more of my money, that's all. | 0:34:58 | 0:35:01 | |
-I think it's good. -It's been an interesting exercise, | 0:35:02 | 0:35:06 | |
so when it comes to choosing between finances in Australia and the UK, | 0:35:06 | 0:35:10 | |
what will the couple decide? | 0:35:10 | 0:35:12 | |
After an up and down reality check day, it's now time to vote. | 0:35:12 | 0:35:16 | |
-Undecided. -Australia. | 0:35:20 | 0:35:21 | |
I pick Australia and then you pick undecided. | 0:35:23 | 0:35:27 | |
Based on £209 a month, I can't see us doing the move. | 0:35:27 | 0:35:33 | |
Wouldn't you rather be here in Australia, earning more, | 0:35:33 | 0:35:36 | |
than over in the UK? | 0:35:36 | 0:35:37 | |
I'd still be better off but it's £209 a month better off. You know? | 0:35:37 | 0:35:42 | |
-Is that not enough? -It's not enough for me. | 0:35:42 | 0:35:44 | |
But I'm happy you voted Aussie! | 0:35:44 | 0:35:46 | |
I voted Australia and you've done... | 0:35:46 | 0:35:49 | |
-It's your first one of the week! -I know. And you're not sure! | 0:35:49 | 0:35:52 | |
The finances have fallen short of Jimmy's expectations, | 0:35:56 | 0:35:59 | |
leaving him questioning his own dream. | 0:35:59 | 0:36:02 | |
And in a turning of the tables, | 0:36:02 | 0:36:04 | |
Sharday's now lodged her first vote for Australia. | 0:36:04 | 0:36:07 | |
But as they sit down to watch messages from loved ones, | 0:36:07 | 0:36:11 | |
will her new-found optimism be short-lived? | 0:36:11 | 0:36:14 | |
Here we go. | 0:36:16 | 0:36:17 | |
TOGETHER: Hi. | 0:36:19 | 0:36:21 | |
Hi, it's Dina, Nanny. | 0:36:21 | 0:36:23 | |
I hope you're having a good time out there and enjoying yourself. | 0:36:23 | 0:36:26 | |
James is the live wire. | 0:36:26 | 0:36:29 | |
He can be a little bit unpredictable, so I hope | 0:36:29 | 0:36:31 | |
Australia's ready for him. | 0:36:31 | 0:36:34 | |
Shard, she is very soft-hearted, | 0:36:34 | 0:36:37 | |
she'll please others more than please herself at times. | 0:36:37 | 0:36:41 | |
Yeah, I'm proud of her. Very proud of her. | 0:36:41 | 0:36:43 | |
He's always been kind of keen to go to Australia and, obviously, | 0:36:45 | 0:36:48 | |
with his family now, I think it would really help him to go | 0:36:48 | 0:36:51 | |
and settle down and, hopefully, | 0:36:51 | 0:36:53 | |
make a good life for him and the family. | 0:36:53 | 0:36:56 | |
If they moved to Australia, | 0:36:58 | 0:37:00 | |
I'm going to miss my daughter and the grandchildren and Jimmy very, | 0:37:00 | 0:37:03 | |
very much. | 0:37:03 | 0:37:04 | |
Probably more than they will know. | 0:37:05 | 0:37:07 | |
If they really do move to Australia, I'm going to miss them. | 0:37:08 | 0:37:11 | |
There will be a huge hole. | 0:37:11 | 0:37:13 | |
We are such a close family | 0:37:13 | 0:37:15 | |
that it will seem very, very strange. | 0:37:15 | 0:37:17 | |
I'd miss him quite a bit, actually. | 0:37:17 | 0:37:19 | |
I mean, I've had 24 years of him next to me, | 0:37:19 | 0:37:22 | |
so for him to be on the other side of the world all of a sudden will be a big shock. | 0:37:22 | 0:37:25 | |
I'd love them to stay here, in my heart of hearts. | 0:37:25 | 0:37:27 | |
I don't want them to go. | 0:37:27 | 0:37:29 | |
It would leave a big hole in my life if they moved halfway around the world. | 0:37:30 | 0:37:35 | |
But then, again, | 0:37:35 | 0:37:36 | |
you know... | 0:37:36 | 0:37:37 | |
..life is life at the end of the day. | 0:37:39 | 0:37:41 | |
Wherever she is, I'll still be her mum and I'll always be there for her | 0:37:41 | 0:37:44 | |
and the children and Jimmy. | 0:37:44 | 0:37:46 | |
I'm really hoping that you choose the UK but I totally understand if | 0:37:47 | 0:37:52 | |
Australia gives you more options and a better life. | 0:37:52 | 0:37:56 | |
Decision time, now, I suppose, | 0:37:56 | 0:37:58 | |
but all I'd say is, if it's going to | 0:37:58 | 0:38:00 | |
better you staying out there, then don't come back. | 0:38:00 | 0:38:04 | |
We are really supportive of whichever option you want to choose | 0:38:04 | 0:38:07 | |
and we'll be seeing you either way, whether it's in Australia or back here. | 0:38:07 | 0:38:10 | |
So just make the right choice for you. | 0:38:10 | 0:38:13 | |
I'll miss the whole lot of you, really, | 0:38:15 | 0:38:18 | |
but it's not my life, it's your life. | 0:38:18 | 0:38:20 | |
And you've got to do what you feel is best for the family, James. | 0:38:20 | 0:38:25 | |
So just make the right decision. | 0:38:25 | 0:38:26 | |
We are going to miss you so much. | 0:38:28 | 0:38:30 | |
But I wish you all the best. | 0:38:31 | 0:38:34 | |
I'm just going to miss you. But good luck on your voyage. | 0:38:34 | 0:38:36 | |
Love you to bits. | 0:38:38 | 0:38:39 | |
Pff. | 0:38:40 | 0:38:42 | |
SHE CRIES | 0:38:43 | 0:38:47 | |
It's all right. | 0:38:47 | 0:38:48 | |
Dad only said one thing and that got me. | 0:38:53 | 0:38:56 | |
I knew it would. | 0:38:56 | 0:38:57 | |
I don't think my mum would fly over here as much as your family would. | 0:38:57 | 0:39:02 | |
Then I see her upset and she never said anything. | 0:39:02 | 0:39:06 | |
She's not said a lot about that before, has she? | 0:39:10 | 0:39:12 | |
She's right though, you do always look after others before yourself. | 0:39:15 | 0:39:19 | |
But you got to stop looking after everyone else, you got to start looking after us. | 0:39:23 | 0:39:27 | |
Sharday's been undecided about her future in Australia for the biggest | 0:39:33 | 0:39:37 | |
part of the week. | 0:39:37 | 0:39:38 | |
And messages from home haven't helped as she now fears her family | 0:39:38 | 0:39:43 | |
may never make the trip to visit if her and Jimmy do decide to move. | 0:39:43 | 0:39:48 | |
As their trial week draws to a close, | 0:39:48 | 0:39:50 | |
are the odds on Jimmy's dream coming true less than favourable? | 0:39:50 | 0:39:54 | |
Before her trial week in Australia, | 0:40:00 | 0:40:02 | |
Sharday had never travelled outside of the UK and seven days living on | 0:40:02 | 0:40:07 | |
the other side of the world has left her fearful for the future. | 0:40:07 | 0:40:10 | |
I feel majorly under pressure, | 0:40:12 | 0:40:14 | |
as Jimmy's got his work and that sorted out but with me it's more | 0:40:14 | 0:40:19 | |
about the kids and whether or not my family are going to come and visit. | 0:40:19 | 0:40:24 | |
It's mixed emotions really. | 0:40:24 | 0:40:26 | |
A lot to think about. | 0:40:26 | 0:40:28 | |
Despite being the driving force behind the dream of emigrating, | 0:40:28 | 0:40:32 | |
it hasn't all been plain sailing for Jimmy either. | 0:40:32 | 0:40:35 | |
My emotions through the week, I sort of rose up on property day, | 0:40:35 | 0:40:38 | |
it peaked at job day when I found out the wage, | 0:40:38 | 0:40:41 | |
and, then, I sort of sunk a little bit on the reality check day. | 0:40:41 | 0:40:46 | |
But I think, overall, I think I know that if we are better off, | 0:40:46 | 0:40:51 | |
it can only be a positive thing. | 0:40:51 | 0:40:52 | |
Adding to both their concerns is the custodial issues they could face | 0:40:52 | 0:40:56 | |
with Sharday's older daughter, which they know would make a move difficult. | 0:40:56 | 0:41:00 | |
If Shard wants to come to Australia, | 0:41:00 | 0:41:02 | |
then we've got massive problems with how we are going to approach | 0:41:02 | 0:41:06 | |
that subject, so it isn't a done deal if Shard votes Australia. | 0:41:06 | 0:41:10 | |
Sharday needs to be certain it would be right for the whole family. | 0:41:10 | 0:41:13 | |
I want to know 1,000% that it's going to be the right choice for all of us. | 0:41:16 | 0:41:21 | |
So, as their last vote approaches, | 0:41:21 | 0:41:24 | |
the pressure's on to make a decision that will benefit everyone. | 0:41:24 | 0:41:27 | |
It's not a vote for my dream, | 0:41:27 | 0:41:29 | |
it's a vote for this is what I think our family needs. | 0:41:29 | 0:41:34 | |
Sharday knows her final choice could destroy her relationship too. | 0:41:34 | 0:41:39 | |
I don't want to split us up as a family unit but if I feel that's | 0:41:39 | 0:41:45 | |
the right thing to do, then I'll have to do it. | 0:41:45 | 0:41:47 | |
With the stakes so high, | 0:41:48 | 0:41:50 | |
the couple now have to choose which path they'll take. | 0:41:50 | 0:41:53 | |
Will it be Australia or the UK? | 0:41:53 | 0:41:56 | |
After a fantastic week in Australia, well, for me anyway, | 0:41:57 | 0:42:01 | |
it's now time to do the final vote. | 0:42:01 | 0:42:02 | |
-Australia. -Undecided. | 0:42:12 | 0:42:15 | |
I knew you'd do it. | 0:42:15 | 0:42:16 | |
I didn't think you was going to pick Australia. | 0:42:16 | 0:42:19 | |
Because back when we were doing the pricing, and that, | 0:42:19 | 0:42:22 | |
I thought you were going to be undecided. | 0:42:22 | 0:42:25 | |
I think what made me decide was after watching the friends and family video... | 0:42:25 | 0:42:29 | |
That they'll be happy knowing that what... | 0:42:29 | 0:42:31 | |
That they would back me to do what I thought was right. | 0:42:31 | 0:42:34 | |
For me, I need to think about it a bit more. | 0:42:34 | 0:42:38 | |
I know we've got stuff to sort out. | 0:42:38 | 0:42:39 | |
But I think voting undecided isn't a no, | 0:42:41 | 0:42:43 | |
so that means your mind isn't made up. | 0:42:43 | 0:42:45 | |
I just need more time to think, that's all it is. | 0:42:45 | 0:42:49 | |
I need a little bit more time than you to think everything through. | 0:42:49 | 0:42:52 | |
I respect that. | 0:42:52 | 0:42:53 | |
Despite giving it his best shot, | 0:42:59 | 0:43:01 | |
Jimmy's efforts to sell Australia to Sharday haven't paid off | 0:43:01 | 0:43:06 | |
as she can't bring herself to commit to the idea of moving. | 0:43:06 | 0:43:09 | |
There could be lots more discussions ahead but wherever the family go on | 0:43:09 | 0:43:14 | |
to call home, we wish them all the very best. | 0:43:14 | 0:43:17 |