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East Ender Edna Siwak has fallen out of love with London... | 0:00:02 | 0:00:04 | |
In our area, there's a lot of crime, | 0:00:04 | 0:00:07 | |
you feel after a certain time | 0:00:07 | 0:00:09 | |
you can't go out without feeling a bit unsafe. | 0:00:09 | 0:00:12 | |
..and dreams there's a better life on the other side of the world. | 0:00:12 | 0:00:16 | |
Australia provides something that I feel like I'm not getting here. | 0:00:16 | 0:00:20 | |
But for husband Daniel the thought of leaving loved ones keeps him up at | 0:00:20 | 0:00:24 | |
-night. -Leaving my family behind and not being there for them is hard to | 0:00:24 | 0:00:28 | |
think about, it really is, I can't even put it into words. | 0:00:28 | 0:00:31 | |
A trial week in Melbourne gives the family a taste of what life could be | 0:00:31 | 0:00:35 | |
-like. -Go, baby, go! | 0:00:35 | 0:00:37 | |
But, will it be enough to convince Daniel? | 0:00:37 | 0:00:40 | |
You did it! | 0:00:40 | 0:00:41 | |
The idea of going, then not having it or not being able to achieve it | 0:00:41 | 0:00:46 | |
or convince Daniel, then I'm not sure what I'm going to do. | 0:00:46 | 0:00:49 | |
With around a quarter of its 23 million population born overseas, | 0:01:11 | 0:01:16 | |
Australia's the top destination for those seeking a new life abroad. | 0:01:16 | 0:01:21 | |
Promising sun, sea, and a laid-back lifestyle, it's easy to see why. | 0:01:21 | 0:01:27 | |
But life on the other side of the world doesn't work out for everyone. | 0:01:27 | 0:01:30 | |
And of the 34,000 Brits who flock there every year, | 0:01:30 | 0:01:34 | |
almost half end up returning to the UK. | 0:01:34 | 0:01:37 | |
Childhood sweethearts, | 0:01:38 | 0:01:39 | |
Edna and Daniel met when they were just 12 years of age. | 0:01:39 | 0:01:44 | |
They married in 2013, | 0:01:44 | 0:01:46 | |
had a child of their own and lived exactly where they grew up, | 0:01:46 | 0:01:50 | |
in London's East End. | 0:01:50 | 0:01:52 | |
But now as a mum, | 0:01:52 | 0:01:53 | |
Edna is looking at her surroundings through different eyes and doesn't | 0:01:53 | 0:01:57 | |
like what she sees. | 0:01:57 | 0:01:59 | |
High-rise living and rising crime rates, | 0:01:59 | 0:02:01 | |
Edna thinks East London isn't the same. | 0:02:01 | 0:02:04 | |
She wants better and believes Australia is the answer. | 0:02:04 | 0:02:09 | |
But after losing his mum, | 0:02:09 | 0:02:11 | |
Daniel is incredibly close to his sisters and doesn't want to go. | 0:02:11 | 0:02:15 | |
It's going to be a struggle to convince him the other end of the | 0:02:15 | 0:02:20 | |
earth is where their future lies. | 0:02:20 | 0:02:22 | |
The family's trial week begins its journey from London via Abu Dhabi | 0:02:23 | 0:02:28 | |
and Sydney before landing at Melbourne. | 0:02:28 | 0:02:30 | |
When they finally touched down on Melbourne's Tullamarine airport, | 0:02:33 | 0:02:36 | |
it's evident the family have endured every air mile of their 22 hour | 0:02:36 | 0:02:41 | |
-journey. -The journey here was very long, | 0:02:41 | 0:02:45 | |
and it's definitely challenging to come with an infant this far away | 0:02:45 | 0:02:49 | |
-from home. -I didn't get enough sleep so I'm already setting the mood of, | 0:02:49 | 0:02:54 | |
what am I really doing here but I'm here. | 0:02:54 | 0:02:57 | |
Even Edna has been rocked by the distance travelled. | 0:02:57 | 0:03:00 | |
Is she beginning to have second thoughts? | 0:03:00 | 0:03:03 | |
Once you're here, you forget how far it is, it's just in the moment, | 0:03:03 | 0:03:08 | |
you question yourself, can you actually come this far away from home? | 0:03:08 | 0:03:12 | |
Surprisingly, it's Daniel who seems keen to get going. | 0:03:12 | 0:03:16 | |
During the whole flight I was a bit hesitant, | 0:03:16 | 0:03:18 | |
I kept thinking am I doing the right thing coming here but, yeah, I'm | 0:03:18 | 0:03:22 | |
definitely looking forward to the week and seeing what it has to offer. | 0:03:22 | 0:03:25 | |
It's with mixed emotions the family collect their bags. | 0:03:25 | 0:03:29 | |
They now have just seven days to decide whether Australia really is | 0:03:29 | 0:03:34 | |
where their future lies. | 0:03:34 | 0:03:35 | |
Meet the Siwaks, mum Edna, dad Daniel and little live wire Jotham. | 0:03:39 | 0:03:46 | |
Edna was brought up in London while Daniel moved from Poland when he was | 0:03:46 | 0:03:49 | |
-ten. -Bye-bye! | 0:03:49 | 0:03:52 | |
We met in secondary school and we were really good friends. | 0:03:52 | 0:03:56 | |
Give me kiss-kiss. I fell in love with Edna when I was 16, | 0:03:56 | 0:04:00 | |
she was chasing me everywhere and I would be playing... | 0:04:00 | 0:04:03 | |
OK, all right, we don't need to go that far. | 0:04:03 | 0:04:05 | |
And we've been together since then. | 0:04:07 | 0:04:10 | |
We just created a bond that we can never let go really so wherever she | 0:04:10 | 0:04:14 | |
goes I go, probably. | 0:04:14 | 0:04:16 | |
You can meet someone at 15 and they can be your soul mate. | 0:04:16 | 0:04:19 | |
Edna is a real East Ender, | 0:04:20 | 0:04:22 | |
but she feels that the London she loves has turned its back on her. | 0:04:22 | 0:04:27 | |
I love London to death, like, I grew up here, | 0:04:27 | 0:04:29 | |
I met everything that's beautiful in my life here but it's not the same | 0:04:29 | 0:04:33 | |
London any more. In our area, there's a lot of crime, | 0:04:33 | 0:04:37 | |
a lot of delinquency in the area. | 0:04:37 | 0:04:39 | |
You feel, after a certain time, you | 0:04:39 | 0:04:41 | |
can't go out without feeling a bit unsafe. | 0:04:41 | 0:04:44 | |
Things have just gotten worse and it just makes us feel like is this how | 0:04:44 | 0:04:48 | |
it's going to continue growing? | 0:04:48 | 0:04:50 | |
Edna's convinced that a better life awaits them in Australia. | 0:04:50 | 0:04:54 | |
I've always dreamt about going to Australia since I was 13 years old, | 0:04:56 | 0:05:00 | |
the feeling of wanting to move there has become stronger. | 0:05:00 | 0:05:05 | |
First of all, the crime rate is not as high as it is in the UK, | 0:05:05 | 0:05:09 | |
you always hear that there is much safer neighbourhood for kids and the | 0:05:09 | 0:05:12 | |
upbringing for the kids and Australia provides something that I feel like | 0:05:12 | 0:05:17 | |
-I'm not getting here. -However, husband Daniel doesn't share her dream. | 0:05:17 | 0:05:23 | |
When Edna first told me she wants to move to Australia, | 0:05:23 | 0:05:25 | |
I actually laughed in her face, I was like, "Are you serious?" | 0:05:25 | 0:05:28 | |
There was a straight no. | 0:05:28 | 0:05:30 | |
But since becoming a dad to Jotham, | 0:05:30 | 0:05:32 | |
Daniel's become more receptive to Edna's plans. | 0:05:32 | 0:05:35 | |
Like having my son now come to the world is just, | 0:05:35 | 0:05:41 | |
my thinking changed and all I can think of is providing a better life | 0:05:41 | 0:05:45 | |
for him. | 0:05:45 | 0:05:46 | |
And the two have certainly produced their own little pocket rocket. | 0:05:46 | 0:05:50 | |
We definitely need more space like this, | 0:05:53 | 0:05:55 | |
something where he can actually go and play cos he is such a runner. | 0:05:55 | 0:05:59 | |
He needs to be able to explore his surroundings. | 0:05:59 | 0:06:03 | |
-Yes. -And somewhere that's clean. | 0:06:03 | 0:06:05 | |
There he goes. | 0:06:05 | 0:06:07 | |
Bad news for Daniel's family, however, put their plans on hold. | 0:06:12 | 0:06:16 | |
My mum sadly passed away from cancer and it was a really difficult time | 0:06:16 | 0:06:21 | |
because it came as a shock to all of us, we only had | 0:06:21 | 0:06:25 | |
three months before she passed away. | 0:06:25 | 0:06:27 | |
So the only way we could deal with it is by supporting each other. | 0:06:27 | 0:06:32 | |
All we had is one another. | 0:06:32 | 0:06:33 | |
And just thinking of leaving my family behind and not being there | 0:06:34 | 0:06:41 | |
for them is just hard to think about it really, | 0:06:41 | 0:06:43 | |
I can't even put it into words. | 0:06:43 | 0:06:45 | |
Edna knows that she's asking a lot. | 0:06:45 | 0:06:47 | |
If we did make the move I feel like there would be resentment towards me | 0:06:48 | 0:06:52 | |
for doing so but at the same time as a mother and as a parent, | 0:06:52 | 0:06:57 | |
you just want to offer your child | 0:06:57 | 0:07:00 | |
more than what you've had and better opportunities and currently, | 0:07:00 | 0:07:05 | |
that's not available to Jotham now. | 0:07:05 | 0:07:09 | |
So do you do what's best for him as a parent or do you just stick with | 0:07:09 | 0:07:12 | |
the family to make sure they see him grow up? | 0:07:12 | 0:07:15 | |
And she's not without some concerns of her own. | 0:07:18 | 0:07:20 | |
Cos we're multicultural, we want to feel part of the community, | 0:07:22 | 0:07:26 | |
we want to feel part of the society and London offers that but with | 0:07:26 | 0:07:31 | |
Australia, my biggest fear is that Jotham will face prejudice, | 0:07:31 | 0:07:35 | |
he'll feel isolated | 0:07:35 | 0:07:38 | |
and he'll feel unwanted and no child should go through that, | 0:07:38 | 0:07:43 | |
and that's not something he would experience here so why would I take | 0:07:43 | 0:07:47 | |
him to the other side of the world for that? | 0:07:47 | 0:07:49 | |
So with the trial week approaching, | 0:07:49 | 0:07:51 | |
Daniel knows a lot rests on his decision. | 0:07:51 | 0:07:55 | |
Edna and my family are the two things I've had in my life. | 0:07:55 | 0:07:59 | |
We know that all we have is one another so we just want to be there | 0:07:59 | 0:08:03 | |
for each other and just being away from that just... | 0:08:03 | 0:08:06 | |
Big mess. | 0:08:09 | 0:08:11 | |
Wow. Now what toy are we going to choose to play with? | 0:08:11 | 0:08:13 | |
She has just seven days to persuade Daniel to move from what he knows | 0:08:14 | 0:08:18 | |
and loves to a new life on the other side of the world. | 0:08:18 | 0:08:22 | |
-Good boy. -The idea of going then not having it or not being able to | 0:08:22 | 0:08:28 | |
achieve it or convince Daniel, then I'm not sure what I'm going to do. | 0:08:28 | 0:08:31 | |
The Siwaks are spending their trial week in Melbourne, | 0:08:36 | 0:08:39 | |
in the south of the country. | 0:08:39 | 0:08:41 | |
With a population of almost five million, | 0:08:41 | 0:08:44 | |
it also gets over 2,000 hours of sunshine per year. | 0:08:44 | 0:08:48 | |
With an average temperature of 21 degrees during its warm hot summers. | 0:08:48 | 0:08:53 | |
Their base for the week is a 2-storey modern house in South Morang, | 0:08:53 | 0:08:57 | |
a new suburb 14 miles northeast of Melbourne. | 0:08:57 | 0:09:00 | |
-Oh, wow! -Yeah, it's so modern, I love it. | 0:09:00 | 0:09:03 | |
I wanted it more to be an island, it's more like in the corner, | 0:09:03 | 0:09:07 | |
so it's like we will still be like our kitchen at home, | 0:09:07 | 0:09:10 | |
where you're just all kind of squeezing in the kitchen | 0:09:10 | 0:09:13 | |
at the same time. | 0:09:13 | 0:09:14 | |
Over the next week the family will be weighing up property costs, | 0:09:14 | 0:09:18 | |
work prospects, lifestyle, and how far their money will go. | 0:09:18 | 0:09:23 | |
And only at the end will Edna find out if husband Daniel is up | 0:09:23 | 0:09:26 | |
for a move. | 0:09:26 | 0:09:28 | |
But that doesn't stop her trying to suss him out early. | 0:09:28 | 0:09:31 | |
I'm really praying that this week impresses you. | 0:09:33 | 0:09:36 | |
And for once, the long distance from | 0:09:36 | 0:09:38 | |
London plays right into Edna's plans. | 0:09:38 | 0:09:41 | |
For me, the journey was a nightmare, I'm not even looking forward to | 0:09:41 | 0:09:45 | |
doing a return flight so... | 0:09:45 | 0:09:47 | |
OK. | 0:09:47 | 0:09:48 | |
Might have to stay here for a little bit. | 0:09:48 | 0:09:51 | |
Oh, so that means you're interested in staying? | 0:09:51 | 0:09:53 | |
Don't get your hopes up, baby. | 0:09:53 | 0:09:55 | |
Back in the UK, | 0:10:00 | 0:10:01 | |
Daniel and Edna live in a high-rise apartment in East London. | 0:10:01 | 0:10:05 | |
With its bijou living area, two small bedrooms, and tiny balcony, | 0:10:05 | 0:10:10 | |
it is too small for their growing family. | 0:10:10 | 0:10:13 | |
We don't want to | 0:10:13 | 0:10:14 | |
let ourselves get attached to something that we know is not a | 0:10:14 | 0:10:17 | |
forever home, so in our flat we only have three pictures on the wall. | 0:10:17 | 0:10:22 | |
And Oz soap loving fan Edna knows exactly what she wants to see in | 0:10:22 | 0:10:26 | |
property hunting down under. | 0:10:26 | 0:10:28 | |
A three to four bedroom house, not flat. | 0:10:28 | 0:10:33 | |
If we had a big spacious garden, that would be amazing, | 0:10:33 | 0:10:36 | |
-I would love that. -That's all? -Yeah. | 0:10:36 | 0:10:39 | |
And a kitchen where I can see my boys, | 0:10:39 | 0:10:41 | |
a very spacious one so that we can spend time together in the mornings. | 0:10:41 | 0:10:46 | |
That's the dream in Australia. | 0:10:46 | 0:10:48 | |
With a monthly rental budget of £1,200, | 0:10:49 | 0:10:52 | |
we'll show the family three properties in Melbourne, | 0:10:52 | 0:10:55 | |
two on budget and a third which could be their dream home. | 0:10:55 | 0:10:59 | |
Only after they've seen each one will they find out its value. | 0:10:59 | 0:11:03 | |
For their first viewing, | 0:11:03 | 0:11:04 | |
the Siwaks travel half an hour to one of the fastest-growing | 0:11:04 | 0:11:08 | |
Melbourne suburbs, Mernda. | 0:11:08 | 0:11:09 | |
It has the family-friendly feel Edna wants and a quiet lifestyle | 0:11:09 | 0:11:14 | |
away from the buzz of the big city. | 0:11:14 | 0:11:16 | |
Will this modern three-bedroom house persuade them Edna's dream is worth | 0:11:16 | 0:11:20 | |
-considering? -Oh, I love this! | 0:11:20 | 0:11:23 | |
First impressions are good. | 0:11:23 | 0:11:24 | |
But, on closer inspection, | 0:11:24 | 0:11:26 | |
it's clear it'll be a matter of convincing herself because | 0:11:26 | 0:11:30 | |
Daniel's loving it. | 0:11:30 | 0:11:31 | |
First impression is I'm in love. | 0:11:31 | 0:11:33 | |
Edna's initial impression is not good. | 0:11:33 | 0:11:35 | |
-OK. -And once through the front door, she remains underwhelmed. | 0:11:35 | 0:11:39 | |
There is a bit too much going on for me. | 0:11:39 | 0:11:41 | |
It's almost like a big closet with no door. | 0:11:41 | 0:11:43 | |
There is no disguising her disappointment. | 0:11:43 | 0:11:46 | |
And the carpet is a bit too brown | 0:11:46 | 0:11:49 | |
-for that colour. -I like it, you don't want to be too bright. | 0:11:49 | 0:11:52 | |
Things don't get any better when they see the kitchen. | 0:11:53 | 0:11:55 | |
-I already know what you're thinking. -What do you think I'm thinking? | 0:11:57 | 0:12:00 | |
It's a bit small. | 0:12:00 | 0:12:01 | |
I want open-plan living and it is open-plan living but I want to be | 0:12:02 | 0:12:07 | |
open, not open. | 0:12:07 | 0:12:09 | |
Will the bedrooms be any better? | 0:12:11 | 0:12:14 | |
Edna brightens up on seeing, yes, a walk-in wardrobe. | 0:12:14 | 0:12:18 | |
Oh! Definitely not something we have at home. | 0:12:18 | 0:12:21 | |
-I know. -It's not something I've had and I've always wanted one. | 0:12:21 | 0:12:25 | |
I'm quite surprised that this house actually has one, | 0:12:25 | 0:12:28 | |
I just wish it was a teeny bit bigger. | 0:12:28 | 0:12:30 | |
The point of moving was to get much more space and for Edna, | 0:12:30 | 0:12:34 | |
that's what's lacking here. | 0:12:34 | 0:12:36 | |
-So this is the en-suite. -Apparently. | 0:12:36 | 0:12:40 | |
It's a bit small. | 0:12:40 | 0:12:41 | |
I would really like my own sink, I'm tired of sharing with you. | 0:12:41 | 0:12:45 | |
Although Jotham's staying with a child minder, | 0:12:45 | 0:12:48 | |
he may have found his perfect room. | 0:12:48 | 0:12:51 | |
-This is cute. -This is so cute! -I do imagine Jotham having this room. | 0:12:51 | 0:12:55 | |
-Yeah. It's probably the best room I like in the house. -Yeah. | 0:12:55 | 0:12:58 | |
Back to bijou with the third bedroom. | 0:12:58 | 0:13:01 | |
Bit tight, if someone was staying over it will do what it needs to do | 0:13:01 | 0:13:06 | |
but if we have more kids... | 0:13:06 | 0:13:08 | |
-Which we will. -Which we will, I don't know if it's big enough. | 0:13:09 | 0:13:13 | |
Edna's complaints are falling on Daniel's deaf ears. | 0:13:13 | 0:13:17 | |
I think it's big enough. I mean, I will sleep here. | 0:13:17 | 0:13:20 | |
Finally, the outside. | 0:13:21 | 0:13:23 | |
They desperately want space for Jotham to run around. | 0:13:23 | 0:13:26 | |
Could this small house deliver a decent sized garden? | 0:13:26 | 0:13:29 | |
Oh, this is better. | 0:13:29 | 0:13:31 | |
This is exactly what I was asking for, spacious garden, | 0:13:31 | 0:13:34 | |
Jo to run there and there, it's nice. | 0:13:34 | 0:13:37 | |
Literally, I can imagine myself knocking down those posts and | 0:13:37 | 0:13:41 | |
extending the grass and having a five-a-side football pitch. | 0:13:41 | 0:13:44 | |
Five-a-side football pitch. | 0:13:44 | 0:13:46 | |
So she may not like his plans but with a budget of £1,200, | 0:13:46 | 0:13:49 | |
will she like the price? | 0:13:49 | 0:13:51 | |
-So, what do you think? -I'm in love. | 0:13:53 | 0:13:55 | |
-Really? -If I could, I'd move in right now. | 0:13:55 | 0:13:57 | |
I think this house would be slightly over our budget so I'm guessing | 0:13:57 | 0:14:01 | |
around between 1,300-1,400. | 0:14:01 | 0:14:03 | |
The area that we're in is very nice, very up-and-coming. | 0:14:03 | 0:14:07 | |
-Should we have a look? -Uh-huh. | 0:14:07 | 0:14:09 | |
Wow. | 0:14:15 | 0:14:16 | |
-I did not expect that. -I did not expect that. | 0:14:18 | 0:14:21 | |
It almost makes me feel sad because I, like, I pay more a month in | 0:14:21 | 0:14:24 | |
England and I get less. | 0:14:24 | 0:14:26 | |
This just makes it more realistic, more believable, doesn't it? | 0:14:26 | 0:14:29 | |
Yeah, it actually makes me feel like the dream is just not in my head, | 0:14:29 | 0:14:33 | |
it actually exists, you can have more. | 0:14:33 | 0:14:35 | |
Next, the couple is off to see property number two in the suburb of | 0:14:39 | 0:14:42 | |
Doreen in the foothills of the Yarra Ranges, ten minutes away. | 0:14:42 | 0:14:45 | |
Less built up, this is a more laid-back neighbourhood with plenty | 0:14:45 | 0:14:49 | |
of shops and schools and Australian wildlife. | 0:14:49 | 0:14:52 | |
Interesting area. | 0:14:54 | 0:14:55 | |
This should be right up their street though by the look | 0:14:55 | 0:14:58 | |
on Edna's face it doesn't look like it. | 0:14:58 | 0:15:00 | |
And the road is quite busy, I don't like that. | 0:15:00 | 0:15:03 | |
-Yeah. -For Jotham I don't think it's quite safe. | 0:15:03 | 0:15:05 | |
But appearances can be deceiving. | 0:15:06 | 0:15:08 | |
Oh, OK! | 0:15:09 | 0:15:10 | |
More spacious than the first house. | 0:15:12 | 0:15:14 | |
I actually like the kitchen. | 0:15:14 | 0:15:16 | |
-I love the kitchen. -I like the fact that it's got a long island, | 0:15:16 | 0:15:19 | |
and I can see you guys. | 0:15:19 | 0:15:21 | |
However, Daniel's not sure. | 0:15:21 | 0:15:23 | |
It does feel a bit darker, though. | 0:15:24 | 0:15:26 | |
-Yeah. -The light doesn't come through. -It's modern, | 0:15:26 | 0:15:28 | |
that's what we asked for but it | 0:15:28 | 0:15:30 | |
doesn't really live up to my expectations. | 0:15:30 | 0:15:32 | |
-I like the carpet. -You do? | 0:15:33 | 0:15:36 | |
OK, Edna, carpets outside, what about the main bedroom? | 0:15:36 | 0:15:41 | |
Don't like it, it's too loud. | 0:15:41 | 0:15:43 | |
If I changed everything in this room then I could live in it. | 0:15:43 | 0:15:46 | |
I love the space of it, | 0:15:46 | 0:15:48 | |
it's definitely more spacious than the last property. | 0:15:48 | 0:15:51 | |
I think even if you changed everything, | 0:15:51 | 0:15:53 | |
I still wouldn't see myself living here. | 0:15:53 | 0:15:55 | |
With such bad vibes, | 0:15:55 | 0:15:56 | |
it probably doesn't matter what the bathrooms are like, | 0:15:56 | 0:15:59 | |
but Edna is desperate to lift the mood. | 0:15:59 | 0:16:01 | |
Oh! There's a mirror! | 0:16:01 | 0:16:03 | |
You're scraping the barrel now. | 0:16:03 | 0:16:05 | |
-Shower's a bit small but... -I think it's sufficient space. | 0:16:05 | 0:16:08 | |
Got a bath, shower, and you can open the windows. | 0:16:08 | 0:16:12 | |
Slim pickings so far in this house, outside | 0:16:12 | 0:16:15 | |
there has to be something very special. | 0:16:15 | 0:16:18 | |
Will the garden delight and surprise like the last one? | 0:16:18 | 0:16:21 | |
Straight away, I can see the space is not big enough, too many hazards. | 0:16:21 | 0:16:25 | |
Yeah, Jotham is two, like, where is he going to run around? | 0:16:25 | 0:16:28 | |
-It's not really safe. -Yeah, I'll probably need grass instead of... | 0:16:28 | 0:16:32 | |
Whatever this is. | 0:16:32 | 0:16:34 | |
So, this second property they mightn't want it but if they can't | 0:16:34 | 0:16:38 | |
even afford it, then Edna's dream will likely be over. | 0:16:38 | 0:16:42 | |
How much do you think this property is a month? | 0:16:42 | 0:16:45 | |
I think it would be around £1,300 | 0:16:45 | 0:16:48 | |
-per month. -You think it'll be over our budget? | 0:16:48 | 0:16:50 | |
I think it will be a bit under our budget. | 0:16:50 | 0:16:52 | |
About £1,100 per month, shall we have a look? | 0:16:52 | 0:16:55 | |
-Ready? -Yep. | 0:17:01 | 0:17:02 | |
OK. That's quite good. | 0:17:03 | 0:17:05 | |
Knowing the fact that this house is quite affordable, | 0:17:05 | 0:17:08 | |
it just makes me believe a little bit more with the fact that we can actually | 0:17:08 | 0:17:11 | |
-make the move. -That's good. | 0:17:11 | 0:17:13 | |
So, it's good news, it gives more encouragement. | 0:17:13 | 0:17:16 | |
And finally, property three, | 0:17:20 | 0:17:22 | |
the dream house is situated half an hour to the west of Melbourne in | 0:17:22 | 0:17:27 | |
Epping. Once a separate town way back in the 1800s, | 0:17:27 | 0:17:31 | |
it's now swallowed up by Melbourne. | 0:17:31 | 0:17:33 | |
Vintage by Australian standards, there is a quaint, | 0:17:33 | 0:17:36 | |
old-fashioned feel to it. | 0:17:36 | 0:17:38 | |
But, with a two-year-old, | 0:17:38 | 0:17:40 | |
is a period property what the Siwaks want for down under living? | 0:17:40 | 0:17:44 | |
The outside of it is not a wow factor but... | 0:17:45 | 0:17:47 | |
-Yeah. -..I could see potential. | 0:17:47 | 0:17:49 | |
-Yeah, definitely. -Once through the old-fashioned screen doors, | 0:17:49 | 0:17:52 | |
Daniel and Edna react like they haven't before. | 0:17:52 | 0:17:55 | |
-Wow. -Speechless. | 0:17:55 | 0:17:56 | |
First impression, you know, when you walk in... | 0:17:56 | 0:17:59 | |
-Yeah. -You feel like you're home. | 0:17:59 | 0:18:01 | |
-OK. -But are their initial impressions premature? | 0:18:01 | 0:18:04 | |
-It's not my ideal kitchen. -It's not modern enough, is it? | 0:18:04 | 0:18:07 | |
No, I feel like we would have to do it up and fix it and it doesn't | 0:18:07 | 0:18:11 | |
feel like home now, does it? | 0:18:11 | 0:18:13 | |
And it's no better in the open-plan living area. | 0:18:13 | 0:18:16 | |
Where are we going to put the TV? | 0:18:16 | 0:18:18 | |
It's like almost you have to block one of the doors to face the TV that | 0:18:18 | 0:18:21 | |
-way. -Yeah, that's the only negative. | 0:18:21 | 0:18:23 | |
Just feeling a bit dated, definitely needs repainting. | 0:18:23 | 0:18:26 | |
But the upstairs is still to be explored. | 0:18:26 | 0:18:29 | |
What will Edna make of the bedrooms? | 0:18:29 | 0:18:31 | |
Wow, this is quite bright. | 0:18:31 | 0:18:33 | |
Looks nice and simple but kind of doesn't. | 0:18:33 | 0:18:36 | |
This more looks like my dream guest room. | 0:18:36 | 0:18:38 | |
I wouldn't mind staying here once in a while. | 0:18:38 | 0:18:41 | |
Yeah. Like a hotel room. | 0:18:41 | 0:18:43 | |
-Pretty much. -Yeah. -Or just to get away from you. | 0:18:43 | 0:18:46 | |
-What do you mean? -Moving on quickly, the bathroom's next. | 0:18:46 | 0:18:51 | |
-Oh! -This is what I'm looking for. | 0:18:51 | 0:18:53 | |
-This is a big en suite. -There's a lot of space. | 0:18:53 | 0:18:56 | |
-Oh! There's a double sink. -That's a plus. -And then there's two mirrors. | 0:18:56 | 0:18:59 | |
I can see myself. | 0:18:59 | 0:19:00 | |
Things are looking up, and they've finally found the TV. | 0:19:02 | 0:19:06 | |
Oh! Another living room. | 0:19:06 | 0:19:08 | |
This is where the TV would go. | 0:19:08 | 0:19:10 | |
-It's almost like a little mini cinema room. -Yeah. | 0:19:10 | 0:19:14 | |
So, something of a mixed bag with this one. | 0:19:14 | 0:19:17 | |
What do they make of it? | 0:19:17 | 0:19:18 | |
-So what do you think of the house? -I think it has potential. | 0:19:20 | 0:19:23 | |
I'm just not willing to do the work that this house needs. | 0:19:23 | 0:19:26 | |
I think it's going to be around £1,400-£1,500 per month. | 0:19:26 | 0:19:31 | |
Also you get an extra bedroom so I would say it's probably about 1,600. | 0:19:31 | 0:19:35 | |
Oh, wow! | 0:19:42 | 0:19:43 | |
-Oh! -That is a big shock. | 0:19:44 | 0:19:46 | |
For a four-bedroom, with this amount of space? | 0:19:46 | 0:19:48 | |
-That is amazing. -It definitely makes me feel a bit more relieved that we | 0:19:48 | 0:19:52 | |
-can get more for our money. -Absolutely. | 0:19:52 | 0:19:54 | |
House-hunting hasn't delivered them a dream home but it has shown them | 0:19:56 | 0:20:00 | |
they can buy a lot of space for their dollars. | 0:20:00 | 0:20:03 | |
Property one, the modern three-bedroom house wowed | 0:20:03 | 0:20:06 | |
Daniel but Edna | 0:20:06 | 0:20:08 | |
felt it was too small although the outdoor space impressed. | 0:20:08 | 0:20:12 | |
Property two was more to their liking inside, | 0:20:12 | 0:20:15 | |
but the main road and the small garden really disappointed. | 0:20:15 | 0:20:19 | |
Property number three was the dream home for somebody, but not for them, | 0:20:20 | 0:20:25 | |
the old-fashioned house was dated | 0:20:25 | 0:20:27 | |
and dowdy but the couple were delighted | 0:20:27 | 0:20:29 | |
that such a big house in a good area was still attainable. | 0:20:29 | 0:20:33 | |
So, when it comes to property, will they vote home or away? | 0:20:33 | 0:20:38 | |
Based on the three properties we've seen today, our vote goes to... | 0:20:38 | 0:20:41 | |
-Australia! -Australia. | 0:20:49 | 0:20:52 | |
So why did you vote for Australia today? | 0:20:52 | 0:20:55 | |
The space that you get in the Australian houses is way more than | 0:20:55 | 0:20:59 | |
what you get in London. And it's just quite affordable as well. | 0:20:59 | 0:21:02 | |
Even though the houses weren't exactly what we wanted, | 0:21:02 | 0:21:05 | |
the potential was there. I am really | 0:21:05 | 0:21:07 | |
excited that you voted for Australia. | 0:21:07 | 0:21:09 | |
-Yeah. -That means you're slowly coming to my side. | 0:21:09 | 0:21:12 | |
Finding out the rental price of homes has made getting the right | 0:21:20 | 0:21:24 | |
jobs down under the Siwaks' number one priority. | 0:21:24 | 0:21:27 | |
Edna knows beyond doubt Daniel would | 0:21:27 | 0:21:30 | |
need to earn a good wage if the dream is ever going to happen. | 0:21:30 | 0:21:33 | |
Today we'll give the couple the opportunity to explore their chances | 0:21:33 | 0:21:37 | |
of finding work in Australia. | 0:21:37 | 0:21:39 | |
Back in London, Daniel is a delivery van driver. | 0:21:41 | 0:21:44 | |
To make ends meet, he holds down two jobs. | 0:21:44 | 0:21:47 | |
He works all the hours he can, but the family still struggles financially. | 0:21:47 | 0:21:52 | |
Even though I'm not really happy at the moment, | 0:21:52 | 0:21:54 | |
I'm forced to work these two jobs obviously to provide for the family. | 0:21:54 | 0:21:58 | |
He wouldn't mind changing gear and doing something else. | 0:21:58 | 0:22:02 | |
He does voluntary youth work and | 0:22:02 | 0:22:04 | |
loves it but it doesn't pay the bills. | 0:22:04 | 0:22:06 | |
The responsibility to provide for his family weighs heavily on his | 0:22:06 | 0:22:10 | |
-shoulders. -If I can't find the right job that pays the right salary, | 0:22:10 | 0:22:15 | |
there's no way I'm moving to Australia. | 0:22:15 | 0:22:18 | |
Wife Edna, meanwhile, works as a | 0:22:18 | 0:22:20 | |
part-time HR and recruitment officer. | 0:22:20 | 0:22:22 | |
I love my job here in the UK and enjoy the people I work with. | 0:22:22 | 0:22:26 | |
But work satisfaction isn't enough. | 0:22:26 | 0:22:29 | |
Edna's ready for a whole new adventure and she is upping her | 0:22:29 | 0:22:32 | |
skill set to ensure she is definitely wanted down under. | 0:22:32 | 0:22:36 | |
I decided to take up studies just to extend my career path and try | 0:22:36 | 0:22:42 | |
-something different. -But she knows that both of them finding proper | 0:22:42 | 0:22:46 | |
jobs with the right salaries is going to be crucial. | 0:22:46 | 0:22:48 | |
If I can't find the right opportunities there, | 0:22:49 | 0:22:52 | |
it basically could end the dream. | 0:22:52 | 0:22:55 | |
Daniel hopes he might follow his dream and become a full-time youth | 0:22:56 | 0:23:00 | |
worker in Australia. | 0:23:00 | 0:23:01 | |
He's off to Melbourne City Mission to see the sort of work | 0:23:01 | 0:23:04 | |
they do there. | 0:23:04 | 0:23:06 | |
Young people come here to access a variety of services, | 0:23:06 | 0:23:08 | |
including an on-site nurse. | 0:23:08 | 0:23:10 | |
But with limited qualifications, is | 0:23:10 | 0:23:12 | |
it a realistic work option for Daniel? | 0:23:12 | 0:23:15 | |
After a short tour, he sits down with senior manager | 0:23:15 | 0:23:17 | |
Molly O'Shaughnessy to find out. | 0:23:17 | 0:23:19 | |
I've had a look at your CV and I know you are really | 0:23:19 | 0:23:23 | |
passionate about youth work. | 0:23:23 | 0:23:24 | |
To really get a foot in the door in the youth work field, | 0:23:24 | 0:23:27 | |
I recommend you did a bit further education and training. | 0:23:27 | 0:23:31 | |
I'd suggest you looked at maybe doing a Certificate 4 in youth work | 0:23:31 | 0:23:34 | |
or community services or maybe even a diploma, | 0:23:34 | 0:23:37 | |
which is about 12 months' study. | 0:23:37 | 0:23:39 | |
Meanwhile, across town, Edna's feeling under pressure. | 0:23:40 | 0:23:43 | |
I'm feeling nervous because it's extremely important for us to have | 0:23:43 | 0:23:47 | |
the right salary, otherwise a move here would not be possible. | 0:23:47 | 0:23:50 | |
She's meeting Hayden Fricke, | 0:23:50 | 0:23:52 | |
a director of recruitment consultants Peoplescape. | 0:23:52 | 0:23:56 | |
They use psychological profiling with clients, | 0:23:56 | 0:23:59 | |
right up our masters student's street, | 0:23:59 | 0:24:02 | |
but will she be a perfect fit for them? | 0:24:02 | 0:24:04 | |
So, Edna, I've had a look at your CV, which looks great, by the way. | 0:24:04 | 0:24:07 | |
You've effectively done four years versus in Australia six years, | 0:24:07 | 0:24:11 | |
so you are not quite at the same | 0:24:11 | 0:24:13 | |
level as a masters degree in Australia. | 0:24:13 | 0:24:15 | |
However, the good news is that with two more years doing a masters in | 0:24:15 | 0:24:20 | |
Australia, you will be in a position to then get registered and call | 0:24:20 | 0:24:23 | |
yourself an organisational psychologist. | 0:24:23 | 0:24:24 | |
If I did that, what would be my job prospects? | 0:24:24 | 0:24:27 | |
Then your options short and long-term would be fantastic. | 0:24:27 | 0:24:32 | |
I think there's lots of opportunity for organisational psychologists in | 0:24:32 | 0:24:35 | |
Australia. | 0:24:35 | 0:24:37 | |
Back home, Edna earns £11,000 a year in her part-time job, | 0:24:37 | 0:24:40 | |
which doesn't go far in the UK's capital city. | 0:24:40 | 0:24:44 | |
The all-important question is how much could she earn down under? | 0:24:44 | 0:24:48 | |
A graduate level, an entry-level organisation psychologist, | 0:24:49 | 0:24:52 | |
would probably get a salary equivalent in UK pounds of about | 0:24:52 | 0:24:57 | |
between £43-49,000. | 0:24:57 | 0:25:01 | |
Really? Are you serious? | 0:25:01 | 0:25:04 | |
-Entry-level? -Entry-level. -Pounds? | 0:25:04 | 0:25:06 | |
-Yes. -Excuse me, I might fall off my seat here. | 0:25:06 | 0:25:11 | |
It's an incredible increase of over £30,000. | 0:25:11 | 0:25:15 | |
Edna is delighted. | 0:25:15 | 0:25:17 | |
-That's really, really great news. -Good luck with your decision. | 0:25:17 | 0:25:20 | |
Yes. I think I made it! | 0:25:20 | 0:25:21 | |
Back at Melbourne City Mission, | 0:25:23 | 0:25:25 | |
Daniel is also asking about his earnings. | 0:25:25 | 0:25:28 | |
What kind of salary could I expect? | 0:25:28 | 0:25:30 | |
Probably, if you were to get a job as an entry-level youth worker, | 0:25:30 | 0:25:34 | |
you could expect to earn about £30-35,000 a year. | 0:25:34 | 0:25:39 | |
Yeah. If you were to get a higher level of qualification, | 0:25:39 | 0:25:45 | |
say a social work qualification, | 0:25:45 | 0:25:47 | |
where you might be able to work in community health or hospitals as | 0:25:47 | 0:25:51 | |
well, that would earn you quite a lot more. | 0:25:51 | 0:25:54 | |
That's double what he makes in the UK. He is flabbergasted. | 0:25:54 | 0:25:58 | |
Yeah, I'm quite shocked, the fact that they were so positive, really. | 0:25:58 | 0:26:01 | |
All the positive things I'm hearing, | 0:26:02 | 0:26:05 | |
not just about the income and about the work itself, | 0:26:05 | 0:26:08 | |
but just the people itself, they love what they do and it is | 0:26:08 | 0:26:11 | |
something I would love to be part of. | 0:26:11 | 0:26:13 | |
Could Daniel be warming to the dream? | 0:26:13 | 0:26:15 | |
It's hard to keep the smile from their faces when he meets up with | 0:26:15 | 0:26:18 | |
Edna to talk about their days. | 0:26:18 | 0:26:20 | |
-So, how was your day? -My day was amazing, | 0:26:20 | 0:26:22 | |
it couldn't have gone any better. | 0:26:22 | 0:26:24 | |
-Really? -The people were amazing, the place was great. | 0:26:24 | 0:26:27 | |
So, what sort of salary can you earn? | 0:26:27 | 0:26:29 | |
The salary at entry level with the skills and experience I have is between | 0:26:29 | 0:26:34 | |
£30-35,000 per year, pretty much double what I get at the moment. | 0:26:34 | 0:26:39 | |
-Wow. -I would have to do pretty much six months to one year extra studies | 0:26:39 | 0:26:43 | |
-that I could do part-time. -That is great news. | 0:26:43 | 0:26:46 | |
My qualifications, unfortunately, wouldn't be as transferable, | 0:26:46 | 0:26:49 | |
so would have to add on another two years, | 0:26:49 | 0:26:53 | |
or the other option is to do one | 0:26:53 | 0:26:55 | |
year unsupervised training, however, | 0:26:55 | 0:26:58 | |
for an entry-level organisational psychologist, | 0:26:58 | 0:27:01 | |
a salary I can expect with my | 0:27:01 | 0:27:03 | |
experience and skills would be between £43-49,000... | 0:27:03 | 0:27:08 | |
-That's at entry-level? -..pounds per year, that's entry-level. | 0:27:08 | 0:27:12 | |
So, after everything they've discovered, what do we think? | 0:27:12 | 0:27:16 | |
Will the couple choose work in Australia or the UK? | 0:27:16 | 0:27:19 | |
This one seems a foregone conclusion. | 0:27:19 | 0:27:22 | |
Based on the work meetings we had today, our vote goes to... | 0:27:22 | 0:27:25 | |
BOTH: ..Australia. | 0:27:35 | 0:27:36 | |
So why did you vote for Australia? | 0:27:38 | 0:27:39 | |
It's obvious! More money! | 0:27:39 | 0:27:41 | |
The meeting I had today just ticked off all the boxes for me. | 0:27:41 | 0:27:45 | |
It would mean I would have a better work/life balance as a family. | 0:27:45 | 0:27:49 | |
It's really great to know that you are actually coming over to my side | 0:27:49 | 0:27:52 | |
and seeing things the way I've been seeing it. | 0:27:52 | 0:27:54 | |
I'm just really happy that we've had the news we've had today. | 0:27:54 | 0:27:58 | |
Halfway through their trial week, and it couldn't be going better for | 0:28:02 | 0:28:06 | |
Edna's mission to convince her cautious | 0:28:06 | 0:28:09 | |
husband their future lies in Australia. | 0:28:09 | 0:28:12 | |
But there is still that all important financial reality check | 0:28:12 | 0:28:16 | |
and messages from home to come, and that can change everything. | 0:28:16 | 0:28:22 | |
First, though, it's time for the Siwaks to sample the sort of | 0:28:22 | 0:28:26 | |
lifestyle the family might be able to enjoy in Melbourne. | 0:28:26 | 0:28:29 | |
With two votes in favour, things are definitely going Edna's way. | 0:28:30 | 0:28:35 | |
She's hoping some quality family time will convince Daniel further | 0:28:35 | 0:28:39 | |
this is where they should be. | 0:28:39 | 0:28:40 | |
They head to the city centre Royal Park for some nature play. | 0:28:40 | 0:28:44 | |
One, two, three, wheee! | 0:28:45 | 0:28:47 | |
Being in Australia has actually enhanced my dream, | 0:28:51 | 0:28:54 | |
it's actually made me want to have a future here with my family more than | 0:28:54 | 0:28:59 | |
ever. So I'm just actually really excited that it's actually lived up | 0:28:59 | 0:29:03 | |
to my expectations. | 0:29:03 | 0:29:04 | |
And it seems like the rest of the family agree. | 0:29:07 | 0:29:11 | |
High five! | 0:29:11 | 0:29:12 | |
These couple of days in Melbourne, I've really enjoyed it so far. | 0:29:13 | 0:29:17 | |
Just being able to see Jotham happy all the time. | 0:29:17 | 0:29:20 | |
This place is perfect for Jotham. | 0:29:20 | 0:29:21 | |
Look at him, he is, like, running, he is happy. | 0:29:21 | 0:29:26 | |
To be able to see him do the things that he wouldn't be able to do in | 0:29:26 | 0:29:29 | |
London, it just makes me really happy. | 0:29:29 | 0:29:31 | |
It just kind of inclines me to actually think this could be | 0:29:31 | 0:29:35 | |
something that he could do on a daily basis | 0:29:35 | 0:29:38 | |
-in Melbourne. -You did it! | 0:29:38 | 0:29:40 | |
The park is just amazing. | 0:29:40 | 0:29:43 | |
-There's so much space for him to run around. -Yeah. | 0:29:43 | 0:29:46 | |
I could imagine myself taking him out for a walk. | 0:29:46 | 0:29:48 | |
-Definitely. -It will end up being a longer walk than expected. | 0:29:48 | 0:29:51 | |
-Go, baby, go. -Daniel's had such fun with Jotham, | 0:29:52 | 0:29:56 | |
but is it enough to make the distance from home worthwhile? | 0:29:56 | 0:29:59 | |
I have on one side, Jotham, Edna and myself having such a great time, | 0:29:59 | 0:30:04 | |
pretty much living the life that we always dreamed of. | 0:30:04 | 0:30:07 | |
On the other side, I have my family living across the whole world. | 0:30:07 | 0:30:13 | |
It's just, it's kind of heartbreaking, really. | 0:30:14 | 0:30:16 | |
I'm not sure what I'm still looking for. | 0:30:16 | 0:30:18 | |
I don't think it's enough | 0:30:18 | 0:30:20 | |
to actually make me feel I would have the courage | 0:30:20 | 0:30:24 | |
to leave all my family behind. | 0:30:24 | 0:30:27 | |
Climbing those hills sure takes it out of you, Jotham. | 0:30:27 | 0:30:30 | |
While he has a well earned nap back at the rental, | 0:30:30 | 0:30:33 | |
a surprise call really cheers up the family. | 0:30:33 | 0:30:35 | |
Look, Vanessa's calling. | 0:30:35 | 0:30:37 | |
It's Edna's big sister. | 0:30:37 | 0:30:38 | |
Hi! | 0:30:38 | 0:30:39 | |
Hey, Vanny. | 0:30:39 | 0:30:41 | |
We miss you! | 0:30:41 | 0:30:43 | |
So far, we like it here, it's definitely different, | 0:30:43 | 0:30:45 | |
a whole different culture, a different way of living, | 0:30:45 | 0:30:48 | |
a different lifestyle. It's just so different, | 0:30:48 | 0:30:50 | |
you feel like you want to be outside and get up and go. | 0:30:50 | 0:30:52 | |
-I miss you. -Miss you, too. | 0:30:52 | 0:30:55 | |
But seeing a familiar face sparks another concern. | 0:30:55 | 0:30:59 | |
London is so multicultural, | 0:30:59 | 0:31:01 | |
the couple never think about them being a mixed-race family. | 0:31:01 | 0:31:05 | |
But how multicultural is Melbourne? | 0:31:05 | 0:31:07 | |
Back in the park, Edna meets Jackie, a mum with a mixed-race family. | 0:31:10 | 0:31:14 | |
So how is Melbourne for mixed-race couples? | 0:31:15 | 0:31:17 | |
I think it's great, I think they find the fact that two different | 0:31:17 | 0:31:21 | |
backgrounds coming together creating beautiful children, for one, | 0:31:21 | 0:31:24 | |
and having different backgrounds and cultures to introduce to the kids is | 0:31:24 | 0:31:28 | |
great. It's like, you're a person, come in and you are welcome here, | 0:31:28 | 0:31:31 | |
-that's how I feel. -Oh, that's really good, | 0:31:31 | 0:31:33 | |
because we want something different but we don't want something too | 0:31:33 | 0:31:37 | |
drastic. That makes us feel so much better. Hi! | 0:31:37 | 0:31:41 | |
That all sounds great, Edna's feeling happy, | 0:31:41 | 0:31:45 | |
but knows it's not a done deal as far as Daniel's concerned. | 0:31:45 | 0:31:49 | |
I think Daniel loved today, | 0:31:49 | 0:31:50 | |
he was loving the sun and actually spending time with us as a family. | 0:31:50 | 0:31:55 | |
Was today enough to convince Daniel? | 0:31:55 | 0:31:57 | |
I don't know. We just have to wait and see. | 0:31:58 | 0:32:01 | |
So, after a day sampling all that Melbourne has to offer, | 0:32:01 | 0:32:05 | |
what way are they going to vote? | 0:32:05 | 0:32:06 | |
Based on our great day out today, our vote goes to... | 0:32:08 | 0:32:11 | |
BOTH: ..Australia. | 0:32:21 | 0:32:22 | |
So, why did you vote for Australia? | 0:32:24 | 0:32:26 | |
I think it's just clear, everything that we wanted from today's day out, | 0:32:26 | 0:32:31 | |
it's exactly what we got, isn't it? | 0:32:31 | 0:32:32 | |
Even though I still have a few worries, | 0:32:32 | 0:32:35 | |
today has really proven to me that we can actually fit in. | 0:32:35 | 0:32:38 | |
It's actually showed me that we can | 0:32:38 | 0:32:40 | |
spend more time together as a family. | 0:32:40 | 0:32:42 | |
The fact that we met Jackie today, | 0:32:42 | 0:32:43 | |
she just reassured us that we wouldn't stick out, | 0:32:43 | 0:32:46 | |
we wouldn't feel like outsiders here, | 0:32:46 | 0:32:48 | |
we would actually feel like part of the community. | 0:32:48 | 0:32:51 | |
It's win-win for Edna all the way. | 0:32:57 | 0:33:00 | |
With another vote for Australia, | 0:33:00 | 0:33:01 | |
a permanent move to the other side of the world looks like it could | 0:33:01 | 0:33:05 | |
become a reality for the Siwaks, but only if the finances add up. | 0:33:05 | 0:33:10 | |
Right, let's have a look at our shopping list. | 0:33:10 | 0:33:12 | |
It's time to find out how the cost of living down under compares with the UK. | 0:33:12 | 0:33:17 | |
White potatoes, in the UK, cost us £1.19. | 0:33:17 | 0:33:22 | |
Here, it's £4.26. | 0:33:22 | 0:33:25 | |
-That's a huge jump, isn't it? -Yeah, it's like £3 more. | 0:33:25 | 0:33:28 | |
And Jo likes white potatoes, we might have to find something else for him. | 0:33:28 | 0:33:31 | |
Jo's nappies, we use a lot of those, so that's about £3.33 in the UK. | 0:33:31 | 0:33:37 | |
Here, £3.96. | 0:33:37 | 0:33:39 | |
In Australia, our shopping bill would be £93.37. | 0:33:39 | 0:33:44 | |
£31.52 worse off every week. | 0:33:44 | 0:33:49 | |
It's not too bad. | 0:33:49 | 0:33:50 | |
Some groceries and clothing are more expensive, | 0:33:50 | 0:33:53 | |
but what about the bigger outgoings? | 0:33:53 | 0:33:55 | |
So childcare in the UK costs us £0, | 0:33:55 | 0:33:58 | |
as we always have someone to watch Jo and I only work part-time, | 0:33:58 | 0:34:02 | |
so that helps. But obviously if we come over here, | 0:34:02 | 0:34:05 | |
I'll be working full-time. | 0:34:05 | 0:34:06 | |
Wow, that's a big jump. | 0:34:06 | 0:34:08 | |
£704 per month. | 0:34:08 | 0:34:11 | |
Once again, family, or rather the lack of them, | 0:34:11 | 0:34:14 | |
is going to be a major consideration. | 0:34:14 | 0:34:17 | |
That has not made me too happy about this. | 0:34:17 | 0:34:20 | |
That makes me feel very concerned. | 0:34:20 | 0:34:22 | |
But when Edna factors in her new wage, the figures look healthier, | 0:34:23 | 0:34:27 | |
-very much so. -In Australia, after studying, | 0:34:27 | 0:34:31 | |
I'll be taking home £2,093.36 extra per month. | 0:34:31 | 0:34:39 | |
That is... That's another income! | 0:34:39 | 0:34:42 | |
-It is. -Next, they include Daniel's earnings. | 0:34:42 | 0:34:45 | |
In Australia you'll be earning £2,480 per month. | 0:34:47 | 0:34:54 | |
If we decided to do our studies, we would be | 0:34:54 | 0:34:59 | |
£3,008.50 better off | 0:34:59 | 0:35:07 | |
-every month. -That's a huge figure. | 0:35:07 | 0:35:09 | |
Wow. I am lost for words. | 0:35:12 | 0:35:15 | |
That is, pretty much, the money will be left to do whatever we like. | 0:35:15 | 0:35:19 | |
We can afford a better house, a bigger house. | 0:35:19 | 0:35:23 | |
-Oh, yeah. -Can we move tomorrow? | 0:35:23 | 0:35:25 | |
But what this means suddenly hits Daniel. | 0:35:27 | 0:35:30 | |
I mean, my main idea of moving would be for Jotham, | 0:35:30 | 0:35:34 | |
and the fact that we could actually provide for him, | 0:35:34 | 0:35:39 | |
with whatever he needs, with that amount of money, | 0:35:39 | 0:35:43 | |
it just makes everything harder. | 0:35:43 | 0:35:45 | |
They head back to the park to reflect, | 0:35:45 | 0:35:48 | |
but it's soon time to vote on | 0:35:48 | 0:35:50 | |
finances in the UK versus down under. | 0:35:50 | 0:35:53 | |
Based on our reality check today, our vote goes to... | 0:35:53 | 0:35:56 | |
BOTH: ..Australia! | 0:36:04 | 0:36:05 | |
So, why did you pick Australia? | 0:36:06 | 0:36:08 | |
I think I would be silly if I didn't, really, | 0:36:08 | 0:36:11 | |
just knowing that we'll be in jobs that we love and to get that kind of | 0:36:11 | 0:36:16 | |
sum every month, it just would mean so much - | 0:36:16 | 0:36:18 | |
it would be life-changing. | 0:36:18 | 0:36:20 | |
The fact that we could just put in a little bit more studying, | 0:36:20 | 0:36:23 | |
just like one or two years, then we could be earning that, | 0:36:23 | 0:36:26 | |
it just blows my mind. | 0:36:26 | 0:36:28 | |
That money could do so much for our family. | 0:36:28 | 0:36:30 | |
I mean, I'm not surprised that you voted for Australia. | 0:36:30 | 0:36:34 | |
Even if we're probably worse off you'll still vote for Australia, | 0:36:34 | 0:36:36 | |
but it makes me happy, the fact that you're happy. | 0:36:36 | 0:36:40 | |
Oh, that's so cute - give me a hug! | 0:36:40 | 0:36:43 | |
All the votes so far are for Australia, | 0:36:51 | 0:36:54 | |
but now the hardest part of the week, | 0:36:54 | 0:36:56 | |
and the one Edna fears could scupper all her plans. | 0:36:56 | 0:37:00 | |
The couple sit down to watch messages from loved ones at home together. | 0:37:00 | 0:37:04 | |
Right, let's have a look at our messages. | 0:37:04 | 0:37:08 | |
-Hi! -Hi, guys - love you! -Hi, Daniel, | 0:37:08 | 0:37:13 | |
-hi, Edna! -I love spending time with them so much. | 0:37:13 | 0:37:17 | |
They're such a brilliant family. | 0:37:17 | 0:37:19 | |
Daniel is humble, loving and caring. | 0:37:19 | 0:37:22 | |
The best brother a sister could ask for. | 0:37:23 | 0:37:27 | |
Edna is funny... | 0:37:27 | 0:37:29 | |
She's loving, she's caring, she's always supportive. | 0:37:29 | 0:37:33 | |
Jotham is really cute. | 0:37:33 | 0:37:35 | |
Jotham's a very happy boy, | 0:37:35 | 0:37:37 | |
and I think the most happiest baby I've ever came across. | 0:37:37 | 0:37:41 | |
If she wants to move this would be a great opportunity for her to explore | 0:37:41 | 0:37:45 | |
-it. -Obviously I would be upset if they did end up moving there, but | 0:37:45 | 0:37:51 | |
I'd still feel happy for them. | 0:37:51 | 0:37:52 | |
From one to 100, I'll miss them about 95. | 0:37:52 | 0:38:00 | |
I don't want them to go because I love them so much. | 0:38:00 | 0:38:05 | |
It's going to be really painful for me, to miss Jo especially. | 0:38:05 | 0:38:09 | |
A new grandson - my heart stopped and said, "Oh, my God, | 0:38:09 | 0:38:13 | |
"they're going to take away the thing I love the most." | 0:38:13 | 0:38:17 | |
We all miss you lots and we all love you. | 0:38:17 | 0:38:24 | |
Make sure that you make the right decision for yourself, | 0:38:24 | 0:38:27 | |
and also I hope that it's the right one. | 0:38:27 | 0:38:30 | |
I know you guys will find a way to make it work. | 0:38:30 | 0:38:32 | |
You guys always have. | 0:38:32 | 0:38:33 | |
It's your decision, but you know it's going to be tough for us here. | 0:38:33 | 0:38:38 | |
You have my full support. | 0:38:38 | 0:38:40 | |
You are never out of my life and I love you guys so much. | 0:38:40 | 0:38:43 | |
If I could stop you, I would, | 0:38:45 | 0:38:47 | |
but if it's the decision that's going to make you happy, | 0:38:47 | 0:38:51 | |
and moving to Australia is going to change your life, | 0:38:51 | 0:38:54 | |
I'll support you all the way. | 0:38:54 | 0:38:55 | |
-Wow. That was... That wasn't easy, was it, watching that? -I know. | 0:38:58 | 0:39:04 | |
It makes me want to cry, but I'm not going to cry. | 0:39:04 | 0:39:07 | |
It just makes me feel a little bit selfish, to be honest. | 0:39:07 | 0:39:10 | |
At the same time, could we go back to what we were doing before? | 0:39:10 | 0:39:14 | |
For me, it hasn't changed much. | 0:39:15 | 0:39:18 | |
There will be opportunities for them to come or for us to go. | 0:39:18 | 0:39:22 | |
But would they even consider coming? | 0:39:22 | 0:39:23 | |
Watching our messages today just | 0:39:23 | 0:39:25 | |
made me a bit more confused than I was already when I came. | 0:39:25 | 0:39:30 | |
Really worried now | 0:39:30 | 0:39:31 | |
-where your head is at. -It makes me want to go back home, to be honest. | 0:39:31 | 0:39:35 | |
At the start of the trial week, | 0:39:40 | 0:39:42 | |
the Siwak family were well and truly divided. | 0:39:42 | 0:39:46 | |
Free spirit Edna saw the world as her oyster, and was drawn to Oz, | 0:39:46 | 0:39:51 | |
while home bird Daniel wanted to stay close to his roots in London. | 0:39:51 | 0:39:55 | |
But has Melbourne and all that it's offered been enough to change minds | 0:39:55 | 0:40:00 | |
and get them both on the same page? | 0:40:00 | 0:40:03 | |
What would you do in the circumstances? | 0:40:03 | 0:40:06 | |
Let's see what they decide. | 0:40:06 | 0:40:07 | |
It's time for the final vote. | 0:40:07 | 0:40:09 | |
There's obviously a lot to think | 0:40:11 | 0:40:13 | |
about before they make that decision. | 0:40:13 | 0:40:15 | |
And as thoughts turn to the journey home, | 0:40:15 | 0:40:17 | |
they are moments away from making their minds up. | 0:40:17 | 0:40:21 | |
It puts such a smile on my face to see Jo so happy, | 0:40:21 | 0:40:25 | |
and I could actually picture him growing up here. | 0:40:25 | 0:40:28 | |
There's just so many more opportunities here for him. | 0:40:28 | 0:40:30 | |
Just looking over at Daniel and seeing him play with Jotham, | 0:40:30 | 0:40:34 | |
in this beautiful weather, in this peaceful park, | 0:40:34 | 0:40:37 | |
it just makes me feel like, yes, | 0:40:37 | 0:40:39 | |
this is exactly what I was looking for. | 0:40:39 | 0:40:42 | |
There's a lot to take in. | 0:40:44 | 0:40:45 | |
Daniel's thoughts are as mixed up as ever. | 0:40:45 | 0:40:48 | |
In this week, everything that I wanted to hear, I've heard. | 0:40:48 | 0:40:52 | |
All the boxes that I wanted to tick, ticked. | 0:40:52 | 0:40:54 | |
But at the same time it would still be a challenge moving and starting a | 0:40:54 | 0:40:58 | |
life all over again. | 0:40:58 | 0:41:00 | |
-I don't know which way to go. -Edna's under no illusion that Daniel is | 0:41:00 | 0:41:03 | |
wrestling with which way to vote. | 0:41:03 | 0:41:05 | |
Seeing Daniel's face change during the friends and family messages, | 0:41:05 | 0:41:09 | |
those messages kind of reminded him | 0:41:09 | 0:41:11 | |
of the doubts he had in the beginning | 0:41:11 | 0:41:13 | |
when we were still in the UK, that can he really do this? | 0:41:13 | 0:41:16 | |
And I'm still concerned that he might still decide not to come. | 0:41:16 | 0:41:20 | |
How is it, Jo? Yeah? | 0:41:21 | 0:41:23 | |
High five! This is the biggest decision we're ever going to have to | 0:41:23 | 0:41:26 | |
make as a family, and it has to be the right one. | 0:41:26 | 0:41:29 | |
They can't put it off any longer. | 0:41:29 | 0:41:31 | |
It's now time for the family to vote on where their future lies. | 0:41:31 | 0:41:36 | |
After a great week in Melbourne, Australia, our vote goes to... | 0:41:36 | 0:41:40 | |
BOTH: ..Australia. | 0:41:54 | 0:41:55 | |
Really? | 0:41:56 | 0:41:58 | |
Yeah, I had a long think about it and I just feel like I would be mad | 0:41:58 | 0:42:02 | |
not to actually consider Jo growing up here. | 0:42:02 | 0:42:05 | |
Even though I'll be making that huge sacrifice, | 0:42:05 | 0:42:07 | |
it'll just be something I will have to live with. | 0:42:07 | 0:42:09 | |
I thought you were really going to pick undecided, | 0:42:09 | 0:42:11 | |
and then I was going to be so upset and sad and... | 0:42:11 | 0:42:15 | |
I never thought I would say this, | 0:42:15 | 0:42:16 | |
but I'm actually happy that you brought me here, | 0:42:16 | 0:42:18 | |
just to experience the life, | 0:42:18 | 0:42:20 | |
the dream life that you always wanted and always talked about. | 0:42:20 | 0:42:23 | |
I know it's going to be hard for you to leave friends and family behind. | 0:42:23 | 0:42:26 | |
It's going to be hard for me too, | 0:42:26 | 0:42:27 | |
but I just know that they're going to see how well we're doing and | 0:42:27 | 0:42:30 | |
eventually they're going to get convinced to come over themselves. | 0:42:30 | 0:42:34 | |
We're moving to Australia! | 0:42:34 | 0:42:35 | |
Come here. Oh, dear. | 0:42:35 | 0:42:40 | |
So Edna won the day. | 0:42:49 | 0:42:51 | |
It's been a difficult decision for Daniel, | 0:42:51 | 0:42:54 | |
but in balance the prospect of a bright future in Australia for their | 0:42:54 | 0:42:58 | |
little boy Jotham promised too much for them to turn down. | 0:42:58 | 0:43:03 | |
We wish the Siwaks the very best on the next leg of their journey, | 0:43:03 | 0:43:07 | |
and of course we'll be keeping an eye out to see if they do return | 0:43:07 | 0:43:11 | |
down under, or decide to stay in London town. | 0:43:11 | 0:43:14 |