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Rebecca Ellis wants a fresh start down under with her children | 0:00:03 | 0:00:07 | |
and partner Kylie. | 0:00:07 | 0:00:08 | |
I've been harbouring the dream of going to Australia for as long | 0:00:08 | 0:00:11 | |
as I can remember. | 0:00:11 | 0:00:12 | |
That would mean leaving the children's father behind. | 0:00:12 | 0:00:16 | |
Leaving my dad behind would be the most difficult thing about moving | 0:00:16 | 0:00:20 | |
to Australia. | 0:00:20 | 0:00:21 | |
So any decision has to be unanimous. | 0:00:21 | 0:00:25 | |
I don't want to go, because I'll miss all my friends and my dancing | 0:00:25 | 0:00:28 | |
and everything. | 0:00:28 | 0:00:30 | |
A trial week will help them decide once and for all | 0:00:30 | 0:00:33 | |
where their future lies. | 0:00:33 | 0:00:35 | |
Everybody has to be happy, | 0:00:35 | 0:00:36 | |
so if we get to the end of the week and I'm the only one that loves the | 0:00:36 | 0:00:40 | |
place, then obviously the move is not going to happen. | 0:00:40 | 0:00:43 | |
Far away but familiar, | 0:01:06 | 0:01:07 | |
Australia's long been the top destination for Brits seeking | 0:01:07 | 0:01:11 | |
a better life abroad. With an average temperature of 22 Celsius | 0:01:11 | 0:01:16 | |
and over 30,000 miles of coastline to enjoy the sunshine, | 0:01:16 | 0:01:20 | |
it's easy to understand why. | 0:01:20 | 0:01:22 | |
But for many, it's not the one-way trip they intended, | 0:01:22 | 0:01:25 | |
and almost half return home to the UK. | 0:01:25 | 0:01:28 | |
Growing up, Rebecca Ellis listened to the seafaring tales on her | 0:01:29 | 0:01:33 | |
grandfather's knee of the South Seas and Australia, | 0:01:33 | 0:01:37 | |
captivating young Rebecca. | 0:01:37 | 0:01:39 | |
She's been determined to go there ever since. | 0:01:39 | 0:01:43 | |
But now a mum with four children and partner Kylie, | 0:01:43 | 0:01:46 | |
she has to get all the family on board, | 0:01:46 | 0:01:49 | |
and that won't be easy. | 0:01:49 | 0:01:51 | |
Across one week, Rebecca, Kylie | 0:01:51 | 0:01:53 | |
and the children will sample the sort of life they could lead and | 0:01:53 | 0:01:57 | |
afford if they went, before voting on whether to make the move. | 0:01:57 | 0:02:02 | |
Will the Ellis Waughs buy into Rebecca's fairy tale, | 0:02:02 | 0:02:06 | |
or will the dream sink without a trace? | 0:02:06 | 0:02:09 | |
To get to Australia, | 0:02:10 | 0:02:11 | |
the family have flown 10,000 miles from Heathrow via Dubai and Sydney, | 0:02:11 | 0:02:16 | |
to Brisbane. Rebecca's been to Australia before, | 0:02:16 | 0:02:19 | |
but this time it's different. | 0:02:19 | 0:02:21 | |
Never done it with children before, | 0:02:22 | 0:02:24 | |
but the children were absolutely no bother. | 0:02:24 | 0:02:26 | |
The long flights brought home to Kylie just how far away Australia is. | 0:02:27 | 0:02:32 | |
I didn't realise how long it was going to be. | 0:02:32 | 0:02:34 | |
And I know some of my family already are kind of saying they wouldn't | 0:02:34 | 0:02:37 | |
want to make that long flight, | 0:02:37 | 0:02:39 | |
or they wouldn't be able to make that long flight. | 0:02:39 | 0:02:41 | |
Now back on Aussie soil, Rebecca's apprehensive about what lies ahead. | 0:02:41 | 0:02:45 | |
I think for me the big thing for this week is | 0:02:46 | 0:02:49 | |
for to see Kylie and the children's reaction to Australia. | 0:02:49 | 0:02:52 | |
Kylie's anxious too. | 0:02:52 | 0:02:55 | |
Whether it's going to be all it's, like, talked up to be... | 0:02:55 | 0:02:59 | |
My mum's always talking about it and she says it's really, really good. | 0:02:59 | 0:03:05 | |
There is a lot hanging in the balance in the week ahead. | 0:03:05 | 0:03:09 | |
I think there's a bit of pressure on the trial week for the children | 0:03:09 | 0:03:13 | |
to enjoy Australia, because I have talked about it all of their lives, | 0:03:13 | 0:03:17 | |
how amazing it is. | 0:03:17 | 0:03:19 | |
So, yeah, I do hope it's going to live up to their expectations. | 0:03:19 | 0:03:21 | |
The next seven days will have to make a big impression | 0:03:23 | 0:03:26 | |
if she's to persuade Kylie and the children that their future lies | 0:03:26 | 0:03:30 | |
on the other side of the world. | 0:03:30 | 0:03:31 | |
Meet the Ellis Waughs, | 0:03:35 | 0:03:37 | |
their mum Rebecca, partner Kylie, Rebecca's children - Ethan, aged 12, | 0:03:37 | 0:03:42 | |
Mary, who's ten, Timothy, aged eight, and Adam, who's seven. | 0:03:42 | 0:03:46 | |
They live in Sunderland in the north-east of England. | 0:03:46 | 0:03:49 | |
Social care manager Rebecca and trainee teacher Kylie | 0:03:49 | 0:03:53 | |
have been together for four years. | 0:03:53 | 0:03:55 | |
They met whilst working on a project for the North East Autism Society. | 0:03:55 | 0:03:59 | |
We spent a lot of time together as colleagues. | 0:03:59 | 0:04:03 | |
So we got to know each other, like, really well, | 0:04:03 | 0:04:05 | |
and got to really, like, trust each other as well. | 0:04:05 | 0:04:08 | |
And it kind of just went on from there, didn't it? | 0:04:08 | 0:04:11 | |
They became a couple, and Kylie took on a ready-made family of four. | 0:04:11 | 0:04:15 | |
I'd take on anything for her. | 0:04:15 | 0:04:17 | |
Even four crazy kids! | 0:04:17 | 0:04:20 | |
A move to Oz has been on the cards ever since they got together. | 0:04:21 | 0:04:25 | |
It's always been there in the back of my mind, | 0:04:25 | 0:04:27 | |
but I think if it wasn't for Rebecca, | 0:04:27 | 0:04:29 | |
I don't think it would have been pushed forward as much. | 0:04:29 | 0:04:33 | |
Oh, I've been harbouring the dream of going to Australia for as long as | 0:04:33 | 0:04:35 | |
I can remember. | 0:04:35 | 0:04:37 | |
Rebecca was inspired by her grandfather's tales from when he | 0:04:37 | 0:04:40 | |
travelled as a sailor. | 0:04:40 | 0:04:42 | |
Australia was his favourite place in the world. | 0:04:42 | 0:04:44 | |
He talked about this amazing land and his friends that lived there, | 0:04:44 | 0:04:49 | |
so that kind of inspired us from quite a young age. | 0:04:49 | 0:04:53 | |
And when she was 19, she travelled down under with her grandfather. | 0:04:55 | 0:04:58 | |
It was just absolutely beautiful, it was amazing. | 0:04:58 | 0:05:01 | |
Fantastic! Fell in love with the place. | 0:05:01 | 0:05:03 | |
Talk of Oz has long been a topic of conversation for the family. | 0:05:03 | 0:05:07 | |
We hear about Australia quite a lot because it's been... | 0:05:07 | 0:05:10 | |
..our mum's dream for, like, quite a while. | 0:05:12 | 0:05:15 | |
She's taught us about all the different things that's there that | 0:05:15 | 0:05:18 | |
we would be able to do there but not here. | 0:05:18 | 0:05:20 | |
It's like a mystery and I really want to go! | 0:05:20 | 0:05:23 | |
Rebecca really believes Australia could offer her children | 0:05:23 | 0:05:26 | |
a better future. | 0:05:26 | 0:05:27 | |
I guess a lot of my drive is the children, | 0:05:27 | 0:05:30 | |
giving them the best life possible and the best opportunities possible. | 0:05:30 | 0:05:34 | |
They're a very busy, active family. | 0:05:34 | 0:05:36 | |
Both Rebecca and Kylie believe the whole family would thrive | 0:05:36 | 0:05:39 | |
in the great Aussie outdoors. | 0:05:39 | 0:05:41 | |
They're already working towards making their Australian dream | 0:05:41 | 0:05:44 | |
a reality - they've started an Aussie fund. | 0:05:44 | 0:05:48 | |
No matter what, we can't touch the Australia fund, can we? | 0:05:48 | 0:05:50 | |
Not unless it's something to do with Australia. | 0:05:50 | 0:05:53 | |
Unless it's something to do with Australia! | 0:05:53 | 0:05:56 | |
They're in no doubt that the time is right. | 0:05:56 | 0:05:59 | |
Now's the right time for the children | 0:05:59 | 0:06:02 | |
so that they can get into education settings and, like, | 0:06:02 | 0:06:06 | |
more social opportunities. | 0:06:06 | 0:06:08 | |
But getting everyone on board won't be easy. | 0:06:08 | 0:06:11 | |
I'm fine with going for the hot weather and everything else. | 0:06:11 | 0:06:13 | |
It's just missing people. | 0:06:13 | 0:06:15 | |
Yeah, Tim wants to bring his school and his dancing friends. | 0:06:15 | 0:06:19 | |
It's hard when Tim gets upset about leaving people in the UK. | 0:06:19 | 0:06:22 | |
But it's not just friends, | 0:06:22 | 0:06:25 | |
a move would mean saying goodbye to Dad, Gary, | 0:06:25 | 0:06:27 | |
who plays a huge part in the family's life. | 0:06:27 | 0:06:30 | |
We tend to do quite a bit together, to be honest. They're never standing | 0:06:30 | 0:06:33 | |
still. Rebecca's always got something arranged, somewhere. | 0:06:33 | 0:06:35 | |
Leaving my dad behind would be the most difficult thing about moving to | 0:06:39 | 0:06:43 | |
-Australia. -I want to bring Dad. | 0:06:43 | 0:06:46 | |
-That's it. -Yeah. | 0:06:46 | 0:06:48 | |
He's, like, part of my everyday life and I see him every day for ages. | 0:06:48 | 0:06:53 | |
Gary's not against a move. | 0:06:53 | 0:06:56 | |
He's known it's always been a dream of mine and he wants the best for | 0:06:56 | 0:06:58 | |
the children. And even though it's hard for him, | 0:06:58 | 0:07:01 | |
he does want us to kind of follow the dream. | 0:07:01 | 0:07:04 | |
Kylie's mum's not so supportive of the move away. | 0:07:04 | 0:07:08 | |
My mum straight away was like, "No, I don't want you to go. | 0:07:08 | 0:07:10 | |
"You're not going." And quite upset about it. | 0:07:10 | 0:07:14 | |
I think she was quite surprised by the response that she got from | 0:07:14 | 0:07:17 | |
her mum and I think it has pulled on heartstrings and possibly made it | 0:07:17 | 0:07:20 | |
more difficult than she expected. | 0:07:20 | 0:07:23 | |
Australia also has to deliver on another front, | 0:07:23 | 0:07:25 | |
if the dream move is to become a reality. | 0:07:25 | 0:07:29 | |
A bit of research that we want to do when we are there | 0:07:29 | 0:07:33 | |
is to make sure that we would be accepted in local communities | 0:07:33 | 0:07:37 | |
as a same-sex couple. | 0:07:37 | 0:07:39 | |
I wouldn't want to be making the move, | 0:07:39 | 0:07:41 | |
which is going to be a lot of big changes for the children, | 0:07:41 | 0:07:44 | |
and then to expose them to any discrimination. | 0:07:44 | 0:07:47 | |
Then there's the practicalities to consider. | 0:07:49 | 0:07:52 | |
I guess we need to know that it's financially viable, | 0:07:52 | 0:07:56 | |
that there's job opportunities for me and Kylie, | 0:07:56 | 0:08:00 | |
that there is the nice, relaxed community atmosphere. | 0:08:00 | 0:08:05 | |
The week ahead is make or break. | 0:08:05 | 0:08:07 | |
I think going out there will kind of finalise our decision. | 0:08:08 | 0:08:13 | |
We're a family unit, we all need to be in agreement that it's going | 0:08:13 | 0:08:16 | |
to be the best thing for us. | 0:08:16 | 0:08:18 | |
The Ellis Waughs are spending their trial week on the Gold Coast. | 0:08:24 | 0:08:28 | |
Their temporary home is this five-bedroom resort-style waterfront | 0:08:28 | 0:08:31 | |
property. Will it get the week off to the start Rebecca's hoping for? | 0:08:31 | 0:08:35 | |
First impressions are positive. | 0:08:36 | 0:08:38 | |
-Definitely! -That looks really good! | 0:08:40 | 0:08:41 | |
-I just want to jump in! -My first impression I've got so far | 0:08:41 | 0:08:45 | |
from here is really good! | 0:08:45 | 0:08:47 | |
Like, brilliant! | 0:08:47 | 0:08:49 | |
Indoors, the positive theme continues. | 0:08:49 | 0:08:51 | |
Close your eyes! | 0:08:51 | 0:08:52 | |
Wow! Do you see yourself here, Kylie? | 0:08:54 | 0:08:56 | |
Yeah, definitely. | 0:08:56 | 0:08:58 | |
We're certainly a long way from Sunderland. | 0:08:58 | 0:09:01 | |
This is amazing! | 0:09:01 | 0:09:03 | |
So nice, just imagine sitting out here on a night. | 0:09:03 | 0:09:06 | |
It's like something out of the movies. | 0:09:06 | 0:09:08 | |
It's just out of this world, isn't it? | 0:09:08 | 0:09:10 | |
But the thought of Dad is never far behind for the children. | 0:09:10 | 0:09:13 | |
I'm going to really miss my dad. | 0:09:16 | 0:09:18 | |
Just to know that I'm that far away from him is really sad. | 0:09:18 | 0:09:22 | |
I don't know if we could move here without him. | 0:09:22 | 0:09:25 | |
As she unpacks, Rebecca reflects on the enormity of the task facing her. | 0:09:25 | 0:09:30 | |
I'm a bit frightened myself, in case it's not right for everybody. | 0:09:30 | 0:09:35 | |
It's Rebecca's dream, and no-one wants to burst the bubble. | 0:09:35 | 0:09:39 | |
My mum's hoping that we'll all like Australia, | 0:09:39 | 0:09:44 | |
because it's her dream. | 0:09:44 | 0:09:46 | |
You've got such fond memories and, like, | 0:09:46 | 0:09:49 | |
I feel like we all need to love it | 0:09:49 | 0:09:51 | |
cos you love it so much as well. | 0:09:51 | 0:09:54 | |
But Rebecca knows her voice is just one amongst many. | 0:09:55 | 0:09:59 | |
Everybody has to be on board. | 0:10:00 | 0:10:01 | |
Everybody has to be happy so, | 0:10:01 | 0:10:03 | |
if we get to the end of the week and I'm the only one that loves | 0:10:03 | 0:10:06 | |
the place, then obviously the move is not going to happen. | 0:10:06 | 0:10:10 | |
So the trial week's massive for us. | 0:10:10 | 0:10:12 | |
Back in the UK, the family live in a five-bedroom terraced house in | 0:10:17 | 0:10:21 | |
Sunderland. They bought the property two years ago. | 0:10:21 | 0:10:24 | |
We bought a run-down old B&B that had sat empty for some time. | 0:10:24 | 0:10:31 | |
It's quite a big house, really, isn't it? | 0:10:31 | 0:10:33 | |
It's kind of work in progress. | 0:10:33 | 0:10:35 | |
-Yes. -They needed somewhere to raise a growing family. | 0:10:35 | 0:10:38 | |
It's quite difficult to find a five-bedroom house in Sunderland | 0:10:39 | 0:10:43 | |
on a low budget. It was quite a challenge. | 0:10:43 | 0:10:45 | |
-Yeah. -But we got there. | 0:10:45 | 0:10:47 | |
It's kind of been like a project for us all, really, cos we've all | 0:10:47 | 0:10:51 | |
kind of played our little part in making it a home, really. | 0:10:51 | 0:10:54 | |
It may have plenty of room inside, | 0:10:54 | 0:10:56 | |
but it falls short on outdoor space. | 0:10:56 | 0:10:59 | |
But that's kind of what we had to sacrifice to get something | 0:10:59 | 0:11:02 | |
on a low budget. | 0:11:02 | 0:11:03 | |
They've set a figure of £250,000 for a home down under and the | 0:11:03 | 0:11:07 | |
top priority for them is... | 0:11:07 | 0:11:09 | |
Access to lots of outdoor space, | 0:11:09 | 0:11:12 | |
whether that's our own garden or just easy access to lots of local, | 0:11:12 | 0:11:16 | |
you know, community outdoor space. | 0:11:16 | 0:11:18 | |
But they don't want to scrimp on indoor space, either. | 0:11:18 | 0:11:21 | |
It would be great to have five, but we'd be happy with four bedrooms. | 0:11:21 | 0:11:25 | |
I think the kids would love a pool, but... | 0:11:25 | 0:11:27 | |
I think that's probably a little bit out of our reach, really. | 0:11:27 | 0:11:31 | |
They're not expecting to be able to afford the perfect home straight away. | 0:11:31 | 0:11:35 | |
Jobs and finances would be more important than finding the perfect | 0:11:35 | 0:11:39 | |
dream home immediately. | 0:11:39 | 0:11:40 | |
-That's something that can come later, really, isn't it? -Yeah. | 0:11:40 | 0:11:44 | |
To give them an idea of what's available on the Gold Coast property | 0:11:49 | 0:11:52 | |
market, we've arranged for the family to view three properties - | 0:11:52 | 0:11:56 | |
two close to budget and a third which should be everything they're | 0:11:56 | 0:11:59 | |
looking for in a dream home. | 0:11:59 | 0:12:01 | |
First stop is the suburb of Ormeau, | 0:12:01 | 0:12:03 | |
25 minutes outside Brisbane city centre | 0:12:03 | 0:12:06 | |
and only 15 minutes to the coast. | 0:12:06 | 0:12:09 | |
Locals talk about the old-style friendly community spirit and the | 0:12:09 | 0:12:13 | |
wealth of facilities for families. | 0:12:13 | 0:12:15 | |
There are good schools, parks, recreation centres, but, above all, | 0:12:15 | 0:12:19 | |
it's a place you feel safe and sound in. | 0:12:19 | 0:12:21 | |
So what will they make of this modern, four-bedroom, | 0:12:23 | 0:12:26 | |
two-bathroom property? | 0:12:26 | 0:12:27 | |
Oh, look, this one. | 0:12:28 | 0:12:30 | |
-Yeah. -It looks really, really nice. | 0:12:30 | 0:12:32 | |
Yay, I was right! | 0:12:32 | 0:12:34 | |
Oh. It looks nice and bright, doesn't it? | 0:12:36 | 0:12:38 | |
-Yeah. -All looking good so far. | 0:12:38 | 0:12:40 | |
Nice little family chill-out area. | 0:12:42 | 0:12:44 | |
A place where we can spend time together. | 0:12:44 | 0:12:46 | |
I think it's great. | 0:12:46 | 0:12:47 | |
It's got the right number of chairs and everything! | 0:12:47 | 0:12:50 | |
-Whoa! -It's nice. -Well, this looks really, really good. | 0:12:52 | 0:12:54 | |
-Living room. -It's a nice, big area. | 0:12:54 | 0:12:57 | |
-Nice space, yeah. -Yeah. | 0:12:57 | 0:12:58 | |
I mean, it's not a big kitchen, but it's big enough and it's nice. | 0:12:58 | 0:13:02 | |
It's got a nice feel to it. It's nice and bright, nice and airy. | 0:13:02 | 0:13:05 | |
Ethan is quick to bag his room. | 0:13:05 | 0:13:07 | |
This is definitely going to be my bedroom, then? | 0:13:07 | 0:13:09 | |
It might be the grown-ups' bedroom. | 0:13:09 | 0:13:12 | |
And what do they make of the en suite? | 0:13:12 | 0:13:14 | |
-It's a nice size, as well. -Yeah. -Nice size, yeah. | 0:13:14 | 0:13:17 | |
If I had my own en suite then I wouldn't be so fussy. | 0:13:17 | 0:13:20 | |
-If you do, you'd have to clean it yourself. -I would. -Yeah? | 0:13:20 | 0:13:23 | |
-I would, yeah. -Clean the toilet? | 0:13:23 | 0:13:26 | |
I think that's a "no". | 0:13:26 | 0:13:28 | |
Young Tim and Adam have had enough. | 0:13:28 | 0:13:30 | |
Aw, this is a nice room. | 0:13:30 | 0:13:32 | |
-This is another cute little room, isn't it? -Yeah. -Yeah? | 0:13:32 | 0:13:35 | |
-It's looking good. -Yeah. | 0:13:35 | 0:13:38 | |
With four sports-mad children, a big bathroom is a must. | 0:13:38 | 0:13:41 | |
This would work for the kids, wouldn't it? | 0:13:41 | 0:13:43 | |
It's got the separate shower and bath. | 0:13:43 | 0:13:45 | |
-Yeah. -And we've got the en suite in the other room. | 0:13:45 | 0:13:49 | |
-Whoa! -Whoa. | 0:13:49 | 0:13:51 | |
-This would work well for Tim and Adam. -Really well. | 0:13:51 | 0:13:55 | |
So what about the outdoors? | 0:13:55 | 0:13:56 | |
Well, it's not massive. | 0:13:56 | 0:13:59 | |
It's not big. | 0:14:01 | 0:14:04 | |
We would prefer more outdoor space. | 0:14:04 | 0:14:05 | |
-Yeah. -But it could work, couldn't it? -It definitely could work, yeah. | 0:14:05 | 0:14:09 | |
A bit of a mixed bag, then, | 0:14:09 | 0:14:11 | |
but can they afford it with their £250,000 budget? | 0:14:11 | 0:14:15 | |
I think it's a really nice house. | 0:14:16 | 0:14:18 | |
-It could work for us. -Nice space. Nice and light. -You can see us here, yeah? | 0:14:18 | 0:14:21 | |
-Yeah. -So, how much do you think? | 0:14:21 | 0:14:24 | |
I'm going to go with 235,000. | 0:14:24 | 0:14:28 | |
-245. -Yeah? | 0:14:28 | 0:14:30 | |
A bit more. Yeah. | 0:14:30 | 0:14:32 | |
GASPS | 0:14:39 | 0:14:41 | |
£253,000. | 0:14:41 | 0:14:43 | |
That's £3,000 over budget. | 0:14:43 | 0:14:46 | |
-Oh! -It's not a good start, is it? | 0:14:46 | 0:14:49 | |
-I was kind of hoping it would be under budget. -It gives us something to think about. | 0:14:49 | 0:14:52 | |
It makes you wonder what the rest of the day is going to be like, | 0:14:52 | 0:14:55 | |
-though. -Yeah. See what the other properties are like. | 0:14:55 | 0:14:58 | |
-Yeah. -Yeah. -I wish I could turn the three to a zero. | 0:14:58 | 0:15:00 | |
Yeah! | 0:15:00 | 0:15:02 | |
Let's hope property number two can get things back on track, | 0:15:02 | 0:15:05 | |
for Rebecca's sake, at least. | 0:15:05 | 0:15:07 | |
For the second property, | 0:15:10 | 0:15:11 | |
the family is travelling just 12 miles south-west to view a house | 0:15:11 | 0:15:15 | |
right on the doorstep of what is the new trendy spot | 0:15:15 | 0:15:18 | |
on the Gold Coast, Pimpama. | 0:15:18 | 0:15:21 | |
The modern three-bedroom is brand spanking new, | 0:15:21 | 0:15:24 | |
but will it be to the Ellis Waughs' taste? | 0:15:24 | 0:15:26 | |
Wow! | 0:15:26 | 0:15:28 | |
Judging from the "oohs" and "ahs", it seems like it is. | 0:15:28 | 0:15:31 | |
-This is a good area, isn't it? -Yeah. Big space. | 0:15:31 | 0:15:34 | |
And the positive family vibe continues into the open-plan living space. | 0:15:34 | 0:15:39 | |
I like this kitchen. I think this would be perfect for us, really. | 0:15:39 | 0:15:42 | |
The amount of meals we cook, and we do a lot of family meals and the | 0:15:42 | 0:15:45 | |
children help with the cooking, so practical is definitely the key. | 0:15:45 | 0:15:48 | |
-Whoa! -The wrestling over bedroom choices continues in property two. | 0:15:48 | 0:15:53 | |
-I think this will be the adults' bedroom. -Yeah. -Yeah, probably. | 0:15:53 | 0:15:55 | |
It's very big. | 0:15:55 | 0:15:57 | |
Ah, this is nice. | 0:15:58 | 0:16:00 | |
It should just be for you adults. | 0:16:00 | 0:16:02 | |
-Oh, thanks, pet. -And then sometimes me. | 0:16:02 | 0:16:05 | |
-Whoa! -Wow! | 0:16:05 | 0:16:07 | |
But the next room could be up for grabs for anyone. | 0:16:07 | 0:16:11 | |
-It could be another bedroom, depending on how many bedrooms there is. -Yeah, definitely. | 0:16:11 | 0:16:14 | |
It could be a guest room for when people visit from the UK. | 0:16:14 | 0:16:17 | |
While Ethan and Adam take time out, | 0:16:17 | 0:16:19 | |
Mary wants to make sure there's no better bedroom down the corridor. | 0:16:19 | 0:16:23 | |
Wow. This is definitely Sarah's room. | 0:16:23 | 0:16:25 | |
-It's nice. -It's a nice room, isn't it? | 0:16:25 | 0:16:27 | |
-It's a nice size. -Yeah. | 0:16:27 | 0:16:30 | |
Finally, just the outside to check out. | 0:16:30 | 0:16:33 | |
OK, so what's outside? | 0:16:33 | 0:16:35 | |
-This is nice. -It's nice and neat and tidy and low-maintenance, isn't it? | 0:16:35 | 0:16:38 | |
-Yeah, definitely. -Yeah. | 0:16:38 | 0:16:39 | |
They have adored this property, but can they afford it? | 0:16:39 | 0:16:43 | |
So how much do we think it is going to be? | 0:16:43 | 0:16:45 | |
275. | 0:16:45 | 0:16:47 | |
Maybe a little bit more, I'd say. | 0:16:47 | 0:16:49 | |
-285. -Yeah. | 0:16:49 | 0:16:51 | |
Yeah? Shall we find out? | 0:16:51 | 0:16:53 | |
Yeah. | 0:16:53 | 0:16:54 | |
Remember, their budget is £250,000. | 0:16:54 | 0:16:57 | |
-Ah! -Well done, Kylie! | 0:17:02 | 0:17:04 | |
But that's good... | 0:17:06 | 0:17:08 | |
Despite it being over by £22,000, | 0:17:08 | 0:17:11 | |
they are delighted it's less than they feared it would be. | 0:17:11 | 0:17:14 | |
-It's just perfect. -We wouldn't have to change anything at all. -No. | 0:17:14 | 0:17:17 | |
We could just move in and live. | 0:17:17 | 0:17:19 | |
OK. Sounds good. | 0:17:19 | 0:17:20 | |
-Yeah? -Yeah. -Shall we have a look at the next property? | 0:17:20 | 0:17:24 | |
-Come on, then. -Yeah! | 0:17:24 | 0:17:25 | |
For the final stop, | 0:17:25 | 0:17:27 | |
we found what we think could be the family's dream home. | 0:17:27 | 0:17:31 | |
It's only 40 minutes away, right on the Gold Coastline. | 0:17:31 | 0:17:34 | |
A settled, popular area - and the reasons? | 0:17:34 | 0:17:37 | |
The relaxed lifestyle, | 0:17:37 | 0:17:39 | |
world-renowned beaches and good schools and hospitals | 0:17:39 | 0:17:43 | |
all on the doorstep. | 0:17:43 | 0:17:44 | |
So, is this older, | 0:17:44 | 0:17:46 | |
spacious house somewhere the Ellis Waughs could see themselves | 0:17:46 | 0:17:49 | |
putting down long-term roots? | 0:17:49 | 0:17:51 | |
It should be called the Wow House. | 0:17:51 | 0:17:53 | |
The Wow House! | 0:17:53 | 0:17:55 | |
-This looks like it's got lots of character, doesn't it? -Yeah. | 0:17:56 | 0:17:59 | |
It's a bit more quirky, | 0:17:59 | 0:18:00 | |
a bit more what we were kind of looking for when we kind of imagined | 0:18:00 | 0:18:04 | |
-moving over here. -Yeah. -Before they get inside, | 0:18:04 | 0:18:06 | |
the eagle-eyed children spot something rather special. | 0:18:06 | 0:18:09 | |
This place is brilliant. | 0:18:11 | 0:18:13 | |
-It's lovely. -This is fantastic, isn't it, having a pool? | 0:18:13 | 0:18:17 | |
I think I'd use the pool quite often. | 0:18:17 | 0:18:19 | |
-I think you would too. -Yeah. | 0:18:19 | 0:18:20 | |
-The whole family would enjoy the pool, wouldn't we? -Yeah. -We could all have fun in here. | 0:18:20 | 0:18:24 | |
Let's see if the wow factor continues inside. | 0:18:24 | 0:18:28 | |
-Whoa! -It looks like it does. | 0:18:28 | 0:18:30 | |
-Wow. -This is massive. | 0:18:30 | 0:18:32 | |
It would be beautiful to chill here on a summer's evening, wouldn't it? | 0:18:32 | 0:18:35 | |
-Yeah. -Really nice. | 0:18:35 | 0:18:37 | |
It would be amazing. | 0:18:37 | 0:18:39 | |
And the big family kitchen impresses too. | 0:18:39 | 0:18:42 | |
-It's a bigger kitchen than the other properties, isn't it? -Yeah. | 0:18:42 | 0:18:46 | |
Will the bedrooms be to their liking this time round? | 0:18:46 | 0:18:48 | |
First, the main one. | 0:18:48 | 0:18:50 | |
It's a nice bedroom, isn't it? | 0:18:50 | 0:18:52 | |
-Yeah. -Yeah. -Let's see what's in this door. | 0:18:52 | 0:18:55 | |
-Wow! -En suite. | 0:18:55 | 0:18:57 | |
This should be my bedroom. | 0:19:00 | 0:19:01 | |
I think it should be mine if we take away the heart-shaped pillows. | 0:19:01 | 0:19:04 | |
Uh-oh, they all love it! | 0:19:04 | 0:19:07 | |
Let the bargaining begin. | 0:19:07 | 0:19:08 | |
You can have the last room. | 0:19:10 | 0:19:12 | |
That's what I was about to say, I think this is more suited for you. | 0:19:12 | 0:19:15 | |
I'll have the other one. | 0:19:15 | 0:19:17 | |
Time to venture into the garden. | 0:19:17 | 0:19:19 | |
This belongs to the house? | 0:19:19 | 0:19:21 | |
-Yeah. -I think it just looks fantastic. | 0:19:21 | 0:19:24 | |
But these big properties tend to come with a price tag to match. | 0:19:24 | 0:19:28 | |
The Ellis Waughs know it must be over budget. | 0:19:28 | 0:19:31 | |
-So what do you think of this one, Kylie? -I think it's just amazing. | 0:19:31 | 0:19:34 | |
I think it's definitely like a dream home. | 0:19:34 | 0:19:36 | |
It's just scary to think of how much it's going to be. | 0:19:36 | 0:19:39 | |
It is. What do you reckon, Kylie? | 0:19:39 | 0:19:41 | |
I reckon, like, 395,000, yeah. | 0:19:41 | 0:19:45 | |
Yeah? I think it's going to be up there somewhere. | 0:19:45 | 0:19:48 | |
Yeah, yeah. | 0:19:48 | 0:19:50 | |
They have a budget of £250,000. | 0:19:50 | 0:19:53 | |
Over by a whopping £141,000. | 0:20:01 | 0:20:05 | |
I think we knew straight away from seeing the place that it was going | 0:20:05 | 0:20:08 | |
to be over budget, but it is a bit of a shame because it is such an | 0:20:08 | 0:20:12 | |
-amazing house, isn't it? -Yeah. | 0:20:12 | 0:20:15 | |
Their day exploring Gold Coast properties has given Rebecca | 0:20:16 | 0:20:19 | |
and Kylie an insight into what their money might buy in Australia. | 0:20:19 | 0:20:24 | |
House number one they liked very much and ticked all the boxes | 0:20:24 | 0:20:27 | |
and was just slightly over budget, | 0:20:27 | 0:20:29 | |
but the outside space proved disappointing, | 0:20:29 | 0:20:32 | |
being too small for their energetic children. | 0:20:32 | 0:20:35 | |
The second home they loved. | 0:20:35 | 0:20:37 | |
Modern, spacious and they could imagine themselves living there and, | 0:20:37 | 0:20:41 | |
while over budget, Rebecca and Kylie felt it was possibly within reach. | 0:20:41 | 0:20:45 | |
The third house they adored. | 0:20:46 | 0:20:48 | |
They could imagine waking up to kookaburras singing in the huge | 0:20:48 | 0:20:52 | |
garden, but the price was well and truly over their budget and the | 0:20:52 | 0:20:56 | |
family quickly accepted it would take a lot more than their available | 0:20:56 | 0:20:59 | |
Aussie nest egg to buy something like this. | 0:20:59 | 0:21:02 | |
So just taking houses into the equation, where would home be, | 0:21:02 | 0:21:06 | |
UK or Australia? | 0:21:06 | 0:21:09 | |
After a wonderful property day, it's time to vote. | 0:21:09 | 0:21:11 | |
-SIMULTANEOUSLY: -Australia! -Undecided! | 0:21:17 | 0:21:20 | |
Even though the properties were slightly over budget, the first few, | 0:21:21 | 0:21:26 | |
the first two, I think it is doable. | 0:21:26 | 0:21:28 | |
-Yeah. -And they were just beautiful. | 0:21:28 | 0:21:30 | |
Why did you vote undecided? | 0:21:30 | 0:21:31 | |
Because the houses here were really, really nice, | 0:21:31 | 0:21:35 | |
but they were way over budget and we have a really nice house at home. | 0:21:35 | 0:21:39 | |
I think we could definitely end up living here. | 0:21:39 | 0:21:43 | |
Despite some members of the family sitting on the fence, | 0:21:47 | 0:21:50 | |
Kylie's vote for Oz means Rebecca's crusade is off to a positive start, | 0:21:50 | 0:21:55 | |
but they will both have to secure jobs and the right salaries if the | 0:21:55 | 0:21:59 | |
move down under is to happen. | 0:21:59 | 0:22:01 | |
Back in the UK, | 0:22:01 | 0:22:02 | |
Rebecca is a social care manager specialising in support for families | 0:22:02 | 0:22:06 | |
with autism. | 0:22:06 | 0:22:07 | |
Do you want to put your coat down? | 0:22:07 | 0:22:09 | |
The purpose of my service is to offer respite to families where | 0:22:09 | 0:22:14 | |
children from the age of four to 18 are living at home with parents, | 0:22:14 | 0:22:17 | |
carers or foster carers. | 0:22:17 | 0:22:19 | |
She's passionate about her job. | 0:22:19 | 0:22:20 | |
I love working with the children. | 0:22:22 | 0:22:23 | |
I love communicating with the families. | 0:22:23 | 0:22:26 | |
The staff team that I've got at the minute are fantastic. | 0:22:26 | 0:22:28 | |
She wants to carry on with this sort of work if she were to move to | 0:22:28 | 0:22:32 | |
-Australia. -I would love to be able to take the skills and the knowledge | 0:22:32 | 0:22:35 | |
that I've learnt about autism in the UK and work helping families and | 0:22:35 | 0:22:39 | |
children in Australia. | 0:22:39 | 0:22:41 | |
Having also worked for the North East Autistic Society, | 0:22:41 | 0:22:44 | |
Kylie is now in her final year of teacher-training for children | 0:22:44 | 0:22:47 | |
with special needs. | 0:22:47 | 0:22:49 | |
I think teaching is really rewarding, | 0:22:49 | 0:22:51 | |
especially when you kind of get some of the students who have really | 0:22:51 | 0:22:54 | |
struggled and you kind of help them to achieve something that may not | 0:22:54 | 0:22:58 | |
have always been possible. | 0:22:58 | 0:23:00 | |
She's a bit disillusioned with the UK education system. | 0:23:00 | 0:23:04 | |
I feel that the education system in the UK is very assessment driven. | 0:23:04 | 0:23:09 | |
I'm hoping that by going to Australia they might look at that | 0:23:09 | 0:23:13 | |
a bit differently, because I find over here it doesn't always work | 0:23:13 | 0:23:16 | |
well for all the students. | 0:23:16 | 0:23:18 | |
But she does have one big worry when it comes to jobs. | 0:23:18 | 0:23:22 | |
I've worked hard to get to where I am now. | 0:23:22 | 0:23:25 | |
If I do have to do some training again | 0:23:25 | 0:23:28 | |
obviously that wouldn't be a major issue, | 0:23:28 | 0:23:30 | |
but if I did have to go and start from the beginning again, | 0:23:30 | 0:23:33 | |
that would be quite scary. | 0:23:33 | 0:23:35 | |
First up, Rebecca visits a group working with autistic children. | 0:23:37 | 0:23:41 | |
Expat Lauren gives her a quick tour. | 0:23:41 | 0:23:43 | |
This organisation has nine centres across Queensland with over 200 | 0:23:43 | 0:23:47 | |
families on its books, | 0:23:47 | 0:23:49 | |
the largest organisation of its kind in Australia. | 0:23:49 | 0:23:52 | |
She's in the right place, but is there work for her? | 0:23:52 | 0:23:55 | |
I can see that your skills actually transfer to an advanced diploma in | 0:23:55 | 0:23:59 | |
education and care, which is fantastic. | 0:23:59 | 0:24:02 | |
So that is something that we would look for in staff here when we are | 0:24:02 | 0:24:06 | |
-hiring. -If I was able to get a role within your organisation, | 0:24:06 | 0:24:09 | |
what would I potentially earn? | 0:24:09 | 0:24:11 | |
Salary would range from about £29,000 and that would be | 0:24:11 | 0:24:16 | |
for a room leader position, and the other option would be £39,000 and | 0:24:16 | 0:24:21 | |
that's for a service manager role. | 0:24:21 | 0:24:23 | |
£39,000 is £3,000 more than she currently earns in the UK. | 0:24:23 | 0:24:28 | |
Could she be eligible? | 0:24:28 | 0:24:29 | |
So the big question, could I potentially work at your organisation? | 0:24:29 | 0:24:32 | |
Yes, absolutely. | 0:24:32 | 0:24:34 | |
With your qualifications and experience you would definitely be | 0:24:34 | 0:24:36 | |
suitable for a service manager position. | 0:24:36 | 0:24:38 | |
I hope that's been really helpful for you. | 0:24:38 | 0:24:40 | |
It's been really helpful. | 0:24:40 | 0:24:41 | |
Really good. Thank you for your time. It's been fantastic to hear. | 0:24:41 | 0:24:44 | |
Positive news for Rebecca. | 0:24:44 | 0:24:46 | |
I wonder how Kylie is getting on. | 0:24:46 | 0:24:48 | |
She's visiting Glenleighden School, | 0:24:48 | 0:24:50 | |
a private school specialising in children with special needs. | 0:24:50 | 0:24:54 | |
Hello, Kylie, so lovely to meet you. | 0:24:54 | 0:24:56 | |
She meets principal Debbie Creed. | 0:24:56 | 0:24:58 | |
First up, Kylie gets a front-row view. | 0:25:00 | 0:25:03 | |
She's impressed. | 0:25:04 | 0:25:06 | |
Next, it's a work-out in the school gym, | 0:25:06 | 0:25:08 | |
which, delightfully, is outside in the sun. | 0:25:08 | 0:25:11 | |
So what would Kylie have to do to get a job here? | 0:25:13 | 0:25:15 | |
Firstly, you must get your Postgraduate Certificate | 0:25:16 | 0:25:19 | |
of Education, and finally, we cannot hire anyone in Queensland | 0:25:19 | 0:25:24 | |
as a teacher unless they are | 0:25:24 | 0:25:26 | |
registered with the Queensland College of Teachers. | 0:25:26 | 0:25:29 | |
So if I was to work in your school, what could I potentially earn? | 0:25:29 | 0:25:32 | |
Your starting salary as an entry-level teacher | 0:25:32 | 0:25:35 | |
would be around £44,000. | 0:25:35 | 0:25:39 | |
Then, within about ten years you have the potential to earn | 0:25:39 | 0:25:42 | |
around £58,000. | 0:25:42 | 0:25:44 | |
Wow. | 0:25:44 | 0:25:46 | |
So with the skills that I have, | 0:25:46 | 0:25:47 | |
do you think I could possibly get a job either in your school | 0:25:47 | 0:25:50 | |
-or within Australia? -Absolutely. | 0:25:50 | 0:25:52 | |
Once you finish that Postgraduate Certificate of Education we would | 0:25:52 | 0:25:55 | |
love for you to send us your resume. | 0:25:55 | 0:25:57 | |
-Fantastic. -It's been a pleasure. | 0:25:57 | 0:25:59 | |
-Thank you. -Time to compare notes. | 0:25:59 | 0:26:02 | |
Rebecca and Kylie catch up on how the day went. | 0:26:02 | 0:26:04 | |
So how has your day gone? | 0:26:07 | 0:26:09 | |
Really well. Really good. | 0:26:09 | 0:26:11 | |
I'm happy about the information I got, | 0:26:11 | 0:26:13 | |
to hear that my skills are transferable and a similar job role. | 0:26:13 | 0:26:16 | |
And the salary was actually better than at home. | 0:26:17 | 0:26:20 | |
It was £39,000. | 0:26:20 | 0:26:23 | |
Yes, so really positive. | 0:26:23 | 0:26:26 | |
-How was yours? -Really good as well. | 0:26:26 | 0:26:28 | |
-Yeah? -Yeah. | 0:26:28 | 0:26:29 | |
The school was fantastic. | 0:26:29 | 0:26:31 | |
-Was it? -Yes. | 0:26:31 | 0:26:33 | |
My qualifications are good enough, as long as I've got my PGCE. | 0:26:33 | 0:26:38 | |
The starting salary is 44,000! | 0:26:38 | 0:26:41 | |
Oh, wow! | 0:26:41 | 0:26:43 | |
-Pounds? -Yes. | 0:26:43 | 0:26:45 | |
-That's fantastic. -With the potential over ten years to go up to £58,000. | 0:26:45 | 0:26:51 | |
That's really good, isn't it? | 0:26:51 | 0:26:52 | |
Yes. | 0:26:52 | 0:26:54 | |
As the sun sets on the work day, just one last thing to do. | 0:26:54 | 0:26:58 | |
After a really informative work day it's now time to vote. | 0:26:58 | 0:27:02 | |
-Australia. -Australia. | 0:27:07 | 0:27:09 | |
I chose Australia. | 0:27:11 | 0:27:13 | |
I just think the opportunities over here are fantastic. | 0:27:13 | 0:27:17 | |
The starting salaries were amazing. | 0:27:17 | 0:27:19 | |
So introducing you to Australia was a good idea and it's going well? | 0:27:19 | 0:27:22 | |
-Yes, really well. -Total relief! | 0:27:22 | 0:27:25 | |
-So it's been a really good day? -Yes. Definitely. | 0:27:28 | 0:27:31 | |
-It's been fab, hasn't it? -Yes. | 0:27:31 | 0:27:33 | |
Halfway through the week and it's going pretty well. | 0:27:37 | 0:27:40 | |
Property and work options were very positive for both Rebecca and Kylie, | 0:27:40 | 0:27:45 | |
much more so than anticipated. | 0:27:45 | 0:27:47 | |
But the hard bits of the week are still to come. | 0:27:47 | 0:27:51 | |
Could the family afford this lifestyle? | 0:27:51 | 0:27:54 | |
And the friends and family messages will be hard to hear, | 0:27:54 | 0:27:57 | |
especially for the children. | 0:27:57 | 0:27:59 | |
But as this family is all about the team, | 0:27:59 | 0:28:02 | |
first there is a day out with the mums, enjoying the great outdoor | 0:28:02 | 0:28:06 | |
lifestyle they've all been promised. | 0:28:06 | 0:28:08 | |
The family's day out begins with some paddleboarding. | 0:28:10 | 0:28:13 | |
Time to get kitted out and all pumped up. | 0:28:13 | 0:28:16 | |
Got that rhythm, brother. | 0:28:18 | 0:28:20 | |
It certainly makes a splash with the children. | 0:28:20 | 0:28:23 | |
I've enjoyed the paddleboarding. | 0:28:25 | 0:28:27 | |
That was really good. | 0:28:27 | 0:28:29 | |
Even though I fell off a few times! | 0:28:29 | 0:28:31 | |
This week has been very entertaining. | 0:28:32 | 0:28:34 | |
I've really enjoyed being in Australia. | 0:28:34 | 0:28:37 | |
It's Kylie's first time in Australia and she is liking what she sees. | 0:28:40 | 0:28:45 | |
The paddleboarding was just amazing. | 0:28:45 | 0:28:46 | |
We just seemed to have loads of fun. | 0:28:46 | 0:28:48 | |
It was really relaxing just being on the water. | 0:28:48 | 0:28:51 | |
And for Rebecca, it just makes her more determined than ever to move. | 0:28:51 | 0:28:55 | |
This week's confirmed for me that moving to Australia would be a | 0:28:55 | 0:28:59 | |
fantastic opportunity for Kylie, myself and the children. | 0:28:59 | 0:29:02 | |
If they all chose Australia it would just be absolutely fantastic. | 0:29:02 | 0:29:06 | |
It really would be a weight lifted off my shoulder. | 0:29:06 | 0:29:08 | |
Time to feed the fish. | 0:29:08 | 0:29:10 | |
This is an old Aboriginal trick. | 0:29:10 | 0:29:12 | |
There's about 500 fish around us at the moment. | 0:29:12 | 0:29:15 | |
See, now you are fish whisperers! | 0:29:21 | 0:29:23 | |
You're going to have to come to Australia now. | 0:29:23 | 0:29:25 | |
But over lunch the children express their concerns for the first time | 0:29:27 | 0:29:31 | |
-in the week. -So are you enjoying Australia? | 0:29:31 | 0:29:34 | |
-Yes? -I'm still missing my friends. | 0:29:34 | 0:29:37 | |
You are still missing your friends? | 0:29:37 | 0:29:39 | |
Could you imagine living here? | 0:29:39 | 0:29:40 | |
-No. -No? | 0:29:40 | 0:29:42 | |
It's been really difficult because I've been missing Dad and friends | 0:29:42 | 0:29:46 | |
and family and all the rest, | 0:29:46 | 0:29:48 | |
and it's a different time and opposite day and I think you are | 0:29:48 | 0:29:52 | |
that far away from them, it makes us a bit sad. | 0:29:52 | 0:29:56 | |
He's only nine and he's quite a sensitive little soul and I don't want him | 0:29:56 | 0:29:59 | |
to feel he can't share it because everybody else is going the other way. | 0:29:59 | 0:30:02 | |
So we're just going to have to make sure we're being quite sensitive | 0:30:02 | 0:30:05 | |
to his feelings and have a good few open chats. | 0:30:05 | 0:30:09 | |
It's obvious the life-changing decision they are going to make | 0:30:09 | 0:30:12 | |
is uppermost in their minds. | 0:30:12 | 0:30:15 | |
Moving over away from the family would be quite upsetting. | 0:30:15 | 0:30:18 | |
Not being able to see them as much. | 0:30:18 | 0:30:20 | |
I know my mum, she doesn't want to miss out on my life. | 0:30:20 | 0:30:23 | |
It is a tough decision for Kylie and that is a big consideration. | 0:30:23 | 0:30:26 | |
The last few days, obviously, | 0:30:26 | 0:30:27 | |
we can communicate but I don't know whether that would be enough. | 0:30:27 | 0:30:32 | |
And of course they have to find out if they can afford it. | 0:30:32 | 0:30:36 | |
I am a little bit worried about the reality check but we had quite good | 0:30:36 | 0:30:40 | |
news on the work day so I'm hoping that things will even out. | 0:30:40 | 0:30:43 | |
The bottom line is that Rebecca's dream lies in the hands of her family. | 0:30:44 | 0:30:49 | |
I think a lot of us would quite like to move here but I don't know if we | 0:30:49 | 0:30:53 | |
would move if somebody didn't. | 0:30:53 | 0:30:56 | |
At the end of the week, if everybody votes for Australia it will be like | 0:30:56 | 0:30:59 | |
a weight off my shoulders to know that we can all follow our dreams | 0:30:59 | 0:31:02 | |
without anybody feeling like they were getting dragged to | 0:31:02 | 0:31:05 | |
the other side of the world. | 0:31:05 | 0:31:06 | |
Finally, the family are off to meet another Rebecca, | 0:31:06 | 0:31:09 | |
who can give them a personal perspective on how same-sex couples | 0:31:09 | 0:31:12 | |
are welcomed in Queensland. | 0:31:12 | 0:31:14 | |
We didn't expect the children to get negative comments off other children | 0:31:14 | 0:31:17 | |
about Mum having a girlfriend or two mums and things like that. | 0:31:17 | 0:31:21 | |
Would you expect anything like that to happen in Australia? | 0:31:21 | 0:31:23 | |
We've only ever had super, super-positive, no dramas at all. | 0:31:23 | 0:31:29 | |
My memories from 18 years back of Australians and the community | 0:31:29 | 0:31:33 | |
is that they were quite laid-back and quite accepting. | 0:31:33 | 0:31:36 | |
But the legislation here, | 0:31:36 | 0:31:39 | |
you don't have same-sex marriage and in the UK we are a bit ahead with | 0:31:39 | 0:31:43 | |
things like that. | 0:31:43 | 0:31:45 | |
Yeah, the only thing that's missing is that piece of paper and I think, | 0:31:45 | 0:31:48 | |
-you know, love is love. -Yeah. | 0:31:48 | 0:31:50 | |
Love makes a family, as they say. | 0:31:50 | 0:31:52 | |
So my memories of laid-back Aussies are true? | 0:31:53 | 0:31:56 | |
Yes. | 0:31:56 | 0:31:57 | |
Back on the beach, it's time to vote. | 0:31:58 | 0:32:01 | |
Will it be one team, one dream? | 0:32:01 | 0:32:04 | |
After an outstanding lifestyle day we need to vote. | 0:32:04 | 0:32:08 | |
ALL: Australia! | 0:32:12 | 0:32:14 | |
I voted Australia because you wouldn't be able to do this, | 0:32:16 | 0:32:20 | |
especially in winter, go out paddleboarding. | 0:32:20 | 0:32:25 | |
There are just more opportunities, I think. | 0:32:25 | 0:32:27 | |
-It's been amazing. -Yes. -It's been really fun. | 0:32:27 | 0:32:30 | |
-It's been great, hasn't it? -Yes. | 0:32:30 | 0:32:33 | |
With everyone voting for Australia, it looks like it's full steam ahead | 0:32:34 | 0:32:39 | |
for Rebecca's vision of a new life down under. | 0:32:39 | 0:32:42 | |
With minds put at ease, | 0:32:46 | 0:32:47 | |
Rebecca could be within touching distance of achieving the dream | 0:32:47 | 0:32:51 | |
lifestyle she has yearned for for nearly two decades. | 0:32:51 | 0:32:54 | |
But will the finances see her hopes dashed? | 0:32:54 | 0:32:58 | |
She and Kylie now need to work out if they could afford to live down under. | 0:32:58 | 0:33:03 | |
They think their house back in the UK is worth around £100,000. | 0:33:03 | 0:33:07 | |
To see if that's accurate, we sent round two local estate agents. | 0:33:07 | 0:33:10 | |
-We are going to see the house in the UK. -Yes. -Yeah? -No. | 0:33:10 | 0:33:15 | |
OK. Really nice first impression. | 0:33:22 | 0:33:25 | |
Nice high ceilings. Nice original features. | 0:33:25 | 0:33:27 | |
Obviously needs a bit of updating, which seems to have been started. | 0:33:27 | 0:33:30 | |
But a good first impression of the home. | 0:33:30 | 0:33:32 | |
Lovely wood-burning stove. | 0:33:32 | 0:33:34 | |
Double French doors through to the garden - a nice touch. | 0:33:35 | 0:33:38 | |
Great family space. | 0:33:38 | 0:33:40 | |
Ground-floor bathroom. It could probably do with a little updating. | 0:33:40 | 0:33:43 | |
-Definitely. -But certainly a nice feature to have for a family home. | 0:33:43 | 0:33:47 | |
What a great space. | 0:33:47 | 0:33:48 | |
It could do with internal updating to appeal to buyers. | 0:33:48 | 0:33:52 | |
Plenty of potential. | 0:33:52 | 0:33:54 | |
If the owners can maintain this standard of finish through the rest | 0:33:54 | 0:33:57 | |
of the house it's really going to add to the value. It's lovely. | 0:33:57 | 0:34:01 | |
A really nice-size main bedroom. | 0:34:01 | 0:34:03 | |
A very nice room. Really impressive. | 0:34:03 | 0:34:05 | |
An impressive five-bedroom family home. | 0:34:05 | 0:34:07 | |
In its current state I would value the house at 99,950. | 0:34:07 | 0:34:11 | |
If the vendor were to improve the bathroom and kitchen I would value | 0:34:11 | 0:34:15 | |
the property at 115,000. | 0:34:15 | 0:34:17 | |
I expect it to sell for around about £105,000. | 0:34:17 | 0:34:20 | |
I think they would be better off finishing off the property | 0:34:20 | 0:34:23 | |
throughout to the same standard as some of the rooms and then I would | 0:34:23 | 0:34:26 | |
expect them to achieve round about £125,000. | 0:34:26 | 0:34:28 | |
I think that's pretty spot-on to what we thought it would be. | 0:34:28 | 0:34:30 | |
-Yeah. -We've guessed that quite well. -Definitely. | 0:34:30 | 0:34:33 | |
I'm definitely better at the right value in English properties than Australian properties! | 0:34:33 | 0:34:38 | |
Well, I'm just good. | 0:34:38 | 0:34:39 | |
The valuations are encouraging but how would the cost of living in | 0:34:41 | 0:34:45 | |
Australia compare with that in the UK? | 0:34:45 | 0:34:47 | |
If the sums don't add up, they are going nowhere. | 0:34:47 | 0:34:50 | |
-It's scary, this bit. -Yes. | 0:34:50 | 0:34:51 | |
Let's see if we can afford to live here happily. | 0:34:51 | 0:34:54 | |
Shall we find out? | 0:34:54 | 0:34:56 | |
-Are we ready? -Yes. | 0:34:56 | 0:34:57 | |
We've prepared a comparison of expenses starting with the grocery shop. | 0:34:59 | 0:35:03 | |
Semi-skimmed milk - 99p in the UK... | 0:35:03 | 0:35:06 | |
..compared to £1.21 in Australia. | 0:35:07 | 0:35:12 | |
It looks like the food shop in Australia is going to be | 0:35:12 | 0:35:15 | |
substantially more expensive than the food shop in the UK. | 0:35:15 | 0:35:18 | |
Looks like Rebecca could be right. | 0:35:18 | 0:35:21 | |
So a weekly shop in Australia | 0:35:21 | 0:35:25 | |
is going to be £151.56. | 0:35:25 | 0:35:29 | |
That's more than £60 extra a week on food alone. | 0:35:29 | 0:35:33 | |
That's a lot of money. | 0:35:33 | 0:35:34 | |
That's scary, how much more we'd be spending. | 0:35:34 | 0:35:37 | |
Every week. I'm quite worried about what else is to come. | 0:35:37 | 0:35:40 | |
-Yes. -Basing their figures on the second property they saw, | 0:35:40 | 0:35:44 | |
their mortgage wouldn't be much more than that in the UK. | 0:35:44 | 0:35:47 | |
Then, looking at the other big bills, | 0:35:47 | 0:35:49 | |
the outlook's brighter than anticipated. | 0:35:49 | 0:35:52 | |
£61.82 less a month. | 0:35:52 | 0:35:57 | |
That's promising. | 0:35:57 | 0:35:58 | |
And with them popping £500 a month into the Australia fund back home, | 0:35:58 | 0:36:02 | |
there is even more money to play with. | 0:36:02 | 0:36:04 | |
It's looking good. | 0:36:04 | 0:36:05 | |
So taking everything into consideration, | 0:36:07 | 0:36:10 | |
where does it leave the Ellis Waughs overall? | 0:36:10 | 0:36:13 | |
So in Australia we would be £2,192.82 per month | 0:36:13 | 0:36:21 | |
better off living in Australia than the UK. | 0:36:21 | 0:36:25 | |
That's just crazy. That's just absolutely... | 0:36:25 | 0:36:28 | |
So living the way we live in the UK that's how much more... | 0:36:28 | 0:36:31 | |
We could even look at a five-bedroom property rather than the four. | 0:36:31 | 0:36:36 | |
Yes. | 0:36:36 | 0:36:37 | |
-It's just amazing. -They don't know how each other is going to vote. | 0:36:37 | 0:36:40 | |
What do you think? | 0:36:40 | 0:36:42 | |
It's been an interesting reality day. It's time to vote. | 0:36:42 | 0:36:44 | |
-Australia. -Australia. | 0:36:49 | 0:36:51 | |
So I voted Australia because I think we'd be stupid not to consider | 0:36:52 | 0:36:57 | |
Australia after the results we've had today. | 0:36:57 | 0:36:59 | |
With financial fears put to bed, | 0:37:05 | 0:37:07 | |
Rebecca's chances of a better future in Australia are looking better than | 0:37:07 | 0:37:11 | |
ever. But there is still one final hurdle to overcome and it's the | 0:37:11 | 0:37:15 | |
biggest one - leaving family behind will be a tough call. | 0:37:15 | 0:37:19 | |
There is a much-loved mum and an adored hands-on dad being left behind. | 0:37:19 | 0:37:24 | |
Do you want to see your dad? Do you want to see it, Tim? | 0:37:24 | 0:37:26 | |
Are you sure? | 0:37:26 | 0:37:28 | |
Mary, do you want to see it? | 0:37:28 | 0:37:30 | |
Ethan has decided to sit this one out but the rest of the family | 0:37:30 | 0:37:33 | |
cuddle together to hear from loved ones back home. | 0:37:33 | 0:37:37 | |
Hi, kids, I hope you're having a great time. | 0:37:37 | 0:37:39 | |
Hello. | 0:37:39 | 0:37:41 | |
Hi, Kylie, hi, Rebecca, hi, kids. | 0:37:41 | 0:37:44 | |
Hello. | 0:37:44 | 0:37:46 | |
Hello. | 0:37:46 | 0:37:48 | |
Kylie seems to be herself now. She seems really settled. | 0:37:48 | 0:37:51 | |
They seem very happy together. | 0:37:51 | 0:37:54 | |
Rebecca's lovely. Very grounded, very sensible. | 0:37:54 | 0:37:57 | |
Quite opposite to Kylie. | 0:37:57 | 0:37:59 | |
They are very lively, very noisy, but they are great kids. | 0:37:59 | 0:38:04 | |
I've never experienced Australia as Rebecca has. | 0:38:04 | 0:38:06 | |
It seems to be... | 0:38:06 | 0:38:08 | |
..a better place for the children and I'm sure if they go over there | 0:38:09 | 0:38:13 | |
I would probably have to go too. | 0:38:13 | 0:38:14 | |
The kids are always there for Tempie and it's almost like one big family. | 0:38:18 | 0:38:22 | |
I think I will miss that a lot. | 0:38:22 | 0:38:24 | |
I will miss playing with them. | 0:38:24 | 0:38:26 | |
I'd miss them terribly, yes. | 0:38:28 | 0:38:30 | |
All the grandbairns seem to have moved away. | 0:38:30 | 0:38:33 | |
It is quite hard for my mum, | 0:38:33 | 0:38:35 | |
not having any of the grandbairns around her now. | 0:38:35 | 0:38:38 | |
Miss you all so much. | 0:38:40 | 0:38:42 | |
Totally jealous you didn't take us with you. | 0:38:42 | 0:38:43 | |
Well, me with you anyway. | 0:38:43 | 0:38:46 | |
Kylie, I would say go for it. | 0:38:46 | 0:38:48 | |
You get one go in life and you've got to live it so better to go, | 0:38:48 | 0:38:54 | |
and if it doesn't work out come back, than not go at all. | 0:38:54 | 0:38:57 | |
Well, kids, I hope you've had a wonderful time anyway and time will | 0:38:59 | 0:39:02 | |
tell where you will end up, and hopefully I'll end up there too. | 0:39:02 | 0:39:06 | |
You know that you guys mean the world to me but I think if you think | 0:39:06 | 0:39:11 | |
you will be happy over there, I think you should go for it. | 0:39:11 | 0:39:15 | |
I know it's a big decision for you and maybe it is going to be a | 0:39:17 | 0:39:21 | |
perfect opportunity but I would like you to stay at home. | 0:39:21 | 0:39:25 | |
It's OK. | 0:39:26 | 0:39:28 | |
And it sounded like your dad's following us. | 0:39:32 | 0:39:35 | |
Doesn't it? | 0:39:35 | 0:39:36 | |
I don't think we have a choice in that, do we? | 0:39:37 | 0:39:39 | |
I don't think we'll get rid of him that easy! | 0:39:39 | 0:39:42 | |
It's time for a group hug and some words of wisdom from young Mary. | 0:39:42 | 0:39:46 | |
Cheer up, Timmy. | 0:39:46 | 0:39:48 | |
-Timothy Ellis, pull yourself together. -Group hug! | 0:39:53 | 0:39:56 | |
-Team hug. -Team hug. | 0:39:56 | 0:39:58 | |
At the start of the trial week, | 0:40:00 | 0:40:02 | |
mum Rebecca arrived in Australia determined she could convince her | 0:40:02 | 0:40:06 | |
young family and partner Kylie that life would be better down under. | 0:40:06 | 0:40:12 | |
But being away from loved ones in the UK was always going to be difficult, | 0:40:12 | 0:40:17 | |
but no-one, even Rebecca, realised how hard this would hit them. | 0:40:17 | 0:40:22 | |
Now, as the family get ready to return, | 0:40:22 | 0:40:25 | |
the good news about property and jobs pale into insignificance if | 0:40:25 | 0:40:30 | |
there is no team, dad Gary or Kylie's mum to share it with. | 0:40:30 | 0:40:35 | |
So what would you do if it was your family? | 0:40:35 | 0:40:39 | |
Vote home or away? | 0:40:39 | 0:40:41 | |
Time to find out what the Ellis Waughs decide. | 0:40:41 | 0:40:45 | |
Rebecca still believes Australia is best for her active and blossoming family. | 0:40:48 | 0:40:53 | |
Really difficult to see Kylie upset. Really difficult. I knew she was | 0:40:53 | 0:40:57 | |
worrying about leaving family behind. | 0:40:57 | 0:41:00 | |
She has got a really big, close family. | 0:41:00 | 0:41:03 | |
So it is kind of a massive consideration for her. | 0:41:03 | 0:41:07 | |
But Kylie is torn between her two families. | 0:41:07 | 0:41:10 | |
Watching the friends and family videos was probably the hardest part | 0:41:10 | 0:41:14 | |
of the week. Listening to them saying how much they'd miss us all | 0:41:14 | 0:41:19 | |
was quite difficult, and seeing my grandma getting quite choked up | 0:41:19 | 0:41:23 | |
was quite upsetting. | 0:41:23 | 0:41:24 | |
I think she knows there would be no point making the move if she's just going to be pining for home, | 0:41:24 | 0:41:28 | |
because if she's not happy then there's no point. | 0:41:28 | 0:41:31 | |
The children want to keep all three loving parents happy, | 0:41:31 | 0:41:35 | |
leaving Rebecca full of doubts and fearful of what she's asking of them. | 0:41:35 | 0:41:40 | |
I think the final vote is really important because it's going to | 0:41:40 | 0:41:44 | |
affect our lives massively. | 0:41:44 | 0:41:45 | |
I don't really know now after watching the video | 0:41:45 | 0:41:49 | |
what I'm going to vote. | 0:41:49 | 0:41:51 | |
I do think we all have to vote that we want to | 0:41:51 | 0:41:53 | |
come, because if it's going to be too hard for even one of us I just don't | 0:41:53 | 0:41:58 | |
think it would work. | 0:41:58 | 0:41:59 | |
The light is going. It's time to vote. | 0:41:59 | 0:42:02 | |
At the end of an emotional trial week it's now time to vote. | 0:42:02 | 0:42:07 | |
Australia! | 0:42:15 | 0:42:16 | |
The opportunities out here are just absolutely phenomenal. | 0:42:18 | 0:42:23 | |
I mean, obviously, it's still quite upsetting | 0:42:23 | 0:42:25 | |
but I want to give it a go. | 0:42:25 | 0:42:27 | |
I think we'd be crazy not to try it. | 0:42:27 | 0:42:30 | |
It's OK to have one undecided because whatever we do we're doing it as a team. | 0:42:30 | 0:42:34 | |
Oldest to youngest. | 0:42:34 | 0:42:35 | |
-One, two, three. -ALL: Team! | 0:42:37 | 0:42:39 | |
We've had a good week, haven't we? | 0:42:40 | 0:42:43 | |
Feeling a bit emotional. | 0:42:43 | 0:42:44 | |
What an emotional roller-coaster, but in the end Rebecca got nearly all | 0:42:49 | 0:42:54 | |
her votes. | 0:42:54 | 0:42:56 | |
Now, it might take some gentle convincing to get Tim on board | 0:42:56 | 0:43:00 | |
but if dad Gary decides to move out to be with them | 0:43:00 | 0:43:03 | |
I reckon he'll soon come round. | 0:43:03 | 0:43:06 | |
However long that may take, | 0:43:06 | 0:43:07 | |
we wish this adorable family the best of luck | 0:43:07 | 0:43:11 | |
and, wherever they end up, a very bright and happy future. | 0:43:11 | 0:43:15 |