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A better work-life balance and outdoor lifestyle have led to | 0:00:02 | 0:00:05 | |
Stephen Parker's lifelong Australian dream. | 0:00:05 | 0:00:08 | |
I was born in Birmingham, | 0:00:08 | 0:00:10 | |
which is about as far from the ocean as you can be in the UK. | 0:00:10 | 0:00:14 | |
That was the one thing missing for me - being by the sea. | 0:00:14 | 0:00:18 | |
But Bulgarian-born wife Marta | 0:00:18 | 0:00:20 | |
knows every mile from home takes you further from those you love. | 0:00:20 | 0:00:25 | |
When Stephen mentioned to me about his dream, | 0:00:25 | 0:00:30 | |
my answer was no. | 0:00:30 | 0:00:32 | |
A trial week by the sea near Melbourne | 0:00:32 | 0:00:34 | |
gives them a chance to test the waters. | 0:00:34 | 0:00:37 | |
Look, look! | 0:00:37 | 0:00:39 | |
But will thoughts of loved ones back home mean the dream drifts away? | 0:00:39 | 0:00:42 | |
Or will it stay afloat down under? | 0:00:42 | 0:00:45 | |
It would be great if I can say, "I'm sure we're going to get our dream | 0:00:46 | 0:00:50 | |
"like that," but I'm just not convinced | 0:00:50 | 0:00:53 | |
that this will be the situation. | 0:00:53 | 0:00:56 | |
Australia's long been the most popular destination | 0:01:19 | 0:01:22 | |
for Brits emigrating abroad. | 0:01:22 | 0:01:24 | |
Boasting a buoyant economy and fabulous climate, | 0:01:24 | 0:01:27 | |
they're tempted by the promise of a better life down under. | 0:01:27 | 0:01:31 | |
But the reality of leaving behind everything and everyone can | 0:01:31 | 0:01:35 | |
sometimes turn that dream into a nightmare. | 0:01:35 | 0:01:38 | |
Landlocked, Brummie-born Stephen Parker is a most | 0:01:40 | 0:01:44 | |
unlikely surfer dude, but he's long had a dream of living in Oz, | 0:01:44 | 0:01:49 | |
and riding that perfect wave down under. | 0:01:49 | 0:01:52 | |
Bulgarian-born wife Marta, however, | 0:01:52 | 0:01:55 | |
is reading from a different script. | 0:01:55 | 0:01:57 | |
An aspiring actress, she's determined to stay in the UK, | 0:01:57 | 0:02:01 | |
close to where she's made a new life for her and her family. | 0:02:01 | 0:02:05 | |
Across a trial week in Australia, the couple will get to see where | 0:02:05 | 0:02:09 | |
they might live, the lifestyle they can afford, | 0:02:09 | 0:02:12 | |
and the jobs they could get if they emigrated. | 0:02:12 | 0:02:16 | |
Then, at the end, they'll reach their final decisions, | 0:02:16 | 0:02:20 | |
and vote on where their future lies. | 0:02:20 | 0:02:22 | |
After 24 hours in the air via Dubai and Sydney, | 0:02:24 | 0:02:27 | |
as the Parkers touchdown in Melbourne, | 0:02:27 | 0:02:30 | |
the distance from home is already sinking in. | 0:02:30 | 0:02:32 | |
The length of the journey definitely gives you a feel of how incredibly | 0:02:36 | 0:02:40 | |
far Australia is from the UK. | 0:02:40 | 0:02:42 | |
I think it would make it very difficult for my friends and family | 0:02:42 | 0:02:45 | |
to come and visit us, and that does bother me. | 0:02:45 | 0:02:47 | |
Despite the long journey, | 0:02:47 | 0:02:49 | |
Stephen's full of anticipation for the week ahead. | 0:02:49 | 0:02:53 | |
It's somewhere I've always wanted to travel to. | 0:02:53 | 0:02:55 | |
I'm hoping that we find out that Australia has the lifestyle, | 0:02:55 | 0:02:58 | |
and the finances add up as well. | 0:02:58 | 0:03:00 | |
Let's hope so, Stephen. | 0:03:00 | 0:03:02 | |
It still concerns me that this step might be too big for us, | 0:03:02 | 0:03:08 | |
or for me personally, | 0:03:08 | 0:03:10 | |
and Stephen's got some convincing to do. | 0:03:10 | 0:03:14 | |
He's got just seven days to convince Marta | 0:03:14 | 0:03:17 | |
their future lies in Australia. | 0:03:17 | 0:03:19 | |
Meet the Parkers. | 0:03:28 | 0:03:29 | |
Dad Stephen, Mum Marta, and baby William, who's one. | 0:03:29 | 0:03:34 | |
Stephen met Marta six years ago at a wedding | 0:03:34 | 0:03:36 | |
in her home country of Bulgaria, | 0:03:36 | 0:03:38 | |
where, at the reception, Marta took fate into her own hands. | 0:03:38 | 0:03:43 | |
Quite literally. | 0:03:43 | 0:03:45 | |
We were sat on the same table, but I didn't like my place, | 0:03:45 | 0:03:49 | |
so I decided to swap our place cards over. | 0:03:49 | 0:03:54 | |
We hit it off pretty much straight away. | 0:03:54 | 0:03:57 | |
It was like on the movies, really, | 0:03:57 | 0:04:00 | |
when people meet, | 0:04:00 | 0:04:02 | |
and immediately fall in love with each other. | 0:04:02 | 0:04:06 | |
We kept in touch. | 0:04:06 | 0:04:08 | |
I came to visit the UK. | 0:04:08 | 0:04:11 | |
He went to visit me in Bulgaria. | 0:04:11 | 0:04:14 | |
Things moved along, and a few years later, she moved over to the UK | 0:04:14 | 0:04:18 | |
to be with me. | 0:04:18 | 0:04:20 | |
And Marta wasn't just leaving the country of her birth, | 0:04:21 | 0:04:24 | |
but also a successful career. | 0:04:24 | 0:04:27 | |
I did lots of theatre, movies - Bulgarian, international. | 0:04:27 | 0:04:33 | |
My father was a famous actor in Bulgaria, | 0:04:33 | 0:04:37 | |
about 40, 50 years ago, and my mum was an actress as well. | 0:04:37 | 0:04:42 | |
But with her father having passed away, | 0:04:44 | 0:04:46 | |
at first it was difficult for Marta to leave her much-loved mum. | 0:04:46 | 0:04:50 | |
We were very close. | 0:04:51 | 0:04:53 | |
It was difficult when I left. | 0:04:53 | 0:04:55 | |
I was missing my friends, my culture. | 0:04:55 | 0:04:58 | |
I had a little bit of difficulties with language, | 0:04:58 | 0:05:04 | |
finding work. | 0:05:04 | 0:05:06 | |
The couple married in 2014, and although it's taken a while, | 0:05:06 | 0:05:10 | |
they are now happily settled in the UK with baby William. | 0:05:10 | 0:05:14 | |
However, Stephen wants to give it all up, | 0:05:14 | 0:05:17 | |
and is asking Marta to make yet another move. | 0:05:17 | 0:05:21 | |
It's always been a dream of mine to move to Australia. | 0:05:21 | 0:05:24 | |
I was...I was born in Birmingham, | 0:05:24 | 0:05:26 | |
which is about as far from the ocean as you can be in the UK. | 0:05:26 | 0:05:30 | |
Whilst I had a really great upbringing, | 0:05:30 | 0:05:32 | |
that was the one thing missing for me, was being by the sea. | 0:05:32 | 0:05:35 | |
As soon as he was old enough, | 0:05:35 | 0:05:37 | |
Stephen moved to the coast and took up surfing. | 0:05:37 | 0:05:40 | |
But since moving to London for his career, | 0:05:40 | 0:05:43 | |
the opportunities to ride the waves have dwindled. | 0:05:43 | 0:05:46 | |
It's actually an eight or nine hour round-trip to get to a good beach | 0:05:47 | 0:05:51 | |
where you can surf. | 0:05:51 | 0:05:53 | |
And that's something that I believe Australia can offer over the UK, | 0:05:53 | 0:05:58 | |
that you can have that lifestyle. | 0:05:58 | 0:06:00 | |
Just one problem, Stephen - Marta, having already made a move | 0:06:00 | 0:06:04 | |
away from her family, had other ideas. | 0:06:04 | 0:06:07 | |
When Stephen mentioned to me about his dream, living in Australia, | 0:06:07 | 0:06:13 | |
my answer was no. | 0:06:13 | 0:06:17 | |
So with a dream put to one side, everyday life continued, | 0:06:17 | 0:06:21 | |
but, for Stephen, things changed when he began to miss out on | 0:06:21 | 0:06:25 | |
spending time with his new family. | 0:06:25 | 0:06:27 | |
Stephen wasn't able to spend a lot of time with us, | 0:06:28 | 0:06:34 | |
because he was very busy at work. | 0:06:34 | 0:06:37 | |
I was working in a very high-pressured job in London. | 0:06:37 | 0:06:42 | |
And I just wasn't around enough to support Marta when William was born, | 0:06:42 | 0:06:47 | |
and that really, really affected me. | 0:06:47 | 0:06:49 | |
Stephen decided to take a career break | 0:06:49 | 0:06:52 | |
and spend more time with the family. | 0:06:52 | 0:06:54 | |
To have that time with William in his first year has been the best | 0:06:54 | 0:06:57 | |
thing I've ever done. Having a baby has really made me re-evaluate my | 0:06:57 | 0:07:02 | |
life and think about what's important. | 0:07:02 | 0:07:04 | |
And further changes in family circumstances meant that Marta began | 0:07:04 | 0:07:09 | |
to have a change of heart when, sadly, her mother passed away. | 0:07:09 | 0:07:13 | |
Sadly, you know, a new chapter of our life has started without | 0:07:14 | 0:07:18 | |
Margarita and decided to take a career break last year, | 0:07:18 | 0:07:22 | |
the first thing Marta said to me was, | 0:07:22 | 0:07:24 | |
"Well, now's the best time to look at this if we're going to do it." | 0:07:24 | 0:07:29 | |
For Marta, however, it's not an easy decision. | 0:07:30 | 0:07:34 | |
She now feels settled with Stephen's family in the UK. | 0:07:34 | 0:07:38 | |
We're going to give it all up and go to Australia, | 0:07:38 | 0:07:43 | |
and start all over again. | 0:07:43 | 0:07:46 | |
Will we make it there? | 0:07:46 | 0:07:48 | |
Will it be good for us? | 0:07:48 | 0:07:50 | |
It might not be. | 0:07:52 | 0:07:53 | |
-Here we go. -Ooh! -Wow! | 0:07:53 | 0:07:56 | |
And Stephen's aware that taking William away from family | 0:07:56 | 0:08:00 | |
-will be difficult. -Cheers! -Cheers, guys! | 0:08:00 | 0:08:02 | |
I had a really close family and a really great upbringing, | 0:08:02 | 0:08:06 | |
and that's something that I think's really important | 0:08:06 | 0:08:10 | |
to how you develop as a person. | 0:08:10 | 0:08:12 | |
And so to take that away from him will be, | 0:08:12 | 0:08:15 | |
you know, a big decision to make. | 0:08:15 | 0:08:17 | |
He's pretty confident, though, that he'll be able to persuade Marta | 0:08:17 | 0:08:21 | |
it's a risk worth taking. | 0:08:21 | 0:08:23 | |
We love being outdoors and moving to Australia will be perfect | 0:08:23 | 0:08:26 | |
for all of that. I think when she sees the environment | 0:08:26 | 0:08:29 | |
and what it will be like, the house we can live in, | 0:08:29 | 0:08:32 | |
and what it will mean for William, | 0:08:32 | 0:08:34 | |
I think that will help convince her to give everything we've got up that | 0:08:34 | 0:08:39 | |
we have in the UK. | 0:08:39 | 0:08:41 | |
But it might not be as easy as you think, Stephen, | 0:08:41 | 0:08:44 | |
if the trial week doesn't convince Marta. | 0:08:44 | 0:08:47 | |
I need to be 100% sure that this is the right thing for us to do at the | 0:08:47 | 0:08:52 | |
moment. It would be great if I can say, "Yeah, I'm sure everything will | 0:08:52 | 0:08:58 | |
"be fine in Australia and we're going to get our dream life there," | 0:08:58 | 0:09:03 | |
but I'm just not convinced that this will be the situation. | 0:09:03 | 0:09:08 | |
For their trial week, the Parkers are staying in the quiet, friendly | 0:09:15 | 0:09:18 | |
Melbourne suburb of Seaford, 45 minutes from the city centre. | 0:09:18 | 0:09:24 | |
What will they make of their first taste of Aussie living? | 0:09:24 | 0:09:28 | |
-This is nice, isn't it? -Ooh. | 0:09:28 | 0:09:30 | |
I like that it's not too big, but feels spacious. | 0:09:31 | 0:09:36 | |
-Yeah. -Really nice and cosy kitchen. | 0:09:36 | 0:09:38 | |
I do like it. | 0:09:38 | 0:09:40 | |
Just what Stephen was hoping to hear. | 0:09:40 | 0:09:42 | |
Marta's already making some positive noises, | 0:09:43 | 0:09:47 | |
but it's not long before the reality sets in. | 0:09:47 | 0:09:50 | |
Yeah, I'm feeling excited | 0:09:52 | 0:09:55 | |
to find out about life in Australia, | 0:09:55 | 0:09:58 | |
but on the other hand I'm a little bit terrified. | 0:09:58 | 0:10:02 | |
Let's just take it one day at a time and try and work out what we need to | 0:10:02 | 0:10:06 | |
know and how we can make the best decision. | 0:10:06 | 0:10:10 | |
Back in the UK, the Parkers lived near Guildford in Surrey, | 0:10:18 | 0:10:21 | |
in a detached single-storey house, which, | 0:10:21 | 0:10:24 | |
after four years of hard slog, | 0:10:24 | 0:10:26 | |
is a place they're happy to call home. | 0:10:26 | 0:10:29 | |
The idea was that we would buy it and build around the plot. | 0:10:29 | 0:10:33 | |
It's lovely. I love it. We've got a bigger kitchen, | 0:10:33 | 0:10:37 | |
a second lounge. | 0:10:37 | 0:10:39 | |
We've got a great house, exactly as we like. | 0:10:39 | 0:10:43 | |
It would be really quite, quite difficult to sell it. | 0:10:43 | 0:10:46 | |
Emotionally, it will be difficult to part with it. | 0:10:46 | 0:10:50 | |
But if they do, they know exactly what they want | 0:10:50 | 0:10:53 | |
with their £500,000 budget. | 0:10:53 | 0:10:57 | |
Something detached with a little bit of outdoor space. | 0:10:57 | 0:11:00 | |
Big garden with lots of trees. | 0:11:00 | 0:11:02 | |
If we get over to Australia and we find that for our budget, | 0:11:02 | 0:11:05 | |
we can't get anything close to what we're living in | 0:11:05 | 0:11:08 | |
currently in the UK, | 0:11:08 | 0:11:10 | |
and we don't like the look of the neighbourhood, | 0:11:10 | 0:11:13 | |
and what we see, I think that's going to be a real stumbling block. | 0:11:13 | 0:11:16 | |
To give the Parkers an idea of what's available in Melbourne, | 0:11:19 | 0:11:22 | |
we'll show the couple two houses on budget and one which could be their | 0:11:22 | 0:11:26 | |
dream home. With baby William being looked after by a child minder, | 0:11:26 | 0:11:31 | |
his parents begin their search in Sandhurst, | 0:11:31 | 0:11:34 | |
a new development just 15 minutes inland from their rental property. | 0:11:34 | 0:11:39 | |
Built on an island with a golf course, | 0:11:39 | 0:11:41 | |
will this two-storey house come up to par? | 0:11:41 | 0:11:43 | |
OK, here we go. | 0:11:43 | 0:11:47 | |
It's a really nice entrance space. | 0:11:47 | 0:11:50 | |
The house promises much, but then disappoints. | 0:11:50 | 0:11:54 | |
I thought it was going to be bigger, | 0:11:54 | 0:11:57 | |
the living room, to this, | 0:11:57 | 0:11:59 | |
-because of the size of the hallway and everything. -Yeah. Yeah, yeah. | 0:11:59 | 0:12:01 | |
It feels just a bit darker than I'd like it to be. | 0:12:01 | 0:12:05 | |
-Maybe there's more space to come. -Hope so. | 0:12:05 | 0:12:09 | |
And, yes, they find it, but upstairs. | 0:12:09 | 0:12:12 | |
Oh, wow. | 0:12:12 | 0:12:15 | |
That was the room that we were missing downstairs. | 0:12:15 | 0:12:18 | |
Yeah, but it's not quite how I would choose it. | 0:12:18 | 0:12:20 | |
Probably a bit too modern for my personal taste. | 0:12:20 | 0:12:24 | |
It just doesn't have character, | 0:12:24 | 0:12:26 | |
I think that's the best way to describe it. | 0:12:26 | 0:12:29 | |
And the view isn't helping either. | 0:12:29 | 0:12:31 | |
I'm not impressed about the view. | 0:12:31 | 0:12:34 | |
I would like to see more trees. | 0:12:34 | 0:12:36 | |
And all I can see is houses and people playing golf. | 0:12:36 | 0:12:41 | |
-It's not ideal. -It's like when I cook at home sometimes, | 0:12:41 | 0:12:44 | |
it's got all the right ingredients, | 0:12:44 | 0:12:46 | |
but it just comes together and doesn't seem to taste that good. | 0:12:46 | 0:12:49 | |
-It's just... -Yeah, yeah. -Oh, dear. | 0:12:49 | 0:12:51 | |
And what about the main bedroom just beside the kitchen? | 0:12:51 | 0:12:54 | |
A good-sized room. | 0:12:59 | 0:13:01 | |
Not so sure about it being off the main entertaining area. | 0:13:01 | 0:13:03 | |
You're always going to be the last one going to bed, aren't you? | 0:13:03 | 0:13:07 | |
-That's for sure. -And while the en-suite lifts spirits... | 0:13:07 | 0:13:11 | |
Mmm, en-suite. | 0:13:11 | 0:13:13 | |
The shower's nice. It's really nice. | 0:13:13 | 0:13:15 | |
It's got good space and... | 0:13:15 | 0:13:16 | |
It's a nice feature. It's nice to have it. | 0:13:16 | 0:13:18 | |
-Yeah. -It's back downstairs to find baby William's room. | 0:13:18 | 0:13:22 | |
That's a bit better. | 0:13:23 | 0:13:25 | |
The problem is that he's going to be downstairs while we're upstairs. | 0:13:25 | 0:13:30 | |
-Yeah, not ideal. -No. | 0:13:30 | 0:13:32 | |
So will the outside brighten things up? | 0:13:32 | 0:13:36 | |
Oh, wow. | 0:13:36 | 0:13:39 | |
-A hot tub. -It's a bit strange, cos it's kind of like the | 0:13:39 | 0:13:41 | |
centrepiece of the whole garden, isn't it, really? | 0:13:41 | 0:13:44 | |
-Yeah, I can go without it, to be honest. -Yeah. | 0:13:44 | 0:13:47 | |
But, surely, they're impressed with being on an island? | 0:13:47 | 0:13:52 | |
It's just a bit...bare. | 0:13:52 | 0:13:55 | |
As well, there is nothing to stop Willie to jump in the water. | 0:13:55 | 0:13:59 | |
-It's not very safe. -So this property hasn't impressed, | 0:13:59 | 0:14:03 | |
but is it somewhere they can even afford? | 0:14:03 | 0:14:07 | |
So, what do you think? | 0:14:07 | 0:14:08 | |
The layout's not quite what we're after. | 0:14:08 | 0:14:11 | |
-I'm looking for something cosier... -Yeah. | 0:14:11 | 0:14:14 | |
-..and with a bit more character into it. -Mmm. | 0:14:16 | 0:14:18 | |
How much do you think it's worth? | 0:14:18 | 0:14:20 | |
I think this house is definitely way over our budget. | 0:14:20 | 0:14:23 | |
I would say £650,000. | 0:14:23 | 0:14:28 | |
I think around our budget of £500,000. | 0:14:28 | 0:14:32 | |
-Shall we have a look? -The Parkers have a budget of £500,000. | 0:14:32 | 0:14:37 | |
Oh, how wrong was I? | 0:14:41 | 0:14:44 | |
-I'm pleasantly surprised. -Yeah, I'm quite encouraged that we could find | 0:14:44 | 0:14:48 | |
something within our budget that would be quite...quite good for us. | 0:14:48 | 0:14:53 | |
So with house-hunting off to a tentative start, | 0:14:53 | 0:14:57 | |
let's hope property number two will be more to their taste. | 0:14:57 | 0:15:01 | |
Back near the rental home, in the small coastal suburb of Seaford, | 0:15:01 | 0:15:05 | |
with family friendly facilities and the beach | 0:15:05 | 0:15:08 | |
just a few minutes walk away, | 0:15:08 | 0:15:09 | |
could this four-bedroom house win both Stephen and Marta over? | 0:15:09 | 0:15:14 | |
It looks like more of a block than a house. | 0:15:15 | 0:15:20 | |
Oh, dear, and once again, | 0:15:20 | 0:15:22 | |
it's straight upstairs for the living quarters. | 0:15:22 | 0:15:25 | |
Ooh, that's nice. | 0:15:25 | 0:15:29 | |
I like it, yeah. | 0:15:29 | 0:15:30 | |
It feels a bit more inviting, doesn't it? | 0:15:30 | 0:15:32 | |
Yeah, it feels just cosier. It has this family feel to it. | 0:15:32 | 0:15:36 | |
There's lots of work space, which is really good. | 0:15:39 | 0:15:42 | |
-Yeah. -And also lots of storage. | 0:15:42 | 0:15:45 | |
So is the topsy-turvy layout getting their thumbs up? | 0:15:45 | 0:15:49 | |
-Next-door, the main bedroom. -Aw! | 0:15:49 | 0:15:51 | |
Yeah, this is more like the style I'm after. | 0:15:51 | 0:15:56 | |
I like seeing the sun through the tree out there. | 0:15:56 | 0:15:59 | |
It's a nice big TV. | 0:15:59 | 0:16:01 | |
But the smiles disappear when they see the bathroom. | 0:16:03 | 0:16:06 | |
Don't think I've ever seen a bath like that before. | 0:16:06 | 0:16:09 | |
Nor me, no. I'm not sure how I feel about it. | 0:16:09 | 0:16:14 | |
I'd probably have a regular sort of rectangular bath and a shower | 0:16:14 | 0:16:19 | |
-cubicle, nice and boring. -Yeah, I agree. | 0:16:19 | 0:16:22 | |
Well, the bedrooms are faring better in this house. | 0:16:22 | 0:16:26 | |
This can be William's room. | 0:16:26 | 0:16:28 | |
Yeah, nice big windows and good storage. | 0:16:28 | 0:16:31 | |
It's definitely closer to what we... What we're after. | 0:16:31 | 0:16:34 | |
-It's different, but it's got a bit of character and... -Yeah. -Yeah. | 0:16:34 | 0:16:38 | |
So far, so good, would you say? What about the outside? | 0:16:38 | 0:16:42 | |
-That's what you call a tree. -Beautiful tree. | 0:16:43 | 0:16:46 | |
It's very green. | 0:16:46 | 0:16:48 | |
Not much space for William to play, I don't think. | 0:16:48 | 0:16:51 | |
Yeah, it's not the ideal place for us. | 0:16:51 | 0:16:54 | |
It's not quite what I was hoping for or expecting in Australia. | 0:16:54 | 0:17:00 | |
So a bit of a disappointment with this house, | 0:17:00 | 0:17:03 | |
but they'll be even more disappointed if it's not within | 0:17:03 | 0:17:05 | |
their budget of £500,000. | 0:17:05 | 0:17:08 | |
So what do you think? | 0:17:09 | 0:17:11 | |
It's a difficult one, isn't it? | 0:17:11 | 0:17:14 | |
Because it's quite an unusual different sort of place. | 0:17:14 | 0:17:17 | |
But it's not right for us at the moment. | 0:17:17 | 0:17:20 | |
I think it's probably going to be around the budget, | 0:17:20 | 0:17:24 | |
maybe slightly less. | 0:17:24 | 0:17:25 | |
Maybe... | 0:17:25 | 0:17:28 | |
£460,000? | 0:17:28 | 0:17:30 | |
The couple have a budget of £500,000. | 0:17:30 | 0:17:34 | |
OK, we underestimated it a little bit. | 0:17:39 | 0:17:43 | |
I think there's a lot of potential here, | 0:17:43 | 0:17:45 | |
but it's unfortunately not just for us at this time... | 0:17:45 | 0:17:47 | |
This time of our lives. | 0:17:47 | 0:17:49 | |
Well, the house-hunting experience has been less than positive so far, | 0:17:50 | 0:17:54 | |
but we think we've found what could be the couple's dream home. | 0:17:54 | 0:17:59 | |
It's in the suburb of Mount Eliza. | 0:17:59 | 0:18:01 | |
Although further away from the city, | 0:18:01 | 0:18:03 | |
it's as close as you can be to the beach, which should be a huge pull. | 0:18:03 | 0:18:08 | |
Will this modern four-bedroom home impress Marta and Stephen? | 0:18:09 | 0:18:13 | |
That's more like it. | 0:18:19 | 0:18:21 | |
Definitely very cosy. | 0:18:21 | 0:18:23 | |
I would see myself sitting on the sofa and looking out of the window. | 0:18:23 | 0:18:29 | |
So a good start and it doesn't stop there. | 0:18:30 | 0:18:33 | |
-It's nice, isn't it? -It's nice. | 0:18:33 | 0:18:36 | |
Yeah, it's the best kitchen we've seen. | 0:18:36 | 0:18:38 | |
Yeah, definitely. It's big without being too big. | 0:18:38 | 0:18:44 | |
This one feels a lot more like a home - | 0:18:44 | 0:18:47 | |
as opposed to a holiday house... | 0:18:47 | 0:18:50 | |
-Beach house. -..or beach house, yeah. | 0:18:50 | 0:18:52 | |
So can the optimism continue into the main bedroom? | 0:18:52 | 0:18:56 | |
-It's a good space. -Yeah, very good space. | 0:18:57 | 0:19:01 | |
For the type of property, it's not as grand as I'd expect. | 0:19:01 | 0:19:05 | |
I'm missing something, and probably that's the wow factor. | 0:19:05 | 0:19:10 | |
Not what Stephen wants to hear. | 0:19:10 | 0:19:12 | |
Can the en-suite keep Marta positive? | 0:19:12 | 0:19:16 | |
Good space, nice-sized, good-sized shower. | 0:19:16 | 0:19:19 | |
A lot higher spec than the other two properties. | 0:19:19 | 0:19:22 | |
And William's room certainly gets them smiling again. | 0:19:24 | 0:19:27 | |
-Interesting bed. -Yeah, it'll be great for William. | 0:19:30 | 0:19:34 | |
Nice windows. | 0:19:34 | 0:19:35 | |
Yeah, very good room. | 0:19:35 | 0:19:37 | |
Although you do feel a distinct lack of enthusiasm for this house. | 0:19:37 | 0:19:42 | |
-Nice bathroom. -Yeah, it's a great bath, very deep. | 0:19:42 | 0:19:45 | |
But once outside, the mood shifts. | 0:19:45 | 0:19:49 | |
-Oh, wow. -It's really nice pool, isn't it? | 0:19:49 | 0:19:53 | |
Amazing outdoor living space. | 0:19:53 | 0:19:56 | |
Yeah, this is more of what we were dreaming of. | 0:19:56 | 0:19:59 | |
Somewhere where we can sit in the nice warm weather | 0:19:59 | 0:20:02 | |
-that we don't, or we rarely get, at home. -Yeah. | 0:20:02 | 0:20:04 | |
It's exactly what we were hoping for, isn't it? | 0:20:04 | 0:20:06 | |
It's exactly what we want, yes. | 0:20:06 | 0:20:08 | |
I'm definitely sold on the garden. | 0:20:08 | 0:20:09 | |
So has the garden rescued the day for Marta? | 0:20:10 | 0:20:13 | |
This house is definitely my favourite out of the three houses | 0:20:14 | 0:20:17 | |
that we saw today. I think it comes | 0:20:17 | 0:20:23 | |
very close to what we're looking for. | 0:20:23 | 0:20:26 | |
But the only thing I absolutely love about this house is the garden. | 0:20:26 | 0:20:30 | |
It's a lovely house. It's just, | 0:20:30 | 0:20:32 | |
I think we'd probably find something that's a bit... | 0:20:32 | 0:20:35 | |
A bit more perfect for us. | 0:20:35 | 0:20:37 | |
I'm guessing that this is going to be over our budget, | 0:20:37 | 0:20:40 | |
probably around £640,000. | 0:20:40 | 0:20:43 | |
I think it's worth about £570,000. | 0:20:43 | 0:20:47 | |
The couple have a budget of £500,000. | 0:20:47 | 0:20:50 | |
-Yeah... -£700,000 is over our budget, | 0:21:00 | 0:21:03 | |
but this is probably more house than we need. | 0:21:03 | 0:21:07 | |
I would like us to find something more modest, more smaller | 0:21:07 | 0:21:13 | |
with, probably, the same outdoor living space, just without the pool. | 0:21:13 | 0:21:19 | |
Which, I hope, um, | 0:21:19 | 0:21:21 | |
our budget is going to cover. | 0:21:21 | 0:21:25 | |
So it's been a mixed bag on the property search. | 0:21:25 | 0:21:29 | |
House number one on the golf course was a bit of a bogey. | 0:21:29 | 0:21:32 | |
A strange layout coupled with the unfenced lake | 0:21:32 | 0:21:34 | |
meant it wasn't for the Parkers, whatever the price. | 0:21:34 | 0:21:38 | |
Property two had the space the family wanted, | 0:21:38 | 0:21:41 | |
but its boxy and plain exterior wasn't winning Marta over. | 0:21:41 | 0:21:44 | |
House number three had the garden of their dreams, | 0:21:46 | 0:21:49 | |
but at £200,000 over budget, | 0:21:49 | 0:21:52 | |
it was a stark wake-up call as to what their money could get them. | 0:21:52 | 0:21:55 | |
So when it comes to homes down under, | 0:21:55 | 0:21:58 | |
will the couple vote home or away? | 0:21:58 | 0:22:00 | |
Based on the three properties we saw today, our vote goes to... | 0:22:00 | 0:22:05 | |
-Undecided. -UK. | 0:22:15 | 0:22:17 | |
-Undecided? -Based on what we've seen, | 0:22:17 | 0:22:19 | |
I don't think that you can say it's any better than the UK, but... | 0:22:19 | 0:22:24 | |
-Or any worse, really. -I'm sorry that we didn't find... | 0:22:24 | 0:22:28 | |
..the best house for us today. | 0:22:30 | 0:22:33 | |
But it's somewhere out there and we just need to look for it. | 0:22:33 | 0:22:37 | |
So, maybe not the best start to the week, | 0:22:37 | 0:22:39 | |
but, hopefully, tomorrow will go better. | 0:22:39 | 0:22:41 | |
I hope so. | 0:22:41 | 0:22:43 | |
With Marta not sold on Aussie homes, | 0:22:52 | 0:22:54 | |
and even Stephen sitting on the fence, | 0:22:54 | 0:22:56 | |
there's still some way to go | 0:22:56 | 0:22:58 | |
to make the Australian dream a reality. | 0:22:58 | 0:23:01 | |
Getting the right jobs down under could help turn things around. | 0:23:01 | 0:23:04 | |
Back in the UK, Stephen worked for 15 years | 0:23:06 | 0:23:09 | |
as a highly successful environmental manager. | 0:23:09 | 0:23:13 | |
However, the long hours eventually began to take their toll on him | 0:23:13 | 0:23:17 | |
and his new wife, Marta. | 0:23:17 | 0:23:18 | |
I wasn't there for her when she needed me. | 0:23:20 | 0:23:22 | |
It really made me feel quite guilty, and, as a consequence, | 0:23:22 | 0:23:25 | |
I started to re-evaluate what was important to me | 0:23:25 | 0:23:28 | |
and what my priorities are in life. | 0:23:28 | 0:23:30 | |
Stephen decided to take time out. | 0:23:30 | 0:23:32 | |
Over the past year, he's been studying for a master's in business | 0:23:32 | 0:23:36 | |
and has now got his sights set on a consultancy role down under. | 0:23:36 | 0:23:40 | |
Finding the right role in Australia is really crucial | 0:23:41 | 0:23:43 | |
because my career is really important to me, | 0:23:43 | 0:23:45 | |
and it's important to me that I can provide | 0:23:45 | 0:23:47 | |
the right level of support for my family. | 0:23:47 | 0:23:50 | |
Marta is working in fashion retail, | 0:23:50 | 0:23:52 | |
but is keen to get treading the boards once again | 0:23:52 | 0:23:55 | |
if there's a move down under. | 0:23:55 | 0:23:56 | |
Acting is a big part of my life. | 0:23:58 | 0:24:01 | |
If my chances of getting acting work there are slim, | 0:24:01 | 0:24:05 | |
it might affect my decision. | 0:24:05 | 0:24:07 | |
I hope Australia has something to offer me. | 0:24:09 | 0:24:12 | |
The couple set out to explore what work opportunities | 0:24:14 | 0:24:17 | |
there might be in Melbourne. | 0:24:17 | 0:24:19 | |
Stephen heads off to a multinational accounting firm | 0:24:19 | 0:24:22 | |
where he meets Matt Nelson, and straightaway, the news is mixed. | 0:24:22 | 0:24:27 | |
The nature of your technical background, | 0:24:27 | 0:24:29 | |
it is a skill and a background | 0:24:29 | 0:24:32 | |
that is valuable here in the marketplace, | 0:24:32 | 0:24:34 | |
and certainly even for a company like ours. | 0:24:34 | 0:24:37 | |
We've all talked about and seen in the press | 0:24:37 | 0:24:39 | |
that the big challenge for us | 0:24:39 | 0:24:40 | |
that's just recently come out | 0:24:40 | 0:24:42 | |
is the announcing of the changing to the visa situation in Australia, | 0:24:42 | 0:24:45 | |
but it is something | 0:24:45 | 0:24:47 | |
that will create a challenge for you as you look to move. | 0:24:47 | 0:24:51 | |
So recent changes in visa control could be an issue. | 0:24:51 | 0:24:54 | |
But would there be a job for Stephen there? | 0:24:54 | 0:24:57 | |
Are there many jobs for people | 0:24:57 | 0:24:58 | |
with my skills and experience in Melbourne? | 0:24:58 | 0:25:00 | |
There's still good opportunities in the Australian marketplace. | 0:25:00 | 0:25:04 | |
I think your choice of Melbourne is a pretty good one. | 0:25:04 | 0:25:07 | |
So, this is musical theatre. | 0:25:07 | 0:25:09 | |
This is Showfit. | 0:25:09 | 0:25:10 | |
And across town, | 0:25:10 | 0:25:12 | |
Marta's getting a taste of what Melbourne has to offer | 0:25:12 | 0:25:14 | |
in musical theatre. | 0:25:14 | 0:25:15 | |
She's meeting up with talent manager Ian White. | 0:25:18 | 0:25:21 | |
Look, I've watched your show reel and you're beautiful on-screen. | 0:25:23 | 0:25:27 | |
-Oh, thank you so much. -You're gorgeous. | 0:25:27 | 0:25:29 | |
To kind of really take advantage of the scene here, | 0:25:29 | 0:25:32 | |
and I say this to most actresses, | 0:25:32 | 0:25:34 | |
even when they're more established like you are, | 0:25:34 | 0:25:36 | |
you need to get into classes. | 0:25:36 | 0:25:38 | |
Even my really experienced people, I'm always saying, "More classes." | 0:25:38 | 0:25:42 | |
Because that's not just training you with your skills, | 0:25:42 | 0:25:45 | |
it's actually you're meeting casting people as well. | 0:25:45 | 0:25:47 | |
And the accent is quite pronounced, gorgeous... | 0:25:47 | 0:25:51 | |
-Yeah. -..but it's limiting for the opportunities. | 0:25:51 | 0:25:53 | |
Yeah, that's true, yes. | 0:25:53 | 0:25:54 | |
So you would need to work with a voice coach | 0:25:54 | 0:25:57 | |
and neutralise your accent. | 0:25:57 | 0:25:58 | |
So, not that you have to have an Australian accent, | 0:25:58 | 0:26:01 | |
but it's a neutral accent | 0:26:01 | 0:26:02 | |
so it can be adaptable to any sort of background, | 0:26:02 | 0:26:05 | |
you know, culture or character. | 0:26:05 | 0:26:07 | |
Yeah, I do understand that, yes. | 0:26:07 | 0:26:09 | |
So, look, there are lots of opportunities here. | 0:26:09 | 0:26:11 | |
You know, we have a saying here. | 0:26:11 | 0:26:13 | |
You'll make it if you're hungry enough to. | 0:26:13 | 0:26:15 | |
Well, Marta's interview seems to have gone well. | 0:26:15 | 0:26:18 | |
Next, she meets up with Eliza D'Souza, | 0:26:18 | 0:26:21 | |
an English actress who moved to Melbourne seven years ago. | 0:26:21 | 0:26:24 | |
So how does it feel for you to be an actress here? | 0:26:25 | 0:26:29 | |
It's tough, I think, because of the small audience numbers | 0:26:29 | 0:26:31 | |
and the influence from, say, America and the UK programming. | 0:26:31 | 0:26:34 | |
There's not a huge, huge volume of production, but, again, | 0:26:34 | 0:26:38 | |
I think because it is smaller, | 0:26:38 | 0:26:39 | |
people remember you more and you can kind of build a bit of a network | 0:26:39 | 0:26:42 | |
and a community, I think. | 0:26:42 | 0:26:44 | |
And away from home, Eliza has found plenty of acting jobs. | 0:26:44 | 0:26:48 | |
She's actually appeared in Neighbours. | 0:26:48 | 0:26:50 | |
Quite small and maybe not the biggest job that I've had, | 0:26:51 | 0:26:54 | |
but it's, you know, | 0:26:54 | 0:26:55 | |
it's probably the one as well, that you know, | 0:26:55 | 0:26:57 | |
people in the UK can relate to. | 0:26:57 | 0:26:59 | |
But then when I was on Neighbours, my mum was like, | 0:26:59 | 0:27:01 | |
"Oh, she's on Neighbours!" | 0:27:01 | 0:27:03 | |
I would say, hit the ground running, go and see the casting directors, | 0:27:03 | 0:27:05 | |
get into a couple of acting classes. | 0:27:05 | 0:27:07 | |
You know, find the communities, do some short films, | 0:27:07 | 0:27:09 | |
do some community theatre, and just start building yourself up. | 0:27:09 | 0:27:12 | |
So some great advice for Marta. | 0:27:12 | 0:27:14 | |
Stephen's also hoping to end on a positive note | 0:27:14 | 0:27:17 | |
about a potential consultancy role. | 0:27:17 | 0:27:20 | |
What kind of salary can I expect? | 0:27:20 | 0:27:22 | |
I think with your level of experience | 0:27:22 | 0:27:24 | |
we would expect someone like that to come in, probably, | 0:27:24 | 0:27:26 | |
as a senior manager into our business, | 0:27:26 | 0:27:29 | |
and a senior manager, depending on your past experiences and so on, | 0:27:29 | 0:27:33 | |
could expect somewhere around the £90,000 per year. | 0:27:33 | 0:27:36 | |
In certain sectors like mining, oil, and gas, | 0:27:36 | 0:27:39 | |
you could be looking at earning as much as £120,000. | 0:27:39 | 0:27:42 | |
The salary range seems to be really favourable compared to the UK. | 0:27:42 | 0:27:46 | |
So, has it been an interesting day for the couple? | 0:27:46 | 0:27:49 | |
They meet up later to share their news. | 0:27:49 | 0:27:52 | |
So how was your day? | 0:27:52 | 0:27:54 | |
Yeah, it was very nice. | 0:27:54 | 0:27:56 | |
I feel a little bit more confident about... | 0:27:56 | 0:28:00 | |
..moving to Melbourne and being an actress here. | 0:28:01 | 0:28:05 | |
Well, that's great news. I'm really pleased for you. | 0:28:05 | 0:28:08 | |
And how did your day go? | 0:28:08 | 0:28:10 | |
It went really well. | 0:28:10 | 0:28:11 | |
I met a really nice guy, and he said there's a lot of demand | 0:28:11 | 0:28:14 | |
for people with my experience. | 0:28:14 | 0:28:16 | |
The salary's good. | 0:28:16 | 0:28:18 | |
The downside is that he's confirmed the visa situation | 0:28:18 | 0:28:22 | |
isn't as good as we would like. | 0:28:22 | 0:28:25 | |
We potentially would only be able to stay for two or four years. | 0:28:25 | 0:28:28 | |
It might be a good opportunity for us to stay | 0:28:28 | 0:28:32 | |
for just a few years | 0:28:32 | 0:28:34 | |
and see how we feel, how we like it. | 0:28:34 | 0:28:37 | |
So it's Marta now stressing the positives. | 0:28:37 | 0:28:40 | |
Interesting to see how this vote goes. | 0:28:40 | 0:28:43 | |
Based on our work meetings today, our vote goes to... | 0:28:45 | 0:28:47 | |
-Australia. -Undecided. | 0:28:56 | 0:28:57 | |
You know that acting is very important to me, | 0:28:59 | 0:29:02 | |
so today showed me that I've got a fairly good chance | 0:29:02 | 0:29:07 | |
to keep doing it in case we decide to move here. | 0:29:07 | 0:29:12 | |
I'm really pleased that you voted for Australia, | 0:29:12 | 0:29:15 | |
because it's important to me that you're happy if we do move here. | 0:29:15 | 0:29:19 | |
I had some great news today, but for the visa situation, | 0:29:19 | 0:29:22 | |
it's just too much uncertainty | 0:29:22 | 0:29:25 | |
and I don't think I'm prepared to uproot the family | 0:29:25 | 0:29:28 | |
and move over the other side of the world on a temporary basis. | 0:29:28 | 0:29:31 | |
Halfway through their trial week, | 0:29:39 | 0:29:41 | |
and it's fair to say that not everything is going according | 0:29:41 | 0:29:45 | |
to any prewritten script. | 0:29:45 | 0:29:47 | |
And with a financial reality check | 0:29:47 | 0:29:49 | |
and messages from home still to come, | 0:29:49 | 0:29:52 | |
well, the whole trip could be about to lose the plot altogether. | 0:29:52 | 0:29:57 | |
First up, they're off for a day | 0:29:57 | 0:29:59 | |
sampling the Melbourne lifestyle | 0:29:59 | 0:30:01 | |
to enjoy a well-earned interval | 0:30:01 | 0:30:03 | |
in the drama of their week, you could say. | 0:30:03 | 0:30:06 | |
The Parkers are visiting Portsea Back Beach, | 0:30:07 | 0:30:10 | |
south of Melbourne. | 0:30:10 | 0:30:11 | |
Back in the UK, Stephen's a keen surfer. | 0:30:12 | 0:30:15 | |
So today, he's catching some Aussie waves with local life-saver Nick. | 0:30:15 | 0:30:20 | |
Should be fine out there today. | 0:30:20 | 0:30:21 | |
Not too windy. See what we find. | 0:30:21 | 0:30:23 | |
-A few waves around. -Yeah. | 0:30:23 | 0:30:24 | |
It's great to see Stephen finally surfing the waves in Australia. | 0:30:26 | 0:30:30 | |
I hope he has lots of fun. | 0:30:30 | 0:30:31 | |
Look, look! | 0:30:52 | 0:30:53 | |
It was good. It was a bit of a warm-up, | 0:30:55 | 0:30:57 | |
hopefully, for something better in days to come. | 0:30:57 | 0:31:00 | |
All thirsty work, Stephen. | 0:31:00 | 0:31:02 | |
The Parkers take some time to refuel down by Port Phillip Bay. | 0:31:02 | 0:31:06 | |
And a little later, a quick phone call from home | 0:31:07 | 0:31:10 | |
rounds off a perfect day. | 0:31:10 | 0:31:11 | |
PHONE RINGS | 0:31:11 | 0:31:13 | |
It's Stephen's mum. | 0:31:13 | 0:31:15 | |
Hi, everyone. | 0:31:16 | 0:31:18 | |
Nice to see you. | 0:31:18 | 0:31:20 | |
You're all looking very well. How's it going? | 0:31:20 | 0:31:22 | |
Yeah, it's going well. | 0:31:22 | 0:31:23 | |
-Yeah. -Yeah. -Has Stephen been surfing yet? | 0:31:23 | 0:31:26 | |
Just today, yeah, just for a bit. | 0:31:26 | 0:31:27 | |
I'm glad you're having a good time and everything's going well. | 0:31:27 | 0:31:30 | |
I hope you enjoy the rest of your trip. | 0:31:30 | 0:31:32 | |
-Bye for now. -Take care. -Bye. -Bye, William. -Bye. | 0:31:32 | 0:31:35 | |
But the call from Stephen's mum | 0:31:36 | 0:31:38 | |
has reminded Marta just how far away they are. | 0:31:38 | 0:31:41 | |
I'm sure she misses William a lot. | 0:31:41 | 0:31:43 | |
Yeah, I'm sure. | 0:31:43 | 0:31:45 | |
Unfortunately, she's the only grandparent William's got left. | 0:31:46 | 0:31:50 | |
I think it will be a shame if they don't spend, um, | 0:31:50 | 0:31:53 | |
good time together. | 0:31:53 | 0:31:55 | |
Thinking back to my own childhood, | 0:31:55 | 0:31:57 | |
the relationship with my grandparents | 0:31:57 | 0:31:59 | |
was a quite special one, | 0:31:59 | 0:32:00 | |
so it will be difficult to take that away from William. | 0:32:00 | 0:32:03 | |
In Australia, it's absolutely beautiful, beautiful beaches, | 0:32:03 | 0:32:06 | |
beautiful sceneries and gorgeous summer weather. | 0:32:06 | 0:32:09 | |
But it worries me that we're going to be missing out | 0:32:09 | 0:32:12 | |
on a lot of important things | 0:32:12 | 0:32:14 | |
that are going on back in the UK. | 0:32:14 | 0:32:17 | |
So it's a thoughtful Marta and Stephen who now have to vote. | 0:32:17 | 0:32:20 | |
Based on our great day out today, our vote goes to... | 0:32:22 | 0:32:26 | |
-BOTH: -Australia! | 0:32:36 | 0:32:37 | |
Oh, wow... | 0:32:39 | 0:32:41 | |
Coming down here and seeing the natural beauty of the country | 0:32:41 | 0:32:44 | |
has made me realise | 0:32:44 | 0:32:45 | |
why we're thinking of coming here in the first place. | 0:32:45 | 0:32:48 | |
I'm not 100% convinced yet, | 0:32:48 | 0:32:51 | |
but it's nice to know that Australia is proving to you | 0:32:51 | 0:32:55 | |
that it's everything you thought it would be. | 0:32:55 | 0:32:58 | |
A full house for the Aussie lifestyle | 0:33:06 | 0:33:08 | |
means the dream is just about back on track. | 0:33:08 | 0:33:11 | |
For now. | 0:33:11 | 0:33:12 | |
Financially, though, things will have to stack up, | 0:33:12 | 0:33:14 | |
and getting the right price for their home in the UK | 0:33:14 | 0:33:17 | |
could make all the difference. | 0:33:17 | 0:33:20 | |
The couple think it's worth £700,000. | 0:33:20 | 0:33:23 | |
Will two local estate agents agree? | 0:33:23 | 0:33:26 | |
So this is the extension. | 0:33:26 | 0:33:27 | |
Anyone coming in here would be incredibly happy | 0:33:27 | 0:33:29 | |
with what they have. | 0:33:29 | 0:33:30 | |
The position of the kitchen and the sitting room | 0:33:30 | 0:33:32 | |
at the rear of the house | 0:33:32 | 0:33:34 | |
just makes it perfect for family living. | 0:33:34 | 0:33:36 | |
Huge amount of space, | 0:33:38 | 0:33:40 | |
which could either be a huge double bedroom or two double bedrooms. | 0:33:40 | 0:33:44 | |
Very clever use of light with the windows. | 0:33:44 | 0:33:46 | |
Absolutely outstanding. | 0:33:46 | 0:33:48 | |
Very good-sized garden, very private, ideal for a family. | 0:33:50 | 0:33:54 | |
Bit more work. But then again, once the work is completed, | 0:33:54 | 0:33:56 | |
it would be ideal. | 0:33:56 | 0:33:58 | |
Great, great space. | 0:33:58 | 0:34:00 | |
Beautiful bathroom. Lovely sink, lovely shower, beautifully tiled. | 0:34:02 | 0:34:07 | |
Nice and light, fantastic. | 0:34:07 | 0:34:09 | |
In today's market, and once renovations have been completed, | 0:34:11 | 0:34:14 | |
I would value the property at £675,000. | 0:34:14 | 0:34:18 | |
In today's market, and with refurbishment complete, | 0:34:18 | 0:34:20 | |
I would value the property at £689,950. | 0:34:20 | 0:34:25 | |
For a quick sale, | 0:34:25 | 0:34:26 | |
I would value the property at £625,000. | 0:34:26 | 0:34:30 | |
There's a lot of...a lot of pain gone into that place, | 0:34:30 | 0:34:33 | |
so that's good news overall, I think. | 0:34:33 | 0:34:35 | |
Yeah, it's good news to know | 0:34:35 | 0:34:37 | |
that if we decide to come and if we decide to sell or rent, | 0:34:37 | 0:34:41 | |
we'll have a very good amount to start with here. | 0:34:41 | 0:34:45 | |
Happy with the valuations, | 0:34:47 | 0:34:48 | |
the couple move on to tackle the cost of everyday living in Australia | 0:34:48 | 0:34:52 | |
compared with the UK. | 0:34:52 | 0:34:54 | |
Starting with the weekly food shop. | 0:34:54 | 0:34:56 | |
-Bananas. -Bananas. | 0:34:58 | 0:35:00 | |
In the UK, it will be 72p. | 0:35:00 | 0:35:03 | |
In Australia, £1.48. | 0:35:03 | 0:35:06 | |
-Double. -Yeah. | 0:35:06 | 0:35:07 | |
Not good news. | 0:35:08 | 0:35:10 | |
Yeah, looking at nappies, | 0:35:10 | 0:35:11 | |
that's what's jumping out at me at the moment. | 0:35:11 | 0:35:14 | |
Yeah, the cost is £3.39. | 0:35:14 | 0:35:17 | |
-And the Australian... -£8.28. | 0:35:17 | 0:35:19 | |
Yeah, that gives a difference of £4.89. | 0:35:19 | 0:35:22 | |
William needs some training. | 0:35:22 | 0:35:24 | |
We need to start with the potty training earlier. | 0:35:24 | 0:35:28 | |
And adding it all up... | 0:35:28 | 0:35:30 | |
So in Australia, we would be worse off £25.08 a week. | 0:35:30 | 0:35:35 | |
It is quite a bit more, but I think, depending on other costs, | 0:35:35 | 0:35:39 | |
I don't think we'd notice it that much. | 0:35:39 | 0:35:41 | |
Yeah, it's manageable. | 0:35:41 | 0:35:43 | |
Moving on to the bigger bills now. | 0:35:43 | 0:35:45 | |
The couple base their mortgage on the second property they viewed. | 0:35:45 | 0:35:49 | |
So in the UK, we pay about £1,600 a month. | 0:35:49 | 0:35:52 | |
In Australia, that would be £850. | 0:35:54 | 0:35:56 | |
We'd be saving £750 a month on the mortgage. | 0:35:56 | 0:36:00 | |
Great start. | 0:36:00 | 0:36:01 | |
Good news. But Marta plans to continue working part-time | 0:36:02 | 0:36:05 | |
in fashion retail, so there's a nursery to pay for. | 0:36:05 | 0:36:09 | |
Cost in the UK, £750. | 0:36:09 | 0:36:13 | |
In Australia, it's going to cost us £852. | 0:36:13 | 0:36:18 | |
OK. Quite a bit on top of an already expensive bill in the UK, isn't it? | 0:36:18 | 0:36:22 | |
-Yeah. -Yes, but once they factor in their new Australian salaries, | 0:36:22 | 0:36:27 | |
things start to look brighter. | 0:36:27 | 0:36:28 | |
So in Australia, we'd be bringing in £2,289 extra per month. | 0:36:30 | 0:36:36 | |
-Wowee! -Not bad. | 0:36:37 | 0:36:38 | |
Not bad at all. | 0:36:40 | 0:36:41 | |
So will there be a happy ending if they make the move? | 0:36:43 | 0:36:45 | |
So if we were to move to Australia, | 0:36:47 | 0:36:49 | |
we would be £2,693 per month better off. | 0:36:49 | 0:36:55 | |
Oh, yeah. | 0:36:58 | 0:36:59 | |
The reality of those numbers may vary, | 0:37:00 | 0:37:03 | |
but I still think that it would be, um, | 0:37:03 | 0:37:06 | |
a better picture over here if we did move. | 0:37:06 | 0:37:10 | |
Seeing that figure, | 0:37:10 | 0:37:11 | |
it makes me feel a bit happier about coming to live here. | 0:37:11 | 0:37:16 | |
But will it be enough to get another Oz vote for Stephen? | 0:37:16 | 0:37:20 | |
Based on our reality check today, our vote goes to... | 0:37:21 | 0:37:24 | |
-BOTH: -Australia! | 0:37:34 | 0:37:37 | |
The numbers don't lie. | 0:37:37 | 0:37:38 | |
With such amount of extra money, | 0:37:38 | 0:37:41 | |
we can lead comfortable lives, | 0:37:41 | 0:37:44 | |
save quite a bit of money, and who knows, perhaps, in a few years, | 0:37:44 | 0:37:50 | |
start thinking of having another baby. | 0:37:50 | 0:37:52 | |
With another vote for Australia, | 0:38:02 | 0:38:04 | |
it looks like Stephen's almost home and dry with his mission to move. | 0:38:04 | 0:38:08 | |
But there's one final hurdle to overcome, and it's a big one. | 0:38:08 | 0:38:13 | |
While baby William takes a nap, | 0:38:13 | 0:38:14 | |
the couple sit down to watch messages | 0:38:14 | 0:38:16 | |
from friends and family back home. | 0:38:16 | 0:38:19 | |
-BOTH: -Hello! | 0:38:19 | 0:38:21 | |
-Hi! -Oh, hello. | 0:38:21 | 0:38:23 | |
Steve, to me, was, like, never... | 0:38:23 | 0:38:26 | |
HE LAUGHS | 0:38:26 | 0:38:28 | |
..a family guy. But then when he's with Marta and Willie, | 0:38:28 | 0:38:31 | |
they're just amazing together. | 0:38:31 | 0:38:33 | |
Marta has made an enormous difference to Stephen's life. | 0:38:33 | 0:38:37 | |
He's been so happy since he met her. | 0:38:37 | 0:38:39 | |
When I first heard | 0:38:39 | 0:38:41 | |
that Stephen and Marta and William were thinking of | 0:38:41 | 0:38:43 | |
moving to Australia, I was quite excited. | 0:38:43 | 0:38:46 | |
I thought, "Oh, I'll be able to go there for my holidays every winter." | 0:38:46 | 0:38:49 | |
Since then, I've sort of started thinking about things | 0:38:50 | 0:38:53 | |
I would miss about not having them close. | 0:38:53 | 0:38:56 | |
One part of me would be sad, | 0:38:56 | 0:38:57 | |
but the other side of me would be totally excited for them. | 0:38:57 | 0:39:00 | |
It'd be absolutely amazing and I don't think that they should... | 0:39:00 | 0:39:04 | |
..be worried about that. They should just get on with it. | 0:39:05 | 0:39:08 | |
So do you really need to go to the other side of the world | 0:39:08 | 0:39:11 | |
to get out of life what you two want together? | 0:39:11 | 0:39:14 | |
If Australia is really what you want, | 0:39:14 | 0:39:16 | |
then just make sure you're making the right decision | 0:39:16 | 0:39:18 | |
before you commit to it. | 0:39:18 | 0:39:20 | |
I think not being there to see William growing up | 0:39:20 | 0:39:22 | |
means I shall miss a lot. | 0:39:22 | 0:39:25 | |
You need to think very carefully. It is a long way away. | 0:39:25 | 0:39:28 | |
I would be worried that Australia is maybe lovely for a holiday, | 0:39:28 | 0:39:33 | |
but perhaps not for a lifetime. | 0:39:33 | 0:39:35 | |
I thought I wouldn't cry, but there you go. | 0:39:37 | 0:39:39 | |
They said really clever things about... | 0:39:39 | 0:39:42 | |
..our potential decision and... | 0:39:45 | 0:39:47 | |
Yeah, it made me... It helped me. | 0:39:49 | 0:39:52 | |
It makes you realise how much family means to you | 0:39:52 | 0:39:57 | |
and what it would be to sacrifice it. | 0:39:57 | 0:40:02 | |
Yeah, it's a useful reminder of what we would miss, | 0:40:02 | 0:40:05 | |
but I think I'd already kind of factored that in. | 0:40:05 | 0:40:08 | |
At the start of the week, Stephen Parker had one objective. | 0:40:17 | 0:40:21 | |
To show his wife Marta that it was time to move away from their home | 0:40:21 | 0:40:25 | |
in the UK for a new life in Oz. | 0:40:25 | 0:40:28 | |
It's been tough, emotional going, however. | 0:40:28 | 0:40:31 | |
Now, as they approach the final vote, | 0:40:31 | 0:40:34 | |
it's time to see where their future lies. | 0:40:34 | 0:40:37 | |
How would you vote? | 0:40:37 | 0:40:39 | |
The trial week in Australia | 0:40:40 | 0:40:42 | |
has delivered Stephen's dream in many ways. | 0:40:42 | 0:40:45 | |
Whenever I've thought of Australia, | 0:40:46 | 0:40:48 | |
I've thought of a laid-back kind of lifestyle, | 0:40:48 | 0:40:50 | |
outdoors, good weather. | 0:40:50 | 0:40:53 | |
Just generally a bit less hectic than the UK, | 0:40:53 | 0:40:56 | |
and I think Melbourne certainly meets that expectation. | 0:40:56 | 0:41:00 | |
But it's also left Marta feeling torn. | 0:41:00 | 0:41:03 | |
Perhaps Australia is the right place for us. | 0:41:04 | 0:41:07 | |
On the other hand, seeing our friends and family video... | 0:41:07 | 0:41:12 | |
..made me realise that they do mean a lot to me. | 0:41:13 | 0:41:17 | |
And they're both aware they haven't just themselves to think about. | 0:41:18 | 0:41:22 | |
We haven't got much family. | 0:41:22 | 0:41:24 | |
William's just got... | 0:41:24 | 0:41:25 | |
..his grandmother and his auntie and uncle. | 0:41:26 | 0:41:29 | |
It's one thing me moving to the UK and starting my life there, | 0:41:29 | 0:41:35 | |
but there's a bit more responsibility | 0:41:35 | 0:41:37 | |
in doing it with your family and your children. | 0:41:37 | 0:41:40 | |
So will they be able to take the plunge? | 0:41:40 | 0:41:44 | |
It's time for the final vote. | 0:41:44 | 0:41:46 | |
Based on our lovely week in Melbourne, our vote goes to... | 0:41:46 | 0:41:50 | |
-UK. -Undecided. | 0:42:04 | 0:42:05 | |
After seeing the friends and family video today, | 0:42:08 | 0:42:11 | |
it made me realise that I'm going to miss them a lot if we come here. | 0:42:11 | 0:42:17 | |
Someone in the video said, | 0:42:17 | 0:42:19 | |
"You don't have to go to the other side of the world | 0:42:19 | 0:42:22 | |
"to be happy." | 0:42:22 | 0:42:23 | |
-And I think that's true. -I'm not too surprised. | 0:42:23 | 0:42:27 | |
I know how much you like it back in the UK. | 0:42:27 | 0:42:30 | |
And uncertainty around the visa is just too much of a risk | 0:42:30 | 0:42:34 | |
for us to move at this stage in our life. | 0:42:34 | 0:42:37 | |
Part of me is happy that you'll be happy to go back to the UK. | 0:42:37 | 0:42:43 | |
And who knows? Perhaps one day | 0:42:43 | 0:42:46 | |
we'll decide to make a move and come here. | 0:42:46 | 0:42:48 | |
In the end, the pull of loved ones at home was too strong, | 0:42:55 | 0:42:59 | |
and leaving them behind | 0:42:59 | 0:43:01 | |
was simply too big an ask, | 0:43:01 | 0:43:03 | |
even if that meant there was no happy ending | 0:43:03 | 0:43:06 | |
as Stephen's Aussie dreams | 0:43:06 | 0:43:08 | |
were put on hold. | 0:43:08 | 0:43:09 | |
We wish the Parkers all the very best in the future, | 0:43:09 | 0:43:13 | |
whatever they decide to do. | 0:43:13 | 0:43:15 |