Baum Family Wanted Down Under


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If you passionately believe moving to the other side of the world

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would give you and your partner the fresh start you desperately

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wanted, how far would you go to make your dream become a reality?

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Andrea and Stan Baum always dreamed of a move to Australia

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but in 2011, everything changed.

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Stan had an accident and that blew our whole worlds into pieces.

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Stan was left with life-changing injuries but miraculously,

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he's recovering

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and the couple are desperate for a fresh start.

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I love her really. As long as I'm with her, that is all that matters.

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-But will what they can gain Down Under...

-Oh, my God!

-Overwhelmed.

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-Sorry.

-..be something they could actually afford?

-I would work...

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..till my bones ache to provide it.

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Over 30 times the size of the UK, and with breathtaking beaches,

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amazing architecture and a rich and diverse culture,

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Australia has been referred to as the biggest playground in the world.

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And with a population of just 23 million, there's plenty

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of space for new arrivals.

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But for many, the move is far from straightforward.

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After an incredibly challenging few years,

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Andrea and Stan have just one week in Brisbane to see

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if Australia really can offer them a second chance at life.

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At the end of the week, they will face an agonising decision,

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whether to stay in the UK or to make the move Down Under.

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To get to Brisbane in Eastern Australia,

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the Baums have spent a gruelling 22 1/2 hours on a plane.

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And when they touch down on Aussie soil,

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the distance from the UK really hits home.

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I'm like, "It's just Australia, it's just Australia," but actually...

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it's really far.

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So now they've arrived Down Under for the first time,

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what are the couple looking forward to most?

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Just the anticipation, to see if it's viable,

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if it's possible to live over here comfortably.

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I need to make an informed choice of whether or not

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we can financially live the dream that we want to live.

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Back in the UK, Stan, a former motor mechanic,

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and Andrea, a nurse, live in Loughborough in Leicestershire.

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They won't be here long if Andrea has her way.

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The Oz dream is kind of my little baby.

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I've wanted to go since I can remember.

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She has always said, right from the start,

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she wants to go Australia.

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I thought about it and the only way we could be together was for me

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to agree to it.

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We've had our five-year plan and we were walking towards it.

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We both worked hard and were both on the same page

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of where we wanted to be.

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Tragedy struck in 2011 when Stan was involved in an horrific

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motorbike accident.

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Six months after we got married,

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Stan had an accident

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and that basically blew our whole worlds into pieces.

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The last thing I can remember was the start of September 2010,

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which was when we got married.

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I can barely remember even getting married.

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Stan had quite a significant brain injury and broke pretty much

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every bone in his body, literally from his head down to his toes.

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Stan spent six weeks in a coma.

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His loved ones were told to expect the worst but Andrea

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and Stan's sister, Mel, refused to give up on him.

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I don't know what gave me the hope.

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I don't know what gave me the strength.

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Yeah, so... I said no, I didn't believe it.

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I said I wouldn't believe it. I said, "I don't believe it."

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I knew who he was before and I just knew that if he had any,

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literally the smallest chance, he would fight.

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I can't believe what I put my family through...

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and...

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The way they talk about it, it does feel like it's not me.

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It's...

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I said, "He will come back. I know he will." And I said,

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"I don't believe it and I won't believe it."

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He did, you know, and he came back to us and we've pushed him

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and motivated him.

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Against all odds and with his family's support,

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Stan was on the road to recovery.

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The early part of my recovery was painful, trying to do the physio,

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even trying to learn to walk.

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He's making very small milestones,

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which are fantastic.

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Stan can now get himself up, wash, get dressed, tie his own shoelaces,

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making me cups of tea.

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You know, it's having to learn to do everything again.

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Stan's rehabilitation will take time

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but the couple are determined to look towards a happier future.

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They rely on Andrea's income as a nurse

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but if Stan could return to work, it would end their financial pressures.

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We don't have the most comfortable of living.

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We literally went down from two wages

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and Stan was the main breadwinner, down to me.

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So, that took a big knock.

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A big change for us and it has been hard on us both.

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I feel sorry for the fact that I'm having to put Andrea through this

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but she's willing to do it.

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She is willing to stay and fight as long as I keep pushing myself.

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But no matter how much they might gain,

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moving will mean sacrificing relationships with family

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and friends who supported them through the last few years.

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The thought of moving without them is really upsetting and heartbreaking.

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I needed their support actually more than I realised I needed at the time.

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Looking back, it's easy to look back with hindsight.

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If I hadn't have had them there, I don't think I could have coped.

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They meant the world and I'm indebted to them for life.

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Despite strong emotional ties, Andrea and Stan are desperate

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to put the past behind them and start afresh in Australia.

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It is where Andrea definitely wants to be and...

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Well, I just, I'm hoping that it's going to be good for us.

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We are literally go to be leaving everything behind to try

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and start a new life again and start a new chapter, a new book.

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It's literally everything. Everything is on the line.

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Stan and Andrea have been through incredibly tough times.

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Now they've just one week to see if Australia can offer them

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the opportunities and lifestyle they are dreaming of.

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For their trial visit,

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they are staying in a two-bedroom apartment in Brisbane city centre.

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It's their first taste of Aussie-style living.

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Absolutely stunning.

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First impressions are good.

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-Look at the view.

-Wow!

-Oh, my God!

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High is not one of my specialities but you know what,

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-I will learn to love it.

-Amazing!

-Amazing. Absolutely amazing.

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But after a look around the apartment,

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Andrea has a tiny grumble.

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I would like a little bit more living space if I'm perfectly honest.

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A bigger kitchen.

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A bigger kitchen because I do trash the kitchen when I cook.

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But all in all, is their home for the week a hit?

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If this was what we can afford, I would suffer in silence...

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-which will make a change!

-Yeah, a big change!

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The early signs look promising but Andrea is already feeling

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pressure to provide the life they want.

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It's like saying, thank goodness,

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this little carrot in front of you but you will never catch it.

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That's quite scary.

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This was Andrea's dream, right from the start but basically,

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you know, the main reason that I have gone with the idea

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is I love her really and you know, whatever she wants to do,

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as long as I'm with her, that's all that matters.

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It's starting again, starting somewhere new, fresh.

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Scary, really scary! Really exciting.

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Back in the UK, home for Stan and Andrea is a three-bedroom

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detached house in Loughborough

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but how important is finding the right place in Australia?

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For any dream, you need a base

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and your heart is your home, isn't it?

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You're going to need that. Yeah, it's really important.

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What kind of house would they be happy to call home?

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Just something relatively modern, very simplistic.

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You don't want people looking in...

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Yeah, we don't want to be overcrowded, overlooked.

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Two toilets, pretty please,

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whether that's two bathrooms or just two toilets, I'm not fussy.

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Today, we will show the Baums three houses based on what they think

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they can afford, what they would ideally like and one in between.

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Only after they've seen each one will they find out its cost.

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First up is a four-bedroom bungalow in the suburb of

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Springfield Lakes, just 35 minutes' drive from Brisbane city centre.

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It's an up-and-coming area, offering good value for money.

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But will this house be within their £250,000 budget?

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-Double garage.

-That's amazing.

-Yeah.

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-Sorry, sorry.

-It's all right. It's all right.

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-You are scary, you are.

-Just testing!

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-Summery, isn't it?

-Yeah. There's light.

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Ex-mechanic Stan caught sight of the garage from the road,

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but what would he make of it inside?

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-Beautiful.

-This is...

-I've found my room!

-Yeah!

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All we need is a toilet in here and you're set for life.

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It is all looking good but in the kitchen,

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Stan spots something else of interest.

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-What's that?

-Washing machine.

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Stan, welcome to the world of a washing machine.

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-I need the instructions.

-Yeah.

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Guess who doesn't do the washing but how does this compare to what

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they are used to?

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Our kitchen back home is...

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a little bit bigger but it's all kind of closed in,

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so this feels bigger.

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With four bedrooms and two bathrooms,

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this house ticks all the boxes but not everything

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is quite to their taste.

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Some of the tiles and some of the decor is a little bit...

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-Just the colours...

-A little bit dated

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and also a bit tired but it's not a massive thing to do up

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because you'd change a lot of things anyway.

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Andrea is already visualising her own furnishings in the living room.

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TV, I'm sure, we can stick that somewhere. You'll make room for that.

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-We might need a bigger TV.

-No, we don't need a bigger TV.

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-And what about the garden?

-Love the garden. Love, love, love the garden.

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It's...perfect. The garden is brilliant. Absolutely brilliant.

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-Lovely size.

-Yeah.

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It's a good note to end on but can Stan and Andrea's budget

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of around £250,000 stretch to a house like this?

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I don't want to know.

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-Do you want to see?

-Yeah. Really?

-Yeah.

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-That's surprising.

-Yeah. Yeah, that is.

-I thought it would be over.

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Yeah, I did.

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Stan and Andrea could afford this house but with two more

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to look at, they aren't committing to anything yet.

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Staying in Springfield Lakes,

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the next property is one of the area's most popular streets.

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With lakes, parks and sporting facilities on the doorstep,

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it could be a great base for Stan's rehabilitation

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but will it offer the space they want?

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It...looks a bit...squished.

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It's got a flat driveway.

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So, you won't fall. First impressions? Not bad.

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And the inside...

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It doesn't look the size at all from the front

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but it's actually quite spacious in here.

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The house also has the two bathrooms Andrea wants.

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-Very nice. Good size.

-Look at the shower!

-User-friendly.

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This is a great size shower and I would be able to stand

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and put a support in there, to keep my balance...

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..and be able to have a shower.

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This place is scoring well but will the open-plan kitchen

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and living area be to Stan and Andrea's taste?

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-I really like this.

-Wow, yeah.

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-Look at the design.

-Yeah.

-Beautiful.

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It flows and I think that's the beauty of this house.

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-It's just flows.

-Flows from one to the other.

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It's brilliant for Stan's mobility.

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With four bedrooms, the house has plenty of room for visitors.

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Nice! Really nice. I've got a walk-in wardrobe.

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I reckon this is going to be way over our budget. But you know?

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It's something to work towards.

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Andrea's already thinking about ways to make this work

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but will she be as keen when they step outside?

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It's quite overlooked actually.

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-Yeah.

-I must admit I'm not a fan of the garden at all.

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When we go out, a lot of people stare at Stan

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because he walks funny and has a massive scar.

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In your own home, you kind of relax

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and nobody has to look at you.

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Here, he would still be stared at.

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You come out to Australia for the outdoor living and if you don't have

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much outdoor living space, you are going to be stuck in the house and...

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It's not worth travelling the other side of the world for.

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Who wants to be in a warmer country as then have to

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stay inside? Nobody.

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The property had promised so much

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but the lack of outside space is a big let down.

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If it was affordable, would they reconsider?

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OK, ready?

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£260,000.

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You used to be able to get a lot more for your money.

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With the current exchange rate and every thing else...

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it makes things a lot tighter.

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At £10,000 over budget, this house isn't totally out of reach

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but they don't think it's worth the stretch.

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This four-bedroom house is in Redland Bay, a laid-back suburb,

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just over 30 miles south-east of Brisbane.

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The property promises modern interiors

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but can it offer better value for money?

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-We can't afford this.

-No.

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-This is going to be the carrot and stick.

-Way out of our budget.

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They are shocked by the cost of the properties so far

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-but this house has an immediate impact.

-Speechless.

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-Without words, without words.

-For the first time, I'm actually...

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..speechless.

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Andrea really is struggling for words.

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It's just...

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-That is amazing.

-Stunning.

-I can see myself here.

-Yeah, yeah. Definitely.

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Sounds like this house could be the one to convince them

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it's the right move.

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I would take one, please.

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I would take this in a heartbeat. Wow.

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If we could actually afford this, we would not even question it.

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-We would just say, "Yes, please."

-Yes, please.

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And the best is still to come.

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This property includes access to some facilities that could be

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a huge help to Stan's recovery.

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-Oh, my God! Stan, it's a gym!

-Oh!

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And a fitness centre. It's got a tennis court down there.

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-Oh, my God.

-Nice one.

-Oh, my God!

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I don't know what to say.

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It's an emotional moment as they realise

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what this could mean for Stan.

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Just to have that access,

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it would make his life easier.

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Overwhelmed.

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It has been two years since... while I've been like this

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and you know, what I've had to go through with the family

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and everybody, but they've all been so supportive.

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Every day, I train. Every day, I work. Every day, I do something.

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Just because I wouldn't need to convert the house.

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We wouldn't have to pay for gym equipment, we could just...

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Yeah. It would just help him out.

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He worked really hard.

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He does work really hard to get better. It would be just...

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I feel like an idiot. Sorry.

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It does...

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When you've heard the doctors and they didn't even think

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I would wake up, let alone be able to walk and use this arm,

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you know, everything has been a challenge but it's been worth it.

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You know, and to have this opportunity would be amazing.

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If Andrea and Stan were to buy a property like this,

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it could genuinely be a life-changing move.

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If I could...

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work harder to provide that,

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if I could work it so that I could afford that, then I would.

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If there is no way, then there is no way but if I could, I would work....

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..till my bones ached to provide it.

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With so much resting on it, the pair are reluctant to see

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how close it is to their £250,000 budget.

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Part of me doesn't actually want to know what that says.

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-You ready?

-No.

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SHE LAUGHS

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It's over budget, but by just £17,000.

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So, depending on job prospects, it could be achievable.

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-Where do we sign up?

-Yeah!

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Yeah.

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-That is amazing.

-Yeah.

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I'm a little bit shell-shocked.

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It's been an emotional day of house-hunting.

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The first property was smaller than they wanted,

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but they did love the garden.

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Property two had more space,

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but the overlooked garden left them cold.

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But property three was not just the dream house, it also offered

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access to facilities that could literally change Stan's life.

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So, based on what they've seen today...

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It is time for us to vote.

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..will the couple choose property in the UK or Australia?

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-Australia.

-Australia.

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Finding a house with a gym, that is, you know, an unbelievable,

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you know, option for us to try.

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It was literally like we had won the lottery when we saw the gym.

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Because I just thought of all the things that Stan could do

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to progress, and that was really, really special.

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With her heart set on a house that could change Stan's life,

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Andrea knows, as the sole earner,

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the pressure is on to get a job with a good salary.

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At home, Andrea is a deputy sister of the A&E department

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at Leicester Royal Infirmary.

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Finding something similar in Australia is pivotal.

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The job's got to be right. Not just from a financial point of view.

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I mean, that has DEFINITELY got to be right.

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If I had to leave where I work to work somewhere that wasn't right,

0:22:430:22:47

didn't feel right, wasn't as comfortable,

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I don't think I could do it.

0:22:490:22:50

Former mechanic Stan wants to return to work,

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and he is already taking steps to make it happen.

0:22:530:22:56

I've been told that I can't be a mechanic.

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And I can't...while my arm is not working as good.

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So, I've thought about pushing myself to be a teacher of mechanics.

0:23:040:23:10

It's very important to me, you know, to get back to work.

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That is my independence.

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Today, Andrea and Stan will get to explore work options in Brisbane.

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Andrea is visiting a private hospital

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and is shown around by fellow emergency room nurse,

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Diana Brown, who also happens to be an expat.

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-This is our resus area.

-Mm-hmm.

-So we have Resus 1 and Resus 2.

0:23:310:23:37

Andrea is used to shift work

0:23:370:23:39

and is prepared to do more of the same in Australia.

0:23:390:23:41

-What hours do you work?

-Do a 38-hour week. We have 12-hour shifts here.

0:23:410:23:46

You can do eight-hour shifts.

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So you would start at seven and finish at half past three.

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Meanwhile, Stan is meeting a teacher at a further education college

0:23:520:23:56

to find out if teaching mechanics could be a realistic option.

0:23:560:23:59

Is that on for bodywork, is it?

0:24:000:24:02

-Yeah, well, this area is particularly set up for servicing.

-Yeah.

0:24:020:24:06

For training and for servicing.

0:24:060:24:07

These particular guys are doing a maintenance course at the moment.

0:24:070:24:11

It's really nice being back here cos it kind of reminds me of,

0:24:110:24:14

like, you know, when I was a mechanic.

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As Stan's reacquainted with the smell of diesel,

0:24:170:24:19

Andrea meets with the hospital's Director Of Learning And Development,

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Donna Bonney.

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Determined to make the move,

0:24:240:24:26

Andrea needs to know there's actually work out there.

0:24:260:24:29

At the moment, probably wouldn't be as many

0:24:290:24:32

employer-sponsored visas in the big cities.

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Maybe a better option is to go with a recruitment agency

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and just tell them you're looking for an employer-sponsored visa

0:24:400:24:43

and they would have then a number of health services

0:24:430:24:45

that they could refer you to.

0:24:450:24:48

Finding the level of work Andrea wants might take a while

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but would the money be worth the wait?

0:24:510:24:54

I think if you came across

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and you were up on the high-level paypoint of a registered nurse,

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given your years of experience,

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you'd be bringing home an average of 85,000.

0:25:020:25:07

It's a big jump

0:25:070:25:09

from what I'm on at the minute.

0:25:090:25:11

-Mm.

-In fact, it's about double my wage.

0:25:110:25:13

-Wow!

-Yeah, that's just about double my wage.

0:25:130:25:16

Wow! I'm absolutely gobsmacked.

0:25:170:25:20

That's a brilliant result for Andrea.

0:25:200:25:23

But are Stan's qualifications transferable?

0:25:230:25:26

To start, you're at least going to need your certificate

0:25:260:25:29

in training and investment.

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That would be a minimum requirement to start.

0:25:300:25:32

Then you can work on your diploma.

0:25:320:25:34

Cos at the moment, I'm, you know, classed as disabled.

0:25:340:25:38

-Mm-hm.

-Would that affect me being able to work?

0:25:380:25:42

Definitely not.

0:25:420:25:43

There's teachers here already with disabilities, that are teaching.

0:25:430:25:46

Much like yourself, they've had an incident

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and they've ended up with a disability

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and now they're teaching and loving it. It's great.

0:25:520:25:54

How much would you think I will be able to earn as a teacher?

0:25:540:25:58

As a fully qualified teacher,

0:25:580:26:00

you should be looking at around 85,000 a year.

0:26:000:26:03

-Yeah, that is really good.

-Excellent.

0:26:030:26:05

Sounds like something up your alley, then?

0:26:050:26:07

-Definitely.

-Yeah.

0:26:070:26:09

That's a real incentive for Stan to get back to employment.

0:26:090:26:12

So based on today's experience,

0:26:120:26:14

will the couple choose work in Australia or the UK?

0:26:140:26:18

Australia!

0:26:230:26:25

Australia!

0:26:250:26:26

-You want Australia?

-Yeah, I do.

0:26:280:26:30

It's exciting. Nerve-racking!

0:26:300:26:32

I didn't think I would like it as much as I did.

0:26:320:26:35

The facilities for training was beyond what I expected,

0:26:350:26:39

beyond what I had when I was at school.

0:26:390:26:41

And the wages, as well -

0:26:410:26:44

amazing.

0:26:440:26:45

And it would make a big difference to us -

0:26:450:26:48

me working, as well.

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With the potential to earn enough for that dream house,

0:26:580:27:01

Andrea and Stan's hopes for a new beginning in Australia

0:27:010:27:04

are looking more and more likely.

0:27:040:27:06

But with Stan's rehabilitation central to everything they do,

0:27:060:27:10

will the Aussie lifestyle meet their needs?

0:27:100:27:13

The couple head out to explore the city

0:27:150:27:17

on a day which will also give them time

0:27:170:27:20

to reflect on their experiences so far.

0:27:200:27:22

It's absolutely fab.

0:27:220:27:24

In the UK, Stan relies on support from several organisations

0:27:240:27:27

and it's important they can replicate that in Australia.

0:27:270:27:31

The couple meet Jo, a local physiotherapist,

0:27:320:27:35

to see if Brisbane can offer the same facilities.

0:27:350:27:38

Our life is wrapped pretty much around Stan and his physio,

0:27:380:27:42

-and getting him back...

-Yeah.

0:27:420:27:44

-..to as good as he is ever going to get.

-Yeah.

0:27:440:27:46

So we have our private physio at home

0:27:460:27:48

-and then he goes to the gym with a support worker as well...

-Yeah.

0:27:480:27:51

..from the charity called Headway.

0:27:510:27:53

-Headway, we have the same in Australia, as well.

-Oh, do you?

0:27:530:27:55

-Yeah.

-Oh, that's useful to know.

-They're based at the Gold Coast

0:27:550:27:58

and there are certainly other similar organisations.

0:27:580:28:03

Do you think that the service will be able to help him

0:28:030:28:06

-and to help him to progress and continue?

-For sure, yeah.

0:28:060:28:08

Yeah, for sure.

0:28:080:28:10

We've got excellent, excellent neurorehab service in Australia.

0:28:100:28:13

It's been an enlightening day.

0:28:150:28:17

But do the couple believe Australia could offer Stan

0:28:170:28:20

the lifestyle he needs?

0:28:200:28:21

It's time to vote.

0:28:210:28:23

-Australia!

-Australia.

0:28:260:28:28

The whole point about us moving this far away from friends and family

0:28:290:28:33

is for Stan and what rehabilitation we've got on offer.

0:28:330:28:38

And just the general lifestyle that Australia could offer both of us.

0:28:380:28:42

I just want to keep trying and keep trying to get fit again.

0:28:420:28:46

You know, and I want that for, you know,

0:28:460:28:48

for Andrea, you know, for our family.

0:28:480:28:51

You know, I just want that in general.

0:28:510:28:53

This is an opportunity for us to get back into what we want.

0:28:530:28:57

Before Stan's accident,

0:29:120:29:14

biking was a real passion for the couple.

0:29:140:29:16

And it's a hobby they're both keen to get back to.

0:29:160:29:19

-Hey, Stan. I'm Jason, how are you?

-Hi, Jason.

-Hi.

0:29:190:29:22

The couple are meeting up with a group that rides spider bikes.

0:29:220:29:26

They're a three-wheeled bike built for speed and stability

0:29:260:29:29

that are popular with disabled users.

0:29:290:29:32

-How are you doing?

-Good. Yourself?

-Not bad.

0:29:320:29:34

-Daniel rides the black one over there.

-Oh, yeah?

0:29:340:29:37

With, obviously, the wheelchair on the back. So...

0:29:370:29:41

-Looking at getting back on a bike?

-Definitely.

0:29:410:29:43

-Good to hear.

-Yeah.

0:29:430:29:46

I was saying, like, I'm kind of gutted about what's happened

0:29:460:29:49

-but I'm determined to get better from it.

-Yeah. Yeah.

0:29:490:29:52

No, with these things,

0:29:520:29:54

there's always a way to get back on a motorbike!

0:29:540:29:56

My accident was from scuba-diving

0:29:560:29:58

but I had doctors saying that I wouldn't be, excuse me,

0:29:580:30:01

driving a car or riding a motorbike or... And I do...

0:30:010:30:04

Everything they've told me I couldn't do, I'm doing.

0:30:040:30:08

And at the end of the day,

0:30:080:30:09

it's pretty much just to prove someone wrong.

0:30:090:30:11

Oh, yeah.

0:30:110:30:12

But if you've got something you want to do, then you've got to do it.

0:30:120:30:15

This is a really big day for Andrea and Stan.

0:30:150:30:19

Seeing Stan on the bike is fantastic.

0:30:190:30:20

You know, first time since the accident, you know, it's just...

0:30:200:30:23

It's amazing. It really is amazing. I'm so happy for him.

0:30:230:30:26

It's unbelievable, the fact that, you know,

0:30:260:30:29

it's been over two years since I've, you know, been on a bike.

0:30:290:30:32

So I'm so excited for that.

0:30:320:30:35

It's a dream come true.

0:30:350:30:37

Amazing experience to be on a bike again.

0:30:590:31:02

Yeah, definitely.

0:31:020:31:03

For them, it's been yet another glimpse

0:31:030:31:05

of the life they could be leading down under.

0:31:050:31:08

If we get over here, I'm definitely going to join the club.

0:31:080:31:11

I love going for rides, going for drives.

0:31:110:31:14

You know, I love being part of the team, like.

0:31:140:31:18

Fantastic. Really friendly. Thank you guys for all coming out.

0:31:180:31:21

-We really do appreciate it.

-Definitely.

-Yeah, no. Made our day.

0:31:210:31:24

-Definitely made our day.

-We put a smile on both your faces.

0:31:240:31:26

-What more could we want?!

-That's what it's about.

-Yeah!

0:31:260:31:29

So far, Stan and Andrea have discovered

0:31:400:31:43

Australia could offer them everything they've ever wanted

0:31:430:31:46

and more.

0:31:460:31:47

But affording their dream life could be a different matter.

0:31:470:31:50

And getting the right price for their home in the UK

0:31:500:31:53

will be crucial.

0:31:530:31:54

I think, in the current climate, I think maybe about 160.

0:31:540:31:57

That would be nice.

0:31:570:31:58

So we've sent round two estate agents

0:31:580:32:00

to find out its value.

0:32:000:32:02

Oh, so... Lounge.

0:32:030:32:05

Nice bay window to the side.

0:32:060:32:08

And light, good light either end.

0:32:080:32:09

Oh, that wasn't dusted!

0:32:110:32:13

'OK, so the kitchen.'

0:32:140:32:16

A nice family space.

0:32:160:32:18

Room for dining, as well as the preparation.

0:32:180:32:21

Oh, you can see there's no handle on that door.

0:32:240:32:27

Again, big picture window onto the garden.

0:32:290:32:31

And then the bathroom is a little bit dated.

0:32:310:32:34

-'The floor brings it to life a little bit.'

-Very dated!

0:32:340:32:37

But you can probably get away with it

0:32:370:32:39

cos it's all white and contemporary. It's clean and it's fine.

0:32:390:32:42

I would suggest it should be put on the open market to test

0:32:420:32:45

at £165,000, with a effective "for sale" figure

0:32:450:32:50

of 155.

0:32:500:32:52

Really?

0:32:520:32:53

I'd value it at around 175,000.

0:32:530:32:56

For a quicker sale,

0:32:560:32:58

I'd suggest an asking price in the region of 169,950 be quoted.

0:32:580:33:01

I preferred the second guy!

0:33:030:33:05

-Oh, definitely.

-But yeah, I thought that, cos of...

0:33:050:33:08

the bathroom.

0:33:080:33:09

If the bathroom was done, the garden was finished...

0:33:090:33:13

..I think it might get a little bit more. But not that much.

0:33:150:33:18

The valuation is roughly what they expected.

0:33:180:33:21

But Stan and Andrea both need to know

0:33:210:33:23

if they can afford to live in Australia.

0:33:230:33:25

We've prepared a cost-of-living comparison,

0:33:250:33:28

starting with their weekly food shop.

0:33:280:33:30

Breakfast cereals. Oh, £1.52 worse off.

0:33:300:33:34

Same with tea bags?

0:33:340:33:36

Oh, my word! £2.54?!

0:33:360:33:38

Oh, dear, you're going to have to cut that out.

0:33:380:33:40

-No, you've got no chance.

-No?

0:33:400:33:42

Not unless you want to live with a grouch!

0:33:420:33:44

When Andrea's at work in the UK,

0:33:440:33:46

Stan relies on ready meals.

0:33:460:33:48

But they don't come cheap in Brisbane.

0:33:480:33:50

There's £7 difference!

0:33:500:33:52

-You'll have to start cooking.

-I'll have to learn to cook.

0:33:520:33:54

Yeah, you're going to have to.

0:33:540:33:56

-So food, we're £27...

-Different.

-..worse off.

0:33:560:34:02

Yeah.

0:34:020:34:03

Per week.

0:34:030:34:05

Looking at the bigger living costs,

0:34:050:34:07

with Andrea being the sole earner,

0:34:070:34:09

any increase in bills could make things too tight,

0:34:090:34:12

especially as they're basing their calculations on the dream house.

0:34:120:34:16

This is when it comes down to it.

0:34:160:34:18

Because...

0:34:180:34:19

On our mortgage per month, we'll be £520 worse.

0:34:210:34:25

Cos it's...

0:34:250:34:26

The Australian property is more expensive than ours.

0:34:260:34:29

The electricity here is a lot higher.

0:34:290:34:32

It's £133 extra per month.

0:34:320:34:35

Our total monthly outgoings...

0:34:350:34:37

We're £1,000...

0:34:370:34:39

worse off.

0:34:390:34:41

But if Andrea finds the job she wants,

0:34:410:34:44

she would potentially be earning almost £30,000 more

0:34:440:34:47

than she does in UK.

0:34:470:34:49

When she factors that in,

0:34:490:34:50

will it be enough to deflect the hit?

0:34:500:34:52

At the end of the month,

0:34:560:34:57

we are £496...

0:34:570:34:58

better off.

0:34:580:35:00

-This is just on your wage?

-That's just on my wage.

0:35:020:35:06

-That is unbelievable.

-Yeah.

0:35:060:35:08

I'm quite shocked by that, actually.

0:35:080:35:10

Happily shocked! Yeah, really shocked by that.

0:35:100:35:13

So, based on today's figures,

0:35:130:35:15

will the couple opt for finances in the UK or Australia?

0:35:150:35:19

-I think it's time for a vote. You ready?

-I reckon so.

0:35:190:35:22

-Yeah.

-OK, go.

0:35:220:35:23

-England.

-Aus...

0:35:320:35:34

I'm only joking. Australia!

0:35:340:35:36

You caught me by surprise there!

0:35:380:35:40

I didn't want to be too predictable.

0:35:400:35:42

You know, we want to start a family together.

0:35:420:35:45

You know, I want to progress.

0:35:450:35:48

You know, I want to get back to work.

0:35:480:35:50

And it makes it all so very possible.

0:35:500:35:54

The week just keeps getting better

0:35:590:36:01

for Andrea and Stan.

0:36:010:36:02

But there's one major obstacle still to overcome,

0:36:020:36:05

as they contemplate leaving the loved ones

0:36:050:36:08

who have supported them through the accident and trauma

0:36:080:36:11

of the past two years.

0:36:110:36:12

-Are you ready for this?

-No, but let's do it.

0:36:120:36:15

-Hi, guys! How you doing?

-Hi, there.

0:36:170:36:20

Hello! Hope you're having a good time down there and,

0:36:200:36:23

you know, having fun.

0:36:230:36:25

Hello, Stan, Andrea, I'm missing you both

0:36:250:36:28

and I'm wondering how you're both getting on.

0:36:280:36:31

Hello, Auntie Andrea! Hope you're all right, hope the weather's nice.

0:36:310:36:35

When you go up, to Andrea and Stan, what they say in Welsh,

0:36:350:36:40

a big cwtch, it's like a big hug.

0:36:400:36:43

You walk in the house and you feel really welcome.

0:36:430:36:47

Andrea, I'd say she's a very hard-working career girl.

0:36:470:36:53

Heart of gold.

0:36:530:36:54

You want to see Andrea now? You'd like to play with Auntie Andrea?

0:36:560:36:59

I absolutely adore Stan.

0:37:010:37:02

When he first told me he was going to marry Andrea,

0:37:020:37:06

couldn't have been any prouder than I am.

0:37:060:37:09

And everything that he's gone through, well,

0:37:090:37:12

I just love him to bits.

0:37:120:37:14

The accident was horrendous and I know, you know,

0:37:140:37:19

we didn't think Stan was going to pull through.

0:37:190:37:22

One day when they were moving him to the brain injury unit,

0:37:220:37:25

and I was holding his hand,

0:37:250:37:27

he had his eyes open, because his eyes kept opening

0:37:270:37:30

and his eyes opened, and he looked straight at me

0:37:300:37:34

and I said to him, I just went "Don't be scared."

0:37:340:37:37

I said, "I know where you are is dark, and you're scared,

0:37:370:37:40

"but don't be scared, just come back to us."

0:37:400:37:44

"They're giving up on you. I won't give up on you as long as you come back."

0:37:440:37:49

Andrea, she just found the inner strength

0:37:490:37:51

and carried on and carried on.

0:37:510:37:54

She was determined she wasn't going to lose Stan.

0:37:540:37:56

To see him progress from not being able to move them arms,

0:37:560:37:59

told him he'd never use that arm again, and to be able to

0:37:590:38:02

use that arm again, moved the arm,

0:38:020:38:04

now he's walking again,

0:38:040:38:06

he's talking good - it's just amazing, if I'm honest with you.

0:38:060:38:09

It's just touched me, touched my heart. He's a legend.

0:38:090:38:12

-I always say he's a legend, but he is a legend.

-He always calls you a legend!

0:38:120:38:16

If they go, I think it will have

0:38:160:38:18

an impact on quite a lot of their family and friends,

0:38:180:38:21

because I think they, they're loved by everybody,

0:38:210:38:23

to be honest.

0:38:230:38:25

I am sure you'll make the right decision, no matter what that is.

0:38:250:38:29

You know you're loved unconditionally.

0:38:290:38:32

We will miss you both.

0:38:320:38:34

Love you.

0:38:340:38:36

I want you to do the best for you.

0:38:360:38:38

If this is what you want to do and this is what you want to be,

0:38:380:38:41

then go for it.

0:38:410:38:43

It's just very difficult.

0:38:440:38:46

You know, she's not going to be just up the road,

0:38:470:38:50

she's going to be miles away.

0:38:500:38:51

I just want her to be happy, and Stan to be happy.

0:38:570:39:01

But...

0:39:010:39:02

I don't want them to go that far away.

0:39:040:39:06

That was worse than I thought.

0:39:220:39:24

Just seeing how much they're hurting.

0:39:240:39:28

All because I want to move to the other side of the world,

0:39:280:39:32

and I feel quite selfish for that.

0:39:320:39:34

-The most difficult part was actually seeing my sister.

-Mm.

0:39:340:39:38

She's so strong, isn't she?

0:39:400:39:43

It's just really bad for her, the accident, I reckon,

0:39:430:39:47

how all the family and my friends all pulled together, regardless

0:39:470:39:52

and, you know, it's hard to see that they're upset.

0:39:520:39:57

I don't think you fully comprehend the impact that you have.

0:39:580:40:02

I don't think you can, because if you did, nobody would ever move.

0:40:020:40:07

Nobody would ever move.

0:40:070:40:09

Watching messages from loved ones

0:40:090:40:12

was a heartbreaking experience for Andrea and Stan.

0:40:120:40:15

So as the potentially life-changing final decision draws closer,

0:40:150:40:20

will the reality of having to say goodbye

0:40:200:40:22

derail their plans for a new beginning?

0:40:220:40:25

You know, we've been humbled, well,

0:40:300:40:32

I've been humbled by the whole experience and the fact that

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I can say, in fact, this is actually what I can offer you.

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And that will help you progress and get his dreams as well,

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because his dreams are just as important as mine.

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I love Andrea so much that, you know, that

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if she's happy, I'm happy.

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The week has offered the couple a glimpse of what they could gain -

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and lose.

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I particularly enjoyed the going on the motorbikes.

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Because obviously, it's the motorbike

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that put me in this place

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and I've always been taught, you know,

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if you're scared of anything,

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it's always boss of you.

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To be on a motorbike,

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it's closer to that dream, you know, of beating that boss, really.

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My heart and head are arguing about where to go, if I'm honest. Erm...

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And it's really hard, because I'm really conflicted.

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I was like, yes, I know this, yes, I know this, yes, I know this,

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about where my vote's going to go,

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but it is actually really conflicted, it's kind of torn.

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So, will the final turn of the cards

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see Andrea and Stan choose life in the UK or Australia?

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OK, so we've had a really fantastic time this week in Brisbane.

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We've experienced some amazing things,

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we've seen some amazing sights,

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but now it's time for our final vote.

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-You ready?

-Oh, yes, I'm ready.

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-BOTH:

-Australia!

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This week, oh! Wow, It's just blown my mind, actually.

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It's opened my eyes to some new ideas,

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new things that we could do together.

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Yes, it's definitely surpassed my expectations.

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The future's bright and sunny.

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Future's looking good. Yeah.

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You know, have a healthier lifestyle.

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Hopefully, you know, we'd do well, moneywise

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and, you know, we'd have a better life financially as well.

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You never know, I might actually get a tan!

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It looks like Andrea and Stan's dream could really come true.

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It's been a tough journey for the couple

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and we wish them all the very best

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as they set off on the road to their new future.

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