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If you passionately believe moving to the other side of the world | 0:00:02 | 0:00:05 | |
would give you and your partner the fresh start you desperately | 0:00:05 | 0:00:08 | |
wanted, how far would you go to make your dream become a reality? | 0:00:08 | 0:00:14 | |
Andrea and Stan Baum always dreamed of a move to Australia | 0:00:14 | 0:00:18 | |
but in 2011, everything changed. | 0:00:18 | 0:00:21 | |
Stan had an accident and that blew our whole worlds into pieces. | 0:00:21 | 0:00:26 | |
Stan was left with life-changing injuries but miraculously, | 0:00:26 | 0:00:29 | |
he's recovering | 0:00:29 | 0:00:31 | |
and the couple are desperate for a fresh start. | 0:00:31 | 0:00:33 | |
I love her really. As long as I'm with her, that is all that matters. | 0:00:33 | 0:00:37 | |
-But will what they can gain Down Under... -Oh, my God! -Overwhelmed. | 0:00:37 | 0:00:42 | |
-Sorry. -..be something they could actually afford? -I would work... | 0:00:42 | 0:00:46 | |
..till my bones ache to provide it. | 0:00:48 | 0:00:51 | |
Over 30 times the size of the UK, and with breathtaking beaches, | 0:01:16 | 0:01:20 | |
amazing architecture and a rich and diverse culture, | 0:01:20 | 0:01:23 | |
Australia has been referred to as the biggest playground in the world. | 0:01:23 | 0:01:28 | |
And with a population of just 23 million, there's plenty | 0:01:28 | 0:01:31 | |
of space for new arrivals. | 0:01:31 | 0:01:34 | |
But for many, the move is far from straightforward. | 0:01:34 | 0:01:38 | |
After an incredibly challenging few years, | 0:01:38 | 0:01:41 | |
Andrea and Stan have just one week in Brisbane to see | 0:01:41 | 0:01:44 | |
if Australia really can offer them a second chance at life. | 0:01:44 | 0:01:48 | |
At the end of the week, they will face an agonising decision, | 0:01:48 | 0:01:51 | |
whether to stay in the UK or to make the move Down Under. | 0:01:51 | 0:01:55 | |
To get to Brisbane in Eastern Australia, | 0:01:57 | 0:02:00 | |
the Baums have spent a gruelling 22 1/2 hours on a plane. | 0:02:00 | 0:02:04 | |
And when they touch down on Aussie soil, | 0:02:08 | 0:02:10 | |
the distance from the UK really hits home. | 0:02:10 | 0:02:13 | |
I'm like, "It's just Australia, it's just Australia," but actually... | 0:02:13 | 0:02:17 | |
it's really far. | 0:02:17 | 0:02:19 | |
So now they've arrived Down Under for the first time, | 0:02:19 | 0:02:22 | |
what are the couple looking forward to most? | 0:02:22 | 0:02:25 | |
Just the anticipation, to see if it's viable, | 0:02:25 | 0:02:27 | |
if it's possible to live over here comfortably. | 0:02:27 | 0:02:30 | |
I need to make an informed choice of whether or not | 0:02:33 | 0:02:35 | |
we can financially live the dream that we want to live. | 0:02:35 | 0:02:38 | |
Back in the UK, Stan, a former motor mechanic, | 0:02:45 | 0:02:48 | |
and Andrea, a nurse, live in Loughborough in Leicestershire. | 0:02:48 | 0:02:51 | |
They won't be here long if Andrea has her way. | 0:02:51 | 0:02:55 | |
The Oz dream is kind of my little baby. | 0:02:55 | 0:02:59 | |
I've wanted to go since I can remember. | 0:02:59 | 0:03:02 | |
She has always said, right from the start, | 0:03:02 | 0:03:05 | |
she wants to go Australia. | 0:03:05 | 0:03:07 | |
I thought about it and the only way we could be together was for me | 0:03:07 | 0:03:12 | |
to agree to it. | 0:03:12 | 0:03:14 | |
We've had our five-year plan and we were walking towards it. | 0:03:14 | 0:03:18 | |
We both worked hard and were both on the same page | 0:03:18 | 0:03:21 | |
of where we wanted to be. | 0:03:21 | 0:03:22 | |
Tragedy struck in 2011 when Stan was involved in an horrific | 0:03:29 | 0:03:33 | |
motorbike accident. | 0:03:33 | 0:03:36 | |
Six months after we got married, | 0:03:36 | 0:03:39 | |
Stan had an accident | 0:03:39 | 0:03:41 | |
and that basically blew our whole worlds into pieces. | 0:03:41 | 0:03:46 | |
The last thing I can remember was the start of September 2010, | 0:03:46 | 0:03:52 | |
which was when we got married. | 0:03:52 | 0:03:55 | |
I can barely remember even getting married. | 0:03:55 | 0:03:58 | |
Stan had quite a significant brain injury and broke pretty much | 0:03:58 | 0:04:05 | |
every bone in his body, literally from his head down to his toes. | 0:04:05 | 0:04:11 | |
Stan spent six weeks in a coma. | 0:04:11 | 0:04:14 | |
His loved ones were told to expect the worst but Andrea | 0:04:14 | 0:04:17 | |
and Stan's sister, Mel, refused to give up on him. | 0:04:17 | 0:04:20 | |
I don't know what gave me the hope. | 0:04:20 | 0:04:22 | |
I don't know what gave me the strength. | 0:04:22 | 0:04:25 | |
Yeah, so... I said no, I didn't believe it. | 0:04:27 | 0:04:31 | |
I said I wouldn't believe it. I said, "I don't believe it." | 0:04:31 | 0:04:34 | |
I knew who he was before and I just knew that if he had any, | 0:04:34 | 0:04:38 | |
literally the smallest chance, he would fight. | 0:04:38 | 0:04:41 | |
I can't believe what I put my family through... | 0:04:43 | 0:04:47 | |
and... | 0:04:47 | 0:04:48 | |
The way they talk about it, it does feel like it's not me. | 0:04:50 | 0:04:55 | |
It's... | 0:04:55 | 0:04:57 | |
I said, "He will come back. I know he will." And I said, | 0:05:00 | 0:05:03 | |
"I don't believe it and I won't believe it." | 0:05:03 | 0:05:05 | |
He did, you know, and he came back to us and we've pushed him | 0:05:05 | 0:05:10 | |
and motivated him. | 0:05:10 | 0:05:12 | |
Against all odds and with his family's support, | 0:05:17 | 0:05:20 | |
Stan was on the road to recovery. | 0:05:20 | 0:05:22 | |
The early part of my recovery was painful, trying to do the physio, | 0:05:26 | 0:05:33 | |
even trying to learn to walk. | 0:05:33 | 0:05:36 | |
He's making very small milestones, | 0:05:36 | 0:05:40 | |
which are fantastic. | 0:05:40 | 0:05:42 | |
Stan can now get himself up, wash, get dressed, tie his own shoelaces, | 0:05:44 | 0:05:48 | |
making me cups of tea. | 0:05:48 | 0:05:50 | |
You know, it's having to learn to do everything again. | 0:05:50 | 0:05:55 | |
Stan's rehabilitation will take time | 0:05:55 | 0:05:57 | |
but the couple are determined to look towards a happier future. | 0:05:57 | 0:06:01 | |
They rely on Andrea's income as a nurse | 0:06:01 | 0:06:03 | |
but if Stan could return to work, it would end their financial pressures. | 0:06:03 | 0:06:08 | |
We don't have the most comfortable of living. | 0:06:08 | 0:06:10 | |
We literally went down from two wages | 0:06:10 | 0:06:12 | |
and Stan was the main breadwinner, down to me. | 0:06:12 | 0:06:15 | |
So, that took a big knock. | 0:06:15 | 0:06:17 | |
A big change for us and it has been hard on us both. | 0:06:17 | 0:06:21 | |
I feel sorry for the fact that I'm having to put Andrea through this | 0:06:21 | 0:06:25 | |
but she's willing to do it. | 0:06:25 | 0:06:28 | |
She is willing to stay and fight as long as I keep pushing myself. | 0:06:28 | 0:06:33 | |
But no matter how much they might gain, | 0:06:33 | 0:06:36 | |
moving will mean sacrificing relationships with family | 0:06:36 | 0:06:39 | |
and friends who supported them through the last few years. | 0:06:39 | 0:06:43 | |
The thought of moving without them is really upsetting and heartbreaking. | 0:06:43 | 0:06:47 | |
I needed their support actually more than I realised I needed at the time. | 0:06:47 | 0:06:52 | |
Looking back, it's easy to look back with hindsight. | 0:06:52 | 0:06:55 | |
If I hadn't have had them there, I don't think I could have coped. | 0:06:55 | 0:07:01 | |
They meant the world and I'm indebted to them for life. | 0:07:02 | 0:07:05 | |
Despite strong emotional ties, Andrea and Stan are desperate | 0:07:05 | 0:07:10 | |
to put the past behind them and start afresh in Australia. | 0:07:10 | 0:07:13 | |
It is where Andrea definitely wants to be and... | 0:07:13 | 0:07:17 | |
Well, I just, I'm hoping that it's going to be good for us. | 0:07:18 | 0:07:23 | |
We are literally go to be leaving everything behind to try | 0:07:23 | 0:07:27 | |
and start a new life again and start a new chapter, a new book. | 0:07:27 | 0:07:30 | |
It's literally everything. Everything is on the line. | 0:07:32 | 0:07:36 | |
Stan and Andrea have been through incredibly tough times. | 0:07:46 | 0:07:50 | |
Now they've just one week to see if Australia can offer them | 0:07:50 | 0:07:53 | |
the opportunities and lifestyle they are dreaming of. | 0:07:53 | 0:07:56 | |
For their trial visit, | 0:07:56 | 0:07:58 | |
they are staying in a two-bedroom apartment in Brisbane city centre. | 0:07:58 | 0:08:02 | |
It's their first taste of Aussie-style living. | 0:08:02 | 0:08:04 | |
Absolutely stunning. | 0:08:04 | 0:08:06 | |
First impressions are good. | 0:08:06 | 0:08:08 | |
-Look at the view. -Wow! -Oh, my God! | 0:08:09 | 0:08:12 | |
High is not one of my specialities but you know what, | 0:08:12 | 0:08:15 | |
-I will learn to love it. -Amazing! -Amazing. Absolutely amazing. | 0:08:15 | 0:08:21 | |
But after a look around the apartment, | 0:08:21 | 0:08:24 | |
Andrea has a tiny grumble. | 0:08:24 | 0:08:26 | |
I would like a little bit more living space if I'm perfectly honest. | 0:08:26 | 0:08:30 | |
A bigger kitchen. | 0:08:30 | 0:08:31 | |
A bigger kitchen because I do trash the kitchen when I cook. | 0:08:31 | 0:08:34 | |
But all in all, is their home for the week a hit? | 0:08:34 | 0:08:37 | |
If this was what we can afford, I would suffer in silence... | 0:08:37 | 0:08:42 | |
-which will make a change! -Yeah, a big change! | 0:08:42 | 0:08:46 | |
The early signs look promising but Andrea is already feeling | 0:08:46 | 0:08:50 | |
pressure to provide the life they want. | 0:08:50 | 0:08:53 | |
It's like saying, thank goodness, | 0:08:53 | 0:08:54 | |
this little carrot in front of you but you will never catch it. | 0:08:54 | 0:08:57 | |
That's quite scary. | 0:08:57 | 0:09:00 | |
This was Andrea's dream, right from the start but basically, | 0:09:00 | 0:09:05 | |
you know, the main reason that I have gone with the idea | 0:09:05 | 0:09:11 | |
is I love her really and you know, whatever she wants to do, | 0:09:11 | 0:09:17 | |
as long as I'm with her, that's all that matters. | 0:09:17 | 0:09:20 | |
It's starting again, starting somewhere new, fresh. | 0:09:20 | 0:09:25 | |
Scary, really scary! Really exciting. | 0:09:26 | 0:09:30 | |
Back in the UK, home for Stan and Andrea is a three-bedroom | 0:09:39 | 0:09:42 | |
detached house in Loughborough | 0:09:42 | 0:09:44 | |
but how important is finding the right place in Australia? | 0:09:44 | 0:09:48 | |
For any dream, you need a base | 0:09:48 | 0:09:50 | |
and your heart is your home, isn't it? | 0:09:50 | 0:09:52 | |
You're going to need that. Yeah, it's really important. | 0:09:52 | 0:09:57 | |
What kind of house would they be happy to call home? | 0:09:57 | 0:10:01 | |
Just something relatively modern, very simplistic. | 0:10:02 | 0:10:06 | |
You don't want people looking in... | 0:10:06 | 0:10:08 | |
Yeah, we don't want to be overcrowded, overlooked. | 0:10:08 | 0:10:11 | |
Two toilets, pretty please, | 0:10:13 | 0:10:15 | |
whether that's two bathrooms or just two toilets, I'm not fussy. | 0:10:15 | 0:10:20 | |
Today, we will show the Baums three houses based on what they think | 0:10:22 | 0:10:25 | |
they can afford, what they would ideally like and one in between. | 0:10:25 | 0:10:29 | |
Only after they've seen each one will they find out its cost. | 0:10:29 | 0:10:33 | |
First up is a four-bedroom bungalow in the suburb of | 0:10:35 | 0:10:37 | |
Springfield Lakes, just 35 minutes' drive from Brisbane city centre. | 0:10:37 | 0:10:42 | |
It's an up-and-coming area, offering good value for money. | 0:10:42 | 0:10:45 | |
But will this house be within their £250,000 budget? | 0:10:45 | 0:10:50 | |
-Double garage. -That's amazing. -Yeah. | 0:10:50 | 0:10:53 | |
-Sorry, sorry. -It's all right. It's all right. | 0:10:54 | 0:10:57 | |
-You are scary, you are. -Just testing! | 0:10:59 | 0:11:03 | |
-Summery, isn't it? -Yeah. There's light. | 0:11:08 | 0:11:12 | |
Ex-mechanic Stan caught sight of the garage from the road, | 0:11:12 | 0:11:15 | |
but what would he make of it inside? | 0:11:15 | 0:11:17 | |
-Beautiful. -This is... -I've found my room! -Yeah! | 0:11:17 | 0:11:22 | |
All we need is a toilet in here and you're set for life. | 0:11:22 | 0:11:26 | |
It is all looking good but in the kitchen, | 0:11:26 | 0:11:28 | |
Stan spots something else of interest. | 0:11:28 | 0:11:31 | |
-What's that? -Washing machine. | 0:11:31 | 0:11:33 | |
Stan, welcome to the world of a washing machine. | 0:11:33 | 0:11:37 | |
-I need the instructions. -Yeah. | 0:11:37 | 0:11:39 | |
Guess who doesn't do the washing but how does this compare to what | 0:11:39 | 0:11:42 | |
they are used to? | 0:11:42 | 0:11:44 | |
Our kitchen back home is... | 0:11:44 | 0:11:46 | |
a little bit bigger but it's all kind of closed in, | 0:11:46 | 0:11:50 | |
so this feels bigger. | 0:11:50 | 0:11:52 | |
With four bedrooms and two bathrooms, | 0:11:52 | 0:11:54 | |
this house ticks all the boxes but not everything | 0:11:54 | 0:11:57 | |
is quite to their taste. | 0:11:57 | 0:11:59 | |
Some of the tiles and some of the decor is a little bit... | 0:11:59 | 0:12:02 | |
-Just the colours... -A little bit dated | 0:12:02 | 0:12:05 | |
and also a bit tired but it's not a massive thing to do up | 0:12:05 | 0:12:08 | |
because you'd change a lot of things anyway. | 0:12:08 | 0:12:11 | |
Andrea is already visualising her own furnishings in the living room. | 0:12:16 | 0:12:20 | |
TV, I'm sure, we can stick that somewhere. You'll make room for that. | 0:12:20 | 0:12:25 | |
-We might need a bigger TV. -No, we don't need a bigger TV. | 0:12:25 | 0:12:28 | |
-And what about the garden? -Love the garden. Love, love, love the garden. | 0:12:28 | 0:12:33 | |
It's...perfect. The garden is brilliant. Absolutely brilliant. | 0:12:33 | 0:12:38 | |
-Lovely size. -Yeah. | 0:12:38 | 0:12:39 | |
It's a good note to end on but can Stan and Andrea's budget | 0:12:39 | 0:12:44 | |
of around £250,000 stretch to a house like this? | 0:12:44 | 0:12:47 | |
I don't want to know. | 0:12:47 | 0:12:48 | |
-Do you want to see? -Yeah. Really? -Yeah. | 0:12:56 | 0:12:59 | |
-That's surprising. -Yeah. Yeah, that is. -I thought it would be over. | 0:13:01 | 0:13:05 | |
Yeah, I did. | 0:13:05 | 0:13:07 | |
Stan and Andrea could afford this house but with two more | 0:13:07 | 0:13:11 | |
to look at, they aren't committing to anything yet. | 0:13:11 | 0:13:13 | |
Staying in Springfield Lakes, | 0:13:18 | 0:13:20 | |
the next property is one of the area's most popular streets. | 0:13:20 | 0:13:23 | |
With lakes, parks and sporting facilities on the doorstep, | 0:13:23 | 0:13:26 | |
it could be a great base for Stan's rehabilitation | 0:13:26 | 0:13:30 | |
but will it offer the space they want? | 0:13:30 | 0:13:32 | |
It...looks a bit...squished. | 0:13:33 | 0:13:37 | |
It's got a flat driveway. | 0:13:37 | 0:13:39 | |
So, you won't fall. First impressions? Not bad. | 0:13:41 | 0:13:45 | |
And the inside... | 0:13:45 | 0:13:46 | |
It doesn't look the size at all from the front | 0:13:46 | 0:13:51 | |
but it's actually quite spacious in here. | 0:13:51 | 0:13:53 | |
The house also has the two bathrooms Andrea wants. | 0:13:57 | 0:14:01 | |
-Very nice. Good size. -Look at the shower! -User-friendly. | 0:14:01 | 0:14:05 | |
This is a great size shower and I would be able to stand | 0:14:05 | 0:14:09 | |
and put a support in there, to keep my balance... | 0:14:09 | 0:14:12 | |
..and be able to have a shower. | 0:14:13 | 0:14:17 | |
This place is scoring well but will the open-plan kitchen | 0:14:17 | 0:14:20 | |
and living area be to Stan and Andrea's taste? | 0:14:20 | 0:14:23 | |
-I really like this. -Wow, yeah. | 0:14:23 | 0:14:25 | |
-Look at the design. -Yeah. -Beautiful. | 0:14:26 | 0:14:29 | |
It flows and I think that's the beauty of this house. | 0:14:29 | 0:14:31 | |
-It's just flows. -Flows from one to the other. | 0:14:31 | 0:14:35 | |
It's brilliant for Stan's mobility. | 0:14:35 | 0:14:37 | |
With four bedrooms, the house has plenty of room for visitors. | 0:14:37 | 0:14:41 | |
Nice! Really nice. I've got a walk-in wardrobe. | 0:14:41 | 0:14:45 | |
I reckon this is going to be way over our budget. But you know? | 0:14:46 | 0:14:50 | |
It's something to work towards. | 0:14:51 | 0:14:53 | |
Andrea's already thinking about ways to make this work | 0:14:53 | 0:14:56 | |
but will she be as keen when they step outside? | 0:14:56 | 0:14:59 | |
It's quite overlooked actually. | 0:14:59 | 0:15:01 | |
-Yeah. -I must admit I'm not a fan of the garden at all. | 0:15:02 | 0:15:06 | |
When we go out, a lot of people stare at Stan | 0:15:06 | 0:15:09 | |
because he walks funny and has a massive scar. | 0:15:09 | 0:15:12 | |
In your own home, you kind of relax | 0:15:12 | 0:15:15 | |
and nobody has to look at you. | 0:15:15 | 0:15:17 | |
Here, he would still be stared at. | 0:15:19 | 0:15:22 | |
You come out to Australia for the outdoor living and if you don't have | 0:15:23 | 0:15:27 | |
much outdoor living space, you are going to be stuck in the house and... | 0:15:27 | 0:15:32 | |
It's not worth travelling the other side of the world for. | 0:15:34 | 0:15:38 | |
Who wants to be in a warmer country as then have to | 0:15:38 | 0:15:42 | |
stay inside? Nobody. | 0:15:42 | 0:15:43 | |
The property had promised so much | 0:15:43 | 0:15:46 | |
but the lack of outside space is a big let down. | 0:15:46 | 0:15:48 | |
If it was affordable, would they reconsider? | 0:15:48 | 0:15:52 | |
OK, ready? | 0:15:52 | 0:15:53 | |
£260,000. | 0:15:55 | 0:15:57 | |
You used to be able to get a lot more for your money. | 0:16:00 | 0:16:02 | |
With the current exchange rate and every thing else... | 0:16:02 | 0:16:06 | |
it makes things a lot tighter. | 0:16:06 | 0:16:08 | |
At £10,000 over budget, this house isn't totally out of reach | 0:16:09 | 0:16:13 | |
but they don't think it's worth the stretch. | 0:16:13 | 0:16:16 | |
This four-bedroom house is in Redland Bay, a laid-back suburb, | 0:16:22 | 0:16:26 | |
just over 30 miles south-east of Brisbane. | 0:16:26 | 0:16:29 | |
The property promises modern interiors | 0:16:30 | 0:16:32 | |
but can it offer better value for money? | 0:16:32 | 0:16:35 | |
-We can't afford this. -No. | 0:16:35 | 0:16:37 | |
-This is going to be the carrot and stick. -Way out of our budget. | 0:16:37 | 0:16:40 | |
They are shocked by the cost of the properties so far | 0:16:40 | 0:16:43 | |
-but this house has an immediate impact. -Speechless. | 0:16:43 | 0:16:46 | |
-Without words, without words. -For the first time, I'm actually... | 0:16:46 | 0:16:50 | |
..speechless. | 0:16:52 | 0:16:53 | |
Andrea really is struggling for words. | 0:16:53 | 0:16:56 | |
It's just... | 0:16:56 | 0:16:58 | |
-That is amazing. -Stunning. -I can see myself here. -Yeah, yeah. Definitely. | 0:17:00 | 0:17:06 | |
Sounds like this house could be the one to convince them | 0:17:08 | 0:17:11 | |
it's the right move. | 0:17:11 | 0:17:13 | |
I would take one, please. | 0:17:13 | 0:17:15 | |
I would take this in a heartbeat. Wow. | 0:17:15 | 0:17:20 | |
If we could actually afford this, we would not even question it. | 0:17:20 | 0:17:24 | |
-We would just say, "Yes, please." -Yes, please. | 0:17:24 | 0:17:27 | |
And the best is still to come. | 0:17:30 | 0:17:32 | |
This property includes access to some facilities that could be | 0:17:32 | 0:17:36 | |
a huge help to Stan's recovery. | 0:17:36 | 0:17:38 | |
-Oh, my God! Stan, it's a gym! -Oh! | 0:17:38 | 0:17:42 | |
And a fitness centre. It's got a tennis court down there. | 0:17:44 | 0:17:47 | |
-Oh, my God. -Nice one. -Oh, my God! | 0:17:47 | 0:17:50 | |
I don't know what to say. | 0:17:53 | 0:17:55 | |
It's an emotional moment as they realise | 0:18:07 | 0:18:10 | |
what this could mean for Stan. | 0:18:10 | 0:18:13 | |
Just to have that access, | 0:18:13 | 0:18:15 | |
it would make his life easier. | 0:18:15 | 0:18:18 | |
Overwhelmed. | 0:18:20 | 0:18:21 | |
It has been two years since... while I've been like this | 0:18:23 | 0:18:28 | |
and you know, what I've had to go through with the family | 0:18:28 | 0:18:32 | |
and everybody, but they've all been so supportive. | 0:18:32 | 0:18:35 | |
Every day, I train. Every day, I work. Every day, I do something. | 0:18:36 | 0:18:42 | |
Just because I wouldn't need to convert the house. | 0:18:42 | 0:18:45 | |
We wouldn't have to pay for gym equipment, we could just... | 0:18:45 | 0:18:48 | |
Yeah. It would just help him out. | 0:18:51 | 0:18:54 | |
He worked really hard. | 0:18:56 | 0:18:58 | |
He does work really hard to get better. It would be just... | 0:18:58 | 0:19:01 | |
I feel like an idiot. Sorry. | 0:19:01 | 0:19:03 | |
It does... | 0:19:08 | 0:19:09 | |
When you've heard the doctors and they didn't even think | 0:19:16 | 0:19:19 | |
I would wake up, let alone be able to walk and use this arm, | 0:19:19 | 0:19:23 | |
you know, everything has been a challenge but it's been worth it. | 0:19:23 | 0:19:29 | |
You know, and to have this opportunity would be amazing. | 0:19:30 | 0:19:35 | |
If Andrea and Stan were to buy a property like this, | 0:19:35 | 0:19:39 | |
it could genuinely be a life-changing move. | 0:19:39 | 0:19:42 | |
If I could... | 0:19:42 | 0:19:44 | |
work harder to provide that, | 0:19:44 | 0:19:46 | |
if I could work it so that I could afford that, then I would. | 0:19:46 | 0:19:50 | |
If there is no way, then there is no way but if I could, I would work.... | 0:19:52 | 0:19:56 | |
..till my bones ached to provide it. | 0:19:58 | 0:20:00 | |
With so much resting on it, the pair are reluctant to see | 0:20:02 | 0:20:05 | |
how close it is to their £250,000 budget. | 0:20:05 | 0:20:10 | |
Part of me doesn't actually want to know what that says. | 0:20:10 | 0:20:13 | |
-You ready? -No. | 0:20:16 | 0:20:18 | |
SHE LAUGHS | 0:20:24 | 0:20:26 | |
It's over budget, but by just £17,000. | 0:20:34 | 0:20:38 | |
So, depending on job prospects, it could be achievable. | 0:20:38 | 0:20:42 | |
-Where do we sign up? -Yeah! | 0:20:49 | 0:20:52 | |
Yeah. | 0:20:53 | 0:20:55 | |
-That is amazing. -Yeah. | 0:20:56 | 0:20:58 | |
I'm a little bit shell-shocked. | 0:21:00 | 0:21:02 | |
It's been an emotional day of house-hunting. | 0:21:02 | 0:21:05 | |
The first property was smaller than they wanted, | 0:21:10 | 0:21:13 | |
but they did love the garden. | 0:21:13 | 0:21:15 | |
Property two had more space, | 0:21:15 | 0:21:17 | |
but the overlooked garden left them cold. | 0:21:17 | 0:21:20 | |
But property three was not just the dream house, it also offered | 0:21:20 | 0:21:24 | |
access to facilities that could literally change Stan's life. | 0:21:24 | 0:21:29 | |
So, based on what they've seen today... | 0:21:29 | 0:21:32 | |
It is time for us to vote. | 0:21:32 | 0:21:34 | |
..will the couple choose property in the UK or Australia? | 0:21:34 | 0:21:38 | |
-Australia. -Australia. | 0:21:46 | 0:21:48 | |
Finding a house with a gym, that is, you know, an unbelievable, | 0:21:49 | 0:21:55 | |
you know, option for us to try. | 0:21:55 | 0:21:58 | |
It was literally like we had won the lottery when we saw the gym. | 0:21:58 | 0:22:02 | |
Because I just thought of all the things that Stan could do | 0:22:02 | 0:22:06 | |
to progress, and that was really, really special. | 0:22:06 | 0:22:10 | |
With her heart set on a house that could change Stan's life, | 0:22:21 | 0:22:24 | |
Andrea knows, as the sole earner, | 0:22:24 | 0:22:26 | |
the pressure is on to get a job with a good salary. | 0:22:26 | 0:22:29 | |
At home, Andrea is a deputy sister of the A&E department | 0:22:29 | 0:22:32 | |
at Leicester Royal Infirmary. | 0:22:32 | 0:22:34 | |
Finding something similar in Australia is pivotal. | 0:22:34 | 0:22:37 | |
The job's got to be right. Not just from a financial point of view. | 0:22:37 | 0:22:40 | |
I mean, that has DEFINITELY got to be right. | 0:22:40 | 0:22:43 | |
If I had to leave where I work to work somewhere that wasn't right, | 0:22:43 | 0:22:47 | |
didn't feel right, wasn't as comfortable, | 0:22:47 | 0:22:49 | |
I don't think I could do it. | 0:22:49 | 0:22:50 | |
Former mechanic Stan wants to return to work, | 0:22:50 | 0:22:53 | |
and he is already taking steps to make it happen. | 0:22:53 | 0:22:56 | |
I've been told that I can't be a mechanic. | 0:22:56 | 0:22:59 | |
And I can't...while my arm is not working as good. | 0:22:59 | 0:23:04 | |
So, I've thought about pushing myself to be a teacher of mechanics. | 0:23:04 | 0:23:10 | |
It's very important to me, you know, to get back to work. | 0:23:10 | 0:23:14 | |
That is my independence. | 0:23:14 | 0:23:16 | |
Today, Andrea and Stan will get to explore work options in Brisbane. | 0:23:18 | 0:23:23 | |
Andrea is visiting a private hospital | 0:23:23 | 0:23:25 | |
and is shown around by fellow emergency room nurse, | 0:23:25 | 0:23:28 | |
Diana Brown, who also happens to be an expat. | 0:23:28 | 0:23:31 | |
-This is our resus area. -Mm-hmm. -So we have Resus 1 and Resus 2. | 0:23:31 | 0:23:37 | |
Andrea is used to shift work | 0:23:37 | 0:23:39 | |
and is prepared to do more of the same in Australia. | 0:23:39 | 0:23:41 | |
-What hours do you work? -Do a 38-hour week. We have 12-hour shifts here. | 0:23:41 | 0:23:46 | |
You can do eight-hour shifts. | 0:23:46 | 0:23:48 | |
So you would start at seven and finish at half past three. | 0:23:48 | 0:23:52 | |
Meanwhile, Stan is meeting a teacher at a further education college | 0:23:52 | 0:23:56 | |
to find out if teaching mechanics could be a realistic option. | 0:23:56 | 0:23:59 | |
Is that on for bodywork, is it? | 0:24:00 | 0:24:02 | |
-Yeah, well, this area is particularly set up for servicing. -Yeah. | 0:24:02 | 0:24:06 | |
For training and for servicing. | 0:24:06 | 0:24:07 | |
These particular guys are doing a maintenance course at the moment. | 0:24:07 | 0:24:11 | |
It's really nice being back here cos it kind of reminds me of, | 0:24:11 | 0:24:14 | |
like, you know, when I was a mechanic. | 0:24:14 | 0:24:17 | |
As Stan's reacquainted with the smell of diesel, | 0:24:17 | 0:24:19 | |
Andrea meets with the hospital's Director Of Learning And Development, | 0:24:19 | 0:24:22 | |
Donna Bonney. | 0:24:22 | 0:24:24 | |
Determined to make the move, | 0:24:24 | 0:24:26 | |
Andrea needs to know there's actually work out there. | 0:24:26 | 0:24:29 | |
At the moment, probably wouldn't be as many | 0:24:29 | 0:24:32 | |
employer-sponsored visas in the big cities. | 0:24:32 | 0:24:37 | |
Maybe a better option is to go with a recruitment agency | 0:24:37 | 0:24:40 | |
and just tell them you're looking for an employer-sponsored visa | 0:24:40 | 0:24:43 | |
and they would have then a number of health services | 0:24:43 | 0:24:45 | |
that they could refer you to. | 0:24:45 | 0:24:48 | |
Finding the level of work Andrea wants might take a while | 0:24:48 | 0:24:51 | |
but would the money be worth the wait? | 0:24:51 | 0:24:54 | |
I think if you came across | 0:24:54 | 0:24:56 | |
and you were up on the high-level paypoint of a registered nurse, | 0:24:56 | 0:25:01 | |
given your years of experience, | 0:25:01 | 0:25:02 | |
you'd be bringing home an average of 85,000. | 0:25:02 | 0:25:07 | |
It's a big jump | 0:25:07 | 0:25:09 | |
from what I'm on at the minute. | 0:25:09 | 0:25:11 | |
-Mm. -In fact, it's about double my wage. | 0:25:11 | 0:25:13 | |
-Wow! -Yeah, that's just about double my wage. | 0:25:13 | 0:25:16 | |
Wow! I'm absolutely gobsmacked. | 0:25:17 | 0:25:20 | |
That's a brilliant result for Andrea. | 0:25:20 | 0:25:23 | |
But are Stan's qualifications transferable? | 0:25:23 | 0:25:26 | |
To start, you're at least going to need your certificate | 0:25:26 | 0:25:29 | |
in training and investment. | 0:25:29 | 0:25:30 | |
That would be a minimum requirement to start. | 0:25:30 | 0:25:32 | |
Then you can work on your diploma. | 0:25:32 | 0:25:34 | |
Cos at the moment, I'm, you know, classed as disabled. | 0:25:34 | 0:25:38 | |
-Mm-hm. -Would that affect me being able to work? | 0:25:38 | 0:25:42 | |
Definitely not. | 0:25:42 | 0:25:43 | |
There's teachers here already with disabilities, that are teaching. | 0:25:43 | 0:25:46 | |
Much like yourself, they've had an incident | 0:25:46 | 0:25:49 | |
and they've ended up with a disability | 0:25:49 | 0:25:52 | |
and now they're teaching and loving it. It's great. | 0:25:52 | 0:25:54 | |
How much would you think I will be able to earn as a teacher? | 0:25:54 | 0:25:58 | |
As a fully qualified teacher, | 0:25:58 | 0:26:00 | |
you should be looking at around 85,000 a year. | 0:26:00 | 0:26:03 | |
-Yeah, that is really good. -Excellent. | 0:26:03 | 0:26:05 | |
Sounds like something up your alley, then? | 0:26:05 | 0:26:07 | |
-Definitely. -Yeah. | 0:26:07 | 0:26:09 | |
That's a real incentive for Stan to get back to employment. | 0:26:09 | 0:26:12 | |
So based on today's experience, | 0:26:12 | 0:26:14 | |
will the couple choose work in Australia or the UK? | 0:26:14 | 0:26:18 | |
Australia! | 0:26:23 | 0:26:25 | |
Australia! | 0:26:25 | 0:26:26 | |
-You want Australia? -Yeah, I do. | 0:26:28 | 0:26:30 | |
It's exciting. Nerve-racking! | 0:26:30 | 0:26:32 | |
I didn't think I would like it as much as I did. | 0:26:32 | 0:26:35 | |
The facilities for training was beyond what I expected, | 0:26:35 | 0:26:39 | |
beyond what I had when I was at school. | 0:26:39 | 0:26:41 | |
And the wages, as well - | 0:26:41 | 0:26:44 | |
amazing. | 0:26:44 | 0:26:45 | |
And it would make a big difference to us - | 0:26:45 | 0:26:48 | |
me working, as well. | 0:26:48 | 0:26:49 | |
With the potential to earn enough for that dream house, | 0:26:58 | 0:27:01 | |
Andrea and Stan's hopes for a new beginning in Australia | 0:27:01 | 0:27:04 | |
are looking more and more likely. | 0:27:04 | 0:27:06 | |
But with Stan's rehabilitation central to everything they do, | 0:27:06 | 0:27:10 | |
will the Aussie lifestyle meet their needs? | 0:27:10 | 0:27:13 | |
The couple head out to explore the city | 0:27:15 | 0:27:17 | |
on a day which will also give them time | 0:27:17 | 0:27:20 | |
to reflect on their experiences so far. | 0:27:20 | 0:27:22 | |
It's absolutely fab. | 0:27:22 | 0:27:24 | |
In the UK, Stan relies on support from several organisations | 0:27:24 | 0:27:27 | |
and it's important they can replicate that in Australia. | 0:27:27 | 0:27:31 | |
The couple meet Jo, a local physiotherapist, | 0:27:32 | 0:27:35 | |
to see if Brisbane can offer the same facilities. | 0:27:35 | 0:27:38 | |
Our life is wrapped pretty much around Stan and his physio, | 0:27:38 | 0:27:42 | |
-and getting him back... -Yeah. | 0:27:42 | 0:27:44 | |
-..to as good as he is ever going to get. -Yeah. | 0:27:44 | 0:27:46 | |
So we have our private physio at home | 0:27:46 | 0:27:48 | |
-and then he goes to the gym with a support worker as well... -Yeah. | 0:27:48 | 0:27:51 | |
..from the charity called Headway. | 0:27:51 | 0:27:53 | |
-Headway, we have the same in Australia, as well. -Oh, do you? | 0:27:53 | 0:27:55 | |
-Yeah. -Oh, that's useful to know. -They're based at the Gold Coast | 0:27:55 | 0:27:58 | |
and there are certainly other similar organisations. | 0:27:58 | 0:28:03 | |
Do you think that the service will be able to help him | 0:28:03 | 0:28:06 | |
-and to help him to progress and continue? -For sure, yeah. | 0:28:06 | 0:28:08 | |
Yeah, for sure. | 0:28:08 | 0:28:10 | |
We've got excellent, excellent neurorehab service in Australia. | 0:28:10 | 0:28:13 | |
It's been an enlightening day. | 0:28:15 | 0:28:17 | |
But do the couple believe Australia could offer Stan | 0:28:17 | 0:28:20 | |
the lifestyle he needs? | 0:28:20 | 0:28:21 | |
It's time to vote. | 0:28:21 | 0:28:23 | |
-Australia! -Australia. | 0:28:26 | 0:28:28 | |
The whole point about us moving this far away from friends and family | 0:28:29 | 0:28:33 | |
is for Stan and what rehabilitation we've got on offer. | 0:28:33 | 0:28:38 | |
And just the general lifestyle that Australia could offer both of us. | 0:28:38 | 0:28:42 | |
I just want to keep trying and keep trying to get fit again. | 0:28:42 | 0:28:46 | |
You know, and I want that for, you know, | 0:28:46 | 0:28:48 | |
for Andrea, you know, for our family. | 0:28:48 | 0:28:51 | |
You know, I just want that in general. | 0:28:51 | 0:28:53 | |
This is an opportunity for us to get back into what we want. | 0:28:53 | 0:28:57 | |
Before Stan's accident, | 0:29:12 | 0:29:14 | |
biking was a real passion for the couple. | 0:29:14 | 0:29:16 | |
And it's a hobby they're both keen to get back to. | 0:29:16 | 0:29:19 | |
-Hey, Stan. I'm Jason, how are you? -Hi, Jason. -Hi. | 0:29:19 | 0:29:22 | |
The couple are meeting up with a group that rides spider bikes. | 0:29:22 | 0:29:26 | |
They're a three-wheeled bike built for speed and stability | 0:29:26 | 0:29:29 | |
that are popular with disabled users. | 0:29:29 | 0:29:32 | |
-How are you doing? -Good. Yourself? -Not bad. | 0:29:32 | 0:29:34 | |
-Daniel rides the black one over there. -Oh, yeah? | 0:29:34 | 0:29:37 | |
With, obviously, the wheelchair on the back. So... | 0:29:37 | 0:29:41 | |
-Looking at getting back on a bike? -Definitely. | 0:29:41 | 0:29:43 | |
-Good to hear. -Yeah. | 0:29:43 | 0:29:46 | |
I was saying, like, I'm kind of gutted about what's happened | 0:29:46 | 0:29:49 | |
-but I'm determined to get better from it. -Yeah. Yeah. | 0:29:49 | 0:29:52 | |
No, with these things, | 0:29:52 | 0:29:54 | |
there's always a way to get back on a motorbike! | 0:29:54 | 0:29:56 | |
My accident was from scuba-diving | 0:29:56 | 0:29:58 | |
but I had doctors saying that I wouldn't be, excuse me, | 0:29:58 | 0:30:01 | |
driving a car or riding a motorbike or... And I do... | 0:30:01 | 0:30:04 | |
Everything they've told me I couldn't do, I'm doing. | 0:30:04 | 0:30:08 | |
And at the end of the day, | 0:30:08 | 0:30:09 | |
it's pretty much just to prove someone wrong. | 0:30:09 | 0:30:11 | |
Oh, yeah. | 0:30:11 | 0:30:12 | |
But if you've got something you want to do, then you've got to do it. | 0:30:12 | 0:30:15 | |
This is a really big day for Andrea and Stan. | 0:30:15 | 0:30:19 | |
Seeing Stan on the bike is fantastic. | 0:30:19 | 0:30:20 | |
You know, first time since the accident, you know, it's just... | 0:30:20 | 0:30:23 | |
It's amazing. It really is amazing. I'm so happy for him. | 0:30:23 | 0:30:26 | |
It's unbelievable, the fact that, you know, | 0:30:26 | 0:30:29 | |
it's been over two years since I've, you know, been on a bike. | 0:30:29 | 0:30:32 | |
So I'm so excited for that. | 0:30:32 | 0:30:35 | |
It's a dream come true. | 0:30:35 | 0:30:37 | |
Amazing experience to be on a bike again. | 0:30:59 | 0:31:02 | |
Yeah, definitely. | 0:31:02 | 0:31:03 | |
For them, it's been yet another glimpse | 0:31:03 | 0:31:05 | |
of the life they could be leading down under. | 0:31:05 | 0:31:08 | |
If we get over here, I'm definitely going to join the club. | 0:31:08 | 0:31:11 | |
I love going for rides, going for drives. | 0:31:11 | 0:31:14 | |
You know, I love being part of the team, like. | 0:31:14 | 0:31:18 | |
Fantastic. Really friendly. Thank you guys for all coming out. | 0:31:18 | 0:31:21 | |
-We really do appreciate it. -Definitely. -Yeah, no. Made our day. | 0:31:21 | 0:31:24 | |
-Definitely made our day. -We put a smile on both your faces. | 0:31:24 | 0:31:26 | |
-What more could we want?! -That's what it's about. -Yeah! | 0:31:26 | 0:31:29 | |
So far, Stan and Andrea have discovered | 0:31:40 | 0:31:43 | |
Australia could offer them everything they've ever wanted | 0:31:43 | 0:31:46 | |
and more. | 0:31:46 | 0:31:47 | |
But affording their dream life could be a different matter. | 0:31:47 | 0:31:50 | |
And getting the right price for their home in the UK | 0:31:50 | 0:31:53 | |
will be crucial. | 0:31:53 | 0:31:54 | |
I think, in the current climate, I think maybe about 160. | 0:31:54 | 0:31:57 | |
That would be nice. | 0:31:57 | 0:31:58 | |
So we've sent round two estate agents | 0:31:58 | 0:32:00 | |
to find out its value. | 0:32:00 | 0:32:02 | |
Oh, so... Lounge. | 0:32:03 | 0:32:05 | |
Nice bay window to the side. | 0:32:06 | 0:32:08 | |
And light, good light either end. | 0:32:08 | 0:32:09 | |
Oh, that wasn't dusted! | 0:32:11 | 0:32:13 | |
'OK, so the kitchen.' | 0:32:14 | 0:32:16 | |
A nice family space. | 0:32:16 | 0:32:18 | |
Room for dining, as well as the preparation. | 0:32:18 | 0:32:21 | |
Oh, you can see there's no handle on that door. | 0:32:24 | 0:32:27 | |
Again, big picture window onto the garden. | 0:32:29 | 0:32:31 | |
And then the bathroom is a little bit dated. | 0:32:31 | 0:32:34 | |
-'The floor brings it to life a little bit.' -Very dated! | 0:32:34 | 0:32:37 | |
But you can probably get away with it | 0:32:37 | 0:32:39 | |
cos it's all white and contemporary. It's clean and it's fine. | 0:32:39 | 0:32:42 | |
I would suggest it should be put on the open market to test | 0:32:42 | 0:32:45 | |
at £165,000, with a effective "for sale" figure | 0:32:45 | 0:32:50 | |
of 155. | 0:32:50 | 0:32:52 | |
Really? | 0:32:52 | 0:32:53 | |
I'd value it at around 175,000. | 0:32:53 | 0:32:56 | |
For a quicker sale, | 0:32:56 | 0:32:58 | |
I'd suggest an asking price in the region of 169,950 be quoted. | 0:32:58 | 0:33:01 | |
I preferred the second guy! | 0:33:03 | 0:33:05 | |
-Oh, definitely. -But yeah, I thought that, cos of... | 0:33:05 | 0:33:08 | |
the bathroom. | 0:33:08 | 0:33:09 | |
If the bathroom was done, the garden was finished... | 0:33:09 | 0:33:13 | |
..I think it might get a little bit more. But not that much. | 0:33:15 | 0:33:18 | |
The valuation is roughly what they expected. | 0:33:18 | 0:33:21 | |
But Stan and Andrea both need to know | 0:33:21 | 0:33:23 | |
if they can afford to live in Australia. | 0:33:23 | 0:33:25 | |
We've prepared a cost-of-living comparison, | 0:33:25 | 0:33:28 | |
starting with their weekly food shop. | 0:33:28 | 0:33:30 | |
Breakfast cereals. Oh, £1.52 worse off. | 0:33:30 | 0:33:34 | |
Same with tea bags? | 0:33:34 | 0:33:36 | |
Oh, my word! £2.54?! | 0:33:36 | 0:33:38 | |
Oh, dear, you're going to have to cut that out. | 0:33:38 | 0:33:40 | |
-No, you've got no chance. -No? | 0:33:40 | 0:33:42 | |
Not unless you want to live with a grouch! | 0:33:42 | 0:33:44 | |
When Andrea's at work in the UK, | 0:33:44 | 0:33:46 | |
Stan relies on ready meals. | 0:33:46 | 0:33:48 | |
But they don't come cheap in Brisbane. | 0:33:48 | 0:33:50 | |
There's £7 difference! | 0:33:50 | 0:33:52 | |
-You'll have to start cooking. -I'll have to learn to cook. | 0:33:52 | 0:33:54 | |
Yeah, you're going to have to. | 0:33:54 | 0:33:56 | |
-So food, we're £27... -Different. -..worse off. | 0:33:56 | 0:34:02 | |
Yeah. | 0:34:02 | 0:34:03 | |
Per week. | 0:34:03 | 0:34:05 | |
Looking at the bigger living costs, | 0:34:05 | 0:34:07 | |
with Andrea being the sole earner, | 0:34:07 | 0:34:09 | |
any increase in bills could make things too tight, | 0:34:09 | 0:34:12 | |
especially as they're basing their calculations on the dream house. | 0:34:12 | 0:34:16 | |
This is when it comes down to it. | 0:34:16 | 0:34:18 | |
Because... | 0:34:18 | 0:34:19 | |
On our mortgage per month, we'll be £520 worse. | 0:34:21 | 0:34:25 | |
Cos it's... | 0:34:25 | 0:34:26 | |
The Australian property is more expensive than ours. | 0:34:26 | 0:34:29 | |
The electricity here is a lot higher. | 0:34:29 | 0:34:32 | |
It's £133 extra per month. | 0:34:32 | 0:34:35 | |
Our total monthly outgoings... | 0:34:35 | 0:34:37 | |
We're £1,000... | 0:34:37 | 0:34:39 | |
worse off. | 0:34:39 | 0:34:41 | |
But if Andrea finds the job she wants, | 0:34:41 | 0:34:44 | |
she would potentially be earning almost £30,000 more | 0:34:44 | 0:34:47 | |
than she does in UK. | 0:34:47 | 0:34:49 | |
When she factors that in, | 0:34:49 | 0:34:50 | |
will it be enough to deflect the hit? | 0:34:50 | 0:34:52 | |
At the end of the month, | 0:34:56 | 0:34:57 | |
we are £496... | 0:34:57 | 0:34:58 | |
better off. | 0:34:58 | 0:35:00 | |
-This is just on your wage? -That's just on my wage. | 0:35:02 | 0:35:06 | |
-That is unbelievable. -Yeah. | 0:35:06 | 0:35:08 | |
I'm quite shocked by that, actually. | 0:35:08 | 0:35:10 | |
Happily shocked! Yeah, really shocked by that. | 0:35:10 | 0:35:13 | |
So, based on today's figures, | 0:35:13 | 0:35:15 | |
will the couple opt for finances in the UK or Australia? | 0:35:15 | 0:35:19 | |
-I think it's time for a vote. You ready? -I reckon so. | 0:35:19 | 0:35:22 | |
-Yeah. -OK, go. | 0:35:22 | 0:35:23 | |
-England. -Aus... | 0:35:32 | 0:35:34 | |
I'm only joking. Australia! | 0:35:34 | 0:35:36 | |
You caught me by surprise there! | 0:35:38 | 0:35:40 | |
I didn't want to be too predictable. | 0:35:40 | 0:35:42 | |
You know, we want to start a family together. | 0:35:42 | 0:35:45 | |
You know, I want to progress. | 0:35:45 | 0:35:48 | |
You know, I want to get back to work. | 0:35:48 | 0:35:50 | |
And it makes it all so very possible. | 0:35:50 | 0:35:54 | |
The week just keeps getting better | 0:35:59 | 0:36:01 | |
for Andrea and Stan. | 0:36:01 | 0:36:02 | |
But there's one major obstacle still to overcome, | 0:36:02 | 0:36:05 | |
as they contemplate leaving the loved ones | 0:36:05 | 0:36:08 | |
who have supported them through the accident and trauma | 0:36:08 | 0:36:11 | |
of the past two years. | 0:36:11 | 0:36:12 | |
-Are you ready for this? -No, but let's do it. | 0:36:12 | 0:36:15 | |
-Hi, guys! How you doing? -Hi, there. | 0:36:17 | 0:36:20 | |
Hello! Hope you're having a good time down there and, | 0:36:20 | 0:36:23 | |
you know, having fun. | 0:36:23 | 0:36:25 | |
Hello, Stan, Andrea, I'm missing you both | 0:36:25 | 0:36:28 | |
and I'm wondering how you're both getting on. | 0:36:28 | 0:36:31 | |
Hello, Auntie Andrea! Hope you're all right, hope the weather's nice. | 0:36:31 | 0:36:35 | |
When you go up, to Andrea and Stan, what they say in Welsh, | 0:36:35 | 0:36:40 | |
a big cwtch, it's like a big hug. | 0:36:40 | 0:36:43 | |
You walk in the house and you feel really welcome. | 0:36:43 | 0:36:47 | |
Andrea, I'd say she's a very hard-working career girl. | 0:36:47 | 0:36:53 | |
Heart of gold. | 0:36:53 | 0:36:54 | |
You want to see Andrea now? You'd like to play with Auntie Andrea? | 0:36:56 | 0:36:59 | |
I absolutely adore Stan. | 0:37:01 | 0:37:02 | |
When he first told me he was going to marry Andrea, | 0:37:02 | 0:37:06 | |
couldn't have been any prouder than I am. | 0:37:06 | 0:37:09 | |
And everything that he's gone through, well, | 0:37:09 | 0:37:12 | |
I just love him to bits. | 0:37:12 | 0:37:14 | |
The accident was horrendous and I know, you know, | 0:37:14 | 0:37:19 | |
we didn't think Stan was going to pull through. | 0:37:19 | 0:37:22 | |
One day when they were moving him to the brain injury unit, | 0:37:22 | 0:37:25 | |
and I was holding his hand, | 0:37:25 | 0:37:27 | |
he had his eyes open, because his eyes kept opening | 0:37:27 | 0:37:30 | |
and his eyes opened, and he looked straight at me | 0:37:30 | 0:37:34 | |
and I said to him, I just went "Don't be scared." | 0:37:34 | 0:37:37 | |
I said, "I know where you are is dark, and you're scared, | 0:37:37 | 0:37:40 | |
"but don't be scared, just come back to us." | 0:37:40 | 0:37:44 | |
"They're giving up on you. I won't give up on you as long as you come back." | 0:37:44 | 0:37:49 | |
Andrea, she just found the inner strength | 0:37:49 | 0:37:51 | |
and carried on and carried on. | 0:37:51 | 0:37:54 | |
She was determined she wasn't going to lose Stan. | 0:37:54 | 0:37:56 | |
To see him progress from not being able to move them arms, | 0:37:56 | 0:37:59 | |
told him he'd never use that arm again, and to be able to | 0:37:59 | 0:38:02 | |
use that arm again, moved the arm, | 0:38:02 | 0:38:04 | |
now he's walking again, | 0:38:04 | 0:38:06 | |
he's talking good - it's just amazing, if I'm honest with you. | 0:38:06 | 0:38:09 | |
It's just touched me, touched my heart. He's a legend. | 0:38:09 | 0:38:12 | |
-I always say he's a legend, but he is a legend. -He always calls you a legend! | 0:38:12 | 0:38:16 | |
If they go, I think it will have | 0:38:16 | 0:38:18 | |
an impact on quite a lot of their family and friends, | 0:38:18 | 0:38:21 | |
because I think they, they're loved by everybody, | 0:38:21 | 0:38:23 | |
to be honest. | 0:38:23 | 0:38:25 | |
I am sure you'll make the right decision, no matter what that is. | 0:38:25 | 0:38:29 | |
You know you're loved unconditionally. | 0:38:29 | 0:38:32 | |
We will miss you both. | 0:38:32 | 0:38:34 | |
Love you. | 0:38:34 | 0:38:36 | |
I want you to do the best for you. | 0:38:36 | 0:38:38 | |
If this is what you want to do and this is what you want to be, | 0:38:38 | 0:38:41 | |
then go for it. | 0:38:41 | 0:38:43 | |
It's just very difficult. | 0:38:44 | 0:38:46 | |
You know, she's not going to be just up the road, | 0:38:47 | 0:38:50 | |
she's going to be miles away. | 0:38:50 | 0:38:51 | |
I just want her to be happy, and Stan to be happy. | 0:38:57 | 0:39:01 | |
But... | 0:39:01 | 0:39:02 | |
I don't want them to go that far away. | 0:39:04 | 0:39:06 | |
That was worse than I thought. | 0:39:22 | 0:39:24 | |
Just seeing how much they're hurting. | 0:39:24 | 0:39:28 | |
All because I want to move to the other side of the world, | 0:39:28 | 0:39:32 | |
and I feel quite selfish for that. | 0:39:32 | 0:39:34 | |
-The most difficult part was actually seeing my sister. -Mm. | 0:39:34 | 0:39:38 | |
She's so strong, isn't she? | 0:39:40 | 0:39:43 | |
It's just really bad for her, the accident, I reckon, | 0:39:43 | 0:39:47 | |
how all the family and my friends all pulled together, regardless | 0:39:47 | 0:39:52 | |
and, you know, it's hard to see that they're upset. | 0:39:52 | 0:39:57 | |
I don't think you fully comprehend the impact that you have. | 0:39:58 | 0:40:02 | |
I don't think you can, because if you did, nobody would ever move. | 0:40:02 | 0:40:07 | |
Nobody would ever move. | 0:40:07 | 0:40:09 | |
Watching messages from loved ones | 0:40:09 | 0:40:12 | |
was a heartbreaking experience for Andrea and Stan. | 0:40:12 | 0:40:15 | |
So as the potentially life-changing final decision draws closer, | 0:40:15 | 0:40:20 | |
will the reality of having to say goodbye | 0:40:20 | 0:40:22 | |
derail their plans for a new beginning? | 0:40:22 | 0:40:25 | |
You know, we've been humbled, well, | 0:40:30 | 0:40:32 | |
I've been humbled by the whole experience and the fact that | 0:40:32 | 0:40:36 | |
I can say, in fact, this is actually what I can offer you. | 0:40:36 | 0:40:39 | |
And that will help you progress and get his dreams as well, | 0:40:39 | 0:40:42 | |
because his dreams are just as important as mine. | 0:40:42 | 0:40:45 | |
I love Andrea so much that, you know, that | 0:40:45 | 0:40:48 | |
if she's happy, I'm happy. | 0:40:48 | 0:40:51 | |
The week has offered the couple a glimpse of what they could gain - | 0:40:51 | 0:40:54 | |
and lose. | 0:40:54 | 0:40:55 | |
I particularly enjoyed the going on the motorbikes. | 0:40:55 | 0:40:59 | |
Because obviously, it's the motorbike | 0:41:00 | 0:41:03 | |
that put me in this place | 0:41:03 | 0:41:05 | |
and I've always been taught, you know, | 0:41:05 | 0:41:09 | |
if you're scared of anything, | 0:41:09 | 0:41:11 | |
it's always boss of you. | 0:41:11 | 0:41:14 | |
To be on a motorbike, | 0:41:14 | 0:41:16 | |
it's closer to that dream, you know, of beating that boss, really. | 0:41:16 | 0:41:22 | |
My heart and head are arguing about where to go, if I'm honest. Erm... | 0:41:22 | 0:41:29 | |
And it's really hard, because I'm really conflicted. | 0:41:31 | 0:41:35 | |
I was like, yes, I know this, yes, I know this, yes, I know this, | 0:41:35 | 0:41:39 | |
about where my vote's going to go, | 0:41:39 | 0:41:41 | |
but it is actually really conflicted, it's kind of torn. | 0:41:41 | 0:41:45 | |
So, will the final turn of the cards | 0:41:50 | 0:41:53 | |
see Andrea and Stan choose life in the UK or Australia? | 0:41:53 | 0:41:57 | |
OK, so we've had a really fantastic time this week in Brisbane. | 0:41:57 | 0:42:01 | |
We've experienced some amazing things, | 0:42:01 | 0:42:03 | |
we've seen some amazing sights, | 0:42:03 | 0:42:06 | |
but now it's time for our final vote. | 0:42:06 | 0:42:09 | |
-You ready? -Oh, yes, I'm ready. | 0:42:09 | 0:42:12 | |
-BOTH: -Australia! | 0:42:23 | 0:42:25 | |
This week, oh! Wow, It's just blown my mind, actually. | 0:42:25 | 0:42:30 | |
It's opened my eyes to some new ideas, | 0:42:30 | 0:42:33 | |
new things that we could do together. | 0:42:33 | 0:42:35 | |
Yes, it's definitely surpassed my expectations. | 0:42:35 | 0:42:38 | |
The future's bright and sunny. | 0:42:38 | 0:42:40 | |
Future's looking good. Yeah. | 0:42:40 | 0:42:42 | |
You know, have a healthier lifestyle. | 0:42:42 | 0:42:45 | |
Hopefully, you know, we'd do well, moneywise | 0:42:45 | 0:42:48 | |
and, you know, we'd have a better life financially as well. | 0:42:48 | 0:42:53 | |
You never know, I might actually get a tan! | 0:42:53 | 0:42:55 | |
It looks like Andrea and Stan's dream could really come true. | 0:43:02 | 0:43:06 | |
It's been a tough journey for the couple | 0:43:06 | 0:43:09 | |
and we wish them all the very best | 0:43:09 | 0:43:11 | |
as they set off on the road to their new future. | 0:43:11 | 0:43:14 |