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I'm in Camp Bastion, Helmand province, the heart of British | :00:26. | :00:31. | |
operations in Afghanistan. We'll be celebrating the heroic jobs that | :00:31. | :00:37. | |
our armed forces do, as well as reflectsing on those who've given | :00:37. | :00:40. | |
their lives, both here and in past conflicts around the world. This is | :00:40. | :00:50. | |
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Tomorrow is Remembrance Sunday, the day we honour those who have given | :01:09. | :01:13. | |
their lives for their country. In the lead up to this National | :01:13. | :01:16. | |
Service of Remembrance, we tell the real stories of the people who | :01:16. | :01:25. | |
march past the Cenotaph on Whitehall. Coming up on today's | :01:25. | :01:30. | |
programme: A former paratrooper remembers his biggest battle on the | :01:30. | :01:33. | |
Falkland Islands. Your instinct is to take cover. But you're in a | :01:33. | :01:39. | |
minefield. We hear from the forces' original | :01:39. | :01:43. | |
sweet heart, Dame Vera Lynn. thought, right, just a lipstick | :01:43. | :01:48. | |
will have to do and that's how I worked, with my kaki and lipstick. | :01:48. | :01:53. | |
That was a necessity. And I'm privileged to be in the | :01:53. | :02:00. | |
operation room on a front-line patrol base. | :02:00. | :02:04. | |
By using all the intelligence they have in here, they've identified | :02:04. | :02:14. | |
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The term band of brothers is often used to describe the camraderie in | :02:20. | :02:25. | |
the ormed forces. The -- armed forces. The next story shows how | :02:25. | :02:28. | |
deep the bonds are and how they can last forever. | :02:28. | :02:32. | |
In 1982, these four young lads were just 17 years old and true brothers | :02:32. | :02:39. | |
in arms. 29 years on, Mark Eyles-Thomas | :02:39. | :02:46. | |
fondly remembers his friends. Jason Bert was an East Ender, a | :02:46. | :02:49. | |
Londoner, very good looking, handsome chap. He knew that and | :02:49. | :02:54. | |
could work that with the ladies. Neil Grouse talked to his family | :02:54. | :03:01. | |
all the time, you know, his sister, his brother. He was very family | :03:01. | :03:05. | |
orientated. Ian Scrivens was a lad from Yeovil, in the West Country, | :03:05. | :03:11. | |
and talked funny and had a tractor, but he didn't. Mark, Jason, Neil | :03:11. | :03:16. | |
and Ian were junior Paras, the first step to becoming part of one | :03:16. | :03:18. | |
of the most elite units in the British Army, the Parachute | :03:19. | :03:25. | |
Regiment. How can you sum up being a paratrooper? When you pass out, | :03:26. | :03:29. | |
it's the proudest day of your life. I'm not sure that a lot of people | :03:29. | :03:34. | |
understand what you've gone through or will ever understand. It doesn't | :03:34. | :03:39. | |
matter how bad the situation is, you're still expected to go on. | :03:39. | :03:43. | |
There's still more you could do. I've been part of one of the | :03:43. | :03:46. | |
greatest regiment that the British Army have had ever. I will love | :03:46. | :03:54. | |
that to the day I go. In April 1982, their unit was sent to the Falkland | :03:54. | :03:58. | |
Islands, a remote UK overseas territory in the South Atlantic, | :03:58. | :04:02. | |
which had been invaded by Argentinean forces. You're with | :04:02. | :04:06. | |
your friends. We were cocky little 16-year-olds. Imagine what we're | :04:06. | :04:10. | |
going to be like now, when we get back. We're going to be 18, medal, | :04:11. | :04:20. | |
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money, oh, everyone's going to love But for these soldiers, the reality | :04:21. | :04:25. | |
of war was about to hit home, when the order was given to secure mown | :04:25. | :04:32. | |
Court Suzanne Lenglen. The date of this mission was -- secure Mount | :04:32. | :04:38. | |
Longdon, the date of the mission was set. We got together to say | :04:38. | :04:43. | |
happy 18th birthday to Neil Grouse. We congregated on his basher, where | :04:43. | :04:47. | |
he was sleeping. We had a cup of tea and a chat about saying happy | :04:47. | :04:50. | |
birthday and let's hope it's a good party this evening and all that | :04:50. | :04:54. | |
kind of thing. And you know, because of what we're doing tonight, | :04:54. | :04:59. | |
when we get back, we'll make sure it's a super special one. But for | :04:59. | :05:05. | |
this group of boys, success would come at a high price. | :05:05. | :05:12. | |
As they prepared to go to battle, three Paras commanding officer | :05:12. | :05:17. | |
addressed the men He ended with the words "May your God go with you." | :05:17. | :05:20. | |
It's the first time I thought, oh, hang on, some of us aren't coming | :05:20. | :05:25. | |
back from this. The realisation hit me like nothing else had hit me | :05:25. | :05:29. | |
throughout the period I'd been there. | :05:29. | :05:32. | |
Mount Longdon was six kilometres from the base, therefore the | :05:32. | :05:35. | |
element of surprise was vital. As they moved forward, they walked | :05:35. | :05:44. | |
straight no a minefield. All hell broke loose from that moment. The | :05:44. | :05:51. | |
whole place just erupts with a firefight. You're instinct is | :05:51. | :05:54. | |
immediately to go to ground and take cover. But you're in a | :05:54. | :06:00. | |
minefield. My whole body knew what was going on. The weapon was | :06:00. | :06:04. | |
shaking in my hand, you know. Whether that be from the cold, from | :06:04. | :06:08. | |
the intensity of the moment, from fear, it doesn't matter. I just | :06:08. | :06:14. | |
related to what was happening to me at that time. This is the biggest | :06:14. | :06:19. | |
fire work display that you have ever seen in your life, but with no | :06:19. | :06:25. | |
fun behind it. It was sheer violence to kill you. Mark, Jason, | :06:25. | :06:30. | |
Ian and Neil made it through the minefield unscathed and continued | :06:30. | :06:35. | |
their advance with their unit to Mount Longdon. The initial parts of | :06:35. | :06:39. | |
getting up to Longdon were chaos. It's pitch dark. You would pick up | :06:39. | :06:43. | |
the occasional silhouette moving. It could be an Argentinean, could | :06:43. | :06:46. | |
be one of your own. You really didn't know. You could hear the | :06:46. | :06:51. | |
Spanish being spoken or whatever, because it was that close. But it | :06:51. | :06:57. | |
would be right of you, left of you, you know. It was absolute chaos. | :06:57. | :07:01. | |
When they reached the base of Mount Longdon, the atmosphere changed | :07:01. | :07:05. | |
dramatically. It was a full moon that night. You can see the glint | :07:05. | :07:11. | |
of the bayonets and the Metal. You could see the breath on the blokes. | :07:11. | :07:19. | |
Time just stops. It just stands still. It's just, there is nothing. | :07:19. | :07:28. | |
No-one's talking. There is no noise whatsoever. Then charge. This has | :07:28. | :07:31. | |
got to happen quickly and all the time, we're running across that | :07:31. | :07:36. | |
ground, we're vulnerable. They were under attack from Argentinean | :07:36. | :07:42. | |
snipers, positioned on high ground. As we were running, I felt Jas go | :07:42. | :07:46. | |
down. I acrawled back to retrace the steps. There's Jas. He was | :07:46. | :07:51. | |
laying with his face down. I turn him onto one shoulder and he had | :07:51. | :07:58. | |
been shot. 17-year-old Jason Bert died instantly, but Mark had no | :07:58. | :08:05. | |
time to grieve, as another of his friends was badly wounded. It was | :08:05. | :08:11. | |
then Scrivs, called out again to say "I'm actually with Neil. He's | :08:11. | :08:15. | |
in a bad way." Scrivs had stabilised him and put a dressing | :08:16. | :08:19. | |
over the wound. This was it in real action, where a man was trying to | :08:19. | :08:22. | |
do everything for his friend. Scrivs said to me, "We've got to | :08:22. | :08:31. | |
move him. We can't stay here. He's out in the open." Eventually the | :08:31. | :08:40. | |
sniper was going to get us. I put my hand on to say, "-- "Right we'll | :08:40. | :08:45. | |
move him." As I went to put my hand ond his shoulder, he was shot. | :08:45. | :08:49. | |
second of Mark's close friend Ian Scrivens had lost his life in the | :08:50. | :08:56. | |
line of duty. On his birthday, and in a life-threatening condition, | :08:56. | :09:00. | |
Neil Grouse was stretchered off the mountain. The held him and I think | :09:00. | :09:06. | |
he knew that this was it. He spoke of his family, of how much he loved | :09:06. | :09:14. | |
them. Incredibly brave with his impending fate. Yes, he thanked me. | :09:14. | :09:24. | |
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He said... "Thanks, Tom" Two words. Just personal moments, you know, | :09:27. | :09:35. | |
very difficult. Mark's three best friends had all made the ultimate | :09:35. | :09:43. | |
sacrifice. You know it's all over. Jas is dead, | :09:43. | :09:53. | |
Ian Scrivens is dead, Neil Grouse These three friends and the other | :09:53. | :09:57. | |
37 paratroopers who lost their lives are commemorated here at the | :09:57. | :10:06. | |
Aldershot Cemetery. I love coming here. I sit on a bench, have a | :10:06. | :10:13. | |
drink, have a chat, tell them about what's going on in my life. These | :10:14. | :10:23. | |
are just their new bed spaces. That's where they rest. The truth | :10:23. | :10:33. | |
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is you're just coming to visit Afghanistan has been a war zone for | :10:41. | :10:46. | |
over 30 years. As a result, local communities have been destroyed. | :10:46. | :10:50. | |
Everything we take for granted back home, like running water, | :10:50. | :10:54. | |
electricity and education, are non- existent here. But there's a team | :10:54. | :10:58. | |
within the British armed forces who are working alongside the local | :10:58. | :11:04. | |
people to change this. I'm flying to Checkpoint Jeka, | :11:04. | :11:09. | |
which is in the heart of Helmand's infamous Green Zone. In the past, | :11:09. | :11:13. | |
areas like these have been ruined by brutal fighting. I'm here to | :11:13. | :11:19. | |
find out from sergeant Neil Shinner how British troops are helping to | :11:19. | :11:21. | |
rebuilt these local innocent communities. Back home in the UK, | :11:21. | :11:27. | |
we hear a lot about the bad news about the fighting, about the | :11:28. | :11:30. | |
kinetic activity. But it's not all negative. There are positives as | :11:30. | :11:38. | |
well. You're part of that. It can be very positive. I'm a | :11:38. | :11:41. | |
stabilisation operator. Stabilisation seems to be the big | :11:41. | :11:46. | |
word here. What exactly does that mean? Put it into context, within | :11:46. | :11:50. | |
the UK, we take everything for granted. We've got our schools. We | :11:50. | :11:55. | |
have got our hospitals, medical centres, decent roads. However, | :11:55. | :12:00. | |
within this country, there is nothing. So British troops like | :12:00. | :12:04. | |
Neil are working hand in hand with Afghan soldiers and civilians in a | :12:04. | :12:11. | |
number of community projects. They build roads and drill wells, but | :12:11. | :12:14. | |
the most important thing is education. So Neil is taking me to | :12:14. | :12:21. | |
see a newly built school. The school is not far from this | :12:21. | :12:25. | |
checkpoint. We're going to be on foot patrol. But we still have to | :12:25. | :12:31. | |
be in all the gear and my particular favourite, the nappy. It | :12:31. | :12:38. | |
might not look the best, but it's all about protection. | :12:38. | :12:43. | |
Just out there is Helmand. That's where the danger is. We have the | :12:43. | :12:48. | |
team around us, just in case. The moment we walk out of these gates, | :12:48. | :12:55. | |
we'll be exposed to the threat of attack. We're in the heart of Green | :12:56. | :13:03. | |
Zone, then? Yes. Very peaceful, isn't it? At the moment. However, I | :13:03. | :13:06. | |
will probably say two years ago, it would have been a different story | :13:07. | :13:11. | |
around this area. That's what it is, it's predominantly around here, | :13:11. | :13:15. | |
it's just a farming community. We're talking wheat, corn, a lot of | :13:15. | :13:25. | |
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them have fruit trees, pomegranate. This is the school. This is it? | :13:27. | :13:33. | |
It's not the kind of standard you would probably see in the UK. So, | :13:33. | :13:40. | |
this is a typical classroom. As you can see, anybody in the UK's | :13:40. | :13:46. | |
looking at this will probably think "it doesn't look much." once we | :13:46. | :13:51. | |
have carpets down, the rugs, the pillows that they sit on, a white | :13:51. | :13:56. | |
board, the teacher, we've got kids learning. The school is a massive | :13:56. | :14:00. | |
part of any community. So all the time you're trying to instill that | :14:00. | :14:04. | |
trust back into the authority, the local authority and the local | :14:04. | :14:14. | |
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police. You can do that through a I think we have our first pupils. | :14:20. | :14:29. | |
Hello. Shake hands? Hello. When you can count to ten, I'll give you my | :14:29. | :14:36. | |
watch, OK? The children I've met today will finally have a base, | :14:36. | :14:41. | |
somewhere to come to every day to get their education in this | :14:42. | :14:45. | |
fantastic set up. Hopefully, they won't be influenced in the future | :14:45. | :14:49. | |
by the bad, by the Taliban. They'll take a different route, that route | :14:49. | :14:59. | |
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will be a peaceful one and a normal As we head back to the base, the | :15:02. | :15:12. | |
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atmosphere changes around us. Have they seen something? Oh my God, | :15:16. | :15:21. | |
they have been spooked by something. Such the strangest thing, at such a | :15:21. | :15:28. | |
peaceful community. It can change just like that. Improvements are | :15:28. | :15:32. | |
being made, so, hopefully, these children will have a safe place to | :15:32. | :15:37. | |
live very soon. We have a saying out here that the people are the | :15:37. | :15:42. | |
prize. Everybody who operates out here does believe that. Eventually, | :15:42. | :15:46. | |
we will be able to leave and leave this country in a better state than | :15:46. | :15:56. | |
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what we found it, when we first Still to come: We hear the | :15:59. | :16:04. | |
courageous story of a Royal Marine who survived a Taliban bomb. After | :16:04. | :16:12. | |
that, I knew this is it, nothing's going to stop me, simple as. | :16:12. | :16:15. | |
This series is all about exceptional bravery, courage and, | :16:15. | :16:19. | |
in the case of our next story, the ability to cope in extreme | :16:19. | :16:26. | |
environments. In the Second World War, Burma rifleman Major Neville | :16:26. | :16:35. | |
Hogan was part of an elite special force known as the Chindits. | :16:35. | :16:44. | |
Chindits role was to challenge the Japanese at jungle warfare. We | :16:44. | :16:51. | |
became special because we went behind the lines. The Chindits were | :16:51. | :16:55. | |
the pioneers of jungle guerrilla warfare and the brainchild of Major | :16:55. | :16:59. | |
General Orde Wingate, the British man who named them after a feature | :16:59. | :17:07. | |
of Burmese temples. Chindit, dragons in Burma, they keep away | :17:07. | :17:16. | |
the evil spirit. Wingate being Wingate, Chindit, a forceful name - | :17:16. | :17:21. | |
Chindit. Before the war, Burma was part of the British Empire, but in | :17:21. | :17:25. | |
1942 the Japanese invaded in a bid to control the country's natural | :17:25. | :17:30. | |
resources and extend their power into South East Asia. The only way | :17:30. | :17:35. | |
to forge a successful counterattack was to have a special army of | :17:35. | :17:40. | |
soldiers. You trained to be a Chindit, you had to survive in the | :17:40. | :17:44. | |
jungle. You did everything at the double. You never walked. You | :17:44. | :17:48. | |
trotted the whole way. The only way to get deep into the Burma jungle | :17:48. | :17:57. | |
behind enemy lines was to fly in by gliders. You are up in this glider | :17:57. | :18:06. | |
and you are freezing cold. The next moment and the pilot said, and they | :18:06. | :18:13. | |
have released us - there's no more noise. Then you are coming down, it | :18:13. | :18:18. | |
is getting hotter and hotter. You can feel the heat going up your | :18:18. | :18:23. | |
nose. We were supposed to come down at 75mph. We were coming down at | :18:23. | :18:28. | |
150mph because of the hills. They didn't cater for the hills. It | :18:28. | :18:35. | |
didn'ts the paddy field, hell breaks out. -- it hits the paddy | :18:35. | :18:40. | |
field, hell breaks out. There's weeds coming up through the window | :18:40. | :18:45. | |
and you are sitting there and you can't do a damn thing about it. | :18:45. | :18:49. | |
After landing, Neville rounded up his secret army and prepared for | :18:49. | :18:56. | |
battle. My full title was Recognisance Platoon Commander. I | :18:56. | :19:05. | |
go ahead of the column, the column is 400 men - that's a lot of men - | :19:05. | :19:14. | |
and a hundred mules. I have to find where light planes can land to take | :19:14. | :19:21. | |
away our wounded. On 5th March, 1944, 3,000 Chindits, Wingate among | :19:21. | :19:26. | |
them, began their mission into the heart of Burma. They faced two | :19:26. | :19:33. | |
enemies - the Japanese and the jungle. There's the jungle with the | :19:33. | :19:39. | |
trees with the creepers coming down. You have to hack your way through. | :19:39. | :19:45. | |
Then there's the elephant grass. That's grass seven-foot-high. They | :19:45. | :19:49. | |
have sharp edges and you have to walk through it. Your clothes are | :19:49. | :19:55. | |
torn. Then the dust coming down on you. Sometimes a column would do | :19:55. | :20:04. | |
eight miles a day, starting at 4.30am in the morning, finishing at | :20:04. | :20:08. | |
5.00pm, doing a 12-hour day. You only do eight miles because the | :20:08. | :20:12. | |
jungle is that thick. All I can remember is the man in front of me, | :20:12. | :20:21. | |
or the mule with his tale in front of me swishing. The Chindits were | :20:21. | :20:26. | |
an international fighting force. had some wonderful troops. I was | :20:26. | :20:32. | |
born and bred in Burma, and it was tough for us. I never saw one | :20:32. | :20:39. | |
person go back one foot. If we went forward in line, we were all there, | :20:39. | :20:45. | |
to fight. Initially, the Chindits had taken the enemy by surprise, | :20:45. | :20:51. | |
but soon the Japanese were fighting back. I was a soldier. I took what | :20:51. | :20:56. | |
came. Even in the jungle when you are ambushed, your heart goes into | :20:56. | :21:01. | |
your mouth and fear takes over. Then you fight. And you keep on | :21:01. | :21:07. | |
fighting. And you are all over the place looking. Fire and fire quick. | :21:07. | :21:13. | |
Get them first before they got you. Then when you stand up, "Oh my God, | :21:13. | :21:19. | |
I'm still alive!" You are glad to be alive, that's all. To survive | :21:19. | :21:24. | |
behind enemy lines for long periods, the Chindits had to be supplied by | :21:24. | :21:30. | |
air, but this wasn't reliable, so they had to be resourceful. You get | :21:30. | :21:37. | |
bamboo as thick as that and the green is hard. Where the join is, | :21:37. | :21:41. | |
that is the soft spot. You cut that, there is water in there to drink. | :21:41. | :21:51. | |
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The British boys are not used to that, it is about that long. Bamboo | :21:52. | :21:58. | |
you must cut upwards and you must go where the join is. They do it | :21:58. | :22:02. | |
this way. The foliage was so dense it was easy to get lost so it was | :22:02. | :22:05. | |
important to follow strict instructions, even when going to | :22:05. | :22:11. | |
the toilet. You had to go in pairs. You walked about 10, 15, 20 paces | :22:11. | :22:16. | |
away from the column, the two of you, then you would turn your backs | :22:16. | :22:21. | |
to each other and then you did ten paces out and you dug a hole and | :22:21. | :22:30. | |
you did your business and you came back - they don't come back, | :22:30. | :22:35. | |
they've done a wrong turn. Surviving in these conditions was | :22:35. | :22:40. | |
tough. Always hungry, always dirty. Always wet. You were wet with the | :22:40. | :22:45. | |
rain, you were wet with fear. All your clothes were always damp and | :22:45. | :22:54. | |
wet. Just tired of being tired. I cried at night sometimes. All you | :22:54. | :22:59. | |
can think of is food. So Neville and his comrades ate whatever they | :22:59. | :23:05. | |
could find. I thought about monkey, monkey flesh is very lovely. They | :23:05. | :23:11. | |
only live on berries. They had blowpipes because they couldn't | :23:11. | :23:15. | |
fire a gun because it would give our position away. Neville fought | :23:15. | :23:19. | |
and survived for four months, deep in the heart of the Burmese jungle. | :23:19. | :23:26. | |
But the severe conditions caught up with him in 1944. I was in hospital | :23:26. | :23:35. | |
having been bitten by rats. I had pneumonia and malaria. Then Dame | :23:36. | :23:41. | |
Vera Lynn came round. I said, "Kiss me, Vera." And I can tell everybody | :23:41. | :23:47. | |
you kissed me. I met her again a few years back. I said, "You kissed | :23:47. | :23:54. | |
me on 25th July 1944." She said, "How can you remember that?" I said, | :23:54. | :23:59. | |
"I was 21 years old!" Neville was then sent to release interns from a | :23:59. | :24:04. | |
Japanese camp where he met a girl called Glory Rose. By the time I | :24:04. | :24:12. | |
got to her camp, there was no fighting, the Japanese had | :24:12. | :24:15. | |
retreated. I was amazed at what he had done during the war. I didn't | :24:15. | :24:20. | |
believe anybody could do so much. She was cooking, making rice cakes. | :24:20. | :24:26. | |
I thought he was a bit of a nuisance, disturbing me cooking! | :24:26. | :24:31. | |
LAUGHTER Happy, always smiling. A damn good cook. I'm very proud of | :24:31. | :24:40. | |
him. Neville and Glory Rose were married in 1949 and celebrated | :24:40. | :24:45. | |
their 62nd anniversary this year. For Neville and his fellow Chindits, | :24:45. | :24:51. | |
their legacy lives on. What the SAS is doing now, they are taking it | :24:51. | :24:58. | |
from us. And I could be quite dangerous even now, I think. We are | :24:59. | :25:04. | |
proud that we were the Chindits. Everyone did their bit. Otherwise | :25:04. | :25:09. | |
you could not have overrun Burma. Every single one was a warrior. I'm | :25:09. | :25:19. | |
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This year marks the tenth anniversary of the British mission | :25:21. | :25:27. | |
here in Afghanistan. For many, it's changed their lives forever. Pete | :25:27. | :25:31. | |
and Laura met when they were 16- years-old. But little did they know | :25:31. | :25:37. | |
it would be the beginning of a very special journey. As corny as it | :25:37. | :25:42. | |
sounds, I was the waitress and he worked in the kitchen. I really | :25:42. | :25:46. | |
enjoyed working with her. She had a great personality and sense of | :25:46. | :25:53. | |
humour and good looks - that always helps! We had a little bit of an | :25:53. | :25:57. | |
involvement then, but it never became anything special, so we go | :25:57. | :26:02. | |
back a long way. But they soon drifted apart and Pete decided he | :26:03. | :26:08. | |
needed a serious challenge. I don't know what went off in my head, what | :26:08. | :26:13. | |
about the Marines? Why not? Let's give it a go. I definitely felt | :26:13. | :26:18. | |
when I had that green lid on my head I was six foot tall and | :26:18. | :26:26. | |
bullet-proof. In 2008, Pete was nearing the end of his second tour | :26:26. | :26:33. | |
of Afghanistan when his life was turned upside-down. That morning we | :26:33. | :26:37. | |
were packing up the vehicles, the mission had been finished and we | :26:37. | :26:42. | |
were on the move back to Camp Bastion and then it would have only | :26:42. | :26:49. | |
been ten or 11 days and I would have been flying home. I was the | :26:49. | :26:53. | |
second to last vehicle and we literally started to move off and | :26:54. | :27:00. | |
that's all I can remember to be honest. Pete's vehicle had driven | :27:00. | :27:04. | |
over a buried bomb. He lost both his legs, suffered severe burns and | :27:05. | :27:13. | |
had a fractured spine. My first real memory of it was I was lying | :27:13. | :27:18. | |
in Selly Oak Hospital and obviously I couldn't sit up. In my head I was | :27:18. | :27:23. | |
thinking, "This is it, that's me, done and dusted." What have I got | :27:23. | :27:28. | |
for myself? Got no legs. Can't sit up. Can't do anything. Who is going | :27:29. | :27:34. | |
to love me? Despite being a double amputee, the first hurdle Pete had | :27:34. | :27:40. | |
to face was a major back operation which was successful. After that, I | :27:40. | :27:46. | |
knew, right, this is it, nothing is going to stop me now, simple as. | :27:46. | :27:52. | |
This is done, I'm getting out of here. In an awe-inspiring three- | :27:53. | :27:56. | |
months Pete was ready to be fitted with two prosthetic legs. When I | :27:56. | :28:00. | |
stood up for the first time, it was brilliant. I just felt like | :28:00. | :28:05. | |
nothing's going to get in my way. Pete quickly mastered the art of | :28:05. | :28:09. | |
walking, but this was just the beginning. The opportunity came up | :28:09. | :28:17. | |
to do two weeks skiing in Bavaria. I thought, "Let's find out!" It did | :28:17. | :28:22. | |
take a lot of messing about to get the balance. I wouldn't know where | :28:22. | :28:27. | |
to start trying to guess how many falls I had, like, per day, or per | :28:27. | :28:35. | |
week. Now, it's brilliant. I loved flying down the piste, at stupid | :28:35. | :28:45. | |
:28:45. | :28:45. | ||
miles an hour, waiting to get told off! Through the grapevine, Laura | :28:46. | :28:50. | |
learnt of Pete's injuries. I wanted us to be friends again because I | :28:50. | :28:54. | |
realised that actually life is too short and it was very nearly him | :28:54. | :28:58. | |
not coming home. So that was when I thought, right, stop being too | :28:58. | :29:04. | |
proud, so I dropped him a message and quickly got a reply back. | :29:04. | :29:12. | |
typed back to her and I said, "Of course I remember you." I couldn't | :29:12. | :29:17. | |
really forget! We started chatting and then we met up. When he gave me | :29:17. | :29:20. | |
a hug outside the pub, it was like we have rewound the last couple of | :29:20. | :29:30. | |
:29:30. | :29:33. | ||
I knew then, when we first met up, I felt, yeah, I do still have | :29:33. | :29:38. | |
feelings for her then, obviously, if I'm feeling like this right now. | :29:38. | :29:42. | |
It didn't take long for there to be a bit of a romance starting up. | :29:42. | :29:48. | |
Then he told me that the ski season was just about to start, so | :29:48. | :29:52. | |
although we went on our first proper date and we could be a | :29:52. | :29:57. | |
couple, he was going to leave the country for six months to learn how | :29:57. | :30:00. | |
to ski and to ski race that. Was probably the big turning point in | :30:00. | :30:05. | |
my life. By now Pete was already racing for the Combined Services | :30:05. | :30:10. | |
Disabled Ski Team. Now firmly together, Laura was there for him | :30:10. | :30:16. | |
wherever he was in the world. I've had a bad day on the slope or | :30:16. | :30:22. | |
anything, then I know, phone her up, have a chat to her. Then I know, | :30:22. | :30:25. | |
funnily enough, about five minutes later, I'll have a great big smile | :30:25. | :30:29. | |
back on my face. The other side of that, there are | :30:30. | :30:35. | |
the highs when he's picked up gold medals. I've had phone calls at | :30:35. | :30:39. | |
work to say "I've just won a gold." The one thing you want to do is be | :30:39. | :30:43. | |
there and give that person a big hug and a kiss. When possible, | :30:43. | :30:47. | |
Laura travels to be by his side. Cheering him on from the side lines | :30:47. | :30:52. | |
isn't always easy. When I heard that he'd crashed out, the course | :30:52. | :30:56. | |
was on hold. There was no other racers allowed on and that the | :30:56. | :31:02. | |
doctor was with him. That was very much a hands over the face and just | :31:02. | :31:05. | |
basically waiting for every minute to tick by until I saw something | :31:05. | :31:13. | |
that showed me that he was OK. March 2010, Pete was asked to carry | :31:13. | :31:18. | |
the Paralympics torch in Vancouver. That day was extra special. Laura | :31:18. | :31:23. | |
was out there and it was my 25th birthday. I couldn't ask for | :31:23. | :31:27. | |
anything better to be honest while time that he was carrying the | :31:27. | :31:32. | |
torch I had the proper cheesey, proud, girlfriend grin. | :31:32. | :31:36. | |
As Pete prepared to leave with his team-mates, he had a sudden change | :31:36. | :31:43. | |
of plan. Next minute, he gets off the bus and I'm thinking "What are | :31:43. | :31:45. | |
you doing?" We've already said goodbye and had the tears. I'm | :31:45. | :31:52. | |
waiting now to wave you off into the distance. I got my phone out of | :31:52. | :31:59. | |
my pocket and I text a couple of the lads on the coach to say "Do us | :31:59. | :32:07. | |
a favour, just get thor look this way." He's texting on his phone. | :32:07. | :32:12. | |
You've come off the bus. We're going to have go goodbye again and | :32:12. | :32:16. | |
you're texting somebody. What are you doing? I'm talking to her, | :32:16. | :32:21. | |
saying yes, darling, of course darling, I'm going to miss you, | :32:21. | :32:26. | |
very much and keeping an eye out to see when everyone's looking. She | :32:26. | :32:33. | |
can see me. "What are you looking at? "I look and everyone's there. | :32:33. | :32:39. | |
Just get down on one knee and asked her to marry me. I was just so | :32:39. | :32:44. | |
blown away. Obviously the answer was yes. Then the next thought was | :32:44. | :32:48. | |
"You'd better be able to get back up. Because I certainly can't live | :32:48. | :32:53. | |
lift you off the floor." Just after getting engaged, Pete was offered | :32:53. | :32:57. | |
the chance of a lifetime, to be part of the British Paralympics ski | :32:57. | :33:07. | |
:33:07. | :33:08. | ||
team. Just have to wait and see what happens. Obviously he's | :33:08. | :33:11. | |
representing this country again, this time on the ski slopes rather | :33:11. | :33:16. | |
than on the battlefield. I am very proud of that. Proud of what he | :33:16. | :33:23. | |
does. It's been a roller coaster ten years for Pete and Laura and it | :33:23. | :33:27. | |
doesn't look like stopping. In February this year, they found out | :33:27. | :33:31. | |
they were expecting. We've got a lot going on. We have the baby | :33:31. | :33:34. | |
arriving at the start of the ski season and a wedding at the end. | :33:34. | :33:44. | |
:33:44. | :33:45. | ||
Lots to get organised. Laura's brilliant. Simple as. She's | :33:45. | :33:50. | |
helped me out in so many ways. just love having Pete in my life. I | :33:50. | :33:55. | |
couldn't imagine not having him around. She's one in a million. I | :33:55. | :34:02. | |
love her to bits. I'm delighted to tell you that | :34:02. | :34:07. | |
Laura gave birth to a beautiful baby girl, called Ava. | :34:07. | :34:17. | |
:34:17. | :34:18. | ||
Congratulations to Pete and Laura Over 9,500 British troops are | :34:18. | :34:21. | |
deployed here in Afghanistan. In the lead up to Remembrance Sunday, | :34:22. | :34:25. | |
I'm proud to be introducing their stories and those from past | :34:25. | :34:32. | |
conflicts around the world. Since the beginning of the Second | :34:32. | :34:36. | |
World War, over 16,000 men and women have given their lives | :34:36. | :34:42. | |
serving their country. The National Memorial Arboretum in the heart of | :34:42. | :34:46. | |
the Staffordshire is the UK's year- round centre of remembrance, a | :34:46. | :34:52. | |
living and lasting memorial to commemorate and celebrate them all. | :34:52. | :34:56. | |
In July, Her Majesty the Queen visited to pay her respects to | :34:56. | :35:06. | |
:35:06. | :35:09. | ||
those who laid down their lives In the Second World War, British | :35:09. | :35:13. | |
efforts to keep morale high gave rise to some of our most treasured | :35:13. | :35:18. | |
entertainers. Dame Vera Lynn is without doubt the | :35:18. | :35:25. | |
original forces sweet heart. It all started when she joined the | :35:25. | :35:28. | |
Entertainment National Service Association, known as ENSA. | :35:28. | :35:33. | |
boys had their own idea of what they stood for, every night | :35:33. | :35:41. | |
something awful. So many people who had never been on stage before, | :35:41. | :35:46. | |
suddenly decided they wanted to be a performer. They weren't always | :35:46. | :35:52. | |
that good. Formed in 1939 by impressario Basil Dean and the | :35:52. | :35:55. | |
British Government, an army of performers were posted around the | :35:55. | :35:59. | |
world to entertain troops during the Second World War. If you were a | :35:59. | :36:04. | |
working artist and you joined up, you were made good use of, I can | :36:04. | :36:08. | |
assure you! They may not have been fighting, but they certainly about | :36:08. | :36:14. | |
their bit. Dame Vera was just 20 when she signed up for ENSA. She | :36:14. | :36:19. | |
already had plenty of experience. My mother put me on the stage when | :36:19. | :36:26. | |
I was seven. I went through all the singing, the dance bands, before I | :36:26. | :36:31. | |
started in the real profession. It was great experience. It's a good | :36:31. | :36:36. | |
background, you know, to be able to hold people's attention in a smoky | :36:36. | :36:44. | |
hall in a working men's club, with no microphones. By 1940, Dame | :36:44. | :36:49. | |
Vera's sweet voice and girl next door appeal was already a huge hit | :36:49. | :36:55. | |
with our armed forces. I'd been broadcasting to overseas and the | :36:55. | :36:59. | |
boys and I thought it would be nice to go and see them in person, you | :36:59. | :37:05. | |
know, actually where they were fighting and sing to them as me and | :37:05. | :37:12. | |
not just over the radio. So I approached ENSA and suggested that | :37:12. | :37:16. | |
I could go overseas somewhere. They said, well, where do you want to | :37:16. | :37:24. | |
go? I said, well, Europe gets a lot of ENSA parties, so I want to go | :37:24. | :37:29. | |
somewhere where they're not getting a lot of entertainment, if any. | :37:29. | :37:34. | |
They said, well, Burma is the only place that nobody wants to go to. I | :37:34. | :37:42. | |
said, well, that's where I want to In 1944, Dame Vera arrived in Burma | :37:42. | :37:45. | |
and even though everything was rationed, it was still important | :37:45. | :37:50. | |
for the young singer to look her best. I took a nice pretty dress | :37:50. | :37:55. | |
with me, because I thought I would need it. I only wore it once. It | :37:55. | :38:02. | |
was much too hot. So I just lived in kaki all the time. Make up, of | :38:02. | :38:08. | |
course, was a no-no. I tried it once and was per spiring. It all | :38:08. | :38:13. | |
came off, so I thought, right, just a lipstick will have to do. That's | :38:13. | :38:20. | |
how I worked in my kaki and a lipstick. That's was a necessity! | :38:20. | :38:24. | |
And a little bit of lippie went a long way, as thousands turned out | :38:24. | :38:32. | |
to see her. I never imagined singing to 6,000 in one go. It was | :38:32. | :38:37. | |
rather wonderful really, you know, just to be a little platform and | :38:37. | :38:41. | |
look out and see all these chaps out there, spread quite a long way | :38:41. | :38:45. | |
away. It was rather nice really to be the only girl among so many | :38:45. | :38:54. | |
chaps. People ask me "How did they treat you?" I said, "Absolutely | :38:54. | :38:58. | |
perfect gentlemen they all were. Treated me with the upmost respect. | :38:58. | :39:04. | |
There was never any saucy calls or anything like that." But it wasn't | :39:04. | :39:08. | |
only large groups Dame Vera sung to. On one occasion two injured | :39:08. | :39:13. | |
soldiers had a special request. They were poorly. They couldn't go | :39:13. | :39:17. | |
to the concert. So I went to visit them and sat on their bed and | :39:17. | :39:27. | |
:39:27. | :39:27. | ||
chatted. They said "Will you sing We'll Meet Again?" I sang it to | :39:27. | :39:30. | |
them # Don't know where, don't know | :39:30. | :39:33. | |
when... # It's just something from home and | :39:33. | :39:39. | |
that means everything. This became her signature tune. Wherever she | :39:39. | :39:44. | |
went her pianist went as well. It didn't always go to plan. He sat | :39:44. | :39:50. | |
down to play the piano and the sides fell off, clatter, clatter. | :39:50. | :39:54. | |
Some of them jumped on the stage, picked the sides up, put it back | :39:54. | :39:59. | |
and carried on. Mucking in with the boys and making | :39:59. | :40:04. | |
the best of a challenging situation was all part of the job. | :40:04. | :40:08. | |
appreciate what the boys were doing, you had to live with them. I | :40:08. | :40:13. | |
wouldn't have felt comfortable, you know, if I'd lived a few miles out | :40:13. | :40:19. | |
in a hotel. Goodness knows where the hotels are. No hotels. There | :40:19. | :40:25. | |
weren't even any houses, let alone hotels. And being in tropical | :40:25. | :40:31. | |
climates, she had to learn and adapt quickly. You had a bowl of | :40:31. | :40:37. | |
soup. You'd have to be very nifty with your spoon, get it under the | :40:37. | :40:40. | |
flies and whip out a spoonful quickly. That's what you had to do. | :40:40. | :40:45. | |
I don't know what I lived on, I came back all right, a bit thinner | :40:45. | :40:50. | |
than I went. I wasn't very fat to start with! During the Second World | :40:50. | :40:54. | |
War, thousands of ENSA artists performed over 2.5 million shows | :40:54. | :41:03. | |
worldwide. I used to go in and just talk to them. This is what they | :41:03. | :41:07. | |
just wanted. They didn't care whether I sang or not, just that I | :41:07. | :41:11. | |
was there, having a chat, talking about London and the Blitz, to be | :41:11. | :41:16. | |
able to pass on messages and tell them "Don't worry about us. We're | :41:16. | :41:23. | |
fine." Getting plenty to eat, you know, to reassure them that they | :41:23. | :41:29. | |
were -- we were doing all right. For the troops who had been away | :41:29. | :41:34. | |
from home for so long, the morale boost was massive. The boys | :41:34. | :41:40. | |
appreciated so much all the ENSA artists going out there. One chap | :41:40. | :41:47. | |
said, "Now you're here, home doesn't seem so far away. "Dame | :41:48. | :41:52. | |
Vera sang to British troops in Egypt, India, and Burma and will | :41:52. | :42:00. | |
always be our Forces sweet heart. The war brought out a lot of talent, | :42:00. | :42:05. | |
you know, some not so good, but a lot of stars were made through | :42:05. | :42:10. | |
entertaining during the war. It's one of the most important things | :42:10. | :42:17. | |
that I did in my career. I always look back on it with happiness, | :42:17. | :42:23. | |
actually. I thoroughly enjoyed myself. I know the boys enjoyed it. | :42:23. | :42:31. | |
That was all that mattered. Wouldn't have missed the experience | :42:31. | :42:41. | |
Just being out here amongst today's servicemen and women, I can see how | :42:41. | :42:45. | |
important it is to have a small bit of home nearby. I'm glad to say the | :42:46. | :42:55. | |
:42:56. | :42:57. | ||
tradition of entertainers coming The British camp here in | :42:57. | :43:02. | |
Afghanistan was built in 2006 and is situated in the middle of the | :43:02. | :43:07. | |
desert. It's the largest overseas military camp built since World War | :43:07. | :43:10. | |
II. Camp Bastion is the engine room of all the operations here in | :43:10. | :43:15. | |
Afghanistan. We're now going to find out what life is really like | :43:15. | :43:21. | |
for the troops on the front line. ( Every day these Chinook helicopters | :43:21. | :43:25. | |
ferry men and essential supplies to British soldiers throughout Helmand | :43:25. | :43:32. | |
province. I'm lucky enough to have been given a seat in one. | :43:32. | :43:39. | |
I'm flying over the deadly Green Zone to visit the men of A company | :43:39. | :43:44. | |
1 rifles in the Nahr-e Saraj region. I want to discover what day-to-day | :43:44. | :43:49. | |
life is like for soldiers on the front line in a patrol base. | :43:49. | :43:54. | |
This one I'm in at the moment is in the heart of the Green Zone. I'm | :43:54. | :43:57. | |
heading up to the watchtower to how close we actually are to the front | :43:57. | :44:01. | |
line. The watchtowers or sangers are the | :44:01. | :44:05. | |
main form of protection for a patrol base. They're heavily armed | :44:05. | :44:09. | |
and offer a vantage point over the countryside to prevent Taliban | :44:09. | :44:15. | |
attack. Rifleman Josh Scorah is on duty. What are you looking for? | :44:15. | :44:20. | |
General pattern of life. If there's no locals around, that's a bad sign, | :44:20. | :44:24. | |
because if Taliban is in the area they will generally warn off the | :44:24. | :44:30. | |
locals not to come out. What are those white flags over there in the | :44:30. | :44:36. | |
trees? Basically, they're Taliban flags. The Taliban come in, put | :44:36. | :44:43. | |
these flags up in certain areas. They'll booby trap them, put some | :44:43. | :44:52. | |
sort of anti-tamper device or IEDs on the ground. ISAF troops don't go | :44:52. | :45:02. | |
:45:02. | :45:02. | ||
Those Taliban flags, which are 100 metres away, are a clear reminder | :45:02. | :45:07. | |
that we are in a dangerous place here and that's why these guys are | :45:07. | :45:17. | |
:45:17. | :45:22. | ||
Major Boswell has been commanding A-Company for the past six months | :45:22. | :45:26. | |
and he and his men have made it their own. This is where the action | :45:27. | :45:31. | |
is. This is the frontline for us. So we have this patrol base which | :45:31. | :45:36. | |
is an old Afghan compound which we have added things to over times. We | :45:36. | :45:41. | |
start cutting wood and putting up roofing, making camp improvements. | :45:41. | :45:46. | |
Within your Company, you have a carpenter, a welder, a former | :45:46. | :45:51. | |
bricky, a painter. Just seeing these random qualifications that | :45:51. | :45:55. | |
the riflemen have from various walks of life and how that can come | :45:55. | :45:59. | |
together to create one big construction company is amazing! It | :45:59. | :46:04. | |
can be the most simple thing. Like creating a drainage system for | :46:04. | :46:09. | |
brushing your teeth, or putting up a shower curtain made from some old | :46:09. | :46:14. | |
manure sacks. Everything around us has been built and produced by the | :46:14. | :46:18. | |
riflemen? It's done by the riflemen in conjunction with the field | :46:18. | :46:22. | |
engineer troops. Of the 9,500 British troops in Helmand, a third | :46:22. | :46:29. | |
endure the simple conditions of frontline compounds like this one. | :46:29. | :46:34. | |
One of Major Boswell's riflemen, Jamie Thornton, has agreed to show | :46:34. | :46:39. | |
me his regiment's creative DIY skills. This is the washing machine. | :46:39. | :46:44. | |
The what? This is the washing machine. It's a cement mixer! I | :46:44. | :46:50. | |
don't know if that is bizarre or ingenious. Ingenious. Hot water | :46:51. | :46:56. | |
into this cement mixer and... it on like usual. Leave your | :46:56. | :47:03. | |
washing in, throw it in, go brush your teeth, come back, rinse it, | :47:03. | :47:07. | |
that's it. It gets the sweat and irrigation water out. What about | :47:07. | :47:12. | |
the tumble drier? That's the sun! Even the sleeping quarters are far | :47:12. | :47:17. | |
more basic than I thought they would be. This is our crib. Welcome | :47:17. | :47:27. | |
:47:27. | :47:30. | ||
to the crib. We have a mouse problem at the moment. | :47:31. | :47:37. | |
confirmed so far! Pretty good going. It's not possible to go for a quick | :47:37. | :47:46. | |
jog outside the walls so each base has its own gym. Exercise is not | :47:46. | :47:51. | |
just about the body, it also helps concentrate the mind because | :47:51. | :47:56. | |
soldiers like Jamie need to be ready and alert at all times. | :47:56. | :48:01. | |
normal day is going out that gate and doing what we do, doing what we | :48:01. | :48:05. | |
are trained to do. Your normal day is different to many people's | :48:05. | :48:13. | |
normal day. Suddenly, the base seems empty and an eerie silence | :48:13. | :48:18. | |
descends. It is quite quiet around the camp today. Where is everybody? | :48:18. | :48:23. | |
It is very quiet. Most of the riflemen are on this operation | :48:23. | :48:30. | |
today. We are trying to bait the insurgents out. This is the | :48:30. | :48:35. | |
operations room. This is where they are keeping an eye on the guys on | :48:35. | :48:43. | |
the ground. The Ops Room is the hub of any operation. It is where Major | :48:43. | :48:48. | |
Boswell co-ordinates his men in battle. By using all the | :48:48. | :48:52. | |
intelligence they have in here, they have identified two members of | :48:52. | :48:59. | |
the Taliban. They are waiting now for the all-clear to engage. Major | :48:59. | :49:03. | |
Boswell listens carefully to all the updates on the ground. And | :49:03. | :49:09. | |
finally he makes his decision. are tracking the guy in the white | :49:09. | :49:18. | |
jacket. The commander. That's it. Everyone's got their job, | :49:18. | :49:21. | |
everyone's communicating brilliantly. It's an extremely | :49:21. | :49:31. | |
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job at hand and they are focused on that. Let's go for it! OK. Through | :49:38. | :49:40. | |
Major Boswell's leadership and precision team work between the | :49:40. | :49:46. | |
troops on the ground and in the air, the mission is a success. More | :49:46. | :49:49. | |
importantly, with only two weeks of their tour left, none of A-Company | :49:49. | :49:53. | |
were killed or injured on the mission. The boys who have just | :49:53. | :49:56. | |
arrived back here have been on the patrol we were watching from the | :49:56. | :50:01. | |
Ops Room. It is baking hot. They kind of get on with it. They must | :50:01. | :50:05. | |
have been on foot patrol for five hours. Unfortunately, not all | :50:05. | :50:15. | |
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missions are like this. As Jamie reminds me. My mate, he was a | :50:16. | :50:21. | |
double amputee. I was in a checkpoint at the time. I found out | :50:21. | :50:26. | |
that he was blown up. I went and saw him in Selly Oak. That was | :50:26. | :50:30. | |
really horrible. I was walking down the corridor - it's a long corridor | :50:30. | :50:35. | |
- I had a bit of a cry, as you would. It was quite horrible to see | :50:35. | :50:39. | |
him. One thing I have learnt from this place is to live life to the | :50:39. | :50:43. | |
max. You don't know - you see people come and go all the time in | :50:43. | :50:51. | |
the Army. Jamie's moving story about his friend is a reminder of | :50:51. | :50:57. | |
the reason I have come to Afghanistan. There's a special | :50:57. | :51:01. | |
place set aside in this patrol base, the memorial, the names of men and | :51:01. | :51:05. | |
women who have fallen in battle in this area are always remembered | :51:05. | :51:15. | |
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How many have been seriously injured? How many have been lost? | :51:16. | :51:21. | |
We have had a lot wounded, an awful lot seriously wounded and we have | :51:21. | :51:26. | |
only lost two. Over time you learn to box it up. There's some demons | :51:26. | :51:30. | |
out there that we will deal with when we get home, together. Right | :51:30. | :51:39. | |
here, it is one big happy family. Nothing can really affect them. -- | :51:39. | :51:44. | |
that. Spending time here has given me an insight into how our troops | :51:44. | :51:50. | |
live on the frontline. It is really basic here, really harsh conditions. | :51:50. | :51:55. | |
But friendships get them through. Ef are I time -- every time they | :51:55. | :51:59. | |
leave those gates, they put their life in danger. For that, they have | :51:59. | :52:06. | |
my utmost respect. With loved ones serving abroad, the | :52:06. | :52:11. | |
worry and anguish for friends and family at home is immense. Sadly | :52:11. | :52:18. | |
for some, that worry turns into the news they never want to hear. In | :52:18. | :52:25. | |
2003, Kate Darbyshire met Steven, a Royal Marine. He made me laugh. He | :52:25. | :52:31. | |
was just strong and passionate and had a lust for life, really. If | :52:31. | :52:38. | |
there was any kind of party, he would be in the middle of it. We | :52:38. | :52:44. | |
both probably wanted children at some point. But Ryan came sooner | :52:44. | :52:51. | |
than what we both expected, really. In a good way. Ryan was born in | :52:51. | :52:58. | |
2004 and two years later, Callum arrived to complete their family. | :52:58. | :53:02. | |
He was a great dad. He was hands-on from the start and amazed me, | :53:02. | :53:08. | |
really. I think he changed the first nappy, it wasn't me - it was | :53:08. | :53:13. | |
him. He did the first bath. I used to come home from work and he would | :53:13. | :53:17. | |
be at home and the boys would have their tool bench out and the tools | :53:17. | :53:21. | |
and they would be working at the side of him. Got them involved in | :53:21. | :53:27. | |
everything. Now, to this day, they play Army on the floor with their | :53:27. | :53:32. | |
friends and they do dress up. They have the real things so, for them, | :53:32. | :53:40. | |
it was great, that their dad was a real soldier. In 2010, Steven was | :53:40. | :53:46. | |
posted to Afghanistan for the third time. He phoned as often as he | :53:46. | :53:52. | |
could and he used to ring at like around 6.00 because that would be | :53:52. | :53:56. | |
the time that usually we would all be in, I would be home from work | :53:56. | :53:59. | |
and if the boys had been playing out, they were getting ready for a | :53:59. | :54:05. | |
bath. We all got to speak to him. I used to write to him probably | :54:05. | :54:10. | |
nearly every day. Half of the time I was talking rubbish, really. It's | :54:10. | :54:16. | |
just sending him something to know that we are thinking about him. | :54:16. | :54:20. | |
Kate and the boys made sure he had a little something from home. | :54:20. | :54:26. | |
had a separate part of the trolley that would be for their dad and | :54:26. | :54:30. | |
goodies and for the rest of the lads as well. Parcels are like free | :54:30. | :54:34. | |
to send. So it was a case of sending as many as we can and they | :54:34. | :54:38. | |
used to help me pack the parcels, we used to weigh them together, we | :54:38. | :54:42. | |
used to wrap them together. They would decorate the boxes, put | :54:42. | :54:47. | |
stickers on. So I bet he was made up when his delivery arrived. | :54:47. | :54:51. | |
was a massive morale boost for Steven who as a Royal Marine was | :54:51. | :54:59. | |
often away from home. For us as a family, actually where he was going | :54:59. | :55:03. | |
was a bit irrelevant, it was more the length of time that he would be | :55:03. | :55:07. | |
away. He could have been away training somewhere for six months | :55:07. | :55:11. | |
in a safe environment, but we missed him and he missed us. It is | :55:11. | :55:16. | |
a long time to be away from your family so when they do come home, | :55:16. | :55:23. | |
it's the best feeling ever. Steven was stationed in one of the most | :55:23. | :55:29. | |
hostile areas of Helmand Province. Part of me was always worried | :55:29. | :55:32. | |
because of the environment over there and everything and what he | :55:32. | :55:36. | |
was doing. And the situations that he could have been in. He's been to | :55:36. | :55:43. | |
Northern Ireland, to Iraq twice, this was his third tour in | :55:43. | :55:49. | |
Afghanistan and I think to me in my mind he was invincible, I suppose. | :55:49. | :55:55. | |
There was never any doubt in my mind that he wouldn't come home. | :55:55. | :56:00. | |
The last conversation we all had with him was on the Saturday before | :56:00. | :56:04. | |
he died on the Wednesday. He had phoned at dinner time and the boys | :56:04. | :56:09. | |
had been playing football and we had just got in. Callum had | :56:09. | :56:15. | |
answered the phone but he had pressed the button so he was on | :56:15. | :56:19. | |
loud speaker, which is good now in a way because I heard the whole | :56:19. | :56:22. | |
conversation and he spoke to Callum and asked him what he had been | :56:22. | :56:26. | |
doing at nursery and about playing football that morning. He had spoke | :56:26. | :56:32. | |
to Ryan and I had obviously said in my letters that he's doing really | :56:32. | :56:37. | |
well at football and he's won such a medal and he had won a | :56:37. | :56:42. | |
goalkeeping award the week before. He said to Ryan, "I hear somebody | :56:42. | :56:47. | |
is like a fantastic footballer!" I could see Ryan's face, he was like, | :56:47. | :56:51. | |
"How does my dad know that when he weren't here?" The last thing he | :56:51. | :56:59. | |
said to him was, "You will have to show me when I get home." Four days | :56:59. | :57:08. | |
later, Steven was shot and killed. I remember I was putting my make-up | :57:08. | :57:15. | |
on in the mirror. I watched my mum walk into me through the reflection | :57:15. | :57:20. | |
of the mirror. I have never in my entire life seen my mum look like | :57:20. | :57:24. | |
that, ever. When people say things like this happen and you get a gut | :57:24. | :57:30. | |
feeling and you know, I did know. But all I could think about at that | :57:30. | :57:38. | |
moment was protecting my children and if they could have another day | :57:38. | :57:45. | |
where they didn't know then that was - for me it was the right thing | :57:45. | :57:51. | |
to do. I just said to them, you know, your dad's in Afghanistan and | :57:51. | :57:56. | |
you know like you play Army outside with your friends and you hide and | :57:56. | :58:01. | |
you pretend you are snipers and I said, "Over there, the snipers are | :58:01. | :58:08. | |
real and the guns are real. The bullets are real. This morning your | :58:08. | :58:14. | |
dad's been out and he's been shot." I had conversations with them both | :58:14. | :58:19. | |
for like hours and hours and hours, just answering question after | :58:19. | :58:24. | |
question. And it is child questions like, "If somebody was shooting at | :58:24. | :58:30. | |
him, why didn't he duck?" And, "Why didn't he crawl on all fours?" "Why | :58:31. | :58:40. | |
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didn't he shoot him first?" It's awful as a parent, it is the - the | :58:43. | :58:49. | |
conversations are those that you shouldn't have to have. I don't | :58:49. | :58:55. | |
remember being five and three. I don't know what their memories of | :58:55. | :59:04. | |
their dad are going to be like. And it's my job to keep his memory | :59:04. | :59:11. | |
alive and not let them forget because he was amazing and he was | :59:11. | :59:20. | |
their dad and they need to know how amazing he was. Steven is the first | :59:20. | :59:24. | |
thing I think about when I wake up every morning and he is the last | :59:24. | :59:28. | |
thing I think about when I go to bed at night. I am fortunate in the | :59:28. | :59:34. | |
fact that I have got two bits of him for the rest of my life and the | :59:34. | :59:39. | |
biggest injustice I could ever do to him would be not to look after | :59:39. | :59:45. | |
them properly. That is what makes me get up in the morning. Like all | :59:45. | :59:51. | |
families of fallen servicemen and women, Kate, Ryan and Callum were | :59:51. | :59:59. | |
awarded the Elizabeth Cross. I am so proud to have that in our | :59:59. | :00:08. | |
possession. All little boys think their dads are heroes, but theirs | :00:09. | :00:18. | |
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It's been an absolute privilege to spend time with our Armed Forces | :00:24. | :00:27. | |
out here in Afghanistan. I would like to thank them and everybody | :00:27. | :00:30. | |
else who have shared their experiences with us this week. | :00:30. | :00:36. |