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Most of us take our freedom for granted,

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but for Antonia, it's a distant dream.

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I've been in hospitals for

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pretty much the whole of the last three years.

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We were only going in for one day, and we didn't ever come out.

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Her condition is pulling a loving family apart.

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It does fill you with a lot of guilt.

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You can see how much pain she's in,

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and you can see how frustrated she is and how limited she is.

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That's really, really tough.

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Kept prisoner by a debilitating illness,

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Antonia's watching the best years of her life pass her by.

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I want to be able to be a normal teenager,

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and do normal teenager things,

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and just be able to be independent and just go home.

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But there's nowhere to go, so...

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I can't go.

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'And that's where we step in.

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'This brave girl and her family need their lives back.

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'We'll try to give it to them, whatever this build throws at us.'

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-I think we have to send them home early.

-Right, OK, I'll do that.

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It's just not safe, is it?

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'And we're ready to give it our best shot.'

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-You can't just take seven things that people like and nail them together...

-Yes, I can!

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Oh, my gosh! Look at our kitchen!

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Wow.

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We have just nine days to carry out the build.

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The usual suspects are here,

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and our designer this week is Laurence Llewelyn-Bowen.

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-Hello.

-You come from round this area.

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We're bordering on my land.

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Where are we going to find an army of helpers, Laurence?

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Well, luckily I brought this lot with me.

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This is DIY SOS!

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THEY CHEER

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Antonia and her brother Samuel were bought up by their mum, Victoria,

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a teacher, in a small village in Worcestershire.

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She was happy and healthy until, at four years old,

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she was struck by a mysterious illness.

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She just had what seemed to be seizures.

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It was just an awful time, because we didn't know what was happening.

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To watch and not know, when you actually, you, as a parent,

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just want to make everything right, yeah, it does feel quite helpless.

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As she got older, Antonia did appear to improve,

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and it seemed that family life could get back to normal.

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Antonia had dance clubs and Mum was doing something as well,

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and we all had all of our own kind of little lives as well,

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which we were all kind of orchestrating together.

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She had an amazing group of friends,

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used to camp out in the garden and laugh a lot, and it was the best,

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I think she would say it was the best time of her life, really.

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But then, four years ago, at the age of 14,

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Antonia took a dramatic turn for the worse.

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Suddenly, she started collapsing.

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Just falling unconscious. And this sprang from nowhere,

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she was collapsing and nobody knew what it was.

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I'd go to A&E and stay in for a few days, and then come back out,

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but every week I was in for an admission.

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After a barrage of tests,

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doctors diagnosed Antonia with Ehlers-Danlos syndrome,

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a rare and painful condition

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which weakens the body's connective tissues.

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When things like this happen, you never think that it would be me,

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or anyone to do with my family, but it is, so...

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It's difficult.

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The pain is awful for her,

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and she's on medication that even can't stop the pain.

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And you never really hear her talk about pain.

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You know, she doesn't, she just carries on.

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This incurable illness weakens nearly every system in her body.

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She can no longer digest food,

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and has to be fed through a tube directly into her heart.

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She can't stand or even sit upright without collapsing.

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My heart and my veins and my autonomic nervous system

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isn't strong enough to pump the blood to my brain,

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so effectively, when your brain hasn't got any blood in it,

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it just shuts down.

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Antonia stayed in several hospitals

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before arriving at a specialist unit in London.

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Victoria had to travel hundreds of miles to be with her,

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and was forced to stop work as a result.

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Nearly three years after her first admission,

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Antonia is now back at her local hospital in Gloucester,

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where her mum spends every day and night by her side.

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I sleep on the floor next to Antonia's bed, so I have...

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I've got a crash mat that I put out here,

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and then pop up and just check everything's all right.

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It's really made Mum very scared to leave her,

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because these episodes can be quite serious and quite scary, yeah.

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If she wasn't found when she's collapsing

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and she's not got an airway in,

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it's really hard to think about what could happen.

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Even Samuel gave up a dream job to be near his sister.

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Bedbound, she's been confined to a hospital room

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for the most part of three years.

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She's completely trapped,

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whether it's trapped in the four walls of a hospital room or trapped

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within the limitations of her body, and, you know, that is hard.

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I look outside the window and I kind of think,

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"Oh, God, that is very big out there."

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And, like, just remembering crossing the road and stuff,

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it seems kind of scary, really.

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As horrific and potentially life-threatening as Antonia's condition is,

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she could be cared for at home,

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but only if her home is equipped with oxygen,

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a sterile space for her intravenous medications,

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and room for a full-length wheelchair, and, at the moment,

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all that's impossible.

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Her legs have to be up all the time,

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so it's equivalent of trying to move a bed through the front door,

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which we can't do.

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And then there's no turning space, there's nowhere for her to sleep.

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After years of struggling to make the best of these unimaginable

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circumstances, the family are at the end of their tethers.

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It's just torn the family apart, and we've been so separated.

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I've always...

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been quite positive and things, and got on with it,

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but now I'm getting tired.

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It's a desperate plight for a young girl who's lost her prime teenage

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years to this cruel disorder.

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We need to give her and her family some freedom back,

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and get Antonia home.

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-How do we help?

-This house used to be a really happy house,

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and the children used to laugh loads and we used to all be really silly.

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I haven't heard a laugh for quite a long time, really.

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Psychologically, it's really important for Antonia to be home.

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Has it been tough for her just recently?

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The truth is, it's been absolutely horrendous as it's unfolded.

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Antonia's had, I think, 22 operations.

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I say, "I think," it sounds bad in itself, doesn't it?

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-Since last January...

-Well, I should imagine after a while you do start to lose track.

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You know, you bundle through life with two active children doing

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normal stuff, and then all of a sudden it's not there any more.

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No. I used to get scared and think, if I ever start crying, that'll be it,

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I won't be able to pull myself back together

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to do what I need to do the next moment.

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And this isn't about me, this isn't about me.

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This is about a young lady who is absolutely amazing

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and deserves to be able to come home.

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'You know, despite her brave face,

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'it's clear that Victoria and the whole family desperately need help,

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'and this lot are queueing up to lend a hand.'

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Hello.

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APPLAUSE

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Thank you so, so much for giving up your time.

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I'm a bit sort of shellshocked that you're all doing this for us.

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To get her home, it will be lovely to see her really smile properly again.

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In order to do that, we need to get you off and away from the place

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-so that we can get started, if that's all right.

-Thank you so much.

-No problem.

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-We'll see you.

-Thank you.

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'With Mum safely out of sight, we can get going.

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'And our first job is to get rid of anything in our way - from tiles

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'to tree trunks.'

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-The wrong house.

-The wrong one!

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'We've got over 100 tradesmen here on the first day alone,

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'of all shapes and sizes!'

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It just demonstrates the fact that it's far too low.

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If he can reach it! THEY LAUGH

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'And of every follicular configuration.'

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I like your beard. That's a beauty.

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'That's a bit worrying, isn't it?

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'Walls are crashing down inside,

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'but they'll be going up outside, as round the back,

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'we're building a ground-floor extension to house Antonia's brand-new

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'bedroom and wet room.

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'Earlier this week, this lovely bunch of lads laid the groundworks for us

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'to give us a head start. But today,

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'things have ground to a very premature halt.

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'The voice of doom has started early this week.'

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How much are you saying we're behind, then?

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-Half a day.

-So we've been working 45 minutes and we're half a day behind?

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-Yeah.

-How does that work?

-We hadn't got the beams to lay the block and

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-beam floor.

-Where's the block and beam floor?

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It's about three hours away up the M5.

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On a broken down wagon.

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-On a broken down wagon.

-You're joking me?

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'The men with the timber frame for Antonia's extension are already

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'here and raring to go.

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'But to be honest, they can't do diddly squat until that block and

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'beam floor is down.

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'What we can do is rip out the garden, but Julian's at a bit of a loss when

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'it comes to the green stuff.'

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-I'm not a plant man, am I?

-Heavy plant.

-Yeah, heavy plant.

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-As in machinery, but not...

-Green plants.

-No.

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-Is there much growing in your garden?

-I ripped it all out last week.

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-Did you?

-I bought myself a little digger.

-What, like a little hand digger?

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No, a 1.6 tonne mini digger.

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-And I've been in my front garden.

-NICK LAUGHS

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I've took 70 tonnes of soil out of the garden.

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-What are you doing, a swimming pool?

-No. Landscaping it.

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-Are you?

-Yeah.

-And what are you going to plant in there?

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-Nothing.

-Nothing...

-Chippings.

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NICK LAUGHS

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'What this build needs is someone who doesn't think chippings are the

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'height of luxury design.

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'Someone stylish, sophisticated and not at all irritating.

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'Vintage 1931, if I'm not mistaken.

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'And the car's getting on a bit, too!'

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HE LAUGHS

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I see you've started.

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Well, we thought we might as well press on and get as much done before

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-you started taking an influence.

-Exactly.

-By the way, happy birthday.

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-Thank you very much indeed.

-It was THE birthday, wasn't it?

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It was. It was a great celebration.

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Gloucestershire's finest all coming together to mark how lucky we are to

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-have survived 50.

-So are you actually announcing that?

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Absolutely. Cut me in half and count my rings.

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I am done dendro-chronologically 50.

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'Who knew? Well, I did, because I was there.

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'Well, let's put that half century of knowledge to good use.'

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I mean, the idea is to try and give Antonia and the rest of the family an ability

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to have as much space together as possible.

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-Yes.

-Because of her condition,

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it means that she takes up an enormous amount of room when she moves.

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So it's really important that we don't have a warren of small areas,

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because she's going to be sort of stuck in one and everybody else is going to be stuck in the other.

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'Taking out most of the internal walls,

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'Laurence's design will create a spacious open plan kitchen and

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'dining area.

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'The existing living room will become an accessible space where the

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'family can spend quality time.

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'Upstairs, mum Victoria will have a plush new bedroom,

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'along with dressing room, instead of that hospital floor.

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'Her old one will become a guest room for Samuel when he comes to stay with

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'his family.

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'And most important of all,

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'the new extension will house Antonia's wet room and bedroom,

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'complete with oxygen supply,

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'space to manoeuvre and a sterile area to prepare her meds at home.

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'DIY SOS builder's rock, not available anywhere.

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'Chris will be a happy man as the plasterboard has turned up ahead of

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'schedule, although there seems to be a slight imperfection in the back.'

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THEY CHEER

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'Definitely not ahead of schedule is the block and beam floor.

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'It's finally arrived several hours late after a leisurely day basking

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'like a shark on the hard shoulder of the M5.'

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How long have we got?

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-Before this is in.

-An hour, it should be in.

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Get this in in an hour.

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-Top man, top man.

-'That's where he buys his shirts!

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'Once the floor's in, we need to get that timber frame for Antonia's room

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'up and fast.

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'A hard enough job even if it wasn't the hottest day of the year.'

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But then, this is good plastering weather.

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No, it's not. Too hot.

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It's good for the plaster, but not for the plasterers.

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-Ah!

-See what I mean?

-Yes.

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Head over.

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-Hottest day of the year, it is.

-Thanks very much.

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-Get a bit of that on you.

-Cheers.

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'The sparks have been flying today.

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'They're about the only team on schedule.'

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Done the ring main upstairs, they're doing the lighting upstairs,

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the kitchen will all be sorted as well, so we are...

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we are up with it, as they say.

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'Doesn't make any sense, really, does he? But you've got to love him.'

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-Laurence had a birthday recently. How old do you think he is?

-I reckon

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he's...58, 59.

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-And what was he?

-50.

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Oh, sugar!

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Laurence! Laurence!

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Don't put me in it.

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'Yeah, I don't think Billy will be getting a party bag, do you?'

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-Jules! Come here.

-'But Chris and Jules might.'

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I didn't know whether you knew, but it's Laurence's birthday.

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-Laurence who?

-Our designer.

-Right.

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-Laurence Llewelyn-Bowen.

-Yeah.

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And I thought we'd buy a little cake, but we'd Laurence it.

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-All right.

-We'd spruce it up a bit.

-Decorate it and give it a bit of a Laurence flair.

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Yeah, so, um... Right.

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Would you say he looked 50?

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-Oh, I guessed at 60, to be honest.

-Really?

-Yeah.

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-Look.

-Liking it. It needs a moustache.

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-Right.

-He had a bit on his chin, didn't he?

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HE LAUGHS

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Aw, mate!

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You can overdress a cake.

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You can. I think definitely less is more.

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'Bake Off, here they come!

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'I'll tell you who deserves an extra large slice of cake - these boys,

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'because they've put the block floor down in under an hour.

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'But while ripping out the back garden, we've hit an unexpected problem.'

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We have a ground bees' nest here that was under the shed.

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We're going to have to get someone in to move the bees, take them away,

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and find them a new home.

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I'll go and call a bee person.

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'Usually, I'd call the A person, but the budget's a bit tight!'

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NICK CHUCKLES

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'That frame for Antonia's room has finally started going up, but with

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'so much to fit inside,

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'we'll still be in trouble if we can't get finished today.

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'Inside, the ceiling is now being held up only by metal props and a robust

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'aroma of hot builder, in preparation for the steels arriving tomorrow.'

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We've got to take the ends of all those rafters off, to get the steelwork in.

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-Not a five-minute job, then.

-Not five minutes.

-No.

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'Even in the stifling heat, these 100-odd builders are giving it their all.

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'All except for Mary Berry and Paul out here.'

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-Happy birthday, Mr Laurence Llewelyn-Bowen.

-I am...

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-You're loving it, aren't you?

-I am absolutely delighted with that.

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-Blow your candle out, then.

-Come on.

-Come on. Make a wish.

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Are you still here?

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THEY LAUGH

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I'm going to put it somewhere really safe where I can really enjoy it.

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Ah! No, clap yourselves, by all means.

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HE LAUGHS

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-I think he was very, very pleased by that.

-I think he was almost touched.

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-Yeah.

-Almost.

-Almost shed a tear.

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He did.

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-Wow!

-He loved that.

-'You notice Chris still can't say his name properly.

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'Here comes the biohazard team to clean the Portaloos.

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'Just kidding! They're bee handlers.

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'You know, this lot have worked, well, like worker bees today.

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'And now that the queen bee's got his cake... NICK LAUGHS

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'..and our stripy little friends

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'are out on their ears, all that's left to do is finish the timber frame.'

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Pretty much done. This is about another two hours' work, which

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has to be done because we won't get on tomorrow if we don't.

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We're going to come through the door that's going to disappear.

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We're going to block this in. Part of the chimney that has disappeared,

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to the new front door that has appeared. Well,

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the space at least. And there's going to be a porch out there, too.

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We're going to block up the old French door. Come through here.

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As you can see, all the ceiling is taken out.

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This is a forest of acrow props, and the reason it's a forest of acrow props is

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because it's holding up the whole of upstairs,

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because there are new steels that need to go in this side, too.

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Considering the raging temperatures today, and the difficulties we've had,

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I think that's a pretty good start.

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'So we've clawed back the start of the build from an unprecedented five-hour delay.

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'And tomorrow is a new day.

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'I know it's stating the obvious, but it is.

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'The hottest day of the year. Again!'

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Morning - it's proper shorts weather today.

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They say it's going to be upwards of 40 degrees,

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so we've got to look after our builders and make sure they keep hydrated.

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Nice thing about having a big pair of shorts on, there's plenty of ball room.

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Which means you can bring one in to throw around with the builders at lunchtime.

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'A hot day can play merry hell with materials and the workforce alike.'

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-This is brilliant weather, isn't it?

-Oh, it's... Well, it's good,

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but obviously we might have a little problem with the glues because

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obviously, certain temperatures, too high, too low,

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we need something in between a little bit, really.

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Hang on. Every time we're doing well in the winter, they go, "It's a bit difficult in the winter,

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-"it's too cold!"

-Yeah.

-Now you're saying it's to hot.

-Well, you know, it's glue, isn't it?

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We'll be all right. We'll be all right. I'm big enough to cover the sun out, block the sun out.

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THEY LAUGH

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'Fortunately, the heat hasn't put these fellas off.

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'They're back for more and in even greater numbers.

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'Julian's got his hands on one of his favourite toys.

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'Look at the concentration.

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'I bet he wouldn't drive his own digger down there.

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'He might scratch the paintwork, you see.

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'Let's hope he can get into the back garden, it needs some serious reshaping.'

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I suppose this garden's all about access. Because they haven't been out here for...

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Well, for ages. They haven't had a chance. But of course it's potentially

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a sensory space and a great space to be,

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-isn't it?

-Yeah, no, the garden should be a very,

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very important part of bringing Antonia back, as far as I'm concerned.

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The one thing that is complicated is that rose.

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That rose tree, we think, was planted

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by Victoria's mother just before she died.

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So, certainly, it has great sentimental value,

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which is why we're protecting it.

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'Very important detail, that.

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'The plan is to build a garden on two levels -

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'decking outside Antonio's room, built around that precious rose,

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'followed by a patio with the large turning circles you need.

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'All connected by a sandstone ramp to allow her to move around.

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'To bring Laurence's design to life,

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'we've got a team of gardeners with a bloke called Ian at the helm.'

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Officially, hottest day of the year...

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-Sounds good.

-..to build a garden.

-Mm-hm.

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-How you doing?

-Struggling.

-THEY LAUGH

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You've got material problems.

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We have, yeah, we are seriously short of kit at the moment and we could do

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with getting a few more things here.

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'The building game's really picked up recently and we are finding that

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'merchants simply haven't got the stock to donate.'

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We're suffering, but actually, it's a good thing.

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It's an illustration of the fact that the economy and the building

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industry are coming out of recession with a bang,

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which is excellent for us all.

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Doesn't help much on this one though, does it?

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We are young and flexible.

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We are acting kind of tough.

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We can cope, sir.

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# We are young, we are free, keep our teeth nice and clean. #

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MUSIC: Alright by Supergrass

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'All we can do is keep ringing around

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'and hope that someone comes up with the goods.

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'You see, the builders really want to get this build right for Antonia

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'and her family. Her brother, Samuel,

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'has already had to shoulder enough responsibility to last a lifetime.'

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What's the toughest thing for you that you've seen with Antonia?

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The toughest thing is to have seen her completely lose the ability to

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just do whatever she likes.

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Just be able to stand up and walk out of the room, you know?

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When someone's so independent and then that happens to them,

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that's a massive change. It's really, really apparent.

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So, that's really, really tough to see.

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At the moment, she doesn't think that she'd be able to come out of

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hospital. You know,

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she doesn't think that it's a possibility, because she used to talk about

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coming home and doing all these things for so long, and in the last

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six months, I haven't heard her say anything like that.

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It must be heartbreaking for you because you obviously love her so

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-much, when you see her in pain. Cos she suffers a lot, doesn't she?

-Yeah.

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The thing is, she's in pain all the time.

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You never hear her complain unless it's absolutely, you know, awful.

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She puts on a front quite a lot of the time for other people,

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which is...

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selfless, really, because...

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..it's meant that quite often,

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people don't necessarily see how bad it really is.

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I think...

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my sister is

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amazing and she's,

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you know, she's the most inspirational person.

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But for me, it's my mum who's my hero.

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Because I've seen how much my mum has had to fight to move forward

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with the situation and to sort situations out completely by herself.

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Fearlessly, really.

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I know there are days when she completely loses hope and thinks,

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"How can I carry on like this?"

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But she just keeps going, and I think that's absolutely amazing.

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I hope that when you walk in there,

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what you see is somewhere that's not only good for Antonia,

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not only takes the pressure off your mum a little bit,

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but also takes the pressure off you, because you've done an extraordinary job in looking after your family.

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'This build could make life so much more bearable, both for Antonia

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'and her family, too.

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'Fortunately in the afternoon, some materials have started trickling in.

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'That will keep Julian happy.

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'The steels for the ceiling have arrived.

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'And the bricks for Antonia's extension are being dropped off around the back.'

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That's a clever little crane, isn't it?

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It's on a railway track on the back of the...

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I've not seen that before. It's very cool.

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It's 3,200 bricks we've got to get into the back of the building.

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'Good job it's not an insanely hot day, or this would be really hard work.

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'I've got lose some weight. People are starting to flag and it's even

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'hotter on the roof.'

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Fancy an ice cream?

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I'll go and organise it.

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'Inside, the steels are going in despite the blistering temperatures.

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'There you go. Up, up, up!'

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All right.

0:23:230:23:24

On three, we're going to lift and pull it this way 50 mil.

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Ready? One, two, three.

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Lift, this way. Stop.

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'What's got 19 heads, 38 feet and smells like one giant armpit?

0:23:340:23:38

'Put it this way, it's not a caterpillar.

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'Round Antonia's room, the skin's going up, and in this weather,

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'there's a lot of skin on show.'

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So, just touching 100 degrees there.

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I told you it was going to be hot today, and it's got ridiculously hot.

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Are you managing all right over there with the heat and everything?

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Yeah, just about. I said we'll be here until about half past four and

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that will just about do us, then.

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'Yeah, it's no fault of our poor brickies, who've worn themselves out

0:24:040:24:07

'trying to keep on schedule, but it's another blow for Antonia's extension.

0:24:070:24:11

'The rest of the team aren't doing much better either.

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'We've already got through a week's worth of water in a couple of days.'

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Because it's this hot, we've actually got a slight problem.

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-Everyone's worn out.

-Yeah.

-There's guys up on that roof up there who are working...

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You said it was 100 down here.

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-It's more up there.

-We've got 30 guys inside and the body heat of that lot

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added to the temperature in there...

0:24:310:24:34

'Looks like the heat's got to Billy, too. Where's he gone?'

0:24:360:24:39

Oi, lads, anybody seen Billy?

0:24:400:24:42

Don't know where he is. Haven't seen him for a while.

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Billy! Has anyone seen Billy?

0:24:460:24:48

ICE CREAM VAN PLAYS TUNE

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'Ah, just the job.

0:24:500:24:52

'Oh, no. Really?'

0:24:530:24:55

You might have wondered where I've been.

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I've been and hijacked an ice cream van.

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We're going to do knickerbocker glories.

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This one is the one that my mother used to make.

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-IN ITALIAN ACCENT:

-Ah, Billio.

-What do you want?

0:25:060:25:09

Could I possibly have a 99-io?

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No, it's a knickerbocker glory or nothing.

0:25:110:25:13

'Yeah, somebody gave them a script, didn't they?

0:25:130:25:15

'Despite the best efforts of Billy Berlusconi,

0:25:150:25:18

'our workforce is utterly exhausted.

0:25:180:25:21

'We're going to have to take an unprecedented step because of this heat.'

0:25:210:25:24

I think we have to send them home early.

0:25:240:25:26

-Right, OK. I'll do that.

-It's just not safe, is it?

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No, it's not safe.

0:25:280:25:30

'Shutting the site early will cost us three hours of build time,

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'three hours we can't afford.

0:25:330:25:35

'We certainly can't afford another day like this.

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'We're in luck! The typical British summer has returned!'

0:25:430:25:46

The weather's changed a bit today.

0:25:480:25:50

We've got a bit of rain after all the heat yesterday,

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which is actually quite refreshing, but we don't want too much.

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Morning, morning. Morning.

0:25:550:25:57

'It's day three and the plasterers have arrived en masse.'

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Firstly, thank you for giving us your time.

0:26:010:26:03

'And Chris is giving them his usual upbeat motivation speech.'

0:26:030:26:07

We're about half a day behind.

0:26:070:26:09

But not putting any pressure on you.

0:26:090:26:11

'Yeah, that's one to rally the troops, Chris. Well done(!)

0:26:110:26:13

'And their first challenge is to get through the newly bricked-up

0:26:130:26:16

'front door.'

0:26:160:26:17

It might pay to go through that window.

0:26:180:26:21

'With the more reasonable temperature,

0:26:240:26:26

'there's a symphony of construction going on.

0:26:260:26:28

'Music to my ears.'

0:26:280:26:31

# Chick, chick, chick, chick, chicken!

0:26:310:26:33

# Take a little chance with me... #

0:26:350:26:37

'Yeah, that was fun, wasn't it? We may have shut early yesterday,

0:26:470:26:49

'but the way these lads are going at it, we might get this build back on track.

0:26:490:26:53

'Just look at the plasterers go.'

0:26:550:26:57

-Who's putting this on?

-Ivan.

-Ivan.

-Pleased to meet you.

-Nice to meet you.

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-You don't meet many Ivans around.

-No, there's only a few of us.

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Named after Ivan the Terrible?

0:27:040:27:06

My nan's next-door neighbour.

0:27:060:27:08

-Is there a story there?

-No.

0:27:080:27:10

NICK LAUGHS

0:27:100:27:12

'I think there's a story there. Inside, we're motoring,

0:27:120:27:15

'but outside we still don't have all of the garden materials, and a brief

0:27:150:27:19

'shower's stopped play for Jules.

0:27:190:27:22

'Still, who are we to complain?

0:27:250:27:26

'Antonia hasn't been able to experience a day outdoors in a very long time.

0:27:260:27:31

'Luckily, she has an incredibly supportive family

0:27:310:27:33

'and a best mate like Georgia.'

0:27:330:27:35

So how long have you known Antonia?

0:27:350:27:36

-Four years.

-Right.

-Yeah.

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And so what kind of person was she before all her difficulties came along?

0:27:380:27:42

Very energetic and mad.

0:27:420:27:45

So it must have come as doubly a shock for somebody who was so energetic

0:27:450:27:48

-to suddenly be so struck down.

-Yeah. When she was in London, I used to go up on the weekend

0:27:480:27:53

and visit her and stay in the hospital room with her.

0:27:530:27:55

And I would just get really agitated after a few hours,

0:27:550:27:58

just being trapped in that room. But I can get up and leave.

0:27:580:28:02

She can't. So just thinking how she would feel being stuck there.

0:28:020:28:06

-It's horrible.

-But she passes out often, doesn't she?

0:28:060:28:10

Yeah, yeah. I used to...

0:28:100:28:12

Whenever she passed out, I always used to read to her.

0:28:120:28:15

Because sometimes, she can still hear.

0:28:150:28:17

-Is that right?

-Yeah.

-That's a hell of a friendship you've got there, then.

0:28:170:28:22

Yeah. Well, I love her, so...

0:28:220:28:24

But that's a long time to, you know, to be going and seeing somebody

0:28:250:28:28

and travelling up to London to see her and all those things.

0:28:280:28:31

She's my best friend. It's what you do, don't you, if you love someone?

0:28:310:28:34

It's very cool, though.

0:28:340:28:36

She's obviously a very lovely person.

0:28:360:28:39

She is, she is.

0:28:390:28:40

'We can't help with Antonia's diagnosis, but we can get her back home.

0:28:420:28:46

'And with the sun out again, the team are redoubling their efforts.

0:28:460:28:49

'And finally our calls have paid off and materials are arriving thick and fast.

0:28:520:28:57

'The patio's here.

0:28:580:28:59

'And the screed for a brand-new floor in Antonia's room.'

0:29:010:29:04

-50 mil, sort of liquid screed.

-Yeah.

0:29:050:29:08

Which goes off in about 24, 36 hours

0:29:080:29:10

and you can get that done and working, hopefully.

0:29:100:29:13

We put one down before and it didn't go off.

0:29:130:29:15

-But this will go off?

-Yeah, promise.

0:29:150:29:18

'Antonia's extension has created nothing but headaches so far,

0:29:200:29:23

'but the roof's nearly finished, and a good job, too,

0:29:230:29:27

'as it's been holding up the gardeners.'

0:29:270:29:29

I will be so glad to see the back of that scaffolding.

0:29:290:29:32

-Trust me, yeah.

-This would be a three-week job,

0:29:320:29:34

two and a half, three-week job for you guys normally?

0:29:340:29:36

I would say so, yeah. Three weeks would probably do it.

0:29:360:29:39

'Well, we're four days in, so you've got five days, Ian. NICK LAUGHS

0:29:390:29:43

'You're welcome!

0:29:430:29:44

'Despite everyone getting under each other's feet, there's no lack of goodwill on site.

0:29:450:29:49

'People have roped in their mates, their bosses, their daughters,

0:29:490:29:53

'and even those who can't help are here in spirit.'

0:29:530:29:56

I lost my brother last year

0:29:560:29:59

and he would have loved this.

0:29:590:30:00

I just want him to feel part of it, really.

0:30:000:30:03

A bit soft, I know, but the sort of thing he would have been involved in,

0:30:030:30:06

I should imagine, so just wanted to feel that he was here with me today.

0:30:060:30:10

'Doesn't sound daft at all to me. There's a lot of love on site.

0:30:100:30:13

'This lot are determined to make this house a home again for Antonia

0:30:130:30:17

'and her family. For her mum, Victoria, her illness has been heartbreaking.'

0:30:170:30:21

The hardest part was...

0:30:230:30:27

not knowing how to help.

0:30:270:30:29

Not knowing if Antonia is in pain.

0:30:290:30:32

There's nothing I can do particularly.

0:30:320:30:35

I can only be there.

0:30:350:30:36

And it's harrowing to watch your child in really, really, really bad pain

0:30:370:30:43

and not be able to make it better.

0:30:430:30:45

And for us to be in hospital away from home for that long, away from

0:30:460:30:50

family, away from friends, and it to be every day.

0:30:500:30:53

Why aren't you worn out?

0:30:560:30:57

-Or are you?

-I am, actually.

0:30:580:31:02

I just think you just have to keep going.

0:31:020:31:05

-There isn't...

-It's easier said than done.

-I know, but there's not a choice.

0:31:050:31:08

I've learned an awful lot from Antonia and Samuel.

0:31:080:31:12

They're a lot stronger than I am.

0:31:120:31:15

-You're very proud of Samuel, aren't you?

-Very, very proud of Samuel.

0:31:150:31:18

He has supported his sister and he loves his sister.

0:31:180:31:22

With Antonia's illness, it was all very sudden for everybody.

0:31:220:31:25

It was sudden for him.

0:31:250:31:26

Suddenly, we didn't come home. That was it.

0:31:260:31:29

We were gone for a blood test and we didn't come home. And I think...

0:31:300:31:34

Yes, I suppose Samuel had to grow up pretty quick.

0:31:340:31:37

Have you pictured having her home now that you know that it's happening?

0:31:390:31:42

Oh, it's going to be amazing.

0:31:420:31:44

Antonia thought I had a magic wand and I could just make everything right.

0:31:440:31:48

And I haven't been able to make this right, I haven't been able to get her home.

0:31:480:31:52

When she said,

0:31:520:31:53

"I want to go home," I've had to say, "I can't take you."

0:31:530:31:57

And that is horrible.

0:31:570:31:59

We've hopped from crisis to crisis to crisis, and for something good

0:31:590:32:03

to happen that so many people are trying their hardest to get Antonia home,

0:32:030:32:08

it is unbelievable.

0:32:080:32:09

It is a dream come true, really.

0:32:090:32:11

It's absolutely what I've wanted for her.

0:32:110:32:13

I don't know how much more of hospital Antonia can take, really.

0:32:150:32:20

It's so tough.

0:32:200:32:22

She's had her 16th, 17th and 18th birthday in hospital.

0:32:220:32:25

-19th at home?

-19th at home.

0:32:270:32:29

She's going to go home.

0:32:310:32:33

Oh, my God! I've just realised. It's a really stupid thing to say!

0:32:330:32:36

'Wow! No pressure.

0:32:410:32:42

'We only get to get her home if we finish the build.

0:32:420:32:45

'What we don't need is any more delays to Antonia's room.'

0:32:450:32:48

Nice!

0:32:490:32:51

Proper job, that, boy. Proper job!

0:32:510:32:53

-That's more like he, isn't it!

-Yeah!

0:32:530:32:55

'That is a proper relief,

0:32:550:32:57

'as we've only got three days left and the decorators need to get in.'

0:32:570:33:01

'After the screed, the next thing to go down is underfloor heating,

0:33:030:33:06

'as soon as Billy's figured out whose job it is.'

0:33:060:33:08

Who's going to lay the underfloor heating system?

0:33:080:33:10

Obviously, it's got electrics to it, so is it an electrician's job?

0:33:100:33:14

'Yes! Yes, it is, actually.'

0:33:140:33:16

In my mind, heating is water. So it could be the plumber's.

0:33:160:33:19

'But that's wrong!'

0:33:190:33:20

So we're trying to work out who's... it's a demarcation.

0:33:200:33:24

It's a union thing here.

0:33:240:33:25

'It's you! It's you!

0:33:250:33:27

'This will shock you, Bill, but since the plumbers are busy plumbing,

0:33:270:33:30

'the painters are painting, the chippies are chippying,

0:33:300:33:32

'I think you're stuck with the ELECTRIC heat mat.

0:33:320:33:34

'The entire ground floor is designed with Antonia in mind,

0:33:370:33:40

'but above all, her bedroom.'

0:33:400:33:42

This is the most important room in the house,

0:33:420:33:44

actually, because we're going to have

0:33:440:33:46

all the medical equipment in here.

0:33:460:33:48

It's called an aseptic room,

0:33:480:33:50

which is somewhere that she can feed,

0:33:500:33:52

and it's very clean and dust-free and germ-free.

0:33:520:33:55

So this is a really important space.

0:33:550:33:57

'These guys have come from Yorkshire

0:33:580:34:00

'to fit a ceiling hoist to help Antonia

0:34:000:34:02

'if she collapses.

0:34:020:34:03

'With only two days to go, it's all about speed now.

0:34:050:34:08

'But a flooring which resembles a 1,000-piece jigsaw is not helping.'

0:34:080:34:12

And unfortunately, some idiot has decided

0:34:120:34:14

that they're going to put it down herringbone style.

0:34:140:34:16

Laurence!

0:34:160:34:18

Planking goes down a lot quicker.

0:34:180:34:19

There's a lot more wastage with this.

0:34:190:34:21

So how much more time?

0:34:210:34:23

Did you say it was twice as much?

0:34:230:34:25

-Three times longer.

-Three times longer

0:34:250:34:27

to do this particular style of flooring.

0:34:270:34:29

So this really wasn't an ideal situation

0:34:290:34:31

in which to put down herringbone floor?

0:34:310:34:33

-No.

-No.

0:34:330:34:34

So we should take the designer outside

0:34:340:34:36

and have him publicly flogged.

0:34:360:34:38

'Or we could set Billy on him.

0:34:380:34:40

'That's worse than a flogging.'

0:34:400:34:42

She can't turn corners.

0:34:420:34:44

She's always got to go in a really big circle.

0:34:440:34:47

So she's got a nice space to turn in.

0:34:470:34:49

So she's got enough space here to really, you know.

0:34:490:34:51

And who thought of that, then?

0:34:510:34:53

Yeah! But who invented the Round Table?

0:34:530:34:56

Ah! Well, it was King Arthur.

0:34:560:34:58

No. Sir Cumference!

0:34:580:34:59

Sir Cumference!

0:34:590:35:01

Come on, sausage, let's go.

0:35:010:35:02

'I've changed my mind, Billy should be publicly flogged for that joke.

0:35:020:35:05

'Better yet, tarred and feathered, and we've got just the stuff!'

0:35:050:35:09

It goes down one single layer,

0:35:110:35:13

and it's got wax in it then, and it sets solid.

0:35:130:35:16

But it goes off quicker?

0:35:160:35:17

Goes off quicker, so you've got to be careful.

0:35:170:35:19

How long have you been in the McAdam tarmac industry?

0:35:190:35:23

-25 years.

-It's a lovely industry.

0:35:230:35:25

It is. I love the smell of asphalt when it's been laid.

0:35:250:35:28

I know! I know! I came up a road the other day in Wales, actually,

0:35:280:35:32

and it was like black velvet all the way through the mountain.

0:35:320:35:34

It was gorgeous. Are you married?

0:35:340:35:37

I am, unfortunately!

0:35:370:35:38

How long would it take to get a divorce pushed through?

0:35:380:35:41

'Seriously! Smoother than a freshly-laid drive, that man!

0:35:410:35:45

'Honestly!

0:35:450:35:46

'Going less smoothly is that herringbone floor.

0:35:460:35:49

'It hasn't even been started in Antonia's room,

0:35:490:35:52

'pushing our most important room behind schedule, yet again.'

0:35:520:35:55

Is there ANY chance we can change the flooring in Antonia's room...

0:35:560:36:00

-Yes.

-..to something else?

0:36:000:36:02

It's taking so long to lay.

0:36:020:36:03

-Perfectly all right.

-You seem very malleable.

0:36:030:36:06

Almost like an Olympic gymnast, you seem very flexible today.

0:36:060:36:09

I mean, there's no point in us all, you know,

0:36:090:36:12

crippling ourselves just for one rather foolish

0:36:120:36:15

and rather frivolous design decision.

0:36:150:36:18

But, fine! There you go!

0:36:180:36:20

'Who was that?

0:36:200:36:21

'Seriously, who was that man? And what has he done with Laurence?'

0:36:210:36:24

Tick-tick-tick-tick...

0:36:240:36:26

'Anyway, we've got him to change his mind about the floor,

0:36:260:36:28

'but maybe I should have held on to my veto card a little bit longer.'

0:36:280:36:32

-What the...?

-I did say, I said in Antonia's room, it's going LA crib.

0:36:340:36:39

I've designed this wallpaper especially for her -

0:36:390:36:42

-hence the As and the...

-Rampant zebras.

0:36:420:36:44

Which are something which she's very much interested in.

0:36:440:36:47

But you can't just take seven things

0:36:470:36:49

-that people like and nail them together and...

-Yes, I can.

0:36:490:36:52

-It's barking, Laurence.

-It is entirely barking,

0:36:520:36:54

but it's entirely commensurate with the way

0:36:540:36:57

that I think teenage girls are barking.

0:36:570:36:59

As the owner of two myself,

0:36:590:37:01

and my two were literally licking that when they saw it.

0:37:010:37:04

'OWN two daughters, Laurence? Really?

0:37:040:37:07

'Still, Antonia's room is now getting papered and floored,

0:37:070:37:10

'and this lot are determined to get it right for her.

0:37:100:37:13

'Now, you may be thinking we haven't met Antonia very much,

0:37:130:37:15

'that's because visiting her in hospital is difficult,

0:37:150:37:17

'but I've heard she's well enough to see me,

0:37:170:37:19

'so there's a chance to get to know her.

0:37:190:37:21

'You know, her illness is so rare

0:37:210:37:22

'that in medical circles, conditions like these

0:37:220:37:24

'are sometimes called zebras,

0:37:240:37:27

'which explains why Antonia's room is covered in them.'

0:37:270:37:30

They're so cute, aren't they?

0:37:300:37:31

They are. They're just very cool.

0:37:310:37:34

If you press that button that's flashing...

0:37:340:37:36

It is an attention seeker, that is. Seriously.

0:37:360:37:39

It's like a child, you have to ignore it.

0:37:390:37:41

So you've been almost sort of institutionalised to this.

0:37:410:37:44

I mean, surrounded by all of these machines.

0:37:440:37:46

-Yeah.

-It is a lot to have to deal with at your age.

0:37:460:37:49

I try and stay positive,

0:37:490:37:51

but it is difficult, and sometimes I do, like, get really upset over it.

0:37:510:37:55

But how do you keep that positivity up all this time?

0:37:550:37:58

Has there been times when it's slipped, or have you managed?

0:37:580:38:01

Yeah, like, I've had times when I've been in so much pain.

0:38:010:38:04

When I was in London, I was on such a high dose of morphine.

0:38:040:38:08

When you have, like, chronic pain, and it is that all the time,

0:38:090:38:12

people say you get used to it and you, like, learn to deal with it.

0:38:120:38:17

I don't think you do,

0:38:170:38:18

you kind of just learn to stop, like, saying anything about it.

0:38:180:38:22

How amazing is your brother?

0:38:240:38:26

Oh, I love my brother.

0:38:260:38:28

He came and got a job in London so that he could be nearer to me.

0:38:280:38:32

He'd come in after work and he'd be so exhausted.

0:38:320:38:35

He'd be sat there, like, falling asleep.

0:38:350:38:38

I think he'd just do anything for me, really.

0:38:390:38:41

-And your mum?

-My mum's a superhero.

0:38:410:38:44

It is amazingly tight-knit, the three of you.

0:38:440:38:47

Mm. Yeah.

0:38:470:38:49

We always have been a close family, but I think this whole experience,

0:38:490:38:53

we've gained a lot of perspective for a start,

0:38:530:38:55

about, you know, that you should cherish your family

0:38:550:38:58

and every day is, like, special, really,

0:38:580:39:02

because you never know what's going to happen.

0:39:020:39:05

I don't know what I'd do without them.

0:39:050:39:08

So what are your hopes?

0:39:080:39:10

Just to go back to normal life, really.

0:39:100:39:14

I don't really mind,

0:39:140:39:16

but I just want independence and freedom, really.

0:39:160:39:19

How excited are you about coming home?

0:39:190:39:21

Super excited. Super, super excited.

0:39:210:39:23

Are you going to be well enough to come back?

0:39:230:39:25

Touch wood.

0:39:250:39:27

So how does it feel

0:39:270:39:28

knowing that we're just days away from the possibility

0:39:280:39:31

of you actually getting home?

0:39:310:39:33

I don't even really think I completely believe it yet,

0:39:330:39:36

to be honest.

0:39:360:39:38

They are basically giving me, like, a new chance at life.

0:39:380:39:42

For me to get home will be like a dream.

0:39:420:39:46

Will you promise me something, that no matter how excited you are,

0:39:460:39:50

that you will not come home if you're not well,

0:39:500:39:53

and that you will not make yourself do anything

0:39:530:39:55

because you think you ought to?

0:39:550:39:57

-Pinky swear.

-Pinky swear?

0:39:570:39:58

-Yeah.

-All right.

0:39:580:40:00

'Of course, Antonia's health must come first,

0:40:000:40:03

'but we want to finish this house no matter what,

0:40:030:40:06

'so that it's ready for her whenever she's able to come home.

0:40:060:40:09

'As we head into the final day, the house is buzzing.'

0:40:090:40:12

Brilliant stuff, we've got the garden finished,

0:40:120:40:14

we've got the lawn down, the tarmac in.

0:40:140:40:16

'He's on a roll, isn't he?

0:40:160:40:17

'Mark, tell us a bit more about what's going on.'

0:40:170:40:19

And then in here, we've got

0:40:190:40:20

Oliver fitting the last of the machines in here.

0:40:200:40:22

They've finished all the grouting off.

0:40:220:40:24

-'Any more?'

-Then in here we've got all new floor laid,

0:40:240:40:27

the skirtings are nearly finished.

0:40:270:40:28

'Mark, be a fridge.'

0:40:280:40:30

Fridge, shelf, door, beautiful.

0:40:300:40:33

'It's all about the little details, and I don't mean Mark.

0:40:330:40:37

'In the garden, it's all hands on decking. Ha-ha-ha!

0:40:370:40:40

'And the turf is on a roll. Honestly, you can't buy this stuff.'

0:40:400:40:43

It's starting to look the part, isn't it?

0:40:430:40:45

-It is, yes.

-You going to be done in time?

0:40:450:40:47

Because we are running... hours now.

0:40:470:40:50

The answer to the question has to be yes.

0:40:500:40:53

But, yeah, we'll be there.

0:40:530:40:55

'One of the most important bits of kit has turned up,

0:40:550:40:58

'Antonia's life-saving oxygen supply,

0:40:580:41:01

'with taps in every ground-floor room.'

0:41:010:41:03

24 hours a day, that's accessible for her.

0:41:050:41:07

-Wow!

-Yeah.

0:41:070:41:09

She'll have small portables, as well,

0:41:090:41:11

that she can carry with her when she goes out.

0:41:110:41:14

But this is to give her a supply when she is in the home.

0:41:140:41:17

Without the oxygen, she couldn't come home.

0:41:170:41:19

'Drawing on the wallpaper? I used to get in trouble for that.'

0:41:210:41:24

Well that's, that's very lovely.

0:41:240:41:26

Thank you very much indeed. All you need is a permanent marker,

0:41:260:41:29

some acrylic paints,

0:41:290:41:31

and about five or six years in an Italian art school.

0:41:310:41:33

This is going to be very sort of elegant Mum's room?

0:41:330:41:37

Well, this is an escape.

0:41:370:41:38

My heart goes out to the parents and I think that when you are dealing

0:41:380:41:41

with everything on a daily basis, it is so important

0:41:410:41:45

to have a sanctuary, have a space that you can call your own.

0:41:450:41:49

'He's very good, isn't he? Above all the schmutter, he's very good.'

0:41:490:41:53

Get everything piled up.

0:41:530:41:54

If we can get the cleaners in there, that's the room almost ready.

0:41:540:41:57

'Right up until the last minute,

0:42:000:42:02

'we're still inundated by incredibly thoughtful touches.

0:42:020:42:05

'Hang on. That table looks familiar.

0:42:070:42:09

'Oh, my goodness! Look at that.'

0:42:090:42:12

This is their old table.

0:42:120:42:14

The top is, yeah. Then on that side...

0:42:140:42:16

You've taken a section out here?

0:42:160:42:17

That's gone so that we can get wheelchair access.

0:42:170:42:20

Look at these!

0:42:200:42:21

Well, this represents the family, you've got the mother, the two kids,

0:42:210:42:24

obviously, this is where, for the first time,

0:42:240:42:26

they can sit together and enjoy a family meal.

0:42:260:42:28

-What a beautiful thing.

-It's lovely, isn't it?

0:42:280:42:30

That's a lot of thought gone into a table, mate, that's fantastic.

0:42:300:42:32

Cheers.

0:42:320:42:34

'Isn't it wonderful what people can do?

0:42:340:42:35

'They've put body and soul into making this house a home.

0:42:350:42:39

'And they're making sure every last detail counts.'

0:42:390:42:42

The sun's going down, so it's about half past nine at this stage.

0:42:450:42:48

People still making things.

0:42:490:42:51

People inside still trying to put things together.

0:42:510:42:54

It's basically going to be a very long night,

0:42:540:42:57

so we'll see you in the morning.

0:42:570:42:59

'Nine days ago, we met a family

0:43:030:43:05

'shattered by a cruel medical condition.'

0:43:050:43:08

When things like this happen you never think that it would be me,

0:43:080:43:11

or anyone to do with my family, but it is.

0:43:110:43:14

'With a house she'd been unable to come home to for three long years,

0:43:150:43:20

'Antonia's outlook was bleak.'

0:43:200:43:22

I don't know how much more Antonia can take of being in hospital.

0:43:230:43:27

I got to a point where I didn't ever see myself coming out of hospital,

0:43:280:43:32

and I thought it was just going to be forever.

0:43:320:43:34

'But these local heroes responded to our SOS in a huge way,

0:43:360:43:40

'battling through the hottest July day on record.'

0:43:400:43:43

People are just streaming with sweat.

0:43:430:43:46

I think we have to send them home early.

0:43:460:43:47

-Right, OK, I'll do that.

-It's just not safe, is it?

0:43:470:43:49

'And the result?

0:43:490:43:51

'Well, it will bring Antonia home and give her a new chance at life.

0:43:510:43:55

'We've replaced the old front porch with a brand-new one

0:43:590:44:01

'to make the impossible possible.

0:44:010:44:03

'Antonia can now enter her own home once more.

0:44:030:44:07

'Inside, the living room has been opened out to create a homely

0:44:070:44:10

'and accessible space where the family can all be together again.

0:44:100:44:14

'The warren of narrow doors and small rooms

0:44:150:44:17

'has been removed to create this new and spacious kitchen-diner.

0:44:170:44:22

'And a supply of oxygen and hoists around the entire ground floor

0:44:220:44:26

'will give Antonia the freedom to move she's been longing for.

0:44:260:44:29

'Meanwhile, a whole new extension at the back of the house

0:44:300:44:33

'means Antonia now has a proper room all of her own.

0:44:330:44:36

'It's done up in the polar opposite of hospital decor,

0:44:380:44:41

'and it's complete with an aseptic area for preparing her medicines.

0:44:410:44:45

'And a wet room.

0:44:450:44:46

'For Mum, the days of sleeping on the floor are over.

0:44:480:44:51

'Her room is now a haven of relaxation

0:44:510:44:54

'with its own dressing room.

0:44:540:44:55

'The decluttered bathroom radiates simple elegance.

0:44:570:45:00

'And when Samuel comes to stay or for when Antonia's mates sleep over,

0:45:020:45:06

'there is a stylish and sophisticated new guest room.

0:45:060:45:10

'And that's not all. The garden is now a green, serene paradise

0:45:100:45:14

'filled with butterfly-friendly planting,

0:45:140:45:16

'wheelchair-friendly decking,

0:45:160:45:18

'and the family's beloved rose as a centrepiece.

0:45:180:45:21

'It'll be all the more life-changing for Antonia,

0:45:230:45:25

'who hasn't even set foot outside hospital for months.

0:45:250:45:29

'But that's all about to change.

0:45:290:45:31

'Today, the medics have given her the all clear to come home.'

0:45:320:45:36

I love the fresh air.

0:45:430:45:45

I'm actually quite well today.

0:45:460:45:48

I was really worried that I was going to catch a cold or something,

0:45:480:45:51

but I didn't, so I'm good.

0:45:510:45:52

I mean, today is the culmination of a long, long, long time, isn't it?

0:45:550:45:59

To actually finally get your sister actually home.

0:45:590:46:01

Yeah. She came out of the hospital today and said,

0:46:010:46:05

"Oh, it's amazing, just some fresh air,"

0:46:050:46:07

you know, and you forget that she hasn't had that for so long.

0:46:070:46:10

So that is so special.

0:46:100:46:13

This morning, I woke up and I thought it was Christmas Day,

0:46:170:46:20

and I leapt up and danced around the room, which is quite sad, I suppose.

0:46:200:46:25

We're going home.

0:46:270:46:28

It's so exciting, isn't it?

0:46:290:46:31

Are you excited?

0:46:320:46:34

Very excited. And Antonia is ecstatic, as well.

0:46:340:46:36

She's very, very nervous, but excited.

0:46:360:46:39

It won't be too much for her today?

0:46:390:46:41

No, she's ready for it.

0:46:410:46:43

Definitely.

0:46:430:46:44

Oh, my God, this is so crazy.

0:46:440:46:46

I can see the roof.

0:46:460:46:48

-Samuel!

-Hello.

0:46:560:46:58

Hello.

0:47:000:47:01

Oh, Samuel. I love you so much.

0:47:040:47:06

-Are you ready?

-Yeah.

0:47:190:47:21

Super ready.

0:47:210:47:22

Oh, my God! Look at the drive!

0:47:240:47:26

-Oh, it's amazing.

-Yeah, well, access,

0:47:260:47:27

we kind of thought it was important for you

0:47:270:47:29

to be able to get an ambulance if you need to, in and out,

0:47:290:47:31

-and enough turning space.

-It's amazing.

-It's amazing.

0:47:310:47:33

-Oh, look, there's a little bench.

-Oh, it's amazing.

0:47:330:47:36

Your front door used to be there, and it's not any more, it's there.

0:47:370:47:40

This is to make maximum use of the inside,

0:47:400:47:42

but also to give you easy access.

0:47:420:47:44

Are you calm enough?

0:47:440:47:45

-Are you all right?

-Yeah.

0:47:450:47:47

-Promise not to peek?

-Pinky swear.

0:47:470:47:49

-Pinky swear?

-Yeah.

-OK.

0:47:490:47:50

-Shall we get started, then?

-Yeah.

0:47:500:47:52

This will be something that you can do yourself,

0:47:520:47:55

but not with your eyes closed.

0:47:550:47:57

SHE LAUGHS

0:47:570:47:59

Does not smell like hospitals.

0:47:590:48:01

We've created a home that means

0:48:040:48:05

you can all be back together as a family after so long.

0:48:050:48:08

Open your eyes.

0:48:090:48:11

-Oh, my God.

-Oh, my God.

0:48:110:48:14

-It's beautiful.

-It's amazing.

-It's amazing.

0:48:140:48:17

That sofa looks super comfy.

0:48:180:48:21

Look at someone's artwork.

0:48:210:48:23

There's all my pictures of me and Plum.

0:48:240:48:29

Can't believe it, I can't believe it.

0:48:310:48:33

It's absolutely beautiful.

0:48:330:48:35

It's crazy, isn't it?

0:48:350:48:37

Doesn't even look anything like it.

0:48:370:48:39

And look at the hoist.

0:48:390:48:41

Oh, wow.

0:48:410:48:42

If you wanted to have some time on the sofa,

0:48:420:48:44

you can use the hoist to get up and down, move about.

0:48:440:48:46

Also, as we know, there is always a danger of you passing out,

0:48:460:48:49

falling to the floor. Whoever's with you has got the hoist then

0:48:490:48:52

to able to lift you and get you back in.

0:48:520:48:54

And then you can just put me on the sofa.

0:48:540:48:57

-Yeah.

-I don't have to lie on the floor for hours.

0:48:570:48:59

-Normal stuff.

-It's so cool.

0:48:590:49:01

What's the beeping? How's the beeping?

0:49:050:49:06

Are you all right?

0:49:060:49:08

-Your heart rate up?

-I'm fine, I'm all good.

0:49:080:49:10

Right, so this is just the first bit.

0:49:100:49:12

I could just live in here.

0:49:120:49:13

Oh, no, you wait till you see the rest of it.

0:49:130:49:15

Ready? Do you want to take the lead?

0:49:150:49:17

Oh, my gosh! Look at our kitchen.

0:49:220:49:24

Wow.

0:49:240:49:26

Look, it says VSA.

0:49:260:49:28

That is so, so beautiful.

0:49:280:49:30

It's amazing.

0:49:300:49:32

-Oxygen.

-This is your piped oxygen,

0:49:320:49:34

which goes up and around and to every room in the house.

0:49:340:49:37

So wherever you are, you don't have to take a bottle.

0:49:370:49:39

You can unplug and plug in.

0:49:390:49:40

You're not allowed to box it in,

0:49:400:49:42

but you are allowed to have a little table top over the top.

0:49:420:49:44

So we've done that to try and make the least impression on the area.

0:49:440:49:47

Cos we don't want this to look...

0:49:470:49:48

Like a hospital, yeah.

0:49:480:49:49

And it isn't, is it?

0:49:490:49:51

It's my home. High-five.

0:49:510:49:53

That's very cool.

0:49:530:49:55

Do you recognise the table?

0:49:550:49:57

It's our table, isn't it? Oh, it's absolutely amazing.

0:49:570:50:00

Oh, it says free to fly.

0:50:000:50:02

-It does.

-Look at the butterfly on the corner.

0:50:020:50:05

It's so gorgeous, I love it.

0:50:060:50:08

Wow. It is absolutely beautiful.

0:50:080:50:11

-I love it.

-It's so cool.

0:50:110:50:14

-I'm a bit like...

-I know, it's quite overwhelming.

0:50:140:50:16

I didn't expect it to be so perfect.

0:50:160:50:18

If you think about it, that's all of your house, isn't it?

0:50:180:50:21

-Think of the shape of your house.

-Yes, it is.

0:50:210:50:23

-Taken a few walls out.

-You've taken a lot of walls out.

0:50:230:50:26

Samuel's still trying to work it out, isn't he?

0:50:260:50:29

I just can't believe it.

0:50:290:50:31

It's amazing.

0:50:310:50:32

Oh, my...

0:50:340:50:36

Oh, my God!

0:50:360:50:38

Look at the prints!

0:50:400:50:43

-Wow.

-I can put all of my make-up on.

0:50:430:50:47

The zebras are so cute.

0:50:470:50:48

It won't surprise you to know that this is the only wallpaper

0:50:480:50:51

-like it in the world.

-It is beautiful.

0:50:510:50:53

It's been designed for you by Laurence, with the A, obviously,

0:50:530:50:56

and the zebras and the butterflies.

0:50:560:50:57

I love it.

0:50:570:50:58

It's so cool.

0:50:580:51:00

Essentially, hoist goes from here all the way through...

0:51:000:51:06

and out and along.

0:51:060:51:08

Oh, my goodness, look at that.

0:51:080:51:10

And disappears around the corner here to see the next part.

0:51:100:51:12

Do you want to come and have a look?

0:51:120:51:14

This is absolutely...

0:51:140:51:16

Oh, my gosh.

0:51:160:51:17

-..brilliant.

-That looks so amazing.

0:51:170:51:20

That looks like a really comfy bed.

0:51:200:51:22

It's not just comfy, it does all kinds of amazing things.

0:51:220:51:25

So, obviously, it is a medical bed as well.

0:51:250:51:27

-I love it.

-It is absolutely brilliant.

0:51:270:51:30

Obviously, important part of this for your meds.

0:51:300:51:33

To have your own fridge here for your meds.

0:51:330:51:36

And this area here is the...

0:51:360:51:39

-What do you call it?

-Sterile area for my lines,

0:51:390:51:42

and my TPN and my medicines. And it's not white!

0:51:420:51:46

I absolutely love it.

0:51:470:51:49

It's absolutely perfect.

0:51:490:51:51

The wallpaper's not too bonkers and over the top?

0:51:510:51:54

It's bonkers and over the top, and I love it!

0:51:540:51:56

THEY LAUGH

0:51:560:51:59

Is this what you wanted and hoped for and needed?

0:51:590:52:01

This is everything.

0:52:010:52:02

It is absolutely perfect, isn't it?

0:52:020:52:06

Everything she needs is here, and it's beautiful.

0:52:060:52:09

We can just have a completely fresh start,

0:52:090:52:11

and Antonia can be in here

0:52:110:52:13

and you can just do whatever you like and we can do whatever we like.

0:52:130:52:16

It just feels like a home. I love it.

0:52:160:52:19

Is it what you'd hoped for, Antonia?

0:52:190:52:21

Yeah.

0:52:210:52:23

It is.

0:52:230:52:25

Georgie is going to love it.

0:52:250:52:27

She'll probably move in.

0:52:270:52:28

She probably will.

0:52:280:52:30

Interestingly, she's so excited, she's outside.

0:52:300:52:32

Do you want to show Georgie your room if I get her in?

0:52:320:52:36

-Yeah.

-Yeah?

-Georgie!

0:52:360:52:39

Isn't it amazing? It's amazing.

0:52:430:52:45

So beautiful, man.

0:52:450:52:47

Oh, you're making me cry!

0:52:490:52:51

It is so cool.

0:52:530:52:54

I'm so excited.

0:52:560:52:57

Antonia's oxygen levels have dropped,

0:53:010:53:04

and we had to change over an oxygen bottle,

0:53:040:53:06

so we're taking a light pause

0:53:060:53:07

midway through showing the family the house,

0:53:070:53:09

so that she can get her energy levels back,

0:53:090:53:11

and when we're comfortable that she's safe

0:53:110:53:13

and the nurse will stay with her,

0:53:130:53:15

then I can take Mum, Victoria and Samuel upstairs.

0:53:150:53:18

If you have any collapses, you're completely safe

0:53:180:53:21

in your bedroom at home...

0:53:210:53:22

..or the lounge or the kitchen.

0:53:240:53:25

THEY LAUGH

0:53:250:53:27

Wow.

0:53:340:53:35

-So nice.

-Isn't it lovely?

0:53:370:53:39

It's really nice. I love it.

0:53:390:53:41

This is absolutely beautiful.

0:53:410:53:43

Why this is brilliant is, you can know Antonia's safe

0:53:450:53:48

and you can come home any time, whenever you want to.

0:53:480:53:52

You've taken a lot of responsibility, haven't you?

0:53:520:53:54

Yeah.

0:53:540:53:56

I'm really, really proud of you.

0:53:560:53:58

I love you.

0:54:020:54:04

-BOTH:

-Wow.

0:54:150:54:16

It's absolutely beautiful.

0:54:180:54:19

It's so nice, isn't it?

0:54:190:54:21

This is so beautiful.

0:54:210:54:24

So beautiful.

0:54:240:54:25

-Yeah.

-Better than a hospital floor?

0:54:260:54:28

Just slightly.

0:54:300:54:32

It's just nice to able to stop

0:54:320:54:34

and have somewhere lovely, which is quiet.

0:54:340:54:36

And to know she's happy.

0:54:380:54:40

It takes the stress off you, it takes the responsibility off of you.

0:54:400:54:45

You can actually just go back to being mum and brother and son.

0:54:450:54:49

-Do you know what I mean?

-Yeah.

0:54:490:54:51

It's perfect.

0:54:510:54:52

Oh, my goodness gracious me.

0:54:550:54:58

Oh, my God.

0:54:580:55:01

It's absolutely amazing.

0:55:010:55:04

-Oh, my...

-A bigger decking area

0:55:040:55:06

where you can actually have friends round,

0:55:060:55:08

-you can sit outside.

-Sit outside.

0:55:080:55:09

You can get pals, you can do whatever you want with it.

0:55:090:55:12

You said you didn't much with the garden!

0:55:120:55:13

Yeah, I know, I was lying.

0:55:130:55:15

Antonia, this is just perfect, isn't it?

0:55:150:55:18

It's amazing.

0:55:180:55:20

You guys couldn't have done a better job for us.

0:55:200:55:23

-What's flying around?

-Butterflies.

0:55:250:55:28

We've chosen the plants on the basis of getting butterflies in

0:55:280:55:31

so they're already in here.

0:55:310:55:33

It's absolutely beautiful.

0:55:330:55:35

It is so, so gorgeous, peaceful and quiet and pretty.

0:55:350:55:41

This is amazing.

0:55:410:55:43

Really nice to just capture us as a family, as well,

0:55:430:55:47

with all of the designs and everything you've done.

0:55:470:55:49

It couldn't be more perfect.

0:55:490:55:51

And just knowing that I'll be able to be safe...

0:55:520:55:55

..is really, is just amazing.

0:55:560:55:59

Do you want to meet the people that did it?

0:55:590:56:01

Yeah, I really want to meet the people that did it.

0:56:010:56:03

Oh, look at everyone!

0:56:110:56:13

On you come!

0:56:140:56:15

Thank you so much.

0:56:210:56:22

I don't even know what to say.

0:56:220:56:24

You guys...have kind of given me, like, a new chance at life, really.

0:56:240:56:31

I'm just so grateful.

0:56:310:56:32

I don't know how to put it into words,

0:56:320:56:34

but you've changed my life, and I'm so grateful for it.

0:56:340:56:38

I just don't know what to say.

0:56:400:56:42

To see someone lose their independence

0:56:420:56:45

over the last couple of years is the hardest thing

0:56:450:56:47

because it's out of anyone's control.

0:56:470:56:51

We can't do anything about it, and we're all helpless.

0:56:510:56:54

To have just been able to see her be able to have that independence,

0:56:540:56:57

be able to go round the house,

0:56:570:56:58

and just do whatever she likes is just the biggest gift.

0:56:580:57:01

I can't put it into words. It's amazing.

0:57:010:57:03

Hi.

0:57:080:57:09

There's a butterfly theme running through this design,

0:57:120:57:14

and it's really appropriate when you think about it,

0:57:140:57:16

because Antonia's at that stage in her life

0:57:160:57:18

where she should be spreading her wings,

0:57:180:57:20

but despite the best efforts of all the medical staff looking after her,

0:57:200:57:23

they couldn't get her home.

0:57:230:57:24

But these people have.

0:57:240:57:25

So now she CAN spread her wings,

0:57:250:57:27

she can be that teenager and then flower into a woman,

0:57:270:57:30

and have all her friends around and do what people do.

0:57:300:57:33

That is an extraordinary gift, don't you think?

0:57:330:57:35

Maybe you know somebody who needs your help.

0:57:350:57:38

-Hi, princess.

-Hiya.

0:57:390:57:41

-It's amazing!

-It only exists for you.

-I know!

0:57:470:57:51

Thank you so much.

0:57:510:57:53

-You all right, my darling?

-Thank you.

0:58:030:58:05

-Thank you.

-Take care, all right?

0:58:050:58:07

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