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My name is Sean Neilson, this time next week I will be achieving some | :00:17. | :00:27. | |
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of my dreams, working with children in Thailand. | :00:29. | :00:32. | |
It came about by searching on the Internet. I was looking for | :00:32. | :00:36. | |
something I could make a difference in. One of the things that popped | :00:36. | :00:40. | |
up was working in Thailand, it was working with children, with | :00:40. | :00:44. | |
cerebral palsy, which I found quite spectacular, that the first search | :00:44. | :00:51. | |
I made, it was almost like a sign. My young brother, was called Ryan. | :00:51. | :00:57. | |
Very much my best friend, in the whole wide world. For quite a few | :00:57. | :01:01. | |
years I was a young carer for Ryan, and I helped to look after him with | :01:01. | :01:07. | |
my mum. Ryan suffers from cerebral palsy. | :01:07. | :01:10. | |
He was unfortunately in a wheelchair, he couldn't walk, talk, | :01:10. | :01:14. | |
sit up. He couldn't do the things that everybody takes for granted | :01:14. | :01:19. | |
every day. Like quite a few people, young | :01:19. | :01:23. | |
people in school, from primary school to secondary school, I was | :01:23. | :01:28. | |
bullied, a lot. All the way through. Although I wouldn't have wanted to | :01:28. | :01:32. | |
have been bullied like I was in school, it allowed me to become | :01:32. | :01:38. | |
closer to my brother. But unfortunately I lost my younger | :01:38. | :01:44. | |
brother. I lost my best friend, and it happened 11 years ago, and I | :01:44. | :01:54. | |
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it happened 11 years ago, and I There is never a day I don't wake | :01:57. | :02:03. | |
up and think about Ryan, that he's not on my mind, and that I don't do | :02:03. | :02:07. | |
things that will make him proud of me. I need to challenge myself. | :02:07. | :02:11. | |
Ryan would be proud of me if I challenged myself, that is why I | :02:11. | :02:16. | |
picked the project. It came about research on the Internet, finding | :02:16. | :02:20. | |
it, applying to the Magnus Magnusson Trust, a very nerve | :02:20. | :02:23. | |
racking trust, they listened to my story, I didn't think I would get | :02:23. | :02:26. | |
it, I got the great news the following day, I just remember | :02:26. | :02:31. | |
saying to the lady he was part of the trust fund, who was there to | :02:31. | :02:35. | |
reassure me. I said I don't think I will get it, because I was a bit | :02:35. | :02:40. | |
upset when I came out. She said that is because you are speak beg | :02:40. | :02:43. | |
your brother, if you have showed them how much you love your brother | :02:43. | :02:49. | |
and how much you want to make a difference in somebody else's life | :02:49. | :02:54. | |
and there won't be a problem. She sent me the e-mail the next day, | :02:54. | :03:00. | |
telling me I had been accepted. This is my first video diary, it is | :03:00. | :03:07. | |
about four or five days until I leave to go to Thailand. I'm | :03:07. | :03:10. | |
extremely excited, extremely excited, I have never been to that | :03:10. | :03:16. | |
side of the world, I'm really looking forward to it. But I'm also | :03:16. | :03:23. | |
very nervous. I'm also, you know, just dying to get started. Dying to | :03:23. | :03:28. | |
get there, dying to make a difference, I will be keeping you | :03:28. | :03:34. | |
updated on some of the stuff that I am doing over in Thailand. So, | :03:34. | :03:44. | |
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stick with me, and I will take you Hi, so this is my first video diary, | :04:06. | :04:12. | |
I'm acting rather quiet, because it has been a really, really busy day. | :04:12. | :04:17. | |
I have eventually arrived here in shaing my, in Thailand, -- shaing | :04:17. | :04:22. | |
my, in Thailand, after extremely long journey, it took me almost 20 | :04:22. | :04:29. | |
hours to get here, I eventually got here. I have arrived in Shang Mai, | :04:29. | :04:32. | |
and into the volunteer house, it is just immense, the difference | :04:32. | :04:42. | |
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So they did give me a few pointers when I first got there, of some of | :04:57. | :05:01. | |
the groups that I was going to be working, doing workshops with, | :05:01. | :05:06. | |
nothing prepares you for when you eventually start those workshops. | :05:06. | :05:12. | |
Today was just extremely emotional. I found today really, really hard, | :05:12. | :05:20. | |
really hard. I made a lesson plan to work with children at a home | :05:20. | :05:27. | |
called Met Mondek, it is a home for special needs children. One little | :05:27. | :05:35. | |
boy has ADHD, one little girl has cerebral palsy. And another baby | :05:35. | :05:40. | |
has foetal alcohol syndrome, and another little girl has autism. | :05:40. | :05:49. | |
There is a few with severe brain- damage as well. I wasn't going into | :05:49. | :05:52. | |
the whole I'm apprehensive, worrying, nothing like that, | :05:52. | :05:56. | |
whatsoever. The minute I walked in, I saw the little girl in the | :05:56. | :06:05. | |
wheelchair, I just wanted to get her out of the wheelchair and get | :06:06. | :06:09. | |
her free of the wheelchair. I noticed her hand was tied to the | :06:09. | :06:12. | |
side of the wheelchair, which I didn't agree with at all, I'm not | :06:12. | :06:15. | |
here to judge. When I eventually found out why her hands were bound | :06:15. | :06:19. | |
to the wheelchair, it was because she would bite her hands. When you | :06:19. | :06:23. | |
hear the whole story, and you don't judge, you understand that they | :06:23. | :06:27. | |
were doing that for a reason. They were doing it to protect her. But | :06:27. | :06:36. | |
it upset me. I just felt, you know, I need to | :06:36. | :06:40. | |
educate these people that is not the right thing to do. She needs to | :06:40. | :06:46. | |
be free, she needs to be just allow to explore, and I took her out of | :06:46. | :06:50. | |
the wheelchair, and got her on to the ground, and I made my lesson | :06:51. | :07:00. | |
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all about bringing the outinside, and the kids got to feel leaves, | :07:01. | :07:05. | |
smell flowers, feel pebbles, they got to do all that today, and they | :07:05. | :07:10. | |
absolutely loved it. One of the people from the charity said that | :07:10. | :07:12. | |
they had been working with the children for five months, and they | :07:12. | :07:15. | |
don't know what to do with the children with special needs, | :07:15. | :07:18. | |
because they don't have any experience in that area, that is | :07:18. | :07:21. | |
why they were happy for me to be here. And they said they have never | :07:21. | :07:24. | |
been able to engage all the children at the one time, and in | :07:24. | :07:28. | |
the one project, and I done that today, they were extremely | :07:28. | :07:32. | |
overwhelmed. So I was really, really happy. I was happy that | :07:32. | :07:36. | |
happened, and I was happy that all the children were able to be | :07:36. | :07:40. | |
engaged. That is always they needed. They needed some close body contact. | :07:40. | :07:44. | |
They needed some love, some care, some attention, they just want to | :07:44. | :07:50. | |
be loved. That is literally it, they just want to be loved. I was | :07:50. | :07:56. | |
given Gig i, her snaim was, the little girl with -- name was, the | :07:56. | :08:00. | |
literal girl with Searle bral palsy, I was giving her loads of kisses | :08:00. | :08:07. | |
and hugs, she ponded well, a big massive smile. I sometimes wish it | :08:07. | :08:17. | |
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was my wee brother, but it's not. I find it really, really hard. | :08:18. | :08:27. | |
So it is the end of another very emotional day today, I was working | :08:27. | :08:34. | |
with the, just absolutely beautiful children, of Hope Home, here in the | :08:34. | :08:39. | |
city. It is a gorgeous project, there is a foster home, which looks | :08:39. | :08:47. | |
after about five or six kids. It is really sad, I felt really emotional | :08:47. | :08:51. | |
today, as I always have when I have worked with these kids, it is so | :08:51. | :08:56. | |
difficult to see some of their stories, and some of the lifestyles | :08:57. | :09:03. | |
that some of their parents lead. Also how some parents just can't | :09:03. | :09:06. | |
help being poor. They can't look after their children, so their | :09:06. | :09:12. | |
children end up in Hope Home. I got to meet some gorgeous children, | :09:12. | :09:16. | |
Utina, he was a little boy I was working with today. He was just | :09:17. | :09:22. | |
absolutely beautiful. There ofn't a lot of expression and | :09:22. | :09:29. | |
that from them, I -- there wasn't a lot of expression from him, I | :09:29. | :09:33. | |
realised why, he suffered foetal alcohol syndrome, his mother had | :09:33. | :09:41. | |
been an alcoholic. It was so sad. That wee boy couldn't move, he | :09:41. | :09:44. | |
couldn't talk, couldn't walk, couldn't do anything, and his | :09:44. | :09:48. | |
mother abandoned him. The fact that this child has been | :09:48. | :09:53. | |
damaged by alcohol, that could have been fixed. That could have been | :09:53. | :10:00. | |
fixed, that could have been stopped at least, you see the effects that | :10:00. | :10:04. | |
alcohol has in places like Scotland. You see the effect it has on people | :10:04. | :10:07. | |
and families, when it effects children like that, and that child | :10:07. | :10:12. | |
will be damaged for the rest of their life, it is really sad. | :10:12. | :10:19. | |
It is really, really sad. I can't change it. | :10:19. | :10:25. | |
Then there was Bunrat, and he was a wee boy, or a big boy, he was | :10:25. | :10:30. | |
around about the same age of Ryan, I was very emotional with today, | :10:30. | :10:35. | |
because I got the chance to feed Bunrat, I got a chance to spend a | :10:35. | :10:39. | |
lot of time with him, he reminded me of Ryan, it was really hard. It | :10:39. | :10:44. | |
is hard because when I see these children, and I'm with them, it is | :10:44. | :10:49. | |
like I'm with Ryan, and I don't want to leave. I do not want to | :10:49. | :10:56. | |
leave. Because it's just emotional, and it's heart warming, and it is | :10:56. | :11:00. | |
just making me feel good. It makes me feel good that I feel as though | :11:00. | :11:04. | |
I'm making a difference. That I'm working with the kids as well, and | :11:04. | :11:08. | |
when I do work with them I just forget everything that I have | :11:08. | :11:12. | |
planned to do with them, and I just want to hug them and give them | :11:12. | :11:18. | |
kisses, and it is really hard. It is really, really hard, but Hope | :11:18. | :11:21. | |
Home was amazing today, I'm looking forward to the rest of the week as | :11:21. | :11:24. | |
well. Fingers crossed that everything | :11:24. | :11:34. | |
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goes well, and that I will have a great time for the rest of the week. | :11:35. | :11:41. | |
So the time has eventually come when it was going to be my last day, | :11:41. | :11:47. | |
and it is today. I have had my last day with my last group, and it | :11:47. | :11:52. | |
couldn't have been more emotional. I couldn't have had a better day to | :11:52. | :11:59. | |
end my time here in Thailand. I was working with the children of | :11:59. | :12:03. | |
Metmondeck, I will never forget the children from there, I will never | :12:03. | :12:06. | |
forget every single one of the groups I worked with here in | :12:07. | :12:10. | |
Thailand, I will miss every single one of them. No words can totally | :12:10. | :12:15. | |
describe the effect that they had on me, and the hopeful effect that | :12:15. | :12:20. | |
I had on them. As people. Working with them just changed the way that | :12:20. | :12:23. | |
I think about things. The way that I deal with certain situations in | :12:23. | :12:27. | |
life. The way that I deal with people, as well. That I have | :12:27. | :12:30. | |
learned that you will never be able to live a positive life, or have a | :12:30. | :12:35. | |
happy life if you don't live it positively. So that means having a | :12:35. | :12:39. | |
good life, enjoying life, it doesn't mean being selfish, it | :12:39. | :12:44. | |
genuinely means giving back, and you just see opportunities, where | :12:44. | :12:47. | |
your life can be made so much better, just by giving yourself up | :12:47. | :12:52. | |
to something. I think that's where your life can change, and within | :12:52. | :12:55. | |
three weeks my life changed. My eyes were opened, and my heart of | :12:55. | :13:05. | |
opened to new experiences, and new people, and a new culture. I had to | :13:05. | :13:09. | |
go 4,000 miles away to be close to my brother, and I won't get that | :13:09. | :13:13. | |
feeling from anything else. It is amazing when you give something | :13:13. | :13:17. | |
back to people, you feel more of a whole person yourself. That is what | :13:17. | :13:21. | |
I will take away from Thailand. Thank you for being with me in my | :13:21. | :13:27. | |
journey, thank you for listening to me. Please, please, please, if you | :13:27. | :13:33. | |
get a chance, volunteer with any organisation across the world, | :13:33. | :13:39. | |
volunteering makes you feel alive, it makes you feel like you can make | :13:39. | :13:41. | |
a difference, and the most independent person in the world. | :13:41. | :13:45. | |
Volunteering is the way forward. Give yourself up to other people, | :13:45. | :13:49. | |
you will find the joy, the laughter and the smiles that you gain from | :13:49. | :13:59. | |
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Apology for the loss of subtitles for 46 seconds | :13:59. | :14:46. | |
the people that you help. So, do it. I want to go to Malawi, it is | :14:46. | :14:51. | |
Africa, it is different, you know, you hear about everything that | :14:51. | :14:56. | |
happens in Africa, from poverty, I have always thought that I could go | :14:56. | :15:03. | |
have always thought that I could go over and I could help. The day I | :15:03. | :15:10. | |
got up to go to Malawi, my head was in a mess. We got up very early, I | :15:10. | :15:13. | |
have been so nervous for beaks building up to it, I -- weeks | :15:13. | :15:17. | |
building up to it, I couldn't contemplate I was going to Malawi | :15:17. | :15:23. | |
for a month. The morning was pretty emotional, we had to say all our | :15:23. | :15:26. | |
goodbyes at the bus. Once we were on the bus, and once we were off, | :15:27. | :15:31. | |
it was just heading straight on to what we were going to be doing, and | :15:31. | :15:41. | |
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getting to Malawi, we had 24 hours My first impressions of Malawi was | :15:51. | :15:55. | |
just the warm heart, it just seemed really nice and calm, relaxing, | :15:55. | :16:00. | |
except when you travelled through the slum villages, that sort of, I | :16:00. | :16:06. | |
don't know how to describe it, it was very upsetting. You see lots of | :16:06. | :16:10. | |
people walking everywhere, there is not many cars, and houses are | :16:10. | :16:14. | |
rundown. The scaffolding is amazing, all the scaffolding is home made. | :16:14. | :16:18. | |
You can just see there all the bikes are home made, just there. It | :16:18. | :16:23. | |
is quite amazing and shocking some of the things you see. It was clear | :16:23. | :16:31. | |
you were not in Europe. Especially in Britain any more, you were in | :16:31. | :16:34. | |
Africa, and it was obvious when we were on our way to the campsite. | :16:34. | :16:39. | |
got there quite late in the evening, to the campsite, for the first time. | :16:40. | :16:42. | |
Everybody was quite tired and excited to be there. The first | :16:42. | :16:46. | |
thing we had to do was sort out getting our tents up and getting | :16:46. | :16:51. | |
food done. For me I was quiteer in shrous, we were tired and we were | :16:51. | :16:55. | |
here, you -- I was quite nervous, we were tired and we were here and | :16:55. | :16:58. | |
you didn't know what to make of it. Everyone was excited by morning to | :16:58. | :17:08. | |
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There was four different projects to begin with, starting building | :17:24. | :17:28. | |
the toilet block, which our team was on to begin with, we had to dig | :17:28. | :17:35. | |
a trench for a new water supply to go down to the bottom of the hill. | :17:36. | :17:40. | |
Pretty much what we are doing is we are trying to move this massive log | :17:40. | :17:47. | |
out of the way of the track for the water pipe that goes to the | :17:47. | :17:54. | |
building. But we are trying to build a pully system, but the hole | :17:54. | :17:58. | |
we used to attach to the end of it has snapped, we have to work out a | :17:58. | :18:06. | |
new way of doing it. I loved doing sufficient like the | :18:06. | :18:11. | |
toilet block and French work, because it was clear that you are | :18:11. | :18:21. | |
you were making progress. One of the projects we really saw | :18:21. | :18:25. | |
something grow and build up from where it hadn't been before. That | :18:25. | :18:28. | |
was an eye-opening experience, at the end you achieved something, and | :18:28. | :18:32. | |
it was nice to say you had a part in it, and you achieved something | :18:32. | :18:42. | |
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you didn't think you would be able On the second Sunday we went to | :18:51. | :18:56. | |
Dimasi mission church for the English service. The church was one | :18:56. | :19:05. | |
of the best experiences. Kieran, he pipeed us in, he Poor Roy had to | :19:05. | :19:10. | |
walk the ten-minute walk playing with us behind him. The church | :19:10. | :19:14. | |
itself was really quite interesting. It was not like a church here, it | :19:14. | :19:19. | |
is not like sit down, sing a song, or stand up and sing a song, and | :19:19. | :19:23. | |
stand down, listen to the priest, stand up and do something else. It | :19:23. | :19:33. | |
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is more like stand up, sing a song, All the African singing, they are | :19:50. | :19:56. | |
amazing at singing, they would destroy any British choir, just a | :19:56. | :20:06. | |
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group of Malawi women doing a wee sing-song during the service. | :20:11. | :20:15. | |
The feeling of community in this church, with all these people you | :20:15. | :20:19. | |
never met, it was a really lovely experience. When we came out, we | :20:19. | :20:22. | |
were introduced to the people who had been in the service, they were | :20:22. | :20:25. | |
students who had been studying there. We met everybody, it was | :20:25. | :20:27. | |
such a friendly warm environment, just the sort of thing you are not | :20:27. | :20:31. | |
used to at home at all. They were so natural there. The whole feeling | :20:31. | :20:35. | |
was not a pressure feeling, it was not like being in church, there | :20:35. | :20:38. | |
wasn't pressure, it was a feeling of community and celebration, it | :20:38. | :20:46. | |
was nice. We went to the safari, in the | :20:46. | :20:53. | |
National Park. Quite close to where we were. We spent one night there. | :20:53. | :20:57. | |
The The highlight of the trip must have been the safari, it had to be, | :20:57. | :21:01. | |
I had never seen an elephant in front of me before, I have never | :21:01. | :21:05. | |
seen a crocodile, I have never seen a hippo standing in my porch before. | :21:05. | :21:11. | |
That was just unbelievable. It was, you know, you have to do it, to | :21:11. | :21:16. | |
realise just how great it is. You see these elephants on TV, you see | :21:16. | :21:20. | |
all these animals on TV and you think it is an elephant. You are | :21:20. | :21:25. | |
there and properly studying it, thinking, asking questions, how it | :21:25. | :21:29. | |
lives, how the families stick together and stuff like that. There | :21:29. | :21:33. | |
is so much you can learn just from the safari itself. When you are | :21:33. | :21:39. | |
right up with nature and the animals, the experience is one | :21:39. | :21:42. | |
where you feel alive. It was an absolutely amazing thing on the | :21:42. | :21:47. | |
trip. It was quite distressing at point | :21:47. | :21:52. | |
to see the poverty that people were living in. We went down to Sang ani, | :21:53. | :21:59. | |
which is a village nearby us, one day, for a kind of big scout event, | :21:59. | :22:05. | |
there was games and things. Some smart fool decided to bring our | :22:05. | :22:09. | |
lunch down with us as well. We were sitting having to eat this lunch | :22:09. | :22:16. | |
next to this massive crowd of children, five or six years old, | :22:16. | :22:20. | |
who were just longingly looking at us eat this food, it was horrible. | :22:20. | :22:24. | |
But we couldn't give any food to them, because there was so many of | :22:24. | :22:30. | |
them, if you gave some to one you would have to give it to all of | :22:30. | :22:35. | |
them. We had spare fruit and we had three bananas left, one of the | :22:35. | :22:39. | |
leaders was saying we could give the bananas out to the kids, it | :22:39. | :22:42. | |
seemed like a good ideas, we are not going to throw it out. We will | :22:42. | :22:48. | |
give it to them. Before we had even said, they must have just heard the | :22:48. | :22:54. | |
word "kid" as they will give the bananas, out, there was three left | :22:54. | :22:59. | |
and 100 kid, there was a stampede, they charged and grabbed them, I'm | :22:59. | :23:04. | |
pretty sure they grabbed the basin they were in as well. I was taken | :23:04. | :23:09. | |
aback. It became clear that these people do not live in the best | :23:09. | :23:18. | |
circumstances. That just told the whole story itself. | :23:18. | :23:22. | |
That was probably the moment I realised how much poverty there was | :23:22. | :23:31. | |
in the country. Packing to come home was a bit of a | :23:31. | :23:36. | |
somber experience, nobody wanted to do it, we all postponed it to the | :23:36. | :23:39. | |
last minute. We were all told to get it done the day or two days | :23:39. | :23:42. | |
before we left. Everybody was doing it the afternoon, the morning we | :23:42. | :23:45. | |
were meant to be leaving. It was kind of sad thinking that | :23:45. | :23:49. | |
you are going to be leaving the next day, and that you are packing | :23:49. | :23:51. | |
to go, after being there for so long. | :23:51. | :23:55. | |
Seeing the way that people live in Malawi, it certainly made me | :23:55. | :23:58. | |
appreciate what we have in this country. You don't appreciate what | :23:59. | :24:05. | |
you have, running water in your house, or that you have all these | :24:05. | :24:12. | |
electrical appliances, constant intermittant -- constant, not | :24:12. | :24:14. | |
intermittant electricity, and even having enough room in your entire | :24:14. | :24:19. | |
house for your family, some people don't have that. It is eye-opening. | :24:19. | :24:24. | |
Whenever we travelled throughout Malawi, that was when we had the | :24:24. | :24:26. | |
opportunity to see the conditions and poverty that people were living | :24:26. | :24:32. | |
in. You hear about stuff all the time at home, although we were | :24:32. | :24:36. | |
staying near the city in Malawi, we weren't living in an area of utter | :24:36. | :24:39. | |
deprivation, but definite signs there. It didn't seem to be | :24:39. | :24:42. | |
affected the community too much, but it was quite striking seeing | :24:42. | :24:46. | |
conditions you just weren't used to seeing, to actually about there, it | :24:46. | :24:50. | |
was real, and it was quite shocking, the conditions, the houses, that | :24:50. | :25:00. | |
kind of thing. It was eye-opening, it was spectacular, difficult, but | :25:00. | :25:04. | |
completely worth it. I would definitely do something like it | :25:04. | :25:07. | |
again. I think you have changed within myself, I have gained | :25:07. | :25:13. | |
discipline and friends for life, definitely. I have changed in a few | :25:13. | :25:21. | |
ways, but I think I have changed in a way, as in my discipline has | :25:21. | :25:26. | |
changed. I'm much more disciplined, I'm well into following through | :25:26. | :25:29. | |
with things. I think one of the things I was really hoping would | :25:29. | :25:34. | |
happen before I came was that I would feel like I would be more | :25:34. | :25:38. | |
capable, coming home that is definitely it, I feel like I'm much | :25:38. | :25:46. | |
more capable, and I am able to go out and achieve these you unkinds | :25:46. | :25:50. | |
of things. It was more self- confidence, it was an eye-opening | :25:50. | :25:54. | |
experience. Commitment, I'm very committed to helping people now, | :25:54. | :25:58. | |
giving people assistance. Being in Malawi, seeing how much small | :25:58. | :26:03. | |
things can benefit people, as in a pipe to a maize mill, that will | :26:03. | :26:06. | |
secure their income to the campsite, because they will have wart Tory | :26:07. | :26:13. | |
use in the maize mill, that helps thom to a huge extent. You just | :26:13. | :26:17. | |
have to be committed and realise the small things can help. I would | :26:17. | :26:22. | |
say I feel much more confident now, especially to pursue these goals in | :26:22. | :26:26. | |
the future, somewhere that feels so alien, it can be nerve racking, | :26:26. | :26:31. | |
because there are no points of familiarity, it is just such a | :26:31. | :26:33. | |
surreal experience, really. Now I feel I have the confidence that I | :26:34. | :26:40. | |
can go and do this kind of thing. think I will just miss the | :26:40. | :26:48. |