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In the next half an hour, dodgy dealing as we investigate | 0:00:05 | 0:00:10 | |
the classified ads website hijacked by criminals in Cumbria. | 0:00:10 | 0:00:12 | |
Do you smoke it yourself? | 0:00:12 | 0:00:15 | |
Yeah. | 0:00:15 | 0:00:16 | |
Can you tell the difference? | 0:00:16 | 0:00:21 | |
Meet the Sunderland entrepreneur whose online dating website targets | 0:00:21 | 0:00:24 | |
men looking for more than one wife. | 0:00:24 | 0:00:29 | |
Ten years from now it's not going to be a taboo any more. | 0:00:29 | 0:00:32 | |
So you were convinced there is a market out there. | 0:00:32 | 0:00:35 | |
100,000 people already signed up, of course it is. | 0:00:35 | 0:00:37 | |
And can Cumbria proudly proclaim to be a rainbow County? | 0:00:37 | 0:00:39 | |
People say, are you a poof? | 0:00:39 | 0:00:42 | |
I am married, I have two kids. | 0:00:42 | 0:00:45 | |
I'm Chris Jackson and this is Inside Out. | 0:00:45 | 0:00:49 | |
Now, what do you have the classified ads for? | 0:01:01 | 0:01:03 | |
Furniture or a new car? | 0:01:03 | 0:01:06 | |
Jonathan has been sniffing around in Cumbria where he investigates one | 0:01:06 | 0:01:10 | |
online site were criminals have an eye for more | 0:01:10 | 0:01:15 | |
than just a bargain. | 0:01:15 | 0:01:24 | |
As an investigative journalist it's sometimes easier to work | 0:01:24 | 0:01:27 | |
when the office is nice and quiet. | 0:01:27 | 0:01:28 | |
When people aren't watching what you're doing. | 0:01:28 | 0:01:30 | |
Like investigating the dark web. | 0:01:30 | 0:01:36 | |
If you're looking for something illegal, it's the go to part | 0:01:36 | 0:01:40 | |
of the Internet hidden from prying eyes. | 0:01:40 | 0:01:43 | |
The place where criminals using accepted websites and cryptic | 0:01:43 | 0:01:45 | |
currencies to treat. | 0:01:46 | 0:01:48 | |
You don't need to bother with all that? | 0:01:48 | 0:01:53 | |
I'm sorry? | 0:01:53 | 0:01:54 | |
You can get all that on Craigslist. | 0:01:54 | 0:01:56 | |
I'll show you. | 0:01:56 | 0:01:58 | |
Shouldn't you be getting on with this? | 0:01:58 | 0:01:59 | |
I've got ten minutes. | 0:01:59 | 0:02:00 | |
Brilliant. | 0:02:00 | 0:02:08 | |
Yes, Craigslist. | 0:02:08 | 0:02:12 | |
It was set up in America by a guy called Craig. | 0:02:12 | 0:02:14 | |
It's a website where people buy and sell everything, | 0:02:14 | 0:02:20 | |
and I mean everything. | 0:02:20 | 0:02:24 | |
Just say where you live and get started. | 0:02:24 | 0:02:33 | |
Lots of the stuff on craigslist won't be in the buy and sell | 0:02:33 | 0:02:36 | |
section of your local newspaper including bootleg tobacco. | 0:02:36 | 0:02:39 | |
The kind of cigarettes you would buy from some dodgy geezer outside | 0:02:39 | 0:02:42 | |
a pub or in this case a supermarket car park. | 0:02:42 | 0:02:46 | |
I've literally just started. | 0:02:46 | 0:02:48 | |
Are they knocked off? | 0:02:48 | 0:02:51 | |
They can't resell them in shops any more. | 0:02:51 | 0:02:58 | |
So where do you get them from? | 0:02:58 | 0:02:59 | |
OK. | 0:02:59 | 0:03:02 | |
So he's just a middle man. | 0:03:02 | 0:03:10 | |
He says his supplier is someone else on Craigslist. | 0:03:10 | 0:03:13 | |
I've seen some crazy stuff on craigslist. | 0:03:13 | 0:03:14 | |
So have I. | 0:03:14 | 0:03:16 | |
I'm on my way to another dodgy deal this time | 0:03:16 | 0:03:18 | |
on the outskirts of Carlisle. | 0:03:18 | 0:03:19 | |
It is counterfeit? | 0:03:19 | 0:03:20 | |
Yes. | 0:03:20 | 0:03:23 | |
And that's why his tobacco is just a third of the price | 0:03:23 | 0:03:27 | |
of the real stuff. | 0:03:27 | 0:03:29 | |
Do you smoke it yourself? | 0:03:29 | 0:03:30 | |
Yes. | 0:03:30 | 0:03:32 | |
Can you tell the difference? | 0:03:32 | 0:03:33 | |
I cannot tell. | 0:03:33 | 0:03:36 | |
But there's a difference because counterfeit goods are among | 0:03:36 | 0:03:39 | |
the things craigslist says you're not supposed to sell on its website. | 0:03:39 | 0:03:43 | |
Stuff that's illegal. | 0:03:43 | 0:03:45 | |
But no one takes any notice of that. | 0:03:45 | 0:03:47 | |
Do you mind? | 0:03:47 | 0:03:49 | |
But he's got a point. | 0:03:49 | 0:03:53 | |
Look at this. | 0:03:53 | 0:03:55 | |
It's as easy to find marijuana on craigslist | 0:03:55 | 0:03:57 | |
as it is a second-hand sofa. | 0:03:57 | 0:04:06 | |
And what I'm buying next could knock you off your feet. | 0:04:06 | 0:04:12 | |
I'm on a Derby estate meeting a dealer selling | 0:04:12 | 0:04:15 | |
cocaine on craigslist. | 0:04:15 | 0:04:16 | |
Ideal. | 0:04:16 | 0:04:17 | |
See you later. | 0:04:17 | 0:04:18 | |
Cheers. | 0:04:18 | 0:04:20 | |
The deal done in seconds but is it the real deal? | 0:04:20 | 0:04:23 | |
Turns out as street cocaine goes it's pretty pure stuff, | 0:04:23 | 0:04:26 | |
so what's it doing on craigslist? | 0:04:26 | 0:04:30 | |
I'm shocked it was there because it's not difficult | 0:04:30 | 0:04:35 | |
for the internet companies to be will to put things on their website | 0:04:35 | 0:04:38 | |
to police the stuff and they should be policing and taking it down. | 0:04:38 | 0:04:41 | |
But if you have made money from crime you wouldn't want | 0:04:41 | 0:04:44 | |
the police to find it. | 0:04:44 | 0:04:46 | |
What you need is someone to hide it, perhaps in their bank account. | 0:04:46 | 0:04:51 | |
It's called money laundering but where would I find | 0:04:51 | 0:04:53 | |
someone to do that? | 0:04:53 | 0:04:59 | |
On a street corner I'm meeting Stacey. | 0:04:59 | 0:05:02 | |
She is offering her bank account on craigslist to anyone | 0:05:02 | 0:05:05 | |
who wants to use it. | 0:05:05 | 0:05:08 | |
But we are walking into the bank to pay in what I have told | 0:05:15 | 0:05:19 | |
her is money made from crime. | 0:05:19 | 0:05:23 | |
She will charge me a fee to get it back and there are plenty of people | 0:05:23 | 0:05:27 | |
on craigslist offering to do the same thing, sometimes | 0:05:27 | 0:05:29 | |
through overseas bank accounts. | 0:05:29 | 0:05:30 | |
But if you have sent your money overseas how | 0:05:30 | 0:05:32 | |
are you going to get it back? | 0:05:32 | 0:05:34 | |
What you need is a new identity or somebody else's. | 0:05:34 | 0:05:36 | |
You again. | 0:05:37 | 0:05:40 | |
And I know just the place. | 0:05:40 | 0:05:42 | |
Don't say it. | 0:05:42 | 0:05:44 | |
Craigslist. | 0:05:44 | 0:05:47 | |
The place that I can find the stolen passport. | 0:05:47 | 0:05:50 | |
And there are plenty more where that came from. | 0:05:54 | 0:06:01 | |
I have known some stories where it has taken people ten years | 0:06:06 | 0:06:09 | |
to get their credit ratings back again after it has been completely | 0:06:09 | 0:06:12 | |
trashed by people who have sold their identities but it'll | 0:06:12 | 0:06:15 | |
allow you to get on and commit other crimes and that is | 0:06:15 | 0:06:17 | |
why they are doing it. | 0:06:18 | 0:06:20 | |
And it's not just about selling stuff. | 0:06:22 | 0:06:28 | |
This advert is looking for postmen to steal the letters | 0:06:28 | 0:06:30 | |
they are supposed to be delivering. | 0:06:31 | 0:06:32 | |
On craigslist there is also disorganised crime. | 0:06:32 | 0:06:35 | |
This man want somebody to pass his driving theory test for him. | 0:06:35 | 0:06:39 | |
So what's the deal, I go in and take it? | 0:06:39 | 0:06:44 | |
But for 50 quid, it's not that black and white. | 0:06:47 | 0:06:49 | |
For a start he is black and I am white and somebody will notice. | 0:06:49 | 0:06:52 | |
But they check the photo against the database? | 0:06:55 | 0:06:59 | |
But there is no way I'm going to get through. | 0:07:01 | 0:07:05 | |
When I later revealed I'm a journalist he didn't | 0:07:17 | 0:07:19 | |
have anything to say. | 0:07:19 | 0:07:21 | |
And neither did craigslist. | 0:07:21 | 0:07:22 | |
When we asked it for an interview, this is what it told us. | 0:07:22 | 0:07:26 | |
And that came from the top, the chief executive's office. | 0:07:26 | 0:07:28 | |
It is making money and whilst nobody is turning round and forcing them, | 0:07:28 | 0:07:31 | |
you will find sites like this using the ostrich effect, | 0:07:31 | 0:07:33 | |
sticking their head in the sand. | 0:07:33 | 0:07:38 | |
No wonder criminals can carry on regardless | 0:07:41 | 0:07:46 | |
but unless they are selling to a journalist. | 0:07:46 | 0:07:48 | |
I work from the BBC, if you look at that camera. | 0:07:48 | 0:07:51 | |
I'd like to know... | 0:07:51 | 0:07:54 | |
Because I'm trying to get out of debt. | 0:07:54 | 0:08:01 | |
Yes. | 0:08:01 | 0:08:02 | |
My mother is going to kill me. | 0:08:02 | 0:08:08 | |
In Carlisle the man selling counterfeit tobacco spots | 0:08:08 | 0:08:14 | |
as we seal the deal. | 0:08:14 | 0:08:15 | |
This is the first time I have ever done it, | 0:08:15 | 0:08:18 | |
you can probably tell. | 0:08:18 | 0:08:19 | |
I'm trying to make money for my family. | 0:08:19 | 0:08:21 | |
So you're working for somebody else? | 0:08:21 | 0:08:22 | |
Yes. | 0:08:22 | 0:08:23 | |
And how many people like you are working for him? | 0:08:23 | 0:08:26 | |
I don't know. | 0:08:26 | 0:08:28 | |
And after telling me he is done selling counterfeit | 0:08:28 | 0:08:30 | |
tobacco, he is off. | 0:08:31 | 0:08:32 | |
Or at least, I thought he was. | 0:08:32 | 0:08:35 | |
Don't forget the goods. | 0:08:40 | 0:08:46 | |
I thought you weren't selling it on? | 0:08:48 | 0:08:54 | |
But at least he was talking, next up my cocaine dealer, | 0:08:59 | 0:09:01 | |
take a good look because he is not hanging around for long. | 0:09:01 | 0:09:04 | |
The thing is, I work for the BBC and we are trying to find out why | 0:09:04 | 0:09:08 | |
you are peddling cocaine? | 0:09:08 | 0:09:10 | |
Why is that? | 0:09:10 | 0:09:12 | |
He wasn't hanging about, was he? | 0:09:17 | 0:09:19 | |
How about Stacey? | 0:09:19 | 0:09:20 | |
Will she want to talk? | 0:09:20 | 0:09:30 | |
I'm trying to find out why you're willing to launder money for people. | 0:09:31 | 0:09:34 | |
Why you're doing that, Stacey. | 0:09:34 | 0:09:35 | |
You knew it was risky, would you like to explain? | 0:09:35 | 0:09:38 | |
I've got nothing to say to you. | 0:09:38 | 0:09:40 | |
Just like my passport fee. | 0:09:40 | 0:09:42 | |
I'm not buying a passport off you because I work from the BBC. | 0:09:42 | 0:09:45 | |
I want to know why you're selling stolen passports, | 0:09:45 | 0:09:48 | |
why are you doing it? | 0:09:48 | 0:09:53 | |
Why are you selling stolen passports? | 0:09:53 | 0:09:55 | |
How much organised crime that is sitting behind | 0:09:55 | 0:10:00 | |
that is frightening and it is critical that the police | 0:10:00 | 0:10:02 | |
force and law enforcement agencies force the likes of craigslist | 0:10:02 | 0:10:05 | |
to do something about it. | 0:10:05 | 0:10:07 | |
So what is the government doing? | 0:10:10 | 0:10:13 | |
When we asked to interview a minister, we got was a Home | 0:10:13 | 0:10:16 | |
Office statement saying it is... | 0:10:16 | 0:10:20 | |
We have kind of done that for them already. | 0:10:22 | 0:10:26 | |
Told you. | 0:10:26 | 0:10:28 | |
So maybe it is time the government forced websites like craigslist | 0:10:28 | 0:10:31 | |
to clean up their act. | 0:10:31 | 0:10:34 | |
Why would a man want multiple wives and why would the women | 0:10:40 | 0:10:48 | |
want to share her husband? | 0:10:48 | 0:10:49 | |
Polygamy is becoming more common here in the UK. | 0:10:49 | 0:10:52 | |
I have been to meet a businessman and Sunderland who has been helping | 0:10:52 | 0:10:55 | |
men all over the world find a wife, several times over. | 0:10:55 | 0:10:58 | |
This is the man who markets second wives. | 0:10:58 | 0:11:01 | |
I am the founder of polygamy.com and secondwife.com. | 0:11:01 | 0:11:09 | |
The world's first-ever polygamy-based website. | 0:11:09 | 0:11:14 | |
Even though it is not recognised by the law here he believes | 0:11:14 | 0:11:17 | |
polygamy is the future. | 0:11:17 | 0:11:19 | |
The whole idea is to build bigger and better families and tenuous | 0:11:19 | 0:11:22 | |
and now it will not a taboo. | 0:11:22 | 0:11:24 | |
You are convinced there is a demand? | 0:11:24 | 0:11:27 | |
100,000 people are already signed up so of course there is. | 0:11:27 | 0:11:32 | |
The website is aimed at everyone but the first website | 0:11:37 | 0:11:40 | |
is specifically aimed at Muslims. | 0:11:40 | 0:11:45 | |
I welcome you to secondwife.com where you will | 0:12:18 | 0:12:20 | |
find like-minded brothers and sisters who want | 0:12:20 | 0:12:22 | |
to revive polygamy. | 0:12:22 | 0:12:23 | |
His business was founded on recruiting dwelling wives | 0:12:23 | 0:12:25 | |
from Muslim men as he explained to me in a break at the office. | 0:12:25 | 0:12:28 | |
It sounds a bit like the man who wants his cake and eat it? | 0:12:28 | 0:12:31 | |
What's wrong with that? | 0:12:31 | 0:12:34 | |
There are other ways of doing it, like our fears, prostitution, etc. | 0:12:34 | 0:12:39 | |
-- affairs. | 0:12:39 | 0:12:40 | |
And those are not necessarily good for relationships. | 0:12:40 | 0:12:45 | |
Here is more honourable because you're upfront about it. | 0:12:45 | 0:12:47 | |
Most Muslims in the UK do not practice polygamy but some | 0:12:47 | 0:12:53 | |
interpretations of the Koran say a man may marry two or three or even | 0:12:53 | 0:12:56 | |
four women as long as you can deal justly and feel it | 0:12:56 | 0:12:59 | |
with each of them. | 0:12:59 | 0:13:00 | |
So how does that work out in practice? | 0:13:00 | 0:13:02 | |
I am on my way to meet one couple in Yorkshire to find out. | 0:13:02 | 0:13:12 | |
Tarek, a doctor, is using the website to find | 0:13:12 | 0:13:14 | |
a second wife when he met Tracy by chance. | 0:13:14 | 0:13:16 | |
They got together in February. | 0:13:16 | 0:13:18 | |
Cosy cottage, log burner. | 0:13:18 | 0:13:19 | |
I would love a log burner. | 0:13:19 | 0:13:27 | |
Two horses and we could go riding and go for a romantic picnics. | 0:13:27 | 0:13:30 | |
Of course. | 0:13:30 | 0:13:32 | |
I have currently two wives and an ex-wife. | 0:13:32 | 0:13:35 | |
Lots of Muslim ladies are not married, whether they are growing | 0:13:35 | 0:13:39 | |
older they have been divorced and nobody is really interested | 0:13:39 | 0:13:43 | |
audio single mothers, so I thought if I have the ability | 0:13:43 | 0:13:51 | |
to manage more than one wife then I would like to | 0:13:51 | 0:13:54 | |
take this opportunity. | 0:13:54 | 0:13:55 | |
And do people outside of the Islamic faith, friends of yours, | 0:13:55 | 0:13:58 | |
do they understand? | 0:13:58 | 0:13:59 | |
Do they get this? | 0:13:59 | 0:14:01 | |
Quite a few people are asking, how do you manage that? | 0:14:01 | 0:14:10 | |
It sounds complicated or difficult but once you reach | 0:14:10 | 0:14:12 | |
an agreement together, you will find it easy. | 0:14:12 | 0:14:14 | |
I am not just doing it to have, I am doing it together. | 0:14:14 | 0:14:17 | |
-- to give. | 0:14:17 | 0:14:18 | |
I thought long and hard about polygamy and I thought this | 0:14:18 | 0:14:21 | |
could actually work out to my advantage. | 0:14:21 | 0:14:22 | |
I want to be married to somebody but I still want to be able | 0:14:22 | 0:14:26 | |
to travel and have my independence. | 0:14:26 | 0:14:28 | |
So really you're only after a part-time husband? | 0:14:29 | 0:14:39 | |
Physically it's a part-time husband. | 0:14:39 | 0:14:42 | |
Emotionally, it is a full-time husband. | 0:14:42 | 0:14:43 | |
I will do it. | 0:14:43 | 0:14:45 | |
Which one? | 0:14:45 | 0:14:47 | |
I will tighten it up, maybe move that up. | 0:14:47 | 0:14:51 | |
The way I see it, I have the best of everything. | 0:14:51 | 0:14:53 | |
You signed up for one day a week, has that worked out? | 0:14:53 | 0:14:58 | |
He's always been very straight with me in what I can manage | 0:14:58 | 0:15:03 | |
and he did say one day and one night per week. | 0:15:03 | 0:15:06 | |
Tracy has now asked to renegotiate the marriage contract. | 0:15:06 | 0:15:10 | |
She wants him for two days every week. | 0:15:10 | 0:15:20 | |
I found myself being more insecure with my marriage with it being just | 0:15:23 | 0:15:26 | |
one day and one night. | 0:15:26 | 0:15:27 | |
And what of his other wife if that means less time with her? | 0:15:27 | 0:15:30 | |
I do think about my co-wife. | 0:15:31 | 0:15:32 | |
And the situation she is in. | 0:15:32 | 0:15:38 | |
They are at home, they have Child number six coming along. | 0:15:38 | 0:15:40 | |
She does need more support. | 0:15:41 | 0:15:46 | |
But polygamy is not for everyone. | 0:15:46 | 0:15:51 | |
When it comes to users of secondwife.com, | 0:15:51 | 0:15:52 | |
men outnumber women 3-1. | 0:15:52 | 0:15:53 | |
If somebody is offering themselves up as a second | 0:15:53 | 0:15:55 | |
wife they may not know what is going on with | 0:15:55 | 0:15:58 | |
wife they may not know what is going on with the first wife? | 0:15:58 | 0:16:01 | |
But this is why I encourage everybody to be open so you have | 0:16:01 | 0:16:04 | |
to get everything on the table. | 0:16:04 | 0:16:07 | |
Some people might say this is just the guys having their own way | 0:16:07 | 0:16:10 | |
and they can have fun and women don't have much say. | 0:16:10 | 0:16:13 | |
It takes two hands to clap and the fact we have so many | 0:16:13 | 0:16:17 | |
successful marriages and so many women who have signed up themselves. | 0:16:17 | 0:16:26 | |
Lots of them are highly educated and professionals, | 0:16:26 | 0:16:28 | |
doctors, teachers, lawyers. | 0:16:28 | 0:16:29 | |
They are opting to enter this kind of relationship. | 0:16:29 | 0:16:33 | |
Bigamy, when you marry again before getting divorced, | 0:16:33 | 0:16:38 | |
can land you in prison for up to seven years, but polygamist | 0:16:38 | 0:16:45 | |
marriages are marked by spiritual or religious ceremonies | 0:16:45 | 0:16:47 | |
and as they are not recognised by law there is no reliable | 0:16:47 | 0:16:49 | |
figure for how many take place in the UK. | 0:16:49 | 0:16:55 | |
It should be thought of in terms of a hub | 0:16:55 | 0:16:58 | |
and spoke model where you | 0:16:58 | 0:17:00 | |
have a central husband with multiple wives will be husband | 0:17:00 | 0:17:03 | |
is choosing who the wives are, so in a sense the husband has full | 0:17:03 | 0:17:07 | |
control over every single member of that family. | 0:17:07 | 0:17:11 | |
Is there a wider impact of polygamy not just on the centre? | 0:17:11 | 0:17:14 | |
As the country is trying to get a greater sense of equality, | 0:17:14 | 0:17:17 | |
trying to make some steps towards greater gender equality, | 0:17:17 | 0:17:19 | |
I think this is something that would be a stumbling block. | 0:17:19 | 0:17:24 | |
You should be able to just feel his mouth. | 0:17:24 | 0:17:34 | |
Let your rwins up a bit. | 0:17:35 | 0:17:37 | |
Within polygamy, do you feel you are an equal partner? | 0:17:37 | 0:17:39 | |
No. | 0:17:39 | 0:17:40 | |
I don't. | 0:17:40 | 0:17:41 | |
As much as it is an experience and I really love Tarek, | 0:17:41 | 0:17:44 | |
I wouldn't do it again because it is not easy emotionally. | 0:17:44 | 0:17:47 | |
It really is not. | 0:17:47 | 0:17:54 | |
According to the Koran, he could find a third wife | 0:17:54 | 0:17:56 | |
or even a fourth, how would you feel about that? | 0:17:56 | 0:17:59 | |
I don't want that. | 0:17:59 | 0:18:00 | |
If he is absolutely adamant that if he wants that, | 0:18:00 | 0:18:05 | |
I have to think about very strongly my options. | 0:18:05 | 0:18:11 | |
It is up to the man, as wise as he can be, | 0:18:11 | 0:18:15 | |
to treat them fairly, so if he doesn't have | 0:18:15 | 0:18:19 | |
this skill or ability, it might be very difficult to avoid | 0:18:19 | 0:18:22 | |
a higher chance of jealousy which can cause problems. | 0:18:22 | 0:18:27 | |
The women have the choice that they can walk away | 0:18:27 | 0:18:30 | |
from the marriage at any point. | 0:18:31 | 0:18:35 | |
Back in the office, he has just launched his third | 0:18:35 | 0:18:38 | |
matchmaking website. | 0:18:38 | 0:18:42 | |
As part of the practical marriage guide I will give you 100 questions | 0:18:42 | 0:18:49 | |
to ask your future spouse prior to getting married... | 0:18:49 | 0:18:51 | |
He believes a lot can be learned from how some Muslims go | 0:18:51 | 0:18:54 | |
about finding a husband and wife, but he has boundaries. | 0:18:54 | 0:18:58 | |
Could the natural extension of this a second husband? | 0:18:58 | 0:19:05 | |
That is not something I personally advocate but if someone wants | 0:19:05 | 0:19:10 | |
but if someone wants to start that it is their own choice, | 0:19:10 | 0:19:12 | |
I will not go about protesting. | 0:19:13 | 0:19:14 | |
What about his personal quest for a second wife? | 0:19:14 | 0:19:16 | |
So far he has only managed the bag one. | 0:19:16 | 0:19:18 | |
I am quite picky and when I say that I am quite practical. | 0:19:18 | 0:19:24 | |
The website came about from my need and thinking if that is going to be | 0:19:24 | 0:19:27 | |
other people in my situation it is benefiting a lot | 0:19:27 | 0:19:30 | |
of people and that gives me a lot of satisfaction. | 0:19:30 | 0:19:32 | |
Myself, my number will come and I am a very patient person | 0:19:32 | 0:19:35 | |
and I believe in divine decree, that maybe there is a reason | 0:19:35 | 0:19:38 | |
it has not happened. | 0:19:38 | 0:19:39 | |
Thank you very much. | 0:19:39 | 0:19:45 | |
So what do you think? | 0:19:45 | 0:19:47 | |
Is polygamy is relationship too far simply a private between adults? | 0:19:47 | 0:19:50 | |
The details are on screen. | 0:19:50 | 0:19:55 | |
50 years ago, the law changed. | 0:20:02 | 0:20:05 | |
Being free to live your life as a gay man was no longer illegal | 0:20:05 | 0:20:08 | |
and since then we have celebrated same-sex civil partnerships | 0:20:08 | 0:20:10 | |
and marriage, but has everywhere been embracing change | 0:20:10 | 0:20:12 | |
quite so readily? | 0:20:12 | 0:20:16 | |
Kendal, 1959, and the local paper has a scoop. | 0:20:29 | 0:20:32 | |
This court report shocked the town. | 0:20:32 | 0:20:35 | |
30 men in the dock. | 0:20:35 | 0:20:37 | |
The newspaper published the names and addresses. | 0:20:37 | 0:20:47 | |
They would lose their jobs and face disgrace and their crime, the men, | 0:20:47 | 0:20:50 | |
some of whom were married, were gay and arrested | 0:20:50 | 0:20:52 | |
on charges of gross indecency. | 0:20:52 | 0:20:53 | |
The impact on the men would be huge. | 0:20:53 | 0:20:55 | |
One, a year away from retirement, stood to lose his pension. | 0:20:55 | 0:20:58 | |
Even the judge was sympathetic. | 0:20:58 | 0:21:01 | |
If there was anything I could do to write that injustice, | 0:21:01 | 0:21:04 | |
and I repeat the word injustice, I would do it. | 0:21:04 | 0:21:06 | |
I am satisfied you have suffered more than you deserve. | 0:21:06 | 0:21:12 | |
Despite that sense of injustice it would be nearly another decade | 0:21:12 | 0:21:15 | |
before the sexual offences act freed men to be open about | 0:21:15 | 0:21:18 | |
their relationships. | 0:21:18 | 0:21:27 | |
But there is lingering suspicion that it is still tough to be | 0:21:28 | 0:21:31 | |
gay in rural England than in big metropolitan cities. | 0:21:31 | 0:21:33 | |
I would be going to find out. | 0:21:36 | 0:21:39 | |
They pack some punch? | 0:21:39 | 0:21:41 | |
They do! | 0:21:41 | 0:21:42 | |
I am quite surprised at how physical they are. | 0:21:42 | 0:21:46 | |
It is like giving children medicine, they don't like it! | 0:21:46 | 0:21:49 | |
Simon farms up in the Northern Pennines. | 0:21:49 | 0:21:54 | |
He chose a family occasion to come out. | 0:21:54 | 0:21:59 | |
Had you planned to make this part of your 21st birthday | 0:21:59 | 0:22:04 | |
but that just happen? | 0:22:04 | 0:22:05 | |
Not really. | 0:22:05 | 0:22:07 | |
I was starting to date somebody and I thought | 0:22:07 | 0:22:09 | |
the whole family is here, better to tell everybody. | 0:22:09 | 0:22:12 | |
So did your family know? | 0:22:12 | 0:22:16 | |
My mother knew that I hadn't said anything to my father. | 0:22:16 | 0:22:18 | |
Do you think he knew? | 0:22:18 | 0:22:20 | |
I spoke to him the day after and we spoke about it | 0:22:20 | 0:22:25 | |
and he had said if he is gay he will come out when he is ready. | 0:22:25 | 0:22:28 | |
Have you ever had any hostility directed towards | 0:22:28 | 0:22:30 | |
you because you're gay? | 0:22:30 | 0:22:32 | |
Yes. | 0:22:32 | 0:22:34 | |
Neighbours and stuff. | 0:22:34 | 0:22:37 | |
Telling other neighbours about us. | 0:22:37 | 0:22:40 | |
Fortunately they already knew and were absolutely fine with it | 0:22:40 | 0:22:46 | |
but it always gets back to you what they think | 0:22:46 | 0:22:48 | |
and what they said but that's just the way they are, | 0:22:48 | 0:22:51 | |
just nasty people. | 0:22:51 | 0:22:52 | |
Cumbria pride. | 0:22:54 | 0:22:57 | |
The county's biggest LGB key event in the calendar is underway. | 0:22:57 | 0:23:02 | |
-- LGBT. | 0:23:02 | 0:23:05 | |
Billie has been a Cumbrian drag queen for more than 30 years. | 0:23:05 | 0:23:08 | |
This is the imperial crown, very heavy to wear. | 0:23:08 | 0:23:15 | |
I am not wearing that today, I'll willing be much lighter tiara. | 0:23:15 | 0:23:18 | |
That's a nice one. | 0:23:18 | 0:23:19 | |
And it was a long time before he ever admitted being gay. | 0:23:19 | 0:23:23 | |
It was difficult in those days because when I used to do some | 0:23:23 | 0:23:27 | |
of the clubs people used to say, you poof. | 0:23:27 | 0:23:31 | |
I am married, I have two kids, so once you start that you have | 0:23:31 | 0:23:36 | |
to remember you have told a lie. | 0:23:36 | 0:23:42 | |
Why did you need to tell the lie? | 0:23:42 | 0:23:44 | |
Because they would've took offence to the fact you are gay | 0:23:44 | 0:23:47 | |
and you're wearing a frock. | 0:23:47 | 0:23:50 | |
In the 1970s there was a bar, the witness box, they used to sit | 0:23:50 | 0:23:57 | |
and watch the gays coming in and sometimes you think, | 0:23:57 | 0:24:01 | |
I will not go in and just use the toilet and come out again. | 0:24:01 | 0:24:04 | |
If there were not many you would dart into the witness box. | 0:24:04 | 0:24:07 | |
So you were being judged at that point? | 0:24:07 | 0:24:17 | |
In those days, and even nowadays, there's still a lot | 0:24:18 | 0:24:20 | |
of homophobia in Carlisle. | 0:24:20 | 0:24:21 | |
Do you think it is because of there's a small community | 0:24:21 | 0:24:24 | |
that is less tolerance? | 0:24:24 | 0:24:25 | |
What do you think it comes down to? | 0:24:25 | 0:24:28 | |
You only have to go one hour and a half down | 0:24:28 | 0:24:30 | |
the road to Blackpool | 0:24:30 | 0:24:31 | |
and you can wear whatever you want and nobody bats an eyelid. | 0:24:31 | 0:24:34 | |
This is a small town on its own and they are just not up | 0:24:34 | 0:24:38 | |
to speed with equality rights. | 0:24:38 | 0:24:40 | |
Today in the city, a chance that everybody to express | 0:24:42 | 0:24:45 | |
who they truly are. | 0:24:45 | 0:24:49 | |
Mike, another farmer, wishes he had done so years ago. | 0:24:49 | 0:24:53 | |
I got married at the age of 21 and had both kids by the age of 25 | 0:24:53 | 0:24:57 | |
and principally was living a lie. | 0:24:57 | 0:25:01 | |
Do you think you continued with this lie because you live | 0:25:01 | 0:25:06 | |
the rural community? | 0:25:06 | 0:25:07 | |
Definitely. | 0:25:07 | 0:25:10 | |
Yes. | 0:25:10 | 0:25:12 | |
Going to the option and seeing what the class as the norm, | 0:25:12 | 0:25:16 | |
it just didn't really seem right to be gay and be a farmer. | 0:25:16 | 0:25:24 | |
Every year the Home Office collates figures sitting at the number | 0:25:26 | 0:25:29 | |
of reported hate crimes against the LGB key community. | 0:25:29 | 0:25:31 | |
-- LGBT. | 0:25:31 | 0:25:34 | |
In Cumbria it is not comfortable reading. | 0:25:34 | 0:25:36 | |
If you are gay here you are twice as likely to celebrate hate crimes | 0:25:36 | 0:25:39 | |
of the national average. | 0:25:39 | 0:25:40 | |
Proportionally that is the highest in England and Wales. | 0:25:40 | 0:25:44 | |
Just last week a man was sentenced to over two years in prison | 0:25:44 | 0:25:47 | |
for a homophobic attack on two women in Penrith. | 0:25:47 | 0:25:54 | |
Any hate crime against anyone is unacceptable | 0:25:54 | 0:25:58 | |
and we have to act about it. | 0:25:58 | 0:26:02 | |
I am reassured that our LGBT community actually feel confident | 0:26:02 | 0:26:08 | |
to come forward and report and I want them to do that, | 0:26:08 | 0:26:11 | |
and in some ways I am not concerned that the incidents of people | 0:26:11 | 0:26:14 | |
reporting is necessarily the problem. | 0:26:14 | 0:26:18 | |
That shows we are coming for a ban telling us about it and we can | 0:26:18 | 0:26:22 | |
do something about it. | 0:26:22 | 0:26:24 | |
I have heard from two farmers and the attitudes of people | 0:26:24 | 0:26:27 | |
more than 30 years ago. | 0:26:27 | 0:26:28 | |
So what is it like for young people coming out today? | 0:26:28 | 0:26:36 | |
Do you know that I'm gay? | 0:26:36 | 0:26:39 | |
No. | 0:26:39 | 0:26:40 | |
You do now. | 0:26:40 | 0:26:43 | |
Yeah. | 0:26:43 | 0:26:44 | |
Have you never had any suspicions? | 0:26:44 | 0:26:46 | |
No. | 0:26:46 | 0:26:47 | |
How about you? | 0:26:47 | 0:26:48 | |
Maybe. | 0:26:48 | 0:26:53 | |
Ross, who is 19, is part of the you Tube generation, | 0:26:53 | 0:26:55 | |
so he decided to film telling his parents | 0:26:55 | 0:26:57 | |
so he decided to film telling his parents for a documentary. | 0:26:57 | 0:27:00 | |
Everything is fine? | 0:27:00 | 0:27:02 | |
It's a life choice, that's all it is. | 0:27:02 | 0:27:06 | |
The fear came from the fact I had never seen a gay person | 0:27:06 | 0:27:09 | |
around where I live. | 0:27:09 | 0:27:12 | |
Ross decided to come out just as he was leaving home to start | 0:27:12 | 0:27:16 | |
university in Salford. | 0:27:16 | 0:27:17 | |
I never thought there would be such a big reaction online. | 0:27:17 | 0:27:22 | |
I wasn't expecting the town to come together to show its support. | 0:27:22 | 0:27:24 | |
And that wasn't all. | 0:27:24 | 0:27:27 | |
One of the best outcomes from the documentary was getting | 0:27:27 | 0:27:29 | |
into a relationship with someone from my town, which is quite | 0:27:29 | 0:27:32 | |
unlikely, because growing up I thought there were hardly any gay | 0:27:32 | 0:27:34 | |
people in my time. | 0:27:34 | 0:27:43 | |
This is a real celebration of Cumbria's diversity, | 0:27:43 | 0:27:45 | |
proof of how far we have come since the court | 0:27:45 | 0:27:47 | |
reports of the 1950s. | 0:27:47 | 0:27:48 | |
The people I have met in Cumbria today say that as long | 0:27:48 | 0:27:51 | |
as we still hear stories of visibility and direct | 0:27:51 | 0:27:54 | |
discrimination it is important to stand up and be counted. | 0:27:54 | 0:27:58 | |
Things like this really do bring it out and let them come out | 0:28:02 | 0:28:05 | |
when they want to and not have to keep it bottled up like I did. | 0:28:05 | 0:28:11 | |
It is very important to us that we have accepted and we have | 0:28:15 | 0:28:18 | |
equal rights to everybody else. | 0:28:19 | 0:28:21 | |
I needed to know that people were OK with that rather than just | 0:28:23 | 0:28:26 | |
tried to guess myself. | 0:28:26 | 0:28:28 | |
And that brings us to the end of this week's show. | 0:28:37 | 0:28:40 | |
Next week, a simple check that is saving the lives of hundreds | 0:28:40 | 0:28:43 | |
of men across the North. | 0:28:43 | 0:28:49 | |
I will see you next week, until then, from Lowther Castle | 0:28:52 | 0:28:54 | |
in Cumbria, good night. | 0:28:54 | 0:28:57 | |
go. That's it for others to night | 0:29:01 | 0:29:01 | |
go. That's it for others to night from | 0:29:01 | 0:29:01 | |
go. That's it for others to night from the | 0:29:01 | 0:29:01 | |
go. That's it for others to night from the Medway | 0:29:01 | 0:29:02 | |
Hello, I'm Riz Lateef with your 90 second update. | 0:29:06 | 0:29:08 | |
The European Commission has denied a report that Theresa May | 0:29:08 | 0:29:11 | |
"begged" the EU for help in the Brexit talks. | 0:29:11 | 0:29:13 | |
It's claimed she appeared "anxious" during a dinner | 0:29:13 | 0:29:15 | |
with the Commission president, Jean-Claude Juncker, last week. | 0:29:15 | 0:29:19 | |
Drivers of older, more polluting vehicles, | 0:29:19 | 0:29:21 | |
will have to pay an extra ten pounds to drive in central London. | 0:29:21 | 0:29:25 | |
The charge applies to diesel and petrol vehicles | 0:29:25 | 0:29:27 | |
registered before 2006. | 0:29:27 | 0:29:28 |