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We've become used to seeing ourselves among the big players | :00:07. | :00:08. | |
Is it time to scale down our sense of self importance? | :00:09. | :00:16. | |
Boris Johnson didn't get his way at the G7 foreign | :00:17. | :00:18. | |
Was he naive to think he could push his weight around? | :00:19. | :00:24. | |
All we can say is he got himself out on a limb and the | :00:25. | :00:27. | |
branch was cut off in Lucca Italy at the G-7 meeting. | :00:28. | :00:34. | |
We'll look at the state of foreign policy, and ask if we should start | :00:35. | :00:38. | |
thinking of ourselves as a medium-sized nation? | :00:39. | :00:40. | |
Also tonight, Katie Razzall has been looking at the hidden side of honour | :00:41. | :00:44. | |
violence; the men who have been victims of forced marriage, | :00:45. | :00:46. | |
There is a lot of shame and pride and ego involved. | :00:47. | :00:54. | |
This is wrong, it's dirty, we're going to beat you up, | :00:55. | :00:57. | |
we're going to put a Black and Decker drill up your arse. | :00:58. | :01:01. | |
We discuss the representation of black people, and black | :01:02. | :01:11. | |
But do those working in the industry feel like times are changing? | :01:12. | :01:24. | |
Yesterday foreign secretary Boris Johnson had a plan | :01:25. | :01:30. | |
for targeted sanctions against Russia, as a response to its | :01:31. | :01:35. | |
Mr Johnson was public in promoting his idea, | :01:36. | :01:39. | |
and he took it to the G7 foreign ministers meeting in Lucca | :01:40. | :01:42. | |
Sanctions weren't even mentioned in the communique. | :01:43. | :01:50. | |
The view that prevailed was summarised by the Italian host, | :01:51. | :01:52. | |
that "we must not push Russia into a corner". | :01:53. | :01:57. | |
Now what does this say about British foreign policy? | :01:58. | :02:01. | |
For some, it is simply a Boris Johnson fail - | :02:02. | :02:05. | |
that he pushed his plan without knowing | :02:06. | :02:08. | |
But for others, it speaks to a diminished | :02:09. | :02:10. | |
That we should never expect the world's players, | :02:11. | :02:15. | |
to be hanging on our every word or idea. | :02:16. | :02:18. | |
We'll talk about that shortly, but first here's Mark Urban. | :02:19. | :02:29. | |
The Lucca meeting offered western Foreign Ministers a chance | :02:30. | :02:32. | |
for a united response to Syria's chemical weapons strike, | :02:33. | :02:34. | |
Boris Johnson ended up in a lonely position of proposing new sanctions, | :02:35. | :02:42. | |
and even the idea of pressuring the Kremlin over Syria | :02:43. | :02:45. | |
We want to create a future for Syria that is stable and secure. | :02:46. | :02:58. | |
And so Russia can be a part of that future and play an important role, | :02:59. | :03:05. | |
or Russia can maintain its alliance with this group which we believe | :03:06. | :03:08. | |
isn't going to serve Russia's interests long term. | :03:09. | :03:12. | |
As the US Secretary of State carried that message off to Moscow | :03:13. | :03:16. | |
one thing was clear, Britain's attempt to get the other | :03:17. | :03:20. | |
leading economies to buy into sanctions had misfired, | :03:21. | :03:23. | |
drawing some American backing but little from any other quarter. | :03:24. | :03:29. | |
All we can say is he got himself out on a limb and the branch was cut off | :03:30. | :03:33. | |
I think it is extremely unwise to go out and say this | :03:34. | :03:42. | |
is what we are going to try and get when probably your advisers | :03:43. | :03:45. | |
already know that you are not going to shift the Germans | :03:46. | :03:48. | |
or the Italians, at least, to name but two. | :03:49. | :03:50. | |
And as Rex Tillerson sits down with the Russian Foreign Minister | :03:51. | :03:53. | |
he knows that Sergei Lavrov has batted away every attempt the West | :03:54. | :03:57. | |
has made for five years to get the Kremlin to push Bashar al-Assad | :03:58. | :04:00. | |
-- And what happened in Lucca won't have strengthened the American hand. | :04:01. | :04:10. | |
Well, I think first of all it was a United States, | :04:11. | :04:13. | |
I always was a bit suspicious about its wisdom, because there | :04:14. | :04:17. | |
has to be some doubt as to whether further sanctions | :04:18. | :04:20. | |
would make any impact given that they were going to be targeted | :04:21. | :04:25. | |
against individuals and unlikely to change the Kremlin's view. | :04:26. | :04:28. | |
But also what we've now got is actually a worse situation | :04:29. | :04:31. | |
Because Tillerson will now be told by the Russians | :04:32. | :04:38. | |
when he sees Lavrov, well, you don't even | :04:39. | :04:40. | |
Of course there is one difference this time, | :04:41. | :04:51. | |
which is the recent American missile strikes on a Syrian air base. | :04:52. | :04:54. | |
Whether that will leverage American diplomacy at Moscow | :04:55. | :04:56. | |
That hope springs eternal on the part of American officials, | :04:57. | :05:02. | |
no matter what their political party, that somehow the Russians | :05:03. | :05:05. | |
are going to ditch al-Assad and embrace somebody else. | :05:06. | :05:09. | |
And I think that is a profound misreading of Russian interests. | :05:10. | :05:15. | |
This was what kept John Kerry alive, apparently, in the last two years | :05:16. | :05:18. | |
I can't imagine to myself that the Trump administration | :05:19. | :05:25. | |
Britain's intervention at the G-7 may well have been well-intentioned | :05:26. | :05:35. | |
but has it just exposed the weakness of this country's | :05:36. | :05:38. | |
Last week's chemical weapon attack came at precisely the moment that | :05:39. | :05:48. | |
many Western countries had been gradually accepting they might have | :05:49. | :05:51. | |
to put up with the Bashar al-Assad government and wanted to do | :05:52. | :05:53. | |
something to improve their relations with the Kremlin at the same time. | :05:54. | :05:58. | |
So any idea for targeted sanctions coming from the desk | :05:59. | :06:01. | |
of the British Foreign Secretary was never really going to fly | :06:02. | :06:03. | |
Instead, as so many times during the Syrian civil War, | :06:04. | :06:08. | |
Western countries are set to put their own wider | :06:09. | :06:10. | |
For US Russian relations that takes some of the poison and some | :06:11. | :06:24. | |
of the heat out of the relationship and then move on to try and sort out | :06:25. | :06:27. | |
a few things in the world, which includes the chaos | :06:28. | :06:30. | |
So in Moscow they will talk about Syria, but the bigger | :06:31. | :06:38. | |
For the Trump administration has been clear about its desire | :06:39. | :06:41. | |
for better relations with Russia, and it still seems intent on that. | :06:42. | :06:49. | |
Well, it's particularly intriguing to ask if Britain needs to adjust | :06:50. | :06:51. | |
We are 0.9 per cent of the world population, the ninth largest | :06:52. | :06:58. | |
economy measured properly, and the fifth largest | :06:59. | :07:00. | |
Jeremy Shapiro is research director at the European Council | :07:01. | :07:08. | |
on Foreign Relations, and used to work at the US | :07:09. | :07:11. | |
State Department advising Hillary Clinton on the Middle East. | :07:12. | :07:13. | |
Emily Thornberry is the shadow foreign secretary. | :07:14. | :07:18. | |
Good evening. Jeremy, uninterested in your perspective. Do you think | :07:19. | :07:29. | |
the expectation that Boris goes in and says what he would like | :07:30. | :07:33. | |
everybody gathers round, says yes or no, is that just one way of thinking | :07:34. | :07:39. | |
about it? -- I am interested in your perspective. Great Britain has a | :07:40. | :07:43. | |
great history of diplomacy. It likes to think of itself as a great power. | :07:44. | :07:48. | |
But it has been a medium power for decades now. It has punched above | :07:49. | :07:52. | |
its weight during those decades because it had a good relationship | :07:53. | :07:57. | |
with the US, and it has been a member of the EU. And it has managed | :07:58. | :08:03. | |
to work both sides of that I/O and punch its weight diplomatically. But | :08:04. | :08:08. | |
with the Brexit decision those days are, sort of, over. -- both sides of | :08:09. | :08:26. | |
that aisle. Do you accept that? I think we have navigated our foreign | :08:27. | :08:31. | |
policy between the EU and America and our relationships with both are | :08:32. | :08:35. | |
profoundly changing. I think you underplay the many positives we have | :08:36. | :08:39. | |
as a country. We can continue to punch above our weight. We have a | :08:40. | :08:43. | |
place in the Security Council. We don't need to be second fiddle to | :08:44. | :08:48. | |
the Americans there. We could have a distinctive voice. People speak | :08:49. | :08:52. | |
English. We have a huge amount of soft power. We spend vast amounts of | :08:53. | :08:57. | |
money on aid. We might be the worlds biggest when it comes to the | :08:58. | :09:03. | |
Americans... A large amount of foreign ministers have been educated | :09:04. | :09:07. | |
in Britain. At an important time in their lives they fall in love with | :09:08. | :09:12. | |
this country. We spent a lot of money on defence... Boris has | :09:13. | :09:21. | |
written this article... I will tell you the difference I have with him. | :09:22. | :09:23. | |
In order to be influential you have to have... Today was about tactics. | :09:24. | :09:27. | |
It was completely the wrong one. We had to take advantage of the fact | :09:28. | :09:30. | |
that we have a massive brains trust in the Foreign Office. The best and | :09:31. | :09:34. | |
brightest of Britain go out for this country. That has been cut by 40%, | :09:35. | :09:40. | |
it has been undermined, it has an eccentric, at least, you know, | :09:41. | :09:45. | |
Foreign Secretary, that perhaps undermined them. And Brexit has been | :09:46. | :09:49. | |
taken away from the Foreign Office and given to another department... | :09:50. | :09:53. | |
The Foreign Office didn't want to come on this evening. In some ways, | :09:54. | :09:57. | |
Jeremy, you have a grand vision of Britain as a great power. Spend more | :09:58. | :10:01. | |
on the Foreign Office, you could have more the Britannia is floating | :10:02. | :10:05. | |
around... I'm not talking about that. We should hold our heads up | :10:06. | :10:10. | |
high and be more confident about ourselves. | :10:11. | :10:20. | |
-- more royal Britannias floating around. That's great. All of the | :10:21. | :10:23. | |
things you've talked about our British strengths. But I can tell | :10:24. | :10:26. | |
you they are more keenly felt inside this country rather than outside. | :10:27. | :10:28. | |
When I was in the State Department we didn't focus on that. We barely | :10:29. | :10:32. | |
noticed it. If you look at the article in the New York Times about | :10:33. | :10:36. | |
the G-7 meeting, it barely mentions Britain. I looked at several of them | :10:37. | :10:40. | |
in other countries. They didn't mention Boris Johnson. But it was | :10:41. | :10:46. | |
buried under... They did, it was buried, he was not seen as the | :10:47. | :10:51. | |
story. The story was the US, the Russians, the Italians, it was not | :10:52. | :10:58. | |
Britain. Yet if you read the British press's coverage it was all about | :10:59. | :11:03. | |
Boris Johnson's Fabius, all of the tactics you were covering. King of | :11:04. | :11:09. | |
what you said was right. -- Boris Johnson's failures. Let's focus on | :11:10. | :11:14. | |
the Middle East. Our historic links with the Middle East are profound. | :11:15. | :11:19. | |
We have an understanding. America doesn't have that. As a close ally | :11:20. | :11:24. | |
of America we can, hopefully, if we were prepared to stand up to the | :11:25. | :11:28. | |
president and say no, you've got that wrong, actually this is a | :11:29. | :11:31. | |
better way of approaching things, we would have more clarity. That is the | :11:32. | :11:36. | |
key point. -- we would have more clout. Would anybody listen to us if | :11:37. | :11:42. | |
we deviated from the US? We are essentially the deputy to the US | :11:43. | :11:46. | |
sheriff and everybody listens to the deputy and we need to agree. If we | :11:47. | :11:53. | |
disagree with the US people will listen, do you agree with that? You | :11:54. | :11:57. | |
pick your battles, you do not disagree with everything. Jeremy? | :11:58. | :12:04. | |
Look at what happened before the Trump administration took over on | :12:05. | :12:08. | |
the Israel Palestine issue. The government betrayed its position | :12:09. | :12:13. | |
from a week before. Essentially attacked the Obama administration on | :12:14. | :12:16. | |
its Security Council resolution that the UK Government had drafted for | :12:17. | :12:23. | |
us. And voted for it. To me what that indicated was that the UK | :12:24. | :12:28. | |
Government was afraid to be separate from the new American | :12:29. | :12:32. | |
administration. And you can say... It is a sell-out. Maybe, but I think | :12:33. | :12:37. | |
it is indicative of a larger problem any UK Government would have. Emily, | :12:38. | :12:42. | |
do you think it would be difficult for politicians to tell the British | :12:43. | :12:47. | |
public would Jeremy is saying? Look, guys, we are as important as Norway, | :12:48. | :12:54. | |
maybe more, but we are a medium-sized power, we will find it | :12:55. | :12:59. | |
difficult to swagger about, would you say that? I wouldn't say we have | :13:00. | :13:03. | |
the same influence as Norway. We are not a superpower. Clearly. But I | :13:04. | :13:08. | |
think we have and should continue to have much more influence than the | :13:09. | :13:11. | |
size of our country because of all of the positives we have in our | :13:12. | :13:16. | |
history and culturally what we have. And our connections. And we need to | :13:17. | :13:21. | |
take advantage of that. Our place in international institutions is | :13:22. | :13:26. | |
pivotal. We have been responsible for legal imperialism in the way | :13:27. | :13:32. | |
we've exported human rights. We draft of the human rights which is | :13:33. | :13:35. | |
now being used throughout. Which is why it is damaging to this | :13:36. | :13:38. | |
government so we are not so keen on that like we used to be. Do you | :13:39. | :13:44. | |
think soft power is more important than defence power? Give us some | :13:45. | :13:48. | |
more advice. Is it spending more on defence, always the aid Budget that | :13:49. | :13:49. | |
doesn't it? Soft power is what people appealed | :13:50. | :14:00. | |
to when they want to talk about the power asset too nebulous to pin | :14:01. | :14:05. | |
down. There is something real to it but hard to get your hands around | :14:06. | :14:10. | |
and it does not move G-7 meetings. If we want to be heard above the | :14:11. | :14:14. | |
cacophony of noise on foreign policy, if we had foreign policy | :14:15. | :14:18. | |
that was a bit more principled unpredictable and people could | :14:19. | :14:21. | |
understand the basis for decisions we could have a great deal more | :14:22. | :14:23. | |
influence. Thank you both very much. It's been a year in which | :14:24. | :14:25. | |
experts have been pitted But there is no case of that sadder | :14:26. | :14:28. | |
than the one involving Charlie Gard, the eight month old baby | :14:29. | :14:34. | |
with severe brain damage. The doctors at Great Ormond Street, | :14:35. | :14:37. | |
think he must allowed to die peacefully, his parents | :14:38. | :14:39. | |
are desperate for him to have a last shot at an experimental | :14:40. | :14:42. | |
treatment in the US. They've raised the money for that, | :14:43. | :14:44. | |
but to their bitter disappointment, the High Court found in favour | :14:45. | :14:47. | |
of the medical professionals today. The parents' lawyer expressed | :14:48. | :14:51. | |
their feelings after the verdict. Connie and Chris are facing every | :14:52. | :15:04. | |
parent's worst nightmare, they are struggling to understand | :15:05. | :15:06. | |
why the court has not at least given Charlie the chance | :15:07. | :15:09. | |
of treatment in America. The medical evidence is complex | :15:10. | :15:11. | |
and the treatment offered These are not easy issues | :15:12. | :15:13. | |
and they remain utterly committed, like any parent, to wanting | :15:14. | :15:16. | |
to do their outmost for their child. the judge and everybody who reads | :15:17. | :15:24. | |
about the case, all have nothing but respect and sympathy | :15:25. | :15:28. | |
for the parents, Connie and Chris Well, Professor Dominic Wilkinson | :15:29. | :15:31. | |
is the Director of Medical Ethics at the Oxford Uehiro Centre | :15:32. | :15:34. | |
and Sarah Barclay is the director Sarah also happens to sit | :15:35. | :15:37. | |
on the Clinical Ethics Committee at Great Ormond Street Hospital, | :15:38. | :15:44. | |
but is not tonight representing them Let's put the case of Charlie aside | :15:45. | :15:47. | |
and talk general principles. Dominic, how do the experts decide, | :15:48. | :16:06. | |
how do the professionals decide. What is in the interests of this | :16:07. | :16:10. | |
child or a child in general. In these very difficult cases all | :16:11. | :16:15. | |
anyone is trying to do is work out what is best for the child. They | :16:16. | :16:19. | |
look at the different treatment options, they weigh up the risks and | :16:20. | :16:25. | |
benefits of those different alternatives. And there is going to | :16:26. | :16:28. | |
be different evidence that people look at. We focus on the individual | :16:29. | :16:35. | |
and not on the statistics. And safer this child, does this particular | :16:36. | :16:43. | |
experimental treatment or perhaps mainstream -- mainstream treatment, | :16:44. | :16:47. | |
to the risks outweigh the benefits. There doing it, thinking about it in | :16:48. | :16:54. | |
a spreadsheet mentality rather than an emotional mentality because I | :16:55. | :16:57. | |
suppose in a way the question is which is more valid,? We should not | :16:58. | :17:06. | |
undertake the role that emotion plays in any of our decisions. Of | :17:07. | :17:12. | |
course these are taken very seriously and to the heart of all | :17:13. | :17:15. | |
professionals involved. There are also trying to weigh up as | :17:16. | :17:19. | |
impartially as they can the information available about the | :17:20. | :17:23. | |
different treatment options. One of the reasons this dispute arises is | :17:24. | :17:30. | |
because people look at the evidence and they weighed up in different | :17:31. | :17:33. | |
ways, the parents, the professionals, and they come to | :17:34. | :17:39. | |
different conclusions. Often with time and careful thought and | :17:40. | :17:42. | |
conversation, it is possible to reach agreement but sometimes not. | :17:43. | :17:49. | |
Sarah, you handle the process of trying to manage some of these | :17:50. | :17:52. | |
complicated and difficult relationships. What is it that makes | :17:53. | :17:57. | |
someone break down. I think that is an important question, the point at | :17:58. | :18:02. | |
which a situation which is desperately painful and complex | :18:03. | :18:06. | |
become something more confrontational and something we | :18:07. | :18:10. | |
might describe as a conflict. And so our work has been focused for the | :18:11. | :18:15. | |
last few years on trying to unpick what it is that causes these | :18:16. | :18:19. | |
situations to occur. And often not always but often, it is about | :18:20. | :18:23. | |
communication breaking down, trust breaking down between the treating | :18:24. | :18:28. | |
team on the one team and the parents on the other. And when that begins | :18:29. | :18:36. | |
to happen, you get a situation which is entrenched and when that goes to | :18:37. | :18:40. | |
court and becomes a very public conflict, with the language of the | :18:41. | :18:46. | |
battlefield, the winning and losing, in these situations there can be no | :18:47. | :18:49. | |
real winners and losers. At the heart of it is a very sick child. | :18:50. | :18:55. | |
What we would try to do is try and see it that you can begin to work | :18:56. | :19:00. | |
with teams of clinicians to say when is this beginning to happen, what | :19:01. | :19:05. | |
can we do to get in there earlier. Is it harder with parents with young | :19:06. | :19:10. | |
children then it would be perhaps with a spouse, a husband or wife | :19:11. | :19:16. | |
brain-damaged, is there something about the bond of the parent to a | :19:17. | :19:20. | |
recently born child that makes it more complicated? It is incredibly | :19:21. | :19:29. | |
powerful and strong and of course these are small, newborn babies in | :19:30. | :19:33. | |
many cases and the parents are only just beginning to get to know them | :19:34. | :19:37. | |
but their role as parents they feel is absolutely to be the advocate for | :19:38. | :19:43. | |
that child. All research will show even if there is a minute percentage | :19:44. | :19:48. | |
chance of success of any kind of treatment, they will jump at that | :19:49. | :19:51. | |
chance. As parents that is quite understandable. Why would you ever | :19:52. | :19:57. | |
want to stand in the way of the parents being the decider of what | :19:58. | :20:03. | |
it's worth taking a risk on or not? Parents are at the heart of the | :20:04. | :20:07. | |
decisions we make in intensive care, that I make when I'm working with | :20:08. | :20:14. | |
very sick babies. And rightly so. But there are limits to the | :20:15. | :20:19. | |
decisions parents can make. We are certain for example the treatment | :20:20. | :20:24. | |
would benefit a child and we do not think it is parents -- it is right | :20:25. | :20:30. | |
for parents to refuse treatment, chemotherapy for example that would | :20:31. | :20:33. | |
certainly improve the chances of a child. On the other hand when | :20:34. | :20:36. | |
parents request something that clinicians feel certain would do | :20:37. | :20:42. | |
more harm than good... People do get it wrong sometimes. One of the | :20:43. | :20:47. | |
things we try to do or should try to do is to be humble and acknowledge | :20:48. | :20:53. | |
our uncertainty and there are going to be times where we are more | :20:54. | :20:57. | |
uncertain than others. Where we are uncertain parents should have a | :20:58. | :21:01. | |
fundamental role in these decisions. But sadly where we've come believe | :21:02. | :21:07. | |
that a treatment cannot help, and in fact will do more harm than good, it | :21:08. | :21:11. | |
is important that we make that does that decision that we have to make. | :21:12. | :21:20. | |
Thank you both very much. -- that's sad decision. | :21:21. | :21:22. | |
Time for a quick spot of Viewsnight now. | :21:23. | :21:24. | |
This Sunday there's a referendum in Turkey - | :21:25. | :21:26. | |
it's about a proposal to change the constitution, giving | :21:27. | :21:28. | |
the president more power and getting rid of the post of Prime Minister. | :21:29. | :21:31. | |
It is fair to say it is controversial; and here is Turkish | :21:32. | :21:34. | |
author, Elif Safak to offer an opinion on it. | :21:35. | :23:50. | |
Hear the words honour-based violence, and most of us will assume | :23:51. | :23:55. | |
the victims in any particular case, are women. | :23:56. | :23:57. | |
Coming from conservative religious communities, | :23:58. | :24:02. | |
they can find themselves having to hide anything from sexual abuse | :24:03. | :24:07. | |
to domestic violence to their being gay, because to speak | :24:08. | :24:09. | |
out would potentially dishonour their families. | :24:10. | :24:12. | |
At worst, that puts their own lives at risk. | :24:13. | :24:16. | |
It's not much talked about, and frankly to most of us honour | :24:17. | :24:19. | |
punishment of relatives is incomprehensible, | :24:20. | :24:21. | |
but Newsnight has been speaking to men trapped in this predicament. | :24:22. | :24:25. | |
Katie Razzall has this special report. | :24:26. | :24:36. | |
What would members of the community think? | :24:37. | :24:44. | |
I could have been disowned, I could have been forced to marry | :24:45. | :24:49. | |
Being abused, you associate with women in the Asian community. | :24:50. | :24:55. | |
Up to now when we talk about online abuse we tend to think of women. | :24:56. | :25:08. | |
But Newsnight has uncovered another side to honour violence. | :25:09. | :25:12. | |
And found whole groups of men silenced and ignored. | :25:13. | :25:14. | |
Men can be hidden victims, of forced marriage, physical | :25:15. | :25:16. | |
They're subject to the same cultural codes of kinship | :25:17. | :25:22. | |
and honour as women, but they're telling | :25:23. | :25:36. | |
Men like this British imam, who we are calling Meneer. | :25:37. | :25:40. | |
He asked us to disguise his identity to protect him from repercussions. | :25:41. | :25:43. | |
We are trained from a young age to keep the family honour intact. | :25:44. | :25:46. | |
Even if it means that you might have experienced abuse or you might have | :25:47. | :25:49. | |
At the age of ten to 11 if I remember correctly, | :25:50. | :25:55. | |
a relative of mine used to come and visit us from overseas. | :25:56. | :26:04. | |
And he would fondle, kiss, and he raped me once. | :26:05. | :26:07. | |
And I remember that incident very clearly. | :26:08. | :26:12. | |
It affected me to such an extent that about ten years ago | :26:13. | :26:16. | |
I was on the point and on the verge of committing suicide | :26:17. | :26:21. | |
and ending my life, despite the fact that I have been working as an imam | :26:22. | :26:24. | |
and as a teacher for almost 25, 30 years. | :26:25. | :26:28. | |
After decades of torment, Meneer finally told his family | :26:29. | :26:31. | |
My family members, some of them were shocked. | :26:32. | :26:38. | |
But again, they did not want me to take it further. | :26:39. | :26:41. | |
And again, the reason is about honour, shame, | :26:42. | :26:44. | |
It's about honour and fear of my life. | :26:45. | :26:53. | |
One honour-based violence charity, Karma Nirvana, told Newsnight | :26:54. | :26:56. | |
between 2015 and 2016, it saw an increase in men | :26:57. | :26:59. | |
And Virgina International said from having no male | :27:00. | :27:09. | |
victims contacting them, now one in five of their | :27:10. | :27:11. | |
But still it's thought the majority don't talk to anyone. | :27:12. | :27:15. | |
We've had contact with more than 70 alleged victims. | :27:16. | :27:19. | |
These men have been shamed into silence and shockingly, | :27:20. | :27:23. | |
many told us they'd contemplated suicide | :27:24. | :27:28. | |
because of the torment they have gone through | :27:29. | :27:30. | |
Being gay can dishonour a family and the wider community. | :27:31. | :27:43. | |
From a young age he understood his homosexuality didn't fit | :27:44. | :27:45. | |
Definitely I feared my life, I thought I could be killed. | :27:46. | :27:51. | |
And that wasn't a joke, that was real. | :27:52. | :27:54. | |
I felt I would be disowned for sure, and kicked out of the house. | :27:55. | :27:57. | |
Definitely, I went through depression, suicidal tendencies. | :27:58. | :28:01. | |
I used to think about it, yes, especially when I was at university, | :28:02. | :28:07. | |
I used to think about throwing myself off the balcony or taking | :28:08. | :28:10. | |
I wanted to find out more about these codes of honour | :28:11. | :28:20. | |
and shame that silence men like Majinda. | :28:21. | :28:24. | |
Charity worker Rani Bilku invited Newsnight to | :28:25. | :28:25. | |
These practices have little to do with religion. | :28:26. | :28:33. | |
And apply across communities, be they Hindu, Muslim, or Sikh. | :28:34. | :28:37. | |
The concept of shame, it dishonours the whole community | :28:38. | :28:39. | |
You're looking at the immediate family, you're looking | :28:40. | :28:49. | |
at the community as a whole and that community can also belong | :28:50. | :28:52. | |
to the community back home from where they've come from. | :28:53. | :28:59. | |
In another part of Britain another man too ashamed to be identified. | :29:00. | :29:02. | |
Haroun has escaped what he claims was an abusive marriage. | :29:03. | :29:04. | |
But still fears the consequences of talking openly. | :29:05. | :29:07. | |
My ex abused me financially, psychologically, emotionally. | :29:08. | :29:08. | |
She had been doing it for a number of years. | :29:09. | :29:11. | |
I didn't speak up before because I was afraid. | :29:12. | :29:13. | |
Which led me to attempt suicide because I knew I had two choices. | :29:14. | :29:21. | |
Either die, or live with the torture. | :29:22. | :29:27. | |
Being abused you associate with women in the Asian community. | :29:28. | :29:30. | |
If you associate it with men, it's like she's wearing | :29:31. | :29:35. | |
That extra pressure is on you, it leads to other things. | :29:36. | :29:45. | |
Today's video is about my coming out story. | :29:46. | :29:48. | |
Majinda now lives openly as a gay Sikh. | :29:49. | :29:51. | |
He has a YouTube channel and a book offering advice to South Asians | :29:52. | :29:54. | |
about how to come out to the parents. | :29:55. | :29:58. | |
-- about how to come out to their parents. | :29:59. | :30:00. | |
People I knew were marrying, you know, women, even though | :30:01. | :30:04. | |
they were gay, or they were killing themselves, having suicide. | :30:05. | :30:06. | |
I came out via SMS when I was living in the Middle East. | :30:07. | :30:12. | |
And that's the worst, well, I don't know, there's | :30:13. | :30:20. | |
And what did being gay mean to your parents? | :30:21. | :30:26. | |
You had sent them this text, what did they take from that? | :30:27. | :30:29. | |
My mum having grown up in India, she had seen the Hijra population | :30:30. | :30:32. | |
So that is the only concept she has of what is being non-straight. | :30:33. | :30:36. | |
And she thought I was going to wear a sari and that | :30:37. | :30:39. | |
And then she was like, I remember you had a penis | :30:40. | :30:45. | |
when you were born, like, do you still have a penis? | :30:46. | :30:48. | |
And my dad, who did have education in the UK for a few years, | :30:49. | :30:53. | |
he thought I had a mental condition which meant that I couldn't work. | :30:54. | :30:56. | |
And he told my mum I will work double hours at work | :30:57. | :30:59. | |
His mum has been on quite a journey since. | :31:00. | :31:09. | |
Even appearing in one of his videos about how to react to a gay child. | :31:10. | :31:13. | |
There's a lot of shame and pride and ego involved, | :31:14. | :31:17. | |
this is wrong, it's dirty, they're going to beat you up. | :31:18. | :31:23. | |
And put a Black Decker drill up your arse. | :31:24. | :31:25. | |
We're going to come and knock you out, you know, | :31:26. | :31:28. | |
your sister is getting married, we're going to tell her in-laws | :31:29. | :31:30. | |
In some cases keeping silent to protect family honour | :31:31. | :31:41. | |
means abusers get away with serious criminal offences. | :31:42. | :31:43. | |
Maneer only felt able to talk about what happened to him | :31:44. | :31:48. | |
when his work as an imam put him in touch with other survivors. | :31:49. | :31:51. | |
Up until that point I thought I was probably the only person | :31:52. | :31:54. | |
who had probably experienced such a thing. | :31:55. | :31:56. | |
After listening to at least 30, 40 case studies of young Muslim | :31:57. | :32:01. | |
males and some females in this country who have experienced also | :32:02. | :32:05. | |
abuses of a sexual nature, and some by clergy, I felt that | :32:06. | :32:08. | |
Otherwise I would be answerable to God. | :32:09. | :32:15. | |
There are individuals in our communities who have | :32:16. | :32:17. | |
behaved in a manner which is totally unacceptable. | :32:18. | :32:24. | |
What are the reasons why your community might think it | :32:25. | :32:26. | |
would be a bad idea for you to talk about these sorts of issues? | :32:27. | :32:30. | |
The Muslim community is like in a dock at the moment, | :32:31. | :32:32. | |
everybody everywhere from every corner is scrutinising the Muslims | :32:33. | :32:35. | |
for whatever they do, from what they wear, | :32:36. | :32:39. | |
what they eat, what they do, how they behave. | :32:40. | :32:42. | |
And bringing about something like this will only add, | :32:43. | :32:44. | |
you know, to the problems of the Muslim community. | :32:45. | :32:48. | |
However, I see it slightly differently. | :32:49. | :32:51. | |
I believe that for a long time perpetrators of these type | :32:52. | :32:56. | |
of offences, which are very serious in my eyes, I believe, have got away | :32:57. | :33:00. | |
with it by using this card, that it will bring disrepute | :33:01. | :33:02. | |
Maneer has not pressed charges against his relative, | :33:03. | :33:06. | |
Perhaps most shockingly, he says his abuser went | :33:07. | :33:17. | |
Katie Razzall with that report and for details of organisations | :33:18. | :33:21. | |
which offer advice and support with forced marriage or honour | :33:22. | :33:23. | |
violence, go online to bbc.co.uk/actionline. | :33:24. | :33:32. | |
On Sunday, a new six part drama called Guerilla hits the small | :33:33. | :33:35. | |
Two lovers take a stand amid the racial struggle of 1970s London. | :33:36. | :33:46. | |
It's a storyline that focusses on the black | :33:47. | :33:48. | |
Raising the question as to whether there is enough such | :33:49. | :33:51. | |
portrayal in mainstream film and drama. | :33:52. | :33:53. | |
Historian and broadcaster, David Olusoga thinks he might | :33:54. | :33:55. | |
This time last year and the Oscars were being widely condemned | :33:56. | :34:06. | |
after not a single non-white nominee had appeared in any | :34:07. | :34:08. | |
Twitter burst into action, condemning the Academy under | :34:09. | :34:20. | |
A year later and the film Moonlight, a stunning African-American | :34:21. | :34:25. | |
coming-of-age story, won the Best Picture Oscar. | :34:26. | :34:26. | |
TV, too, has undergone something of a transformation. | :34:27. | :34:37. | |
In America there's been a lavish remake of the classic | :34:38. | :34:41. | |
1970s miniseries, Roots, which starred the British actor | :34:42. | :34:43. | |
On the BBC we've had Undercover, a drama in which the lead characters | :34:44. | :34:53. | |
played by Sophie Okonedo and Adrian Lester, | :34:54. | :34:59. | |
were what academics who studied cinema call "happen | :35:00. | :35:01. | |
They were black, but race wasn't central to the story. | :35:02. | :35:05. | |
All the speeches, the empty rhetoric, they do nothing. | :35:06. | :35:07. | |
And this week Sky Atlantic premiers Guerilla, a drama set amidst | :35:08. | :35:09. | |
the racial tensions of early 1970s London. | :35:10. | :35:15. | |
There's also new feature documentaries that | :35:16. | :35:17. | |
13th uncovers a loophole in the 13th Amendment of the US Constitution, | :35:18. | :35:24. | |
A loophole that historically has weaponised the US criminal justice | :35:25. | :35:30. | |
The story of the negro in America is the story of America. | :35:31. | :35:38. | |
While I'm Not Your Negro is an award-winning biopic of one | :35:39. | :35:43. | |
of America's greatest writers and sages. | :35:44. | :35:45. | |
Has Hollywood and TV on both sides of the Atlantic had an epiphany, | :35:46. | :35:57. | |
or has this just been a good year, a blip? | :35:58. | :36:01. | |
David Olusoga is with us and we're also joined by the director | :36:02. | :36:04. | |
Good evening. David, we know you are optimistic, you have seen a lot | :36:05. | :36:20. | |
going on, do you feel that way? No. CHUCKLES | :36:21. | :36:25. | |
If we look at the UK situation, if you go back to the 1970s we had a | :36:26. | :36:33. | |
series like Empire Road, we had a cop series, which was the first | :36:34. | :36:40. | |
black detective series. We also had in the 1980s a spate of comedies. No | :36:41. | :36:50. | |
Problem. On the BBC also commissioned some TV series. -- and | :36:51. | :36:57. | |
the BBC also commissioned some TV series. Where is the black voice | :36:58. | :37:03. | |
now? Where are the writers? Where are the stories being told on a | :37:04. | :37:10. | |
consistent basis? We had ongoing series in the 1970s and 1980s but I | :37:11. | :37:14. | |
don't see that now. Are you excited by Gorilla coming out? -- Guerilla | :37:15. | :37:26. | |
coming out? I don't know about it, I don't know who the writers are. As | :37:27. | :37:31. | |
this is not opened up something? Suddenly a realisation that this was | :37:32. | :37:36. | |
a set of powerful stories and great characters and actors, and maybe | :37:37. | :37:40. | |
this is something people have cottoned on to, but has he not hew | :37:41. | :37:45. | |
out of that feeling? I am excited about Guerilla. I'm also excited | :37:46. | :37:52. | |
that Idris Elba was not only starring in it but he's also the | :37:53. | :37:55. | |
producer. I think what is different from the 70s, 80s and 90s, we now | :37:56. | :38:01. | |
have a company of some of the greatest black actors we've ever | :38:02. | :38:04. | |
produced. This golden generation of British black actors who are sliding | :38:05. | :38:10. | |
across the world. And some of them like Idris are using their megastar | :38:11. | :38:16. | |
power in television and cinema on both sides of the Atlantic. That is | :38:17. | :38:21. | |
how Hollywood works. We talk about people being players. We've not had | :38:22. | :38:25. | |
that before. I'm more concerned about the British situation because | :38:26. | :38:30. | |
we often get into the American situation. But he became a star | :38:31. | :38:33. | |
because he went to America because he didn't get any opportunities | :38:34. | :38:38. | |
here. My issue is that the actors are leaving here to go to America | :38:39. | :38:41. | |
because they don't have the opportunities. That is my issue. If | :38:42. | :38:47. | |
we focus on the British situation, there is not the development that we | :38:48. | :38:51. | |
have seen previously. And I am looking at the writers, where are | :38:52. | :38:57. | |
the Black writers in British television, the black directors? | :38:58. | :39:02. | |
These are the storytellers. For me, we can look at the American | :39:03. | :39:06. | |
situation, which has its differences and contradictions, but I am | :39:07. | :39:10. | |
focusing on the UK. We need statistics to see if it is getting | :39:11. | :39:15. | |
better or worst... We can know by looking at where is the presence? | :39:16. | :39:19. | |
What is the presence of black content? You used this interesting | :39:20. | :39:25. | |
phrase, happened to be black characters, which is more important | :39:26. | :39:30. | |
for portrayal and diversity? Is it black themed dramas that are about | :39:31. | :39:35. | |
the black experience, or is it mainstream dramas, or any eternal | :39:36. | :39:39. | |
narratives that affect everybody, and in which there are black | :39:40. | :39:44. | |
characters, it is not about them being black? It is both. If you ask | :39:45. | :39:49. | |
a black actor they would like to be involved in roles where they can | :39:50. | :39:53. | |
talk about the world they come from, their experiences of their families | :39:54. | :39:56. | |
and communities, but they'd also like to be on Albert Square. They | :39:57. | :40:03. | |
would like to be a policeman... We are talking about the menu of things | :40:04. | :40:10. | |
that is available. You can have characters which are coming from a | :40:11. | :40:15. | |
non-specific place, and you can have characters and stories which are | :40:16. | :40:18. | |
race specific. That is part of the menu. My point is we are not seeing | :40:19. | :40:24. | |
the culturally specific, because it makes us grow as a society. It | :40:25. | :40:29. | |
introduces us to new worlds. We are not progressing in that area. Is the | :40:30. | :40:36. | |
problem... For good or bad, there is the tyranny of the majority. If 85% | :40:37. | :40:41. | |
of people are not vegetarians, you will find meet in most | :40:42. | :40:51. | |
restaurants... -- meat in most restaurants. I don't accept that. | :40:52. | :40:58. | |
The problem is, as an independent film-maker, I come across writers | :40:59. | :41:02. | |
who are talented but they cannot get a foothold in television or movies. | :41:03. | :41:06. | |
So if I am trying to get a product off the ground with a writer, the | :41:07. | :41:10. | |
writer has no track record, so we end up in a vicious cycle. | :41:11. | :41:17. | |
Absolutely. We need the writers, we need to stories, because it helps | :41:18. | :41:21. | |
the menu, it helps make society much better place. We must leave it to | :41:22. | :41:26. | |
there. Thank you, David. That is it for tonight. | :41:27. | :41:27. | |
Before we go, you've probably all seen the United Airlines video | :41:28. | :41:30. | |
by now, several times, where a passenger refuses to give | :41:31. | :41:32. | |
up his seat on an overbooked flight and airport security are summoned | :41:33. | :41:35. | |
to 're-accomodate' him in an unconventionally forceful way. | :41:36. | :41:37. | |
So we leave you with this United Airlines Customer Care | :41:38. | :41:40. | |
Training Video that's doing the rounds. | :41:41. | :41:41. | |
Stewardess, please, let me handle this. | :41:42. | :41:55. |