21/11/2016 Victoria Derbyshire


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This morning: Why would a parent turn their child against their ex?

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It's called parental alienation and leading experts say it's time

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the courts recognised it and starting punishing

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Throughout the programme this morning we'll hear

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I felt like a leper. I used to walk into the playground and feel like a

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leper. What mother doesn't have the children? She must have done

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something awful. A terrible experience. And I tell other

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children to follow what your mind says, not what you are made to

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believe. If it's happened to you after

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you split up from your partner, Also on the programme: Should

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cannabis be legalised? It's a question that's asked

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regularly and now a group of MPs has described the UK's drugs policy

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as an embarrassment. They want us to follow America's

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lead where in several states, Andy Murray ends the year as world

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number one in quite some style. We'll get reaction throughout

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the programme and speak to one Throughout the morning we'll bring

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you the latest breaking news and developing stories and as always

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we want to hear from you, particularly if you've experienced

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parental alienation. And a little later we'll talk

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about whether Gareth Southgate is the best man to lead

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the England team. Do get in touch on all the stories

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we're talking about this morning. If you text, you will be charged

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at the standard network rate. Theresa May will pledge to keep

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Britain's corporation tax the lowest In her first speech to business

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leaders at the CBI, the Prime Minister will also

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announce ?2 billion of new investment every year

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in science and technology. Our political correspondent

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Tom Bateman has more. At the cutting edge of science,

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this DNA lab in Oxford is the kind of place Theresa May has in mind

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as she promises extra cash The Prime Minister has been courting

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business leaders lately. Today's announcement of a further

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?2 billion a year for science and technology is an attempt

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to create a thriving environment amid what her Chancellor has called

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the uncertainty of Brexit. She also wants to put

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a spotlight on what she thinks is Britain's

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competitive advantage - The Prime Minister will say she aims

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to maintain the lowest corporation tax rate in the G20,

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the group of 20 major economies. The levy here is due to fall

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from its current 20% In the US, Donald Trump

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said during his election campaign he would seek

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to cut the federal rate to 15%. The Treasury still

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thinks the UK would In reality, lifting the US rate.

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because of extra state taxes. The Prime Minister will say

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she believes in free markets but wants businesses to act

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responsibly, saying the Brexit vote showed people also want the wealth

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spread more evenly across the UK. Labour has criticised the focus

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on bringing down corporation Jeremy Corbyn will tell business

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leaders today that future growth is being threatened

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by a chaotic and mishandled Brexit. Let's speak to Norman Smith who's

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at the CBI conference Theresa May is setting out her

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industrial strategy. How different will it be from the David Cameron

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and George Osborne there? She sees it as a big moment. If you say

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national industrial strategy to most people they don't think it sounds

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very interesting, but for her it is about the change of direction.

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Conventional Tory wisdom is that you don't intervene, you leave it to the

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markets to decide. Mrs May is saying there will now be a different

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approach and they will put money into helping high-tech developing

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companies, and they will try and help them go from the good idea

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stage to the big business stage. There will be more work on trying to

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ensure tax breaks for RND, and that is about trying to come up with some

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kind of forward plan for the British economy. -- R The issues are

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these. We have been here so many times before. So many politicians

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have talked about an industrial strategy, going all the way back to

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Harold Wilson in the 1960s talking about the white heat of technology.

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The other thing that strikes me about it, we know Mrs May wants to

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help those who are unattractively referred to as the jams, just about

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managing. And the difficulty with high-tech specialised companies,

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they don't employ lots of people, they don't Barolo skilled people, by

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and large they only employ very highly paid, very highly skilled

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often migrant Labour. There it is not clear how this will help those

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they want to help. Businesses would like clarity when it comes to Brexit

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and they will not get that for a while. No. There is an almighty

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elephant sitting on the stage called Mr Brexit. Business people want to

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know what will happen because uncertainty is the kiss of death for

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business and they like to know where things are going. They will not get

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any clear indication from Mrs May today because that has been her

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default position. She will not disclose any details because she

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doesn't want to reveal her negotiating position. Already

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business leaders are saying, come on. We have got to know. Will we

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have tariff free access to the single market? Can we recruit from

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outside Britain the kind of people we want? We need a plan. It will be

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interesting to see what sort of response she gets from bosses here.

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Thank you. And we'll bring you Theresa May's

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speech live later in the programme. We're expecting her to

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start at about 9.45. Joanna Gosling is in the BBC

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newsroom with a summary There's been a surprise result

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in one of the battles to decide who'll be the next

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President of France. The former President Nicolas Sarkozy

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was unexpectedly eliminated in the first round of voting

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to select a candidate for The former Prime Minister,

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Francois Fillon, topped the poll. As a former President, you can jump

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to the top of the queue when it comes to the voting. Not when it

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comes to the counting though. The first nationwide ballot next year's

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presidential race has ruled that Nicolas Sarkozy is out. Within hours

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of polls closing, he broke the news to his supporters. I wasn't able to

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convince a majority of voters. I respect and understand their will to

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choose other political leaders than me. But I want to congratulate

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Francois Fillon and Alain Juppe who qualify for the second round. They

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are two people of great quality who honour the French right wing. The

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way this primary has been organised means it is open to tactical voting.

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Supporters of the left or the far right can come here and vote for the

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candidate they would like to see run against Marine Le Pen next year. The

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surprise winner in this first test of voter mood was Francois Fillon.

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Once Mr Sarkozy's Prime Minister, now his nemesis. His nearest rival,

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the moderate centrist Alain Juppe, once tipped as the favourite, now

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facing an uphill battle for his party's nomination. The first round

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result was a surprise, he said. France has now delivered the first

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of its own election surprises. How many more will follow? Lucy

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Williamson, BBC News, Paris. There are calls for parents

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who deliberately turn a child against their other parent

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during divorce or separation proceedings to face a fine

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or even imprisonment. Judges say they often see

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what it known as parental alienation but have no power

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to punish those involved. Victoria will have more

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on that just after 09:15. The Home Office is disregarding

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and mistreating medical evidence of torture in UK asylum claims,

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according to a new report by the Asylum seekers in the UK who claim

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they are torture victims can have medical assessments

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to verify their claims. But the charity has told this

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programme officials of the these assessments and judges are

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correcting poor judgment at considerable cost to taxpayers.

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The Home Office said an exceptionally small sample

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was used in the report and all evidence is considered.

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Britain's defences are at risk because the number of warships

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available to the Royal Navy is woefully low,

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that's according to MPs on the House of Commons Defence Select Committee.

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They say the UK could lack the maritime strength to deal

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with potential threats and warn that the size of the fleet

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could shrink even further unless there is a clear timetable

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The government insists it is spending billions on

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One of the professional dancers from Strictly Come Dancing has been

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assaulted in the street after taking part in the show's

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Gorka Marquez, who was partnered with EastEnders actress

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Tameka Empson, is reported to have been attacked by a group of young

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He is due to have dental surgery after two of his teeth were knocked

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out, but the BBC says he will appear in this week's programme.

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President Obama says he won't publicly criticise

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the President-elect Donald Trump after he leaves office

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but will speak out if he believes American values are threatened.

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By convention, former presidents avoid commenting

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President Obama said he reserved the right to speak out

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on certain issues as a private citizen.

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And there was controversy at the American Music Awards

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in Los Angeles last night, after performers mocked

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Co-host Gigi Hadid was heavily criticised on social

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media for impersonating Mr Trump's wife Melania,

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while the band Green Day turned their song Bang Bang

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into an anti-Trump anthem at the ceremony broadcast

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Lead singer Billy Joe Armstrong repeatedly chanted "No Trump!

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That's a summary of the latest BBC News.

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Thank you. We are already getting messages about parental alienation.

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This tweet says it is often due to a narcissistic personality disorder.

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Mike says he has lost years with his daughter and we shouldn't forget the

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dads. And this one says too many people will restrict visiting rights

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in the mistaken belief that child will love them more but they destroy

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their child's ability to forge close relationships in the future and they

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often resent the child that chose to go it alone. It is crucial the

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parents at the best interests of the child and not themselves. Tim

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reveals he hasn't seen his kids since 2012 and the reason why

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doesn't exist as far as the is concerned. Great to see this topic

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being covered today. And Brenda said she hasn't seen her oldest child in

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six years and are two children have never met each other because of

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this. Parental alienation should be criminalised. We will discuss that

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aspect of it later. Please get in touch with your own experiences and

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they will be part of our conversation today. If you are

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texting, you will be charged at the standard network rate. Now we can

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get the sport with Katherine Downes. What an amazing year Andy Murray has

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had. Incredible! He has always said that being world number one has been

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a massive room for him and he got there a couple of weeks ago in Paris

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but ending the year as world number one has been a massive driver for

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him all season long. He spent over three hours more on court than Novak

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Djokovic before the match yesterday and there were concerns that he

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would be tired because of that but in the end it showed that the big

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match sharpness came through for Andy Murray, with Djokovic making 30

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unforced errors, uncharacteristically for him. Murray

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came out 6-3, 6-4. The fact he had clinched the top spot against Novak

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Djokovic is significant for Andy Murray. He has often lacked belief

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against Djokovic in the past because he has often come out on top against

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Andy Murray but this means that Andy Murray will start 2017 on the front

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foot when it comes to their rivalry. This is what he had to say after the

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match yesterday. I just did not expect to do it, that's for sure. If

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Novak had won one or two more matches in that period, I still

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wouldn't have done it. It has taken a lot of work this year to do it. I

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certainly was very far away in a middle part of the year before

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Wimbledon. In a second half of the year, after the French Open, it has

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been the best of my career and I am really happy I managed to do it. So

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brilliant for him but actually there are two number ones in the Murray

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family. We have never had a British singles player on top of the world

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rankings before so of course we have never had two British players at the

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top of the world rankings before. Jamie Murray and his partner Bruno

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Suarez clinched the top spot earlier on in the week. They couldn't add

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the World Tour Finals to their collection but they have finished

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the year as world number one. They have had a great season together

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winning three titles, winning the Australia Open and the US Open. Two

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Murray brothers at the top of the rankings. What a Christmas in their

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house! And the reaction around the world on social media quotes back

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row -- on social media? The best one is from their mother. Andy and Jamie

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Murray, the pride of Scotland. The way they were. Lots of photographs

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of them when they were younger. At Roger Federer:

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I would not be surprised if we had Sir Andy Murray in the not too

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distant future. Thank you. And we will be speaking to one of his

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former coaches later on in the programme.

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Parental alienation is when one parent deliberately turns a child

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against the other parent during a divorce or separation.

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It affects both mothers and fathers equally and can devastate families,

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causing long-term psychological damage to children.

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In some countries, governments have put in place legislation

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to prevent such behaviour, with parents facing fines

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But in the UK, judges say there are no punishments.

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Our reporter Mike Cowan has been to meet some of those affected.

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The names and voices of people we've spoken to have been changed

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How can he look after a young child if he's done this?

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Five minutes before the end he turned to me and said,

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I don't know them now. It's seven years, I don't know them.

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I don't know what their ambitions, their goals, their dreams are.

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So parental alienation is a set of behaviours that a parent,

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one parent might employ to alienate a child against the other parent.

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Alienation in its pure form is the unjustified rejection

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by a child of a parent who they once loved deeply.

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Parental alienation takes place where you have a situation of high

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conflict, and the relationship is such that one parent

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really undermines the role that the other parent has

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5% of children involved in divorce or separation will experience some

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That equates to 5,000 children annually, but it's

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Leading family experts claim it's closer to 20,000.

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In all the stories you're about to see, we couldn't

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approach the other parent for reasons of anonymity.

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Her marriage broke down before her youngest child's second birthday.

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What ensued was a six-year legal battle that would

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leave her financially and emotionally depleted.

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At what point did you suspect that your children were

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It probably wasn't for at least a year or so that I realised

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that these behaviours, these attitudes, the need to take

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control, that he'd started making allegations against me that I'd

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Alison's relationship with her children quickly broke

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In a public judgment on your case, the judge said, and I'm paraphrasing

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partly here, "I find that the father's attitude

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towards the mother, his refusal to let the boys be seen,

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his complete subjugation to their views and their reaction

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and attitude to their mother, in which he is complicit,

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When a judge says those things, how does the father retain custody?

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The judge, by making that statement, it should have rung

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There was something seriously remiss with my ex-husband's behaviour.

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His inability to promote a relationship with me for the boys.

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What he failed to recognise is the damage had been

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The judge went on to say that the children were displaying

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"a violent and dangerous antipathy to the mother," to you.

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The father, "far from helping them, has, by his own views,

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what he has shown and told them and what he has

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permitted them to say, fostered that feeling.

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Unfortunately, this is the toothless nature of the family courts.

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I have a shared residency order which gives me legal equal

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parental responsibility, but it's about enforcing that.

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Unfortunately, the only way to have enforced that is for the children

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to be either engaged in some sort of restorative practice

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and mechanism to ensure that they came back to stay with me,

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but they would need support to do so because their views about me

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The judge, whilst critical of the father, did note statements

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where the father said there was no evidence he had promoted a negative

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The judge also noted the father had provided a number of witnesses

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who attested the boys were happy in his care.

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I used to walk into the playground and feel like a leper.

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What mother doesn't have her children?

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It's been seven years since you last spoke to your children.

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Yes, at my youngest son's final school play in primary school.

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I haven't seen them, I haven't spoken to them since.

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How difficult is it to write to them and not hear back?

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The internal emotional trauma to sit down every month

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And try and think of things to write to my children, because,

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sadly and heartbreakingly, I don't know them now.

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It's seven years, I don't know them, I don't know what their interests

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are, I don't know who their friends are, I don't know

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what their ambitions, their goals, their dreams are.

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I don't know if my boys will find their way back to me.

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How difficult is it for you to say, as a mother, you don't

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To this day, I kiss a photo of my boys on my computer screen

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I just want them to always be happy, be healthy, and have

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And I will always be there, whenever, however.

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But what effect will this have on the child?

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Dr Fiona Pienaar is director of clinical services

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at the children's mental health charity Place2Be.

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So if we don't catch the issue early on and support children

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when the parental alienation starts, then the concern is that they carry

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this through into adolescence, when they're starting to form

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closer relationships and more intimate relationships.

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And the concern, really, is around that if your primary

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caregivers have been distrustful and alienated each other, then

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It can be really difficult to have a sense of trust

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for somebody that you're forming a relationship with,

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so you can have your, we say have your radar hot all the time,

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constantly looking for any changes in behaviours, and really unable

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And on into young adulthood it can have a generational impact,

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because if that's been your modelling of how you form

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an intimate relationship, then the chances are that you might

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have challenges with an intimate relationship yourself,

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and that may then be modelled down to your children.

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Cafcass is the Government organisation that represents

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Chris was forced to have dealings with them for over a decade.

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Six months after his son was born, he returned home to find his

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It's not meant to be, but the Cafcass process is actually

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a weapon for any vindictive parent, for them to wield.

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How would you interpret it when the mother of your son turns

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to you and says, "Why do you want overnight contact with a small boy?"

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She said to me, "If you are awarded overnight contact,

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We went on for about the next, until he was five years old,

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but the contact was continually frustrated.

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I think it was in August when I got to see my son for one hour,

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supervised, during which time he'd enjoyed playing a computer

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game with me in front of a Cafcass officer.

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But five minutes before the end he turned to me and said,

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So that, for you, was confirmation that you are now being

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But what did Cafcass do about it?

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I wrote to him, that's where your letters come in,

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I wrote him 80-odd letters, just one way.

:24:48.:24:49.

When his son was nine, Chris reapplied for

:24:50.:24:53.

Perhaps selfishly I thought to myself, you know what,

:24:54.:24:58.

when he turns 21, 31, whatever age he is, when he comes

:24:59.:25:02.

knocking on my door saying, "Dad, why didn't you do this," I can

:25:03.:25:05.

give him the papers and say, "Look, I did everything I possibly could."

:25:06.:25:10.

By the time Chris' son was 12, the pair had been reunited and were

:25:11.:25:13.

When you look back at that 11-year battle to have access

:25:14.:25:20.

and contact with your child, what is your residing thought?

:25:21.:25:28.

Sadness, that so much has been lost, that he could have had

:25:29.:25:31.

For parents experiencing separation or divorce,

:25:32.:25:43.

there are clear indicators that a child may be being alienated.

:25:44.:25:45.

Karen Woodall from the Family Separation Clinic is one

:25:46.:25:47.

When I hear people say to me, "I don't know what's wrong with him,

:25:48.:25:55.

he comes to my house, doesn't say a word for two hours,

:25:56.:26:00.

and then all of a sudden it's like he snaps out of it, something

:26:01.:26:03.

When I hear that, I ask them to tell me about the two hours prior

:26:04.:26:10.

to the child going back to the other parent, and what I'm hearing is,

:26:11.:26:13.

"Oh, he becomes really grumpy, he becomes very withdrawn,

:26:14.:26:15.

he's very unhappy, sometimes he's crying, he doesn't want to go back

:26:16.:26:18.

What I'm hearing when I'm hearing that are the behaviours

:26:19.:26:25.

of children in transition, children who are vulnerable

:26:26.:26:27.

Around the world there is growing recognition of parental alienation.

:26:28.:26:37.

In the US, the courts can intervene at the start of a separation,

:26:38.:26:41.

ordering the parents attend mediation in high-conflict cases.

:26:42.:26:46.

In Mexico, alienating a parent carries a 15-year jail term.

:26:47.:26:49.

While in Italy, alienation carries a fine.

:26:50.:26:53.

In October, a mother was fined 30,000 euros

:26:54.:26:55.

We have no legislation at all for parental alienation,

:26:56.:27:06.

but judges are starting to recognise it, and it's led to some

:27:07.:27:09.

children being removed from the alienating parent.

:27:10.:27:10.

The family courts, though, are not given any official

:27:11.:27:13.

guidance on alienation from the Ministry of Justice.

:27:14.:27:17.

But Cafcass, the organisation that represent children, do provide

:27:18.:27:21.

Parents are increasingly having to navigate the complex

:27:22.:27:29.

Sandra Davis is the head of family law at Mishcon de Reya.

:27:30.:27:37.

The family court system is currently creaking with the withdrawal

:27:38.:27:43.

of Legal Aid and litigants acting in person, so whilst it's obviously

:27:44.:27:46.

incumbent on judges to try and move these cases through as quickly

:27:47.:27:49.

as possible and to arrive at consistent judging,

:27:50.:27:52.

So I think it would be of real assistance to have mandatory

:27:53.:27:59.

mediation, mandatory therapeutic involvement at an early stage

:28:00.:28:02.

of the process so that, actually, positions don't become too

:28:03.:28:07.

ingrained and the child, children, do have a chance

:28:08.:28:10.

of maintaining a relationship before it sours completely.

:28:11.:28:21.

It's the impact on the child that can be the most damaging.

:28:22.:28:23.

14-year-old Emma was seven when her parents divorced.

:28:24.:28:26.

Over the next two years, she was severely alienated

:28:27.:28:30.

My brother went away from home to my dad's,

:28:31.:28:37.

because my dad was saying he could give him everything

:28:38.:28:40.

he wanted and he wouldn't get in trouble for anything.

:28:41.:28:46.

And when he went away, me, my brother and my sister had

:28:47.:28:49.

never been separated, so it was, if my brother's going,

:28:50.:28:52.

I want to go, because we're siblings and siblings stick together.

:28:53.:28:56.

For a time, the kids had contact with their mum,

:28:57.:29:03.

He'd ring up and say, "Oh, the kids are busy,

:29:04.:29:10.

we're going to do something, they can't see their mum today."

:29:11.:29:14.

My mum would be already halfway there and she'd get the phone call

:29:15.:29:18.

to say that we're busy and we can't see her.

:29:19.:29:22.

Did you know that at the time?

:29:23.:29:24.

At the time all we knew was that my mum had let us down,

:29:25.:29:30.

that she'd been out drinking the night before and that she had

:29:31.:29:33.

a hangover, so she couldn't be bothered to come.

:29:34.:29:36.

When your dad would say things to you, like,

:29:37.:29:45.

"Oh your mum's got a hangover, she's not coming today,"

:29:46.:29:48.

I thought that my mum was never like that,

:29:49.:29:54.

my mum would never drink loads, she's not that type of person.

:29:55.:29:57.

But if that's what my dad's saying, I believe him, that she's a liar,

:29:58.:30:01.

that everything that's happened is her fault, that she doesn't love

:30:02.:30:05.

us and she's being a bully towards him and us, and that's why

:30:06.:30:11.

One day, in 2013, Emma got an unexpected message from her mum.

:30:12.:30:26.

She's saying that she loves me, that she's been made out to be this

:30:27.:30:29.

She sent me this picture of me, my brother and my sister

:30:30.:30:33.

It just made me think, why would my mum send me

:30:34.:30:42.

You didn't know at the time that you

:30:43.:30:45.

With me only being nine, until the age of 12 I didn't

:30:46.:30:50.

I was threatened with all sorts by my father.

:30:51.:30:56.

I turned around and told him, "I want to see my mum," and he said,

:30:57.:31:00.

"No, if you carry on the way you're behaving you'll be put into a foster

:31:01.:31:04.

home, a care home, because we won't be able to look after you any more."

:31:05.:31:13.

Over the next few months, Emma ran away from her father's home

:31:14.:31:16.

Eventually, she was reunited with her mum for good.

:31:17.:31:23.

As soon as I went in, the police were phoned to report

:31:24.:31:27.

that I'm not missing, and then I was put on the phone

:31:28.:31:30.

to my mum and that's when I first heard my mum speak to me

:31:31.:31:33.

How can he look after a young child if he's done this?

:31:34.:31:43.

And I tell other children to follow what your mind says,

:31:44.:31:56.

Later we'll be exploring the growing calls for legal recognition

:31:57.:32:04.

I am really keen to hear your experiences this morning.

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And you can read more about our exclusive story on the BBC

:32:11.:32:15.

Thank you to Sarah who had email. I was alienated. I overheard my

:32:16.:32:36.

husband tell my two youngest that I was leaving and he didn't know why.

:32:37.:32:41.

I heard things coming from I2-macro youngest that could only have come

:32:42.:32:44.

from their father and I tried not to retaliate. It is brainwashing. It

:32:45.:32:48.

may be too late for me but others could be saved. We have changed the

:32:49.:32:53.

names to protect people's identity just in case. This text from a dud.

:32:54.:32:57.

I am suffering from this with my ex and my son at the moment. -- dad. I

:32:58.:33:05.

am going to court again this week but I am not hopeful. My son has

:33:06.:33:12.

been goaded into asking awkward questions about my parenting. He

:33:13.:33:19.

will be five in January. And this one. My children and I suffered at

:33:20.:33:23.

the hands of an angry and bitter man for 20 years. He tried his best to

:33:24.:33:26.

alienate me from my children and for some years he had some success. I

:33:27.:33:31.

promised myself that regardless of what he did, I would never run him

:33:32.:33:36.

down to them. You have got to take the long view. I children are grown

:33:37.:33:40.

up and can see him for themselves. They have suffered greatly and so

:33:41.:33:44.

have I. And this father has had no contact with a 13-year-old pop three

:33:45.:33:48.

years despite going to court several times. It seems mothers can do what

:33:49.:33:55.

they want without question, which assists parental alienation. We will

:33:56.:34:04.

talk about this later with the head of Cascais, the organisation that

:34:05.:34:13.

represents children in courts. -- CAFCASS.

:34:14.:34:16.

Still to come, should cannabis be legalised?

:34:17.:34:17.

It's a question that's asked regularly and now a group of MPs has

:34:18.:34:21.

described the UK's drugs policy as an embarrassment.

:34:22.:34:23.

We'll be speaking to people on both sides of the debate.

:34:24.:34:26.

And Theresa May will be giving a speech to the Confederation

:34:27.:34:28.

Here's Joanna in the BBC Newsroom with a summary of today's news.

:34:29.:34:36.

Theresa May will pledge to keep Britain's corporation tax the lowest

:34:37.:34:38.

In her first speech to business leaders at the CBI,

:34:39.:34:42.

the Prime Minister will also announce ?2 billion

:34:43.:34:44.

of new investment every year in science and technology.

:34:45.:34:47.

She's expected to say the aim is to put post-Brexit Britain

:34:48.:34:50.

at the cutting edge, by backing fields such

:34:51.:34:52.

There are calls for parents who deliberately turn a child

:34:53.:35:00.

against their other parent during divorce or separation

:35:01.:35:02.

proceedings to face a fine or even imprisonment.

:35:03.:35:04.

Judges say they often see what is known as parental

:35:05.:35:07.

alienation but have no power to punish those involved.

:35:08.:35:18.

Victoria will have more on that later.

:35:19.:35:22.

The Home Office is disregarding and mistreating medical evidence

:35:23.:35:24.

of torture in UK asylum claims, according to a new report by the

:35:25.:35:27.

Asylum seekers in the UK who claim they are torture victims can

:35:28.:35:35.

have medical assessments to verify their claims.

:35:36.:35:36.

But the charity has told this programme officials

:35:37.:35:38.

sometimes overlook these assessments and judges

:35:39.:35:40.

are correcting poor judgment at considerable cost to taxpayers.

:35:41.:35:42.

The Home Office said an exceptionally small sample

:35:43.:35:44.

was used in the charity's report and insists that caseworkers do

:35:45.:35:46.

Britain's defences are at risk because the number of warships

:35:47.:35:51.

available to the Royal Navy is woefully low,

:35:52.:35:54.

according to MPs on the House of Commons Defence Select Committee.

:35:55.:35:57.

They say the UK could lack the maritime strength to deal

:35:58.:35:59.

with potential threats and warn that the size of the fleet

:36:00.:36:02.

could shrink even further unless there is a clear timetable

:36:03.:36:04.

The government insists it is spending billions on

:36:05.:36:07.

Facebook says it will create an extra 500 jobs when it

:36:08.:36:16.

opens its new London headquarters next year.

:36:17.:36:18.

The additional posts will include engineers and sales staff.

:36:19.:36:22.

The company says that the UK remains one of the best places in the world

:36:23.:36:25.

President Obama says he won't publicly criticise

:36:26.:36:30.

the President-elect Donald Trump after he leaves office

:36:31.:36:38.

but would speak out if he believes American values are threatened.

:36:39.:36:41.

By convention, former presidents avoid commenting

:36:42.:36:42.

President Obama said he reserved the right to speak out

:36:43.:36:46.

on certain issues as a private citizen.

:36:47.:36:54.

And there was controversy at the American Music Awards

:36:55.:36:56.

in Los Angeles last night, after performers mocked

:36:57.:36:58.

Co-host Gigi Hadid was heavily criticised on social

:36:59.:37:01.

media for impersonating Mr Trump's wife Melania,

:37:02.:37:03.

while the band Green Day turned their song Bang Bang

:37:04.:37:05.

into an anti-Trump anthem at the ceremony broadcast

:37:06.:37:07.

Lead singer Billy Joe Armstrong repeatedly chanted "No Trump!

:37:08.:37:13.

That's a summary of the latest BBC News and there's more at 10am.

:37:14.:37:22.

So many messages for you about parental alienation. Kirsty says

:37:23.:37:28.

thank you for covering this subject. I will have chance to read more of

:37:29.:37:32.

those messages in the next hour of the programme. Now the sports

:37:33.:37:35.

headlines. Thank you. Andy Murray will end the year as world number

:37:36.:37:40.

one after beating Novak Djokovic at the ATP world Tour Finals yesterday

:37:41.:37:44.

to cement his position. His big brother Jamie is also world number

:37:45.:37:48.

one with his doubles partner Bruno Suarez. A huge win for India in the

:37:49.:37:51.

second test, bowling England out for 158 to win by 246 runs.

:37:52.:38:06.

Another English batting collapse means they go into the third test on

:38:07.:38:09.

Saturday one down in the five Test series after drawing the first.

:38:10.:38:11.

Gareth Southgate will meet with FA officials today at St George's Park

:38:12.:38:13.

for his interview to become the full-time England manager. He is

:38:14.:38:15.

undefeated after four games in charge. And Britain's Charley Hull

:38:16.:38:25.

has won her first Britons al GPA tour event. Thank you.

:38:26.:38:31.

Nine out of ten people who have had their tax credits stopped

:38:32.:38:34.

by the American company Concentrix have had them reinstated.

:38:35.:38:36.

This programme first broke the story several months ago

:38:37.:38:38.

that the private company used by the government to assess claims

:38:39.:38:41.

had wrongly cut off the payments for hundreds of people.

:38:42.:38:43.

Last week we spoke to Kat Smart Ekpenyong,

:38:44.:38:45.

whose tax credits were stopped in August.

:38:46.:38:47.

She was appealing against the decision and told us

:38:48.:38:49.

that without that money, she couldn't afford to get

:38:50.:38:51.

to hospital to attend appointments for her breast cancer.

:38:52.:38:53.

It's not fair that I should have to decide whether to

:38:54.:39:02.

feed my child or to go to a hospital appointment.

:39:03.:39:04.

They shouldn't have, you know, that kind of power

:39:05.:39:08.

I'm going through cancer and I want to work.

:39:09.:39:12.

So why should I be penalised for wanting to work?

:39:13.:39:19.

Well, since then, Kat has been told by HMRC that the original decision

:39:20.:39:22.

Well, I had a telephone call from the tax credits office to advise me

:39:23.:39:34.

that my self-employment had been reinstated. And I am due back

:39:35.:39:41.

payment of quite a substantial amount of money for everything that

:39:42.:39:45.

they have owed me, and also they have kind of looked into further it

:39:46.:39:51.

and an overpayment that I have been paying back since 2014 which I have

:39:52.:39:55.

questioned many times, they now realise that was there so they are

:39:56.:39:59.

paying me that back as well. How do you feel about that? Elated! When

:40:00.:40:07.

you got the call, what were you thinking? I cried, I shook, I was

:40:08.:40:15.

pinching myself. I came off the phone and I thought, did that just

:40:16.:40:20.

happened? Was that real? I had to ask my friend who was with me

:40:21.:40:24.

whether I just got a phone call. She said, yes, it's real. Finally after

:40:25.:40:32.

15 weeks off, my gosh, struggling. What does it mean not just

:40:33.:40:36.

financially but emotionally for you and your family? The weight that has

:40:37.:40:43.

been lifted, I am beyond words. I can't actually put it into words and

:40:44.:40:52.

express the feeling of joy, my elation. I will be able to do normal

:40:53.:40:57.

things. Do a normal food shop and buy shoes for my daughter, just

:40:58.:41:00.

normal everyday things. I am not looking at going mad and having a

:41:01.:41:04.

big spend but just normal everyday living. Including being able to

:41:05.:41:10.

afford to go to the hospital for regular post-cancer treatment

:41:11.:41:14.

checkups? Yes, I have my next appointment on the 2nd of December,

:41:15.:41:19.

which I will now definitely be able to make, so I can get started on the

:41:20.:41:23.

treatment that I need for the next five years. We wish you all the

:41:24.:41:24.

best. We can speak now to SNP MP

:41:25.:41:27.

Tasmina Ahmed-Sheikk who's been The fact that nine out of ten people

:41:28.:41:34.

have had their tax credits reinstated is down to a

:41:35.:41:36.

parliamentary question that you put down. I asked a series of written

:41:37.:41:41.

questions last week in relation to what the update was regarding man to

:41:42.:41:46.

retreat reconsideration and there have been tens of thousands of them

:41:47.:41:50.

and it is quite incredible. It speaks of the scandal of Concentrix

:41:51.:41:54.

that nine out of ten were upheld but there is still an issue about the

:41:55.:41:57.

amount of time it is taking for tax credits to be reinstated. The

:41:58.:42:01.

average is 35 days which simply is not good enough. I am calling on

:42:02.:42:05.

Philip Hammond, the Chancellor, to make sure there is compensation

:42:06.:42:08.

available for all the victims of this Concentrix scandal when he

:42:09.:42:11.

delivers the Autumn Statement on Wednesday.

:42:12.:42:25.

So not just that they get the payments backdated but on top of

:42:26.:42:28.

that compensation? Is that what you mean? Absolutely because there has

:42:29.:42:31.

been a breach of contract. The Concentrix contract was not to be

:42:32.:42:33.

renewed and the situation was so bad that the government had to cancel it

:42:34.:42:36.

with immediate effect. Compensation should be made payable to people.

:42:37.:42:38.

Some are receiving it but some are not. There were some is like ?20 in

:42:39.:42:41.

some cases and some constituents are not getting any money, so there is

:42:42.:42:43.

no consistency. These people are victims of a scandal that the

:42:44.:42:46.

government is responsible for and they should be paid money back. Some

:42:47.:42:50.

of the sums that they are getting in terms of compensation when they have

:42:51.:42:53.

been offered it does not even cover the cost of the phone calls or the

:42:54.:42:57.

postage for sending documents again and again to be reviewed by

:42:58.:43:02.

Concentrix. It is appalling. HMRC says it is perfectly routine and

:43:03.:43:07.

normal to ask tax credit claimants for evidence of their personal

:43:08.:43:10.

circumstances. There is nothing wrong with asking people for

:43:11.:43:13.

evidence, but when you find yourself in a situation when that is examined

:43:14.:43:17.

further that nine out of ten appeals are upheld, there is something going

:43:18.:43:21.

dreadfully wrong in the system, so that has got to be dealt with and

:43:22.:43:25.

development has got to accept it has gone wrong and they have got to

:43:26.:43:28.

accept responsibility and those that have fallen victim of this need to

:43:29.:43:31.

be compensated. Thank you for your time. We asked HMRC and Concentrix

:43:32.:43:38.

for an interview again, as we have been doing consistently since we

:43:39.:43:41.

broke the story and they continue to say no and we will continue to ask.

:43:42.:43:51.

Theresa May is due to speak to the CBI in the next 15 minutes and we

:43:52.:43:55.

will bring that to you live. Before that, there are calls for cannabis

:43:56.:43:59.

to be legalised in the UK because MPs want to end the embarrassment of

:44:00.:44:04.

the UK drugs policy. Which countries have legalised cannabis? It is

:44:05.:44:08.

mostly illegal in the United States but eight individual states have

:44:09.:44:12.

legalised it including Nevada and California, and several others allow

:44:13.:44:16.

it for medicinal purposes. The Netherlands decriminalised it

:44:17.:44:19.

several decades ago and Portugal legalised it in 2001 and Canada is

:44:20.:44:23.

expected to do the same next year and Germany is looking to legalise

:44:24.:44:27.

it for medicinal reasons as well. Some MPs say a change could bring in

:44:28.:44:33.

more than ?1 billion per year in tax revenues for the government.

:44:34.:44:37.

Cannabis is currently class B. The maximum sentence for possession is

:44:38.:44:40.

five years in jail or an unlimited fine. Norman Lamb is the former Lib

:44:41.:44:45.

Dem health minister who backs legalising the drug. And Dean in Los

:44:46.:44:51.

Angeles has sold medicinal marijuana for 14 years but since her home

:44:52.:44:57.

state of California legalised it earlier this month, she can now

:44:58.:45:01.

legally sell recreational cannabis to one of her top clients, Snoop

:45:02.:45:06.

Dogg. In the studio is Penny who doesn't want to give her full name.

:45:07.:45:10.

The sun became psychotic and at times suicidal from marijuana

:45:11.:45:14.

addiction and stump which he started to use at 14 and she strongly

:45:15.:45:25.

opposes legalisation. -- her son. Tell us what your vision of Britain

:45:26.:45:28.

with legalised cannabis would look like? We got an expert panel

:45:29.:45:35.

together including educational and a number of scientists to advise us

:45:36.:45:39.

what they thought was the best approach.

:45:40.:45:45.

The problem is that there are people at the moment put at risk by buying

:45:46.:45:53.

from criminals, people who have no interest at all in your welfare, you

:45:54.:45:57.

have no idea of the strength of what you're buying. So from a public

:45:58.:46:02.

health prospective it makes sense to regulate sales, to regulate the

:46:03.:46:06.

potency of the drug and at the moment, the war on drugs it seems to

:46:07.:46:12.

me has been a catastrophic failure. We are giving billions every year to

:46:13.:46:17.

organised crime. That makes no sense and we are criminalising large

:46:18.:46:20.

numbers of people including people who use cannabis for medical

:46:21.:46:24.

purposes. It is a ridiculous approach. And we should follow the

:46:25.:46:29.

evidence and follow an increasing number of countries and States in

:46:30.:46:35.

America who are taking a more rational approach that protects

:46:36.:46:38.

people better. Do you smoke it? No, I don't. Do you know people who do?

:46:39.:46:44.

Here I am advocating change and I am a politician who hasn't used

:46:45.:46:48.

cannabis or any other illegal drugs and... But do you know people who

:46:49.:46:54.

do? Of course I do. Of course, I do. As a dad I'm hostile to drugs. I

:46:55.:46:59.

worry about the impact on your judgements, the risk of addiction

:47:00.:47:03.

and so forth, but the most dangerous drug of all in terms of harm is

:47:04.:47:09.

alcohol. And you know there is a great hip possibling crossy here

:47:10.:47:12.

because you have ministers in this Government who will pontificate

:47:13.:47:16.

about the horrors of currently illegal drugs who use alcohol

:47:17.:47:21.

regularly as I do, to a moderate degree I hasten to add, but they are

:47:22.:47:26.

criminalising other people for using a drug of choice when they are

:47:27.:47:30.

themselves using a drug that is very dangerous.

:47:31.:47:33.

We will come back to this discussion because Theresa May is about give

:47:34.:47:39.

her speech to the Confederation of British Industry. Here is some of

:47:40.:47:46.

what she is saying. The entrepreneurs and the innovators who

:47:47.:47:50.

employ millions of people up and down this country, the basis for our

:47:51.:47:55.

prosperity. The Conservative Party and the Government I lead will

:47:56.:48:02.

always believe in these things. But I'm here today, not just to reaffirm

:48:03.:48:08.

these core beliefs, but to say that if this is what we value, we need to

:48:09.:48:16.

be prepared to adapt and change. For if we support free markets, value

:48:17.:48:22.

capitalism and back business, and we do, we must do everything we can to

:48:23.:48:27.

keep faith with them. And with not enough people feeling that they

:48:28.:48:31.

share in the wealth created by capitalism and with the recent

:48:32.:48:37.

behaviour of a small minority of businesses and business leaders

:48:38.:48:40.

undermining the reputation of the corporate world as a whole, the way

:48:41.:48:45.

to keep that faith is to embrace reform. To do things differently, to

:48:46.:48:52.

recognise that some people, particularly those on modest to low

:48:53.:48:55.

incomes, people worried about the future of the their children and

:48:56.:48:59.

their grandchildren, see these forces working well for a privileged

:49:00.:49:04.

few, but not always for them. So today I want to ask you to join me

:49:05.:49:10.

in shaping this new approach and seizing this opportunity. I want to

:49:11.:49:15.

ask you to work with me, to show that the forces of capitalism,

:49:16.:49:20.

globalisation and free trade offer the best hope for the problems

:49:21.:49:24.

facing so many people in our country. I want you to help me show

:49:25.:49:31.

those who feel let down. Left behind, or marginalised that we can

:49:32.:49:38.

respond, we can change. And that together, we can meet this great

:49:39.:49:42.

national moment with a great national effort to seize the

:49:43.:49:46.

opportunities ahead, and build a stronger, fairer Britain, a country

:49:47.:49:53.

that works for everyone. For this is a true national moment. The decision

:49:54.:49:59.

of the British people on 23rd June gives us a once in a generation

:50:00.:50:05.

chance to shape a new future for our nation, the chance to build a

:50:06.:50:10.

stronger, fairer country. That's the kind of change people voted for. Not

:50:11.:50:15.

just to leave the European Union, but to change the way our country

:50:16.:50:19.

works and the people for whom it works forever. And I'm determined

:50:20.:50:24.

that we will deliver the change they need. So we will do things

:50:25.:50:30.

differently. Not carrying on with business as usual, but opening our

:50:31.:50:34.

minds to new ways of thinking. Those of us in Government, and those in

:50:35.:50:39.

business too. For Government, it means not just stepping back and

:50:40.:50:43.

leaving you to get on with the job, but stepping up to a new active role

:50:44.:50:49.

that backs British business and ensures more people in all corners

:50:50.:50:52.

of the country share in the benefits of your success. For business, it

:50:53.:50:56.

means doing more to spread those benefits around the country. Playing

:50:57.:51:00.

by the same rules as everyone else when it comes to tax and behaviour

:51:01.:51:03.

and investing in Britain for the long-term. All things I know that

:51:04.:51:09.

the vast majority of businesses do already. Not just by creating jobs,

:51:10.:51:15.

by supporting smaller businesses, training and developing your people,

:51:16.:51:19.

but also by working to give something back to communities and

:51:20.:51:24.

supporting the next generation. I have no doubt at all about the vital

:51:25.:51:29.

role business plays, not just in the economic life of our nation, but in

:51:30.:51:36.

our society too. But as Prime Minister, I want to support you to

:51:37.:51:42.

do even more. That is why when the Chancellor delivers the Government's

:51:43.:51:46.

Autumn Statement on Wednesday he will layout an agenda that is

:51:47.:51:52.

ambitious for Britain. He will commit to providing a strong and

:51:53.:51:56.

stable foundation for our economy, continuing the task of bringing the

:51:57.:52:00.

deficit down and getting our debt falling so we can live within our

:52:01.:52:04.

means once again. He will build on the actions that are independent

:52:05.:52:07.

Bank of England has already taken to support our economy. And he will do

:52:08.:52:12.

more to boost Britain's long-term economic success. Setting out how we

:52:13.:52:17.

will take the big decisions we need to invest in our nation's

:52:18.:52:21.

infrastructure so that we can get the country and business moving. And

:52:22.:52:25.

he will show how we will do everything possible to make the UK

:52:26.:52:31.

outside the EU the most attractive place for business to grow and

:52:32.:52:37.

invest. I know that leaving the European Union creates uncertainty

:52:38.:52:42.

for business. I know that some are unsure about the road ahead or what

:52:43.:52:45.

your future operating environment will look like and there certainly

:52:46.:52:49.

will be challenges. A negotiation like the one on which we're about to

:52:50.:52:54.

embark cannot be done quickly or without give-and-take on both sides.

:52:55.:52:59.

But there are opportunities too. Opportunities to get out into the

:53:00.:53:04.

world and do new business with old allies and new partners. To use the

:53:05.:53:09.

freedoms that come from negotiating with partners directly, to be

:53:10.:53:13.

flexible, to set our own rules and forge new and dynamic trading

:53:14.:53:17.

agreements that work for the whole UK. Opportunities to become the true

:53:18.:53:24.

global champion of free trade. And opportunities to demonstrate how a

:53:25.:53:29.

free, flexible, ambitious country like Britain can trade freely with

:53:30.:53:32.

others according to what's in their own best interests and those of

:53:33.:53:37.

their people. That is our aim and our ambition. And I am ambitious for

:53:38.:53:43.

Britain. I believe that if we approach the difficult negotiations

:53:44.:53:47.

to come in the right way, with the right spirit, we can strike a deal

:53:48.:53:51.

that's right for Britain, and right for the rest of Europe too. And the

:53:52.:53:56.

right approach is not to rush ahead without doing the groundwork, but to

:53:57.:54:00.

take the time to get our negotiating position clear before we proceed, it

:54:01.:54:05.

is not to seek to replicate the deal that any other country has, but to

:54:06.:54:09.

craft a new arrangement that is right for us and right for Europe.

:54:10.:54:14.

Recognising that a strong EU is good for Britain. It is not to provide a

:54:15.:54:20.

running commentary on every twist and turn, but to acknowledge that

:54:21.:54:24.

businesses and others need some clarity, so where I can set out our

:54:25.:54:29.

plans without prejudicing the negotiation to come, I will. That's

:54:30.:54:34.

why I have been able to set out the timetable for triggering Article 50

:54:35.:54:38.

before the end of March next year. Why I want an early agreement on the

:54:39.:54:43.

status of UK nationals in Europe and EU nationals here so that you and

:54:44.:54:47.

they can plan with certainty. And why we have been engaging heavily

:54:48.:54:51.

with businesses over the past few months to understand your priorities

:54:52.:54:55.

and concerns and why we will continue to do so. But while the

:54:56.:55:01.

negotiation to come will be critical, we must not lose sight of

:55:02.:55:06.

the wider message people send on 23rd June. And so we must use this

:55:07.:55:11.

opportunity to build a more prosperous and more equal country

:55:12.:55:15.

where prosperity is shared and there is genuine opportunity for all.

:55:16.:55:20.

We've already received some massive votes of confidence in Britain's

:55:21.:55:24.

long-term future from some of the world's most innovative companies.

:55:25.:55:29.

Nissan's decision to build two next generation models at its plant in

:55:30.:55:34.

the north-east, securing 7,000 jobs. A record ?24 billion investment from

:55:35.:55:41.

Softbank in Britain's future, a ?500 million expansion and 3,000 jobs at

:55:42.:55:47.

Jaguar Land Rover, a ?200 million investment from Honda, ?275 million

:55:48.:55:54.

from GlaxoSmithKline, investment in a few headquarters from Apple, ?1

:55:55.:55:58.

billion and 3,000 new jobs from Google and this morning Facebook

:55:59.:56:01.

have announced a 50% increase in their workforce in the UK by the end

:56:02.:56:07.

of 2017. Yet there is more that Government can do, not just to

:56:08.:56:11.

encourage businesses to invest in Britain, but to ensure those

:56:12.:56:14.

investments benefit people in every corner of the country. That's why

:56:15.:56:19.

one of my first actions as Prime Minister was to establish a new

:56:20.:56:23.

department with specific responsibility for develop a modern

:56:24.:56:29.

industrial strategy. That strategy that will back Britain's strengths

:56:30.:56:32.

and tackle our underlying weaknesses. Our strengths are clear

:56:33.:56:38.

- we're an open, competitive trading economy, we compete with the best in

:56:39.:56:44.

ought owe, aerospace and advanced engineering, we are breaking new

:56:45.:56:48.

ground in life sciences and new fields like robotics, artificial

:56:49.:56:52.

intelligence and quantum computing. We're leaders in global professional

:56:53.:56:56.

services from architecture to accountancy, from law to consulting,

:56:57.:57:01.

we've world beating universities and the highest research productivity of

:57:02.:57:06.

the top research nations. We have a vibrant creative industry producing

:57:07.:57:11.

an extraordinary level of talent recognised and respected the world

:57:12.:57:15.

over and of course, we are lead nears global finance, not just

:57:16.:57:19.

banking, but investment management and insurance too. But as we

:57:20.:57:24.

celebrate these strengths, so we should also be frank about some of

:57:25.:57:30.

our weaknesses. We have more noble laureates than any country outside

:57:31.:57:35.

the United States, but all too often, great ideas developed here

:57:36.:57:38.

end up being commercialised elsewhere. We are home to one of the

:57:39.:57:44.

world's financial capitals, but too frequently fast growing firms can't

:57:45.:57:51.

get the patient long-term capital investment they require and have to

:57:52.:57:54.

sell out to overseas investors to access the finance they need. We

:57:55.:57:58.

have truly world-class sectors and firms, but overall business and

:57:59.:58:02.

Government investment remains lower than our competitors. We have

:58:03.:58:07.

outstanding firms and clusters in every part of this country. But

:58:08.:58:12.

taken as a whole, our economic success is still too unbalanced and

:58:13.:58:15.

focussed on London and the South East. We have gold standard

:58:16.:58:21.

universities, but we are not strong enough in stem subjects and our

:58:22.:58:24.

technical education isn't good enough. And while the UK's recovery

:58:25.:58:29.

since the financial crisis has been one of the strongest in the G7, our

:58:30.:58:36.

productivity is still too low. But if we want to increase our overall

:58:37.:58:41.

prosperity and we want more people to share in that prosperity, if we

:58:42.:58:44.

want bigger real wages for people and if we want more opportunities

:58:45.:58:47.

for young people to get on, we have to improve the productivity of our

:58:48.:58:54.

economy. So these are the long-term structural challenges the industrial

:58:55.:58:57.

strategy aims to address. It is not about propping up failing industries

:58:58.:59:02.

or picking winners, but creating the conditions where winners can emerge

:59:03.:59:06.

and grow. It is about backing those winners all the way to encourage

:59:07.:59:10.

them to invest in the long-term future of Britain and about

:59:11.:59:13.

delivering jobs and economic growth to every community and corner of the

:59:14.:59:17.

country. That is the ambition and we need your help to put it into

:59:18.:59:22.

practise. We cannot create a proper industrial strategy without

:59:23.:59:25.

listening to industry and we want to work with you and shape it together.

:59:26.:59:30.

So we will publish a Green Paper before the end of the year to seek

:59:31.:59:34.

your views before sh ug a White Paper early in the New Year. But

:59:35.:59:38.

today I want to sketch out some of the first steps and spell out some

:59:39.:59:42.

specific things we will do to turn our ambition into reality. We're

:59:43.:59:48.

ambitious for Britain to become the global go to place for scientists

:59:49.:59:53.

innovators and tech investors. We will continue to welcome the

:59:54.:59:57.

brightest and the best, but can only do so by bringing immigration down

:59:58.:00:03.

to sustainable levels overall so we maintain public fAlt in the system.

:00:04.:00:07.

Today Britain has firms and researchers leading in some of the

:00:08.:00:10.

most exciting fields of human discovery. We need to back them and

:00:11.:00:15.

turn research strengths into commercial success. That not only

:00:16.:00:20.

means investing more in research and development, but making sure we

:00:21.:00:28.

invest the money wisely. In the last Parliament, despite the deficit we

:00:29.:00:31.

inherited, we protected the basic science budget, even when that meant

:00:32.:00:35.

we had to take difficult decisions to control other spending. But our

:00:36.:00:41.

competitors aren't standing still. They're investing heavily in

:00:42.:00:44.

research and development. So in the Autumn Statement on Wednesday, we

:00:45.:00:48.

will commit to substantial real terms increases in Government

:00:49.:00:52.

investment in R D, investors an extra ?2 billion a year by the end

:00:53.:00:56.

of this Parliament to help put post Brexit Britain at the cutting edge

:00:57.:01:02.

of science and tech. A new industrial strategy challenge fund

:01:03.:01:06.

will direct some of that investment to scientific research and the

:01:07.:01:09.

development of a number of priority technologies in particular, helping

:01:10.:01:14.

to address Britain's historic weakness on commercialisation and

:01:15.:01:17.

turning our world leading research into long-term success. And we will

:01:18.:01:22.

also review the support we give innovative firms through the tax

:01:23.:01:27.

system. Since 2010 we have made the research and development credit more

:01:28.:01:31.

generous and easier to use and support has risen from ?1 billion to

:01:32.:01:37.

?1.5 billion. Now we want to go further and look at how we can make

:01:38.:01:47.

our support more effective. Mile aim is to have a tax system

:01:48.:01:52.

that's proinnovation. This is a comprehensive package designed to

:01:53.:01:55.

set us on the path to becoming one of the best places for research and

:01:56.:01:57.

development in the world. There is no point in having great

:01:58.:02:08.

ideas, great products and great start-ups if you can't get the

:02:09.:02:11.

investment to grow your business here. While the UK ranks third in

:02:12.:02:17.

the OECD for the number of start-ups we create, we are only 34 the number

:02:18.:02:22.

that becomes scale up businesses. I want to turn bright start-ups into

:02:23.:02:28.

great scale ups for the long-term. To do this we need to understand

:02:29.:02:32.

where the barriers are so I am pleased to announce we will launch a

:02:33.:02:35.

new patient capital review led by the Treasury which will examine the

:02:36.:02:39.

obstacles to getting long-term investment in innovative firms. The

:02:40.:02:44.

review will be supported by a panel of experts and I am pleased to

:02:45.:02:48.

announce that Damon Ruffini has agreed to that panel. We are backing

:02:49.:02:55.

the innovators and the long-term investors but government can also

:02:56.:02:59.

step up to help drive innovative procurement, particularly from small

:03:00.:03:03.

businesses, just as the United States does so effectively. Their

:03:04.:03:07.

strategic use of government procurement not only spurs

:03:08.:03:10.

innovation in the public sector, it gives new firms are afoot in the

:03:11.:03:17.

door. In fact many of our technologies, like the technology in

:03:18.:03:20.

your smartphone, touch-screen and voice recognition, were originally

:03:21.:03:24.

commissioned not by Apple or Microsoft but by the US government.

:03:25.:03:29.

I will announce today that we will review our small business research

:03:30.:03:32.

initiative and look at how we can increase its impact and give more

:03:33.:03:37.

innovators first break. And Cambridge entrepreneur David Connell

:03:38.:03:40.

will lead the review and report back next year. Our modern industrial

:03:41.:03:48.

strategy will be ambitious for business and ambitious for Britain.

:03:49.:03:52.

It is a new way of thinking for government, a new approach, about

:03:53.:03:56.

government is stepping up, not stepping back. Building on our

:03:57.:03:59.

strengths and helping Britain overcome the long-standing

:04:00.:04:02.

challenges in our economy that have held us back for too long. It is

:04:03.:04:06.

about making the most of the historic opportunity we now have to

:04:07.:04:12.

signal an important, determined change. But just as government needs

:04:13.:04:17.

to change its approach, so does business as well. We all know that

:04:18.:04:20.

in recent years the reputation of business as a whole has been

:04:21.:04:25.

bruised. Trust in business runs at just 35% among those in the lowest

:04:26.:04:31.

income brackets. The behaviour of a limited view has damaged the

:04:32.:04:36.

reputation of the many, and fair or not, it is clear that something has

:04:37.:04:40.

got to change. For when a small minority of businesses and business

:04:41.:04:44.

figures appear to gain the system at work to a different set of rules, we

:04:45.:04:48.

have to recognise that the social contract between business and

:04:49.:04:53.

society fails and the reputation of business as a whole is undermined.

:04:54.:04:57.

So just as government must open its mind to a new approach, so the

:04:58.:05:00.

business community must as well. That is why we will shortly publish

:05:01.:05:04.

our plans to reform corporate governance including executive pay

:05:05.:05:09.

and accountability to shareholders, and proposals to ensure the voice of

:05:10.:05:12.

employees is heard in the board room. The UK rightly has a strong

:05:13.:05:18.

reputation for corporate governance. The Cadbury, Greenbury and other

:05:19.:05:22.

reforms built on the strong foundations of the companies act and

:05:23.:05:26.

the corporate governance code, have made the UK prime location for

:05:27.:05:31.

listing and headquarter in, but we stand still. We must continue to

:05:32.:05:35.

make improvements where these result in better companies and improved

:05:36.:05:39.

confidence in business on the part of investors and the public. But can

:05:40.:05:43.

be done by voluntary improvements in practice. In a representation of

:05:44.:05:48.

women on company boards and in senior positions, for example, or in

:05:49.:05:51.

broadening diversity. But where we need to go further, we will, so

:05:52.:05:56.

there will be a green paper later this autumn that addresses executive

:05:57.:05:59.

pay and accountability to shareholders, and how we can make

:06:00.:06:04.

sure that employee voices are heard in the boardroom. This will be a

:06:05.:06:06.

genuine consultation. We want to work with the grain of business and

:06:07.:06:13.

withdraw what works, but it will also be a consultation that delivers

:06:14.:06:18.

what works. While it is important that the voices of workers and

:06:19.:06:22.

consumers should be represented, I can categorically tell you this is

:06:23.:06:26.

not about mandating works councils or the direct appointment of workers

:06:27.:06:31.

or trade union representatives on boards. Some companies may find that

:06:32.:06:34.

these models work best for them but there are other routes that use

:06:35.:06:38.

existing board structures, complimented or supplemented by 53

:06:39.:06:42.

councils or panels to ensure those with a stake in the panel are

:06:43.:06:48.

properly represented. -- advisory councils. It is about finding the

:06:49.:06:54.

model that works. Second this is not about creating a Germany style

:06:55.:06:56.

binary boards which separates the interests of the company from

:06:57.:07:00.

shareholders, customers and suppliers. Our unitary board system

:07:01.:07:04.

has served us well and will continue to do so, but it is about

:07:05.:07:07.

establishing the best corporate governance of any major economy,

:07:08.:07:11.

ensuring the voices of employees are properly represented in board room

:07:12.:07:16.

deliberations, and that businesses maintain and when necessary regain

:07:17.:07:19.

the trust of the public. There is nothing anti-business about this

:07:20.:07:25.

agenda. Better governance will help companies make better decisions for

:07:26.:07:29.

the long-term benefit of themselves and the economy overall. This is an

:07:30.:07:33.

important task. We will work with you to achieve it and I know you

:07:34.:07:37.

will rise to the challenge. This amounts to a big and ambitious

:07:38.:07:41.

agenda, but the times we are living through demands nothing less. Change

:07:42.:07:46.

is in the air and when people demand change, it is the job politicians to

:07:47.:07:52.

respond. But we do so alone. You employ the people and generate the

:07:53.:07:56.

prosperity on which our country depends. You must be part of this

:07:57.:08:00.

endeavour. You, who are so often on the front line of our engagement

:08:01.:08:05.

with the world, whose actions, so often project our values in the

:08:06.:08:10.

world, must also play your part. By joining us to shape this new

:08:11.:08:14.

approach, helping us put it into practice, and embracing the change

:08:15.:08:19.

we need. Investing in Britain for the long-term, generating wealth and

:08:20.:08:24.

opportunity in every corner of the country, and reforming corporate

:08:25.:08:26.

governance to call out the bad in order to promote the good. So let us

:08:27.:08:32.

join together and show that we can rise to meet this moment. Let us

:08:33.:08:36.

respond to the public's demand for change. Let us restore their faith

:08:37.:08:41.

and prove that capitalism can deliver them a better future. And

:08:42.:08:45.

let us build a stronger, fairer Britain together. Theresa May,

:08:46.:08:52.

joined on stage for a while by a butterfly! Norman Smith was listing

:08:53.:08:56.

and watching. What would you take from that? Well, as we thought,

:08:57.:09:03.

Theresa May is setting out her industrial strategy, how government

:09:04.:09:06.

can do things differently in terms of providing support, particularly

:09:07.:09:09.

for high tech business, and in return demanding that business does

:09:10.:09:14.

things differently as well, and cemented the social contract with

:09:15.:09:18.

employers and he well not to be fazed by the moth that was ducking

:09:19.:09:22.

in and out behind the screen. They must need some mothballs and some

:09:23.:09:27.

lavender here. She stay focused and she kept on message. An interesting

:09:28.:09:30.

thing at the end of the speech, which will be focused on, she seemed

:09:31.:09:34.

to have ditched the proposal floated at the party conference of having

:09:35.:09:39.

workers on company boards. This is part of her pitch in trying to help

:09:40.:09:42.

people who felt they were being ignored and left behind by business,

:09:43.:09:46.

saying let's have employees on company boards. Businesses were

:09:47.:09:54.

shocked and said they were not keen on that. Listening to Theresa May,

:09:55.:09:56.

that seems to have been booted into the long grass. Instead she talked

:09:57.:10:02.

about employee panels, some kind of mechanism for consulting staff,

:10:03.:10:05.

which is very different to actually having a member of staff sitting on

:10:06.:10:12.

the board. That seems to have been gone, dropped, a no-no. That seems

:10:13.:10:17.

to me to be a retreat from what Theresa May promised at the party

:10:18.:10:21.

conference speech. Thank you. Before we heard from Theresa May, we were

:10:22.:10:26.

talking about calls for cannabis to be legalised in the UK. We heard

:10:27.:10:31.

from Norman Lam, the former Lib Dem health minister, and Penny, who

:10:32.:10:36.

doesn't want to use her full name, whose son became psychotic and

:10:37.:10:39.

suicidal from marijuana addiction, which he started to use at 14. And

:10:40.:10:46.

we will speak to dealer in Los Angeles, who has solved medicinal

:10:47.:10:57.

marijuana for 14 years. -- Deana. Penny, could you tell normal and why

:10:58.:11:00.

you are against legalising cannabis in the UK? Yes, our son started

:11:01.:11:11.

using skunk at the age of 14. Nobody is delineating the difference

:11:12.:11:14.

between cannabis and skunk. Skunk is 17% stronger and it lacks the drug

:11:15.:11:19.

which mitigates the psychotic effects of the drug. Our son was a

:11:20.:11:26.

straight a student and had a stars at GCSE and by the time he took his

:11:27.:11:33.

A-levels they were down to grade C and Grady. He started using heavily,

:11:34.:11:40.

they addicted, had his first psychotic attack in 2010, got

:11:41.:11:44.

schizophrenia in 2011 and has spent the greater part of the past five

:11:45.:11:48.

years in a psychiatric ward, I locked psychiatric ward. He has had

:11:49.:11:54.

nine months outside that ward in rehab. And he has got the diagnosis

:11:55.:11:58.

of schizophrenia. This is a nightmare faced not just by our

:11:59.:12:05.

family but by many families. How would you like to respond? Well, I

:12:06.:12:14.

have enormous sympathy for that situation. I am also a parent and I

:12:15.:12:18.

go through the same anxieties. But the current law doesn't protect our

:12:19.:12:23.

children. What has happened to Penny's son, tragically, have

:12:24.:12:26.

happened under the current arrangements, where we allow

:12:27.:12:31.

criminals to prey on young people. They don't know what they are

:12:32.:12:35.

buying. They are buying super-strength skunk very easily.

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The whole approach the government has taken has no impact on reducing

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supply. It is available in every town, village and city across our

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country. Surely a much better approach is to regulate what people

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can actually sell to control the potency. We know that if you control

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the potency, you can remove most of the risk. That is the approach they

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take in many American states. Any, please respond? I don't know how

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much you know about addiction and how drug buying and selling works.

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People who become addicted need larger and larger amounts and

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greater strength of a drug to get the same effect. We have now had

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this stronger strain of skunk on our streets for 15 years or more. There

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are a lot of people out there who are addicted to a very high potency

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drug. And you are living in a very unreal world if you think for one

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moment that legalising it and having it available in cafes or cannabis

:13:40.:13:47.

social clubs is going to somehow magically make the illegal drug

:13:48.:13:53.

sellers disappear off the streets or persuade people who want the strong

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version of the drug to somehow settle for a weaker version. That

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just isn't going to happen. It is not just an unreal world, it is what

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is happening in the real world. It is happening in American states and

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they are taking criminals out of the market. It is exactly the same thing

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that happened when they went through the disastrous experiment in the

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United States of Prohibition of alcohol. It had horrendous

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consequences for many people. I want to end the risk that your son face

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and I want to get that high strength substance of the streets. We know

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that if we pitch the tax level right, we can take criminals out of

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the market, protect young people and enter the awful criminalisation of

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so many people in our country, which then blights their careers. -- and

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the criminalisation. All others is happening under a criminal market

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and the law not protecting your son. Deana, can we bring you in? We can

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hear you and superb cannabis plants behind you. How is it working for

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you? I am the oldest dealer in Southern California and I have seen

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people from all walks of life come in and use cannabis to help them for

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medicinal reasons will stop in California you have got to see a

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doctor first before you get a recommendation to use cannabis. Once

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you have a letter from the doctor, meaning you have had a physical and

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the doctor approves it, at that point I can give you your cannabis.

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Now it has been legalised you can sell it recreationally as well, can

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you quest? Only when they start the political process in 2017, if you

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are 21 or over. It is keeping it out of the hands of the use, out of the

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hands of the children, like the mother whose 14-year-old son is

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smoking cannabis. We don't think that is healthy. The terminology

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skunk that you are using could be a British term. It is just a strain

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and there are thousands of strains out here and they all affects you

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differently. There will always be a small percentage of people with

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underlying schizophrenia, and all it takes is something to make it come

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out. Cannabis, if you use to high strains, it can come out. However

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there have been studies in Germany stating they are using CBD, one of

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the compounds in cannabis, and they are treating schizophrenia with it.

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It is merely a plant like tomatoes, it will grow flowers. And not

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everyone smokes. We have here a drink that's like a beverage that

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people like to take. There is there, is something that woopy Goldberg

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just came out with. It is a soak which is medicated Epsom salt and it

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is helping women with PMS and menstrual cramps. I don't understand

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how you are able to say you can get the strong stuff off the streets by

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legalising cannabis? Criminals can't make the same money that they are at

:17:36.:17:39.

the moment. They are earning billions of pounds a year. A

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legalised regulated market with a minimum age that the product can be

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sold to people, you can see what is happening in American States.

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Because you take the big profits away from criminals, criminals leave

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the market. It is what happened with alcohol prohibition in the United

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States. You can make a difference and protect young people more

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effectively. Thank you very much. This tweet from Moonwalker, "Banning

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alcohol and tobacco with lead to a happier, healthier countries."

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Healthier country." Your views are welcome.

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Why would one parent turn their child against the other parent?

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It sometimes happens after the couple separates

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and the legal battle over custody of the child gets nasty.

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It's a serious problem, and can have a horrible

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psychological effect on the child involved.

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It's also hard to recognise but it is real and is called

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She lived with her siblings at her dad's.

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She says he lied to her about why her mother didn't turn

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Over time, she began to believe her mother simply didn't

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It is the impact on the child that can be the most damaging.

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14-year-old Emma was seven when her parents divorced. Over the next two

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years, she was severely alienated from her mother by her father. My

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brother went away from home to my dad's because my dad was saying he

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could give them everything he wanted and he wouldn't get in trouble for

:19:22.:19:28.

anything. And when he went away, me, my brother and my sister had never

:19:29.:19:33.

been separated so it was as if my brother's going, I want to go

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because we were siblings and siblings stick to go so I went and

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my sister followed. For a time, the kids had contact with their mum, but

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that was soon stopped. He'd ring up and say, "The kids are busy. We're

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going to do something. He'd ring up and say,

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"Oh, the kids are busy, we're going to do something,

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they can't see their mum today." My mum would be already halfway

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there and she'd get the phone call to say that we're busy

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and we can't see her. Did you know that

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at the time? At the time all we knew

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was that my mum had let us down, that she'd been out drinking

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the night before and that she had a hangover, so she couldn't

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be bothered to come. When your dad would say

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things to you, like, "Your mum's got a hangover,

:20:26.:20:29.

she's not coming today," I thought that my mum

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was never like that, my mum would never drink loads,

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she's not that type of person. But if that's what my dad's saying,

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I believe him, that she's a liar, that everything that's happened

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is her fault, that she doesn't love us and she's being a bully

:20:42.:20:44.

towards him and us, and that's why One day, in 2013, Emma got

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an unexpected message from her mum. She's saying that she loves me,

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that she's been made out to be this Again we've clearly only heard

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one side of the story. In other countries, governments have

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brought in legislation The government here says

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the Children's Act is enough It says parental alienation

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as a "syndrome" is not recognized by But there are growing calls

:21:22.:21:25.

from experts and parents for the government to

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officially acknowledge it. Let's talk now to Anthony Douglas,

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the CEO of CAFCASS, the organisation that represents children

:21:31.:21:33.

in family courts. Joanna Abrahams, a family

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lawyer who specialises in parental alienation cases;

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and the Liberal Democrat MP, Greg Mulholland, who thinks

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further research is needed. Why isn't it recognised in the legal

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system? We do recognise parental alienation and alienating

:21:43.:21:43.

behaviours. They are common in particularly in high conflict cases

:21:44.:21:45.

and each day, Family Court professionals are assessing the

:21:46.:21:47.

impact of alienating behaviours on children. It is not recognised

:21:48.:21:49.

formally in the sense that if a parent is deemed to be guilty of it,

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they would be punish as in other countries? We have some of the same

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characteristics say as Brazil because in this country, we do as a

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final measure remove children from one parent, who has been doing the

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alienating to live with another, but that has to be done after very

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careful assessment because if you're living in an alienating environment

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it is like living in a cult and that belief system is so powerful, if you

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remove a child from it, even though the merits are with the other

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parent, it can be equally damaging for children. So to criminalise

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parental alienation is not as good as working intensively with a family

:22:33.:22:38.

early so try to help them go beyond pure unfiltered emotion to a space

:22:39.:22:42.

in which there is some reason and some understanding of the impact of

:22:43.:22:46.

the alienation on children, but you are right, we don't have a specific

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legal prov, but your programme is a good illustration that a number of

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us across the system could usefully get together perhaps to introduce

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stronger guidance because the knowledge about these cases is much

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stronger than it was five years ago it cannily the impact on children.

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I mean, it's, for most parents, you would think, why would you turn a

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child against the other partner from whom you have separated? Why do

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people do it, both mums and dads are capable of this? That's right, it is

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both mums and dads. Sometimes it is not always done consciously. There

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could be a lot going on and we don't know about it and there are

:23:30.:23:33.

subconscious messages going out to the child and the child will

:23:34.:23:36.

naturally pick up on them. Like what, for example? Mum is unable to

:23:37.:23:41.

give emotional permission to the child to have contact with dad and

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becomes highly anxious before the child goes and the child will pick

:23:45.:23:49.

up on that and then is unsettled if he is seeing dad to start with. It

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takes a lot of time and reassurance, that it is OK you can go and see

:23:55.:23:57.

your father and sometimes people need help with that. Do you think it

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is the problem is a lot more than officially recognised? I think it is

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starting to become more and more recognised. More and more experts

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are being brought in to diagnose it. What we often ask for when we go to

:24:18.:24:22.

court is for a psychologist to become involved. They can make the

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dig know suss and assist us with a plan for a plan for targeted therapy

:24:27.:24:31.

for the parents. Quite often for the parents because the children can

:24:32.:24:35.

become over medicalised and they see lots of experts and it can be too

:24:36.:24:39.

much for them and then the parents can address whether there are

:24:40.:24:44.

problems with mum or with dad or it is not necessarily a recrimination

:24:45.:24:49.

or a blame culture, it has to be child-centric, what's in the best

:24:50.:24:52.

interests of the child and how we can promote contact assuming it is

:24:53.:24:56.

in that child's best interests. Greg Mulholland, what do you think about

:24:57.:24:59.

the current legislation in the UK and whether it protects enough

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victims of alienation? Well, it is important to use that word,

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"Victim." And the victims are the children as well as the parent who

:25:11.:25:14.

has suffered from the alienation. It is something, of course sadly that

:25:15.:25:19.

happens in many cases and MPs up and down the country get cases of

:25:20.:25:22.

separation that has gone very badly and this is one of the things in

:25:23.:25:26.

this there. You say why do people do it? People can lose a lot of sense

:25:27.:25:33.

of rationality and reasonableness in the face of an unpleasant and messy

:25:34.:25:37.

divorce and that's very sad. Where I do think there is a problem is that

:25:38.:25:44.

where there clearly is evidence of parental alienation I don't think

:25:45.:25:50.

that's taken seriously by Cafcass and by the family courts to the

:25:51.:25:55.

extent that people making false allegations of sexual abuse by a

:25:56.:26:01.

parent are not punished. There is no sanction whatsoever in cases like

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this. Well, let Anthony Douglas respond to that. We have a duty to

:26:06.:26:10.

investigate every allegation clearly because some have proven true.

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Equally we can't say just because a child has been brain washed by one

:26:16.:26:21.

parent against another that that child is not, doesn't have complex

:26:22.:26:25.

feelings and complex wishes and needs and so to get to the bottom of

:26:26.:26:30.

each case and to understand the complexity of it does take a little

:26:31.:26:35.

bit of time and that's our bread and butter. We do need to have a

:26:36.:26:40.

stronger culture of urgency because the longer a child is kept apart

:26:41.:26:45.

from one parent the harder it is to re-establish a relationship as I

:26:46.:26:49.

think your film showed to try to do that in any relationship six or

:26:50.:26:54.

seven years on, is impossible. The bond has gone. Sorry. You are

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entirely ducking the point, Anthony. You know full well that where there

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have been clearly false allegations of sexual abuse Cafcass does

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nothing. Well, it is not true. Once that is established that the

:27:17.:27:19.

allegations are false... And then you just... We recommend that as I

:27:20.:27:26.

say in the final analysis, it maybe right for the child to move to the

:27:27.:27:31.

other parent. That's not the same as taking action, Anthony as well you

:27:32.:27:38.

know. Can I step in here? Cafcass can make recommendations, but it is

:27:39.:27:42.

up to the judiciary to consider them and decide how they need to be

:27:43.:27:49.

implemented. But a false allegation made in any circumstance could be

:27:50.:27:54.

regarded as a criminal offence, but Cafcass do nothing about it. They

:27:55.:27:58.

may recommend a different custody arrangement or a different care

:27:59.:28:01.

arrangement, but they do nothing about false allegations and that's a

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problem. Greg, are' over simplifying... No, I'm not. The

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nature of these allegations, there are few clear hard facts in family

:28:13.:28:19.

cases. They are often ambiguous, they are often people's words, one

:28:20.:28:22.

against the other with the child caught in the middle and to produce

:28:23.:28:27.

a rounded analysis that is safe for that child does take a little bit of

:28:28.:28:35.

time and you can't over simplify it to punish one parent. Parent.

:28:36.:28:42.

Generally the punishment of a child rebounds on a parent who feels

:28:43.:28:48.

partly responsible for it. A lot of people getting in touch are dads

:28:49.:28:52.

saying it is mostly mums who do this who are guilty of parental alyen

:28:53.:28:56.

nation, but it is as we said earlier, possible for both mums and

:28:57.:28:58.

dads to do this. Gareth Southgate's got a job

:28:59.:29:04.

interview this morning The FA insist there's no rush

:29:05.:29:06.

to appoint a permanent successor to Sam Allardyce, but with England

:29:07.:29:11.

topping their world cup qualifying group after four games under

:29:12.:29:15.

Southgate, it's Let's talk now to,

:29:16.:29:17.

former England Captain, And Mark Palios. Why is he being

:29:18.:29:43.

interviewed? If you are appointing a football manager, it is an art, not

:29:44.:29:46.

a science and you take a risk whenever you do that. They have to

:29:47.:29:50.

be seen to go through the process. It maybe a process whereby they can

:29:51.:29:54.

iron out some of the things that they expect of the manager. So it is

:29:55.:29:58.

more of a briefing for Southgate than so much of an interview. But

:29:59.:30:02.

yeah, I mean, everybody knows Gareth. They know him around the FA.

:30:03.:30:06.

They know him through his involvement with the under 21s and

:30:07.:30:09.

he is a candidate that shouldn't be a surprise. They are not doing due

:30:10.:30:13.

diligence on him and I expect more of a conversation which is around

:30:14.:30:16.

what the FA expect out of the England team.

:30:17.:30:21.

Peter, should he get it? I think it is a gamble. I think the FA will be

:30:22.:30:28.

going on potential rather than what Gareth has achieved in management.

:30:29.:30:33.

He had a spell at Middlesbrough and was in charge of the adjustment we

:30:34.:30:37.

once and they did win a trophy, but that is a different ball game. -- in

:30:38.:30:46.

of the under-21s. He has got the right profile of the pitch for the

:30:47.:30:51.

FA. But when you look at the actual other side, experience in

:30:52.:30:55.

management, it is probably not good enough to be an international

:30:56.:30:59.

manager at the moment. He has done reasonably well. I think the game in

:31:00.:31:03.

Spain was probably his best and they played quite well. Any other games,

:31:04.:31:09.

it was very average. So it is an potential, really. I wonder, Mark,

:31:10.:31:17.

because he seems to be slightly studious, that people could be

:31:18.:31:20.

suspicious of him in football? That is for other people to answer. I

:31:21.:31:24.

understand what the question is pointed at. If you look at Arsene

:31:25.:31:29.

Wenger, he is quite surreal. People accept him. But to take Peter's

:31:30.:31:36.

point, they accept Arsene Wenger on his results at what he did in the

:31:37.:31:39.

early years of his career at Arsenal. I don't think so. At the

:31:40.:31:47.

end of the day a body of fans would like somebody ranting and raving

:31:48.:31:51.

from the technical area, but as Peter will tell you, you don't hear

:31:52.:31:55.

a great deal of what the manager says to them at that point in time

:31:56.:31:58.

because of the size of the crowd and the fact you are concentrating on

:31:59.:32:03.

the game. You pay your money, you take your choice. My own view is I

:32:04.:32:06.

am fairly relaxed. At the end of the day you have got to be pragmatic.

:32:07.:32:11.

Can you get the most out of the potential of the team? You can look

:32:12.:32:16.

at managers with different styles. Harry Redknapp, different style, but

:32:17.:32:19.

you would have said he gets the most out of a group of players but that

:32:20.:32:24.

is what you look for in a manager. Whoever gets this job will have to

:32:25.:32:32.

solve the Wayne Rooney issue, Peter. Yes, certainly talking about the

:32:33.:32:38.

playing side as well? I am! I not the discipline side. He has put

:32:39.:32:45.

Wayne in the squad. He is not the player that he was. People still

:32:46.:32:50.

think he is good enough to play at Premier League level. That side of

:32:51.:32:53.

it is debatable. He is obviously close to my record and I would be

:32:54.:32:56.

the first to congratulate him if he played 90 minutes in every game. But

:32:57.:33:01.

if he keeps coming on as a substitute, I don't see the point. I

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think Gareth mentioned he had him in the squad because of his experience

:33:08.:33:11.

and the way the players looked up to him, but obviously now Gareth has

:33:12.:33:14.

got the decision to make with what has happened off the pitch, with the

:33:15.:33:20.

late-night antics obviously. It is great for players to have a drink

:33:21.:33:24.

together and go out and we used to all the time. But when the manager

:33:25.:33:27.

sets a limit, that is when the problem starts. That is the thing

:33:28.:33:32.

with Gareth. He has got to show some leadership. When was told to go to

:33:33.:33:39.

bed, he is the captain, and he led a bad example. -- Wayne Rooney was

:33:40.:33:43.

told to go to bed. He has apologised and other players have as well.

:33:44.:33:47.

Gareth has got to show determination and leadership and he has got to be

:33:48.:33:51.

strong and you can't have players doing what they want and that is the

:33:52.:33:54.

side he has got to prove. Thank you very much. Still to come: As Andy

:33:55.:34:00.

Murray ends the year as world number one, how did he do it? We will speak

:34:01.:34:05.

to one of his coaches. And a new report claims the Home Office is

:34:06.:34:08.

disregarding medical evidence of torture in UK asylum claims. We will

:34:09.:34:12.

have more on that in the next few minutes. Time for the latest news

:34:13.:34:17.

headlines with Joanna in the newsroom. Theresa May has told

:34:18.:34:21.

business leaders at the CBI conference in central London that

:34:22.:34:25.

they must reform in order to keep people's faith in free market that

:34:26.:34:29.

capitalism, and to deliver the change demanded by Britain's Brexit

:34:30.:34:30.

vote. The former French President Nicolas

:34:31.:34:46.

Sarkozy has been unexpectedly defeated in the first round of

:34:47.:34:49.

voting in France. Britain's defences are at risk

:34:50.:34:53.

because the number of warships available to the Royal

:34:54.:34:55.

Navy is woefully low, that's according to MPs on the House

:34:56.:34:57.

of Commons Defence Select Committee. They say the UK could lack

:34:58.:35:00.

the maritime strength to deal There will be more from the BBC

:35:01.:35:09.

newsroom at 11 o'clock. Thank you. Now the sports headlines.

:35:10.:35:14.

Andy Murray will end the year as world number one after beating

:35:15.:35:17.

Novak Djokovic at the World Tour Finals.

:35:18.:35:22.

England's cricketers have lost the second test against India

:35:23.:35:24.

after being bowled out for just 158 on the final day.

:35:25.:35:27.

Captain Alastair Cook was dismissed with the final ball yesterday

:35:28.:35:29.

and the wickets continued to tumble this morning,

:35:30.:35:31.

Joe Root faced over 100 deliveries but he was out lbw.

:35:32.:35:34.

England lost the other seven wickets this morning cheaply,

:35:35.:35:36.

James Anderson was the last man to go.

:35:37.:35:38.

India win the match by 246 runs and take a 1-0 lead in the series.

:35:39.:35:42.

And Britain's Charley Hull has won her first LPGA Tour event

:35:43.:35:44.

finishing on a tournament record 19 under par at the season ending

:35:45.:35:47.

The Home Office is disregarding and mistreating medical evidence

:35:48.:35:50.

of torture in UK asylum claims, a report by a charity suggests.

:35:51.:35:53.

Asylum seekers in the UK who say they are torture victims can have

:35:54.:35:56.

medical assessments to verify their claims.

:35:57.:35:58.

But charity Freedom From Torture say judges were correcting poor

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judgements at considerable cost to taxpayers.

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Dr Juliet Cohen is from the charity Freedom From Torture

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and Conservative MP Dr Tania Mathias thinks the Home Office need

:36:05.:36:07.

What are you saying, Julia? Although the Home Office have their own clear

:36:08.:36:19.

policy guidance on how caseworkers should assess medical evidence in

:36:20.:36:24.

asylum claims, they are failing to follow it, so we are seeing cases

:36:25.:36:28.

refused and when they go to appeal the judges are having to overturn

:36:29.:36:33.

that decision. This is a huge cost base for the mental health of the

:36:34.:36:36.

person involved with the delay and the fear that they might be returned

:36:37.:36:41.

to the country of origin, and the cost to the taxpayer frankly if they

:36:42.:36:45.

hold unnecessary appeals which they wouldn't have to if they got the

:36:46.:36:49.

decision right first time. We spoke to somebody whose case was examined

:36:50.:36:52.

in your report who has been through this process. She had an expert

:36:53.:36:57.

medical report and she spoke to our reporter.

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Mamie was an opposition political activist in

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She was imprisoned by the country's security services and tortured.

:37:28.:38:03.

Mamie was an opposition political activist in

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And did you tell the UK Home Office what had happened?

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Mamie, whose name we've changed, applied for asylum in the UK

:38:34.:38:36.

without medical evidence and was rejected.

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She then applied again with a medical report,

:38:40.:38:43.

which showed 20 scars which doctors said were evidence of torture.

:38:44.:38:46.

But Mamie was turned down for asylum again.

:38:47.:38:49.

This time though, that decision was overturned by a judge

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The judge attached significant weight to the medical evidence

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and said a doctor had carefully considered other possible causes

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Let me we queue a statement we have got from the Home Office. It says

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the report today is based on an exceptionally small sample of the

:39:57.:40:04.

asylum seekers over the time period and it says that officials have to

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consider all the evidence provided and our guidance clearly states it

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is not their role to dispute clinical findings in medical

:40:13.:40:16.

reports. I think what is interesting there is that the Home Office is

:40:17.:40:20.

stating what their policy is, which is excellent. And yes, I will be

:40:21.:40:24.

pushing them on this in Parliament when we launch the report. You are

:40:25.:40:28.

saying it isn't happening in practice? In practice it isn't

:40:29.:40:32.

happening. What is exceptionally useful with what Freedom From

:40:33.:40:35.

Torture has done with these 50 cases, they are sample. A sample.

:40:36.:40:41.

Don't ignore the staggering, staggering cases where people have

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been traumatised by delays, where the government has had unnecessary

:40:46.:40:50.

costs because the appeals get overturned. The Home Office should

:40:51.:40:54.

not be disputing these clear-cut cases that the charity has put in

:40:55.:40:58.

place. They should not be disputing their own case, where training that

:40:59.:41:06.

the Home Office has, training should be rolled out. And all staff

:41:07.:41:09.

undertake rigorous training programme? Yes, that they don't do

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the training programme that is there, on the shelf, literally. I

:41:14.:41:16.

have looked at the module which looks very difficult and very

:41:17.:41:19.

thorough. They are not doing it. Those cases where where those people

:41:20.:41:25.

had obviously not had the training. White as a Home Office worker, if I

:41:26.:41:29.

can ask you to put yourself in their mind for a moment, why would you

:41:30.:41:38.

with no medical expertise ignore and assessment that suggests an

:41:39.:41:41.

individual has been tortured? What would be the motivation? I cannot

:41:42.:41:46.

comment on their motivation. I am so concerned about it. This is why we

:41:47.:41:51.

want to raise these cases. Yes, there are only 50, but we don't know

:41:52.:41:55.

what the bigger picture is. We don't know how many other cases of medical

:41:56.:41:58.

evidence have been refused because we have only followed up the ones

:41:59.:42:03.

from our own charity. So we are very concerned about the human cost of

:42:04.:42:07.

this that the financial cost. Yes, they have clear guidance. Don't be

:42:08.:42:10.

clinical judgments if you are not clinically qualified to do so. Clear

:42:11.:42:16.

guidance and very good training. It is just one day. The Home Office

:42:17.:42:22.

always have it. It is already happening, staff undertake it

:42:23.:42:28.

already. That is why we will be challenging the Home Secretary and

:42:29.:42:31.

we will make sure it does get rolled out. Thank you. Andy Murray has

:42:32.:42:36.

finished the year as the world men's number one, beating Novak Djokovic

:42:37.:42:40.

in the ATP World Tour Finals last night. This victory surely puts him

:42:41.:42:46.

up there as Britain's greatest sportsman.

:42:47.:42:58.

That was forehand by Andy Murray. Djokovic left the ball in the middle

:42:59.:43:02.

of the court. Djokovic staying down. It is yet another great tennis

:43:03.:43:09.

achievement for Andy Murray! That win puts Murray

:43:10.:43:43.

at World Number One at the end of the year -

:43:44.:43:46.

a year which has seen him win nine trophies, one Grand Slam,

:43:47.:43:55.

one Olympic gold and become a dad. He hasn't lost any

:43:56.:43:58.

of his last 24 matches. We can speak now to Andy Murray's

:43:59.:44:00.

coach, Jamie Delgado, and to Simon Mundie,

:44:01.:44:02.

Newsbeat's sports reporter and a massive tennis fan

:44:03.:44:04.

who was at the final last night. How was it? It was absolutely

:44:05.:44:12.

spectacular to be there. The atmosphere was unreal. People didn't

:44:13.:44:14.

believe what was happening. To finish the year as world number one

:44:15.:44:18.

is such an amazing achievement. We went into the final with lots of

:44:19.:44:21.

people thinking Djokovic would win because he had played so outstanding

:44:22.:44:24.

in the semifinals and Andy Murray looked like he was on his last legs

:44:25.:44:29.

against Milos Raonic. He came out just fantastic. A phenomenal

:44:30.:44:33.

achievement. Unquestioningly one of the greatest British athletes of all

:44:34.:44:38.

time and a privilege to be there. Jamie, tell us about Murray's mental

:44:39.:44:42.

and physical strength to achieve this. Yes, it is incredible. We know

:44:43.:44:52.

him well and we have seen him play so many matches and we have seen him

:44:53.:44:56.

come through these tough situations before, especially in the training

:44:57.:45:01.

blocks. He pushes himself to the max. Even though he was really tired

:45:02.:45:06.

going into the final, we knew that and we also knew that he had a lot

:45:07.:45:10.

extra in reserve to pull back on, and he played emphatically well.

:45:11.:45:16.

Yes, it wasn't just the win, it was the man of the win, wasn't it? Yes,

:45:17.:45:22.

and with it being something as big as he has achieved, finishing the

:45:23.:45:27.

year ranked number one, beating Novak Djokovic in the final as well

:45:28.:45:31.

in that high pressure situation, it was a huge mental block for him and

:45:32.:45:37.

it will help him a lot next year. He has lost in finals to Novak Djokovic

:45:38.:45:40.

in the last few years and it makes it just extra sweet to beat him in

:45:41.:45:51.

the final. What does it mean to him quite? Only this year he really

:45:52.:45:54.

started believing he could get to number one. It is something he has

:45:55.:45:58.

worked for all his life and dedicated himself and sacrificed so

:45:59.:46:02.

much. It is tough to put into words what he has achieved but for sure he

:46:03.:46:03.

is over the moon, yes. Jamie ended the year as well in the

:46:04.:46:14.

doubles? It is incredible for a family to have two world number ones

:46:15.:46:18.

in the singles and doubles is an incredible achievement. For both of

:46:19.:46:21.

them to do it in the same year is amazing. Jamie just as much as Andy

:46:22.:46:27.

has applied himself so well and a few talent in doubles as well. Both

:46:28.:46:32.

of them fully deserve. Jamie, you remember the fallow tennis years of

:46:33.:46:37.

the late 80s and early 90s and it kick-started with you winning the

:46:38.:46:43.

orange bowl and into Tim Henman, I couldn't have believed we could have

:46:44.:46:47.

got to this. Could you have envisaged a daik this. Wimbledon

:46:48.:46:51.

champion, twice Wimbledon champion, all that he has achieved. It is

:46:52.:46:55.

almost unbelievable, isn't it? It is. It is incredible. We had Tim and

:46:56.:47:02.

Greg who were unbelievable players who both got to number four in the

:47:03.:47:06.

world and we have privileged to have them in the top ten for so many

:47:07.:47:12.

years. I think it was tough to imagine that we could Woo have

:47:13.:47:17.

someone come along and surpass what they did. Andy had a couple of Grand

:47:18.:47:22.

Slam titles and now the best player in the world. If you rewind 20 or 30

:47:23.:47:27.

years, you would never of dreamed of this. You bring Ivan Lendl back in

:47:28.:47:34.

andanedy all geld so well together. That must make you feel so proud?

:47:35.:47:39.

Yes, for sure. It is a great job to work with Andy. He has got all the

:47:40.:47:43.

talent in the world, but as you can imagine, there is tricky days along

:47:44.:47:48.

the way that we have to manage and get him into good mental state to

:47:49.:47:51.

play matches and prepare him in the right way. So the who will team does

:47:52.:47:55.

a really good job and we are all very proud of the job we've done and

:47:56.:47:59.

for him more importantly. Thank you very much. Thank you, cheers, Jamie.

:48:00.:48:03.

Thank you very much, Simon. The family of a British mum jailed

:48:04.:48:08.

for two years in Iran on charges of being a spy say her health has

:48:09.:48:11.

deteriorated and they are worried 37-year-old Nazanin

:48:12.:48:15.

Zaghari-Ratcliffe who is half Iranian was arrested as she tried

:48:16.:48:23.

to leave Iran back in May. Her husband Richard Ratcliffe

:48:24.:48:26.

continues to campaign Hello Richard. How do you know about

:48:27.:48:33.

your wife's latest condition? Yes. So she was on hunger strike last

:48:34.:48:38.

week. Her family got told on Thursday that she was having a

:48:39.:48:41.

hunger strike and there was an emergency family visit on Friday to

:48:42.:48:45.

request that she break the hunger strike and when her mother saw her,

:48:46.:48:50.

she passed out just about the shock of how thin she had got. And then

:48:51.:48:56.

sort of the kerfuffle and grabry Ella screaming was enough for

:48:57.:49:03.

Nazanin to break her hunger strike. That's your young daughter. Our

:49:04.:49:10.

daughter was very traumatised to see her mum looking like she did. I

:49:11.:49:24.

spoke to Nazanin on Monday. The suicide specific reference, she

:49:25.:49:29.

called me on 23rd October and said that she was feeling suicidal and

:49:30.:49:33.

she had written me a note saying goodbye and to take good care of

:49:34.:49:40.

gabry Ella and she was sorry that everything had happened and you

:49:41.:49:43.

know, she had never loved anyone like me and left it. She cheered up

:49:44.:49:49.

a bit after that. So then it was a lot more frightening this last week

:49:50.:49:55.

to hear where she had got to. Where are you in trying it get your wife

:49:56.:50:00.

home? Well, goodness knows. We discovered that there is this arms

:50:01.:50:06.

debt that the UK owes Iran ?500 million which they have been

:50:07.:50:12.

negotiating over ever since and it maps completely against our case.

:50:13.:50:17.

Nazanin was taken in April. Nazanin was told she was being held as a

:50:18.:50:21.

bargaining chip in June. The negotiations broke down in May. She

:50:22.:50:25.

is being held on secret charges and there is this really strange legal

:50:26.:50:30.

process and we were told to make the British Government make the payment

:50:31.:50:34.

and she will be released. The Government never called for her

:50:35.:50:38.

release and never tried to visit her and never condemned the Iranian

:50:39.:50:44.

actions, but it seems to amount closely to this clandestine

:50:45.:50:47.

agreement. The British Government owe Iran some money? ?500 million.

:50:48.:50:54.

It is an old arms debt that we spent 40 years not paying. Iran took the

:50:55.:51:00.

UK to court and the UK lost the case. So... Foreign Office say they

:51:01.:51:10.

don't know anything about that, but you're saying that's the case,

:51:11.:51:14.

please pay the money and my wife might be released? That's right. It

:51:15.:51:18.

is clear that the Iranians are being ruthless and putting my wife through

:51:19.:51:24.

a terrible condition. The UK should pay up. This is an international

:51:25.:51:29.

court order. If they pay up, I'd be pretty sure my wife would be home.

:51:30.:51:34.

Were you managing to get that message through to those who can

:51:35.:51:37.

make the kind of decisions in the Foreign Office? Well, we have got a

:51:38.:51:40.

Prime Minister's question on Wednesday. So our MP will be asking

:51:41.:51:47.

Theresa May on the progress of Nazanin's case and what is happening

:51:48.:51:50.

on this debt and we will see the answer then.

:51:51.:51:54.

OK. Thank you very much. We will see what happens. Thank you very much,

:51:55.:51:56.

we will continue to report on the case, of course.

:51:57.:51:59.

We asked the Foreign Office to respond, and they sent us this

:52:00.:52:02.

statement, "We understand what a difficult time this is.

:52:03.:52:09.

The minister for the Middle East, Tobias Ellwood, has met

:52:10.:52:11.

with the families personally to reassure them that we are doing

:52:12.:52:14.

We have raised their cases with the Iranian Government

:52:15.:52:18.

at the highest levels and will continue to do

:52:19.:52:20.

Iran does not recognise dual nationality and therefore does not

:52:21.:52:23.

So many comments on parental alienation. Kath e-mailed, we have

:52:24.:52:39.

changed people's names to protect their identity. Kath says I am he

:52:40.:52:45.

going through this nightmare with my two children. The children's father

:52:46.:52:51.

has shown that he has narcissistic tendencies. I'm trying to get out of

:52:52.:52:59.

the situation. I'm at a loss to know what best to do. I don't have a

:53:00.:53:02.

support network. This is making it more difficult. I want our children

:53:03.:53:07.

to be cared for in the best and the happiest environment possible."

:53:08.:53:10.

Craig says, "I am the child from one of these divorces. I haven't spoken

:53:11.:53:14.

to my dad for four years. But it was my own choice due to how he treated

:53:15.:53:17.

my mother and her family and myself too. I do hate my father and it is

:53:18.:53:24.

his own fault. He is deluded to think anyone turned me against him.

:53:25.:53:28.

If the law changed, he would be able to harass my mum further which would

:53:29.:53:32.

leave her financially and emotionally depleted. I think this

:53:33.:53:35.

area should be approached with caution. Not assuming that the co

:53:36.:53:42.

parent did anything wrong." Rob says, "Both of my parents did

:53:43.:53:47.

this to my brother and I. It left me for a long time with a strained

:53:48.:53:51.

relationship with both of them. Now, I don't see either of them

:53:52.:53:54.

frequently. It made me realise that both of my parents are complex

:53:55.:53:58.

people just like anyone else. And the veil of them as perfect

:53:59.:54:01.

authority figures dropped probably quicker than it should have." Mark

:54:02.:54:07.

says, "Parental alienation should be treated as child abuse. It tooks me

:54:08.:54:12.

years to come to terms with what my parents did during a bitter and

:54:13.:54:18.

protracted custody battle. It made me feel I was not wanted and I was

:54:19.:54:23.

just in the way." You can read more on the BBC News

:54:24.:54:28.

website and watch and share the full programme on our programme page:

:54:29.:54:35.

Drake, Zayn Malk, Ariana Grande and Sting were the big winners

:54:36.:54:38.

at the American Music Awards last night but the talking point has been

:54:39.:54:41.

this impression of Donald Trump's wife Melania by host Gigi Hadid.

:54:42.:54:49.

I love my husband. LAUGHTER

:54:50.:54:59.

President Barack Obama! And our children.

:55:00.:55:05.

This is what Melania Trump sounds like. People are counting on him.

:55:06.:55:11.

All the millions of you who have touched us so much with your

:55:12.:55:16.

kindness and your confidence. The only limit to your achievements is

:55:17.:55:21.

the strength of your dreams and your willingness to work for them.

:55:22.:55:25.

Newsbeat's entertainment reporter Sinead Garvan can tell us more.

:55:26.:55:32.

So there was a backlash against Gigi for that. Some people are accusing

:55:33.:55:41.

her of being racist because she put on the accent and other people say

:55:42.:55:46.

you are not good at hosting, stick to modelling. Some people are saying

:55:47.:55:49.

that Melania Trump is going to be the First Lady of the United States,

:55:50.:55:53.

show her a bit of respect. I think, you know, the Saturday night Live

:55:54.:55:56.

programme in America, you know, all they have been doing for the past

:55:57.:56:00.

two years is like having a laugh at the expense of the candidates and I

:56:01.:56:03.

think it is probably more to do with the fact that she is a model and

:56:04.:56:08.

people get their back up when models try and do everything else. They

:56:09.:56:11.

have got to stay in the model box. It is the first time she hosted

:56:12.:56:17.

that. There was always going to be a bit of backlash when there was

:56:18.:56:19.

something controversial. Her boyfriend was there. He won

:56:20.:56:24.

something, didn't he? He won Best Newcomer. He made reference to that

:56:25.:56:31.

in his speech. He went through and he thanked a number of people who

:56:32.:56:34.

have been there to support him through the past year. He has been

:56:35.:56:40.

through some serious times of anxiety and all the rest of it. So

:56:41.:56:47.

he has not performed as a solo artist. He thanked a lot of people,

:56:48.:56:52.

particularly his mum and his dad. No mention of Gigi. I don't know what

:56:53.:56:57.

the conversations are going to be like after those awards.

:56:58.:57:00.

It wasn't just the presenter who took aim at President-elect

:57:01.:57:02.

Donald Trump, the Punk band Green Day had a pop at the next

:57:03.:57:05.

leader of the free-world singing, "no Trump, no KKK, no fascist USA"

:57:06.:57:08.

No Trump. No Trump. No KKK. Donald Trump said he is a big fan of Green

:57:09.:57:37.

Day. He has been to see their musical and said it was excellent.

:57:38.:57:40.

What he will be making of this. But Sting made a reference to it the he

:57:41.:57:44.

picked up the Merit Award. What's that? You have done great stuff in

:57:45.:57:48.

your life? It is one of those lifetime achievement awards. He said

:57:49.:57:52.

that, you know, one of America's greatest exports is music and music

:57:53.:57:58.

is of all colour in America. We know all the music that comes from there

:57:59.:58:02.

has no, yeah, all colours, all religions, all races and all

:58:03.:58:07.

everything and that's what makes American music brilliant. And a word

:58:08.:58:15.

about Drake? He won Best hip-hop act and best song and he won best album.

:58:16.:58:23.

He said that he has got lots of new music on the way too.

:58:24.:58:27.

Thank you for your company today. We are back tomorrow at 9am. Have a

:58:28.:58:28.

good day.

:58:29.:58:32.

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