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No way, Tyler, you're not helping. | 0:00:02 | 0:00:03 | |
Since when did your sense of humour get surgically removed? | 0:00:03 | 0:00:06 | |
Since when was secretly filming someone funny? | 0:00:06 | 0:00:08 | |
The words comedy and gold come to mind. | 0:00:08 | 0:00:10 | |
Could you be any more annoying? | 0:00:10 | 0:00:12 | |
I'm doing the blog by myself. Got it? | 0:00:13 | 0:00:16 | |
-What will I do, then? -Go and annoy someone else. | 0:00:16 | 0:00:20 | |
I'd rather annoy you. | 0:00:20 | 0:00:21 | |
Go away, Tyler! | 0:00:21 | 0:00:23 | |
Welcome to The Dumping Ground. | 0:00:26 | 0:00:28 | |
THEY ARGUE | 0:00:33 | 0:00:35 | |
It's not as bad as it sounds. | 0:00:35 | 0:00:38 | |
If you're watching this, you're one of us now. | 0:00:38 | 0:00:41 | |
Relax. You're going to love it here. | 0:00:42 | 0:00:44 | |
ALL: Ta-da! | 0:00:44 | 0:00:45 | |
You'll meet some amazing new friends. | 0:00:45 | 0:00:48 | |
Get to try exciting new food. | 0:00:48 | 0:00:51 | |
We promise it's an experience you'll never forget. | 0:00:51 | 0:00:54 | |
Brilliant. | 0:00:54 | 0:00:56 | |
ALL: One! | 0:00:56 | 0:00:57 | |
But remember, this is a place where random chaos can strike at any time. | 0:00:59 | 0:01:03 | |
So you have to be prepared... | 0:01:05 | 0:01:07 | |
For pretty much anything. | 0:01:09 | 0:01:10 | |
And that's why we made this video blog. | 0:01:14 | 0:01:17 | |
We've been through all this so you don't have to. | 0:01:17 | 0:01:20 | |
This time on The Dumping Ground Survival Files - second chances. | 0:01:22 | 0:01:25 | |
When to give people the benefit of the doubt | 0:01:25 | 0:01:27 | |
and the chance to put right stuff they've done wrong. | 0:01:27 | 0:01:30 | |
Be careful, though, appearances can be deceptive... | 0:01:30 | 0:01:32 | |
Especially in this place. | 0:01:32 | 0:01:34 | |
Be honest, we have all been there. | 0:01:37 | 0:01:39 | |
You've done something wrong and you want to put it right, | 0:01:39 | 0:01:42 | |
but you can't do that unless someone will let you. | 0:01:42 | 0:01:44 | |
And that is what this blog is all about - | 0:01:44 | 0:01:47 | |
giving people second chances. | 0:01:47 | 0:01:49 | |
Excellent! | 0:01:49 | 0:01:50 | |
Although, sometimes it is hard to forgive and forget. | 0:01:52 | 0:01:56 | |
How hard can it be? I'm here right now. Go. | 0:01:56 | 0:01:59 | |
Tyler, but it is not a second chance you are asking for, | 0:01:59 | 0:02:01 | |
it is a millionth. | 0:02:01 | 0:02:03 | |
Oh, come on, please! I'll do everything you say. | 0:02:03 | 0:02:05 | |
This blog will be boring anyway with just you doing it. | 0:02:05 | 0:02:08 | |
Is that supposed to persuade me? | 0:02:08 | 0:02:10 | |
# One more chance That's all I ask of you. # | 0:02:11 | 0:02:15 | |
You want to make a good impression. | 0:02:15 | 0:02:17 | |
But sometimes, no matter how hard you try, | 0:02:17 | 0:02:19 | |
that doesn't work out and people get the wrong idea about you. | 0:02:19 | 0:02:23 | |
Because sometimes people are way too quick to judge. Like... | 0:02:23 | 0:02:27 | |
Let me think of an example. I know, you, Jody! | 0:02:27 | 0:02:31 | |
I am so not judgmental. Although, plenty of people here are. | 0:02:31 | 0:02:35 | |
Let's find one of them and interview them for the blog. | 0:02:35 | 0:02:37 | |
I don't think I am letting you anywhere near the camera, lamebrain. | 0:02:37 | 0:02:41 | |
So judgmental. | 0:02:41 | 0:02:42 | |
Let's start with one of the nicest people here. | 0:02:44 | 0:02:46 | |
She's kind, she's generous. | 0:02:46 | 0:02:48 | |
But sometimes she can make her mind up about people way too quickly. | 0:02:48 | 0:02:53 | |
Carmen, what is it that makes...some people...judge | 0:02:53 | 0:02:57 | |
others by appearances, do you think? | 0:02:57 | 0:02:59 | |
Well, you know me, Jody, always trying to see the best in everyone. | 0:02:59 | 0:03:02 | |
It's not always good to judge people too quickly. | 0:03:02 | 0:03:05 | |
-So you never judge people? OK(!) -What is that supposed to mean? | 0:03:05 | 0:03:10 | |
Well, you didn't exactly go out of your way not to judge me. Did you? | 0:03:10 | 0:03:15 | |
Jody has had a rough time. She needs to share with someone who is kind. | 0:03:15 | 0:03:19 | |
And as we all know, Carmen, you are the best man for the job. | 0:03:19 | 0:03:22 | |
Did you really think I would fall for that? | 0:03:22 | 0:03:25 | |
Hoped so, cos it is all I've got. You are still sharing with Jody. | 0:03:25 | 0:03:28 | |
She has so much stuff! It's like a shop in here. | 0:03:28 | 0:03:33 | |
Put them back, Jody, | 0:03:33 | 0:03:34 | |
you can't borrow Carmen's things without asking first. | 0:03:34 | 0:03:36 | |
She can't borrow them at all. | 0:03:36 | 0:03:39 | |
-Why? -I don't want a roommate, especially one who stinks. | 0:03:39 | 0:03:43 | |
Carmen! | 0:03:43 | 0:03:44 | |
You didn't exactly go out of your way to create a good | 0:03:44 | 0:03:46 | |
impression, did you? | 0:03:46 | 0:03:47 | |
YELLING | 0:03:47 | 0:03:51 | |
Anyway, that is just one example. | 0:03:57 | 0:03:59 | |
-I'd like to see you come up with any more. -Easy, Kazima. | 0:03:59 | 0:04:03 | |
'Talk about history repeating itself.' | 0:04:04 | 0:04:06 | |
Look, Kazima, I know that you've been living on the streets, | 0:04:07 | 0:04:11 | |
and I really have been trying to make allowances for you, but... | 0:04:11 | 0:04:13 | |
You are so kind. | 0:04:13 | 0:04:15 | |
Thank you so much. | 0:04:15 | 0:04:17 | |
-I just don't think this room-share is working out. -You're right. | 0:04:17 | 0:04:20 | |
Maybe you should move out. | 0:04:20 | 0:04:22 | |
Me? | 0:04:22 | 0:04:24 | |
Is this another one of your jokes? | 0:04:24 | 0:04:27 | |
Because it is really not funny. | 0:04:27 | 0:04:29 | |
Wait, that's not fair. | 0:04:29 | 0:04:30 | |
There have been loads of times when it has been me giving a chance | 0:04:30 | 0:04:33 | |
when everyone else has decided they don't like them. | 0:04:33 | 0:04:35 | |
-OK, name one. -Remember Esme? | 0:04:35 | 0:04:38 | |
What, that stuck up princess? | 0:04:38 | 0:04:40 | |
My point exactly. | 0:04:40 | 0:04:42 | |
Yes, look! | 0:04:42 | 0:04:43 | |
-What? -Four, that is a sign. -It is a shoe size. -It is destiny. | 0:04:43 | 0:04:47 | |
-Right, I'm going to try them on. -OK, as long as you hurry up. | 0:04:47 | 0:04:51 | |
They totally match your outfit. | 0:04:51 | 0:04:53 | |
-Thanks. -No, seriously, you have to buy a pair. | 0:04:56 | 0:04:59 | |
Oh, I already have a pair. | 0:04:59 | 0:05:02 | |
I was just trying to convince my friend here to get some. | 0:05:02 | 0:05:06 | |
I think I'll pass. | 0:05:06 | 0:05:07 | |
-Do you mind if I...? -No, no, not at all. | 0:05:07 | 0:05:10 | |
Let's go. | 0:05:11 | 0:05:12 | |
-Enjoy. -Ciao! | 0:05:13 | 0:05:15 | |
-What are you like? -What do you mean? | 0:05:22 | 0:05:24 | |
"Oh, I have just got to try to convince my friend to get some." | 0:05:24 | 0:05:27 | |
-I don't know what you're talking about. -Sure. | 0:05:27 | 0:05:29 | |
It's not like we're ever going to see her again, | 0:05:29 | 0:05:31 | |
-is it? -No, you've got a point. -Help! | 0:05:31 | 0:05:33 | |
Get off me! | 0:05:33 | 0:05:35 | |
-Give it back! -Oi! -Get away from her! -Let go! | 0:05:35 | 0:05:38 | |
Are you all right? | 0:05:39 | 0:05:42 | |
You sure? | 0:05:42 | 0:05:43 | |
-Are you two sisters? -BOTH: No. | 0:05:43 | 0:05:45 | |
But you said you lived together. | 0:05:46 | 0:05:49 | |
Yeah, we do. We live in a care home. | 0:05:49 | 0:05:52 | |
Oh. | 0:05:52 | 0:05:53 | |
-You're not freaked out, are you? -Why would I be? | 0:05:53 | 0:05:56 | |
-Because it is not a dump or anything. -I'm sure it isn't. | 0:05:56 | 0:05:59 | |
If you don't want to come back, it's fine, I totally understand. | 0:05:59 | 0:06:02 | |
No, I'd like to. | 0:06:02 | 0:06:03 | |
I totally didn't judge her when others did. | 0:06:07 | 0:06:09 | |
-Is she really a princess? -No! Stupid name. | 0:06:09 | 0:06:12 | |
She has got Carmen saying ciao instead of bye. | 0:06:12 | 0:06:15 | |
-I hate her already. -So there you go. | 0:06:15 | 0:06:17 | |
I was the open-minded one and nobody else would give her a chance. | 0:06:17 | 0:06:20 | |
But that is because she was a posh princess | 0:06:20 | 0:06:22 | |
-and you wanted to be like her. -She was just a normal kid. | 0:06:22 | 0:06:26 | |
Yeah, just a normal kid whose parents happen to be millionaires. | 0:06:26 | 0:06:29 | |
-Your Carmen? -Yes. | 0:06:30 | 0:06:33 | |
-The Carmen? -I guess... | 0:06:33 | 0:06:36 | |
The pride of St Hilda's? Esme has told me all about you. | 0:06:36 | 0:06:40 | |
You were in the same stream. | 0:06:40 | 0:06:42 | |
I...don't know what to say. | 0:06:42 | 0:06:45 | |
You see, darling, I do pay attention to what you say. | 0:06:45 | 0:06:48 | |
CAR HORN | 0:06:48 | 0:06:50 | |
That's your car, Mother. | 0:06:50 | 0:06:52 | |
And you know, it is awfully good of you to help her with her coursework. | 0:06:52 | 0:06:56 | |
I mean, I would do so myself, but, well, I'm up to my eyes in work. | 0:06:56 | 0:06:59 | |
Turned out that I was being too trusting. | 0:07:01 | 0:07:03 | |
Because she was the one judging me. | 0:07:03 | 0:07:05 | |
That's why she wouldn't tell her mum where I really came from. | 0:07:05 | 0:07:07 | |
I didn't know what else to tell her. | 0:07:07 | 0:07:09 | |
No, you just didn't want to tell her that | 0:07:09 | 0:07:11 | |
I was some random girl from a care home. | 0:07:11 | 0:07:14 | |
-It's only a white lie, no-one got hurt. -You hurt me! | 0:07:14 | 0:07:17 | |
So you could say that my real problem is | 0:07:17 | 0:07:19 | |
I am too keen to give everyone the benefit of the doubt. | 0:07:19 | 0:07:22 | |
Yeah, as long as you don't have to share a room with them. | 0:07:22 | 0:07:24 | |
Uh, Jody, that is not true and... | 0:07:24 | 0:07:26 | |
It's a balancing act. | 0:07:28 | 0:07:29 | |
You want to give new people a fair chance, | 0:07:29 | 0:07:31 | |
but you don't want to be taken for a ride. | 0:07:31 | 0:07:34 | |
And some people are better at making that kind of call than others. | 0:07:34 | 0:07:37 | |
Stop it, Tyler! | 0:07:37 | 0:07:39 | |
-Only if you let me join in. -Fine. | 0:07:39 | 0:07:42 | |
Go and find Frank and ask him some questions about the | 0:07:42 | 0:07:45 | |
millions of times he has got the wrong end of the stick with people. | 0:07:45 | 0:07:48 | |
Even you can't mess that up. | 0:07:48 | 0:07:50 | |
Yes, ma'am, I won't let you down! | 0:07:50 | 0:07:52 | |
You are so not funny. | 0:07:52 | 0:07:54 | |
OK, Frank, what I want to know is how good do you think you are | 0:07:54 | 0:07:58 | |
at judging people's characters? | 0:07:58 | 0:08:00 | |
I'd say pretty good. | 0:08:00 | 0:08:02 | |
-No, you can't say that. -But I am good at sizing people up. | 0:08:02 | 0:08:08 | |
You have to say you're not. I can't let Jody think I'm useless. | 0:08:08 | 0:08:11 | |
-Ha, not my problem. -OK. What about that girl...Jen? | 0:08:11 | 0:08:17 | |
# Yeah, she did me wrong! # | 0:08:18 | 0:08:21 | |
Yeah, Rick told me all about her | 0:08:21 | 0:08:23 | |
and how she was able to wrap Frank round her little finger. | 0:08:23 | 0:08:27 | |
-This game's different. -Yeah, and how is it different, Frank? | 0:08:29 | 0:08:33 | |
Jen has taught me a system. | 0:08:33 | 0:08:35 | |
-Who is Jen? -She is really amazing. | 0:08:36 | 0:08:39 | |
She wins, like, every time. | 0:08:39 | 0:08:41 | |
Right, so she wins every single time, | 0:08:41 | 0:08:43 | |
why is she sharing the system with you? | 0:08:43 | 0:08:44 | |
Because she wants me and her to work together. | 0:08:44 | 0:08:46 | |
-What is she getting out of that? -She likes me, OK? | 0:08:46 | 0:08:50 | |
But I guess you think that is just crazy. | 0:08:50 | 0:08:53 | |
Frank! | 0:08:53 | 0:08:54 | |
Where were you? I was so worried about you. | 0:08:55 | 0:08:58 | |
This is Jen. | 0:08:58 | 0:09:00 | |
Have you got my money? | 0:09:02 | 0:09:04 | |
Yeah. | 0:09:04 | 0:09:05 | |
And I want a rematch. | 0:09:09 | 0:09:13 | |
Anyone can make a mistake. | 0:09:13 | 0:09:16 | |
And anyway, that was different. | 0:09:16 | 0:09:20 | |
In what way? | 0:09:20 | 0:09:22 | |
She was gorgeous. | 0:09:22 | 0:09:24 | |
I win, ha. | 0:09:27 | 0:09:29 | |
Come to papa! | 0:09:30 | 0:09:32 | |
Face it, she saw you coming and was totally manipulating you. | 0:09:32 | 0:09:36 | |
-A bit harsh! -It's the truth. | 0:09:36 | 0:09:39 | |
And you know it. | 0:09:39 | 0:09:41 | |
Five aces? | 0:09:41 | 0:09:42 | |
You were dealing. | 0:09:45 | 0:09:46 | |
I've got no idea where that's come from. | 0:09:46 | 0:09:48 | |
You cheated so your boyfriend could win. | 0:09:48 | 0:09:50 | |
No, look, it was my idea, Frank had nothing to do with it. | 0:09:50 | 0:09:54 | |
You must think we're stupid. I want every penny you ever won off us. | 0:09:55 | 0:09:59 | |
-CRYING: This is all I have. -Liar! | 0:10:03 | 0:10:05 | |
No, wait. | 0:10:06 | 0:10:07 | |
Here, take this. | 0:10:09 | 0:10:12 | |
How could you let yourself be tricked like that? | 0:10:12 | 0:10:14 | |
Listen, she was good. | 0:10:14 | 0:10:17 | |
-Beautiful, just beautiful. -You too. | 0:10:25 | 0:10:28 | |
-I was almost scared for a moment. -Cos you're a good actor. | 0:10:28 | 0:10:31 | |
Real tears and everything. | 0:10:31 | 0:10:32 | |
Anyway, what about Kaz? I got it right that time. | 0:10:34 | 0:10:39 | |
-Why do you care so much about Frank? -I was sleeping in a shop doorway. | 0:10:39 | 0:10:44 | |
Frank would give me food. We would talk. | 0:10:44 | 0:10:46 | |
-Then he came to me in trouble, I had to help. -By stealing? | 0:10:47 | 0:10:50 | |
Meanwhile, everyone else was jumping to the wrong conclusion. | 0:10:50 | 0:10:57 | |
Whoa! What do you mean steal? | 0:10:57 | 0:11:00 | |
She does. She picks people's pockets when they're trying to help you. | 0:11:00 | 0:11:03 | |
Yeah. Sorry, mate, we all saw her. | 0:11:03 | 0:11:07 | |
People jump to conclusions for a reason. | 0:11:07 | 0:11:09 | |
-A lot of what she was up to didn't exactly look good. -Yeah, I suppose. | 0:11:09 | 0:11:14 | |
You know what, you should ask Kaz all about this. | 0:11:22 | 0:11:27 | |
Will she have much to say? | 0:11:27 | 0:11:29 | |
You'd be surprised. | 0:11:29 | 0:11:32 | |
I can never get a word out of her. | 0:11:32 | 0:11:34 | |
She's got loads to say if you go about it the right way. | 0:11:34 | 0:11:41 | |
Well, there's no harm in trying. | 0:11:41 | 0:11:43 | |
Hey, Kaz, it's really wrong to judge people, don't you think? | 0:11:44 | 0:11:47 | |
Yeah, I suppose so. | 0:11:47 | 0:11:49 | |
Like you, I bet you're not really as weird as you actually come across. | 0:11:49 | 0:11:52 | |
All right, put it another way, do you think people misjudge you? | 0:11:54 | 0:11:58 | |
-I think people underestimate me. But that's a good thing. -Good? | 0:11:58 | 0:12:03 | |
-How can that be good? -Because it gives me the element of surprise. | 0:12:03 | 0:12:07 | |
Every time you want to play a shot, | 0:12:07 | 0:12:09 | |
you just have to hit the white ball first. | 0:12:09 | 0:12:11 | |
-White ball first. -Uh-huh. | 0:12:11 | 0:12:13 | |
Wait, no, look. | 0:12:13 | 0:12:15 | |
Hold it round this way. See? | 0:12:15 | 0:12:17 | |
Right, now you try. | 0:12:20 | 0:12:22 | |
-Like this? -Uh-huh. | 0:12:23 | 0:12:26 | |
THEY LAUGH | 0:12:26 | 0:12:29 | |
Exactly. But you're getting there. | 0:12:29 | 0:12:31 | |
No-one really knows me and what I can do, and that suits me fine. | 0:12:31 | 0:12:35 | |
I prefer to play like this. | 0:12:35 | 0:12:37 | |
And like this. | 0:12:39 | 0:12:40 | |
Kaz certainly had you lot fooled. | 0:12:55 | 0:12:57 | |
Although, that's not exactly difficult. | 0:12:57 | 0:13:00 | |
Be careful what you say. | 0:13:00 | 0:13:01 | |
Don't forget, I do have hidden camera magic and I'm not afraid to use it. | 0:13:01 | 0:13:05 | |
-Are you blackmailing me? -No. Would I do something so underhand as that? | 0:13:05 | 0:13:09 | |
Yes. Yes, you would. | 0:13:09 | 0:13:11 | |
All I'm saying is, if you don't want this hilarious footage of you | 0:13:11 | 0:13:15 | |
to fall into the wrong hands, then just keep me sweet. | 0:13:15 | 0:13:18 | |
So what have we learned | 0:13:19 | 0:13:20 | |
so far about second chances to upload into the Survival Files? | 0:13:20 | 0:13:24 | |
Well, sometimes we all mess up. | 0:13:25 | 0:13:27 | |
Yeah, and that's when we need other people to be big enough to see | 0:13:27 | 0:13:30 | |
behind their first impressions and give you a second chance. | 0:13:30 | 0:13:33 | |
Like Carmen did with you, hey, Jody? | 0:13:33 | 0:13:36 | |
I'll admit that sometimes first impressions can be deceptive. | 0:13:36 | 0:13:40 | |
You can easily get the wrong end of the stick about people | 0:13:40 | 0:13:42 | |
if you're not careful. | 0:13:42 | 0:13:44 | |
Yeah, so it often turns out that people can be too quick to | 0:13:44 | 0:13:47 | |
judge somebody, even though | 0:13:47 | 0:13:48 | |
they haven't done anything that bad in the first place. | 0:13:48 | 0:13:52 | |
Of course, though, | 0:13:52 | 0:13:53 | |
it could always turn out that your first impression was right. | 0:13:53 | 0:13:56 | |
So for example, a boy who seems to be annoying, | 0:13:56 | 0:13:58 | |
unfunny and always exactly where you don't want him to be | 0:13:58 | 0:14:01 | |
might really turn out to be all of those things. | 0:14:01 | 0:14:04 | |
-Hang on, are you talking about me? -Now, what gave you that impression? | 0:14:04 | 0:14:08 | |
Of course, there is one person you'll meet here whose speciality is | 0:14:13 | 0:14:17 | |
making a bad impression on people. | 0:14:17 | 0:14:19 | |
-What, worse than you? -No contest. | 0:14:19 | 0:14:22 | |
Bailey! | 0:14:22 | 0:14:24 | |
Back, back! | 0:14:25 | 0:14:27 | |
Go on, Jody, now. | 0:14:27 | 0:14:29 | |
-Get past her, Trevor. -It's Tyler! | 0:14:29 | 0:14:32 | |
I don't care what your name is. | 0:14:32 | 0:14:33 | |
Maybe if you lost a bit of way, you'd move a bit faster. | 0:14:33 | 0:14:37 | |
-That's not nice. -Neither is losing. | 0:14:37 | 0:14:39 | |
Yes! | 0:14:39 | 0:14:40 | |
Bailey had only been here five minutes | 0:14:42 | 0:14:44 | |
and he had already rubbed everyone up the wrong way. | 0:14:44 | 0:14:47 | |
You have got Frank's old room. | 0:14:48 | 0:14:50 | |
If you don't like it, you are allowed to paint it. | 0:14:50 | 0:14:53 | |
Who asked you, ginger nut? | 0:14:53 | 0:14:55 | |
I can tell if I like someone or not in five seconds. | 0:14:55 | 0:14:59 | |
And I am never wrong. | 0:14:59 | 0:15:00 | |
The social worker said I am only going to be here for a night. | 0:15:00 | 0:15:03 | |
Good, cos I thought I liked you, but I don't. | 0:15:03 | 0:15:06 | |
And trust me, you do not want to get on Floss's bedside. | 0:15:07 | 0:15:11 | |
Grrr! | 0:15:11 | 0:15:12 | |
Who do you want to play for? | 0:15:12 | 0:15:15 | |
Barcelona probably would offer me the most, | 0:15:15 | 0:15:17 | |
but I wouldn't turn Liverpool down either. | 0:15:17 | 0:15:19 | |
I'd rather play with Man U. | 0:15:19 | 0:15:23 | |
I thought you looked like a loser. | 0:15:25 | 0:15:27 | |
What? Fail-y Wharton? | 0:15:28 | 0:15:29 | |
I tell you what, the second I clapped eyes on that idiot, | 0:15:29 | 0:15:32 | |
I knew he was an idiot. | 0:15:32 | 0:15:33 | |
And all of the idiotic things he has done | 0:15:33 | 0:15:35 | |
since then have just not changed my mind about that. | 0:15:35 | 0:15:37 | |
He is an idiot. A total idiot. | 0:15:37 | 0:15:40 | |
So, let me get this straight, you think Bailey is an idiot? | 0:15:40 | 0:15:44 | |
I just said that, didn't I? | 0:15:44 | 0:15:46 | |
-Well, sometimes in life you have to make allowances for people. -What? | 0:15:46 | 0:15:50 | |
Even if they are being obnoxious? | 0:15:50 | 0:15:52 | |
Tyler, you know as well as anybody that when people turn up here, | 0:15:52 | 0:15:56 | |
they have usually been through a lot. | 0:15:56 | 0:15:58 | |
-Come back here! -Make me. | 0:16:04 | 0:16:06 | |
Gotcha! | 0:16:09 | 0:16:10 | |
-I had it covered. -You're welcome. -Hey. | 0:16:13 | 0:16:15 | |
Giving you a bit of work out, was he? | 0:16:15 | 0:16:18 | |
I thought he needed the exercise. | 0:16:18 | 0:16:20 | |
So I'm guessing Bailey must've been a bit of a challenge | 0:16:20 | 0:16:22 | |
when he first arrived. | 0:16:22 | 0:16:25 | |
Kids like Bailey are why I do this job. | 0:16:25 | 0:16:27 | |
Besides, I've been in this game long enough not to let | 0:16:27 | 0:16:30 | |
the likes of Bailey Wharton knock me off my stride. | 0:16:30 | 0:16:33 | |
Hi, you must be Bailey. | 0:16:33 | 0:16:35 | |
You look like you need a bit of work out yourself. | 0:16:35 | 0:16:38 | |
ALL: Ooooh! | 0:16:38 | 0:16:40 | |
He knows which buttons to push, though, doesn't he? | 0:16:42 | 0:16:44 | |
HE LAUGHS | 0:16:44 | 0:16:47 | |
I haven't put on weight, have I? | 0:16:47 | 0:16:49 | |
Cut him some slack, it is a big day for him today. | 0:16:53 | 0:16:56 | |
-Maybe he's a bit nervous. -I don't do nervous. -No? | 0:16:56 | 0:16:59 | |
I'm taking my team to victory. I am going to be a hero. | 0:16:59 | 0:17:02 | |
No-one is going to think you are hero in a top like that, are they? | 0:17:02 | 0:17:06 | |
-ALL: -Oooh! | 0:17:06 | 0:17:08 | |
Ah! | 0:17:10 | 0:17:12 | |
Bailey doesn't mean any harm, he's just one of those people. | 0:17:14 | 0:17:18 | |
What people? | 0:17:18 | 0:17:19 | |
The ones that people think do mean harm, but they don't mean harm. | 0:17:19 | 0:17:22 | |
No, you've lost me. | 0:17:22 | 0:17:24 | |
People think that Bailey means harm, but he doesn't mean any harm. | 0:17:25 | 0:17:29 | |
But because people think he does mean harm, | 0:17:29 | 0:17:32 | |
he ends up doing the kind of harm that he doesn't mean to do. | 0:17:32 | 0:17:35 | |
My head hurts, cut. | 0:17:35 | 0:17:37 | |
Point that camera at me and you're dead. | 0:17:37 | 0:17:39 | |
Is that a Man U shirt he's got on? | 0:17:39 | 0:17:42 | |
Yeah, he has to wear it all morning cos he lost a bet. | 0:17:42 | 0:17:44 | |
Yeah, he was knocking rugby players, so we bet him | 0:17:44 | 0:17:47 | |
he couldn't score penalties with a rugby ball. | 0:17:47 | 0:17:50 | |
-Bailey... -Stop! | 0:17:51 | 0:17:53 | |
Don't let Johnny know I said this cos he's, like, Bailey's | 0:17:53 | 0:17:56 | |
sworn worst enemy, | 0:17:56 | 0:17:58 | |
but we could have tried harder to help Bailey fit in. | 0:17:58 | 0:18:00 | |
Take a picture of me, Lily! Me versus Bailey. | 0:18:00 | 0:18:03 | |
-Don't you dare! -In a Man U shirt. There's one for Frank. | 0:18:03 | 0:18:08 | |
The problem is, once everyone else has the wrong idea about you, | 0:18:12 | 0:18:15 | |
it's like a downward spiral. | 0:18:15 | 0:18:18 | |
Bailey got off on the wrong foot. | 0:18:18 | 0:18:20 | |
Yeah, by being a complete pain to everyone, trashing the place. | 0:18:20 | 0:18:23 | |
I'm sure it was an accident. | 0:18:23 | 0:18:25 | |
Something to say, Tee? | 0:18:25 | 0:18:27 | |
I'll say it. | 0:18:27 | 0:18:28 | |
He kicked the ball right at her. | 0:18:28 | 0:18:31 | |
-Grass. -I'm not grassing, it's just true. | 0:18:31 | 0:18:33 | |
Everyone was way too quick to judge him. | 0:18:33 | 0:18:36 | |
That's not fair, I really tried to make him welcome. | 0:18:36 | 0:18:39 | |
So, your idea of making someone feel welcome | 0:18:39 | 0:18:41 | |
is putting their football boots for sale on the internet? | 0:18:41 | 0:18:45 | |
Is it? | 0:18:45 | 0:18:47 | |
Well, yeah. | 0:18:47 | 0:18:48 | |
Yeah. That was a...a misunderstanding. | 0:18:48 | 0:18:51 | |
That's where they are! We've got bids coming in. | 0:18:51 | 0:18:54 | |
-Shut up, Tyler, is that really all you care about? -Finders keepers. | 0:18:54 | 0:18:57 | |
-I came up with the idea first. -Yeah, and we're at eight quid now. | 0:18:57 | 0:18:59 | |
-We love you, Bailey! We do! We love you, Bailey. -You two are pathetic! | 0:18:59 | 0:19:04 | |
It didn't take long before we worked out why he was behaving like that. | 0:19:04 | 0:19:08 | |
-Yeah, the reason is he is a nightmare. -No. Because of his dad. | 0:19:08 | 0:19:12 | |
Yeah? | 0:19:12 | 0:19:14 | |
Nothing happens without a reason behind it. | 0:19:14 | 0:19:17 | |
# I'm my father's son... # | 0:19:17 | 0:19:18 | |
It's hardly surprising Bailey didn't know how to make friends. | 0:19:18 | 0:19:21 | |
His dad hadn't exactly been much use teaching him | 0:19:21 | 0:19:24 | |
how to get on with the people. | 0:19:24 | 0:19:25 | |
All he ever did was promise the earth and then run out on him. | 0:19:25 | 0:19:29 | |
That's how Bailey ended up here in the first place. | 0:19:29 | 0:19:32 | |
'You're through to Jimmy Wharton's phone. | 0:19:32 | 0:19:34 | |
'I'm not here right now, so leave a message.' | 0:19:34 | 0:19:36 | |
Yeah, Dad, it's me again. | 0:19:36 | 0:19:39 | |
Did you get the message? | 0:19:39 | 0:19:41 | |
You know where I am, right? You are coming to get me, aren't you? | 0:19:41 | 0:19:45 | |
Um... | 0:19:45 | 0:19:46 | |
PHONE CLICKS OFF | 0:19:46 | 0:19:49 | |
CAR HORN | 0:19:55 | 0:19:57 | |
-Are we expecting someone? -Rude. -It's the ice cream man! -Dad? | 0:19:57 | 0:20:02 | |
Hey, that's my dad! | 0:20:02 | 0:20:03 | |
But when Bailey's dad turned up out of the blue, | 0:20:03 | 0:20:05 | |
I'd never seen him so excited. | 0:20:05 | 0:20:07 | |
HE HONKS THE HORN | 0:20:07 | 0:20:10 | |
Hey, buddy! | 0:20:10 | 0:20:12 | |
Dad, stop it. Get off! | 0:20:18 | 0:20:20 | |
-Where have you been? -I know. | 0:20:20 | 0:20:23 | |
Three weeks. | 0:20:25 | 0:20:27 | |
I've been ringing and ringing. | 0:20:27 | 0:20:28 | |
-You missed my Cup Final game. -I've been on some business. | 0:20:30 | 0:20:33 | |
It took longer than I thought. | 0:20:35 | 0:20:38 | |
-You win? -I didn't play. -What? | 0:20:38 | 0:20:41 | |
Mr Wharton, Michael Milligan, head care worker. | 0:20:41 | 0:20:43 | |
If you're the governor, how come you didn't take my boy | 0:20:43 | 0:20:45 | |
-to his match? -Sorry? | 0:20:45 | 0:20:47 | |
It wasn't his job! It was you that did a bunk and left him! | 0:20:47 | 0:20:51 | |
Where have you been?! | 0:20:51 | 0:20:53 | |
-I'm here now. -You can't turn up acting all innocent, | 0:20:53 | 0:20:56 | |
acting like you never did anything wrong! | 0:20:56 | 0:20:58 | |
-Jody... -Is she a mate of yours? -That's enough. | 0:20:58 | 0:21:01 | |
Go get your things, bud. | 0:21:01 | 0:21:03 | |
Your son has been placed on an emergency care order. | 0:21:03 | 0:21:06 | |
You are not taking him anywhere. | 0:21:06 | 0:21:08 | |
He's my dad. | 0:21:08 | 0:21:09 | |
You can't stop him. | 0:21:10 | 0:21:11 | |
I'm afraid we can. | 0:21:11 | 0:21:14 | |
We are legally in charge of you now. | 0:21:14 | 0:21:16 | |
But for people like Bailey's dad, | 0:21:17 | 0:21:19 | |
little details like emergency care orders don't mean anything. | 0:21:19 | 0:21:22 | |
-Dad? -There you are. I tried every flipping window. | 0:21:22 | 0:21:25 | |
Come on, then, if we are going. | 0:21:25 | 0:21:27 | |
We are leaving? | 0:21:29 | 0:21:30 | |
That dad of his! | 0:21:30 | 0:21:31 | |
The minute I saw him, I knew he was bad news. | 0:21:31 | 0:21:34 | |
Maybe you shouldn't have been so quick to judge | 0:21:34 | 0:21:37 | |
-and taken the time to find out why he was like that. -Very funny. | 0:21:37 | 0:21:40 | |
I thought so. | 0:21:40 | 0:21:41 | |
The point is, we needed to help Bailey. | 0:21:44 | 0:21:46 | |
Not that anyone here was that bothered. | 0:21:46 | 0:21:48 | |
-Will the police find him, though? -Probably. Stop quizzing me. | 0:21:48 | 0:21:52 | |
Bailey never even wanted to be here anyway. | 0:21:52 | 0:21:54 | |
And he's with his dad, not some randomer. | 0:21:54 | 0:21:56 | |
Yeah, for a few weeks. Until his dad leaves him on his own again. | 0:21:56 | 0:21:59 | |
Yeah, well, he knows who to call this time, doesn't he? | 0:21:59 | 0:22:02 | |
What if he can't? | 0:22:02 | 0:22:03 | |
What if he's locked in his bedroom as a punishment for causing | 0:22:03 | 0:22:06 | |
all this trouble for his dad? Like my brother did to me. | 0:22:06 | 0:22:09 | |
Yeah, but the difference was, Jody, your brother was really mean. | 0:22:09 | 0:22:12 | |
No offence. | 0:22:12 | 0:22:13 | |
And Bailey's dad could be worse, except no-one seems to care! | 0:22:13 | 0:22:17 | |
I seem to remember that my natural sense of fairness and compassion | 0:22:17 | 0:22:21 | |
meant that I was right by your side. | 0:22:21 | 0:22:23 | |
Do me a favour. You were one of the worst. | 0:22:23 | 0:22:25 | |
-I don't know why you are so fussed. -Then you are dumb too. | 0:22:25 | 0:22:28 | |
You are just stupid and selfish. | 0:22:28 | 0:22:31 | |
-You just feel bad cos you never liked him either. -What? | 0:22:31 | 0:22:35 | |
None of us did. | 0:22:35 | 0:22:36 | |
-He didn't even try to fit in. -So that means we don't help him? | 0:22:36 | 0:22:41 | |
He's just a kid. All he's got is his dad, he doesn't know any different. | 0:22:41 | 0:22:44 | |
-So? -So how do you think he feels being dumped here with | 0:22:44 | 0:22:47 | |
a load of strangers? | 0:22:47 | 0:22:49 | |
Well, he didn't have to be so annoying. | 0:22:49 | 0:22:51 | |
He was just finding his feet. How many of you settled in straightaway? | 0:22:51 | 0:22:55 | |
Faith got it. | 0:22:55 | 0:22:57 | |
The truth was that behind the big man front, | 0:22:57 | 0:22:59 | |
Bailey was just a kid who had been let down by his dad. | 0:22:59 | 0:23:02 | |
And however badly he kept being let down, | 0:23:02 | 0:23:04 | |
Bailey kept giving his dad chance after chance after chance. | 0:23:04 | 0:23:06 | |
We need to get a move on. The game has already started. | 0:23:06 | 0:23:09 | |
Can we do this every week, Dad? | 0:23:09 | 0:23:11 | |
Of course we can. You're with your old man. What else is there in life? | 0:23:11 | 0:23:15 | |
You see, that is what your Mike fellow don't understand. | 0:23:15 | 0:23:18 | |
You won't have to go away, then? Your business trips. | 0:23:18 | 0:23:22 | |
-Cos I always get into trouble, Dad. -Don't worry about it, OK? | 0:23:23 | 0:23:27 | |
You are my top priority, you know that. Nothing else comes close. | 0:23:27 | 0:23:32 | |
Bailey, can we talk about what happened | 0:23:33 | 0:23:35 | |
with your dad at the football match? | 0:23:35 | 0:23:37 | |
-How about we don't. -Sorry. | 0:23:37 | 0:23:40 | |
I suppose it is not a great memory. | 0:23:40 | 0:23:42 | |
I shouldn't have asked, should I? | 0:23:42 | 0:23:44 | |
No, that's all right. | 0:23:44 | 0:23:45 | |
It's no biggie. | 0:23:47 | 0:23:48 | |
It's that I really thought he'd changed. | 0:23:48 | 0:23:51 | |
Gets me every time. | 0:23:51 | 0:23:52 | |
Every time, I think it is going to be different. | 0:23:52 | 0:23:55 | |
Come on, we need to sneak these past the gate. | 0:23:55 | 0:23:58 | |
Do you have to? | 0:24:03 | 0:24:04 | |
I don't want you getting caught. | 0:24:08 | 0:24:10 | |
You relax. | 0:24:10 | 0:24:11 | |
We are having a laugh. | 0:24:11 | 0:24:13 | |
You distract him, yeah? | 0:24:13 | 0:24:16 | |
I just so wanted it to be all right. | 0:24:16 | 0:24:18 | |
Just once, you know? | 0:24:19 | 0:24:21 | |
Like that ever happens. | 0:24:21 | 0:24:23 | |
Get your hands off me! | 0:24:23 | 0:24:26 | |
I never touched your stupid pitch. | 0:24:26 | 0:24:29 | |
The can fell out of my hand. | 0:24:29 | 0:24:31 | |
Leave quietly now or you make it worse for yourself. | 0:24:31 | 0:24:34 | |
You flipping leave, I'm supporting my team. | 0:24:34 | 0:24:37 | |
-YELLING: -Rovers! | 0:24:37 | 0:24:40 | |
Rovers! | 0:24:40 | 0:24:42 | |
-What's your problem? -Hey, Mr Wharton. | 0:24:44 | 0:24:46 | |
You. | 0:24:48 | 0:24:49 | |
Been stirring it, have they? Trying to pin stuff on me. | 0:24:50 | 0:24:53 | |
Don't believe a word. | 0:24:53 | 0:24:55 | |
Ask Bailey, he kidnapped him from our kids' zone. | 0:24:55 | 0:24:58 | |
You should be arresting him! | 0:24:58 | 0:24:59 | |
Is that right, Son? | 0:25:01 | 0:25:02 | |
No. That kid has got her wires crossed. | 0:25:03 | 0:25:06 | |
I've never seen this little squirt before in my life. | 0:25:07 | 0:25:10 | |
Hey, you all right? | 0:25:22 | 0:25:24 | |
Yeah. | 0:25:24 | 0:25:25 | |
He does love me, you know? | 0:25:27 | 0:25:29 | |
Yeah. | 0:25:29 | 0:25:30 | |
Course he does. | 0:25:30 | 0:25:32 | |
Is that why you were so angry when you got here? | 0:25:32 | 0:25:34 | |
Cos you felt let down by your dad? | 0:25:34 | 0:25:36 | |
No. It was cos you are all losers and I couldn't believe | 0:25:36 | 0:25:38 | |
I was stuck here. | 0:25:38 | 0:25:40 | |
Oh. | 0:25:40 | 0:25:41 | |
So let me get this straight, | 0:25:43 | 0:25:44 | |
you'll give Bailey, like, a million second chances, | 0:25:44 | 0:25:47 | |
but it is different for me? | 0:25:47 | 0:25:48 | |
All you have to do is hand over the embarrassing stuff you filmed. | 0:25:48 | 0:25:52 | |
It breaks my heart, but here's your evidence, officer. | 0:25:52 | 0:25:56 | |
You know it makes sense. | 0:25:56 | 0:25:58 | |
So, what have we learned about second chances to | 0:25:58 | 0:26:01 | |
upload into The Dumping Ground Survival Files? | 0:26:01 | 0:26:04 | |
-Everybody deserves a second chance sometimes. -Everybody? | 0:26:04 | 0:26:07 | |
You've certainly changed your tune. | 0:26:07 | 0:26:09 | |
Yeah, sure. We all make mistakes. | 0:26:09 | 0:26:11 | |
So if you would like others to give you a second chance sometimes, | 0:26:11 | 0:26:14 | |
it is important to do the same if the boot is on the other foot. | 0:26:14 | 0:26:18 | |
It is certainly true that sometimes appearances can be deceptive. | 0:26:18 | 0:26:22 | |
You can't tell everything about someone at first sight. | 0:26:22 | 0:26:24 | |
So you might need to leave yourself some room to | 0:26:24 | 0:26:26 | |
change your mind about somebody and give them a second chance. | 0:26:26 | 0:26:30 | |
That's what Jody did with me. | 0:26:30 | 0:26:31 | |
She saw I deserved a second chance and let me join in with the blog. | 0:26:31 | 0:26:35 | |
More like you were giving me a headache and I thought if I let | 0:26:35 | 0:26:38 | |
you help, you might stop getting on my nerves for a second or two. | 0:26:38 | 0:26:41 | |
Charming(!) | 0:26:41 | 0:26:43 | |
The thing to remember is, | 0:26:43 | 0:26:44 | |
if you are unsure whether to give someone a second chance, | 0:26:44 | 0:26:47 | |
it might be that there is loads going on in the background | 0:26:47 | 0:26:49 | |
that you don't know about which can explain why somebody behaves | 0:26:49 | 0:26:52 | |
the way that they do. | 0:26:52 | 0:26:54 | |
That's all you need to know about second chances uploaded | 0:26:54 | 0:26:58 | |
into The Dumping Grounds Survival Files. | 0:26:58 | 0:27:01 | |
And don't forget... | 0:27:01 | 0:27:03 | |
We went through all this... | 0:27:03 | 0:27:05 | |
So that you don't have to. | 0:27:05 | 0:27:06 | |
# Give me one more chance | 0:27:06 | 0:27:09 | |
# One more chance Just give me one more | 0:27:09 | 0:27:12 | |
# One more | 0:27:14 | 0:27:16 | |
# One more, one more chance | 0:27:18 | 0:27:21 | |
# Give me one more chance One more chance to... # | 0:27:21 | 0:27:26 | |
And now, what we have all been waiting for... The bloopers real. | 0:27:26 | 0:27:31 | |
I hope you don't mean that you... | 0:27:31 | 0:27:33 | |
Did you really think I was going to give away comedy gold | 0:27:33 | 0:27:35 | |
without making a copy? | 0:27:35 | 0:27:37 | |
# Rah-rah-ah-ah-ah-ah Rama-ramama-ah... # | 0:27:38 | 0:27:42 | |
-Tyler! -Never mind me. Keep on giving it, Gaga. | 0:27:42 | 0:27:45 | |
-Give it to me. -Are you mad? This is hidden camera magic! | 0:27:45 | 0:27:48 | |
-Give me that! -Not until you rethink about letting me be in this blog. | 0:27:48 | 0:27:51 | |
-No way. -I think you will. -Not happening! End of story! | 0:27:51 | 0:27:55 | |
Give me it, Tyler! Give me the camera! Tyler, it's mine! | 0:27:55 | 0:27:59 | |
# Want your bad romance. # | 0:27:59 | 0:28:01 |