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Television is most certainly here to stay. | 0:00:02 | 0:00:04 | |
This programme contains some strong language | 0:00:04 | 0:00:11 | |
When Americans wonder what it means to be an American, | 0:00:33 | 0:00:36 | |
one of the places they look for answer is primetime television. | 0:00:36 | 0:00:40 | |
Primetime hits are watched by audiences measured | 0:00:40 | 0:00:43 | |
in the tens of millions, and so they've had to reflect | 0:00:43 | 0:00:45 | |
the big social changes that have transformed America | 0:00:45 | 0:00:48 | |
in the television age. | 0:00:48 | 0:00:50 | |
Sometimes, they've even led those changes. | 0:00:50 | 0:00:53 | |
One of the most dramatic shifts has been in the depiction of women, | 0:00:53 | 0:00:56 | |
from the home-making, apple-pie baking domestic queen | 0:00:56 | 0:00:59 | |
of the 1950s, to the independent woman of today, | 0:00:59 | 0:01:02 | |
dealing with the push and pull of having it all. | 0:01:02 | 0:01:06 | |
In the history of the United States of Television, | 0:01:06 | 0:01:09 | |
women's declaration of independence | 0:01:09 | 0:01:11 | |
has been one of the big stories. | 0:01:11 | 0:01:13 | |
She's very in control of herself and she knows what she wants. | 0:01:17 | 0:01:20 | |
It makes her pretty fierce. | 0:01:20 | 0:01:22 | |
She has to be who she is. | 0:01:22 | 0:01:24 | |
She's not an ambiguous person. | 0:01:24 | 0:01:26 | |
There's never really a struggle to find out what she wants. | 0:01:26 | 0:01:30 | |
And she's making money and providing food and a roof. | 0:01:30 | 0:01:34 | |
I don't know if, you know, we could define independence | 0:01:34 | 0:01:37 | |
ourselves. I think it's different for every person. | 0:01:37 | 0:01:40 | |
An independent woman is someone who has control of her life. | 0:01:40 | 0:01:43 | |
It's not about marriage, children, work or what you're going to do | 0:01:43 | 0:01:46 | |
or wear, it's about being able to decide for yourself. | 0:01:46 | 0:01:49 | |
'There is nothing wrong with your television set. | 0:01:57 | 0:02:00 | |
'Do not attempt to adjust the picture. | 0:02:00 | 0:02:02 | |
'We are controlling transmission.' | 0:02:02 | 0:02:04 | |
I think television kind of trained | 0:02:04 | 0:02:06 | |
and brainwashed a whole generation of women. | 0:02:06 | 0:02:10 | |
Society has always put a lot of pressure on women to present | 0:02:11 | 0:02:14 | |
a perfect image of themselves, physically. | 0:02:14 | 0:02:18 | |
The perfect wife. The perfect mom. | 0:02:18 | 0:02:21 | |
You always keep a nice house and I'm proud to bring my friends over. | 0:02:21 | 0:02:23 | |
Well, thank you! I'm always glad to have them. | 0:02:23 | 0:02:26 | |
For me, I grew up knowing that I would never be | 0:02:26 | 0:02:29 | |
a successful wife and mother the way that it had been portrayed on TV. | 0:02:29 | 0:02:33 | |
-DAD: -Well, what's this? | 0:02:34 | 0:02:36 | |
Apple juice, dear. For that tired, ache all over feeling. | 0:02:36 | 0:02:39 | |
I think those images from television of these model women | 0:02:39 | 0:02:43 | |
still make us feel bad somewhere deep inside, | 0:02:43 | 0:02:47 | |
that somehow we're not living up to this ideal of womanhood | 0:02:47 | 0:02:50 | |
and motherhood and wife...ness. | 0:02:50 | 0:02:53 | |
Those women are so great. Donna Reed is so beautiful and Mrs Cleaver | 0:02:53 | 0:02:56 | |
is such a great mom, and I will be a failure. | 0:02:56 | 0:02:59 | |
That image of perfection was false. | 0:03:02 | 0:03:05 | |
I don't think anything's deliberate or conscious. | 0:03:05 | 0:03:08 | |
It was a less complicated time, | 0:03:09 | 0:03:12 | |
and...there was more... | 0:03:12 | 0:03:15 | |
It was more idealised and aspirational | 0:03:15 | 0:03:17 | |
when they portrayed the family. | 0:03:17 | 0:03:19 | |
The kids are bathed and in their pyjamas, the father walks home, | 0:03:19 | 0:03:22 | |
puts his briefcase down, gets a martini, | 0:03:22 | 0:03:25 | |
everybody speaks to each other very respectfully, | 0:03:25 | 0:03:28 | |
and the roles are defined, and everybody goes to bed. | 0:03:28 | 0:03:32 | |
-WOMAN: -Good night. | 0:03:32 | 0:03:33 | |
'Often in separate beds.' | 0:03:33 | 0:03:35 | |
-MAN: -Goodnight, dear. | 0:03:35 | 0:03:36 | |
ALARM CLOCK | 0:03:36 | 0:03:37 | |
On television in my childhood, | 0:03:37 | 0:03:39 | |
it was still there where it showed the mother | 0:03:39 | 0:03:42 | |
covering up everything to make the father | 0:03:42 | 0:03:45 | |
feel like he was the man, or what ever that means. | 0:03:45 | 0:03:49 | |
I want you to know that your father's a wonderful father, | 0:03:49 | 0:03:52 | |
and I couldn't have asked for a better husband. | 0:03:52 | 0:03:55 | |
-But he's still a male. -Well, naturally! | 0:03:55 | 0:03:59 | |
And a male likes to feel that he thinks up all the ideas. | 0:03:59 | 0:04:02 | |
So the tactful wife, by various, er, justifiably devious methods, | 0:04:02 | 0:04:08 | |
plants the idea in his mind and then lets him go ahead | 0:04:08 | 0:04:11 | |
and think it up, and everyone's happy. | 0:04:11 | 0:04:13 | |
The only way that a woman at that time | 0:04:13 | 0:04:15 | |
can assert that kind of independent power is often through | 0:04:15 | 0:04:19 | |
manipulation and lying and scheming. | 0:04:19 | 0:04:22 | |
BAND PLAYS | 0:04:22 | 0:04:24 | |
And then, along came Lucy. | 0:04:24 | 0:04:26 | |
Lucy is just, you know, she's got that irrepressible way. | 0:04:28 | 0:04:33 | |
She won't give up. | 0:04:33 | 0:04:35 | |
I think that that's the great thing about Lucy as an independent woman - | 0:04:35 | 0:04:38 | |
that she refuses to take no as an answer for anything. | 0:04:38 | 0:04:42 | |
Honey, you know how I feel about this. | 0:04:42 | 0:04:44 | |
-I don't want my wife in show business. -Why not? | 0:04:44 | 0:04:47 | |
Oh, Lucy, we've been over this 10,000 times. | 0:04:47 | 0:04:49 | |
I want wife who is just a wife. | 0:04:49 | 0:04:52 | |
MIDTEMPO MAMBO SONG | 0:04:52 | 0:04:54 | |
I Love Lucy showed the nuts and bolts | 0:05:03 | 0:05:06 | |
and sort of the underside of marriage and the frustrations | 0:05:06 | 0:05:09 | |
and the eternal struggle between men and women. | 0:05:09 | 0:05:12 | |
What she was, and at that time, | 0:05:12 | 0:05:14 | |
she would just be fearless with what she did. | 0:05:14 | 0:05:16 | |
Cos she was so broad but subtle at the same time. | 0:05:16 | 0:05:19 | |
Nobody's quite done the same thing. | 0:05:19 | 0:05:22 | |
Nobody's funnier than Lucille Ball. | 0:05:22 | 0:05:25 | |
Probably the greatest television comic. | 0:05:25 | 0:05:29 | |
AUDIENCE LAUGHTER | 0:05:29 | 0:05:31 | |
She showed all the longing for fame and money, | 0:05:31 | 0:05:34 | |
being in Ricky's band and the ego stuff, | 0:05:34 | 0:05:37 | |
and then she always got knocked down. | 0:05:37 | 0:05:39 | |
Now look, Lucy, we're not going to go all over this again. | 0:05:39 | 0:05:43 | |
You cannot be in the show. | 0:05:43 | 0:05:45 | |
Give me one good reason. | 0:05:45 | 0:05:48 | |
You have no talent. | 0:05:48 | 0:05:49 | |
AUDIENCE LAUGHTER | 0:05:49 | 0:05:51 | |
Give me another good reason. | 0:05:51 | 0:05:53 | |
There's a simplicity to Lucy. | 0:05:53 | 0:05:56 | |
She was a star-struck young woman who wanted some | 0:05:56 | 0:06:00 | |
excitement in her life. | 0:06:00 | 0:06:02 | |
Lucy was a housewife, | 0:06:04 | 0:06:05 | |
trying to constantly break out and do different things. | 0:06:05 | 0:06:08 | |
-Lucy? -Yes? -No! | 0:06:08 | 0:06:10 | |
Oh, Ricky. | 0:06:10 | 0:06:12 | |
And if she did anything crazy, Ricky would go crazy. | 0:06:12 | 0:06:15 | |
Lucy, if you're going to act like a child | 0:06:15 | 0:06:17 | |
-I'm going to have to treat you like one. -Meaning what? | 0:06:17 | 0:06:19 | |
Meaning, I'll put you over my knees and... | 0:06:19 | 0:06:21 | |
You wouldn't dare! | 0:06:21 | 0:06:23 | |
-Oh, I wouldn't? -No, you wouldn't! | 0:06:23 | 0:06:26 | |
It did freak me out that Ricky would go, "Lucy..." | 0:06:26 | 0:06:30 | |
-Ahh! -Are you going to do what I say? -Yes! | 0:06:30 | 0:06:33 | |
"I don't want to get spanked!" It's just so freaky. | 0:06:33 | 0:06:36 | |
She keeps slamming herself up against that wall. | 0:06:36 | 0:06:41 | |
What ever the limitations of being a woman at that time are, | 0:06:41 | 0:06:44 | |
or being Ricky's wife, or whatever they might be, | 0:06:44 | 0:06:47 | |
and yet she develops a dream and cannot help herself. | 0:06:47 | 0:06:51 | |
Must chase it. Has to. | 0:06:51 | 0:06:53 | |
She was, in a way, leading a charge. | 0:06:53 | 0:06:57 | |
Behind the scenes, Lucy's charge | 0:06:59 | 0:07:00 | |
had already brought significant victories. | 0:07:00 | 0:07:03 | |
In 1962, she took over the running of Desilu studios | 0:07:03 | 0:07:07 | |
from her now ex-husband, Desi Arnaz. | 0:07:07 | 0:07:11 | |
She became one of the most powerful executives in American television, | 0:07:11 | 0:07:14 | |
green-lighting primetime classics | 0:07:14 | 0:07:17 | |
from Mission Impossible to Star Trek. | 0:07:17 | 0:07:19 | |
To the public, she would always be the ditzy red-head, | 0:07:19 | 0:07:23 | |
but industry insiders knew a different Lucy. | 0:07:23 | 0:07:26 | |
The truth about Lucy is incredibly subversive. She was an empire. | 0:07:28 | 0:07:33 | |
Desilu. Desi doesn't have anything without Lucy. | 0:07:33 | 0:07:37 | |
She was a force to be reckoned with. | 0:07:39 | 0:07:42 | |
Totally subversive. | 0:07:42 | 0:07:43 | |
She was our landlady, you know. She owned the studio | 0:07:43 | 0:07:46 | |
and I said, "There's dust on the rafters, Lucy. | 0:07:46 | 0:07:49 | |
"You've got to get somebody up there and clean this place up." | 0:07:49 | 0:07:52 | |
She was the first comedienne who was beautiful and sexy | 0:07:52 | 0:07:56 | |
and funny at the same time. | 0:07:56 | 0:07:58 | |
She didn't lose her femininity by being broad. | 0:07:59 | 0:08:04 | |
And it worked for her so great. | 0:08:04 | 0:08:06 | |
And then along came Mary. | 0:08:06 | 0:08:08 | |
Finding Mary was the tough thing. | 0:08:15 | 0:08:17 | |
I saw about 60 girls. Really! 60 girls. | 0:08:17 | 0:08:20 | |
I had had one failure after another. | 0:08:22 | 0:08:26 | |
I would go in and read for something and think it went well, | 0:08:26 | 0:08:28 | |
and then I wouldn't get the part. | 0:08:28 | 0:08:30 | |
I said, "Sheldon, I don't know what I'm looking for." | 0:08:30 | 0:08:32 | |
He said, "You will when you see it." | 0:08:32 | 0:08:34 | |
And I got this phone call from my agent saying, "Carl Reiner", | 0:08:34 | 0:08:37 | |
and my heart started pounding. | 0:08:37 | 0:08:39 | |
And she walked in my office one day and read two lines. | 0:08:41 | 0:08:44 | |
And he got this look in his eyes like I have never seen before. | 0:08:44 | 0:08:48 | |
And I grabbed the top of her head, and I said, "Come with me!" | 0:08:48 | 0:08:51 | |
She got scared, she thought I was going to accost her! | 0:08:51 | 0:08:55 | |
I walked her into Sheldon's office | 0:08:59 | 0:09:00 | |
and I said, "You were right. "We found her. We found our lady." | 0:09:00 | 0:09:04 | |
-I'm just a housewife! -Come on! | 0:09:18 | 0:09:20 | |
Atta girl! | 0:09:22 | 0:09:23 | |
We wanted her because she had a style about her, | 0:09:23 | 0:09:27 | |
and she was a very modern lady in those days. She wore capris. | 0:09:27 | 0:09:31 | |
Someone from the network called up and said, | 0:09:31 | 0:09:34 | |
"They cup under a little bit too much. | 0:09:34 | 0:09:36 | |
"You're going to have to let them out." | 0:09:36 | 0:09:38 | |
They said I was shocking people. | 0:09:38 | 0:09:40 | |
AUDIENCE APPLAUSE | 0:09:44 | 0:09:45 | |
I had been an actress who did very small parts on dramatic shows. | 0:09:45 | 0:09:52 | |
I had no comedy background. | 0:09:52 | 0:09:56 | |
SHE SCREAMS | 0:09:56 | 0:09:58 | |
All I could think of when I first got to work with that raft, | 0:09:58 | 0:10:03 | |
was, "What would Lucy do?" | 0:10:03 | 0:10:06 | |
Lucy was the queen! | 0:10:06 | 0:10:08 | |
Laura's thrust in the show was to be the independent woman, | 0:10:08 | 0:10:13 | |
which was starting to happen at that time. | 0:10:13 | 0:10:15 | |
He said right from the beginning, | 0:10:15 | 0:10:17 | |
"You are not going to be the kind of wife who says, | 0:10:17 | 0:10:20 | |
'Here's the cream and sugar, darling, and how was your day?'" | 0:10:20 | 0:10:24 | |
Not only did Mary play an incredibly forceful character, | 0:10:24 | 0:10:29 | |
but she had a true presence and identity, and she just wasn't | 0:10:29 | 0:10:32 | |
the beautiful wife, which she could've so easily been. | 0:10:32 | 0:10:35 | |
-Hi, Honey! -Wow! | 0:10:35 | 0:10:37 | |
There were some of the shows where she wanted to go out and dance | 0:10:37 | 0:10:40 | |
and be a dancer again, and at the end she decides, | 0:10:40 | 0:10:43 | |
"Oh, I want to just be a mother." | 0:10:43 | 0:10:45 | |
And I wondered if I could take the strain of the daily classes | 0:10:45 | 0:10:49 | |
and the rehearsals and the exercise. And now I know. | 0:10:49 | 0:10:52 | |
I can't. | 0:10:52 | 0:10:53 | |
AUDIENCE LAUGHTER | 0:10:53 | 0:10:55 | |
-You can't? -No, Rob! | 0:10:56 | 0:10:58 | |
There isn't a bone in my body that isn't screaming, | 0:10:58 | 0:11:01 | |
"For heaven's sake, lie down in a hot tub!" | 0:11:01 | 0:11:04 | |
AUDIENCE LAUGHTER | 0:11:04 | 0:11:06 | |
When we look at that now, I feel remiss about that. | 0:11:06 | 0:11:09 | |
That was not exactly what I would say is a forward-looking thing. | 0:11:09 | 0:11:15 | |
She could've done both. | 0:11:15 | 0:11:17 | |
There was still that hangover of, "Oh, well, the husband works, | 0:11:17 | 0:11:21 | |
"and the wife stays at home, and that's the way it is." | 0:11:21 | 0:11:26 | |
My wife worked at home, | 0:11:26 | 0:11:28 | |
but there were more aspects to a woman than just being a housewife, | 0:11:28 | 0:11:32 | |
which is good enough. | 0:11:32 | 0:11:34 | |
If you can bring up kids and send non-toxic human beings | 0:11:34 | 0:11:37 | |
into the world, that's about the best thing you can do, actually. | 0:11:37 | 0:11:40 | |
But a lot of people don't feel fulfilled, | 0:11:40 | 0:11:42 | |
and if they don't feel fulfilled they should be able to | 0:11:42 | 0:11:45 | |
fulfil themselves however they want. | 0:11:45 | 0:11:47 | |
The Dick Van Dyke Show ended in 1966. | 0:11:51 | 0:11:54 | |
That same year, Betty Friedan and other leading feminists | 0:11:54 | 0:11:58 | |
set up the National Organisation for Women. | 0:11:58 | 0:12:01 | |
It is a terrible thing we're doing to American women | 0:12:02 | 0:12:05 | |
in the name of femininity. | 0:12:05 | 0:12:06 | |
We are preventing them from reaching their full growth as human beings. | 0:12:06 | 0:12:10 | |
Women have caught on to the game. We don't know it completely yet, | 0:12:10 | 0:12:14 | |
we haven't really discovered the total anatomy of our oppression | 0:12:14 | 0:12:17 | |
and of what they've been doing to us, | 0:12:17 | 0:12:19 | |
but we do know that it's happening. | 0:12:19 | 0:12:20 | |
Well, women, of course, are delightful persons, | 0:12:20 | 0:12:23 | |
and I hear a strange and strident voice | 0:12:23 | 0:12:25 | |
that I think is attempting, really, to stop some of this progress | 0:12:25 | 0:12:29 | |
being made on behalf of women. | 0:12:29 | 0:12:31 | |
That's the bra-less bubblehead, I call that person, you know. | 0:12:31 | 0:12:35 | |
It took primetime a while to catch up, | 0:12:42 | 0:12:45 | |
but in 1970 Mary Tyler Moore returned to the TV screens | 0:12:45 | 0:12:49 | |
with a character who embodied the aspirations and the anxieties | 0:12:49 | 0:12:53 | |
of a new generation of liberated women. | 0:12:53 | 0:12:56 | |
Mary Richards was no Gloria Steinem, but when this single, | 0:12:56 | 0:13:00 | |
independent career woman tossed her woolly hat into the air | 0:13:00 | 0:13:04 | |
in the opening credits of The Mary Tyler Moore Show, | 0:13:04 | 0:13:07 | |
mainstream America was put on notice that things were changing fast. | 0:13:07 | 0:13:12 | |
-Divorced? -No. -Never married? -No. | 0:13:13 | 0:13:16 | |
-Why? -Why? | 0:13:16 | 0:13:18 | |
Do you type? | 0:13:18 | 0:13:19 | |
Mr Grant, there's no simple answer to that question. | 0:13:19 | 0:13:22 | |
Yes, there is. How about, "No, I can't type," or "Yes, I can." | 0:13:22 | 0:13:28 | |
There's no simple answer to why a person isn't married. | 0:13:28 | 0:13:30 | |
-How many different reasons can there be? -65. | 0:13:30 | 0:13:33 | |
We were very fortunate in our timing, you know. | 0:13:44 | 0:13:48 | |
The concept we came up with, the show we came up with, | 0:13:48 | 0:13:51 | |
the idea of a career woman, started just as, you know, | 0:13:51 | 0:13:54 | |
the woman's revolution was kicking in. | 0:13:54 | 0:13:56 | |
And it gave us lots of stories. | 0:13:56 | 0:13:58 | |
It seems that you've been asking a lot of very personal questions | 0:13:58 | 0:14:01 | |
that don't have a thing to do with my qualifications for this job. | 0:14:01 | 0:14:04 | |
You know what? | 0:14:07 | 0:14:09 | |
You've got spunk. | 0:14:10 | 0:14:11 | |
AUDIENCE LAUGHTER | 0:14:11 | 0:14:13 | |
-Well... -I HATE spunk! | 0:14:13 | 0:14:15 | |
AUDIENCE LAUGHTER | 0:14:15 | 0:14:17 | |
The original idea that Jim and Allan had | 0:14:19 | 0:14:22 | |
was that I was a recently divorced woman, | 0:14:22 | 0:14:27 | |
and CBS said, "No." | 0:14:27 | 0:14:30 | |
"You can't have her divorced, | 0:14:31 | 0:14:34 | |
"because everyone will think she's divorced from Dick Van Dyke." | 0:14:34 | 0:14:38 | |
They said, "There are three things you can't do a show about, | 0:14:38 | 0:14:40 | |
"Jews, people with moustaches and divorced people." | 0:14:40 | 0:14:44 | |
Jim and Allan wanted to write a show about a woman who was working | 0:14:44 | 0:14:48 | |
in a newsroom, who was newly on her own, independent but terrified. | 0:14:48 | 0:14:54 | |
It was not about women's lib. | 0:14:54 | 0:14:58 | |
LOU: Mary, get in here! | 0:14:58 | 0:14:59 | |
Part of her character was that it was very tough for her | 0:14:59 | 0:15:02 | |
to stand up for herself. That she was a pushover. | 0:15:02 | 0:15:05 | |
That she seemed a pushover. | 0:15:05 | 0:15:07 | |
Mary, come in here! | 0:15:07 | 0:15:09 | |
Come into my office. | 0:15:09 | 0:15:10 | |
Mary, come into my office. | 0:15:10 | 0:15:12 | |
We did 300 scenes that started with, "Mary come into my office." | 0:15:12 | 0:15:15 | |
The batting average was amazing because of that quality | 0:15:15 | 0:15:18 | |
she had when she was called on the carpet. | 0:15:18 | 0:15:21 | |
SHE SIGHS | 0:15:21 | 0:15:22 | |
Did I ring? | 0:15:22 | 0:15:23 | |
I think Mary Tyler Moore influences everybody. | 0:15:31 | 0:15:33 | |
She was the first woman who we really saw in the workplace, | 0:15:33 | 0:15:36 | |
I feel like, who was single and wasn't interested | 0:15:36 | 0:15:40 | |
in not being single was and was pursuing her career. | 0:15:40 | 0:15:43 | |
It was very, very exciting, actually. | 0:15:43 | 0:15:45 | |
We had a daring joke at the time, | 0:15:45 | 0:15:47 | |
where her mother says to her father... | 0:15:47 | 0:15:49 | |
Don't forget to take your pill. | 0:15:49 | 0:15:51 | |
Mary and her father answer... | 0:15:51 | 0:15:52 | |
-BOTH: -I won't! | 0:15:52 | 0:15:54 | |
AUDIENCE LAUGHTER | 0:15:54 | 0:15:55 | |
That she was on birth control was a daring joke at the time. | 0:15:58 | 0:16:02 | |
It's all a big joke to you, isn't it? | 0:16:02 | 0:16:04 | |
Well, a woman doesn't have to have a baby if she doesn't want to. | 0:16:04 | 0:16:07 | |
Well, I say a man's entitled to have a baby if he wants to. | 0:16:07 | 0:16:12 | |
SHE LAUGHS | 0:16:12 | 0:16:13 | |
Well! Mr Grant, on behalf of women everywhere, let me say | 0:16:13 | 0:16:17 | |
we'd sure like to be there when he has it. | 0:16:17 | 0:16:20 | |
AUDIENCE APPLAUSE | 0:16:20 | 0:16:21 | |
So many people wanted us to step on a soapbox with that show. | 0:16:21 | 0:16:24 | |
It was important that we burned all the soapboxes. | 0:16:24 | 0:16:27 | |
We were there to do a good comedy show. | 0:16:27 | 0:16:29 | |
But our heroine existed at a very interested time for women | 0:16:29 | 0:16:32 | |
and that got into the show. | 0:16:32 | 0:16:33 | |
I was pretty much born married. | 0:16:38 | 0:16:41 | |
I married when I was 18. | 0:16:41 | 0:16:43 | |
Three months after the end of that divorce, | 0:16:45 | 0:16:47 | |
I met my second husband, Grant Tinker. | 0:16:47 | 0:16:51 | |
And when we'd separated, | 0:16:51 | 0:16:54 | |
going to New York, for me, was terrifying, | 0:16:54 | 0:16:57 | |
cos I'd never been on my own. | 0:16:57 | 0:16:59 | |
The only real sure thing I had inside me that said, | 0:17:01 | 0:17:05 | |
"You know what you're doing, you can do this," | 0:17:05 | 0:17:08 | |
was Mary Richards, really. | 0:17:08 | 0:17:11 | |
I remember thinking, "What would Mary do?" | 0:17:14 | 0:17:17 | |
Women would say to me, | 0:17:19 | 0:17:21 | |
"Ah, I watch that show, and I so identify with you." | 0:17:21 | 0:17:25 | |
To this day, I get people that I meet, strangers, saying, | 0:17:25 | 0:17:30 | |
"You know, I became a writer because of you. | 0:17:30 | 0:17:34 | |
"I became a producer because of you." | 0:17:34 | 0:17:36 | |
And when they say "you" they mean that whole wonderful production. | 0:17:36 | 0:17:41 | |
It's a very lightweight mantle. I'm grateful for it. | 0:17:41 | 0:17:45 | |
The women's movement really helped shine a light | 0:17:50 | 0:17:54 | |
on those old stereotypes. | 0:17:54 | 0:17:56 | |
Women were reading Betty Friedan's Feminine Mystique and they were | 0:18:02 | 0:18:06 | |
grappling with what she called "the problem with no name". | 0:18:06 | 0:18:09 | |
You were sent to college and prepared for something great, | 0:18:09 | 0:18:13 | |
then weren't allowed to pursue it and had to worry about yellow | 0:18:13 | 0:18:18 | |
waxy build up on your floors. | 0:18:18 | 0:18:20 | |
And what came out of that, ultimately, | 0:18:20 | 0:18:24 | |
was an opportunity to create a character | 0:18:24 | 0:18:27 | |
who flew in the face of all that. | 0:18:27 | 0:18:30 | |
You want to know something? I've been in over my head | 0:18:30 | 0:18:33 | |
since the day I invited Joel Shaw to my junior prom. | 0:18:33 | 0:18:36 | |
He was 35 at the time. | 0:18:36 | 0:18:38 | |
AUDIENCE LAUGHTER | 0:18:38 | 0:18:40 | |
You can't always play by the rules, Miles. | 0:18:40 | 0:18:42 | |
Taking risks is how I got here. | 0:18:42 | 0:18:44 | |
To play Murphy was just so much fun. It was so liberating, | 0:18:46 | 0:18:53 | |
and it sort of freed my inner pest. | 0:18:53 | 0:18:59 | |
Getting along with other people is a reflection of getting along with yourself. | 0:18:59 | 0:19:02 | |
I've got your reflection right here, pal! | 0:19:04 | 0:19:06 | |
Murphy Brown, investigative journalist, | 0:19:21 | 0:19:24 | |
news anchor, single mother | 0:19:24 | 0:19:26 | |
was a Conservative's worst nightmare, | 0:19:26 | 0:19:29 | |
leaving a trail of broken taboos in her wake. | 0:19:29 | 0:19:33 | |
But what gave her an edge were her inner demons. | 0:19:33 | 0:19:37 | |
I remember reading the pilot of Murphy Brown and I thought that | 0:19:37 | 0:19:40 | |
was the coolest thing in the world, that she just got out of rehab. | 0:19:40 | 0:19:43 | |
And during the pitch, that kind of stopped everybody in their tracks. | 0:19:43 | 0:19:46 | |
I didn't really open with that. | 0:19:46 | 0:19:48 | |
Frank, I haven't had a drink in over a month. | 0:19:48 | 0:19:51 | |
I haven't had a cigarette... | 0:19:51 | 0:19:52 | |
And the reaction was, "That's not really a very attractive trait | 0:19:52 | 0:19:58 | |
"in a woman, somebody who's had problems with alcohol." | 0:19:58 | 0:20:01 | |
She got to be Lou Grant. That was a big deal, | 0:20:01 | 0:20:03 | |
and I think executives in television, the buttons got pushed | 0:20:03 | 0:20:06 | |
because those were traditionally male traits. | 0:20:06 | 0:20:09 | |
You know, Sam Malone on Cheers | 0:20:11 | 0:20:13 | |
had come into the bar as a recovering alcoholic. | 0:20:13 | 0:20:17 | |
Why can't the same thing apply to a woman? | 0:20:17 | 0:20:21 | |
What CBS said was that they would like, | 0:20:21 | 0:20:23 | |
instead of her being a 40-year-old | 0:20:23 | 0:20:26 | |
who was just coming out of Betty Ford, | 0:20:26 | 0:20:29 | |
couldn't she be a 30-year-old who had just come back from a spa? | 0:20:29 | 0:20:33 | |
Diane said, "No. That's not the point." | 0:20:33 | 0:20:37 | |
It was so exciting to see woman character be starchy. | 0:20:37 | 0:20:40 | |
I'm beginning to find your attitude extremely offensive. | 0:20:40 | 0:20:44 | |
Perch and rotate. | 0:20:44 | 0:20:46 | |
People - they want interesting, they don't want likeable. | 0:20:46 | 0:20:50 | |
Murphy became that person we all wish we were. | 0:20:52 | 0:20:56 | |
You know, all the things you should have said | 0:20:56 | 0:20:58 | |
or you wish you could have said - well, she said them. | 0:20:58 | 0:21:01 | |
She never felt that she had to please anyone or be polite, | 0:21:01 | 0:21:05 | |
and that was such a break for women to see that. | 0:21:05 | 0:21:10 | |
We do spend a lot of time trying to be liked and wanting to be liked. | 0:21:10 | 0:21:15 | |
At least at that time, you know, | 0:21:15 | 0:21:17 | |
it was unusual to see somebody who really didn't care about that. | 0:21:17 | 0:21:22 | |
She's a housewife from Denver, Colorado, who started appearing | 0:21:23 | 0:21:26 | |
in a local nightclub called The Comedy Works in Denver | 0:21:26 | 0:21:28 | |
about three or four years ago. | 0:21:28 | 0:21:30 | |
She moved to Hollywood, where she's been working at The Comedy Store, | 0:21:30 | 0:21:33 | |
and this is her very first appearance on national television. | 0:21:33 | 0:21:36 | |
Would you welcome, Roseanne Barr. | 0:21:36 | 0:21:38 | |
APPLAUSE | 0:21:38 | 0:21:41 | |
So, I'm fat. I thought I'd point that out. | 0:21:41 | 0:21:43 | |
LAUGHTER | 0:21:43 | 0:21:45 | |
The same autumn season that brought Murphy Brown to CBS | 0:21:45 | 0:21:47 | |
saw another female character make her debut on rival network, ABC. | 0:21:47 | 0:21:53 | |
She couldn't have been more different in terms of class, | 0:21:53 | 0:21:56 | |
appearance and lifestyle, but she turned out to be | 0:21:56 | 0:21:59 | |
an even greater challenge to the conventions of primetime woman. | 0:21:59 | 0:22:03 | |
I was raised in Salt Lake City, Utah, | 0:22:08 | 0:22:10 | |
and I was a Jewish girl and from a poor family. | 0:22:10 | 0:22:13 | |
So, everywhere I went, I was the opposite of everybody. | 0:22:13 | 0:22:17 | |
I didn't have a waist and I was fat and I just talked like I talk. | 0:22:18 | 0:22:24 | |
And I was funny, and that was really frowned on - | 0:22:24 | 0:22:27 | |
to be a smart, funny girl in Salt Lake City, Utah. | 0:22:27 | 0:22:31 | |
I was always constantly corrected by everyone who came in my path. | 0:22:32 | 0:22:36 | |
They would say, "You should do this." | 0:22:36 | 0:22:39 | |
"Well, don't do that." | 0:22:39 | 0:22:40 | |
"This is not the way a young lady..." Blah, blah. | 0:22:40 | 0:22:43 | |
But I realised really early that I would never have anybody's approval. | 0:22:44 | 0:22:48 | |
Maybe that helped give me a layer of protection against the constant | 0:22:48 | 0:22:52 | |
onslaught of correction and humiliation that fat girls | 0:22:52 | 0:22:57 | |
get in schools, where everybody's thin and blonde and capitulating. | 0:22:57 | 0:23:03 | |
It's a note from my history teacher, Ms Crane. | 0:23:03 | 0:23:05 | |
-You've got to meet with her at 3:15. -Today? -Uh-huh. | 0:23:05 | 0:23:08 | |
Why do you always wait to the last minute to tell me these things? | 0:23:08 | 0:23:12 | |
I've got a life, too, you know. It's not like I don't have nothing to do. | 0:23:12 | 0:23:16 | |
I'm sorry! What do you want me to do? Throw myself off a bridge? | 0:23:16 | 0:23:19 | |
Yeah, and take your brother and sister with you. | 0:23:19 | 0:23:21 | |
LAUGHTER | 0:23:21 | 0:23:23 | |
When I first was a young mother | 0:23:36 | 0:23:39 | |
and would just sit home watching television with my kids, | 0:23:39 | 0:23:42 | |
and I was just appalled at television. | 0:23:42 | 0:23:44 | |
I had the fantasy, like a lot of people do, | 0:23:44 | 0:23:46 | |
"Man, if I ever got a chance to get on there, here's what I'd do. | 0:23:46 | 0:23:49 | |
"Here's how I'd say it's all BS." | 0:23:49 | 0:23:52 | |
There was never any woman like me on there, | 0:23:52 | 0:23:55 | |
or my grandma or my mom or my aunts. | 0:23:55 | 0:23:58 | |
There was just nothing like that. | 0:23:58 | 0:24:00 | |
So I always wanted to kind of get inside the stereotype | 0:24:00 | 0:24:03 | |
and punch the walls out of it. | 0:24:03 | 0:24:06 | |
We're going to be at the bowling alley, and... | 0:24:06 | 0:24:08 | |
Chip's going to be at the bowling alley... | 0:24:08 | 0:24:11 | |
-SOUTHERN DRAWL: -We're bound to run into one another. | 0:24:13 | 0:24:15 | |
LAUGHTER | 0:24:15 | 0:24:17 | |
Please, don't embarrass me. Please! | 0:24:19 | 0:24:22 | |
Oh, honey, there's no way we'd embarrass you! | 0:24:22 | 0:24:25 | |
LAUGHTER | 0:24:25 | 0:24:26 | |
The first network we took it to rejected it. | 0:24:26 | 0:24:29 | |
They said, "Who would want to watch...that? | 0:24:29 | 0:24:32 | |
"Who would want to watch her? | 0:24:32 | 0:24:33 | |
"Who would want to watch a show about this? No." | 0:24:33 | 0:24:37 | |
It was the first realistic representation of a mother | 0:24:43 | 0:24:47 | |
I had ever seen on television. | 0:24:47 | 0:24:49 | |
It was a woman who couldn't necessarily hold on to a job. | 0:24:49 | 0:24:53 | |
And, physically, Roseanne was relatable. | 0:24:53 | 0:24:56 | |
She was just this sort of big, shrill, mid-western housewife. | 0:24:56 | 0:24:59 | |
Everybody knows that women run the family. | 0:25:01 | 0:25:04 | |
That was never on TV. That's the thing that I liked. | 0:25:04 | 0:25:07 | |
The story of a real mother on television. | 0:25:07 | 0:25:10 | |
I thought it was just so important. | 0:25:10 | 0:25:13 | |
Every detail of that set, spoke volumes about how hard it was | 0:25:13 | 0:25:18 | |
to have enough money, to put food on the table. | 0:25:18 | 0:25:21 | |
This is a character who's paid by the hour, it's a character who | 0:25:21 | 0:25:24 | |
is not getting enough health care benefits, | 0:25:24 | 0:25:26 | |
who's struggling, and trying to balance the needs of being | 0:25:26 | 0:25:30 | |
a good mom with the needs of bringing home a paycheck. | 0:25:30 | 0:25:33 | |
You're over-worked, you're underpaid, you're overweight. | 0:25:33 | 0:25:37 | |
And to be laughing at that? Making edgy jokes about that? | 0:25:37 | 0:25:41 | |
That was new. That was different. | 0:25:41 | 0:25:43 | |
I think in the same way that Roseanne was always | 0:25:43 | 0:25:47 | |
fearless in her stand-up act, | 0:25:47 | 0:25:48 | |
she seemed fearless about what her own personal issues might be. | 0:25:48 | 0:25:54 | |
What do you mean, going and getting ploughed? What is your problem? | 0:25:54 | 0:25:58 | |
You poo-poo everything in my life. | 0:25:58 | 0:26:01 | |
Yeah, and you go right for your addictive behaviour. | 0:26:02 | 0:26:05 | |
Cos you cannot handle conflict. | 0:26:07 | 0:26:09 | |
And my character said to Roseanne... | 0:26:09 | 0:26:12 | |
Well, have another shot of pancake, Roseanne. | 0:26:12 | 0:26:15 | |
LAUGHTER | 0:26:15 | 0:26:17 | |
You've got to have a pair | 0:26:18 | 0:26:21 | |
to be able to allow, you know, | 0:26:21 | 0:26:24 | |
another character to say that to your character, | 0:26:24 | 0:26:28 | |
knowing full well that you are your character. | 0:26:28 | 0:26:32 | |
I don't know who else was getting down and dirty like that. | 0:26:32 | 0:26:36 | |
All this time you told me if I worked hard | 0:26:36 | 0:26:38 | |
and got good grades and everything I could make something of myself. | 0:26:38 | 0:26:41 | |
And you still can. | 0:26:41 | 0:26:43 | |
Yeah, going to night school, working at the Buy 'N Bag? | 0:26:43 | 0:26:45 | |
-I'm going to wind up just like you! -Hey! | 0:26:45 | 0:26:48 | |
-Hey! -Dan. | 0:26:48 | 0:26:50 | |
-You apologize for that. -No! | 0:26:50 | 0:26:52 | |
I really wanted the edge on that show. | 0:26:52 | 0:26:55 | |
And it was a battle, every single day. | 0:26:55 | 0:26:58 | |
Because these people who make television just... | 0:26:58 | 0:27:03 | |
They don't have any... | 0:27:03 | 0:27:05 | |
They're like aliens or something. | 0:27:05 | 0:27:07 | |
They don't have any real life experience or any values or anything. | 0:27:07 | 0:27:11 | |
Becky, I'm working two jobs here... | 0:27:11 | 0:27:13 | |
I was working class enough myself to, you know, | 0:27:13 | 0:27:15 | |
do the things that working class people do when you come in front of | 0:27:15 | 0:27:20 | |
elitist people, which is a lot of outrageous things, when I look back. | 0:27:20 | 0:27:24 | |
But it worked. It worked for me. | 0:27:24 | 0:27:26 | |
She was pissed off and she meant everything she said. | 0:27:30 | 0:27:33 | |
She lived that life and then she became this big star. | 0:27:33 | 0:27:36 | |
But in her heart she still was the person struggling with her life. | 0:27:36 | 0:27:41 | |
I can't believe you let her talk to you like that. | 0:27:41 | 0:27:43 | |
Dan, the fact that she doesn't want to end up like me | 0:27:45 | 0:27:48 | |
just proves that she's been paying attention around here... | 0:27:48 | 0:27:51 | |
All of it was real life. | 0:27:51 | 0:27:53 | |
Things that I tried to make sense of by making it funny on television. | 0:27:53 | 0:27:57 | |
There are so many red flags, you know, for a network, | 0:27:57 | 0:28:01 | |
when you put somebody like that on TV, who's so raw | 0:28:01 | 0:28:04 | |
and interesting and, you know, not eye candy for male viewers. | 0:28:04 | 0:28:10 | |
I can't think of a show that pulled off something that impossible. | 0:28:10 | 0:28:13 | |
I really wanted to show, hey, you can be different and OK. | 0:28:13 | 0:28:16 | |
You can be fat and OK. | 0:28:16 | 0:28:18 | |
Your husband can be fat. You can be unemployed. | 0:28:18 | 0:28:21 | |
Your kids are brats. You're still OK. | 0:28:21 | 0:28:24 | |
As long as you have honesty and integrity | 0:28:24 | 0:28:27 | |
and some measure of intelligence, it's all OK. | 0:28:27 | 0:28:30 | |
What isn't OK is to be OK with how bad things are. | 0:28:30 | 0:28:34 | |
Just to throw some mud in the eye of the beast was fun. | 0:28:35 | 0:28:40 | |
But, like it or loathe it, | 0:28:43 | 0:28:45 | |
the beast has to be fed on a high protein diet of advertising dollars. | 0:28:45 | 0:28:50 | |
I got to admit one thing Ralph, | 0:28:50 | 0:28:53 | |
television sure is great for selling things. | 0:28:53 | 0:28:55 | |
You can say that again. | 0:28:55 | 0:28:56 | |
Today, almost half the time you're watching, | 0:28:56 | 0:28:59 | |
you're watching a commercial. | 0:28:59 | 0:29:00 | |
The 30 minute television show is down to 22 minutes and 20 minutes. | 0:29:00 | 0:29:05 | |
They've been sneaking them up on us. | 0:29:05 | 0:29:07 | |
It is a business and it is a business that we | 0:29:07 | 0:29:10 | |
are there to, on broadcast television, | 0:29:10 | 0:29:13 | |
to sell products to America. | 0:29:13 | 0:29:15 | |
Stop, you're both right! | 0:29:15 | 0:29:18 | |
A lot of the executives in regular network television, | 0:29:18 | 0:29:22 | |
they are tied to advertisers, there's a lot of fear. | 0:29:22 | 0:29:24 | |
SCREAMING | 0:29:24 | 0:29:26 | |
The whole deal was really to sell products. | 0:29:28 | 0:29:30 | |
So the shows that you made were things that wouldn't disturb you | 0:29:30 | 0:29:33 | |
too much or make you think too much, or even pay attention that much. | 0:29:33 | 0:29:37 | |
Pay cable is not worried about that. They want interesting. | 0:29:37 | 0:29:40 | |
Once you can stop worrying about | 0:29:40 | 0:29:42 | |
getting 20 million people to watch your show, | 0:29:42 | 0:29:45 | |
then you have a lot more flexibility. | 0:29:45 | 0:29:48 | |
When it came to the depiction of women, | 0:29:48 | 0:29:51 | |
dependence on advertising acted as its own glass ceiling. | 0:29:51 | 0:29:55 | |
Network and cable channels that got their revenue from ad breaks | 0:29:55 | 0:29:59 | |
had to be sensitive to the feelings of advertisers, | 0:29:59 | 0:30:02 | |
as well as their viewers. | 0:30:02 | 0:30:04 | |
So it would be on subscription-only channels, like HBO, | 0:30:04 | 0:30:08 | |
that the barriers would be broken and the lives of women shown | 0:30:08 | 0:30:11 | |
with a frankness never seen before in primetime. | 0:30:11 | 0:30:15 | |
Compared to the reach of the networks, | 0:30:15 | 0:30:17 | |
the ratings for these shows were small, | 0:30:17 | 0:30:19 | |
but their cultural impact would be enormous. | 0:30:19 | 0:30:22 | |
The gods are punishing me for having casual sex. | 0:30:24 | 0:30:26 | |
There are definitely constraints on broadcast | 0:30:26 | 0:30:29 | |
that cable doesn't have, that we fight against. | 0:30:29 | 0:30:31 | |
If you're getting 85% of your revenue from subscriber fees, | 0:30:31 | 0:30:35 | |
you're not concerned about what advertising you're selling. | 0:30:35 | 0:30:38 | |
You're not concerned about your ratings. | 0:30:38 | 0:30:40 | |
The thing about cable that really helped the television business | 0:30:40 | 0:30:43 | |
is it does represent freedom. | 0:30:43 | 0:30:45 | |
There's an understanding that in cable there's less restriction. | 0:30:45 | 0:30:49 | |
But I don't think that that makes great programming necessarily. | 0:30:49 | 0:30:52 | |
We understand that we're not here to serve the mass. | 0:30:52 | 0:30:55 | |
We'll do the best we can to give something that's sort of more pure, | 0:30:55 | 0:30:58 | |
and let's hope that people come and find it. | 0:30:58 | 0:31:00 | |
We can't compete with that. | 0:31:00 | 0:31:02 | |
I had come from doing a lot of network television, | 0:31:05 | 0:31:08 | |
and felt like I wanted to do the network TV equivalent | 0:31:08 | 0:31:13 | |
of the independent film. | 0:31:13 | 0:31:14 | |
And it was going to look at sex and relationships in a way | 0:31:16 | 0:31:19 | |
that no television comedy had ever looked at them | 0:31:19 | 0:31:22 | |
and would never be able to look at them. | 0:31:22 | 0:31:25 | |
We didn't have to answer to advertising dollars, | 0:31:25 | 0:31:27 | |
and we didn't have to respond to Nielsen ratings and worry about that. | 0:31:27 | 0:31:31 | |
Oh, God! Oh, Kurt! | 0:31:31 | 0:31:33 | |
The challenge of creating a character like Carrie | 0:31:33 | 0:31:36 | |
was having a sexually independent woman, | 0:31:36 | 0:31:38 | |
who was having sex with a number of different men unapologetically, | 0:31:38 | 0:31:42 | |
and you wouldn't think she was a bitch. | 0:31:42 | 0:31:45 | |
Ah, righty. My turn. | 0:31:46 | 0:31:50 | |
Oh, sorry. I have to go back to work. | 0:31:50 | 0:31:53 | |
|Mary Tyler Moore shook up television in the 70s. | 0:32:06 | 0:32:09 | |
Carrie was going to be sort of a Mary Tyler Moore | 0:32:09 | 0:32:13 | |
for, you know, the new millennium. | 0:32:13 | 0:32:15 | |
She's one of the ultimate independent women. | 0:32:15 | 0:32:18 | |
Living in New York when that show was in its heyday - | 0:32:18 | 0:32:20 | |
I mean, that was our bible. | 0:32:20 | 0:32:23 | |
This is first time in the history of Manhattan | 0:32:23 | 0:32:26 | |
that women have had as much money and power as men, | 0:32:26 | 0:32:28 | |
plus the equal luxury of treating men like sex objects. | 0:32:28 | 0:32:32 | |
I was so surprised how many people stopped me, | 0:32:32 | 0:32:34 | |
women, on the street and said, "This is my life. | 0:32:34 | 0:32:38 | |
"This is how I communicate with my girlfriends. | 0:32:38 | 0:32:41 | |
"This is how I share my life with my women friends." | 0:32:41 | 0:32:43 | |
To me, what is most exciting about Sex And The City - | 0:32:43 | 0:32:46 | |
which I love, by the way - is the focus on the friendships, | 0:32:46 | 0:32:49 | |
and the strength of the friendships. | 0:32:49 | 0:32:51 | |
The relationship between those four women is always paramount, | 0:32:51 | 0:32:54 | |
regardless of what's happening around them. | 0:32:54 | 0:32:56 | |
A simple "You're so hard" is often quite effective. | 0:32:56 | 0:32:59 | |
-Sometimes men just need to hear a little encouragement. -Such as? | 0:32:59 | 0:33:02 | |
You know, "Yeah, stud, that's right, uh-huh, don't stop, just like that, | 0:33:02 | 0:33:07 | |
"come on, fucker, don't stop." | 0:33:07 | 0:33:09 | |
Seeing those women sit around a table and talk frankly | 0:33:11 | 0:33:14 | |
about relationships, that to me felt really revolutionary. | 0:33:14 | 0:33:17 | |
In the past a lot of male shows objectified women, | 0:33:17 | 0:33:20 | |
and in this case we were always objectifying the men. | 0:33:20 | 0:33:22 | |
They didn't even have names. They were Mr This or Mr That. | 0:33:22 | 0:33:25 | |
They came and went and they were very disposable. | 0:33:25 | 0:33:28 | |
I always felt bad for the men who came on. | 0:33:28 | 0:33:31 | |
"Wow, you know, they really don't get to say much!" | 0:33:31 | 0:33:34 | |
There's a brief introduction, and then their trousers are off. | 0:33:35 | 0:33:39 | |
If I were to do a show about a bunch of guys, you know, | 0:33:39 | 0:33:42 | |
sort of talking smack about women in an explicit way, | 0:33:42 | 0:33:46 | |
it just would not be funny. | 0:33:46 | 0:33:48 | |
We never considered the show to be political. | 0:33:48 | 0:33:51 | |
We never... We weren't that subversive. | 0:33:51 | 0:33:54 | |
I think it was subversive because we weren't trying to be. | 0:33:54 | 0:33:57 | |
We weren't necessarily thinking about making a social statement. | 0:33:57 | 0:34:00 | |
We were thinking about what was going to be funny. | 0:34:00 | 0:34:03 | |
Into the breach opened up by the big-city cable girls | 0:34:03 | 0:34:06 | |
stepped the network suburbanites. | 0:34:06 | 0:34:09 | |
ABC's Desperate Housewives carried the trend | 0:34:09 | 0:34:13 | |
for explicit frankness into the heartland of mainstream America. | 0:34:13 | 0:34:17 | |
I was influenced when I created the show by Sex And The City, | 0:34:17 | 0:34:21 | |
but those women told each other everything. | 0:34:21 | 0:34:25 | |
And my experience with women is that, you know, a lot of them | 0:34:25 | 0:34:30 | |
will share a lot, but they don't give away everything. | 0:34:30 | 0:34:35 | |
If these women are going to be desperate, | 0:34:36 | 0:34:38 | |
it's because they can't share everything about their lives. | 0:34:38 | 0:34:41 | |
I wanted a very pretty universe, so that the kind of dirty, dark, | 0:34:45 | 0:34:50 | |
wicked goings on would have a lovely pastel background. | 0:34:50 | 0:34:54 | |
You never know what's happening behind closed doors. | 0:34:54 | 0:34:56 | |
You never know what is really going on with your neighbours. | 0:34:56 | 0:35:00 | |
A couple of months before I came up with the idea of Desperate Housewives, | 0:35:02 | 0:35:05 | |
I went to a reunion. | 0:35:05 | 0:35:07 | |
One of my friends asked this gal we all knew, | 0:35:07 | 0:35:10 | |
"So, do you just love being a mom?" | 0:35:10 | 0:35:13 | |
And she said, "No." | 0:35:13 | 0:35:15 | |
And I was kind of stunned, | 0:35:15 | 0:35:17 | |
because I didn't know women could say that out loud. | 0:35:17 | 0:35:20 | |
What I liked about Lynette, is it gave voice to what I felt | 0:35:20 | 0:35:23 | |
were the difficulties and challenges of motherhood. | 0:35:23 | 0:35:26 | |
How about you? | 0:35:26 | 0:35:28 | |
Four at home, two on the way. | 0:35:28 | 0:35:31 | |
Oh, big family! You're so blessed! | 0:35:31 | 0:35:33 | |
SHE LAUGHS | 0:35:33 | 0:35:35 | |
I just can't imagine anything better than being a mommy. | 0:35:35 | 0:35:38 | |
My experience when my children were little is there wasn't | 0:35:50 | 0:35:54 | |
a whole lot of room for, "Wow, I hate this." | 0:35:54 | 0:35:57 | |
What happened to the old me?" | 0:35:57 | 0:35:59 | |
And I am not one of those women | 0:35:59 | 0:36:01 | |
that went into motherhood with equanimity and grace. | 0:36:01 | 0:36:04 | |
I kind of went in going, "Oh, my God! This is so hard." | 0:36:04 | 0:36:08 | |
Lynette hates being a mother. She doesn't enjoy it. | 0:36:08 | 0:36:11 | |
And has a breakdown on a soccer field. | 0:36:13 | 0:36:15 | |
Susan and Brie go out to comfort her, | 0:36:15 | 0:36:18 | |
and they confess to her that they understand. | 0:36:18 | 0:36:21 | |
They've been through it, too. | 0:36:21 | 0:36:23 | |
And that's when Lynette turns to them and says, | 0:36:23 | 0:36:25 | |
"Why doesn't anyone talk about this?" | 0:36:25 | 0:36:28 | |
Cos part of the pain is the shame of it. | 0:36:28 | 0:36:31 | |
When you think back to Leave It To Beaver | 0:36:32 | 0:36:35 | |
or any of those women, | 0:36:35 | 0:36:36 | |
the whole idea was that you had to be perfect. | 0:36:36 | 0:36:39 | |
In the same way that women were fighting against the icon of the perfect wife, | 0:36:39 | 0:36:43 | |
in the '50s and the '60s that led to women's lib, | 0:36:43 | 0:36:45 | |
the new icon is motherhood, the perfection of motherhood. | 0:36:45 | 0:36:49 | |
When people say, "Oh, she's just a mother", | 0:36:49 | 0:36:52 | |
I'm like, do you know how hard that is? | 0:36:52 | 0:36:54 | |
It's a lot easier for me to get up in the morning and go to work, | 0:36:54 | 0:36:57 | |
when someone offers me a cup of coffee. | 0:36:57 | 0:36:59 | |
When I decided to start writing the show, the first thing I came up with | 0:37:00 | 0:37:03 | |
was the title, Desperate Housewives. | 0:37:03 | 0:37:05 | |
The woman who was running the testing group said, | 0:37:05 | 0:37:08 | |
"A lot of women aren't going to like that." | 0:37:08 | 0:37:10 | |
And that became interesting because it became clear to me | 0:37:10 | 0:37:13 | |
they didn't really respect women who just stayed in the home. | 0:37:13 | 0:37:17 | |
Now you have to go be the female CEO of a Fortune 500 company | 0:37:17 | 0:37:21 | |
for us to respect you and care about you. | 0:37:21 | 0:37:24 | |
I find any woman who wants to be a wife and mother | 0:37:25 | 0:37:29 | |
and devote her life to creating a home, | 0:37:29 | 0:37:32 | |
I find there's something quietly and beautifully heroic about that, | 0:37:32 | 0:37:35 | |
and I'm attracted to write about that. | 0:37:35 | 0:37:38 | |
By now, primetime women were having it all - | 0:37:43 | 0:37:46 | |
independence, a career, a family, a sex-life, | 0:37:46 | 0:37:50 | |
not to mention adultery, addictions, complications, | 0:37:50 | 0:37:54 | |
breakdowns and suicides. | 0:37:54 | 0:37:57 | |
As a famous cigarette advertisement once put it, | 0:37:57 | 0:38:00 | |
"You've come a long way, baby." | 0:38:00 | 0:38:02 | |
There are many women out there, you know, | 0:38:09 | 0:38:13 | |
who are very successful, independent women. | 0:38:13 | 0:38:16 | |
For whom love has always been elusive. | 0:38:16 | 0:38:21 | |
You know that they're dying to connect. | 0:38:23 | 0:38:26 | |
And I think that's what we all are. We're just dying to connect. | 0:38:26 | 0:38:30 | |
Grey's Anatomy was a show that I pitched as being about | 0:38:31 | 0:38:34 | |
strong, competitive women who worked in a workplace | 0:38:34 | 0:38:38 | |
where on a bad day, you actually killed somebody. | 0:38:38 | 0:38:41 | |
The entire show, really, by the way, | 0:38:43 | 0:38:45 | |
is a love story between Meredith and Cristina. | 0:38:45 | 0:38:48 | |
They're two women who completely bond | 0:38:48 | 0:38:51 | |
over the fact that they are cut-throat and competitive | 0:38:51 | 0:38:55 | |
and love surgery almost more than anything else. | 0:38:55 | 0:38:58 | |
-Which is it, surgery or love? -I want both. -That's what I said. | 0:38:58 | 0:39:01 | |
-No, you can't have both. -Why the hell not? | 0:39:01 | 0:39:03 | |
I definitely wanted to play Cristina. | 0:39:03 | 0:39:05 | |
Doing the procedure is the only thing that matters. | 0:39:05 | 0:39:08 | |
Like, if you don't get to do it, you'll die. | 0:39:08 | 0:39:10 | |
-That's what you have to give up. -For what? | 0:39:10 | 0:39:12 | |
ALL: Love. | 0:39:12 | 0:39:14 | |
She's competitive, mean, nasty, | 0:39:27 | 0:39:33 | |
but she has this intense calling. | 0:39:33 | 0:39:37 | |
It's almost secondary that she's helping people! | 0:39:37 | 0:39:40 | |
Part of what makes the show interesting and complex for me | 0:39:42 | 0:39:45 | |
to write is that I'm constantly exploring how these women | 0:39:45 | 0:39:48 | |
are dealing with what they're doing in their work life, | 0:39:48 | 0:39:52 | |
and how that's going to mesh with having a personal life. | 0:39:52 | 0:39:55 | |
Can I have both? | 0:39:55 | 0:39:56 | |
Can I be a great surgeon and have a life? | 0:39:56 | 0:39:59 | |
Because there is this man who just asked me to marry him, | 0:39:59 | 0:40:01 | |
and I know you tried to have both, but you split up with Meredith's dad. | 0:40:01 | 0:40:05 | |
-I know this is none of my business. -It is none of your business. | 0:40:05 | 0:40:09 | |
And I didn't try hard enough. | 0:40:16 | 0:40:18 | |
Sometimes we find ourselves caught between, how do we balance? | 0:40:19 | 0:40:24 | |
How can we have a successful, meaningful personal life, | 0:40:24 | 0:40:31 | |
work life, and find room for a loving relationship? | 0:40:31 | 0:40:36 | |
The idea that we're all supposed to want this thing, | 0:40:39 | 0:40:42 | |
which is, you know, marriage and babies | 0:40:42 | 0:40:44 | |
and a husband who, you know, rides a white horse... | 0:40:44 | 0:40:47 | |
I know everybody wants the fairytale, | 0:40:49 | 0:40:51 | |
but the fairytale doesn't necessarily exist for these women. | 0:40:51 | 0:40:54 | |
So many women that I knew, | 0:41:06 | 0:41:10 | |
and myself included, were struggling with finding balance. | 0:41:10 | 0:41:16 | |
To be sexy, to look young, to make a living. | 0:41:16 | 0:41:20 | |
How do you deal with not having childcare? | 0:41:20 | 0:41:22 | |
How do you deal with bringing your baby to work? | 0:41:22 | 0:41:24 | |
How do you deal with the fact that your husband's not happy | 0:41:24 | 0:41:27 | |
with how much time you're spending or not spending with your child? | 0:41:27 | 0:41:30 | |
You know, there is no resolution to that problem of finding balance, | 0:41:31 | 0:41:35 | |
unless you're willing to say balance is really overrated. | 0:41:35 | 0:41:39 | |
There's no way you can succeed at that all the time. | 0:41:40 | 0:41:44 | |
In bits and pieces, I suppose. | 0:41:44 | 0:41:46 | |
We've moved past that moment in which you're supposed to be able | 0:41:50 | 0:41:53 | |
to have it all, or that having it all is real | 0:41:53 | 0:41:56 | |
or, frankly, even satisfying, cos if you have it all, | 0:41:56 | 0:41:58 | |
isn't it that your only doing everything half way? | 0:41:58 | 0:42:01 | |
And that's the thing that's most interesting to me. | 0:42:01 | 0:42:05 | |
Choices of another kind | 0:42:08 | 0:42:09 | |
are explored in the suburban black comedy Weeds. | 0:42:09 | 0:42:13 | |
Nancy Botwin breaks the final taboo and embraces a life of crime. | 0:42:13 | 0:42:19 | |
I get real enjoyment out of playing people | 0:42:23 | 0:42:26 | |
who are kind of wildly intolerable to themselves or to other people. | 0:42:26 | 0:42:31 | |
I don't think I'd be interested in playing somebody | 0:42:31 | 0:42:33 | |
who was just sort of consistently ingratiating and perfect. | 0:42:33 | 0:42:37 | |
Due to circumstances beyond her control - | 0:42:37 | 0:42:39 | |
namely, her husband dropping dead - | 0:42:39 | 0:42:41 | |
Nancy Botwin needs to make big money so she can maintain her lifestyle. | 0:42:41 | 0:42:45 | |
And the way to do that fast in America is to sell drugs. | 0:42:45 | 0:42:50 | |
You are a drug dealer. | 0:42:50 | 0:42:51 | |
Yes, Shane. | 0:42:53 | 0:42:55 | |
I grow and sell marijuana. | 0:42:56 | 0:42:59 | |
It's organic. | 0:43:02 | 0:43:03 | |
It's therapeutic. | 0:43:03 | 0:43:06 | |
It's of the earth. | 0:43:06 | 0:43:07 | |
Like...tomatoes. | 0:43:08 | 0:43:10 | |
There's a lot of juggling that has to be done to live a life. | 0:43:25 | 0:43:29 | |
You pay attention to one part and the other part suffers. | 0:43:30 | 0:43:33 | |
You pay attention to that part and you go broke | 0:43:33 | 0:43:35 | |
and you lose your house or whatever it is. | 0:43:35 | 0:43:37 | |
I think it's about the problem in front of her, how does she solve it? | 0:43:37 | 0:43:41 | |
And I think things in the periphery, | 0:43:41 | 0:43:43 | |
I think her children are in the periphery, | 0:43:43 | 0:43:45 | |
and, you know, morality is in the periphery. | 0:43:45 | 0:43:49 | |
I'm sorry. | 0:43:49 | 0:43:50 | |
-Why? -Because you got hurt. | 0:43:52 | 0:43:54 | |
-I'm OK. -Shane, you got shot. | 0:43:54 | 0:43:57 | |
It was bound to happen sooner or later. | 0:43:57 | 0:43:59 | |
No, it's not supposed to happen at all. | 0:43:59 | 0:44:01 | |
It's not. "When is he going to get shot?" | 0:44:01 | 0:44:04 | |
It's not something that crosses your mind when you're pretending to be the tooth fairy. | 0:44:04 | 0:44:08 | |
She's done damage to her children, | 0:44:09 | 0:44:11 | |
she's done damage to her relationships, | 0:44:11 | 0:44:13 | |
she's done damage to herself. | 0:44:13 | 0:44:15 | |
And that's the collateral damage of life. | 0:44:15 | 0:44:17 | |
I think if she took the time to really sit down | 0:44:19 | 0:44:23 | |
and assess the damage she's done, | 0:44:23 | 0:44:25 | |
it would be enormously painful and possibly immobilizing. | 0:44:25 | 0:44:29 | |
And she's got to keep moving. | 0:44:29 | 0:44:31 | |
This was not what I had in mind. | 0:44:31 | 0:44:33 | |
-Then it's a sign. -Sign? | 0:44:33 | 0:44:36 | |
That it's time to move on. | 0:44:36 | 0:44:39 | |
That you don't belong here. | 0:44:39 | 0:44:41 | |
I don't think she can ever go back. | 0:44:41 | 0:44:43 | |
She's been offered that, in a way, by other relationships | 0:44:43 | 0:44:47 | |
she's had through the show and she's refused it. | 0:44:47 | 0:44:50 | |
She wants to stay in the gangster life. | 0:44:50 | 0:44:53 | |
Count. | 0:44:53 | 0:44:54 | |
One, two... | 0:44:56 | 0:44:58 | |
(..three.) | 0:45:00 | 0:45:02 | |
Why do women have to be these pristine figures | 0:45:02 | 0:45:05 | |
of comfort and morality? | 0:45:05 | 0:45:07 | |
They're not. They're complex human beings. | 0:45:07 | 0:45:10 | |
She can be neurotic. She can be a drug dealer. | 0:45:10 | 0:45:12 | |
There's no sense of having this woman | 0:45:12 | 0:45:15 | |
be tipping her head to feminism, | 0:45:15 | 0:45:18 | |
tipping her head to anything other than her need to find herself. | 0:45:18 | 0:45:22 | |
She can be addicted to pills. | 0:45:22 | 0:45:25 | |
It's just we've sort of stretched our threshold a little farther. | 0:45:25 | 0:45:28 | |
You never hear someone say, | 0:45:31 | 0:45:33 | |
"Oh, he's a party guy, you don't want to marry him." | 0:45:33 | 0:45:36 | |
But you hear them always say, "Oh, she's a party girl. | 0:45:36 | 0:45:38 | |
"Fun for a laugh but not the kind of girl you want to marry." | 0:45:38 | 0:45:41 | |
You can play with the bad girls, but you marry a good girl, you know. | 0:45:43 | 0:45:47 | |
It starts with an image. | 0:45:49 | 0:45:51 | |
A man on the stage - a politician - who has just gone through scandal, | 0:45:51 | 0:45:55 | |
and we think he's going to be the star of our show. | 0:45:55 | 0:45:59 | |
And then, as he's speaking, | 0:46:04 | 0:46:05 | |
we back out and see this woman standing beside him just mortified. | 0:46:05 | 0:46:09 | |
With the love of God, the forgiveness of my family, | 0:46:09 | 0:46:13 | |
I know I can rebuild their trust. | 0:46:13 | 0:46:15 | |
All you see is this sort of hollowed out, exhausted woman. | 0:46:17 | 0:46:20 | |
But she's still going to get the lint off his sleeve. | 0:46:30 | 0:46:33 | |
We kept seeing that one image, over and over, | 0:46:35 | 0:46:40 | |
that press conference of the disgraced politician, | 0:46:40 | 0:46:44 | |
or preacher or whomever, | 0:46:44 | 0:46:47 | |
with that wife standing by his side. | 0:46:47 | 0:46:50 | |
I'm not sitting here some little woman, | 0:46:50 | 0:46:52 | |
standing by my man like Tammy Wynette. | 0:46:52 | 0:46:55 | |
One just kept wondering, "What is going through her mind?" | 0:46:57 | 0:47:00 | |
And the reality hits her of what she was just put through, | 0:47:00 | 0:47:03 | |
and the humiliation. | 0:47:03 | 0:47:05 | |
It's that feeling of | 0:47:05 | 0:47:06 | |
you allowed me to become that small and unimportant. | 0:47:06 | 0:47:10 | |
And in that moment, when she slaps him, | 0:47:14 | 0:47:17 | |
it's her wake up. | 0:47:17 | 0:47:19 | |
It's not just about, "You bastard, how could you have done this to me?" | 0:47:19 | 0:47:23 | |
It's her wake up to, "What have I been doing?" | 0:47:23 | 0:47:26 | |
From that moment on, everything that is involved | 0:47:26 | 0:47:29 | |
in that relationship is open for questioning. | 0:47:29 | 0:47:32 | |
The Good Wife is Alicia Florrick, forced back into the workplace | 0:47:32 | 0:47:36 | |
following a sex and corruption scandal | 0:47:36 | 0:47:38 | |
that has put her high-flier husband behind bars. | 0:47:38 | 0:47:41 | |
So, Will speaks highly of you. | 0:47:43 | 0:47:45 | |
He says you graduated top of your class at Georgetown. When was this? | 0:47:45 | 0:47:48 | |
-15 years ago. -Uh-huh. | 0:47:48 | 0:47:50 | |
-And you spent two years at...? -Crozier, Abrams and Abbot. | 0:47:50 | 0:47:54 | |
Good firm. | 0:47:54 | 0:47:55 | |
Will says you clocked the highest billable hours there. | 0:47:55 | 0:47:58 | |
Why did you leave? | 0:47:58 | 0:47:59 | |
-Well, the kids and Peter's career. -Hm. | 0:48:00 | 0:48:03 | |
Women are asked, we're asked a lot of ourselves. | 0:48:14 | 0:48:18 | |
Just from us, I'm not blaming anyone but us. | 0:48:18 | 0:48:21 | |
Just as a mother myself, and a wife, and someone who loves to work, | 0:48:22 | 0:48:25 | |
the constant struggle of trying to be great at both is exhausting. | 0:48:25 | 0:48:30 | |
And there is this tremendous pressure that I think | 0:48:30 | 0:48:34 | |
working women mothers put on themselves to be everything. | 0:48:34 | 0:48:37 | |
And you can't. You just can't. | 0:48:37 | 0:48:40 | |
In contrast to Alicia is Kalinda Sharma, | 0:48:40 | 0:48:44 | |
played by British actress Archie Panjabi. | 0:48:44 | 0:48:47 | |
She's an in-house investigator who lives by a different moral code. | 0:48:47 | 0:48:52 | |
Alicia's the good wife, Kalinda's definitely the bad chick. | 0:48:52 | 0:48:56 | |
The type of woman who would do things | 0:48:57 | 0:49:01 | |
that Alicia would probably never do. | 0:49:01 | 0:49:04 | |
I guess I could just be confused. | 0:49:06 | 0:49:08 | |
She's, you know, very blunt about the fact | 0:49:08 | 0:49:11 | |
that she'll flirt with people to get work done. | 0:49:11 | 0:49:13 | |
It may not be right, but for her it's the way the world works. | 0:49:13 | 0:49:17 | |
What's fun about her character is there is no sense that | 0:49:17 | 0:49:20 | |
any rules are being broken - that's just who she is. | 0:49:20 | 0:49:23 | |
Kalinda is always trying to explain that to Alicia, | 0:49:23 | 0:49:26 | |
that if you don't realise the way the world works, | 0:49:26 | 0:49:29 | |
you're going to be left behind. | 0:49:29 | 0:49:30 | |
I'm so new to television, but what I am learning is | 0:49:33 | 0:49:36 | |
how challenging playing a character on television is. | 0:49:36 | 0:49:39 | |
With a film, you have a script and you have it for three months, | 0:49:42 | 0:49:46 | |
and you put all your effort into that character. | 0:49:46 | 0:49:49 | |
But with television, you really have no idea | 0:49:49 | 0:49:51 | |
where that character's going to go. | 0:49:51 | 0:49:53 | |
When I was told the first season was nine months, | 0:49:54 | 0:49:57 | |
I found that quite worrying. | 0:49:57 | 0:49:59 | |
What am I going to do? How will I plant the seeds of what will happen to her? | 0:49:59 | 0:50:02 | |
Have you got a character breakdown, what's going to happen in the next few episodes? | 0:50:02 | 0:50:06 | |
No, this doesn't work like that. | 0:50:06 | 0:50:08 | |
You just have to allow your character to grow. | 0:50:08 | 0:50:10 | |
I guess I kind of sat back and thought, | 0:50:11 | 0:50:13 | |
"Well, that's how real life is, isn't it?" | 0:50:13 | 0:50:16 | |
People evolve and change and it depends on the situations | 0:50:16 | 0:50:19 | |
and the people they interact with. | 0:50:19 | 0:50:21 | |
And so I've kind of just let her do what she wants, | 0:50:21 | 0:50:24 | |
and see what happens. | 0:50:24 | 0:50:26 | |
We don't just identify with being mothers and wives any more. | 0:50:29 | 0:50:32 | |
We don't just identify with being career women. | 0:50:32 | 0:50:35 | |
But who are we? | 0:50:35 | 0:50:37 | |
All colours of what a women can be are open to her. | 0:50:37 | 0:50:40 | |
And she's trying to find her identity. | 0:50:40 | 0:50:42 | |
She's finally figuring out | 0:50:43 | 0:50:46 | |
that playing the good girl all the time hasn't gotten her very far. | 0:50:46 | 0:50:50 | |
I hear it's always the first one called in - | 0:50:50 | 0:50:52 | |
they're the one who gets fired. | 0:50:52 | 0:50:54 | |
I really didn't need to know that. | 0:50:54 | 0:50:56 | |
There's always this thing within Alicia of... | 0:50:56 | 0:50:58 | |
what's the right thing and should I be doing the right thing? | 0:50:58 | 0:51:00 | |
She goes to Eli Gold. | 0:51:00 | 0:51:03 | |
That's not what she would have done two years before. | 0:51:03 | 0:51:06 | |
I'm in competition with another junior associate. | 0:51:06 | 0:51:10 | |
And? | 0:51:10 | 0:51:11 | |
You're worried you're going to get laid off. | 0:51:13 | 0:51:16 | |
-OK, I can hire the guy away and then, dump him. -No, no. | 0:51:17 | 0:51:21 | |
Alicia really is consistently trying to do the right thing | 0:51:21 | 0:51:25 | |
and it's just difficult because so much is being thrown at her. | 0:51:25 | 0:51:29 | |
I'm not this person. | 0:51:29 | 0:51:31 | |
Mrs Florrick? | 0:51:31 | 0:51:32 | |
If I know one thing in life it's that everybody is that person. | 0:51:32 | 0:51:35 | |
While she's not become unethical, | 0:51:35 | 0:51:38 | |
I think she's perhaps a little more comfortable in the grey area | 0:51:38 | 0:51:42 | |
than she was when she walked in. | 0:51:42 | 0:51:45 | |
So there's nothing I can say? | 0:51:45 | 0:51:47 | |
That's right. | 0:51:47 | 0:51:49 | |
Showing her flaws... | 0:51:49 | 0:51:51 | |
..is actually a lot more comfortable... | 0:51:52 | 0:51:55 | |
Damn it! | 0:51:56 | 0:51:58 | |
..than pretending she doesn't have any. | 0:51:58 | 0:51:59 | |
Are you OK? | 0:52:18 | 0:52:19 | |
What do you think? | 0:52:19 | 0:52:21 | |
I mean, she's a drug addict, she cheats on her husband, | 0:52:31 | 0:52:35 | |
she breaks the law sometimes | 0:52:35 | 0:52:37 | |
with some choices she makes as a nurse, but she is... | 0:52:37 | 0:52:40 | |
Deep down, she is so good. | 0:52:40 | 0:52:43 | |
Linda and I had both been sober for a long time | 0:52:43 | 0:52:45 | |
so we both understand addiction, and we thought, | 0:52:45 | 0:52:48 | |
"You know, that's a great thing to give a main character," | 0:52:48 | 0:52:50 | |
sort of an undertow, | 0:52:50 | 0:52:52 | |
always pulling them toward some level of destruction. | 0:52:52 | 0:52:55 | |
She really does think this is what she has to do | 0:53:02 | 0:53:04 | |
to get through the day. | 0:53:04 | 0:53:06 | |
We loved the idea that she was this single woman, | 0:53:06 | 0:53:10 | |
you thought, at work, | 0:53:10 | 0:53:12 | |
with a boyfriend who was a pharmacist. | 0:53:12 | 0:53:14 | |
She comes home and there's two kids... | 0:53:14 | 0:53:16 | |
Hey, babe! | 0:53:16 | 0:53:18 | |
..and a husband. | 0:53:18 | 0:53:19 | |
She wants to honour the commitments that she's made to her patients. | 0:53:19 | 0:53:22 | |
She wants to honour the commitments | 0:53:22 | 0:53:23 | |
that she's made as a mother, as a wife. | 0:53:23 | 0:53:26 | |
Can't talk, love you. | 0:53:26 | 0:53:28 | |
But she's stretched herself so thin | 0:53:28 | 0:53:30 | |
that now the cracks are starting to show. | 0:53:30 | 0:53:33 | |
You know, you have this one life, and what a high wire act it is. | 0:53:36 | 0:53:40 | |
Now, she's like juggling knives on the high wire. | 0:53:40 | 0:53:43 | |
And now, she's going to start spinning plates and juggling knives on the high wire. | 0:53:43 | 0:53:46 | |
This woman has so many things pulling at her, | 0:53:46 | 0:53:49 | |
and I think people can relate to that. | 0:53:49 | 0:53:51 | |
And I think women, especially, can relate to that. | 0:53:51 | 0:53:55 | |
In order to get drugs from Eddie... | 0:53:56 | 0:53:58 | |
Thank you. | 0:53:58 | 0:53:59 | |
..Jackie takes her ring off when she goes to the hospital. | 0:53:59 | 0:54:03 | |
There was an episode where Jackie can't get her wedding ring off | 0:54:03 | 0:54:06 | |
and she just panics. | 0:54:06 | 0:54:08 | |
BUZZING | 0:54:08 | 0:54:10 | |
OK, for the record, I'm officially questioning your judgement. | 0:54:10 | 0:54:12 | |
Duly noted. | 0:54:12 | 0:54:14 | |
She can't go home with a broken wedding ring. | 0:54:14 | 0:54:17 | |
So, what do you do? | 0:54:19 | 0:54:20 | |
SHE MOANS | 0:54:26 | 0:54:28 | |
I understand, at least on some visceral sort of level, | 0:54:32 | 0:54:36 | |
what it feels like for her. | 0:54:36 | 0:54:39 | |
I really appreciate this. | 0:54:40 | 0:54:42 | |
It's what I do. | 0:54:42 | 0:54:43 | |
She has a lot of good intentions | 0:54:43 | 0:54:45 | |
and really, ultimately, wants to be a good person | 0:54:45 | 0:54:47 | |
and to help other people. | 0:54:47 | 0:54:49 | |
But she is thwarted by her, you know, her inner chaos. | 0:54:49 | 0:54:53 | |
And I think that's why people relate to Jackie, is because she is flawed. | 0:54:53 | 0:54:57 | |
Everybody...everybody has secrets. Everybody has darkness. | 0:54:57 | 0:55:00 | |
And, as a writer, it's so exciting | 0:55:00 | 0:55:02 | |
to really just tell the truth with this stuff. | 0:55:02 | 0:55:05 | |
She doesn't care if you like her. | 0:55:05 | 0:55:07 | |
She doesn't care if she looks good. | 0:55:07 | 0:55:08 | |
She doesn't care how she looks in those horrible pants from the... | 0:55:08 | 0:55:13 | |
You know, she's just kind of, "Yep, here I am." | 0:55:13 | 0:55:16 | |
I so look forward to her sobriety. | 0:55:19 | 0:55:22 | |
If she can free herself from this addiction, | 0:55:24 | 0:55:28 | |
what's underneath I think is a pretty spectacular person. | 0:55:28 | 0:55:32 | |
We tell pretty intimate stories. | 0:55:33 | 0:55:35 | |
There's no cataclysmic events going on, it's little earthquakes, | 0:55:35 | 0:55:39 | |
slowly but surely destabilizing the ground that she walks on | 0:55:39 | 0:55:42 | |
and the world that she inhabits. | 0:55:42 | 0:55:44 | |
And that's how drama is in real life. | 0:55:44 | 0:55:48 | |
Make me good, God... | 0:55:48 | 0:55:50 | |
..but not yet. | 0:55:51 | 0:55:53 | |
Oh, Master, you are sure you would not mind if I went alone? | 0:55:59 | 0:56:02 | |
Women don't have to be any one thing on television any more. | 0:56:02 | 0:56:07 | |
They can be anything. | 0:56:07 | 0:56:08 | |
And I think that what makes that interesting for us | 0:56:08 | 0:56:11 | |
is that we no longer have to turn on the television | 0:56:11 | 0:56:13 | |
and see an image that feels like, "No woman would behave like that." | 0:56:13 | 0:56:16 | |
What is off limits at this point? It doesn't seem like... | 0:56:16 | 0:56:19 | |
If it's within the realm of experience that I've had, | 0:56:19 | 0:56:23 | |
that people I know have had, | 0:56:23 | 0:56:24 | |
that the writers have had or known people, | 0:56:24 | 0:56:27 | |
then it's all game. | 0:56:27 | 0:56:29 | |
Women, by and large, over the ages, have needed to be liked | 0:56:32 | 0:56:36 | |
and approved, because that's all they had. | 0:56:36 | 0:56:39 | |
They weren't offered jobs. | 0:56:39 | 0:56:41 | |
It was, "Hey, am I cute enough for you, darling?" | 0:56:41 | 0:56:45 | |
The women on television now are in pursuit of other things. | 0:56:45 | 0:56:48 | |
And, yes, it would be nice if people liked them. | 0:56:48 | 0:56:52 | |
But it's not their ultimate goal. | 0:56:52 | 0:56:53 | |
We're so lucky as actors | 0:56:53 | 0:56:56 | |
that television has embraced women so fully. | 0:56:56 | 0:56:59 | |
There's so much more freedom | 0:56:59 | 0:57:02 | |
to really be all the things that are human, | 0:57:02 | 0:57:05 | |
even the ones that are sort of ugly. | 0:57:05 | 0:57:07 | |
You can find somebody who reflects you on television right now. | 0:57:07 | 0:57:10 | |
That hasn't always been the case. | 0:57:10 | 0:57:11 | |
Not only is that more liberating, but it's way more creative | 0:57:11 | 0:57:14 | |
and way more fun to play as an artist. | 0:57:14 | 0:57:16 | |
I think the key to making great TV is to reflect, | 0:57:16 | 0:57:19 | |
to really reflect real human behaviour. | 0:57:19 | 0:57:22 | |
Our hopes and dreams and struggles. | 0:57:22 | 0:57:24 | |
Subtitles by Red Bee Media Ltd | 0:57:50 | 0:57:56 |