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When you're young, everything's an adventure.

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We're growing, bursting with ideas.

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And facing fresh challenges every single day.

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Stand back and make sure you're wearing your goggles!

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I'm from one of six groups of children, all over the country,

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who are filming their lives.

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Oliver, are you all right?

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From high-rise tower blocks...

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Hi. Bye.

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My room is so big.

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..to our remotest islands.

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I love Mull!

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Stop it! Stop it!

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We were only kissing.

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I know, but stop it.

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For six months, we've had cameras in our homes, clubs,

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we've even filmed ourselves.

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To share moments of love...

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-Are you all right, darling?

-..loss...

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-..and drama...

-I told you, I'm not saying a word.

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Through our own eyes.

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Giving us a big voice...

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Wow!

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Let me count! Let me count this!

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To tell you what we really think of the world.

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Wow, my mum's a tooth fairy - that's shocking.

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-This week...

-Oi, you!

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..we're going to look at what we love and hate.

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That's my super-super-annoying sister,

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so I may as well smack her on the bottom.

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Friendships are challenged.

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-Please?

-No.

-Please?

-No.

-Please?

-No.

-Please?!

-No!

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A family is reunited.

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Hi, Dad. Part of you is, like, burnt, and when you see him again,

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it's like it's healed you.

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And wedding bells are ringing.

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CHEERING

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Love is...

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It's hard to explain cos, like, you don't really get it often.

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It's when you have a very strong connection to something,

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I think you just, you like it, but a little more than like, just like.

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I love my pony.

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I love my teddies.

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I love my bed.

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I think love is air and it's all around us, even like this air

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could be love.

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Then there's the other type of love that everyone should know.

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But then, that is... I don't have that at the moment.

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What I love - love - is...

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..ladybirds.

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This is my ladybird drawer.

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I have all my toys.

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Let's go and have a look.

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I like looking for ladybirds...

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and I know that ladybirds won't be on a tree

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because that's not their habitat.

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It's only woodlice that'd be on a tree

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and some other bugs, but not ladybirds.

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Seven-year-old Abigail lives in Gloucester with her mum and dad.

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She's always making us laugh.

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She's always bright and cheery.

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Is that a snail?

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She's the life and soul of the family.

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You might see a ladybird,

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or these flowers.

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After nine years together, her parents have now decided

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to get married.

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There's going to be a church, my mum's going to be brought

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walking down the aisle, and...

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..I'm going to be bridesmaid.

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It's probably going to be fun

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for my mum and dad.

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Is it going to be fun for you?

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I'm not quite sure because I'm not quite there.

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With the wedding set for two months' time,

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will Abigail warm to the idea of her parents tying the knot?

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For now, her focus is on the Kaleidoscope drama club,

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where she goes once a week.

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Come on then. Are you getting out?

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Or are you going to stay in here all night?

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This is the weather report.

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It looks like it's going to be snowing...

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dogs.

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LAUGHTER

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Today, they're broadcasting a love commercial to a special someone

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in their life.

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Hello, everybody.

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And today I'll be talking about one person from the Kaleidoscope

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drama group, aka, Bella.

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She is very kind and funny.

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But do remember never to take her beanie - she will go crazy.

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Everyone loves her!

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Saying they love their friends is one thing,

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but are the children willing to sacrifice their own happiness

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to prove it?

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-Mine.

-No, no, no.

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No. No.

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Each parent has divulged the food

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their child hates more than anything else.

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-I hate bacon!

-I hate fish!

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So would they be prepared to eat it just once

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if it means a friend gets their favourite treat?

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Right, let me have Henry and your partner.

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Who has to eat their "hate food" is down to chance.

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-Is that...?

-What have you got?

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I got hate.

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So, are you...

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..prepared to eat your hate food

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in order for Nathan to get the love food?

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Gosh, I hate mushrooms so much.

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Oh, they just don't feel nice.

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They don't feel nice.

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Come on.

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ALL: Henry! Henry! Henry! Henry!

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I'm shaking.

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I'm so scared.

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You'll cover your fear, Henry.

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Three, two...

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APPLAUSE

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Yes!

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Wait a minute, he's got to swallow it.

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Yes!

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And a strawberry lace for me.

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If a friend does something really nice for you, and they don't

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really want to, you feel very happy inside.

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APPLAUSE

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And you're like, "Thank you, thank you," and really emotional.

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Right. Abigail and Ian.

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-I'll open it.

-Just choose one, please.

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-Yes!

-Love.

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Ian, what's your hate food?

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Mushrooms.

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Please, please?!

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Guess what, Ian? It will make you big and strong.

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-No.

-It will make you big and strong.

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-No.

-It will make you big and strong!

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No.

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-WHISPERS:

-I'm not eating mushrooms.

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Please?!

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-No!

-Stop attacking him!

-No, no, no, no.

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-No mushrooms.

-Yes, yes, yes!

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-Do it for me!

-No.

-Do it for me!

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Henry did it for him.

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No.

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I'm not eating mushrooms.

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When friends let me down,

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it makes me feel sad...

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..because your friends...your friends aren't supposed

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to make you feel sad.

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They're supposed to make you feel happy.

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Oh, no.

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Abigail's upset and that's really hard, isn't it,

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when we don't get what we love?

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Ian, go and comfort Abigail.

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I'm sorry.

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Sometimes your brain says, "Just run away," and then they'll

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come after you and try and make you happy again.

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I thought you didn't... You were going to just eat it,

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-but you weren't.

-I hate mushrooms though.

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What about if the mushrooms were made out of chocolate?

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The chocolate was the shape of a mushroom?

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If it was the shape of a mushroom, I'd eat it.

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But if it was made out of mushrooms, I still wouldn't eat it.

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What about if the mushrooms were hiding?

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Like, pretend I was a mushroom

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and I was in this cake.

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Would you see me, if I was right at the bottom of the cake?

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No, but... Still, I don't like cake.

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You don't like cake?!

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I like chocolate cake, but...

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What about if it was a chocolate cake, but a mushroom just inside?

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I'd eat it until I taste something lumpy.

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SHE LAUGHS

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Come back here.

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In inner-city Bradford, a group of nine, ten and 11-year-olds

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attending Bowling Park Primary School

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choose to give up their lunchtimes for a debating club.

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Love is stronger than hate.

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I open the floor for discussion.

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Love is stronger than hate because, if you were to love someone,

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like so strong, you would do anything,

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you would fight hate for the love of your life.

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Sometimes, you need hate

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because the people in the army need hate to kill the people

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who are doing the wrong things.

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So sometimes hate is important?

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Stand back and make sure you're wearing your goggles.

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Ten-year-old Daniel dreams of growing up to be a scientist.

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Right. 15ml of malt vinegar.

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Right.

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Bicarbonate of soda.

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It's going to erupt.

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Oh!

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That is a lot of lava.

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I can actually remember before I was born,

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and that was when I was in my mum's stomach at the time,

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and my mum was obviously in hospital,

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and the only thing I remember was that moment blacking outside,

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being taken out of her stomach.

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It were actually quite interesting

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how I can remember something that was so long ago,

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more than ten years ago,

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yet I can't remember something that happened, like, yesterday.

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I can make this person disappear.

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It's a time machine.

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Daniel lives with his mum and younger brother Mark.

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He's a lovely little boy.

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He's such a thoughtful, sweet person.

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It's like, he'll do little things like, if I'm having a bad day,

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he leaves me little notes

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that say, "You're beautiful, Mummy," and stuff.

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It's like, oh, bless you.

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My mum and dad split up when my brother Mark was born.

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So a few months after he was born, my dad moved out.

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He made it to be a corporal in the army

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and he had a mission to go somewhere,

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so he stopped living with us and then went to live with the army.

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Daniel's debating class have all brought in objects they love,

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which have special meaning in their lives.

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Would anybody like to share, would anybody like to go first?

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My object is this medal...

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and it means something to me because my dad's in the army,

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and they gave medals of bravery...

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cos on this medal, at the top, it says "Afghanistan".

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They awarded the...

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..the adults medals and then they awarded the children medals as well,

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and it was a really key moment in my life.

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Did you have to be brave as well?

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Well, yeah,

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in the time my dad took to come home, six months,

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so I had to be brave about that.

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How did you feel when you were, like, not with your dad?

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I felt really sad

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because, with him being in a long-distance place,

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I just wanted to be with him again.

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I only see my dad, like...

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..every three to six months...

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but it's his work.

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He wouldn't quit his job because he gets quite a lot of money from it.

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Patrick.

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This is my object

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and I brought it because...

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cos my dad gave it to me when I was five years old,

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and he said it's for luck.

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This is my favourite memory of who I am because at first,

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when I started class, I thought learning was just a word,

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nothing more, nothing less,

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but when I got this award it showed me what learning meant.

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When did you get this award?

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I got this in year two, so...

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When you were brand-new to English, to school?

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Yes, after I was brand-new.

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It reminds me from where I started, and what I thought about learning,

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and it shows me who I've become.

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Yeah, cos you've come such a long way, Balint, haven't you?

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You've made so much progress.

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Nine-year-old Balint moved from Hungary to the UK

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when his mum and dad broke up five years ago.

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When I first moved here,

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I was really scared

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because it was a new language,

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I didn't know anything about it.

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The time, the place, the people...

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even the drinks and food is different.

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I'm very proud to be Hungarian.

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I'm happy, I'm proud I made it all the way here.

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What do those keys represent over here?

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It kind of reminds me of it being the key thing in my life.

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Oh, like a key thing, like, that's locked inside you, your dad...

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Memories of your dad are locked inside you.

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-Yeah.

-How long did he come back for?

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Er...

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He only came back for about four weeks.

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And then he left again?

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-Yeah.

-That's depressing.

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-I don't see him much.

-That is very sad.

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-I don't see him much.

-I see mine two weeks every year.

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BOTH: Whoa!

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That's even less than I see my dad.

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So he lives in Hungary?

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Yeah, he lives in Hungary cos my mum and dad, they broke up.

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To be honest, that was the worst thing that ever happened in my life.

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-I've learned something though.

-What?

-No matter what,

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dads will always be there for you...

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-Yeah.

-..even...

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-That is true.

-..even when they're not there, because...

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It's not when they need to be there, it's when they're in your heart.

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-Yeah.

-Even if they die,

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they'll still be there for you.

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In your heart, you'll always have the memory.

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Dads will always be there.

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In Gloucester, Abigail's parents' wedding is just a few weeks away.

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-Right.

-What?

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-It's quite a long way.

-Her mum is taking her to the dress fitting.

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I spy with my little eye something beginning with B.

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Something beginning with B?

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-Yeah.

-I'm rubbish at this game.

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-Just try.

-But despite being included in the wedding plans,

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Abigail still isn't feeling the love.

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So what do you think's going to happen on Mummy and Daddy's wedding?

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I don't know.

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-Any ideas at all?

-No.

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Abby, that's really not helpful.

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OK, you can look now.

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Doesn't Mummy look like a princess?

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-A white one.

-Yeah.

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That was the plan -

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-to make her look like a princess, like you.

-Pretty?

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-Is it my go?

-Yeah.

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You're supposed to say, "Mummy, you look amazing."

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Mummy, you look amazing.

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And how have you been feeling?

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Sad.

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Because, like, my mum and dad take more attention about the wedding,

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not about me.

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So stuff that I might need, they're not spending on me.

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They're just spending on the wedding.

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She is at that age, it doesn't affect her.

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The importance doesn't really register.

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Quite a big thing for us, but, for her, it's just like...

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Yeah.

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We've tried to involve her with getting the favour bags ready,

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so she feels part of it.

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She's certainly not been excluded.

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-No.

-We've tried to involve her in things that she would be able to do,

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and do well and feel proud of being part of, so...

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-Just want her to be natural, I suppose.

-Yeah.

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There's a main bit in the church, which I'm interested in.

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If Abby decides she's going to sing and dance on the sidelines,

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I'll just let her go.

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I hope she doesn't, of course, but there you are.

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-Abby will be Abby.

-Yeah.

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Use your legs. Use your legs, Edmund.

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In the Newbury countryside,

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a children's pony practise is in full flow.

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Sit up! Sit up! Sit up! Sit up!

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Julia, you're not doing this terribly well, are you?

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You didn't go in and out.

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Established in 1933,

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the Old Berkshire Hunt Pony Club meet regularly throughout the year

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to work on their riding skills.

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Each child owns their own horse

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and nurturing a close bond with their animal

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is paramount for the kids.

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Oliver, you all right?

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Good boy, Stan.

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Stan, stop it!

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Eight-year-old Edmund has recently got back in the saddle

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after breaking his arm.

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-HE GASPS NERVOUSLY

-Come on, Edmund.

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Keep going. Slow.

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-Oh!

-Oh, Edmund!

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If somebody offered me a million pounds for my pony, I would say no

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cos my pony cost more than a million pounds.

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One million, 500.

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In a break from riding, Edmund's pony club have brought in the things

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they love to hate to show their friends.

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A cockerel is quite mean.

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It goes cock-a-doodle-do, like, at the top of its voice.

0:21:410:21:46

LAUGHTER

0:21:460:21:48

But just how universal are children's dislikes?

0:21:480:21:51

OK, who thinks the cockerel should go into the bin?

0:21:510:21:55

-Me!

-Me!

0:21:550:21:56

To find out, each one has to convince their clubmates

0:21:560:22:00

to forever banish their choice into a bin of hate.

0:22:000:22:03

That particular cockerel?

0:22:040:22:06

Put it in the bin.

0:22:060:22:08

Goodbye, bird.

0:22:080:22:10

But some pet hates are a bit more controversial than a noisy bird.

0:22:120:22:16

-Who put that picture on the table?

-Me!

0:22:160:22:20

-It's not meant to be the puppy.

-This is my little sister

0:22:200:22:23

and she's always annoying.

0:22:230:22:25

She's super-annoying.

0:22:260:22:27

Hi, I'm Edmund, and that's my super-super-annoying sister.

0:22:300:22:35

And she's currently being a pain,

0:22:350:22:37

so I may as well smack her on the bottom.

0:22:370:22:39

Oi!

0:22:390:22:41

I'm going to get you on the lips.

0:22:410:22:43

Edmund's five-year-old sister Lorna might not be his ideal companion,

0:22:430:22:49

but, like many brothers and sisters, they spend most days together.

0:22:490:22:53

She even tries to help him out at the stables.

0:22:530:22:56

You're not going to scoop...

0:22:560:22:58

No, not the scoops!

0:22:580:23:01

No, you're not going to scoop Stan.

0:23:010:23:03

You see other children playing nicely and my two very,

0:23:030:23:06

very rarely play nicely.

0:23:060:23:07

Why are you doing the lion there?

0:23:070:23:09

Because this is our spot.

0:23:090:23:11

Can I fix something?

0:23:110:23:12

My little sister's literally just ruined the board.

0:23:120:23:15

There is a lot of sibling rivalry,

0:23:150:23:17

but, yeah, I think that's normal.

0:23:170:23:19

My little sister is always trying to get me into trouble.

0:23:200:23:23

He never says please for things back.

0:23:230:23:26

Excuse me, I do. What...?

0:23:260:23:28

Excuse me, I do.

0:23:280:23:30

I want to say something really important about Lorna.

0:23:300:23:33

Really important.

0:23:330:23:35

She screams like 80% of the time.

0:23:350:23:38

Do you hate your little sister?

0:23:400:23:41

Yes. If I go downstairs and she's following me, I say,

0:23:410:23:45

"Stop following me."

0:23:450:23:46

And she keeps on following me. I say it again and she still keeps on following me.

0:23:460:23:49

I say it again and she keeps on following me.

0:23:490:23:52

If you throw your little sister in the bin,

0:23:520:23:55

you're going to miss having someone to play with.

0:23:550:23:58

I never play with her.

0:23:580:23:59

When you get home, she's going to be gone.

0:23:590:24:01

Does anybody else think it's a good idea to put their own sibling

0:24:010:24:05

in the bin?

0:24:050:24:06

ALL: Yeah.

0:24:060:24:08

As much as you hate your siblings, they still keep you company.

0:24:080:24:13

And it is, kind of, they keep you doing stuff when you're

0:24:130:24:15

fighting with them.

0:24:150:24:17

It keeps you busy!

0:24:170:24:19

She's stopping me from being busy.

0:24:200:24:23

-How?

-If I try and do something, she just annoys me.

0:24:230:24:26

If someone just out of the blue said, "Oh, do you

0:24:260:24:28

"like your brother?" I'd say, "No, he's really annoying."

0:24:280:24:30

Really, if I think like, hard enough, family-wise,

0:24:300:24:33

I do actually love him.

0:24:330:24:35

That sounds really weird.

0:24:350:24:37

You may feel like you hate her, but, really, you actually still love her,

0:24:380:24:42

but you don't know.

0:24:420:24:44

And although you think you hate her, you don't.

0:24:440:24:47

Sometimes I like her.

0:24:470:24:50

Sometimes.

0:24:500:24:52

But most of the time, she's really annoying and tells lies, and says,

0:24:520:24:58

"Oh, that hurts," and my dad believes it

0:24:580:25:02

and it's really just fake crying.

0:25:020:25:04

Edmund, if you put her in the bin, you won't be able to get her out,

0:25:040:25:07

because what if you like her in the future,

0:25:070:25:09

but then she's in the bin now?

0:25:090:25:11

Let's have a vote.

0:25:110:25:13

I'll lose. No, I'll lose.

0:25:130:25:16

-Edmund, listen.

-You know it.

0:25:160:25:18

Vote now if you'd like to keep Edmund's little sister...

0:25:180:25:22

out of the bin.

0:25:220:25:23

-Edmund.

-She's been saved.

0:25:260:25:28

Your little sister's been saved.

0:25:280:25:30

Edmund's having a quiet moment.

0:25:380:25:40

He can have a quiet moment.

0:25:400:25:41

-Edmund, come on.

-I don't want to.

0:25:470:25:49

Yes, you do. Come on.

0:25:490:25:51

What did we say about the beginning, on the first day?

0:25:510:25:54

Sportsmanship, isn't it?

0:25:540:25:56

Whenever I say the word hate, I always wish I had never said it.

0:26:000:26:07

Hate's a very strong word, my dad teaches me,

0:26:070:26:10

and you never actually hate something cos that's really strong.

0:26:100:26:15

You really don't like it, so I don't really have anyone I hate.

0:26:150:26:21

You have to have a reason to hate people

0:26:210:26:23

that is, like, seriously bad.

0:26:230:26:26

Like, in like the Anglo-Saxon times, they, like...

0:26:260:26:30

People would have, like... I think it was blood fumes or something,

0:26:300:26:34

where someone would kill someone in another person's family,

0:26:340:26:38

and then they would kill someone else.

0:26:380:26:40

And that was until... Where guilt came in, and it was like...

0:26:400:26:44

If that happened, you would kind of have the right to not like someone,

0:26:450:26:51

but hate is a very, very strong word.

0:26:510:26:53

Do you think I look like my dad,

0:26:580:27:00

like, when I was just born?

0:27:000:27:02

Yes. The same as your dad, look.

0:27:020:27:05

-Yeah.

-The eyebrows, the eyes.

0:27:060:27:09

In Bradford, Daniel's visiting his gran.

0:27:090:27:12

He's excited about his dad returning home from four months away in Kenya

0:27:120:27:16

in just two weeks' time.

0:27:160:27:19

-There, he looks like you.

-Yeah.

0:27:190:27:21

-Doesn't he?

-Yeah.

0:27:230:27:24

Even when he's in Kenya,

0:27:250:27:27

you can tell that I'll look exactly like him when I'm older.

0:27:270:27:31

Yeah. Look how thick his hair, like yours.

0:27:310:27:35

He's got an Afro!

0:27:350:27:36

And he's got ginger hair!

0:27:380:27:41

Do you think you'll get some treats when he comes home?

0:27:410:27:43

He always treats us, so...

0:27:430:27:45

-He does, doesn't he?

-Yeah.

0:27:460:27:48

Cos he loves us so much.

0:27:490:27:52

Of course he does.

0:27:520:27:53

He'll be home in two weeks.

0:27:540:27:56

Yeah.

0:27:560:27:58

Hi, Dad.

0:28:020:28:03

What have you been doing today?

0:28:050:28:07

I've just been working. I'm looking forward to coming back.

0:28:080:28:13

So am I.

0:28:130:28:15

I mean, to see you.

0:28:150:28:16

Could you maybe teach me how to ride a bike when you get back?

0:28:170:28:22

Cos my mum hasn't taught me yet.

0:28:220:28:25

I'll teach you when I get back.

0:28:260:28:30

When I get the hang of it,

0:28:300:28:32

I'll be able to ride my bike around the garden

0:28:320:28:35

and try my skills and stuff.

0:28:350:28:38

I nearly cried at that message you sent me last night.

0:28:400:28:45

But it's true.

0:28:450:28:47

What?

0:28:470:28:49

It's true.

0:28:490:28:51

Right, my tablet's on 4%,

0:28:530:28:56

so I'm going to have to go.

0:28:560:28:59

-OK, darling.

-Bye.

0:29:000:29:02

I'll speak to you tomorrow.

0:29:030:29:05

I'll speak to you tomorrow as well.

0:29:050:29:07

Bye.

0:29:070:29:08

I speak to him every day because...

0:29:110:29:14

it just...

0:29:140:29:16

It's just I love him so much

0:29:160:29:19

and I want to hear from him every single day.

0:29:190:29:22

It feels really painful and it feels like something's burnt.

0:29:240:29:30

Part of you is, like, burnt. And when you see him again,

0:29:300:29:35

it's like it's healed you.

0:29:350:29:36

What's in your heart, Abigail?

0:29:420:29:45

It's probably ladybirds...

0:29:460:29:49

..and sketching.

0:29:510:29:53

I've got lots and lots of friends, like, partying in there.

0:29:530:29:56

And, I mean, I've got some soft spots for people.

0:29:560:30:01

I have my family...

0:30:020:30:04

and...

0:30:040:30:07

..and meerkats and some of my teddy bears.

0:30:070:30:10

Actually, all my teddy bears.

0:30:110:30:13

I don't want to upset one of them.

0:30:130:30:15

I'm Nathan and this is where I live.

0:30:250:30:27

That's my house.

0:30:300:30:32

Ten-year-old drama fanatic Nathan lives with his mum,

0:30:320:30:36

dad, and older sister.

0:30:360:30:37

This is my nan, she passed away,

0:30:370:30:40

but it's brilliant to have photos of her around the house,

0:30:400:30:44

just to remind us of her. My favourite thing is singing.

0:30:440:30:48

# Oo-ooo, oh-oh... #

0:30:480:30:51

I do sing quite a lot, and it really

0:30:510:30:54

warms me up, and it really makes me feel happy.

0:30:540:30:57

# ALL: Up the ladder, down the ladder, one by one.

0:31:000:31:03

# Up the ladder, down the ladder, one by one... #

0:31:040:31:08

# My name is Louis.

0:31:080:31:10

# ALL: Your name is Louis.

0:31:100:31:13

# My name is Joe.

0:31:130:31:14

# ALL: Your name is Joe.

0:31:140:31:16

# My name is Cian.

0:31:160:31:18

# ALL: Your name is Cian.

0:31:180:31:21

# ALL: Up the ladder, down the ladder, one by one.

0:31:210:31:25

# Up the ladder, down the ladder, one by one. #

0:31:250:31:29

Good. Oh, that's got me focused, actually.

0:31:290:31:31

After a mid-morning song,

0:31:310:31:33

Nathan's drama class are considering what's more important -

0:31:330:31:37

splashing out on themselves or helping those in need.

0:31:370:31:40

If you had £10 to spend, what would you choose and why?

0:31:410:31:47

Make-up, what have we got? What else have we got here?

0:31:470:31:49

Refugee support.

0:31:490:31:51

The children may come up with very different ideas,

0:31:510:31:54

but the challenge is whether they can work together

0:31:540:31:57

towards a common goal.

0:31:570:31:59

Well, we have some £10s.

0:31:590:32:03

Real £10s. What we're going to say is...

0:32:030:32:05

..you, each group,

0:32:070:32:09

is going to be able to give £10 to whatever you think you want

0:32:090:32:14

to give the £10 to, but...

0:32:140:32:17

only if everybody in your group agrees.

0:32:170:32:22

The friends will have to challenge each other's feelings about issues

0:32:230:32:27

close to their hearts.

0:32:270:32:28

They have ten minutes to make their decision.

0:32:280:32:31

What about refugees?

0:32:320:32:33

Refugees are people from places like Syria who have no homes

0:32:330:32:38

and are trying to get over here.

0:32:380:32:41

They are the same as homeless.

0:32:410:32:42

-Yeah, but...

-That's really hard.

0:32:420:32:45

I chose care for the elderly

0:32:450:32:47

because, even though my grandad's gone,

0:32:470:32:50

we should still want to care for the elderly cos they can, like,

0:32:500:32:53

die really easily.

0:32:530:32:54

If you just cared for them even harder, they can really do it.

0:32:540:32:59

I think we should do the Save The Meerkats cos I love meerkats,

0:32:590:33:03

and if we could just save them they would be protected in the desert

0:33:030:33:07

-from snakes.

-Cancer research.

0:33:070:33:09

I think that's a really good idea.

0:33:090:33:11

-I agree.

-I'm almost crying cos my nan died of cancer,

0:33:110:33:16

and this is actually going to happen, so I really want to do it.

0:33:160:33:19

My step-grandma died of cancer as well.

0:33:190:33:22

Well, Save The Meerkats,

0:33:220:33:24

the meerkats will stop the snakes from getting into the deserts

0:33:240:33:27

cos meerkats actually kill snakes.

0:33:270:33:31

My favourite animal, since I got this teddy, I mean this meerkat,

0:33:310:33:36

I've just loved meerkats.

0:33:360:33:37

Meerkats, meerkats, meerkats rule!

0:33:390:33:41

Basically, he's saying he's more worried about animals

0:33:430:33:46

than his family members. That's what he's saying.

0:33:460:33:48

I love meerkats.

0:33:480:33:50

My nan was kind, caring,

0:33:500:33:55

she would do stuff that not many other people would do for us.

0:33:550:34:01

She was one of the best people I knew.

0:34:010:34:04

Cancer is more bad.

0:34:050:34:07

And I loved my nan so much -

0:34:070:34:10

this is why I want to do cancer research.

0:34:100:34:13

You could die because of cancer.

0:34:130:34:15

I think cancer.

0:34:150:34:16

But I just love meerkats!

0:34:160:34:19

I loved my nan before she...

0:34:190:34:21

-Died?

-Yeah.

0:34:230:34:24

When my nan died...

0:34:260:34:28

it wasn't surprising. I knew what she was going through.

0:34:280:34:33

But then someone close to you, like, going, it's quite upsetting.

0:34:330:34:40

OK.

0:34:420:34:44

You have got 30 seconds to come to your decision, your final decision,

0:34:440:34:50

or you will lose your money.

0:34:500:34:53

-Go.

-I reckon refugees.

0:34:530:34:54

I think refugees.

0:34:540:34:56

Are you OK with refugees?

0:34:560:34:58

-OK. Got ours.

-We've got ours.

0:34:580:35:01

Five, four, three...

0:35:020:35:05

-Louis, please.

-I'm not doing cancer.

0:35:050:35:08

-..two, one.

-No.

0:35:080:35:11

If you have made a decision, hold up your board.

0:35:120:35:19

Stand up, spokesperson, please.

0:35:190:35:21

We've chosen refugee support

0:35:230:35:25

because quite a lot of people are dying

0:35:250:35:27

trying to get to this country...

0:35:270:35:29

..so we want to help them.

0:35:300:35:32

Fantastic. Do all your group agree?

0:35:320:35:35

-Yes.

-Hold on to your £10 note.

0:35:350:35:38

Right. So let's hear Nathan.

0:35:390:35:42

Nathan, stand up for me. Be the spokesperson for your group.

0:35:420:35:46

I was hoping for cancer research

0:35:460:35:49

because more and more people die of cancer every day,

0:35:490:35:54

but then more and more people survive every day as well.

0:35:540:35:58

Erm, and my nan also died of cancer, so...

0:35:580:36:03

So it obviously does mean an awful lot to you.

0:36:050:36:08

Perhaps somebody in your group can comfort you, Nathan.

0:36:120:36:15

Why are you upset?

0:36:150:36:16

-Just thinking of my nan.

-You're thinking about her.

0:36:210:36:23

Come and sit down on your rug. Good boy, it's OK.

0:36:230:36:26

Listen, it's really hard and you've done a hard thing.

0:36:260:36:29

I'm really...

0:36:290:36:30

It's really good that it means so much to you, Nathan.

0:36:300:36:33

All right? It's good to have a heart for things

0:36:330:36:35

and it's good to fight for things, so well done

0:36:350:36:38

and thank you for sharing that.

0:36:380:36:40

So, Louis, stand-up.

0:36:400:36:42

And what were you wanting to support?

0:36:440:36:47

Save The Meerkats.

0:36:470:36:49

Right. Talk about that a little bit.

0:36:490:36:51

I love meerkats and I just...

0:36:540:36:57

They kind of, like, fight for the desert because of snakes and stuff,

0:36:580:37:02

cos they can kill snakes quite easily.

0:37:020:37:05

But they have to be in a huddle -

0:37:050:37:07

that's what you call a large pack of meerkats.

0:37:070:37:11

Lots of meerkats do get injured though by fighting the snakes,

0:37:110:37:15

and I think if we had Save The Meerkats then we could...

0:37:150:37:19

..save more of the meerkats and the deserts could be protected more.

0:37:210:37:26

OK, thank you, Louis.

0:37:260:37:28

Why couldn't you guys decide?

0:37:280:37:30

You had this money, why couldn't you decide?

0:37:300:37:33

What was hard?

0:37:330:37:34

Everybody loved animals...

0:37:340:37:36

..but they all love family members as well.

0:37:370:37:39

-Ian.

-We've changed our mind.

0:37:420:37:44

We've decided to give it to the cancer charity.

0:37:440:37:47

Wow.

0:37:480:37:50

-Why is that?

-Cos of Nathan.

0:37:500:37:53

Yeah, seeing how upset he is.

0:37:530:37:55

Wow.

0:37:560:37:58

What in particular? Just because you saw how much it meant to him?

0:37:590:38:03

Wonderful.

0:38:050:38:06

I just want to say thank you.

0:38:070:38:09

Wonderful.

0:38:120:38:13

Henry, do you want to go over and sit with Nathan, actually,

0:38:130:38:16

because you two are good buddies, aren't you,

0:38:160:38:18

and support him a little bit?

0:38:180:38:19

Friendship, to me, it's one of the best things in the world

0:38:270:38:30

cos it really warms my heart.

0:38:300:38:34

I felt really happy when they changed their minds.

0:38:340:38:38

You need at least one friend in life

0:38:380:38:42

cos, if you don't have any friends in life, you...

0:38:420:38:46

You just won't have anyone to help you get through it.

0:38:460:38:50

It just feels like...

0:38:500:38:52

..you're really safe because...

0:38:530:38:55

..I know that my best friends are going to be with me forever.

0:38:560:38:59

Everyone's up early in Abigail's house,

0:39:070:39:09

as her parents' big day has arrived.

0:39:090:39:12

Until now, the wedding hasn't quite captured Abigail's imagination.

0:39:140:39:19

How are you feeling?

0:39:210:39:22

Excited.

0:39:220:39:24

I'm a bit nervous.

0:39:240:39:25

-About what?

-About our special day today.

0:39:250:39:29

How are you feeling?

0:39:310:39:33

-Fine.

-Yeah?

0:39:330:39:36

-Yeah.

-Looking forward to putting on your pretty dress?

0:39:360:39:39

Um, yes.

0:39:410:39:43

What do you think of Mum, Abigail?

0:39:570:39:59

You need to get into your dress now, please.

0:40:020:40:04

Thank you.

0:40:040:40:06

As Mummy and Daddy are going through

0:40:090:40:12

a myriad of emotions, she also is.

0:40:120:40:16

Can I be in the middle?

0:40:180:40:20

No, Abby's going to go on the end.

0:40:200:40:22

I'm the VIP today.

0:40:220:40:24

Mummy, look, there's the fluffy dice.

0:40:260:40:29

Here we go!

0:40:310:40:33

Her emotional situation has been sidelined a little bit

0:40:360:40:40

because the focus is on me this morning and not her.

0:40:400:40:44

You know I love you.

0:40:450:40:47

-Ready?

-Yeah.

0:40:550:40:57

With the ceremony underway, and her parents side-by-side,

0:41:050:41:09

Abigail is starting to see what the big day means.

0:41:090:41:12

Love looks like when you're, like, happy for each other,

0:41:130:41:20

so when you're, like, happy...

0:41:200:41:24

..and then you cheer people on, it's a bit like love.

0:41:250:41:29

Will you take Jane here present for your lawful wife?

0:41:290:41:32

I will.

0:41:320:41:34

To have and to hold from this day forward.

0:41:340:41:36

To have and to hold from this day forward.

0:41:360:41:38

-Till death do us part.

-Till death do us part.

0:41:380:41:41

Congratulations.

0:41:410:41:43

Three, two, one.

0:41:580:42:00

When you love someone, you feel really happy

0:42:020:42:06

cos you're near them, so you feel really happy.

0:42:060:42:09

I don't want to get married.

0:42:160:42:18

I hate the bit at the end, when you have to kiss.

0:42:180:42:22

Yuck!

0:42:220:42:23

Wedding day?

0:42:230:42:25

I don't even think I'll have an engagement,

0:42:250:42:28

not when I have a girlfriend, I wouldn't know.

0:42:280:42:31

I know that I'm going to look really pretty.

0:42:310:42:34

I'm definitely going to have long hair when I'm older.

0:42:340:42:38

Long hair, like my mum.

0:42:380:42:40

So where would you go, the future or the past?

0:42:480:42:52

I want to go to the future, so I'll find out when I'm dying and how,

0:42:520:42:55

and if I live a healthy life or not.

0:42:550:42:56

Yeah, but also, you'll know how you die and that's, like, really sad.

0:42:560:43:02

In Bradford, Balint is spending the day with his best friend Patrick.

0:43:020:43:06

They have been inseparable since Balint showed Patrick around

0:43:060:43:10

when he first joined the school.

0:43:100:43:11

I want to see what the future's like and that's it.

0:43:110:43:15

Try 65.

0:43:150:43:16

I met Balint three years ago

0:43:170:43:21

and I was kind of shy to speak,

0:43:210:43:24

but now I'm...

0:43:240:43:27

I'm just happy.

0:43:270:43:29

Ever since we first, like, met,

0:43:340:43:38

it's like I knew I was going to be friends with him.

0:43:380:43:41

I can't believe you're actually running!

0:43:410:43:44

I was born in Slovakia

0:43:440:43:46

and I came to Bradford for school.

0:43:460:43:49

My mum tries to push me to be really good at school,

0:43:500:43:54

and then go to uni and get a real good job.

0:43:540:43:58

So what do you want to do in the future?

0:43:580:44:00

The future? Well, to be honest, I don't know what I want to do

0:44:000:44:04

because it's like you're still too young to decide

0:44:040:44:06

at the age of nine or ten.

0:44:060:44:08

Don't you think?

0:44:080:44:10

Well, you could be, like, a footballer

0:44:100:44:12

because you're really good at it.

0:44:120:44:15

-Me?

-Yeah. You are.

0:44:150:44:17

You would make a good one as well, wouldn't you?

0:44:170:44:19

No, probably not.

0:44:190:44:21

I think you don't need a royal family

0:44:240:44:27

because you've already got the Prime Minister,

0:44:270:44:29

and I think the Prime Minister does enough.

0:44:290:44:31

The Royal family bring us a bit of happiness and excitement.

0:44:310:44:37

Right, you've worked super hard so far today.

0:44:370:44:39

After exercising their brains,

0:44:390:44:41

Balint and his friends now have a more emotive decision to make.

0:44:410:44:45

We're going to have a break in a second.

0:44:450:44:48

OK?

0:44:480:44:49

And we're going to have a snack.

0:44:490:44:51

Yes!

0:44:510:44:53

Each child must decide whether to keep everything equal

0:44:530:44:56

amongst their friends, or to give some kid special treatment.

0:44:560:45:00

I have six beautiful cupcakes,

0:45:000:45:05

which is something I know you all love.

0:45:050:45:08

I also have 12 apples.

0:45:080:45:11

Why can't there be 12 cupcakes?

0:45:110:45:13

If you decide to go for six cupcakes,

0:45:130:45:16

that means six children will have to go without anything.

0:45:160:45:19

Or you could go for the apples

0:45:210:45:23

and all of you could have an apple.

0:45:230:45:26

This is completely your decision.

0:45:260:45:29

I just love the taste of cupcakes,

0:45:300:45:33

they're just delicious.

0:45:330:45:34

Come on, let's just go for cupcakes.

0:45:340:45:38

I think she should get an apple, so everybody gets a snack.

0:45:380:45:42

Yeah. I think you should get a cupcake

0:45:420:45:45

because it's got more energy in it.

0:45:450:45:46

McKenzie, what do you think?

0:45:460:45:48

I don't have anything to say, I just want a cupcake.

0:45:480:45:52

You just want a cupcake.

0:45:520:45:53

You don't mind. You just want a cupcake.

0:45:530:45:56

Brilliant.

0:45:560:45:57

If we choose the apple, will we get the cupcakes later?

0:45:570:45:59

No. If you choose the apples, you do not get the cupcakes.

0:45:590:46:03

Hands up, then, for cupcakes.

0:46:030:46:07

So, one, two, three for cupcakes.

0:46:090:46:11

Hands up for apples.

0:46:110:46:14

Nine for apples,

0:46:140:46:15

three for cupcakes.

0:46:150:46:17

Apples it is.

0:46:170:46:18

Yay!

0:46:180:46:19

Go up and get yourself an apple.

0:46:190:46:21

Seriously, that's...

0:46:210:46:22

And if you don't want an apple, you don't have to get one.

0:46:240:46:27

What was that for?

0:46:270:46:28

Apples are rubbish.

0:46:280:46:30

If this was my snack time at home, I wouldn't dare eat it.

0:46:300:46:34

Then why did you choose it?

0:46:370:46:39

Because.

0:46:390:46:41

I think we should have chose cupcakes

0:46:430:46:46

because they looked so nice.

0:46:460:46:48

Oh, my God!

0:46:480:46:51

What about if you were one of the six who didn't get a cupcake?

0:46:510:46:55

Just tell me that. Tell me, honestly.

0:46:550:46:58

I'd be all right.

0:46:580:46:59

Miss, Balint's upset.

0:47:010:47:03

He said he hated me because I chose for an apple,

0:47:060:47:09

and then he just started to cry.

0:47:090:47:12

I'm just mad.

0:47:140:47:16

-You're just mad?

-Mm-hm.

0:47:160:47:18

Come on, sweetheart, you don't need to get upset about this.

0:47:180:47:21

I'm going to leave you to talk to him.

0:47:230:47:24

Can you see if you can make him feel a little bit happy?

0:47:240:47:27

Because he's a little bit sad. Come on then, sweetheart.

0:47:270:47:30

Why are you crying?

0:47:300:47:31

Is it because of the decision?

0:47:330:47:35

Is it?

0:47:350:47:37

I told you, I'm not saying a word.

0:47:370:47:39

It feels heartbreaking when a friend lets you down because, like,

0:47:450:47:49

friends are there to back you up

0:47:490:47:51

and they are there to support you if you're alone.

0:47:510:47:55

And knowing that the best friend you've ever had

0:47:550:47:59

didn't support you is just something that

0:47:590:48:02

I would probably regret for my whole life.

0:48:020:48:06

You can sit here all day, you're not getting a word out of me.

0:48:070:48:10

I wanted to vote for apple because then we could all share it,

0:48:100:48:16

and then we could all have it.

0:48:160:48:18

Everyone, even you.

0:48:180:48:21

Including you, Balint.

0:48:210:48:23

Falling out with friends feels upsetting,

0:48:260:48:29

but when I fall out with Balint,

0:48:290:48:31

it's just, like, we have like another chance to be friends again.

0:48:310:48:38

-See the girls, yeah.

-Yeah?

0:48:390:48:41

It's like Martina, yeah, she wears two earrings.

0:48:410:48:44

And girls wear two earrings, yeah? Yeah, and McKenzie too wore, like,

0:48:440:48:48

these two diamonds.

0:48:480:48:50

He made a moustache.

0:48:530:48:56

Yeah, I forgive him.

0:49:010:49:03

He's made it up to me.

0:49:030:49:05

And now, to be honest, we've just been best friends since.

0:49:050:49:09

My biggest rock and it's really heavy.

0:49:190:49:23

It's pulling me down.

0:49:240:49:27

Eight-year-old Edmund is at home playing

0:49:270:49:29

with one of the loves of his life,

0:49:290:49:32

his rock collection.

0:49:320:49:33

Some of the rocks are just really smooth and really detailed,

0:49:330:49:37

they're just really interesting.

0:49:370:49:39

Stop, do not judge.

0:49:390:49:41

If you judge, I will destroy you.

0:49:410:49:44

There we go. I've got a knot.

0:49:440:49:46

Right.

0:49:480:49:50

I think this might work.

0:49:500:49:52

Oh!

0:49:540:49:56

Bad rock! Bad!

0:49:580:50:00

Ow!

0:50:000:50:02

Ow! Ow!

0:50:020:50:04

His sister Lorna is working on a big gesture

0:50:060:50:09

to win over her older brother.

0:50:090:50:11

I'm drawing a picture for Edmund.

0:50:110:50:15

He's sometimes nice.

0:50:170:50:19

Once, he let me play with his marble one...

0:50:190:50:23

and we played nicely together.

0:50:230:50:26

To Edmund, kiss, kiss, kiss.

0:50:300:50:32

I love you a lot.

0:50:320:50:36

Will we be friends?

0:50:370:50:40

It's a picture for you.

0:50:480:50:51

Edmund, it says,

0:50:530:50:55

"To Edmund, I love you lots."

0:50:550:50:59

Give me back my picture.

0:51:030:51:05

Give me back my picture!

0:51:050:51:08

I bet a cow could draw better than that.

0:51:080:51:12

I've got a half of our dad, which Lorna doesn't have.

0:51:160:51:19

Lorna's got the other half.

0:51:190:51:21

I've got a half of Mummy and Lorna's got the other half of Mummy.

0:51:210:51:25

So that makes us the complete opposite.

0:51:270:51:30

Edmund, give me it back, please!

0:51:320:51:34

Edmund, sit back.

0:51:340:51:36

Watch!

0:51:360:51:38

With sibling rivalry a daily grind,

0:51:400:51:43

Edmund's Mum often plays peacekeeper.

0:51:430:51:45

Edmund, Edmund, listen to Mummy.

0:51:450:51:48

Edmund, listen to Mummy.

0:51:480:51:49

Do you think it's because you've got a sister, not a brother,

0:51:490:51:52

-that you fight so much?

-That's one of the reasons, I think.

0:51:520:51:54

When I was little, Edmund, I've got three sisters and two brothers,

0:51:540:51:58

and we used to fight all the time.

0:51:580:52:02

And it's just one of those things.

0:52:020:52:03

We used to fight over ponies,

0:52:030:52:05

we used to fight over whose turn it was to muck out.

0:52:050:52:08

But I don't...

0:52:080:52:10

I like having a sister now.

0:52:100:52:12

Actually, when I'm an adult, you'll probably come to my birthday party,

0:52:170:52:20

-won't you?

-Yeah, I will.

0:52:200:52:22

Lorna's my sister, so I...

0:52:240:52:27

..love her, but not... There's two different kinds of love, really.

0:52:300:52:34

There's love like you love, love.

0:52:340:52:36

And there's also love, like, even though you hate her,

0:52:360:52:39

you still care about her.

0:52:390:52:40

Edmund, when's the next time you could do something together with me?

0:52:440:52:48

In 90 years.

0:52:500:52:51

It's going to be quite hard for me to put it up someplace high.

0:53:040:53:08

I'll do the bottom two.

0:53:080:53:10

In Bradford, the big day has arrived for Daniel.

0:53:100:53:13

I nearly cried last night.

0:53:160:53:18

Why?

0:53:180:53:19

Because my dad's coming home,

0:53:190:53:21

so we need to keep an eye out.

0:53:210:53:24

You can be sat in that chair and, like, stare out as well, like...

0:53:240:53:28

And then, if you see his car, you can easily tell me.

0:53:300:53:33

My dad's coming home.

0:53:360:53:39

He should be, like, on the motorway right now.

0:53:390:53:43

Close to Bradford.

0:53:440:53:46

I'm feeling really, really happy and excited...

0:53:460:53:49

that I get to see my dad again.

0:53:490:53:52

I couldn't go to sleep because of it.

0:53:520:53:56

It's quite a bubbly moment for me.

0:53:560:53:59

-Oh, you all right, darling?

-Yeah.

0:54:330:54:35

-How are you doing?

-I missed you so much.

0:54:370:54:40

I missed you, too.

0:54:400:54:41

Who won the war?

0:54:500:54:52

Who won the war? We're not finished yet.

0:54:520:54:54

I get to see my dad again.

0:54:560:54:58

It's the best moment I've had in my life.

0:54:580:55:02

Right.

0:55:110:55:12

OK, we're going to start when we get down to this flat bit.

0:55:120:55:16

Yeah, because if I start riding,

0:55:160:55:18

I could fly down and hit a tree or summat.

0:55:180:55:21

Put your right foot over, put it on the pedal.

0:55:220:55:25

Yeah. And if you lean forward onto the handlebars.

0:55:270:55:30

And then, when you're ready to go, push down with your right foot,

0:55:300:55:34

-and pick your left foot up and put it on the pedal.

-OK.

-OK? Off you go.

0:55:340:55:37

It's either going to end in happiness and stuff today,

0:55:370:55:41

or in terror.

0:55:410:55:43

Whoa!

0:55:430:55:44

-That's OK.

-I'm trying to balance myself.

0:55:440:55:46

That's all right. We can try it again. Look where you're going.

0:55:460:55:49

-Oops!

-Oops!

0:55:490:55:51

Oh!

0:55:510:55:53

I don't know why I keep tilting.

0:55:550:55:58

Let's go.

0:55:580:55:59

Whoa!!

0:55:590:56:00

It's kind of tricky.

0:56:020:56:04

Kind of tricky. What's the trickiest part?

0:56:040:56:06

Doing the balancing.

0:56:060:56:10

But I'm really enjoying this.

0:56:100:56:12

-It's just a little time to spend with you.

-I know.

0:56:120:56:15

We're going to spend a lot more time together now.

0:56:150:56:19

Yeah.

0:56:190:56:20

Love just really makes you happy.

0:56:250:56:28

And, also, when other people are happy,

0:56:280:56:30

it just puts a smile on your face.

0:56:300:56:33

And if other people are laughing,

0:56:330:56:37

you're laughing for some weird reason and you're just, like,

0:56:370:56:40

"I don't know why I'm even laughing!"

0:56:400:56:43

That's it. That was all you.

0:56:430:56:45

If I could see love,

0:56:450:56:48

it would be a massive, soft, cushiony thing.

0:56:480:56:53

That you could just lie on, and you could stay there for ever.

0:56:530:56:57

If you love somebody, you really, really care for them.

0:56:570:57:02

And you could, like, never really do anything bad to them

0:57:020:57:06

and you wouldn't ever really let them down, basically.

0:57:060:57:09

Love is something that we should all care about.

0:57:090:57:14

And if nobody cares about love in the world,

0:57:140:57:18

then this world would be a totally different place.

0:57:180:57:22

That's it, just keep the balance.

0:57:220:57:23

That's you.

0:57:230:57:26

That's you. Look, no hands!

0:57:260:57:28

There's no evil love, but there's hate.

0:57:310:57:34

That's what the evil love is, so they're opposites.

0:57:340:57:38

-I'm actually doing it!

-You are.

0:57:380:57:40

Hate makes people fight and everything,

0:57:400:57:45

but we need the world of love around us

0:57:450:57:48

because it leaves us with happiness and joy.

0:57:480:57:51

Are you all right?

0:57:530:57:55

-Yeah.

-That was wicked.

0:57:550:57:57

-Yes.

-I actually did that for about a minute there.

0:57:570:58:01

-Are we all done?

-Yeah.

0:58:010:58:02

Cool. We can go and get some ice cream.

0:58:020:58:05

Yeah!

0:58:050:58:07

Next time, how kids see fear and danger.

0:58:070:58:11

We're all going to die!

0:58:110:58:13

There's growing pains...

0:58:130:58:14

There's, like, 11 and 12-year-old kids, who...

0:58:140:58:17

They scare me quite a lot.

0:58:170:58:18

..a push for independence...

0:58:180:58:21

The most important thing about getting older is to try new things.

0:58:210:58:24

..and facing their fears of failure.

0:58:240:58:27

I'm doing this so I won't fail.

0:58:270:58:29

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