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You know what, mate? I'm really quite excited to be back. | 0:00:02 | 0:00:04 | |
-Just to find out what's going on with the Old School family. -Me too. | 0:00:04 | 0:00:08 | |
We're the Hairy Bikers and we're back at the Oxford Academy. | 0:00:08 | 0:00:11 | |
We both had a tough time when we were at school. | 0:00:12 | 0:00:15 | |
And for kids today it can be just as hard. | 0:00:15 | 0:00:19 | |
There's disruption... | 0:00:19 | 0:00:20 | |
I punch stuff, I kick stuff, I throw stuff. | 0:00:20 | 0:00:23 | |
..bullying... | 0:00:23 | 0:00:24 | |
They were saying how much I should kill myself, | 0:00:24 | 0:00:26 | |
I should jump off a bridge. | 0:00:26 | 0:00:27 | |
Before you say stuff about someone, you should know more about them. | 0:00:27 | 0:00:31 | |
..and failure. | 0:00:31 | 0:00:33 | |
But this struggling school | 0:00:33 | 0:00:35 | |
has embarked on a crazy social experiment... | 0:00:35 | 0:00:38 | |
WHISTLE BLOWS | 0:00:38 | 0:00:39 | |
..to transform the lives of young and old alike. | 0:00:39 | 0:00:42 | |
And we want to help. | 0:00:43 | 0:00:45 | |
This is like Grange Hill crossed with Last Of The Summer Wine. | 0:00:45 | 0:00:49 | |
-TELEVISION: -Thank you very much. -I've lost the...knack, if you like. | 0:00:54 | 0:00:58 | |
What'll happen when we bring the quiet and the noisy together? | 0:00:58 | 0:01:02 | |
Could they transform each other? | 0:01:04 | 0:01:07 | |
He's a boss. He's a beast. | 0:01:07 | 0:01:09 | |
Do you think the project's going to work? | 0:01:09 | 0:01:11 | |
Erm... I don't know. | 0:01:12 | 0:01:14 | |
-ALL: -Old School! | 0:01:16 | 0:01:18 | |
Blackbird Leys is a huge '60s estate | 0:01:29 | 0:01:32 | |
that's seen riots and still has more than its share | 0:01:32 | 0:01:35 | |
of antisocial behaviour. | 0:01:35 | 0:01:37 | |
Here at the Academy, we're a month into our 12-week experiment, | 0:01:41 | 0:01:45 | |
pairing local oldies with teenagers. | 0:01:45 | 0:01:48 | |
We're hoping to see meaningful change in the mental agility | 0:01:48 | 0:01:51 | |
and strength of the old | 0:01:51 | 0:01:53 | |
and confidence, self-esteem and exam performance of the young. | 0:01:53 | 0:01:58 | |
But there have been problems. | 0:01:58 | 0:01:59 | |
Some pairs haven't been getting on. | 0:01:59 | 0:02:02 | |
And one ended before it began. | 0:02:02 | 0:02:05 | |
I don't want to do this. | 0:02:05 | 0:02:07 | |
Can both sides now win trust, | 0:02:08 | 0:02:11 | |
start listening to each other's concerns | 0:02:11 | 0:02:14 | |
and achieve things they never thought possible? | 0:02:14 | 0:02:17 | |
Jacub the midget. | 0:02:18 | 0:02:19 | |
Jacub is one of the most disruptive kids, | 0:02:21 | 0:02:23 | |
especially when he forgets to take his ADHD pills. | 0:02:23 | 0:02:26 | |
Today he's in big trouble again. | 0:02:28 | 0:02:30 | |
Jacub, behave yourself. | 0:02:30 | 0:02:32 | |
Shut up, Ashleigh. | 0:02:32 | 0:02:33 | |
-Oh, no. -Oh, mate. | 0:02:36 | 0:02:37 | |
Oh, well, that's fair enough. | 0:02:39 | 0:02:41 | |
-Ah, you can't do that. -But, look, you've done it. | 0:02:43 | 0:02:46 | |
And there's nothing... Look, bit of advice. | 0:02:46 | 0:02:48 | |
There's nothing you can do about history. | 0:02:48 | 0:02:51 | |
-Nothing at all. -But you can do something about the future. | 0:02:51 | 0:02:53 | |
Exactly. | 0:02:53 | 0:02:54 | |
Jacub's partner is Clive. | 0:02:56 | 0:02:58 | |
Can he help Jacub with his behaviour and encourage him | 0:02:58 | 0:03:02 | |
to knuckle down with school? | 0:03:02 | 0:03:04 | |
And maybe in the process Jacub will help Clive, too. | 0:03:04 | 0:03:08 | |
That's what we hope these relationships will achieve. | 0:03:08 | 0:03:11 | |
-Do you know, the great thing about having Clive is you've got him to talk to about it. -I know. | 0:03:11 | 0:03:16 | |
And he's not going to be judgmental. | 0:03:16 | 0:03:17 | |
-He's going to try and help. -Exactly. | 0:03:17 | 0:03:19 | |
I think that's the whole idea of Old School. | 0:03:19 | 0:03:20 | |
-Plus he's cool. -He's a cool dude. | 0:03:20 | 0:03:22 | |
-If he really cares... -Mm-hm. | 0:03:28 | 0:03:30 | |
..REALLY cares about what Clive thinks, then that's perfect. | 0:03:30 | 0:03:34 | |
That's a solid relationship. | 0:03:34 | 0:03:36 | |
-Yes. -Isn't it? | 0:03:36 | 0:03:37 | |
I haven't played in goal for ages, but it's still going... | 0:03:39 | 0:03:41 | |
Clive and Jacub have been meeting weekly | 0:03:41 | 0:03:44 | |
since the project started a month ago. | 0:03:44 | 0:03:46 | |
He is a boss. He's a beast. | 0:03:47 | 0:03:50 | |
Drama is Jacub's best subject. | 0:03:50 | 0:03:52 | |
And he'd like to become a professional actor. | 0:03:52 | 0:03:55 | |
This month he is facing the ultimate test. | 0:03:55 | 0:03:58 | |
A Shakespearean play. | 0:03:58 | 0:04:00 | |
-Hi, Jacub. -Hello. | 0:04:00 | 0:04:01 | |
-How are you? -Good, you? | 0:04:01 | 0:04:03 | |
I was a bit like Jacub. | 0:04:03 | 0:04:05 | |
In the sense that I was a bit of a bad boy at school. | 0:04:06 | 0:04:10 | |
Right, do you want me to... | 0:04:10 | 0:04:12 | |
Do you want me to sort of test you, then? | 0:04:12 | 0:04:14 | |
Yeah. | 0:04:14 | 0:04:15 | |
And I did have a short temper. | 0:04:15 | 0:04:18 | |
I probably still have today to be honest. | 0:04:19 | 0:04:22 | |
Enter Tybalt. | 0:04:22 | 0:04:25 | |
Look upon my death. | 0:04:25 | 0:04:26 | |
Yep. | 0:04:27 | 0:04:29 | |
Then it's, "You shall find me apt... | 0:04:29 | 0:04:31 | |
-That's it. -"..enough to that, sir." | 0:04:31 | 0:04:34 | |
"Mercutio, thou consortest..." | 0:04:35 | 0:04:38 | |
Oh, yeah. | 0:04:38 | 0:04:39 | |
Thou consortest with Romeo. | 0:04:39 | 0:04:41 | |
Romeo, yeah. | 0:04:41 | 0:04:43 | |
I'm sure you'll get that. | 0:04:43 | 0:04:44 | |
Because you're... | 0:04:44 | 0:04:46 | |
You're clever. | 0:04:46 | 0:04:47 | |
You seem a bit down, Jacub. | 0:04:48 | 0:04:51 | |
Just, you know, be confident. | 0:04:51 | 0:04:53 | |
And the more you put into it, you'll feel better yourself. | 0:04:53 | 0:04:56 | |
Yeah. | 0:04:56 | 0:04:57 | |
When I'm down, it feels really sad and it feels really tiring | 0:04:58 | 0:05:01 | |
because I don't want to do anything. I don't want to speak to anyone. | 0:05:01 | 0:05:04 | |
I can't be bothered to do anything. I get really angry. | 0:05:04 | 0:05:06 | |
I get really agitated really quickly. | 0:05:06 | 0:05:09 | |
Basically, you wouldn't like me if I was down. | 0:05:09 | 0:05:12 | |
As long as you do it to the best of your ability | 0:05:12 | 0:05:16 | |
that's all you can do. | 0:05:16 | 0:05:17 | |
Right, we're on Scene 12. | 0:05:17 | 0:05:19 | |
Yeah, I've actually got to go. | 0:05:19 | 0:05:20 | |
-Oh, have you? -Yeah. | 0:05:20 | 0:05:22 | |
Right. So, you've got to go, then. | 0:05:22 | 0:05:24 | |
HE SIGHS | 0:05:24 | 0:05:26 | |
Bye, then, Jacub. | 0:05:26 | 0:05:27 | |
Bye. | 0:05:27 | 0:05:28 | |
-See you next time. -Yeah, see you later. -Yeah. | 0:05:28 | 0:05:31 | |
'I haven't seen him as down as that.' | 0:05:31 | 0:05:34 | |
He's usually all, you know... | 0:05:34 | 0:05:36 | |
very talkative. | 0:05:36 | 0:05:37 | |
You know, I was going to really put him into the character, | 0:05:37 | 0:05:41 | |
but I thought, "No, he's not with it. He's not... | 0:05:41 | 0:05:43 | |
"It's not the time." | 0:05:43 | 0:05:45 | |
With his 14th birthday approaching, | 0:05:46 | 0:05:49 | |
Jacub's missing his dad, who sadly took his own life eight years ago. | 0:05:49 | 0:05:53 | |
I went up there on my birthday. | 0:05:56 | 0:05:58 | |
I sit at his grave for, like, an hour, just talking to him. | 0:05:58 | 0:06:02 | |
And then I just don't like talking about it | 0:06:03 | 0:06:07 | |
cos it always makes me cry. | 0:06:07 | 0:06:08 | |
It's just like, I don't know why, but I get so emotional about my dad. | 0:06:12 | 0:06:16 | |
I mean, yeah, I can understand why, but it's just like... | 0:06:16 | 0:06:20 | |
I don't know why he done it. Because he could have had... | 0:06:21 | 0:06:24 | |
He could have watched me and Tiana and Cain grow up and that. | 0:06:24 | 0:06:28 | |
And yet he still done it. | 0:06:28 | 0:06:29 | |
But your mum's there, isn't she? | 0:06:35 | 0:06:37 | |
Yeah, I know, but she'll never be my dad. | 0:06:37 | 0:06:40 | |
Right. | 0:06:40 | 0:06:41 | |
At Old School, we're not just pairing up Year Nines, | 0:06:55 | 0:06:58 | |
but also Year 11s. | 0:06:58 | 0:07:00 | |
It's a critical year for them, as their GCSEs are looming large. | 0:07:00 | 0:07:04 | |
And the big hope is that with the help of their partners | 0:07:05 | 0:07:08 | |
Marlon, Charisma, Chloe and Bethany will get better marks. | 0:07:08 | 0:07:12 | |
Marlon has been paired up with retired salesman Vic, | 0:07:16 | 0:07:19 | |
who joined Old School hoping to fill the empty hours | 0:07:19 | 0:07:22 | |
since he lost his wife two years ago. | 0:07:22 | 0:07:25 | |
Marlon in the classroom environment is pretty good. | 0:07:25 | 0:07:27 | |
He's what they call in modern speak a cool dude. | 0:07:27 | 0:07:30 | |
He's obviously very clever and he's very well-respected. | 0:07:30 | 0:07:34 | |
Army cadet Marlon is hoping the project | 0:07:36 | 0:07:38 | |
will boost his school results. | 0:07:38 | 0:07:41 | |
He's keen to impress Mum, | 0:07:41 | 0:07:42 | |
who leaves him with friends while she's away at university. | 0:07:42 | 0:07:46 | |
I speak to her daily on the phone, so it's all right. | 0:07:46 | 0:07:49 | |
But I do miss her throughout the weekdays. | 0:07:49 | 0:07:51 | |
But I see her on the weekend so it's all right. | 0:07:51 | 0:07:55 | |
Soon they'll take an oral exam for their English GCSE. | 0:07:55 | 0:07:58 | |
It tests how well they can express ideas when talking to adults. | 0:07:58 | 0:08:03 | |
Start with your key talking points. | 0:08:03 | 0:08:05 | |
In other words, bullet points on how it all started, et cetera. | 0:08:05 | 0:08:09 | |
Very briefly. | 0:08:09 | 0:08:11 | |
Today, Vic's giving Marlon the benefit of his experience | 0:08:11 | 0:08:14 | |
as a public speaker. | 0:08:14 | 0:08:16 | |
It's to summarise in a few words what you've said already. | 0:08:16 | 0:08:20 | |
But he's not made quite the impression he hoped for. | 0:08:20 | 0:08:24 | |
Well, I was just bored. | 0:08:24 | 0:08:26 | |
But I endured it. | 0:08:26 | 0:08:29 | |
Marlon's not alone. | 0:08:30 | 0:08:32 | |
Other Year 11s are struggling, too. | 0:08:32 | 0:08:35 | |
Every time I try to speak, Isabel will just jump in and talk over me. | 0:08:35 | 0:08:41 | |
Yes, you were telling me. | 0:08:41 | 0:08:42 | |
-So, they all tried to protect you. -They all... | 0:08:42 | 0:08:46 | |
When you're doing exams, do you like to have a sort of routine? | 0:08:46 | 0:08:49 | |
I used to. I used to have... a special little bag | 0:08:49 | 0:08:54 | |
that I'd put pencils and things... | 0:08:54 | 0:08:58 | |
I do think I would have preferred her to know a lot more about me. | 0:08:58 | 0:09:02 | |
We were hearing the same complaint right across the board. | 0:09:02 | 0:09:06 | |
I think we've got a bit of a major problem on | 0:09:06 | 0:09:08 | |
cos the kids don't feel like they're being listened to. | 0:09:08 | 0:09:11 | |
And if Old School's going to work, | 0:09:11 | 0:09:13 | |
it's got to be on an equal and even playing field. | 0:09:13 | 0:09:15 | |
Vic and senior partners Mel and Julia | 0:09:19 | 0:09:22 | |
have set up a mock GCSE English oral exam. | 0:09:22 | 0:09:25 | |
Marlon, can I ask you to please take the seat, thank you? | 0:09:26 | 0:09:29 | |
Today, I'm going to talk about the Army Cadet Force. | 0:09:31 | 0:09:33 | |
Which I know a lot about because I myself am a cadet. | 0:09:33 | 0:09:36 | |
The Army Cadet Force is a national youth organisation which... | 0:09:36 | 0:09:40 | |
After a short presentation, | 0:09:40 | 0:09:41 | |
the panel test the pupil's ability to listen and respond to questions. | 0:09:41 | 0:09:46 | |
Do you get to use real guns? | 0:09:46 | 0:09:48 | |
We get to use .22 rifles, | 0:09:48 | 0:09:51 | |
LSWs and many other weapons. | 0:09:51 | 0:09:53 | |
I just had this thought. | 0:09:54 | 0:09:56 | |
It's really a war game which is real. | 0:09:56 | 0:09:59 | |
-Yeah. -And in many ways that sort of concerns me | 0:09:59 | 0:10:03 | |
because if you've learnt all these things at your sort of age | 0:10:03 | 0:10:07 | |
and then you leave, I'm thinking, "What's in your mind afterwards?" | 0:10:07 | 0:10:11 | |
-Well... -Say you got into a bit of an argument with something. -Yeah. | 0:10:14 | 0:10:18 | |
Would you have that sort of thought of, say, getting hold of a gun | 0:10:18 | 0:10:22 | |
and doing something about it? | 0:10:22 | 0:10:24 | |
Fellow Year 11 Charisma is next. | 0:10:29 | 0:10:32 | |
Why do you think you're shy? | 0:10:33 | 0:10:35 | |
Because you seem quite all right today, doing what you're doing. | 0:10:35 | 0:10:38 | |
Yeah. Erm, I don't know. I'm really... | 0:10:38 | 0:10:40 | |
I've just always been really shy. Even as a little kid. | 0:10:40 | 0:10:43 | |
What do you think causes that? | 0:10:43 | 0:10:45 | |
Erm... | 0:10:45 | 0:10:46 | |
I have an older brother who is also really shy. | 0:10:46 | 0:10:49 | |
And I guess I just... | 0:10:49 | 0:10:51 | |
I watched him grow up, | 0:10:51 | 0:10:52 | |
so that's where I got my shyness from, I guess. | 0:10:52 | 0:10:55 | |
The thing is, by doing things as a group with other people, | 0:10:55 | 0:11:00 | |
that surely should overcome some of the problems you've got. | 0:11:00 | 0:11:04 | |
Now, what age are you now? | 0:11:04 | 0:11:06 | |
-15. -I would expect at that sort of age | 0:11:06 | 0:11:09 | |
you'd be a bit more sort of enthusiastic and vibrant | 0:11:09 | 0:11:11 | |
towards your other colleagues. | 0:11:11 | 0:11:14 | |
Why don't you think that is? | 0:11:14 | 0:11:15 | |
I... It's just my personality to be shy. | 0:11:15 | 0:11:19 | |
But really you can't afford to be like that. | 0:11:19 | 0:11:22 | |
Personally, I think Vic is a critical person. | 0:11:24 | 0:11:27 | |
He has his personal point of view, | 0:11:27 | 0:11:29 | |
but he should have stopped from what he was saying. | 0:11:29 | 0:11:33 | |
Because the examiner wouldn't have done it. | 0:11:33 | 0:11:34 | |
So, that's probably put Charisma's confidence down | 0:11:34 | 0:11:37 | |
for when she goes into the exam. | 0:11:37 | 0:11:39 | |
Cos she's probably scared of the examiner going, | 0:11:39 | 0:11:41 | |
"Oh, I don't think it's right that you're shy." | 0:11:41 | 0:11:44 | |
Last up, it's Chloe's turn. | 0:11:44 | 0:11:47 | |
She doesn't want to do it. | 0:11:47 | 0:11:49 | |
-Doesn't want to do it? -No. -Why? | 0:11:49 | 0:11:51 | |
No? Don't want to do it? | 0:11:51 | 0:11:52 | |
-Would you like to do it for a couple of minutes? -No. | 0:11:52 | 0:11:55 | |
-Just a little go? -Yeah. -Just try a little bit. | 0:11:55 | 0:11:57 | |
Just do the start. | 0:11:57 | 0:11:58 | |
-She doesn't want to do it. -No, OK. Don't worry. | 0:11:59 | 0:12:01 | |
So, what are you going to do next week when it's for real, then? | 0:12:01 | 0:12:04 | |
Cos this is one opportunity you have to do this presentation | 0:12:04 | 0:12:08 | |
to get a qualification. | 0:12:08 | 0:12:10 | |
-Is it all right if we just leave the room quickly? -Yes. -Yeah. | 0:12:13 | 0:12:16 | |
-Thank you. -Bye. | 0:12:16 | 0:12:18 | |
It's worth 20% of their exam results, this particular exam. | 0:12:25 | 0:12:29 | |
And I think... I'm disappointed that I've not heard | 0:12:29 | 0:12:32 | |
what she had to say for herself really. | 0:12:32 | 0:12:35 | |
Hi, Bethany. Is she OK? | 0:12:35 | 0:12:37 | |
-Yes. -Yeah? She's all right? | 0:12:37 | 0:12:40 | |
I'm just a bit concerned if she has this problem next week, | 0:12:40 | 0:12:43 | |
she's going to sort of... | 0:12:43 | 0:12:44 | |
She isn't going to have this problem next week. | 0:12:44 | 0:12:46 | |
-Is it because we're sort of... -It is some of the things | 0:12:46 | 0:12:49 | |
you lot were saying. Especially you, Vic. | 0:12:49 | 0:12:51 | |
I did feel that you were a bit harsh on Charisma. | 0:12:51 | 0:12:53 | |
But that's what you have to be. | 0:12:53 | 0:12:54 | |
It's not, though. It is not. The examiner wouldn't be like that. | 0:12:54 | 0:12:57 | |
-I don't know that. I was told... -I know, but... | 0:12:57 | 0:12:59 | |
I was told, unfortunately, just to hit you hard with questions. | 0:12:59 | 0:13:03 | |
And that's exactly what we did. | 0:13:03 | 0:13:05 | |
I know, but you did also put forward your personal point of view. | 0:13:05 | 0:13:07 | |
-Yes. -Which was not needed, I found. | 0:13:07 | 0:13:09 | |
That's fine. I listen to what you're saying. | 0:13:09 | 0:13:11 | |
Thank you very much. | 0:13:11 | 0:13:13 | |
-Bye, Bethany. -Bye. | 0:13:13 | 0:13:15 | |
It may not have been the roving success that we'd hoped. | 0:13:25 | 0:13:27 | |
But at least the iGCSE panel | 0:13:27 | 0:13:29 | |
shows that the kids can speak for themselves, mate. | 0:13:29 | 0:13:32 | |
Well, it does, doesn't it? I mean, Bethany... | 0:13:32 | 0:13:34 | |
Crikey, she wasn't afraid to give Vic a telling-off. | 0:13:34 | 0:13:37 | |
The kids tackle head teacher Niall about the problem. | 0:13:40 | 0:13:44 | |
I didn't really enjoy today because it wasn't really on equal terms. | 0:13:44 | 0:13:47 | |
He kind of felt like a teacher. | 0:13:47 | 0:13:48 | |
And he was, like, criticising me, kind of. | 0:13:48 | 0:13:51 | |
I have caught on that old people don't let young people speak. | 0:13:51 | 0:13:56 | |
But Year Nine Kyrone has a solution. | 0:13:57 | 0:14:00 | |
Could we have, like, a meeting? | 0:14:01 | 0:14:03 | |
Like, now we know our partners, | 0:14:03 | 0:14:05 | |
can we do it all of us together with all of our partners? | 0:14:05 | 0:14:09 | |
That is an absolutely brilliant idea. | 0:14:09 | 0:14:12 | |
-The answer is yes. -Absolutely. -I think it's fantastic. | 0:14:12 | 0:14:15 | |
Until now, 13-year-old Kyrone's had a reputation | 0:14:19 | 0:14:22 | |
for being disruptive. | 0:14:22 | 0:14:24 | |
I lived with my mum and dad until I was one. | 0:14:25 | 0:14:27 | |
Then they split up. | 0:14:27 | 0:14:29 | |
And then I lived with just my mum until I was 11. | 0:14:29 | 0:14:33 | |
And I've lived with my nan for three years now. | 0:14:33 | 0:14:36 | |
-All right, Nan. -Hi, Ky. | 0:14:37 | 0:14:39 | |
Kyrone only likes to hear what he wants to hear. | 0:14:39 | 0:14:42 | |
And then he used to throw a fit. | 0:14:42 | 0:14:44 | |
And he still throws his little fits if he doesn't get his own way now. | 0:14:44 | 0:14:48 | |
Ky's idea of a meeting is great. | 0:14:50 | 0:14:54 | |
-Hello. -Hello. | 0:14:54 | 0:14:55 | |
-You wouldn't happen to be Phyllis, by any chance? -I would be. | 0:14:55 | 0:14:58 | |
-Hello, Phyllis, I'm Simon. Nice to meet you. -Do come in. | 0:14:58 | 0:15:00 | |
Thank you very much. | 0:15:00 | 0:15:02 | |
Could the project be influencing him to be more grown-up? | 0:15:02 | 0:15:05 | |
Hey, what... You've got a fab house, isn't it? Fab. | 0:15:05 | 0:15:09 | |
So, I have an idea. | 0:15:09 | 0:15:11 | |
I think you should chair the meeting. | 0:15:11 | 0:15:14 | |
And I'll support you. As will Dave. | 0:15:14 | 0:15:17 | |
But I think it should be your meeting. | 0:15:17 | 0:15:19 | |
-Really? -Yeah. | 0:15:19 | 0:15:20 | |
It was your idea. | 0:15:20 | 0:15:22 | |
It was your initiative. | 0:15:22 | 0:15:24 | |
It was your voice that was heard. | 0:15:24 | 0:15:26 | |
And that's an enormous skill, Ky. | 0:15:26 | 0:15:29 | |
What are you going to do? Fancy it? | 0:15:29 | 0:15:31 | |
-Yeah, I'll do it. -Yeah? Will you do it? -Mm-hm. | 0:15:31 | 0:15:34 | |
What a man! What a man! | 0:15:34 | 0:15:36 | |
Si wants me to chair the meeting. | 0:15:37 | 0:15:40 | |
And when he said that I was really, really happy. | 0:15:40 | 0:15:43 | |
Because it's a big thing, Old School, | 0:15:43 | 0:15:47 | |
and I'm proud to be a part of it, | 0:15:47 | 0:15:48 | |
let alone chair all the meetings... | 0:15:48 | 0:15:51 | |
chair some meetings and stuff. | 0:15:51 | 0:15:53 | |
What it's done is, it's just given you the opportunity to shine. | 0:15:53 | 0:15:56 | |
And you are shining. | 0:15:56 | 0:15:57 | |
You're a natural, born leader, mate. | 0:15:58 | 0:16:01 | |
It'll be interesting to see | 0:16:01 | 0:16:02 | |
if he plays a key role in keeping the Old School train on the track. | 0:16:02 | 0:16:06 | |
And I have a feeling I think he's going to. | 0:16:06 | 0:16:09 | |
He's a big personality. | 0:16:09 | 0:16:11 | |
-See you tomorrow. -Yep. -Courage, mon frere. | 0:16:11 | 0:16:14 | |
-See you later. -See you, Phyllis. Ta-ra, darling. Lovely to meet you. | 0:16:14 | 0:16:17 | |
Thanks very much. | 0:16:17 | 0:16:18 | |
Do you have any worries about it? | 0:16:22 | 0:16:24 | |
Just not knowing what to say halfway through, or... | 0:16:24 | 0:16:27 | |
Just, that's it. | 0:16:27 | 0:16:29 | |
-Take your time. -Yeah. -That's the key. Just take your time. | 0:16:29 | 0:16:32 | |
It's the day of the big meeting. | 0:16:33 | 0:16:35 | |
Will Kyrone be able to keep his new-found maturity and hold his own? | 0:16:35 | 0:16:41 | |
Does anyone know why we've all come here? | 0:16:41 | 0:16:43 | |
No. | 0:16:43 | 0:16:44 | |
Right, so we're just going to all be talking about what | 0:16:44 | 0:16:47 | |
we want to achieve from Old School. | 0:16:47 | 0:16:50 | |
And we're going to be talking about the problems | 0:16:50 | 0:16:53 | |
that we've been having so far. | 0:16:53 | 0:16:55 | |
Like, with each other. | 0:16:55 | 0:16:57 | |
So, shall we start by saying what's gone wrong so far in the meetings? | 0:16:58 | 0:17:04 | |
We just need to talk about that. | 0:17:04 | 0:17:06 | |
Like, more than half of us said that our old partners don't listen. | 0:17:12 | 0:17:18 | |
They just, like, butt in. | 0:17:18 | 0:17:20 | |
And a lot of us said that. | 0:17:20 | 0:17:24 | |
And we said they were treating us like a student at the school. | 0:17:24 | 0:17:28 | |
They just take over, acting like a teacher. | 0:17:28 | 0:17:31 | |
Bethany. | 0:17:31 | 0:17:32 | |
Erm... | 0:17:32 | 0:17:34 | |
I don't think that I'm that comfortable with Isabella yet. | 0:17:34 | 0:17:40 | |
I don't think I'm ready to express what I have behind closed doors yet. | 0:17:40 | 0:17:45 | |
So... I think there's some hiccups, but not quite there. | 0:17:45 | 0:17:49 | |
I think, to be fair, relationships take time to develop. | 0:17:53 | 0:17:56 | |
-Good God, yes. -It's not just an instant mix, is it? -No, no. | 0:17:56 | 0:18:00 | |
I would hate to think that my partner didn't think | 0:18:00 | 0:18:03 | |
I was listening to her. | 0:18:03 | 0:18:05 | |
Because after all I'm here to help her. | 0:18:05 | 0:18:07 | |
And she is to help me. | 0:18:07 | 0:18:10 | |
I'm quite surprised, really, at the sort of adverse comments like this. | 0:18:10 | 0:18:14 | |
Because I sat in on an English lesson the other week | 0:18:14 | 0:18:18 | |
and everybody seemed to be quite affable towards me. | 0:18:18 | 0:18:22 | |
And then we went and sat down, three of us as a panel, | 0:18:22 | 0:18:26 | |
to listen to them do a presentation | 0:18:26 | 0:18:28 | |
and I got a bit of flak from these girls here. | 0:18:28 | 0:18:31 | |
They thought I was being a bit harsh. | 0:18:31 | 0:18:34 | |
Maybe you could think about just presenting it slightly more gently. | 0:18:34 | 0:18:40 | |
I was very pleased that there was some feedback. | 0:18:40 | 0:18:43 | |
-Otherwise... -Fantastic, though. -It's all about communication. -Correct. | 0:18:43 | 0:18:46 | |
-And I think that's a massive strength. -Yes, very much so. | 0:18:46 | 0:18:49 | |
I think it's brilliant. | 0:18:49 | 0:18:51 | |
Because nobody's actually wrong. | 0:18:51 | 0:18:53 | |
Everybody's just actually learning. | 0:18:53 | 0:18:55 | |
And that's the most important thing, isn't it? | 0:18:55 | 0:18:58 | |
I think the first meeting has gone good. | 0:18:58 | 0:19:01 | |
So, thank you for listening. | 0:19:01 | 0:19:04 | |
-And sharing your ideas. -Well done, everybody. | 0:19:04 | 0:19:07 | |
Thank you. | 0:19:07 | 0:19:08 | |
I was quite took back, a little bit. | 0:19:12 | 0:19:15 | |
Because he did seem very confident. | 0:19:15 | 0:19:17 | |
And he did make some really, really good points. | 0:19:17 | 0:19:21 | |
I think Kyrone was actually right. | 0:19:21 | 0:19:22 | |
Maybe some of us oldies | 0:19:22 | 0:19:24 | |
don't actually listen to what the youngsters are saying. | 0:19:24 | 0:19:27 | |
Maybe we haven't got that much confidence, so we tend to gabble on. | 0:19:27 | 0:19:31 | |
If everybody starts listening, things will change. | 0:19:31 | 0:19:35 | |
Phew! That was a bit of a handful, wasn't it? | 0:19:38 | 0:19:40 | |
-Well done, Ky. -It was. Thanks. It was harder than I thought. | 0:19:40 | 0:19:43 | |
-You know, it's such early days with the project. -Yeah. | 0:19:43 | 0:19:45 | |
It's a bit like being a dentist, isn't it? | 0:19:45 | 0:19:47 | |
If there's any rot there, you've got to cut it out. | 0:19:47 | 0:19:49 | |
-Yeah, we needed it. So... -Yeah, well done, mate. -Well done. | 0:19:49 | 0:19:52 | |
You were the one in the firing line. | 0:19:52 | 0:19:53 | |
-Yeah, I know. -Yes, I bet... | 0:19:53 | 0:19:56 | |
I bet that seat got a bit hot, did it? | 0:19:56 | 0:19:58 | |
-Good lad. -Cheers. | 0:19:58 | 0:20:00 | |
We're hoping the meeting will help bring our partners closer. | 0:20:02 | 0:20:05 | |
Ex-store detective Marina is on the case to find out | 0:20:07 | 0:20:10 | |
about her partner Kimberly's home life. | 0:20:10 | 0:20:13 | |
-This is my house! -Thank you very much. | 0:20:19 | 0:20:21 | |
Well, my mum's house really. | 0:20:21 | 0:20:23 | |
-So, this is my mum. -Hi. Nice to meet you. | 0:20:25 | 0:20:27 | |
Nice to meet you. What is Mum's name? | 0:20:27 | 0:20:29 | |
-I'm Hayley. -Hayley. Marina. | 0:20:29 | 0:20:31 | |
-This is... That's me when I had long hair. -Uh-huh. | 0:20:31 | 0:20:34 | |
This is my brother, Jardell. | 0:20:34 | 0:20:36 | |
When he was born he was really small. | 0:20:37 | 0:20:40 | |
-Yeah? -He was a kilo. | 0:20:40 | 0:20:42 | |
He was a kilo? | 0:20:42 | 0:20:43 | |
Yeah. Very tiny. Very, very sick. | 0:20:43 | 0:20:45 | |
CHILD CRIES | 0:20:47 | 0:20:49 | |
Jardell! | 0:20:49 | 0:20:50 | |
Kimberly has a complicated home life and doesn't get much attention. | 0:20:50 | 0:20:54 | |
My mum's on her own. | 0:20:55 | 0:20:57 | |
She's got five children and she's got two disabled ones. | 0:20:57 | 0:21:01 | |
Well, one's disabled and can't walk. And one's got anger management. | 0:21:01 | 0:21:05 | |
-In here is the living room. -Oh, right. | 0:21:08 | 0:21:10 | |
This is my brother, Jardell. Hello, Jardell. | 0:21:10 | 0:21:13 | |
Hello, Jardell. | 0:21:13 | 0:21:14 | |
So, how are you, then? | 0:21:14 | 0:21:15 | |
-How are you doing? -I'm doing well. | 0:21:15 | 0:21:17 | |
How are you doing? | 0:21:17 | 0:21:18 | |
What did you do at school today? | 0:21:18 | 0:21:20 | |
I did English. | 0:21:20 | 0:21:23 | |
-This is my room with my name on it. -I see that, yes. | 0:21:23 | 0:21:26 | |
Oh, that's a lovely room, isn't it? | 0:21:26 | 0:21:28 | |
-Do you want to sit down? -I could sit down. | 0:21:28 | 0:21:30 | |
I feel like I'll bash my head when I get up. | 0:21:30 | 0:21:32 | |
-I'll sit down on the beanbag. -OK. | 0:21:32 | 0:21:34 | |
Do you spend much time up here? Apart from sleeping? | 0:21:35 | 0:21:37 | |
Erm... I try to, but sometimes my mum needs loads of help | 0:21:37 | 0:21:41 | |
so I have to go down to help her. | 0:21:41 | 0:21:45 | |
Sometimes I feel like my mum just doesn't listen | 0:21:45 | 0:21:49 | |
or doesn't love me, but I know she does. | 0:21:49 | 0:21:51 | |
And, I don't understand what's going on... | 0:21:51 | 0:21:54 | |
Why doesn't she spend time with me any more? | 0:21:55 | 0:21:58 | |
Do you know many people on the estate? Do you have many friends round here? | 0:21:58 | 0:22:02 | |
No, I don't have any friends around here. | 0:22:02 | 0:22:05 | |
I don't have that many friends. I have... | 0:22:05 | 0:22:08 | |
five friends and that's it. | 0:22:08 | 0:22:10 | |
-Really? -Everyone in my whole year is just horrible to me. -Why? | 0:22:10 | 0:22:15 | |
It's been a lovely afternoon, darling. | 0:22:18 | 0:22:20 | |
Do you want to see me to the door? I'll say bye to your mum. | 0:22:20 | 0:22:22 | |
With so many siblings to look after, Kimberly barely goes out | 0:22:22 | 0:22:26 | |
so Marina is planning a few treats. | 0:22:26 | 0:22:30 | |
Bye, then, love. Bye. | 0:22:30 | 0:22:31 | |
She never really seems to get a lot of time to do things for herself | 0:22:31 | 0:22:36 | |
and that's where obviously I can perhaps help her. | 0:22:36 | 0:22:38 | |
We can spend some time together. | 0:22:38 | 0:22:40 | |
That may be a few trips out or whatever Kimberly thinks | 0:22:40 | 0:22:43 | |
she would like to do with me. | 0:22:43 | 0:22:45 | |
-DAVE: -It's funny, isn't it? | 0:22:46 | 0:22:48 | |
You always think of the old being alone and isolated, | 0:22:48 | 0:22:51 | |
but kids like Kimberly suffer, too. | 0:22:51 | 0:22:53 | |
And Professor Christina Victor tells us | 0:22:53 | 0:22:55 | |
the problem is bigger than we imagine. | 0:22:55 | 0:22:58 | |
The highest levels of loneliness in Britain are older people, | 0:22:58 | 0:23:02 | |
but also young adults between 15 and 24 | 0:23:02 | 0:23:05 | |
are particularly vulnerable to loneliness. | 0:23:05 | 0:23:09 | |
In a school like this, it seems implausible that | 0:23:13 | 0:23:16 | |
-some of the young people will be lonely, but they will be. -Gosh! | 0:23:16 | 0:23:20 | |
It does seem as though the answer is staring us in the face... | 0:23:20 | 0:23:22 | |
is to get them together, which is what we're trying to do, effectively. | 0:23:22 | 0:23:26 | |
Yeah, you bring people together and they can find something in common, | 0:23:26 | 0:23:30 | |
then you have a chance to build a relationship | 0:23:30 | 0:23:32 | |
that is meaningful to both parties | 0:23:32 | 0:23:34 | |
and that's what cures, or solves, loneliness. | 0:23:34 | 0:23:38 | |
-Do you think the project is going to work? -Erm... | 0:23:38 | 0:23:43 | |
I don't know is the honest answer. I don't know. | 0:23:43 | 0:23:45 | |
It's time to bring in a little help. | 0:23:49 | 0:23:51 | |
The basis of any good relationship is understanding. | 0:23:53 | 0:23:56 | |
The old 'uns know what it's like to be young, | 0:23:56 | 0:23:59 | |
but do our young 'uns know what it's like to be old? | 0:23:59 | 0:24:02 | |
We've asked Dr Emily Henderson, | 0:24:02 | 0:24:04 | |
a geriatrician at Bristol University, to help them find out. | 0:24:04 | 0:24:09 | |
-So, who's going to try on the ageing suit? -Me. -Fantastic! | 0:24:09 | 0:24:13 | |
She's got a body suit so you can experience the trials of ageing. | 0:24:13 | 0:24:18 | |
Now we've got some weights that we're going to put on | 0:24:18 | 0:24:20 | |
your ankles and wrists. | 0:24:20 | 0:24:21 | |
Here! Has she got anything that works in reverse? | 0:24:21 | 0:24:24 | |
I'm afraid not, mate, no. | 0:24:24 | 0:24:26 | |
We've got some goggles that make it harder to see. That's it. | 0:24:26 | 0:24:31 | |
And age is associated with hearing loss, | 0:24:31 | 0:24:33 | |
so we're going to put these on you. | 0:24:33 | 0:24:35 | |
Basically, it diminishes your ability to see and hear. | 0:24:35 | 0:24:38 | |
-How many fingers am I holding up? -Two. -Hee-hee! | 0:24:38 | 0:24:42 | |
Three! | 0:24:42 | 0:24:43 | |
Jacub the Elder hits the Oxford Academy lunch rush. | 0:24:46 | 0:24:50 | |
There are over two million elderly people in the UK with severe | 0:24:53 | 0:24:57 | |
sight loss and over 33% with profound hearing loss. | 0:24:57 | 0:25:02 | |
It can make them feel vulnerable and anxious about going out | 0:25:04 | 0:25:06 | |
so they end up alone at home. | 0:25:06 | 0:25:08 | |
You can't... | 0:25:14 | 0:25:15 | |
How are you doing? What does this feel like? He can't cheat! | 0:25:17 | 0:25:20 | |
-I know, he can't cheat! -He wouldn't be able to hear! | 0:25:20 | 0:25:23 | |
OK. How... | 0:25:23 | 0:25:24 | |
Are you all right? My God! You talk... | 0:25:24 | 0:25:27 | |
-You even talk differently to him. This is insane! -Yeah. | 0:25:27 | 0:25:31 | |
Right, do you want to go up some stairs? Do you feel confident? | 0:25:32 | 0:25:36 | |
Are you all right to do this, mate, yeah? | 0:25:37 | 0:25:39 | |
OK, try going up and also coming down again. | 0:25:39 | 0:25:42 | |
So, you want to hold on the rail. | 0:25:42 | 0:25:43 | |
Interesting! Straight away, yeah. | 0:25:43 | 0:25:45 | |
Yeah, do you notice how you're making your feet wider | 0:25:54 | 0:25:57 | |
so you're more stable? | 0:25:57 | 0:25:58 | |
Wearing the suit made me feel like I was being weighed down, | 0:25:59 | 0:26:03 | |
like I had a massive weight on my shoulders. It made me feel like... | 0:26:03 | 0:26:07 | |
I don't want to be an old person like that. | 0:26:07 | 0:26:10 | |
I want to be, like, a good old person who can walk and, like, | 0:26:10 | 0:26:14 | |
still speak and walk properly. | 0:26:14 | 0:26:16 | |
Right, Jacub. Stop there. | 0:26:16 | 0:26:18 | |
-How did that feel? -Embarrassing. -Right, right. -And hard to walk. -OK. | 0:26:21 | 0:26:27 | |
My vision was blurry. | 0:26:27 | 0:26:29 | |
-I can't see anything and I can hardly hear anything. -OK. | 0:26:29 | 0:26:33 | |
Do you think it's changed your opinion of the older | 0:26:33 | 0:26:37 | |
people in the community? | 0:26:37 | 0:26:38 | |
Erm, yeah, because now I know that | 0:26:38 | 0:26:41 | |
if I see someone walking in a funny way or not speaking to me it's | 0:26:41 | 0:26:47 | |
because they might have a problem with their eyes or hearing and | 0:26:47 | 0:26:50 | |
their legs and their arms and they might not be able to walk properly. | 0:26:50 | 0:26:54 | |
I think we should get Jacub back to his normal, exuberant, | 0:26:54 | 0:26:59 | |
bright and energetic self. | 0:26:59 | 0:27:02 | |
Yes, I think so! Come on, mate. Let's take them off. | 0:27:03 | 0:27:06 | |
Let's start with your wrists. | 0:27:06 | 0:27:08 | |
-Hello, Marina. -All right, darling? -Yeah. -Right, let's go for our visit. | 0:27:11 | 0:27:15 | |
Marina is taking Kimberly on her first outing in ages. | 0:27:15 | 0:27:18 | |
-We're off! -Right. | 0:27:18 | 0:27:21 | |
Kimberly is a carer so Marina wants this to be a special day | 0:27:21 | 0:27:26 | |
just for her. | 0:27:26 | 0:27:27 | |
-Where do you want to start, darling? -Let's go and see the deer. | 0:27:27 | 0:27:30 | |
Deer, antelope... I don't know what it is. Red deer. | 0:27:30 | 0:27:33 | |
Hello! Please touch. I'll touch it. | 0:27:33 | 0:27:37 | |
SHE LAUGHS | 0:27:38 | 0:27:40 | |
Let's go down here. | 0:27:40 | 0:27:41 | |
Oh, it's a dodo! Hello, dodo! | 0:27:45 | 0:27:48 | |
MARINA LAUGHS | 0:27:48 | 0:27:49 | |
Kimberly is a bit like a whirling dervish, | 0:27:49 | 0:27:52 | |
racing around there, but very excited. | 0:27:52 | 0:27:54 | |
It's going to eat me! Argh! | 0:27:54 | 0:27:56 | |
Taking the lead, showing me all around. She absolutely loved it. | 0:27:57 | 0:28:01 | |
LAUGHTER | 0:28:01 | 0:28:03 | |
I feel it did quite a bit of good today, actually. | 0:28:03 | 0:28:07 | |
What's this? | 0:28:07 | 0:28:08 | |
-A domino cockroach and a question-mark cockroach. -Ugh! | 0:28:08 | 0:28:13 | |
Oh, they're moving! | 0:28:13 | 0:28:14 | |
THEY LAUGH | 0:28:15 | 0:28:17 | |
It's really fun to be with Marina. She's just really fun. | 0:28:17 | 0:28:21 | |
She's amazing. She's a good friend. She's really kind. | 0:28:21 | 0:28:25 | |
What are these? | 0:28:25 | 0:28:26 | |
-Madagascan hissing cockroach. -Oh, look. | 0:28:27 | 0:28:31 | |
-It's moving its little tentacles. -Tentacles?! -Well, I don't know. | 0:28:31 | 0:28:34 | |
What do you call them? | 0:28:34 | 0:28:35 | |
THEY GIGGLE | 0:28:35 | 0:28:36 | |
Ugh! Horrible things! | 0:28:36 | 0:28:38 | |
GIGGLING | 0:28:44 | 0:28:45 | |
It was fabulous. Fabadoo! | 0:28:51 | 0:28:54 | |
Today was fabadoo! It was awesome. | 0:28:54 | 0:28:57 | |
I really liked to see the dinosaurs with Marina and the live animals. | 0:28:57 | 0:29:01 | |
Marina has broken through to Kimberly. | 0:29:03 | 0:29:05 | |
For her and husband Clive, Old School is really helping, too. | 0:29:07 | 0:29:12 | |
They've both struggled | 0:29:12 | 0:29:13 | |
since their own son died of a drugs overdose ten years ago. | 0:29:13 | 0:29:16 | |
It was a massive shock to us. | 0:29:18 | 0:29:21 | |
He was quite a clever lad. | 0:29:21 | 0:29:23 | |
He had a good job. We felt a little bit guilty. | 0:29:23 | 0:29:27 | |
Did we do enough, you know? Was there something we should have seen? | 0:29:27 | 0:29:31 | |
Being around young people is taking the edge off some of that | 0:29:32 | 0:29:36 | |
devastating guilt and grief. | 0:29:36 | 0:29:38 | |
Me and Marina do have a need to try and help someone. | 0:29:38 | 0:29:44 | |
Clive managed to get Jacub to stick at learning his lines for the play. | 0:29:46 | 0:29:50 | |
Now, Jacub wants to say thank you. | 0:29:50 | 0:29:52 | |
-Hello! -Hi, Clive. | 0:29:54 | 0:29:55 | |
DOOR BLEEPS | 0:29:57 | 0:29:58 | |
Cool! | 0:29:58 | 0:30:00 | |
Release door! | 0:30:00 | 0:30:01 | |
I'm a bit nervous and excited at the same time. | 0:30:01 | 0:30:04 | |
I've never been round his house. | 0:30:04 | 0:30:06 | |
I don't know what it's going to be like. | 0:30:06 | 0:30:08 | |
I was expecting him to have loads of antique stuff and, like, | 0:30:08 | 0:30:11 | |
proper...really comfy chairs and everything. | 0:30:11 | 0:30:14 | |
-I've got something for you. -Aww! That's nice of you. How are you? | 0:30:14 | 0:30:21 | |
-I'm good. -Good. Come in, then. Oh, that's sweet. | 0:30:21 | 0:30:23 | |
-This place is like a maze. -It is a maze. Yeah, I know. | 0:30:23 | 0:30:27 | |
Come and have a sit-down, then. | 0:30:27 | 0:30:29 | |
Clive has decided the time has come | 0:30:29 | 0:30:32 | |
to introduce Jacub to his son, Matthew. | 0:30:32 | 0:30:35 | |
That's Matthew when he was young. | 0:30:35 | 0:30:38 | |
-Aw! -Probably not much younger than you there, Jacub. | 0:30:38 | 0:30:42 | |
He looks so much like you. | 0:30:42 | 0:30:43 | |
-He was hyperactive. -I'm very hyperactive. | 0:30:43 | 0:30:47 | |
-Well, obviously I've got ADHD, but... -Yeah, he was... | 0:30:47 | 0:30:49 | |
It's possible Matthew may have had that syndrome, | 0:30:49 | 0:30:52 | |
but it was never diagnosed. | 0:30:52 | 0:30:53 | |
This is the graveyard in Abingdon | 0:30:53 | 0:30:55 | |
because we used to live in Abingdon, so we had to... | 0:30:55 | 0:30:57 | |
We had him buried. | 0:30:57 | 0:30:59 | |
-My dad's buried in Wilber Querry. -That's nice, isn't it? | 0:30:59 | 0:31:01 | |
How long ago did your father die, Jacub? | 0:31:01 | 0:31:03 | |
He died when I was about six so it's probably been about eight years. | 0:31:03 | 0:31:07 | |
-Yeah. -What did he die of, if you don't mind me asking? -He... | 0:31:07 | 0:31:09 | |
-Don't tell me if you don't want to. -He took his own life. | 0:31:09 | 0:31:12 | |
-Oh, did he? -Yeah. -Oh! Oh, that's sad. -Yeah. -That's sad. | 0:31:12 | 0:31:15 | |
'Where I've got ADHD and that, people wouldn't, like,' | 0:31:18 | 0:31:21 | |
want to have a straight-on conversation with me | 0:31:21 | 0:31:23 | |
because they think that I get too over the top. | 0:31:23 | 0:31:26 | |
I go over the top with my hyperness. | 0:31:26 | 0:31:29 | |
-Don't forget, he'll always be watching you. -Yeah. -Yeah? -Yeah. | 0:31:29 | 0:31:34 | |
OK. Right, I'll see you out, then. | 0:31:34 | 0:31:38 | |
'But with Clive, he just listens and I always listen with him.' | 0:31:38 | 0:31:42 | |
So, I'm glad that I can open up to him about my dad | 0:31:42 | 0:31:44 | |
and he can open up to me about Matthew, so, yeah, that's good. | 0:31:44 | 0:31:48 | |
-I hope... -Take care. -And you. I hope you enjoy the chocolates. | 0:31:48 | 0:31:50 | |
Yeah, that's very nice of you. Thank you. | 0:31:50 | 0:31:52 | |
-You're welcome. Right, bye. -Bye, then. | 0:31:52 | 0:31:55 | |
Jacub and Clive aren't the only ones eager to find common ground. | 0:31:59 | 0:32:03 | |
-Ready? -How are you going, Kyrone? -I'm good. -How's your week been? | 0:32:04 | 0:32:08 | |
But is Dave really ready to listen this time? | 0:32:08 | 0:32:11 | |
I have a couple of problem grandchildren. | 0:32:11 | 0:32:14 | |
My grandson, now, he has real bad anger problems. | 0:32:14 | 0:32:18 | |
Most probably worse than you. | 0:32:18 | 0:32:20 | |
But, in your case, you say you have an anger problem, | 0:32:20 | 0:32:23 | |
-you play rugby to get rid of it. -Yeah. | 0:32:23 | 0:32:25 | |
What is it that really makes you angry? | 0:32:25 | 0:32:28 | |
-You know, you have to have a reason. -I think... I don't know. | 0:32:28 | 0:32:31 | |
I think, like... | 0:32:31 | 0:32:32 | |
Erm, at home where I live with my nan, I get my own way a lot. | 0:32:32 | 0:32:36 | |
Now we're getting there. | 0:32:36 | 0:32:39 | |
When I go to my mum's I don't get my own way | 0:32:39 | 0:32:42 | |
because my little sister's there, my little brother's there. | 0:32:42 | 0:32:45 | |
Did you choose that of your own doing? To live with your nan? | 0:32:45 | 0:32:50 | |
Yeah, I did. When I was, like, nine. Because, like... | 0:32:50 | 0:32:55 | |
My mum had a boyfriend. He was, like, an idiot. | 0:32:56 | 0:32:59 | |
-I just moved in with my nan. -Ah! | 0:32:59 | 0:33:00 | |
And that's also another reason why I get anger. | 0:33:00 | 0:33:05 | |
It seems strange that I meet someone like you | 0:33:05 | 0:33:08 | |
and I have a grandson exactly like you. | 0:33:08 | 0:33:11 | |
Today's session I had with Kyrone I've felt was one of the best | 0:33:11 | 0:33:15 | |
I've had so far. | 0:33:15 | 0:33:17 | |
Because we've been talking in depth and I'm starting to learn quite | 0:33:17 | 0:33:21 | |
a lot about his own life besides his actual interests, which is all good. | 0:33:21 | 0:33:27 | |
I think I got my short temper from my dad, | 0:33:27 | 0:33:30 | |
because his temper just goes like that. | 0:33:30 | 0:33:34 | |
I think we're going to achieve quite a lot as time goes on | 0:33:34 | 0:33:38 | |
because he is opening up, which is a really good thing. | 0:33:38 | 0:33:42 | |
You'll find that your relationship with your mum | 0:33:42 | 0:33:44 | |
and your family will get better because you're getting older | 0:33:44 | 0:33:48 | |
-and you're starting to understand. -Yeah. -And... You never know. | 0:33:48 | 0:33:54 | |
You might even move back home. | 0:33:54 | 0:33:56 | |
It's just really good how one session just exploded. Everything. | 0:33:56 | 0:34:02 | |
-And I think it went really, really well. -Have you got a class? | 0:34:02 | 0:34:06 | |
-Yeah, I've got PE. -No worries. All right. | 0:34:06 | 0:34:11 | |
HE GRUNTS | 0:34:11 | 0:34:12 | |
Getting old! | 0:34:13 | 0:34:14 | |
Some partnerships are really blossoming. But not all. | 0:34:17 | 0:34:21 | |
Rick joined Old School hoping it would rekindle his life, | 0:34:23 | 0:34:26 | |
but sadly he's become sick and can't continue. | 0:34:26 | 0:34:30 | |
That leaves Robbie, who often misses school caring for his ill mum, | 0:34:31 | 0:34:35 | |
without a partner. | 0:34:35 | 0:34:36 | |
I was quite disappointed, to be fair. I'd like to continue. | 0:34:38 | 0:34:43 | |
I don't want to be kicked out. I still want to be here. | 0:34:43 | 0:34:47 | |
I still want to see how it's all going on. | 0:34:47 | 0:34:49 | |
Until we find him another partner, I have an idea. | 0:34:50 | 0:34:55 | |
I know we said we wouldn't do it, | 0:34:55 | 0:34:56 | |
but I think I want to give it a go and be Robbie's temporary partner. | 0:34:56 | 0:35:01 | |
Now, I know it's only temporary, cos it has to be. | 0:35:01 | 0:35:04 | |
Wooooaaah... | 0:35:04 | 0:35:06 | |
I don't know. I... | 0:35:06 | 0:35:08 | |
Look, the thing is, we're not around all the time | 0:35:08 | 0:35:11 | |
and that's what he needs | 0:35:11 | 0:35:12 | |
and it's intervening in kids' lives that... | 0:35:12 | 0:35:15 | |
-We're not here enough. -No, I know. | 0:35:15 | 0:35:18 | |
-I know, but we've given it a month. -Right. | 0:35:18 | 0:35:20 | |
If another month goes by, I think the project could lose Robbie, | 0:35:20 | 0:35:24 | |
and I think if I just give a month and a bit more | 0:35:24 | 0:35:27 | |
then we could keep Robbie, and I think it's worth it. | 0:35:27 | 0:35:30 | |
-I'm not sure you should do it. -Well... -Genuinely, mate, I'm not. | 0:35:30 | 0:35:33 | |
-I'm going to give it a go. -Are you? -Yeah. | 0:35:33 | 0:35:37 | |
Well, I hope it doesn't end in tears. | 0:35:37 | 0:35:39 | |
-Dave. -Hello, Robbie. | 0:35:41 | 0:35:43 | |
-There you go, Robbie. That's it. I'm your older partner. -Oh, yes! | 0:35:45 | 0:35:49 | |
-What do you reckon? -Very nice. Yes. | 0:35:49 | 0:35:51 | |
-You don't give much away, do you? -No. | 0:35:52 | 0:35:55 | |
How's things been going at school? Have you been turning up? | 0:35:57 | 0:36:00 | |
-I am giving it my best and I can do good work. -Yeah, I know. | 0:36:00 | 0:36:04 | |
The school have said that. | 0:36:04 | 0:36:06 | |
So, you know, like, further education isn't out of the question. | 0:36:06 | 0:36:10 | |
You know, it's just the next couple of years are important. | 0:36:10 | 0:36:13 | |
When I finished Year 11, I just looked into a position | 0:36:14 | 0:36:18 | |
at the City of Oxford College. | 0:36:18 | 0:36:20 | |
But due to family issues | 0:36:20 | 0:36:22 | |
I couldn't go, because it was a bus ride into town. | 0:36:22 | 0:36:25 | |
I need to be somewhere closer to home. | 0:36:25 | 0:36:28 | |
Many of these kids have stories that are close to my own. | 0:36:28 | 0:36:31 | |
My mum had multiple sclerosis. She was very seriously handicapped. | 0:36:32 | 0:36:36 | |
I come home from school three months before my A-levels | 0:36:36 | 0:36:40 | |
and my dad had had a stroke. He was paralysed. | 0:36:40 | 0:36:44 | |
Basically, the three months when my dad was ill, | 0:36:44 | 0:36:47 | |
I didn't go into school. | 0:36:47 | 0:36:49 | |
I so nearly blew it. I just scraped two A-levels. I was predicted four. | 0:36:49 | 0:36:53 | |
I think, the age you are, it's so important | 0:36:54 | 0:36:58 | |
that you kind of get it right. And I want you to get it right. | 0:36:58 | 0:37:02 | |
'It's not easy getting these kids to open up.' | 0:37:03 | 0:37:06 | |
You need to have some fun. | 0:37:06 | 0:37:09 | |
Today is the big day for Jacub. | 0:37:15 | 0:37:18 | |
At the start of term, he was very unsure of himself | 0:37:18 | 0:37:21 | |
and lacking in confidence. | 0:37:21 | 0:37:23 | |
Tonight, he's meant to be stepping out in front of an audience | 0:37:23 | 0:37:26 | |
to perform Romeo And Juliet. | 0:37:26 | 0:37:28 | |
Has Clive, and Old School, | 0:37:31 | 0:37:33 | |
given him enough faith in himself to hold it together? | 0:37:33 | 0:37:36 | |
I'm very nervous...and I feel sick. | 0:37:37 | 0:37:41 | |
I'm calming down! Trying to, but still... | 0:37:41 | 0:37:44 | |
I've never done a performance in front of, like, 200-and-something people before | 0:37:44 | 0:37:48 | |
and it's going to be really scary. | 0:37:48 | 0:37:51 | |
It's 11.30am | 0:37:52 | 0:37:54 | |
and Miss Powell gathers the cast together in the dining hall. | 0:37:54 | 0:37:58 | |
Number one - we are representing the Oxford Academy | 0:37:58 | 0:38:01 | |
when we are at Headington girls' school. | 0:38:01 | 0:38:05 | |
I don't want a single word of negativity about our school. | 0:38:05 | 0:38:10 | |
If there is any misbehaving, not listening, | 0:38:11 | 0:38:14 | |
you are coming straight back in the car back here. | 0:38:14 | 0:38:17 | |
JACUB LAUGHS | 0:38:17 | 0:38:18 | |
Listen to me. It's not funny, Jacub. | 0:38:18 | 0:38:21 | |
-Sorry. -This is exactly what I'm talking about. -OK. | 0:38:21 | 0:38:23 | |
-Hello, Jacub. -Hello! -How are you? | 0:38:23 | 0:38:26 | |
Clive will be with Jacub throughout the day's rehearsals | 0:38:26 | 0:38:30 | |
and the evening performance. | 0:38:30 | 0:38:32 | |
JACUB SQUEAKS | 0:38:33 | 0:38:35 | |
-I ain't took my tablet. -You haven't taken your tablet? -No. | 0:38:37 | 0:38:41 | |
You should be all right when you're acting, then. | 0:38:41 | 0:38:44 | |
SQUEAKING CONTINUES | 0:38:44 | 0:38:45 | |
I can't stop making that noise. | 0:38:45 | 0:38:47 | |
-What made you forget them? -I don't know. | 0:38:47 | 0:38:50 | |
I just woke up, didn't take it. | 0:38:50 | 0:38:53 | |
Miss, can you buy me a drink? | 0:38:53 | 0:38:54 | |
'Bit of a problem.' | 0:38:54 | 0:38:56 | |
Jacub forgot to take his tablet this morning. Well, his medicine. | 0:38:56 | 0:39:00 | |
He seems quite hyper... and acting very strange. | 0:39:00 | 0:39:03 | |
SQUEAKING NOISES CONTINUE | 0:39:06 | 0:39:08 | |
So, I'm a bit concerned that, erm, as the day goes on, | 0:39:08 | 0:39:12 | |
he's not going to be able to do his lines, or he might forget them. | 0:39:12 | 0:39:17 | |
Chips! | 0:39:17 | 0:39:19 | |
Sausage! | 0:39:19 | 0:39:20 | |
Hopefully it will turn out OK but... | 0:39:20 | 0:39:23 | |
you know, I'm a bit concerned and it's a worry. | 0:39:23 | 0:39:26 | |
JACUB LAUGHS | 0:39:28 | 0:39:30 | |
This could ruin it for everyone. | 0:39:30 | 0:39:32 | |
The only hope is to make a detour on the way to the theatre | 0:39:32 | 0:39:35 | |
to pick up his medication. | 0:39:35 | 0:39:37 | |
-Mum! -Your tablets. -I know. | 0:39:42 | 0:39:44 | |
Come here! | 0:39:44 | 0:39:45 | |
Jacub's mum has yet to find childcare, | 0:39:45 | 0:39:48 | |
so she may miss seeing him perform. | 0:39:48 | 0:39:50 | |
You've got to remember to take them every morning, mate, | 0:39:52 | 0:39:54 | |
because Miss Davies rings me | 0:39:54 | 0:39:55 | |
and I get frustrated speaking to her about it. | 0:39:55 | 0:39:58 | |
-You know you have to take it. -I'm sorry. -All right. | 0:39:58 | 0:40:01 | |
Right. Good luck. | 0:40:01 | 0:40:03 | |
-Yeah? Have fun. -Bye! -Show them your best. | 0:40:03 | 0:40:06 | |
If my mum don't come to the performance I'll feel a little upset | 0:40:08 | 0:40:11 | |
but Clive's coming to it, so I won't be that upset. | 0:40:11 | 0:40:15 | |
Because, like, me and Clive, we're, like, best friends now. | 0:40:16 | 0:40:20 | |
Ah, well... | 0:40:20 | 0:40:22 | |
I've told Jacub that... | 0:40:22 | 0:40:24 | |
I'm here for him. | 0:40:24 | 0:40:26 | |
I think he appreciated that. | 0:40:26 | 0:40:29 | |
And we've gone over his lines a few times and he seems to be... | 0:40:29 | 0:40:33 | |
you know, he seems to know them more or less. | 0:40:33 | 0:40:37 | |
But can Jacub pull it off? | 0:40:39 | 0:40:40 | |
This is your world. | 0:40:41 | 0:40:43 | |
'Robbie is taking me to his favourite hot spot, | 0:40:44 | 0:40:48 | |
'the local gaming store.' | 0:40:48 | 0:40:49 | |
-All right. So, this is your natural habitat. -Sort of, yeah. | 0:40:49 | 0:40:53 | |
-Yeah. -I like it round here. | 0:40:53 | 0:40:55 | |
'I'm a fish out of water here | 0:40:55 | 0:40:56 | |
'but I hope this will bring him out of his shell.' | 0:40:56 | 0:40:59 | |
Shall we have a go? | 0:40:59 | 0:41:00 | |
That's the problem, though. I think I could really get locked into it | 0:41:00 | 0:41:04 | |
-but I'd feel I'd be wasting time. -It's not wasting time. | 0:41:04 | 0:41:07 | |
It's a good hobby. It's better than watching telly. | 0:41:07 | 0:41:11 | |
Watching telly is passively stimulating, | 0:41:11 | 0:41:13 | |
where playing games is actively stimulating. | 0:41:13 | 0:41:16 | |
-Steady on! That's how I make a living! -DAVE LAUGHS | 0:41:16 | 0:41:19 | |
-It's quite active because you're using your brain to think. -Yeah? | 0:41:19 | 0:41:23 | |
Like, moving the controller and, like, being active with the game. | 0:41:23 | 0:41:28 | |
'It's great to see him passionate about something. | 0:41:29 | 0:41:32 | |
'Time to let Robbie teach me.' | 0:41:32 | 0:41:35 | |
-Turning. -Steering, aye? -Yes. | 0:41:35 | 0:41:37 | |
Oh, sugar! I'm getting out. | 0:41:39 | 0:41:41 | |
You keep on going. Don't ever stop. | 0:41:41 | 0:41:43 | |
Don't stop believing, Dave. | 0:41:43 | 0:41:45 | |
A bit heavy on the brakes, I think. | 0:41:45 | 0:41:47 | |
Don't always brake round the corners. | 0:41:47 | 0:41:49 | |
-Just let go of the accelerator and let yourself fly across it. -Drift? | 0:41:49 | 0:41:53 | |
You've just got to keep up. | 0:41:53 | 0:41:55 | |
I know, but it's like Driving Miss Daisy. | 0:41:55 | 0:41:57 | |
-Let yourself go around the corner. -All right. I'll accelerate. | 0:41:57 | 0:41:59 | |
I'll go for it, Robbie, but I know how it's going to end up. | 0:41:59 | 0:42:02 | |
When you're going in a straight line is the best time to accelerate. | 0:42:02 | 0:42:05 | |
-Oh! Marginally better. -You see? -Yeah, no, I'm with you. -You're getting there. -Thank you. | 0:42:05 | 0:42:09 | |
-Where are the rest of them? -Um, they're quite a bit ahead. | 0:42:09 | 0:42:13 | |
Just a little bit, obviously. | 0:42:13 | 0:42:15 | |
-What happened? I was doing all right. -You finished. -Oh! -It's over. | 0:42:15 | 0:42:20 | |
-I was just getting warmed up. -The race is done. | 0:42:20 | 0:42:23 | |
-Quite enjoyed that. -Did you, now? -Yeah. -Looked like it was. -Yeah. | 0:42:24 | 0:42:27 | |
-It was getting better. -Yeah. | 0:42:27 | 0:42:30 | |
-Remember, glide across the corners. -Glide. I know. | 0:42:30 | 0:42:33 | |
I just worry about wasting time. Do you think I should buy it? | 0:42:33 | 0:42:36 | |
-Do you want to buy it? It's your decision. -What do you think? | 0:42:36 | 0:42:39 | |
'I feel for Robbie, I really do.' | 0:42:41 | 0:42:42 | |
Hiya. Thank you. | 0:42:42 | 0:42:44 | |
-It's his fault. -Ha-ha! | 0:42:45 | 0:42:46 | |
'He's a smart kid and I really need to find him the partner he deserves.' | 0:42:47 | 0:42:51 | |
Thank you very much. This is me. Welcome to the 21st century. | 0:42:51 | 0:42:55 | |
What's Minecraft about? | 0:43:00 | 0:43:02 | |
Oh, it's this game made by this Swedish developer... | 0:43:02 | 0:43:05 | |
EXCITED CHATTER | 0:43:07 | 0:43:10 | |
It's an hour until curtain up | 0:43:13 | 0:43:15 | |
and Jacub's medication doesn't seem to be working. | 0:43:15 | 0:43:18 | |
-How are you feeling? -I'm nervous. I don't want to wear these. | 0:43:21 | 0:43:24 | |
-Brilliant. I think that's the one. -I know. | 0:43:24 | 0:43:26 | |
I just don't want to wear these trousers, as well. | 0:43:26 | 0:43:29 | |
They're all right. They look good. | 0:43:29 | 0:43:31 | |
I feel really uncomfortable in these trousers. | 0:43:31 | 0:43:34 | |
That's all right. Doesn't matter. | 0:43:34 | 0:43:36 | |
Stress is bad for Jacub. | 0:43:37 | 0:43:40 | |
It feeds his ADHD. | 0:43:40 | 0:43:41 | |
He needs help to focus and stay calm. | 0:43:41 | 0:43:44 | |
Come on, let's go and have a chat. | 0:43:46 | 0:43:48 | |
-I'm just nervous. -Yeah, but don't... Those people that are all there, | 0:43:48 | 0:43:52 | |
when those lights are on in the... you know, in where the seats are, | 0:43:52 | 0:43:57 | |
you can't see those people. | 0:43:57 | 0:43:59 | |
Yeah. | 0:43:59 | 0:44:01 | |
Don't be nervous. | 0:44:01 | 0:44:02 | |
-I know it's easy saying "don't be nervous"... -Exactly! | 0:44:02 | 0:44:06 | |
It's all right saying "don't be nervous" | 0:44:06 | 0:44:09 | |
but you're not the one being onstage. | 0:44:09 | 0:44:11 | |
I know, but you're brave enough and you're confident enough. | 0:44:11 | 0:44:14 | |
I think you'll be all right. | 0:44:14 | 0:44:17 | |
Yeah. | 0:44:17 | 0:44:18 | |
The Old School posse has just turned up to cheer them on. | 0:44:20 | 0:44:24 | |
Smile. Express what you're saying and just enjoy it. Don't panic. | 0:44:24 | 0:44:28 | |
If you forget anything, I'll prompt you, if you need it. Go for it. | 0:44:28 | 0:44:31 | |
Really enjoy it. | 0:44:31 | 0:44:33 | |
My heart is pounding. | 0:44:33 | 0:44:36 | |
Come on, guys! | 0:44:36 | 0:44:37 | |
The other senior members are blissfully unaware | 0:44:40 | 0:44:43 | |
of the crisis brewing behind the scenes. | 0:44:43 | 0:44:45 | |
I'm nervous for them, aren't you? | 0:44:47 | 0:44:50 | |
I hope it goes well, yeah, poor little sods. | 0:44:50 | 0:44:53 | |
Good evening, ladies and gentlemen, | 0:44:53 | 0:44:55 | |
and welcome to this evening's performance | 0:44:55 | 0:44:57 | |
of Shakespeare School Festival here at the theatre at Headington. | 0:44:57 | 0:45:00 | |
We have four very brilliant shows for you this evening. | 0:45:00 | 0:45:03 | |
The first up is Oxford Academy | 0:45:03 | 0:45:05 | |
with their production of Romeo And Juliet, directed by Miss Pearson. | 0:45:05 | 0:45:09 | |
APPLAUSE | 0:45:09 | 0:45:12 | |
What, art thou drawn amongst these heartless minds? | 0:45:18 | 0:45:20 | |
Turn thee, Benvolio, look upon thy death. | 0:45:20 | 0:45:22 | |
I do but keep the peace. | 0:45:22 | 0:45:24 | |
What, drawn, and talk of peace! | 0:45:24 | 0:45:26 | |
I hate the word as I hate hell, all Montagues, and thee. | 0:45:26 | 0:45:29 | |
Well, peace be with you, sir. Here comes my man. | 0:45:35 | 0:45:37 | |
Romeo, the love I bear thee can afford | 0:45:37 | 0:45:39 | |
no better term than this - thou art a villain. | 0:45:39 | 0:45:42 | |
MUSIC: "O Fortuna" from Carmina Burana by Carl Orff | 0:45:52 | 0:45:55 | |
CHEERING AND APPLAUSE | 0:46:00 | 0:46:03 | |
At the start of term, Jacub was regularly in detention | 0:46:14 | 0:46:17 | |
and even getting violent. | 0:46:17 | 0:46:19 | |
But Clive has helped him earn the chance to celebrate. | 0:46:19 | 0:46:23 | |
-My heart can't stop pounding. -Well done! | 0:46:23 | 0:46:26 | |
My heart can't stop pounding, man! | 0:46:26 | 0:46:28 | |
EXCITED SHRIEKS | 0:46:29 | 0:46:30 | |
My heart's going like that. | 0:46:32 | 0:46:33 | |
My heart's going! | 0:46:33 | 0:46:36 | |
Now that me and Jacub seem to have this bond | 0:46:36 | 0:46:40 | |
- I think he trusts me now to a certain point - | 0:46:40 | 0:46:44 | |
I'd like to delve a little bit deeper into his ADHD | 0:46:44 | 0:46:48 | |
and what he feels, you know, | 0:46:48 | 0:46:51 | |
with his father dying. | 0:46:51 | 0:46:54 | |
Three, two, one. | 0:46:54 | 0:46:57 | |
Whaaay! | 0:46:57 | 0:46:58 | |
One more. Hang on. Oh, no, it's Snapchat. | 0:47:00 | 0:47:03 | |
Having Clive with me, it means the world because, like, | 0:47:05 | 0:47:09 | |
I don't think I would have been able to do what I done. | 0:47:09 | 0:47:13 | |
Clive's a person that can encourage you to do things | 0:47:13 | 0:47:15 | |
that you wouldn't think that you could do. | 0:47:15 | 0:47:18 | |
-That was brilliant, son. Well done. -Cheers. | 0:47:18 | 0:47:21 | |
Top man. | 0:47:21 | 0:47:23 | |
'It's changed my life completely | 0:47:23 | 0:47:25 | |
'and I think a lot more people should start doing it' | 0:47:25 | 0:47:28 | |
because it could change their life and... | 0:47:28 | 0:47:32 | |
I reckon it's just a whole different thing to do | 0:47:32 | 0:47:35 | |
and I reckon it's a brilliant thing to do altogether. | 0:47:35 | 0:47:38 | |
It's not just Jacub who's benefiting from being centre stage. | 0:47:45 | 0:47:49 | |
I've heard Kimberly's come up with a great idea | 0:47:49 | 0:47:52 | |
which goes to the very heart of what Old School is all about. | 0:47:52 | 0:47:56 | |
The early-morning bustle, I can hear it...behind the door! | 0:47:56 | 0:48:00 | |
Good morning! How are you? Hi, Hayley, I'm Si. Nice to meet you. | 0:48:02 | 0:48:06 | |
-Nice to meet you. -And you, and you. Hey! | 0:48:06 | 0:48:08 | |
Kimberly, how are you doing, darling? Hello! | 0:48:08 | 0:48:11 | |
Don't you look bright? And breezy. Let me know what you need us to do. | 0:48:11 | 0:48:15 | |
Can Simon take you to the door? In your wheelchair? | 0:48:15 | 0:48:18 | |
Do you know you're taking me? | 0:48:18 | 0:48:21 | |
It's busy this morning. | 0:48:21 | 0:48:24 | |
-Have a good day. -Have a good day. | 0:48:24 | 0:48:26 | |
Bye. | 0:48:28 | 0:48:29 | |
Brilliant. | 0:48:29 | 0:48:31 | |
With the kids off to school, me and Kimberly finally get to chat. | 0:48:32 | 0:48:36 | |
-You and Mam are on quite a strict timescale, aren't you? -Yeah. | 0:48:36 | 0:48:40 | |
-In the morning, it's really busy. -Very, very busy. | 0:48:40 | 0:48:45 | |
I like helping my mum. It makes me feel good inside. | 0:48:45 | 0:48:48 | |
You just need some time for you. | 0:48:48 | 0:48:50 | |
Because I think you are an incredibly bright young woman. | 0:48:50 | 0:48:54 | |
And you're full of ideas. | 0:48:54 | 0:48:57 | |
And it's...Old School's become a really good forum for you, | 0:48:57 | 0:49:00 | |
so you can kind of step into the limelight a bit. | 0:49:00 | 0:49:03 | |
Which is great. | 0:49:03 | 0:49:05 | |
Hence the idea for the Old School Games. | 0:49:05 | 0:49:08 | |
Kimberly's come up with a really interesting concept. | 0:49:08 | 0:49:12 | |
She's come up with the intergenerational games. | 0:49:12 | 0:49:15 | |
I think the feeling is that we're all going to let her run with it | 0:49:15 | 0:49:17 | |
because she understands the value of getting the community together, | 0:49:17 | 0:49:22 | |
getting them working as a team together, | 0:49:22 | 0:49:24 | |
making sure those pairs are starting to bond. | 0:49:24 | 0:49:28 | |
Brilliant. | 0:49:28 | 0:49:30 | |
And I think that it'll do enormous good for Kimberly's confidence. | 0:49:30 | 0:49:35 | |
It's a great idea because it's incredibly important | 0:49:35 | 0:49:38 | |
for...the older partners of Old School | 0:49:38 | 0:49:43 | |
to keep active. | 0:49:43 | 0:49:45 | |
And you've picked up on that. | 0:49:45 | 0:49:48 | |
It's about being physically active, but it's also about being | 0:49:48 | 0:49:51 | |
-emotionally and mentally active, isn't it? -Yeah, definitely. | 0:49:51 | 0:49:54 | |
And making new friends and teamwork and participation things. | 0:49:54 | 0:49:58 | |
So, the games is going to help and I think that's brilliant. | 0:49:58 | 0:50:02 | |
You're going to be kind of master of ceremonies. | 0:50:02 | 0:50:04 | |
-Big day today, then, isn't it? -Yes. Definitely. | 0:50:04 | 0:50:07 | |
-I'm going to be really excited. -To infinity and beyond, as they say. | 0:50:07 | 0:50:10 | |
To infinity and beyond. | 0:50:10 | 0:50:12 | |
Well done, mate. | 0:50:12 | 0:50:13 | |
Great idea. | 0:50:13 | 0:50:14 | |
With the partnerships beginning to take root, | 0:50:18 | 0:50:20 | |
is it too soon to reach out, recruit more locals... | 0:50:20 | 0:50:24 | |
And, crucially, find a new partner for Robbie? | 0:50:24 | 0:50:27 | |
With this in mind, along with Kimberly's games, | 0:50:27 | 0:50:30 | |
we're hosting an Old School fair. | 0:50:30 | 0:50:33 | |
-We've got Isabella and Bethany running a food stall. -Get in! | 0:50:37 | 0:50:41 | |
Dave and Wes's traditional meat raffle. | 0:50:41 | 0:50:43 | |
Winner, winner, chicken dinner! | 0:50:43 | 0:50:46 | |
Jacub and Clive's free-kick zone. | 0:50:46 | 0:50:49 | |
CHEERING | 0:50:49 | 0:50:52 | |
That was a shot! | 0:50:52 | 0:50:54 | |
Oh, and it seems Kyrone has an idea too. | 0:50:54 | 0:50:58 | |
What is that? And what are they? | 0:50:58 | 0:51:02 | |
Basically, | 0:51:02 | 0:51:04 | |
you two are going to go in there. | 0:51:04 | 0:51:06 | |
Hope you're getting a lot of money for this. How much are you charging? | 0:51:06 | 0:51:10 | |
20 pence a sponge? You're having a laugh! We're going to be soaked! | 0:51:10 | 0:51:14 | |
How much are you hoping to raise? | 0:51:14 | 0:51:16 | |
If you say 400 quid, I'm going to murder you! | 0:51:16 | 0:51:18 | |
400. | 0:51:19 | 0:51:21 | |
With hundreds of people who've heard about Old School, | 0:51:23 | 0:51:27 | |
it's our job to try and convince them to join us. | 0:51:27 | 0:51:30 | |
Hi, everybody, welcome, one and all, | 0:51:30 | 0:51:33 | |
to the most marvellously spectacular Oxford Academy. | 0:51:33 | 0:51:36 | |
Amazing school. | 0:51:36 | 0:51:39 | |
And welcome, to those that don't know us, to our Old School family. | 0:51:39 | 0:51:43 | |
We want to spread the word to the wider community. | 0:51:43 | 0:51:47 | |
We want to leave a legacy for Old School. | 0:51:47 | 0:51:49 | |
We want it to go on, we don't want it to disappear | 0:51:49 | 0:51:52 | |
and then it all to fizzle out. | 0:51:52 | 0:51:53 | |
If you're interested in getting involved with Old School, | 0:51:53 | 0:51:56 | |
either as an older partner, or as a younger partner, | 0:51:56 | 0:52:00 | |
please just sign up. | 0:52:00 | 0:52:02 | |
It doesn't commit you to anything. | 0:52:02 | 0:52:03 | |
There'll be no phone calls next week. | 0:52:03 | 0:52:05 | |
We're thinking about next term or the term after. | 0:52:05 | 0:52:08 | |
-Thank you very much, have a great time. -Thank you. | 0:52:08 | 0:52:12 | |
APPLAUSE | 0:52:12 | 0:52:14 | |
Who would have thought at the start of term that we could | 0:52:16 | 0:52:19 | |
generate this much interest? | 0:52:19 | 0:52:21 | |
It feels like the whole of Blackbird Leys has turned out | 0:52:22 | 0:52:25 | |
to see what's going on. | 0:52:25 | 0:52:27 | |
-Hello, dear. How are you? -Very well. | 0:52:27 | 0:52:30 | |
-What are you doing? -Keep pedalling. Keep the cocktails going. | 0:52:30 | 0:52:33 | |
-I've got a lad called Marlon who I'm paired up with. -Oh, right? | 0:52:33 | 0:52:36 | |
They teach us things and we teach them things. | 0:52:36 | 0:52:39 | |
Are you interested in taking part, because there's a couple | 0:52:39 | 0:52:42 | |
of spare students that would like to be sort of mentored? | 0:52:42 | 0:52:45 | |
-Really? -Yes, there's Robbie and Chloe. -Yeah? | 0:52:45 | 0:52:48 | |
Well, Mel and Vic are certainly doing their bit, | 0:52:48 | 0:52:51 | |
so I guess we should too. | 0:52:51 | 0:52:53 | |
If we must, Dave, if we must. | 0:52:53 | 0:52:55 | |
Go on, shall we have one each? | 0:52:55 | 0:52:58 | |
Yes, we can... Righto. | 0:52:58 | 0:53:00 | |
Step back! Step back, they're heavy! | 0:53:00 | 0:53:03 | |
Oooh! | 0:53:05 | 0:53:06 | |
Hey, hold on, hold on! | 0:53:06 | 0:53:08 | |
There's got to be a line. Go back a bit! | 0:53:08 | 0:53:10 | |
I'll stand here, yeah? | 0:53:14 | 0:53:15 | |
Yeah, a bit further back, you! | 0:53:15 | 0:53:17 | |
I'll still hit you a bit further back! | 0:53:17 | 0:53:20 | |
-Flipping heck! -I'm hitting him now. | 0:53:23 | 0:53:26 | |
-Oh! -That was a good 'un! | 0:53:28 | 0:53:30 | |
Robbie is on the lookout for a new senior partner | 0:53:32 | 0:53:35 | |
and has pulled out his trump card, | 0:53:35 | 0:53:37 | |
the offer of free IT advice. | 0:53:37 | 0:53:40 | |
I do have a computer at home, but it's not running at its best. | 0:53:40 | 0:53:45 | |
-I'm trying to get it to work. -Oh, I see. | 0:53:45 | 0:53:47 | |
-I'm thinking of building my own. -You are? -Yeah... | 0:53:47 | 0:53:50 | |
Gosh, that sounds wonderful. | 0:53:50 | 0:53:52 | |
-Yes, it's quite complicated. -You are clever. | 0:53:52 | 0:53:55 | |
Could you see yourself being interested as partnering Robbie? | 0:53:56 | 0:53:59 | |
Yes, I would. I find him very interesting, you know. | 0:53:59 | 0:54:02 | |
We seem to get on like a house on fire. | 0:54:02 | 0:54:05 | |
He can help me an awful lot. | 0:54:05 | 0:54:07 | |
I think I could boost his self-esteem a bit, you know. | 0:54:07 | 0:54:09 | |
-Yes, I think you could help. -Jolly him along. | 0:54:09 | 0:54:12 | |
Result! It looks like we might have a partner for Robbie after all. | 0:54:12 | 0:54:16 | |
This is amazing. | 0:54:16 | 0:54:18 | |
And with the crowd swelling, it's time for Kimberly's big moment. | 0:54:18 | 0:54:22 | |
And there's someone more interested than most. | 0:54:22 | 0:54:25 | |
-Oh, my gosh! -All right? | 0:54:25 | 0:54:27 | |
Oh, my gosh! Oh, yeah! | 0:54:27 | 0:54:30 | |
What are you doing here? | 0:54:30 | 0:54:32 | |
I've come in to help you with your thing. | 0:54:32 | 0:54:34 | |
I wanted my mum to come, but I didn't know if she could, | 0:54:36 | 0:54:40 | |
with the babies and that. | 0:54:40 | 0:54:41 | |
The Old School Games are about to begin. | 0:54:41 | 0:54:44 | |
Before it started I was really scared, | 0:54:44 | 0:54:47 | |
but with my mum there to support me I knew it was going to be OK. | 0:54:47 | 0:54:50 | |
Ladies and gentlemen, boys and girls, | 0:54:50 | 0:54:53 | |
I pronounce the Old School Games are now officially open. | 0:54:53 | 0:54:56 | |
CHEERING | 0:54:56 | 0:54:58 | |
Old School! | 0:54:58 | 0:55:00 | |
APPLAUSE | 0:55:00 | 0:55:02 | |
Could the partners please make their way down to the starting point? | 0:55:02 | 0:55:05 | |
-Right. -Let the games begin! | 0:55:05 | 0:55:07 | |
Could you all have your toes behind the line, please? | 0:55:08 | 0:55:11 | |
Five, four, three, two... | 0:55:14 | 0:55:15 | |
WHISTLE BLOWS | 0:55:15 | 0:55:17 | |
Now they're going to go up against each other. | 0:55:22 | 0:55:24 | |
Four, three, two... | 0:55:24 | 0:55:27 | |
WHISTLE BLOWS | 0:55:27 | 0:55:29 | |
At the start of term, these two isolated groups came together | 0:55:29 | 0:55:33 | |
uncertain and unsure of each other. | 0:55:33 | 0:55:36 | |
Just look at them now. | 0:55:36 | 0:55:38 | |
For today, at least, they are uniting. | 0:55:38 | 0:55:42 | |
Everyone looks more sprightly, and they're clearly having a good time. | 0:55:42 | 0:55:47 | |
And in everyone's eyes, Kimberly has gone to infinity and beyond. | 0:55:48 | 0:55:53 | |
This is definitely a new Kimberly. | 0:55:54 | 0:55:56 | |
I've never seen a Kimberly like this before. | 0:55:56 | 0:55:59 | |
It's almost like there's a light shining inside her, you know? | 0:55:59 | 0:56:02 | |
There's a candle that went out, and now her candle has been lit, | 0:56:02 | 0:56:05 | |
and she is absolutely loving it. She really is loving it. | 0:56:05 | 0:56:09 | |
Kimberly's just wonderful. She's thoroughly enjoying it. | 0:56:09 | 0:56:12 | |
It's been a brilliant afternoon for both of us, I think. | 0:56:12 | 0:56:16 | |
A big round of applause for Kimberly, because it was her idea. | 0:56:16 | 0:56:20 | |
-It is amazing. -Well done, Kimberly. | 0:56:20 | 0:56:22 | |
It's made me really happy. | 0:56:24 | 0:56:26 | |
This is, like, the best day of my life that's ever happened. | 0:56:26 | 0:56:31 | |
And as the fair draws to a close, | 0:56:32 | 0:56:35 | |
dare we hope that we're onto something? | 0:56:35 | 0:56:37 | |
With so many locals coming into the school, I think we're | 0:56:38 | 0:56:42 | |
beginning to build bridges and heal divisions between the school | 0:56:42 | 0:56:45 | |
and the people that it serves. | 0:56:45 | 0:56:48 | |
Brilliant, a great community feel. | 0:56:48 | 0:56:50 | |
Lots of love, lots of warmth, and every single person from today | 0:56:50 | 0:56:53 | |
walked out with a smile on their face. | 0:56:53 | 0:56:55 | |
Now, that has to be a success. | 0:56:55 | 0:56:57 | |
I think we've got something that really is valid. It's working. | 0:56:58 | 0:57:02 | |
It's how we go forward to ensure its success, how it's administered, | 0:57:02 | 0:57:06 | |
how it's funded, you know, how it's going to keep going, really. | 0:57:06 | 0:57:10 | |
Next time - as test results come in for young... | 0:57:17 | 0:57:21 | |
Three, two, one... | 0:57:21 | 0:57:23 | |
-..and old... -Is it still going? | 0:57:23 | 0:57:26 | |
Has the experiment worked? | 0:57:26 | 0:57:28 | |
I've got to focus. Got to be sharp, because I'm nervous as well. | 0:57:28 | 0:57:33 | |
And, can it continue? | 0:57:33 | 0:57:34 | |
What sort of money are we talking about? | 0:57:34 | 0:57:37 | |
We would need £35,000 plus. | 0:57:37 | 0:57:39 | |
What's the reality if we don't raise that? | 0:57:39 | 0:57:41 | |
The project won't exist. | 0:57:41 | 0:57:43 | |
What do you think about the younger and older generations of today? | 0:57:44 | 0:57:49 | |
Well, to find out more and have your say, go to... | 0:57:49 | 0:57:55 | |
And follow the link to the Open University. | 0:57:55 | 0:57:58 |