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Susan Sarandon is one of America's most successful actresses,

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with a career spanning more than 40 years.

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She's appeared films as diverse as Thelma & Louise, and The Witches Of Eastwick.

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In 1996, she won an Oscar for her part in Dead Man Walking.

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She lives in New York City and has three children:

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Jack, Eva and Miles.

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Family's always been really important to me. I come from a big family and my immediate family

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is really important but I've always been really curious about ancestors.

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I've done a little digging around here and there.

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But the two mysteries I've never been able to solve

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are what happened to my grandmother Anita, and where her family's from.

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We had lots of rumour but that's it. She seems to have just disappeared when my mom was two.

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We've never been able to figure that out and...you know, keep coming up with dead ends so,

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if we could figure that out it'll be a miracle.

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Susan Sarandon was born in New York in 1946.

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It's here she's raised her family, including youngest son, Miles.

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What if you find out, like, your great-grandmother dominated the ping-pong parlours of New York?

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-That'd be really cool, actually.

-That'd be funny.

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Susan has always been fascinated by her enigmatic grandmother.

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Anita Rigali who she never knew.

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-Wasn't she like...?

-She was rumoured to be a bad girl.

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Bad in the way Shaft was bad or bad in the way that Satan is bad?

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More along the lines of, early teenage pregnancy, can't take care of your children bad.

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We have one photo of her where you can actually see her face and

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that's this laminated photo that was from a newspaper - I don't know why.

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And she looks quite beautiful.

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I heard somehow that she was, you know, a bad mother.

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Then there were rumours about her running numbers, about her in

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a jazz club, and there were rumours - you know, all these kind of things.

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I'd like to know some tales about what kind of people,

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what kind of stock I have in me and what I'm passing on to my kids.

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So I'm on my way to Virginia to interview my mother and find out what she knows about her mother.

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Pretty much everything that I had heard about Anita, my grandmother,

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you know, she was presented as somebody who had abandoned her children.

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So part of me is fearful for my mom.

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At one point when we were trying to find out more about Anita,

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she had very mixed feelings.

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Kind of a push-pull thing, where she wanted to know, but didn't want to be a part of it.

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So I'm not sure what her state is now in terms of how she feels about tracking her down.

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I think it's, understandably, an emotionally-charged...

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search for her.

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It's such a strange thing to think that you could have children and then just never see them

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for the rest of their lives,

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that you wouldn't want to find out how your kids were,

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so we thought, "Maybe she's dead."

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So, Mom, here we are.

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We're going to find out whatever we can about Anita.

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I'm hoping you have some information.

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Cos I don't have much of anything.

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- I hope I can help. - I hope so too.

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Are you excited about this little adventure we're on?

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I'm a little apprehensive.

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Yeah, well, I can see why.

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I have one picture of her.

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Mm-hmm.

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Do you know anything about that?

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I mean, she's... it was laminated for maybe a newspaper or something.

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No, in those years, the nightclubs had photographers walking around tables.

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Do you have any idea where it was taken?

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It was either the Copacabana or another one of that type right at Times Square.

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So she was a party gal?

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-Yes.

-Was she?

-Sure.

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I don't mean that as a euphemism for something else. I mean, what was she doing at the Copa?

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I think in those days they called them showgirls.

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-What do they call them now?

-well, dancers.

-Oh, dancers!

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-She was, like, a dancer?

-Yeah, but they called them...

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-But not a stripper or something?

-No.

-OK.

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Well, I'm glad that we're figuring out because I don't think any of us know, really.

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It must have been really difficult,

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to piece it all together later.

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I mean, when you're younger, you're kind of...

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Well, I always thought that you either had a father

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or a mother, but if you had two, that was just a...

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-Wellness.

-Yeah.

-Ah!

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-So I had a dad, and some people had mothers.

-Uh-huh.

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But I only found out that she was still living when I was nine years old.

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I had always thought she was dead.

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-Really?

-And then they told me...

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Hey, I may cry!

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I might cry too.

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No, they told me that she had died,

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then when I was about nine years old or ten,

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someone let it slip that she really wasn't dead.

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And...oh, good heavens,

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I may...

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We should get some tissues.

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It would be another six years before Susan's mother saw Anita again.

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In 1939, the year the World's Fair came to New York, Anita got in touch and they arranged to meet.

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So what is this, this picture?

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Lenora, right, Anita, left. At New York World Fair 1939.

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What is it?

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-That's me there.

-Completely distorted.

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What's happened to you?

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Oh, you're in the fun house.

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-In the...

-Distorted mirror.

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It was, like, a three-sided mirror.

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-And Dad took the picture.

-Oh!

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-Grandfather took the picture?

-Yeah.

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So he must've been on OK speaking terms if he took the picture?

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Well, he brought me to meet her.

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-Oh! Your father brought you to meet...

-We spent the whole day.

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-Oh, all of you were together.

-Yeah.

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That's you and your mom and grandfather...

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-Look at that, she's got your arm.

-She's got my arm.

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Yeah.

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Oh, dear.

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Don't like to go back, huh?

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I don't know.

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-So you just kind of lost contact?

-Right.

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It's so ironic that the one photo of my mother

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with her mother, just like their relationship,

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it's distorted in a mirror.

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And that was it.

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After that, she just disappeared.

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That was really a revelation.

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We found out so many things about Anita that I never heard before

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and made me really excited about tracking down more bits and pieces.

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And, I don't know, I'm starting to get a kind of picture.

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Pretty interesting picture.

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Uh, I don't think we're going to discover she had a knitting club

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or anything.

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I don't know what we're going to find out, but, um, I can't wait

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to get back to New York and start looking.

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According to Susan's mother, Anita was living in New York in 1939.

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Susan's returned to Manhattan to look for any documentation of Anita's life there.

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She's meeting genealogist and family historian Megan Smolenyak.

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There's lots of really interesting tales about my grandmother Anita, but I don't know the facts.

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What do we have here?

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Well, when you're trying to find somebody who went missing,

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it's kind of useful to step back in time and see what you can learn about their early days.

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-Fortunately, your grandmother did leave a good paper trail.

-Oh!

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During the early part of her life, yeah.

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Starting with her birth certificate.

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Uh-huh. Anita Rigali.

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-And she was born March 9, 1907.

-Yeah.

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And the fa... Oh, they don't put the dad?

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-That's the dad right there.

-Mansueto? And what does that mean?

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-Statue?

-That would be his occupation.

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It's statues. It's badly spelled.

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-Makes statues.

-That could be useful going forward.

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Her mother's name was Angelina. That's sweet.

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-Actually, maiden name Angelina Bonturi. Very pretty name.

-Yeah.

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The father came from Italy. Probably the mother came from Italy.

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But any indication where?

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-No. Unfortunately, all this tells us is that they were from Italy.

-Italy, Italy, Italy.

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The number of previous children - what?

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Nine?

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We're saying now that Anita was one of nine?

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-At least.

-Oh, my God.

-Yeah.

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But now how many now living?

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Three.

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Really?

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-Oh, my God.

-Yeah.

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So this is the 1920 census.

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Oh, there's Rigali.

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Rita and Anita and Joseph.

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So there were three kids living.

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So she was 12.

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And the dad. Mansueto.

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And what does that mean, "W"?

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-Is that widowed?

-Yeah, exactly.

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-Oh, so the mother's gone now?

-Yeah.

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Oh, my God.

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So Angelina was already dead by the time Anita was 12.

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Yeah. See, that's another element of hardship in Anita's life.

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She would have lost her mom probably when she was ten-ish, somewhere around there.

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Oh, poor Anita.

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So after her mother Angelina's death, all that Anita had left

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was her father Mansueto, who worked full-time,

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and an older sister and a younger brother.

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This is my grandmother's marriage record.

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-Right, so...

-Oh, my God.

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Does it say that my grandfather was 21 and she was 15

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when she got married?

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Well, maybe.

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Well, take a look here. This is the date of the marriage...

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February 1st, 1921.

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And we saw her birth date.

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So, in fact, although she's claiming to be 15...

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How old is she?

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-13.

-Oh, my God.

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Yeah.

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Ooh, that scoundrel.

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So she was 13 when she got married.

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Right.

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-So she was already pregnant because my uncle Bob was born just three months after they were married.

-Yeah.

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My grandfather was six years older.

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-Mm-hm.

-He must have had a little bit more of a clue of what was going on.

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-Yeah.

-She was just a baby When she had a baby. Even in those days.

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I felt really bad for Anita.

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Her mom had died when she was so young,

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and so she was really on her own when she got pregnant.

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She didn't have a childhood.

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I'm meeting with Mary Brown, an expert in Italian immigration in New York city.

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I'm hoping she can tell me more about Anita's childhood

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here on the Lower East Side and Anita's parents,

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Angelina and Mansueto.

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This would be your great-grandparents' marriage certificate.

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They were married here, um,

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the 10th of October, 1891.

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Does it have where they lived down there?

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Yes, the address where they first lived would be 35 Madison Street.

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The building where they lived probably didn't come with running water so it would be very hard

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for your great-grandmother to keep anything clean.

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There was no refrigeration, no way to give them a cold drink.

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It was a very crowded neighbourhood.

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It was very hard to get any kind of peace and quiet and any kind of elbow room.

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And it was very hard to isolate someone who was sick.

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So that place was a death trap.

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In the 1900s, Anita's family lived in a tenement-style neighbourhood on the Lower East Side of Manhattan.

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In this working class, immigrant neighbourhood,

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extreme poverty was rampant.

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Living space was cramped and unsanitary

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with dark and airless rooms and no running water.

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Disease spread quickly from family to family.

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Probably the reason so many of Anita's siblings,

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as well as her mother Angelina, died.

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To see this tough, tough life that so many immigrants

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at that time had, it gives you a real sense of perspective.

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I'm sure we could trace them back even further.

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Susan's son Miles has joined her at the New York Public Library to find out more about the Rigalis' roots.

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We're going to try to find out where her parents were from,

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where Anita's parents were from in Italy.

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So if you put in 'Italian surnames map'.

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OK. This it?

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That means surnames, so try Rigali.

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-How you spell that?

-R-I-G-A-L-I.

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Oh, my. They're from Tuscany.

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That's interesting.

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So try Bonturi.

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-So that looks similar.

-So, Tuscany and...

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They're both in the same region...

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in the west of Florence.

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OK, if the surnames were in Tuscany,

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I guess that's where we should go to see...

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any relatives before they came here.

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We didn't have any idea where our great-grandparents came from,

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the Rigalis and Bonturis, so...

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Now it looks like there's a big possibility they're from Tuscany.

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Susan is travelling to Florence, the capital of Tuscany

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to find out more about her great-grandfather's life here.

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And to see how far back she can trace her Italian roots.

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I'm always happy to be in Italy.

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From the first time I came to Italy, I felt inexplicably at home. Now I know why!

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My gene pool is crying out.

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Toscana? Si.

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It'd be great to find out that Mansueto and Angelina had a nice life

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before everything started caving in and all these children

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and hardships and disease and everything happened to them.

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I'm meeting researcher Cinzia Rossello at the Riccardini Library

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to look for proof that Mansueto came from Tuscany.

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So I'm excited to be here to see if there's any records of my great-grandfather.

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Yes. We did some research and I've

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-done some translation for you...

-Thank you.

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..that proves that your family comes from Tuscany.

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Oh, Mansueto Rigali, yes!

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My great-grandfather was born at 2:00 in the afternoon

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on the 12th of July in 1855.

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And the next thing I found is a record of a sort of conscription document.

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Oh.

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See if you can read something here.

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Here's Rigali, Mansueto.

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The beauty of it is that gives us a bit more information about place

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where he was residing.. where he lived.

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Coreglia. Is that a street?

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Coreglia?

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A small town.

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-A, ah, ah.

-And in this column here, it says that he was a colono.

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Means that he owned some land.

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-Oh, really?

-Yes.

-And he's only 20.

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-Exactly.

-Wow!

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-Well...

-Not bad.

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That's interesting.

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-When he got to the United States, he didn't have so much luck.

-No?

-No.

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But anyway, so he was only 20 here. Things are still looking up.

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He's got a little bit of land.

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Exactly.

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And so we should go to Corelia.

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-Coreglia.

-Coreglia.

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Precisely, and you'll find more traces of your ancestors there.

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Cinzi and I are heading into the Tuscan mountains 50 miles northwest

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of Florence to the village of Coreglia, where Mansueto was born.

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This is the church where not only your great-grandfather was

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baptized, but we found records of many more of your ancestors baptized

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-in this church.

-Oh, great.

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Starting from this registry.

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-Oh, Mansueto.

-Mm-hm.

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And this says also the name of his father Egidio

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and his grandfather Michele.

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Oh. Yay.

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-So that's the great-great...

-Exactly.

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There's an echo in here. Great-great! LAUGHS

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So going back, back, back.

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-Look at this book. Oh, my gosh.

-This is in Latin.

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-Wow.

-We think...

-I'm going to start writing like this, it's so beautiful.

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-1758.

-This is Giofrediano, son of Giovanni.

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-Son of Michele.

-Wow. So they repeated Michele.

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Very good. So going back, back, back. Now the mystery... a real mystery.

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Rigali.

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-Francesco, son of Michele, son of Giovanni Rigali,

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So you can go even further.

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Whoa. Oh, my.

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Wow. Back to Michele in 1640.

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Exactly. It means that you have very deep roots here in Italy.

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Yeah. It's unbelievable.

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The church records traced Susan's Italian ancestors back

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an incredible ten generations, to Michele Rigali,

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who was born around 1640.

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-I think you have very classic Tuscan features.

-Really? Yes.

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The colours...

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-That's great.

-Renaissance.

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Renaissance!

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I am officially from Tuscany. Definitely.

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So that was startling to be able to prove it that far back.

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It's gone from being something kind of abstract to being very concrete.

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Susan's great-grandfather Mansueto was a statue maker.

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So before she leaves Coreglia,

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she wants to visit the local museum of figurines and emigration.

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She's meeting local guide Gabriele Calabrese.

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-Hello.

-Hello.

-So nice to meet you.

-Welcome to Coreglia.

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So, is that my great-grandfather there?

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Of course, yes. Here is Mansueto. This is a unique place.

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It's a unique village. It's the place in which the figurine makers and plasters where invented.

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It's not a big town, it's not Milan or Rome or Florence.

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It's a village in which this idea was invented.

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-So if you were interested in learning that trade, you would come to this town to learn it?

-Yes.

0:19:520:19:58

This place is so unique and this little village is dedicated,

0:19:580:20:03

even a whole museum, to the whole phenomenon of the figurine makers.

0:20:030:20:08

-We can go together to see it.

-Good. OK.

-Please...

0:20:080:20:12

You can see immediately...

0:20:140:20:16

Look how many statues around us...

0:20:160:20:18

The typical 19th century style. I would like to show you pictures.

0:20:180:20:25

They were very proud about their work, their job.

0:20:250:20:29

In this one there is an interesting detail - the face of an Indian.

0:20:290:20:36

This means this man was probably in the United States.

0:20:360:20:38

And so, they were very flexible

0:20:380:20:41

to change the style of their figurines to enter certain markets.

0:20:410:20:47

-So do you have any idea when my great-grandfather left here?

-Yes.

0:20:470:20:51

-With his statues?

-We know exactly.

-Oh!

0:20:510:20:55

In 1888, he was one of the first wave of figurine makers that...

0:20:550:21:01

They moved from this village to go to United States.

0:21:010:21:07

And we have the passengers list.

0:21:070:21:11

-Here it is. Mansueto Rigali.

-Exactly.

0:21:110:21:16

-Mansueto Rigali.

-He was 32.

0:21:160:21:19

98 figurine makers decided to move to United States all in that year.

0:21:190:21:25

-Wow!

-That is really incredible.

0:21:250:21:26

That's huge from a tiny village.

0:21:260:21:28

Oh, exactly. That's really huge.

0:21:280:21:31

And they knew what to do with their hands. Like artists. Simple artists. But...

0:21:310:21:35

So they could be more confident because they came with a trade.

0:21:350:21:38

Exactly.

0:21:380:21:40

For more than 500 years, the village flourished as the figurines sold all over Europe.

0:21:420:21:46

But by Mansueto's time, life had become tough for the sculptors of Coreglia,

0:21:460:21:51

and news was coming from America that untold riches could be made there.

0:21:510:21:57

Mansueto was one of 50,000 Italians

0:21:570:22:01

to cross the Atlantic in 1888.

0:22:010:22:03

Between 1880 and 1890, almost five million Europeans

0:22:030:22:07

arrived in search of a new life in America.

0:22:070:22:11

Susan, I would like to give you a present - the symbol of Coreglia.

0:22:110:22:18

The famous...

0:22:180:22:20

-little cat in plaster, as you can see.

-Adorable, thank you.

0:22:200:22:25

-You are so welcome.

-I'd like to thank my mother, I'd like to thank...

0:22:250:22:28

my great-grandfather for this award.

0:22:280:22:31

Fabulous.

0:22:310:22:33

-Cute. Thank you.

-You're welcome.

0:22:330:22:36

It's been wonderful to see that Mansueto, my great-grandfather,

0:22:360:22:41

had such a lovely life in this beautiful little town with turned out to be a major town for statue making.

0:22:410:22:49

I'm happy to find this little piece of beauty and art and family here.

0:22:490:22:57

I know that the Rigali name came from this area, so I'm hoping if I go to

0:23:020:23:06

a phonebook, maybe I can find out if there are any other Rigalis listed.

0:23:060:23:11

In which case, maybe I'll find a living relative which so far has eluded me. So, that's the next step.

0:23:110:23:18

Susan manages to track down the last remaining Rigali living in the area.

0:23:310:23:35

Gilberto Rigali shares the same great-great-great-grandfather, Michele Rigali.

0:23:370:23:43

-Ciao.

-Ciao, hello!

-Hello, are you Gilberto?

-Yes.

0:23:460:23:50

-Hi.

-Nice to meet you.

-Nice to meet you. Hi!

0:23:500:23:53

-How are you. This is Donny.

-Hi, Donny.

0:23:530:23:56

Um...yeah, I think we're related.

0:23:560:23:59

-Yes... It's amazing!

-THEY LAUGH

0:23:590:24:02

-It's nice.

-So your last name is Rigali?

-Yes.

0:24:020:24:06

I'm the only Rigali in this place.

0:24:060:24:09

-My father - Mariano Rigali.

-Si.

-And my grandfather Giovanni Rigali.

0:24:090:24:15

-Very surprised. Very.

-Me too.

-Me too?

-Yeah.

0:24:210:24:25

Mama mia.

0:24:250:24:27

-The film Dead Man Walking with Sean Penn.

-Oh, yes.

-Thelma & Louise - beautiful film. L'Olio Di Lorenzo.

0:24:330:24:40

-Ah!

-Much beautiful films. Vecchio. Old... Old film.

-Si.

0:24:400:24:45

Ma, you, uguale....

0:24:450:24:49

-Si, yes.

-Grazie.

0:24:490:24:51

That was lovely.

0:25:010:25:02

I found a distant cousin, Gilberto Rigali, just by the hair of my chinny-chin-chin

0:25:020:25:10

because he's the only one left.

0:25:100:25:13

Because they're all travellers, all over the place.

0:25:130:25:16

For me, I've always felt very connected to Italy and I love it.

0:25:160:25:21

It just confirms that that makes sense.

0:25:210:25:23

I like coming from a family of people that were artists.

0:25:270:25:30

They left with such hopes and, you know, they found such hardship,

0:25:340:25:38

when they got to this land of opportunity.

0:25:380:25:42

I mean, it's great that they managed to find

0:25:420:25:44

a way to survive, but it cost them so much.

0:25:440:25:47

Mansueto lived until he was 72 years old.

0:25:470:25:52

His whole life in New York was overshadowed by tragedy.

0:25:520:25:55

I want to pay my respects at the family plot

0:25:590:26:03

where he's buried with his wife and young children.

0:26:030:26:08

OK, I guess this is where it would be.

0:26:210:26:23

There's one, two, three, four, five,

0:26:290:26:33

six, seven, eight, nine people,

0:26:330:26:36

and they're all somewhere here -

0:26:360:26:38

my family, but there's no marker.

0:26:380:26:41

That's really sad.

0:26:410:26:42

Anita's not here, so we still don't know what happened to Anita.

0:26:420:26:46

But this is a, you know, a family that suffered a lot...

0:26:460:26:50

All these kids that died, and nobody even has a marker.

0:26:500:26:54

I mean, it's almost like a...

0:26:540:26:57

Potter's field kind of thing,

0:26:580:26:59

where they don't even have markers. It's so sad.

0:26:590:27:02

I should get them a marker.

0:27:020:27:06

Poor Anita.

0:27:080:27:10

You know, kind of like my mom, was used to having people leave her.

0:27:100:27:14

Don't know what happened to her, But I hope we find out.

0:27:140:27:17

If the rumours are true and she was attracted to show business,

0:27:220:27:26

maybe I did inherit something from her.

0:27:260:27:29

So I'm going to meet Burton Peretti, an expert on New York nightclubs.

0:27:290:27:32

The only picture that isn't distorted

0:27:320:27:34

is this one of my grandma that was taken apparently at the Copa,

0:27:340:27:38

And I've heard that she was a dancer there. The Copacabana.

0:27:380:27:41

I don't know if that's true. Can you help me?

0:27:410:27:44

Well, given her age, birth date,

0:27:440:27:47

she was probably active in nightclubs in the 1920s,

0:27:470:27:50

possibly in speakeasies.

0:27:500:27:51

It's the highpoint of the nightclub craze in Manhattan.

0:27:510:27:57

There were dozens of high-priced dazzling places

0:27:570:28:01

charging lots of money, making lots of money,

0:28:010:28:03

and, of course, selling illegal liquor.

0:28:030:28:06

And it really becomes a magnet for young women who want to do well.

0:28:060:28:09

The dancing, the singing, took place right in between the tables.

0:28:090:28:13

It was like the early lap dancing?

0:28:130:28:15

Absolutely. They would sit in people's laps.

0:28:150:28:19

-They would pop cherries into male customers' mouths...

-Hmm...

0:28:190:28:22

Join them in dancing, put funny hats on them.

0:28:220:28:26

It was very participatory.

0:28:260:28:27

-This photo, we think, was taken at the Copacabana.

-Mm-hm.

0:28:270:28:32

So what happened there?

0:28:320:28:33

Well, that was one of the most popular nightclubs in Manhattan.

0:28:330:28:38

Entertainers like Frank Sinatra

0:28:380:28:40

were mainstays of the Copacabana beginning of the 1940s.

0:28:400:28:43

My mom's obsessed with Frank Sinatra. It'd be so great if her mother dated Frank Sinatra.

0:28:430:28:47

We have very little documentation of your grandmother in the nightclubs.

0:28:470:28:52

However, we were able to find one document

0:28:520:28:55

-relating to her in this time period.

-Oh, wow!

0:28:550:28:58

So what time period are we talking?

0:28:580:29:01

This is from October 1932.

0:29:010:29:03

-And it is a marriage licence.

-SHE GASPS

0:29:030:29:05

So...oh, yes!

0:29:050:29:08

Anita Rigali, she was 25, and she got married to Ben Kahn.

0:29:080:29:12

And he was a salesman.

0:29:120:29:15

She was a homemaker apparently.

0:29:160:29:18

Of course.

0:29:180:29:19

Which would be a change for her.

0:29:190:29:21

Wow! Well, that's interesting.

0:29:210:29:23

One of the reasons that we couldn't find her

0:29:230:29:25

was because we didn't know if she'd gotten remarried or if she had a social security number.

0:29:250:29:30

The number of previous marriages - none?!

0:29:300:29:34

Hmm.

0:29:340:29:38

Well, that's interesting.

0:29:380:29:40

Oh, God, nothing seems to add up with this woman.

0:29:400:29:43

The interesting issue is, of course, was she still married to your grandfather?

0:29:430:29:48

-When she got married.

-Yes.

0:29:480:29:50

-Oh!

-We were not able to find a record of a divorce.

0:29:500:29:54

So it's really an open question.

0:29:540:29:57

I would just point out that bigamy was against the law,

0:29:570:30:01

and it could be punishable by some years in prison.

0:30:010:30:04

-What year is this?

-'32.

0:30:040:30:07

Oh. So she WAS still married.

0:30:070:30:10

Because supposedly my grandfather didn't divorce her until after...

0:30:100:30:14

until after this meeting at the World's Fair, which was '39.

0:30:140:30:19

-Oh.

-So...

0:30:190:30:22

Who knows?

0:30:220:30:23

-Probably she, in her mind, she was divorced.

-Right.

0:30:230:30:28

Well, in many ways, your grandmother was ahead of the curve.

0:30:280:30:31

I believe it indicates here that he's Jewish.

0:30:310:30:33

And she was Roman Catholic.

0:30:330:30:35

Even in the show business world, the mixed marriage was a bit risky to do.

0:30:350:30:40

That was a mixed marriage definitely in those days.

0:30:400:30:42

-Yeah. Mixed marriage.

-Yeah.

0:30:420:30:44

And I think, as we look at her life overall, she was taking risks,

0:30:440:30:48

-Seemed to be very capable and to...

-Rather unorthodox?

-Yeah.

0:30:480:30:53

I like that.

0:30:530:30:56

Well, that was interesting. So she married, not divorced,

0:30:560:31:01

but married again, and to Ben Kahn.

0:31:010:31:04

So now we could find out what happened to her as Anita Kahn.

0:31:040:31:09

Susan's son Miles has joined her at the New York Library's Milstein division of history and genealogy.

0:31:120:31:18

-City directories?

-This way...

0:31:220:31:24

She hopes the city directories will tell her where Anita went to live with her new husband, Ben Kahn.

0:31:240:31:30

OK, so we're looking for

0:31:330:31:34

-Mr and Mrs Benjamin Kahn or Ben Kahn.

-So, K.

0:31:340:31:40

K-A-H-N. They got married in '32.

0:31:400:31:45

Thank God you have good eyesight. Look at this print. It's crazy.

0:31:450:31:48

-Here we go. Benjamin.

-J...K...A...

0:31:480:31:52

Kahn, here we go. So, Benjamin, A...

0:31:520:31:55

Benjamin, Benjamin. Oh, salesman.

0:31:550:31:59

-He said he's on 74th.

-74th.

0:31:590:32:01

-All right.

-All right, wait a minute.

0:32:010:32:04

So that's a salesman, but there's no Anita. So let's look up Anita Kahn.

0:32:040:32:09

Anita. In this directory?

0:32:090:32:11

Anita, Mrs Anita. This is Anita.

0:32:110:32:14

-You think that's it?

-Mrs Anita Kahn.

0:32:140:32:16

That would have to be her.

0:32:160:32:17

All right, so that's West 78th. Was this guy on West 78th?

0:32:170:32:21

I'm going blind, this is the smallest print...

0:32:210:32:24

So if that's them, that would mean that a year after they got married,

0:32:260:32:30

-they were already separated and she's on 78th street but being called Mrs and he's...

-Yeah.

0:32:300:32:36

Also on the Upper West Side but not together.

0:32:360:32:40

OK, so, now that we're blinded by the small print and these directories run out, the next thing is,

0:32:400:32:47

I need you to help me look on the...

0:32:470:32:50

-On the internets?

-Yes.

-The system of tubes?

0:32:500:32:53

The one solid piece of information that I have about Anita

0:32:530:32:56

is her birth date, March 9, 1907.

0:32:560:32:59

That might be enough for us to track down

0:32:590:33:01

a death record for Anita.

0:33:010:33:04

Anita Kahn, K-A-H-N.

0:33:040:33:07

-And...

-Birth year?

0:33:100:33:13

1907.

0:33:130:33:14

1907 is the 18th of July, so that doesn't match up.

0:33:170:33:21

So she's ALIVE! A hundred and something years old!

0:33:210:33:27

-Oh, sorry, it's a library!

-Yeah, come on, shush!

0:33:270:33:31

So what else... Um, we can look under Rigali.

0:33:310:33:35

Maybe she went back to her...

0:33:350:33:37

If we just do it without a last name, I think it'll be fine.

0:33:370:33:40

-We'll find something else.

-OK.

0:33:400:33:42

Well, we're looking for March 9, 1907.

0:33:420:33:45

-Do you have that?

-March 9, 1907.

0:33:450:33:49

-Waah! You'll make me throw up, stop going so fast.

-I'm going back up.

0:33:510:33:56

-It's OK.

-Anita Fiorentino.

-Uh-huh.

0:33:560:34:00

-But there's more.

-When did she die?

0:34:000:34:05

-1984.

-Oh, my gosh.

0:34:050:34:09

-It says Garnerville, Rockland, New York.

-Does it say anything else about...?

-About her? No.

0:34:090:34:14

-Do you know where Rockland is?

-Rockland county is, you know, about an hour or so out of New York.

0:34:140:34:20

OK, you have to do your homework now! HE LAUGHS

0:34:230:34:26

I'm really excited because we're going to Rockland County and that way

0:34:260:34:31

maybe I'll be able to tell if Anita Fiorentino is our Anita.

0:34:310:34:35

If my grandmother was only an hour away from me for most of my life, I'll be shocked.

0:34:390:34:44

Susan's come to the New City Library at Rockland.

0:34:440:34:48

She needs to confirm that Anita Fiorentino is definitely her grandmother.

0:34:480:34:53

So she's looking through the obituary records.

0:34:530:34:56

Stop, stop, stop!

0:34:560:34:57

No, no, stop!

0:34:570:34:59

Oh...

0:34:590:35:01

Oops.

0:35:050:35:06

"Anita Fiorentino died Monday at her home

0:35:100:35:13

"at 9 Captain Shankey Drive in Garnerville.

0:35:130:35:17

"She was 71. She had lived in Garnerville for the past 35 years.

0:35:170:35:25

"She was a daughter of..."

0:35:250:35:28

Yes! "Mansueto and Angelina Rigali, who are both deceased." Yes! That's her.

0:35:280:35:33

"Mrs Fiorentino is survived by her husband, "Dominic, of the home address."

0:35:330:35:38

"Services and internment are to be private and at the family's convenience."

0:35:380:35:42

So I guess she didn't have any other children.

0:35:420:35:45

Well, she stayed with him for 35 years.

0:35:450:35:47

That's pretty good, pretty stable.

0:35:470:35:50

She was "born in Manhattan on March 9, 1913."

0:35:500:35:53

But she was actually born 1907.

0:35:530:35:58

So she's taken... She's discounting her early years

0:35:580:36:04

where all her secrets are, Anita.

0:36:040:36:06

Wow.

0:36:060:36:08

I'm in my grandmother's old neighbourhood.

0:36:120:36:15

This is the house where she lived.

0:36:150:36:18

No-one in.

0:36:250:36:26

I'll canvass the neighbourhood and see if there's a neighbour who might remember Anita.

0:36:270:36:31

This neighbour wasn't comfortable talking on camera,

0:36:310:36:34

but she did know Anita very well

0:36:340:36:36

and shared lots of information.

0:36:360:36:39

She said they were very shocked when she passed away

0:36:390:36:41

because they didn't think she was sick at all.

0:36:410:36:44

So she must have been pretty spry. She had a garden out the back.

0:36:440:36:47

She had a dog named Spunky.

0:36:470:36:49

She had talked about being a dancer. Had done something else in clubs, but she's not quite sure what.

0:36:490:36:55

And she mentioned Frank Sinatra a lot.

0:36:550:36:57

She said that Frank came up very often in conversations.

0:36:570:37:00

That Anita had said that she got him his start.

0:37:000:37:03

She said that repeatedly.

0:37:030:37:05

I love that it was Frank Sinatra because my mom was obsessed with Frank Sinatra,

0:37:050:37:09

and I met Frank Sinatra when I was doing Atlantic City.

0:37:090:37:12

Burt Lancaster introduced him to me,

0:37:120:37:14

and he was a little flirtatious.

0:37:140:37:16

So maybe I had some Anita vibe that he responded to.

0:37:160:37:19

I don't know.

0:37:190:37:21

Thanks for that information.

0:37:210:37:23

I'm really excited because Anita's husband Dom

0:37:230:37:25

has some nieces that live somewhere in the neighbourhood,

0:37:250:37:28

and I think they know quite a bit.

0:37:280:37:31

We still have nothing except that distorted, freaky picture at the World's Fair.

0:37:310:37:36

We don't really know what she looked like,

0:37:360:37:38

one distorted photo and one laminated, wrinkled photo,

0:37:380:37:42

and that's it, so I'm really hoping

0:37:420:37:44

that they have some photos for us.

0:37:440:37:46

Anita's been such a mystery.

0:37:460:37:49

If anyone can shed some light as to who she was,

0:37:490:37:51

I'm hoping it's her nieces.

0:37:510:37:55

We're about to meet for the first time.

0:37:550:37:58

This should be surprising for all of us.

0:37:580:38:03

Hi.

0:38:050:38:06

-BOTH: Hi!

-Hi, I understand...

0:38:060:38:08

Oh, my God.

0:38:080:38:11

Hi. Thanks for talking to me.

0:38:110:38:13

Oh, it's our pleasure.

0:38:130:38:16

-If you can tell me anything.

-We can.

0:38:160:38:18

Oh, yes! SHE SQUEALS

0:38:180:38:20

You had no idea that she had had any children?

0:38:250:38:28

None.

0:38:280:38:29

But she...they had no kids together?

0:38:290:38:31

They had no kids together. No.

0:38:310:38:32

My grandfather moved in next-door, and he was 19.

0:38:320:38:36

And she got pregnant at 12.

0:38:360:38:38

Oh, my God.

0:38:380:38:40

And then the second time, like, a year later.

0:38:400:38:42

And she got married at, you know, six months pregnant.

0:38:420:38:45

And then we lost track of her. I don't even know what happened to her.

0:38:450:38:49

Our uncle Dom, we had heard, met her in the city.

0:38:490:38:52

He was in the coast guard

0:38:520:38:55

and, I guess, off on leave and met her probably,

0:38:550:38:58

we heard, at one of the clubs in the city.

0:38:580:39:01

So they stayed together for a long time.

0:39:010:39:03

They must have been pretty happy.

0:39:030:39:04

Oh, yeah. It was a good marriage.

0:39:040:39:07

Did she talk to you about Frank Sinatra?

0:39:070:39:09

I remember vague conversations with her when I was really little

0:39:090:39:14

of her telling me about something and going, "I used to..."

0:39:140:39:18

And that's all I remember.

0:39:180:39:21

Her hands were always going.

0:39:210:39:23

-So she was very vibrant and Italian and very...

-Very!

0:39:230:39:27

She was a bigger personality out of the two. Uncle Dom was quiet.

0:39:270:39:32

In fact, she knocked my tooth out when I was a little girl.

0:39:320:39:34

I was sitting next to her and she was talking...

0:39:340:39:38

And my teeth were loose and she...did one of her things and

0:39:380:39:41

the tooth was hanging and someone had to pull it out.

0:39:410:39:45

-She must've loved having you guys around.

-Yeah.

0:39:450:39:49

I can see the smile on her face.

0:39:490:39:53

-Do you have pictures?

-Yeah.

0:39:530:39:56

Oh! We've been so hoping we would see pictures.

0:39:560:39:58

Well, here you go. This is me, actually. She's holding me in that picture.

0:39:580:40:02

Oh, wow.

0:40:020:40:03

Ah! Anita.

0:40:060:40:09

This is uncle Donny.

0:40:100:40:12

Oh. Whoa, handsome.

0:40:120:40:14

He was very, very handsome.

0:40:140:40:16

Um, he looked a lot like Tony Curtis. Really.

0:40:160:40:18

And... Oh, wow.

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This is a sketch of her.

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GASPS: Now, see, that looks like my family.

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Oh, my God. That's totally...

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That could be you.

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-That's so weird.

-It could. That's what I mean.

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-Oh! Oh, my God.

-Pretty scary.

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I think I played that part in...

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Front page, I think. Look, look...

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-That is so strange.

-It is.

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Oh, my gosh. I guess she was early twenties...before she got married.

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She could've been younger or...

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-I think she probably looked always younger than she was.

-Mm-hm.

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-By the way she...

-She certainly did when she got older.

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-Except when she was 12! She obviously looked older!

-Yeah.

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-I don't remember her ever looking old.

-Yeah?

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Thank you, guys, so much.

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-It's been a pleasure.

-How weird, huh? To find out all this stuff...

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It's strange. It makes me sad that we got to know her and you didn't.

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-Sounds like she had a very nice last 35 years.

-She did, I think.

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On one hand, I wish I had been able to tell Anita

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that, you know, my mom's OK,

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and that she has, you know, a million grandchildren.

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Although maybe it was better for her that we didn't find her,

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maybe that would've been just way too much upset for her.

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But somehow I kind of wish that

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she'd known that she was watching her granddaughter, if she ever went to a film.

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I love the fact that Anita who had this tough life and who everyone's been vilifying forever and a day,

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ended up with this handsome guy and this nice little house with her Spunky dog,

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and her garden and she seems to have been fun-loving

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and everybody liked her and she had a much more...

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kind of, safe existence than the way she started.

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With all of this having to grow up so quickly, the poverty and sickness and loss.

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Just being abandoned, abandoned. 35 years is pretty good with one person.

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And we don't even know if they were married, which I rest my case!

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But I think that's fabulous that she found this guy and it sounds like got a club,

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and they depict her as somebody that was gesturing a lot and full of life and he was the quiet one.

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Maybe she finally figured it out. And I'm really happy for her.

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