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Can we just try the first bit again, just to make sure it's tight? | 0:00:02 | 0:00:04 | |
For over 50 years, Lulu has been one of Britain's best-loved pop stars. | 0:00:04 | 0:00:08 | |
I got on that stage, I just love it. | 0:00:08 | 0:00:13 | |
And blessed to still be able to do it | 0:00:13 | 0:00:15 | |
and to still enjoy it. It's unbelievable. | 0:00:15 | 0:00:19 | |
# Well-ll-ll... | 0:00:19 | 0:00:23 | |
-# You know you make me wanna shout -Shout | 0:00:23 | 0:00:25 | |
-# Look, my hand's jumping -Shout | 0:00:25 | 0:00:26 | |
-# Look, my heart's thumping -Shout | 0:00:26 | 0:00:28 | |
# Throw my head back... # | 0:00:28 | 0:00:29 | |
They released Shout when I was 15, | 0:00:29 | 0:00:32 | |
and it was a hit immediately, so that was it, I was on the road. | 0:00:32 | 0:00:36 | |
Since finding fame in the '60s, | 0:00:37 | 0:00:39 | |
she's won the Eurovision Song Contest, | 0:00:39 | 0:00:42 | |
topped the charts with Take That, | 0:00:42 | 0:00:44 | |
and she's still touring and releasing new material. | 0:00:44 | 0:00:47 | |
I don't know what I'm going to find, but I don't sort of... | 0:00:48 | 0:00:50 | |
I have no highfalutin ideas. | 0:00:50 | 0:00:53 | |
I'm not waiting to find out I'm really a princess! | 0:00:53 | 0:00:56 | |
SHE LAUGHS | 0:00:56 | 0:00:57 | |
I know! | 0:00:57 | 0:00:59 | |
I grew up in Glasgow. | 0:01:00 | 0:01:02 | |
I was the eldest of four. | 0:01:02 | 0:01:04 | |
We sang a lot, there was a lot of music in my house. | 0:01:04 | 0:01:06 | |
I thought my father was the best singer I'd ever heard. | 0:01:06 | 0:01:10 | |
I think I got my father's gift. | 0:01:10 | 0:01:14 | |
The story of my mother is a big secret. | 0:01:14 | 0:01:16 | |
Basically, she had been given away as a baby. | 0:01:16 | 0:01:22 | |
I never met my mother's real parents. | 0:01:22 | 0:01:24 | |
I don't even think I've seen a picture of them. | 0:01:25 | 0:01:28 | |
The real essence of this is, why did they give my mother away? | 0:01:28 | 0:01:32 | |
That's the real thing, that's what's so confusing. | 0:01:32 | 0:01:34 | |
Lulu has invited her brother Billy and her son Jordan over | 0:02:11 | 0:02:15 | |
to piece together what they know about her mother's story. | 0:02:15 | 0:02:18 | |
-Hey! -Hey. How are you doing? -Hey, Mum. | 0:02:20 | 0:02:23 | |
Oh... | 0:02:23 | 0:02:24 | |
BILLY LAUGHS | 0:02:24 | 0:02:26 | |
Ooh. Thanks for coming, you two. | 0:02:26 | 0:02:27 | |
-Aw... -Good to see you, kid. | 0:02:27 | 0:02:29 | |
-This is a good picture. -Yeah. | 0:02:35 | 0:02:38 | |
It's us at the beach. | 0:02:38 | 0:02:40 | |
My new frock on. Of course, | 0:02:40 | 0:02:41 | |
I would have to be dressed perfectly, from head to toe. | 0:02:41 | 0:02:45 | |
BILLY LAUGHS | 0:02:45 | 0:02:47 | |
And there's Billy. | 0:02:47 | 0:02:48 | |
Chubby chops! | 0:02:48 | 0:02:49 | |
-How old were you there? -Three, maybe four. | 0:02:49 | 0:02:52 | |
-She looks happy. -Yeah. | 0:02:52 | 0:02:54 | |
That was all she wanted. | 0:02:54 | 0:02:56 | |
To have her own family. | 0:02:56 | 0:02:58 | |
What I'm really looking for is... is the answer to why | 0:02:58 | 0:03:03 | |
my mum, and your mum, and your grandmother, | 0:03:03 | 0:03:08 | |
was the only one out of seven children | 0:03:08 | 0:03:11 | |
to be given away. | 0:03:11 | 0:03:13 | |
Why was she the only one separated from the family? | 0:03:13 | 0:03:17 | |
Well, I've looked at it from every possible angle | 0:03:17 | 0:03:19 | |
-and I could never work it out. -Hm. | 0:03:19 | 0:03:21 | |
There was never any rhyme or reason to it. | 0:03:21 | 0:03:23 | |
-In my mind, you know, it was like there was something missing. -Mm. | 0:03:23 | 0:03:26 | |
And I couldn't put my finger on it. | 0:03:26 | 0:03:29 | |
Who were the family she grew up with, | 0:03:29 | 0:03:31 | |
and how old was she when she was sort of given to them? | 0:03:31 | 0:03:34 | |
I think she must have been a little baby, a little... | 0:03:34 | 0:03:37 | |
tiny baby. | 0:03:37 | 0:03:39 | |
And the family that took her on were the McDonalds. | 0:03:39 | 0:03:42 | |
So, she found out that... | 0:03:42 | 0:03:43 | |
-..her parents weren't her parents... -Yes. | 0:03:45 | 0:03:47 | |
..and she'd started a relationship with her natural family? | 0:03:47 | 0:03:52 | |
Yes, she got to know them. They became close. | 0:03:52 | 0:03:55 | |
But we have no idea...we have no idea why they gave her up? | 0:03:55 | 0:03:58 | |
I don't know. Therein lies the mystery. | 0:03:58 | 0:04:01 | |
I don't think my mum had the answers. | 0:04:01 | 0:04:03 | |
I don't think she knew, or we'd have known. | 0:04:03 | 0:04:05 | |
The discovery played havoc with her, with her state of mind. | 0:04:05 | 0:04:10 | |
And with her emotions. | 0:04:10 | 0:04:11 | |
And she became very insecure. | 0:04:11 | 0:04:14 | |
We... Although it wasn't spoken, we understood... | 0:04:14 | 0:04:18 | |
-Yeah, yeah, yeah. -..don't ask too many questions, don't push it. | 0:04:18 | 0:04:22 | |
There's a lot to be answered, | 0:04:22 | 0:04:24 | |
so I think the only way to do that is for me... | 0:04:24 | 0:04:27 | |
..to go back home. | 0:04:28 | 0:04:30 | |
To try and find out why her mother was given up by her birth parents | 0:04:37 | 0:04:40 | |
to be raised by the McDonald family, Lulu is on her way to Glasgow. | 0:04:40 | 0:04:44 | |
I always love going back to Glasgow, | 0:04:46 | 0:04:49 | |
because I think of it as being my home. | 0:04:49 | 0:04:52 | |
I keep reverting to a thick Glaswegian accent. | 0:04:52 | 0:04:56 | |
She started her research by ordering up copies of | 0:04:56 | 0:04:59 | |
her mother's birth certificate and her grandmother's death certificate. | 0:04:59 | 0:05:03 | |
She was born in Castle Street, Glasgow. | 0:05:05 | 0:05:08 | |
Elizabeth Kennedy Cairns. | 0:05:09 | 0:05:12 | |
September 25th, | 0:05:12 | 0:05:15 | |
1927. | 0:05:15 | 0:05:17 | |
Hugh Cairns is my mother's father. | 0:05:17 | 0:05:22 | |
And Helen... Is that Darling... | 0:05:22 | 0:05:25 | |
Cairns? Who was originally Helen Kennedy, | 0:05:25 | 0:05:30 | |
is my mother's mother. | 0:05:30 | 0:05:32 | |
So, what I have here is my grandmother's death certificate. | 0:05:32 | 0:05:37 | |
Helen Darling Cairns, married to Hugh Cairns, died... | 0:05:37 | 0:05:42 | |
1935. | 0:05:42 | 0:05:44 | |
Wow. | 0:05:45 | 0:05:46 | |
She was only 31. | 0:05:48 | 0:05:49 | |
Ooh-ah. | 0:05:51 | 0:05:53 | |
That's young. | 0:05:54 | 0:05:55 | |
Well, I suppose my mother was... | 0:05:57 | 0:05:59 | |
..seven years old when her mother died, her real mother. | 0:06:00 | 0:06:03 | |
What did she die of? | 0:06:05 | 0:06:07 | |
Peritonitis. | 0:06:07 | 0:06:08 | |
Ruptured appendix. | 0:06:10 | 0:06:12 | |
Profound toxaemia. | 0:06:12 | 0:06:13 | |
Cardiac failure. | 0:06:15 | 0:06:17 | |
Poor woman. 31. | 0:06:18 | 0:06:20 | |
Wow. | 0:06:22 | 0:06:23 | |
She had seven kids before she was 31. | 0:06:23 | 0:06:27 | |
And then, obviously, a very painful death. | 0:06:28 | 0:06:31 | |
No life at all. | 0:06:32 | 0:06:33 | |
My mother was 13 or 14 when she found out... | 0:06:34 | 0:06:38 | |
..that she was not a McDonald, she was actually a Kennedy-Cairns. | 0:06:39 | 0:06:42 | |
She found out at school one day. | 0:06:43 | 0:06:46 | |
Oh, a crucial age! | 0:06:47 | 0:06:49 | |
Sad that she never even got to... | 0:06:49 | 0:06:51 | |
..meet her mother. | 0:06:52 | 0:06:53 | |
I would absolutely love to see pictures, | 0:06:55 | 0:06:57 | |
I would like to know what my grandparents looked like. | 0:06:57 | 0:06:59 | |
Do I look like them? | 0:06:59 | 0:07:01 | |
Does my brother look like them? | 0:07:01 | 0:07:03 | |
The thought of seeing that is exciting. | 0:07:03 | 0:07:05 | |
Feels like home. | 0:07:28 | 0:07:30 | |
But it doesn't seem as big. | 0:07:30 | 0:07:34 | |
When I was tiny, I thought Glasgow was huge. | 0:07:34 | 0:07:39 | |
I'm going to meet my Uncle Jim and my cousin, Eleanor, | 0:07:39 | 0:07:44 | |
who I used to play with when I was young. | 0:07:44 | 0:07:46 | |
I would've seen her the last time when I was...before I was 15, | 0:07:46 | 0:07:50 | |
before I became "Lulu". | 0:07:50 | 0:07:53 | |
I really hope they've got some answers to some of the questions. | 0:07:53 | 0:07:57 | |
Lulu knows that her maternal grandparents, | 0:07:59 | 0:08:02 | |
Hugh Cairns and Helen Kennedy, | 0:08:02 | 0:08:04 | |
had seven children. | 0:08:04 | 0:08:05 | |
Her mother, Elizabeth, | 0:08:06 | 0:08:07 | |
was their middle child. | 0:08:07 | 0:08:08 | |
When she was about 13, | 0:08:10 | 0:08:11 | |
Elizabeth met her biological sister, | 0:08:11 | 0:08:13 | |
Nelly, who told her | 0:08:13 | 0:08:15 | |
who her birth parents were. | 0:08:15 | 0:08:16 | |
Lulu hopes that Nelly's daughter, Eleanor, | 0:08:18 | 0:08:20 | |
and her mother's younger brother, | 0:08:20 | 0:08:22 | |
James, can tell her more | 0:08:22 | 0:08:23 | |
about why her mother | 0:08:23 | 0:08:24 | |
was given away as a baby. | 0:08:24 | 0:08:26 | |
-Oh, my God, hello! -Hey! | 0:08:28 | 0:08:30 | |
THEY LAUGH | 0:08:30 | 0:08:32 | |
-How are you, Eleanor? -How lovely to see you. | 0:08:37 | 0:08:40 | |
I was told that my mother | 0:08:43 | 0:08:46 | |
didn't know she was a Kennedy-Cairns until your mother, | 0:08:46 | 0:08:50 | |
Auntie Nelly, came to see her when she was at school, | 0:08:50 | 0:08:55 | |
and told her, | 0:08:55 | 0:08:56 | |
"You're not a McDonald. | 0:08:56 | 0:08:59 | |
"In fact, I'm your sister." | 0:08:59 | 0:09:01 | |
Your mother ran away screaming. | 0:09:01 | 0:09:03 | |
-Screaming? -Yeah, scared of her. | 0:09:03 | 0:09:06 | |
Says, "You're not my sister." | 0:09:06 | 0:09:08 | |
-Yeah, well, it would be frightening, wouldn't it? -It would, yeah. | 0:09:08 | 0:09:10 | |
Do you know, I never met my grandfather, or my grandmother. | 0:09:10 | 0:09:14 | |
Can you tell me anything about who my grandparents were, as people? | 0:09:14 | 0:09:18 | |
This is your grandmother. | 0:09:18 | 0:09:20 | |
Wow, that looks like my mum. | 0:09:23 | 0:09:25 | |
That's my mum, really. | 0:09:25 | 0:09:27 | |
-It is very like your mum, isn't it? -Oh, my God. | 0:09:28 | 0:09:31 | |
Your mother, Auntie Nelly, did she ever tell you stories about her mum? | 0:09:31 | 0:09:35 | |
My mum said that she was a bit of a girl, | 0:09:35 | 0:09:37 | |
-that she liked to go out dancing and things like that. -Ooh! | 0:09:37 | 0:09:40 | |
Yeah. Even though she had all these children, she still liked to go out. | 0:09:40 | 0:09:44 | |
But to be fair, she had seven kids and she was 31, you know, | 0:09:44 | 0:09:47 | |
-she was only young. -She was a baby. | 0:09:47 | 0:09:48 | |
Yeah, so she wanted to still enjoy her life. | 0:09:48 | 0:09:51 | |
This is Auntie Betty and Uncle Davy's wedding. | 0:09:51 | 0:09:54 | |
So, that's Davy and Betty. | 0:09:54 | 0:09:56 | |
-Oh! -And that's your mum and dad. -LULU GASPS | 0:09:56 | 0:09:58 | |
And there's a wee girl called Lulu down there. | 0:10:00 | 0:10:03 | |
-LAUGHTER -Oh, look at the bow! | 0:10:03 | 0:10:05 | |
I had the biggest bow of all the children. | 0:10:05 | 0:10:08 | |
You could fly away on that bow that I have on my hair. | 0:10:08 | 0:10:11 | |
And that's our grandfather. | 0:10:11 | 0:10:14 | |
You are kidding me. | 0:10:14 | 0:10:16 | |
I obviously met him, | 0:10:17 | 0:10:19 | |
but I'm not... | 0:10:19 | 0:10:21 | |
-You don't... -I don't really have a memory of it. | 0:10:21 | 0:10:23 | |
This is another one. | 0:10:23 | 0:10:25 | |
Oh, my goodness. | 0:10:26 | 0:10:27 | |
-Look at those eyes. -I know. -Ooh! | 0:10:28 | 0:10:31 | |
-They're quite piercing. -My daughter says it looks really scary. | 0:10:31 | 0:10:34 | |
He's got a scar from here, see? Which went right up to his ear. | 0:10:34 | 0:10:38 | |
Oh, my goodness! How did that happen? | 0:10:38 | 0:10:41 | |
One story is it just happened as he was coming out of a football match. | 0:10:41 | 0:10:44 | |
One story is it happened in a pub. | 0:10:44 | 0:10:46 | |
It doesn't mean to say that he was a criminal or anything. | 0:10:46 | 0:10:49 | |
In those days, lots of folk had scars, didn't they? | 0:10:49 | 0:10:52 | |
-In Glasgow? -LULU LAUGHS | 0:10:52 | 0:10:53 | |
Do you know where my grandfather worked? | 0:10:53 | 0:10:56 | |
He worked for the Callie, which was a railway. | 0:10:56 | 0:10:58 | |
But not when the children were small. | 0:10:58 | 0:11:01 | |
So, did Auntie Nelly tell you anything about | 0:11:01 | 0:11:04 | |
our grandparents' relationship? | 0:11:04 | 0:11:06 | |
Hugh was very Catholic, his family were very Catholic. | 0:11:06 | 0:11:10 | |
Helen's were very, very Protestant, | 0:11:10 | 0:11:13 | |
-in the Orange Order... -In those days, | 0:11:13 | 0:11:15 | |
for a Catholic and a Protestant to come together was... | 0:11:15 | 0:11:19 | |
-..almost impossible. -Yep. | 0:11:20 | 0:11:22 | |
Both families tried to split them up all the time. | 0:11:22 | 0:11:25 | |
I think they loved each other. | 0:11:25 | 0:11:27 | |
It was like they couldn't live with each other, | 0:11:27 | 0:11:29 | |
but they couldn't live without each other. | 0:11:29 | 0:11:31 | |
They were constantly splitting up and going back together. | 0:11:31 | 0:11:33 | |
-Is that the story? -And just having babies! | 0:11:33 | 0:11:36 | |
What happened after Grandmother Helen died? | 0:11:36 | 0:11:40 | |
What happened to the kids? | 0:11:40 | 0:11:41 | |
-He stayed with his aunt. -What happened to the rest of them? | 0:11:41 | 0:11:44 | |
They were left to bring themselves up. | 0:11:44 | 0:11:46 | |
They brought themselves up, their father, lived with their father... | 0:11:46 | 0:11:49 | |
Yeah, he was only a young man and I think he drank a lot. | 0:11:49 | 0:11:51 | |
He would leave them. So, my mum was in charge and she would delegate, | 0:11:51 | 0:11:56 | |
"You steal the milk, you steal the bread, you steal the roll." | 0:11:56 | 0:11:59 | |
So, they would go out and steal it from people's doorsteps. | 0:11:59 | 0:12:02 | |
Your mum always asked my mum, "Why was I the one that was given away?" | 0:12:02 | 0:12:05 | |
My mum used to say, "You were the lucky one." | 0:12:05 | 0:12:08 | |
-Really? -Yeah. -Is that what Nelly said? | 0:12:08 | 0:12:09 | |
-Yeah. "You were the lucky one," she says. -You got out. -Yeah. | 0:12:09 | 0:12:12 | |
-We had nothing. -You were looked after. | 0:12:12 | 0:12:14 | |
It stayed with her, that she felt she was given away, | 0:12:14 | 0:12:18 | |
-because she wasn't important. -No, no... | 0:12:18 | 0:12:21 | |
But in fact, she was saved, in a way. | 0:12:21 | 0:12:24 | |
Cos it was hard with her father. | 0:12:24 | 0:12:26 | |
Living with her father, you know. | 0:12:26 | 0:12:29 | |
No mother, he wasn't working. | 0:12:29 | 0:12:31 | |
The money wasn't coming in. | 0:12:31 | 0:12:33 | |
So, we were very fortunate. | 0:12:33 | 0:12:36 | |
But your mum never saw that. | 0:12:36 | 0:12:38 | |
It must have been hard for her. | 0:12:38 | 0:12:40 | |
"Why did they choose me out of seven?" | 0:12:40 | 0:12:41 | |
The interesting thing to learn was how the Kennedy-Cairns family, | 0:12:47 | 0:12:52 | |
their opinion is that she was the best off. | 0:12:52 | 0:12:55 | |
Because she went to a normal family and had a roof over her head | 0:12:55 | 0:12:59 | |
and had food. | 0:12:59 | 0:13:00 | |
But because she didn't know, no-one gave her any information, | 0:13:00 | 0:13:03 | |
she felt like she'd been abandoned. | 0:13:03 | 0:13:06 | |
She just didn't know. She was left to her own imagination. | 0:13:06 | 0:13:09 | |
So, now I'm really interested in finding out more about... | 0:13:09 | 0:13:14 | |
my grandfather and my grandmother. | 0:13:14 | 0:13:17 | |
-Hey, Jim. -Hello, Lulu. -How are you doing? | 0:13:23 | 0:13:26 | |
-Delighted to meet you. -And you, too. -THEY LAUGH | 0:13:26 | 0:13:29 | |
To learn more about her grandfather, Hugh Cairns, | 0:13:38 | 0:13:41 | |
Lulu is meeting historian Dr Jim Smith | 0:13:41 | 0:13:43 | |
at the Springburn Railway Depot. | 0:13:43 | 0:13:46 | |
So, Jim, I have found out that my grandfather, Hugh, | 0:13:47 | 0:13:51 | |
actually worked here. | 0:13:51 | 0:13:53 | |
I'm trying to find out more about him. | 0:13:53 | 0:13:56 | |
Can you tell me anything? | 0:13:56 | 0:13:57 | |
Well, we can start with his birth certificate. | 0:13:57 | 0:13:59 | |
Hugh Cairns, born on April 1st. | 0:14:01 | 0:14:05 | |
So, he's born in Glasgow | 0:14:05 | 0:14:06 | |
and then we can pick up his story from the work records from here. | 0:14:06 | 0:14:10 | |
-There. -Hugh Cairns. -He's there. -Mm-hm. | 0:14:10 | 0:14:13 | |
He started working on 13th September... | 0:14:13 | 0:14:17 | |
..1916. | 0:14:19 | 0:14:21 | |
14 years of age, he was working here. | 0:14:21 | 0:14:23 | |
-The school leaving age was 14. -Aw, he was a baby! | 0:14:23 | 0:14:27 | |
And that's the rate per day? | 0:14:27 | 0:14:30 | |
-Yeah. -What was that? | 0:14:30 | 0:14:32 | |
-Old money. -Four shillings and eightpence a day, he got paid. | 0:14:32 | 0:14:37 | |
He was a foundry labourer, it says, but I don't know what that means. | 0:14:37 | 0:14:41 | |
It's hard physical labour. | 0:14:41 | 0:14:43 | |
He's a young Irish Catholic lad, | 0:14:43 | 0:14:46 | |
and most Irish Catholic men worked as unskilled labourers. | 0:14:46 | 0:14:52 | |
For Hugh to start his working life... | 0:14:52 | 0:14:54 | |
..and continue his working life | 0:14:55 | 0:14:57 | |
as an unskilled labourer would be very much the norm. | 0:14:57 | 0:15:00 | |
Between 1830 and 1914, over 300,000 Irish migrants came to Scotland. | 0:15:02 | 0:15:08 | |
And Glasgow, with its flourishing industries, saw the biggest influx. | 0:15:08 | 0:15:13 | |
The new arrivals were predominantly Catholic | 0:15:15 | 0:15:17 | |
and faced routine discrimination, | 0:15:17 | 0:15:20 | |
with better paid, more highly-skilled jobs | 0:15:20 | 0:15:23 | |
generally reserved for the city's Protestant majority. | 0:15:23 | 0:15:26 | |
The date of leaving service was 4th July, 1917. | 0:15:28 | 0:15:33 | |
Cause of leaving the service was - leaving his job, right? - | 0:15:33 | 0:15:37 | |
was bad... | 0:15:37 | 0:15:39 | |
timekeeping. | 0:15:39 | 0:15:41 | |
Seems kind of sad. | 0:15:41 | 0:15:43 | |
Didn't even last a year. | 0:15:43 | 0:15:45 | |
And it's 1916, 1917. | 0:15:45 | 0:15:47 | |
It's the middle of the First World War. | 0:15:47 | 0:15:49 | |
Hugh started work during the war years, | 0:15:50 | 0:15:53 | |
a boom time for Glasgow's heavy industries. | 0:15:53 | 0:15:55 | |
Hundreds of thousands were employed in shipbuilding, armaments, | 0:15:56 | 0:16:00 | |
and on the railways, | 0:16:00 | 0:16:02 | |
which provided vital transport for troops and materials. | 0:16:02 | 0:16:05 | |
They need every hand they can get. | 0:16:07 | 0:16:08 | |
It's full employment. | 0:16:08 | 0:16:10 | |
You'd have to have a good reason to be unemployed. | 0:16:10 | 0:16:12 | |
Which doesn't give me much hope for my grandfather. | 0:16:12 | 0:16:16 | |
Well, don't give up hope yet... | 0:16:16 | 0:16:17 | |
-LULU LAUGHS -..because, erm, he comes back. | 0:16:17 | 0:16:20 | |
They bring him back? They have him back? | 0:16:20 | 0:16:22 | |
-Mm. -Fitting shop labourer. | 0:16:22 | 0:16:24 | |
-Yep. -Was that a move up? | 0:16:24 | 0:16:26 | |
-Possibly a move down. -Oh, I can see he got less money. | 0:16:26 | 0:16:29 | |
-He was getting less money, yeah. -Three and eightpence. | 0:16:29 | 0:16:32 | |
Well, better than nothing. | 0:16:32 | 0:16:34 | |
-Mm. -Um, 19th February. | 0:16:34 | 0:16:37 | |
-Mm-hm. -1918. | 0:16:37 | 0:16:39 | |
He's been sacked. | 0:16:39 | 0:16:40 | |
Cause of leaving the service, | 0:16:40 | 0:16:42 | |
inattention to his work. | 0:16:42 | 0:16:44 | |
-And it goes on. -He's not hired back? | 0:16:44 | 0:16:47 | |
-Mm-hm. -He's back on 9th December, 1918. | 0:16:47 | 0:16:51 | |
And... | 0:16:51 | 0:16:53 | |
Oh, my goodness. | 0:16:53 | 0:16:54 | |
I can't even say it. | 0:16:56 | 0:16:58 | |
He loses his job again. | 0:16:58 | 0:16:59 | |
-Mm-hm. -So, he's been in and out and in and out. | 0:16:59 | 0:17:02 | |
Why didn't his father say, "Get out of bed, come on," | 0:17:02 | 0:17:05 | |
and drag him by the scruff of the neck and take him in? | 0:17:05 | 0:17:08 | |
-Does it get any better? -Well, well, stick with it, stick with it, | 0:17:08 | 0:17:12 | |
-you know, it's, er... -OK, OK. I'm hopeful. | 0:17:12 | 0:17:16 | |
He's back on 28th... | 0:17:16 | 0:17:20 | |
June, in 1920. | 0:17:20 | 0:17:22 | |
Oh! Things are getting better, he's getting five shillings. | 0:17:22 | 0:17:26 | |
-So, it's gone from three and eight to five shillings. -Mm-hm. | 0:17:26 | 0:17:29 | |
Oh, and then he leaves again on 11th August, 1922, | 0:17:29 | 0:17:34 | |
-of his own accord. -Yep. | 0:17:34 | 0:17:36 | |
I just don't understand, why would he leave? | 0:17:36 | 0:17:40 | |
Well, this might answer that. | 0:17:41 | 0:17:43 | |
"This is to certify... | 0:17:43 | 0:17:45 | |
"..that Hugh Cairns has proved himself to be a good workman | 0:17:47 | 0:17:51 | |
"and is a good timekeeper"! | 0:17:51 | 0:17:53 | |
They lied! | 0:17:53 | 0:17:55 | |
But how nice of them! | 0:17:55 | 0:17:57 | |
"This certificate is granted on the understanding | 0:17:57 | 0:18:00 | |
"that Cairns is going... | 0:18:00 | 0:18:01 | |
"..abroad." | 0:18:03 | 0:18:05 | |
My mind, of course, is racing. | 0:18:05 | 0:18:07 | |
How old was he there? | 0:18:07 | 0:18:09 | |
He's still only 20. | 0:18:09 | 0:18:10 | |
He's 20, he's going abroad, has he met my grandmother? | 0:18:10 | 0:18:15 | |
I'll bet he has. | 0:18:15 | 0:18:17 | |
How would I find out where he went abroad? | 0:18:17 | 0:18:20 | |
Well, the documents to look for are ships' lists, | 0:18:20 | 0:18:23 | |
and they will give a list of all passengers. | 0:18:23 | 0:18:26 | |
Let's do it. | 0:18:26 | 0:18:28 | |
OK, so, now I'm going to try and find Hugh on these passenger lists. | 0:18:40 | 0:18:44 | |
Hugh... | 0:18:46 | 0:18:47 | |
Cairns. | 0:18:47 | 0:18:49 | |
Birth year, 1902. | 0:18:49 | 0:18:53 | |
Arrival, 1922. | 0:18:53 | 0:18:56 | |
OK, now, search. | 0:18:57 | 0:18:59 | |
See what comes up. | 0:19:02 | 0:19:03 | |
There he is. | 0:19:03 | 0:19:05 | |
LULU GASPS | 0:19:05 | 0:19:06 | |
Wow. | 0:19:07 | 0:19:09 | |
He went to Boston. | 0:19:10 | 0:19:12 | |
He departed from Liverpool | 0:19:12 | 0:19:14 | |
and arrived in Boston on 24th August. | 0:19:14 | 0:19:19 | |
So, now I have the form, the immigration and travel form. | 0:19:19 | 0:19:23 | |
They ask whether he intends to go home after having a short | 0:19:24 | 0:19:28 | |
sort of working sabbatical in America. | 0:19:28 | 0:19:32 | |
He says no, he's not intending to go home. | 0:19:32 | 0:19:34 | |
And then, is he going to stay in America? | 0:19:34 | 0:19:37 | |
And he says - "Always". | 0:19:37 | 0:19:39 | |
Maybe that's what he intended, but it didn't work out for him. | 0:19:40 | 0:19:44 | |
It says here, "Suggested Records". Let's see now. | 0:19:44 | 0:19:47 | |
Oh, my God, this is in German! | 0:19:48 | 0:19:50 | |
Port of departure, Hamburg. | 0:19:50 | 0:19:53 | |
Destination, Grimsby. | 0:19:55 | 0:19:57 | |
So, OK, | 0:19:57 | 0:19:58 | |
he leaves for America in August and he's back in the UK by November. | 0:19:58 | 0:20:03 | |
But what happened to Boston? | 0:20:04 | 0:20:06 | |
Maybe my cousin Eleanor would know. | 0:20:07 | 0:20:09 | |
Eleanor, it's Lu. | 0:20:11 | 0:20:13 | |
-ON PHONE: -Hi, hello, how are you? | 0:20:13 | 0:20:15 | |
I'm good. | 0:20:15 | 0:20:16 | |
I actually found the documents that told me that our grandfather... | 0:20:16 | 0:20:19 | |
..travelled by ship | 0:20:21 | 0:20:23 | |
to Boston, Massachusetts. | 0:20:23 | 0:20:25 | |
But he was back in the UK within three months. | 0:20:25 | 0:20:31 | |
Yeah, the family had clubbed together | 0:20:31 | 0:20:33 | |
and sent him to America to get him away from our grandmother. | 0:20:33 | 0:20:37 | |
They were going out together and, obviously, as you know, | 0:20:37 | 0:20:39 | |
the family disapproved. | 0:20:39 | 0:20:41 | |
And, erm, so they clubbed together, sent him to America | 0:20:41 | 0:20:45 | |
and hoped that he wouldn't come back, | 0:20:45 | 0:20:47 | |
but he missed her so much | 0:20:47 | 0:20:49 | |
that he got a job on a German tanker and worked | 0:20:49 | 0:20:54 | |
his way back to Hamburg - | 0:20:54 | 0:20:56 | |
and from Hamburg, he made his way back to Glasgow | 0:20:56 | 0:20:58 | |
to see her again. | 0:20:58 | 0:21:00 | |
-And then they got back together. -Quite clearly... | 0:21:00 | 0:21:02 | |
..the parents did not want this to happen, at all. | 0:21:04 | 0:21:08 | |
-Absolutely not. -ELEANOR LAUGHS | 0:21:08 | 0:21:10 | |
Well, thank you, sweetheart, for clearing that up. Um... | 0:21:10 | 0:21:14 | |
-So, I'll speak to you soon, yes? -Yes. Lovely. | 0:21:14 | 0:21:16 | |
Lulu now knows that her grandparents' enforced separation | 0:21:20 | 0:21:23 | |
didn't last long. | 0:21:23 | 0:21:25 | |
Hugh and Helen were reunited by the end of 1922. | 0:21:25 | 0:21:28 | |
To find out what happened to the couple next, | 0:21:32 | 0:21:35 | |
she's meeting historian Dr Bill Knox at the Glasgow Green Winter Gardens. | 0:21:35 | 0:21:40 | |
Hey, Bill. | 0:21:41 | 0:21:42 | |
Let me give you this document. | 0:21:47 | 0:21:48 | |
-Now, this is a birth certificate. -Glasses again. -We can give you this. | 0:21:50 | 0:21:53 | |
Oh, that's great. | 0:21:53 | 0:21:54 | |
Colin... | 0:21:56 | 0:21:58 | |
McGill Cairns. | 0:21:58 | 0:22:00 | |
His parents are Hugh Cairns and Helen Darling Kennedy. | 0:22:00 | 0:22:07 | |
They had a baby. Oh, of course, he was the eldest. | 0:22:07 | 0:22:10 | |
He was born in 1923, in October. | 0:22:10 | 0:22:12 | |
Hey, they're not married. | 0:22:14 | 0:22:16 | |
No. | 0:22:16 | 0:22:18 | |
So the child is illegitimate. | 0:22:18 | 0:22:20 | |
Oh! | 0:22:20 | 0:22:22 | |
Shame and horror. | 0:22:22 | 0:22:23 | |
I'm laughing, because of course, | 0:22:25 | 0:22:26 | |
then, it would've been shameful. | 0:22:26 | 0:22:28 | |
The church sees it as a badge of shame, | 0:22:28 | 0:22:31 | |
society sees it as a badge of shame, | 0:22:31 | 0:22:33 | |
but what makes it worse in this case | 0:22:33 | 0:22:35 | |
is it's across a religious divide. | 0:22:35 | 0:22:38 | |
So... | 0:22:38 | 0:22:39 | |
Helen Kennedy | 0:22:39 | 0:22:42 | |
is living at 58 Norman Street. | 0:22:42 | 0:22:45 | |
He's living at 259 Castle Street. | 0:22:45 | 0:22:47 | |
They're both in Glasgow, but they're not living together. | 0:22:47 | 0:22:50 | |
Yeah, the addresses tell us something about | 0:22:50 | 0:22:52 | |
the religious composition of the different areas of Glasgow. | 0:22:52 | 0:22:56 | |
Here, Norman Street. | 0:22:56 | 0:22:58 | |
That's in Bridgeton, that's where she lived. | 0:22:58 | 0:23:00 | |
Now, Hugh lives in Castle Street, | 0:23:00 | 0:23:03 | |
which is in a different district of Glasgow, it's in Townhead area, | 0:23:03 | 0:23:07 | |
so we have to go Castle Street. | 0:23:07 | 0:23:10 | |
-So... -So, they're miles apart. | 0:23:11 | 0:23:13 | |
What were those two different areas like? | 0:23:13 | 0:23:16 | |
Well, the one word you could use to sum them up are "miserable". | 0:23:16 | 0:23:21 | |
Appalling levels of overcrowding, squalor... | 0:23:22 | 0:23:25 | |
you've got to remember that two thirds of families in Glasgow | 0:23:25 | 0:23:28 | |
lived in one or two rooms. | 0:23:28 | 0:23:30 | |
There was also a religious aspect. | 0:23:30 | 0:23:33 | |
There's no ghettoisation, | 0:23:33 | 0:23:35 | |
but you had areas which had high concentrations of one faith | 0:23:35 | 0:23:39 | |
or the other faith. | 0:23:39 | 0:23:41 | |
Bridgeton, for instance, was more associated with Protestants, | 0:23:41 | 0:23:44 | |
the Orange Order and so on, | 0:23:44 | 0:23:46 | |
whereas Townhead was more associated with Catholics. | 0:23:46 | 0:23:50 | |
After the first child, the illegitimate child, | 0:23:50 | 0:23:52 | |
and living in different places, what happened then? | 0:23:52 | 0:23:55 | |
-Well, let me show you this. -What is this? | 0:23:55 | 0:23:58 | |
This is another birth certificate. | 0:23:58 | 0:23:59 | |
So, this child was born 31st January, 1925. | 0:23:59 | 0:24:05 | |
-Yeah. -They're not splitting up, are they? | 0:24:05 | 0:24:07 | |
Let's face it. Hugh Cairns, father. | 0:24:07 | 0:24:09 | |
Oh, he's still at Castle Street. | 0:24:10 | 0:24:12 | |
They haven't moved in together. | 0:24:12 | 0:24:14 | |
-No. -Two kids out of wedlock. | 0:24:14 | 0:24:17 | |
Yeah. | 0:24:17 | 0:24:18 | |
What a mess. | 0:24:20 | 0:24:22 | |
It's very interesting, if you look at the birth certificate, | 0:24:22 | 0:24:25 | |
because it's a mother's responsibility, | 0:24:25 | 0:24:27 | |
not being married, to register the birth. | 0:24:27 | 0:24:31 | |
And the father's name only goes on the birth certificate | 0:24:31 | 0:24:35 | |
if he accompanies her to the registrar's office. | 0:24:35 | 0:24:38 | |
-Now, Hugh has done this... -He's committed, then. | 0:24:40 | 0:24:42 | |
-..which is a commitment. -He is totally committed. -Yeah. | 0:24:42 | 0:24:45 | |
So I imagine, and it is conjecture, | 0:24:45 | 0:24:48 | |
that the families absolutely refused to allow them to get married, | 0:24:48 | 0:24:53 | |
but they couldn't keep them apart. | 0:24:53 | 0:24:55 | |
And I can see there's another piece of paper, | 0:24:55 | 0:24:57 | |
so I know you've got something else to tell me. | 0:24:57 | 0:24:58 | |
I'm almost afraid. | 0:24:58 | 0:25:00 | |
Well, it's not the end of the story. Have a look at that. | 0:25:00 | 0:25:02 | |
Oh, I'm so relieved. | 0:25:05 | 0:25:06 | |
They got married on 21st February, 1925. | 0:25:06 | 0:25:11 | |
By getting married, | 0:25:11 | 0:25:12 | |
-that legitimises the children. -The children. | 0:25:12 | 0:25:15 | |
But it's not any old kind of marriage. | 0:25:15 | 0:25:18 | |
Over here it says something on the top line, | 0:25:18 | 0:25:21 | |
something about a regular marriage, | 0:25:21 | 0:25:23 | |
and then there's another line underneath. It says... | 0:25:23 | 0:25:27 | |
"An irregular marriage." | 0:25:27 | 0:25:29 | |
Well, a regular marriage | 0:25:29 | 0:25:31 | |
involves the presence of a member of the clergy. | 0:25:31 | 0:25:34 | |
Irregular marriage is what leads to what we call civil marriage today. | 0:25:34 | 0:25:38 | |
It's simply a question of you saying, "I do," I say, "I do," | 0:25:38 | 0:25:43 | |
we go with two witnesses | 0:25:43 | 0:25:45 | |
along to a sheriff or a magistrate and you're married. | 0:25:45 | 0:25:50 | |
Why do you think they had this irregular marriage? | 0:25:50 | 0:25:53 | |
They had no option, really. | 0:25:53 | 0:25:55 | |
One's a Protestant, one's a Catholic. | 0:25:55 | 0:25:57 | |
The Catholic Church frowned on marriage with a non-Catholic. | 0:25:57 | 0:26:01 | |
So it is kind of love... | 0:26:01 | 0:26:04 | |
..across a significant divide. | 0:26:05 | 0:26:07 | |
Yes, it's the Glasgow equivalent of Romeo and Juliet. | 0:26:07 | 0:26:10 | |
Because you have anecdotal evidence of women, | 0:26:10 | 0:26:14 | |
-or young men, being cut off by their families. -Cut off. | 0:26:14 | 0:26:17 | |
Because they moved across this divide. | 0:26:17 | 0:26:20 | |
It says something about this relationship | 0:26:20 | 0:26:22 | |
that you would risk all that. | 0:26:22 | 0:26:24 | |
So love, in many ways, was blind to faith. | 0:26:24 | 0:26:27 | |
It's clear there was a very passionate relationship. | 0:26:31 | 0:26:35 | |
But I have to say, it doesn't look | 0:26:35 | 0:26:38 | |
like their future is bright and rosy. | 0:26:38 | 0:26:41 | |
Lulu has discovered that her grandparents, | 0:26:45 | 0:26:47 | |
Hugh and Helen, married in 1925. | 0:26:47 | 0:26:50 | |
By which time they already had two sons. | 0:26:50 | 0:26:53 | |
Their daughter Nelly was born in 1926, | 0:26:55 | 0:26:57 | |
and another daughter, Elizabeth, | 0:26:57 | 0:26:59 | |
Lulu's mother, followed in September 1927. | 0:26:59 | 0:27:03 | |
Elizabeth was given up to another family not long after her birth, | 0:27:04 | 0:27:08 | |
but Lulu has no idea why. | 0:27:08 | 0:27:10 | |
She's come to Glasgow's Mitchell Library | 0:27:13 | 0:27:15 | |
to look for any records | 0:27:15 | 0:27:16 | |
of her mother's case in the city archives. | 0:27:16 | 0:27:19 | |
Hello, Lulu. Pleased to meet you. | 0:27:20 | 0:27:22 | |
-Good to meet you, too. -Yep, come away. | 0:27:22 | 0:27:24 | |
Adoption expert Professor Kenneth Norrie is helping with her search. | 0:27:24 | 0:27:28 | |
So, Kenneth, | 0:27:29 | 0:27:30 | |
I know my mother didn't stay with her birth parents for long. | 0:27:30 | 0:27:34 | |
I would like to know what happened. | 0:27:34 | 0:27:37 | |
This book is a book of the record of children who are subject | 0:27:37 | 0:27:43 | |
to local authority visitation, monitoring. | 0:27:43 | 0:27:48 | |
-Mm-hm. -And this occurs when a child isn't living with their normal, | 0:27:48 | 0:27:53 | |
natural birth families. | 0:27:53 | 0:27:55 | |
So, if we open it at C, | 0:27:55 | 0:27:58 | |
we'll find a reference to your mother. | 0:27:58 | 0:28:01 | |
There she is. Elizabeth. | 0:28:01 | 0:28:02 | |
Birth date, 25th September '27, | 0:28:02 | 0:28:05 | |
and there's her father's name, Hugh. | 0:28:05 | 0:28:08 | |
Yeah. So this is different from taking a child into care. | 0:28:08 | 0:28:12 | |
This is not the public authorities removing a child. | 0:28:12 | 0:28:17 | |
The records revealed that Lulu's mother's parents | 0:28:18 | 0:28:21 | |
gave her up to a foster family of their own accord. | 0:28:21 | 0:28:24 | |
In cases of private fostering, | 0:28:27 | 0:28:29 | |
the birth parents of a child paid for his or her care. | 0:28:29 | 0:28:32 | |
And to ensure that children were properly looked after, | 0:28:34 | 0:28:37 | |
foster families were visited regularly | 0:28:37 | 0:28:39 | |
by local authority inspectors. | 0:28:39 | 0:28:41 | |
The next document is this one. | 0:28:43 | 0:28:46 | |
It says here, "Widow Jane McCoid..." | 0:28:47 | 0:28:51 | |
-Yes. -"..have adopted child Elizabeth." | 0:28:51 | 0:28:55 | |
What happened? | 0:28:55 | 0:28:56 | |
Because the woman who took my mother had a husband. | 0:28:56 | 0:29:00 | |
Yeah. Your mother was with this family only for one month. | 0:29:00 | 0:29:04 | |
-No. -For a very, very short period of time. | 0:29:04 | 0:29:07 | |
-Right. The actual heading is... -Hm. | 0:29:07 | 0:29:10 | |
..beautiful wording. | 0:29:12 | 0:29:14 | |
"How disposed of"... | 0:29:14 | 0:29:16 | |
..which pains me, I have to say. | 0:29:17 | 0:29:19 | |
Um... | 0:29:19 | 0:29:20 | |
She was disposed of... | 0:29:20 | 0:29:23 | |
..on 21st | 0:29:24 | 0:29:26 | |
of the third, | 0:29:26 | 0:29:29 | |
1928. | 0:29:29 | 0:29:31 | |
-She's about five or six months old. -Yeah. | 0:29:32 | 0:29:35 | |
-Yeah. -Yeah. | 0:29:35 | 0:29:37 | |
"Father of the child is Hugh Cairns, presently... | 0:29:37 | 0:29:42 | |
"..in prison for one month." | 0:29:43 | 0:29:46 | |
Prison. | 0:29:47 | 0:29:48 | |
Oh, my God. | 0:29:51 | 0:29:53 | |
You didn't know that your grandfather had been in prison? | 0:29:53 | 0:29:57 | |
No. Goodness knows what he got up to. | 0:29:57 | 0:30:00 | |
The father is suddenly out of the picture. | 0:30:00 | 0:30:05 | |
Your grandmother isn't mentioned in these records at all. | 0:30:05 | 0:30:08 | |
That's strange in itself. | 0:30:08 | 0:30:10 | |
That is strange in itself. | 0:30:10 | 0:30:11 | |
But it possibly explains why your mother had to be given over | 0:30:11 | 0:30:16 | |
to another family. If you notice, right at the end... | 0:30:16 | 0:30:20 | |
"No money," does that say? | 0:30:20 | 0:30:22 | |
-Yeah. -No money. | 0:30:22 | 0:30:24 | |
No money. I think what has happened here | 0:30:24 | 0:30:27 | |
is that the arrangement has been that this widow is to be paid, | 0:30:27 | 0:30:32 | |
but, in fact, she never receives anything. | 0:30:32 | 0:30:35 | |
So does she give the child back? | 0:30:35 | 0:30:37 | |
Yeah. | 0:30:37 | 0:30:38 | |
I have to say, I'm feeling very angry with my grandparents. | 0:30:38 | 0:30:43 | |
Willy-nilly having babies all over the place. | 0:30:43 | 0:30:46 | |
Well, after this month in the first placement, | 0:30:46 | 0:30:50 | |
your mother then is put to a second family. | 0:30:50 | 0:30:53 | |
-The McDonalds. -The McDonalds. -Right. | 0:30:53 | 0:30:55 | |
What this is | 0:30:55 | 0:30:57 | |
is the records of the official visitations. | 0:30:57 | 0:31:00 | |
"William McDonald, | 0:31:00 | 0:31:03 | |
"Helen Reid, | 0:31:03 | 0:31:04 | |
"date when child received was 14th of the 5th, '28." | 0:31:04 | 0:31:10 | |
So, not long afterwards. | 0:31:10 | 0:31:11 | |
No, it's about a month after she leaves her original placement. | 0:31:11 | 0:31:17 | |
"Terms agreed upon, eight shillings." | 0:31:17 | 0:31:19 | |
Eight shillings for what? | 0:31:19 | 0:31:21 | |
-For how long? -That's probably eight shillings a month. | 0:31:21 | 0:31:24 | |
It is about a weekly salary of a domestic servant at the time. | 0:31:24 | 0:31:28 | |
And you'll see the official visitor visited your mother | 0:31:28 | 0:31:32 | |
three or four times a year. | 0:31:32 | 0:31:34 | |
And it starts here. | 0:31:34 | 0:31:36 | |
"May 28th, 1928, child making excellent progress, | 0:31:36 | 0:31:43 | |
"well cared for. | 0:31:43 | 0:31:46 | |
"Father is supposed to be in prison, | 0:31:46 | 0:31:50 | |
"mother has disappeared." | 0:31:50 | 0:31:54 | |
-Yeah. -Her mother's disappeared. | 0:31:55 | 0:31:57 | |
-Yeah. -Oh, my God. | 0:31:57 | 0:31:59 | |
Do you think her mother had a breakdown? | 0:31:59 | 0:32:02 | |
It's very, very difficult to know. | 0:32:02 | 0:32:04 | |
Then it goes on. | 0:32:04 | 0:32:06 | |
"27th September..." Also in 1928. | 0:32:06 | 0:32:10 | |
"Wrote the father re non-payment to guardian." | 0:32:10 | 0:32:13 | |
So immediately we're into a problem. | 0:32:13 | 0:32:16 | |
There's been no contact with the natural parents of the child | 0:32:16 | 0:32:21 | |
and no money has been forthcoming. | 0:32:21 | 0:32:23 | |
It's quite clear that... | 0:32:23 | 0:32:25 | |
..my mother's parents had, what she always felt, abandoned her. | 0:32:27 | 0:32:32 | |
Then, "1930, April 4th, | 0:32:32 | 0:32:35 | |
"child well cared for and making excellent progress. | 0:32:35 | 0:32:39 | |
"Child not to be given to parents | 0:32:39 | 0:32:45 | |
"until full payment is made | 0:32:45 | 0:32:47 | |
"and if they satisfy us that child will actually be cared for." | 0:32:47 | 0:32:53 | |
The poor law authorities | 0:32:53 | 0:32:54 | |
-are beginning to exercise some muscle here. -Yes. | 0:32:54 | 0:32:57 | |
They're beginning to realise | 0:32:57 | 0:32:59 | |
-this child is so much better... -With the McDonalds... | 0:32:59 | 0:33:01 | |
..with the McDonalds than with her own family. | 0:33:01 | 0:33:03 | |
..than with her own family. | 0:33:03 | 0:33:05 | |
So if her own family come along and try to take her back, | 0:33:05 | 0:33:07 | |
as they would normally be entitled to... | 0:33:07 | 0:33:09 | |
They'd have to show how responsible they're going to be by paying. | 0:33:09 | 0:33:12 | |
By paying up what they owe. | 0:33:12 | 0:33:14 | |
And also, as it says, | 0:33:14 | 0:33:15 | |
showing that this child is going to be well looked after. | 0:33:15 | 0:33:18 | |
How would they do that? | 0:33:18 | 0:33:20 | |
After that, I don't know how you could do that. | 0:33:20 | 0:33:23 | |
"November 15th, 1932. | 0:33:23 | 0:33:25 | |
"Child went to school yesterday for the first time and is very..." | 0:33:25 | 0:33:33 | |
-"Pleased." -"..pleased with herself." | 0:33:35 | 0:33:37 | |
It's a very humanising thing to put in a formal document. | 0:33:48 | 0:33:53 | |
Yes. Very pleased with herself. | 0:33:53 | 0:33:56 | |
I'm crying and I'm laughing at the same time. | 0:33:56 | 0:33:59 | |
I can just see her. | 0:33:59 | 0:34:00 | |
It really gives a flavour of her personality, | 0:34:02 | 0:34:05 | |
even at the age of five. | 0:34:05 | 0:34:07 | |
Yeah, yeah. And she had that. | 0:34:07 | 0:34:08 | |
She was well loved, I suppose. | 0:34:08 | 0:34:12 | |
Cared for and felt secure. | 0:34:16 | 0:34:18 | |
Yeah. | 0:34:18 | 0:34:19 | |
I mean, to honour the McDonald family, | 0:34:19 | 0:34:23 | |
how unbelievable they were. | 0:34:23 | 0:34:26 | |
They are absolutely the kindest, most loving, wonderful people. | 0:34:26 | 0:34:32 | |
That's certainly the feeling that | 0:34:32 | 0:34:34 | |
-comes out of that single sentence, isn't it? -Yeah. | 0:34:34 | 0:34:37 | |
This is in April, 1935. | 0:34:37 | 0:34:40 | |
"Guardian informed that child's mother is dead." | 0:34:40 | 0:34:46 | |
And she's seven. | 0:34:48 | 0:34:49 | |
The guardians learned that the child's mother had died | 0:34:49 | 0:34:53 | |
and they have now informed the child protection visitor. | 0:34:53 | 0:34:57 | |
I think they've not told the child. | 0:34:57 | 0:35:00 | |
-Cos the child doesn't know that the child isn't theirs. -Mm-hm. | 0:35:00 | 0:35:04 | |
We have the final record in September, 1936. | 0:35:04 | 0:35:09 | |
"September 25th, child now nine years." | 0:35:09 | 0:35:14 | |
Well, why have they put that in? | 0:35:14 | 0:35:15 | |
This is her ninth birthday | 0:35:15 | 0:35:17 | |
and that is the very final record that we have. | 0:35:17 | 0:35:21 | |
As soon as she is nine, | 0:35:21 | 0:35:22 | |
the official visiting comes to an end and there's no more. | 0:35:22 | 0:35:26 | |
Is she officially adopted? | 0:35:28 | 0:35:29 | |
-No. -Unofficially adopted? | 0:35:29 | 0:35:31 | |
No. | 0:35:31 | 0:35:32 | |
We've watched her grow up during that period and the state can | 0:35:32 | 0:35:36 | |
effectively step back at that stage. | 0:35:36 | 0:35:38 | |
Some children, as soon as the official eye is removed, | 0:35:38 | 0:35:44 | |
some children will be | 0:35:44 | 0:35:45 | |
in a vulnerable, difficult, dangerous position. | 0:35:45 | 0:35:49 | |
That seems not to have been the case for your mother. | 0:35:49 | 0:35:52 | |
Which, in a lot of respects, | 0:35:52 | 0:35:53 | |
your mother has been a very, very fortunate child. | 0:35:53 | 0:35:57 | |
Yes. Yes, and that's what my Uncle James said. | 0:35:57 | 0:36:00 | |
She was lucky. | 0:36:00 | 0:36:02 | |
I mean, it's so confusing, the whole thing. | 0:36:02 | 0:36:05 | |
Her mother disappeared, her father was in jail. | 0:36:05 | 0:36:08 | |
What was going on? | 0:36:08 | 0:36:09 | |
Yeah. This was a family in crisis. | 0:36:09 | 0:36:12 | |
It might be revealing now | 0:36:12 | 0:36:14 | |
for you to look at your grandfather's situation. | 0:36:14 | 0:36:17 | |
-Yes. -Particularly his prison records. | 0:36:17 | 0:36:19 | |
That might give you a slightly better picture of actually what... | 0:36:19 | 0:36:24 | |
the pressures that he was facing in that particular time. | 0:36:24 | 0:36:27 | |
Yeah. | 0:36:27 | 0:36:28 | |
I feel emotionally drained. | 0:36:35 | 0:36:39 | |
You know, | 0:36:39 | 0:36:41 | |
thinking about my mum as a little baby, a little person. | 0:36:41 | 0:36:44 | |
I have ambiguous feelings about my grandparents right now. | 0:36:44 | 0:36:49 | |
Yesterday, I felt better towards them. | 0:36:49 | 0:36:52 | |
I'm trying not to be too harsh about what they did to my mother. | 0:36:52 | 0:36:57 | |
Why was my grandfather in jail? | 0:36:58 | 0:37:00 | |
There's more to know about. Because, you know, | 0:37:02 | 0:37:04 | |
my emotional reaction makes me want to blame, you know. | 0:37:04 | 0:37:10 | |
And, yet, I wasn't there. | 0:37:10 | 0:37:12 | |
I wasn't in his shoes. | 0:37:12 | 0:37:14 | |
I mean, it must have been really tough. | 0:37:14 | 0:37:16 | |
To find out why her grandfather was in prison, | 0:37:23 | 0:37:26 | |
Lulu is meeting historian Dr Andrew Davies | 0:37:26 | 0:37:29 | |
at the old Glasgow Central Police Station. | 0:37:29 | 0:37:32 | |
-Andrew. -Hello, nice to meet you. -You, too. | 0:37:33 | 0:37:37 | |
Andrew, my grandfather was in jail in 1928. | 0:37:39 | 0:37:44 | |
But I don't know why he was in jail. | 0:37:44 | 0:37:46 | |
I've actually found a record here | 0:37:46 | 0:37:49 | |
which shows, in fact, he was in jail quite a bit earlier than that. | 0:37:49 | 0:37:53 | |
He was? | 0:37:53 | 0:37:54 | |
We found him here in the admissions register for Duke Street Prison. | 0:37:54 | 0:37:59 | |
This is in 1918. | 0:37:59 | 0:38:01 | |
He was born in 1902. | 0:38:01 | 0:38:03 | |
So he was...he was in jail when he was 16 years old? | 0:38:03 | 0:38:08 | |
-That's right. -Oh, my God, I had a criminal of a grandfather. | 0:38:08 | 0:38:12 | |
What did he do? | 0:38:12 | 0:38:13 | |
It says assault and robbery from a safe. | 0:38:13 | 0:38:16 | |
Does that say £100? | 0:38:16 | 0:38:18 | |
It does. | 0:38:18 | 0:38:20 | |
-Blooming thief. -In today's money, | 0:38:23 | 0:38:26 | |
that would be something between £4,000 and £5,000. | 0:38:26 | 0:38:29 | |
So that's quite a hefty sum. | 0:38:29 | 0:38:31 | |
That's shocking. I think he was a bad boy, my grandfather. | 0:38:31 | 0:38:35 | |
I've got another record from a few years later. | 0:38:35 | 0:38:39 | |
This is a register for Barlinnie, the next document. | 0:38:39 | 0:38:42 | |
Oh, God, that's a really serious prison. | 0:38:42 | 0:38:45 | |
Where all the bad 'uns go. | 0:38:45 | 0:38:47 | |
"1924, April 1st." April Fools' Day. | 0:38:47 | 0:38:51 | |
"Breach of the peace." | 0:38:51 | 0:38:52 | |
Breach of the peace, so he was in a fight. | 0:38:52 | 0:38:54 | |
He's been fined 21 shillings with the option, | 0:38:54 | 0:38:57 | |
if he is unable to pay the fine... | 0:38:57 | 0:38:59 | |
-Of... -Ten days. | 0:38:59 | 0:39:01 | |
-Ten days in... -In the jail. | 0:39:01 | 0:39:04 | |
Got the date of his release there. | 0:39:04 | 0:39:07 | |
April 3rd. So somebody had to come and pay 21 shillings. | 0:39:07 | 0:39:12 | |
Oh, his parents must be so upset. | 0:39:12 | 0:39:14 | |
-And his wife. -Very much so. | 0:39:14 | 0:39:16 | |
This is a lot of money. | 0:39:16 | 0:39:17 | |
-Are there more? -I'm afraid there are a few more of these to come. | 0:39:17 | 0:39:21 | |
Oh. | 0:39:21 | 0:39:22 | |
OK. So he's back in again. | 0:39:22 | 0:39:26 | |
1924. May 28th. | 0:39:26 | 0:39:32 | |
And he's in again... | 0:39:32 | 0:39:34 | |
Breach of the peace. | 0:39:34 | 0:39:36 | |
So he's always getting into a fight. | 0:39:36 | 0:39:38 | |
The last time he was in jail was April | 0:39:38 | 0:39:41 | |
and then this is May and he's back in again. | 0:39:41 | 0:39:43 | |
It seems like there's a pattern. | 0:39:43 | 0:39:44 | |
It's really noticeable, isn't it? | 0:39:44 | 0:39:47 | |
He's barely been out and he's back in the jail. | 0:39:47 | 0:39:50 | |
I suspect as well, by this time, Hugh's known to the police. | 0:39:50 | 0:39:53 | |
That's what I was thinking. "Get 'im." | 0:39:53 | 0:39:55 | |
-Yeah. -"He's a troublemaker." | 0:39:55 | 0:39:57 | |
I think he's probably by now a bit of a marked man. | 0:39:57 | 0:40:00 | |
Is this 42 shillings? | 0:40:00 | 0:40:02 | |
-It is. -Price has gone up. | 0:40:02 | 0:40:04 | |
They're fed up with him. | 0:40:04 | 0:40:06 | |
They're just charging him more to let him out. | 0:40:06 | 0:40:08 | |
They've really scaled up the penalty, so in fact | 0:40:08 | 0:40:11 | |
-they've doubled it, haven't they? -They've doubled it. | 0:40:11 | 0:40:13 | |
Because it's gone to 42 shillings or 20 days. | 0:40:13 | 0:40:17 | |
That must have been really difficult for my grandmother. | 0:40:17 | 0:40:22 | |
It must have been because they're clearly struggling to pay the fines. | 0:40:22 | 0:40:26 | |
Oh, my goodness. | 0:40:26 | 0:40:27 | |
It's taking them ten days to bring that money together. | 0:40:27 | 0:40:31 | |
So we have another entry. | 0:40:31 | 0:40:33 | |
SHE GROANS | 0:40:33 | 0:40:34 | |
He's in and out, in and out, in and out like a yo-yo. | 0:40:34 | 0:40:37 | |
Oh, my goodness. | 0:40:38 | 0:40:39 | |
This is 1926 and I think the date of this one is quite interesting. | 0:40:39 | 0:40:45 | |
July 5th. | 0:40:45 | 0:40:47 | |
Once we are into June and July, this is the parading season. | 0:40:47 | 0:40:51 | |
Oh, this is when the religious parades happen. | 0:40:51 | 0:40:55 | |
It is. The number of arrests for breach of the peace will just rocket | 0:40:55 | 0:40:59 | |
during these summer months and it looks as though | 0:40:59 | 0:41:01 | |
your grandfather's been caught up in that. | 0:41:01 | 0:41:04 | |
For over two centuries, members of the Orange Order | 0:41:07 | 0:41:10 | |
have held marches during the summer months to commemorate | 0:41:10 | 0:41:13 | |
the Protestant William of Orange's defeat | 0:41:13 | 0:41:16 | |
of the Catholic James II. | 0:41:16 | 0:41:19 | |
When Hugh Cairns was a young man in interwar Glasgow, | 0:41:23 | 0:41:27 | |
these parades often became flash points for violence | 0:41:27 | 0:41:29 | |
between the city's Catholic and Protestant communities. | 0:41:29 | 0:41:32 | |
If we read along, we can see a fine again. | 0:41:35 | 0:41:39 | |
42 shillings. | 0:41:39 | 0:41:41 | |
Or 20 days. | 0:41:41 | 0:41:43 | |
What's really interesting is | 0:41:43 | 0:41:44 | |
they've paid the fine on the day. | 0:41:44 | 0:41:47 | |
How have they managed that? | 0:41:47 | 0:41:48 | |
Oh, maybe he's part of a... | 0:41:48 | 0:41:50 | |
He's part of some kind of... | 0:41:52 | 0:41:54 | |
-..gang, or... -That's got to be | 0:41:56 | 0:41:57 | |
-at least a possibility here. -They paid for him. -Yes. | 0:41:57 | 0:42:00 | |
In the 1920s and '30s, working-class areas of Glasgow | 0:42:02 | 0:42:06 | |
gained a reputation for gang violence | 0:42:06 | 0:42:09 | |
fuelled by high levels of poverty and unemployment. | 0:42:09 | 0:42:13 | |
And Glasgow's gangsters became particularly notorious | 0:42:14 | 0:42:17 | |
for their weapon of choice - the razor. | 0:42:17 | 0:42:20 | |
There's a picture of my grandfather | 0:42:22 | 0:42:25 | |
and it was pointed out to me that he had a scar | 0:42:25 | 0:42:28 | |
right around the side of his face. | 0:42:28 | 0:42:31 | |
-See there? -Oh, yes. | 0:42:31 | 0:42:33 | |
You see right around his mouth there? | 0:42:33 | 0:42:36 | |
That's got all the hallmarks of gang fighting. | 0:42:36 | 0:42:40 | |
There's no hiding that. | 0:42:40 | 0:42:42 | |
This gives you an idea of the kind of razors that people were using. | 0:42:42 | 0:42:46 | |
Eugh! | 0:42:46 | 0:42:48 | |
Eugh! | 0:42:49 | 0:42:50 | |
I remember when I was a child | 0:42:50 | 0:42:52 | |
a lot of men having scars. | 0:42:52 | 0:42:53 | |
And I think people outside Glasgow would call that scar, you know, | 0:42:53 | 0:42:59 | |
the one from the ear to the mouth, | 0:42:59 | 0:43:02 | |
they would say that was a Glasgow grin. | 0:43:02 | 0:43:04 | |
I think for someone like your grandfather, | 0:43:04 | 0:43:06 | |
who was obviously a fighting man, | 0:43:06 | 0:43:08 | |
it might almost have been a badge of honour. | 0:43:08 | 0:43:11 | |
Mm-hm. You know, I heard it said... | 0:43:11 | 0:43:13 | |
If you came from the kind of background he came from, | 0:43:13 | 0:43:15 | |
or I came from, men had to be boxers, | 0:43:15 | 0:43:19 | |
or make their name being a footballer. | 0:43:19 | 0:43:23 | |
But the other alternative was to be in a gang, to be a villain. | 0:43:23 | 0:43:29 | |
And you had no other way of progressing, you know. | 0:43:29 | 0:43:33 | |
The problem is, once you're involved in that kind of world... | 0:43:33 | 0:43:36 | |
-You can't get out. -..it's difficult to get out. | 0:43:36 | 0:43:39 | |
So, Lulu, if I show you another record from Barlinnie. | 0:43:39 | 0:43:43 | |
Oh! "Hugh Cairns, 1928." | 0:43:43 | 0:43:48 | |
-And this is March. "Assault..." -"Assault and previous convictions." | 0:43:48 | 0:43:51 | |
"Assault and previous convictions." | 0:43:51 | 0:43:53 | |
But this is March, it's nothing to do with the religious marches. | 0:43:53 | 0:43:59 | |
"March 17th." | 0:43:59 | 0:44:02 | |
It's St Patrick's night, isn't it? | 0:44:02 | 0:44:05 | |
Oh, so he's drunk. | 0:44:05 | 0:44:08 | |
He was in a fight, and my grandmother suffers | 0:44:08 | 0:44:13 | |
and quite clearly my mother suffered | 0:44:13 | 0:44:16 | |
because this was when she was first given away. | 0:44:16 | 0:44:20 | |
I mean, right now, I want to kill him. | 0:44:20 | 0:44:23 | |
You know, really, I want to just... | 0:44:23 | 0:44:26 | |
You know, I'm angry with him. | 0:44:26 | 0:44:28 | |
I understand that they're poor and everything's tough. | 0:44:28 | 0:44:31 | |
I am really... | 0:44:31 | 0:44:33 | |
..so sad. | 0:44:37 | 0:44:39 | |
I mean, | 0:44:42 | 0:44:44 | |
I feel sorry for them all. | 0:44:44 | 0:44:45 | |
Lulu has discovered that over the course of ten years | 0:44:50 | 0:44:53 | |
her grandfather, Hugh, was imprisoned no fewer than ten times. | 0:44:53 | 0:44:57 | |
Thinking about my grandparents' life makes me see how | 0:44:59 | 0:45:03 | |
really awful their struggle was. | 0:45:03 | 0:45:08 | |
He, I think, had to be in a gang, or be nothing. | 0:45:08 | 0:45:13 | |
Not to negate the fact that he made choices that were not smart. | 0:45:13 | 0:45:18 | |
And weren't wise. | 0:45:18 | 0:45:19 | |
Her, I think, | 0:45:20 | 0:45:23 | |
she married a wrong 'un, actually. | 0:45:23 | 0:45:25 | |
I don't know anybody who was in and out of jail like that, | 0:45:25 | 0:45:31 | |
you know, and I felt I came from a tough part of Glasgow. | 0:45:31 | 0:45:35 | |
But what makes me sad is that my mother never got that part. | 0:45:35 | 0:45:38 | |
Never got this information. | 0:45:38 | 0:45:40 | |
So she didn't know that, you know, | 0:45:40 | 0:45:44 | |
she was ultimately lucky. | 0:45:44 | 0:45:46 | |
Lulu knows that despite her grandfather Hugh's criminal record, | 0:45:50 | 0:45:54 | |
her grandmother Helen stayed with him | 0:45:54 | 0:45:57 | |
and that after her mother's birth, | 0:45:57 | 0:45:58 | |
they had three more children together. | 0:45:58 | 0:46:00 | |
She now wants to go one generation further back, | 0:46:06 | 0:46:09 | |
to learn more about the staunchly Protestant family | 0:46:09 | 0:46:12 | |
from which her grandmother came. | 0:46:12 | 0:46:14 | |
From a very early age, I was very conscious of being a Protestant. | 0:46:17 | 0:46:21 | |
And you're sort of sworn enemies, even if you don't understand it. | 0:46:21 | 0:46:25 | |
It was just confusing that there was this, you know, | 0:46:25 | 0:46:28 | |
"Oh, tut, tut, tut. Oh, you can't go there. | 0:46:28 | 0:46:31 | |
"You can't be going with them. | 0:46:31 | 0:46:32 | |
"They're different to us." | 0:46:32 | 0:46:34 | |
I didn't... Children don't see a difference, so... | 0:46:34 | 0:46:38 | |
I remember my Uncle Jim saying that he though his grandmother's family | 0:46:38 | 0:46:42 | |
were involved with the Orange Lodge. | 0:46:42 | 0:46:44 | |
Um... | 0:46:44 | 0:46:45 | |
So I'd like to know if they were. | 0:46:47 | 0:46:49 | |
How involved they were. | 0:46:49 | 0:46:52 | |
To find out about her family's role in the Orange Order, | 0:46:54 | 0:46:57 | |
Lulu has come to the Orange Lodge an Tullis Street, | 0:46:57 | 0:47:00 | |
in Glasgow's East End | 0:47:00 | 0:47:01 | |
to meet historian Professor Elaine McFarland. | 0:47:01 | 0:47:06 | |
I believe my grandmother's family were involved with the Orange Lodge. | 0:47:06 | 0:47:13 | |
-They certainly were. -They were? | 0:47:13 | 0:47:14 | |
Your great-grandmother, Helen Orr Kennedy, | 0:47:14 | 0:47:18 | |
was very involved. | 0:47:18 | 0:47:20 | |
My grandmother was Helen too. | 0:47:20 | 0:47:21 | |
-They were both called Helen. -Yes, they were both called Helen. | 0:47:21 | 0:47:24 | |
-There she is. -I think she looks like me. | 0:47:24 | 0:47:26 | |
She has a wee, fat face. | 0:47:26 | 0:47:28 | |
This is the register of the Ladies Orange Lodge 52. | 0:47:29 | 0:47:35 | |
And that's their banner just behind you there. | 0:47:35 | 0:47:39 | |
Yes, I saw that, Brisby's Daughters of the Covenant. | 0:47:39 | 0:47:41 | |
And if you have a wee look... | 0:47:41 | 0:47:44 | |
The date at the top is March 1927 to March 1928. | 0:47:44 | 0:47:49 | |
Oh, there she is. Mrs Helen Kennedy. | 0:47:49 | 0:47:50 | |
This is the list of all the people in the Lodge. | 0:47:50 | 0:47:53 | |
She is the very first one, as you notice in the list. | 0:47:53 | 0:47:56 | |
-She's the top? -She's the top dog. | 0:47:56 | 0:47:58 | |
What does WM stand for? | 0:47:58 | 0:48:00 | |
Worthy mistress. | 0:48:00 | 0:48:01 | |
So she ran the whole shebang? | 0:48:01 | 0:48:03 | |
She ran the shebang, yeah. | 0:48:03 | 0:48:04 | |
And there's 165 women. | 0:48:04 | 0:48:06 | |
Is that a lot of women? | 0:48:06 | 0:48:07 | |
It is a lot. That is quite a big Lodge. | 0:48:07 | 0:48:10 | |
The first Ladies Orange Lodges opened in Scotland in 1909. | 0:48:12 | 0:48:18 | |
They soon became a mass movement, | 0:48:18 | 0:48:19 | |
thanks to the opportunities they offered working-class women - | 0:48:19 | 0:48:23 | |
like Lulu's great-grandmother, Helen Orr Kennedy - | 0:48:23 | 0:48:26 | |
to socialise and play a bigger part in public life. | 0:48:26 | 0:48:29 | |
By the early 1930s, Scotland boasted more Orange women than men. | 0:48:32 | 0:48:38 | |
We can look a wee bit more closely at what she actually did | 0:48:38 | 0:48:41 | |
in this Lodge - this is the minute book. | 0:48:41 | 0:48:44 | |
You'll see that Helen is very much in the chair. | 0:48:44 | 0:48:47 | |
"16th March, 1922. | 0:48:47 | 0:48:50 | |
"Sister Kennedy, the WM, asked the visiting brethren | 0:48:50 | 0:48:56 | |
"to wait for a cup of tea. A dance followed | 0:48:56 | 0:49:00 | |
"which lasted until about two in the morning." | 0:49:00 | 0:49:04 | |
-So they had a good time. -Yeah. -It was very sociable. | 0:49:04 | 0:49:06 | |
Very. That was an important bit of the attraction. | 0:49:06 | 0:49:09 | |
It's that social dimension. | 0:49:09 | 0:49:11 | |
And she was pretty much running the show. | 0:49:11 | 0:49:13 | |
Yes. And this is the symbol of her authority. | 0:49:13 | 0:49:18 | |
This is of the period. | 0:49:18 | 0:49:19 | |
This is the gavel. | 0:49:19 | 0:49:21 | |
-Her gavel. -"Order, order." -Can I just have a go? | 0:49:21 | 0:49:23 | |
-Of course, yes. -Order! | 0:49:23 | 0:49:25 | |
Let's have some order! She had a big loud voice, like me, probably. | 0:49:25 | 0:49:28 | |
I bet she did. I bet she did. | 0:49:28 | 0:49:30 | |
This is actually the Bible. | 0:49:30 | 0:49:32 | |
This represents the Bible, | 0:49:32 | 0:49:33 | |
because the Order saw itself | 0:49:33 | 0:49:36 | |
as grounded in scriptural principles. | 0:49:36 | 0:49:39 | |
But there's more here of what she's up to. | 0:49:39 | 0:49:43 | |
"Sister Kennedy asked for a large turnout of our members | 0:49:43 | 0:49:47 | |
"at church parades." | 0:49:47 | 0:49:50 | |
So these parades, what was Helen Kennedy's role? | 0:49:50 | 0:49:54 | |
-She would have led the parade. -Got to be quite...fearless to do that. | 0:49:54 | 0:49:59 | |
Yeah, they would command the streets, with Helen... | 0:49:59 | 0:50:02 | |
-In the front? -..leading the way, yeah. | 0:50:02 | 0:50:05 | |
She climbed up the hierarchy. | 0:50:05 | 0:50:08 | |
-She did! -Let's just have a look at these. | 0:50:08 | 0:50:10 | |
This is the Grand Lodge of Scotland. | 0:50:10 | 0:50:12 | |
That was the governing body of the whole Orange Order. | 0:50:12 | 0:50:16 | |
So it says here, | 0:50:16 | 0:50:18 | |
"Minutes of ladies' conference, October meeting. 1929. | 0:50:18 | 0:50:22 | |
"Sister Mrs Kennedy, Worthy Grand Mistress, occupied the chair." | 0:50:22 | 0:50:26 | |
So, Worthy Grand Mistress. | 0:50:26 | 0:50:28 | |
-So she's the chair of the...? -She's... | 0:50:28 | 0:50:30 | |
The head of the whole Lodge? | 0:50:30 | 0:50:32 | |
Top woman. She actually was the first to hold that position. | 0:50:32 | 0:50:35 | |
So she was a trailblazer. | 0:50:35 | 0:50:38 | |
Look, it says here. I've just jumped straight in to this thing | 0:50:38 | 0:50:41 | |
that says here, "The Grand Master, | 0:50:41 | 0:50:43 | |
"on being invited to take the chair | 0:50:43 | 0:50:46 | |
"returned the mallet of authority to Sister Mrs Kennedy, WGM, | 0:50:46 | 0:50:51 | |
"with the request that she should carry on. | 0:50:51 | 0:50:55 | |
"He further gave the ruling that at all future conferences | 0:50:55 | 0:50:58 | |
"the Worthy Grand Mistress conduct the business, | 0:50:58 | 0:51:01 | |
"as the Sisters were well qualified to undertake not only that duty, | 0:51:01 | 0:51:05 | |
"but any other duty in connection with their association." | 0:51:05 | 0:51:09 | |
Period, finished, the end. | 0:51:09 | 0:51:11 | |
The women's Lodge, although it was so successful, | 0:51:11 | 0:51:14 | |
had been subordinate to the male Lodge. | 0:51:14 | 0:51:17 | |
And the women's section meetings had always, until then, | 0:51:17 | 0:51:22 | |
been chaired by a man. | 0:51:22 | 0:51:24 | |
That was a really important moment. | 0:51:24 | 0:51:27 | |
-For women. -Also for Helen. | 0:51:27 | 0:51:30 | |
The recognition of her standing, her personal standing. | 0:51:30 | 0:51:33 | |
This is a working-class woman, from the East End of Glasgow, | 0:51:33 | 0:51:36 | |
who has worked her way through the Lodge hierarchy | 0:51:36 | 0:51:39 | |
into this really responsible public position. | 0:51:39 | 0:51:43 | |
But how did my great-grandmother square away the issue | 0:51:43 | 0:51:47 | |
that she had such an important role in the Orange Lodge, | 0:51:47 | 0:51:52 | |
and her daughter was married to a Catholic jailbird? | 0:51:52 | 0:51:58 | |
It would have been a very difficult situation for her. | 0:51:58 | 0:52:02 | |
Now, this is the rules of the women's Orange Lodges of the time. | 0:52:02 | 0:52:07 | |
Looking at this, | 0:52:07 | 0:52:09 | |
you can get a flavour of the attitudes towards Catholicism. | 0:52:09 | 0:52:14 | |
"Should any member marry a Roman Catholic, | 0:52:14 | 0:52:17 | |
"she shall forthwith be expelled if, | 0:52:17 | 0:52:20 | |
"after fair trial, the offence has been proved." | 0:52:20 | 0:52:23 | |
That's how serious they treated marrying a Catholic. | 0:52:23 | 0:52:27 | |
It was one of the primary grounds for expulsion. | 0:52:27 | 0:52:31 | |
But, obviously, she carried enough weight with her colleagues | 0:52:31 | 0:52:36 | |
that it didn't derail her progress in the Order. | 0:52:36 | 0:52:40 | |
What eventually happened to her? | 0:52:40 | 0:52:43 | |
She continued to have a very prominent role in the Orange Order. | 0:52:43 | 0:52:47 | |
And she was involved right up to her death in 1943. | 0:52:47 | 0:52:51 | |
And she's buried in Rutherglen. | 0:52:51 | 0:52:55 | |
I would have loved to have met her. | 0:52:55 | 0:52:57 | |
Lulu wants to end her journey with | 0:53:10 | 0:53:11 | |
a visit to her great-grandmother's grave at Rutherglen Cemetery. | 0:53:11 | 0:53:15 | |
I am delighted | 0:53:17 | 0:53:20 | |
that my great-grandmother was a woman who was so strong. | 0:53:20 | 0:53:25 | |
I just like her. I would like to have known her. | 0:53:26 | 0:53:29 | |
She came from nothing. That's what's so amazing. | 0:53:29 | 0:53:32 | |
I come from nothing, | 0:53:32 | 0:53:33 | |
so I wouldn't put myself in the same position as her, | 0:53:33 | 0:53:37 | |
because I've been very lucky, you know. | 0:53:37 | 0:53:40 | |
I've had a lot of people help me when I was a young kid. | 0:53:40 | 0:53:43 | |
But I don't know who helped her. | 0:53:43 | 0:53:46 | |
I think she just did it all on her own. | 0:53:46 | 0:53:48 | |
And... | 0:53:48 | 0:53:50 | |
Yeah, that's given me some joy. | 0:53:50 | 0:53:53 | |
All the information I have found out about my grandmother Helen | 0:53:55 | 0:54:00 | |
and my grandfather Hugh is tough. | 0:54:00 | 0:54:03 | |
It's tough information. | 0:54:03 | 0:54:05 | |
I actually wonder what the relationship was like between | 0:54:05 | 0:54:08 | |
my great-grandmother and my grandmother - | 0:54:08 | 0:54:10 | |
two seemingly completely different people. | 0:54:10 | 0:54:12 | |
This is the index of graves, Rutherglen Cemetery. | 0:54:33 | 0:54:37 | |
If I jump to the bottom, my great-grandmother, Helen Kennedy, | 0:54:37 | 0:54:42 | |
71 years old. | 0:54:42 | 0:54:44 | |
Oh, wow. Helen Kennedy Cairns. | 0:54:45 | 0:54:49 | |
31 years. | 0:54:49 | 0:54:50 | |
That's my grandmother. | 0:54:52 | 0:54:55 | |
She's buried with her mother in the same grave. | 0:54:55 | 0:55:00 | |
My goodness. | 0:55:00 | 0:55:01 | |
Lulu's great-grandmother, Helen Orr Kennedy, died in 1943, | 0:55:03 | 0:55:09 | |
at the age of 71, | 0:55:09 | 0:55:10 | |
outliving her daughter, Lulu's grandmother, | 0:55:10 | 0:55:13 | |
Helen Kennedy Cairns, by eight years. | 0:55:13 | 0:55:16 | |
I've also got here a newspaper article, the Belfast Weekly News. | 0:55:19 | 0:55:25 | |
Scotch Orange Notes, Glasgow Bridgeton. | 0:55:25 | 0:55:29 | |
"The members of this Lodge held their annual meeting, | 0:55:29 | 0:55:32 | |
"the WM made sympathetic reference to the loss sustained by | 0:55:32 | 0:55:36 | |
"Sister Mrs Kennedy in the death of one of her daughters. | 0:55:36 | 0:55:40 | |
"In token of sympathy, one minute's silence was observed." | 0:55:40 | 0:55:45 | |
That's very generous, I think. | 0:55:45 | 0:55:48 | |
That no matter what the differences were about religion, | 0:55:48 | 0:55:52 | |
they acknowledged my grandmother's death. | 0:55:52 | 0:55:55 | |
The one sadness is that my mother didn't know | 0:56:00 | 0:56:04 | |
all the pieces that I know. | 0:56:04 | 0:56:07 | |
And she didn't really get to know her real family. | 0:56:07 | 0:56:11 | |
There she is. | 0:56:19 | 0:56:22 | |
"In loving memory of our Worthy Mistress, Helen Orr Kennedy, | 0:56:22 | 0:56:28 | |
"died 28th February, 1943. | 0:56:28 | 0:56:32 | |
"From the Sisters of the Ladies Loyal Orange Lodge 52." | 0:56:32 | 0:56:38 | |
Quite clearly, they were poor. | 0:56:39 | 0:56:41 | |
They didn't have money. | 0:56:41 | 0:56:43 | |
There's a lot of amazing gravestones here. | 0:56:43 | 0:56:46 | |
It looks like it's probably the smallest one. | 0:56:46 | 0:56:50 | |
When you think of my great-grandmother | 0:56:53 | 0:56:56 | |
and how she strived to be the very best she could be, and be strong, | 0:56:56 | 0:57:02 | |
and, you know, live a purposeful life. | 0:57:02 | 0:57:07 | |
And then you think of my poor grandmother, dying at the age of 31, | 0:57:07 | 0:57:11 | |
after having seven children, and a husband who was, really, | 0:57:11 | 0:57:15 | |
not the best choice. | 0:57:15 | 0:57:17 | |
The fact that they're buried in the same grave | 0:57:17 | 0:57:20 | |
does suggest that, despite all the troubles, | 0:57:20 | 0:57:24 | |
and the religious fighting that went on | 0:57:24 | 0:57:28 | |
between my grandmother and her husband, | 0:57:28 | 0:57:31 | |
and her own mother... | 0:57:31 | 0:57:33 | |
..there was a bond that wasn't broken. | 0:57:35 | 0:57:39 |