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The '60s were the dawn of a new age of electricity and

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labour-saving devices which promised a better way of life for all.

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The day came and houses were all wired and the switch came on

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and lights all came up. What a day!

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I had an upright cleaner and then I was grizzling then about carting

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the thing up and down stairs, so Cliff bought me another one.

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I loved driving.

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It opened up the fact that now I could take

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the children down the seaside even after school.

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This is the story of how greater affluence helped transform home

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and family in '60s Wales, beginning a lifestyle revolution.

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Wales began the '60s with some of the worst housing in Britain.

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This was especially so in the valleys,

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where cheap homes had been erected for workers in Victorian times.

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Many young couples were forced to rent places that lacked any

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basic modern conveniences.

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George Evans and his wife Hilary started family life in Merthyr.

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We were fortunate to have secured a dwelling

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in a cellar in a house in Merthyr.

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One room, and we'd two daughters there.

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Times were hard.

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I was earning £3/17/6 a week

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when the average wage was between £15 and £18.

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We used to buy stuff on tick.

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We used to buy our food on the never-never

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and pay at the end of the week but so did a lot of people then.

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Joan Hilditch and her husband Eddie

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set up home in the Rhymney Valley.

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It was a very old house in Rhymney Bridge.

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It was rented. It had roofs like that, you know?

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Right down to the windows. I loved it, I did.

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But there was no...there was no bath there, there was no toilet.

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We used to have a place down the loo where you had to bury the stuff.

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We used to bath once a week, same as all the other families, once a week.

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And we used to have a tin bath.

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We'd boil the water up on the fire or on the cooker, fill the bath

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and my daughters would bath first,

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one after the other.

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Then Hilary would bath

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and by the time I was going to get in the bath

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there was a load of scum around the bath.

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and I had to scrape all that off.

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Then, as time went on, we got a bit more money saved

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and we bought a bungalow bath, which was a tin bath,

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only it was longer, and we thought we were in heaven.

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We used to tell people, "We got a bungalow bath now!"

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"Get away! Yer lucky."

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Harsh living conditions had been made bearable by communal values.

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A problem shared was a problem solved.

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Work, rest and play took place in a collective spirit of respect

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amongst people who lived in communities built on struggle.

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Miner Tyrone O'Sullivan grew up in a coal-mining family in Merthyr.

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The magic of that era was no-one locked their doors,

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wherever you went, even if you went out in the evening, even overnight.

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So your neighbours could always knock the door

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and they would always knock.

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That was a wonderful thing, you never entered anyone's home

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without either knocking or at least opening the door and shouting,

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"Are you there, Dilys?" or "Are you there, Dai?"

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I could go to practically anybody in the street and knock the door,

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open the door and walk in because that was the trust.

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What did we have to pinch, anyway? To be honest with you,

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we all had very much the same.

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So that's the culture of the valleys, of the communities.

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One of the poorest areas in Wales was Tiger Bay, where a mixed-race

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community lived in what was once a model housing estate.

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But a century after it was built by the Marquess of Bute,

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Cardiff City Council set about a major redevelopment.

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Residents were promised a better life

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after they were rehoused into high-rise blocks.

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Writer Neil Sinclair grew up there.

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This was the home of seamen from the four quarters of the world

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and we lived in hardship but in bliss, harmonious bliss.

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There were 26 houses on my street,

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most of the doors would be open first thing in the morning,

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women would come out and bash the mats against the wall and then

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put the mat in the hallway, saying, "Step in, if you will," you know.

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Then you're in a tower block and you're in an internal hallway

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with no sunlight, no daylight, no reason to stand on the door.

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So you started to live a life separate from other

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people in the community.

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But Wales built few high-rise estates.

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Instead, the need for new housing was met by the construction

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of sprawling council estates on the outskirts of many towns and cities.

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It was an opportunity to build houses that incorporated

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all the basics of modern living standards.

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For couples with young children in primitive homes,

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it was a dream come true.

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Barbara Evans and her husband Cliff

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secured a house on the Gurnos Estate in Merthyr.

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There was three bedrooms and the bathroom and the toilet upstairs

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and downstairs there was a huge front room

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and the other room was the kitchen and diner.

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Oh, well, the boys went wild,

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I mean, the engine on rails had all the floor space. Good gracious me,

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toys come out everywhere, all the kids in playing, it was wonderful.

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We had a council house then, which was lovely and I made

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friends with the neighbours down there and we had a dog.

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It was nice. My first bathroom, for God's sake!

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And hot water, would you believe!

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We all used to get in the bath in the night together.

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It was brilliant, I loved it.

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Children benefitted hugely from the better living conditions.

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Annie Haden's family lived on the Portmead estate

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on the outskirts of Swansea.

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I was brought up in a new, brand-new council estate,

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amongst houses being built,

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the smell of sawn wood

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which is absolutely wonderful. Oh, it's a wonderful smell.

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There was such a pulsating feeling of hope. It was tangible.

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But in the '60s, many couples decided

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they wanted to own their own home.

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This was a decade when home ownership began to shape

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the modern ideal of married life.

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Some men took on a second job to help pay the mortgage.

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For George Evans, it was boxing.

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Fighting for me was purely about the money, I needed the money.

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I needed the money to give my family a better life.

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And I won the Welsh Championship, the Welsh Lightweight Championship

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but on my mind all the time was money and I decided to turn professional.

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Boxing provided us with a better life all round

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because it enabled us to have a bigger mortgage to buy

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a better house and we decided to move from the squares,

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our little two-bedroom cottage,

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further down the village to a three-bedroomed property.

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Wales soon enjoyed one of the highest rates of home ownership

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in Britain, as many a young couple took advantage

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of the large quantity of cheap housing available.

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But they often had to wait before they could turn

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it into the modern home of their dreams.

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# The best things in life are free

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# But you can keep them for the birds and bees

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# Now give me money... #

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Broadcaster Roy Noble and his wife Elaine moved to Aberdare.

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We decided to buy a house.

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Now, we couldn't afford a bathroom suite which was coloured

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because it was £25 extra. We couldn't afford central heating

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because it was £275 extra. We were at the top of our limit. We couldn't

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afford sapele doors which were very fashionable. Along with G Plan

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furniture, sapele doors were £7 each extra. Couldn't afford those.

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The only furniture we had in the front bedroom was a net curtain.

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From the outside it looked the part, from the inside there was nothing in it at all, you see.

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Communities often would rally round when a new home was being made.

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Barbara Evans worked at Kayser Bondor, manufacturer of ladieswear.

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Mrs Regan was my supervisor up in Kayser, and she said to me,

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"Barbara, have you bought new curtains?"

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"I'm going for them on the weekend".

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"Get the material, bring it in and we'll sew 'em for you".

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I took all the material in on the Monday morning

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and I was going home Monday, half-past three,

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all my curtains made.

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# Sweetest little baby come and deliver... #

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Electricity still remained a novelty in rural west

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and north Wales into the '60s.

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The cost of extending the national grid into thinly populated

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farming communities was seen by many locals as an unnecessary expense.

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Lyndon Harris remembers family life on a remote dairy farm

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in Carmarthenshire before the age of electricity.

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We'd had diesel engines driving portable generators up till then.

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You'd be watching television and the picture would start diminishing.

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The belt start slipping on the pulley outside!

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You'd have to run out quickly to tighten up the belt again

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so that you could see the rest of the programme before it disappeared off the screen!

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To get the electricity in the first place, of course,

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meant that you had to have a sufficient nucleus of farmers

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and individuals who would be prepared to sign up, that is,

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guarantee a certain amount per year for taking the electricity.

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What a job! Good Lord. It was like going round Noah, you know.

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Nobody was slightly bit interested.

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"No, much too costly, it is. What do we need electricity for?

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"Aladdin lamp's all right. Tilley lamp's OK.

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"What do we want electricity for?"

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But eventually, sufficient numbers were found

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and the Electricity Board got to work.

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The coming of electricity switched everyone on to a new,

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more modern way of life.

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The day arrived when the lorries arrived in the field with big poles.

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The excitement was terrific, you know, you could see them

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boring holes in the field to put these poles up right across the fields.

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And the day came and they all linked up, the wires were put up,

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houses were all wired and the switch came on and lights all came up.

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What a day. Just like VE Day. Marvellous!

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The new home, it was a lot different from the small little house, you see,

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because there was so much electric points there and things like that.

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Well, you didn't have them in the other little house.

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See, I mean, there was two here and two there - they were everywhere!

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Jolly good. We'll have it.

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This was the age of the mod con

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and everyone wanted to be a part of it.

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PHONE RINGS

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Hello? Yes, speaking.

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It was the first time we'd had a phone, a telephone,

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and it was on a party line you had to share with

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someone up the street, and we'd only been in two days

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when the phone rang and a voice said, "Alan here." I said, "Alan?"

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"Yes, Alan next door."

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Now, it had never occurred to me

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that a fella living next door would actually phone you.

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You'd think he'd just walk around, wouldn't you? I thought a phone was for distances.

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We had a natural stone fireplace. We had a dividing wall which only came up to about three feet

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between the dining room, well, the dining section and the lounge.

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We had a white carpet.

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And we had a wonderful red suite

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and we'd bought also the curtains because it went with the suite

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and it went with the dining room chairs which were high-backed

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and on metal supports. They were something else, and a glass table.

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And my mother, when she first opened the door into that room,

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dining room-cum-lounge, she said, "Oh! it's like an hotel."

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Many families felt the benefit of the extra money

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earnt by working mothers, who took advantage of the demand

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for women's skills in the factories.

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A new lifestyle was emerging.

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When you were working as well, that was extra money, you see.

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So there we are, boys had bikes, holidays and all the rest of it.

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I can remember they wanted a snooker table. Cliff came home this day

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and said to me, "Somebody's selling this snooker table",

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"Well, how much do they want for it?" I said. "Oh, £20."

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Oh, well, we bought the snooker table.

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One of the biggest new employers in Wales was Hoover.

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Its labour-saving appliances helped transform family life, reducing much

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of the domestic drudgery that had traditionally been the woman's lot.

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'Have you heard the news that's going round?

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'Hoover, Hoover have gone and found

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'the washing machine that means the end, the end of washday!'

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Washday? Just forget it.

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'Hoover Keymatic is the name.

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'It's automated and that's the same as saying never,

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'ever will you think again about washday.'

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Washday? Just forget it.

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Finally we bought our first washing machine

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and we were over the moon.

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We were inviting people in to see it.

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"Come here, Mrs Jones,

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"come and see what we've got! Hoover washing machine!"

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And, of course, Cliff worked in Hoover so you all bought

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from there, didn't you, you know. That was part of the perks of Hoovers again.

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And your cleaners came from there.

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And I had an upright cleaner

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and then I was grizzling then about carting the thing up and downstairs.

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So Cliff bought me another one, a Constellation, and that was like

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a big ball,

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so that was upstairs and the other one downstairs.

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'Hoover Constellation. The space-age cleaner at the down-to-earth price.'

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George Evans became one of the top Welsh boxers

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and was earning good prize money.

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But he still had not given up his day job,

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such was his passion to give his family the best of everything.

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I fought an eliminator for the British Championship.

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I was third in the British ratings

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and I went out and I determined

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that if I win this fight I would fight for the British title.

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And I was winning the fight at the end of the seventh round.

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And I got up and I went out and I started wading in and, bump!

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Clash of heads and my eyelid split,

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and as soon as the referee saw my eyelid splitting,

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he stopped the fight.

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One minute to go of the fight.

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And after that fight I come back and I said,

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"I've finished, there's no more."

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But...

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..a month later...

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..I was thinking of the money.

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And I rang Mac and I said, "Mac, give me a fight!"

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And I bought a little Ford Anglia car.

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£340...

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second-hand.

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The convenience and glamour of the car

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was now capturing the popular imagination,

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fast replacing buses and trains as the preferred means of travel.

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With growing prosperity,

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mass car ownership would soon revolutionise

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the entire transport system

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and, with it, the Welsh way of life.

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In Wales, of course, the Anglia was a very popular car,

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the Ford Anglia with a sloping back roof.

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My brother had one and a couple of my friends had them.

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And in Wales it was one of the most popular cars going.

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It was nippy. It had a nippy engine, economical

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and it was reasonably priced.

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And the Cortina was the family man car.

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For both men and women,

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the car promised the freedom of the open road.

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Margaret Lloyd brought up her family in Merthyr.

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I loved driving.

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What I loved about driving was the speed.

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It opened up the fact that now

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I could take the children down the seaside, even after school.

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I could meet them if it was a lovely day, and say,

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"Come on, we'll go to Barry for an hour

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"or we could come up the Beacons."

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I went on holidays once with a Morris Minor.

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I had an 18-stone aunt and an 18-stone mother

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and the three children in a Morris Minor.

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Every time I started, I thought sure it was going to rear up

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like a horse, with the weight!

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I had to make sure they sat like that, you know,

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one in the back, one in the front to balance it out!

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But you just went. It was fun, wasn't it?

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Everything was an adventure.

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Motoring in Wales came of age

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with the opening of the Severn Bridge in September 1966.

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It seemed the pinnacle of a remarkable decade

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when everything got better and better.

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Then, on the 21st October,

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tragedy struck at Aberfan.

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The huge slag heap that towered above the village

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became unstable from heavy rain.

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Thousands of tonnes of coal slurry slipped into an avalanche

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and covered the local school.

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116 children and 28 adults were killed within seconds.

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Many people desperately tried to mount a rescue,

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including broadcaster Owen Money

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who was a singer in a pop group, at the time.

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I was down there about 20 minutes, half an hour after it all happened.

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All the colliery men and boys all came out of the pit.

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They were the, sort of, first on the scene.

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And then you got the police there and then Joe public.

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They came from everywhere.

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I remember women, mothers up to their waist in slurry

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trying to wade through the slurry to get to where the school is

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to see if they can find their children.

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I had people there I knew.

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People there were killed, like my school teacher was killed in it.

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It changed my life a little bit.

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Didn't realise how precious life can be.

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And for me it was...

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it was a learning curve.

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There's more to life than rock'n'roll music,

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more to life than having a good time.

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It did change my life, without a shadow of a doubt.

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It gave me new values in life.

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The tragedy of Aberfan led to profound change

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in the coal industry.

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Many felt in other ways, too, the Wales of old had to go.

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But it was in the home that the biggest changes were taking place.

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And one of them was the desire for a smaller family

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than in previous generations.

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Until the '60s, married life for many women

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had been overshadowed by an exhausting ritual of constant,

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and often unwanted, pregnancy and childbirth.

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Women had no control over their fertility.

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Margaret Lloyd was passionate about the need for change.

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I'd had three children in two and a half years,

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which was quite common, really.

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And so I knew what it was to have one child after the other,

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not be in control of your life.

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Family planning depended on the man.

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You know, it was his responsibility, really.

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So I was passionate

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that women should have this control.

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I had another child nine years later.

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Joan Hilditch was coping with an unhappy marriage

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where she lived in Rhymney.

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Well, Eddie didn't like birth control of any form.

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He thought it was no feeling with it

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and he said a man had to have feeling or he became ill, you see.

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After the birth of her first child,

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Joan suffered six miscarriages before she fell pregnant again.

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I lost six babies, one after the other.

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I don't know why.

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I don't think they knew why either. but...I did, one after the other.

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And then the second child, after she was born,

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I couldn't even touch her to start with.

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I was frightened to pick her up in case I broke her. You know?

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Because she was so fragile, I thought.

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Because I'd lost all the others, you see.

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Joan was in a prolonged state of postnatal depression.

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Yet she felt her husband was dismissive of her plight

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and there was little medical understanding of her condition.

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I was suffering with postnatal depression.

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I was grieving for six children, for God's sake!

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And I couldn't cope, I really couldn't cope.

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And one day my husband was coming home from work

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and I thought, "I'll go round the corner

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"and I'll stand there till he goes in the house

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"so the children won't be on their own."

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And then I went up the mountain then.

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Yeah, up to the deep pools up there.

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They were very deep.

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Goodness knows how deep they were, but they were.

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I went into the pool,

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and I thought, "That's it now.

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"All I've got to do is let myself go, just let myself go

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"and that'll be it."

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And as I went up to my thighs,

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I felt a baby move inside me

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and that was my third child.

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And there was no way could I kill a child and myself.

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I love children far too much.

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So back I went

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to the life.

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Joan's second and third children were born 12 months apart.

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But from the mid '60s,

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the contraceptive pill offered married women

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significant improvement in birth control.

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Margaret Lloyd worked at a family planning clinic.

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I think I was able to empathise with them

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and give women the understanding it is their right

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to control their family.

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So the pill gave women the control on their lives.

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If they were a professional woman,

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they knew they could go back to work.

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Women working in the factories no longer had to worry

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in case they were pregnant.

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A continual worry, you know - "Am I pregnant again?

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"Oh, my God, I hope not because we've got a house,

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"we've got a mortgage." And then the child turns up.

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Tyrone and Elaine O'Sullivan married in 1967

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and set up home in Merthyr.

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Tyrone was part of a new generation of men

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who took advantage of the opportunity for family planning.

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My mum was one of six children,

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my dad was one of five brothers, two sisters.

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So they were big families.

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And while it was nice, we were a different generation.

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We thought we should plan our families

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and perhaps have two children.

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That was our plan from the very beginning

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and I got through using birth control.

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But we were determined,

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Elaine had a job, I had a job, so that's what we should do.

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But Joan Hilditch was not able to use birth control with her husband.

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In desperation, after the birth of her fourth child,

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she took advantage of the 1969 divorce law

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to end her marriage.

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As a divorcee, though,

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she was not looked on favourably by her local community.

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After I was divorced, there was definitely a stigma

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with divorced people.

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The neighbours weren't very pleased for a start, you know?

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They'd been my friends before that, helping me out with the children,

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doing... Brilliant, you know, really nice.

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All of a sudden, I was this, sort of, scarlet woman.

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I mean, I wasn't very good in the home - you know,

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putting washers on and wallpaper and everything

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so I used to have a lot of offers from husbands around

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that if I wanted anything, just let them know and they'd come.

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Well, their wives didn't like the idea of that at all!

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So I learnt how to do these things myself.

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I did. I got different books.

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I changed the washer,

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I did the...I wallpapered the kitchen,

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I did lots of things on my own.

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I loved being a single mum, I really, really did.

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We were very poor. We didn't have much money whatsoever,

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but it didn't matter.

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First time in my life I had been free.

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I was free.

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The prosperity of the '60s revolutionised home and family life.

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Better housing and all mod cons benefitted everyone,

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especially women, who now began to enjoy greater independence

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than ever before.

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The '60s saw profound change in Wales,

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driven by full employment and unparalleled affluence.

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It was the decade when a younger generation

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broke free of the old order to create a more open society,

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proud of its past, yet striving for a new future.

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Wales would never be the same again.

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