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The name Black Is The New Black really made me smile.

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I think we're on the edge of a revolution.

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Boom!

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We have our own thing.

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And it's really rich.

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We're the influencers, the tastemakers.

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Remember when we invented jazz and you didn't know what it was?

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Well, now we're going to do something else.

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I've never really seen myself as an immigrant.

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I see myself as a person.

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I'm proud to be black.

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I've never cared to be any other way.

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Everybody wants to be us, but they only want the good parts of being us.

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They want our physicality, they want our musicality.

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Selling our culture, it's like one big hustle.

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They want our talent, they want our dancing skills,

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they want our singing skills.

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Music hasn't got no colour.

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The oppressed always find a way to celebrate, right?

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It's a great feeling.

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We are people of talent, people of vision, people of passion.

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SHE LAUGHS

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There's a great seam of British success.

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When it stands out, it is dazzling.

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And we should celebrate it.

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We should celebrate it.

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This programme contains very strong language.

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I am Gina Yashere. I'm a comedian.

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My mum and dad came from Nigeria.

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Both my parents are from Barbados.

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My mum's from Ghana, my dad's from Nigeria.

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My father was Antiguan.

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The wonderful island, the jewel of the Caribbean, as we say.

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'We have different opinions.'

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As you do.

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My parents are Nigerian.

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St Lucia.

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Jamaica. You go to St Ann, you turn right and you go into Bush.

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Turn left at the clock tower,

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two men playing dominoes on a box next to a goat.

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Ask for Mrs Harris. The shop is there.

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Until I came to this country, I hadn't any Afro-Caribbean...

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Caribbean friends.

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HE LAUGHS

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There is a wonderful Uganda proverb.

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And it says,

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"The person who has never travelled

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"thinks that their mother is the best cook."

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I think I was four when the present

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Queen was enthroned,

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and we had a tiny little transistor radio, so we were able,

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through the World Service, to actually hear the entire service.

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When the national anthem came on,

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my dad used to make us all to stand.

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I was born in Trinidad, in the West Indies,

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which is right at the long end of

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a nice geographical chain which ends up

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almost on the South American continental shelf.

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My parents were not what I would call,

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sort of, formally educated people.

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My father was an engineer at the oil refinery.

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We were all pretty poor,

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and so there was a natural aspiration to get out of that kind of poverty.

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That was a very important part of West Indian life -

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you had to try to make something of yourself.

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Trinidad would not be your, kind of, ultimate destination.

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We were colonies of the British Empire.

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We learned a lot about the history

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of how the people in Britain are governed -

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far, far more than about my own country, Uganda.

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We knew the English laws, we knew their customs,

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we knew their history, we knew their tradition.

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Britain was better and more

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powerful, and when,

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you know, the "Great" was in

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Great Britain and all that.

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"Let's go to this place."

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'Wonderful.'

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My parents were pioneers, but it's not something they chose.

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My mother, from Zimbabwe, she was working in Zambia as a midwife,

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and my dad, Nick Newton from Cornwall,

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he had decided that he wanted to find the root of the blues,

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and he felt that it was Africa.

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They met and fell in love.

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Think about it - mid-'60s, you fall in love with an African woman,

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you want to marry that woman, bring her back to Cornwall,

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which is SO not African...

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SHE LAUGHS

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You are fucking cool, man.

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My dad is...

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I mean, he really broke the mould.

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I then think about my mother.

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You know.

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SHE SIGHS

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She's a warrior,

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because it wasn't like having stones thrown through the window,

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it was the mind-fucking, and it was the...

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The kind of feeling of needing to look over your shoulder,

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and she responded to that by just keeping things small.

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The name is Bill Morris. I'm a member of the House of Lords.

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The significance of the photograph -

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it was the day that I was declared General Secretary

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of the Transport and General Workers Union.

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My privilege was to lead that union for 12 years,

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and I'm grateful for that opportunity.

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I trust I've left something behind.

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When I came to England back in 1954 as a 16-year-old boy,

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it was a journey of experience.

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I'd wake up in the morning

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and there was smoke coming out of the chimneys.

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I'd never seen a chimney before.

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I thought the house was on fire, you know. These are the sort of things.

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It was at a point where housing was your first challenge,

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and it got to the point where

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renting a room, a whole room, was a luxury.

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You'd be renting a bed

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and you woke up at four o'clock in the morning

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and you've never seen the guy next-door to you.

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My mum, when she first arrived, she was ill-equipped.

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She didn't come with the right clothes.

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So she had on a light jacket,

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and arriving in November in '64,

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a light jacket was definitely not the right attire,

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so my mum spent a lot of the winter cold.

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I couldn't understand what the romance about snow was all about.

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I always hated the winters.

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This business of overcoats and so

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many pockets and so on, you can't...

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I can't get myself in and out of them.

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I'm still struggling with...

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..winters and how to dress in them.

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My name is Patricia Scotland.

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I'm the Secretary General of the Commonwealth,

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the 53 countries, which encapsulates 2.3 billion people.

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My mother was a real lady,

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and looking at Paddington in 1958 was a big shock to her.

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People didn't bathe every day.

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My mother was used to bathing

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sometimes three times a day, changing for lunch,

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changing for dinner, and my mother had help in the house,

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and she was amongst people

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who had behaviour that had her eyes out on stalks.

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I think she thought Daddy

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had brought her to Sodom and Gomorrah.

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You know, I remember my mother talking about her being shocked at

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British people who didn't know Shakespeare

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and didn't know about the Magna Carta,

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cos they'd been raised on all that stuff, you know.

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She hadn't seen a fleck of snow but she'd read The Winter's Tale.

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Britain had been sold as a kind of magical place - it was Oz.

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There was a notion that the streets of Britain were paved in gold,

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and I'm sure my parents were, you know, were bought on that illusion.

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INTERVIEWER: Yeah. What did they find?

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Racism.

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In those days, when my parents arrived,

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there were still signs saying...

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"No dogs...

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"No Irish...

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"And no blacks." I think they used to say "no coloureds" in those days.

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One of the things I'd say is I really don't like remembering

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some of those times, but I was subject to racist attack.

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I was literally attacked, beaten up and bloodied.

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You would be silly to go out on your own.

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We used to go in groups and, in many instances, we didn't go at all.

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Both my parents found that with kind words, kind actions,

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eventually the frost thawed,

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and I think it was the early '70s where the wheat crop had failed

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and people were on strike and people were unhappy.

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West Indians, of course, had their own bread, hard-dough bread,

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so they just carried on as normal.

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And the interest of English people going, "Oh, what's that?

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"Is that your bread? Oh, can I try a bit?"

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Food - always the way -

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opened the door slowly to interactions

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between the West Indian community and the English community

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in Wolverhampton, yeah.

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-Holding it up in front of you and you're looking into the main camera.

-OK.

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That's when I was a little less black.

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HE LAUGHS

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That's early days. I'm about 17, 18 in that picture.

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That was the uniform, the Nike tracksuit.

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Family life was loud, chaotic, cos there was five of us.

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My oldest sister's eight years older than me,

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so she felt like a second mother figure

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while my mum was out working.

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I was one of them kids that'd be in and out of everyone's houses.

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Everyone was my brother or my cousin or... You know what I mean?

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We played and we fought and I shared a room with my older sister,

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which was horrible because I wasn't allowed to touch any of her stuff,

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so I'd try and sneak and play all of her Rick James records,

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and then she'd come back and it was like a scene out of Misery.

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She'd know that I'd moved something a millimetre and then beat the hell

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out of me, so it was not fun sharing with my older sister.

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It was always about food.

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"What are you eating? How much you ate?"

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We were a very popular family.

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People were always in our house, in the West Indian front room,

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playing music and having fun.

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You'd come home from school

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and there'd be no furniture in your living room

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or in your front room, and suddenly a man with two massive speakers,

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two turntables and a microphone would show up,

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put it in the corner, and there'd be a dance in your house.

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Really loud music that would go on till six o'clock in the morning.

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Your mum would cook curried goat and rice,

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and there'd be a bar that people would have to pay money to...

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And there'd be like a club in your house.

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And they were chatting over a mic.

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"Go on, sister, move your backside."

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I was always the joker, always the clown.

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Always playing sport.

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What did stand out for me, I remember, back in the day,

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was the West Indian cricket team.

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Me and my dad, we'd sit there for hours

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and I'd come home from school and Greenwich would still be batting

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and you'd watch Viv Richards just clart people round the pitch,

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and that was the first real image of successful, dominating, black...

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This was the West Indies.

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Cricket was the only other time I saw black people just enjoying

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themselves, being them, outwardly.

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You know, the drums were playing and people were blowing whistles and

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people were dancing. It was really joyous.

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It was the first time I ever saw my

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dad screaming and shouting and acting like a kid.

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I'm looking at this man screaming at Geoffrey Boycott...

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I'm like, "That's not my dad."

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Just dancing and being so happy.

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I would always like to see the West Indies win.

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It was kind of a celebration of who we were.

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It sort of felt great to be getting one over and winning.

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Cos you never really saw that.

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I never really saw success.

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And I'll tell you...

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..I used to support Leeds United.

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Cos they were brilliant. I was about eight, nine,

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and Leeds were playing Birmingham,

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and I thought, "I'm going to go and support Leeds United."

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I remember I walked into St Andrew's...

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..and I walked into the Leeds end, through the gate...

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and I heard the first... "Oo-oo-oo, nigger, nigger..."

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And I kind of stopped and I thought, "Did I just hear that?"

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And I thought, "I'll carry on."

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-INTERVIEWER: Who were you with?

-I was on my own.

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And then I heard another one.

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And I remember my mum saying...

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.."Stand up to bullies and racists," and...

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..I said to myself, "Go and take your seat.

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"Go and take your seat."

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So I remember walking towards an empty seat that I saw,

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and it got louder and louder,

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and the monkey noises and the monkey chants and the "nigger, go home"

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and the "coon", "wog",

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"black...cunt".

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It was...

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There must have been about...

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It sounded like 10,000 people calling me a nigger.

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I was eight.

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And it shocked me to my core.

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And I stopped...

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..turned around...

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..and left.

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And I have never been to a football match on my own since.

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Never.

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Never.

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Thank you.

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For me, this picture is what my footballing career was all about.

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To go home on a weekend, having scored the winning goal,

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and seeing all these people here,

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cos every man is standing up and cheering cos I scored a goal.

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For me, there was no better feeling than that.

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I had to prove a point to these people.

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Forget my colour - I'm able to do a job.

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And so this picture here just symbolises, for me,

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being the best I could be.

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-Take a seat and we shall begin.

-Cool.

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Yes, man!

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LAUGHTER

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This is sick. This is wicked.

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So this is my brother and I, first day of term, uniform pressed.

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I'm just looking at this picture, thinking, "Mum, what a star."

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Whenever I look at this picture, I smile because, you know,

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it is just everything.

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My big sister was, like, my best mate,

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and my mum was the evil overlord,

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the best friend,

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the cook, the...

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She was everything to us.

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My dad died when I was a baby, so I was raised by my mum.

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I felt like I was poorer than a lot of people.

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As I've grown up, I've realised that people that I was around

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might have really got into the drugs game.

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What made me different is that I never saw none of that at home.

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My mum made so many sacrifices. My mum wouldn't claim benefit,

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my mum did three or four cleaning jobs

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as well as... Sold clothes, was the Avon lady.

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But then my mum bought me my first set of turntables. Like,

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I know we didn't have a lot of money but she made sure it happened.

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So...big up, Mum, innit?

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My mother was an African woman.

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She came from a well-connected family in Nigeria

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and at home, my mother was a super-strict disciplinarian and

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super into education, so I wasn't...

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I had no freedoms.

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I wasn't allowed to go to parties,

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I wasn't even allowed to go on school trips.

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My mum was over the top. Like,

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my mum used to actually keep a scrapbook

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of bus and train crashes and say,

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"Look, these are children who died because they went on school trips."

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I'm not even making this up.

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It's 100% true.

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She'd keep newspaper clippings and go,

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"Look, these people are dead because they got on a coach." You know?

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Some of my friends who were able to do what they wanted to do -

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that's cos their dad was down the bookie's.

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But the other extreme is...

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"What kind of grade is that?"

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The stereotypes of Jamaicans being

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laid-back and rum-drinking and, you know... No.

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My dad bought his own house when he was a bus conductor.

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My dad knew exactly how much money

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he had in his pocket whenever you asked.

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"Dad, how much money you got in your pocket?" "£2.32."

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He'd be able to tell you.

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I was more scared of my dad than anybody in the world.

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Scared of disappointing him,

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scared of him ever raising his hand on...

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You know. In those days, that's what happened.

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My mum was my mum and my dad.

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She had to discipline me, so it weren't a talking-to -

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she'd beat me, innit? So I had to hold licks.

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My white friends had different relationships with their parents.

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My friend Greg would say something cheeky to his dad, like,

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"Leave me alone," or something, and they'd...

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"Ha-ha-ha!" His parents would laugh

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and I'd go, "Oh, great, I'm going to go home and try that."

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HE LAUGHS

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"What did you say to me?"

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Running round the house...

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TEARFULLY: "I...wish...you...were... dead."

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Nah, man, licks is love, man.

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Don't get me wrong, there's abuse.

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But when you're acting up in school

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because you're just being a little shit,

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because you need some attention or whatever it is,

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and now your mum's had to take the rest of the day off work

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for the 50th time to hear that you're acting up...

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she's going to have to work even harder to make it up,

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then you're going to get some licks when you get home, innit?

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But I think white people beat their kids too, man.

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I think pretty much everyone has a go.

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I'm glad my dad could've given me licks if I was out of order.

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And they wouldn't throw him in prison.

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Cos I know I needed that barrier.

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My dad never had to hit me.

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Only once when I nearly set the house on fire, and I understood that.

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I was being beat and it went on for quite a long time.

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I just thought, "I wonder if she's angry at me or at something else."

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Cos I think that

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a lot of it wasn't about you.

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You know, every day, going to work. Every day, being disrespected.

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Every day, the burden of...

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..being a visible "other".

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I wonder if it wasn't some of that.

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My dad is Nigerian, came over to England when he was young,

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went to boarding school in Scotland, moved to London,

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and my mum is English.

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My dad's always been there,

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and I suppose that that is a stereotype, isn't it?

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That black men are not always there to provide for their children,

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which is just not the case with my dad at all.

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It's the polar opposite, you know, like, he would give everything,

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do anything for us.

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What was interesting is that I went to a small private school in Essex,

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because I was born in east London and my dad sent me to a school that,

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after day two of me being there,

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one of my teachers being beaten up, took me out and said,

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"I'm not doing this."

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Moved out to Essex and they basically spent all of

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their money, every single penny they had,

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sending me to a school that I couldn't afford to go to

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because he was determined that I got a good education.

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So, yeah,

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we used to pull up round the corner in a car with the door falling off,

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and I used to go to this school, and that was my life by day,

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and then my life by night was back in east London, at the dance studio,

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working, teaching, learning, just trying to make ends meet.

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My name is Maggie Aderin-Pocock

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and I'm a space scientist and a science communicator.

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So this is a picture,

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and I'm looking incredibly happy

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because I am actually at Nasa Headquarters.

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Firstly, it's the International Space Station,

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and, of course, one of my dreams is, still, I want to get into space,

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even at my age. It's more of a retirement plan now,

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but I still want to get into the real thing one day.

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My fascination with space... It happened at a very early age.

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I used to watch a cartoon called the Clangers,

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and so when I was a three-year-old,

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I believed the Clangers were out there

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and I wanted to go and visit them.

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But also I think my dad...

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I don't know, he was just so...

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To me, growing up, he was just wonderful.

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He just taught us things, and he was always interested in science.

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He had a dream of studying medicine,

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but I think having four kids and sort of

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being in a different country,

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that dream went by the by, and I think he did regret that.

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But he didn't just teach us things - he got us to think.

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I think that is the best gift you can give anyone,

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the ability to think.

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Just watching a television programme and he'd say, "OK,

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"so why is that guy doing that?

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"Do you think it's right or wrong?"

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So he sort of set my moral compass and made me think about things,

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and I think that makes me, probably, a better human being,

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so I always thank him for that.

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Listen, mate, there was...

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There are a few things I grew up hearing over and over again.

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A lot about education, but the one about

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"you have to try twice as hard to achieve" was in stone.

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It might as well have been on the wall.

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It's like, "Well, why do I have to try twice as hard?"

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"You just do."

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"If you want to succeed in this country, you have to be twice as good as anybody else

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"to be accepted as an equal."

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Well, that's... How are you going to win that?

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I could get eight out of ten

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in an exam and my dad would go,

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you know,

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"That's OK, but why did you not get ten?"

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And that was a constant in my life, my brother's life, my sister's life.

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You know, perfection is what you're aspiring to

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and anything less than that was you slacking, basically.

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I wasn't raised to do something 50-50.

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I worked in Topshop, I was the best sales assistant there was.

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Whatever I commit myself to doing, I'm going to do it with 110%.

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Poor Steve McQueen.

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He makes Shame and his mum's there, going,

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"You have to do better than that, you know.

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"Where that book about the slave? "Make that one."

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That's good.

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You know, I was brought up by Ghanaian parents

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and everyone who's brought up by

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African parents pretty much lives through the same thing,

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which is that you're told very early on

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that it's important that you get a good career,

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it's important that you become a professional.

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She'd already picked out our jobs when we were kids -

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like, I was meant to be the doctor of the family.

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One of my brothers was meant to be a lawyer,

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one was meant to be the engineer.

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"A stockbroker."

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"You have to be a solicitor."

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"Be a doctor..."

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"Think about becoming an accountant..."

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If you couldn't be Garfield Sobers or Frank Worrell or somebody.

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All of these things weigh slightly heavily on you as a child

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but, actually, the whole dialogue around "you need a profession"

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and so on is really another way of saying,

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"How can you live in a country where black people are routinely

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"stereotyped as 'other' and different

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"and physically threatening and..."

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So their answer to that, at that time, was to say, "OK, look,

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"you need a proper job, you need a proper profession,

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"and that way you'll be safe."

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My dad feared for us.

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I-I knew it.

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He was always telling us, because he was saying that, you know,

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he has four daughters, and he wanted us to be independent and educated

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so we could look after ourselves.

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I don't think any of us understand the importance

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of why our parents were so strict with us

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until we're almost parents ourselves.

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Because everything was a need to get to a point of paying the bill.

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"Make sure you turn the lights off, make sure you..."

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There was constant struggle.

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In fact, as a tribute to my dad, the first time I got a job,

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he made me put £10 away in an account.

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I still do that, that same account, out of respect for him.

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All of my sisters went through the university system

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and have been totally self-sufficient.

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And I think that was his dream -

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that we would have better opportunities than he did -

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and I think he succeeded in that dream,

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so he didn't fulfil all his own dreams,

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but I think he succeeded in his dreams for us.

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That's my icons, man.

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These great British people came here and really...

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They fought for us, man.

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Close your laptop for a second, have a moment with your family,

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cos everything else is exterior.

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It's a rather nice picture.

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That's my grandmother.

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And my dad and my mum.

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My family are my heroes, I guess.

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Cos they transcended whatever it was that afflicted them...

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..that stood in their way when they came here, and they raised a family.

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Anybody who's gone through that and

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put food on the table

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and looked after their family, those are the real heroes, really.

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There's nothing stronger than that, nothing more powerful.

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